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- 0:00to our culture in our day, our challenges that we still face,
- 0:04circumstances, situations that the Cumberland Trace congregation has
- 0:08or potentially will encounter. And so this is very helpful
- 0:12to us as good things happen for us in a congregation.
- 0:16And inevitably, as I look out over the— this auditorium
- 0:21this morning, folks in different stages of circumstances
- 0:25of life. And so I think as we look particularly on the Second
- 0:29Missionary Journey, we're going to see a lot of what hits us as a church
- 0:32and as individuals. The Second Missionary Journey is the
- 0:36longest by reason of how much time it took, how much
- 0:40distance was covered, but we're not really going to be looking at the missionary
- 0:44journeys as a geographical
- 0:49download. We're going to be looking at some of the things that happened on there.
- 0:52I want to just tell you up front, there will be some things we won't
- 0:54hit that may be even familiar territory. We are going to spend 2
- 1:00or 3 seconds on the Philippian experience that we have
- 1:03said a lot about. And again, I refer you back to Chris Young's fantastic
- 1:07class on Acts. He took 2 quarters to walk through the book of Acts and
- 1:11really helped us a lot. So that would be good background or supplement to what
- 1:14we are talking about today. The first challenge that we see in Acts 16,
- 1:18and by the way, remember where we left off last week?
- 1:21Paul and Barnabas split because of a disagreement over whether to take
- 1:25John Mark. And Barnabas and John Mark go off to Cyprus.
- 1:29Barnabas, as far as the book of Acts is concerned, disappears from the
- 1:33scene. And John Mark is going to reappear in
- 1:37the epistles that Paul writes and that Peter writes later
- 1:40on. But as they go their way, Paul takes
- 1:44Silas with him, and they're going to go on a missionary journey. And Paul's
- 1:48going to pick up a couple of fellow workers that are going to
- 1:52be very important to the events that take place in the second journey.
- 1:56Now, as we look at, in terms of the challenges that they
- 2:00faced, one of the challenges is related to that pivot point,
- 2:04that break in the first and the second missionary journey, because that
- 2:09pivot point centers around 2 young men. Who are they? I already mentioned one.
- 2:14Who's one of the young men that's kind of at the center of this this
- 2:17break between the first and second journey?
- 2:21Okay, so Timothy's one of them. It's the one we didn't just mention. Who's the
- 2:25other one? John Mark. Now,
- 2:28they play an important role even though they're very secondary. Mark, as far as
- 2:32we can tell, was only ever an assistant. Maybe he was an attendant.
- 2:37He took notes. He maybe handled logistics.
- 2:41Everything we can see, there's no indication that he
- 2:45preached sermons or taught Bible classes. He was more in the background.
- 2:48Maybe that served him well because what's he going to ultimately do later
- 2:52at some point? Okay, Paul's going
- 2:56to call for him, but in his own life and ministry, what significant
- 3:00thing does Mark do later? Write the Gospel of Mark.
- 3:04It's pretty big. It is a
- 3:08very focused document in which he deals
- 3:11with the identity of Jesus. It's at the heart of it. Who is this Jesus?
- 3:15That's what the book of Mark is all about. Mark 8:28-38.
- 3:19But then there's Timothy. Do you see the irony
- 3:24that Paul is going to go find a young assistant to
- 3:28help? Maybe in Paul's mind he's thinking, I can train him in
- 3:31some ways that some deficiencies that John Mark I may perceive
- 3:35in him, Although I think we can say that Paul's going to have to at
- 3:39least say he was at least part wrong in his assessment of Mark. And you
- 3:42see that when he begins to write about Mark being useful,
- 3:45Mark being a coworker. Send him to me because I find
- 3:49him one that would help in the work that we're doing. But there's also going
- 3:52to be Timothy himself. And the first challenge— and it's a challenge we
- 3:57face here— is how do we develop tomorrow's leaders?
- 4:01How do we identify in this congregation those young people
- 4:05that, uh, and, and we'll talk about what young means in just a moment,
- 4:09who are so much a part of who this church will
- 4:13be in 20 years. Maybe they're not in positions of leadership
- 4:17right now, but as we continue to march toward the grave,
- 4:20all of us, and to age out, there are those coming up behind
- 4:24us. And what are we doing substantially to help them to be the leaders
- 4:28that God expects us to perpetuate in
- 4:32the body of Christ. Now, just a little bit of facts
- 4:36as we get started this morning with regard to this church. I reached out to
- 4:39some of our vision groups to get some solid numbers on those
- 4:43that we would call the young people of this congregation.
- 4:46There's some of you, and I hope you don't ever take that as a negative
- 4:49thing. Who here would mind being
- 4:53called a young person? Do you feel pretty good about that? You know, I don't
- 4:57remember when it happened. I remember for years being taught, you know, Neil's one
- 5:01of our young preachers. I don't hear that anymore. I don't— I still feel
- 5:05the same as I did when they said that before. So there are a
- 5:08lot of us who are going to be excluded from that group. But in this
- 5:12congregation, it was surprising to me. I asked, you know, we just renamed
- 5:16one of our vision groups from young adults to the 20s and 30s. And so
- 5:20in the strict observation of that, anybody have any idea
- 5:23how many we have that would be— now don't include the college students
- 5:28or those in the college age range who are post-high school.
- 5:32How many 20s and 30s do you think we have in this congregation?
- 5:35Okay, wow, y'all are all on top of that. Okay, 57, 60.
- 5:39That's a sizable number when you think about the fact we've been averaging
- 5:43about 400 for our morning worship. So, somebody who's smarter
- 5:47than me, isn't that about 20%? Pretty close to it?
- 5:50I just did that in my head just then. Now, college students range
- 5:55between 20 and 30, and I know that's somewhat seasonal. It drops some in
- 5:59this time of the year, but when they come back here, as they start trickling
- 6:01back in the next few weeks, That's,
- 6:04that's an incredible addition to the almost
- 6:0860 that are 20s and 30s. Now, how many do you think
- 6:12are— I don't know how to say it— 0 to 18, or newborns
- 6:16through 18 years old, high school seniors? Let's say just high school seniors is
- 6:20how I actually reached out and asked the committee.
- 6:24Somebody said 60. Okay, Joyce,
- 6:27you're almost there. 97. Now, when you consider
- 6:31that we have several expectant mothers, then that's probably a pretty good number. We're going
- 6:36to count them, right? So where's Chris, you know, or Jack? Count those ladies
- 6:40that are obviously pregnant, that you know they're pregnant. So now, when you— we
- 6:46were on our honeymoon and I learned a lesson very quickly. We was going up
- 6:50a gondola at Ober Gatlinburg and I asked the woman when she was
- 6:54going to have her baby. I've never done that again. So now
- 7:00you take that number, those numbers together, and we're talking
- 7:03about almost 200 who are what
- 7:08the Bible would call youth. When you think
- 7:12about Timothy and what Paul's going to say to him in 1 Timothy 4:12,
- 7:15that let no one despise your youth, that's over
- 7:19a decade after this, these events in Acts 16.
- 7:24And so he's possibly a teenager here. And so we talk— we think
- 7:28about the resource that God has given to us. And when I got all those
- 7:31numbers initially, I got to tell you, I was excited to
- 7:35think about that kind of a number, almost 200.
- 7:39And then it got very sobering very quickly. You know, there's a, there's a parable
- 7:43Jesus tells in Luke chapter 12, verse 48 about those— that
- 7:46servant who knew his master's will and he didn't do it.
- 7:50He's going to receive many stripes. The one who didn't know his master's will,
- 7:53by comparison because he didn't know, he didn't have the knowledge
- 7:57that is expected of one who's a follower of Jesus, the one who
- 8:02knew his master's will and didn't do it, what kind of punishment did he receive?
- 8:06Many stripes. Now, here's the upshot of that.
- 8:10This— we use this statement a lot, but that's the context of
- 8:14it. To whom much is given,
- 8:18what? Much is required. And so
- 8:23this is a passage about accountability, and it says to us, what are we going
- 8:26to do to develop the raw material of
- 8:30tomorrow's leaders, of our young people? And of course, we say it,
- 8:34and we should, not just tomorrow's leaders. And that's part of
- 8:38how we respond to that challenge is to recognize that
- 8:42we have such an opportunity in front of us. So with that being the
- 8:45case, let's look at Acts 16:1-5.
- 8:50Turn your Bibles over there in Acts chapter 16, verse 1
- 8:53through verse 5. And again, this is
- 8:57at the very beginning of that journey as Barnabas
- 9:02and John Mark have headed to Cyprus. Paul came
- 9:06also to Derbe and to Lystra. A disciple was there named Timothy,
- 9:09the son of a Jewish woman who was a believer, but his father was
- 9:13a Greek. He was well spoken of by the brothers at Lystra and Iconium.
- 9:17Paul wanted Timothy to accompany him, and he took him and circumcised him because of
- 9:19the Jews who were in those places,
- 9:23for they all knew that his father was a Greek.
- 9:26And as they went on their way through the cities, they delivered to them for
- 9:30observance the decisions that had been reached by the apostles and elders who
- 9:34were in Jerusalem. Do you remember back in Acts 15, they all met together?
- 9:37All these Gentiles are being won to Christ,
- 9:40and the question is, what does God expect of
- 9:44them? And do you remember how they worked through that? They talked
- 9:48about the great results that God had given them, but I want you to notice
- 9:50how especially James It's a great pattern for
- 9:54us. Takes them to the Scripture. What does the Bible say? What do the Scriptures
- 9:58tell us that we ought to do? And so, once they leaned
- 10:03on that foundation and they came to a consensus, they weren't making policy for the
- 10:07church. They were trying to figure out how do we handle this practical situation.
- 10:09Then they sent Paul and Silas out to tell
- 10:13others what the congregation had decided.
- 10:17Suggested was the way to handle this. Okay? So, that's the
- 10:22context in which we see these things. And as you look at the passage we
- 10:25just read in Acts 16:1-5, what does the Scripture there tell us about
- 10:29Timothy? What are some of the facts?
- 10:34Okay. Alright. So, what does that tell us?
- 10:37His father is a Gentile or Greek. His mother is
- 10:41a Jew. Might have
- 10:45felt some prejudice, particularly by the Jews. Yeah?
- 10:49Okay. Now, we're going to learn that for sure outside of the book
- 10:53of Acts. That's going to really help us. But there's
- 10:57some indication here that he's been taught the Scriptures.
- 11:01All right. So he's of mixed heritage. Joel? All right.
- 11:05He's got a good reputation. Folks who are in
- 11:09that area, it's a 50-mile radius.
- 11:12Are knowledgeable about this man, this young man.
- 11:16He's well spoken of. He's got a good reputation. How do you do that?
- 11:20Your deeds, your actions have got to weigh in on that. So look, we do
- 11:23say he's raw material, and I'm going to show you that he's not finished yet.
- 11:26He's got some work to do. But already we see that he's got
- 11:30a background, a religious background. But something
- 11:34else about that before we leave this idea that Kevin brought up that he was
- 11:38A Gentile father, a Jewish mother. Yes, some prejudice
- 11:42from the Jews. What else would that tell us? Would it tell us anything
- 11:45else? Okay, we're going
- 11:49to find out here. So that's actually something else that Luke tells us about him.
- 11:53He's not circumcised. And that's going to matter,
- 11:56and we'll talk about that in just a second. Anything else you see?
- 12:00Here's my list. He's a disciple. What does that tell us?
- 12:05He's a follower of Jesus. We don't have to complicate that.
- 12:09And he is a true follower of Jesus.
- 12:11There's no Apollo situation here. There's no circumstance
- 12:15like the men in Ephesus who only knew the baptism of John
- 12:20and were baptized again. He is a New Testament Christian
- 12:24who is following Jesus. And some of what we see here
- 12:28is going to reinforce that idea. He's well thought of.
- 12:32And I think that's where Joey was leading us there in the area
- 12:36that he had been doing the work. If you're a follower of Jesus, you're going
- 12:39to be doing the kinds of things that make people think well of you.
- 12:43He had a mixed heritage, so there was conflict in the home.
- 12:46And is there any significance that it was his mother who was a Jew and
- 12:50his father who was a Gentile?
- 12:53Okay. Again, Miss Dolores, we're going to get there when we get outside
- 12:57of Acts. Yeah, we know your knowledge is— that's right. That's going to be very
- 13:02huge. But would it have been different if his dad
- 13:06had been a Jew and his mom had been a Gentile?
- 13:11Probably so. In a male-dominated society, that probably
- 13:14would have read a little differently. But how many
- 13:18circumstances do we know, maybe even that make up our congregation,
- 13:22where there are folks who've been raised by a
- 13:25godly mother whose father has been at least spiritually absent,
- 13:28if not physically absent? And yet,
- 13:32what great leaders can come out of those contexts.
- 13:35Great leaders in the body of Christ come from a lot of different directions.
- 13:39Look, wouldn't we all say that the ideal would be that we are
- 13:44producing a lot of young people out of homes where
- 13:48mom and dad are faithfully following Christ? Won't that give them— if
- 13:53we don't believe that, then we wouldn't gear a lot of what we do here
- 13:55to try to encourage and strengthen and build up our youth. And we
- 13:59tell— what are we doing next month? We're having a parenting seminar. What are we
- 14:03trying to do with that? We're trying to encourage mom and dad to be spiritually
- 14:07united in raising their children in such a way that when they're old, they won't
- 14:11depart from it. And so there's certainly advantages to that,
- 14:15and some people in this room are the products of that.
- 14:19But I'd say that there are a great many of us in this room who
- 14:22maybe only had one spiritual role model in the home. And yet you
- 14:26still can be a spiritual all-star in the kingdom
- 14:30of God in a situation like that. He was willing to
- 14:35be circumcised. Now, sometimes we say there's a conflict
- 14:39here because Paul doesn't circumcise Titus in Galatians 2:3.
- 14:44What's the difference between Timothy and Titus and
- 14:47why he did the one and not the other? Say it again.
- 14:52Okay. And Kevin says where they were working at.
- 14:55And specifically, what does Paul like to do on his missionary journeys
- 14:59or in any of his mission efforts that we see in Scripture? When he goes
- 15:03to a city, where does he go? Synagogues. Who's in the synagogues?
- 15:07Jews. And there is something to be said about the fact that being
- 15:11known and his heritage being known apparently widely
- 15:15enough as he's well thought of and his character is known around the area,
- 15:20If you have a mother who is a Jew, then there is a certain expectation
- 15:24that from a ceremonial, circumstantial, cultural side,
- 15:28you are going to adhere to that. And if you have Jewish blood in you,
- 15:31then you need to remove any impediment
- 15:35that would keep Paul from being affected. And so, he is
- 15:38going to do that. Titus is going to be working on Crete. He is
- 15:42going to be working among Gentile people, and there are Judaizers in that area
- 15:46who are saying that you have to be circumcised in order to be a Christian.
- 15:49And Paul says, we're not going to play that game. We're not going to do
- 15:52that. It's not necessary. And he doesn't need to do that for the work that
- 15:55he's doing. And so we're not going to. This is an accommodation. This is to
- 15:59help the gospel to go further. Now, I wanted
- 16:03to clarify that, but what I want you to do is look at Timothy,
- 16:06this young disciple, well thought of, mixed heritage young
- 16:10man who says— and just to think medically
- 16:14for a moment, here's at least a teenager, Who's saying, I will undergo
- 16:19that. Look in the Old Testament. You know, the Bible gives us some insight into
- 16:23what happens when mature people are circumcised. It's a surgery.
- 16:27It's going to lay you up. It's going to be painful, much more
- 16:30painful than— you know, babies can't recall that.
- 16:34And maybe it's humiliating to some degree, but he's willing
- 16:38to do it. That's the raw material. Now, I also want us to look at—
- 16:42I don't know why that happened. I'm sorry. What does the rest of the New
- 16:45Testament tell us about about Timothy?
- 16:49We've had some of it. Let's review. He had godly
- 16:53women who taught him the Scriptures. He knew the Scriptures from childhood. What else?
- 16:59What else do we know about Timothy?
- 17:03Okay. Alright, so he's a son in the faith.
- 17:07He's entrusted with carrying on Paul's work. He's going to— we're going to see
- 17:11the evangelism take place on this second missionary journey.
- 17:15All right. That— yep. Very, very much so.
- 17:18He's considered a youth. 1 Timothy 4:12. Again,
- 17:22that's written in the '60s. This is happening in 49, 50,
- 17:26maybe 51 from the beginning to the end of that. And so
- 17:30he's a lot younger there than some say the Jewish standard would
- 17:34be up to 40. And then that's when you leave that Jewish timeframe.
- 17:38So he could have been a little older than a teenager. But still very young.
- 17:42What else?
- 17:45Okay, very good. Maybe this is going to
- 17:48tell us why. He's number 3 on the trip, by the way. Paul, Silas,
- 17:51now there's going to be Timothy. Who's the 4th guy that
- 17:56we're going to pick up? Luke. And how do we know that? Because we're going
- 17:59to switch to we from they. That's going to always be your indicator in the
- 18:02book of Acts that Luke's on the journey. He's the writer of the book of
- 18:06Acts, and when he says we, we're along. Is it possible that
- 18:11the connection with Luke at least had one dimension to it, that he was a
- 18:15doctor who could meet the physical needs that Paul
- 18:18and Timothy had? 1 Timothy 5:23 indicates
- 18:22that he had some stomach issues were the particular problems. All right,
- 18:26what else? So, he's maybe infirm, got some
- 18:30health problems. He is
- 18:34appointed by Paul. He's his son in the faith. Maybe he's converted on the first
- 18:37missionary journey when Paul first comes through Lystra, Derbe, Iconium.
- 18:41Him. And he's taught the scriptures by his mom and his grandmother.
- 18:44What else? Anything else about him?
- 18:47He was timid. And that's a very— that's a very huge
- 18:51factor here. When you think about— I want you to draw the comparison.
- 18:55We don't know exactly what John Mark's problem was.
- 18:59We can theorize. And some folks have
- 19:03said some things that maybe we can ground into the book of Acts, and that
- 19:06is that He was a mama's boy. She was a very prominent
- 19:10member of the church at Jerusalem. Acts chapter 12, the church is meeting in
- 19:14her home when Peter's in prison and they're praying there. She's wealthy enough
- 19:18that the church can meet in her home. He's a Jerusalem boy,
- 19:22and maybe he's just so far from home, never been that far, and he goes
- 19:25back. Maybe it's the rigors of the journey, and it's
- 19:29so hard. Just making that crossing that they make
- 19:33when they cross the Mediterranean and where they land at Antioch of Pisidia,
- 19:37There's a— I think it's the Taurus Mountains, whatever that mountain range is, it's very
- 19:40high. It's very difficult. And if you have physical infirmities, maybe that's what takes
- 19:45place. Something causes him to leave the work.
- 19:48Paul assesses that as being— he's fickle,
- 19:52he's not trustworthy. But Timothy,
- 19:56Timothy's got some struggles too. I mean, and these are going to extend at
- 20:00least a little while because when Paul writes near the end of his
- 20:04life, so about 64 AD, maybe 14, 15 years after this,
- 20:09you're going to have Paul admonishing him.
- 20:121 Corinthians 16:10 kind of alludes to his being timid,
- 20:17but Paul says, God's not given us a spirit of timidity. You take hold
- 20:21of that gift that God has given to you. All right, so we learn a
- 20:25lot about him. I had it at the top of my list, Tim. He's young,
- 20:281 Timothy 4:12. He's sickly, as Brittany said. He possibly
- 20:33has no male spiritual role models before Paul
- 20:37comes along. And yet, that being the case, we have somebody
- 20:43that Paul saw as someone that he could make use of.
- 20:46Now, here's a question for you. Today,
- 20:50what do you think are our biggest challenges in developing spiritual
- 20:56leaders among our young people? What are the
- 20:59biggest challenges we face?
- 21:04Okay, so I'm gonna, I'm gonna wed those together. Technology was
- 21:07specifically mentioned, but the influences of the outside
- 21:11world, and if we'll broaden that out, man, think about all the
- 21:15different distractions that all of us are facing.
- 21:19Now depending on where you are on that age continuum, you jumped
- 21:23into the technology sphere. By the way, it's impacting a lot of us more than
- 21:26we would think or know or admit. It's distracting us.
- 21:30It's absorbing us. It's pulling us into its
- 21:33sphere of influence. And dare I say,
- 21:37even addicting us to some degree. But if you're a digital native,
- 21:41or they even say that's not even the right term. I mean, but it's so
- 21:43endemic. It's all you've ever known. There's a lot
- 21:47of ways for it to catch you. But beyond that, there's the distractions
- 21:51that every generation deals with. Okay, I think that's fair. What else?
- 21:56Okay, so one of the challenges is you're saying fault
- 22:00rests on our shoulders that we're not entrusting them as we could.
- 22:05Potentially, right. Yes, sir.
- 22:10Okay, so I don't know if I didn't say it when I started, Cumberland Trace
- 22:14is somewhat exceptional. It's not as much the rule.
- 22:18We have just an embarrassment of riches of young people.
- 22:22Here, but it's not that way in some places. And so finding candidates
- 22:26to mentor and to help develop can be hard. And you think about churches
- 22:30around in this region that are
- 22:33facing that challenge. Yes,
- 22:38ma'am.
- 22:41Yeah.
- 22:46So that's— so you think about how technology is a unique challenge we face in
- 22:49our times. So is kind of our cultural approach to group
- 22:55dynamics. And there are times when it's healthy and good,
- 22:59and I think we believe in that, where we— you'll notice we
- 23:03don't have the 2s and 3s in here today,
- 23:06or the 1st and 2nd graders. We believe that there's,
- 23:10you know, when Paul would say something like, when I was a child, I spoke
- 23:13as a child, I thought as a child, and understood as a child, there are
- 23:15circumstances where it's good for them to be together and learn together.
- 23:19But if we're not careful, we can overreact to that and break away from what's
- 23:24been the cultural norm in civilization for most of civilization, and that is an intergenerational
- 23:29approach where we spend time together. And I think what Miss Laura
- 23:33said is important in this. Some of that is we who are older
- 23:38need to be humble, be open, and to
- 23:42take the first step in reaching out to our young people.
- 23:45Why don't we do that? Why don't we want to take the first step?
- 23:50Okay, we fail to take the time. We really don't maybe realize the,
- 23:54the priority, the importance it is for us to take a moment because
- 23:58we're looking for maybe that non-Christian visitor. We're looking for that new person
- 24:02who's in the assembly. We're looking for folks that we needed to tell something to.
- 24:05And, and it's real easy for us to be looking here when
- 24:09it would be great for us to take a moment to look here or You
- 24:13know, even metaphorically, if they're a teenager and they're taller than us, but taking
- 24:16time to look at them and value them and see them.
- 24:23I think maybe there's something else. Maybe it's just me. Go ahead, Ian.
- 24:30Okay. Sure.
- 24:32Absolutely.
- 24:40So if we can say it another way, I think you're exactly right.
- 24:44What are we prioritizing as we look down to look
- 24:48across to that generation that's being developed?
- 24:53Maybe we take the time to coach a ball team, which is great.
- 24:57I did that when our boys were coming up. It's wonderful because it's
- 25:01a great experience to have with you, with your children.
- 25:04And it tells them that you're interested in that part of their lives.
- 25:09Maybe many in this room have done that. Maybe we've taken on young apprentices
- 25:13or in our professional life to try to give them a hand up, right,
- 25:16or to give them some skill and experience that will help them as they try
- 25:20to think about their career. Maybe there are even some in this room who have
- 25:23spent some time tutoring, at least your own children, where you spent
- 25:26some time agonizing over open books trying to figure that stuff out.
- 25:32But how much time are we spending in trying to mentor and develop them spiritually?
- 25:35Taking somebody who's in that age range and
- 25:40saying, hey, come with me on a visit. Or would you be my— would you
- 25:44sit in the classroom with me as I teach, be my assistant there?
- 25:47Would you be my silent partner in
- 25:52a Bible study? You know, something like that that tells them, I see something
- 25:55in you. And I recognize that we need
- 25:59you. And so come alongside and
- 26:03we've got to put as much in. We got to put more emphasis if we
- 26:06believe Matthew 6:33 on those kinds of relationships even
- 26:09than we do the others. Yep. Go ahead. I heard.
- 26:13Yep. Go ahead, Chuck.
- 26:18Don't die until you plant that faith and that
- 26:22this generation, the generation that's emerging now, that's great. Yes,
- 26:26ma'am. Absolutely. Um,
- 26:30and that's where I was going to head with that. And, and I want to
- 26:32admit something here. I know that we even have some in here.
- 26:35This goes back to when I was— my first ministry job,
- 26:39um, I was 19. I was a
- 26:42youth minister with the kids who were a year younger than me. That's, by the
- 26:46way, that's not a good idea. It's really not. You know, who's the, who's the
- 26:50mature voice in the room? And if you knew me at 19, you know it
- 26:53was not me. Um, but, um, from,
- 26:57from that time to now, there are times I don't wrestle with it like I
- 27:00used to, but there are times where I, I'm a little intimidated.
- 27:04Y'all hear that? Teenagers in the room? I don't know. I probably
- 27:08shouldn't say that out loud, but, but why? Does anybody else ever have that?
- 27:12Why, why are you intimidated? I can
- 27:15tell you why I'm intimidated. I want to hear why you're intimidated. Maybe it's therapy
- 27:18here.
- 27:20What? Okay.
- 27:23There's, there's, what do we call that? That's the, um,
- 27:26the generation gap, right? So we feel like, um,
- 27:30their world is so different from ours that, that we'd have a hard time relating
- 27:33to one another. They'd have a hard time relating to me. You know, maybe you're
- 27:36searching for when, when I was coming up,
- 27:40you were dating. You had a girlfriend and boyfriend.
- 27:44You know, I hesitate to say, is that even the lingo? Is that the terminology
- 27:48that you— so if you— and sometimes there's a perception that
- 27:53you're not relevant, you're not
- 27:57cool, whatever.
- 28:00And I guess if we were looking for a theological word to
- 28:04address that, it would be hogwash. It's not that way. It's not
- 28:08so. We have got— we've got to move past that and anticipate.
- 28:14And there could be a lot of different things that you're— what you're perceiving is
- 28:16not reality. If you feel insecure, is it possible ever
- 28:20that young people feel insecure? That they don't feel sure of
- 28:24themselves or they're facing a peer pressure that
- 28:28they're trying to navigate through when you're trying to interact with them? Maybe if it's
- 28:31in a Bible classroom setting. And so we've got to work through some of that.
- 28:34There's more that we could say, but I think this goes back to
- 28:38what was said at the beginning about the distractions from the outside. There's the bad
- 28:41influence of the world that makes our job of developing tomorrow's
- 28:45leaders harder. There's an attrition rate in every generation.
- 28:49Paul says there in 2 Timothy 2 to Timothy, flee also
- 28:53youthful lusts. Well, what does that imply to us? Some don't.
- 28:57And we can think back, no matter what generation you're in, you can think of
- 29:00peers who did not overcome that challenge and they fell away.
- 29:04The bad influence of the home. Really,
- 29:08at the end of the day, look, the church is in a support position.
- 29:12We need to be active. We need to not abdicate that
- 29:16role whatsoever, but at the end of the day, the instruction of
- 29:20the Bible is addressed primarily to the home, to the father and the mother
- 29:24and the instruction that takes place there, and we can't hope that
- 29:27the church is going to offset A life that's lived
- 29:31where Christ is not first in the home. And so the good
- 29:35news is each of us in our home units can, can be contributing
- 29:39to tomorrow's spiritual leaders. Misplaced priorities,
- 29:43we mentioned that. Matthew 6:33, that's what Ian was talking
- 29:46about. Lack of commitment by potential mentors where we go,
- 29:50I'm not enough, I can't break through. I want you to remember
- 29:54what Paul says in 2 Corinthians 3:5, if you hesitate to encourage Young people,
- 29:59our adequacy is not of ourselves.
- 30:02It is of God. Why not take this challenge up?
- 30:07Commit to yourself that you're going to encourage a young person
- 30:11before you leave here today. And before you say anything,
- 30:16remind yourself of Paul's words here. Our adequacy is not of ourselves.
- 30:21It's of God. And understanding that,
- 30:25Let God work through that situation. You may not be able to perceive anything
- 30:29in that moment. You may not get a very— what you would
- 30:32perceive to be a very warm response or what you were looking for,
- 30:35but you have no idea. And in most cases, you're planting a seed
- 30:39deep down in their heart. You are making a positive difference.
- 30:44You know, I think a lot of us could say what Lee says is that
- 30:48when you start collecting your— looking back on your collected memories when you grow up,
- 30:52I want you to think about how many of those formidable moments
- 30:56were not given to you by your peers,
- 31:00although there are some. But I think of the same thing. I can
- 31:04think of a lot of folks who invested in me who were a lot older
- 31:07than me, and man, it made such a difference. Yes, sir.
- 31:17Well, it's a reminder that
- 31:21this is one of the ways in which we can make use of Ephesians chapter
- 31:256, that we're in a battle, we're in a fight. And man,
- 31:29there is no more precious resource than our young people. And so we can't
- 31:32afford to let that go by the wayside. Lack of interest
- 31:36in youth being mentored. And that's
- 31:40real or perceived? It's probably more perceived than real. And that is
- 31:44maybe tags on to what Bill just said. We don't think that they're
- 31:48interested. We don't think that they would, would like that.
- 31:52So I don't know, it may be that you go up to somebody and you
- 31:56try to— and, and, and you need to have a relationship first. Don't just go
- 31:59cold turkey out there and find somebody and say, hey, you're my, you're my Timothy.
- 32:03I don't think it works that way. Spend some time,
- 32:06get to know them, find out what's going on in their lives.
- 32:09And I say this, guys, I think this is This is a challenge that,
- 32:13that a lot of us who are not in that 200 people that I just
- 32:16mentioned, that we, for these reasons, we don't,
- 32:20we don't try to work against. And to the degree that
- 32:24we do, we are impressing tomorrow's leaders.
- 32:28Yes, sir.
- 32:56And I would say that we can take that outside the assembly and we could
- 32:59take that to every facet of ministry life. And so maybe you're a woman here
- 33:03saying, well, um, you know, That's, that's a worship example, which is very important.
- 33:06It's very huge. But are there other areas where,
- 33:09ladies, that you could be doing the same thing where you give somebody an
- 33:13opportunity, um, to, to grow in those positions, whether it's in a
- 33:16Bible classroom or, uh, in serving, um,
- 33:20uh, or in organizing some event like some of the several
- 33:23ones that we just had? Yes, ma'am.
- 33:32For sure.
- 33:39For
- 33:45sure.
- 33:51Great, great point, Miss Dan. And by the way, you never know
- 33:55how you're, you're being perceived. I hope this
- 33:58isn't being projected as, man, we really are blowing
- 34:02it here, because we're not. There are so many ways in which— and I was
- 34:05going to mention that here in just a moment. But let me just tag on
- 34:08to that and say they did, and Mike's comment too. How did Paul and
- 34:13Silas do it? Same way that we need to. And I'd love— and by the
- 34:16way, I hope y'all aren't, because I just gave up about 2 minutes in.
- 34:19And I'm thinking, I'm teaching next week, so I got 2 weeks in a row.
- 34:22I was— I'm prepared through the end of the second missionary journey. We're still—
- 34:26we just got out of the gate. We're still in Lystra. We hadn't even gone
- 34:28yet. But that's all right. We'll get there. Next week.
- 34:32But what they did is what we can do. And I think this is important.
- 34:36They put them in a position to serve. That's what I
- 34:39just heard. I gave you some examples where Paul gives
- 34:44Timothy a task that surely stretched him
- 34:47outside of his comfort zone. And those of us
- 34:51who have worked in some position of spiritual
- 34:55leadership of some sort, have— could go back and say somebody threw us.
- 35:00I heard Kevin said somebody we went and visited this week
- 35:04said they— the person that taught them how to swim threw them in the deep
- 35:06end of water and said, swim or drown.
- 35:10And maybe not just swim or drown, but, you know,
- 35:14maybe have a life jacket somewhere nearby, but throw them out there where it's a
- 35:18little bit challenging for them. And I think that's huge. Yep.
- 35:37There he is.
- 35:44The same, the same thing being said by somebody besides your parents can be,
- 35:47can be huge. That's why You've probably experienced this as a
- 35:51parent. Somebody goes, oh, you just have such a wonderful child. And you go,
- 35:555'5? You sure?
- 35:59But they will listen. That's for sure.
- 36:02They set the example. They weren't passive. They weren't do as
- 36:06I say, not as I do. And so you can look in Barnabas. What was
- 36:10Barnabas known for? Encouragement. He's setting
- 36:14the example. He's showing what that's like. And could Paul— I mean,
- 36:17could Timothy say, I don't think I should pursue courage
- 36:21because my mentor, he's not that courageous? Well, we know different
- 36:26from that, even though that's one of our challenges we'll see next week. They challenged
- 36:28them to grow. They admonished. They didn't just encourage.
- 36:32And maybe that goes to what Chuck was saying. They were willing to say,
- 36:35look, you need to step up and do better. We don't have that conversation between
- 36:39Barnabas and John Mark. They're related to one another. Maybe that's a conversation they
- 36:43could have, but it's obvious that whatever Barnabas did, it,
- 36:46it helped John Mark to stay strong. They treated
- 36:51them as coworkers, not children. And that's how Paul will
- 36:55refer to him in Romans 16:21. And in 2 Timothy 4:11, that's where
- 36:59Paul says, send me John Mark because he's useful for ministry.
- 37:03And they balanced encouragement and admonition.
- 37:06And so when we Look at what they did. Every one
- 37:09of those objectives are something that we could do today. And more
- 37:13than that, I would say that it needs to become a priority that we have,
- 37:17that we need to encourage one another to see what we're doing to help those
- 37:21who are coming along. Satan will throw up all the barriers,
- 37:25all the reasons why we shouldn't, couldn't, it's not me, should be somebody else,
- 37:28whatever that is. But so start developing those
- 37:32relationships. And then start utilizing those relationships as
- 37:35we should with every relationship, and that's to bring people closer to Christ. Any thoughts
- 37:39or comments? I've got miles to go before
- 37:43I sleep, but there's no way I can hit anything now,
- 37:47so the irony is we're going to end this class a little short even though
- 37:49we've got so much more to do. Thanks very much for your comments and your
- 37:53attention. I think we dealt with one of the greatest challenges we face, and we'll
- 37:56look at some more next week.