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DLHS Hour 2 | Do white men treat black women better than black men · The D.L. Hughley Show

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  Speaker 1: It is out of the dyall he can show your
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  Speaker 1: twenty twenty five, twenty six of this.
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  Speaker 2: I'm so sorry. I'm lost in time.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like America going back in time, except at least
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  Speaker 1: I stop a year back. I ain't going to thirty years.
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  Speaker 2: So the question we're asking a woman, a black woman
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  Speaker 2: said this.
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  Speaker 3: The white man wants a relationship that leads to marriage
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  Speaker 3: and family. The black man wants a situationship that leads
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  Speaker 3: to nothing. The white man is going to date you,
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  Speaker 3: proposed to you, and then marry you. The black man
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  Speaker 3: is going to shock up with you and play house
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  Speaker 3: with you.
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  Speaker 2: Now, Lena, we're being fair.
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  Speaker 1: If you were selling a car right, right, and I
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  Speaker 1: listened the way and I and I prefaced the car.
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  Speaker 1: This car does this, and this car does that, you're
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  Speaker 1: saying to me that one product is superior, right, And
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  Speaker 1: I know you.
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  Speaker 2: Got your.
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  Speaker 1: I can't say this is my experiences. Okay, We're gonna
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  Speaker 1: get to your experiences later. If you were blindly selling
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  Speaker 1: a product, it's clearly by the definition and her description
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  Speaker 1: and the things she asserts as positive aspects, she's saying
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  Speaker 1: one product is better than another.
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  Speaker 4: Right.
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  Speaker 5: But the point is, I think that there are differences,
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  Speaker 5: and I don't think there's anything wrong with pointing those out.
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  Speaker 5: I did not hear her say white men are better.
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  Speaker 5: Maybe she's as I did say that. I have to
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  Speaker 5: hear the whole thing, then, because the part that I
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  Speaker 5: heard she didn't say.
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  Speaker 2: Let me tell you.
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  Speaker 5: All I can say is this, Okay, let me ask
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  Speaker 5: for Junius Skip and d L how many white men
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  Speaker 5: have you dated? How many black men have you dated?
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  Speaker 6: But it does mean something.
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  Speaker 5: Hold on, hold on the point I'm trying to make
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  Speaker 5: is she was giving her experience as a woman. Now,
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  Speaker 5: we all know in this room, as adults, being honest,
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  Speaker 5: that we are different when we are dating or when
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  Speaker 5: we're talking to the person that we're into. So you
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  Speaker 5: can't just like I. And the first thing I said
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  Speaker 5: was I would never say all black men. I would
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  Speaker 5: never say all white men. And you agreed with that.
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  Speaker 5: So I'm saying what you can do is say, you
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  Speaker 5: know what her experience is saying all black men do say,
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  Speaker 5: and how the women it's not true.
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  Speaker 1: What I can say emphatically is this, she is described
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  Speaker 1: me as as described She is saying that white men
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  Speaker 1: are superior. She's saying it now she doesn't have to
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  Speaker 1: put a fine point at it. But if everything she
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  Speaker 1: is talking about she lies the attributes of that means
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  Speaker 1: she has affinity for those things.
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  Speaker 6: Either that or she's making a comparison.
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  Speaker 5: And I in my mind, okay, well, I'm not going
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  Speaker 5: to say I like black men or white men better.
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  Speaker 5: But what I can tell you is some of the
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  Speaker 5: examples that she gave from my experience as a black
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  Speaker 5: single woman.
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  Speaker 2: I know to be true. So let's just say this.
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  Speaker 1: So when white black she's married, she wouldn't be dating.
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  Speaker 1: When a black man says this, oh they're better, They're softer,
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  Speaker 1: they're more supportive.
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  Speaker 2: It is he he is saying.
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  Speaker 1: If I heard a black man reverse it, if it
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  Speaker 1: were just a black man he would describe her, I
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  Speaker 1: would say just what I'm saying. Now, he's saying white
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  Speaker 1: women are better. This woman is clearly saying that, in
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  Speaker 1: her estimation, the things she finds attractive in a mate
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  Speaker 1: are more inclined to be a white man.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, which is superior.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, I'm not gonna say I agree with that's what
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  Speaker 5: she said, and if she is, it's fine. But what
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  Speaker 5: I can say for me is that the experiences in
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  Speaker 5: the comparison that she is making between black men and
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  Speaker 5: white men.
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  Speaker 6: I know for a fact to be true. Okay, I'm
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  Speaker 6: not saving all of that.
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  Speaker 1: The way that that woman talks the white dudes she
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  Speaker 1: talked to work at pet boys.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just saying, so a woman said this.
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  Speaker 3: You asked, what's the difference between dating some black men
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  Speaker 3: and the white man.
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  Speaker 4: Well, the white.
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  Speaker 3: Man is going to call you and invite you out.
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  Speaker 3: The black man is gonna text you, good morning, beautiful, Hello, gorgeous,
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  Speaker 3: what you're doing. The white man is going to take
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  Speaker 3: you to a very nice dinner and pay for it.
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  Speaker 3: The black man is going to ask you what you're cooking?
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  Speaker 4: Can I come over?
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  Speaker 3: The white man is going to take you to get
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  Speaker 3: your tire fixed and pay for it. The black man
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  Speaker 3: is going to tell you you need to get your
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  Speaker 3: tire fixed. The white man is going to buy you
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  Speaker 3: a very special gift for your birthday. The black man
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  Speaker 3: is going to disappear and call you after your birthday.
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  Speaker 3: The white man is going to be very impressed by
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  Speaker 3: your education and your personal accomplishments. The black man is
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  Speaker 3: going to be intimidated by your education and your personal accomplishments.
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  Speaker 3: The white man is going to raise his kid, take
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  Speaker 3: care of his kids, spend quality time with his kids.
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  Speaker 3: The black man is going to get your pregnant and
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  Speaker 3: abandon you and the kid. The white man wants a
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  Speaker 3: relationship that leads to marriage and family. The black man
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  Speaker 3: wants a situationship that leads to nothing. The white man
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  Speaker 3: is going to date you, proposed to you, and then
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  Speaker 3: marry you. The black man is going to shack up
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  Speaker 3: with you and play house with you. The white man
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  Speaker 3: is going to be clearing his communication when it comes
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  Speaker 3: to you.
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  Speaker 2: Do you agree, all right? All right, Julius? Do you agree?
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  Speaker 2: Of course not?
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  Speaker 7: I mean the narrative runs along stereotypical lines, which to me,
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  Speaker 7: you know, negates the whole point. Now, I can understand
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  Speaker 7: Jasmin's point, and I'm sure there are situations when those
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  Speaker 7: those things come about, but you can't generalize that all
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  Speaker 7: black men are like that.
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  Speaker 2: Let me let me make you qualifica if something ever happened. Right.
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  Speaker 1: The closest I get to a white woman is a Dominican.
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  Speaker 1: I'm never gonna leave y'all, but y'all stuck with me.
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  Speaker 1: But he did, well, that's two of us. I'm never
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  Speaker 1: I'm never going to betray him like Jazmine Skipping.
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  Speaker 6: I have never betrayed.
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  Speaker 2: A little sampling. You're the best bras.
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  Speaker 6: Emma, emma.
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  Speaker 1: OK, we're going to get to your calls. Final man,
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  Speaker 1: I know you been at the bid so Benedict Arnold
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  Speaker 1: and uh scip. Listen, you're gonna stop putting this false
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  Speaker 1: narrative on me A white woman, Actually, I'm not going
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  Speaker 1: to stop. Ever, I'm not going to start doing it.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not I never.
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  Speaker 2: Oh wait, we got doctor Umar. Hang on a minute.
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  Speaker 2: The question we're asking ladies and gentlemen. A woman says this.
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  Speaker 3: You asked, what's the difference between dating some black men
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  Speaker 3: and the white man.
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  Speaker 2: Well, the white man is going to call you and.
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  Speaker 3: Invite you out. The black man is going to text you,
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  Speaker 3: good morning.
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  Speaker 2: Beautiful, Hello, gorgeous.
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  Speaker 8: What you're doing.
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  Speaker 3: The white man is going to take you to a
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  Speaker 3: very nice dinner and pay for it. The black man
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  Speaker 3: is going to ask you what's you're cooking?
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  Speaker 4: Can I come over?
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  Speaker 3: The white man is going to take you to get
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  Speaker 3: your tire fixed and pay for it. The black man
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  Speaker 3: is going to tell you you need to get your
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  Speaker 3: tire fixed. The white man is going to buy you
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  Speaker 3: a very special gift for your birthday. The black man
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  Speaker 3: is going to disappear and call you after your birthday.
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  Speaker 1: And to be clear, To be clear, I am of
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  Speaker 1: the opinion that whoever says anything like that believes that
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  Speaker 1: that person is superior. Yeah, when I hear football, when
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  Speaker 1: I hear athletes say it, or that matter to me.
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  Speaker 1: When someone is saying these kinds of things, I believe
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  Speaker 1: they think that race is superior.
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  Speaker 2: We're going through the phones.
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  Speaker 9: I think everyone is entitled to their opinion. And I
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  Speaker 9: don't know where she's meeting men at all. Men do
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  Speaker 9: not act like that. You can have a Hispanic man,
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  Speaker 9: Indian man Viingna means it doesn't matter.
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  Speaker 10: If someone is not in the right mental.
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  Speaker 9: Space and they choose to act like an animal, that's
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  Speaker 9: what they're going to do. But when every man, every
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  Speaker 9: black man, is not going to treat a woman like that.
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  Speaker 9: Me personally, I don't get treated like that. It's just
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  Speaker 9: that simple. If I meet somebody and we're not on
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  Speaker 9: the same mental space a black man, I go about
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  Speaker 9: my business. But what she's doing is wasting her opinion
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  Speaker 9: and she's attacking black men like that's kind of crazy.
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  Speaker 6: All men at a point of their lives.
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  Speaker 9: If they're not interested in you in an honest way,
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  Speaker 9: they may act out.
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  Speaker 4: But again that could be a.
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  Speaker 9: White man, Tatian man.
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  Speaker 10: It doesn't matter.
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  Speaker 9: But for her to just attack black men and say
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  Speaker 9: they're not gonna teat you like.
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  Speaker 6: A woman, yes they are.
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  Speaker 10: I'm a witness of it.
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  Speaker 4: I am a black man.
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  Speaker 11: I have seven children.
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  Speaker 4: Fuck up two.
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  Speaker 11: Boards and they're for three separate ladies. Man, and I
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  Speaker 11: never spent one day, one time out of my children's life,
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  Speaker 11: and I really put my children by myself. I'm a
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  Speaker 11: sixty two year old black man. You got to help
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  Speaker 11: that and put it in a a in a pipe
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  Speaker 11: of smoking.
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  Speaker 10: That is totally incorrect.
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  Speaker 9: That is just absolutely the total opposite of what.
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  Speaker 4: A black man would do. I have a black male.
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  Speaker 9: And everything whoever that is particularly wise, I guess stated
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  Speaker 9: it's the opposite for that has been the opposite for me,
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  Speaker 9: and I also have a father that does the opposite.
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  Speaker 9: So I don't know where they're getting this information sound.
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  Speaker 11: But that is totally not true.
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  Speaker 9: You have a lot of black men that take care
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  Speaker 9: of their black lamen. Putting black men in the box
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  Speaker 9: like that, I do not agree with that at all.
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  Speaker 9: That's the problem now, stereotyping black men as they're nothing,
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  Speaker 9: putting them in the box, categorizing them as nothing.
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  Speaker 6: That is wrong.
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  Speaker 1: And I love you guys so much. If the only
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  Speaker 1: thing I could change is your.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know. I just can't think
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  Speaker 2: you're perfect to me.
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  Speaker 6: You do the d l Q is something different than
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  Speaker 6: this whole conversation you can see.
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  Speaker 2: No, No, I mean you are perfect to me. I
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  Speaker 2: don't know.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know, but I'm saying based on what the
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  Speaker 5: D is, your attitude and your answer would be totally different.
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  Speaker 6: Talk to you may not generalize talk too.
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  Speaker 2: Much, is true? Yeah, all of brous I know that
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  Speaker 2: I love talk a lot. Yeah, so you yes, I
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  Speaker 2: would want that. That's it.
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  Speaker 5: If like you know that we want you to shut
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  Speaker 5: up sometimes, if I said we would have a show,
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  Speaker 5: that's not true.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, let's.
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  Speaker 6: Here, come on, skip.
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  Speaker 3: On that.
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  Speaker 6: I don't mean like that. I mean because obviously you're.
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  Speaker 5: Not speaking you're not a professional context.
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  Speaker 6: You're speaking in a personal cons White Walker.
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  Speaker 2: What I'm not going to do is have these kinds.
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  Speaker 5: I'm going to say. The betrayers do not agree. If
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  Speaker 5: she's saying that white men are superior. And I am
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  Speaker 5: not saying that. I am saying all right. A white
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  Speaker 5: man would have never said that.
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  Speaker 2: Your performance. He would need a cut your money off.
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  Speaker 4: You know.
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  Speaker 1: Trumbles a white woman too, and black woman, white man too.
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  Speaker 1: He can't see sam black women, all of them show
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  Speaker 1: the question we're asking. A woman says this all and
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  Speaker 1: Lena and Jazzmin agree with her.
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  Speaker 3: You ask, what's the difference between dating some black men
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  Speaker 3: and the white man. Well, the white man is going
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  Speaker 3: to call you and invite you out. The black man
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  Speaker 3: is going to text you good morning, beautiful, Hello gorge,
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  Speaker 3: just what you're doing. The white man is going to
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  Speaker 3: take you to a very nice dinner and pay for it.
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  Speaker 3: The black man is going to ask you what you're cooking?
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  Speaker 4: Can I come over?
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  Speaker 3: The white man is going to take you to get
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  Speaker 3: your tire fixed and pay for it. The black man
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  Speaker 3: is going to tell you you need to get your
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  Speaker 3: tire fixed. The white man is going to buy you
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  Speaker 3: a very special gift for your birthday. The black man
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  Speaker 3: is going to disappear and call you after your birthday.
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  Speaker 3: The white man is going to be very impressed by
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  Speaker 3: your education and your personal accomplishments. The black man is
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  Speaker 3: going to be intimidated by your education and your personal accomplishments.
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  Speaker 3: The white man is going to race his kid, take
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  Speaker 3: care of his kids, spend quality time with his kids.
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  Speaker 3: The black man is going to get your pregnant and
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  Speaker 3: abandon you and the kid.
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  Speaker 2: From their experisions.
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  Speaker 1: I say, even though I don't know how many island
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  Speaker 1: white men on the island of his Haspian Yola work
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  Speaker 1: to make a Republicans, I'm from New York.
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  Speaker 2: But if they are, that the managers of the resorts.
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  Speaker 2: But let's get to this.
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  Speaker 7: Fish.
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  Speaker 1: They might be at the river, right, you know, we
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  Speaker 1: call them baseball managers.
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  Speaker 2: I come from the island of Manhattankay.
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  Speaker 1: All right, you come from the Bronx, right, No, I'm sorry,
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  Speaker 1: Vantish Harlem, all right, No, I'm from Regular.
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  Speaker 2: Well you snuck over with regular. I suppose unlimited. We
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  Speaker 2: get to we get into the calls. Let's see what
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  Speaker 2: they say.
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  Speaker 9: I love my black brothers, but you know what, more
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  Speaker 9: than likely most of them fits the category that she
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  Speaker 9: just described. She hit it on the nail on the hay.
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  Speaker 9: And I don't want to say all black men, but
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  Speaker 9: the majority that's them.
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  Speaker 11: Man I don't know what she's talking about. She's just
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  Speaker 11: missing a fault a good brother here.
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  Speaker 4: I'll take you seven years off from the old school,
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  Speaker 4: So she is messing around on when the old sorry
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  Speaker 4: pets out here.
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  Speaker 11: There's still some good black brothers out here, and I'm
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  Speaker 11: one of them.
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  Speaker 10: First of all, i don't know who her daddy was,
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  Speaker 10: but I'm gonna tell you something. My daddy married my
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  Speaker 10: mama and had four daughters and took really good care
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  Speaker 10: of his house. And not only did he do that
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  Speaker 10: when he divorced, he still paid the mortgage. So that's
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  Speaker 10: unfortunately that she didn't have that experience. And if she's
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  Speaker 10: dealing with brothers who are not showing her her respect
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  Speaker 10: and her work, that she needs to be on the
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  Speaker 10: lover of the new management and she needs to find
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  Speaker 10: some other people who understand who she is as a
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  Speaker 10: black woman and what she attributes to the world. Because
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  Speaker 10: if she hasn't found that, and she's talking about black
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  Speaker 10: men don't do this, and you know they they leave
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  Speaker 10: and they don't respect you and they are intimidated by
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  Speaker 10: your education, then she's dealing with some sorry brothers.
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  Speaker 4: I'm just saying I totally disagree. Mostly we are gentlemen,
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  Speaker 4: and we know how to take care of business. We
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  Speaker 4: know how to take care of women, and we don't
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  Speaker 4: well I don't. I don't do them wrong. I like
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  Speaker 4: doing things for women. I'm talking about emotionally and everything.
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  Speaker 4: Anything that they need that's within reasons.
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  Speaker 6: I agree.
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  Speaker 9: And the brothers wondering while we go, you know, outside
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  Speaker 9: the box, because they don't they don't have enough of
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  Speaker 9: respect the actions are.
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  Speaker 4: We okay, you know the things that we need. Do
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  Speaker 4: you need help with them?
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  Speaker 10: But I'll agree with.
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