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Mistakes Were Made · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: Peaks to the plan. This Ch'allamagne of God. Here.
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  Speaker 2: Before we get into today's episode, we've got to celebrate
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  Speaker 2: the Black Effect Podcast Network. It's turning five years old, man,
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  Speaker 2: five years of powerful voices, unforgettable moments in the community
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  Speaker 2: that keeps growing.
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  Speaker 1: This is the power of the platform. Now let's get
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  Speaker 1: into it. Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production
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  Speaker 1: of iHeartRadio and the Black Effect Network. Talk Talk to We're.
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  Speaker 3: Just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talks.
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  Speaker 1: What's up, y'all, it's your girl, a j Holiday, what's
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  Speaker 1: up Tandam.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, y'all, it's big Tamavam. I love y'all so so
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  Speaker 3: very much. I miss y'all. I'm glad y'all came back
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  Speaker 3: this week. How is your weekend? AJ girl.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't do much this weekend. I really laid in
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  Speaker 1: the bed all day Saturday and it felt really good.
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  Speaker 1: Ooh him in the best days. Yes, I'm in a
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  Speaker 1: good mood this week.
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  Speaker 3: I don't.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not letting shit bother me. Is mother little shit
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  Speaker 1: got me? Uh, I would be going nuts otherwise, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm not. Yeah. So I got some much needed rest
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  Speaker 1: and I miss the sun. That's about it. I don't
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  Speaker 1: be getting enough Vitamin D.
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  Speaker 3: I have to take it orally because I'm just not
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  Speaker 3: getting enough.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I do take I take some, you know daily
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  Speaker 1: when I remember, daily when I remember, but usually usually
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  Speaker 1: I take my vitamin D. But you know a lot
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  Speaker 1: of times i'd be having to put my vitamins in
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  Speaker 1: the bed with me, so the bed. Yeah, so as
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  Speaker 1: soon as I wake up, I just roll over and
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  Speaker 1: take them.
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  Speaker 3: And we are not our parents. They at least put
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  Speaker 3: it beside business, put it in the billow case.
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  Speaker 1: I don't got no nightstand. Oh I do, but it's
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  Speaker 1: like on the other side of the bed. But this
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  Speaker 1: is laziness, right, because really I should just get the
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  Speaker 1: fuck up out the bed and go in the cabinet
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  Speaker 1: and take the vitamins.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, like adult.
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  Speaker 1: It eating a bed until I feel my shit moving
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  Speaker 1: to get on to get up.
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  Speaker 4: To use the bathroom, because it's usually like as soon
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  Speaker 4: as I take all this stuff.
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  Speaker 1: Probably thirty minutes later I use a bathroom. So I
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  Speaker 1: take all the shit and then I scroll until I
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  Speaker 1: got to take a ship.
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  Speaker 3: And you scroll while you taking a shit.
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  Speaker 1: Exactly, legs numb, just get up. Yesterday, I was watching
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  Speaker 1: this YouTube thing. This like mindset change, because my only
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  Speaker 1: goal right now is discipline. I was telling my mama
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  Speaker 1: how like our whole family just lack discipline. I don't
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  Speaker 1: ever recall. And this is how you be successful, right,
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  Speaker 1: doing the same shit every fucking.
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  Speaker 3: Day, get a routine.
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  Speaker 1: That's the hard part, any fucking discipline about shit. I
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  Speaker 1: wanted your free spirit. Yeah, I know that too. I
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  Speaker 1: don't like being tied down to a thing either, because
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  Speaker 1: it's like I get bored real fast. Like I can
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  Speaker 1: get a routine going, but I'm gonna get bored with
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  Speaker 1: that ship real quick.
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  Speaker 3: Me too, Yeah, so me too. It's like, but remember
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  Speaker 3: the food analogy that I gave in season one. Niggas
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  Speaker 3: get tired of the srip. Niggas want to slice a
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  Speaker 3: pizza good day.
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  Speaker 1: Literally, man, I just gotta Yeah, that's my only goal.
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  Speaker 1: I gotta get more disciplined. Like I really should not
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  Speaker 1: have laid into bed this Saturday. But sometimes when your
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  Speaker 1: body tell you to be still, just do it.
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  Speaker 3: If you don't, it will do it for you. You will.
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  Speaker 1: And last week, multiple days last week, I just I
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  Speaker 1: was feeling real exhausted, like real life exhaustion. I'm like sick,
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  Speaker 1: but like just the tire. Yeah. Like you know how
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  Speaker 1: you be like tired but you can't go to sleep.
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  Speaker 1: It's that feeling all day long.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and that sucks.
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  Speaker 1: Mm hmm.
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  Speaker 3: Let me tell you, I relax. What you me tell you?
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  Speaker 3: I would have did tell my mother. I tell y'all,
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  Speaker 3: my mom was moving. Why I drove a big truck. Y'all.
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  Speaker 3: I drove a forty foot truck. Y'all couldn't tell me
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  Speaker 3: I didn't have big nuts. I was backing that sit
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  Speaker 3: up like a grown man. I was like one hand, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I was yeah, one hand in that motherfucker. I rolled
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  Speaker 3: down the window.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, howdy to my sister. Now she thinks
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  Speaker 1: she can go get a CDL.
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  Speaker 3: Child my CDL Like I was whipping that shit. I'm
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  Speaker 3: so proud of myself for doing that because I was
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  Speaker 3: so scared that shit ain't no hoe and either in
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  Speaker 3: my girl.
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  Speaker 1: I have a lot of anxiety when I drive big
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  Speaker 1: like commercial vehicles, but I've definitely driven a big ass
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  Speaker 1: box truck before.
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  Speaker 3: I'm bitch, See that's crazy. A mountain is crazy because
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  Speaker 3: what the fuck I just drove it, like about four
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  Speaker 3: miles each way. You feel accomplished, super accomplished. It wasn't
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  Speaker 3: the space in between. It was the turns. It was
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  Speaker 3: the turns and backing that bitch and stuff like that.
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  Speaker 3: That's what made me feel like a boss, yo. But
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  Speaker 3: that was it. That was my weekend. Moving. Moving is
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  Speaker 3: so stressful. Oh my god. If you could get through
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  Speaker 3: a move with a person and not argue with them,
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  Speaker 3: at least once you are a boss, you the true boss.
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  Speaker 1: I have never had anybody help me move and not
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  Speaker 1: argue with them, like now that I think about it. Anytime.
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  Speaker 1: Usually if I'm moving myself, I'm cool. If it's mover's
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  Speaker 1: doing it, I'm cool. But if I'm asking somebody for
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  Speaker 1: help to move me, it's almost always a fight. It's
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  Speaker 1: usually a nigga too, and it's the nigga. You fucking
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  Speaker 1: why is that?
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, but you're gonna fight with that motherfucker.
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  Speaker 3: Every time I got into it with a nigga, I wasn't.
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  Speaker 3: I got into hot with higher help. I had to
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  Speaker 3: apologize to him.
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  Speaker 1: Oh no, I ain't get it. Never got into what
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  Speaker 1: hired help. But like man, he.
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  Speaker 3: Told me, he lost, Like he told me, he put
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  Speaker 3: the screws in the bag. And clearly the bag is empty.
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  Speaker 3: Where are the screws? So I was like kind of
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  Speaker 3: getting a little spicy with that, nigga. But turns out
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  Speaker 3: the part that I was talking about didn't have no screws.
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  Speaker 3: But why did you say? Why'd you say you put
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  Speaker 3: him in the bag. Why you didn't say there was
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  Speaker 3: no screws?
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  Speaker 1: You know, because when you're moving a whole bunch of shit,
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  Speaker 1: you forget what what had a screw and what didn't
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  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, But that's why you shaid,
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  Speaker 1: tape the screws to whatever you unscrew.
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  Speaker 3: That's what I do. I always put him in a
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  Speaker 3: ziplock bag and tape it to whatever it is. In
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  Speaker 3: that particular bag he took down being over zealous fast.
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  Speaker 3: He took it down before I was in there, and
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  Speaker 3: I was like, well, where are the screws? He said,
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  Speaker 3: I put it in the other bag. Oh, So I.
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  Speaker 1: Was like, assume there was screws for it? Yeah, because
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  Speaker 1: he said that.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah. So I end up apologizing though I did.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, I'm sorry for the manner in which
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  Speaker 3: I spoke to you.
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  Speaker 1: Girl. The one time I actually hired movers. Actually, I've
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  Speaker 1: had people move like up, like like my bed right now.
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  Speaker 1: I had somebody had to move that shit in here
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  Speaker 1: because it was that fucking heavy. But the one time
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  Speaker 1: I actually hired movers to move all my shit is
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  Speaker 1: when I was moving from Saint Louis to Atlanta. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: he's from Atlanta to Saint Louis and the guy I
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  Speaker 1: hired was supposed to be a moving company. Why the
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  Speaker 1: fuck does nigga showed up by himself. He showed up
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  Speaker 1: to move a two bedroom townhouse by himself, So doesn't
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  Speaker 1: that mean I had to help him? Right? Plus I
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  Speaker 1: get his nigga a bicycle, and he still wanted to
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  Speaker 1: charge me the full price of the move.
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  Speaker 3: Because you gave him a bike because you had to help. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: you wasn't gonna.
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  Speaker 1: Move all this stuff in the alloted time I needed.
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  Speaker 3: Like how you just gonna move my couch.
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  Speaker 1: Exactly? I had to, So basically you were hired to help.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not giving you the same price as somebody who
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  Speaker 1: comes as a moving company with multiple people in a
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  Speaker 1: fucking truck, are you s right? And I don't have
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  Speaker 1: to do nothing but standing there and supervise. So I
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  Speaker 1: already packed my whole house up, and now I gotta
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  Speaker 1: help you put the shit. Girl. I was living you
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  Speaker 1: hear me? Yeah, And I gave you a bike right.
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  Speaker 3: Look out in here. Shit, I would I would pay half.
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna pay you half exactly. Yes, we had to
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  Speaker 3: argue about it, but that's what went down. Like you
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  Speaker 3: are you stupid people?
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  Speaker 1: People will really try to get over on you, man,
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  Speaker 1: Oh yes they will.
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  Speaker 3: You don't do something, they will get over on you.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta say, you know. That's another one of
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  Speaker 1: my goals is to fucking say something. There's times in
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  Speaker 1: my life, my life where some shit was happening and
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  Speaker 1: I just didn't say nothing about it. I'm gonna give
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  Speaker 1: you all a perfect example.
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  Speaker 3: I got one too.
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  Speaker 1: Did I tell a story before? When I was in
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  Speaker 1: I was in public. So when I lived in Charlotte,
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  Speaker 1: the public's on South Tryon and the guy in the
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  Speaker 1: seafood department he had his bare hands and the cooler
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  Speaker 1: like fondling the fucking shrimp, like just mushing it around
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  Speaker 1: with his hands, bare hand when you set it in
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  Speaker 1: the in the fruit and vegetable section. I could see
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  Speaker 1: him diagonally. I'm watching him like, why the fuck is
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  Speaker 1: you doing that? Because in my mind, you just jacked
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  Speaker 1: off in your hand and you fucking stirred it up
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  Speaker 1: in the shrimp with no gloves on, right, right, So
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  Speaker 1: I wanted to walk up and confront him about it.
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  Speaker 1: He saw me see him, and he stopped. I circled
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  Speaker 1: back around and I saw him doing it some more.
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  Speaker 1: That's how I know he was putting something in that
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  Speaker 1: fucking shrimp, right, because it's the cook shrimp, not the
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  Speaker 1: raw shrimp. It's like, you know, like the boiled, peel
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  Speaker 1: and eat shrimp.
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  Speaker 3: He was, Oh, so it's already cooked and you got
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  Speaker 3: your dirty hands in it.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, that's so. I'm like, wait, what like nobody's washing
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  Speaker 1: the cook shrimp. You know what I'm saying. So I
• 9:50
  Speaker 1: waiting until I left the store and I ran into
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  Speaker 1: like a black woman who was a manager, and I
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  Speaker 1: told her what I saw instead of addressing him directly.
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  Speaker 1: So from that point on, from that point on, I said,
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  Speaker 1: if I see somebody doing some shit, I'm asking wody
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  Speaker 1: doing it right then and there. I'm not gonna be
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  Speaker 1: passive aggressive and go tell tell a fucking manager just anything.
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  Speaker 1: That's an example, Mitch, I'm saying something you'll ask because
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  Speaker 1: why the fuck is you doing that? I need to
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  Speaker 1: know because I never got the answer, Like I never
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  Speaker 1: I needed him to say. I needed him. I needed
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  Speaker 1: to see him like get scared, right, because then I
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  Speaker 1: would know he was on some bullshit. But I'll never
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  Speaker 1: know now.
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  Speaker 3: No. I was at Domino's Pizza and I walked out
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  Speaker 3: because the same little like shelf or like where they're
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  Speaker 3: making the slide and the pieces down where they're making it.
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  Speaker 3: She got her cell phone sitting on it. What you're dirty?
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  Speaker 3: Do you know how dirty your cell phone is? And
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  Speaker 3: you got it on the feet they shelf that the
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  Speaker 3: pizzas are sliding down because you can't put your phone
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  Speaker 3: away because you a young millennial, are gen zer and
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  Speaker 3: you ain't. I know you're not supposed to have your
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  Speaker 3: phone out right now, but yet you got it sitting
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  Speaker 3: up there where the pizzas are being made.
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  Speaker 1: Are the pizzas in the box of the the.
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  Speaker 3: The raw dough, yeah, the raw dough like sliding that
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  Speaker 3: at That's where she got her cell phone.
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  Speaker 1: You ain't asked, You ain't saying to her about it.
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  Speaker 3: I took a picture of her, ask and send it
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  Speaker 3: the Dominoes, the d M Dominoes when I was like,
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  Speaker 3: why the fuck you doing this? So I'm sure this
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  Speaker 3: is I'm sure. I was like, I'm sure this is
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  Speaker 3: what you train people to do. You know what Domino
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  Speaker 3: said back Now, the motherfucking thing. They ain't opened my
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  Speaker 3: DM yet. I should have said, you know.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta at them on Twitter. Girl, You would have
• 11:37
  Speaker 1: had to have posted that picture on Twitter and at them, because.
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  Speaker 3: It ain't too late.
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  Speaker 1: This is recently.
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  Speaker 3: I'm be like, y'all ignored my d M. So I
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  Speaker 3: guess I have to bring it here, and it's the goal.
• 11:52
  Speaker 1: You just want to respond at this point, right, yeah.
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  Speaker 3: At this point, I don't want no more pizza from
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  Speaker 3: your motherfucking ass. Goodness. Oh and another thing, let me
• 12:05
  Speaker 3: just say this one so we can get into scene
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  Speaker 3: this because we've been talking ten minutes already, y'all. So
• 12:10
  Speaker 3: you know how they had those Asian reflexology massage pallors, right,
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  Speaker 3: and then you can get like a discounted massage, right,
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  Speaker 3: especial massage all over, like especially in New York that everywhere,
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  Speaker 3: you know, and it don't be like some of them,
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  Speaker 3: be like real, like I'm assuming a real massage pallor
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  Speaker 3: and nothing shady, right, so my back was hurting so
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  Speaker 3: bad the other night, and I was like, let me
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  Speaker 3: see if one of those are over here. I'm in Columbia,
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  Speaker 3: South Carolina. So I found one. It was like one
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  Speaker 3: point two miles away. I was like, oh, this is perfect.
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  Speaker 3: So I called and I asked and had appointment. They said, yes,
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  Speaker 3: you can come at seven thirty. So I went there
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  Speaker 3: and it just looked a little. I was like, you know,
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  Speaker 3: I'm not gonna judge my back hurt. I might get
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  Speaker 3: the best massage in my life. Right, So I go in.
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  Speaker 3: The bitch don't speak no English, right, she don't speak
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  Speaker 3: no English whatsoever. Okay, this is America. There's a lot
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  Speaker 3: of people in this country who speak a different languages. Whatever.
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  Speaker 3: This bitch gonna ask me to pay her right then
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  Speaker 3: before the massage. For the massage, I was like, that's
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  Speaker 3: some whole shit. Yeah, that's why I was like, this
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  Speaker 3: is very prostituted. So I was like, hmm, okay. I
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  Speaker 3: was like, it ain't but sixty dollars. I'll give it
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  Speaker 3: to her before. It's fine. So I give it to
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  Speaker 3: her before and then she pointed at the tip right
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  Speaker 3: in a tip. I was like, all right, now, I
• 13:34
  Speaker 3: was like, I'm not gonna give you a tip before
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  Speaker 3: the service. Not only did she not only did she
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  Speaker 3: point at the tip spot, did she pointed to the
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  Speaker 3: sign that said twenty to thirty percent is highly recommended.
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  Speaker 3: Her suggested she's gonna point to that sign and I
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  Speaker 3: was like, girl, no, I'm not giving you until she's like,
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  Speaker 3: no English. I was like, what language do you speak?
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  Speaker 3: And she had like she don't understand that because I
• 14:04
  Speaker 3: would send you a translation, bitch that I'm not sitting
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  Speaker 3: on old tip. No tip, no, like no.
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  Speaker 1: Way is universal?
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  Speaker 3: Right, So she got I guess she was kind of mad.
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  Speaker 3: So she started digging my el her elbow and my
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  Speaker 3: motherfucking back. That shit hurt the whole sixty dollars wasted, y'all.
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  Speaker 3: That bitch hurt my back. I was like, oh, I
• 14:25
  Speaker 3: know hours universal, bitch, you know what our me? Oh
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  Speaker 3: that hurts, and she like, yeah, bitch, no tip. I
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  Speaker 3: was gonna hurt the whole motherfucking time. Shame. I should
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  Speaker 3: have said something, but I just yeah, I'll never go
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  Speaker 3: back there. Then she kept answering the phone during my massage.
• 14:50
  Speaker 3: Not a black Asian giving a service on sorry, And
• 14:55
  Speaker 3: then she and she was putting the old speaker for all.
• 14:57
  Speaker 3: I was like, this is the most gato beside I've
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  Speaker 3: ever had my life.
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: Man Asian people when they talk, it's sound like an argument.
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  Speaker 1: God damn, calmed down. That's just like the regular tone.
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  Speaker 1: It's not like an argument every.
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  Speaker 3: Time they talk about right, let's get this in your.
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  Speaker 1: Shame all right? Oh let me but let me just
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: add this all right quick. Speaking of getting hurt, y'all,
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: I went to the dentist last week. Floss, y'all, floss,
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  Speaker 1: get a water pick when I tell y'all, the bitch
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  Speaker 1: hurt me so bad last week at the fucking dentnist office.
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  Speaker 1: I canceled. I had I need to get a feeling.
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  Speaker 1: I canceled it. I ain't coming back for some months.
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  Speaker 1: I need a break from you.
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  Speaker 3: Bitch.
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  Speaker 1: She really like hurt me. But I had like a piece,
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: like a callous like you know, like a little callous
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  Speaker 1: build up in between my bottom, Yeah, plaque build up.
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  Speaker 1: That shit has been there since the last time I
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: went to the dinnist. The last dinnist couldn't get it out.
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  Speaker 1: This bitch did so.
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  Speaker 3: She did a great job.
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  Speaker 1: I'm now cleaning my teeth because it's right smooth.
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  Speaker 3: Between mm hmm, but don't feel nice like when you
• 16:06
  Speaker 3: rub your tongue after it's freshly clean.
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  Speaker 1: But ooh, like to get underneath your teeth because that's
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: the importance of flossing, because all that food gets underneath
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: your gum line. Yeah, you gotta get up underneath there,
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  Speaker 1: so get the water pick. Anyway, Yeah, that was it.
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  Speaker 1: Do your dinnis appointment?
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  Speaker 3: Yes, a couple of weeks ago.
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  Speaker 1: Have you have you done yet? I didn't mind mm hmm.
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  Speaker 3: It ain't time for mind yet.
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  Speaker 1: I just went your nasty asses, go get the clean.
• 16:37
  Speaker 3: We get like it's this nigga, y'all. He fine as
• 16:40
  Speaker 3: hell from Charlotte and that's my nigga. But he got
• 16:42
  Speaker 3: a laughing yellow, laughing taffy right at the bottom of
• 16:45
  Speaker 3: his teeth. That's what it looked like. You know.
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: I associate that type of ship with all types of
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: like illnesses, like I don't know, because you can really
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: die from class and stuff. Yeah, you can die from
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: gum disease. For like, why are you you don't see
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: that you don't feel that that is that comes from
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: not brushing. Also, just not brushing your teeth.
• 17:08
  Speaker 3: Not good and then just letting us sit there. Why
• 17:11
  Speaker 3: does she did look like a mouthguard? All right?
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: All right, let's get in a stupid internet news. All right.
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: So there is a model. I don't know if you
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: guys saw this, So you saw this tammy this model
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: on she took to TikTok, Instagram, whichever platform of her
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: choice to go off on Angel Reese and Sunny Lee
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: being Victoria Angels this year and the Runway show. She said,
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: instead of real Runway queens, let modeling be its own thing.
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: How do you feel about that? So she's a model
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: and she's upset because Angel I don't know what Sunny
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: Lee does. What is what is her with professional? She in?
• 17:57
  Speaker 3: I don't know. But she's a gymnast.
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: She's a gymnast. Okay, so she's actually an Olympic gymnast.
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: So she and Andel Reese were both in the fashion
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: show in New York City, and this one model didn't
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: like it. She didn't like that they were on the
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: right way.
• 18:17
  Speaker 3: But I just don't understand. Like I said, I don't
• 18:23
  Speaker 3: want to downplay modeling, but it ain't like she doing
• 18:29
  Speaker 3: brain surgery. Like it's all you gotta do is put
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: on some ship walk. Like, so you're a model now
• 18:37
  Speaker 3: you know.
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: It's like I can do your job, you can't do mine.
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: Can you shoot basketball? Can you? Can you cook dope?
• 18:48
  Speaker 3: Can you cook dope? That's the inside, y'all.
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: But yeah, like, girl, are you an Olympic gymnast? Because
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: soon he can do your job, but you can't. Okay,
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: you cannot play basketball like Angel Rees Okay, but she
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: can model like you because she's hella tall. Fine, she
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: got a little bump bump in the back, and she's pretty.
• 19:13
  Speaker 3: I mean. And then you know, the modeling world is changing.
• 19:17
  Speaker 3: It's more inclusive. You have lines like Fincy that have
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: models of all sizes, in all shapes and all walks.
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: So like, girl, you don't. It's not a monolith people.
• 19:27
  Speaker 3: Anybody can be a model as long as they are
• 19:30
  Speaker 3: hired to walk their ass down that shit with whatever
• 19:33
  Speaker 3: they put on. So sorry, booth, she.
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: Said, it says with nearly four years in industry, her
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: name is I guess her last name is. Her name
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: is Avery Hussleman. Husslemen argue that such crossovers undermine the
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: hard earned opportunities for trained models. No one would let
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: a model play in the Wnba. Yes you could if
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: you could play, Okay, you could do both. Obviously, no
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: one would let models go compete for Olympic gold, she
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: said in the two minute rant. So my question for
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: you casting, why are we letting Angel Reese and Sonny
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: Lee walk the Victoria's Secret run Way. She extended her
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: critique to influencers, calling the decisions beyond unfair to those
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: who've worked their butts off to break into VS castings.
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: Here's the thing y'all get yelled at, screamed at, like
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: that's the bunt of y'all fucking job. Because we watched
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: who wants what's the tarbing show? American Model?
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: We wished.
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: All I saw was abuse, That's all I saw. Okay,
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: pretty faces getting abused. Motherfuckers forced you to cut your
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: hair off to fit whatever.
• 20:40
  Speaker 3: You know, tough industry. Honestly, they be getting you gotta
• 20:44
  Speaker 3: have feet, skin, Yeah, you gotta have some thing spin.
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure Angel Reese didn't get hazed. So maybe
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: that's the hard work she's referring to. You know what
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, I'm not saying that it's easy.
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: Yeah, because I mean I guess that they have to
• 21:01
  Speaker 3: walk mm Hm, you know a certain way and pose
• 21:04
  Speaker 3: a certain way, But I still don't feel like it's
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: so much that anybody couldn't do it.
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: Now the bitches up there in knock Kneed. Now you
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: get Charles and miss what's her name up there, that's
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: a little bit more.
• 21:21
  Speaker 3: It just depends on who line they walking for. Ship
• 21:25
  Speaker 3: her girl. It's a dock deed bitch right there that
• 21:28
  Speaker 3: need representation for out of here? Uh Halseleman. So like
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: go By, I'm sorry.
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: Did you did you see the Turkey leg Hut ship
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: that's going on?
• 21:47
  Speaker 3: What is going on with that? Because I saw people
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: comparing them to James Saint Patrick and what was her name?
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: Tasha Saint Patrick here, just tearing the whole shit down basically, yeah,
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: like so so right now, so I don't know have
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: you seen the Okay, let me let me back up
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: a little bit. So the Turkey Leg Hut owners, the
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: husband and wife they are no longer together, Okay, So
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: it's Nick Nikia Holmes and I can't even remember what
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: the husband's name is. I don't they're not together, and
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: I want to say he's in jail because I'm I'm
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: pretty sure he torched the place in a couple other businesses, right,
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: but apparently she's with another guy. So this is a
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: headline from the Daily Mail. It says Nikia Holmes Homes
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: forty five, is accused of hindering the apprehension of a
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: known felon identified as Jonathan Salazon, who was wanted for
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: allegedly beating his ex girlfriend with a tire iron and
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: holding her captive for six hours. And this video out there,
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: and there's before and after pictures of what this girl
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: would normally look like on a day to day basis
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: and how she was looking after he abused her. Right,
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: so then he said. Deputies said season was captured after
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: fleeing holmes holmes home in the Bridgeland area of West
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: Harris County. That's uh Houston, where he had been hiding.
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: According to Harris County court records, Holmes has been charged
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: with one count of hindering apprehension, of apprehension or prosecution
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: of unknown felon, a serious offense that prosecutors say unfolded
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: at her own home. She was taken into custody by
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: the Harris County Sheriff's Office and booked into jail before
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: being released Thursday morning. So Deputies with the Harris County
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: Sheriff's Office said they were staking out Holmes's residence in
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: the Bridgeland area of the city when they received a
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: tip that wanted suspect was hiding inside. So anyway, you're
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: what an abuser? This man is wanted by the police
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: for beaten the shit.
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: Almost death that woman. He beat her with a tire iron, like.
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: He tried to feel recognizable, yes, and then there's video
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: of him like she's he's like kicking kicking her ferociously
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: on a sofa, Like there's video out there of him,
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: you know, doing this abuse and it's and it's crazy, like,
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: how could you I could not be with a man
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: who would do something like that to another woman.
• 24:25
  Speaker 3: No, because when.
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and her mug and her mug shot, her lip
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: looked a little swollen.
• 24:37
  Speaker 3: It might have started already.
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you might have popped your ass a little quick,
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: little one too.
• 24:41
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna taking something. If you hiding a nigga in
• 24:45
  Speaker 3: your house, all right, if you listening to the sound
• 24:47
  Speaker 3: of my voice, this is God speaking through me. If
• 24:50
  Speaker 3: you are hiding a nigga in your house right now
• 24:54
  Speaker 3: from the police, I need you to get him out
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: of there right now. You're going to jail. You're going
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: to just like that girl who had Derek Groves ass
• 25:02
  Speaker 3: from New Orleans hid up in her her Atlanta apartment.
• 25:06
  Speaker 3: What is going on with y'all? Ain't no dick that good?
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: Yes, now you're going to jail.
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: You're going to jail. Imagine in your house arguing with
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: a nigga, You hiding nigga. You need to be the
• 25:23
  Speaker 3: most quietest motherfucker around, but you here arguing like you legal,
• 25:28
  Speaker 3: because that's not That's how he got caught the police.
• 25:30
  Speaker 3: Somebody called the police because they was over there arguing.
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and somebody called the police here, and like the fuck,
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: what is happening?
• 25:38
  Speaker 3: I don't want no dick that good?
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: What is a esteem?
• 25:41
  Speaker 3: Like?
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like this is I always
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: you always have to go back like what is this
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: person's the girl with turkey? Like hut girl? You know
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Beautiful that God abused beautiful girl too.
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: What what's up with y'all? What's up with the steam
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: that you allow a person like this to have access
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: to you?
• 26:00
  Speaker 3: Right?
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You can have all the
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: money in the world like you see people with certain
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: like type of niggas is like, why something you are
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: not loving on yourself and you looking for something outside
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: of you.
• 26:14
  Speaker 3: Right when you have devil a convicted feeling that's hiding
• 26:19
  Speaker 3: from the police and your shit, or a nigga who
• 26:21
  Speaker 3: bet a woman nearly all to death with a time
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: I'm praying for y'all.
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I couldn't doubt that the ex husband probably used
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: to put hands on her eyes too, because he seemed
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: a little like little sassy. You know what I'm saying.
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: I'm really afraid of the sassy men because I believe
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: often times they really don't even like women for real,
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: so that's why they be so aggravated. Niggas be battling
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: the sexuality.
• 26:44
  Speaker 3: So they just be mad.
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: So maybe she's used to meaning abusive relationships too, I
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: don't know, but it ain't nothing to think about it.
• 26:53
  Speaker 3: She got some time to think about it because she's
• 26:55
  Speaker 3: about to sit in there jail. No, she already she
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: already bond out.
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: Mm hmm. They bonded out.
• 27:05
  Speaker 3: Terrible, terrible, you know what. I just want her to
• 27:08
  Speaker 3: turn it around and open up another restaurant, because her
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: restaurant was so successful. Everybody liked it all across the country.
• 27:14
  Speaker 3: People were supporting that restaurant, you know. So I just
• 27:17
  Speaker 3: want her to get it together. We're gonna pray for
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: your sister, that you find your way back, all right.
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: When I used to eat, hold on, when I used
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: to in poetry, I always wanted to open a turkey
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: I won't tell y'all name, but I wanted to open
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: a place like only selling turkey wings. That's one of
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: the things I missed, turkey wings. Like, oh yeah, girl
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: with all that onions and peppers on its fucking turkey wings.
• 27:41
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm here for it, all right. So I don't
• 27:44
  Speaker 3: know if y'all saw this, but there was a woman
• 27:46
  Speaker 3: she shared an emotional moment when she realized her husband
• 27:49
  Speaker 3: did not want her, and it's said it quotes her sister.
• 27:52
  Speaker 3: He looked at other girls, other girls like he was
• 27:55
  Speaker 3: embarrassed to me. And she posted a video of her
• 27:57
  Speaker 3: and her husband there almosten they seem to be on
• 27:59
  Speaker 3: a cruise, and she said, this is a day I
• 28:03
  Speaker 3: realized he doesn't want me, and he just looks a
• 28:05
  Speaker 3: little frustrated he's not paying her much attention. But she
• 28:09
  Speaker 3: looked like she might be a little annoying right here.
• 28:12
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: If Yeah, she's tugging on his beard and shit. So
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: it's a couple of different things, right, And two things
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: could be true.
• 28:20
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: He could very well may have been acting distant that day.
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: We don't know. That's the only video she posted of
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: him acting a way. There's other videos of him looking
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: like he's having fun, right, right, So maybe she was
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: a little bit intoxicated in that video and being annoying
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: and obnoxious, or like some people, like adults, like to
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: be in the moment, like I like to be in
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: a moment, especially on vacation. Like, bit, why is your
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: phone even working on the cruise? Okay, that's the first
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: thing you spent money for Wi Fi to post content
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: for people who don't even fucking like you in real life, and.
• 28:52
  Speaker 3: They're not here.
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: They not here, you know what I'm saying. So maybe
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: he doesn't want the phone in his face his entire tripe,
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: just wanted to.
• 29:02
  Speaker 3: Relax, or maybe he don't like her motherfucker dance. But
• 29:05
  Speaker 3: it says that he married her that.
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: Same year, right, like the video crying and she was
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: saying how like her home even his homeboys told her,
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: you know, about him. She didn't go into detail really,
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: and I think she already had kids prior to him,
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: and she was saying how she sustained from having sex
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: for two whole years, so when she met him, she
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: really thought that God had sent him.
• 29:29
  Speaker 3: M hm.
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Because she was just trying
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: to clear her energy and then now this man pops up.
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: She was like, I wasn't looking for nobody. He just
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: came out of nowhere, and she just thought he was
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: the one now to be married and feeling like he
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: doesn't like.
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: Her, Well, you know what, they might just be going
• 29:43
  Speaker 3: through a rough patch. I've never seen one marriage that
• 29:45
  Speaker 3: existed where they was just in love the whole time,
• 29:48
  Speaker 3: not a single one. So I mean, y'all was coming
• 29:51
  Speaker 3: a little early, but y'all might be able to make
• 29:56
  Speaker 3: it through shit.
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: I don't know. The most disturbing part about this is
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: the comments, Like the things that people are saying is,
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: you know, specifically the men saying how she needs and
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: I saw one of our friends in the comments talk
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: about how she need to lose weight and get herself together.
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: The thing is, y'all, niggas don't be looking at y'allself.
• 30:16
  Speaker 3: Because niggas get there.
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: Yes, she has gained some weight since the wedding, because
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: I went through her Instagram page. It is Kiky, the
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: real Missus Jones. Okay, so missus Jones is not happy
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: with mister Jones. And she had on her wedding dress
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: in one of the videos and it wasn't zipping up
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: in the back. No more so she has gained weight
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: since the actual wedding. Right leationships do that just sometimes
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: to both of them, ne to get together and work out, right,
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: But to have people in the comments saying that that's
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: the reason why this fat ass nigga don't like her.
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: That bothers me a little bit. Okay, yeah, because they
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: both can stand and so can I. Right let me
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: two is a couple pounds. They both can stand it.
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: So to make that the reason why her husband probably
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: doesn't like her is very mean.
• 31:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah it is, okayah, but even don't do it, even
• 31:05
  Speaker 3: if to get in shape, do it for you. Fuck
• 31:09
  Speaker 3: doing it for somebody else, like.
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: When you when you got a partner, like why wouldn't
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: you want to do it? Also do it for your partner?
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: You know, I was having a conversation with one of
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: my friends recently, and he's having a whole lot of
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: health issues and it just sounds like he's trying to
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: blame his ex wife a little bit. And I actually asked, Hi,
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: I'm like, are you blaming your ex wife for your
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: current condition because tensing that she was. Yeah, Well he
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: ain't fat no more because he's hell sick.
• 31:36
  Speaker 3: Oh.
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: He was saying, like when he was bigger, but he didn't,
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: he didn't lose the weight like willingly, Like he got
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: really sick and dropped hell of weight right, like unrecognizable.
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: I'm sure I haven't seen him in person yet. Yeah
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: he hasn't. Yeah, exactly, not healthy weight. So in the
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: midst of a conversation, he was saying, how you know
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: they would work out together, but then she she would stopped.
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: She wasn't being consistent. I said, Okay, what does her
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: mean consistent have to do with you being consistent?
• 32:04
  Speaker 3: I guess me.
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: You are in a partnership. It is like, you know,
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: when you kind of fall off a little bit, your
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: partner should be there to pick you up a little bit.
• 32:10
  Speaker 3: Right, invite the first version.
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: But she's skinny, nigga, you need to work out more
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: than anything. Not to say skinny people don't need to
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: work out, because just because you're skinny doesn't mean you're healthy, right,
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: But you were clearly unhealthy because now it has since
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: caught up.
• 32:25
  Speaker 3: With you and called illness. Mm hmm.
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: So now you want to blame her for not being consistent.
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: You weren't consistent. You lack discipline, You lacked discipline.
• 32:35
  Speaker 3: You're saying, like, y'all, I did that seventy five hard
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: and I did so good, and then I went and
• 32:40
  Speaker 3: did seventy five fact, and now I'm just that yeah again,
• 32:44
  Speaker 3: Like it's so hard to keep that weight off, y'all.
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, but at least, shit, you've done it twice,
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: bitch in the last couple of years. I've done in
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: no time. And one thing I haven't done is gained
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: some extra weight. But a bitch, do not do not
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: be losing. No, I won't say that. As a matter
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: of fact, I have actually lost like fifteen pounds in
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: the last couple of years. Am I have lost weight?
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: It just be looking different every time in coming goes. Yeah,
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: it don't come bright the same it did not, bitch.
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: Be careful, you gotta be careful. Because I really be
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: working on that little pocket of fat underneath the bro
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: like the bra fat. I really hate that shit.
• 33:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that little bulls right there in.
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: The side of the titty like this little yeah.
• 33:29
  Speaker 3: I want it tight right there. No, that missed. It
• 33:34
  Speaker 3: makes me so mad because I ain't got no titties
• 33:36
  Speaker 3: as it is, how I got the nerve to have
• 33:38
  Speaker 3: a little piece of titty on the side.
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: Fat pocket, I hate it, said fat pocket.
• 33:49
  Speaker 3: I always want. I'm about to get my body done fucked.
• 33:52
  Speaker 3: I'm just tired of like yo yo dying and yoyo weight,
• 33:58
  Speaker 3: like gaining weight, losing weight, and wait so hard.
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: You commit, though you will commit, but I think what
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: happens is like you started looking super fun and a
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: bit when I stopped this shit. That's what I'm saying.
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: Like that, that's what a discipline kicks in and that
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: and then like this is just a lifestyle, you know
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I am tired of eating. I'm tired
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: of trying to figure out the fun I'm gonna eat
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: and I barely eat. That is my problem. I don't
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: eat enough.
• 34:22
  Speaker 3: And see I don't get tired.
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: I'm tired to think about what the fuck I'm a
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: cooked to night. That shit really be taking up too
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: much space on my damn brain. So I eat cereal
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: for dinner a lot, which is ain't nothing but fucking carbs,
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: get butter and jelly sandwiches. You a kid, fucking girl,
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: I don't learn. I don't perfect them my boba from
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: the house. I'll be drinking boba tea all fucking date.
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: They're not about starch and sugar. So yeah, I just
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: need to cut the sugar in the bread and I'll
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: be good and eat more protein. But then it's just
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: like salmon doesn't taste good to me anymore.
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: I love salmon. Can this be our episode? We didn't
• 34:58
  Speaker 3: talk forty minutest's I got a dumb bitch story.
• 35:02
  Speaker 4: That why he's fucking stupid. It's a playplay episode, y'all.
• 35:09
  Speaker 4: Let me go turn the light on. We'll have her
• 35:17
  Speaker 4: actual topic for y'all ass next week.
• 35:19
  Speaker 3: Next week, listen, I want to talk about ghosts and
• 35:23
  Speaker 3: ancestors and I want to invite this I want to
• 35:29
  Speaker 3: invite this person on who like really be about their life.
• 35:33
  Speaker 3: So if y'all scary, y'all probably don't want to tune in, But.
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: Like they summons ghost interesting, Why you have to add that?
• 35:47
  Speaker 3: I just I just trug more when they're black.
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: You see, you judge people more when they all right. Yeah,
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: I believe him.
• 36:01
  Speaker 3: Yeah, look at them, I believe him. You know.
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: That was an ongoing argument between me and one of
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: my She's still a friend of my mind, but we
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: don't talk no more. But Sloan Bella, remember the lady
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: Sloan Bello on YouTube, the one yeah like yeah, presenting
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: all the diddy shit. She was saying that this shit
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: was gonna happen before it happened and all that shit.
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: So she's like a psychic on YouTube.
• 36:22
  Speaker 3: Mm hm.
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: So I would tune into slom Bella. My homegirl was
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: tune into this black girl on TikTok. I don't even
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: know her name, and the.
• 36:30
  Speaker 3: Bitch would want to argue with me about who was
• 36:33
  Speaker 3: more tapped in, Like girl what?
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: First of all, like, once you get to a certain
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: level of spirituality, you realize that color like skin tone.
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: Because she was saying, like this white bitch throwing like
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: somebody feeding her information. She's not really like getting information,
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like it's not really just
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: coming to her. She's she's all in Hollywood and somebody's
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: giving her the information and she's presenting it on YouTube.
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: That was her theory, right, And I'm like, nobody was
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: checking for slowing Bella. But she's been on YouTube, Ben
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: had clients, but it wasn't until the Diddy situation that
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: she like really like blew up on YouTube. But she's
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: been on YouTube for fucking years, right, and so has
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: this other girl been on TikTok? But why do you
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: want to argue with me about who's more tapped in?
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: Because this is a white woman versus like basically what
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: you saying, Like, I trust him because he's black. You know,
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: you have discernment, right, That's that's the power of discernment.
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: You know when something feels right to you. So it
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: felt wrong to her, and it felt right to me.
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: I didn't think anything was wrong with Sloan Bella, like
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: I didn't. I don't think she's a fraud whatsoever. Sometimes
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: people reincarnate different, bitch. Next time, I hope, I was
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: about to say, I hope I come back as a
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: rich white man. But what if black people in power?
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: When I come back, I come back cast a white nigga?
• 38:05
  Speaker 3: Like wait a minute, and that's what you get, and
• 38:09
  Speaker 3: that's how the cookie crumbles, right. All right, coming to this,
• 38:14
  Speaker 3: we're gonna hear something from President Malik. Everybody, President Malik,
• 38:25
  Speaker 3: State of the Union, teach for President everybody, and.
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: He don't come ons and this shit fucked up. That's
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: gonna be the real ship. President Trump is probably the
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: closest thing we're gonna get to a nigga president. They
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: was trying to talk to you about Obama, but we
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: got a real nigga in office. And I mean like
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: a real nigga who do real shit. I'm talking about
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: a real nigga because it's a difference between black people
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: and niggas.
• 38:49
  Speaker 3: Because it's definitely some niggahit going on.
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: Some nigga shit going on.
• 38:54
  Speaker 3: Okay, all right, so I listen. I think I got
• 38:58
  Speaker 3: a couple of dumb bitch stories we haven't shared, so
• 39:01
  Speaker 3: I'm just gonna read a couple of them and then
• 39:03
  Speaker 3: we're gonna go to fuck home today. Okay, let's what's
• 39:06
  Speaker 3: gonna happen. All right, Listen to this one.
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: All right?
• 39:10
  Speaker 3: This is from Oh I can't say it's anonymous. It
• 39:13
  Speaker 3: says hey AJ and Tampam, I hope you guys read
• 39:17
  Speaker 3: this sooner than later. I'm in a by and Nate.
• 39:20
  Speaker 3: I don't know if this is the dumbest story or what,
• 39:22
  Speaker 3: but yeah, it probably is. All right. I've been with
• 39:26
  Speaker 3: my husband and that's in quotations for almost eight years,
• 39:29
  Speaker 3: and I put it in quotes because we've never officially married.
• 39:33
  Speaker 3: We have two kids together and I have two for
• 39:35
  Speaker 3: my previous marriage. We have been through a lot of
• 39:38
  Speaker 3: everything and we've gotten through it together and I love
• 39:42
  Speaker 3: him at a deep level. There was always there has
• 39:45
  Speaker 3: always been something missing, and me, being an Aquarius woman,
• 39:49
  Speaker 3: I'm going to seek it. The sex is great between us,
• 39:52
  Speaker 3: and at this point I think it's an intellectual thing
• 39:57
  Speaker 3: more than sexual. When he was in prison and for
• 40:00
  Speaker 3: the last two years, I had sex with this man
• 40:03
  Speaker 3: who I believe was going to be a late night creep.
• 40:07
  Speaker 3: I know I'm not in love with him, but I
• 40:09
  Speaker 3: can't seem to stop thinking about him. I continuously delete
• 40:12
  Speaker 3: him from my Snap friends and then add him back
• 40:15
  Speaker 3: once a month or two passes. I feel so bad
• 40:19
  Speaker 3: talking to him because I don't think my old man
• 40:21
  Speaker 3: is cheating, but it feels so good. On top of that,
• 40:25
  Speaker 3: old dude knows that my old man is home, and
• 40:27
  Speaker 3: he's okay with having what I can give what I
• 40:30
  Speaker 3: can give home. I'm at a crossroads here. Oh yeah,
• 40:33
  Speaker 3: we fucked more than once.
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: Okay. She said it's an intellectual thing, so meaning like
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: she is more intellectually like yoked with the other guy
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: or her husband.
• 40:48
  Speaker 3: No, she ain't say the other guy was smarter. She
• 40:50
  Speaker 3: just said, oh no, she says she do like talking
• 40:54
  Speaker 3: to him, so I'm assuming like the conversation is better.
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: So she likes talking to the side guy.
• 40:59
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but she also had sex with him.
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: Listen. One thing I have realized is that I cannot
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: be with somebody that I deem right. Somebody else may
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: deem them smarter, but if I deem you less smarter
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: than me, it's gonna be a fucking problem.
• 41:15
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: You gotta be as smart of me, as as smart
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: as me, or smarter, right, because it is It's like
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: I for me, I'm not gonna say I'm a what
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: was it a sapial sexual. I'm not necessarily a sapio sexual.
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: But I do love intellect like, I like figure, I
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: like to converse, I like to you know, bunks ideas
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: off of people. I don't want to always be the
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: one talking. I want you to teach me something. I
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: want to be able to teach you some shit. Now,
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: I have realized that some black men in particular don't
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: like smart women like they want to be able to
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: be the one to teach you all the shit right.
• 41:51
  Speaker 3: And if you know anything off them that you know
• 41:54
  Speaker 3: is the problem besides how to make a biscuit right.
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: So I can't. I don't want to be the problem
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: solver all the time in my relationship, but I'm naturally
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: a problem solver right when it comes to like mechanics,
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: like I'm fixing shit, you know what I'm saying. So
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: I want my partner to also be able to do
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: those things. Yeah, I can't. I cannot deal with somebody
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: that always asking me fucking questions if you throw't fucking.
• 42:21
  Speaker 3: Google that shit, Google free all right, listen. So I
• 42:26
  Speaker 3: responded to her in the DMS and I said, hey, boo,
• 42:28
  Speaker 3: this is definitely a dumpish story. I said, you're gonna
• 42:31
  Speaker 3: get your head knock between the washer and dryer. Friend,
• 42:34
  Speaker 3: I said, so, why y'all not married after eight years?
• 42:37
  Speaker 3: Do you even want him? Still? Are you not scared?
• 42:40
  Speaker 3: And I said, you said he home from prison. What
• 42:43
  Speaker 3: nigga play like that? I ain't say that part. Then
• 42:46
  Speaker 3: I said what do what he? Oh, I don't know
• 42:51
  Speaker 3: what the funk. I was trying to say what and couldn't. No,
• 42:55
  Speaker 3: I said what does he? And could he do? No?
• 43:00
  Speaker 3: What could he do to you if he finds out
• 43:02
  Speaker 3: you giving his poom pum away tam And then she responded, Okay,
• 43:06
  Speaker 3: I don't know. He makes a lot of excuses. I
• 43:09
  Speaker 3: can tell you that I'm not getting on the knee
• 43:12
  Speaker 3: or asking again. Yes, I've asked him like two times before,
• 43:16
  Speaker 3: and he always.
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: Asked him to marry.
• 43:18
  Speaker 3: Yes, goodl do that. I love him and I love
• 43:28
  Speaker 3: the bond that we have, but I want more life
• 43:30
  Speaker 3: is sure, and then responded, no, definitely not scared. He's
• 43:34
  Speaker 3: a sweetheart, just not what he's not when he's drunk.
• 43:37
  Speaker 3: He went to prison for fighting my brother. We've all
• 43:40
  Speaker 3: made amends and treated the situation like adults. Okay they okay, waitit, wait.
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: A minute, let's back up. Don't don't don't forget where
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: you're at. She says she's gotten on knee.
• 43:51
  Speaker 3: On the knee twice, she said, I've asked, but I
• 43:54
  Speaker 3: didn't get on the knee.
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, okay, I'm sorry friend, all right, So
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: she has asked him twice and I would like to
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: know what his response was. Is he saying, Wade, he's
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: trying to wait till you get his money, right, like
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: he always.
• 44:07
  Speaker 3: That's what she said. She didn't go straight up, no,
• 44:10
  Speaker 3: she ain't going too detail.
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: So when she started, she said that that's my husband.
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: So under God's eye, she's saying that's her husband. He
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: havn't like officially Okay, I mean, ah, you know, huh,
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: y'all live together. You know what it says, he's living
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: someplace else, kids together. But listen, there's there's a lot
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: of perks. People act like marriage is not like because
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: of the society we live in, right, and something happened
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: to a nigga, Yeah, I need to have paperwork on
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: that ass if something happened, right, but maybe he doesn't
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: have anything to leave it. That's what y'all really should
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: be working on instead of getting married. I do not
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: understand people who in marriage only costs as much as
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: a marriage license. Right, it does not cost thirty forty
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: fifty one hundred thousand dollars. These weddings m hm right.
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: So if y'all really wanted to be married on costs
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: nothing for real? You know what I'm saying to get
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: the marriage license.
• 45:06
  Speaker 3: Right, But listener, if you leave here, if we together,
• 45:09
  Speaker 3: you leave here, and you ain't leave me with no money.
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: Cremation, cremation, girl, you you gonna fuck grinding up in
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: one of those unmarked graves like let.
• 45:18
  Speaker 3: This sainty cream. Maybe Nigga for fifteen hundred, I might
• 45:25
  Speaker 3: have went up. I won't put you in no power box,
• 45:27
  Speaker 3: but I'm definitely gonna put you in the canus.
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: I'm about to start selling caskets, man, I'm might have
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: started a wholesale casket business because one thing for sure,
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: niggas is always dying.
• 45:37
  Speaker 3: Oh you should do custom caskets.
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: Yes, girl, I'm about to start ordering shit in bulk.
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: I seen them. Listen, Ali Baba got everything, bit.
• 45:44
  Speaker 3: But dad's a yo shit diamond studied, all right, listen
• 45:49
  Speaker 3: to this, all right? So she said I actually told
• 45:52
  Speaker 3: him I had sex with pop. I ain't gonna say
• 45:55
  Speaker 3: that when he was in jail, this person, while he
• 45:59
  Speaker 3: was in jail to be sentenced, that's his little nickname
• 46:02
  Speaker 3: I gave him. I won't say it though, but he
• 46:05
  Speaker 3: doesn't know how many times we had sex or that
• 46:08
  Speaker 3: I still talk to him. I keep telling him that
• 46:11
  Speaker 3: I want to keep to date other people, and he
• 46:14
  Speaker 3: just and he just keeps telling me, that's what you
• 46:17
  Speaker 3: think you want.
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: Girl.
• 46:19
  Speaker 3: Don't play with that nigga. You girl there anything that's scary,
• 46:26
  Speaker 3: ain't funny. That ain't funny. That's not joke. I mean
• 46:29
  Speaker 3: it was funny, but it's not a joke. All right.
• 46:33
  Speaker 3: Today one of my high school boyfriends hit my DMS
• 46:36
  Speaker 3: and I'm like, what the fuck. We had a long
• 46:38
  Speaker 3: conversation and he wants to call me back, but he's
• 46:40
  Speaker 3: in a relationship too. All I know, Tam Bam, is
• 46:44
  Speaker 3: that I want to be happy. Everything is finally falling
• 46:47
  Speaker 3: in place with my life and career. I'm am, I
• 46:52
  Speaker 3: tripping a need to calm down or take this man
• 46:55
  Speaker 3: as he is, or just jump off the.
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: Porridge, Nah dog, get out, get jump get off the house,
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: jump off the porch. I feel like you need to
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: break up with this guy. Okay, you don't like him,
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: you don't like him.
• 47:07
  Speaker 3: Uh, you comfortable, that's what That's what it sounds like.
• 47:10
  Speaker 3: You're just comfortable with him. He's secure. Yeah, he's someone
• 47:14
  Speaker 3: who's secure.
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: I need to know how much money we talking about,
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: Like it's a lot of other things. I want, like
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: to calculate to understand why she wants to be with
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: the guy who was in prison. And I understand he
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: went to jail over your ass, right, because I'm pretty
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: sure the brother him and the brother probably started fighting
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: over something between you and him? Or why was it
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: over a spades game? Like what the fuck was this
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: fighting about? I want to know that too. I'm sure
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: it had something to do with her be like, yeah,
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: it don't be enough information. I'd be wanting.
• 47:44
  Speaker 3: You need to let my bitches. We need to let
• 47:45
  Speaker 3: the girls call us, like I'm gonna try to get
• 47:49
  Speaker 3: out this week because I have so many questions. All right,
• 47:58
  Speaker 3: So this one, this is another one from a listener.
• 48:02
  Speaker 3: So I know y'all do dumb bitch stories, but do
• 48:04
  Speaker 3: y'all give dumb bitch advice? Because I had a question.
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: We give good bad advice all the time.
• 48:10
  Speaker 3: Right, So take it or leave it, because I don't
• 48:12
  Speaker 3: know which way it's gonna go. It's a crapshoot or
• 48:15
  Speaker 3: bad good advice. I So I know Tam mitchin she
• 48:18
  Speaker 3: had a young thing. I wanted to know what's the
• 48:21
  Speaker 3: age difference, because I'm thirty two and I met a
• 48:24
  Speaker 3: twenty one year old. I was going to a board
• 48:27
  Speaker 3: mission when I found out his age. But he conversates
• 48:30
  Speaker 3: better than the forty something girl I was talking to,
• 48:33
  Speaker 3: and I actually shot my shot at him because he's
• 48:35
  Speaker 3: so fine. He was my maintenance man. He fixed my fridge,
• 48:40
  Speaker 3: so I didn't shoot my shot there the first time.
• 48:42
  Speaker 3: Because I was sick and looking raggedy, I couldn't stop
• 48:45
  Speaker 3: thinking about him, so I tried to have the office
• 48:47
  Speaker 3: share his number, but they would not. No, they're not
• 48:51
  Speaker 3: gonna give you the babies man pulled up a bit
• 48:56
  Speaker 3: hold on where she? Where was that at? I made
• 48:59
  Speaker 3: it seem like I had a question for him, but
• 49:01
  Speaker 3: they didn't want to share, so I busted by fridge
• 49:04
  Speaker 3: light so they could send him back. I left my
• 49:08
  Speaker 3: number on the fridge and we've been talking ever since.
• 49:11
  Speaker 3: The first question I asked was how old is are you?
• 49:14
  Speaker 3: He said twenty one. I was going to slowly stop
• 49:17
  Speaker 3: talking to him, but the convo is so so good.
• 49:20
  Speaker 3: I'm attracted to him, but he's eleven years younger. I
• 49:23
  Speaker 3: usually don't do this, so if y'all want to include
• 49:26
  Speaker 3: this in your show.
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: I was always saying what they usually don't.
• 49:30
  Speaker 3: I don't him, I don't do this all the time.
• 49:37
  Speaker 3: It's and she said, she loves us. We love you two, girlfriend,
• 49:42
  Speaker 3: we love you so much. But girl, you wanted that
• 49:46
  Speaker 3: dick badge. You was in there with a hammer and
• 49:48
  Speaker 3: you're refrigerator busting a light out, about to cut your
• 49:51
  Speaker 3: motherfuck itself, you got eggs.
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, thirty something in twenty one to eleven years,
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: you know. So she's thirty two, he's twenty one. You know,
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: women already mature way faster than men. So I personally
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: think that's like, kind of that's too far, eleven years.
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: And it's not because the eleven years really isn't the
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: problem because if he was in his thirties and she
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: was in her forties, he would probably be a little
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: bit more mature. I know she said that he converses,
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: well are they, But he isn't a different life cycle,
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, yeah, he's working, he's
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: probably still trying to figure himself out. He hasn't. I
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: think men need to reach the stage where they're making
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: the money they want to make right. So unless you
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: just feel like getting knocked down, I hope you ain't
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: just trying. You're not trying to make this your man.
• 50:56
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the only thing like, and you're not if
• 50:59
  Speaker 3: you just haven't. I mean, I'm twenty one is so
• 51:02
  Speaker 3: young to me, but y'all know that far to me.
• 51:06
  Speaker 3: She thirty, she thirty one, thirty two. If I was
• 51:10
  Speaker 3: fucking a twenty one year old, I need to go
• 51:12
  Speaker 3: to jail. That's how I feel. But for her, I mean,
• 51:17
  Speaker 3: it's just she's just having if she's trying to take
• 51:20
  Speaker 3: him serious, like she said, the conversation is so good.
• 51:24
  Speaker 3: Stop talking to that nigga and do it to him
• 51:25
  Speaker 3: and send him back with his two belt.
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we could literally have a twenty one year old
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: son right now.
• 51:33
  Speaker 3: And if some thirty year old bitch was punksting on
• 51:36
  Speaker 3: my twenty one year old boy even about it, you
• 51:40
  Speaker 3: couldn't sit about it. You couldn't do a motherfucking thing.
• 51:44
  Speaker 3: You can't do nothing. It's a grown woman and a
• 51:47
  Speaker 3: grown man. By law.
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna make her feel like some type of way
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: because first of all, why because I'm a No, you
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: ain't gonna know shit, Why you get that, nigga, I
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: still live at home. Why you can't find a man
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: your age? Would be my not for not for the listener,
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: but that would be my question for my if somebody
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: smashing on my son, Like, I want to know what's
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: going on with you and your your dating pool. I'd
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: like to know because I would think that you would
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: want to a forty to fifty year old man as
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: opposed to a twenty ye old nigga.
• 52:18
  Speaker 3: Well, I don't think she like trying to take him.
• 52:21
  Speaker 3: You're taking serious. I hope you're not trying to brunch
• 52:24
  Speaker 3: some sandwiches because it ain't like twenty one and he
• 52:28
  Speaker 3: rich like Drayman twenty one and he broke.
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: He's a little different, you know what I mean, And
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: so he needs to like, he needs space to grow,
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: and he probably needs space to grow with somebody his age.
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.
• 52:43
  Speaker 3: Right there, is you in there making tiktoks with that nigga?
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: No, I want to Does she have kids?
• 52:52
  Speaker 3: I don't think so. She didn't say, but I'm sure
• 52:55
  Speaker 3: she don't. She leave messages on the refrigerator. Ain't no
• 52:58
  Speaker 3: kids in there, mama? Oh no, molder or print the right.
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: Girl, have fun, strap up, don't fall in love them
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: young cher and be burning girl?
• 53:12
  Speaker 3: Yeah maybe having OUI okay, and then the last one.
• 53:19
  Speaker 3: All right, hey, y'all, I'm back with another story and
• 53:21
  Speaker 3: would love to reign anonymous. Did we do this? I've
• 53:26
  Speaker 3: been messing around with this dude for a while now,
• 53:28
  Speaker 3: and sometimes we'll have sleepovers. So the last time he
• 53:30
  Speaker 3: stayed at my house, he had fell asleep before me,
• 53:34
  Speaker 3: so I decided to get ready for bed as well.
• 53:36
  Speaker 3: I go to charge his phone like I normally do,
• 53:38
  Speaker 3: and the notification center pops up. I usually don't go
• 53:41
  Speaker 3: through that when that does happen, but something was telling
• 53:44
  Speaker 3: me to do this this time, and I see tender notifications.
• 53:48
  Speaker 3: I started thinking to myself, should I wake him up
• 53:50
  Speaker 3: out of his sleep and be on bullshit or just
• 53:53
  Speaker 3: play it cool and wait till the morning. I decided
• 53:56
  Speaker 3: to play it cool. But as soon as he opens
• 53:58
  Speaker 3: his eyes, I was like, so you got tender. He
• 54:01
  Speaker 3: goes to say he doesn't be on the app and
• 54:03
  Speaker 3: having a chance to delete it, So I say, if
• 54:06
  Speaker 3: you don't use it, then why do you have an
• 54:08
  Speaker 3: active account and getting notifications? Also, it doesn't take long
• 54:12
  Speaker 3: to delete an app. I'm just trying to figure out
• 54:14
  Speaker 3: why this is on your phone. Then he flips on me,
• 54:16
  Speaker 3: saying I shouldn't have went through his phone. But mind you,
• 54:19
  Speaker 3: he's been through mine like four times or more in
• 54:22
  Speaker 3: the past. It wasn't a problem when he was doing it,
• 54:25
  Speaker 3: but now that I'm caught him, he can't take accountability
• 54:28
  Speaker 3: and trying to turn it on me. We haven't spoke
• 54:30
  Speaker 3: all day since that morning, and here we are on
• 54:33
  Speaker 3: day two and still haven't heard anything. The silence is
• 54:36
  Speaker 3: most definitely a response. That's just showing me that he
• 54:38
  Speaker 3: don't mind losing me over an app. I know he's
• 54:41
  Speaker 3: probably trying to do the silent punishment treatment and have
• 54:44
  Speaker 3: me questioning if I was wrong for going through it.
• 54:47
  Speaker 3: But mind you, I don't even have the password to
• 54:49
  Speaker 3: his phone. I just seen a notification center. It's having
• 54:52
  Speaker 3: tender still installed on the deal. It's having tender still installed.
• 54:55
  Speaker 3: A deal breaker for y'all. I want to hear y'all opinions.
• 54:58
  Speaker 3: Thank you lated so much.
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: This has happened to me so a guy who I
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: was dating, right, I don't know. She didn't say it
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: was her boyfriend or not, or what the actual status.
• 55:07
  Speaker 3: Is I was messing around with this dude for a while. Now.
• 55:11
  Speaker 3: See that's why you gotta sit around. You gotta like
• 55:13
  Speaker 3: have rural boundaries because it like clear cause you.
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: Check yes and no, are you my boyfriend? Like we
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: literally got to get these niggas letters.
• 55:22
  Speaker 2: Now.
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: So I was dating somebody and I remember we were
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: sitting at his uh island at his house, and I
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: was like setting up his brokerage account and shit and
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: the cell phones right there he's sitting, He's showing me
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: his bank accounts all type of shit, and what's the
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: p the I call it pieces of fish? But plenty
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: of Fish alert popped up, and I feel like that's
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: worse than damn Twitter cause it's from so much recycled
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: peen and pea on.
• 55:45
  Speaker 3: Uh, it's just like more hook up and fish.
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like you doubt you DTF if you on plenty
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: plenty of fish. So yeah, the alert popped up. I'm like,
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: damn you on plenty of fish. And you know, like
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: I'm always like calculating the city I live in too,
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: Like it ain't that many bitches around.
• 56:02
  Speaker 3: Here, you it ain't much fish like my good ones.
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: If I well, I should not be fucking with you
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: if you're on a date nap, that's that's just it.
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: I'm not competing with a bunch of fucking on a
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: dating app in the city I live in. That's not
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: that fucking big.
• 56:23
  Speaker 3: So if I got tender on my phone right now
• 56:24
  Speaker 3: and I'm dating someone, that's a problem.
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: So dating and this is my boyfriend is two different things.
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm saying. No, that's what I'm saying. This
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: is somebody with no title that I'm fucking with, right.
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: I didn't get mad about it, but it did give
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: me pause, like, is this somebody even want to be
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: fucking with? And you on a dating app? Because I
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: feel like men be on a date and apps really
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: like fucking different bitches every week. I really feel like that.
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: So yeah, I definitely continue to fuck with him for
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: some time. It is one of the reasons why I
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: stopped fucking with him, you know what I'm saying, Because
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: I just feel like he was super DCF. So you
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: just gotta you gotta I mean, don't be calling that nigga. Okay,
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: when somebody giving you the silent treatment like that shit
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: is very manipult loud. Yeah, don't be trying to get him,
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: get it, get a response from him. The best way
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: to get a nigga back if you want him back
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: right is to go ghost too. Just no contact either.
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: You don't bothered. You have to You have to pretend
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: like you're not, even though you might be. You're gonna
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: have to try really, really hard to be not bothered
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: because I.
• 57:35
  Speaker 3: Didn't give get the best nigga win.
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's not like you really went through his
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: phone or the phone is sitting there and I see
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: the alert pop up, like I can't help I've seen it.
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: Now at this point, turn your alerts off to whear
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: shit not coming up on your phone? Girl, my ex
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: we oh, I sent you this ship. Remember I sent
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: you this girl page one day m hm, because as
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: you follow her, you knew her and she had she
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: donet have popped up on both of his niggas cell
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: phone like the call. Yeah, I wasn't going through his phone.
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: The phone is on the counter. One day, the phone
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: like fell off the back of the couch and it
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: was on the floor, so I went to look at
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: it and pick it up. I thought it was my
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: phone initially, so I don't ever go through people shit.
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: But when you need to know something. The universe has
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: a way of telling you, So do with that information
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: what you will. But he's definitely fucking people off of
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: a tender okay. And if he ain't locked in with
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: you yet, he's looking for somebody else. He you not
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: the one for him. Get out of there, Get out
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: of there.
• 58:38
  Speaker 3: But see, I think a little differently because I be
• 58:42
  Speaker 3: talking to niggas on apps. I'm single. I'm single, and
• 58:45
  Speaker 3: until until we decide we're in a committed relationship, you
• 58:49
  Speaker 3: have no control over that, you know, So don't be
• 58:53
  Speaker 3: looking at my phone trying to see who else I'm
• 58:55
  Speaker 3: talking to because it might be a better nigga than you.
• 58:58
  Speaker 3: You better tie it.
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: Up, you know, So who's next?
• 59:02
  Speaker 3: I just feel like, man, your business, if y'all business,
• 59:09
  Speaker 3: y'all not, if you that's what you really need to
• 59:11
  Speaker 3: have a conversation with about what y'all are, because if
• 59:15
  Speaker 3: y'all just we ain't going steady, We just fucking around.
• 59:18
  Speaker 3: If y'all just fucking around, then you don't really got
• 59:20
  Speaker 3: no leg to stand on questioning nigga about his phone?
• 59:23
  Speaker 3: What's going on in it? Yeah, So that's my advice
• 59:27
  Speaker 3: to you. Find out who y'all are to each other,
• 59:31
  Speaker 3: y'all exclusive? Do you want to be exclusive? And if
• 59:35
  Speaker 3: y'all been fucking around for a long time and y'all
• 59:37
  Speaker 3: just been messing around a long time, and he says
• 59:39
  Speaker 3: he don't want to be exclusive, then leave him alone
• 59:42
  Speaker 3: because he just fucking that's it.
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what they probably fucking raw. Like I can
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: feel it in my spirit that she'd be getting hit okay, right,
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: getting hit raw. That's why.
• 59:55
  Speaker 3: That's why she feel like, oh you m M. But
• 59:58
  Speaker 3: that No, that don't mean no, you just giving the
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 3: wrong pussy.
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: It should mean something, right, we be giving men passes
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: on that type of nasty ass activity, right because usually
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: I won't say all women right, if we fucking somebody
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: else were gonna at least use a condom with the
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: next person.
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 3: Right, Okay, at least at the level.
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: Be hitting multiple women raw. And sometimes a nigga just
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: never know. So you gotta be careful. So if you
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: like outside like that, and I'm not saying you outside
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: because you're on a dating and app, I understand like
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: you're you are, you are seriously trying to find a partner, right, right.
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: That's the difference between men and women on those dating apps.
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 1: Most men on those dating apps keeping your relationships already
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: and on a dating app trying to find some other pussy.
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so even though they may not have you know,
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: established like yes we are together, it's something going on
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: in that relationship. Where like even with this guy, right,
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: the one who I said the plenty fish popped up on,
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: I didn't trip on him. I couldn't. But my Niggaho
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: phone who's living in the house and me fell off
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: the couch, and this bitch is on both of these
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: cell phones trip city. Oh absolutely, that might have been
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: the last day he was here.
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 3: Yeah, fair to my recollection.
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: Yes, but if it's just somebody that y'all messing with,
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: like I just when I hear like fucking it's not
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: your man, you so you can't you can't really trip
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: on him. So if you want your buddy back, you
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 1: smashed buddy. Even if y'all go on dates and stuff
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: like that and out to eat and y'all spend a
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: lot of time together and he's at your house and
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 1: you at his house, you gotta if you want a relationship,
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: you have to let him know that, right, And if
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: he's not for that, get the fuck up out of there,
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: and maybe you go create you an account online and
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: actually find somebody who seriously also wants to be in
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: a relationship with you because.
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 3: He in it. Period. Yeah, that's the end of our
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 3: tap talk. That's how we got that was that was
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 3: three of them. But we had an hour, bitch, that's it.
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 3: That's all we got for today.
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 1: So maybe next week we can definitely set it up
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: to where people can call in. I'll figure it out.
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, let's talk, y'all.
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: Bitches want to come on the show next week.
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 3: Yeah, let's talk, but y'all talk back to us next week. Period.
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: We can do about five yep, about four or five.
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 3: That'll be fun.
• 1:02:27
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  Speaker 1: And never hold them dumb bitch stories because I'd be
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: liking those things. Man, I really, cause I ain't a
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: dumb bitch no more. I'll have y'all know y'all ain't
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 1: through with me yet. I was one like last year,
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 1: but not barely but still borderline dumb bitch. Okay, you
• 1:03:52
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