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- 0:03Speaker 1: Reality with the King is hosted by me, Carlos King.
- 0:07Speaker 1: I'm an executive producer who have produced some of your
- 0:10Speaker 1: favorite shows from the Real Housewives in Atlanta, New Jersey
- 0:13Speaker 1: and my own creation, The Love and Marriage Franchise and
- 0:17Speaker 1: Bell Collective. Every episode, we recap reality television from the
- 0:23Speaker 1: Real Housewives Franchise to The Bachelor or Selling Sunset. In
- 0:27Speaker 1: addition to celebrity guests, whether in the unscripted space or
- 0:31Speaker 1: scripted as well. Ray Droves, Alexis Jansen, and I are
- 0:39Speaker 1: back to recap the latest episode of the Real Housewives
- 0:43Speaker 1: of Beverly Hell's Alexis finally cc Penison.
- 0:48Speaker 2: Boys, we are getting the drama.
- 0:53Speaker 3: It's getting better every episode. And then I saw the
- 0:55Speaker 3: trailer for next week and I'm like, oh my gosh,
- 0:57Speaker 3: I like I want to I wish I could get them,
- 1:00Speaker 3: Like can I become best friends with one of them
- 1:02Speaker 3: so I can watch it with them as they receive them.
- 1:05Speaker 2: Who would you want?
- 1:06Speaker 1: Okay, of all the cast members, I'll tell you my
- 1:09Speaker 1: my brain does already know my answer, and look maybe
- 1:11Speaker 1: you do too.
- 1:12Speaker 2: But ladies, first of all the real hospots.
- 1:15Speaker 1: At Belly Hills, which one would you like to be
- 1:19Speaker 1: friends with in real life and tell me.
- 1:21Speaker 3: Why can I only choose one?
- 1:24Speaker 1: I mean, choose your number one, and I'll have you
- 1:27Speaker 1: choose a second. But well, okay, well I want to
- 1:30Speaker 1: make this hard for you, so yes, choose one.
- 1:32Speaker 3: Okay, here's my real answer without getting having parameters around it.
- 1:37Speaker 3: I would love to be friends with all of them.
- 1:38Speaker 3: I think they all have a unique something to them.
- 1:42Speaker 3: None of them rubbed me totally wrong. So I would
- 1:44Speaker 3: love to be friends with all of them. But if
- 1:46Speaker 3: I had to choose one for comfort reasons, because I
- 1:49Speaker 3: do know her, it would be Kyle. And I know
- 1:53Speaker 3: that's your number one. You know, you don't have to
- 1:54Speaker 3: tell every brain knows that. But she would be my
- 1:58Speaker 3: number one just because I already have a friendship with
- 2:00Speaker 3: her for over a decade or like, you know, friendly
- 2:02Speaker 3: with her for over a decade. But then Erica Jane
- 2:06Speaker 3: would be a hoot and a drink, So those would
- 2:10Speaker 3: be my Yeah. But I mean, like I said, I
- 2:13Speaker 3: love even Sutton and Kathy Hilton. I just get a kick.
- 2:17Speaker 3: It's like I just want to kick back, like when
- 2:19Speaker 3: they were doing the ivy. We'll talk about if they
- 2:20Speaker 3: were doing the ivy thing and then they're drinking water
- 2:22Speaker 3: or drinking wine as you're trying to get pumped up
- 2:25Speaker 3: these I'm like, okay, I can't, so I'm not.
- 2:29Speaker 2: Saying to you. I could not agree with you more.
- 2:31Speaker 2: I love it so much.
- 2:33Speaker 1: Obviously, everybody knows that mine would be Kyle. I call
- 2:37Speaker 1: her Kyle Legend, Kyle Legend Richard you know.
- 2:42Speaker 2: So yeah, listen, there's nothing else to say, but I
- 2:44Speaker 2: will say this. I will say this.
- 2:46Speaker 1: We're gonna get into the episode after this episode. If
- 2:50Speaker 1: I'm strictly basing on this episode alone, my number two
- 2:58Speaker 1: the I Carlos Reginald. He would love to hang out
- 3:02Speaker 1: with and be friends. In real life, it would be
- 3:07Speaker 1: drum Roe please.
- 3:13Speaker 2: Rachel though, oh.
- 3:15Speaker 3: Okay, yeah we can't. I can't even believe I didn't
- 3:18Speaker 3: mention her in mind. But yeah, she's just she's just
- 3:22Speaker 3: got me.
- 3:22Speaker 1: That was me, Godiva Brody was right, Rachel, Zoe activated.
- 3:32Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen, it's me.
- 3:35Speaker 1: I'm with a lectus dancing Godiva and Brody simmer down. Okay, look,
- 3:40Speaker 1: see rain drops, I'm always working.
- 3:42Speaker 3: Now.
- 3:42Speaker 2: Look, we have to get to the continuation of stop.
- 3:49Speaker 1: We have to get into the continuation of Derre's birthday
- 3:53Speaker 1: dinner where she and Amanda had a sparring off where
- 3:58Speaker 1: once again, you know, was trying to get an answer
- 4:03Speaker 1: out of Amanda two weeks ago in regards to what
- 4:07Speaker 1: she said about her. Amanda said, it's the anniversary in
- 4:10Speaker 1: my son's death. Let's not talk about it. Dere proceeds
- 4:13Speaker 1: to so. In this episode, it's a continuation where Amanda
- 4:17Speaker 1: says to Dry that she was verbally.
- 4:22Speaker 2: Assaulted.
- 4:23Speaker 1: Wasn't accosted accosted, she was verbally accosted and had to
- 4:30Speaker 1: get the definition. And in this moment, Amanda throws Kyle
- 4:36Speaker 1: under the bus and says, I didn't say these things
- 4:41Speaker 1: about you. I actually just agreed with Kyle, and then
- 4:46Speaker 1: Alexi Jan said the shit hit the fan after that,
- 4:49Speaker 1: I'm like, Kyle, look to see if you have skid
- 4:54Speaker 1: marks on your back because Amanda just threw you all
- 4:57Speaker 1: the way under the yellow school But yes, yeah.
- 5:02Speaker 3: But I mean, in Amanda's defense, she kind of did.
- 5:06Speaker 3: Because they played the flashback. It wasn't like Amanda thought.
- 5:09Speaker 3: It wasn't like Amanda sitting there trying to talk in
- 5:11Speaker 3: gossip about anything about Dreed. She simply agreed with Kyle
- 5:14Speaker 3: and said, yeah, it might not be a good thing.
- 5:15Speaker 3: So but might you censor this? First of all, it's
- 5:19Speaker 3: literally one of the dumbest fights they've ever that these
- 5:21Speaker 3: women have ever had. Who hairs dory if Kyle and
- 5:26Speaker 3: her Amanda don't think that you should be talking as
- 5:30Speaker 3: much about your ex. This is not something that this
- 5:33Speaker 3: is making a mountain out of a molehill in my opinion.
- 5:36Speaker 3: In my opinion, and so I'm rolling my eyes the
- 5:40Speaker 3: whole time at all of it, to be honest.
- 5:42Speaker 1: But well, no, the thing I will say this, I
- 5:46Speaker 1: actually agree with you in the sense like this, these.
- 5:53Speaker 2: Ladies number one are allowed to have an opinion.
- 5:55Speaker 1: And yes, Deree has every right to stay if she
- 5:58Speaker 1: agrees with it. Now, when it comes to Kyle, I
- 6:01Speaker 1: think what the audience let not say that. I think
- 6:05Speaker 1: what durit is missing is the fact that you guys
- 6:09Speaker 1: went on multiple double days as friends. You guys were
- 6:12Speaker 1: a couple of friends. We've seen numerous scenes of you
- 6:15Speaker 1: guys hanging out together, having a good time, laughing at
- 6:21Speaker 1: you know, Erica Jane making a comment in regards to
- 6:25Speaker 1: telling Garsell's son to shut up or something along those lines,
- 6:28Speaker 1: right like we seen you guys have a jovial time.
- 6:31Speaker 1: Kyle obviously has every right to have an opinion based
- 6:36Speaker 1: on Look, I understand you may feel this way, but
- 6:39Speaker 1: when you Derey brought up PK's alcoholism to everybody with
- 6:45Speaker 1: an earshot, he went on Alex Baskin's podcast the EP
- 6:50Speaker 1: of the production company who produces the show and said
- 6:53Speaker 1: that he had a problem with it. And I even
- 6:57Speaker 1: knew before he said that on Alex's podcasts that he
- 7:01Speaker 1: would because anybody would have a problem with you disclosing
- 7:04Speaker 1: their alcoholism because number one, that person has to even
- 7:08Speaker 1: admit that they have a problem, so you disclose again
- 7:11Speaker 1: before they do.
- 7:11Speaker 2: Was wrong.
- 7:12Speaker 1: Now you're saying what a bad parent he is, and
- 7:15Speaker 1: it's sort of like, look, I'm not saying that's.
- 7:17Speaker 2: Not who PK is. I don't know these people.
- 7:21Speaker 1: But it is to me wrong. But alexis, what do
- 7:28Speaker 1: you think, because again, you've been divorced twice. Is it
- 7:33Speaker 1: wrong that a friend of yours is telling you, Hey,
- 7:36Speaker 1: alexis I think publicly maybe you should' bash your ex husband.
- 7:43Speaker 2: In the public eye.
- 7:46Speaker 3: Yeah. And this is where it gets tricky on this
- 7:47Speaker 3: episode because typically I would agree with Rachel Zoe where
- 7:51Speaker 3: She's like, look, we're amongst our friends. We should be
- 7:54Speaker 3: able to be open and honest with our friends. The
- 7:57Speaker 3: only caveat to that which I don't agree with is
- 8:00Speaker 3: it's on a national television show. So if I want
- 8:02Speaker 3: to go talk to my best friend or let's just
- 8:06Speaker 3: say Tam or Sue. Okay, let's say I want to
- 8:08Speaker 3: go tap to Tammy Sue. If I do it on camera,
- 8:11Speaker 3: that is different than me venting to her on a
- 8:13Speaker 3: nature walk with our dogs up in the up in
- 8:15Speaker 3: the hills of you know OC. So I feel as
- 8:20Speaker 3: if the problem is, yes, de Rey should be able
- 8:24Speaker 3: to vent, she should not be doing it on television
- 8:27Speaker 3: where everybody in America is going to hear it. It's
- 8:29Speaker 3: just not okay. I mean, I don't think it's okay
- 8:32Speaker 3: to bash your X and a group of women either,
- 8:34Speaker 3: like even if they weren't filming a team like Okay,
- 8:37Speaker 3: let's say let's say Jim and I got into a
- 8:39Speaker 3: huge fight and I'm at lunch with five of my friends.
- 8:42Speaker 3: I'm not going to sit at that lunch and go blowing,
- 8:46Speaker 3: you know, blowing smoke about how mad I am about
- 8:49Speaker 3: the whole entire fight that Jim and I just got
- 8:51Speaker 3: into the father children right my divorced x so I
- 8:56Speaker 3: just I just feel like Kyle is right. And the
- 8:58Speaker 3: fact that she says dor read it's just in a
- 9:00Speaker 3: Really she's not the best version of herself. I think
- 9:03Speaker 3: in five years when this doest settles, Diarit's gonna wish
- 9:06Speaker 3: she would not have said half the stuff she said
- 9:08Speaker 3: about PK.
- 9:10Speaker 1: Yes, and I actually agree with you one hundred percent,
- 9:12Speaker 1: and that's what I was looking forward to talking to you,
- 9:14Speaker 1: because you have the experience of going through a divorce.
- 9:18Speaker 1: You admitted to us that you went through two divorces
- 9:21Speaker 1: when we as the audience, only knew of one because
- 9:24Speaker 1: of you being on the show at the time. But look,
- 9:27Speaker 1: one thing that is right when it comes to Deret
- 9:32Speaker 1: that I would love to get your.
- 9:33Speaker 2: Opinion on too.
- 9:35Speaker 1: When you are going through a divorce, it is one
- 9:40Speaker 1: of the most painful experiences of your life. And I
- 9:43Speaker 1: do think what Derey is experiencing.
- 9:47Speaker 2: Is pain and I get it.
- 9:51Speaker 1: And I think too, Listen, I think Kyle and Deriy
- 9:55Speaker 1: are both right in their own ways. I think Kyle
- 9:58Speaker 1: has every right to say, as your friend, I am
- 10:02Speaker 1: trying to help you as your friend, and I think
- 10:06Speaker 1: Derey is right when she's like, as my friend, I
- 10:11Speaker 1: don't need your advice, I need you to listen. And
- 10:15Speaker 1: that's when Rachel Zoe woke it up and told everybody,
- 10:20Speaker 1: well as somebody who is currently going through a divorce
- 10:23Speaker 1: right now that was publicly announced today, all of this
- 10:26Speaker 1: is bullshit, and I think what Derey.
- 10:28Speaker 2: Is trying to say is be her.
- 10:32Speaker 3: Friend, just give me a hug. She's saying, I just
- 10:35Speaker 3: need a hug. I don't want any of you to
- 10:36Speaker 3: give me your two cents right now. She's not in
- 10:38Speaker 3: that and I've said this a couple podcasts ago with you.
- 10:41Speaker 3: Durree is not in any headspace, which is why her
- 10:43Speaker 3: and Kyle are butting heads. She is not in any
- 10:46Speaker 3: headspace right now to have constructive criticism from her immediate
- 10:51Speaker 3: group of friends. She just needs a hug, and that
- 10:53Speaker 3: is where Rachel Zoe is right. All Durite wants and
- 10:55Speaker 3: needs is just everyone to hug her, whether she's handling
- 10:58Speaker 3: the situation properly or not. I think Darrett needs to
- 11:01Speaker 3: hear that from her mom or from not from her
- 11:06Speaker 3: group of friends, especially Kyle, who you've already got friction with.
- 11:09Speaker 3: They're not going to make it past this, Carlos, I'm
- 11:11Speaker 3: telling you right now, they're not going to make it
- 11:14Speaker 3: past this for a couple of years. Like I don't.
- 11:16Speaker 3: I think Durite has to get out of this cloud
- 11:18Speaker 3: of exactly what you just said, where divorce is one
- 11:21Speaker 3: of the most painful things you can go through because
- 11:23Speaker 3: it is a death. It's a death of a family
- 11:25Speaker 3: and a life that you were building and thought was
- 11:27Speaker 3: going to be your end of your life, right, so
- 11:29Speaker 3: then you lose that and that's a death and you
- 11:32Speaker 3: have to get over that in a way. You know,
- 11:33Speaker 3: I can't say it's a death because it's nothing like
- 11:35Speaker 3: when I lost my mom, but like it's something you
- 11:37Speaker 3: still have to get over and so I and it
- 11:40Speaker 3: takes grieving, takes years for some people, it takes you know,
- 11:43Speaker 3: it's not as hard for other people for certain things.
- 11:45Speaker 3: But Durit is in the thick of it, and we
- 11:47Speaker 3: are viewing it on national television. So you got to
- 11:51Speaker 3: just give her a hug at this point. And Kyle
- 11:53Speaker 3: does need to stay out of it. Erica Jane is right,
- 11:55Speaker 3: Kyle needs to back off and just not even talk
- 11:57Speaker 3: about what PK has said to Mauricio don't even ask
- 12:00Speaker 3: Mauricio questions. Just stay out.
- 12:05Speaker 1: This is reality with the King, and I'm Carlos King.
- 12:08Speaker 1: Let's get back into the show.
- 12:11Speaker 4: Yes, and I am the firm believer of and this
- 12:15Speaker 4: maybe unpopular. I'm not sure.
- 12:17Speaker 1: Like SiZ, I am the farm believer of. When I
- 12:21Speaker 1: divorced a breakup with my man, my friends me too
- 12:23Speaker 1: as well.
- 12:26Speaker 3: Yeah, gosh, that is such. That's a really good thought.
- 12:30Speaker 3: Here's the problem. I was married for thirteen years with
- 12:34Speaker 3: Jim for fourteen kay have three children with him. We
- 12:36Speaker 3: had a lot of friends that we've been friends with
- 12:38Speaker 3: for fourteen years. It's really hard for and I always
- 12:42Speaker 3: told every single person, even though some people would come
- 12:45Speaker 3: to me and be like, you know, we're team Alexis,
- 12:47Speaker 3: we're on your side, we're so glad you finally did this, whatever,
- 12:50Speaker 3: but I never want to hear that. I did not
- 12:51Speaker 3: want to hear it. I just said, nope, I don't
- 12:53Speaker 3: want anyone to pick sides. I want everybody to just
- 12:55Speaker 3: be friends with who you want. Between me and Jim,
- 12:58Speaker 3: I'm not going to have any bad even Drew and
- 13:00Speaker 3: I like Drew and I still have some of the
- 13:02Speaker 3: same friends. Most of them are his or in Canyon
- 13:04Speaker 3: Lake because that's where he lives. But it's like it's
- 13:06Speaker 3: like there's no hard there's I don't feel that way.
- 13:10Speaker 3: Maybe if it's just a boyfriend, that's different. I don't know, Carlos,
- 13:15Speaker 3: because I I don't know. I mean my best friends
- 13:19Speaker 3: and my Okay, like I have in my circle, it's
- 13:21Speaker 3: very very small. I have five good friends and that's
- 13:23Speaker 3: really it. I mean, very good friends with other people.
- 13:25Speaker 3: But I have five friends that are my three of
- 13:28Speaker 3: them that I call every day about everything, like sisters,
- 13:30Speaker 3: and two others that are very very very close. I
- 13:33Speaker 3: would expect probably those five to be a team alexis
- 13:37Speaker 3: and and do that, but the rest of every but
- 13:39Speaker 3: still be cordial, you know, maybe not necessarily go out
- 13:42Speaker 3: with any of my exes and they're new, Well.
- 13:44Speaker 2: What about like texting them?
- 13:47Speaker 3: First of all, none of my friends should be texting
- 13:49Speaker 3: my husband or my ex ever anyway, unless you need
- 13:52Speaker 3: to ask them about a business idea. There should be
- 13:55Speaker 3: zero reason any friends should be texting an ex period. Now,
- 14:00Speaker 3: Kyle and Durt's situation, we said this last week, and
- 14:02Speaker 3: I want to know what you think about this. I
- 14:04Speaker 3: feel like it's different because this is a very sticky
- 14:06Speaker 3: situation since all four of them are friends. Right, so
- 14:09Speaker 3: we're friends. So do you think now watching this episode,
- 14:13Speaker 3: because last episode more has happened from last do you
- 14:16Speaker 3: think that it was okay for Durit to say I
- 14:20Speaker 3: want to sit down with Mauricio.
- 14:22Speaker 2: No, I don't, I think listen.
- 14:24Speaker 3: Because you know that's coming. You saw the scribe.
- 14:26Speaker 1: I know, I know, and I said this to you
- 14:28Speaker 1: last week and rain drops, you tell me what you think.
- 14:31Speaker 2: I Carlos King once again, deret.
- 14:37Speaker 1: Asking in front of Kyle to meet with Mauricio was
- 14:43Speaker 1: a payback for Kyle texting PKU.
- 14:47Speaker 2: Now, granted DEI did it front of Kyle's face.
- 14:50Speaker 4: Fine, At the end of the day, my thing is this,
- 14:56Speaker 4: what purpose does it serve for to.
- 15:00Speaker 2: Meet with Mauricio. The only reason any spouse should meet
- 15:06Speaker 2: with a friend of your estranged spouse is because you
- 15:10Speaker 2: want a reconciliation.
- 15:12Speaker 1: Right. If duriy Wan and PK back, let me speak
- 15:18Speaker 1: to his friend. Hey, your boy's going crazy. I'm willing
- 15:24Speaker 1: to talk to him. You got to put some senses
- 15:26Speaker 1: to him.
- 15:27Speaker 2: Blah blah blah blah blah.
- 15:28Speaker 1: If I have such venom from my estrange suit to
- 15:33Speaker 1: be ex husband.
- 15:34Speaker 2: I don't need his boy to talk to me.
- 15:40Speaker 1: There's no conversation we need to have that will make
- 15:44Speaker 1: me change my mind about how I feel about my
- 15:47Speaker 1: strange husband who did something in my marriage, not our friendship.
- 15:52Speaker 3: And the only reason I think I disagree with you
- 15:54Speaker 3: is because I have been through a divorce and the
- 15:56Speaker 3: children were involved, and I feel the only perspective I
- 16:00Speaker 3: go from on this. And I probably wouldn't have this perspective,
- 16:03Speaker 3: mind you, if I didn't have children and have been divorced.
- 16:05Speaker 3: So maybe that's why we're so different, because you don't
- 16:07Speaker 3: have either of those at this time in your life.
- 16:09Speaker 3: But I put myself intourite's shoes. And if my divorce
- 16:15Speaker 3: is becoming so toxic and I have tried and exhausted
- 16:18Speaker 3: every other avenue that I could do, I damn well
- 16:22Speaker 3: may call his best friend and be like, I can
- 16:25Speaker 3: I please sit down and talk to you. I want
- 16:27Speaker 3: to hear what you are hearing from p K, because
- 16:29Speaker 3: maybe you're not getting all of the advice. By the way,
- 16:33Speaker 3: when you plan private like surprise celebrations, you end up
- 16:36Speaker 3: getting every one of your husbands or ex husbands or
- 16:40Speaker 3: ex fiances cell phone numbers in your phone because you're
- 16:42Speaker 3: doing it all behind his back. So that's the only
- 16:44Speaker 3: reason I would ever even have any of their cell
- 16:46Speaker 3: phone numbers period. I would never have them because I'm
- 16:48Speaker 3: calling to see how's your wife doing. I'm gonna call
- 16:50Speaker 3: your wife, you know. But like so for p K
- 16:55Speaker 3: or for not to have had the number until that night,
- 16:57Speaker 3: you know that they were at that dinner with Kyle,
- 16:59Speaker 3: and Kyle's like, yeah, give you the number. Yes, goes
- 17:01Speaker 3: down with them. I see the other side of it
- 17:03Speaker 3: from Doret's avenue of I really want to I want
- 17:07Speaker 3: to see what I'm missing here, because for the sake
- 17:09Speaker 3: of my children, my ex and I need to start
- 17:12Speaker 3: figuring out a way to be compatible.
- 17:15Speaker 2: Mm hmm, yeah, your.
- 17:16Speaker 3: Side makes sense, it does.
- 17:19Speaker 2: I see your point there.
- 17:19Speaker 1: I see a point that that I see a point
- 17:21Speaker 1: in making that I'm going to talk to my estrange
- 17:26Speaker 1: soon to be ex husband's best friend so that he
- 17:29Speaker 1: can talk some sense.
- 17:30Speaker 2: In to him about how we bulk should show up.
- 17:33Speaker 3: Be clarity or give me clarity, tell me what I'm
- 17:36Speaker 3: doing wrong. Maybe Dorrit needs to hear from Mo what
- 17:39Speaker 3: PK is Matt about dereet for or where this all
- 17:42Speaker 3: this venom is coming from. It could be all those
- 17:45Speaker 3: things could happen. There could be this next week is
- 17:47Speaker 3: going to be the bomb.
- 17:48Speaker 2: I'll tell you that, Oh absolutely.
- 17:50Speaker 1: But the biggest bomb baby was all of a sudden
- 17:54Speaker 1: it became cow versus Deree. Now let me tell you something,
- 17:57Speaker 1: Lexis I like petty drama, and they were both mocking
- 18:01Speaker 1: each other saying do you remember, oh, yes, I remember.
- 18:10Speaker 5: D's lips when she went remember, I'm like, girl, I
- 18:14Speaker 5: can see the filler in your lip right now when
- 18:15Speaker 5: you do that. Don't do that word again, like right there,
- 18:21Speaker 5: and I'm like, oh, there's there's.
- 18:25Speaker 2: No at an.
- 18:26Speaker 1: Alexis my other favorite part because at this point Coyle
- 18:29Speaker 1: makes a dig saying like.
- 18:31Speaker 2: Look, you talk too much, which just so you know, Alexis.
- 18:35Speaker 1: If you if you don't know Andy Cohen when he
- 18:39Speaker 1: was hosting the reunion that season, it was a big
- 18:44Speaker 1: topic that Dree is long winded and that she talks
- 18:47Speaker 1: a lot, and then Andy Cohen yawned at the reunion
- 18:51Speaker 1: about deit was talking and then she goes, am I
- 18:55Speaker 1: boring you, Andy, and he goes, oh no, I was
- 18:59Speaker 1: just so the cast ont of laughing because again they
- 19:03Speaker 1: all said told you to Rea long winded, so like
- 19:05Speaker 1: Kyle says to her, where she says like pretty much
- 19:10Speaker 1: like you talk too much. Oh that's old, that's old.
- 19:13Speaker 1: That's why she said that. But Derey, who was on
- 19:17Speaker 1: fucking five in this episode when she starts to act
- 19:20Speaker 1: like a fucking mind, Alexis Jackson, I let me tell
- 19:30Speaker 1: you something.
- 19:31Speaker 2: I don't laugh out loud when I watched reality.
- 19:34Speaker 1: Television unless something is so belly hurting, laughing Alexis, I
- 19:41Speaker 1: screamed at the TV. That was the To see Dery
- 19:46Speaker 1: behave like a mime was genius. And that's why she's
- 19:52Speaker 1: one of my favorite reality stars.
- 19:53Speaker 2: I love her.
- 19:55Speaker 3: She is on fire this season. I mean she's I
- 19:59Speaker 3: just I I have I've you know, watched it a
- 20:01Speaker 3: couple episodes before I ever started doing this one with you.
- 20:04Speaker 3: But I've always thought she's just awesome. But it was hysterical.
- 20:08Speaker 3: And I do laugh out loud a lot of times
- 20:10Speaker 3: these women because I kind of can put myself in
- 20:13Speaker 3: the situation of them and I'm just like, damn, that
- 20:15Speaker 3: was good. Because people think you you like sit and
- 20:18Speaker 3: rehearse lines to be on this show.
- 20:20Speaker 2: Well some do. I don't a.
- 20:24Speaker 3: Lot of them do I think just from me sitting
- 20:26Speaker 3: in the chair of all the confessionals and even being
- 20:29Speaker 3: in the hot, heated seat when you're, you know, with
- 20:31Speaker 3: all the women and even on here with you, and
- 20:33Speaker 3: then something comes to your mind, you say it, that's
- 20:35Speaker 3: just your wittiness. And most women that are on this
- 20:37Speaker 3: show have to be witty. And I don't think people
- 20:40Speaker 3: sit and go, Okay, what am I going to say?
- 20:42Speaker 2: What Lione?
- 20:43Speaker 3: Can I say? You know, I just don't. I think
- 20:46Speaker 3: that a lot of these women are just freaking funny
- 20:48Speaker 3: as Hale I mean, and.
- 20:51Speaker 2: Dere's one of those women. Deri is. Deree is so
- 20:55Speaker 2: deliciously hilarious.
- 20:57Speaker 1: And the one thing I love about Derey, and I've
- 20:59Speaker 1: said to you before, I'm loving to read more of
- 21:02Speaker 1: these past couple of seasons because she reminds me of
- 21:04Speaker 1: who she was when when she first started.
- 21:07Speaker 2: She was unapologetically herself. She was inappropriate in.
- 21:11Speaker 1: Terms of saying things that we were all like, oh shit, Derey,
- 21:16Speaker 1: we thought it, but who says it? For example, when
- 21:20Speaker 1: Amanda was saying how in her forty years on this earth,
- 21:23Speaker 1: she's never.
- 21:26Speaker 2: Cried after a dinner party had been talked to you
- 21:28Speaker 2: that way, and Deri goes, weren't you in a cult?
- 21:33Speaker 2: Alexi I for.
- 21:35Speaker 1: The second time this season, I laughed aloud, I have
- 21:40Speaker 1: to rewind it.
- 21:42Speaker 3: You need to DMD how much you loved her this episode. Hi,
- 21:47Speaker 3: dere if you're listening, she needs a hug.
- 21:49Speaker 2: I know you are. Just so you know that all
- 21:52Speaker 2: the girls listened to us, Alex all of it.
- 21:55Speaker 3: They do not even have enough time in the data.
- 21:57Speaker 3: Here are little ratty voices.
- 22:00Speaker 1: I run into housewives all the time, and I ran
- 22:04Speaker 1: into one Beverley Hills housewife last year.
- 22:07Speaker 2: I'm not gonna say who. I'll tell you off record.
- 22:11Speaker 4: I had a run name of the Bible Hills housewife
- 22:15Speaker 4: and I said, how, I'm Carlos.
- 22:16Speaker 1: She said, I know you are, girl, and she was like,
- 22:18Speaker 1: I love your podcast and thank you for having my back.
- 22:23Speaker 3: Well, the only reason I believe anything you're saying is
- 22:25Speaker 3: because you took your damn glasses off. Okay, glasses off.
- 22:29Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, people tune in, Okay, rain drops, put
- 22:32Speaker 3: your ear up because he's getting ridden.
- 22:33Speaker 1: To be honest, yes, yes, yes, because I know.
- 22:37Speaker 3: I believe you. Okay, Wow, Well, girls, did I just
- 22:41Speaker 3: want to all of you know that Alexis Jansen said,
- 22:43Speaker 3: I wanted to be best friends with all of y'all,
- 22:45Speaker 3: So okay, I can't.
- 22:55Speaker 2: Exclaim more how Dreek was the.
- 22:58Speaker 1: Force multiply in this episode because the way she threw
- 23:02Speaker 1: the dagger at Amanda and I love Amanda, the girls gas,
- 23:09Speaker 1: they all said, Okay, Deriy, you went too far.
- 23:12Speaker 2: I gotta be honest with you. I don't think Deiy
- 23:15Speaker 2: went far.
- 23:16Speaker 1: I think I think it was match set point and
- 23:21Speaker 1: and it's one thing to go after someone's children, family, divorce,
- 23:27Speaker 1: to to to to have a.
- 23:29Speaker 2: Clap back of something you said in the press. I
- 23:32Speaker 2: didn't think she went too far with them, But what.
- 23:34Speaker 3: Do you think are you talking about? Went too far
- 23:37Speaker 3: with the cult?
- 23:38Speaker 1: Yes, yes, the girls the girl's gas said Deiy Deriy,
- 23:41Speaker 1: Oh my god, stop No, no.
- 23:43Speaker 3: I think everything's fair game at that point. But but
- 23:46Speaker 3: I also, like I said, I think this is the
- 23:47Speaker 3: silliest fight that any that's it's good, it's getting good,
- 23:50Speaker 3: but it's like it's one of the stupidest things ever,
- 23:52Speaker 3: Like you're talking about me about how I shouldn't be
- 23:54Speaker 3: talking about my my you know, divorce, whatever. Okay, there's
- 23:58Speaker 3: so many bigger things than fire I need to burn
- 24:00Speaker 3: in a day, I would let this go and be like,
- 24:02Speaker 3: very well, I don't really like that you're doing that,
- 24:04Speaker 3: but I'm moving on. But maybe it's because there's not
- 24:06Speaker 3: a lot else going on for the women to have
- 24:09Speaker 3: controversy over and they need to keep us entertained. But yeah,
- 24:14Speaker 3: I don't. I don't think the cult conversation or comment
- 24:17Speaker 3: was you know, off color. It's kind of like true,
- 24:20Speaker 3: it's but it's all out there. It's not like it's
- 24:22Speaker 3: not like dere went and with researching. It's just it's
- 24:25Speaker 3: already out there on the internet about you know, or like,
- 24:29Speaker 3: it's not like d told a secret.
- 24:31Speaker 2: Well I'm gonna say she did research, yes.
- 24:34Speaker 3: Exactly, thank you. What I meant is, Durit did not
- 24:37Speaker 3: tell a secret that she shouldn't have told about Amana
- 24:39Speaker 3: being in a correct Amanda had already posted it and
- 24:42Speaker 3: talked about it in her book and talked about it online.
- 24:44Speaker 3: So it's out there, so it's not a secret. And
- 24:47Speaker 3: so it's fair game, babe, It's fair game.
- 24:50Speaker 1: It's fair fucking game. And look, I didn't think that
- 24:53Speaker 1: was too far. I do think I thought Drey went
- 24:57Speaker 1: too far when she told Kyle to shut up, Mike
- 25:02Speaker 1: shut up.
- 25:03Speaker 3: Yeah, well, Kyle and Duri were both they were both
- 25:06Speaker 3: going back and forth between the remember and then the
- 25:09Speaker 3: you know, I mean they were just grow up and
- 25:12Speaker 3: then shut up and then I mean they were just
- 25:15Speaker 3: That's why I said, I don't. I think they need
- 25:16Speaker 3: a year to simmer off. So hopefully filming's done for
- 25:20Speaker 3: them now and they can have a little space, because
- 25:22Speaker 3: I think Dury has to heal a lot before they
- 25:25Speaker 3: become good friends again. I think then Durk can see
- 25:27Speaker 3: that Kyle was just trying to be your friend. I don't.
- 25:29Speaker 3: Kyle does not have a bad bone in her body
- 25:31Speaker 3: about what she's doing or saying about Durate. She's not
- 25:33Speaker 3: sitting or trying to tick Duried off. And it is
- 25:35Speaker 3: true whichever of the girls said, oh, Kyle said it Bose.
- 25:39Speaker 3: When Bose says anything, Dured accepts it and we'll hear it.
- 25:43Speaker 3: But as soon as Kyle says the same thing, exact thing,
- 25:46Speaker 3: it's World War two. So I you know, it just
- 25:49Speaker 3: Kyle needs to just keep her mouth, you know, together, Like.
- 25:53Speaker 6: What were your thoughts on Bows's interjection when it aim
- 26:00Speaker 6: to the Amanda piece, because it then became this big
- 26:04Speaker 6: discussion about whether or not she can handle.
- 26:09Speaker 4: Being in a group setting where people talk to her differently,
- 26:13Speaker 4: and that's.
- 26:13Speaker 2: Just how life is. I love Bos. I thought Bos
- 26:17Speaker 2: was out of line.
- 26:19Speaker 1: I am one hundred percent on Amanda side. When we've
- 26:24Speaker 1: learned this from Maya Angelou and Oprah Winfrey. When someone
- 26:27Speaker 1: shows you who they are, believe them. And what that
- 26:30Speaker 1: means to me is you should set boundaries with how
- 26:33Speaker 1: people talk to you.
- 26:34Speaker 2: I'm not accepting. I don't give a fuck where I'm at.
- 26:37Speaker 2: I don't care if I'm at work in public.
- 26:42Speaker 1: If someone is speaking to me in a way that
- 26:44Speaker 1: makes me uncomfortable, I have everybody to say, don't talk
- 26:47Speaker 1: to me that way. So I didn't get that, and
- 26:49Speaker 1: in that moment, I did feel like I love you Bows.
- 26:52Speaker 2: I feel like Bows is now trying to.
- 27:00Speaker 1: Bos is now attempting to be friends with all of
- 27:02Speaker 1: these girls.
- 27:03Speaker 2: And what we loved about Bose last year.
- 27:05Speaker 1: That we're not seeing so far this year, and I'm
- 27:07Speaker 1: speaking on behalf of me first and foremost and some
- 27:09Speaker 1: of the audience. What we loved about Bose last year
- 27:12Speaker 1: is Bos called out everybody when they were wrong, and
- 27:16Speaker 1: I did appreciate in all fairness when she told Dread Okay,
- 27:21Speaker 1: I don't think Kyle is not trying to.
- 27:24Speaker 2: Be a good friend. So I did appreciate Bose with that.
- 27:27Speaker 1: I think when it came to Amanda, Bose for some
- 27:30Speaker 1: reason has a hard off for Amanda, and I feel
- 27:33Speaker 1: like she's on the hazing attack and that's not fair.
- 27:38Speaker 3: I agree with you, And what I took away from
- 27:40Speaker 3: that scene is I don't agree with Bose because until
- 27:44Speaker 3: I did a reality show fifteen years ago, I had
- 27:47Speaker 3: never sat in a lunch or a dinner with that
- 27:50Speaker 3: many women, and ever had the conversations and the harsh
- 27:54Speaker 3: talk happened to where I would leave crying in the
- 27:57Speaker 3: limo going home too, Like when you're on reality TV,
- 28:02Speaker 3: you are speaking different to the women, You're more concise,
- 28:07Speaker 3: you're more in their face in front of other women.
- 28:10Speaker 3: Prior to that, when I was thirty three joining this show,
- 28:14Speaker 3: I had been at thousands of philanthropy luncheons and dinners,
- 28:21Speaker 3: school hosting things like all of these moms and all
- 28:24Speaker 3: these women, and I had never experienced what I experienced
- 28:29Speaker 3: when I sat down my first season of Orange County
- 28:31Speaker 3: Housewives with those group of women, because the problem is
- 28:35Speaker 3: we have to create a show. So to create a show,
- 28:38Speaker 3: if we're all just leaving the scene to go have
- 28:40Speaker 3: a one on one with someone, like if Dorried and
- 28:43Speaker 3: Amana had just left and gone and had a one
- 28:45Speaker 3: on one and they did that every single time we
- 28:47Speaker 3: had a lunch of dinner, the show would never go anywhere.
- 28:49Speaker 3: You have to have an ensemble group. You have to
- 28:51Speaker 3: have some of the fights in front of each other,
- 28:53Speaker 3: which is why it happens during a lunch or a dinner.
- 28:56Speaker 3: So I agree with Amanda, I would set boundaries. So
- 29:00Speaker 3: think that she's right when she said, up until you
- 29:03Speaker 3: know last week's dinner. I have never been spoken to
- 29:07Speaker 3: like this at a group dinner. She's one hundred percent right.
- 29:11Speaker 3: It was my first time at thirty three, as a
- 29:12Speaker 3: fish out of water of ever having to experience that.
- 29:15Speaker 3: So and both I feel was a little out of line,
- 29:18Speaker 3: although both tried to her opinion also, and she's funny
- 29:21Speaker 3: as heck, but it's like, no, you you should tell
- 29:25Speaker 3: women okay, no, no, no, no, this is this is
- 29:28Speaker 3: a no no. And by the way, if the roles
- 29:29Speaker 3: were reversed, both by by all means would put her
- 29:32Speaker 3: foot down and set her boundary.
- 29:34Speaker 1: Oh yeah, No, Bose does not striking me as a
- 29:36Speaker 1: type of woman who allows anyone to talk to her
- 29:39Speaker 1: and accepts try to navigate. I think, based on what
- 29:42Speaker 1: I've seen, she's like, no, You're not going to speak
- 29:44Speaker 1: to me that way, and I think Amanda has everybody
- 29:46Speaker 1: to say that. What was what was so fascinating Alexis
- 29:52Speaker 1: in this episode was as a Rachel zou fan since
- 29:57Speaker 1: her show, The Rachel's a Project that aired for seven
- 30:01Speaker 1: seasons on Bravo years ago. This episode was the first
- 30:06Speaker 1: time so far this season that I saw Rachel's as
- 30:09Speaker 1: a human because you know, she had because listen rightfully. So,
- 30:14Speaker 1: she's slowly integrating herself into this world of housewives, and
- 30:19Speaker 1: she's not the dominant topic of conversation, right but I
- 30:24Speaker 1: thought she did a fabulous job interjecting herself where appropriate.
- 30:30Speaker 1: I thought she did a fabulous job allowing us the
- 30:33Speaker 1: audience in on what she was going through emotionally leaving
- 30:36Speaker 1: the dinner table, going outside, breaking down and crying. Really,
- 30:42Speaker 1: you could tell that she is really having a hard
- 30:46Speaker 1: time with being away from Roger. And what we learned
- 30:51Speaker 1: this season is they've been together for thirty three years,
- 30:57Speaker 1: more than.
- 30:57Speaker 3: Half of her life, is what she said. One that's
- 31:00Speaker 3: insane thirty I want to backtrack a little, But first
- 31:06Speaker 3: of all, what what do you mean that she's having
- 31:10Speaker 3: a hard time being away from Roger. I don't get
- 31:12Speaker 3: that she wants him back or wants had anything to
- 31:13Speaker 3: do with him at all, But you just think she
- 31:18Speaker 3: misses him.
- 31:19Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, and and and that's my mistake. It
- 31:22Speaker 2: became across that way.
- 31:23Speaker 1: No. What I meant was she's having a hard time
- 31:26Speaker 1: dealing with the fact that they're separating now that she
- 31:29Speaker 1: wants him back.
- 31:29Speaker 3: But no, I tell you, I'll tell you exactly what
- 31:32Speaker 3: her biggest problem she's having right now is is that
- 31:35Speaker 3: she wakes up and it got leaped and it's all
- 31:38Speaker 3: over the press that the divorce is happening, or that
- 31:40Speaker 3: she filed. When when you do file, I mean obviously
- 31:42Speaker 3: it's public knowledge. It's it becomes court documentary. Publics can
- 31:46Speaker 3: read anything about that. But I think it was such
- 31:49Speaker 3: a shock because she's like, I can't believe how bad
- 31:51Speaker 3: this is spiraling. And the reason I know how it
- 31:53Speaker 3: affects you is because the same thing happened to me.
- 31:56Speaker 3: Season eighteen when I was filming, Spence tells me right
- 32:00Speaker 3: before I'm getting ready to go on on a scene. Okay,
- 32:03Speaker 3: we're having an all cast party at Jim Padronte's pool house,
- 32:08Speaker 3: sitting in her backyard, and everyone said, all the girls said,
- 32:12Speaker 3: what is wrong with you? Like you are not yourself
- 32:14Speaker 3: right now. I had literally found out ten minutes before
- 32:17Speaker 3: that in the car on the way here that it
- 32:21Speaker 3: was going to be released tomorrow about John's lawsuit. And
- 32:24Speaker 3: so for me, I'm sitting here going I'm going to
- 32:26Speaker 3: wake up to a storm tomorrow like in the media,
- 32:29Speaker 3: and so it completely paralyzed me for that filming. And
- 32:35Speaker 3: even Tamor, who's very close to me, was like, what
- 32:37Speaker 3: was wrong with you last night? And then she found
- 32:39Speaker 3: out about that and then she's like, now I get it,
- 32:41Speaker 3: because you were just not yourself. And all I kept
- 32:44Speaker 3: thinking about the whole time I was filming was the
- 32:47Speaker 3: entage of everything out in the media. So that's what's
- 32:50Speaker 3: going on with Rachel as she was trying to I
- 32:53Speaker 3: mean she woke up to it. She didn't think, oh,
- 32:55Speaker 3: it's going to happen tomorrow. She woke up to it.
- 32:57Speaker 3: So she was just paralyzed. I loved her authenticity, the
- 33:01Speaker 3: fact that she took her glasses off and we did
- 33:03Speaker 3: get to see her tears and realize that she's struggling,
- 33:07Speaker 3: and God, bless her. I mean, these women are just
- 33:10Speaker 3: going through it this year. They all just have Thank God,
- 33:15Speaker 3: thank God, Erica Jane's in a loving relationship right now.
- 33:18Speaker 3: And we found out a little bit about that that's
- 33:20Speaker 3: the secret that's been going on and that we're happy
- 33:21Speaker 3: about that. But like, because she she was on Watch
- 33:24Speaker 3: What Happens Live after the episode last night, so I
- 33:28Speaker 3: watched it and Andy asked her, is it still going
- 33:32Speaker 3: and she's like, yet going strong? And she He's like, well,
- 33:34Speaker 3: who's who she met from the cast and she's like,
- 33:36Speaker 3: no one, She's an he ain't met nobody. Eric. I'm like, okay, no,
- 33:41Speaker 3: So I'm glad she's having a good time because poor Rachel,
- 33:44Speaker 3: poor Kyle, poor Durte, poor bos not being getting pregnant
- 33:50Speaker 3: or having the embryos. Take like, there's just a lot
- 33:53Speaker 3: of sad heavy you know, Yeah.
- 33:56Speaker 2: No, it is, it is.
- 33:57Speaker 1: It was what was so fascinating about seeing.
- 34:04Speaker 2: Stop the Dog's going crazy today.
- 34:07Speaker 3: I don't hear it. Just to let you know, I don't.
- 34:08Speaker 2: Heard perfect good, good WiFi.
- 34:12Speaker 1: It was good about what's going on between these ladies
- 34:18Speaker 1: this season is you're you're, you're, you're, You're seeing them
- 34:23Speaker 1: more vulnerable, and.
- 34:24Speaker 2: That's what I appreciate by reality television.
- 34:27Speaker 1: And my prediction is this though, if you if you
- 34:31Speaker 1: really want to know, yes, I brew a.
- 34:37Speaker 2: Beat between Rachel's, Zoe and Kyle.
- 34:41Speaker 1: Because what, buddy, let me tell you something my spinty senses.
- 34:49Speaker 2: We'll keep listen, we'll keep watching, and we'll see what
- 34:51Speaker 2: goes on.
- 34:53Speaker 3: Know why I need to know the why? Why you
- 34:55Speaker 3: think it is?
- 34:57Speaker 1: When Derek and Kyle was going at it and Rachel
- 35:01Speaker 1: interjected and was defending de Reed and Derey, you could
- 35:06Speaker 1: tell there was like, yes, finally somebody is on my side.
- 35:13Speaker 1: And she kept motioning her head, nodding, giving her eye contact,
- 35:17Speaker 1: saying yes, yes, yes, and then and then oh Alexi's
- 35:21Speaker 1: honey bunny putting pie and then baby girl win. Durrey
- 35:28Speaker 1: tells Kyle, you didn't just hear Rachel zeld She even
- 35:32Speaker 1: agrees and says, and Kyle was like, I don't.
- 35:35Speaker 2: Have agree with her, so you don't agree with her.
- 35:37Speaker 1: I don't agree with her, and I'm like, oh, there's well,
- 35:43Speaker 1: because the thing that Rachel Zeau has, Rachel Zold does
- 35:47Speaker 1: have a Kyle has, which is this very quiet presence
- 35:54Speaker 1: but very powerful still and understanding how to be on
- 36:00Speaker 1: the side of what she think is right and not
- 36:04Speaker 1: being afraid to stay her opinion. I thought it was
- 36:07Speaker 1: a bold move for Rachel Zeud to come for the
- 36:12Speaker 1: queen of the show.
- 36:14Speaker 2: But I predict Kyle versus Rachel Zel. I promise you,
- 36:22Speaker 2: I see it. I see it. Rachel zel is coming
- 36:24Speaker 2: for Kyle's throne. I promise you.
- 36:27Speaker 3: You know good because this this whole diret thing about
- 36:30Speaker 3: the thing is getting it's boring, and it's a it's
- 36:31Speaker 3: a snooze fest for a deating Amanda who cares about
- 36:34Speaker 3: the p K and what you're saying whatever. So it's
- 36:37Speaker 3: going to be great if you're right about that. But
- 36:39Speaker 3: the you're very intuitive in that that is a very
- 36:42Speaker 3: good like like you were what you were visualizing moving forward,
- 36:47Speaker 3: And I think you're right because also now dor reat
- 36:52Speaker 3: and and Rachel have this like click. You know, they've
- 36:56Speaker 3: got a deeper love for each other now because they're
- 36:59Speaker 3: both in the same posician and they've they basically just
- 37:02Speaker 3: became best friends last night on that that episode. You know,
- 37:05Speaker 3: so I think you're right. I think I think you're right.
- 37:10Speaker 2: It's gonna be fascinating to see. So look, the funny
- 37:14Speaker 2: thing that happened to me was they ignored Dureed's.
- 37:17Speaker 1: Birthday cake and Kyle's lights trd to fucking go like
- 37:19Speaker 1: I'm over it again.
- 37:22Speaker 2: Amazing scene. It had a funny button to it.
- 37:25Speaker 1: They're like, fuck this birthday cake, fucked this birthday party,
- 37:28Speaker 1: were ready to go, nobody cared about it, and they
- 37:31Speaker 1: went on their mary way.
- 37:34Speaker 3: Well, the staff is happy because they got to eat
- 37:36Speaker 3: that for birthday cake. Like, thank you guys for having
- 37:41Speaker 3: this fight.
- 37:45Speaker 1: How did you feel when you saw Rachel Zoe and
- 37:48Speaker 1: Kathy meet and rachel Zoe tells Kathy, who is Kyle's sister,
- 37:56Speaker 1: see what I'm born with this?
- 37:58Speaker 2: Okay? Uh uh huh.
- 38:02Speaker 1: And she tells her that, you know, she's concerned about
- 38:10Speaker 1: being judged in this group because she feels like people
- 38:14Speaker 1: should give deit grace even if they disagree with how
- 38:19Speaker 1: she's handling it, which the only person who disagreed with
- 38:22Speaker 1: it is Kathy's sister, Kyle.
- 38:27Speaker 3: Well, I think a lot of the women disagree with
- 38:31Speaker 3: how Dearate's handling it. I think they're just not speaking
- 38:34Speaker 3: up about it as much as Kyle is. I think
- 38:36Speaker 3: Kathy kept her mouth, you know, kept her mouth shut
- 38:38Speaker 3: about it. She didn't really say too much to get
- 38:40Speaker 3: in the middle of it. But I mean to Kathy
- 38:44Speaker 3: didn't say much to Dorrit about or to Rachel when
- 38:48Speaker 3: she said that. She kind of kept her mouth shut.
- 38:50Speaker 3: But I think even in Kathy's mind, she's thinking Duret's
- 38:53Speaker 3: probably shouldn't be speaking ill about her ex the father Richard.
- 39:00Speaker 3: Mm hmmm, I think that. But I think you're right.
- 39:03Speaker 3: That makes it interesting that Rachel Zoe sat down with Kathy.
- 39:08Speaker 2: So yeah, I'm telling you, rain drops, tell what you think.
- 39:14Speaker 1: I see a battle of the Queen of Beverly Hills
- 39:17Speaker 1: between Colin and Rachel.
- 39:19Speaker 2: I see it, and listen.
- 39:21Speaker 1: We we still have a lot more episodes plus the reunion,
- 39:25Speaker 1: but I see little nuggets happening with that.
- 39:30Speaker 3: How many episodes are there? Do you know?
- 39:32Speaker 1: Normally they get abound sixteen plus a three.
- 39:36Speaker 3: Yeah, some of the same as okay, yeah yeah, so
- 39:40Speaker 3: OC goes sometimes over that though, because they got so
- 39:43Speaker 3: much drama. Sometimes what and what episode are we on
- 39:45Speaker 3: was this eight?
- 39:46Speaker 2: Yes?
- 39:47Speaker 4: Eight?
- 39:49Speaker 3: Oh yeah, we're only halfway there. Then if they're sixteen,
- 39:51Speaker 3: we're halfway guys. So we got a lot more dirt
- 39:53Speaker 3: to unpack.
- 39:55Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, yes.
- 39:58Speaker 1: One of the scenes that listen, my heart was off
- 40:00Speaker 1: to bows. We learned that her embryos didn't take.
- 40:06Speaker 3: I tell you something about that. So I googled bos
- 40:08Speaker 3: right after that scene because I got tier choked up
- 40:11Speaker 3: because I did in betro. Also, we didn't need to.
- 40:14Speaker 3: We had both got tested for, you know, our fertility,
- 40:17Speaker 3: but I'd been on the pill for so long that
- 40:19Speaker 3: the doctor was like, oh it could take you know,
- 40:21Speaker 3: it could take her two years for her pituitary gland
- 40:24Speaker 3: to start working again for her ovaries. YadA, YadA yah. Anyway,
- 40:26Speaker 3: that's the medical stuff. But anyway, so at thirty, I
- 40:30Speaker 3: know I did it at twenty because the doctor says
- 40:32Speaker 3: to bos because of your age, you know, or what
- 40:36Speaker 3: do you think about having a younger person's eggs. So
- 40:39Speaker 3: I googled bows because I'm like, oh god, well how
- 40:42Speaker 3: old is she gout? I have no clothes. She's gorgeous.
- 40:44Speaker 3: She looks twenty five thirty. You know, I had no
- 40:46Speaker 3: idea she's two days younger than me, So she's forty nine.
- 40:50Speaker 3: She was born January twenty first, nineteen seventy seven. I'm
- 40:54Speaker 3: January nineteenth, nineteen seventy seven, so she's two days younger
- 40:59Speaker 3: than me. And I did my d vitro at twenty
- 41:03Speaker 3: seven and had like thirty six eggs, so that's like
- 41:07Speaker 3: twenty three eggs at a time. I was Carlos. My
- 41:10Speaker 3: belly was like out like this. By the time they
- 41:12Speaker 3: came and took my eggs, I looked six months pregnant.
- 41:14Speaker 3: So for her to go through it at forty nine
- 41:17Speaker 3: and only to get one egg from each embryo does
- 41:19Speaker 3: tell you what happens with a woman's body, Okay, over age,
- 41:22Speaker 3: over time. So my heart was just I was seriously
- 41:27Speaker 3: teary eyed because I'm like when she got up to
- 41:30Speaker 3: walk away and cry, because I'm like, I would know
- 41:33Speaker 3: that pain. I would feel that because I had to
- 41:35Speaker 3: go through it. And when you're going through in vitro,
- 41:37Speaker 3: you are wrecking your body and you are having emotions
- 41:40Speaker 3: like you have no idea your stomach like she didn't
- 41:42Speaker 3: feel good. She said she was so bloated. Yes, you
- 41:44Speaker 3: get so bloated. It's not a fun experience, so I
- 41:47Speaker 3: know that she was having heartbreak about the fact that
- 41:50Speaker 3: the embryos weren't a success and bad because that does
- 41:54Speaker 3: come with that is the age of art. It's just life,
- 41:56Speaker 3: it's just your body, you know, it's and she's beautiful.
- 41:59Speaker 2: And I want yeah, no, it's it's so sad because
- 42:03Speaker 2: even when we saw in the we call it the
- 42:08Speaker 2: round robin, when they.
- 42:09Speaker 1: Show the montage what the housewoks are doing before they
- 42:13Speaker 1: get to a full scene, and you saw Bulls gives
- 42:15Speaker 1: her sixteen year old daughter with the Maserati and in
- 42:19Speaker 1: that moment, you're like, what a beautiful moment to share
- 42:22Speaker 1: with your child, and the fact that she wants to
- 42:25Speaker 1: have that experience with another child, with the man that
- 42:29Speaker 1: she's engaged too and in love with, and the struggles
- 42:34Speaker 1: that she's going through, which again is my heart goes
- 42:38Speaker 1: out to her and to her fiance because one thing
- 42:43Speaker 1: I am learning courtesy of producing reality, in addition to
- 42:48Speaker 1: having friends where we're the same made in our forties,
- 42:53Speaker 1: they all do regret not freezing their eggs in their
- 42:58Speaker 1: twenties or thirties while they were so career focused, and
- 43:03Speaker 1: it's something that is super relatable and you. It doesn't
- 43:07Speaker 1: matter how much money you have, It doesn't matter look
- 43:10Speaker 1: the right, the perfect doctor, all the resources in the world.
- 43:14Speaker 2: It all has to do with science.
- 43:18Speaker 1: And I think that's the that's the part that we're
- 43:21Speaker 1: realizing in terms of it really honestly is the luck
- 43:24Speaker 1: of a draw.
- 43:25Speaker 3: Here well, and there are women that have been in
- 43:28Speaker 3: the public eye. Who was the one redhead that had
- 43:32Speaker 3: twins at fifty from in vitro and she had her
- 43:35Speaker 3: first set of kids at fifty It was only I
- 43:37Speaker 3: don't know, five or seven or maybe less than a
- 43:40Speaker 3: decade ago, but anyway, so some women's ovaries will still
- 43:45Speaker 3: produce eggs at forty nine or fifty. Those were her
- 43:47Speaker 3: legitimate eggs that she had made embrios from. My question
- 43:51Speaker 3: for you was when I was watching that scene as
- 43:53Speaker 3: I wanted to get your take on it, because like,
- 43:54Speaker 3: if I put myself in their position, Let's just say
- 43:57Speaker 3: that was John and I and he'd never had his
- 44:00Speaker 3: own kid, his own child yet, and he was like,
- 44:02Speaker 3: I really want a baby, I want my own. I
- 44:05Speaker 3: would go through it too, I would have I would
- 44:07Speaker 3: do it for him and be like, no problem, even
- 44:09Speaker 3: if I had I have my three kids I'll do
- 44:11Speaker 3: it again for you, even though it would be so
- 44:12Speaker 3: hard to be pregnant at this age now, but but
- 44:15Speaker 3: I would do it. And so I put myself in
- 44:18Speaker 3: that position with Bo's and I was like, if I
- 44:21Speaker 3: couldn't produce a kid for John, but he wanted one
- 44:23Speaker 3: of his own offspring, I would, I would let I
- 44:28Speaker 3: would go research and get other another egg or a younger, young,
- 44:31Speaker 3: younger egg to allow my husband. Because I know the
- 44:35Speaker 3: gift of having your own child. I know what it
- 44:37Speaker 3: feels like to have. It's the greatest gift in the
- 44:39Speaker 3: world to me is my kids. So I would I
- 44:43Speaker 3: would want to give that to him and say, okay,
- 44:45Speaker 3: I will, because that baby is still going to be yours.
- 44:47Speaker 3: It's just like adopting. When you adopt a kid, you
- 44:49Speaker 3: don't think all those kids not mine, that can becomes yours.
- 44:51Speaker 3: So I would. I would let him. We would pick
- 44:55Speaker 3: out the eggs together. Some of it looks like me
- 44:57Speaker 3: has the same kind of heritage or whatever, and let's
- 45:00Speaker 3: go and then he had baby. What would you what
- 45:03Speaker 3: would you do?
- 45:04Speaker 2: I agree, I agree.
- 45:05Speaker 1: Listen, it's one of those things where I know women. Okay,
- 45:09Speaker 1: there's two sets of thoughts here. I know women who
- 45:13Speaker 1: had a baby in her forties, and she used a
- 45:18Speaker 1: younger woman's egg. But she just wanted to have the
- 45:23Speaker 1: experience of giving birth. That was that was, that was
- 45:27Speaker 1: her thing, like I want to have that experience right.
- 45:31Speaker 3: Later. And that's why she used younger people's eggs or
- 45:33Speaker 3: her eggs.
- 45:34Speaker 1: She just oh yeah, she her eggs weren't like she
- 45:37Speaker 1: went she went through the same process. So she did
- 45:40Speaker 1: use another woman's egg who was younger, and they, of course,
- 45:44Speaker 1: you know, did all the things and.
- 45:45Speaker 3: She good far best she's ever given herself.
- 45:49Speaker 1: Yeah, And she because she wanted the experience of giving births.
- 45:53Speaker 1: And I know a lot of women just want to
- 45:54Speaker 1: have that experience. The thing with Bose, obviously, is Bose
- 45:59Speaker 1: was black enough to have that experience with her with
- 46:02Speaker 1: her daughter. So it is this idea of like you said,
- 46:05Speaker 1: my man also wants his a child because his her fiance,
- 46:12Speaker 1: I believe, doesn't have any.
- 46:14Speaker 2: So is he younger?
- 46:15Speaker 3: I didn't I haven't research here.
- 46:16Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, he's younger. Yeah, I don't know how
- 46:19Speaker 2: much younger he is.
- 46:22Speaker 3: That men men's bodies aren't the same as women's. Men's
- 46:25Speaker 3: sperm doesn't age the same at the same rate that
- 46:28Speaker 3: the women's ovaries sometimes do. So even if he's only
- 46:31Speaker 3: forty five, he's still in his prime to have he
- 46:33Speaker 3: can still have.
- 46:34Speaker 1: A kid, right, because we think Robert de Niro, Honey,
- 46:37Speaker 1: his seventies having a baby on the.
- 46:39Speaker 3: Way it's men. Are men have better? You know, I
- 46:42Speaker 3: guess are better in that aspect.
- 46:44Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, So the thing is she has a child,
- 46:51Speaker 1: So I think for her, it's just the choice of,
- 46:56Speaker 1: like you said, does she still want experience delivering, you know,
- 47:00Speaker 1: giving birth again, or does she want to just say,
- 47:03Speaker 1: like you said, the other option, which is having a
- 47:07Speaker 1: child that is his firm, someone else's a and what
- 47:13Speaker 1: that sort of looks like for them.
- 47:16Speaker 3: She can still carry the baby, she can still be
- 47:18Speaker 3: and have that experience with her husband. I mean, they'll
- 47:20Speaker 3: be married by the time they probably end up having
- 47:22Speaker 3: a kid now. But like the doctor said, the doctor said,
- 47:26Speaker 3: we don't have time on our side, Like you can't
- 47:28Speaker 3: do another round of in vitro. We've got to figure
- 47:30Speaker 3: this out and get it go, like we got to
- 47:31Speaker 3: get this going now. So I you know, I don't know, Well,
- 47:37Speaker 3: it's going to be interesting to see where that unfolds.
- 47:39Speaker 3: But I do pray that they can make it happen
- 47:42Speaker 3: and her husband gets to her fiance gets to experience.
- 47:45Speaker 1: Yeah, and according to Google, they're saying he's around her age,
- 47:50Speaker 1: so yeah, it's still I.
- 47:52Speaker 3: Don't think the sperm is his firm is probably fine,
- 47:55Speaker 3: said he fertilized both eggs, so right, right right.
- 48:02Speaker 1: In the end of the episode, we see Rachel Deiy
- 48:06Speaker 1: and Sutton meat and then we see Amanda and Kyle
- 48:12Speaker 1: meet and they sort of intercutted this scene where they
- 48:16Speaker 1: were talking about Amanda and this cult. Now one thing
- 48:23Speaker 1: I do want to get into, and I wonder if
- 48:24Speaker 1: you call this I do feel like they they throw
- 48:31Speaker 1: around Amanda's age a lot when they when they talk
- 48:34Speaker 1: about her. Right even in this scene, they're saying be
- 48:39Speaker 1: an adult, like people are gonna talk this way, or
- 48:42Speaker 1: you know, that's what Rachel said. In the scene last episode,
- 48:46Speaker 1: Sudden said, well, you know, she's much younger, and that's
- 48:48Speaker 1: when Derey said she's not that young, like, let's stop,
- 48:52Speaker 1: which I thought was hilarious.
- 48:54Speaker 3: She's forty, she just admitted it. So she's Forty's about
- 48:56Speaker 3: forty twenty to thirty years younger than some of these women.
- 49:00Speaker 3: So I mean she is the youngest Beverly Hills housewife.
- 49:05Speaker 2: I mean so, I ry, No.
- 49:08Speaker 1: She's a young I think everyone else is late late forties,
- 49:11Speaker 1: early fifties.
- 49:12Speaker 2: But the thing is, I.
- 49:13Speaker 1: Do feel like they I don't know, an you tell
- 49:16Speaker 1: me you got this, maybe you did it. I do
- 49:19Speaker 1: feel like they're weaponizing her age and how they speak
- 49:22Speaker 1: to her. It's sort of like they talk down to
- 49:24Speaker 1: her a bit, as if listen, two.
- 49:27Speaker 2: Thoughts can be true.
- 49:29Speaker 1: You don't have to understand how she made her money
- 49:32Speaker 1: manifesting and books and all that.
- 49:34Speaker 2: Fine, that is more of a millennial world, right, that
- 49:41Speaker 2: may be confusing for you. But she got money.
- 49:46Speaker 1: She bought Kyle's house and renovated it, so that's that.
- 49:50Speaker 2: But I do feel.
- 49:51Speaker 1: Like when it comes to her being forty, they do
- 49:55Speaker 1: sort of weabonize her age, as if she hasn't experienced
- 49:59Speaker 1: life enough in order to understand conversation with women. And
- 50:04Speaker 1: I thought to myself, God forbid, if Amanda came in
- 50:09Speaker 1: being ages and talking about them being older, I don't
- 50:14Speaker 1: think she will be able to get away with it
- 50:17Speaker 1: the way they're able to get away with it when
- 50:19Speaker 1: they weaponize her age.
- 50:21Speaker 3: So true, that's so true. And by the way, if
- 50:25Speaker 3: the women are forty, I thought most of the women
- 50:26Speaker 3: were in their fifties. So if you're saying if a
- 50:28Speaker 3: lot of these women are forty or older, like forty
- 50:30Speaker 3: eight to let's just say Kathy Hilton's I think, what
- 50:33Speaker 3: isn't she's sixty? But like, so forty eight to sixty
- 50:35Speaker 3: and Tilly how old she? But anyway, forty is not
- 50:41Speaker 3: that young. You understand the way the world works by forty,
- 50:44Speaker 3: and especially if you've built a darn business up to
- 50:46Speaker 3: the success that she has. I think the women simply
- 50:50Speaker 3: need to sit down with Erica. They need to grill
- 50:53Speaker 3: her and say, how did you make an Amanda for Amanda?
- 50:56Speaker 3: Who would I say, Erica? Oh sorry, Erica, Yeah, sit
- 51:00Speaker 3: down and grill Amanda and be like where did it
- 51:04Speaker 3: come from? They're just curious, And I don't know that
- 51:06Speaker 3: the women are curious in such a negative way as
- 51:10Speaker 3: just like talk to us and let us know where
- 51:12Speaker 3: all this came from and the cult and tell us
- 51:14Speaker 3: about the cult. They just don't like that she's not
- 51:17Speaker 3: been very open or forthcoming with a lot of her things.
- 51:21Speaker 3: And so I think once that conversation happens, I think
- 51:23Speaker 3: by the end of the season we might even see
- 51:25Speaker 3: some of the women kind of start to like Amanda
- 51:27Speaker 3: instead of hating her so much. I do. I think
- 51:30Speaker 3: once they have the conversation about the cult and we
- 51:32Speaker 3: all get to hear what that's all about, because Lord
- 51:34Speaker 3: Heaven Mercy, I want to know too, then I think,
- 51:38Speaker 3: which is it in her book? Do I just need
- 51:39Speaker 3: to buy her book?
- 51:40Speaker 2: Right? I mean I do.
- 51:42Speaker 3: No, is it in her book? Did you? Did you
- 51:44Speaker 3: read any part about the cult in her book?
- 51:46Speaker 2: Well that's a big I tell you. They finished the
- 51:50Speaker 2: book part I read. I didn't. She didn't dive into
- 51:55Speaker 2: I don't know if that's separate. I don't think that's
- 51:58Speaker 2: in the book. I think from what they research, and
- 52:01Speaker 2: so it made it seem like like a blog.
- 52:04Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, So I'll do this for the rain drops
- 52:06Speaker 3: next week. Okay, because you know I like to do
- 52:07Speaker 3: my due diligence. I will try to find out a
- 52:11Speaker 3: little more about this cult and see what it is,
- 52:13Speaker 3: because I know we're probably going to see some of it.
- 52:14Speaker 3: Because they ended this episode I think with someone saying
- 52:18Speaker 3: we need to know more about the cult, and Rachel
- 52:20Speaker 3: Zoe was like, oh, I'll do that I've got that,
- 52:22Speaker 3: I'll ask her, I'll feel oh, I'll do that. Yeah, episode,
- 52:27Speaker 3: you might care a little bit more. But if not,
- 52:30Speaker 3: Alexis Jansen's can try to get to the bottom of it.
- 52:32Speaker 4: Guys.
- 52:33Speaker 2: Okay, and you will and you will and you will. Look,
- 52:36Speaker 2: I gotta say this again, Beverly Hills. This episode ten
- 52:40Speaker 2: out of a ten.
- 52:41Speaker 1: Love it the gross of clock did. Alexis Jansen and
- 52:45Speaker 1: I are happy now because.
- 52:46Speaker 2: We're awake and we get to I'm it was a
- 52:50Speaker 2: sleeper in the beginning.
- 52:53Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, It's true. Some of our even our
- 52:55Speaker 3: podcast because the show was so sleepy. Our podcasts were like, so,
- 52:58Speaker 3: I'm like, this was such a boring one. When we
- 53:00Speaker 3: get off, you know, I'm.
- 53:01Speaker 1: Like, oh good, but yeah, no, no, no, listen, it's not
- 53:05Speaker 1: probout to get excited when the episodes not excited.
- 53:08Speaker 2: But again they're back.
- 53:10Speaker 1: I thrilled, Alexi Jans and I will be back next
- 53:13Speaker 1: week to give you guys another recap of.
- 53:15Speaker 2: The Real Housewives of Belly Hills. Right guy, bye, Love you,
- 53:19Speaker 2: Lexus you.
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- 53:29Speaker 1: produced by Lizzie Nimitz and a partnership.
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