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Ladies, Want to Know When He'll Commit? · Secrets They'll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix

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  OK, so I'm going to tackle something that might be
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  controversial. You ladies might get upset with
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  me, but don't get mad at me, all right?
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  I'm just telling you what most of these guys will never, never
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  ever say publicly and nobody hardly ever talks about.
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  All righty. OK, but here goes.
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  OK, so a lot of you ladies say but he got married young, that
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  you guys see people in social media who have gotten married
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  young. But what you don't realize is
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  that he either had a childhood sweetheart, a high school
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  sweetheart, or a college sweetheart.
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  All right, this is the guy that's going to get married at a
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  young age. But if he passes that point,
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  guess what? Well, once he's in his 30s,
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  ladies, this is the guy who didn't end up in a long
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  relationship during college. So now that he's out of college,
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  typically these guys, OK. And I know because I work with
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  these guys, they tell me everything.
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  He's now set on creating a great career for himself.
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  All right, So he'll do dating. He'll date up a storm.
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  He dates a lot. Right?
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  But he's usually usually not going to fully commit to getting
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  married. OK, That's why you girls are
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  targeting these ladies, targeting these guys in their
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  30s, and you're frustrated because they won't commit.
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  But if he's in a major city, he's not going to get ready to
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  settle down. If he if he made it past the
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  college sweetheart didn't land a lady then now he's focused on
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  his his career. So in the 30s, he not going to
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  be getting serious. OK, so it's going to happen when
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  he's in his 40s. So let's talk about that.
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  All right, #3 got a few to go through here because I laid it
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  all out for you at all ages. OK, so now he finds himself
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  never married in his 40s. OK, he's in his 40s.
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  He's in a major city and he's got a great career.
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  All right, now he's ready. So he's looking around.
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  He says to himself, wow, I think it's time.
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  I should probably start looking at finding someone to marry and
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  start kids with. All right.
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  Start a family with, All right. But here's the thing, ladies.
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  You got to know this. This guy is going to be
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  targeting, targeting women for a serious relationship.
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  Ideally, don't be upset with me between the ages of 30 and 34,
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  maybe a little younger than 30. If I'm going to be really
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  honest, he'll date women older than 35.
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  This is why you ladies get confused.
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  You're like, but these guys date me around my age, so you know,
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  no, he's going to date you, OK? But he already knows that the
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  woman that he really wants to end up settling down with, he's
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  she's going to be between 28 and 34.
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  All right, hang on. There's more.
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  All right, now this guy's in his 40s, He's divorced, but he still
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  has not had kids yet. All right, so here's the deal.
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  If he hasn't had kids yet, he's going to want to start having
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  kids and finding someone else to do that with sooner rather than
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  later. All right, so his ideal age
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  range at that point is going to be, again, 28 to 34.
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  All right, don't kill the messenger.
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  Hang on, There's more. So now he's in his 40s, but he
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  is divorced with kids. All right?
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  He's divorced with kids and more than likely doesn't want
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  anymore. All right, this guy should be
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  dating a woman who already has kids as well.
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  All right, Age range doesn't really matter.
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  More likely, a great, appropriate match for him is
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  going to be a woman who doesn't want any more kids.
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  All right, I got more. OK, let's talk about these guys
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  in their 50s. So now he's in his 50s or even
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  older, but he still wants kids. And I know you guys think you
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  know. Oh, but he has a timeline too.
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  Well, they're not really as aware as the ladies are.
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  All right. But yes, now he starts freaking
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  out a little bit because he doesn't really want to be a 70
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  year old dad. All right, so he's a man who's
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  found himself at 50 with a successful career, but no kids.
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  He knows he can still have them. So now he wants to.
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  He's not been married or either. He's divorced, but he never had
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  kids and he still really, really wants to.
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  OK, so this guy. This guy, ladies, listen up.
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  This guy knows even his time is ticking.
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  Again, he's doesn't want to be the old dude with the Walker
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  with teenagers, but you know, it's getting close.
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  OK, so he's more in a hurry and he's going to be looking for a
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  woman on that same trajectory. And the age range for this guy
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  is going to be 30 to 40. All right, I got some more for
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  you. One more last but not least.
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  OK, he's divorced and he has kids.
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  He's in his 50s or he's older. This guy, his kids are grown and
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  gone and he wants a woman who is also an empty nester.
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  All right? He's looking to travel.
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  He's looking to have fun. He doesn't want someone who's
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  still tied down and doing the baby thing, all right, but it is
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  what it is. Keep it in mind when you're out
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  there dating and I hope it helps.