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A Quick Stop At Johny's House: Dry Begging · Johnny's House

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  Speaker 1: 37 90s are high 74 right now and there's a
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  Speaker 1: 60 chance of rain other than that it's going to
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  Speaker 1: be partly sunny we've all gone on a trip and
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  Speaker 1: it's been impossible or something happens that you got to
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  Speaker 1: go through so many hoops just to get home so
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  Speaker 1: ray tell me this uh it normally takes to get
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  Speaker 1: from uh right outside of miami to key west is
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  Speaker 1: what about three and.
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  Speaker 2: A half about that yes okay.
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  Speaker 1: So now i ain't one because i know you you
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  Speaker 1: were excited and you didn't listen to me and i
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  Speaker 1: told you i say ray It's Memorial weekend.
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  Speaker 3: There's only two roads in. I mean, one road in,
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  Speaker 3: one road out.
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  Speaker 4: Yes.
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  Speaker 3: And everybody going to be leaving.
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  Speaker 1: I know.
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  Speaker 3: And you said, I'm leaving early.
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  Speaker 2: And we did. We got up early. And I mean,
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  Speaker 2: fairly early. So we left at 10.
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  Speaker 3: No, early.
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  Speaker 4: I know.
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  Speaker 3: I know. The thing is, is that getting.
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  Speaker 5: There we didn't get there until 1 30 in the
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  Speaker 5: morning and so i was like okay we're gonna just
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  Speaker 5: see the southernmost point like we're gonna do this real
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  Speaker 5: quick we're gonna feed the tarpons along the way like
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  Speaker 5: all these things i looked at my maps and it
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  Speaker 5: says three hours and 28 minutes to get to miami
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  Speaker 5: i was like great this is great so all of
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  Speaker 5: a sudden we're cruising you know after an hour in
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  Speaker 5: Dead stop.
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  Speaker 2: Complete stop.
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  Speaker 5: Not even moving, not rolling in park. And I'm like, okay,
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  Speaker 5: this is what Johnny was talking about. Everybody's checking out
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  Speaker 5: right now. Boats, trucks, RVs, jets, anybody who's pulling anything
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  Speaker 5: was out in front of us. So, We had to
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  Speaker 5: reschedule our Brightline because we were missing that train.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Rescheduled it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: We called the rental company. We're like, hey, we're dropping
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  Speaker 5: the car off at this place. And they're like, that's
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  Speaker 5: totally fine. Like drop it off at the Brightline location.
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  Speaker 5: They were close. They told us to drop off the
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  Speaker 5: rental car to a place that was closed. So once
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  Speaker 5: we finally got to Miami after six hours of traffic.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: We had to drive to the airport to drop off
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  Speaker 5: the rental car.
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  Speaker 3: And then get an Uber?
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  Speaker 5: Then get an Uber over to Brightline. The 6 o'clock
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  Speaker 5: train was sold out.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, my goodness.
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  Speaker 5: So we had to wait until the 845 train to
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  Speaker 5: get back to Orlando. Then, in Orlando, the parking lots
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  Speaker 5: were sold out. So we had to take a shuttle
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  Speaker 5: to where my car was.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Wow.
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  Speaker 5: So it was just a process. It was a 12-hour
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  Speaker 5: travel day.
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  Speaker 1: Yep.
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  Speaker 2: Instead of... It could have been like eight, maybe.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, unless you've been in bumper-to-bumper traffic, and I'm
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  Speaker 1: talking for hours.
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 3: I've done that, and it's just not moving. The whole
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  Speaker 3: time you're looking at the gas gauge, like, okay, I
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  Speaker 3: got it.
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  Speaker 5: You're going zero to ten for like five hours straight.
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  Speaker 1: Yep.
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  Speaker 3: And if something happens, oh, forget it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and so that's what I was saying.
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  Speaker 5: We were going to pull off and feed like the
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  Speaker 5: tarpons at Robbie's, which is like, you know, worldwide.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, we stopped there.
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  Speaker 2: You know, it's really cool.
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  Speaker 3: Uh-uh.
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  Speaker 5: Kim was like, I don't know if we should stop.
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  Speaker 5: We shouldn't be pushing it. Thank God we didn't.
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  Speaker 3: Here's the thing.
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  Speaker 1: And I've done that trick and somebody's car broke down.
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  Speaker 1: People will get out of that car, push it to
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  Speaker 1: the side, get back in and keep going. They're not
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  Speaker 1: going to help you.
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  Speaker 2: I could totally see why.
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  Speaker 3: Wow.
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  Speaker 1: I went to Mexico with my kid a couple of
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  Speaker 1: years ago. Our flight was delayed. And then we said
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  Speaker 1: we'll catch another one. Ended up being in the airport
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  Speaker 1: in Mexico for 12 hours. At 2 a.m., they came
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  Speaker 1: and swept the place and said, we got to leave.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, but our next flight leaves at 8 a.m. Well,
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  Speaker 1: you got to go somewhere. So we had to find
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  Speaker 1: an airline who got us in a van and took
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  Speaker 1: us to some little CD out there.
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  Speaker 3: Yes. They don't care where they put you, man.
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  Speaker 5: It's funny because my poor pride PD guy, he was
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  Speaker 5: stuck in Key West. And then he finally got to Miami.
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  Speaker 5: Then they canceled his flight from Miami to Boston. So
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  Speaker 5: his travel day was a disaster as well.
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  Speaker 3: How about you?
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  Speaker 7: My worst one was we were in an airport and
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  Speaker 7: we had a connection.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the worst. It was delayed. So they said,
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  Speaker 3: you know, go eat whatever. So we went to eat.
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  Speaker 3: I know what you're about to say.
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  Speaker 7: Then apparently they repaired it miraculously fast and took off
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  Speaker 7: without us.
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  Speaker 3: We don't tell you. Come back here at 445. 445,
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  Speaker 3: come back here. Yes, we did. And they had left
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  Speaker 3: like 30 minutes. And they're like, we left 30 minutes ago.
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  Speaker 3: We paged. I'm like, I was in the restaurant. You
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  Speaker 3: told me 445. You can't change the time on me.
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  Speaker 5: I feel like once they delay it, they can't go back.
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  Speaker 5: You can't go back and be like, oh.
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  Speaker 3: Just kidding.
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  Speaker 2: We're going to take off.
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  Speaker 6: Right.
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  Speaker 3: That happened to me. I stayed at the gate. I
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  Speaker 3: don't even move. Now we do. Now we do. But
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  Speaker 3: we had three and a half hours, they said. So
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  Speaker 3: you got.
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  Speaker 2: To go eat.
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  Speaker 1: In Memphis, we were eating some barbecue, chilling. I get
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  Speaker 1: the food and come back to that seat. I'm not
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  Speaker 1: leaving that seat.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, we walked up. Hey, look, they ain't even boarding yet.
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  Speaker 3: Ain't nobody here.
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  Speaker 7: And I said, hey, are y'all going to start boarding soon? Oh, sir,
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  Speaker 7: that flight left 30 minutes ago.
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  Speaker 3: Are you the Grimes family? We are. We paged you. Wait,
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  Speaker 3: you knew who I was? You didn't call me or
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  Speaker 3: text me or nothing?
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  Speaker 6: What?
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  Speaker 3: That has happened to me. Yeah. That's why I don't
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  Speaker 3: trust it.
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  Speaker 1: No. They said, hey, the flight should be leaving at
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  Speaker 1: about 445. It is now three. Come back here at
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  Speaker 1: 445 and we'll have an update.
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  Speaker 3: I came back for the update. They were gone. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And I said, but you said for... So now, 445.
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  Speaker 1: If I got to sit in that chair for three hours,
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  Speaker 1: I'm sitting in that chair.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not moving. And we were flying to L.A. for
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  Speaker 3: a radio thing.
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  Speaker 7: So I was supposed to be there at 6 to
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  Speaker 7: get picked up by the car and go to the party.
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  Speaker 3: I got there at 11. I still rode into the party. Hey,
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  Speaker 3: what's up, y'all? Last round of drink. Let's go.
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  Speaker 1: I want to find out about some crazy travel that
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  Speaker 1: you've done. A trip that took Ray, what, six hours
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  Speaker 1: to 12?
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 3: 12 hours.
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  Speaker 1: Bumper to bumper traffic. Missed trains. Cars delivered. I want
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  Speaker 1: to hear about a crazy travel trip that you've done. 407-919-1067, 877-919-1067.
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  Speaker 1: Live stream, social media, you got the trips. We want
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  Speaker 1: to hear about them. We love talking to you. A
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  Speaker 1: crazy trip. You've been telling that story, but we want
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  Speaker 1: to hear it on the air. So call us right
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  Speaker 3: More next. Took Ray forever to get back from Key
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  Speaker 3: West to here.
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  Speaker 1: Missed trains, taking cars to airport, Ubers, all of that.
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  Speaker 3: Six-hour trip to 12 hours.
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  Speaker 1: I want to find out from you, when did you
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  Speaker 1: have a crazy travel story? Calling us for the first
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  Speaker 1: time from Orlando. First time caller.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, Judy.
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  Speaker 4: Hey.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, my gosh.
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  Speaker 6: Hi, guys.
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  Speaker 8: Johnny, Ray, and Brian. I love you guys.
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  Speaker 3: We love you. Wow. Thank you for calling. This is awesome.
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  Speaker 9: Thank you.
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  Speaker 8: Thank you.
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  Speaker 3: All right. Well, tell us about this travel story. What happened?
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  Speaker 9: Oh, my God.
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  Speaker 8: It happened to us going to Key West. So me
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  Speaker 8: and my husband, we usually just get up and say, hey,
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  Speaker 8: where are we going to go? So we decided to
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  Speaker 8: go to Key West during spring break.
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  Speaker 6: Yes.
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  Speaker 8: No reservations, nothing. We were stuck literally for 12 hours
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  Speaker 8: trying to get to Key West. Turned around, decided to
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  Speaker 8: go through Miami. Spring break, of course. It took us
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  Speaker 8: around 16 hours. We didn't even stay. We turned around
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  Speaker 8: and came back.
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  Speaker 1: You drove from Orlando to Key West, got down there,
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  Speaker 1: turned around and came back?
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  Speaker 8: We were stuck in traffic. There was no reservations. Everything
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  Speaker 8: was booked. It was insane.
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  Speaker 3: I'd find somewhere else along the way. Yeah.
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  Speaker 8: Amarada.
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  Speaker 3: Wow. Something.
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  Speaker 4: Yes.
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  Speaker 9: Yes.
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  Speaker 8: But this happens to us all the time. We either
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  Speaker 8: go to... Clearwater on 4th of July too and it
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  Speaker 8: was bumper to bumper we just decided you know what
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  Speaker 8: we'll stay at the beach and come back home I love.
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  Speaker 1: Your spontaneity I think that is awesome but you can
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  Speaker 1: look at like hotel.com what's that one you use oh
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  Speaker 1: yeah I love booking.com Expedia Expedia yeah.
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  Speaker 8: Now my children take care of my reservations they're like
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  Speaker 8: mom are you planning to go anywhere let us know
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  Speaker 8: so we can book and you think you're just gonna
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  Speaker 8: just pop up and sign reservations now.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just surprised that you want to travel during those
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  Speaker 1: peak travel times.
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  Speaker 3: Any other time, cool. Yeah.
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  Speaker 8: I didn't think it was going to be that crazy.
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  Speaker 1: Wow.
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  Speaker 8: We're from New York, so we usually get.
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  Speaker 3: Up and go. I love that.
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  Speaker 8: But no.
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  Speaker 3: Man.
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  Speaker 8: 17 hours.
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  Speaker 3: Went down, turned around, and came right back.
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  Speaker 1: Wow.
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  Speaker 3: That's awful. That's a true story. That's a true story
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  Speaker 3: that happened to me right there.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe just play it a little bit better next time.
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  Speaker 3: The kid's going to take over, right? The kid's taking over.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 8: Now they're taking over my booking.
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  Speaker 3: Well, Judy, don't be a stranger. You're part of the
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  Speaker 3: family now, okay?
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  Speaker 6: Thank you.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you for listening.
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  Speaker 8: We love you guys.
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  Speaker 1: We love you too. Thank you so much. Brian, what'd
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  Speaker 1: they say, man?
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  Speaker 3: There's a lot of them.
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  Speaker 7: Someone said their daughter had a 14 and a half
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  Speaker 7: hour flight to Seoul, Korea from Detroit. But they sat
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  Speaker 7: on the tarmac for hours and hours. And by the
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  Speaker 7: time it took off, it was a 19 hour flight.
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  Speaker 3: I don't get why they put you on a plane
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  Speaker 3: and just sit there. I've done that twice. We just
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  Speaker 3: sat there for like an hour, hour and a half.
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  Speaker 7: Because if they take you off, then that goes into
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  Speaker 7: the whole process again.
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  Speaker 3: And then if you go to the bathroom, this is
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  Speaker 3: a so-and-so flight. Please return to your seats. Like, man,
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  Speaker 3: I've been... We ain't moving. Can I go to somewhere?
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  Speaker 3: And it's going to be in the bathroom or in
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  Speaker 3: this seat? You tell me where you want.
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  Speaker 1: And we ain't even started this flight yet. The question,
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  Speaker 1: are you a dry beggar? And you're like, well, what
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  Speaker 1: is it? So, Brian, what is it?
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  Speaker 7: So they say it's when someone hints at what they
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  Speaker 7: want instead of just coming right out and asking for it.
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  Speaker 7: So rather than making like a direct request for something,
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  Speaker 7: they drop a complaint or maybe like a little overdramatic
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  Speaker 7: comment and hope that someone gets the message.
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  Speaker 8: Hmm.
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  Speaker 3: And then does what they're hoping. Give me an example.
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  Speaker 3: My mom was the queen of it, so she did
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  Speaker 3: it all the time.
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  Speaker 7: But if I have something, and you're next to your
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  Speaker 7: significant other, and then you'd be like, man, I sure
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  Speaker 7: wish I had that. Now, you didn't ask for it directly,
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  Speaker 7: but you've definitely floated out there. But because you said that,
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  Speaker 7: you would hope they'd say, hey, you want some of this?
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  Speaker 6: Right.
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  Speaker 2: Or I'd be like, man, it's really time for another massage.
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  Speaker 2: My back is killing me lately.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: But you want that person to give you a massage.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I wouldn't.
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  Speaker 3: Or arrange it. Or arrange it. Give me a certificate.
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  Speaker 7: We were talking earlier, listening to the podcast, about going
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  Speaker 7: to pick up your significant other at the gate.
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  Speaker 6: Yes.
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  Speaker 3: Yours would go, man, Ray's girlfriend picked her up at
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  Speaker 3: the gate. That must be nice.
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  Speaker 1: And I got an answer for that. Ray's girl don't
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  Speaker 1: get up at 1.50 in the morning to go to work.
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  Speaker 6: Right.
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  Speaker 3: That's my answer to everything. Anything that I want to do,
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  Speaker 3: I always throw that in there.
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  Speaker 7: So it's basically passively, aggressively letting someone know that you're
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  Speaker 7: not cool with what is happening or that you want
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  Speaker 7: something without having to directly ask for it.
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  Speaker 3: I think people do it a lot more than they realize.
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  Speaker 2: We do it a lot.
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  Speaker 3: I do it to my son all the time.
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  Speaker 1: Man, I wish somebody else was in this house to
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  Speaker 1: wash these dishes, boy.
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  Speaker 7: I think a lot of people do it way more
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  Speaker 7: than they realize. My mom did it non-stop. That's what
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  Speaker 7: she did. She didn't complain about anything.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: But she complained about everything.
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  Speaker 2: Must be nice to go to Epic all the time.
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  Speaker 8: Man.
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  Speaker 3: Man.
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  Speaker 2: Wonder what that's like.
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  Speaker 1: Must be nice just to sit around and do nothing
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  Speaker 1: all day. Boy, I wouldn't mind doing some of that. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: I do it all the time. I didn't notice that
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  Speaker 1: until I do it now. You're doing it to be
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  Speaker 1: kind of sarcastic. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Like you're not really looking for something specific. I'm saying
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  Speaker 3: that so he can go. Oh, yeah, I'll get those dishes. Well,
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  Speaker 3: thank you, son.
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  Speaker 7: Like, when I see people that may or may not
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  Speaker 7: work here sitting in the front row of places, I.
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  Speaker 3: Do the, oh, man, it must be nice to have
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  Speaker 3: tickets like that. Wow, it must be nice. Now, I
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  Speaker 3: am saying I should have some tickets like that. Okay, okay. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I do it.
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  Speaker 1: When we were first talking about that earlier this morning,
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't think I'd do that. Oh, no,
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  Speaker 1: I do it all the time. Because for me, I
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  Speaker 1: don't want to have to tell him to wash the dishes.
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  Speaker 1: I want him to say, man. I'll say, hey, come here, son.
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  Speaker 3: What?
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  Speaker 1: Wouldn't it be nice if there was somebody else in
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  Speaker 1: the house to wash these dishes? Wouldn't that be nice?
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  Speaker 1: I'll get him to add.
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  Speaker 4: Fine.
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  Speaker 8: Oh, what?
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  Speaker 3: That's not what I was saying.
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  Speaker 5: What if he was like, yeah, maybe we should get
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  Speaker 5: a maid or a cleaning person.
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  Speaker 3: Well, that's when I flipped the switch.
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  Speaker 1: No, what I'm trying to say, boy, is you and
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  Speaker 1: me have to say, look at this thing.
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  Speaker 3: 80% of this is yours.
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  Speaker 6: All right.
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  Speaker 1: I want to find out, are you a dry beggar
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  Speaker 1: and what have you done or what have you said?
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  Speaker 1: I've come to the realization that I am one and
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  Speaker 1: it seems to work in my household. I don't think
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  Speaker 1: I'm that way in my personal life because I'll just
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  Speaker 1: ask and just say, hey, You mind driving? Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: I think a lot of people don't think they are
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  Speaker 7: because when you hear it, you're like, eh. And then
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  Speaker 7: you realize, well, I think everybody kind of does it.
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  Speaker 3: I used to do it with a little voice. It
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  Speaker 3: would be nice. People got annoyed with that, so I stopped.
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  Speaker 1: Got a pair of tickets to see Malcolm Todd at
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  Speaker 1: Hard Rock Live in September the 10th. If you would
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  Speaker 1: like to go, all you have to do is tell
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  Speaker 1: us what is it that you've been dry begging about.
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  Speaker 3: You're throwing it out there.
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  Speaker 1: Hopefully someone will listen and do what it is that
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  Speaker 1: you've kind of just dry begged about. 4 0 7
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  Speaker 1: is up and running for you to say the same thing.
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  Speaker 1: Are you a dry beggar? What have you been begging
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  Speaker 1: on again? Malcolm Todd, hard rock live. Want to go
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  Speaker 1: need to find out. So call us on John. Will
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  Speaker 1: you admit it? Or I'm sure you say somebody else
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  Speaker 1: in your family is from Orlando.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, Tiffany.
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  Speaker 6: Hi, good morning.
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  Speaker 3: Tiffany, are you a dry beggar?
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  Speaker 6: So I am not, I am not a striped beggar,
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  Speaker 6: but my seven-year-old is. None of my other kids aren't,
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  Speaker 6: but my seven-year-old is.
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  Speaker 3: And what does he do?
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  Speaker 6: He will because so i when i'm like i'm sitting
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  Speaker 6: in the car and he has to sit next to
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  Speaker 6: me because i got four kids and five you know
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  Speaker 6: only five seats yes so he'll sit next to me
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  Speaker 6: and if i get like something special he's like wow.
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  Speaker 4: I really like that you know like he'll just say like.
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  Speaker 6: Oh i like those things like just like not asking
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  Speaker 6: for it but he's just like oh i like that
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  Speaker 6: oh i like smoothies.
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  Speaker 3: Too what do you think he got there from.
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  Speaker 6: I don't know where he got it from, but none
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  Speaker 6: of his siblings do it. They're straight up ass.
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  Speaker 1: Tiffany, you need to look around the house. Somebody's doing it.
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  Speaker 1: Because it sounds to me like he's good at it.
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  Speaker 6: But no, I'm like, oh, that's nice. Because if you
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  Speaker 6: don't ask me directly, I'm not going to give it.
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  Speaker 6: I don't give it. If you want something, ask me
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  Speaker 6: for it. If you're like, oh, that's nice. It's really good.
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  Speaker 3: Boy, you're hardcore to dry bagging.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: I'm like, oh, that's wonderful.
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  Speaker 3: So you're eating a smoothie. The kid goes, hmm, I
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  Speaker 3: wouldn't mind a smoothie. It looks delicious. You go, yes,
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  Speaker 3: it is, and that's it.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, that's it.
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  Speaker 8: I work hard.
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  Speaker 6: I work hard.
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  Speaker 8: Oh, my gosh.
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  Speaker 3: You know, I love tough love. That's my thing. I
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  Speaker 3: love that.
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  Speaker 6: I'll give the kids, I suppose, I'll give myself a
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  Speaker 6: special sandwich, and he's just like, I just look.
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  Speaker 3: I look over.
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  Speaker 6: I can feel him watching me. I feel his eyes.
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  Speaker 1: Dang.
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  Speaker 6: I'm not getting into that. No, because I don't know
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  Speaker 6: what happens when I lose my things. Because he'll sneak.
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  Speaker 6: He'll sneak things that he wants.
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  Speaker 3: Sounds like y'all got something going on up in that house, Tiffany.
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  Speaker 3: It ain't none of my business. I mean, the kid's
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  Speaker 3: picking up behaviors from somewhere.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know.
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  Speaker 6: I don't know where he gets it from. It's not me.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, Tiffany. You hold on a second. You're in the
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  Speaker 3: drawing for those tickets. From Orlando, Katie.
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  Speaker 1: Hi, Johnny.
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  Speaker 4: Hey, Katie.
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  Speaker 3: How are you?
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  Speaker 9: I'm a first-time caller.
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  Speaker 1: Hey! We love, love, love, love, love, love a first-time caller.
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  Speaker 1: You are now part of family. You can't be a stranger,
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  Speaker 1: so you got to call more often.
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  Speaker 3: How about that?
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  Speaker 9: Will do, will do.
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  Speaker 3: Okay. Are you a dry beggar?
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  Speaker 9: So, yes, but I'm working on it.
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  Speaker 1: Ooh, I like that. You acknowledge that you are. So
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  Speaker 1: let me hear some examples of your dry beggars.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, so I usually, when I want something, I'll put
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  Speaker 9: it in the form of a question instead of just, like,
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  Speaker 9: directly asking for it. So, like, for example, with my ex-partner,
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  Speaker 9: I would be like, if we're going to order food
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  Speaker 9: and then take the dog on a walk, I was like,
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  Speaker 9: you know, we should, like.
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  Speaker 9: Or don't you think we should order the food now
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  Speaker 9: and then take.
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  Speaker 8: The dog on a walk?
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  Speaker 9: So by the time we're done with the walk.
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  Speaker 8: The food will be there.
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  Speaker 9: And now, like, I'm trying to reframe it. So it's like, hey,
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  Speaker 9: we should order the food now. Take the dog on
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  Speaker 9: the walk.
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  Speaker 2: So you do it as kind of like a suggestion. Exactly.
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  Speaker 9: And I like I'll try to get their opinion on it.
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  Speaker 9: So it's like, oh, it's coming from them. And, you know,
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  Speaker 9: so but now it's like, oh, you know, I should just.
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  Speaker 9: ask for it and like not demand it but demand
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  Speaker 9: it in a way.
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  Speaker 1: Now Katie I'm not a therapist but if I was
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  Speaker 1: one I would say maybe he got tired of that
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  Speaker 1: that's why he's next I'm just saying you.
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  Speaker 9: Know you are not wrong oh look at that hey
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  Speaker 9: but you know what learning it learned a lot from
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  Speaker 9: it now I'm working on it so all is good Katie.
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  Speaker 1: You know what's bad is that you're making it better
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  Speaker 1: for the next person that man's like why can't you
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  Speaker 1: make it better for me So I'll flip.
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  Speaker 7: It, though, because some people, and maybe it ain't you,
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  Speaker 7: maybe it is them, because some people, for them to
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  Speaker 7: do anything, you have to make them think it's their idea. Otherwise,
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  Speaker 7: they're just obtuse for the sake of being it.
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  Speaker 2: That's true.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, I'm not like a master manipulator or anything.
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  Speaker 3: I think you are. I think I've been called that before.
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  Speaker 9: I am learning to demand things for myself.
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  Speaker 3: You know what?
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  Speaker 1: As long as you work in progress, you are always right.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of people in denial, Katie. I don't think
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  Speaker 1: you're wrong. I think you just adapted to your situation.
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  Speaker 1: Some people need to think things are their idea for
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  Speaker 1: them to go along with it.
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  Speaker 3: I agree. And sometimes you got to play that game.
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  Speaker 1: But if you're coming at me like, maybe, why don't
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  Speaker 1: you just tell me what we should do?
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  Speaker 7: Because I've tried that before. And because it wasn't your idea,
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  Speaker 7: we didn't do it. So now I got to adapt
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  Speaker 7: to you. How about I don't even want no damn food?
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  Speaker 3: How about that? See, this is why it ain't working.
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  Speaker 3: It ain't because of me. Claire, Mike, Cecilia. It just
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  Speaker 3: sounds like a lot. It does. Relationships are a lot, right? Yes,
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  Speaker 3: I know. Cecilia.
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  Speaker 6: Good morning.
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  Speaker 3: Drop begging. I know it ain't you, Cecilia, is it?
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  Speaker 6: No, it's not.
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  Speaker 4: It's a lot of my family members and it's my fault, unfortunately,
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  Speaker 4: because I spoil them because that's my love language. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: But my husband, if I happen to get a snack
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  Speaker 4: for myself, he's like.
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  Speaker 6: Oh, that looks pretty good.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. So it's subtle, like, oh, the little size, the size,
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  Speaker 4: that's what you get.
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  Speaker 3: And I'm like, oh.
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  Speaker 1: Cecilia, if I was a therapist, which I'm not, I
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  Speaker 1: would say this to you. You spoiled that man.
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  Speaker 3: He is spoiled. I do. He is spoiled.
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  Speaker 6: I do.
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  Speaker 4: I'm 100% guilty of it, too.
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  Speaker 6: And I know it, but I love him.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I'm going to tell you how to break it.
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  Speaker 1: Next time you come with some ice cream and he goes, man,
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  Speaker 1: that's good. I wouldn't mind some ice cream. He'd say, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's in the refrigerator. Go sit down and eat it.
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  Speaker 4: I actually did that to him last night. I wanted
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  Speaker 4: ice cream, and I'm like, I better just go ahead
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  Speaker 4: and bring him some anyways, so I did it.
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  Speaker 3: That ain't doing it, no. That's not doing it.
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  Speaker 2: She did bring him some.
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  Speaker 3: No, you sit down and tell him to go get
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  Speaker 3: it himself. Right, I like ice cream. Cool, it's in
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  Speaker 3: the freezer.
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  Speaker 4: He would give me a look like, is something getting sick?
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  Speaker 3: It's too late then. Yes, thank you. You can't undo
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  Speaker 3: it now.
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  Speaker 8: My daughter even does it now because she wants a
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  Speaker 8: cat so bad.
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  Speaker 4: That she's like, well, it would be really great to
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  Speaker 4: have a cat around.
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  Speaker 6: Are you saying.
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  Speaker 5: It's wrong for her to just bring the bowl of
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  Speaker 5: ice cream?
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  Speaker 1: If she's calling here saying that he's dry bagging, if
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  Speaker 1: you want to break him of that, he has to
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  Speaker 1: get it himself, Ray.
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  Speaker 3: If not, he's going to continue. It's going to start
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  Speaker 3: with ice cream.
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  Speaker 6: Right.
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  Speaker 3: And then it's going to go with trips. And then
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  Speaker 3: it gets larger, Ray.
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  Speaker 7: Like when my wife walks by, this happens like recently.
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  Speaker 7: When she walks by with something, I say, ooh, I
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  Speaker 7: like Oreos. She's like, there's a bag in the pantry.
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  Speaker 7: And she just keeps on walking.
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  Speaker 3: And what does Brian do? She doesn't go get me Oreos.
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  Speaker 3: He go gets them himself. But what if she did?
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  Speaker 2: Showed up with some Oreos for you?
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  Speaker 3: I would think she's probably hooking up with somebody else.
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  Speaker 7: There's a reason why suddenly after 25 years, you brought
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  Speaker 7: me Oreos.
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  Speaker 3: So now.
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  Speaker 8: So now.
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 3: Cecilia.
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  Speaker 1: I like you. I'm going to get you because you
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  Speaker 1: small that man. And like Brian said, you're at a
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  Speaker 1: point of no return. You're going to get these tickets
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  Speaker 1: to see Malcolm Todd at the Hard Rock Live coming
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  Speaker 1: up on September 10th.
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  Speaker 6: Oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you so much.
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  Speaker 8: My daughter loves him so much.
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  Speaker 3: There you go. There you go. All right. Keep getting
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  Speaker 3: that ice cream, girl. I'm so confused. He doesn't understand.
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  Speaker 7: Someone said my daughter's friend was over this weekend and
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  Speaker 7: that's exactly what she does. Well, it'd really be nice
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  Speaker 7: to get our nails done, but I guess we don't
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  Speaker 7: have time to do that. So I really like to
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  Speaker 7: try one of those drinks.
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  Speaker 3: That'd be nice.
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  Speaker 2: It's kind of like vague booking.
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  Speaker 8: It is.
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  Speaker 3: It's vague begging.
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  Speaker 2: Vague begging, yes.
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  Speaker 3: It's pretty much one of those.
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  Speaker 1: Vague, vague, yeah.
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