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Yes, No, Maybe: Finding Clarity in Boundaries | with Desiree Danielle | EP110 · Jess Ask

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  Speaker 1: Yo, it's your girl Jessica and Smith and you already
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  Speaker 1: know that you've entered the safe space for influencers to decompress,
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  Speaker 1: have fun and just ask God for another day?
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  Speaker 2: Do you already know what it is?
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  Speaker 1: And then you know it's about to get real to
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  Speaker 1: be sure to show your girl the love and like
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  Speaker 1: coming subscribe God.
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  Speaker 3: For another day. Hey, hey, I know we could be.
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  Speaker 4: Another way, kay, of jezs in the name of Jesus
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  Speaker 4: say that you have to flee.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know if that's a word, but.
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  Speaker 4: In the name of Jeez, in the name of Jesus, we.
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  Speaker 2: Have a fito. That's it. What is it? In the
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  Speaker 2: name of Jesus.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know how to end it, but in the
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  Speaker 5: name of Jesus.
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  Speaker 2: No, that's all.
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  Speaker 5: Were about to remiss anyway, yo, yo yo, it's your
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  Speaker 5: girl Jessica ed Smith and you have entered the safe
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  Speaker 5: space for influences to decompress, have fun and just ask
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  Speaker 5: and I just love to see you back the leak Okay, okay, okay, okay.
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  Speaker 2: And you know I'm not by myself. Desiltraate desil right, y'all, y'all.
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  Speaker 5: Hi, Jessica or allow, it's my family or lie welcome
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  Speaker 5: listen y'all.
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  Speaker 2: One of y'all had told me in the come in
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  Speaker 2: is that it's.
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  Speaker 5: Eight minutes for y'all to start the coming saying, well,
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  Speaker 5: if it's not for you, I really was like, but
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  Speaker 5: I thought, I thought, this is this is this is us. Okay,
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  Speaker 5: this is y'all, and this is how we're gonna do things.
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  Speaker 5: But I love each and every one of you, guys.
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  Speaker 5: I'm super excited.
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  Speaker 2: They called fast forward.
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  Speaker 5: It is, but you know, FOM won't allow you to
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  Speaker 5: fast forward if you don't know what FOMO is. It's
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  Speaker 5: for fear missing out a shout out to pastor Mike
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  Speaker 5: almost called him McLure. It's not the McClure, it's uh,
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  Speaker 5: what's his name? Transformation Church Todd?
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  Speaker 2: How did I forget that? Todd?
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  Speaker 5: Michael Tom, He taught me what FOMO was. Listen, you guys,
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  Speaker 5: I hope you're having an amazing week. Thank you so
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  Speaker 5: much for just tuning in another week. We don't have
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  Speaker 5: a conversation. It's not gonna be probably it's probably not
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  Speaker 5: gonna be long winded, but I thought it was best
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  Speaker 5: for us to do like a check in, like because we.
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  Speaker 2: Have a lot of new family members.
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  Speaker 6: Shout out to you, y'all man, you number one, you
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  Speaker 6: number one are.
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  Speaker 2: We like to have fun.
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  Speaker 5: But now before we get into it, there's a try
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  Speaker 5: to have fun too, because you know.
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  Speaker 2: Left is uh, it's thirds up the soul, the heart.
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  Speaker 5: That's Bible, Bible. We might not have said it right,
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  Speaker 5: but it's Bible.
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  Speaker 2: It's Bible. Yeah, loosen no, I'm sorry, losen No. We
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  Speaker 2: like to have a good time.
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  Speaker 5: So and because we don't get to see each other
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  Speaker 5: every day, and today is a good day to look
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  Speaker 5: at you. Today's a good day to look upon you.
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  Speaker 2: Well, listen, you guys.
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  Speaker 5: We've had so many people join our family and today
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  Speaker 5: we're doing another community highlight.
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  Speaker 2: And if you excuse me, if I keep touching the
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  Speaker 2: mic like this, this is new. This is.
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  Speaker 5: I love to see the transformation to growth in real time. Yes,
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  Speaker 5: it's important to just start that part. It's important to
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  Speaker 5: just start and we're gonna get into that. But shout
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  Speaker 5: one percent better every day. That's one that's one thing
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  Speaker 5: in twenty twenty five talking and he talks.
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  Speaker 2: It and he lives it.
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  Speaker 5: We just love Brad, shout out to you, we love you,
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  Speaker 5: but also just get back to the community highlight. I
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  Speaker 5: would love to shout out a young lady that I've
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  Speaker 5: been seeing a few times on our on our YouTube page,
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  Speaker 5: and yes we're going off YouTube community so because those
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  Speaker 5: those are people are really cutting up right now, like
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  Speaker 5: y'all the folks is.
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  Speaker 2: Really doing a dogh Onne thing.
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  Speaker 5: And so I want to shout out Miss Jayala McMillan.
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  Speaker 5: That is she is at Jayala macmillan and number eight
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  Speaker 5: on YouTube. Jayala, first of all, you're beautiful. Listen, brown skin,
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  Speaker 5: come on, that's what when I see your face, I
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  Speaker 5: think of Miss India Iri and her song brown Skin,
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  Speaker 5: cause it's just giving him honey. But I want to
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  Speaker 5: say thank you so much for joining the community, thank
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  Speaker 5: you for tuning in, thank you for being a part. And
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  Speaker 5: I just I just when I was looking at you
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  Speaker 5: and I was looking at your name, and I chose
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  Speaker 5: you to be the community highlight for today, I just
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  Speaker 5: felt the radiance. That's what the Lord told me. It
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  Speaker 5: was like a radiance just over you. And when I
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  Speaker 5: think about something that's radiant, I think about light. And
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  Speaker 5: so even now, thank you Holy Spirit. I hear the
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  Speaker 5: Lord say that the light shall shine on you.
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  Speaker 2: This is the season where things are gonna reveal and unveil.
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  Speaker 5: Right, And Lord, I thank you for Jayla because you
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  Speaker 5: have given her a secret place in you. But this
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  Speaker 5: is the time where He's going to not only reveal
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  Speaker 5: things to you, but reveal things through you. And so
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  Speaker 5: don't think it's strange now that I thank you, Holy Spirit.
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  Speaker 5: Now he's showing me that it's been spaces where you've
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  Speaker 5: been number two, number three, number four, number five, but
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  Speaker 5: you're about to be number one. You're not used to
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  Speaker 5: like the being the center of attention, but God is
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  Speaker 5: placing you on platforms or providing you a platform to
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  Speaker 5: where people will come and seek answers from you because
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  Speaker 5: you are it.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you, Holy Spirit. You are it, Jayla.
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  Speaker 5: And so I just pray that God just surrounds you
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  Speaker 5: with people that can celebrate you in this time of
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  Speaker 5: you being the light hallelujah, in this time where you're
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  Speaker 5: you don't even have to strive. I hear the Little
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  Speaker 5: say that it's gonna be an ease to this thing.
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  Speaker 5: My God, It's gonna be easy because you've been fighting hard.
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  Speaker 5: You've been fighting and You've been not only fighting, but
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  Speaker 5: you fight fought well.
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  Speaker 2: And so God is.
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  Speaker 5: Bringing you a community that will bring a level of
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  Speaker 5: ease to your to your people.
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  Speaker 2: Ain't gonna like this word, but stardom. That's what I
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  Speaker 2: just heard. Your stardom. You are a star. You're not
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  Speaker 2: supposed to be in the background, You're not supposed to
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  Speaker 2: be hidden.
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  Speaker 5: But God is bringing you forth and so I just
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  Speaker 5: pray the protection of the Lord over your life. Jayla McMillan,
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  Speaker 5: we love you here and just ask the podcast welcome to.
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  Speaker 2: Shine.
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  Speaker 5: I love doing community high like especially with new people,
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  Speaker 5: because God is really God is really in this space,
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  Speaker 5: desiray this this season is about getting the people that's
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  Speaker 5: been in the background in the front and like and
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  Speaker 5: can you talk about it because somebody is being pulled
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  Speaker 5: somebody some not. Yes, you do recorded.
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  Speaker 2: Record on it. We're here now.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, so you can explain why you don't want to
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  Speaker 5: explain what you want need to explain. Yeah, it's just
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  Speaker 5: it's a beautiful, a beautifully uncomfortable space to be in,
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  Speaker 5: you know, especially when you're I've made I don want
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  Speaker 5: to speak for myself. I think I've made being in
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  Speaker 5: the background a very comfortable place because you know, when
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  Speaker 5: you're kind of struggling with like who you are, your
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  Speaker 5: identity and things like that, it's just easy to be
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  Speaker 5: back here. You do what you do, and then you
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  Speaker 5: just you see, you're not heard, right, because that's kind
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  Speaker 5: of how honest, like, that's kind of how I grew up, right,
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  Speaker 5: you know, back in the day like kids to be
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  Speaker 5: seen and not heard, like you didn't really have a voice,
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  Speaker 5: you didn't really have an opinion, And so that's kind
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  Speaker 5: of what I grew up in and grew up to
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  Speaker 5: be in a sense. So now the Lord is like, hey, yeah, no,
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  Speaker 5: but that's not what I originally designed for you.
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  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 5: Your environment has made you that way, but that's not
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  Speaker 5: what I originally designed for you.
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  Speaker 2: So this whole.
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  Speaker 5: Process these last few years, even though it has been uncomfortable,
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  Speaker 5: that's what it's been, has been the Lord revealing himself
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  Speaker 5: to me is who he is to me as well
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  Speaker 5: as him showing me who I am in him.
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  Speaker 2: It's so good.
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  Speaker 5: While you were just talking, I just heard the Lord say,
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  Speaker 5: sometimes we make cultivation, the season of cultivation, our comfort zone.
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  Speaker 5: And what cultivation does is it is a it basically
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  Speaker 5: brings you together with you.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm not smart. I'm not this smart.
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  Speaker 5: Cultivation brings you together with you because before the beginning began,
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  Speaker 5: there was God, and God he created, He created the
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  Speaker 5: heaven and the earth, and the earth was without form.
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  Speaker 5: And if you read that, so, if I serve a
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  Speaker 5: God that knows the end from the beginning, yes, everything
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  Speaker 5: that means, He knows everything. That means that's how I
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  Speaker 5: was created. I was created backwards if you really think
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  Speaker 5: about that. And so what we're what he's cultivating, is
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  Speaker 5: you meeting you. We think that we're oh, I'm growing. No, no, no,
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  Speaker 5: you're meeting yourself who had already been called to be
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  Speaker 5: before the time, Like He had already woven you into
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  Speaker 5: the town, into the earth before you had even physically
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  Speaker 5: got here. So it's literally like, because we're in time,
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  Speaker 5: God is outside of town. So we're literally walking through
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  Speaker 5: this thing as we're meeting who He had already set
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  Speaker 5: us to be over here, down there, down that way.
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  Speaker 5: And so we think it's like, oh my gosh, you
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  Speaker 5: can't believe I did this. You can't believe it because
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  Speaker 5: you didn't give your opportunity to know God enough to
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  Speaker 5: that it was possible that he had already done it right.
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  Speaker 2: But this is my this is my issue. That's right.
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  Speaker 2: It's like.
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  Speaker 5: I've seen it from a little girl. I was having
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  Speaker 5: this conversation with myself. You should talk to yourself. If
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  Speaker 5: you don't talk to yourself, shame I won't say shame
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  Speaker 5: on you. Just start practice and talk to yourself. I
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  Speaker 5: promise you. Yourself will answer back, not in that way,
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  Speaker 5: but yourself should answer back because the spirit is within you.
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  Speaker 5: So I was having a conversation with me, and me
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  Speaker 5: had said, Jessica, do you really realize that you always
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  Speaker 5: had a desire to be on television, be on platforms,
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  Speaker 5: be on stages. And I was like, yeah, But because
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  Speaker 5: I used to say my mom was gonna be my
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  Speaker 5: mama journy, I was in love with that idea.
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  Speaker 2: I was in love with the.
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  Speaker 5: Idea of singing on stage and entertaining and stuff like that.
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  Speaker 2: But people, you know.
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  Speaker 5: What I experienced around me because I had so much
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  Speaker 5: self esteem. For one, I didn't think people would really
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  Speaker 5: like value what I.
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  Speaker 2: Thought I had.
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  Speaker 5: And two I thought that it was I wasn't that type,
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  Speaker 5: like I didn't want to be prideful that's probably a
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  Speaker 5: good word. I thought it was looked down upon us
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  Speaker 5: to desire to be in the entertainment industry, right I
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  Speaker 5: thought I was gonna be a singer, just be quite honest,
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  Speaker 5: like I wanted to see. I wanted to I wanted
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  Speaker 5: to not only sing, but I have a desire to act.
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  Speaker 5: I still have a desire to act. I'm gonna say
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  Speaker 5: this out loud on my platform so y'all can know
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  Speaker 5: it's real. I have a strong desire to work with
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  Speaker 5: Tyler Perry. I used to say every day this conversation
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  Speaker 5: taking a shild thank you only Spirit. I used to
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  Speaker 5: say every day, Like while I was in high school,
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  Speaker 5: I was like, I want to before Taller PEII is
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  Speaker 5: his plays, I want to be on there, thank you
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  Speaker 5: Only Spirit. This is coming to my mind right now.
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  Speaker 5: I can see it. So his last play that he had.
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  Speaker 5: I can't remember the title of it right now, like
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  Speaker 5: stage play, the stage play, the stage play that he had.
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  Speaker 2: They were taking submissions for auditions.
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  Speaker 5: I just so happened to find out probably a week
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  Speaker 5: prior to the closing day I did. I got on
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  Speaker 5: my phone, and I got on my phone and I
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  Speaker 5: recorded myself so many times with a script so many
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  Speaker 5: times and I didn't submit it.
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  Speaker 2: I did not submit it. Who were you?
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  Speaker 5: I was in my twenty I think I was twenty
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  Speaker 5: one two. I was in my twenty So it's been
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  Speaker 5: like at least ten years ago, because I think that's
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  Speaker 5: about around the time the last play came out. But
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  Speaker 5: he was They were taking auditions and all I could
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  Speaker 5: hear is to know that I would get because I didn't.
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  Speaker 5: I hadn't had training, right, I've been in plays, I've
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  Speaker 5: done certain things.
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  Speaker 2: I know that I like what.
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  Speaker 5: I like about it, right, but I couldn't. I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 5: that's true. You know he didnet got too far up
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  Speaker 5: for me to be somebody that he would consider or
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  Speaker 5: his team to consider. Or what if they don't see,
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  Speaker 5: you know, what I possibly see in myself?
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  Speaker 2: Maybe I don't even know. Maybe I'm lying to myself.
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  Speaker 2: Is this something I really want to do?
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  Speaker 1: Like?
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  Speaker 2: I did not do it.
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  Speaker 5: And the bottom line was is because I thought it
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  Speaker 5: wasn't perfect enough. Perfectionism. Wow, perfectionism stopped me from submitting
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  Speaker 5: an audition tape.
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  Speaker 2: Didn't even give them room to tell me no. But
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  Speaker 2: they could have told you yes.
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  Speaker 5: They could have told me yes, I had the possibility
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  Speaker 5: to say to get a yes and work with Tyler Perry.
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  Speaker 5: How much further along would I have been if I
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  Speaker 5: would have just taken a shot on myself. Even watch this,
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  Speaker 5: Thank you, Holy Spirit, this is so good. Even if
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  Speaker 5: I had received a no, that's a no that I
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  Speaker 5: would have got over. That's a no that I could
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  Speaker 5: have added to my my chest like a badge of honor.
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  Speaker 5: Thank you, Holy Spirit, this is so good to me
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  Speaker 5: right now. Sometimes we look at nose like, oh my god,
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  Speaker 5: this rejection I know I have. We look at nose
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  Speaker 5: like that that we're not good enough, that we're not value.
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  Speaker 5: Excuse me, my scalp is issing bay, Okay, But we
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  Speaker 5: look at noe as a dilution to.
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  Speaker 2: Who we are. But no, it's really.
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  Speaker 5: A stripping of who we're becoming if you really think
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  Speaker 5: about it.
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  Speaker 2: It sales.
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  Speaker 5: They teach us like, you got to get so many
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  Speaker 5: knows to get to your years, and that's draining.
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  Speaker 2: Oh god, that's draining.
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  Speaker 5: Right, It makes you not even want to reach out
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  Speaker 5: to companies or whatever. But but it really it really
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  Speaker 5: teaches you how to have a relationship with a no
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  Speaker 5: if you do it right, right, I'm not saying go
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  Speaker 5: out here and be out your mind and acting like no, no,
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  Speaker 5: don't hurt. Nose hurt, especially when you want it, especially
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  Speaker 5: if you in sales, No hurt because it hurts your
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  Speaker 5: pay check.
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  Speaker 2: That's a commission. That's how I pay my bills, that
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  Speaker 2: no hurt. You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 5: And so I'm finding that having a good relationship with
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  Speaker 5: no allows me to be successful.
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  Speaker 2: What about you?
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  Speaker 5: I think knows Also if, like you said, if you
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  Speaker 5: do it right to help build character, the character, because
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  Speaker 5: it's like you still have a choice, so like you
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  Speaker 5: can take this no, you be like.
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  Speaker 2: Dang Woa was me. You know, they rejected me, blah blah.
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  Speaker 2: You we be like Dang. I gotta know. But it
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  Speaker 2: was almost like a almost a year, but it was
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  Speaker 2: still a no.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah you know, or it could have been like Dang,
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  Speaker 5: I said this this time I reevaluate, like maybe the
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  Speaker 5: conversation or whatever, like okay, maybe next time I tried
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  Speaker 5: like this, Yeah, you know what I'm saying. So nose
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  Speaker 5: can also be used to build your character because's like, yeah,
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  Speaker 5: it was a no, but the push through is really
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  Speaker 5: what begins to help you grow, yeah, versus stopping. That's
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  Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying, It builds muscle. Yeah, like, and
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  Speaker 5: it's some things that we need to know for also
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  Speaker 5: and also in its could be protection. We think those
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  Speaker 5: rejection all the time, but those couldn't definitely also be
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  Speaker 5: protection because remember, like we said.
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  Speaker 2: God knows everything.
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  Speaker 5: He knows what's hitting high behind the bushes, you know,
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  Speaker 5: like people's motives and intentions and things like that. You
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  Speaker 5: know what I'm saying, Those are things we don't think about.
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  Speaker 5: Sometimes all we hear is no, like, oh they're rejected me,
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  Speaker 5: But God's like, yeah, no, I'm trying to protect you
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  Speaker 5: even though hey.
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  Speaker 2: This may be a very lucrative deal.
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  Speaker 5: But their motives, their values don't align the wh I'm taking,
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  Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying, So we have to kind
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  Speaker 5: of look at like it like that too, they do
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  Speaker 5: not align. Even as you're thinking, I'm thinking about like, Okay,
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  Speaker 5: how do you know this is a good question? How
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  Speaker 5: do you know when it's a flat out no or
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  Speaker 5: a it's not time yet, right?
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  Speaker 2: And I think you got a good answer because you're
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  Speaker 2: older than me. What that means you got a little wisdom.
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  Speaker 2: You got a little wisdom.
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  Speaker 5: You've been through some things. I can answer the question too,
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  Speaker 5: but I'm gonna give it to you first. I think
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  Speaker 5: the biggest thing that I'm learning in the season is
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  Speaker 5: just a piece on it.
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  Speaker 2: That's good, you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 5: Like sometimes as I've grown in Hill, because I always
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  Speaker 5: wanted to know was the rejection. That's why I kind
• 16:48
  Speaker 5: of built a certain space, right, But now I'm learning that.
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: One to take everything back to the Lord.
• 16:57
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean as cliche as people want to make
• 16:59
  Speaker 5: that sound, like, know, like when they say seek first
• 17:01
  Speaker 5: the Kingdom got on everything, that's literally what that is.
• 17:03
  Speaker 5: It's like, okay, this was an old lord, So what
• 17:06
  Speaker 5: does this mean? Is just like a no, no, completely done?
• 17:09
  Speaker 5: Or is it like a no not now kind of thing?
• 17:11
  Speaker 5: And it made me think, like when I was growing
• 17:13
  Speaker 5: up my mom.
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: My mom was real. She was Oh, she was tough.
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: Bro Okay, she was real tough.
• 17:18
  Speaker 5: But I started to learn her right and I knew
• 17:20
  Speaker 5: that if I went and ask for something and she
• 17:22
  Speaker 5: gave me a flat out no, I didn't know me
• 17:25
  Speaker 5: no okay.
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: But if I went to it and.
• 17:27
  Speaker 5: I was like, Mom, can I I want to do this,
• 17:29
  Speaker 5: She'd be like, get out my face and you would
• 17:34
  Speaker 5: tell us no. She could have said she could have,
• 17:38
  Speaker 5: but she said get out her face, which means she gonna.
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: Think about it. Mmmm.
• 17:41
  Speaker 5: It means like, hey, you know, maybe not right now,
• 17:44
  Speaker 5: maybe not right now, but you know, if you visit
• 17:47
  Speaker 5: and come back, then we'll try.
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: To we'll try it again. Shall not get out my face?
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: Get my face, my dad said, knowing like she's idiot, Yo,
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: Pastor Smith, Real, Kenney, everybody that love my daddy.
• 18:01
  Speaker 5: No, And guess what, and guess what I would thank
• 18:06
  Speaker 5: God for my daddy saying no. Only I would thank
• 18:10
  Speaker 5: him because it kept me out a lot of trouble
• 18:12
  Speaker 5: that I could have been in.
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: However, and this is so good. Sometimes not every time.
• 18:24
  Speaker 5: You're no needs of explanation, the no any explanation, especially
• 18:29
  Speaker 5: when you're thinking about child development teaching.
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: You're teaching them the.
• 18:35
  Speaker 5: Why behind it, not telling you that's how God gonna
• 18:38
  Speaker 5: give it to you all the time. But I dare
• 18:40
  Speaker 5: you to even ask. I've sketched to the point like, Okay, God,
• 18:43
  Speaker 5: why isn't this happening? And he'll answer you, and he'll
• 18:46
  Speaker 5: show me something, and you know he'll bring me peace,
• 18:48
  Speaker 5: because at that point I'm flighting with my flesh because
• 18:51
  Speaker 5: I want to trust you. My spirit is trusting you,
• 18:54
  Speaker 5: but my flesh is like this, don't make no sense.
• 18:56
  Speaker 5: Everything's aligning to this. Why would he tell me not
• 19:00
  Speaker 5: to do X, Y and Z because matter of fact,
• 19:02
  Speaker 5: As a matter of fact, I was asking.
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: Myself, talk to yourself. I'm trying to tell you to
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: talk to you to the spirit. Yeah, I do.
• 19:09
  Speaker 5: So I was like having a conversation. Shout out to
• 19:12
  Speaker 5: my seven figure podcast community. It's not mine, it's David's.
• 19:14
  Speaker 5: But I'm part of it. She in them, I'm in there,
• 19:17
  Speaker 5: and I teach you on Wednesdays, and this past Wednesday,
• 19:20
  Speaker 5: we were talking about we were talking about overcoming perfectionism,
• 19:26
  Speaker 5: right because one thing we'll do is we'll wait till
• 19:28
  Speaker 5: everything it's perfect before we start.
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: Specifically, we were talking about the podcast.
• 19:33
  Speaker 5: But you're waiting for something to be perfect, and Dave's
• 19:36
  Speaker 5: strategy is when it's seventy percent done, put it out
• 19:41
  Speaker 5: because it's not gonna be perfect. It's not gonna be perfect,
• 19:44
  Speaker 5: and you're gonna be missing on things because you're fighting
• 19:48
  Speaker 5: your own your perfectionism. You're the way you see something.
• 19:52
  Speaker 5: Thank you only spirit versus way God sees it. Right,
• 19:55
  Speaker 5: what if he needs you to start right here because
• 19:58
  Speaker 5: he wants people to see your story, see you develop.
• 20:00
  Speaker 5: People gotta have you gotta have a testimony, and the
• 20:03
  Speaker 5: testimony just don't start out of perfectionism.
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 20:06
  Speaker 5: It got, It has some trials, it has some tribulations,
• 20:09
  Speaker 5: it has the nose, right. And so I was having
• 20:12
  Speaker 5: a conversation with myself with the whole spirit, and I
• 20:16
  Speaker 5: was it was derived from that conversation because I was
• 20:20
  Speaker 5: telling them that everybody doesn't deserve to be on your platform.
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: Right, you're in a it's three stages that you're in.
• 20:29
  Speaker 5: Right, You're in a yes stage, a maybe stage, and
• 20:34
  Speaker 5: a no stage. The yes stage is because you're trying
• 20:37
  Speaker 5: to build rapport.
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: You're trying to build muscle. You're trying to train yourself
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: to be a be a professional. You're trying to get
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: to the place where this is not just a hobby anymore.
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: It becomes the real thing. Like you're you're you're not
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: even you're testing the waters. You're trying to get out
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: the kinks or whatever. So you're saying yes. It's that
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: specific space. I was telling them, say yes to people,
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: allow them be your guess.
• 21:00
  Speaker 5: Now, if it just don't fit, like, if it's just damaging,
• 21:03
  Speaker 5: don't do it. But I was saying yes to everybody
• 21:06
  Speaker 5: people that, asking them like, yo, come on, come on,
• 21:08
  Speaker 5: I think this would be good. But I was doing
• 21:09
  Speaker 5: a lot of asking too, like hey can you be
• 21:11
  Speaker 5: on my podcast?
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: Hey? Can you be on the podcast?
• 21:13
  Speaker 5: Even it had an inkling of sense, I was saying, yes,
• 21:16
  Speaker 5: can you be on a podcast? The maybe, which is
• 21:18
  Speaker 5: the stage we're definitely in right now. The maybe stage
• 21:22
  Speaker 5: is where you like, Okay, does this make sense for
• 21:27
  Speaker 5: the brand?
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: Does this?
• 21:28
  Speaker 5: Would this be good for my audience? Would this conversation
• 21:32
  Speaker 5: be good? What does their platform look like? So that
• 21:37
  Speaker 5: it just I'm just not just having any type of person.
• 21:40
  Speaker 5: It's like, you want to you want to come up
• 21:42
  Speaker 5: on me, and you ain't doing nothing.
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: I'm not. That's not arrogance.
• 21:45
  Speaker 5: It's just put something for yourself because what you do
• 21:48
  Speaker 5: for yourself you can do for others. Right, you can
• 21:50
  Speaker 5: add value. This is the adding value stage.
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: This is so good.
• 21:53
  Speaker 3: This.
• 21:54
  Speaker 5: The maybe is where it's like, does this add value
• 21:57
  Speaker 5: to my platform? Will it make sense of my audience?
• 22:00
  Speaker 5: I got an audience, now I gotta nurture them very well.
• 22:04
  Speaker 5: Then the no stage you get You're like, Okay, why
• 22:07
  Speaker 5: should I say yes? If you think about why should
• 22:11
  Speaker 5: I say? Why should I present this situation with a yes?
• 22:14
  Speaker 5: Will it dilute my brand?
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: Will it? Will it confuse my audience? Right?
• 22:21
  Speaker 5: Because and I'm saying this so y'all can be set up.
• 22:25
  Speaker 5: It made sense for Tabitha Brown to be on, just
• 22:27
  Speaker 5: as the podcast people are like, oh my God, you
• 22:32
  Speaker 5: had Tabitha Brown. The Lord knew it made sense. I
• 22:35
  Speaker 5: didn't know it made sense for us to even merge lives.
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: Like you know what I'm saying.
• 22:41
  Speaker 5: And I said, Lord, if you had told me no
• 22:44
  Speaker 5: to Tabitha Brown, I would have done. I would have
• 22:47
  Speaker 5: been obedience because you know better than me.
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: You I don't. I don't you know. I don't know
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: this lady. I don't know her. You know her?
• 22:55
  Speaker 5: Right?
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: So I gotta trust the God.
• 22:58
  Speaker 5: I serve to meet the God and hurt and see
• 23:01
  Speaker 5: the Goud in me to make it make sense.
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: Certain people just won't be on the platform. People that
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: would have statuses, a whole bunch of followers. I had
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: to I had to really tell talk to God and say,
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: you know what.
• 23:15
  Speaker 5: I can't get off caught up in one point two million,
• 23:18
  Speaker 5: five point two million, sixty four million a being.
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: I can't get caught up in those numbers.
• 23:23
  Speaker 5: What I can get caught up in is your yes
• 23:26
  Speaker 5: and your no, because this is your platform, and if
• 23:30
  Speaker 5: it doesn't make sense, it just doesn't make sense.
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: It just does not make sense.
• 23:34
  Speaker 5: And so what I love about Dave is shout out
• 23:38
  Speaker 5: to Dave and if I'm gonna this is a shameless
• 23:40
  Speaker 5: plug Podcast Summit twenty twenty five, August seventh and eighth,
• 23:45
  Speaker 5: go to www dot podcast summit dot com, get your tickets.
• 23:49
  Speaker 5: I'm gonna be there. Does a reds gonna be there?
• 23:52
  Speaker 5: If you're a creator, entrepreneur, if you're thinking about a podcast,
• 23:55
  Speaker 5: if you have a podcast, if you just had like
• 23:57
  Speaker 5: social media and general being created in general, you want
• 23:59
  Speaker 5: to be there.
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 24:00
  Speaker 5: But Dave has this these episodes that are called podcast Exposed,
• 24:06
  Speaker 5: and he had it with the hardly initiated.
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: Host Ryan and Tasha. I love those guys.
• 24:13
  Speaker 5: I absolutely love them because they're literally doing what I'm
• 24:16
  Speaker 5: doing right and what they've done what I'm doing.
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: Let me make this they are forerunners, okay.
• 24:23
  Speaker 5: And why I say that is because their platform did
• 24:26
  Speaker 5: not start as a faith based platform. It started as
• 24:30
  Speaker 5: a relationship platform, like almost like a man cave, and
• 24:35
  Speaker 5: you've seen them developed from what they thought they wanted
• 24:37
  Speaker 5: to where to where God wants to be literally, and
• 24:42
  Speaker 5: so because of that, Dave was like he was on
• 24:44
  Speaker 5: the podcast in the earlier days and his this is
• 24:48
  Speaker 5: this is so good. This is why having a relationship
• 24:50
  Speaker 5: with your yes and your no is so especially your no,
• 24:53
  Speaker 5: it is so important. Dave goes, well, I was on
• 24:56
  Speaker 5: your platform, but I don't think I should have on
• 25:00
  Speaker 5: your platform. He was like, yeah, I'm a good eart
• 25:04
  Speaker 5: just period. Like because of where they're come to, right,
• 25:07
  Speaker 5: Dave ain't no. Dave has this relationship with God, right,
• 25:10
  Speaker 5: no doubt about it. He is very structured with this
• 25:13
  Speaker 5: relationship with God. The man pray he get off the line.
• 25:16
  Speaker 5: He said, I gotta, I gotta get off here. I
• 25:17
  Speaker 5: gotta my prayer time. That that man got a relationship
• 25:20
  Speaker 5: with God. But that's not his faith based content is
• 25:23
  Speaker 5: not his lane lane, it's not his lane. It does
• 25:26
  Speaker 5: doesn't mean he's not faithful. It means that he's just
• 25:29
  Speaker 5: not That's not his focus. His focus is getting people
• 25:32
  Speaker 5: six figures, seven figures in their business. He knows himself.
• 25:36
  Speaker 5: Oh this girl, this is I don't know, this is
• 25:38
  Speaker 5: free of you, but.
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: This is free in me.
• 25:41
  Speaker 5: Dave knows hisself himself. So watching Dave, you know, operate
• 25:46
  Speaker 5: in his lane is a blessing. But even operating your
• 25:49
  Speaker 5: lane makes you appreciate other's lane and not this is
• 25:53
  Speaker 5: so good. Not disrespect what they are doing in their lane.
• 25:57
  Speaker 5: Because if it's me and I'm trying to be on
• 26:01
  Speaker 5: social proof.
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: Pocket for what for what?
• 26:03
  Speaker 5: I ain't done nothing yet to prove nothing?
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: What do I look like? Dave? I want you to
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: be on my podcast, Dave, I want you to be.
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: I think Dave would possibly give me a yes if
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: I asked him, but I don't think it's time yet.
• 26:18
  Speaker 5: You get what I'm saying, Like we look at these
• 26:20
  Speaker 5: people like, oh my gosh, they can change my life. No,
• 26:23
  Speaker 5: this is one thing I asked God. This is one
• 26:26
  Speaker 5: thing I asked God. You guys when Tiffany did with
• 26:29
  Speaker 5: this why it was so powerful when Tiffany did what
• 26:31
  Speaker 5: she did with the subscribers in Herry being shout out
• 26:34
  Speaker 5: to Tiffany called white my white. This was so powerful
• 26:38
  Speaker 5: because I literally just asked God that week, I said God,
• 26:42
  Speaker 5: knowing that the hundredth episode was coming, said, God, I
• 26:46
  Speaker 5: really need you to get me to a thousand subscribers before,
• 26:51
  Speaker 5: because I don't want that to be done because of misstail. Yeah,
• 26:56
  Speaker 5: I want you to get the glory for it. I
• 26:59
  Speaker 5: don't need me even myself to think forget y'all.
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: I love y'all.
• 27:05
  Speaker 5: I don't need myself to think, Oh, the only way
• 27:08
  Speaker 5: I'm gonna get somewhere is because miss tab is on
• 27:10
  Speaker 5: my because on my platform influence, and she's like, thank
• 27:15
  Speaker 5: God for Miss Tabs. I appreciate it, and I know
• 27:17
  Speaker 5: she will appreciate me saying this. I needed something to
• 27:20
  Speaker 5: prove that I was on the right lane before the
• 27:23
  Speaker 5: glory and the overflow of miss tabbs presence, Miss tabs
• 27:28
  Speaker 5: presence is overflow.
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I wish I could in your face
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: right now. Sorry, But.
• 27:41
  Speaker 5: Missus tabbs presence is overflow of what God was already doing.
• 27:49
  Speaker 5: And so when Tiff did that, I was like, I
• 27:52
  Speaker 5: was shocked. I was like, I didn't know.
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: It was gonna come like this. I did, she did.
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: I didn't.
• 27:57
  Speaker 5: It was definitely a surprise. But our relationship is what
• 28:00
  Speaker 5: our yes and knows allow us to know. Where we
• 28:02
  Speaker 5: need to be, when we need to be there, how
• 28:07
  Speaker 5: we need to be there, and what we need to
• 28:10
  Speaker 5: be doing, especially if you're if you're multily multi faceted,
• 28:13
  Speaker 5: which a lot of creatives creatives are, If you're multi faceted, Okay,
• 28:18
  Speaker 5: how you know somebody needs you to be on media?
• 28:20
  Speaker 5: How do you know if you need to just serve
• 28:22
  Speaker 5: as this very churchy but am a beer? How you
• 28:25
  Speaker 5: let me, perfect example, Desirain, when you did my.
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: My makeup. So listen, y'all.
• 28:33
  Speaker 5: Let me tell y'all, Desiree has a photography business. Go
• 28:35
  Speaker 5: ahead and shout yourself out.
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: Hey, I do photography. I'm just laying so I do. So.
• 28:40
  Speaker 5: I am a licensed cosmetologist. Okay, I've been doing here
• 28:44
  Speaker 5: since I was twelve. I've been licensed to twenty fourteen. Yes,
• 28:47
  Speaker 5: I started out building a salon, but I've always had
• 28:50
  Speaker 5: a passion for creative things. And so while I was
• 28:52
  Speaker 5: in college, I took my first photography class and kind
• 28:54
  Speaker 5: of just love the idea of like just capturing time.
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: Okay, and so in twenty twenty.
• 28:59
  Speaker 5: I I decided to add on branding photography to my.
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: Business of things. Okay, do photography, thank you?
• 29:09
  Speaker 5: And Where can they find you at desire Danielle dot
• 29:12
  Speaker 5: com www dot desiree Danielle dot com.
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: Thank you Jessica, okay, cause she be playing, y'all. She's playing.
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: I can't wait for y'all to see these pictures.
• 29:20
  Speaker 5: So I had the honor of being on the cover
• 29:24
  Speaker 5: of Women of Home, Women of Hope shout out to
• 29:27
  Speaker 5: Dorcas Pittman, and I had to do a photo shoot.
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: Well their photographer. Just so happens if you just a ray.
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: I am a resident photographer. Ain't that something.
• 29:39
  Speaker 6: There?
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: She's the resident photographer and she's my photographer. So it
• 29:43
  Speaker 2: just worked out.
• 29:44
  Speaker 5: I needed my hair done, I need my makeup, I was.
• 29:47
  Speaker 5: I was panicking at one point, but she, the Woman
• 29:50
  Speaker 5: of God, told me that it was gonna be okay.
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: She's like, well, she said, between me and you will
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: figure it out.
• 29:56
  Speaker 6: Baby.
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: After she told me, I said.
• 29:57
  Speaker 6: I ain't even worried about trying to book nobody.
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: She literally gave me all of herself. This is so good.
• 30:07
  Speaker 5: But there were times where it wasn't necessary for all
• 30:12
  Speaker 5: of her to serve me.
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: This is so good, and so the timing of it,
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: because when we don't know the timing of it. We
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: wonder why we're draining.
• 30:20
  Speaker 5: We wonder why we're tired, we wonder why we're weary,
• 30:24
  Speaker 5: we wonder why we're dry because we don't know how
• 30:27
  Speaker 5: to properly manage our no.
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: That's good. Yes, I've been diluted.
• 30:34
  Speaker 5: I've been in a dry place because God didn't even
• 30:38
  Speaker 5: give me permission to say yes. Like, if we really
• 30:43
  Speaker 5: think about it, our relationship with a no reflects how
• 30:48
  Speaker 5: we operate with God, and it tells us how much
• 30:52
  Speaker 5: we trust God. Because, like I go back to it,
• 30:55
  Speaker 5: sometimes a noe does not mean no, completely mean no,
• 31:01
  Speaker 5: not right now.
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: God, You're showing me this not right now. Just like
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: my mama, she will say no, no, and she said
• 31:11
  Speaker 2: get get out my face.
• 31:13
  Speaker 5: If she meant get out of my face, that meant hey,
• 31:15
  Speaker 5: not right now, not right now.
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: But hey, we can revisit this again. So I knew.
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: So I would circle back around and I'll ask again
• 31:20
  Speaker 2: and she'd be like, whatever, okay, all right, yeah, when
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: the time was right? When when the time was when
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: the time was right and okay.
• 31:28
  Speaker 5: So to go back to the question of how do
• 31:31
  Speaker 5: I differentiate the no between the not right now right
• 31:33
  Speaker 5: for me? For me, the discernment is strong, right, the
• 31:38
  Speaker 5: Lord really works in my good Okay, I don't know
• 31:42
  Speaker 5: how to explain it, but I can just feel something
• 31:46
  Speaker 5: and I'll give y'all even a right now example, Thank
• 31:51
  Speaker 5: you Holy Spirit.
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: This is so good. So the safe space, I announced.
• 31:57
  Speaker 5: That we're doing a tour and all this stuff like that,
• 32:01
  Speaker 5: and that's still accurate.
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: That is still accurate. The timing on it. I was wrong.
• 32:09
  Speaker 5: I thought it was going to be this year. I
• 32:12
  Speaker 5: thought we were going to be traveling to these different
• 32:14
  Speaker 5: cities that the Lord have.
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: The Lord then me, I tell y'all the.
• 32:17
  Speaker 5: Man and I already gave me then already gave it
• 32:21
  Speaker 5: to me and confirmed it. And confirment. This is this
• 32:25
  Speaker 5: is where the irritation comes. It's like and confirment. So
• 32:29
  Speaker 5: you're trying to move on what God said, but he
• 32:31
  Speaker 5: hasn't given you the fullness, right, and so thank God
• 32:35
  Speaker 5: for Dave. I know, I say they name a lot
• 32:37
  Speaker 5: this episode, but emmu Morning meet up.
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: The morning meet up. He was talking about why.
• 32:47
  Speaker 5: He was like, why do you need to have a
• 32:50
  Speaker 5: in person event?
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: Why can't it be virtual?
• 32:53
  Speaker 5: So he was challenging us on the why we wanted
• 32:55
  Speaker 5: to have in person events, especially starting out, because in
• 32:58
  Speaker 5: person events are really expect So I was thinking, I
• 33:02
  Speaker 5: was like, why do I want this event to be
• 33:06
  Speaker 5: in person? Because I saw it, That's why? But is
• 33:10
  Speaker 5: that how God wants to start it? So that conversation
• 33:14
  Speaker 5: made me draw back and say, Okay, God, do I
• 33:17
  Speaker 5: have permission to just expose what you're doing and then
• 33:22
  Speaker 5: you will make ways for us to go. Y'all when
• 33:25
  Speaker 5: I tell you it has blessed us, we didn't got
• 33:28
  Speaker 5: We're gonna be here. The covering we already girl is
• 33:35
  Speaker 5: all ready there for you. Just because you got a
• 33:39
  Speaker 5: idea doesn't mean you need a new building. Doesn't that
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  Speaker 5: need I don't know who this is for. I feel
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  Speaker 5: God on this. It doesn't mean that you need a
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  Speaker 5: new building on either you need a new product. It's
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  Speaker 5: the idea to enhance where you already are. Oh my god,
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  Speaker 5: it's an idea to enhance where you already are. And
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  Speaker 5: so sometimes we over over cloud the planning process, overcloud ourselves,
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  Speaker 5: don't give ourselves enough wiggle room because we think it
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  Speaker 5: gotta be done the way.
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  Speaker 2: We see it.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah. Also, and I think I'm gonna stick to it.
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  Speaker 5: What I'm learning is because I've done. I've done a
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  Speaker 5: lot in my short thirty eight point five years of living, right,
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  Speaker 5: I've done a lot, Like I tried, like you're talking about,
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  Speaker 5: just like trying different things, Like ideas would come. I
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  Speaker 5: would see people doing things, opportunities will come and I
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  Speaker 5: would just try them and they did not work.
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 5: But what I'm learning in this season is because one
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  Speaker 5: thing I was missing was the collaboration with the Lord.
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  Speaker 5: I was literally missing the collaboration with the Lord because
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  Speaker 5: I would see something and I'd be like, oh yeah,
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  Speaker 5: because I.
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  Speaker 2: Knew my abilities, like I knew I could do.
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  Speaker 5: It, but also and I didn't have the partnership with
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  Speaker 5: the Holy Spirit that would have given me the stability
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  Speaker 5: that would have given me the strategy to make that
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  Speaker 5: thing sustainable.
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  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 5: So here, I am trying to do all these things
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  Speaker 5: on my own strength and own understanding because I saw it. Yeah,
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  Speaker 5: but yeah, he could have been like a lot of
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  Speaker 5: things now that are happening I've seen years ago come
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  Speaker 5: on COVID, like creating content. I've seen that then, but
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  Speaker 5: it wasn't for then. And it's also what I'm learning,
• 35:08
  Speaker 5: it's not just for me, Like a lot of the
• 35:10
  Speaker 5: things that are happening now there for me to be
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  Speaker 5: partnering collaborating with the people that he sends to me,
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  Speaker 5: for me to partner and collaborate with, because he has
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  Speaker 5: something that he needs to do in this earth right exactly,
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  Speaker 5: and it's and it's our opportunity to take those things
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  Speaker 5: back to him and say, Okay, Lord, I'm learning these
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  Speaker 5: things and these classes, Like I saw this vision.
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  Speaker 2: What do you want to do with this? What am
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: I to do with this? Even in this season?
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  Speaker 5: Because in the season, it may not be nothing for
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  Speaker 5: you to just plant the seed and just water it.
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  Speaker 5: Come on, you know what I'm saying. It just maybe
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  Speaker 5: it's time for you to just to plant the seed
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  Speaker 5: and protect this thing. It may not even for you
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  Speaker 5: to be to.
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  Speaker 2: Talk about to move repeat that part. You know what
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  Speaker 2: I'm saying. It may not even for you to talk
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  Speaker 2: about it and move on.
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  Speaker 5: It just made me like, hey, here it is. I
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  Speaker 5: just need to protect this because there's a time coming.
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  Speaker 5: See write it down, yes, write it down. Because the
• 35:55
  Speaker 5: thing the reason why we want to say stuff, I'm
• 35:57
  Speaker 5: about to get us. The reason why we want to
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  Speaker 5: say stuff is because we want to be able to
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  Speaker 5: prove that it was idea, just in case somebody snatched it.
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  Speaker 2: My daddy good at this, y'all. I love my daddy,
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  Speaker 2: but y'all know, y'all parents be saying, hey, some of
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  Speaker 2: your parents have done it too.
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  Speaker 5: See I thought about that, and all they took my idea.
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  Speaker 5: My mama then said it too.
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  Speaker 2: What did they take? Was it your idea, the idea
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  Speaker 2: that you didn't execute on? Was it the Lord that
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: gave you idea that he wanted you to do it?
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  Speaker 2: You didn't. You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 5: Sometimes we just want to say stuff and just to
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  Speaker 5: be like, I want to prove myself. I want to
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  Speaker 5: prove that it was in my mind. But that's not enough, right,
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  Speaker 5: And so I think that just and this goes to
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  Speaker 5: this point, right, and we're gonna land the plane here.
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  Speaker 5: This goes to this point. Interview God, interview God, give
• 36:58
  Speaker 5: him the yes no maybe formula, Give him the yes
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  Speaker 5: no maybe formula, and allow him to get make.
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  Speaker 2: Room for his answer. This is so good. Allow him
• 37:16
  Speaker 2: to make room for his answer.
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  Speaker 5: And then you the certain things that you're going through,
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  Speaker 5: certain things you would you're dealing with, you won't have
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  Speaker 5: to deal with anymore.
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  Speaker 2: You won't be confused, you won't be lost, you won't
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  Speaker 2: be you.
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  Speaker 5: Won't be hesitating, right, you will move on the voice
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  Speaker 5: and the mind of God.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, and that's it. That's it. That's all I got, man.
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  Speaker 1: That's so good.
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  Speaker 2: That's it's definite.
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  Speaker 5: Got how we say think it's going no, because that
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  Speaker 5: was not the conversation that said it's gonna help.
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