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- 0:00Speaker 1: I want you to picture a scenario for a second.
- 0:02Let's say a twenty three year old man guns down
- 0:06his girlfriend right in her own driveway.
- 0:08Speaker 2: Right. It's a horrific image.
- 0:10Speaker 1: Yeah, totally. And if you were forced to like build
- 0:13a psychological profile of this killer before even opening his file,
- 0:17you probably lean on some standard assumptions.
- 0:19Speaker 2: You know, oh, absolutely, you'd expect a long juvenile rap
- 0:23sheet maybe yeah, or profound instability at home.
- 0:26Speaker 1: Exactly like severe childhood trauma, or I don't know, a
- 0:29documented history of escalating violence. But what I told you,
- 0:33the man who pulled the trigger was a former Division
- 0:35one college athlete.
- 0:37Speaker 2: Right, which is that's totally contrary to the usual profile.
- 0:40Speaker 1: Totally, And he came from a stable, supportive family. He
- 0:42had absolutely zero criminal record.
- 0:44Speaker 2: Wow, yeah, that changes things.
- 0:46Speaker 1: And get this, what if I told you that just
- 0:48hours after executing this young woman, he walked into a
- 0:51police station and casually started like flirting with a homicide detective.
- 0:55Speaker 2: That is just I mean, it's chilling, it really is.
- 0:58Speaker 1: It's beyond chick. Welcome to today's deep dive. Everyone. We
- 1:03are unpacking a case that completely shatters, like all our
- 1:07preconceived notions of what danger actually looks like.
- 1:10Speaker 2: And we have a lot of really compelling source material
- 1:13to work with today.
- 1:13Speaker 1: Yeah, we are pulling heavily from a documentary called The
- 1:16Tragic Case of Shedela Johnson by the Crime Atlas, and
- 1:20our mission today is to look past this facade of
- 1:23a seemingly normal, unremarkable background to uncover something much more insidious.
- 1:29Speaker 2: Right, because today we're dissecting the systematic weaponization of empathy.
- 1:34I mean, this deep dive is going to challenge how
- 1:36you view the dynamics of compassion itself.
- 1:38Speaker 1: Okay, let's unpack this because we need to understand the
- 1:40sheer velocity of this tragedy.
- 1:42Speaker 2: Right, guess how our relationship goes from a chance meeting
- 1:45to a fatal ambush in just five months?
- 1:47Speaker 1: Five months, it's so fast. So to get how that happens,
- 1:50we have to start by analyzing the guy waiting in
- 1:53that driveway on the morning of Tuesday, December twentieth, twenty
- 1:55twenty two.
- 1:56Speaker 2: Right, So we're talking about twenty three year old Carlos
- 1:58Lamont Jones, the.
- 1:59Speaker 1: Second Yes, and on paper his background is just jarringly ordinary.
- 2:04I mean, he isn't some kid who bounced around the
- 2:06foster system or had this huge juvenile record.
- 2:09Speaker 2: Not at all. In fact, his mother later described him
- 2:12as an obedient child. She said he was respectful and
- 2:15you know, very loving toward his.
- 2:16Speaker 1: Sister, which is wild. When you know how the story.
- 2:18Speaker 2: Ends, it really forces us just to immediately discard those
- 2:23conventional behavioral models we usually rely on to predict.
- 2:26Speaker 1: Violence because the classic warning signs just aren't there exactly.
- 2:29Speaker 2: The triad of early childhood cruelty, profound neglects, or early
- 2:37exposure to domestic abuse, they simply are not present in
- 2:41Carlos's documented history.
- 2:42Speaker 1: He had a really stable foundation, and not just stable,
- 2:45but he had a path, like a really distinct, tangible
- 2:48path forward.
- 2:49Speaker 2: Yeah, he was physically imposing. He stood six foot three,
- 2:52highly gifted athlete in high school football and basketball, right both,
- 2:57and he leveraged that talent into a Division one athletic
- 3:00scholarship to Highland Community College in Illinois.
- 3:03Speaker 1: Which for a lot of young men, that's the golden ticket.
- 3:05Speaker 2: Oh absolutely, it's the culmination of years of discipline and coaching.
- 3:09Speaker 1: And family support. But this is where things start to derail, right.
- 3:13Speaker 2: Because Highland Community College is where we observe the very
- 3:16first critical fracture in his psychological development.
- 3:21Speaker 1: So he gets to campus with this D one status,
- 3:24but he completely fails to integrate, right like, he just
- 3:26drops out after.
- 3:27Speaker 2: Only a single season. He drops out entirely and moves
- 3:30back home to Florida.
- 3:31Speaker 1: And his excuse for walking away from a full ride
- 3:34he just claimed the environment wasn't a good fit.
- 3:37Speaker 2: Which is I mean that phrase is doing a lot
- 3:40of heavy.
- 3:40Speaker 1: Lifting and I want to stop right there. Actually because
- 3:43not a good fit. It is such a massive red
- 3:45flag in this context. The transition from high school star
- 3:48to college freshman is notoriously brutal.
- 3:51Speaker 2: It's incredibly difficult. You go from being the big fish
- 3:54in a small pond to realizing everyone is just as
- 3:57fast and strong as you.
- 3:58Speaker 1: Right, It requires real mental resilience. So his decision to
- 4:02just walk away rather than adapt it feels like the
- 4:04first sign of a major structural flaw.
- 4:07Speaker 2: It is a profound failure of resilience. But more importantly,
- 4:11it's an early indicator of his relationship with accountability.
- 4:15Speaker 1: Explain that a bit more. What do you mean by
- 4:17accountability here?
- 4:19Speaker 2: Well, look closely at the phrasing not a good fit.
- 4:23It's entirely passive construction.
- 4:25Speaker 1: Oh, I see, like he's not taking the blame exactly.
- 4:28Speaker 2: He doesn't say I wasn't prepared for the competition, or
- 4:31I struggled with the playbook, or you know, I lacked discipline.
- 4:34Speaker 1: He places it on the environment.
- 4:36Speaker 2: Right in his mind, the college failed him, not the
- 4:39other way.
- 4:40Speaker 1: Around, which sets this really dangerous precedent for how he
- 4:43handles any adversity moving forward. So he goes back to Florida,
- 4:47and the downar trajectory just accelerates.
- 4:50Speaker 2: Yes, he gets a job as a laborer at a
- 4:52local manufacturing plant, but he gets fired from.
- 4:55Speaker 1: That, and then he moves to a Walmart distribution center.
- 4:58But from what everyone around him said, he had zero momentum,
- 5:02not at all.
- 5:03Speaker 2: He isn't pursuing a trade, he isn't trying to transfer
- 5:05to another school.
- 5:06Speaker 1: He is just drifting, and that drifting causes massive friction
- 5:09at home, especially with his dad.
- 5:11Speaker 2: Yeah, massive friction. His father looks at his son, this healthy, capable,
- 5:16six foot three former athlete, and sees a tremendous waste
- 5:20of potential.
- 5:20Speaker 1: Which as a parent you can understand the frustration completely.
- 5:24Speaker 2: And that disappointment turns into verbal disagreements, which then escalate
- 5:29into severe shouting.
- 5:30Speaker 1: Matches until it finally reaches a boiling point.
- 5:33Speaker 2: Right, It culminates in this heated argument, and Carlos is
- 5:37ultimately kicked out of the family home. He ends up
- 5:39living out of his car.
- 5:40Speaker 1: Okay, but let's pause and really examine this, because if
- 5:42I'm listening to this right now, I'm thinking about how
- 5:45many twenty somethings drop out of college.
- 5:47Speaker 2: It's incredibly common.
- 5:49Speaker 1: Right, they get fired from tough jobs, they clash with
- 5:51their parents. I mean, failing to launch in your early
- 5:55twenties is practically a generational rite of passage at this point.
- 5:59Speaker 2: It really is just rough patch for most people.
- 6:01Speaker 1: Yeah, it doesn't automatically breed homicidal ideation. It's like a
- 6:04sports car in neutral, just reving its engine until it
- 6:07breaks down. So lots of people do this and don't
- 6:09become killers. What is the missing link here.
- 6:12Speaker 2: Well, you're identifying the core mystery of the terrifying outlier concept.
- 6:17The failure itself is mundane, sure, but what makes it
- 6:21lethal is the psychological architecture of how Carlos processes that failure.
- 6:25Speaker 1: Okay, so it's not the failure, it's his reaction to it.
- 6:28Speaker 2: Precisely look at the pattern. The college wasn't a good fit.
- 6:32The plant fired him unjustly. His father didn't understand him.
- 6:35Speaker 1: Always the victim, always.
- 6:37Speaker 2: In his internal narrative, he is never the author of
- 6:40his own misfortune. He possesses this deeply ingrained, almost pathological
- 6:45inability to take accountability for his own life.
- 6:48Speaker 1: It's like his ego is this balloon with a slow,
- 6:51continuous leak.
- 6:52Speaker 2: That's a great way to look at.
- 6:53Speaker 1: It, and like a healthy person patches the leak themselves right.
- 6:56They learn new skills, they apologize, they work hard, but
- 6:59Carlos refuses to fix.
- 7:01Speaker 2: The league exactly. He refuses to do the work.
- 7:03Speaker 1: Instead, he just walks around demanding that everyone else below
- 7:05air into his balloon, and when they refuse, like the coaches,
- 7:08his boss, his dad, he views them as the enemy.
- 7:11Speaker 2: That is a highly accurate assessment of his cognitive state.
- 7:15When a person is fundamentally incapable of introspection, every personal
- 7:19failure has to be attributed to an external.
- 7:22Speaker 1: Force, So that just builds up all this resentment.
- 7:24Speaker 2: A profound resentment. He feels uniquely victimized by the world.
- 7:29He feels owed. So you have this young man sleeping
- 7:32in his car, nursing this quiet, malignant entitlement.
- 7:36Speaker 1: He's basically a void just looking for someone to fill it.
- 7:39Speaker 2: He is subconsciously hunting for someone to fill it.
- 7:42Speaker 1: Yes, which brings us to the fatal intersection of this
- 7:44whole story, because into this space of resentment walks someone
- 7:49whose entire worldview is built on healing.
- 7:51Speaker 2: Yes, we need to introduce Shedela Johnson.
- 7:54Speaker 1: Also twenty three years old living in Melbourne, Florida. But
- 7:57her approach to the world is the complex, eleete, polar
- 8:00opposite of Carlos's complete opposite.
- 8:03Speaker 2: Her best friend Tama gave this incredibly moving testimony about
- 8:07her character.
- 8:07Speaker 1: Yeah, Thomas said she was just this relentless optimist right.
- 8:10Speaker 2: She described Shadela as having a pure heart. She gave
- 8:14everyone the benefit of the doubt and genuinely believe she
- 8:16could lift people up.
- 8:17Speaker 1: So you have Carlos actively searching for an external source
- 8:21to repair his fragile ego, and.
- 8:23Speaker 2: You have Shadela, whose natural, beautiful instinct is to pour
- 8:27herself out for the benefit of others. It is a
- 8:30catastrophic psychological mismatch.
- 8:33Speaker 1: It's so tragic, and the way they meet it feels
- 8:36like something straight out of a romantic comedy, which honestly
- 8:39makes the reality of it so much darker.
- 8:42Speaker 2: It really does. It was July of twenty twenty two
- 8:45and Shadela was working at an oldie grocery store in Rockledge.
- 8:48Speaker 1: Just doing her job, working the checkout, stocking shelves, and
- 8:53Carlos comes in as a customer.
- 8:54Speaker 2: Right, he notices her, and he initiates this very calculated,
- 8:59highly observant flirting campaign.
- 9:01Speaker 1: Yeah, he walks up to her and says, yo, I
- 9:02like your nails.
- 9:03Speaker 2: And then he comes back another day, notices her hands
- 9:06again and says, oh, you ain't got your nails on.
- 9:08Speaker 1: He's paying really close attention. He actually later described his
- 9:12own behavior during this time as saucing it up.
- 9:15Speaker 2: Notice the power dynamic from the very first interaction. Though
- 9:18she is an.
- 9:18Speaker 1: Employee, right she's trapped behind a register.
- 9:21Speaker 2: She is a captive audience required by her job to
- 9:23be polite and accommodating, and he is the customer entering
- 9:28her space, monitoring her.
- 9:29Speaker 1: Appearance, establishing this baseline of observation exactly well. It clearly
- 9:34works because eventually they catch each other's eye from across
- 9:37the store and Shadele is confident and outgoing. So she
- 9:41decides to approach him as he's walking to the exit.
- 9:43Speaker 2: And what does she ask him?
- 9:44Speaker 1: She asks, you got a girlfriend? And Carlos says no.
- 9:47Right that very same evening they meet up, they go
- 9:51hang out down by the river, just talking, connecting, and
- 9:54from that single night forward they are completely inseparable.
- 9:58Speaker 2: The acceleration of the attachment is blindingly fast, like zero
- 10:01to sixty yes, and that speed is a massive red
- 10:04flag that is often misinterpreted as intense romance. It moves
- 10:09fast because Carlos recognizes exactly what he's secured, right, because.
- 10:13Speaker 1: Within weeks she learns the truth about his situation.
- 10:16Speaker 2: She discovers that this charming, tall, handsome former athlete is
- 10:20actually homeless.
- 10:21Speaker 1: Living in his car because his parents kicked him out.
- 10:24And for the vast majority of people finding that out
- 10:26about a guy you've dated for three weeks, that would
- 10:29trigger a massive reassessment.
- 10:31Speaker 2: You would take a step back, definitely.
- 10:33Speaker 1: But Shadela leans in because that's who she is.
- 10:36Speaker 2: She does what comes naturally to someone with her immense
- 10:40capacity for empathy. She offers him a lifeline. She invites
- 10:43him to move into her apartment.
- 10:45Speaker 1: And this introduces this framework that her friend Temma brilliantly identified.
- 10:49She called it the wounded bird dynamic.
- 10:52Speaker 2: The wounded bird. Yes, Shadela looked at Carlos and did
- 10:56not see a man who refused to take accountability aw
- 11:00someone struggling.
- 11:01Speaker 1: Tima said, she saw an ugly broken shell of a
- 11:03human who just needed a safe harbor to heal. Shadela
- 11:07really believed his core was good.
- 11:09Speaker 2: She fundamentally believes she could fix him if she just
- 11:11provided enough love, enough.
- 11:13Speaker 1: Stability, enough air for his leaking balloon exactly.
- 11:16Speaker 2: She thought he would eventually stabilize and become the man
- 11:18he was supposed to be.
- 11:19Speaker 1: Here's where it gets really interesting, though. We have to
- 11:22clearly define the predatory nature of this dynamic, right.
- 11:25Speaker 2: We do, because Carlos knew exactly how to present himself
- 11:30to a woman like Shadela.
- 11:32Speaker 1: He played a role.
- 11:32Speaker 2: He played the role of the abandoned, misunderstood soul to perfection.
- 11:37He projected the aura of a man who just needed
- 11:40one single person in the world not to give up
- 11:43on him.
- 11:43Speaker 1: And the devastating truth, and this is something you listening
- 11:46really need to grasp, is that Shadela's greatest strengths, her compassion,
- 11:51her empathy, her willingness to sacrifice.
- 11:54Speaker 2: We were the exact tools Carlo's weaponized against us.
- 11:57Speaker 1: It's terrifying. He didn't succeed in spite of her goodness.
- 12:00He succeeded because of it.
- 12:02Speaker 2: Helocated the most empathetic person in the room and latched on.
- 12:05Speaker 1: But the problem with this dynamic is that the illusion
- 12:08can't hold forever. Shad Dale wants to heal and support,
- 12:11but Carlish just wants entitlement and accommodation.
- 12:14Speaker 2: Right. He doesn't actually want to do the hard work
- 12:15of being fixed. He just wants the benefits of her resources.
- 12:19Speaker 1: Which is why that honeymoon phase, that savior phase, it
- 12:21evaporates rapidly.
- 12:23Speaker 2: The moment shed able requires reciprocity, or the moment she
- 12:26attempts to hold him accountable, the facade crumbles.
- 12:30Speaker 1: So by the time they reach the five month mark,
- 12:32the dynamic has undergone this violent shift. It's not a
- 12:35romance anymore. It's a toxic system of control.
- 12:39Speaker 2: The arguments become routine, the verbal abuse.
- 12:41Speaker 1: Surfaces, and the controlling behavior dictates everything, which brings us
- 12:46to the inciting incident. This is the event that sets
- 12:50the fatal timeline into motion.
- 12:52Speaker 2: Yes Sunday, November twentieth, exactly one month before the murder, four.
- 12:57Speaker 1: Days before Thanksgiving, Shadela has planned to visit a close
- 13:00friend who is about to ship out for the military,
- 13:03and Carlos had agreed to go with her.
- 13:04Speaker 2: But the morning of the trip he abruptly ditches her.
- 13:08Speaker 1: He decides he'd rather hang out with his cousin.
- 13:10Speaker 2: He breaks the commitment casually, prioritizing his whims over her plans,
- 13:14and just expects her to accept the disruption.
- 13:16Speaker 1: But Shadela doesn't cancel her plans. She goes to see
- 13:19her friend anyway, and later that evening, around seven to
- 13:21zero pm, Carlos gets back to the apartment.
- 13:23Speaker 2: They share, and he immediately checks her location because he
- 13:27is actively tracking her through her phone.
- 13:30Speaker 1: Of course he is, and he sees she's not home yet,
- 13:33but instead of texting her asking when she'll be back,
- 13:35he just sits there and stews in his anger for hours.
- 13:39Speaker 2: He is constructing an internal narrative of disrespect here. In
- 13:44his mind, her absence isn't about supporting a friend, It
- 13:47is an active defiance of his control.
- 13:49Speaker 1: She finally gets back around two below. In the morning,
- 13:52she's exhausted. She walks in and goes straight into the
- 13:54bathroom to shower.
- 13:55Speaker 2: And Carlos is absolutely seething that she was gone from
- 13:59seven to two.
- 14:00Speaker 1: He marches into the bathroom, pulls back the shower curtain,
- 14:02and flat out tells her it's time for you to go.
- 14:05Speaker 2: Let's examine the staggering audacity of that statement. This is
- 14:09a man who is living in his car until she
- 14:11rescued him.
- 14:12Speaker 1: She pays for the roof over his head.
- 14:14Speaker 2: Yes, Yet the moment he feels his control slipping, his
- 14:17entitlement overrides reality. He attempts to evict his savior from
- 14:21her own sanctuary.
- 14:22Speaker 1: The arrogance is stunning, so Hideali gets out of the
- 14:25shower and starts packing her bags. She probably realizes this
- 14:28is untenable, but she isn't packing fast enough for him, so.
- 14:31Speaker 2: His anger boils over into physical aggression. He starts violently
- 14:36grabbing her belongings, throwing them out of the apartment.
- 14:38Speaker 1: He's raging. He literally punches a hole straight through the drywall.
- 14:42Speaker 2: Which is a classic intimidation tactic. The introduction of property destruction,
- 14:47punching walls, throwing possessions. It's a physical demonstration of the
- 14:51violence he is capable of inflicting upon.
- 14:53Speaker 1: Her body temporarily displaced onto objects exactly.
- 14:57Speaker 2: It is designed to induce absolute terror.
- 15:00Speaker 1: And it works. Shadela is a young woman in a
- 15:03small apartment with a massive former athlete who is destroying
- 15:07the room. She is terrified, so she tries to establish
- 15:10a boundary.
- 15:11Speaker 2: What does she do?
- 15:12Speaker 1: She retreats to the kitchen, grabs a knife, and turns
- 15:15to face him. She says, don't come any closer or
- 15:18I will hurt you. Didn't I tell you if something happened,
- 15:20I would take a peace with me.
- 15:21Speaker 2: It is a textbook self defense posture. She is attempting
- 15:25to equalize a massive physical disparity to prevent an assault.
- 15:29Speaker 1: But Carlos is completely unfazed. He drops her bags, lunges
- 15:32at her, grabs her wrist, and just easily disarms Here
- 15:35go overpowers her. Yeah. He forces her out onto the balcony,
- 15:38locks the door, and then this defies all logic. He
- 15:41calls the police.
- 15:42Speaker 2: He dials nine to one one to report a domestic disturbance,
- 15:46positioning himself as the caller and the victim.
- 15:48Speaker 1: The police arrive and Carlos gives them his spin. He
- 15:52says he was just trying to get her to leave
- 15:54and she suddenly attacked him with a deadly weapon.
- 15:56Speaker 2: He claims he was terrified she was going to cut.
- 15:58Speaker 1: Him, and because Shadela was the one holding the knife
- 16:01when things peaked, the officers put her in handcuffs. They
- 16:05arrest her for aggravated assault.
- 16:07Speaker 2: The system fails her in real time.
- 16:09Speaker 1: Wait, I really need to pause here, because this is
- 16:11the pivot point of the whole case. He initiates the aggression,
- 16:14He destroys the apartment, she grabs a knife purely as
- 16:17a visual deterrent, right, and she ends up in the
- 16:20squad car. How does a perpetrator flawlessly manipulate law enforcement
- 16:24like that?
- 16:25Speaker 2: This raises an important question, and it introduces a psychological
- 16:28tactic known as DARVO.
- 16:30Speaker 1: Wait, what does that stand for? Again?
- 16:32Speaker 2: It s ends for deny, attack and reverse victim and
- 16:34offender darvo.
- 16:36Speaker 1: Wow.
- 16:37Speaker 2: It is incredibly common in domestic abuse dynamics. First, Carlos
- 16:42denies his own aggressive behavior. He downplays the punched wall.
- 16:46Speaker 1: Second, he attacks Shadela's reaction.
- 16:49Speaker 2: Yes, focusing entirely on the fact that she held a knife.
- 16:53And finally he reverses the roles. He presents himself as
- 16:57the vulnerable victim and paints her as the unpredictable aggressor.
- 17:02Speaker 1: And when cops show up to a chaotic hy adrenaline scene,
- 17:05they look for tangible evidence. The tangible evidence was the knife, exactly.
- 17:09Speaker 2: But the real danger here isn't just the wrongful arrest.
- 17:12It is the psychological lesson. Carlos learns from.
- 17:15Speaker 1: It because nine days later, the prosecutor drops the charges
- 17:18against her entirely right. They see the self defense context.
- 17:21Speaker 2: They do, but the dismissal doesn't matter to Carlos. The
- 17:24arrest itself was the victory.
- 17:26Speaker 1: It taught him he could control the narrative.
- 17:28Speaker 2: It proved he could weaponize the very authorities meant to
- 17:30protect her. That grants him a terrifying sense of omnipotence.
- 17:35Speaker 1: It empowers him. But for Shadeala, spending the night in
- 17:38jail because she defended herself, that was the final straw.
- 17:41Speaker 2: The relationship is permanently severed.
- 17:43Speaker 1: She moves out, leaves them behind, and goes to live
- 17:46with her father Tie on Colbert Circle. She is done,
- 17:50but Carlos can't accept being discarded.
- 17:53Speaker 2: The loss of physical proximity almost universally triggers an escalation
- 17:58in psychological harassment. When an abuser can't control the victim's physical.
- 18:02Speaker 1: Environment, they try to colonize their mental space licely. So
- 18:06for the next month, November twenty to December twenty, Carlos
- 18:09launches this relentless campaign. He bombards her phone with vulgar, hostile,
- 18:14threatening calls and texts.
- 18:16Speaker 2: And we have to acknowledge her strength here.
- 18:18Speaker 1: She ignores every single message. She completely ghosts him.
- 18:21Speaker 2: Attempting to starve him of the attention he's craving, which
- 18:24is the recommended course of action, but it also rapidly
- 18:28accelerates his desperation.
- 18:29Speaker 1: He's losing his primary source of ego regulation. Now. During
- 18:33this month, Shanella does consider getting a restraining order, but
- 18:37she's caught in this devastating dilemma.
- 18:39Speaker 2: She had just started a new job, didn't she.
- 18:41Speaker 1: Yes a job she loved. She's trying to rebuild her life,
- 18:45and the idea of walking into her new manager's office
- 18:47asking for time off to sit in a courthouse and
- 18:50detail her domestic trauma it was just too much.
- 18:53Speaker 2: It felt entirely overwhelming, and it is crucial that we
- 18:56do not judge that decision with the benefit of hindsight.
- 19:00It is a profoundly human calculation.
- 19:02Speaker 1: You're trying to project stability, and admitting you need a
- 19:05restraining order feels like admitting defeat.
- 19:08Speaker 2: Victims often minimize the danger because legally addressing the threat
- 19:12requires disrupting the very normalcy there fighting to maintain.
- 19:16Speaker 1: She chose her future over her fear, which makes the
- 19:19morning of December twentieth almost unbearable to talk about.
- 19:22Speaker 2: It brings us to the driveway on Colbert.
- 19:23Speaker 1: Circle seven am, five days before Christmas. Shadela finishes getting
- 19:28ready for this job she loves, says goodbye to her
- 19:31dad Tye, and walks out the door, but Carlos is there.
- 19:34Speaker 2: He has positioned his vehicle to physically block her car
- 19:37in the driveway, trapping her, and he is armed with
- 19:39a nine milimeter handgun.
- 19:41Speaker 1: Sedla sees him blocking her in and she just asks him,
- 19:45what's up with you? But as she realizes the danger
- 19:48and tries to retreat to the front door, Carlos opens fire.
- 19:51Speaker 2: He doesn't hesitate.
- 19:52Speaker 1: It's an ambush, and it really highlights this tragic statistic
- 19:56you hear all the time, right yes.
- 19:58Speaker 2: Law enforcement constantly highlights that the most dangerous time for
- 20:01a victim of domestic violence is not during the relationship.
- 20:05The highest risk of lethality occurs immediately after the victim leaves.
- 20:10Speaker 1: When darvo fails and the harassment is ignored.
- 20:13Speaker 2: The violence escalates from coercion to annihilation. If he cannot
- 20:18possess her, he will erase her.
- 20:19Speaker 1: Her dad. Tie is inside. He hears the gunfire roughly
- 20:23ten shots. He rushes out, but the shooter is gone.
- 20:25Tie finds his daughter on the carport floor.
- 20:28Speaker 2: The ensuing nine to one calls are pure chaos. Paramedics
- 20:31try everything, but the trauma is too severe. She is
- 20:34pronounced dead at the hospital.
- 20:36Speaker 1: And while this strategy is unfolding, the police are immediately
- 20:38on it. They canvass the neighborhood, and a witness gives
- 20:41them a massive break.
- 20:42Speaker 2: A nearby worker heard the shots bumb bom bom bomb,
- 20:45estimating six shots, and saw the fleeing.
- 20:47Speaker 1: Vehicle, a black twenty fourteen Nissan Ultima with black rims
- 20:52and dark tint, speeding away.
- 20:53Speaker 2: In modern law enforcement, a description that specific is like
- 20:57a digital tracker.
- 20:58Speaker 1: Yeah, they cross reference it with their flows cameras. Those
- 21:01license plate readers on traffic.
- 21:02Speaker 2: Polls and within moments it flags a match. The registration
- 21:05comes back to Carlos Lamonto's.
- 21:07Speaker 1: The second a below goes out across Bervard County. He's armed,
- 21:11mobile identified. You'd think this leads to a huge manhunt
- 21:14or a standoff.
- 21:15Speaker 2: But the resolution defies all expectations. It happens shockingly fast.
- 21:20Speaker 1: Yeah, and it leads into the most psychologically chilling part
- 21:23of this entire.
- 21:24Speaker 2: Deep dive, the surrender and the interrogation.
- 21:26Speaker 1: At eleven to beighto am, just four hours after the murder,
- 21:29Carlos drives to the Palm Bay Police department, walks in
- 21:33and peacefully surrenders. No lawyer, doesn't ask, Tormain silent.
- 21:37Speaker 2: But we must set the stage carefully here to understand
- 21:40the bureaucratic reality.
- 21:41Speaker 1: Right, he surrendered in Palm Bay, but the murder was
- 21:43in Melbourne jurisdiction, so.
- 21:45Speaker 2: The Melbourne homicide detectives have to drive over. Well, Carlos waits.
- 21:49He's in a standard interview room and mirandized, and a
- 21:53female detective from Palm Bay is sitting with him just
- 21:55to monitor.
- 21:56Speaker 1: Her job is literally just to sit there. And the
- 21:59video of this half hour wait it is pure cognitive dissonance.
- 22:04Speaker 2: He is relaxed, conversational.
- 22:06Speaker 1: He leans back and says, this ain't like the thing
- 22:08I've seen on television. Man, He jokes about his life choices,
- 22:12saying he shouldn't have done some wicked stuff because he
- 22:15thinks he'd be a good cop.
- 22:16Speaker 2: I would have been cool with catching suspects. It is
- 22:18a breathtaking display of detachment. He's treating an interrogation room
- 22:23like a career counseling session.
- 22:24Speaker 1: But it gets worse. He starts actively aggressively flirting with
- 22:28the female detective guarding him. He asks her age her ethnicity,
- 22:32and then leans in and says, would you date a
- 22:34twenty three year old?
- 22:35Speaker 2: If she handles it brilliantly, she remains neutral deflects it,
- 22:39allowing him to fill the silence.
- 22:40Speaker 1: Because he just keeps going. He promises her free dates
- 22:44beach and probably like sip some wine at my place.
- 22:47He says if he saw her in a grocery store,
- 22:49he'd approach.
- 22:49Speaker 2: Her, which is exactly where he mention Adela.
- 22:52Speaker 1: It's like watching a sociopath at a networking event. But
- 22:55then she asks him about his friends, and Carlos admits
- 22:58he doesn't have any. He says, I lost everybody when
- 23:01I got back from college.
- 23:02Speaker 2: And when she asks why, Carlos delivers the skeleton key
- 23:06to his pathology. He says, I got a personality that changes.
- 23:09Speaker 1: A personality that changes. It's so passive.
- 23:12Speaker 2: We must pause on that phrasing. Remember his failure at college,
- 23:16he blamed the fit. Here he blames a mysterious, fluctuating personality,
- 23:21like it's a parasite.
- 23:23Speaker 1: He remains the perpetual victim. Well. Eventually the Melbourne detectives,
- 23:27Tom and Jesse arrive. They read him his rights and
- 23:30Carly's just gives it all up.
- 23:32Speaker 2: He lays out the timeline mechanically.
- 23:34Speaker 1: He says, she asked what's up with you? And he
- 23:35just started firing. He estimates he shot her fifteen times.
- 23:39But when they probe for premeditation, that's.
- 23:41Speaker 2: Where it gets disturbing. He admits he bought the nine
- 23:44millimeter three days prior, right.
- 23:46Speaker 1: He waited the three day period, but he denies he
- 23:49bought it to kill her. He claims he just woke
- 23:52up that morning and decided to do it. He told
- 23:54them I woke up and just said, man, you know, really,
- 23:56what else I got to lose.
- 23:58Speaker 2: From a psychological perspective, this is a defense mechanism. He
- 24:02wants to frame the intent as a spontaneous whim rather
- 24:06than confronting that he coldly calculated an execution, and when.
- 24:10Speaker 1: They ask if he feels remorse, he says, right now,
- 24:12I don't feel nothing. Maybe while I'm sitting in prison,
- 24:14I think maybe that's when I feel it.
- 24:16Speaker 2: An absolute, empicky.
- 24:18Speaker 1: Void, and then he casually drops a bombshell. He confesses
- 24:22his original plan was to murder Shedela's father Tie Too,
- 24:25just because he was angry about perceived slights.
- 24:28Speaker 2: A perceived insult from a protective father is punishable by
- 24:31death in his mind.
- 24:32Speaker 1: They ask him, if you could rewind the clock, would
- 24:35you do it again, and Carlos says, if I'm being honest,
- 24:38I probably would have did it with her dad and
- 24:39not her, both.
- 24:40Speaker 2: Of them staggering. He's lamenting missed opportunities for vengeance.
- 24:45Speaker 1: He gives a full confession, tells them where the gun
- 24:47is in a storm drain, where his cloths are in
- 24:50a dumpster. It's air tight, which brings us to the
- 24:53trial in September twenty twenty three.
- 24:55Speaker 2: And the jury's verdict adds a really perplexing layer.
- 24:58Speaker 1: Here, right, Because he's not convict did a first degree
- 25:00premeditated murder. He's convicted of a lesser included offense, second
- 25:05degree murder while discharging a firearm. How does a jury
- 25:09look at the three day wait blocking the car and
- 25:12say that's not premeditation.
- 25:14Speaker 2: It is incredibly frustrating for the public, but juries can
- 25:17be unpredictable when instructed on semantic legal definitions. The defense
- 25:21likely leveraged his claim that he just woke up and decided.
- 25:24Speaker 1: To do it, framing it as a crime of passion
- 25:27from the breakup.
- 25:27Speaker 2: Yes, they introduced enough ambiguity to make the jury separate
- 25:31buying the gun from deciding to pull the trigger that
- 25:33specific morning.
- 25:34Speaker 1: A semantic victory, but thankfully a hollow one because it
- 25:38carried a mandatory life sentence. Carlos Jones will spend the
- 25:41rest of his natural life behind bars.
- 25:43Speaker 2: The structural integrity of the justice system held, He'll never
- 25:46weaponize someone's empathy again.
- 25:48Speaker 1: But I refuse to end on him. We have to
- 25:50pivot back to Shadi La Johnson. Her kindness drew her
- 25:54to Carlos. She chose compassion over judgment when she saw
- 25:57a man living in his.
- 25:58Speaker 2: Car, and it is absolutely idle. We recognize those qualities,
- 26:01her empathy, her optimism, her desire to heal. Those were
- 26:04her greatest strengths as a human being. The tragedy is
- 26:07that she encountered a predator who systematically exploited them.
- 26:11Speaker 1: This case destroys our preconceived notions of a dangerous person.
- 26:15He wasn't a monster in the shadows. He was a
- 26:17charming former athlete in a grocery store telling a girl
- 26:20he liked her.
- 26:20Speaker 2: Nails, Which is exactly why this knowledge is so vital
- 26:23for you to absorb. You have to recognize the incities
- 26:27difference between someone genuinely struggling and someone weaponizing their victimhood
- 26:32to drain you.
- 26:33Speaker 1: The dividing line is accountability. If they can't own their failures,
- 26:36your compassion becomes their ammunition.
- 26:38Speaker 2: Accountability is the armor that protects empathy.
- 26:41Speaker 1: Perfectly said, and that leaves us with a final lingering
- 26:44thought for you to mull over. We're taught from a
- 26:46young age that compassion is the ultimate virtue. We're conditioned
- 26:49to fix broken things. But at what point does our
- 26:52empathy become our most dangerous blind spot? How do we
- 26:55balance our beautiful human instinct to heal a wounded bird
- 26:58with the absolute, uncompromising boundaries required to protect our own lives.
- 27:03Thank you so much for joining us for this deep dive.
- 27:06Stay curious, stay vigilant, and stay safe.