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Episode #318: Reclaiming Curiosity & Joy · Tea Time w/Amie & Bev

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  Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, welcome to tea time with Amy and Bev.
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  Speaker 2: We're back.
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  Speaker 3: You know what's so cool right now is I have
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  Speaker 3: a red shirt on and you have a purple shirt on. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: so root chakra, crown chakra. So it's like we've got
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  Speaker 3: there all bases covered at this time.
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  Speaker 2: You're welcome people.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, perfect, Thanks for pointing that out.
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  Speaker 3: I mean I have some purple on for sure, because
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  Speaker 3: I have some amethysts on my wrist and stuff.
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  Speaker 1: Very good, very good. I have blue jean shorts on,
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  Speaker 1: so I'm grounded.
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  Speaker 2: Nice. I like it.
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  Speaker 1: I love it. I love that color. So recently, it
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  Speaker 1: was a conversation about uh so time management and take
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  Speaker 1: the time like on Sunday to lay out your outfits
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  Speaker 1: for the week. And they were talking about this was
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  Speaker 1: a business women's group that I was in, and and
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  Speaker 1: so you know, just what things can you do in
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  Speaker 1: your life that you can save time on and help
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  Speaker 1: you be more efficient with your day and all the things.
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  Speaker 1: And so that was one thing that came up. Take
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  Speaker 1: the time at the beginning of the week to lay
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  Speaker 1: out all your outfits for each day Monday through Friday.
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  Speaker 1: That way, in the morning, you just it's it's good
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  Speaker 1: to go you have. So for me, I stand in
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  Speaker 1: my closet sometimes for about ten to fifteen minutes, trying
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  Speaker 1: to figure out what I'm what I'm feeling drawn to,
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  Speaker 1: because in the past I attempted, I've attempted to just
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  Speaker 1: pull out the next day's outfit. And what happens is
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  Speaker 1: that next day, when I get up and I'm getting
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  Speaker 1: ready for work and stuff, I'm in a different energy
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  Speaker 1: from when I than when I picked the outfit to
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  Speaker 1: be wearing, and I will change the the whole outfit.
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  Speaker 1: I'll just put it all back and then pull something
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  Speaker 1: else out. And that's what I do because talk about
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  Speaker 1: the chakras and the colors. Is what brought that up
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  Speaker 1: for me is is it's whatever I'm drawn to that
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  Speaker 1: morning or when I get dressed. I have several times
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  Speaker 1: other than like those specific events like like a wedding,
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  Speaker 1: I know what I'm gonna wear at a wedding. I
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  Speaker 1: know what I'm gonna wear to a lot of times,
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  Speaker 1: to a celebration of life, or you know, things that
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  Speaker 1: are very specific like that, I pretty much know what
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna wear. But on a day to day business basis,
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  Speaker 1: it I have to be drawn to it, so I've
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  Speaker 1: attempted to that. So that was a tidbit of information
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  Speaker 1: for people who are working on their time management. Pick
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  Speaker 1: out your outfits at the beginning of the week. Lay
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  Speaker 1: them out, match your earrings, your shoes, and all the
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  Speaker 1: things so that you're good too. It works for a
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  Speaker 1: lot of people. It doesn't work for me at this point.
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  Speaker 3: So as you're saying all this stuff, what I'm processing
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  Speaker 3: is you set intentions. We set intentions all the time. Right,
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  Speaker 3: Spirit knows where we're going to be at mentally, physically, emotionally.
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  Speaker 3: I believe in so many ways by Thursday, So you
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  Speaker 3: can have fun and still lay that out. Be like, okay,
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  Speaker 3: Spirit or whatever whoever you're talking to, Angels, my universal team,
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  Speaker 3: what should we pick out for Monday?
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  Speaker 2: What should we pick out for this day? What should
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  Speaker 2: we pick out for this day?
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  Speaker 3: What should we instead of it being our responsibility and
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  Speaker 3: seeing if we still actually gravitate towards those clothing, Because
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  Speaker 3: I feel like we think that that goes back to
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  Speaker 3: the whole thing. If we think we always know what's
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  Speaker 3: best for us, but we don't. So that's why it
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  Speaker 3: would change the next day, right we would from the
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  Speaker 3: mental space, the energy frequency that whatever is going on
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  Speaker 3: in your life in that moment you decide to pick
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  Speaker 3: out those clothes, you're picking them out from that moment.
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  Speaker 3: But we can set ourselves up to choose those things
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  Speaker 3: with help in a different way. And it's like then
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  Speaker 3: like being excited to see the outfit because you will
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  Speaker 3: have these knowings like I would never have thought that
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  Speaker 3: I would have worn this outfit today, for sure, but
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  Speaker 3: this is like the best outfit for today, or you
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  Speaker 3: might notice later on that you're wearing It's like, I
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  Speaker 3: don't even know how you might even find that you're
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  Speaker 3: matching up with someone one hundred percent what they were
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  Speaker 3: that day by something you picked the week before. So
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  Speaker 3: if we if we make it more fun and more
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  Speaker 3: of a I don't know, more of a flexing at
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  Speaker 3: the intuition muscles and stuff like that, I think it
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  Speaker 3: changes the whole process.
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  Speaker 1: Yep, you're absolutely one percent setting your intentions about anything,
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  Speaker 1: whether it's your outfit or how your day is going
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  Speaker 1: to go, or your week or even your year. Setting
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  Speaker 1: your intention is super huge part of us utilizing our
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  Speaker 1: guidance and letting the universe know what we want exactly.
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  Speaker 3: And we're and we're doing it. We're co creating, so
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  Speaker 3: we're doing it the whole time. It's just allowing that
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  Speaker 3: flow to happen. And I guess setting our intentions yes too,
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  Speaker 3: because I did say that. But it's also it's even
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  Speaker 3: bigger than that. It's like it's allowing that playful flow
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  Speaker 3: to happen. It's allowing that surrender to happen. It's allowing
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  Speaker 3: this internal guidance to come in. It's allowing yourself to
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  Speaker 3: flex the intuition muscle and see what kind of information
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  Speaker 3: that you receive or how things fill. It's so many opportunities.
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  Speaker 3: But that's how life can be about everything.
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  Speaker 1: I like the word playfulness. Yeah, yeah, it's have fun
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  Speaker 1: picking out your outfits, have fun thinking about what your
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  Speaker 1: day is going to look like, have fun with Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: We have those days where you may feel dread like
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  Speaker 1: oh God, I gotta face this person today or I
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  Speaker 1: got to take care of this thing today. Well what
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  Speaker 1: if it turned out better than you could ever expect?
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  Speaker 1: So what if you took your intentions in visualation and
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  Speaker 1: put the scenario and I just came to me, like,
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  Speaker 1: put the scenario in a cartoon and play it out
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  Speaker 1: with some silliness and then see if that softens and
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  Speaker 1: just play with it, because the more you practice with it,
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  Speaker 1: the better it gets, and the better it gets, the
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  Speaker 1: more fun you have with it, the more fun you
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  Speaker 1: have with the more you do it, and you notice
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  Speaker 1: that each situation that you participate in, it gets easier
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  Speaker 1: and easier.
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  Speaker 2: It makes it fun. So playfulness reminds me of being
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  Speaker 2: a child.
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  Speaker 3: Right last night, I'm sitting there and I recognize when
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  Speaker 3: I start having emotional feelings within my body, I'm like
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  Speaker 3: checking in, like where is that coming from? And what
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  Speaker 3: I recognize If if my inner wounded child is having
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  Speaker 3: a reaction to something, that is a perfect opportunity in
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  Speaker 3: that very moment to look at that, because I will
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  Speaker 3: guarantee you from our perspective that we've been living on
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  Speaker 3: this planet for the length of time that we've been
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  Speaker 3: living on and I'm no longer that little wounded child.
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  Speaker 3: I'm reacting from that wounded child, and it makes zero
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  Speaker 3: sense logically to me now, and so when I start
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  Speaker 3: so it's it's it's taken that time. As soon as
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  Speaker 3: you notice that there's something like that, your your wounded
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  Speaker 3: child is having a temper tantrum about something. Something's out
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  Speaker 3: of your control, somebody is doing something you don't want
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  Speaker 3: them to be doing, or whatever it is. When you
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  Speaker 3: logically look at it, it does not make sense. And
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  Speaker 3: so it's that's like a way of unraveling the old
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  Speaker 3: patterns and the old programs, and so that we're not
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  Speaker 3: still operating from that five year old, that eight year old,
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  Speaker 3: that nine year old version of ourselves. We're not doing
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  Speaker 3: it anymore because because it's it's so easy, I mean,
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  Speaker 3: it really is. I can tell when I'm feeling good
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  Speaker 3: or not feeling good, and I can tell when something
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  Speaker 3: has irritated me and not irritated me.
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  Speaker 2: It's pretty simple.
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  Speaker 3: So in that exact time, I can freaking let the
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  Speaker 3: fire consume me and just take me, or I can
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  Speaker 3: stop for a few minutes and take a look at
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  Speaker 3: it and realize there was no need for a fire
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  Speaker 3: in the first place. And now I'm getting my wounded
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  Speaker 3: inner child a different perspective, and that perspective changes everything,
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  Speaker 3: and everything just stops. So now you're back into the
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  Speaker 3: playfulness of things, because I can guarantee you that our
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  Speaker 3: wounded child does not want to walk around the planet
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  Speaker 3: being a wounded child forever. They want to freaking have fun.
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  Speaker 3: So I present opportunities to my even myself.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's true because children are curious, They want
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  Speaker 1: to explore, they want to taste everything, They put everything
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  Speaker 1: in their mouth. Infants, they want to touch everything, feel
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  Speaker 1: it tactile, right, what does that feel like? They ask
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  Speaker 1: why all the time? Why? Why? Why? And of course,
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  Speaker 1: as the adult, we get irritated. I did, anyway, got
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  Speaker 1: irritated with those that question. And as when we're adults,
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  Speaker 1: we stop being that curious and we stop asking questions,
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  Speaker 1: and we we forget to be playful because we're so
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  Speaker 1: damn serious about life and about being perfect and not
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  Speaker 1: wanting and that perfectionism is not wanting to get in
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  Speaker 1: trouble because we learned that when we don't get it right,
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  Speaker 1: that we get in trouble. So coming back into playful
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  Speaker 1: intentions to you've we've disconnected from that. I know I
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  Speaker 1: did for several years. I know BEV did that. We
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  Speaker 1: disconnect from that, that the playfulness that our child wanted
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  Speaker 1: to do but maybe didn't get the opportunity. There are
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  Speaker 1: people out there who had amazing childhoods and that's awesome,
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  Speaker 1: and many of us did not. There were moments. We
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  Speaker 1: did have playful moments, We did have wonderful moments, but
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  Speaker 1: typically the the traumas and dramas out rule, and we
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  Speaker 1: remember the traumas and dramas and we forget about those
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  Speaker 1: glimpses of joy that we did have. But allow yourself,
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  Speaker 1: as the adult now, to look at experiences in a
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  Speaker 1: different through different eyes, meaning if you just take it
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  Speaker 1: and look at it as a situation, it's just an experience.
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  Speaker 1: And it's easy to say this, it's not always easy
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  Speaker 1: to do. It's just it's just an experience. That's it.
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  Speaker 1: The glass fell off the shelf, hit the floor, shattered.
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  Speaker 1: It becomes a big deal when we bring our ourself
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  Speaker 1: into it of oh my god, that was my mom's
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  Speaker 1: favorite glass, and now she's gonna be so mad at me,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm gonna get in trouble and she's not gonna
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  Speaker 1: talk to me, and we're gonna have the big, huge fight,
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  Speaker 1: and right we just start spiraling down because of that
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  Speaker 1: is our programming. And what if what if your mom's like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: it's no big deal. I was gonna go through my
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  Speaker 1: glasses anyway and get rid of a bunch of them.
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  Speaker 1: It's just an experience, Hey I broke the glass, or hey,
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  Speaker 1: the glass fell off the shelf and broke. Maybe she
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  Speaker 1: does have a moment of discord because it was something
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  Speaker 1: that brought memories to her, But in actuality, the memory
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  Speaker 1: can never be taken away. It was just a connection
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  Speaker 1: to that item, right. So it's get back into the playfulness,
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  Speaker 1: the playful intentions, the the idea that life is supposed
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  Speaker 1: to be fun. You've just not been allowing yourself to
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  Speaker 1: have fun.
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  Speaker 3: It's retraining, right, because we don't A lot of us
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  Speaker 3: are not even familiar with that because our parents weren't
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  Speaker 3: familiar with that.
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  Speaker 2: They didn't. We just knew that it was the opposite
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  Speaker 2: that was always working hard.
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  Speaker 3: And when you said that the glass, like you used
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  Speaker 3: that as the visual for me the glass broke, the
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  Speaker 3: opportunity was, well, now I have room for a new
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  Speaker 3: favorite glass, Like it's or curiosity as a child, I
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  Speaker 3: wonder what my new favorite glass is going to be
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  Speaker 3: like it's it's being exciting about that knowing that something
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  Speaker 3: was cleared away.
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  Speaker 2: It's giving me goosebumps.
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  Speaker 3: But notice no, noting that something was cleared away for
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  Speaker 3: you not in any way to harm you.
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  Speaker 2: It was cleared away for you.
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  Speaker 3: And such a simple analogy is that glass falling off
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  Speaker 3: the shelf and it was your favorite, It's just like
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  Speaker 3: I just said, it's it's just an opportunity for another favorite.
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  Speaker 3: It's the opportunity to use something different to We can
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  Speaker 3: look at it in a million different directions, but it's
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  Speaker 3: whatever makes you feel good.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, And we just forgot how to do that. We
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  Speaker 1: just forgot how to to be lighter and embrace life
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  Speaker 1: and put a smile on our face more often, and
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  Speaker 1: just recognize that each situation, each encounter, each experience, each
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  Speaker 1: person is giving us an opportunity to dig deeper in
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  Speaker 1: ourselves of maybe what we what have we been allowing
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  Speaker 1: ourselves to miss out on? And when I say that
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  Speaker 1: we're missing out on the joys of life because we're
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  Speaker 1: hanging on to so many things from the past, that
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  Speaker 1: that is keeping us stuck in those old programmings. Allowance,
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  Speaker 1: we have to allow ourselves. We have to allow ourselves
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  Speaker 1: to be playful. We have to practice it. And it's
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  Speaker 1: not very often that I will say that you have
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  Speaker 1: to do something or need to do something, But you
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  Speaker 1: can only get good at something when you practice. So
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  Speaker 1: you have to practice in order to get better at
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  Speaker 1: being playful, having playful intentions, releasing the fears of getting
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  Speaker 1: in trouble or having to get it perfect. There's no
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  Speaker 1: perfection in this world other than they may say God's perfection.
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  Speaker 1: When you say God's perfection, then all of us are
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  Speaker 1: already perfect. It's when we think we have to do
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  Speaker 1: something in a perfect manner. What if it is already perfect.
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  Speaker 1: It's just your perception thinking it is not.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, because isn't what being perfect is like comparing ourselves
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  Speaker 3: to somebody else the way that they did it or
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  Speaker 3: the way someone else believes it should be right. So
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  Speaker 3: it is not being in that space, Memore. But I
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  Speaker 3: grew up the same way. I mean, I grew up
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  Speaker 3: that way. I was a perfectionist. And it also gets
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  Speaker 3: attention when you do something, Oh that's great, you did
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  Speaker 3: this this way, or they get they get proud of
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  Speaker 3: you for you doing things, or it's this positive reinforcements,
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  Speaker 3: and maybe those positive reinforcements are always the best. It's
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  Speaker 3: not something that we should be striving to go after
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  Speaker 3: striving for.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and we go out. When you bring some playfulness
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  Speaker 1: into your life, things do get seem to get easier.
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  Speaker 1: You just have to get accustomed to it being easier.
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  Speaker 1: One of my one of my things I used to
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  Speaker 1: do is life would be going, wow, everything's working well.
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  Speaker 1: But because my nervous system didn't know how to handle that,
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  Speaker 1: I would create a problem so I could fix it.
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  Speaker 1: After it took me several years to even recognize that's
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  Speaker 1: what I was doing and to acknowledge why I did it.
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  Speaker 1: And so I was creating issues for myself, complicating issue
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  Speaker 1: but complicating my journey because of my old programming that
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  Speaker 1: nothing goes right, there's always a problem, there's always drama.
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  Speaker 1: I'm always focused on the drama. Things need to be
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  Speaker 1: hard in order to feel accepted. I got to solve
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  Speaker 1: this problem. So it's just like these deep seated beliefs,
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  Speaker 1: and that's what this space that we keep ourselves in
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  Speaker 1: when we don't allow ourselves to be playful.
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  Speaker 2: It's true.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know if it's relevant or not relevant, but
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  Speaker 3: my grands have been sick with like a stomach thing,
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  Speaker 3: and so when you think about that from an energetic standpoint,
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  Speaker 3: there's a purging that's happening, right if we're not allowing
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  Speaker 3: ourselves to be happy, or maybe there's so much stuff
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  Speaker 3: that's on us.
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  Speaker 2: Whether from our parents or.
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  Speaker 3: You know, expectations and stuff, and we put so much
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  Speaker 3: pressure on ourselves and aren't allowing ourselves to feel the
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  Speaker 3: way we want to feel, like feeling happy and feeling good,
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  Speaker 3: and we've got all.
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  Speaker 2: These things inside of us.
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  Speaker 3: Purging is like a natural way of releasing everything so
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  Speaker 3: that you can find yourself back to the homeostasis, so
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  Speaker 3: you can find yourself back to the happy place.
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  Speaker 1: Yep. And ultimately, I don't think we've said this a
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  Speaker 1: long time. Ultimately it's a choice.
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  Speaker 2: It is.
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  Speaker 3: We don't realize that when we're kids though, that it's
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  Speaker 3: a choice, because it seems like the choices are being
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  Speaker 3: taken away, not from all parents, because I think some
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  Speaker 3: people and grandparents that have been understanding about how presenting it.
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  Speaker 3: Choices are very important for raising our children. If it's
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  Speaker 3: only two choices, that's fine, it doesn't matter. As long
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  Speaker 3: as there's like they have a choice to make how
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  Speaker 3: they want to choose to move forward. And I think
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  Speaker 3: that that gives that's empowering. That's something I think a
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  Speaker 3: lot of us were missing. I'm afraid of doing something wrong,
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  Speaker 3: so not doing any you know, was I was afraid
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  Speaker 3: of doing something wrong, So not doing anything at all
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  Speaker 3: would be the best way to solve it. So I
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  Speaker 3: don't have to get in trouble at all. They don't
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  Speaker 3: have to do anything. Just go you know, I was
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  Speaker 3: just going to say, just go clean the yard or
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  Speaker 3: clean the house, or stay out of mom's way so
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  Speaker 3: you don't get in trouble. Or it just goes along
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  Speaker 3: those ways and then not following our own path, which
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  Speaker 3: is totally the opposite of what all of us should
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  Speaker 3: be doing and are in the kids. I had Colton
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  Speaker 3: out here one day and he is like, he's gonna
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  Speaker 3: follow one of the dogs around and he's gonna do
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  Speaker 3: everything that the dog does. And I know, I think
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  Speaker 3: I had brought this conversation up before, but it's like,
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  Speaker 3: that's just.
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  Speaker 2: Following your intuition.
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  Speaker 3: That's being curious and being like, well that the dog's
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  Speaker 3: gonna go do this, Oh he's digging over there.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna go dig too if they found a scorpion.
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  Speaker 2: But you know I had brought that up.
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  Speaker 3: But it's just funny because we it's just listening to
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  Speaker 3: our intuition and that's the playfulness, and that's exactly how
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  Speaker 3: we should be on a daily basis. You know, we
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  Speaker 3: started our meeting a little bit later than normal because
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  Speaker 3: we had gopher snake that was on top of one
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  Speaker 3: of our trucks. So I mean, you you are patient.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think it was too much later, but what
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  Speaker 3: it did kind of pull back the minutes a little bit,
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  Speaker 3: you know, just put it off a little bit the schedule.
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  Speaker 3: And but that was an opportunity. My adult self would
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  Speaker 3: have been like, oh, I've got to go get in
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: there and get on this. We got this meeting right now,
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  Speaker 3: you know, all these things, and.
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  Speaker 2: It's like but my child's side is like, this is
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  Speaker 2: so cool.
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  Speaker 3: I had to go out and take a bunch of
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  Speaker 3: pictures of it because I thought it's so cool that
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  Speaker 3: the snake has even gone all the way up to
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  Speaker 3: the top of the vehicle. And on the other side,
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  Speaker 3: I could look at it be like, well, that's freaky.
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  Speaker 3: I'p not have to start paying a little bit better
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  Speaker 3: attention to my truck when I go out. But I
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  Speaker 3: also look at it from a different perspective too, because
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  Speaker 3: for me, everything's a message.
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  Speaker 2: And I haven't looked at all my messages.
• 19:36
  Speaker 3: But it's like, even recently going into town two times
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  Speaker 3: I've had a coyote go right in front of my path.
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: I had a squirrel yesterday, I had there's just different
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  Speaker 3: things that I have experienced. I saw a pure white
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  Speaker 3: dove this morning before. Friedman and I were sitting outside
• 19:53
  Speaker 3: and he said, he's been seeing this duve around pure white.
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  Speaker 3: And you know, for me, that message would be that
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  Speaker 3: I'm on the right path. I'm on the right track,
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  Speaker 3: because that's how the symbolism has shown up for me.
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  Speaker 3: Like in a dream when I was before I went
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  Speaker 3: to massage school, that before I even had even left town.
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  Speaker 3: It was probably a couple of days before I left town,
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  Speaker 3: or the night before. I had this dream and it
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  Speaker 3: was so vivid, but I was following this douve that
• 20:17
  Speaker 3: was illuminated above me, and I was just following it. It
• 20:20
  Speaker 3: was going and I was just right below it, following
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: where it was going. So I see that that gives
• 20:24
  Speaker 3: me my symbolism, my experiences. So if I look at
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: life the way that I'm looking at life now, it's
• 20:32
  Speaker 3: more curious, it's more playful, it's more fun. I feel
• 20:36
  Speaker 3: more passion in my life because that is the passion.
• 20:39
  Speaker 3: The passion is following all these little breadcrumbs that we
• 20:42
  Speaker 3: have out there and having that fun, the passion following
• 20:45
  Speaker 3: my fun. I'm not even just following passion anymore. I'm
• 20:48
  Speaker 3: starting to follow my fun more, no matter what that is.
• 20:51
  Speaker 3: I'm even outside walking around with no shoes on, you know,
• 20:54
  Speaker 3: in the dirt. I'm that's that would be a kid
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: thing that I did not even allow myself when I
• 20:59
  Speaker 3: was a child, because my feet we're too sensitive when
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: I was a kid. Now i'd have to look that
• 21:02
  Speaker 3: up and see what was the meaning of all that.
• 21:04
  Speaker 3: I'm sure i'd probably find out some information. But I
• 21:06
  Speaker 3: was not that girl. I was not that girl.
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  Speaker 2: We could do that.
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  Speaker 3: My sister she could run around barefoot. She blew my
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: mind out, but she could run around barefoot. And I'm
• 21:14
  Speaker 3: freaking Taurus. And if you think about Taurus Taurus as
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: an earthstine, it's very grounded. It's like so a lot
• 21:20
  Speaker 3: of things just didn't didn't fit. But I think that's
• 21:25
  Speaker 3: just training from everything that was around me. And now
• 21:28
  Speaker 3: I'm finding out what is bev Like, what does she
• 21:31
  Speaker 3: like to go do? What's fun for me? And it
• 21:35
  Speaker 3: doesn't matter if it's fun for somebody else, because it's
• 21:37
  Speaker 3: what's fun. For me right, because we're not living in
• 21:41
  Speaker 3: someone else's box. I'm not living in someone else's box.
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: I'm not trying to be liked. If I could even
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: use a partner or a best friend or anything. If
• 21:50
  Speaker 3: it's like, if we're not meshing or if we're not
• 21:52
  Speaker 3: resonating with each other, that's okay because it goes back
• 21:56
  Speaker 3: to the glass.
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  Speaker 2: What's next. This is exciting.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and a lot of times I'm not gonna go
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: down deep into this hole. But a lot of times
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: we're not. We don't allow ourselves to be playful because
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: we believe again, going into our belief systems, we believe
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: that because of our life experiences, we're supposed to stay
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: in our suffering. We're supposed to be angry about whatever happened.
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: We're supposed to hang on to all of that, and
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: you similar to the glass until you make space for
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: something new. Whatever the old is taking up the space
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: won't allow for the new space. So if you're wanting
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: to lean into playfulness and fun and seeing life through
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: new eyes, then there are things emotions, experiences, people that
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: it's going to take some time maybe, but to release
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: it out of your body, your nervous system, or it's
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: probably always going to remain in your memory, but releasing
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: the hold, the bind to the memory and release the
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: suffering so that you can allow yourself to be playful
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: and have fun and embrace the amount the remaining years
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: that are that you may have left, even days or hours,
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: because we don't know what that looks like, we don't
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: know what that is, that number is, and what are
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: you going to do with the time that you have left?
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: Might be today and it might be another fifty years.
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: I don't know, but I ultimately I get to choose,
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: and that my choice is to have playful intentions and
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: to embrace more fun as I keep moving through each
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: moment of this lifetime.
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and coming to me is like enjoying the interactions
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: that we have with others. Whether we resonate with it
• 23:55
  Speaker 3: or not, it's there's always a there's a bonus to everything,
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: and and the bone may be like, oh well that
• 24:01
  Speaker 3: was that was nice. I got an opportunity to see
• 24:03
  Speaker 3: what I don't want so I can know what I
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: do want.
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: Yes, and absolutely life has given us that.
• 24:13
  Speaker 3: But like you said, if you just take it and
• 24:14
  Speaker 3: processes process it as if it's just information coming in
• 24:21
  Speaker 3: and you're neutral to it, then it's fun, Then it's creative.
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And ultimately, again it is our choice. And not
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: only is it your choice, but it's the choice of
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: those that you work with there, you see out in public,
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: your friends at the barbecues. Everybody has the choice, and
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: some people are seeking answers and guidance of what that
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: choice looks like for them. So be sure to share
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: whatever content information that you are receiving, whether it's from
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: our our podcasts and recordings or from another teacher, speaker, influencer,
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: and whether it looks like a book, a webinar, a seminar,
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: share what's working for you. Be that resource. You don't
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: have to be the teacher, the speaker, but be the
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: resource and share where you're getting the content from. So
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: our content can be found on Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, speaker, Spotify,
• 25:22
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• 25:26
  Speaker 1: more in the future. But with that friends share what's
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: working and help be that person for somebody else. So
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: any other final words bev.
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: I would say, be responsive to your intuition.
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: And your spirit. Believe it or not, your spirit wants
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: to have fun and be playful, so listen to your intuition,
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: listen to your inner guidance, and loosen the reins a
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: little bit. Life isn't as serios as we think it is. Yeah,
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: So we will see you on our next episode and
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: maybe share with us in the comments what is it
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: that you did to to bring in some more playfulness
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: or what intentions did you set and you're just watching
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: as it unfolds. You're welcome to share your questions and
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: comments with us, and we'll come back to them at
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: our earliest convenience because we have life all right. Friends,
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: Thanks for hanging out with us, teach time with Amy
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: and Bev, and we will see you next time.
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: Bye,