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For a Quick Stop At Johnny's House: Talk to Ex. · Johnny's House

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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I saw the photos of it. They had a
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  Speaker 1: pop up Blockbuster video. Yes, they were joking about how
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  Speaker 1: you had to explain to your kids how it worked.
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  Speaker 1: And it sounds to me like those stories I used
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  Speaker 1: to hear from my parents, So like, oh no, back
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  Speaker 1: then you had to do this, that and the other. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but for us it was I guess it's kind of
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  Speaker 1: recent history. Yeah, and it was. It was actually like
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  Speaker 1: what we did every weekend. Like it was you look forward.
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  Speaker 2: The act of getting the movie from Blockbuster was as
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  Speaker 2: cool as watching the movie.
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  Speaker 1: Here's the thing, kids, if you're listening right now, you
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  Speaker 1: don't understand. If you wanted to watch a movie, you
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  Speaker 1: didn't just push a button on the remote and the
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  Speaker 1: movie popped up. Yeah, you had to get to Blockbusters
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  Speaker 1: and go and hope that that movie you want is available,
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  Speaker 1: and then you would have to check it out. Ninety
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  Speaker 1: percent of the time the movie that you wanted was
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  Speaker 1: not there, so you had to go. I always ended
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  Speaker 1: up with someone b move some b horror movie that
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  Speaker 1: was absolutely garbage. But you had to walk around try
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  Speaker 1: to avoid bumping into people because everybody's looking for the
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  Speaker 1: movie that you want, and then end up picking up
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  Speaker 1: something and then that was your Friday or Saturday night date.
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  Speaker 1: It was beautiful. We would run into friends at Blockbusters. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: while they were looking for their movie, You're looking for
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  Speaker 1: your movie. It was a little bit of a social thing.
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  Speaker 3: Oh.
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  Speaker 1: It was cool, and if you had a date, you
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  Speaker 1: were excited about it, like, hey, I got this and so,
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  Speaker 1: you know, you get some takeout, you go over and
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  Speaker 1: you watch the game and you think about that, and
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  Speaker 1: I tell my kid, now, I was like, listen, you
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  Speaker 1: don't understand, man. You couldn't just go online and do research.
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  Speaker 1: You know, if you were rich, you had all the
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  Speaker 1: encyclopedias and my parents would buying them in sections, like
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  Speaker 1: every two weeks they get aob Yeah, but who knew
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  Speaker 1: after that series was.
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  Speaker 4: Over it was old.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know it was more added to it. And
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  Speaker 1: he's like, what do you mean you had the books
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  Speaker 1: at home? Or I would have to take you to
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  Speaker 1: the library and drop you off, and then what then
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  Speaker 1: you would have to talk to the librarian and find
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  Speaker 1: the book that you wanted and write down notes, or
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  Speaker 1: I'd give you money and you could.
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  Speaker 4: Copy that page. You're like, what, yes, card catalog, the
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  Speaker 4: doing decimal system. Oh, you fools.
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  Speaker 2: Don't know nothing about the doing decimal system. I'm telling you.
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  Speaker 2: Finding your book was just as hard as learning.
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  Speaker 5: It was who if.
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  Speaker 6: Somebody put their books back in the wrong Like what
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  Speaker 6: the heck man?
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  Speaker 2: You said, the little microfiche? Oh yeah, machine so you
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  Speaker 2: can look at old, old stuff. Oh yeah, yeah. And
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  Speaker 2: he was like really and he looked at me like
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  Speaker 2: it was roughing. I'm like, that was just you.
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  Speaker 1: You didn't have, like right now in your hand, you
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  Speaker 1: have all the knowledge in the world right there. You
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  Speaker 1: didn't have that. So what if you had a book
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  Speaker 1: report after school? I'd drop you off the library, you
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  Speaker 1: stay there for a couple of days, I'd bring you
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  Speaker 1: home after you took your notes. You would have to
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  Speaker 1: write what and yeah, and then you would have to
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  Speaker 1: write it, write it.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: It was no computer that you can write. Roan, what
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  Speaker 1: do you have to explain to your son?
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  Speaker 2: Well, I mean a bunch of stuff that people now
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  Speaker 2: our age are going back and doing. Yes, yes, and
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  Speaker 2: now like he's a little bit older, he goes and
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  Speaker 2: does it. But like the arcade, yes, Like there was
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  Speaker 2: no gaming consoles.
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  Speaker 4: That was a date bro.
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  Speaker 2: New video games would come to the Arcade and you'd
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  Speaker 2: have to go with your money and get some tokens.
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  Speaker 4: And play the game. There.
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  Speaker 2: There's no gaming system, there was no saving it, there
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  Speaker 2: was no playing online, none of that.
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  Speaker 1: No, you had to go and your goal was you
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  Speaker 1: may not know who he was, but I'm gonna get
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  Speaker 1: that top school.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, well, whoever be crimes, put your.
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  Speaker 2: Initials in and if you're real funny, you put in ass.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: God, anything to your kids, yeah, I mean all the time.
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  Speaker 6: I have to explain to them sometimes when we watch
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  Speaker 6: like TV and there's commercials and you can't skip past
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  Speaker 6: the commercials.
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  Speaker 5: I'm like, do you.
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  Speaker 6: Understand that you cannot? I couldn't skip ads. Back in
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  Speaker 6: the day, we use that time to go get a snack,
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  Speaker 6: to go to the bathroom. No, They're like, can you
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  Speaker 6: skip this? And I'm like, no, I can't. What I
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  Speaker 6: had to do back in the day.
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  Speaker 4: Isn't that just?
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  Speaker 1: It's just while And it hit me yesterday we were
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  Speaker 1: talking about blockbusters and explain it and the kids look
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  Speaker 1: at you, like you understand that was fun? How was
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  Speaker 1: that fun? How is anything we're talking about right now fun?
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  Speaker 1: How was that it was? It was awesome? I want
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  Speaker 1: to hear from you. What are some things that you
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  Speaker 1: did Kurt pretty much recently. Did you have to explain
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  Speaker 1: to your kids and they just look at you like
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  Speaker 1: they're lost, like you really did what you had to
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  Speaker 1: do something. I we still got these tickets left over,
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  Speaker 1: two tickets to the Rivalry showdown French Gee once again.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, room boy.
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  Speaker 1: Wait think guess they'll see contre head that sound cattle.
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  Speaker 4: Said like you mother hand step buskebars that.
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  Speaker 1: It said the keys set of coming up this weekend. Explain.
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  Speaker 1: I could never say that's why we have him. I
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  Speaker 1: would do that no service at all, and I want
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  Speaker 1: to respect it. So all right, so listen, what are
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  Speaker 1: some things you did in the pass you have to
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  Speaker 1: explain to your kids?
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  Speaker 4: And they looked lost and bewildered.
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  Speaker 1: those things you had explaining, look at you like you're crazy.
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  Speaker 4: Let's talk about him next.
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  Speaker 5: On Johnny's House sixty six sixty.
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  Speaker 4: Six eighty four.
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  Speaker 7: Uh.
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  Speaker 1: And there's a chance of rain otherwise it's gonna be
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  Speaker 1: mostly sunny today. Things you had to explain to your
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  Speaker 1: kids from back in the day they had no idea
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  Speaker 1: and someone hit pretty good. We we talking about Blockbuster and
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  Speaker 1: someone texting mobile said, okay, once you went to Blockbuster,
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  Speaker 1: how'd you get to get the movie into the TV?
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  Speaker 4: Think about it? I mean, don't make it pick up movies.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't use a VCR. Right, and they didn't
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  Speaker 2: know stream it nowadays. Okay, now you had it, Now
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  Speaker 2: what do you do with it?
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  Speaker 5: Oh?
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  Speaker 1: I left that little part out all right? So what
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  Speaker 1: is something you had to explain to your kids? Got
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  Speaker 1: two tickets to the Rivaly Showdown, happening this weekend at
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  Speaker 1: the Kids Center on March the eighth, from Lakeland Miracle.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, Good morning, Miracle. What do you have to
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  Speaker 1: explain that?
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  Speaker 7: We would go to the mall with a group of
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  Speaker 7: our friends with no adults and just hang out for hours.
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  Speaker 5: That's the mall.
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  Speaker 7: They're like, no adults, who was who? We had our
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  Speaker 7: own money, like, we didn't need an adult.
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  Speaker 2: Well, the mall will throw home off all together because
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  Speaker 2: they don't even know what a mall.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, but you used to go to the We.
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  Speaker 7: Used to go to the Osculos Square mall in Kassemi.
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  Speaker 7: My sister worked at a movie theater there, so we
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  Speaker 7: would have hang out at the mall until the movie started.
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  Speaker 7: We'd go see two or three movies.
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  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, and then.
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  Speaker 7: Parents never questioned it.
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  Speaker 1: We were gone for hours, no parent, parental supervision.
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  Speaker 7: What my son's like, They don't look at you weird.
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  Speaker 7: I'm like, no, no, totally.
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  Speaker 4: Normal, a miracle.
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  Speaker 1: They had no idea that Like, my parents didn't know
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  Speaker 1: where we were when they would work as long as
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  Speaker 1: we were there when it was time to eat dinner.
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  Speaker 1: They didn't would, They didn't know, had no idea, no
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  Speaker 1: idea supervised activities because you couldn't. There was no tracker iPhone. No,
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  Speaker 1: we were of no gets you but home right, you
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  Speaker 1: better be at the pickup spot. That's right, that matter,
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  Speaker 1: be at the pickup spot. Carry from a veto good.
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  Speaker 4: Morning, good morning. I actually have two, okay, go ahead.
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  Speaker 8: One is better than the other. So the one I
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  Speaker 8: think is the best is. I had to explain to
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  Speaker 8: my son that when I was growing up, me and
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  Speaker 8: my sister used to fight over the phone because you
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  Speaker 8: couldn't be on the internet.
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  Speaker 9: Phone at the time.
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  Speaker 4: Yep, problem, what are you talking about them?
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  Speaker 6: Like?
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  Speaker 9: You just couldn't like you had.
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  Speaker 1: One the other one to the other. Yeah, and if
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  Speaker 1: you're online and somebody called they kicked.
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  Speaker 4: Your right off.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 8: And then the the noise in me to actually get online.
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  Speaker 4: It carries carry.
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  Speaker 1: They didn't know it took three minutes to download a
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  Speaker 1: photo just to see the photo, just to see it.
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  Speaker 8: Our first text messaging was the was the AOL messaging
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  Speaker 8: centerge messenger?
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  Speaker 3: Ye?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and they look at you like what And now
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  Speaker 2: they won't go anywhere where there's not Wi fi wi exactly.
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  Speaker 8: I'm like, you guys have no idea. There was no
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  Speaker 8: We had pagers.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, oh yeah, Paige, man, you had to use code.
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  Speaker 8: And he goes to the high school that I go
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  Speaker 8: to now and they used to have cell phones there
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  Speaker 8: because you know, we.
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  Speaker 9: All have paters.
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  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, oh yeah.
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  Speaker 8: The cell phones are gone or I'm not gone, sorry nothing,
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  Speaker 8: the payphones are gone.
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  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, oh yeah, it was done.
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  Speaker 6: Man.
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  Speaker 1: You you hold on a second, Uh, Andrew if want
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  Speaker 1: of guard and good morning? Andrew going going gone, ray,
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  Speaker 1: what's over.
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  Speaker 5: The let's see here?
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  Speaker 6: Downloading music off lime wire and feeling like you're doing
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  Speaker 6: something illegal. Yeah, somebody said, my kids had no idea
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  Speaker 6: what a payphone was. And we were in DC a
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  Speaker 6: couple of years ago, and I had to tell him
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  Speaker 6: that we had to keep a quarter in our socks,
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  Speaker 6: or if we didn't have it, we would call one
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  Speaker 6: hundred colloct to tell our parents to come get us.
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  Speaker 5: If you didn't have change.
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  Speaker 4: I wouldn't accept that. Mamam ready to go? Yea, Mama pleased,
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  Speaker 4: ready to go? What's over?
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  Speaker 2: Let's see Excel Mobile Power by Attorney Dan Newlan Interact
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  Speaker 2: need to check. It's a no brainer. Just call it tourney,
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  Speaker 2: Dan newl And someone said, my nephew asked me what
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  Speaker 2: a CD player was, and I've never felt more.
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  Speaker 4: CD players. CD players. Wow, yep.
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  Speaker 2: And when you used to have a if you wanted
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  Speaker 2: to talk on the phone not near anybody, you had
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  Speaker 2: to have like a twenty foot phone cord that you know.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, oh that was the best. You had some privacy
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  Speaker 1: at that cordless phone. Cordless cordless, oh my goodness. And
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  Speaker 1: the first cordless phone had real antennas. Did you can
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  Speaker 1: jam your eye out? Course long one for rich people. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: they were back in the day. If you had a
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  Speaker 1: cordless phone, you were Paula.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, you were a miracle.
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna hook you up with two tickets to the
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  Speaker 1: Rivaly show Down having a Takia Center on March eighth.
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  Speaker 6: Rae, what up, ex Prince Andrew now has to surrender
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  Speaker 6: something really Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I'll start out there listening to Johnny's house getting up
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  Speaker 1: about eighty four today, mostly Sonny with a thirty percent
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  Speaker 1: chance of rain sixty six right now. Mentioned it before,
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  Speaker 1: Brian say, sixty six percent of people still do what.
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  Speaker 2: They are still in contact with their exes. They still talk.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, okay, sixty six percent. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: The the younger you get, the more frequent it is.
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  Speaker 2: They say, twenty eight percent of z talk to them
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  Speaker 2: all the time. And it's not just one or two,
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  Speaker 2: it's most or all of their exes really like they
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  Speaker 2: stay in the same circles basically.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I can see that when you're younger.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Now my ex wife, no, we don't communicate at all
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  Speaker 1: period in the store. Now, my last ex we'll text
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  Speaker 1: text every hit now and then.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's about that's about it. That's about it.
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  Speaker 1: Anything before that, no, no, no, no.
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  Speaker 4: No, right.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: So obviously with my ex wife, I share custody with
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  Speaker 6: the twins, so I have to talk to her, but
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  Speaker 6: as far as before her, now it.
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  Speaker 4: Kind of just phase out.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: You know, it's not that you don't like them or
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  Speaker 1: you know, it could have been bad.
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  Speaker 6: But i mean, like on social media every now and then,
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  Speaker 6: we'll like see each other's pictures or like I'll be like, oh,
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  Speaker 6: I'm so happy for your family. You know, like that's
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  Speaker 6: pretty much it. But again, my relationships with that I
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  Speaker 6: was just so young, and yeah, I kind of just
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  Speaker 6: a lot.
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  Speaker 1: It's just you know, they move on. You move on
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  Speaker 1: if I mean, if everything was cool, they eventually move on.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm sure whoever they with don't they're with, don't
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  Speaker 1: want them texting me, So it just kind of just
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  Speaker 1: fades off.
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  Speaker 4: And yeah, it goes there their separate way. Yeah. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Every now and then somebody will will be fishing, like hey,
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  Speaker 1: what's up, bighead. No, No, we know what that means. No,
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  Speaker 1: I'm good.
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  Speaker 4: You know, hurd, you got little girlfriend?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah yeah cool?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you heard right. Yeah, you're right, that's what
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  Speaker 1: is going on. I wonder what you talk about. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: like you said, younger generations, it's more of a maybe
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  Speaker 1: they don't take the relationship serious because if you're hurt
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  Speaker 1: or your heart's broken. It hurts to stay in contact
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  Speaker 1: with that person.
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  Speaker 5: That definitely matters how it.
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  Speaker 4: Ends, because you're hoping to back together with them.
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  Speaker 2: Younger people also don't have the same codes that we had,
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  Speaker 2: Like it's fades like we have that you don't date
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  Speaker 2: your friends, but I don't think that holds up as
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  Speaker 2: much anymore. That's crazy. So then your friends are still
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  Speaker 2: in the same circle even though they're dating someone else.
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  Speaker 4: Now they're your friends. They're in that circle.
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  Speaker 1: I can't even imagine experience in that that someone in
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  Speaker 1: the circle was dating someone and then they break up
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  Speaker 1: and that somebody in the circle brings that person or like, no.
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  Speaker 2: I think when you're younger you do that more really,
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  Speaker 2: so by by default you're still in the circle.
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  Speaker 4: So you're still friends.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but you can't bring I know, if you brought
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  Speaker 1: if you brought that person male or female in and
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  Speaker 1: you broke up, that person's out, you're still in by
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  Speaker 1: our rules.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, And I don't think they played by those rules anymore.
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  Speaker 4: Those are like universal rules, aren't they.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 9: I mean.
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  Speaker 6: Kim was in our circle, so I'm saying I've been
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  Speaker 6: friends with her for a while before the twins were
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  Speaker 6: even born.
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  Speaker 2: Right, And if something were to go to sideways and
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  Speaker 2: you and Kim were to be like, we don't really
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  Speaker 2: want to be together anymore, she wouldn't leave.
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  Speaker 4: The circle just wouldn't happen, or you would you leave.
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  Speaker 6: I feel like now that I'm older and i'm my
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  Speaker 6: priorities are like obviously the twins, I would stay so
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  Speaker 6: focused on just that for a while.
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  Speaker 2: You wouldn't hang but like, this doesn't mean we go
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  Speaker 2: out every night. This means we have contact. You'd still
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  Speaker 2: be in that circle loosely in some way. Yeah, because
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  Speaker 2: that's what happens when you date within the circle.
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  Speaker 1: And I guess my thing is, I can my mind
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  Speaker 1: can only compute, that's right.
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  Speaker 4: I can't even imagine. It's like no same.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I brought somebody in, all right, y'all broke
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  Speaker 1: up even though hey, I brought There's a lot of
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  Speaker 1: people y'all met, but they don't come back here and
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  Speaker 1: hang out with y'all. Hey, you with Johnny? You know
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  Speaker 1: you're not with john anymore? So, right, you know?
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  Speaker 4: But I can't go to a vent, right, Hey, she's
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  Speaker 4: pretty cool, yes.
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  Speaker 2: Right, yeah, But I think when that happens, that lends
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  Speaker 2: the idea that you still talking to them because they're
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  Speaker 2: in the circle.
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  Speaker 4: It's like, I wouldn't do it. It's not my thing.
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  Speaker 2: I only have one that I still I wouldn't even
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  Speaker 2: say talk to ever. It like literally, every maybe two
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  Speaker 2: three years on Instagram, she'll see something and hit me
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  Speaker 2: or she knew my mom, so you know, something with
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  Speaker 2: my mom pops up.
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  Speaker 4: She but that's it, Like I don't. It's not a hay,
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  Speaker 4: what's up? Yeah? Yeah, you good.
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  Speaker 5: None of That's what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 6: Like every time something pops up, I'm like, oh, I'm
• 14:05
  Speaker 6: so happy for your family or something.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, well I might do that with my my high
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  Speaker 1: school sweetheart who I was engaged to when I moved
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  Speaker 1: down here a million years ago. It's because our families
• 14:14
  Speaker 1: were family. We were friends. Wait back, but she's moved
• 14:16
  Speaker 1: on married all that stuff, and yeah, you know so,
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  Speaker 1: but that's rare. I think last time that was like
• 14:21
  Speaker 1: maybe four or five years ago.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, the girl I dated when I was a senior
• 14:24
  Speaker 2: in high school, she still lives around here.
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  Speaker 4: She's married with kids.
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  Speaker 2: But like we talked about problem one time and she
• 14:29
  Speaker 2: dm me pictures from prom. Yeah, in case I didn't
• 14:32
  Speaker 2: have them that's cool, but like we don't. I don't
• 14:34
  Speaker 2: hit her up a on a Saturday. Yeah, hey just
• 14:36
  Speaker 2: check it in. Yeah, that'd be weird, all right.
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: We want to find out how often do you talk
• 14:41
  Speaker 1: to your x sixty six six sixty six percent of
• 14:44
  Speaker 1: people say they still talk to them often. If you're younger,
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: you say, hey, ain't no thing. Maybe all the more
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  Speaker 1: mature than we are. I don't know. Four oh seven
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  Speaker 4: Guys.
• 15:05
  Speaker 1: A lot of ways to get in touch with you.
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  Speaker 1: I know, somebody's can call say, oh we're still the
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: best of friends. We all hang out. It does happen.
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  Speaker 1: I just don't have that type of maturity. I don't
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  Speaker 1: four oh seven now one nine one o six seven
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  Speaker 1: eight seven seven nine one nine one o six seven.
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: How often do you talk to your ex? Say they
• 15:19
  Speaker 1: stay in touch with their exes. And we want to
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: find out how often you do. Let's go to Carol
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  Speaker 1: and a popka. Carol, good morning, good morning, How are
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  Speaker 1: you great?
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  Speaker 4: How are you doing? Good? Good?
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: Good Carol. How often do you stay in touch with
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: your ex?
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  Speaker 3: Well, we actually live on the same property.
• 15:41
  Speaker 4: Is it a large property?
• 15:43
  Speaker 3: It's a double lot property. And I have my son
• 15:48
  Speaker 3: staying in one house. I stay in the other house,
• 15:50
  Speaker 3: and him and his new girlfriend stay in a one
• 15:54
  Speaker 3: bedroom mobile hole.
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  Speaker 4: And how did this work out?
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  Speaker 9: Well?
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  Speaker 3: It actually, uh, it's a matter of convenience, okay.
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  Speaker 4: And he pays rent.
• 16:07
  Speaker 3: Yes, I'm making pay rent. It's not free, but we
• 16:10
  Speaker 3: associate due to our children.
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  Speaker 4: Oh good.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So what would happen if one night he just walks
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: up and knocks on the door and say, Carol, I'm
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: feeling some kind of way tonight.
• 16:21
  Speaker 3: And I would say, you better go back to your girlfriend.
• 16:24
  Speaker 4: Okay. And ain't never happened though it's never happened.
• 16:30
  Speaker 3: Well, I can say it's started to happen. Maybe, but
• 16:35
  Speaker 3: it's done. I've had enough, we've had children.
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: We're done.
• 16:38
  Speaker 4: We're done, we're friends, we're friend.
• 16:40
  Speaker 3: You're going to stay there.
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: Just stay there with your little girlfriend. Okay, I got you.
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: You hold on, Carol, go back to your little double wide,
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: lay me alone, one bedroom.
• 16:48
  Speaker 4: Brian from the villagers.
• 16:50
  Speaker 9: Hey, Ashley, Hey, how are you doing good?
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: Ashley? And how often do you talk to your X?
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: Sixty six percent of people say they stay in touch
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: with them?
• 16:58
  Speaker 9: Well, I actually have two. One I share a child with,
• 17:02
  Speaker 9: and we co parent really well through text. Okay, not
• 17:04
  Speaker 9: in person because he's married. Okay, so we have that line.
• 17:09
  Speaker 9: But I even get along with his wife, but we
• 17:11
  Speaker 9: keep it that barrier, you now. And then the other
• 17:14
  Speaker 9: one I go on cruises with. We both loved to cruise.
• 17:17
  Speaker 9: He's been on like seventeen carnival cruises. So when we go,
• 17:22
  Speaker 9: he books it, he gets the free drinks, he gets
• 17:24
  Speaker 9: the casino credit.
• 17:26
  Speaker 4: So do you also have the same cabin?
• 17:29
  Speaker 9: We do, two separate beds, and we've been broken up
• 17:32
  Speaker 9: for twenty years. Okay, we were engaged only twenty one.
• 17:35
  Speaker 4: But okay, so.
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: Let's say one night after he's been gambling, he comes
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: back to the room, fill the cup sort of.
• 17:41
  Speaker 4: Wait, yeah, he tries to roll those guys.
• 17:43
  Speaker 9: You know, listen, you guys have been on cruises. You
• 17:45
  Speaker 9: know how many single people are on there. He would
• 17:48
  Speaker 9: not be on the list. What I was saying done
• 17:52
  Speaker 9: that we would go to the single party first.
• 17:55
  Speaker 4: You're you know, you over there, right, and I'm over here.
• 17:58
  Speaker 4: It's two thirty am, he's over.
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  Speaker 9: I don't know how much alcohol would have to be
• 18:02
  Speaker 9: involved on that, but.
• 18:06
  Speaker 3: But so you I.
• 18:08
  Speaker 9: Like being friends with him. I don't know if we'd
• 18:10
  Speaker 9: crossed that line again, but I.
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: Mean, okay, so you do this, But do you each
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: have different people that you're seeing now and they don't care?
• 18:17
  Speaker 9: Oh yeah, we just don't go on cruises when he's dating,
• 18:20
  Speaker 9: and I don't want to. I don't want them to
• 18:23
  Speaker 9: feel uncomfortable.
• 18:24
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it's nice of you, but if they he went to.
• 18:26
  Speaker 9: The universals me and stayed in my house for a
• 18:29
  Speaker 9: couple of days. He knows my child like it's it's.
• 18:33
  Speaker 4: Good, you're like a serious I.
• 18:36
  Speaker 9: Liked him enough to elevate him to boyfriends back in
• 18:39
  Speaker 9: the day. He just got demoted, you know.
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: Oh, oh, so y'all are friends, then you try to
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: be Then you tried to be boyfriend. He just went
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: back to friends. So you never talk about the fact
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: that y'all once dated.
• 18:50
  Speaker 9: Oh no, I mean I I talked to him about
• 18:52
  Speaker 9: all the time and how he kind of messed it
• 18:54
  Speaker 9: up and take.
• 18:56
  Speaker 5: You miss the relationship. But I feel like there's a.
• 18:59
  Speaker 9: Little I get the good parts of it. I get
• 19:02
  Speaker 9: the friendship part. I get the the being able to
• 19:06
  Speaker 9: say everything I feel and the comfort of it.
• 19:10
  Speaker 4: So why did it go wrong?
• 19:12
  Speaker 9: We got the Well, he cheated on me when we
• 19:14
  Speaker 9: were twenty.
• 19:15
  Speaker 4: He ain't twenty no more. Yeah you laughing?
• 19:18
  Speaker 9: Yeah, now he lives out of state, and I like
• 19:20
  Speaker 9: it that way.
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: Y'all like Ross and Rachel, like, oh god, not the
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: series finale, y'all gonna get married?
• 19:27
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 19:29
  Speaker 9: Every time his mom meets a new girlfriend, she accidentally
• 19:31
  Speaker 9: calls him Ashley for like months and then they end
• 19:34
  Speaker 9: up hating me.
• 19:35
  Speaker 4: Let me, let me, let that's my Let me tell
• 19:37
  Speaker 4: you something. I wasn't.
• 19:38
  Speaker 9: I feel like it.
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: I wasn't listening for anything but Astley. When you speak
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: of him, there's a little something in your voice. Yeah,
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: and I'm not reading anything, but your voice changed. Listen
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: to the podcast late this afternoon and hear it back
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: and you hear yourself. There's a little, some little change
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: depen there. But that's cool. As long as y'all both have.
• 19:54
  Speaker 9: I heart, we'll see.
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: All right, listen to the podcast. You hear yourself all right, well,
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: thank you for sharing that.
• 20:00
  Speaker 9: All right, thank you. I'm going to take ice ti.
• 20:02
  Speaker 4: Uh.
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: Someone from the last stream, he said, Uh, my main
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: ex broke up with me. Her name is Karen Jackson.
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: They broke up with me over some chicken nuggets. So
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• 20:13
  Speaker 2: Oh wow, all right, I mean chicken nuggets are serious.
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: So I have to hear the story.
• 20:18
  Speaker 6: Absolutely right as little as possible. Once the kids graduated
• 20:23
  Speaker 6: high school, so they bear very rarely talk. It looks
• 20:28
  Speaker 6: like if they have kids together, obviously you have to
• 20:30
  Speaker 6: talk and communicate with them. Let's here, Tyler said, I
• 20:34
  Speaker 6: wish I did. I wish I talked to her.
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• 20:49
  Speaker 2: and that's okay. But the father of my kids, we
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: don't talk at all. He just sends me the child support,
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: leaves me alone.
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: It seems like she likes it that way. Yeah, all right,
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