Latest / Hurdle with Emily Abbate / 303. Pressure Makes Diamonds: UConn Women's Basketball Director of Sports Performance Andrea Hudy Talks A Winner's Mindset & Navigating Intense Moments
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Our standards are pretty much still the same in terms of,
- 0:03Speaker 1: you know, be a good teammate, work hard, accept feedback,
- 0:08Speaker 1: and honesties are most efficient policy.
- 0:26Speaker 2: What's going on everyone, Emily Abadi?
- 0:28Speaker 1: Here?
- 0:29Speaker 3: You are listening to episode three hundred and three of Hurdle,
- 0:33Speaker 3: a wellness focused podcast where I talk to inspirational people
- 0:36Speaker 3: about everything from their highest ties and toughest moments to
- 0:39Speaker 3: essential tips on how to live a healthier, happier, more
- 0:43Speaker 3: motivated life. We all go through our fair share of hurdles.
- 0:48Speaker 3: My goal through these discussions is to empower you to
- 0:51Speaker 3: better navigate yours and move with intention so that you
- 0:54Speaker 3: get stride towards your own big potential and of course,
- 0:58Speaker 3: have some fun a lot the way, and honestly, fun
- 1:02Speaker 3: is exactly what I had with today's guest. Her name
- 1:07Speaker 3: is Andrea Hoodie. She is the director of Sports Performance
- 1:12Speaker 3: for women's basketball at the one, the only University of Connecticut. Now,
- 1:18Speaker 3: whether or not you are a fan of women's college basketball,
- 1:23Speaker 3: you certainly know about Yukon. I have a personal bias
- 1:27Speaker 3: as I am a Yukon grad. But I was so
- 1:30Speaker 3: so amped when my dear friend and coach, Rebecca Stow
- 1:33Speaker 3: connected me with whody to have today's conversation, and if
- 1:37Speaker 3: we talk about so many things, a resounding theme of pressure.
- 1:41Speaker 3: There's a lot going on with what she does and
- 1:44Speaker 3: the ins and outs of working with such an excellent team,
- 1:48Speaker 3: how she manages that pressure, and how she advises her
- 1:52Speaker 3: athletes to do the same. We talk a lot about
- 1:55Speaker 3: the fact that these girls are under such intense circumstances
- 1:59Speaker 3: and the fact that they are also only between the
- 2:02Speaker 3: ages of roughly eighteen and twenty two, right, so so
- 2:05Speaker 3: much responsibility on their shoulders.
- 2:08Speaker 2: At such a young age.
- 2:10Speaker 3: We also chat about what it's like for her to
- 2:12Speaker 3: be a role model to these women, what it looks
- 2:15Speaker 3: like for her to take care of herself these days
- 2:17Speaker 3: and implement boundaries. She opens up about how the pressure
- 2:21Speaker 3: once got to her and what it looks like for
- 2:24Speaker 3: her to then implement certain routines and practices into her
- 2:28Speaker 3: life to be a better person, a better coach, and
- 2:31Speaker 3: also prioritize herself. That was really a strong, strong takeaway
- 2:36Speaker 3: for me. Again, as a Yukon grad, I was so
- 2:41Speaker 3: excited to be able to have this conversation, this sit down.
- 2:43Speaker 3: It's been a really special time, not only for women
- 2:47Speaker 3: in sports, but to be a woman's sports fan, and.
- 2:50Speaker 2: Hoodi is one of the best of the best in
- 2:52Speaker 2: the game.
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- 3:16Speaker 2: Let's get to a hurdling.
- 3:26Speaker 3: Today I have the honor of sitting down with Andrea Hoodie.
- 3:30Speaker 3: She's the director of sports performance for women's basketball at
- 3:34Speaker 3: the one, the only, the University of Connecticut.
- 3:40Speaker 2: This pumping happened behind the scenes.
- 3:42Speaker 1: Scared.
- 3:42Speaker 2: How you doing today?
- 3:44Speaker 1: We're great here? Yeah, how are you?
- 3:46Speaker 2: I'm good? So great here.
- 3:47Speaker 3: It means great in stores, this is a beautiful sunny
- 3:50Speaker 3: day in stores like it is.
- 3:51Speaker 1: Yeah, it might be it's probably hotter in the city,
- 3:54Speaker 1: but it is beautiful. I just got back from my walk,
- 3:57Speaker 1: so life is good.
- 3:58Speaker 2: Life is good.
- 3:59Speaker 3: I will say that a lot has changed about the
- 4:03Speaker 3: University of Connecticut since I graduated from there in twenty ten.
- 4:07Speaker 2: Primarily the fact that.
- 4:08Speaker 3: Y'all have a little bit more going on around campus now,
- 4:11Speaker 3: there's more to do.
- 4:12Speaker 2: It's more of a city than it used to be.
- 4:14Speaker 1: Yeah, and you just said, y'all, I'm.
- 4:17Speaker 2: From Connecticut, so I don't really know where that teams from.
- 4:19Speaker 1: Moody. Yeah, campus is beautiful. They've really done a lot
- 4:25Speaker 1: of work. It's unbelievable in terms of the buildings and
- 4:28Speaker 1: the landscapes. So yeah, it's great.
- 4:31Speaker 2: It's great.
- 4:32Speaker 3: Well, I was so excited when we were connected by
- 4:36Speaker 3: a dear friend of mine. Shout out to Rebecca Stow,
- 4:39Speaker 3: not only because I am a Yukon alum, but also
- 4:43Speaker 3: because there is so much I want to know about
- 4:47Speaker 3: the thought process, about the you know, the team development,
- 4:51Speaker 3: the interpersonal development that goes into creating such.
- 4:55Speaker 2: A kick ass team.
- 4:57Speaker 3: Excuse me for lack of a better So, my first
- 5:00Speaker 3: and foremost, let's talk a little bit about you. Let's
- 5:02Speaker 3: talk a little bit about how you ended up in
- 5:05Speaker 3: this position, because I know you have certainly made your
- 5:09Speaker 3: way from one place to the next every Now, yeah,
- 5:12Speaker 3: talk to me a little bit about that.
- 5:14Speaker 1: Wow, my relationship with coach orim and staff started nineteen
- 5:18Speaker 1: eighty seven when they recruited me as an athlete, I
- 5:22Speaker 1: became aware of who they were and what they were about.
- 5:26Speaker 1: I obviously and unfortunately didn't get to play for them
- 5:29Speaker 1: because I was an injured athlete. And yeah, I think
- 5:34Speaker 1: the injury that I had and sustained when I was
- 5:36Speaker 1: fifteen years old has really driven me to try to
- 5:40Speaker 1: continue my work and try to keep people from getting
- 5:44Speaker 1: injured or injured more than what they have been. So
- 5:47Speaker 1: here I am studying my PhD. At you kind of back,
- 5:50Speaker 1: you know, after twenty years.
- 5:53Speaker 3: Back after twenty years, talk to me a little bit
- 5:55Speaker 3: about that injury.
- 5:56Speaker 2: What were you dealing with?
- 5:58Speaker 1: Yeah, so I it was a multi sport athlete in
- 6:01Speaker 1: high school. I I think we'll probably get to this story.
- 6:05Speaker 1: But I was a pretty big competitor when I was
- 6:08Speaker 1: little because I was the youngest of five in a
- 6:11Speaker 1: family that was super competitive who then had competitive friends,
- 6:15Speaker 1: and everything was a competition. But I think my mom
- 6:19Speaker 1: realized there was a problem with me being competitive when
- 6:22Speaker 1: I was like five or six or seven, when my brother,
- 6:26Speaker 1: you know, he beat me in a bike race around
- 6:28Speaker 1: the house and locked the door. So I was so
- 6:31Speaker 1: upset that I lost that I put my hand through
- 6:33Speaker 1: the window and you know, have a scar in my
- 6:36Speaker 1: hand because because he beat me. So I think she
- 6:39Speaker 1: was like, hey, I have a problem here, right. That's
- 6:43Speaker 1: where it all started.
- 6:45Speaker 3: And so that competitive nature from an early age then
- 6:49Speaker 3: really encouraged you to become more involved with sport as
- 6:53Speaker 3: you got older. Talk to me about your entry into
- 6:55Speaker 3: sport beyond racing around the house.
- 6:58Speaker 1: Yeah. Actually it was pe football with my brother. I
- 7:02Speaker 1: was full back, he was the quarterback. And then my
- 7:05Speaker 1: brothers were wrestlers also, but back then they didn't have
- 7:08Speaker 1: sports for young females. So I was like, hey, I'm
- 7:11Speaker 1: going to do it, and my mom encouraged me to
- 7:15Speaker 1: compete and win against them, so that has stuck through
- 7:19Speaker 1: my career. So I played football and wrestled with my
- 7:24Speaker 1: brothers and their friends. And then the first sport that
- 7:29Speaker 1: was available to me at the time was girls junior
- 7:32Speaker 1: high basketball, and I took those behaviors and onto the court,
- 7:37Speaker 1: which wasn't good because then people would yell at me,
- 7:39Speaker 1: it's not football, you know. So then just picked up volleyball.
- 7:45Speaker 1: But I was a better basketball player than anything. I
- 7:48Speaker 1: think those other sports kind of translated to body positioning
- 7:51Speaker 1: and you know, advancing the ball. And then I got hurt.
- 7:55Speaker 1: I was fifteen. I was pretty good, pretty athletic, but
- 7:58Speaker 1: then you know that never came back and I hit
- 8:02Speaker 1: my athletic peak hit fourteen or fifteen years old. Yeah,
- 8:06Speaker 1: and then I played volleyball in college at the University
- 8:09Speaker 1: of Maryland. We won an ACC championship. And after I
- 8:14Speaker 1: was in school, I did an internship in corporate fitness
- 8:18Speaker 1: and I thought that's what I wanted to do because
- 8:19Speaker 1: I thought I could make more money in corporate fitness.
- 8:22Speaker 1: But I hated it because not everybody likes to exercise
- 8:25Speaker 1: like I do. And I came to grad school at Yukon.
- 8:29Speaker 1: We got a master's in sport Biomechanics. And then just
- 8:33Speaker 1: being around the culture that they had here for women's basketball,
- 8:36Speaker 1: I thought was pretty special. And it just was that, like,
- 8:41Speaker 1: you know, my soul was satisfied being here with just
- 8:46Speaker 1: the competitive nature and the ultimate goal of winning. Yeah.
- 8:51Speaker 3: And it's so interesting to hear about how from such
- 8:54Speaker 3: a young age you were so competitive and now to
- 8:57Speaker 3: be at this powerhouse school for women's basketball kind of
- 9:02Speaker 3: leading that charge there. When you think about what you're
- 9:05Speaker 3: doing now. Could you even have imagined this as a
- 9:09Speaker 3: younger you.
- 9:10Speaker 1: I don't know what I imagined. I knew I wanted
- 9:13Speaker 1: to be an athlete. I knew that, but then that
- 9:15Speaker 1: was taken away from me, you know, with injury at
- 9:19Speaker 1: the level that I wanted to be at, you know. So,
- 9:21Speaker 1: but then I would have those competitions with the athletes daily,
- 9:27Speaker 1: and I think that's what helped me coach men and
- 9:32Speaker 1: be successful in the men's side of things too. So, Yeah,
- 9:35Speaker 1: it was just a phenomenal experience that I embraced and
- 9:39Speaker 1: just was living and breathing it.
- 9:42Speaker 3: Yeah, when you were going through your injury, talk to
- 9:47Speaker 3: us a little bit about specifically what that was and
- 9:49Speaker 3: what that did for you mentally.
- 9:53Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't think I realized how traumatic the injury was.
- 9:57Speaker 1: But the problem with it was, and this is why
- 9:59Speaker 1: I'm studying what I am now, was everybody told me
- 10:02Speaker 1: I was okay, I could go back and play, you know.
- 10:05Speaker 1: So it was an ACL tear or I first hyper
- 10:08Speaker 1: extended my knee transitioning from volleyball in high school to basketball.
- 10:12Speaker 1: I was running down the court and I remember hyper
- 10:14Speaker 1: extending my knee and I was like, man, that hurt. Well,
- 10:17Speaker 1: two weeks later, I tear my ACL and I'm piecing
- 10:19Speaker 1: all these pieces together, and then the docs. You know,
- 10:23Speaker 1: I didn't grow up in a very populated area. You know,
- 10:27Speaker 1: it was pretty rural, so you know, they tape you
- 10:31Speaker 1: back up and put you back in, and then you know,
- 10:34Speaker 1: the traumatic incidents would happen against It was like these
- 10:37Speaker 1: trauma on top of the trauma on top of the
- 10:39Speaker 1: physical trauma. And then it gets to a point where
- 10:43Speaker 1: I was strong enough to I think, have your system
- 10:47Speaker 1: protect itself from a bad ligament. But eventually that ligament,
- 10:51Speaker 1: you know, is compromised or compromised more so. I've had
- 10:56Speaker 1: traumatic acls, I've had non traumatic ACL eights surgeries. Later
- 11:00Speaker 1: on my eighth one, I had my knee replaced at
- 11:02Speaker 1: forty seven.
- 11:04Speaker 2: So wow, wow, Okay, well we'll get to the new
- 11:07Speaker 2: or of lace and go.
- 11:09Speaker 3: I do want to go back and double a click
- 11:11Speaker 3: on what you were saying about kind of the vigor
- 11:14Speaker 3: that was instilled in you to be able to show
- 11:16Speaker 3: up and coach the men's teams. So before you were
- 11:20Speaker 3: doing what you are doing now you've had a lengthy
- 11:23Speaker 3: opportunity to kind of make some pivots within the coaching world.
- 11:26Speaker 3: Talk to me about your first coaching job and how
- 11:30Speaker 3: it felt from the get go.
- 11:32Speaker 1: Well, I would say my first coaching job was as
- 11:34Speaker 1: a graduate assistant here at Yukon and it was I
- 11:37Speaker 1: think there were probably twenty seven sports, and it was
- 11:39Speaker 1: back in the day when you were in the weight
- 11:42Speaker 1: room and you were trying to help people get stronger.
- 11:44Speaker 1: And it's advanced from that, right, so thirty years later,
- 11:47Speaker 1: it's very different than where I started. But it was
- 11:50Speaker 1: like an athlete factory. I mean we worked from six
- 11:53Speaker 1: to six and it was like you had a group
- 11:56Speaker 1: on the hour, every hour, and it was every team.
- 11:59Speaker 1: It eventually got to I was in charge of men's
- 12:02Speaker 1: and women's basketball here where I have five national championships
- 12:06Speaker 1: from ninety five to four and women and then in
- 12:10Speaker 1: ninety nine and four we won with the men and
- 12:13Speaker 1: then I have a soccer national championship under my belt too.
- 12:18Speaker 1: So I've been fortunate to be a part of it.
- 12:22Speaker 2: Been fortunate to be a part of it.
- 12:24Speaker 3: So for you, as someone who has been in this
- 12:27Speaker 3: coaching position for some time now, what does it mean
- 12:30Speaker 3: for you to be a coach.
- 12:32Speaker 2: What do you think are.
- 12:33Speaker 3: Necessary either characteristics or ways that you need to approach
- 12:37Speaker 3: certain things to be the best coach that you can be.
- 12:42Speaker 1: I always say that you need to be able to
- 12:43Speaker 1: teach and motivate. So that's where I think education is priceless.
- 12:49Speaker 1: But that's all built on the relationships that you develop
- 12:52Speaker 1: with people. Because again people have probably heard me say this,
- 12:56Speaker 1: but there's there's a golden rule, which is treat people
- 12:59Speaker 1: how you want to be treated. But then there's the
- 13:01Speaker 1: platinum role, which is treat others how they how they
- 13:05Speaker 1: want to be treated. So you actually need to get
- 13:07Speaker 1: to know somebody and understand what they like to learn
- 13:10Speaker 1: or how they like to learn, how they want to communicate.
- 13:13Speaker 1: You know. Yeah, you got to get to know people
- 13:16Speaker 1: if you want to be successful. I think in any
- 13:18Speaker 1: kind of teaching or coaching environment.
- 13:20Speaker 3: I would assume there's a lot of barriers there, or hurdles,
- 13:24Speaker 3: if you will, because you are dealing with so many
- 13:28Speaker 3: different athletes at once. So it's really important to pay
- 13:35Speaker 3: attention to who it is you're working with and what
- 13:38Speaker 3: makes them.
- 13:39Speaker 1: Tech Yeah, for sure. Again, and every sport culture is different,
- 13:44Speaker 1: so then you have the people in the sport culture
- 13:47Speaker 1: that play different positions, who learn different and then you
- 13:50Speaker 1: got the sport culture, and then you get the culture
- 13:52Speaker 1: the athletic department. You have all these cultures, and I
- 13:55Speaker 1: asked somebody what culture meant one time, and it was
- 13:59Speaker 1: just what we do here and how we operate here.
- 14:01Speaker 1: So each one of those units has their own kind
- 14:05Speaker 1: of culture. So I feel like I'm pretty good at adaptability.
- 14:10Speaker 1: But also, you know, there are standards, and there are
- 14:13Speaker 1: standards that you're like, you need to hit here or
- 14:15Speaker 1: else You're we're not going to be successful. So I
- 14:18Speaker 1: think if you know those standards, at least we can
- 14:22Speaker 1: hit the bottom part of hey, we're ready to compete.
- 14:27Speaker 3: I would assume that those standards also kind of ebb
- 14:30Speaker 3: and flow or shift over time, depending on not only
- 14:33Speaker 3: what's happening in your locker room, on your course, but
- 14:37Speaker 3: also what's happening with the climate of the game. You know,
- 14:40Speaker 3: we've seen such an outstanding rise of talent, specifically within
- 14:45Speaker 3: women's sports, over the last few years, and so the
- 14:48Speaker 3: standards that we may have had back in twenty twenty
- 14:52Speaker 3: are certainly different than they are in twenty twenty four.
- 14:56Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good point. I haven't thought about that. Again.
- 15:00Speaker 1: I worked with Sue Bird and Diana Torazzi, so they
- 15:05Speaker 1: graduate or Sue I think graduated in two thousand and
- 15:08Speaker 1: two and Diana was two thousand and four. Our standards
- 15:11Speaker 1: are pretty much still the same in terms of, you know,
- 15:15Speaker 1: be a good teammate, work hard, accept feedback and honesties
- 15:20Speaker 1: are most efficient policy and our goal and our standard
- 15:24Speaker 1: is to win, and it's whatever it takes to win.
- 15:28Speaker 1: And it's hard. It's a process for sure, because you've
- 15:30Speaker 1: got to commit to so many other things. You've got
- 15:32Speaker 1: to put the team before yourself every time.
- 15:35Speaker 3: How has that been for you as you have tried
- 15:39Speaker 3: to maintain some semblance of your own personal life outside
- 15:45Speaker 3: of the court.
- 15:45Speaker 2: Outside of the locker room, Like, oh, that's a funny question.
- 15:49Speaker 3: I'm suposed to have my own personal life.
- 15:53Speaker 1: What's the guy's name on ted Lasso? He's the football
- 15:57Speaker 1: is life. Athletics and health and wellness are life for me.
- 16:02Speaker 1: So yeah, that's why again I'm working on my fourth
- 16:06Speaker 1: degree in a PhD and exercise science, and it's life
- 16:11Speaker 1: for me for sure. I do have a step daughter
- 16:15Speaker 1: and a spouse and my brothers and sisters, but yeah,
- 16:22Speaker 1: it's always family first.
- 16:24Speaker 3: Yeah, and for you, what I'm hearing you say, though,
- 16:27Speaker 3: is that it's bigger than your you know, God given family,
- 16:31Speaker 3: your blood family. It's your family has become within the
- 16:35Speaker 3: workplace for you. It's a sure community for you to
- 16:39Speaker 3: have these very dynamic and unique relationships that you have
- 16:44Speaker 3: the opportunity to build and foster over the course of
- 16:47Speaker 3: not just the four years that these athletes are within
- 16:50Speaker 3: the Yukon atmosphere for lack of a better term, but
- 16:54Speaker 3: also beyond that.
- 16:56Speaker 1: Yeah, I've been called mom before, I've been called sister,
- 16:59Speaker 1: I've been caught and yeah, it's kind of cool when
- 17:03Speaker 1: that happens, for sure.
- 17:05Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 17:06Speaker 3: So, although the standards have not changed, as you say,
- 17:10Speaker 3: I'm sure there are things that are different now versus
- 17:13Speaker 3: two thousand and four. And before we're talking bird, we're
- 17:16Speaker 3: talking to reci What has changed for you in this role.
- 17:20Speaker 1: Well, I think the athlete and society has changed, for sure.
- 17:24Speaker 1: There's things that we need to consider now that we
- 17:27Speaker 1: haven't considered in the past, whether that's early specialization, social media,
- 17:33Speaker 1: how kids learn and how they communicate that's very different.
- 17:36Speaker 1: I just did a presentation with my interns at a
- 17:40Speaker 1: national conference on how gen X can communicate with gen
- 17:44Speaker 1: Z and sometimes it takes other people to help figure
- 17:49Speaker 1: out how to communicate what needs to be communicated. Have
- 17:54Speaker 1: you read the Coddling of America's youth? Have you seen that?
- 17:58Speaker 2: I have not.
- 17:59Speaker 1: It's fascinating because it argues that people are less emotionally mature,
- 18:05Speaker 1: but they still have to come to college when they're eighteen,
- 18:07Speaker 1: you know, and then physically they're so early specialized that
- 18:12Speaker 1: physically I feel like they're older, but emotionally they might
- 18:15Speaker 1: be younger. So it's a little different for sure.
- 18:20Speaker 3: Yeah, I would have been super interested to be in
- 18:22Speaker 3: that room as you gave that presentation.
- 18:24Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it was good.
- 18:28Speaker 3: I think it was good, but that kind of actually
- 18:31Speaker 3: that concept I think it was good is going to
- 18:33Speaker 3: actually bring us back to where I want to go.
- 18:36Speaker 3: Because as you're preparing year in and year out with
- 18:39Speaker 3: the women's basketball team, you're doing the best you can
- 18:42Speaker 3: with what you have, right, and it's not until sometimes
- 18:45Speaker 3: you show up to these games, you show up to
- 18:48Speaker 3: this competition, that you realize that you might need to
- 18:51Speaker 3: change the definition of what good is.
- 18:54Speaker 2: Talk to me a little bit about.
- 18:56Speaker 3: How you have been working as these athletes and as
- 19:01Speaker 3: the teams evolve over time.
- 19:04Speaker 1: Yeah, I think there's still some standards in terms of
- 19:07Speaker 1: physical capacities that you need. You're still playing basketball, right
- 19:11Speaker 1: and there's still impact load, So are you strong enough
- 19:14Speaker 1: to handle the load when you jump? Stop? Can you
- 19:18Speaker 1: handle the load on one leg? And those are very
- 19:22Speaker 1: much They have strength standards and tissue density standards that
- 19:26Speaker 1: we have to build to get to. Now. You look
- 19:30Speaker 1: at the fitness world now and everybody's doing their own
- 19:34Speaker 1: version of whatever, but I still feel like there are
- 19:36Speaker 1: standards in terms of what we have to do to
- 19:38Speaker 1: provide that base strength that we can even compete and
- 19:42Speaker 1: survive in the sport.
- 19:44Speaker 3: You're actually shedding some light on what I wanted to
- 19:46Speaker 3: ask about the perhaps specifics within your role. So someone
- 19:52Speaker 3: hears that you're the director of sports performance for the
- 19:55Speaker 3: women's basketball team, what does that involve for you, whether
- 19:59Speaker 3: it be on a day today or just generally.
- 20:02Speaker 1: Yeah, I think the one thing that we have to
- 20:05Speaker 1: do these days is create a holistic environment where you
- 20:10Speaker 1: know you have to include nutrition. We were sleep tracking
- 20:15Speaker 1: looking at how sleep affected counter movement, jump and force production.
- 20:20Speaker 1: So it's like, not only is there just this performance
- 20:23Speaker 1: side of it and doing what you have to do
- 20:24Speaker 1: in the weight room. But there's a health side of
- 20:26Speaker 1: it too. People I always say that health is very
- 20:29Speaker 1: different than performance, and people argue with me with that,
- 20:33Speaker 1: which is fine, But I would tell you that my
- 20:37Speaker 1: health nutrition program is very different than a performance nutrition program.
- 20:41Speaker 1: So those are two different things, and I think performance
- 20:44Speaker 1: is just it's another level for sure.
- 20:48Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, you can be a healthy person without
- 20:50Speaker 3: being able to perform at what a peak might be.
- 20:55Speaker 2: Is that where you're coming from.
- 20:56Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, And again you're playing against some of the
- 21:00Speaker 1: athletes in the world, and you know that can weigh
- 21:06Speaker 1: up to you know, however much, or be as light
- 21:09Speaker 1: as whatever, But can you move your body and be
- 21:13Speaker 1: able to handle the forces that externally that are.
- 21:16Speaker 3: There Beyond that, I think what's super interesting is coming
- 21:21Speaker 3: back to earth and remembering that the young women you
- 21:25Speaker 3: are working with are just indeed that they are young women.
- 21:28Speaker 3: And so suddenly, as you know, coverage of women's sport
- 21:32Speaker 3: is increasing, we are seeing more and more of them
- 21:37Speaker 3: on bigger stages, which is outstanding, But a lot of
- 21:40Speaker 3: people are forgetting that we're dealing with women between ages
- 21:44Speaker 3: basically eighteen and twenty two.
- 21:47Speaker 1: Yes's it's a great point. Yeah, they're not professionals, but
- 21:50Speaker 1: I would tell you they're thrown into a professional environment
- 21:53Speaker 1: in college because that's changed too with NIL because now
- 21:56Speaker 1: these athletes are getting paid and they're professionals. They're making
- 22:00Speaker 1: more than I am. It's hard because you know, the
- 22:04Speaker 1: NCAA or the conference hasn't changed, but how the athletes
- 22:09Speaker 1: are treated has changed. So we got some work to do.
- 22:13Speaker 2: How does that impact you these changes?
- 22:16Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just still concerned about their health and performance,
- 22:19Speaker 1: so you know, I'm trying to study more. I want
- 22:26Speaker 1: them to have a long professional career where not that
- 22:29Speaker 1: they I want them to have a long, healthy professional
- 22:32Speaker 1: career after but those opportunities maybe weren't as available as
- 22:35Speaker 1: they are now.
- 22:37Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, definitely.
- 22:38Speaker 3: So earlier we were talking about how you got your
- 22:41Speaker 3: start within coaching, not only at Yukon, but then also
- 22:45Speaker 3: had the opportunity to work with some different men's teams.
- 22:49Speaker 3: Chat with me about the difference between working with conventionally
- 22:53Speaker 3: male athletes versus female athletes.
- 22:57Speaker 1: The biggest difference is this physical stuff because guys have
- 23:00Speaker 1: you know, more tissue density, hormonal recovery. But I think mentally, emotionally,
- 23:07Speaker 1: there's no difference. There's you know, you're working with a
- 23:10Speaker 1: person it's coach an athlete. It's like, what do I
- 23:13Speaker 1: have to do? I have to learn or get to
- 23:15Speaker 1: know the athlete because it's like, what's what motivates them?
- 23:19Speaker 1: What do they need to work on to stay healthy?
- 23:21Speaker 1: How can we get them stronger? And how can we
- 23:23Speaker 1: get them to perform at their best? So I like mentally, emotionally,
- 23:28Speaker 1: I think that men and women are the same physically,
- 23:31Speaker 1: Guys have some advantages for sure, HM.
- 23:34Speaker 3: And so for you as a coach, with the dynamics
- 23:38Speaker 3: of working with different teams, do you have a personal
- 23:42Speaker 3: preference at all.
- 23:45Speaker 1: Just anybody who wants to show up and get better
- 23:48Speaker 1: and learn about being healthier and performing better.
- 23:51Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that. I absolutely love that.
- 23:54Speaker 3: So now let's pivot a little bit and talk about
- 23:57Speaker 3: the pressure. I mean we just mentioned and how things
- 24:01Speaker 3: are changing within that sphere, the pressure to be, you know,
- 24:04Speaker 3: professional athlete at such a young age.
- 24:07Speaker 2: There's a lot of pressure in summary.
- 24:10Speaker 3: So what I want to know is not only how
- 24:13Speaker 3: do you handle it, but maybe in your capacity as
- 24:16Speaker 3: a coach, how you've had to have conversations about helping
- 24:19Speaker 3: the girls handle it.
- 24:21Speaker 1: I always tell them, you know, I'll do anything for them.
- 24:24Speaker 1: They know I'm here for them, And it just depends
- 24:26Speaker 1: on if you have a relationship with somebody that they're
- 24:28Speaker 1: willing to take a deeper dive with you or not.
- 24:33Speaker 1: It just it depends on what their support system is,
- 24:36Speaker 1: you know, if they need support, I'm always here. Pressure
- 24:39Speaker 1: for me is yeah, just wanting to win and be
- 24:43Speaker 1: the best person, best coach I could be. And that's
- 24:46Speaker 1: again why I went back to school.
- 24:49Speaker 2: What do you do for yourself to be the best
- 24:52Speaker 2: coach that you can be?
- 24:55Speaker 1: You know, COVID kind of. I wasn't affected by COVID
- 24:58Speaker 1: as much as some of other people were affected, so
- 25:02Speaker 1: it actually gave me some downtime, which was nice. But
- 25:06Speaker 1: I also I got off of my schedule. I was
- 25:09Speaker 1: used to being on a schedule, you know, and then
- 25:12Speaker 1: I just learned about myself that I lost that schedule
- 25:16Speaker 1: and I haven't gotten back to it. But I'm getting
- 25:18Speaker 1: back to that schedule, so journaling, meditating, taking care of myself.
- 25:24Speaker 1: So I wake up earlier now where I have three
- 25:27Speaker 1: to four hours by myself doing what I need to do,
- 25:30Speaker 1: and then come to work.
- 25:33Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, there's some trend going on that I
- 25:35Speaker 3: was just privy to which is something called the five
- 25:38Speaker 3: to nine before the nine to five.
- 25:40Speaker 2: I'm not hip enough.
- 25:41Speaker 3: I haven't seen the videos on this trend, but someone
- 25:43Speaker 3: said it and I was like, that's actually very much
- 25:46Speaker 3: how I execute. It's like, what am I doing between
- 25:49Speaker 3: more so like five forty five and nine am? Then
- 25:53Speaker 3: I can better execute between the nine and the five
- 25:55Speaker 3: forty five ps.
- 25:56Speaker 1: So what's that call?
- 25:58Speaker 3: I think it's just a lar just talk about the concept,
- 26:00Speaker 3: the overarching concept of the five to nine before the
- 26:04Speaker 3: nine to five.
- 26:05Speaker 2: So what is it that.
- 26:05Speaker 3: You're doing in that time period? If you want to
- 26:09Speaker 3: be a five am person between five am and nine am,
- 26:12Speaker 3: that's building you. That's putting down the foundation as if
- 26:15Speaker 3: you were to then build on top of that to
- 26:18Speaker 3: be the best version of yourself, whether that is then
- 26:20Speaker 3: within business, within your relationships, or you know, whatever is
- 26:23Speaker 3: a priority for you.
- 26:25Speaker 1: Yeah, So I've been doing that, Like I wake up.
- 26:27Speaker 1: My dog wakes me up at four thirty, and then
- 26:29Speaker 1: I've been getting up with him and then just started
- 26:33Speaker 1: my day for me because everybody in the house is
- 26:35Speaker 1: the dog goes back to bed and everybody in the
- 26:38Speaker 1: house is quiet. So I turned my sona on I journal,
- 26:42Speaker 1: try to meditate, I stretch to my little workout and yeah,
- 26:48Speaker 1: I get I set my intentions for the day and
- 26:51Speaker 1: actually it's been working. I just need to stick with it.
- 26:55Speaker 3: And in your definition of working, I'd actually love to know, like,
- 26:59Speaker 3: what is a determining factor of success for you?
- 27:02Speaker 1: I think the relationships and the effect that I can
- 27:06Speaker 1: have on others and others have on me. Yeah. I
- 27:09Speaker 1: think relationships and how you can lead and follow with
- 27:13Speaker 1: others in your team. I do have a list of
- 27:17Speaker 1: the culture. You know, are we elevating the culture that
- 27:20Speaker 1: we're in because you have you know, sometimes have people
- 27:23Speaker 1: that bring the culture down. I want to make sure
- 27:25Speaker 1: you elevate the culture and get better. We have to
- 27:28Speaker 1: make the culture better. Are we creating a competitive environment
- 27:32Speaker 1: in everything that we do? And is competition important because
- 27:35Speaker 1: that's a hard switch to turn on and off if
- 27:38Speaker 1: you don't know how or dimmer right, But everything we
- 27:42Speaker 1: do we try to make it competitive. Are we creating results?
- 27:46Speaker 1: Can we document those results and follow that with the data?
- 27:51Speaker 1: But I think the foundation of it all is the
- 27:53Speaker 1: relationships and connections you make.
- 27:57Speaker 3: Do you find that there can be a pot positive
- 28:00Speaker 3: correlation between fun and competitiveness or do you think that
- 28:04Speaker 3: at times as things get more competitive, it's hard to
- 28:08Speaker 3: find the fun.
- 28:10Speaker 1: Well, I think it's hard to conceptualize competitiveness within amongst
- 28:16Speaker 1: the team. You know, so you're competing gainst your teammates
- 28:20Speaker 1: in practice, but then you're supposed to foster the relationship.
- 28:24Speaker 1: But it's easier to compete against people you don't know,
- 28:27Speaker 1: in my opinion, because you know you don't know them.
- 28:31Speaker 1: So I think that's a pretty cool dynamic that we're
- 28:35Speaker 1: being competitive. Are we having fun? Are we getting better?
- 28:38Speaker 1: I think getting better is fun in any help.
- 28:42Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that getting better and being able to
- 28:45Speaker 3: see that in some sort of an exemplary way, whether
- 28:47Speaker 3: that is with games one or if we're talking about
- 28:51Speaker 3: you know, skill set development and we're talking about building
- 28:54Speaker 3: strength and we're talking about different numbers in the gym.
- 28:56Speaker 3: It's always encouraging when you get to see that the
- 28:59Speaker 3: work you're putting in is doing something for you, that
- 29:02Speaker 3: you're getting something with that time invested.
- 29:05Speaker 1: Well, fun is seeing somebody do something they never thought
- 29:07Speaker 1: they could.
- 29:08Speaker 2: It's celebrating that, yeah, for sure.
- 29:11Speaker 3: So fair to say that you've been having a lot
- 29:15Speaker 3: of fun the last few years.
- 29:17Speaker 1: Uh, the last few years have been tough because again,
- 29:20Speaker 1: these athletes are early specialized. And what I've been getting
- 29:23Speaker 1: into with our data is the injury behind the injury.
- 29:27Speaker 1: You know, the story of the kinetic chain of linking injuries,
- 29:32Speaker 1: old injuries and asymmetries and gate changes and compensations to
- 29:39Speaker 1: what leads to a traumatic injury or one that would
- 29:42Speaker 1: have somebody be out for a long time. That has
- 29:44Speaker 1: not been fun. It's been super challenging.
- 29:49Speaker 3: So yeah, well, let's for someone that might not have
- 29:53Speaker 3: a lot of understanding on what you're alluding to the
- 29:57Speaker 3: injury before the injury, how there are going to be
- 29:59Speaker 3: issues with the kinetic chain that then maybe disrupt proper
- 30:03Speaker 3: muscle function or perhaps proper movement patterns. For someone that
- 30:07Speaker 3: may not understand, why don't we give them like a
- 30:09Speaker 3: light briefer on how small things can turn into big things.
- 30:15Speaker 1: For sure, an ankle sprang, you know that you want
- 30:19Speaker 1: to push through, and you're pushing through it for two weeks,
- 30:22Speaker 1: and then you just pick up bad habits and then
- 30:24Speaker 1: you're overcompensating on the other leg, and then they exposes
- 30:27Speaker 1: the other leg to more forces. We measure asymmetries in
- 30:30Speaker 1: the weight room, and then we have a new technology
- 30:34Speaker 1: that we have IMU sensors, so accelerometers and the soles
- 30:38Speaker 1: of their shoes, and those asymmetries are very different than
- 30:41Speaker 1: what we find in the weight room, and then they
- 30:44Speaker 1: change throughout the game based on fatigue or intensity. So
- 30:48Speaker 1: it's like I'm chasing a moving target. But I think hopefully,
- 30:52Speaker 1: you know, we don't know what to do with the
- 30:53Speaker 1: data right now, but hopefully we're going to find some
- 30:56Speaker 1: answers in the future. The more data we collect, maybe
- 30:59Speaker 1: the more trends we see.
- 31:01Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it goes without saying Becker's out from
- 31:05Speaker 3: August twenty twenty two onward with that torn acl and
- 31:10Speaker 3: injuries like that aren't necessarily like that. There can be
- 31:13Speaker 3: a fluke injury, right, it can be something happens sporadically
- 31:18Speaker 3: during a pickup game. But then there's the other stuff
- 31:21Speaker 3: that you're talking about that may be a little bit
- 31:23Speaker 3: more preventative in the long haul if you're paying close
- 31:26Speaker 3: attention to what's going on with the body.
- 31:29Speaker 1: Well, again, and there's so many factors, right, it's so
- 31:32Speaker 1: multi factorial that you're chasing a lot of things and
- 31:36Speaker 1: I don't know. You know, I can speculate on the
- 31:38Speaker 1: data that I have on certain things, but it is
- 31:41Speaker 1: a dynamic, multi factoral environment for sure. So it's like
- 31:46Speaker 1: sleep and nutrition or foundational pillars of health and performance,
- 31:52Speaker 1: and you know, we can't keep track of what they
- 31:54Speaker 1: do twenty four hours a day.
- 31:56Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, you mentioned that you're tracking the team's
- 31:59Speaker 3: sleep or you privy to say what you're tracking it with.
- 32:02Speaker 1: Last year we used or rings and it has time
- 32:07Speaker 1: series data that we matched up with the time series
- 32:10Speaker 1: data from the force plates. So we were looking at
- 32:13Speaker 1: how much antier poster movement in a vertical jump compared
- 32:17Speaker 1: to good quality sleep and we found that, again, it
- 32:21Speaker 1: was in a four. So we had the whole team
- 32:24Speaker 1: set up, but not everybody took it seriously, which is
- 32:27Speaker 1: fine because again we're in college and they're their own people.
- 32:32Speaker 1: But the people who did embrace it, we actually saw
- 32:37Speaker 1: some pretty cool things with those four people. So we're
- 32:39Speaker 1: not going to publish anything, but we just saw that
- 32:42Speaker 1: there was more movement the less you slept.
- 32:45Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, and that doesn't surprise me, right.
- 32:48Speaker 3: We see more and more studies, news media coverage about
- 32:54Speaker 3: how literally everything you do every single day hinges on
- 32:58Speaker 3: the prioritization of sleep over time. I was listening to
- 33:03Speaker 3: Gabby Thomas, who's a track athlete, talk the other day
- 33:07Speaker 3: at this summit put on by Strava in Los Angeles,
- 33:10Speaker 3: and she was saying that not only is the eight
- 33:14Speaker 3: to ten hours of sleep that she gets every single night,
- 33:17Speaker 3: making her one of the most decorated track and Field
- 33:19Speaker 3: Olympians of her time right now, critical, but beyond that,
- 33:23Speaker 3: what's important is the timing of when she gets to bed,
- 33:27Speaker 3: and those things, the eight to ten and the timing
- 33:30Speaker 3: are non negotiable, right These are things that she literally
- 33:34Speaker 3: plans her entire schedule around, and that's what you do
- 33:37Speaker 3: when you want to be the best of the best. Again,
- 33:39Speaker 3: going back to the fact that you had an end
- 33:42Speaker 3: of four that we're talking about young women in college
- 33:44Speaker 3: things are going to be a little bit different. But
- 33:46Speaker 3: do you ever struggle with wanting someone or wanting something
- 33:52Speaker 3: for someone who may not want it themselves.
- 33:56Speaker 1: Absolutely, I think, yeah, well they say they want something,
- 34:00Speaker 1: but then they you know, they don't want to do
- 34:03Speaker 1: the behaviors do that. I think we eventually get there,
- 34:06Speaker 1: But yeah, even from my personal experience, there's things that
- 34:10Speaker 1: I said that I wanted, but was I willing to
- 34:12Speaker 1: do the work for them? But everything that I've ever done,
- 34:15Speaker 1: I feel like substantially that, I feel like, yeah, I
- 34:19Speaker 1: wanted that. So yeah, I think that's where goal setting
- 34:23Speaker 1: is really important and really being honest with yourself.
- 34:26Speaker 2: Yeah, there's two things to double click on here.
- 34:28Speaker 3: The first is, I think a lot of people listening
- 34:33Speaker 3: to this right now can really relate to this conversation
- 34:36Speaker 3: of wanting something for somebody else and feeling as though
- 34:41Speaker 3: that they can see what's best for that person, but
- 34:44Speaker 3: that person just doesn't see in the same lane. How
- 34:49Speaker 3: do you advise or maybe recommend or facilitate that conversation
- 34:54Speaker 3: in letting go, in letting someone define and specify what
- 34:59Speaker 3: it is that it's important to them because they are
- 35:02Speaker 3: themselves the individual.
- 35:04Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't want it more than somebody else. But
- 35:08Speaker 1: we have a special group of women here. They're very
- 35:11Speaker 1: determined to be the best that they can be. So
- 35:14Speaker 1: if somebody's determined to do that, you tend to be
- 35:16Speaker 1: a little bit more coachable. Like even when I get
- 35:19Speaker 1: stuck and I get a coach or whatever for somebody
- 35:23Speaker 1: for help, it's like you got to listen to it right,
- 35:26Speaker 1: it's not that hard. It's not hard, but it's hard
- 35:29Speaker 1: to hear.
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- 36:57Speaker 3: In the execution of working with these people that are
- 37:02Speaker 3: very determined, you said that goal setting can be very critical.
- 37:06Speaker 2: Talk to me a little bit about how.
- 37:09Speaker 3: You would recommend goal setting to one of your athletes
- 37:12Speaker 3: and are you thinking short term?
- 37:14Speaker 2: Are you thinking long term? Where are we at with that?
- 37:17Speaker 1: Yeah? I think we have to think long term because
- 37:20Speaker 1: you know, if for whatever reason, let's say, if you're
- 37:23Speaker 1: not where you want to be, Okay, how long have
- 37:25Speaker 1: you gotten to the place where you don't want to be?
- 37:28Speaker 1: You know it's usually around twenty years old or whatever.
- 37:30Speaker 1: Twenty years? Well, what do we have to do to
- 37:33Speaker 1: change the behavior to get to where you want to
- 37:35Speaker 1: be in two years? So it's I mean, there are
- 37:39Speaker 1: short term goal changes that you can make, but it
- 37:42Speaker 1: needs to be consistent and chronic in behavior for sure,
- 37:46Speaker 1: and sometimes that's hard. I mean, it's hard for me
- 37:49Speaker 1: as a fifty one year old to do to make changes.
- 37:52Speaker 1: So here we're asking eighteen to twenty two year olds
- 37:55Speaker 1: to make those changes and have faith in that. Yeah,
- 37:58Speaker 1: it depends on the communication and the relationship if you have.
- 38:00Speaker 2: Of course.
- 38:01Speaker 3: And so for someone who's listening to this right now
- 38:03Speaker 3: that may think like, okay, like I have a destination goal.
- 38:06Speaker 3: Maybe their destination goal is I want to run a
- 38:10Speaker 3: five k in under twenty two minutes in on October second.
- 38:16Speaker 3: These are very random and arbitrary numbers for that person.
- 38:19Speaker 3: If someone comes to you with a goal like that,
- 38:21Speaker 3: where would you begin with them?
- 38:24Speaker 1: I would ask them have they ever run a five
- 38:26Speaker 1: k before? And if you have, what was your time? Okay,
- 38:30Speaker 1: what were you doing in the training plan before? How
- 38:33Speaker 1: are your nutrition habits? How are you sleep? How important
- 38:36Speaker 1: is it to you? You know, based on the timeframe
- 38:39Speaker 1: that we have and we'll get there. It just might
- 38:43Speaker 1: not be in your time frame if that's what you
- 38:45Speaker 1: really want, but you really got to want it, like
- 38:49Speaker 1: some again, some people say they want something but they
- 38:51Speaker 1: don't really want it.
- 38:52Speaker 2: And I think that comes to like that intrinsic motivation.
- 38:55Speaker 3: I always say to myself, like where there's a strong why,
- 38:57Speaker 3: there is a way, so in our ticketulating that why,
- 39:01Speaker 3: that's your opportunity to really write down why this thing
- 39:04Speaker 3: is important to you, because there are going to be moments,
- 39:07Speaker 3: especially with the craziness that is social media, where something
- 39:11Speaker 3: comes into your mind and you have this thought like, oh,
- 39:14Speaker 3: I want to go after this thing, or oh this
- 39:16Speaker 3: looks really cool. But realistically, if you can't really articulate
- 39:20Speaker 3: why it is that that thing is really cool aside
- 39:22Speaker 3: from the aesthetics, then probably that thing actually isn't for you.
- 39:26Speaker 2: It's not going to serve you in the long haul.
- 39:28Speaker 2: So knowing what it is that.
- 39:29Speaker 3: Excites you and why it excites you is going to
- 39:32Speaker 3: be the thing that keeps you showing up to train
- 39:34Speaker 3: for that October second, five KU twenty one minutes.
- 39:39Speaker 1: Yeah. I have friends' daughters right now and sons and
- 39:43Speaker 1: they're struggling right And they're struggling. They have depression, they
- 39:48Speaker 1: have anxiety, And I was like, you know, you go
- 39:51Speaker 1: on social media and you get this influx of all
- 39:55Speaker 1: these activities. Some of them are sad, some of them
- 39:58Speaker 1: are happy, some are so accelerating. Some of the book
- 40:01Speaker 1: and it's like, well, you're watching other people do this
- 40:04Speaker 1: stuff and you're sitting there watching it and you're getting
- 40:06Speaker 1: all these emotions and it's overwhelming, one hundred percent overwhelming
- 40:11Speaker 1: with people who don't know what they want. So then
- 40:14Speaker 1: it's like all this stuff comes flushing in, there's no
- 40:18Speaker 1: filter to it, and they don't know really who they
- 40:21Speaker 1: are yet, and it's just a lot.
- 40:25Speaker 3: You're bringing up a really important point about mental health
- 40:29Speaker 3: as someone who works with young women in a climate
- 40:32Speaker 3: today where we are more vocal about how we're feeling,
- 40:36Speaker 3: hopefully maybe talking a little bit about things that otherwise
- 40:40Speaker 3: we would have dismissed before.
- 40:42Speaker 2: What do the conversations look like on your end?
- 40:45Speaker 3: Are you seeing that these young women are being a
- 40:48Speaker 3: little bit more upfront about how things like the pressure
- 40:51Speaker 3: makes them feel.
- 40:54Speaker 1: Now? I feel like here, they kind of sign up
- 40:56Speaker 1: for it, you know, there's pressure, want it, they love it,
- 41:02Speaker 1: they thrive on it basketball wise, right, Yeah, But then
- 41:06Speaker 1: you have social media and that's just another pressure. So
- 41:10Speaker 1: you're dealing with professional athletes that may not have the
- 41:13Speaker 1: resources and the support of a marketing company or you know,
- 41:17Speaker 1: they're doing it all themselves, which I couldn't imagine doing that.
- 41:21Speaker 3: No, I could not imagine doing it either. Earlier in
- 41:25Speaker 3: our conversation, you talked about some of these young women
- 41:28Speaker 3: referring to you as mom, sister, aunt, or aunts depending
- 41:32Speaker 3: on where you come from. Clearly you are a role
- 41:36Speaker 3: model to so many of these individuals.
- 41:40Speaker 2: How does that make you feel?
- 41:42Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't know the extent of which I think
- 41:45Speaker 1: education is important and being an educator is important because
- 41:48Speaker 1: you never know how far your reach goes, Like is
- 41:52Speaker 1: my reach going to be in their lives fifty years
- 41:54Speaker 1: from now? Is my reach going to be in their
- 41:56Speaker 1: lives five minutes from now? So you don't No, I
- 42:00Speaker 1: don't think you have those conversations with people. You just
- 42:05Speaker 1: you know, they grow and you try to let them
- 42:07Speaker 1: sprout and then maybe they'll come back and talk to
- 42:10Speaker 1: you about it. But sometimes that doesn't always happen.
- 42:13Speaker 3: In the moment you're fleeting the question, which is, how
- 42:15Speaker 3: does it make you feel.
- 42:20Speaker 1: Embarrassed? Yeah, I don't know. I'd like, I don't know
- 42:28Speaker 1: if I've ever asked anybody if I was their role
- 42:30Speaker 1: model or you know, again, there are people that like you,
- 42:35Speaker 1: there are people that don't like you. I just got
- 42:38Speaker 1: to be me and know that I'm trying to help educate.
- 42:43Speaker 2: Yeah, and it is a special opportunity.
- 42:46Speaker 3: Whether we're talking about a team with the Dynamics and
- 42:50Speaker 3: that clout like Yukon, or we're talking about any other
- 42:53Speaker 3: opportunity where you get to be someone that somebody else
- 42:56Speaker 3: looks up to. There is a certain amount of introg pressure,
- 43:01Speaker 3: I think in that where you want to put your
- 43:04Speaker 3: best self forward at the end of the day. Your
- 43:06Speaker 3: point about simply doing the best you can with what
- 43:09Speaker 3: you have and being authentically yourself really is all that
- 43:13Speaker 3: you can do in those situations. Not to be so
- 43:15Speaker 3: hard on yourself.
- 43:17Speaker 1: Right, That's what anybody wants. Ask Rebecca Stoll, ask her
- 43:21Speaker 1: if i'm.
- 43:21Speaker 3: Her role moll, Oh wow, I'm sure she'll text me
- 43:24Speaker 3: to let me know as soon as she listened to
- 43:27Speaker 3: this episode. I'm sure we haven't talked a lot about
- 43:30Speaker 3: you outside of your morning routine, the five to nine,
- 43:34Speaker 3: before the nine to five. What else does taking care
- 43:37Speaker 3: of yourself look like these days outside of those early
- 43:40Speaker 3: morning hours.
- 43:42Speaker 1: Well, I alloted those times because I feel like I
- 43:45Speaker 1: have been putting a lot of other people first in
- 43:47Speaker 1: my life, which that's not a good thing all the time.
- 43:51Speaker 1: So I needed time for me and I Actually it
- 43:55Speaker 1: was so overwhelming with the pressure this year and things
- 43:58Speaker 1: like I did pass out at one point and I've
- 44:00Speaker 1: never done that, but I had the school pressure, you know,
- 44:04Speaker 1: pressure for winning, pressure that these athletes stay healthy, you know,
- 44:09Speaker 1: And it was like I was running around like a
- 44:12Speaker 1: chicken with my head cut off, and it's like, okay,
- 44:14Speaker 1: really do you have that big of an impact in
- 44:16Speaker 1: everybody's life. So I was like, hey, I gotta focus
- 44:20Speaker 1: on me for a little bit. And I have taken
- 44:23Speaker 1: time after the season, which has been great. The dissertation
- 44:28Speaker 1: is a little bit overwhelming. So that's where I started
- 44:32Speaker 1: this routine because I'm like, I just need to bang
- 44:35Speaker 1: out a half hour an hour a day with it
- 44:37Speaker 1: and just make sure I'm taking one step at a
- 44:40Speaker 1: time because I am looking at the top of the
- 44:42Speaker 1: dverst and I'm standing at the bottom. So yeah, it's
- 44:47Speaker 1: just I if I can focus on me, I know
- 44:51Speaker 1: I can focus on others better.
- 44:53Speaker 3: I love that you mentioned a handful of things in
- 44:57Speaker 3: this morning routine that we're referencing here, and I think
- 45:01Speaker 3: for some that in itself can be a.
- 45:04Speaker 2: Little bit of the problem.
- 45:06Speaker 3: Right It's I think I should do something for myself,
- 45:10Speaker 3: so if I'm going to do this one thing for myself,
- 45:12Speaker 3: then I should also do these four other things for myself.
- 45:16Speaker 3: It's the journaling, it's the sonne, it's the meditation, it's
- 45:18Speaker 3: the breath work, it's the setting and the intentions for
- 45:20Speaker 3: the day. For you, did you jump in headfirst into
- 45:25Speaker 3: all of that or was there some sort of an
- 45:29Speaker 3: onboarding process to get to integrating all of this into
- 45:33Speaker 3: that morning routine.
- 45:35Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's I've been thinking about it since September,
- 45:38Speaker 1: and I hired my own coach to help me just
- 45:41Speaker 1: because I felt like I was going in so many
- 45:43Speaker 1: different directions. So yeah, I invested in myself and it's
- 45:48Speaker 1: been going on since September and there's been journaling and
- 45:51Speaker 1: life coaching and integration. So it just didn't happen overnight,
- 45:56Speaker 1: by any needs.
- 45:57Speaker 3: And I think that's important for people to hear, right,
- 46:00Speaker 3: because you feel as though or it's understandable that individuals
- 46:04Speaker 3: might feel as though they're supposed to all have it
- 46:06Speaker 3: figured out when you know that you do have a
- 46:09Speaker 3: strong why with regard to having some sort of a routine,
- 46:12Speaker 3: whether it's in the morning or it's not. But it
- 46:16Speaker 3: feels a little defeating that there are so many options
- 46:19Speaker 3: that you don't even know where to begin. So to
- 46:20Speaker 3: hear that you spoke about and then in turn hired
- 46:23Speaker 3: your own life coach. I think it's an important thing
- 46:26Speaker 3: to reiterate here that even coaches need coaches, right. I'm
- 46:29Speaker 3: a certified land coach. I'm a certified professional coach. But
- 46:32Speaker 3: after this recording, you know what I'm doing at two thirty,
- 46:35Speaker 3: I'm getting on a call with my life coach because
- 46:37Speaker 3: this is how we show up then in turn to
- 46:40Speaker 3: do the things that we have excitement around that we
- 46:42Speaker 3: want to show up and put our best selves forward.
- 46:45Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, again, I think you know, the best thing
- 46:48Speaker 1: you can do is invest in yourself.
- 46:50Speaker 3: One hundred percent. So for you passing out, where were you?
- 46:54Speaker 3: What happened? I need the info.
- 46:57Speaker 1: Yeah. I was at home. I was on the front
- 47:00Speaker 1: on the phone with a buddy of mine and just
- 47:03Speaker 1: there was a lot of pressure again with everything in
- 47:07Speaker 1: my life, school, work, personal. But I passed out and
- 47:12Speaker 1: scared my partner and it was a wake up call
- 47:15Speaker 1: for me because all I remember is waking up and
- 47:19Speaker 1: I was like, what happened? And that I feel like
- 47:23Speaker 1: scaring somebody else like that. I think really put things
- 47:27Speaker 1: into perspective that I needed help.
- 47:30Speaker 3: Yeah, it's interesting, right, because if that was to happen
- 47:34Speaker 3: and nobody was around and you were okay after it,
- 47:37Speaker 3: Like we asked ourselves, like what I have made any
- 47:40Speaker 3: of the changes that I know that I need to make.
- 47:42Speaker 3: But if you don't prioritize yourself, and that's really what's
- 47:45Speaker 3: becoming an emerging theme in our conversation, then you can't
- 47:48Speaker 3: show up to meet the moment as you'd want, right.
- 47:51Speaker 3: We want to do things to the best of our ability,
- 47:53Speaker 3: or at least give all it is that you have
- 47:56Speaker 3: in that moment, with the understanding that some days that's
- 47:59Speaker 3: going to look different, and that's okay.
- 48:02Speaker 1: Yeah, best thing I did was hire a coach.
- 48:05Speaker 2: Yeah I love that. Sure, I love that.
- 48:08Speaker 3: So now in this position again, you've had this opportunity
- 48:13Speaker 3: to mentor and coach so many different athletes.
- 48:16Speaker 2: When you reflect on perhaps the best piece.
- 48:19Speaker 3: Of advice that you've been offered in order to execute
- 48:23Speaker 3: on the day to day, what comes to mind.
- 48:26Speaker 1: My mom comes to mind. Yeah, I my mom passed
- 48:31Speaker 1: away in two thousand and eight, but she sticks with
- 48:33Speaker 1: me every day, every minute of my life. And because
- 48:37Speaker 1: she did, she she she was so competitive and she
- 48:41Speaker 1: just she was. She built that in me, but she
- 48:45Speaker 1: had she coached also, And my sister sent me a
- 48:48Speaker 1: letter that she found. It was from one of her
- 48:51Speaker 1: high school athletes, and she gave them a quote from
- 48:56Speaker 1: Theodore Roosevelt, and it's far better is it to dare
- 48:58Speaker 1: mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even checkered by failure
- 49:04Speaker 1: to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy
- 49:08Speaker 1: much nor suffer much because they live in the gray
- 49:11Speaker 1: twilight that knows not victory nor defeat. Like the fact
- 49:15Speaker 1: that my mom wrote that to somebody, was that I
- 49:19Speaker 1: got that yesterday, was like, holy cow, that's who she was. Yeah,
- 49:24Speaker 1: put it out there, you know, take risks, be edgy,
- 49:27Speaker 1: put it out there, and be yourself.
- 49:29Speaker 3: Something that really stuck with me recently that I'll share
- 49:33Speaker 3: with you is this sentiment that if you have to
- 49:36Speaker 3: tell them to carry the bricks, then they're not the
- 49:38Speaker 3: people you want to build with. And I've been revisiting
- 49:42Speaker 3: that myself a lot.
- 49:45Speaker 2: Sometimes.
- 49:45Speaker 3: You know, these these phrases, these quotes, this small moment
- 49:49Speaker 3: comes into your life at just the right time where
- 49:52Speaker 3: you realize how fortunate you are. To find and garner
- 49:56Speaker 3: that inspiration then in there. So it sounds as though
- 49:59Speaker 3: this special sentiment from your mom really stuck with you.
- 50:03Speaker 1: Yeah, there's another one. I have it over here. It's
- 50:05Speaker 1: called time, the only solution to get better and the
- 50:10Speaker 1: biggest obstacle to overcome.
- 50:12Speaker 2: Time. So special.
- 50:14Speaker 3: I'm so happy that we were able to find the time,
- 50:17Speaker 3: speaking of to do this.
- 50:19Speaker 2: Before I let you go, a couple final questions here.
- 50:22Speaker 3: First and foremost, someone walks by your office door and
- 50:26Speaker 3: they see your name on the door, Director of Sports
- 50:29Speaker 3: Performance for women's basketball. But when you look in the mirror,
- 50:33Speaker 3: what is it that you see looking back at you?
- 50:35Speaker 1: Andrea, Probably somebody that just fights. You know that every
- 50:41Speaker 1: day's a fight, every day's a battle. We have our
- 50:43Speaker 1: own battles, you have other people's battles, but that you know.
- 50:48Speaker 1: I have a picture too at home, and it's the
- 50:51Speaker 1: Little Engine that Could. I remember that story. My neighbor
- 50:55Speaker 1: used to read it to me all the time, and
- 50:56Speaker 1: it stuck with me. And it's just I think, I can,
- 50:59Speaker 1: I think I can. You just put one foot in
- 51:01Speaker 1: front of the other and you just keep going. And
- 51:04Speaker 1: I mean, there is time to look back and reflect.
- 51:07Speaker 1: But you can't dwell on those things in the past
- 51:09Speaker 1: that were failures or whatever.
- 51:12Speaker 3: Right, you can only use that experience to then inform
- 51:15Speaker 3: as you move forward.
- 51:16Speaker 1: Yeah. Oh, I have another quote here that you're full
- 51:19Speaker 1: of them. I never lose. I either win or learn.
- 51:23Speaker 2: I either win or learn. Another good one, another good one.
- 51:27Speaker 3: Okay, So when you look in the mirror, you're seeing
- 51:30Speaker 3: someone who's got grit, Oh, I think, yeah, yeah, well,
- 51:35Speaker 3: station on that.
- 51:38Speaker 1: Well, I mean grit, perseverance, resilience, robustness, all those things. Yeah,
- 51:43Speaker 1: I would love to identify with.
- 51:46Speaker 2: I love that. What else is exciting you right now? Andrea?
- 51:50Speaker 1: I have all this data. I've collected three years of data,
- 51:53Speaker 1: two solid years of data with our athletes, and there's
- 51:57Speaker 1: a lot of things that we've collected and it's hard
- 52:01Speaker 1: to just read numbers, right. So I took a Tableau class.
- 52:05Speaker 1: Are you familiar with Tableau and speed of visualization software?
- 52:09Speaker 1: So I'm trying to take a deeper dive into that
- 52:11Speaker 1: and try to overlay some of the data to see
- 52:14Speaker 1: if I can find any insight. Because it's like there's
- 52:18Speaker 1: so much and there's so much going on, and everybody
- 52:21Speaker 1: reacts to stress differently, whether it's emotional stress, physical stress,
- 52:25Speaker 1: Like we're not robots, and just to try to get
- 52:29Speaker 1: to know the people better in terms of how they
- 52:32Speaker 1: respond to stress and when that stress is happening. So
- 52:36Speaker 1: just to overlay that data and visualize it a little
- 52:39Speaker 1: bit differently than what I have been because it's been
- 52:42Speaker 1: in a linear way. Well, can we just throw a
- 52:44Speaker 1: wrench in it and look at it differently?
- 52:46Speaker 3: A little differently? A favorite Yukon dairy Bar ice cream
- 52:49Speaker 3: flavor Husky tracks ah a signature. I'm a banana chocolate
- 52:55Speaker 3: chip girly through and through.
- 52:58Speaker 1: I might have to go get some time.
- 52:59Speaker 3: A little jealous that you have that opportunity right now,
- 53:02Speaker 3: let me tell you the one thing that New York
- 53:04Speaker 3: City cannot offer me is Yukon darry Bar ice cream.
- 53:07Speaker 3: Final question for you today, Andrea, Right now, you have
- 53:11Speaker 3: an opportunity to give yourself a piece of advice. Let's
- 53:13Speaker 3: go back to that injury moment, which really you said
- 53:16Speaker 3: defined a lot of the way that you kind of
- 53:18Speaker 3: moved and shook as you went forward.
- 53:20Speaker 2: Knowing what you know, now, what would you tell your
- 53:23Speaker 2: teenage self.
- 53:26Speaker 1: Take time to heal? But I didn't know any better,
- 53:29Speaker 1: So lighten up and take time to heal, take time,
- 53:34Speaker 1: slow down if you have the time, right you don't
- 53:38Speaker 1: know how much time you have, so just slow down
- 53:41Speaker 1: and be present, you know, stop all the craziness in
- 53:44Speaker 1: my brain and just take one thing at a time
- 53:47Speaker 1: and be where my feet are.
- 53:49Speaker 3: I love that be where my feet are, Andrew Hoodie,
- 53:52Speaker 3: I'm so excited and happy that we were able to
- 53:54Speaker 3: make this happen today.
- 53:55Speaker 2: For those that might.
- 53:57Speaker 3: Want to keep up with you a little bit, keep
- 53:59Speaker 3: up with what you're doing. Is there any good way
- 54:00Speaker 3: for them to follow along with you.
- 54:04Speaker 1: I've been not doing as much on social media for
- 54:07Speaker 1: my mental health, so my Instagram is a underscore h
- 54:13Speaker 1: u d y, but my email is Andrea dot Hoodie
- 54:18Speaker 1: at Yukon dot edu.
- 54:20Speaker 3: We love it, And of course, if you want to
- 54:22Speaker 3: follow along with Yukon's women's basketball, you can go over
- 54:25Speaker 3: to at Yukon WBB Go Huskies. I'm over at Emily
- 54:31Speaker 3: a Body and at Hurdle Podcast Another Hurdle Conquered.
- 54:35Speaker 2: Catch you guys next time.