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- 0:16Welcome to Networking Unleashed, Building Profitable
- 0:19Connections, the show where conversations become
- 0:22opportunities and relationships become results.
- 0:26I'm your host, Michael Foreman. A lot of people
- 0:29think networking is about meeting more people,
- 0:32but the real power of networking isn't the number
- 0:36of contacts you collect, it's the strength of
- 0:39the partnerships you build. My guest today understands
- 0:42that better than most. She's built... her success
- 0:46on creating strong partnerships and developing
- 0:49real rapport with customers. Relationships built
- 0:53on trust, consistency, and mutual value. In this
- 0:57episode, we're going to explore how trust forms
- 1:00in those first conversations, why authentic rapport
- 1:03matters more than clever sales tactics, and how
- 1:07the strongest business opportunities often come
- 1:11from partnerships that start with genuine connection.
- 1:15If you want your networking to lead to meaningful
- 1:18collaboration, loyal customers, and long -term
- 1:22growth, you're in the right place. Let's get
- 1:25into it. I'd like to welcome to the podcast today,
- 1:28Catherine. Catherine, I am very interested in
- 1:31what you have to talk about because I go on stages,
- 1:34I do workshops, talking about the same thing.
- 1:38So I'm hoping to pick up some good pointers.
- 1:40Great. Welcome to the podcast. And why don't
- 1:44you give us like the Cliff Notes version of how
- 1:46you got where you are today? Yeah, so it's interesting.
- 1:51I've been in the telecommunications industry
- 1:53for a long time. It certainly wasn't the original
- 1:55plan that I had. I originally was going to go
- 1:58into music and major in that. And then through
- 2:00starting that process really came to the conclusion
- 2:03that probably wasn't the best. best path. And
- 2:06at the time, there was a lot of opportunity in
- 2:08telecommunications. And so I said, I'm going
- 2:11to go do that. Seems interesting. And I have
- 2:13taken a series of twists and turns and different
- 2:15moves within the industry and even outside of
- 2:18the industry to bring together a number of different
- 2:21skills across various parts of organizations,
- 2:25whether it's in sales or on the technical side,
- 2:28engineering, operations, customer service. A
- 2:31lot of side movement, things like that. But I
- 2:33think ultimately landed at Zayo in the role that
- 2:37I'm in now over service assurance, which really
- 2:39touches every part of the organization. And I
- 2:42think some of those decisions around and networking
- 2:45and relationships I built during that whole process,
- 2:48I think have been pivotal in being able to perform
- 2:51and support the role in the way that I need to,
- 2:53because I've experienced all those different
- 2:55groups and functions that ultimately I support
- 2:59today. That's how I got here. I spent most of
- 3:02my career at Comcast and then I've had a number
- 3:05of roles since then. I retired and did that for
- 3:09about two months and said, hey, I'm probably
- 3:11not quite ready for that. I think I still have
- 3:13a lot to offer and have been fortunate to be
- 3:15able to land with Zayo and the role that I have
- 3:19today to keep doing what I love doing. I love
- 3:22technology and working with people. You're passionate
- 3:26about it, and that is really 90 % of it. If you're
- 3:29passionate about what you're doing, you just
- 3:32enjoy doing it. So I can feel your passion come
- 3:35through the computer, actually. Okay, so I've
- 3:39got a few questions. You've built strong partnerships
- 3:43throughout your career. What's the difference
- 3:46between meeting someone and actually forming
- 3:49a partnership that produces results? I think
- 3:54it's just really building that relationship to
- 3:57be more than just an introduction, if you will.
- 4:00And what's interesting, particularly in this
- 4:02industry, is it's a very small industry. You
- 4:05encounter a lot of the same people. You work
- 4:08with a lot of the same partners. And you do what
- 4:12you can to not just build the relationship, but
- 4:15provide support and help, you know, when they
- 4:17need it. And then I always feel like that returns.
- 4:21to you at the same level or even better sometimes.
- 4:24And so what you find in this industry particularly
- 4:27is that you have common clients or you have common
- 4:31challenges and building beyond just meeting someone
- 4:35to share contact information, talk about. things
- 4:39that are shared issues or problems to solve.
- 4:43And then all of a sudden, you just naturally
- 4:45build this relationship where you're helping
- 4:47each other out. And those relationships matter
- 4:49and come back in spades if you're helping folks.
- 4:54And then you just find that you learn from those
- 4:56experiences and those relationships tend to last
- 5:00and you end up crossing paths again. You should
- 5:02always assume that you might. And I've found
- 5:04that many times you do. There are folks here
- 5:08at Zayo that I worked with years ago for a company
- 5:13that they acquired when it was still that company.
- 5:16Or I now work with companies that I've worked
- 5:19for that are now my clients that used to be.
- 5:23I used to be the client. So those relationships
- 5:26can be invaluable because already you've established
- 5:30or you have a trust with folks that you're working
- 5:33with that sometimes can take time to build. And
- 5:38so that to me is the biggest thing that I found
- 5:41is just those relationships matter and that trust
- 5:44that you build lasts and people remember that.
- 5:48And it makes it just so much easier. And a little
- 5:52bit more seamless if you're settling into a new
- 5:54role or you're trying to build and establish
- 5:56a relationship with a client and those folks
- 5:58that maybe are there from your past or whatnot,
- 6:02just really are invaluable. You had a few really
- 6:08important points that I just want to reemphasize.
- 6:12Trust is the number one factor. Nobody will do
- 6:15business with you unless they trust you. And
- 6:18when you first talk with somebody, you have like
- 6:21a wall between the two of you. And the more they
- 6:24talk about themselves and what they do and everything
- 6:27else, that wall is coming down. That trust factor
- 6:30is going up. And not until does that switch happen
- 6:33when they can start actually listening to you.
- 6:37But what you said was when you go out, when you
- 6:40try to help them, when you try, because in networking.
- 6:44It's called having a servant's heart. You go
- 6:47out there and try to help everybody without the
- 6:50thought of selling something. So you're out there
- 6:53trying to help them because it will come back
- 6:55to you in spades. So it's very important. So
- 6:59I just wanted to bring out those two features
- 7:01that you just spoke about, that they are very
- 7:03important. Yes. What signals in an early conversation
- 7:09tell you whether someone is worth building a
- 7:12long -term relationship? with? That's a really
- 7:16great question. I think sometimes it just takes
- 7:23really reading the room and the person and the
- 7:27tone of the meeting or the tone of the discussion
- 7:29or the approach. It's interesting. If you really
- 7:35understand the intent of the introduction and
- 7:38meeting the person in the first place, sometimes
- 7:40that can help you. navigate the conversation,
- 7:46develop the conversation, and take it to a place
- 7:50that builds the trust and helps you from a relationship
- 7:52perspective. Now, if you're going into the conversation
- 7:55and there is a clear, let's say, an agenda or
- 7:59definitely something that you can read is an
- 8:02outcome that the other person has that they want
- 8:06to get out of the introduction, sometimes it's
- 8:10important to recognize that. And build a relationship
- 8:13from that to, I think, navigate into really building
- 8:19the relationship for longer term strength among
- 8:23the two parties, right? If you go into it and
- 8:26you say, oh, I can clearly see this person has
- 8:27an agenda and you just almost, I don't want to
- 8:30say blow it off, but don't really come in there
- 8:33and acknowledge that and have that conversation
- 8:36or make sure that's understood and it's a discussion
- 8:39point. Then you can come off as not really being
- 8:43interested or genuine or only having your own
- 8:45agenda. So it's really not to say that you're
- 8:48not going to go into this conversation and you're
- 8:50always going to be able to get past that. But
- 8:52it's important to know what that is. What does
- 8:55the other person want to get out of the conversation?
- 8:57And what do you want to get out of it? Sometimes
- 9:00it's just the approach and how they start the
- 9:03conversation. So look for those tones of, am
- 9:07I being brought into this conversation? Because
- 9:10there's a there's an opportunity that I want
- 9:13to talk to me about because I need to listen
- 9:15to that and I need to understand and be open
- 9:17to what it is that they're providing or what
- 9:20they want to speak to me about. Be respectful
- 9:22of that and truly be interested. And then it's
- 9:25and then how do I then bring in. what I would
- 9:29like to discuss or how I would like to build
- 9:31this relationship. It's building really immediately
- 9:34trying to understand what their point of view
- 9:37is, or maybe what they want to get out of the
- 9:39conversation so that you can build the relationship
- 9:41and the trust and truly show the interest in
- 9:45that you respect what they're trying to do. Yeah,
- 9:49I can spot somebody a mile away that is walking
- 9:55up to me that wants to sell something. If they
- 9:57walk up to you and they, If the first two sentences
- 10:00of their conversation is something about something
- 10:02that they're selling, I almost immediately close
- 10:05off that section of my brain. I look, I want
- 10:08to be respectful because I never know when he's
- 10:11going to come into fruition again, but I'm going
- 10:14to end the conversation. So I have to weed that
- 10:17out because if I'm going to a networking event
- 10:19and I only have three or four hours, I have to
- 10:23really. Figure out what my time should be. I
- 10:26used to be in a mortgage business. I used to
- 10:30go to these events all the time and have a shoebox
- 10:33filled with business cards and say, look how
- 10:35good I did. But that was pre -pandemic. Post
- 10:39-pandemic, I looked more for the relationships.
- 10:42And I think if I take more than 15 cards, that's
- 10:46a lot. Yeah. I truly built up something. Yeah.
- 10:50And I think too, one thing that's important in
- 10:52those, because I've experienced that myself,
- 10:54is if it is something that they're trying to
- 10:57sell and it's not something that you're interested
- 10:59in or that would actually fill a need for you,
- 11:02then I think that open transparency is important,
- 11:06right? I've found that if somebody brings something
- 11:09to me and maybe it's something that could be
- 11:11an application I might want to look at in the
- 11:12future, or maybe it's just not something that
- 11:15we would need because maybe... The business that
- 11:18we have isn't understood necessarily that it
- 11:20wouldn't actually be a solution. I'm just pretty
- 11:22transparent about that to say, hey, that's really
- 11:25that's really an interesting proposition. It's
- 11:28definitely something we could look at maybe in
- 11:30the future, but probably not right now or maybe
- 11:32a year away from it or flat out. It's probably
- 11:35isn't something that we would necessarily leverage.
- 11:38And here's why, because we do this, that and
- 11:41the other thing. You've listened, you've provided
- 11:44transparency and reasoning so that whoever's
- 11:48presenting to you, it understands it's not just,
- 11:51I just don't want to listen to a sales pitch.
- 11:53It's truly, this is something that, yes, we absolutely
- 11:58need. We're probably nine to 12 months away from
- 12:00it. I'd love to talk to you about it again at
- 12:03the right time. Yeah, it's just not something
- 12:07that we need or we've already got it solved for.
- 12:09We've already committed to this other. I think
- 12:11that transparency, even in those conversations,
- 12:13really does help because I think nobody wants
- 12:16to waste their own time or to try to pursue something
- 12:19that isn't ever going to be a reality. I just
- 12:22assume tell them. And then you've built a relationship
- 12:25because who knows down the road, I might say.
- 12:28I need that. Or I go take another role and all
- 12:31of a sudden I do. And I want to be able to call
- 12:33that person up. And this has happened to me in
- 12:35other roles. And they're happy to help me because
- 12:39I was honest with them and treated them with
- 12:43respect and transparency. Absolutely. And by
- 12:47you being transparent right up front, you let
- 12:51the other person know either A, you're interested,
- 12:54B, you're not interested, or C, you might be
- 12:57interested in the future. And if the other person
- 13:00is worth his salt or her salt, she'll take your
- 13:04information, put it into their database for a
- 13:07year from then and check in with you. If they're
- 13:12going to put you into a drip campaign, I'm going
- 13:15into a marketing hat now. But if they put you
- 13:18into a drip campaign and just ask you every other
- 13:21month or so, hey, this is Mike. I just want to
- 13:24know if I can help you with anything. And just
- 13:26very casual so that you don't block me, block
- 13:30my emails. You still receive my emails. And it's
- 13:33a just in case type thing. Yes, absolutely. Many
- 13:38professionals rush the relationship. and move
- 13:42too quickly towards business. Why does trust
- 13:45usually develop before opportunity? I think it's
- 13:55getting comfortable that the person that you're
- 13:58working with, it's mutual trust, right? Because
- 14:01particularly even when you're in a sales conversation,
- 14:04is there a real effort there to understand? the
- 14:08business and how, and to come to the conversation
- 14:11with a solution versus just, I'm going to go
- 14:14try to sell this thing. I think what helps really
- 14:16build the trust and why it's important and usually
- 14:19drives to the opportunity is not trying to take
- 14:23a one size fits all approach, particularly if
- 14:26you're going into a complex business or something
- 14:28like that. Like I can tell you, I've worked for
- 14:31telecommunications companies for a number of
- 14:33years and no two are really the same. Like the
- 14:35needs I would have maybe had at, Comcast and
- 14:38a highly consumer business with a large scale
- 14:42might be different than I might have at a startup.
- 14:45I might need the same solution, but I might need
- 14:49a different version of it or some customization
- 14:53that doesn't just easily fit in the out of the
- 14:56box. Somebody coming in and talking to me and
- 14:59truly understanding and have done their homework
- 15:01a little bit on my business certainly helps just
- 15:06right from the get -go. Like they come into the
- 15:08conversation and they seem to know a lot about
- 15:10what we're trying to do. So that I appreciate.
- 15:14And then I appreciate that if they don't have
- 15:16all the answers, really just talking to me a
- 15:19little bit about what are some of the challenges
- 15:20that we face and then helping me understand how
- 15:24maybe that you've solved that in the past. And
- 15:26then being just transparent about, hey, I think
- 15:30we have a solution. I'd love to talk to you about
- 15:33it. Or I don't know that I have this exact solution.
- 15:37We have this solution for smaller sale clients
- 15:39that we can custom develop. Really trying to
- 15:42gain that understanding before coming into the
- 15:45hard push to sell. Because in some cases, if
- 15:49they're very like businesses and they have similar
- 15:50scale and similar product sets and things like
- 15:52that, similar networks and all of that, that
- 15:54can be... Yeah, generally, it's a little bit
- 15:57more straightforward. In a company like ours,
- 16:00as an example, we cater to a completely different
- 16:02customer base. We have numerous equipment types.
- 16:05We sell a variety of products from enterprise
- 16:10all the way up to carrier services. And we don't
- 16:15necessarily have the same organizational makeup
- 16:17in how we do our processes because of different
- 16:20requirements and really getting to understand.
- 16:24the business and what problems we're trying to
- 16:26solve before trying to come in with a solution.
- 16:28Because then it can come across as, no, I don't
- 16:31really care what your problems are. I just have
- 16:33a solution and I want to sell it. Building that
- 16:36rapport and getting to know the person and what
- 16:39they're trying to solve is super critical. Absolutely.
- 16:43Again, you hit so many points with your answer.
- 16:48They were all 100 % correct. When I do workshops,
- 16:52I go into companies like Zayo or something else,
- 16:55and I do a workshop and I teach them all about
- 16:58how to truly network, how to network where they
- 17:01make conversations turn into clients. You know,
- 17:05everything that you just said, everything we
- 17:08have to go in and you, first of all, listen instead
- 17:10of talk. If you talk more than 30 % of the conversation,
- 17:15you lost, right? You have to build. way back
- 17:18in the beginning of this podcast, we said trust
- 17:21was the most important factor. And so you have
- 17:25to be able to, I have to be able to trust you.
- 17:27And the only way I'm going to do that is by you
- 17:30asking questions, finding out about me, all this
- 17:33kind of stuff. If you didn't take the time to
- 17:35find out about me, I don't know how important
- 17:39it is. So I leave it like that. Okay. When establishing
- 17:44rapport with customers or partners, what behaviors
- 17:47quietly build credibility without saying a word?
- 17:54I think the biggest one is the listening element.
- 17:57I think being your natural self and coming across
- 18:01authentic, obviously you're saying things at
- 18:03that point in time, but you're truly showing
- 18:05that, hey, I'm going to start this off and I
- 18:07have a true interest in really building a relationship
- 18:09and potentially a partnership with you. That
- 18:13listening part is really important because if
- 18:16you're thinking about the sale, let's say, and
- 18:20how to get that over the goal line, and you're
- 18:23not really listening to what it is that the client,
- 18:28potential client, is trying to solve, you'll
- 18:31miss the mark. And that to me is the number one
- 18:34thing is listening and being methodical about
- 18:37the approach. And then once you've listened,
- 18:39then obviously answer and say, and ask more questions
- 18:42or, and I think while you're, the listening has
- 18:46to be authentic too. There's body language, right?
- 18:49You say, I'm going to stop and I'm going to listen.
- 18:50I'm not going to say a word, but you can also
- 18:53tell if somebody is really listening or not.
- 18:55There's those nonverbal cues. Are you engaged
- 18:59in the conversation when you're listening? Are
- 19:01you acknowledging? Because I can, I think most
- 19:04people can. I can tell when somebody is truly
- 19:05listening and when they're not. And that's the
- 19:08big thing that I would say is genuinely be interested
- 19:12and listen. Because if you're not generally interested
- 19:16and you're really not listening, maybe you're
- 19:20hearing things, but you're not listening. You're
- 19:22formulating how you're going to respond and you're
- 19:24not really in tune. with the conversation and
- 19:28truly listening to what the person has to say.
- 19:33Absolutely. And just as important as the listening,
- 19:36there's a pause at the end of the listening.
- 19:39So if you're listening intently, you shouldn't
- 19:42be thinking about the next thing that you want
- 19:44to say. You have to listen to the person that's
- 19:47speaking, digest it, pause, and then... reiterate
- 19:52some of what they had said back to them. Say,
- 19:54if I understand you correctly, why is that? So
- 19:58you get a lot more out of it when you listen,
- 20:02when you correctly listen. And the difference
- 20:07between listening and hearing, right? Because
- 20:09you can hear it, but you're not going to listen.
- 20:11Okay, perfect. What mistakes do people make when
- 20:15they try to force a partnership instead of letting
- 20:18it develop naturally? I think what happens when
- 20:21you try to do that is it can result in, and I've
- 20:26had this happen, maybe there wasn't, there was
- 20:31such a rush to get to a partnership through some
- 20:37means, whether it was a sale or us, me signing
- 20:41on and saying, yes, I'll agree. I want to move
- 20:43forward with this solution that you're providing
- 20:45or whatnot. I think. And again, it goes back
- 20:49to the listening and the really exploratory work
- 20:51around what is it that they're really trying
- 20:54to solve? Because if I don't understand that
- 20:57and it somehow gets glossed over in the process
- 21:01and then all of a sudden somebody says, yep,
- 21:02it sounds good. I'm going to take it. And then
- 21:04all of a sudden it doesn't meet the expectations.
- 21:07Maybe it's a service you bought and it's not
- 21:10performing the way it came across in the pitch.
- 21:13And maybe that's not because it's a bad product.
- 21:16It's just you didn't take the time to really
- 21:18understand the true need and what some of the
- 21:21real gaps were that needed to be solved in order
- 21:25to be able to make sure you sold the right thing
- 21:27or you set the right expectations. And then all
- 21:30of a sudden it gets deployed and it's not meeting
- 21:33your needs or it's not meeting expectations because
- 21:37the true exploratory work and transparency didn't
- 21:41take place. That can be a rush to to sale, right?
- 21:46Whether that's when you're using somebody for
- 21:49adding supplementary resources and capabilities
- 21:52or it's a tool or software or any of that, it
- 21:57can be it. That is one of the first things that
- 22:01can really just take if you had trust, it's gone
- 22:03because you're like. You felt like that they
- 22:07understood what you wanted. You get in there
- 22:09and maybe the details weren't known. And then
- 22:12I think the other thing that can happen is once
- 22:14you even if you get to that point, maybe it doesn't
- 22:16mean that, OK, maybe we didn't take enough time
- 22:18up front to really understand the needs, documents,
- 22:21gaps, whatever. But now that we know, then how
- 22:26quickly can you react to that and solve it? I
- 22:28think that's the next thing, because. To me,
- 22:31it doesn't mean, yeah, maybe it wasn't the wrong
- 22:33decision. It's just maybe we rushed into it a
- 22:36little bit and there were some things that we
- 22:37didn't anticipate. And then how do we recover
- 22:40from that quickly? And you get the confidence
- 22:42and the trust that it's recognized and there's
- 22:46a path forward to resolve whatever the gap is.
- 22:50Because I've experienced that. And then you usually
- 22:53come out of it on the other end and say, yeah,
- 22:55we had a couple of bumps in the road because
- 22:56we didn't fully understand the requirements up
- 22:58front. But there was definitely a commitment
- 23:01and an understanding from this partner of what
- 23:04that was, and they resolved it quickly. And just
- 23:07that alone can build up trust sometimes more
- 23:12than you even had before when you've got somebody
- 23:14who, one, acknowledges the issue, two, puts a
- 23:18plan in place to go solve it and then actually
- 23:20executes on that and turns it around, right?
- 23:23Sometimes that can be harder than the initial.
- 23:28hey, I just made the initial sale, right? The
- 23:30harder part is how do you maintain that trust
- 23:33and build it even more over time so that when
- 23:35the time comes for another solution or a new
- 23:38solution, they're going to come right back to
- 23:40you because you built that trust. And I think
- 23:44most clients, I certainly know, and I think many
- 23:46do, that sometimes things aren't going to be
- 23:48perfect and that there are going to be problems
- 23:51from time to time. But how you recover from those
- 23:54with full transparency and actually execution
- 23:56are going to build more trust than I would say
- 23:59even the initial relationship at times, depending
- 24:01on the scenario. Yeah, absolutely. It's no solution
- 24:06is perfect. So you're going to give the solution
- 24:09and you're going to have bumps in the road. And
- 24:11it's how you recover from those bumps in the
- 24:14road is whether or not that they're going to
- 24:16trust you or not. So if you come out and you
- 24:19say, OK, look, we have these bumps in the road,
- 24:21we're going to solve them. and you solve the
- 24:23problem, all of a sudden things are working well,
- 24:25they're like, oh my God, you're a genius. And
- 24:28they will trust you. So it all goes along with
- 24:31that. And usually when there's bumps in the road,
- 24:34it doesn't all get finished. After the first
- 24:38round, those bumps in the road that all of a
- 24:40sudden that creates other bumps in the road.
- 24:42So you have to fix those, which create other
- 24:44bumps in the road and you fix those. But if you
- 24:47go through, if you're honest, you're upfront
- 24:49and you're transparent and you fix all those
- 24:51bumps in the road, then that's the trust. Then
- 24:55they'll pull you back a thousand times. Yeah.
- 24:58Okay. What does listening, here we go. What does
- 25:02listening play in building trust, especially
- 25:05when meeting someone for the first time? I think
- 25:09listening just shows that you're genuinely interested
- 25:12in getting to know that person, what they have
- 25:15to offer, how they can help you. Not just how
- 25:18they can help you, but then you truly want to
- 25:21understand and listen so that you know how that
- 25:24you can help them or how that relationship. would
- 25:28be meaningful to them versus just talking. I
- 25:32always appreciate that when I get into those
- 25:34conversations because it is truly somebody that
- 25:37wants to build a relationship with you because
- 25:40they think that's important. I run into those
- 25:42things. What's even, I think, resonates with
- 25:45me sometimes is people just want to build a relationship
- 25:49with me because maybe they're linked in with
- 25:51other folks that I know. They think that, hey,
- 25:56maybe there's some way that I can help this person
- 25:58down the road or vice versa. Like in our industry,
- 26:03we work with our competitors sometimes. We sell
- 26:08competing services and we compete with each other,
- 26:10but then we're also partners. And I don't want
- 26:13to be building the relationship just because
- 26:15it's, hey, on the partner side, I need this help.
- 26:20So that's why I want to build the relationship.
- 26:22I also know that I'm going to have to help them
- 26:24at some point in time. And we're going to have
- 26:27situations where that relationship is going to
- 26:29be really important. So I'll go after the relationship
- 26:32to say, hey, we seem to be crossing paths. We
- 26:36work really closely together. We partner together
- 26:38sometimes and have mutual clients. Sometimes
- 26:41we compete with each other. But at the end of
- 26:43the day, for those moments when we need to work
- 26:46together for the collective good. of our client,
- 26:50our mutual client. I want to make sure I have
- 26:52this relationship in place and we trust each
- 26:54other. Even though we might compete sometimes,
- 26:57we trust each other to be and we have the shared
- 27:00goal of making sure our mutual client is cared
- 27:02for. Absolutely. Absolutely. What separates a
- 27:08reliable partner from someone who simply shows
- 27:11up for the opportunity? I definitely think it's
- 27:17the trust that continues to get established over
- 27:20time and proven with providing that good service.
- 27:23I think what I find is that sometimes you can
- 27:28work with partners. Once the initial sale is
- 27:32made, there's not a great handoff, and then you
- 27:36don't ever hear from them again until it's time
- 27:38to buy something else. And I think one of the
- 27:41things that... I think we do a great job of here
- 27:44is that we don't take that approach necessarily.
- 27:50And I think companies that don't, where the folks
- 27:52that are selling to you maintain a relationship
- 27:56and are checking in and obviously making sure
- 28:01that you're connected with the right folks within
- 28:02their organization for day -to -day support.
- 28:06Like I get pulled into what I think is great
- 28:08about our folks is that they don't. sell and
- 28:11say yep see you later I'm off to the next client
- 28:14they maintain those relationships and they they
- 28:17introduce me to customers as somebody that can
- 28:20help you know that they're always available to
- 28:22help but I'm also there and it's a very nice
- 28:26kind of natural handoff and partnership that
- 28:30we can come then together into the client and
- 28:33say, you have a team here. Your salesperson is
- 28:36always going to be available anytime you need
- 28:38anything. They're certainly going to be able
- 28:39to help you if you're not getting what you need.
- 28:42But by all means, here's a team of people that
- 28:44we work very closely together with that are available
- 28:48to you. And they help build that relationship
- 28:53for me with clients, especially as we're bringing
- 28:55on new ones. And I think that type of approach
- 28:59makes such a difference for clients because the
- 29:01clients know then that you care that, hey, I've
- 29:03sold this and I'm going to be available and we'll
- 29:05certainly talk about any future opportunities
- 29:07as they come up or I'll check in periodically.
- 29:10But I want to make sure that who's available
- 29:12to you. all the time to be able to help support
- 29:15you from a service assurance perspective as an
- 29:17example. And there's nothing I appreciate more
- 29:20than our sales folks doing that. And I think
- 29:23our clients appreciate those introductions as
- 29:25well. So they know that it's, yeah, I don't really
- 29:27care what happens now. I sold it. And first time
- 29:30they have an issue, they're on their own type
- 29:32of thing. I don't, I'm not. I've worked with
- 29:35a lot of sales professionals and I would tell
- 29:38you, I think we do a really good job of that
- 29:40here, of making sure that the clients, it's very
- 29:44clearly understood who else they have to support
- 29:47them in the organization and they don't just
- 29:49ghost the clients. I'm not saying that happens
- 29:51with frequency everywhere, but I have seen that
- 29:53happen. Not here, obviously. But I think that's
- 29:56one of the things that we do really well is we've
- 29:57got such a good relationship internally to support
- 30:01that customer from sale to... service and everybody
- 30:05being tightly aligned. That's perfect. For me,
- 30:09that's the way to do business, because that's
- 30:12the way you succeed. And that's the way you get
- 30:14more business because of your referral base,
- 30:17because that's gold. Your referral base is gold.
- 30:20Okay, let's bring this podcast full circle. If
- 30:24someone listening today wants to build a network
- 30:27that consistently leads to partnerships and referrals,
- 30:31What one relationship building habit should they
- 30:36start practicing immediately? I think the big
- 30:43one is really identifying the need and listening.
- 30:49And as it relates to trying to find those opportunities,
- 30:53look across your current network. Really take
- 30:57a step back because I have to do this every once
- 30:59in a while. I have a lot of people in my network.
- 31:01There's people that I don't necessarily have
- 31:04regular contact with. And then there's just folks
- 31:06that I do stay in contact with. I think really
- 31:10leveraging your current network and understanding
- 31:12where they can help you is certainly a big, important
- 31:16piece. And then I think the other thing is as
- 31:19you're doing that. really identifying those opportunities
- 31:23that those folks can help you with. And then
- 31:25when you're presented with those opportunities
- 31:27or you make those connections, starting with
- 31:30that trust element and truly listening and bringing
- 31:34those relationships in to help you build more,
- 31:38right? Because I think if you're trying to build
- 31:42a relationship or network with a client or somebody
- 31:46that doesn't know you, but they know one of your
- 31:49folks that you're already networked with and
- 31:51you have a strong relationship with and they
- 31:53have a trusted relationship with that person,
- 31:55immediately they could say, you know, I know
- 31:59this person, I trust this person. And if this
- 32:03is somebody that they've worked with and they
- 32:05trust, I'm going to give it a shot and I'm going
- 32:08to open up the door to a conversation because
- 32:11of the reputation and the relationships they
- 32:15have with people in your network. I hope that
- 32:17answered the question. Yeah, no, really, in spades
- 32:21it did. Wonderful answer. Listen, you are a great
- 32:24podcast guest. I think I can talk to you about
- 32:27for another hour, but due to time constraints.
- 32:31Catherine, if somebody wanted to contact you
- 32:34about either getting help from Zayo or just to
- 32:37say hello, how could they contact you? I think
- 32:41a really great way is through LinkedIn. I'm out
- 32:43on LinkedIn and I get a lot of outreach through
- 32:46that avenue. I think the other way, too, you
- 32:49can certainly can go to our website. There's
- 32:51ways to contact us and you can get a hold of
- 32:53me through that avenue. I think both of those
- 32:56ways are great. And I look forward to hearing
- 32:58from folks. I love to connect with folks. Always
- 33:00happy to help or share information. That's great.
- 33:04Great. Thank you. This conversation is a great
- 33:07reminder. That successful networking isn't about
- 33:10impressing people. It's about understanding them.
- 33:14When you focus on building trust and creating
- 33:16value in your relationships, partnerships naturally
- 33:20show. Here's a simple action for you this week.
- 33:24Reach out to one person in your network and reconnect.
- 33:27Not to ask for anything, but to strengthen the
- 33:30relationship. Those small moments of consistency
- 33:33often lead to the biggest opportunities later.
- 33:37If you found value in today's episode, make sure
- 33:40you like, follow, and subscribe to Networking
- 33:42Unleashed, building profitable connections so
- 33:44you continue getting the best insights on networking
- 33:47and communication. And share this episode with
- 33:50someone who's serious about building stronger
- 33:53professional relationships. If you'd help improving
- 33:56how you communicate and build meaningful partnerships,
- 33:59visit Michael A. Foreman to learn how I work
- 34:02with professionals, teams, and organizations.
- 34:06next time, focus on trust, strengthen your partnerships,
- 34:10and build connections that truly move business
- 34:13forward. Catherine, thank you so much for coming
- 34:16on the podcast. Thank you. I appreciate the time.
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