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Don’t Waste Your Life – Live With Purpose or Regret It Forever · Motivational Podcast

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Speaker 1: You ever feel like nothing good was ever gonna happen
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Speaker 1: to you. I don't want to just survive.
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Speaker 2: Says in these movie writing books that every character has
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Speaker 2: an arc, you understand, like everybody starts out somewhere.
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Speaker 3: And they do something.
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Speaker 1: When something gets done to them changes their life.
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Speaker 3: That's cold their arc.
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Speaker 4: Waste my arc.
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Speaker 5: I hear the clock ticking, That's what I hear. And
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Speaker 5: the end is nigh, and time waits for no man.
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Speaker 5: Life goes by and it goes by quick. Don't waste
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Speaker 5: those years. Don't waste them, live them.
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Speaker 1: Don't waste your time.
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Speaker 6: Do you know that everybody alive gets exactly the same
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Speaker 6: amount of time.
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Speaker 1: It's what we do, is it that makes a difference.
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Speaker 7: Don't waste your life.
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Speaker 1: They don't blame them, But don't be mad. When you're
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Speaker 1: laying there in.
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Speaker 8: Your bed and you're in the hospital, you're seventy eighty
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Speaker 8: nine years old, you're thinking, I feel like I didn't
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Speaker 8: do something because you did.
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Speaker 1: You didn't do it.
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Speaker 4: You didn't do shit.
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Speaker 8: You may live a great life, man, but you're always
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Speaker 8: gonna feel empty inside. I was honest. Look at yourself, man,
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Speaker 8: look at yourself. And it was that day I just
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Speaker 8: got real up myself, and every day I came home
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Speaker 8: I called the accountability mirror. What am I gonna do
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Speaker 8: today to change what I see in this mirror?
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Speaker 5: Get control, stop scrolling, stop clicking, and start living today.
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Speaker 9: I'm no longer be a loser today, I'm achieved.
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Speaker 4: I'm gonna get on how success.
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Speaker 1: I don't care how long that road is.
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Speaker 4: I'm gonna see it through.
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Speaker 9: No matter what, because you don't want I've been living
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Speaker 9: enough here in this ship pool.
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Speaker 1: I don't want to be here anymore. A simple truth
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Speaker 1: in life is things are not going to go your way.
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Speaker 4: Things are not going to work out the way you planned.
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Speaker 1: Things are not going to be the way that you
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Speaker 1: wanted them to be.
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Speaker 10: I would recommend you use the resources you have to
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Speaker 10: create the life you want. And so if the cards
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Speaker 10: that you have dealt right now are anger and fear
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Speaker 10: and disappointment, then you can either wallow in those or
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Speaker 10: you can turn something good out of it.
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Speaker 11: And so, I mean, I love.
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Speaker 10: The saying you can either let life beat the strength
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Speaker 10: out of you, or you can let it beat it
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Speaker 10: into you. And so it's just a decision of whether
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Speaker 10: these circumstances are going to serve me or I'm going
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Speaker 10: to serve them. And so I think that whatever your
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Speaker 10: raw materials are, a lot of people lament what cards
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Speaker 10: they're dealt, But you don't have control over those cards.
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Speaker 11: You only have control of how you play the hand.
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Speaker 10: And so I think everyone just needs to move past
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Speaker 10: that and stop the pissing contest on who had a
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Speaker 10: sadder upbringing.
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Speaker 2: You cannot take any more time for granted, you don't
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Speaker 2: know how much longer you're going to be here.
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Speaker 1: You can do great things.
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Speaker 2: It's all as a matter of will you choose to
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Speaker 2: blossom into the greatness that is within you.
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Speaker 12: Create a life that you can't wait to wake up to.
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Speaker 11: I saw that.
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Speaker 12: I live that life. I literally I hate to sleep.
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Speaker 12: I love every minute of my life.
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Speaker 13: Well, if you say the most consists straight amongst successful people,
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Speaker 13: even do the consistency Like, consistency doesn't guarantee to get successful,
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Speaker 13: but if you're not consistent, you can guarantee to go
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Speaker 13: and reach successful every single fucking time.
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Speaker 14: And now here's my last question, my very last question
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Speaker 14: on the questions to ponder is why not now? There
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Speaker 14: never was a better time, and what a time now
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Speaker 14: for us to take this dream and not let it die.
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Speaker 14: Take this dream and give it life. Take this dream
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Speaker 14: and breathe into it your own personal spirit until finally
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Speaker 14: it becomes a flame that burns around owned the whole world.
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Speaker 4: Let's go do it now.
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Speaker 11: It's like, how far could you take that?
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Speaker 15: If you stopped wasting time and if you stopped lying,
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Speaker 15: and if you oriented yourself.
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Speaker 16: To the highest possible good that you could conceive of it,
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Speaker 16: and you committed to that, how much good could you do?
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Speaker 17: Well?
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Speaker 11: I would say, why do you find out?
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Speaker 18: Because everybody believes that at some point in time they're
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Speaker 18: going to turn it on, or some point in time
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Speaker 18: they're going to catch momentum, or some point time they're
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Speaker 18: gonna become what it is they want to become, just
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Speaker 18: by circumstance or by default or by breathing the air.
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Speaker 18: That's not what it takes.
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Speaker 19: Bro.
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Speaker 18: People who think that get to the end of their
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Speaker 18: life and they're like, I wasted my life. Okay, that's
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Speaker 18: what they end up thinking. And there's really nothing worse
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Speaker 18: than that. There's nothing worse than getting to the end
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Speaker 18: of your life and saying, damn, dude, I didn't even
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Speaker 18: really try.
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Speaker 20: You don't have forever right, So what is important to you?
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Speaker 20: Because you only have twenty four hours in a day,
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Speaker 20: So what's important to you? Find out what the is
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Speaker 20: and do more of that and try to figure out,
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Speaker 20: like how to how to make enough money so that
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Speaker 20: you're not starving. That you're doing well, but don't just
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Speaker 20: chase that, chase what you're trying to do.
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Speaker 5: A person's strengths are often their biggest weaknesses, and so
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Speaker 5: that also means that their weaknesses can be their strengths.
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Speaker 5: So me, I am weak, but I don't accept that.
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Speaker 5: I don't accept that I am what I am and
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Speaker 5: that that is what I'm doomed to be. No, I
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Speaker 5: don't accept that I'm fighting. I'm always fighting. I'm struggling,
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Speaker 5: and I'm scrapping and I'm kicking and clawing it those
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Speaker 5: weaknesses to change them, to stop them. Some days I win,
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Speaker 5: some days I don't. But each and every day I
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Speaker 5: get back up and I move forward with my fists
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Speaker 5: clenched toward the battle, toward the struggle, and I fight
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Speaker 5: with everything I've got to overcome those weaknesses and those
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Speaker 5: short falls and those flaws.
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Speaker 4: As I strive to be just a.
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Speaker 5: Little bit better today than I was yesterday.
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Speaker 4: Where is the wealthiest place in the world.
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Speaker 7: Do you know?
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Speaker 1: It's not China, it's not Dubai, It's the graveyard.
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Speaker 21: Because in the graveyard you will find inventions never invented.
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Speaker 21: Business is never erected, songs never sung, books never written, ideas,
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Speaker 21: nurture people never realized because it was scared to take
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Speaker 21: a risk, scared like you. But you want to know
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Speaker 21: something else. You're not in a graveyard yet.
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Speaker 7: That's the thing.
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Speaker 5: Success and failure are generally slow processes, either slowly building
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Speaker 5: things up or gradually tearing them down. And that's why
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Speaker 5: I say you've got to pay attention. You have to watch.
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Speaker 5: You have to watch every single second because those seconds
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Speaker 5: they turn into minutes, the minutes turn into hours, and
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Speaker 5: hours turn into days, and days turn into years. And
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Speaker 5: so that second, that second that just went by, that counted,
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Speaker 5: and so did that second, and so did that one.
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Speaker 5: And in those precious seconds, you were either building or
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Speaker 5: you were decaying.
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Speaker 4: You were either.
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Speaker 5: Gaining ground.
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Speaker 4: Or you were losing ground.
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Speaker 5: In that second, and in every second, every second counts.
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Speaker 5: So make every second count.
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Speaker 18: If somebody ever told you you only live.
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Speaker 4: Once, they are damn lie. You only die once.
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Speaker 1: You live every day, Get up and get it.
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Speaker 21: Helen Keller was once asked what on Earth will be
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Speaker 21: worse than being born blind? She said, it will be
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Speaker 21: so much worse to be born with sight but no vision.
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Speaker 21: Why can't we have cures for every disease known to man?
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Speaker 21: Why can't we have clean water, food, education for every
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Speaker 21: person on this planet? Why can't we have peace on
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Speaker 21: this planet? Why do we have to die to go
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Speaker 21: to heaven? The Earth is already in space. We can
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Speaker 21: have heaven right here, right now, just to shift in this.
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Speaker 7: Why not? It tests you?
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Speaker 22: It tests you if she had I want you you
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Speaker 22: can take before you say, let's just just be finished
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Speaker 22: with this, You know what I mean. It wants to
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Speaker 22: show you something. He wants to say how much you
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Speaker 22: can take? How much you can handle life. You say
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Speaker 22: you love life, you want to live with I'm gonna
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Speaker 22: show you life. Life is beautiful, but you have to
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Speaker 22: accept the good and the bad. As being beautiful, we
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Speaker 22: lose some of our life. Life is beautiful because life
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Speaker 22: gave us the ability to just know them. On our
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Speaker 22: journey in life. We met them. We loved something we
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Speaker 22: cared about, and they cared about us. That's that's the
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Speaker 22: purpose of life. Just enjoy what we had, what we
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Speaker 22: journey through it. People don't care about you as much
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Speaker 22: as you think they do.
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Speaker 23: Massive amounts of people leave greatness inside of them out
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Speaker 23: of fear of what others will think. You know, and
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Speaker 23: I did that for a very long time. It took
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Speaker 23: me a while to get to the point where I
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Speaker 23: would put myself out there all out.
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Speaker 4: Of fear of what people think.
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Speaker 24: When you come out of the storm, you won't be
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Speaker 24: the same person that walked into it. That's what the
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Speaker 24: storm is all about. When you can't control what's happened,
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Speaker 24: until you control how you respond to it, that's where
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Speaker 24: your power is.
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Speaker 25: This is why thinking is so vital. This is why
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Speaker 25: a goal is so important, because we will become that.
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Speaker 25: This is why people who set goals achieve them. The
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Speaker 25: trouble with men is not achieving their goals. They do that,
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Speaker 25: it's establishing them. Well, that's about it. I think it's
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Speaker 25: good to remember that if we just go along with
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Speaker 25: the crowd, we won't wind up with much more than
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Speaker 25: the wish that we can do it all over again.
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Speaker 25: And as far as we know, you can't. If we
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Speaker 25: want to amount to anything as individuals. We need individual goals,
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Speaker 25: individual thinking, individual actions, and we must never conform to
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Speaker 25: the big group. We must love them, we must help them,
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Speaker 25: we must serve them, because our whole success will depend
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Speaker 25: on our ability to do these things.
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Speaker 22: Because sometimes we don't understand that is what is my purpose?
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Speaker 4: Why am I here?
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Speaker 22: Why don't have to go through this pain? Why don't
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Speaker 22: have to go to this fear all the time? Why
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Speaker 22: can they just be peaceful all the time? Then it
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Speaker 22: wouldn't be life, you know, it wouldn't be life. We
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Speaker 22: have to take life. It's term life on life terms
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Speaker 22: that are life on our terms.
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Speaker 4: And there's chances.
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Speaker 26: It's important that I stand up here tonight and represent
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Speaker 26: those that are looking for second chances.
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Speaker 4: You could be this guy.
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Speaker 27: You could change, You could turn it around.
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Speaker 4: I promise you can't.
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Speaker 7: Baby.
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Speaker 28: I once heard a man say that you don't change
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Speaker 28: until the pain to remain the same is.
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Speaker 4: Greater than the pain it takes to change. And that's
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Speaker 4: what it takes.
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Speaker 11: I love you, Texas.
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Speaker 29: Don't underestimate the whole your absence would leave you. Know,
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Speaker 29: each of us were remarkable creatures, and we have something
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Speaker 29: to offer to the world, to our the people we
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Speaker 29: love to the world at large. It's our responsibility make
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Speaker 29: that manifest, and we move a little farther away from
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Speaker 29: paradise every time that doesn't happen.
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Speaker 1: Really, hey, man, you know what's posh? I just feel
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Speaker 1: good today.
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Speaker 30: You always have to feel good.
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Speaker 31: I mean, why why waste your life from said is
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Speaker 31: when you're gonna.
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Speaker 11: Enjoy your life a happiness.
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Speaker 1: I want to inspire the world.
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Speaker 32: I can't just sit there and more that my fractures
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Speaker 32: and my disability and be like, oh man, see those dudes.
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Speaker 11: They're doing so good.
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Speaker 8: I was never like that.
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Speaker 11: Cruel man.
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Speaker 33: See the thing about life, We're gonna die, right, eventually,
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Speaker 33: we're gonna die, but our legacy and live on the
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Speaker 33: impact can be non cherishable forever.
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Speaker 4: But it's got you built right.
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Speaker 11: We want to speak.
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Speaker 1: We don't live forerever, our legacy does.
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Speaker 4: We're gonna make sure that's solid again. You want to
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Speaker 4: live once, but if you work it right once, it's enough. One.
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Speaker 4: You know, if your time, your time comes. When your
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Speaker 4: time comes, you know you can't control that. At some point,
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Speaker 4: everything's going to go south on you. Everything's going to
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Speaker 4: go south, and you're going to say this is it?
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Speaker 4: This is how I end.
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Speaker 34: Now.
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Speaker 4: You can either accept that or you can get to work.
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Speaker 4: That's all it is. You just begin.
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Speaker 8: And your brain is the most powerful weapon. I talk
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Speaker 8: about that in one of these chapters. Your brain is
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Speaker 8: the most powerful weapon in the world. Once you put
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Speaker 8: away your phones and your computers and all that. Nowadays,
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Speaker 8: that's great, we're up to date. Your brain is the
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Speaker 8: only thing you have when you're going through depression, when
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Speaker 8: you're going through hard times, you're going through.
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Speaker 1: Death real life. You can't google that shit, and you're alone.
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Speaker 1: You're alone.
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Speaker 8: You may have a shrink you're going to, you may
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Speaker 8: have a best friend you're going to, but there's twenty
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Speaker 8: four hours in the day where you're alone in this brain,
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Speaker 8: and your brain is talking to you in all kinds
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Speaker 8: of ways. And once they control you and pull you
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Speaker 8: these different pockets. If you can't control your own brain
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Speaker 8: and your brain controls you, you got to tell your
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Speaker 8: brain where you want to go and how you want
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Speaker 8: to go and how you want to get there.
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Speaker 1: You've got to control it. If not, it's over.
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Speaker 24: It makes me think about when it says, don't be
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Speaker 24: pushed by your problems, be led by your dreams.
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Speaker 15: You're not going to score on every shot right, doesn't
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Speaker 15: mean you shouldn't take the shots.
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Speaker 11: Doesn't mean you shouldn't try to hit the goal.
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Speaker 15: But part of being able to continue to take shots
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Speaker 15: is to have the strength of character to tolerate the
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Speaker 15: fact that that in that.
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Speaker 11: Instance, you weren't on top.
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Speaker 1: I know why you hate me. You hate me because
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Speaker 1: you're probably in the bed right now. You're probably an underachiever.
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Speaker 8: You're probably somebody who doesn't want to do anything with
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Speaker 8: your life.
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Speaker 1: So I make you question everything about yourself.
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Speaker 8: So I'm going to continue making you question yourself by
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Speaker 8: coming out here and being even more successful.
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Speaker 35: You gotta start believing in your imagination. You want a
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Speaker 35: better life. Correct, If you haven't, you imagined a better life. Okay,
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Speaker 35: who you think he showed it to He showed it
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Speaker 35: to you. Why you think he showed it to you
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Speaker 35: because you want to give it to you. But if
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Speaker 35: you don't work, if you don't ask him for it,
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Speaker 35: he cannot give it to you. Because he created us
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Speaker 35: with the power of choice. We make choices every day.
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Speaker 35: If you decide that you will be poor, there's nothing
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Speaker 35: I can do. You're gonna be poor. If you decide
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Speaker 35: to be rich today? Who gonna stop you?
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Speaker 36: Who?
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Speaker 1: If you decide you want to be rich.
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Speaker 4: All you gotta do is start? Why not? Who gonna
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Speaker 4: stop you?
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Speaker 30: It seems like you're such a long way to go.
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Speaker 5: I know, but look how far we've gone.
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Speaker 30: I just don't think I can do this. I never
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Speaker 30: could to find a home.
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Speaker 34: You know, sometimes your mind plays tricks on you. It
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Speaker 34: can tell you you're no good, that.
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Speaker 7: It's all hopeless. But I've discovered this. You are loved
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Speaker 7: and important, And do you bring to this world things
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Speaker 7: that no one else can.
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Speaker 3: So hold on.
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Speaker 1: I come from hell, and a lot of it I created.
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Speaker 1: We could be our worst enemy.
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Speaker 4: Why is the truth so important?
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Speaker 1: It gives you a starting point.
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Speaker 8: You have to have the truth to have a starting point.
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Speaker 8: Once your come faith to face with who you are,
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Speaker 8: you have a starting point, and your true self is
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Speaker 8: found honestly, in that very uncomfortable zone. We all look
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Speaker 8: for toughness, we all want it, but we look for
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Speaker 8: in a comfortable environment. You will not find toughness in
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Speaker 8: a comfortable environment. Those of you who are listening to this,
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Speaker 8: you will not find it. I was trying to look
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Speaker 8: for it everywhere. The only way you find it is
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Speaker 8: to drown yourself in a position where you're just out
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Speaker 8: of sorts, where you can't swim, and you're drowning.
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Speaker 1: When you're drowning, you're drowning in life. But you say,
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Speaker 1: know what, ma'am, that.
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Speaker 36: Life?
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Speaker 34: What it's life?
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Speaker 4: What your life? Are you happy with it?
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Speaker 9: And if so, it's just the intaking out take a
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Speaker 9: breath makes you smile on your face.
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Speaker 4: That's something your mother gave you even earn that.
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Speaker 9: What have you done with your life to make it
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Speaker 9: something else besides the normality to everybody else, an intake
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Speaker 9: and the outtake of what you call life is nothing
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Speaker 9: more than time, and unless done something with is forgotten about.
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Speaker 4: There's no footprint of your existence left for anyone else
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Speaker 4: to follow.
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Speaker 9: Life is time, and a life that's remembered where footprint
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Speaker 9: is follow behind and footsteps of inspiration and motivation is
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Speaker 9: when time is met with opportunity and action, they collide
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Speaker 9: to be a life of remembrance. The problem is most
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Speaker 9: people don't have a plan, and without a plan of
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Speaker 9: your own life, you become the plan of.
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Speaker 4: Someone else's life.
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Speaker 9: You're not running the day, the day's running you. The
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Speaker 9: differential between those people is belief. One person with belief
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Speaker 9: overrides one hundred people with just intent intent.
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Speaker 4: It is thought process thinking we're gaming and never.
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Speaker 9: Putting in a foot forward, never putting their face or
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Speaker 9: their name to the fire.
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Speaker 4: Believe it's going after and figured it out along the way.
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Speaker 9: This workout, it's gonna bring that belief back in your life.
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Speaker 4: It's a back workout, and haf this workout.
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Speaker 9: Not only will you have stronger back, you have belief
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Speaker 9: and confidence put into action life No longer is your
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Speaker 9: life fill with stop signs, yield signs and.
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Speaker 4: Halts and this then life begins.
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Speaker 11: Now.
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Speaker 4: If it doesn't begin now, your life is getting over.
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Speaker 6: And you don't need reminded of it, but I'm gonna
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Speaker 6: remind you anyhow.
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Speaker 1: Life is hard, Okay, fellas, life is hard.
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Speaker 9: It's always been hard from the beginning and it will
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Speaker 9: always be hard.
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Speaker 4: No, No, you have to.
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Speaker 19: Hit rock bottom.
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Speaker 22: That's the way of Yeah. Our quottom is beautiful. The
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Speaker 22: struggle of the struggle of coming back. It's beautiful that struggle.
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Speaker 22: It doesn't feel like it's beautiful the way you're going
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Speaker 22: through it, but it's just being tested. And without a test,
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Speaker 22: there's no testimony. Life tests you sometime might annihilate you,
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Speaker 22: but it's only up to you if you want to
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Speaker 22: take some more. It's on to dish it out. But eventually,
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Speaker 22: if you don't quite it, be merciful to you.
21:28
Speaker 19: If you can get a mental image of the person
21:30
Speaker 19: you would most like to become, begin now to act
21:33
Speaker 19: as that person would act, and everything you do gradually, imperceptibly,
21:38
Speaker 19: you will actually become that person. It goes back to
21:41
Speaker 19: what the great German poet and philosopher Gerta once said,
21:44
Speaker 19: Before you can do something, you must first be something.
21:48
Speaker 19: Before you can do what you would most like to do,
21:50
Speaker 19: you must first become the person who could do it.
21:53
Speaker 19: A woman cooking dinner has only to act like a
21:55
Speaker 19: great chef to turn out a better meal. This student
21:58
Speaker 19: wo begins to act like a top student will begin
22:00
Speaker 19: to get better grades. You can even look much better
22:03
Speaker 19: by simply acting like the person you would most like
22:07
Speaker 19: to look like and be like.
22:10
Speaker 1: Stop waiting for life to be easy. Stop hoping for
22:13
Speaker 1: somebody to save you. You don't need another person.
22:17
Speaker 37: Mind to you, things don't owe add up, but your
22:22
Speaker 37: resilient face, smart facts, and you could have an incredible life.
22:31
Speaker 9: You guys, don't start believing yourselves your life will be
22:35
Speaker 9: nothing for anyone that'll follow one.
22:38
Speaker 5: You have to believe what you're doing is making a difference,
22:42
Speaker 5: because it is.
22:44
Speaker 1: Here's the deal.
22:45
Speaker 5: No complacency, no complacency, no backing off, no slack whatsoever.
22:59
Speaker 5: Fight fight that ticking clock with everything you got, so
23:07
Speaker 5: like the end of a hard day, you can put
23:10
Speaker 5: your head down.
23:13
Speaker 4: With ease, satisfied.
23:20
Speaker 5: That you've given your best.
23:22
Speaker 4: Failure is not the opposite of success.
23:24
Speaker 1: It's a part of it.
23:26
Speaker 24: Right, Failure is not the opposite of success.
23:28
Speaker 4: It's a part of it.
23:29
Speaker 24: And the reason that I'm saying that is because when
23:31
Speaker 24: it says don't be pushed by your problems, problems are
23:34
Speaker 24: part of the journey. Opposition are part of the journey. Right,
23:37
Speaker 24: Adversity is a part of the journey. Like it's all
23:40
Speaker 24: a part of development and growth as a person.
23:43
Speaker 4: And so when you got dreams and you got problems, I.
23:46
Speaker 24: Look at it as it's interconnected. Right, you got your dream,
23:49
Speaker 24: you got your goal, you got your aspirations. Problems are
23:52
Speaker 24: going to happen along the way. Conflict is going to
23:54
Speaker 24: happen along the way. Uncertainty is going to happen along
23:57
Speaker 24: the way. But the thing that's important is is putting
24:00
Speaker 24: things in place to fight it.
24:03
Speaker 26: But know what I discovered when you're working at your dream.
24:07
Speaker 26: Somebody said, the heart of the battle, the sweet of
24:10
Speaker 26: the victory. Pah is sweet to you. It's good to you.
24:14
Speaker 26: Why see when you when it's hard, there's a struggle.
24:17
Speaker 4: See what you.
24:17
Speaker 26: Become in the process is more important than the dream.
24:21
Speaker 4: That's far more important.
24:22
Speaker 26: The kind of person you become, the character that you built,
24:26
Speaker 26: the courage that you develop, the faith that you're manifesting.
24:29
Speaker 11: Oh, it's just.
24:30
Speaker 26: Something that you get up in the morning, you look
24:32
Speaker 26: yourself in the mirror.
24:33
Speaker 4: You're a different kind of person.
24:35
Speaker 26: You walk with a different kind of spirit, and people
24:38
Speaker 26: know that you know what life is that you have
24:42
Speaker 26: in price life.
24:44
Speaker 4: You knowver's hard, but you did at hall.
24:49
Speaker 17: Don't waste your damn life. And then you think, well,
24:51
Speaker 17: why would people be resistant to that message. It's like, well,
24:54
Speaker 17: you really want to wake up and figure out that
24:56
Speaker 17: you're wasting half your life for what.
24:59
Speaker 11: Is losing to you.
25:02
Speaker 4: It's exciting.
25:04
Speaker 11: Why is it exciting?
25:06
Speaker 38: Because it means you have different ways to get better.
25:10
Speaker 38: There's certain things that you can figure out that you
25:13
Speaker 38: can take advantage of right certain weaknesses that were exposed
25:18
Speaker 38: that you need to shore up right. So it was exciting.
25:21
Speaker 38: I mean, it sucks to lose. But at the same
25:25
Speaker 38: time their answer is there.
25:27
Speaker 8: Because we forget we are in control of our mind.
25:32
Speaker 1: We believe it's the other way around. No, we put
25:37
Speaker 1: in our.
25:37
Speaker 8: Minds what we should do, but we believe our mind
25:41
Speaker 8: is telling us, get us all this feedback. We have
25:44
Speaker 8: to reprogram it and tell us no, no, no, we're good.
25:47
Speaker 1: Good. This sucks, but it's okay.
25:51
Speaker 24: And the easiest thing in the world to do is
25:53
Speaker 24: to complain, blame and quit and settle.
25:56
Speaker 4: That's the easiest thing in the.
25:57
Speaker 1: World to do.
25:58
Speaker 24: But it takes real work to deconstruct and to reconstruct
26:03
Speaker 24: the thought process in the mindset of an individual when
26:06
Speaker 24: they're trying to change something. That's why I always say
26:09
Speaker 24: to people, what's more important what we acquire or who
26:13
Speaker 24: we become.
26:14
Speaker 7: You know where you want it to be.
26:17
Speaker 3: You feel like you're supposed to be somewhere else.
26:22
Speaker 7: You said it.
26:23
Speaker 3: Well, say you could snap your fingers and be wherever
26:26
Speaker 3: you wanted to be. I bet you'd still feel this way.
26:30
Speaker 3: Not in the right tracks. The point is you can't
26:32
Speaker 3: get so hung up on where you'd rather be that
26:35
Speaker 3: you forget how to make the most of where you are.
26:38
Speaker 3: What are you telling me, take a break from worrying
26:41
Speaker 3: about what you can't control.
26:45
Speaker 7: Live a little, Live a little.
26:49
Speaker 39: You got twenty four hours in a day, eight hours
26:52
Speaker 39: you sleep right, and most people working nine to five.
26:58
Speaker 39: So eight hours you working? You know, Okay, so we
27:01
Speaker 39: have sixteen hours. We got breakfast, lunch, and dinner, so
27:05
Speaker 39: we had will be at night. This is nineteen You
27:08
Speaker 39: take your hour to get ready, so we had twenty hours,
27:12
Speaker 39: so I cannot spend you guys, can I spend four
27:16
Speaker 39: hours going tomb art? They lying, Oh I like this photo?
27:22
Speaker 39: Oh they faking sending photos to other people. Y'all got
27:26
Speaker 39: to get focused. I'll wear them at because I'm focused
27:29
Speaker 39: tunnel vision. I'm focused on what I gotta do. Y'all
27:33
Speaker 39: gotta have a game point.
27:34
Speaker 4: I'm feeling I feel right now.
27:35
Speaker 9: As bad as it feels, there's a hell of a
27:39
Speaker 9: lot ever feeling than in life.
27:41
Speaker 4: Where you throw the towel in it, that's something you
27:45
Speaker 4: never come from. Tomorrow morning, I'll wake up stronger, I'll.
27:49
Speaker 9: Feel alive and I'll have the belief and confidence back
27:53
Speaker 9: in the Yep. That's a good night's rest. I go
27:56
Speaker 9: and get better with towels down. In life, there is
28:01
Speaker 9: no there's no moraunds man, and you threw it in.
28:04
Speaker 9: I feel like right now I can put the tail
28:06
Speaker 9: back up. I'm gonna be stronger tomorrow in the next round.
28:12
Speaker 30: Life.
28:12
Speaker 4: Guys, it's the plan of action. If you don't have
28:15
Speaker 4: the plan.
28:16
Speaker 9: I guarantee you someone's going to use you as part
28:19
Speaker 9: of their plan. Stop going about the day as a servant.
28:25
Speaker 9: Become the master. Run your day and stop having it run.
28:27
Speaker 9: You believe in yourself. You that one of one hundred
28:31
Speaker 9: has a belief instead of just jall jet talk of intent.
28:36
Speaker 9: Huge differential, their differential. Somebody just breathing life and the
28:42
Speaker 9: other one taking the most of the opportunity of time
28:44
Speaker 9: of life.
28:46
Speaker 4: Remembrance otherwise forgotten.
28:52
Speaker 16: What do you think is the biggest stumbling block that
28:55
Speaker 16: most people face with this kind of journey.
28:58
Speaker 8: Honestly, is they have the woe is me mentality.
29:03
Speaker 1: It's too hard. Life isn't fair. These things in life
29:08
Speaker 1: are not easy for me.
29:09
Speaker 8: You look to your left, you look to your right,
29:12
Speaker 8: and you start to judge yourself off other people, like
29:15
Speaker 8: if you're a female, well she's skinny and she doesn't
29:18
Speaker 8: work out as hard as I do, and.
29:20
Speaker 1: Everything starts to corrupt your mind.
29:21
Speaker 8: You start to look around too much of other people
29:24
Speaker 8: and what they're doing, and that starts to corrupt your
29:26
Speaker 8: own dialogue. We are judging ourselves against too many people.
29:32
Speaker 8: You have to judge yourself against yourself. That's the one
29:35
Speaker 8: thing I started learning. Man this race against David Goggins
29:38
Speaker 8: and David Goggins alone.
29:40
Speaker 1: And once you can.
29:41
Speaker 32: Silence all that bullet, all the outside interference and things
29:44
Speaker 32: that are attracting your mind to everything, you can then
29:47
Speaker 32: start to grow and realizing I'm stressed out for no reason.
29:52
Speaker 8: This is my whole little race, This is my own timeline,
29:56
Speaker 8: and this is time I'm gonna run it.
29:58
Speaker 4: It's all in your mind.
30:00
Speaker 24: Whatever you hold in your mind will tend to occur
30:01
Speaker 24: in your life.
30:03
Speaker 4: If you continue to.
30:04
Speaker 24: Believe as you have always believed, you will continue to
30:07
Speaker 24: act as you have always acted. You will continue to
30:10
Speaker 24: get what you have always gotten. If you want different
30:13
Speaker 24: results in your life or your work, all you have
30:17
Speaker 24: to do is change your mind.
30:20
Speaker 40: You have had a gut feeling that maybe you were
30:24
Speaker 40: meant for more because you aren't really sure with the
30:27
Speaker 40: next best steps or to achieve it. Me too, So
30:32
Speaker 40: what's your more? What's your destination? And I'm not talking
30:38
Speaker 40: about just more money and more things. I'm also talking
30:41
Speaker 40: about more love, more joy, more choice, more balance, more trust.
30:48
Speaker 11: What's your more?
30:51
Speaker 18: It would line up to be perfect for them, and
30:54
Speaker 18: because they're waiting for this, and because it's never coming,
30:57
Speaker 18: they never go. And when they never go, they never
30:59
Speaker 18: become anything. And that's what leads to a wasted life.
31:03
Speaker 18: So you have to realize conditions are never going to
31:06
Speaker 18: be perfect. Things are always going to be hard. The
31:08
Speaker 18: only hope that you have is to become someone who
31:11
Speaker 18: can push through that hard regardless of what the is
31:14
Speaker 18: going on. And if you can build that level of discipline,
31:18
Speaker 18: that level of mental toughness to execute when things are
31:22
Speaker 18: not ideal, when things are extremely hard, nothing can stop
31:27
Speaker 18: you on your journey to becoming whatever it is you're
31:30
Speaker 18: trying to become. Nothing absolutely nothing like.
31:34
Speaker 11: Life is very difficult.
31:35
Speaker 16: And in order to thrive with this difficult life, if
31:42
Speaker 16: an opportunity is presented to you be you shouldn't be
31:46
Speaker 16: so arrogant that you dismiss it. And it's really easy
31:50
Speaker 16: to be arrogant, especially if you're smart, because you think, well,
31:53
Speaker 16: I'm smarter than everybody else. It's like, actually, no, there's
31:58
Speaker 16: lots of people that are a lot smarter than you.
31:59
Speaker 16: You just haven't met them yet.
32:01
Speaker 41: I want to inspire, I want to motivate. I want
32:04
Speaker 41: to show people that there is a way out, that
32:05
Speaker 41: there is a way to do more, to get more,
32:08
Speaker 41: to obtain more. But I personally don't want to lose
32:13
Speaker 41: all that I've been able to get, so I need
32:15
Speaker 41: to make sure I do everything to keep it.
32:19
Speaker 1: So I can't be content.
32:21
Speaker 41: So there is an understanding, but I refuse to click
32:28
Speaker 41: on the switch.
32:29
Speaker 20: Of So even if you like, even if you have
32:33
Speaker 20: more money than you'll ever spend for the rest of
32:36
Speaker 20: your life, that's not what it's about. No, It's about
32:40
Speaker 20: the inspiring people and the influence and constantly giving back
32:44
Speaker 20: and moving forward in a positive way. And the only
32:46
Speaker 20: way you can do that.
32:47
Speaker 7: Is to stay acting.
32:48
Speaker 4: It's the story.
32:49
Speaker 28: Man, Hey dog, you do realize that this could be
32:52
Speaker 28: the year that you change your life if you just
32:53
Speaker 28: lock in hold three hundred and sixty five days ago,
32:56
Speaker 28: day in and day out towards your goals with no distractions.
33:00
Speaker 28: Need excuse us no more. Your future is tied to that.
33:02
Speaker 28: Twenty twenty four should be an apology toward the all
33:04
Speaker 28: the bids that you did last year. Lock in and
33:07
Speaker 28: change your life like your life depends on it, because
33:11
Speaker 28: they do.
33:14
Speaker 40: Can you admit something in your life that you don't
33:20
Speaker 40: feel like you deserve or have earned.
33:27
Speaker 4: Can you admit a goal or a dream that you.
33:30
Speaker 40: Want to chase, but if you're feeling like, nah, I
33:33
Speaker 40: can't fly that high, I'm not equipped, I don't know,
33:36
Speaker 40: I don't really have the ability, I'm not qualified.
33:42
Speaker 4: Can you admit something in your life that guilt is
33:47
Speaker 4: keeping you from getting.
33:52
Speaker 42: Can you admit something that you don't want to start, continue,
33:58
Speaker 42: or finish because you're afraid to say it aloud to yourself?
34:11
Speaker 4: Write it down, confess, admit it.
34:20
Speaker 12: Everybody judges by success of money or business, accomplishments or
34:28
Speaker 12: games you want and things like that. The true measure
34:32
Speaker 12: of success is how happy are you? If you get
34:36
Speaker 12: up every day and you're really happy, and you really
34:39
Speaker 12: do enjoy and love your life and you love doing
34:42
Speaker 12: you're surrounded by people you love doing it with you
34:44
Speaker 12: could not be more successful.
34:46
Speaker 43: Well, look, I think failure has to be quantified. If
34:49
Speaker 43: you fail that you never can get up from it again.
34:53
Speaker 43: You know that's not a good failure. I think failure
34:56
Speaker 43: and adversity are the two things I think about for
34:58
Speaker 43: me as an entreprene war and very entrepreneurial and always
35:02
Speaker 43: in my own stuff. All the failures along the way,
35:05
Speaker 43: even going back to like the Baseball Card show when
35:08
Speaker 43: I was thirteen, that I paid four hundred dollars for
35:10
Speaker 43: a table and nobody showed up to that baseball card soo,
35:12
Speaker 43: I was a learning lesson. Those micro failures were super
35:16
Speaker 43: super important. I think you know, it depends on your stomach, right,
35:22
Speaker 43: like if you if you really feel like go out
35:24
Speaker 43: of business. I think people take one of two ways, right,
35:27
Speaker 43: They're like just finished and they're never able to get
35:29
Speaker 43: off the mat, and they go in a different directions.
35:31
Speaker 43: So to me, I think quantifying the failure is important
35:33
Speaker 43: to me.
35:35
Speaker 27: My mom is eighty four years old and she's at
35:39
Speaker 27: home watching Mom, I just want an oscar. My journey
35:48
Speaker 27: started on a boat. I spent a year in a
35:51
Speaker 27: refugee cap and somehow I ended up here on Hollywood's
35:56
Speaker 27: biggest stage. They say, stories like this only happen in
36:04
Speaker 27: the movies. I cannot believe it's happening to me. This
36:10
Speaker 27: is the American dream. Dreams are something you have to
36:17
Speaker 27: believe in. I almost gave up on mind to all
36:21
Speaker 27: of you after Please keep your dreams alive.
36:27
Speaker 4: Who you got looking for her?
36:31
Speaker 7: She's in the bust. The bust is not more concern.
36:37
Speaker 12: There's this thing about people and they talk about manifesting.
36:43
Speaker 4: It's been real.
36:44
Speaker 12: Man Manifesting is real when you figure out who you
36:48
Speaker 12: are and what you want to do, and you devote
36:52
Speaker 12: your life to it like a maniac, like you're all
36:55
Speaker 12: in on this thing, and you manifest. Most of these
36:59
Speaker 12: people end up, you know, doing what they say they're
37:02
Speaker 12: going to do and being who they say they're going
37:04
Speaker 12: to become. And there's no excuses, there's no days off,
37:08
Speaker 12: there's no uh, you know, not willing to grind, and
37:12
Speaker 12: you know everybody's against me and this didn't happen for
37:15
Speaker 12: me because of this and that and all this whining
37:17
Speaker 12: put bullshit that a lot of people do these days.
37:21
Speaker 12: There's these people who dive in and their hardcore and
37:23
Speaker 12: they're focused and they know what they want.
37:25
Speaker 11: They know who they.
37:25
Speaker 12: Are, and they lay out these short term goals and
37:29
Speaker 12: this roadmap on how to get there. Most of those
37:31
Speaker 12: people make it.
37:33
Speaker 1: It haunted me.
37:34
Speaker 8: Okay, the voice in my head say, you know what, man,
37:37
Speaker 8: you're gonna die never even trying to.
37:40
Speaker 1: Reach your full potential. How's that going to feel.
37:45
Speaker 8: I'm gonna be haunted by the mere fact that I
37:48
Speaker 8: literally just that's what I.
37:50
Speaker 1: Was wasted that life.
37:51
Speaker 11: That's what that was.
37:52
Speaker 7: Man.
37:52
Speaker 41: You look back and here lies David Goggins, a punk.
37:55
Speaker 1: That's it, right, And I get to live.
37:58
Speaker 8: So whatever heaven or hell is, you're a hell the
38:00
Speaker 8: rest of your life.
38:02
Speaker 36: So if you lose and you jump right back up
38:05
Speaker 36: and you haven't really changed, I mean really really changed
38:09
Speaker 36: from that loss, you're never going to learn from it
38:13
Speaker 36: and you're never going to really truly know the unforgiving
38:18
Speaker 36: race to greatness, because that's part of the unforgiving part,
38:23
Speaker 36: is the losing part. That part is unforgiving. It's what's
38:29
Speaker 36: really inside of them. So what they're seeing when they
38:31
Speaker 36: look in the mirror, they're just trying to see what's
38:34
Speaker 36: on the surface. But winning and losing wants to know
38:37
Speaker 36: what's inside of you. It wants to know what makes
38:41
Speaker 36: you take. It wants to know what your desires are.
38:44
Speaker 36: It wants to know what your ego is. It wants
38:46
Speaker 36: to know what your limitations are. It wants to know
38:49
Speaker 36: what your mindset is. It wants to know everything about you,
38:52
Speaker 36: because winning does not lie when you look in the mirror.
39:00
Speaker 36: You can lie and see what's on the surface cannot
39:03
Speaker 36: lie what's going on inside.
39:06
Speaker 44: And that's what people are not willing to see, the
39:09
Speaker 44: lies that are truly going on inside of them, that
39:12
Speaker 44: are not allowing them to win over and over, sometimes
39:16
Speaker 44: even win once. Your mind has to be stronger than
39:21
Speaker 44: your feelings. Your mind has to be stronger than your feelings.
39:26
Speaker 45: Think about every poor decision you've made in your life. Gosh,
39:31
Speaker 45: there was more emotion that was involved in it than
39:35
Speaker 45: there was mind, every.
39:37
Speaker 1: Single one of them.
39:38
Speaker 36: Think about it really was your feelings keep you in bed.
39:42
Speaker 36: Your mind tells you get up.
39:45
Speaker 46: Whenever I get to a low point where I think
39:47
Speaker 46: why do I even bother, I just remind myself this
39:50
Speaker 46: is when most people stop, and this is why they
39:53
Speaker 46: don't win. And this relates to another one, which is
39:55
Speaker 46: a reminder for the gladiators in the arena who feel
39:57
Speaker 46: beat up and scarred with no hope insight.
39:59
Speaker 4: Building a business is high. Heart feels shitty.
40:01
Speaker 46: This is what heart feels like, and this is why
40:04
Speaker 46: most people can't do it, but you can.
40:08
Speaker 34: Maybe I should just quit and go back to making noodles.
40:13
Speaker 31: Quit, don't quit noodles. Don't noodles. You are too concerned
40:20
Speaker 31: with like lives and what will be.
40:24
Speaker 4: It is the same.
40:26
Speaker 31: Yesterday is history, Tomorrow is a mystery, but today.
40:32
Speaker 7: Is a gift.
40:34
Speaker 1: That is why it is called the present.
40:37
Speaker 20: Because if I just think, well tomorrow, I'm just gonna
40:39
Speaker 20: coast and eat tweakies and watch TV. Oh hello sadness,
40:43
Speaker 20: my old friend, Hello depression. Because when you're not doing anything,
40:46
Speaker 20: you feel like shit. And that's just the part of
40:48
Speaker 20: being a human being. And we can pretend that we're
40:50
Speaker 20: something other than what we really are, and we can
40:53
Speaker 20: pretend Noh me man, I'm just cool, just chilling doing nothing. Bullshit.
40:57
Speaker 4: You're inhuman. You're a human being.
40:59
Speaker 20: You all from the in hundreds of thousands of years
41:03
Speaker 20: of hunters and gatherers and people that are struggling. Those
41:06
Speaker 20: human reward systems are carved deeply into your DNA. And
41:10
Speaker 20: if you don't respect that if you don't respect the
41:12
Speaker 20: mechanism of happiness and fulfillment and what you really need
41:16
Speaker 20: to do in order to feel satisfied in life. Camaraderie, struggle,
41:21
Speaker 20: testing yourself, learning, all those things are imperative. They're all
41:26
Speaker 20: giant part of being a person. What's the biggest mistake
41:31
Speaker 20: that you've.
41:32
Speaker 4: Made in your life that you can share, you know
41:34
Speaker 4: with people.
41:38
Speaker 1: Saying the state, get off of me.
41:41
Speaker 4: Trust, that's a friendly trust everyone.
41:47
Speaker 39: I get up in a mirror and I say, you know,
41:49
Speaker 39: I say to myself, and you know, I'm brushing my teeth.
41:51
Speaker 1: I say, you know what the only pleasure I can't trust?
41:53
Speaker 39: That question right there, because we all know we could
41:56
Speaker 39: trust ourselves, but we always know somebody else.
42:00
Speaker 4: That's all we're gonna let us do. It's one am.
42:03
Speaker 4: I'm going for my third workout.
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Speaker 7: I'm gonna do.
42:05
Speaker 24: I want to go to the gym, absolutely no, I really,
42:09
Speaker 24: you know, laying in my house and sit in a
42:13
Speaker 24: movie theater and watch movies.
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Speaker 1: But you know, to be the best, you got to
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Speaker 1: work over time. To be the best, you got to
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Speaker 1: work overtime.
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Speaker 4: This looks like the winds are changing.
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Speaker 35: A change is good.
42:26
Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's not easy.
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Speaker 9: I know what I have to do, but going back
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Speaker 9: means I'll have to face my past.
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Speaker 1: I've been running from it for so long. How Jesus
42:39
Speaker 1: who was that for?
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Speaker 4: It doesn't matter, it's in the past. Yeah, but it
42:44
Speaker 4: still hurts.
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Speaker 1: Oh, yes, the past come hurt.
42:48
Speaker 4: But the way I see it, you can either run
42:50
Speaker 4: from it learn from it. You see it at some.
42:56
Speaker 6: Point in your life after many breakups, after your real life,
43:00
Speaker 6: we all pay taxes. After you realize you're not always
43:03
Speaker 6: going to be the one chose one for promotion.
43:04
Speaker 1: You're going to be passed up on promotion.
43:06
Speaker 47: Something.
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Speaker 6: A guy that's lazier, just because they're related to the
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Speaker 6: mother of the business or the seal of the business
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Speaker 6: is going to get the promotion over you, and then
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Speaker 6: pisses you off because you stayed up every night till
43:16
Speaker 6: ten o'clock and I schmuck gets the promotion over you
43:18
Speaker 6: just because his last name is Johnson and yours is not,
43:21
Speaker 6: and you can never compete with that kid. Then you
43:23
Speaker 6: start realizing, say, listen, man, this fashion stuff. I'm sorry,
43:25
Speaker 6: I worked a lot harder than the other guy.
43:27
Speaker 4: Why does he deserve it?
43:28
Speaker 6: You start kind of getting a little bit of this,
43:29
Speaker 6: and about thirty to forty years old, you sit there
43:31
Speaker 6: and say, maybe I'm just start making some logical decisions
43:34
Speaker 6: as well.
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Speaker 10: I think to myself, man, I'm afraid of doing this,
43:36
Speaker 10: and I'm like, no, I'm not. I'm afraid of what
43:38
Speaker 10: this person's going to think about me. Because if I
43:40
Speaker 10: were to be able to fail in quiet and complete isolation,
43:44
Speaker 10: then I wouldn't care. And then I think, well, I
43:49
Speaker 10: what if I don't succeed in public?
43:51
Speaker 1: What do they think?
43:52
Speaker 19: Then?
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Speaker 11: Nothing?
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Speaker 10: Right, they don't think about me at all. And so
43:57
Speaker 10: obviously that comes from the perspective of seeking again approval
44:00
Speaker 10: and attention from others anyway. So it's like, listen, if
44:02
Speaker 10: you're insecure, which everybody is, let's be real, you might
44:05
Speaker 10: as well use the insecurity to get something out of it.
44:07
Speaker 10: And so a lot of people think that they need
44:09
Speaker 10: to fix their conditions in order to get like the
44:10
Speaker 10: perfect conditions before they start. But the perfect condition is
44:13
Speaker 10: whatever one you're in because it gives you whatever assets
44:15
Speaker 10: you have, that's the cards that you're dealt and so
44:18
Speaker 10: you just play the hand, and a lot of people
44:19
Speaker 10: have great cards. It's like, man, I'm so afraid that
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Speaker 10: it's like use it. It's like I have nothing. It
44:24
Speaker 10: makes you very dangerous because you have nothing to lose, right. Like,
44:26
Speaker 10: one of the really interesting things about I think about
44:29
Speaker 10: from a business perspective, but it probably applies to everything,
44:32
Speaker 10: is that there's always an advantage and a disadvantage from
44:34
Speaker 10: every position. I was like, there's always a position, and
44:36
Speaker 10: there's always an advantage. You just have to play the
44:38
Speaker 10: one you've gotten. Most people just look at what everyone
44:39
Speaker 10: else's advantages and don't think which one do I have?
44:42
Speaker 46: When you're talking about it's not you that's afraid of failing. Yah,
44:46
Speaker 46: you're afraid of other people's opinions about why you're going
44:49
Speaker 46: to fail.
44:50
Speaker 5: There's going to be things in your life that you
44:52
Speaker 5: don't have control over, you know, like, for instance, someone
44:55
Speaker 5: gets a terrible disease and or their kids it gets
45:00
Speaker 5: a terrible disease, and no, there's nothing you can do
45:03
Speaker 5: about that. What you can take ownership, though, is how
45:06
Speaker 5: you respond to that situation. And so that's what you
45:08
Speaker 5: have to do. There's things that you can control, there's
45:10
Speaker 5: things you can't control. Now, I will tell you that
45:13
Speaker 5: human beings can control a lot more than they think
45:15
Speaker 5: they can and oftentimes it's pretty easy just to say, Oh,
45:20
Speaker 5: that's not me, that's not on me. And I think
45:22
Speaker 5: that's the whole genesis of the idea of extreme ownership
45:26
Speaker 5: is most of the time or much of the time,
45:29
Speaker 5: people say, that's not my fault. There's nothing I can
45:31
Speaker 5: do about that. And more often than people think there
45:35
Speaker 5: is something you can do about you can and it
45:37
Speaker 5: is your fault.
45:39
Speaker 12: So when I win, it's awesome. It's always great to win.
45:43
Speaker 12: Winning is a great feeling in business, in sports, in life.
45:49
Speaker 12: There's going to be wins and there's going to be losses,
45:51
Speaker 12: and you have to take them both in stride, and
45:53
Speaker 12: you have to be able to you know what I mean.
45:55
Speaker 4: These are all part of being in the game.
45:57
Speaker 12: When you're in the game, great hapen, really bad things happen,
46:02
Speaker 12: and you've got to take it all in stride, and
46:04
Speaker 12: you got to pick yourself up the next day, strap
46:06
Speaker 12: your cues back on, and get out there and go
46:08
Speaker 12: to the floor again.
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Speaker 48: Fuck your tired body, that unmotivated mind, and get out
46:14
Speaker 48: there and do it anyway. You know, you better fight
46:16
Speaker 48: yourself because you're not only winning when things are going
46:21
Speaker 48: your way. You got to figure out how to win
46:23
Speaker 48: when things aren't going your way. You got to figure
46:25
Speaker 48: out when your body's fighting you, when your mind's fighting you,
46:28
Speaker 48: how do you still you know, just say it, I'm
46:30
Speaker 48: gonna I'm gonna.
46:31
Speaker 4: Beat my mind today.
46:32
Speaker 48: Or do you just give in your mind and say, hell,
46:34
Speaker 48: I'm tired today, I'm lazy. I don't want to do it.
46:36
Speaker 48: It's too hard, no one else is doing it. It's a weekend,
46:39
Speaker 48: it's too late, these are already off hours. Oh exactly
46:42
Speaker 48: what I want isn't happening right now.
46:44
Speaker 4: Like okay, great, you know who.
46:45
Speaker 1: That's great for your competition.
46:48
Speaker 48: You want that attitude to permeate the people that you're
46:51
Speaker 48: competing against. You want them to give in to their mind.
46:55
Speaker 48: You want them to say, oh, it's too hard, I
46:56
Speaker 48: can't do it. But you want to be the one
46:59
Speaker 48: that says, finally, do it. Anyway. I know I don't
47:01
Speaker 48: feel good today, but I'm gonna go out there and
47:03
Speaker 48: I'm gonna prove to myself. Even on days that it
47:05
Speaker 48: doesn't feel right, I push myself. The only way to
47:09
Speaker 48: gain confidence in yourself is to build something. It's not
47:12
Speaker 48: to wait for it to happen. Hey, Vick, your life
47:16
Speaker 48: just happened in front of you. It just show up
47:17
Speaker 48: today and make it happen with Tom. No, you had
47:19
Speaker 48: to do a lot of shit today to get to
47:21
Speaker 48: this day that no one really knows except you. So
47:24
Speaker 48: that's why you appreciate it, because you had to go through.
47:27
Speaker 4: A lot of stuff to get to this day.
47:29
Speaker 48: Now only you know what it took to get here,
47:32
Speaker 48: and that's why you value it.
47:34
Speaker 28: Hey, look a whole new year, a whole three hundred
47:37
Speaker 28: sixty five days to make this joint right. Me and
47:39
Speaker 28: you both know you didn't stick to the stript last year.
47:41
Speaker 28: But it's okay, though, because this year we're coming for
47:42
Speaker 28: everything that we lost and more.
47:44
Speaker 1: This is gonna be your year.
47:44
Speaker 28: If you act right, you're the only one that can
47:46
Speaker 28: make it right. But you're also the only person that
47:48
Speaker 28: can mess it up. The pressure on your shoulders, but
47:49
Speaker 28: you got to embrace it. And if you lock in
47:51
Speaker 28: at the end of the year, you can look yourself
47:53
Speaker 28: in the mirror and say I'm proud.
47:55
Speaker 4: That's real emotion.
47:58
Speaker 1: But is it so bad that person has millions of
48:02
Speaker 1: dollars in the bank?
48:04
Speaker 49: Is it so bad that a person has two of
48:06
Speaker 49: the top books in the world, half of the lists
48:09
Speaker 49: of all time.
48:10
Speaker 1: Is it bad that the person's booked all kinds of records?
48:13
Speaker 11: Is it bad that the.
48:14
Speaker 8: Person's been the Navy Seal army razer, they're going to
48:16
Speaker 8: delt the force training, gone to Air Force smoke jumper?
48:20
Speaker 1: Is that bad?
48:22
Speaker 50: Is that bad that, by forty seven years old, you're
48:24
Speaker 50: trying to find what to do next?
48:26
Speaker 1: Is that so bad because you've done everything in the
48:28
Speaker 1: world because the sickon you thought.
48:29
Speaker 11: About, you did it.
48:31
Speaker 1: If that's bad, I.
48:34
Speaker 11: Don't want to see what good is.
48:36
Speaker 8: So why it's bad to most people because it looks exhausting,
48:40
Speaker 8: and it is exhausting.
48:42
Speaker 1: And that's why it's bad to most people. Most things
48:44
Speaker 1: that are bad to people is because they can.
48:47
Speaker 4: Project what the it takes to get there. The whole
48:52
Speaker 4: world is in the chess.
48:54
Speaker 11: Any move can be the death of you. Do anything
48:58
Speaker 11: except remain.
48:59
Speaker 31: Where you stock, And it's not be sure of your end,
49:04
Speaker 31: none of us. Oh and really, well, what hand?
49:09
Speaker 4: Well guide us there?
49:12
Speaker 46: Remember that howsoever you are playing, or by whom your
49:15
Speaker 46: soul is in your keeping alone.
49:19
Speaker 42: Life is not easy.
49:20
Speaker 40: It is not don't try to make it that way.
49:23
Speaker 4: Life's not fair.
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Speaker 11: It never was.
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Speaker 4: It isn't now and it won't ever be.
49:26
Speaker 40: Do not fall into the trap, the entitlement trap, a
49:30
Speaker 40: feeling like you're a victim.
49:32
Speaker 5: You are not.
49:33
Speaker 4: Get over it, get on it.
49:34
Speaker 40: And yes, most things are more rewarding when you break
49:38
Speaker 40: a sweat to get them.
49:40
Speaker 4: Best advice you ever.
49:41
Speaker 47: Received, a man named Rich told me once in Diamond Bar.
49:46
Speaker 47: We're in a meeting and we're looking at everybody, and
49:48
Speaker 47: we're in this backyard and I'm in the corner. I'm
49:51
Speaker 47: looking at everybody. Everybody's having dinner and do these tables,
49:54
Speaker 47: and I put Rich aside. It's a rich give me
49:57
Speaker 47: the one best advice. I said, I want to one
50:01
Speaker 47: above everything. And you said, look at everybody here. They're
50:05
Speaker 47: all going to read just a few books and learn
50:07
Speaker 47: a few quotes, a few titles, few stories to tell
50:10
Speaker 47: from the books they read, and once they make one
50:12
Speaker 47: hundred quarter million, they're going to slow down. He said,
50:15
Speaker 47: if you keep out improving these guys consistently, eventually none
50:20
Speaker 47: of these guys will be your competitives. And it was
50:22
Speaker 47: absolutely right. So I came back. I took self improvement
50:25
Speaker 47: to hold different level. But there somebody told me, and
50:28
Speaker 47: it became an obsession, and I noticed, You know what,
50:31
Speaker 47: who was right?
50:32
Speaker 35: You can't drive your car looking in the rearview mirror.
50:37
Speaker 33: You can't.
50:40
Speaker 35: If you keep looking in the rearview mirror, you're going
50:42
Speaker 35: to keep crashing your car. There's a reason why the
50:45
Speaker 35: rearview mirror is this bag and the windshield is this week.
50:48
Speaker 35: That's a reasonable because all the rearview mirror does. This
50:53
Speaker 35: allows you to see what you've passed and to prevent
50:57
Speaker 35: what you've passed from coming up on you. Again, that's
51:00
Speaker 35: all the rear view mirrors for. The windshield is your future.
51:04
Speaker 35: It's where you go, it's where you head when.
51:07
Speaker 5: You wake up in the morning. Don't think about anything.
51:08
Speaker 5: Don't sit there and start thinking about rationalized words. Just
51:11
Speaker 5: get up and do what you're supposed to do. Just
51:13
Speaker 5: turn off your brain and go and execute, and just
51:15
Speaker 5: don't think, because when you start thinking, you start making
51:18
Speaker 5: things up, and you start thinking about luxury and all
51:20
Speaker 5: those things that you could be doing instead. Yeah whatever,
51:24
Speaker 5: and so I just stop all that, Just get up
51:26
Speaker 5: and just do what you're supposed to do.
51:28
Speaker 4: But from a day to day basis.
51:29
Speaker 5: I mean, you know the fact that I've got friends,
51:34
Speaker 5: a lot of friends that aren't here, that don't get
51:36
Speaker 5: to live their lives anymore. That we're killed, and I
51:39
Speaker 5: want to make sure that I'm taking advantage of every
51:43
Speaker 5: minute and every second that I have and live in
51:46
Speaker 5: a life that if they're watching me right now, they're thinking,
51:49
Speaker 5: all right, all right, good, Jock's getting after it.
51:52
Speaker 1: Come on, Tom anything we can do that.
51:54
Speaker 30: Unless you can.
51:55
Speaker 2: Change the past, you gotta put your past behind you.
51:59
Speaker 27: Look bad things happen and you can't do anything about it.
52:03
Speaker 7: Right right gong.
52:04
Speaker 34: When the world turns its back on you, you turn
52:08
Speaker 34: your back.
52:08
Speaker 4: On the world.
52:10
Speaker 51: Life is not a perfection game. Life is an adjustment game.
52:14
Speaker 51: It's not about getting it right. It's about when you
52:18
Speaker 51: inevitably get it wrong, how you handle it, your ability
52:22
Speaker 51: to adapt.
52:23
Speaker 38: What's the answer you would give them if they're like,
52:25
Speaker 38: how do I gain more confidence?
52:26
Speaker 1: It starts with yourself.
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Speaker 50: Man, you got to start diving into those things that
52:30
Speaker 50: you're afraid of. You don't gain confidence by going to
52:34
Speaker 50: the spot that makes you feel good.
52:37
Speaker 1: It's gonna be a false reality.
52:39
Speaker 50: In the second life gives you that challenge, all you
52:42
Speaker 50: want to do is go back to work or what
52:43
Speaker 50: gave you confidence? Is that happy spot. What gives you
52:47
Speaker 50: confidence not being afraid. It's overcoming the fear is just stutter,
52:53
Speaker 50: severely bad. So right now, I don't know how many
52:55
Speaker 50: people are gonna watch this. You know it gives me confidence.
52:58
Speaker 50: I no longer care if I says are studying the view.
53:02
Speaker 50: That's what gives me confidence is facing these things, overcoming
53:05
Speaker 50: them and maybe not overcoming them every day, but facing
53:09
Speaker 50: them and facing and facing pretty soon like this, man,
53:12
Speaker 50: this is where's act. It's not in that comfort zone.
53:16
Speaker 50: It's in the discomfort zone. Is where my confidence is
53:19
Speaker 50: getting built.
53:22
Speaker 35: Negativity You can protect yourself from negativity, and that's what
53:27
Speaker 35: stops most people negative thoughts. You know, I get tired sometimes.
53:32
Speaker 35: That's different from being negative because I get mentally drained
53:36
Speaker 35: from my job at time.
53:38
Speaker 1: But to coat your mind from.
53:39
Speaker 35: Negativity, the way you can put a coding around your
53:43
Speaker 35: mind is with one simple thing, gratitude. Gratitude eracist negativity.
53:50
Speaker 35: I'm gonna show you how this worked. If you wake
53:52
Speaker 35: up in the morning you start having negative thoughts, Man,
53:55
Speaker 35: this ain't my dang I woke up on alongside of
53:58
Speaker 35: being I'm tripping that us don't feel myself every time
54:02
Speaker 35: you feel in the middle of the day. If you
54:04
Speaker 35: feel yourself.
54:04
Speaker 1: Doing that, stop, just stop for a second.
54:08
Speaker 35: And start going over in your mind everything you have
54:11
Speaker 35: to be grateful for, not everything you want, everything you
54:16
Speaker 35: already have, because what you have is substantial. You want
54:20
Speaker 35: to know why our grandparents dayed together, because they weren't
54:23
Speaker 35: looking at ash cheeks all day on Instagram and refreshing it.
54:27
Speaker 5: Don't take today off, not today, wait until tomorrow. Don't
54:32
Speaker 5: don't give in to the immediate gratification that is whispering.
54:38
Speaker 36: In your ear.
54:42
Speaker 4: Shut that down.
54:43
Speaker 5: You do not listen to that little voice.
54:46
Speaker 4: Instead, go through the motions.
54:50
Speaker 5: Lift the weights, sprint the hill, work on the project,
54:55
Speaker 5: get out of bed. You need get things done. When
55:03
Speaker 5: tomorrow comes you still feel like you need to rest,
55:09
Speaker 5: or you need to take a break, then okay, but
55:13
Speaker 5: the chances are you won't. You won't need that rest.
55:18
Speaker 5: Chances are you will realize that the desire to rest
55:21
Speaker 5: was just weakness.
55:23
Speaker 52: It was just the desire to take the path of
55:27
Speaker 52: least resistance, the downhill path, the easy path, and by
55:34
Speaker 52: simply going through the motions, you overcame that path. Then
55:41
Speaker 52: you stayed on the righteous path, the discipline path. You
55:45
Speaker 52: stayed on the war path, which is right.
55:51
Speaker 1: Where you know.
55:54
Speaker 3: That you belong.
55:58
Speaker 49: The majority of success that I have had have come
56:01
Speaker 49: on the back end of pain. Pain has pushed me
56:05
Speaker 49: to the levels unknown for me at the time.
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Speaker 11: All I know that that was pain.
56:11
Speaker 49: But on the other side of it, all of a sudden,
56:13
Speaker 49: I became better in an area. So when we go
56:16
Speaker 49: through those situations in our lives, pain helps you develop those.
56:21
Speaker 1: Things that's going to take you to the next.
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Speaker 49: Level of whatever it is. Believe that I'm a limping
56:26
Speaker 49: testimony of that. See, that's a purpose for my pain.
56:31
Speaker 49: As you've been listening all and you've probably read all
56:33
Speaker 49: this week, I suffered from depression. I went through it
56:36
Speaker 49: mightily in my workie year. I suffered through suicidal thoughts.
56:40
Speaker 49: And I wasn't just suffering through suicidal thoughts. I was
56:43
Speaker 49: actually planning the way that I would kill myself so
56:46
Speaker 49: that my wife would getting the money.
56:50
Speaker 1: Not yet, not yet.
56:56
Speaker 49: But what that pain did for me increase my faith Excedentially.
57:03
Speaker 49: I have grown leafs and bounds because of the things
57:06
Speaker 49: that I've gone through. And that's one of those things
57:08
Speaker 49: that I went through. And when I say went through,
57:11
Speaker 49: that mean I came on the other side of it.
57:13
Speaker 49: So for those who are going through right now, there's hope.
57:17
Speaker 1: You do have hope.
57:18
Speaker 49: There is something on the other side of this.
57:21
Speaker 25: Don't get put up where you are, don't stay where
57:24
Speaker 25: you are, keep moving, keep pushing through.
57:32
Speaker 10: You always have to be the person who roots for
57:33
Speaker 10: you before everyone else does, and it's usually a single
57:38
Speaker 10: clap in the auditorium for a very long period of time.
57:42
Speaker 10: It is a slow clap that's just you rooting for you.
57:48
Speaker 10: And that visual, I think, is one that you can
57:50
Speaker 10: kind of take because it is people struggle to do
57:55
Speaker 10: things alone. And the path of the exceptional person is
58:00
Speaker 10: one of an exception, which means that you are not
58:03
Speaker 10: with other people.
58:05
Speaker 53: Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone
58:08
Speaker 53: else's life.
58:10
Speaker 11: Don't be trapped by.
58:11
Speaker 53: Dogma, which is living with the results of other people's thinking.
58:15
Speaker 53: Don't let the noise of other's opinions dround out your
58:18
Speaker 53: own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to
58:21
Speaker 53: follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what
58:26
Speaker 53: you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.
58:32
Speaker 5: Make your life your own movie. Actually make it better
58:36
Speaker 5: than a movie. Make it better.
58:42
Speaker 7: Because it's real.
58:47
Speaker 5: It's real, so it is better and you know what
58:51
Speaker 5: comes with some downsides, comes with some darkness, but that's okay.
59:12
Speaker 22: I feel like people are just trying to rush and
59:14
Speaker 22: trying to hurry up and do this and this, knowing
59:16
Speaker 22: that that's gonna take years.
59:17
Speaker 2: They want to go viral on that.
59:18
Speaker 36: They want to go viral
59:19
Speaker 20: So fast, like it's like, bro, like you have to wait,
59:22
Speaker 20: and I just say, I just say, play the back
59:23
Speaker 20: until the tide to pay the front, and when when
59:26
Speaker 20: it is your time to play the front, you go
59:27
Speaker 20: full throttle, like today, like now is the time