Latest / Generations Church / Change Series - Part 1: Do You Really Want Change? (The Unsexiness of Change) | Andy Yeoh
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- 0:01Hey, you welcome to the Generation's Church podcast. We pray you will be
- 0:05blessed by this message. Today I made a word of God both encouraged and
- 0:09challenge you to be all God purpose you to be. Now, let's dive
- 0:12right in. Change will cost you. It will cost you. He's now
- 0:19half poorer, not just half, He's more than half poorer, because he
- 0:24gave half of his goods away, and then those he gave four times more.
- 0:28So it's a lot less richer than he was before. And I know
- 0:32you can take my next statement and do a geological study and maybe find it
- 0:35to be unbiblical. I don't know. Maybe it's by at least logical.
- 0:40So I'll just say, if you have experience changed and he has not cost
- 0:45you yet, maybe you haven't changed all elephants in my mind. Now this
- 0:51is a you. Some of you have changed church. You've come here.
- 0:56Has it cost you yet? Because it haven't cost you? You've just changed
- 1:00addressed. Oh can begeme more real. You've just changed seats, you said
- 1:06in it. Oh you can choose to be happy. He is it it?
- 1:08Oh my gosh, you'll be happy. Don't worry again. You just
- 1:12change seats. Change day of meeting. It used to be Sunday morning,
- 1:18now Saturday after day. It what's the big difference? Man? If it
- 1:19hasn't cost you yet, maybe a change hasn't really happened. Maybe you're like
- 1:26the sexy of change. But change has un sexy side too, Because when
- 1:30when Zach started meeting Jesus, I don't think he's like, Okay, I'm
- 1:34gonna meet Jesus and after this I'll be porter. I don't think he planned
- 1:38that. I don't think he knew that. All he knew was this Jesus
- 1:44guy. He changes life. He brings miraculous into my mundane life. He
- 1:51makes a difference in my life. He just he knew that. He knew
- 1:53he needs to meet Jesus. He knew he needs to make make a change.
- 1:56He knew exactly what until he met Jesus and he realized, you know
- 1:57what, I'm not gotta give all this stuff that used to hold me down
- 2:01away, this thing called money that used to like it and still to get
- 2:07I gotta give it away now because this is no longer my lord, this
- 2:10is no longer my master. Change will cost you. I wanted to really
- 2:16think deeply about that has changed hea, have you been paying the costs for
- 2:23change? Or it's just a little too comfortable at the moment. Got to
- 2:31really think deeply about that. Real change will cost you. I know it
- 2:35may not be money, but you'll cost you something. It'll cost your time.
- 2:39Or how about this, Maybe it'll cost you your trust again? Maybe
- 2:43you are funny really hard to trust again, Trust your leadership, trust your
- 2:49neighbor. He said, good to see me around already he really, you
- 2:53know, really wanted to see me. There were no more seats, so
- 2:55he sat next to me. Now he's got to say I smell good.
- 3:00I know I don't smell good. Whatever. Okay, I'm just being funny
- 3:05now right, But hey, change will cost you? Has it cost you
- 3:08yet? Because if hand costs you, maybe change, real change hasn't happened.
- 3:14We will. We will do this all over again because we know where
- 3:16God has led us, and this is where God wants us to be.
- 3:20Way too many miracles and confirmations to look back and go a regret, no
- 3:23regrets. But it will cost you because if hant cost you yet, maybe
- 3:29hasn't. You haven't changed and you say you want change, I'm not just
- 3:32talking about changing address, changing seats. You get me a changing brand.
- 3:38That's the sexy part. There's a sexy pot up the Instagram. Oh new
- 3:43profile? Hey, why is that line? Nothing? A course, you
- 3:50just trust again. You have to trust again, which means anytime you talk
- 3:53about trust, there's always the risk of your heart being broken one more time.
- 4:00I don't think we can avoid being hurt. There is no way the
- 4:05people who love you will ever be able to not hurt you. No freaking
- 4:11way. You will be hurt. In fact, that's how you know someone
- 4:15loves you. This pain is real. It's a very different thing than harming
- 4:18you. If I hurt you, I hold you. No, I'm human.
- 4:23If I harm you, I'm a very bad human. Run away rich
- 4:28loving parent will harm their children, but proceed set traps so they'll step on
- 4:32glass. No one does that. But will parents hurt their children of course,
- 4:38like when the child wants to play one more hour of Mobile Legends and
- 4:42the mom says no. The child gets hurt. Oh you don't love me,
- 4:46all kind of strong wads and you don't love me. You don't care
- 4:47about me. No, no, no, no, I care about you.
- 4:49That's why I have to hurt you by way holding these privilege for not
- 4:53you get what I'm saying right. Hurt is part of relationships and community.
- 5:00Just learn the difficiate between harm and hurt. If people harm you, that's
- 5:05bad. Run away people hurt you normal. We have to find a new
- 5:12way to deal with hurts. Forgive better, say sorry, quicker, have
- 5:17more open communication, be more understanding, give a benefit of doubt. All
- 5:23those things you hear guru say, but don't practice but poorly for now the
- 5:28way. Okay, change will cost you. You want change? Change your
- 5:31cost you number two. Change will be uncomfortable. So in the same energy.
- 5:38If you have been very comfortable, you haven't fully changed yet. You
- 5:44move into a new house sometimes can be so comfortable you don't unpack your box
- 5:48because that's all you know. Resetting everything. So you bought a new house,
- 5:56but you haven't made a home. Changing company is changing addresses. Changing
- 6:01church is the same thing. You've changed home and you changed houses. Have
- 6:06you made it a home, because it'll be uncomfortable if you do. Zechists
- 6:11look at chapter nineteen, verse four. I believe for three verse four,
- 6:15and he sat to see who Jesus was. He wanted to change, but
- 6:16he could not because he's shot and you know, so what he do he
- 6:20has to run quicker than everybody, climb up higher than anybody. And there's
- 6:25a lot of discomfort. It's a lot of work. So I want to
- 6:28caution us. If we've been too comfortable sitting in this it's not peels but
- 6:32these nice coat chairs. If we've been too comfortable, and you know what,
- 6:38it's been seven months, it's time to grow, time to really change.
- 6:47Don't get scared. I'm not asking you to not every night a meeting.
- 6:51You know, can your sign of a fifteen ministry? We don't even
- 6:55have fifteen ministry? How to sign up? You know, I'm asking you
- 6:58to do all that. Don't worry where I want to shift my house,
- 7:01shift a new house, new Taman, new town, just to do everything
- 7:05same, of course, not so don't worry. But let's be real.
- 7:11If things are too comfortable, we haven't changed. So if you really want
- 7:15change, we really want God to refresh you and give you a new breath
- 7:21of life. We need to be willing to be uncomfortable. Because Zakias did
- 7:27that, he was a number or Kanama and a viph could have taken the
- 7:32front seat if he wanted to chief text collector that turns three. I don't
- 7:39know what his surname, whatever his title was. He could have, but
- 7:44this was left in the story to show us change is uncomfortable. Number three.
- 7:49Change will cut us. There will be some severing, there will be
- 7:54some cutting away. There'll be things that need to be get get gotten rid
- 7:58off, real change. You can't work for a new company with your old
- 8:03company mindset. Oh begging my whole officer. I can take the pencil wherever
- 8:07I want, knowing to return us. All I can photo that my church
- 8:11song sheets just be the worst. You know already photo saying the song sheet
- 8:16is ready copyright infringement. You can use a company want to photo says the
- 8:20more for all of your worship ministry. One hundred fet people. Worse people
- 8:28are do you nobody. There needs to be some severing, cut off.
- 8:33We will deal with them in the coming weeks. Some things to be like
- 8:39us. Allow Jesus the greatest surgeon, to remove those things. The extra
- 8:46humor, you know that, the extra cancerous whatever thing rose hurt and bitterness
- 8:54cut cut cut, look nineteen verse eight to nine. Then he's like your
- 9:00students said, Lord, look, I give how my goods to the poor.
- 9:03And if I have taken anything from anyone by false accusation, so he's
- 9:05taken. He's carried something with him all his life that he should not have
- 9:11had. Stuff he stole, stuff he carried along his whole life. You
- 9:16know what I'm saying, There is a last time want money, he only
- 9:20got bad ways to get it. He wants he wants something he only got
- 9:26unhealthy and why it is bad silly ways to get it. Get sam.
- 9:30I'm saying that is mindset. There is deep internal stuff that needs to be
- 9:37cut off, cut off, whatever it takes to cut that off. Some
- 9:43of us have to go through counseling, someone to go to therapy, Some
- 9:46have the prayer deliverance or whatever. I don't know. Someone have to go
- 9:48to fasting and prayer, whatever it takes. Those things cannot be carried forward.
- 9:54He applies to companies, to applies to marriage to we all carry baggage
- 9:58from our bringing in our history, and that we move into marriage and then
- 10:03we expect everything to be work the way it's supposed to work, supposed to
- 10:09work according to my family tradition and right. And that's why we klashma.
- 10:15No that has to be gotten rid off too, and exact, Yes,
- 10:18has to give away, cut away the things that used to define him,
- 10:24they used to give him identity. I am filthy rich, Yes, filthy
- 10:28rich. He has to get you of the filthy. And we all have
- 10:33filthy bro And says, we all have filty. Right, we've all heard,
- 10:37we've all been hurt, we've all been disappointed, we all have had
- 10:39experienced failure. Here there, do you really want change? It cost you,
- 10:46It will be uncomfortable, it will cut you. Look five thirty seven
- 10:50to thirty nine, and no one puts new wine into all wine skins or
- 10:58else the new wine will burn the wine skins and be spilled, and the
- 11:01wine skins will be ruined. But new wine must be put into new wine
- 11:07skins and both are preserved. And no one, having drunk old wine,
- 11:11immediately desires new for he says the old is better. Don't say it won't
- 11:18happen to me. Because three million people called the Israelites were saved and delivered
- 11:24from slavery. Slavery, you understand, they didn't used to own their life.
- 11:30Their life used to be owned by some foreigners. They told them what
- 11:33they could and could not do. They are now free and complaining about going
- 11:37back. So, yes, it will happen, even to the best of
- 11:41us. I'm just calling it out together because we're gonna deal with this together.
- 11:46We want to live healthy. Live healthy means healthy emotions, healthy spirit,
- 11:52healthy mind means whatever cancerous tumor, virus, bacteria, germ de taxla.
- 12:00Amen. Change will cost you, change will be uncomfortable, change will
- 12:05cut you. God is pouring new wine. He wants to do a new
- 12:09thing. He wants to do a new thing. Amen, not just in
- 12:13this one church. In his church is his church, his body. And
- 12:18I believe he has seen all the mess we have created as human beings,
- 12:24and he wants he's his church. So he wants to pull out a new
- 12:26spirit, a new wine, a new annoying thing. But we cannot have
- 12:31all minds, old hearts, always all wine skins. Amen number four.
- 12:39If you really want change, briefing paid for critics and criticisms, Verse seven
- 12:46of chapter nineteen. When they saw it, they all complained, saying,
- 12:48he has gone to be a guest with a man who is a sinner.
- 12:52This always happened. There's always this fall letter word th e y. They
- 12:58they won't understand. They will always criticize. There is way that be aware
- 13:05of the day. There's always a day when we want to change. Not
- 13:09everybody understands the change that we want. I don't think the other text collectors
- 13:16understood why's that case is giving money away? I don't think the understood why
- 13:20what's happening? What's so cool? What is Jesus? I mean one time,
- 13:24come to your house, one time try you are giving money away?
- 13:26Whoa what? What? What? There will always be critics and criticisms.
- 13:31Some you will choose to hear and pick the good. Because we want to
- 13:37learn. We won't learn right. There's a lot of it. You just
- 13:41got to not bother. You just got to keep your heart healthy. Amen.
- 13:46You want change and God wants to bring changed. That's why you're here.
- 13:48That's why you're here. And don't even just be in church. You're
- 13:52here in your job, wherever you are. You're here in your marriage,
- 13:54that in the place. You're here in your life, your personal life.
- 13:58Maybe a few months before this, you're not in a very good emotional space,
- 14:01but now you're you're doing something about it. Maybe you're beginning to talk
- 14:05to someone about it, and that's healthy. And that place you're in right
- 14:09now, there's a reason for that, because God wants to put in new
- 14:13wine, new blessings. Way too quiet, guys, Okay, go ahead,
- 14:18man, come on, I'm talking about wine. Who are also quired?
- 14:26Who? Amen? There would be critics because uh, if no critics,
- 14:31are you used to got as yourself? Have you really changed? If
- 14:37it doesn't cost you, have you really changed? If you're not uncomfortable,
- 14:41it means you're not growing. Have you really changed? If things are not
- 14:46cut away, if you don't stop talking like you used to, stop thinking
- 14:50that, you used to start doing that, you used to start living at
- 14:52used to and those things are not cut away, have you really changed?
- 14:58Or are we just here having changed seats and change address. That's not real
- 15:01change. And so be ready for the talk, the criticisms and the critics.
- 15:11Friends. Actually, change is inevitable. It will happen with or without
- 15:16you, whether you want it or not. And change is necessary for growth
- 15:22and progress. Amen. If your muscles to be bigger, your muscle,
- 15:26when it's bigger, it's not the same size as it was before. That's
- 15:28change. You want growth, you want progress, Expect change. But change
- 15:33is inevitable. The world wild moved on with or without you. The question
- 15:39we got ask ourself is are we changing and growing for better or for worse?
- 15:45Because you can change for the worst. You can become a very unrecognizable,
- 15:48unpleasant person to be around, or you can be a better person to
- 15:54be around, not a better person to be around. Amen. You know
- 15:58when I was in school, i'mary in school SMK lost s r K last
- 16:03a clang. I was in let me see, yeah, I was in
- 16:06the yellow house, Leo. They call it yellow house. But that year
- 16:11yellow house was the last house in our spots, and I thought, you
- 16:15know what, this cannot be my legacy. I was only in standing one.
- 16:18Don't tell me I'm going to be last the rest of my life aut
- 16:21no way. The next year I found a way to cheat the system and
- 16:26change my house to red house. I went to I went, changing myself
- 16:33red house for the rest of my school year. Last place I changed.
- 16:40I don't whether I'm the cause or not, but first yell pray was number
- 16:45one when I changed the last last, last, last, last, last
- 16:48last, So change would change. Why are you changing for better? Orfers,
- 16:53that's important a man. So three things I want to address if we
- 16:59really one change, and we're willing to even embrace the un sexy side of
- 17:03change, the cause, the discomfort, the cutting away, criticisms, treatings.
- 17:11Number One, cause is there a need for change? Sometimes there's no
- 17:17reason to change. There's no cause. There's no real good reason. I
- 17:19don't change phone. Why it's new? There's not. I mean, we
- 17:26all know, there's not real. It's not need. We say I need
- 17:30a new iPhone fifteen? No, no, you want you want a new
- 17:36iPhone fifteen or you want So we gotta ask ourselves because you simply change around
- 17:41like I change house. You can mess things up. So is there a
- 17:45real cause? Is there a real need? Or is it just a popular
- 17:48thing to do? Hey, friends, what is popular might not be right,
- 17:53and what is right might not be popular. Number One, we could
- 17:59ask ourselves, is there a cause? I have a cause to change?
- 18:04It's a good cause. I shed these two weeks ago. Why generations church?
- 18:08Why? And the other church? Because God wants us to reach the
- 18:11whole world and not there's not enough churches to do it, and so we
- 18:15just want to play our part. Yeah, Like you know, there are
- 18:19some people I just can't reach, like my young people. I don't blame
- 18:22my jone. You give me the putzel guys, okay, ken, So
- 18:26we all reach different people? And why generation church? Why why starting other
- 18:30church among a billion churches everywhere, so that we can play our part to
- 18:36finish the great commission. So I told everyone in the attendants, we past
- 18:40us in the crowd, I say, we are generations Church, we are
- 18:41your friends. We're here to work together. Right. So I have a
- 18:45cause and we want to reach the next generation because they are very easily forgotten
- 18:49and sometimes not many people know how to do it. And God has given
- 18:53us a grace to do it and to do it together with the family.
- 18:56So it's not just young people and exclusively young people, but to with the
- 19:00families. Amen. So is there a cause? Yes, this is our
- 19:03cause. I have break enough a reason to make this crazy change. So
- 19:10whatever change you think you are making or want to make or have made,
- 19:15answer this first question? Is the need? Or is this just a one?
- 19:18This is just a sexy thing? Is this just a popular thing?
- 19:22Because this will this will be the this will be the thing that will keep
- 19:26you together in the tough time when things are costing you and things get uncomfortable.
- 19:32And things get being cut away from you, and and the criticisms come.
- 19:37Oh mind when they come from all directions, WhatsApp, Facebook, twit
- 19:41turn our threats to and you hear things and all the as are coming.
- 19:47You need to go back to the cause because that one, that one informs
- 19:52you whether it's worth it, despite the cause, despite the discomfort, despite
- 19:57the cutting, despite all this, Cristians, it's worth it because the cause
- 20:00is bigger than me. It's not about me, Amen. Number two,
- 20:07change needs a catalyst. There needs to be a catalyst. Someone needs to
- 20:15someone needs to initiate it. Unless I start moving there there is no follow
- 20:23up, there's no follow through. Someone has to make the move. Someone
- 20:26has to decide and say, okay, I mean a pay the price,
- 20:33be uncomfortable, and then you take a first step. Catalyst. Change begins
- 20:37with someone. Change begins with you, with me, with us. But
- 20:41a catalyst is a personal thing that causes change. Whatever decisions you make today
- 20:48in this lifetime, in this season is going to be the catalyst for your
- 20:51future. But you gotta move today, amen, after you know what the
- 20:56cause is. Yes, there is a cause. It is no matter how
- 21:00it gets one day, It's worth it, and our will be the catalysts.
- 21:04People want change, but you want other people to pay catalysts. Right
- 21:07are you? You pay the price? You you you cannot embark. I
- 21:11just come. But catalyst change begins with somebody. The vessel. The vessel
- 21:18is the wine skin. Change. New wine skin cannot just be pought on
- 21:23the ground and put everywhere we waste it. You need to be poured into
- 21:27a vessel, a channel, something that will then later pour out into another
- 21:33glass somewhere else, a channel someone that carries this change, this message,
- 21:41this value. You're okay, so far good. The young people, you
- 21:45understand, I'm too deep. Okay, your prefer when a preci You've just
- 21:48okay, new wine in new wine skin. The vessel has to change.
- 21:56We are the vessels. We need God to renew us. Somebody say,
- 22:00amen, Romans twelve US two, do not be conformed to this world,
- 22:07but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. I'll probably address this next
- 22:14week about the mind. This one needs to go first. This needs to
- 22:18be renewed first. The Bible says, don't don't conformed, transform, How
- 22:25renew your mind that you may prove what is that good and acceptable? And
- 22:30perfect will of God. Friends, if you're not transforming, then you're conforming.
- 22:38I don't want it happening. At any given time, you're either becoming
- 22:42something else or you're becoming like someone else. You're either transforming or you're conforming.
- 22:48You need to choose to be the influence or to be influenced, because
- 22:56if you want to influence, and the words you think can come already.
- 22:57If you want to influence, then you got to be transformed. You transform
- 23:04beginning with your mind. Otherwise you'll be conforming. You're being influenced, You're
- 23:10just gonna fit in. So so, conforming is to blend in, become
- 23:15like just blending, mit room, Okay, blending become I wish I had
- 23:22that might now where you know, there's a I just learned to read.
- 23:26There's a switch where you can switch, and then you can say something through
- 23:27the mind only they can hear, and then you're cannot hear. Quite cool,
- 23:30right, we'll get it one day. Conform is to blending, to
- 23:33become like everyone else, just blending. After a while you get found out.
- 23:41But God wants us to be transformed, to become something else, something
- 23:45else. The word transform actually means to change substance, the very substance.
- 23:51That's why the Bible causes a new creation. Do you know the Bible doesn't
- 23:55call you just a better version of your old old You know? The Bible
- 23:59says you are new creation, brand new. When Christ gets ahold of you,
- 24:03when he saves you by his grace, he pours new wine, new
- 24:08life into you, you become a new creation. New creation means new mind,
- 24:11new heart. That's what I want all of us to have henceforth.
- 24:18If it wasn't before, then let's all go. Change is the only constant.
- 24:23If you're not changing, you're not growing. The fact is we are
- 24:29changing and being changed day by day, even if we don't realize it.
- 24:32The question is what or who is changing us, and what or who we
- 24:37are changing ourselves into. Amen. So Geasians two twenty says, I have
- 24:41been crucified with Christ. Is no longer I who live, but Christ lives
- 24:48in me, and the life which I now live I live now live in
- 24:52the flesh. I live by faith the son of God who loved me and
- 24:56gave himself for me. So change comes on the inside. So we all
- 25:02got to determine our attitudes, and our attitudes will determine our future. You
- 25:08cannot determine your future. You cannot determine what happens tomorrow. You can only
- 25:12determine what attitudes you want to have. How you wake up every day,
- 25:17how you go to sleep, how you treat people, how you treat the
- 25:19people closest to you, how you treat people not close to you, how
- 25:22you treat the people who have hurt you and backstep you and forgot your birthday,
- 25:26and how you treat them. You determine your attitudes, and your attitudes
- 25:33determine your future. What next year will look like will be the sum of
- 25:41your attitudes today. Amen, The words that you speak, the words that
- 25:45you don't speak, the mind that you have, and the mind you choose
- 25:52to no longer have change. You determine your attitudes and your edited in your
- 26:00future to change the world, which, by the way, is what we're
- 26:06here to do. Otherwise this is a waste of everyone's time. We're here
- 26:12to change the world. It doesn't have to be all two hundred over countries.
- 26:15I don't mean that, I mean just change the world around you.
- 26:18I mean walking to your office, and your office should be a new place,
- 26:22a better place. Walk to your classroom, and it should change.
- 26:26We're here to change the world. Otherwise, why waste time? But to
- 26:30change the world, we need to be changed. We are that vessel.
- 26:34Change needs a cause, Change needs change needs a channel. How does God
- 26:41bring change into the world through the channel? You are the channel. And
- 26:44if you are a corrupted, filthy, blocked bet the channel and it's not
- 26:48done a very good change. Your office will be affected, your families will
- 26:52be affected, your school will be affected. We need to change, Amen,
- 26:57And we can change the world if we give more than we take,
- 27:02love more than we hate, think before we act, and act before it's
- 27:07too late. We can change the world if we give more than we take,
- 27:14love more than we hate, think before we act, and act before
- 27:18it's too late. Amen. If you want to make a difference, give
- 27:21spad change. You can make a difference. If you want to make the
- 27:25difference, give until you are change. Give to your change. Otherwise continue
- 27:32giving speed change. You make a difference. But you want to make the
- 27:33difference, We've gotta give of not just one ear, just give until you
- 27:40are changed. Change the world. Mother phrase. I said this. It
- 27:45is difficult to give Jesus to the people unless we have Jesus in our hearts.
- 27:49You can give what you don't have. Amen, hallelujah. So I
- 27:55speak from a heart of a shepherd, father, pastor friend. I think
- 28:03it's just critical that we don't just change address and seats, we change us.
- 28:10And I really believe God wants to do something very significant, very new,
- 28:17very powerful in all of our lives. And you will have an impact
- 28:19on your individual life. You have an impact in our corporate life. I
- 28:23really believe that. But I just sense like, ah, sometimes it hasn't
- 28:32happened yet, because we've got all these these comforts that we don't want to
- 28:36let go of, and we say we want change, but we are not
- 28:40ready for the costs. We are ready for the costs. We won't change
- 28:45what. We can't handle the criticisms. But I go back to the cause.
- 28:49Is there a cause? Yes, it's worth it. Yes, God
- 28:56needs one, a catalyst, a channel. Am I it sure? In
- 29:00some small way? God, if you choose to use me, why not?
- 29:03God? Amen? So God want to use you too. You're not
- 29:10in your office, on your college, or your family by accident. God
- 29:14placed you there. God placed you there. You don't want to be a
- 29:18bitter route You don't want to be a toxin. Amen. Thank you for
- 29:23joining us. We trust you have been blessed by the word of God.
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