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Becca’s Birthday Bash! · Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad

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  Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Beca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
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  Speaker 1: and two times People's Choice Award winning podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing it.
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  Speaker 3: But we're not just scrubbing in because it's Becca Tilly's bird.
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  Speaker 1: Speech.
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  Speaker 2: Speech, speech speech, I'm thirty seven.
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  Speaker 3: Wait, do you want to open your cupcakes? Maybe put
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  Speaker 3: some frosting on your nose.
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  Speaker 2: I don't need to do that, but thank you. Tanya
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  Speaker 2: brought me a bunch of hefty amount of mini cupcakes.
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  Speaker 3: I wanted to get thirty seven. But that is felt silly.
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  Speaker 2: That feels Oh that feels excessive. Yeah, how many is
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  Speaker 2: this twenty four?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: That feels perfect. Yeah that's the age I feel mentally. Yeah, physically, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: thirty seven. I'm excited. I'm excited to be here. Another
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  Speaker 2: year of life with the people I love, Phoebe and
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  Speaker 2: just more things look forward to.
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  Speaker 3: What do you want to bring in for this new
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  Speaker 3: year of life?
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  Speaker 2: Mmm? I would say my focus this year is going
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  Speaker 2: to be I want to be better at making decisions. Oh,
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  Speaker 2: explain well, I'm just thinking like if we're getting like eventually,
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  Speaker 2: I'm sure this year will be the year that we
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  Speaker 2: start wedding planning and I want to like be in
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  Speaker 2: a headspace of saying what I want. And you're good
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  Speaker 2: at that. Now, that's so funny. Someone said that to
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  Speaker 2: me the other day and I don't, Oh, that was
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  Speaker 2: you Mark. He asked if I had an opinion on
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  Speaker 2: a chair situation or something, and I was like, I
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  Speaker 2: don't care. I just want to if I don't, I
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  Speaker 2: genuinely really don't care about a lot of decisions that
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  Speaker 2: are day to day stuff, but I want to if
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  Speaker 2: I do care, I want to let myself care without
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  Speaker 2: feeling that I'm doing something wrong by caring, if that
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  Speaker 2: makes sense, Like being assertive and what I want, Like
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  Speaker 2: you want your dress shorterer, I'm gonna say I want
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  Speaker 2: If I want my dress shorder him shorter, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 2: say I want my dress him shorter.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, don't get me wrock for my wedding.
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  Speaker 3: I was very vocal.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Glinda and the wedding are different. But I was
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  Speaker 2: just saying I want to be and I also want
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  Speaker 2: to be just like I want to have like peace,
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  Speaker 2: and I want my relationships to have just a lot
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  Speaker 2: of love and joy and like put time and care
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  Speaker 2: into the relationships that I have. That's what I want
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  Speaker 2: to focus on.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, what do you want to leave behind?
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  Speaker 2: Mm? I don't know. I'll think about it.
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  Speaker 3: Nice.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't know. I was doing like a soul
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  Speaker 2: searching episode Today's. I wasn't prepared.
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  Speaker 3: No, you don't know what I'm gonna throw at you.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, no.
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  Speaker 3: So yeah, wedding planning in twenty twenty six, Well.
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  Speaker 2: I'm sure. I'm sure we'll start like, well, at least
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  Speaker 2: have to start thinking about location and stuff, because I
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  Speaker 2: you have to book that so far in advance.
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  Speaker 3: You really don't.
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  Speaker 2: Oh really, I mean that's what everybody says. You have
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  Speaker 2: did a year out?
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  Speaker 3: We did it five months before.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, well yeah you did do it pretty so stressful
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  Speaker 2: for you. Let's I don't want to be stressed doing
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  Speaker 2: I want to be as least.
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  Speaker 1: Stressed months having that window and trying to choose this one,
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  Speaker 1: then that one was looking rocky for a second. You're
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  Speaker 1: looking at Plan B like that was a stressful time. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: a year out, I feel.
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  Speaker 5: Like it's gonna be a little more chill.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. I saw someone say, like, just go ahead, make
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  Speaker 2: all the decisions, as many decisions as you can. Ride
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  Speaker 2: off the bat and that way, when it gets closer
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  Speaker 2: to the date, you're not scrambling trying to figure out
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  Speaker 2: like last minute details that really aren't, you know, like
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  Speaker 2: the cutlery and stuff like that.
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  Speaker 3: And I also feel like go with your gut is
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  Speaker 3: like the biggest best advice because we went we the
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  Speaker 3: hotel that we got married at, Suscros. After we visited it,
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  Speaker 3: we both robbing and I were like, this feels so us.
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  Speaker 3: Like this, this just felt every part about it, every
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  Speaker 3: spot felt like it was us what we wanted. And
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  Speaker 3: yet we still planned a whole weekend to like tour
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  Speaker 3: other venues. And I feel like, not that it was
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  Speaker 3: a waste, because it was still like fun, but I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: I we knew in our gut that like that was
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  Speaker 3: the ones. I feel like, if you feel it in
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  Speaker 3: your gut, like, listen to that, don't try to challenge it.
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  Speaker 2: I think you listen to it, but then you allowed
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  Speaker 2: yourself to have other options, so you weren't going what if.
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  Speaker 2: I think, that's fine?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, what you've got telling you now?
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  Speaker 2: I literally haven't checked in with her to see I
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  Speaker 2: think I think, what do you think everyone thinks? Hawaii? Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: so predictable, might need to go, might need to pivot
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  Speaker 2: just because everyone thinks it's gonna be St.
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  Speaker 1: Paul, Minnesota, really keeping guessing?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so well, the the decision will be like where
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  Speaker 2: what do we want the backdrop to be? Do we
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  Speaker 2: want it to be ocean? And we wanted to be
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  Speaker 2: trees and mountains? You know, So that's really what it's
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  Speaker 2: gonna come down to, and then trying to find a
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  Speaker 2: place that matches that vibe, which Hawaii does have all
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  Speaker 2: those things.
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  Speaker 3: Did you do La? Could you see yourself getting married?
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  Speaker 2: No? No? Really really? Shall we play games or something? Well?
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  Speaker 1: I have a couple of things. I have a celebrity
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  Speaker 1: birthday game that's specific to today your birthday. And I
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  Speaker 1: also put together some Becca Tilly trivia which we call
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  Speaker 1: Beka tilvia. Wow, that and Tanya could play to see
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  Speaker 1: who knows you better? I assume Tanya does, but you
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  Speaker 1: never know.
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  Speaker 2: Wow, let's do that.
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  Speaker 3: Let's do let's play that game, because then I always
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  Speaker 3: look like such.
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  Speaker 2: A Let's do Let's do one game now and then
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  Speaker 2: maybe at dear Bonia and then another game.
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  Speaker 1: Great, okay, let's start with the trivia.
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  Speaker 5: You'll be fine.
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  Speaker 3: You answers already that would have been that would.
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  Speaker 5: Shashu?
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  Speaker 1: Should we give Easton first guests on these and then
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  Speaker 1: you can clarify if he gets it wrong or vice versa,
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  Speaker 1: or just yell it out. I just yelled at, yelled out, Hey,
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  Speaker 1: Becca Tilly was originally on? Which season of The Bachelor? Numerically?
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  Speaker 2: Oh?
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  Speaker 5: Oh god? Which season? Was it?
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  Speaker 1: Twenty one Easton twenty two nineteen? The answer, so we
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  Speaker 1: give it to Tanya because she was closest.
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  Speaker 2: No one, Okay, nobody got that right. You don't get
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  Speaker 2: a point if you don't get.
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  Speaker 1: A round fair enough? Zero?
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  Speaker 2: Is that? Honestly? Both of you should have known.
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  Speaker 5: All right?
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  Speaker 2: I was on so I it was Chrysals, Yeah, nineteen
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  Speaker 2: season twenty.
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  Speaker 5: All right, how tall is Becca? In inches?
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  Speaker 3: Five?
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  Speaker 1: It's correct, It's not an inches, but that's correct. In
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  Speaker 1: what city was Becca born? Now this one may have
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  Speaker 1: changed because I was an older website. So you can
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  Speaker 1: tell us the answer. How many tattoos does Becca here?
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  Speaker 5: Zero?
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  Speaker 2: Well, so I don't. I don't have anybody. I mean
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  Speaker 2: I technically had two. They had faded, faded, moved, No
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  Speaker 2: I had they were like, uh, they were called like
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  Speaker 2: flesh tone colors or something, and then they like in
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  Speaker 2: the sun and stuff. They just eventually faded of. I'm
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  Speaker 2: so shocked. I never knew this. Wow. I had a
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  Speaker 2: little tiny Jesus fish that was like.
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  Speaker 1: Literally this big and right there on your wrist.
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  Speaker 2: Wrist, and then I had a uh, it looked like
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  Speaker 2: I took lipstick and kissed my wrist right here, so
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  Speaker 2: it was like a lipstick kissing prend.
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  Speaker 1: Wow.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, wow it was. And then my sister and
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  Speaker 2: I got it.
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  Speaker 5: That's cute.
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  Speaker 2: It's gone. My eyebrowser technically tattooed. Yeah there, that's what
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  Speaker 2: I can still say too. I've talked about this before.
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  Speaker 3: Your tattoos a plenty.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. No, I'm not disappearing. I never know you have.
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  Speaker 3: Jesus fish tattoo on your What is this part of your.
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  Speaker 1: Rest risk innerest interest?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, just a reminder. I can't say that you you
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  Speaker 2: could for a long time, you could see it, but
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  Speaker 2: it's fully gone.
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  Speaker 1: Here's a couple more from the questionnaire Becca filled out
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  Speaker 1: when she did the Bachelor. Name any of the four
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  Speaker 1: things Becca lifted on her Bachelor questionnaire as things she
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  Speaker 1: can't live without.
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  Speaker 3: Jesus, wrong, TV, her family, family.
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  Speaker 1: No, TV's family, Yes, TV. I'm going to give it
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  Speaker 1: to you. She said Netflix, I'm going to give you
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  Speaker 1: that one.
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  Speaker 2: What questionnaire is this?
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  Speaker 4: So?
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  Speaker 1: I guess it was five things. There's five things on you.
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  Speaker 1: You got one, you got you got family, and you
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  Speaker 1: got Netflix.
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  Speaker 3: So we can just keep going.
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  Speaker 1: Sleep not on there, Taylor Swift.
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  Speaker 5: Not on there?
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  Speaker 1: Talk about no no, no, food is food is one
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  Speaker 1: of them, which, by the way, she literally can't live.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, water, sleep, I'm what.
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  Speaker 2: This questionnaire is? I have no memory of this.
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  Speaker 1: And then she also said friends not to the TV
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  Speaker 1: show like and Wi Fi? Simple, simple, gal, you said that?
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  Speaker 1: All right, well here's the last one. But you may
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  Speaker 1: not even know this one yourself. On that same questionnaire,
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  Speaker 1: what animal did Becka say she would like to be? Oh?
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  Speaker 2: Dolphin?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know Becca bass All.
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  Speaker 2: I was playing. I was like, what did I say? Why?
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  Speaker 1: Fire?
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  Speaker 2: So? Why my Netflix? Are really strange?
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  Speaker 1: Food? Family, Friends, Wi Fi?
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  Speaker 5: Netflix?
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  Speaker 4: I can we haven't done this before. This is such
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  Speaker 4: a fun idea.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and I can't believe Jesus wasn't on there.
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  Speaker 2: It's just a given. I didn't need to put it
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  Speaker 2: on the questionnaire, right.
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  Speaker 5: That's what he came.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Wow, that was interesting. I wonder how I wonder
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  Speaker 2: if that was for.
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  Speaker 5: What?
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  Speaker 2: What was it? Does it say the source of what
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  Speaker 2: that's wrong?
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  Speaker 5: Well?
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  Speaker 1: I think doesn't everyone have to do that when you
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  Speaker 1: go on The Bachelor?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but I don't know if it's public knowledge. Did
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  Speaker 2: that get.
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  Speaker 1: It's on Bachelor Nation wiki?
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  Speaker 2: Oh? Wow?
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  Speaker 1: Maybe they did and it was from ABC?
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  Speaker 5: Do they got it from ABC dot com?
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  Speaker 2: Oh? They probably used it as like you know when
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  Speaker 2: they do the people's bios and stuff. But how uninteresting
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  Speaker 2: that they use.
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  Speaker 1: Well, so let's keep going since now you don't know.
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  Speaker 5: So your biggest.
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  Speaker 4: Date fear rejection?
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  Speaker 5: Nope?
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  Speaker 1: What did you put for that? One?
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  Speaker 3: Bad kiss?
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  Speaker 2: Her?
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  Speaker 5: No?
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  Speaker 4: Being stood up?
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  Speaker 1: Nope, it's more it's very specific and something happening to her.
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  Speaker 3: Nope, something happening, smelly breath, gas, spilling something on yourself?
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  Speaker 1: No, time is getting real warm though?
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  Speaker 5: Oh a book is it?
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  Speaker 1: No?
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  Speaker 5: No?
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  Speaker 3: No, a fly down her? Fly down?
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  Speaker 5: No? What did you say for that? You're getting warmer?
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  Speaker 3: Bad breath?
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  Speaker 5: No, it wasn't that wasn't.
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  Speaker 1: It bad breath? That wasn't it something in her teeth?
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  Speaker 5: Nope? Her biggest state fear?
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  Speaker 1: You said gas and that's getting starting. Okay, here's what
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  Speaker 1: she said ready back at having stomach issues and clog
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  Speaker 1: up clogging up a toilet like dumb and Dumber?
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  Speaker 2: What did I write this? This is so crazy?
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  Speaker 3: The call back to dumb and Dumber.
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  Speaker 2: Is really like that scene, and then the along came
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  Speaker 2: poly scene like really stuck with me as scenario.
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  Speaker 5: Wow.
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  Speaker 1: By the way, the reason you wanted to be a
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  Speaker 1: dolphin was they're beautiful and supposedly use twenty percent of
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  Speaker 1: their brains.
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  Speaker 5: Brilliant.
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  Speaker 2: Who is this? I mean that's valid though.
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  Speaker 5: If you won the lottery?
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  Speaker 1: What would you do with your winnings buy a house?
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  Speaker 2: Nope, I don't know, probably something complication by my family,
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  Speaker 2: a house or something.
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  Speaker 1: I think we've got enough of it here. I would
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  Speaker 1: give a large portion to my family and then travel.
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  Speaker 1: Exclamation point.
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  Speaker 2: I still.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, you have several most embarrassing moments you shared with
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  Speaker 1: the nice folks at ABC. Can you name any of those?
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  Speaker 2: Was one of them burping in church?
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  Speaker 5: No? The list.
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  Speaker 1: You say you have several, but really you only listed
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  Speaker 1: one one.
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  Speaker 2: What did I list? Oh? My god, this is crazy.
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  Speaker 1: Once I was getting gas, is that ring any bells?
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  Speaker 2: No?
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  Speaker 1: And the guy asked what kind of gas would you like?
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  Speaker 1: And I thought he said, what kind of guys do
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  Speaker 1: you like? So I responded to all dark and handsome,
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  Speaker 1: and he just stared at me and repeated the question.
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  Speaker 5: This is so weird.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like that never happened to you.
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  Speaker 2: That does actually sound from but I'm just saying like that.
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  Speaker 2: That's my most embarrassing moment that I'm.
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  Speaker 3: Wow, you know, a simple Wi Fi Netflix friends.
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  Speaker 2: Are Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: One more from the questionnaire, what is your greatest achievement
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  Speaker 1: to date at that point?
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  Speaker 5: And you said.
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  Speaker 2: Being an aunt?
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  Speaker 1: No, no, any guesses the question the greatest achievement.
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  Speaker 2: Getting to the show. Greatest graduated.
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  Speaker 1: Staying in California and living alone when my sister and
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  Speaker 1: brother in law went back home.
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  Speaker 2: I was very proud of that because the I would
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  Speaker 2: have had a very It was hard and I think
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  Speaker 2: I I at that point, had never done anything that
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  Speaker 2: was super independent on my own, So I think that
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  Speaker 2: was a big deal because I had to just like
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  Speaker 2: live with people that I didn't know very well and
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  Speaker 2: figure it out and it was I felt very proud
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  Speaker 2: of that.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I should have guessed that all right.
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  Speaker 2: So they could. I couldn't have even guessed this myself.
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  Speaker 2: Those are challenging, I feel like I was listening to
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  Speaker 2: a stranger cog. That's craz That was weird to think
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  Speaker 2: about it.
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  Speaker 3: You were how old when she was feeling when you
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  Speaker 3: were feeling that out twenty twenty five?
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  Speaker 5: Wow?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I was like a totally different person at twenty five.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah that was twelve years ago.
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  Speaker 3: Wow.
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  Speaker 4: You know where they say every seven years, like every
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  Speaker 4: cell in your body has regenerated, so you like biologically
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  Speaker 4: are a different person.
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  Speaker 2: I'm nearly two different people. That is crazy. It is
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  Speaker 2: so funny. You know when people are like, oh you've changed,
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  Speaker 2: it's like thank god, like same. I'm glad to hear that.
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  Speaker 2: Glad I haven't stayed the same in every way. Wow,
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  Speaker 2: that was fascinating.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, shall we take a break and do it, dear Bonia.
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  Speaker 2: Let's do it here and there. All right, we are
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  Speaker 2: back with some dear.
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  Speaker 1: Bonya Jordans, says hi Becca easton Marcantania. Sorry, Tanya, I
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  Speaker 1: am new to dating women, and I need some help
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  Speaker 1: for context. I'm a twenty five year old woman and
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  Speaker 1: I've known I've had an interest in women for years.
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  Speaker 1: Last year I took the leap and officially started going
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  Speaker 1: on dates with them. I'm so used to dating guys
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  Speaker 1: and following the typical dating rules, like the guy paying
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  Speaker 1: for dates or opening car doors or leaning in for
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  Speaker 1: the first came when dating women, how do you know
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  Speaker 1: who does what? I feel like there's been several dates
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  Speaker 1: that have been awkward in these normal dating situations. I've
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  Speaker 1: been on two dates with a girl recently, and I
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  Speaker 1: think we're both too scared to initiate the first kiss.
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  Speaker 5: Help.
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  Speaker 1: I love this podcast so much, so thank you for
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  Speaker 1: being amazing. Love you all, Jordan.
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  Speaker 2: It's so funny.
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  Speaker 3: I'm curious this too.
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  Speaker 2: To be honest, I my whole thing is, I'm so
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  Speaker 2: limited on my experience because I Haley's the only person
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  Speaker 2: I've been I didn't even go on dates. I didn't
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  Speaker 2: have like the typical dating experience in terms of but.
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  Speaker 3: You still were dating her early on.
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  Speaker 2: I know, but I'm saying, like I it wasn't I
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  Speaker 2: was going on dates and like meeting different women and
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  Speaker 2: then not knowing how to handle it. But it's funny
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  Speaker 2: because my whole life I was very much a gender
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  Speaker 2: role specific of like the guy does this, you don't
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  Speaker 2: like I don't do this because that's a guy's role,
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  Speaker 2: and there was almost something so freeing for me. I
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  Speaker 2: think when I started dating Haley that I was like, Oh,
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: I can do what I want, Like I can make
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: the first move or I can buy her flowers without
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: having to feel like there was this like gender role assignment,
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: which I don't like anyways. And I think you just
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: go for what you feel because even when there's two
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: like let's say this email is coming from someone who
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: is dating guys. If she was scared to ask him
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: out or scared to make a first move, but she
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: could feel that there was chemistry there, what would we say.
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: We would be like, just go for it. What's the
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: worst that could happen there's no chemistry or it doesn't
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: work out, then you move on. You know, you've only
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: been on two dates. So if you're feeling it and
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: it's what you want to do, I say, just go
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: for it and don't get in your head so much
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: about the role of what of which things someone's supposed
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: to do? You know, Yeah, I feel like you would
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: thrive dating women in your modern woman the sense, like
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: you would just be like I think.
• 17:56
  Speaker 3: I thrived up dating men in my modern woman's sense,
• 17:59
  Speaker 3: like I always just did what I wanted. I was
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: never shy about anything like if I wanted to initiate
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: the first kiss, if I want to say I love
• 18:05
  Speaker 3: you first, like I just did it.
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: And my thing with the anything that's like a gender role,
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: which I assume would be like paying for a day,
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: who pays on days, who opens the door. I always
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: was just like I'm gonna do what I would want
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: someone to do for me, regardless of if a man
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: or woman. So I in certain ways like Haley courts
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: me and in other ways I court Hailey. Like there's
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: just it was never this like specific role that one
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: of us was a sign we I always say when
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: it comes to like stuff at the house, trash, she
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: always is like, I'll do the trash, like take out
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: the trash, and I'm like, yeah, that's a man's job.
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: I don't do that, but that's trash too.
• 18:45
  Speaker 3: We actually don't have those at all with either. Yeah,
• 18:49
  Speaker 3: he cook's eye clean. We both take out the trash
• 18:52
  Speaker 3: and it's full. Like there's a couple of things that
• 18:55
  Speaker 3: like are a little bit more like Tanya primary versus
• 18:58
  Speaker 3: like Robbie primary, Like I'm not going to be like
• 19:00
  Speaker 3: fixing like knobs and stuff their skills like that was
• 19:04
  Speaker 3: just yeah, like that he enjoys doing that. I enjoy
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: doing laundry, you know. So it's just kind of we
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: just like shifted into those roles.
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: That's how we are. It's like, what where do you?
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: What are the things that you enjoy more? What are
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: the things I enjoy more? We have to get certain
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: things done, so we both do them. So it's not
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: really gender. It's not a specific thing as as much
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: as it is just a personality type thing. So I
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: would just kind of try to let go of those
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: thoughts and traditions of what things are supposed to be
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: and just lean into the fact that you're spending time
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: with someone that you enjoy enough to go on another
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: date with, and that you have interest in kissing, and
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: if you want to kiss her, then kiss her.
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: Excellent advice. I want to read this one from anonymous,
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: although she points out her pronouns or she her, which
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: I appreciate.
• 19:51
  Speaker 5: That's helpful.
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: Thank you, beca how appropriate for today? Hello Becka Easton
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: Marcantania point on, thank you for such a wonderful podcast.
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: The truly is hard to be in a bad mood
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: when listening to your episodes. I listened attentively to all
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: the Dear Bonya episodes, and it's almost always a treat
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: when it feels like the advice applies to me. I
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: say almost always, because sometimes the advice is a little
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: too good and it makes me realize I have to
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: do something hard that I don't want to do. Case
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: in point, I've known I'm queer for a while, but
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: haven't told my parents because it didn't feel like I
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: had to. I didn't really talk to them about my
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: dating life anyway, but that changed when I had a
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: couple of conversations about transgender people with my dad that
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: were really painful for me. I feel passionately in solidarity
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: with trans folks in their struggles to live without oppression.
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: There's a reason that all the parts of LGBTQ plus
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: are under the same umbrella. Since I'd had these conversations
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: with my dad where he doubted trans people's needs, I
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: felt really uncomfortable being around him, which was super sad
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: for me because he and I are pretty close. I'd
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: always get upset having the conversations, but didn't want to
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: tell him why.
• 20:52
  Speaker 5: It was so personal to me.
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: It felt like I'd be handing over my agency to him,
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: since I wanted to tell my parents I was queer
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: under celebratory, not painful circumstances. But as the months wore
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: on and so did my resentment, I realized they had
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: to take Becca's advice and stride. The sooner you tell
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: your loved ones who you are, the sooner the healing
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: process can start. Yesterday I called my dad and told
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: him that I'm queer and that the conversations we had
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: about trans people made me uncomfortable around him. I had
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: jotted down some notes to myself to help me get
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: through the call, and one of them said, Becca Tilly
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: says that the sooner you do it, the sooner you
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: start the healing process. Thankfully, he responded really well, with
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: lots of apologies and love. I told my mom a
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: few months ago, so they both know now. Thank you
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: so much, Beca, for being so open about the hard
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: parts of family relationships and forgiving me the courage I
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: needed to reach out a hand in mind, in mind,
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: and thank you all for being so caring and for
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: putting wise words out into the ether where they find
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: folks who need to hear them. Ah, My love, A
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: grateful scrubber.
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: Man I'm so happy that you. To me, that's so
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: brave to have a hard conversation like that kind of
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: hear the truth of where your dad stood with you know,
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: trans people, and being able to also not only share
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: the such a huge part of who you are, but
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: also acknowledge that what he said hurt you like that
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: shows the relationship that you have with your family. And
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: obviously what a way he responded, I know, beyond like
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: I know that that we shouldn't be impressed by the
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: bare minimum, but for him to acknowledge his part in
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: hurting you and and also accepting you is such a
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: honestly rare gift that a lot of people don't have.
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: So I'm so happy it went well. And I'm so
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: proud of you because you not only shared something very
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: personal and such a big part of yourself, but you
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: also held him accountable and hopefully moving forward there's more
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: openness and being able to share the reasons why you
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: stand for what you stand for. And I am just
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: so incredibly proud of you, and I'm so honored that
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: I had anything to do with that.
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that was such a beautiful story, like bottom middle end,
• 23:05
  Speaker 3: I know, just like yeah.
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: And hopeful and it makes you, I think.
• 23:09
  Speaker 6: It like you do something so scary and it turned
• 23:12
  Speaker 6: out so well, I know, and now you don't have
• 23:15
  Speaker 6: to tiptoe around or feel like you're walking on eggshells
• 23:18
  Speaker 6: around you know, your parents.
• 23:20
  Speaker 3: And I feel like a lot of people keep stuff
• 23:22
  Speaker 3: in because they're scared of like the responds and this
• 23:25
  Speaker 3: response was so great.
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, there are so many people who just get influenced
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: by media, podcasts, friends, relatives, whoever it is, and they
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: develop these feelings about trans people, are gay people, or
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: whatever it is. But then when it happens in their family,
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: when it's their child, their grandchild, everything changes and they realize,
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: you know what.
• 23:45
  Speaker 5: It's not a big deal.
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: I wish everybody could imagine what it would be like
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: for it to be in their family, because then maybe
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: they wouldn't have these feelings to begin with. But some
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: people have the journey they have to go on. So
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: I think you have to give people grace.
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: And unfortunately, sometimes it doesn't change anything, you know, And
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: that's the truth. And I think that when you choose
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: to share these things, like for anyone who's listening who
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: thinks like that might not be my story, that's okay,
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: and you still you should do it when you're ready
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: and you are prepared for all outcomes, because sometimes it
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: doesn't go as smooth and they're not as accepting. But
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: I think that there's so much beauty and just being
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: able to share it with you and at least at
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: the very least it makes them think. It makes them think, Yeah,
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: it might not change anything, it might not go in
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: the direction you hope for, but it puts like a
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: little rock in their shoe where they will think about
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: it differently because it's someone that they love. So thank
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: you Anonymous for sharing that was really really special. We
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: love you, we love you. I'm proud of you, and
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: we love you and I love you. Okay, we will
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: be back with Tanya's favorite game, Yes, the birthday game
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: that she rarely wins but loves to play. Anyway, that
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: story all right, we are back with another game.
• 25:18
  Speaker 5: Well, a couple.
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: Would you rather before we play the game back? Would
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: you rather open presence in front of everyone or have
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: to make a speech at your party?
• 25:28
  Speaker 3: Speech?
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: I think speech.
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: Would you rather get a surprise appearance from Taylor Swift
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: or a heartfelt handwritten letter from Haley.
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: Like for my birthday, a surprise appearance from Taylor Swift.
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: The sheer length that took you to answer that is disturbing.
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: Would you rather have your friends roast you or give
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: you a sappy tribute?
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: Roast? Woo?
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: I probably roast is fun in the the first couple
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: of jokes I have being like.
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: I want to Yeah, they could go a little too.
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Would you rather have to eat only cake all
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: day on your birthday?
• 26:09
  Speaker 5: Or not be allowed to eat cake at all?
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: Do you have other sweets? Can I have other sets? No?
• 26:15
  Speaker 3: It's either all cake all day or no cake at all?
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: No sweets, you think because you have pie, because candy.
• 26:23
  Speaker 5: Donut?
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: If I can have other sweets, I'll say no cake
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: at all?
• 26:26
  Speaker 5: All right?
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: And would you rather have a birthday dinner with your
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: younger self or your eighty.
• 26:31
  Speaker 5: Year old self?
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: My younger self?
• 26:38
  Speaker 5: To give her advice?
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: Just to have a chit chat with her little shot
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: investment tips? Yeah, I just yeah, some investment tips and
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: just to really think about her answers and the questionnaire
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: for ABC.
• 26:55
  Speaker 4: Some castide people are gonna ask you some questions.
• 26:57
  Speaker 5: Think about that.
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah, just give some better answers, all right?
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: Here we go a birthday game, so I limited it
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: to today and then time you got mad. So we're
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: gonna do the whole weekend. Here we go, Bay, how
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: old turning?
• 27:10
  Speaker 5: Today?
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: It's this we're starting with huh.
• 27:12
  Speaker 5: Always start with you.
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: Here.
• 27:14
  Speaker 5: We're gonna tell you.
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: Becky Easton, all right, Matthew Morrison from Glee, Matthew.
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: Morrison is the same birthdays, same.
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: Birthday as you. Congratulations?
• 27:24
  Speaker 5: How old is he today?
• 27:25
  Speaker 3: Forty eight? Today?
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: He's not Becca?
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: Oh he? I think he's probably forty four.
• 27:31
  Speaker 5: Forty four Easton?
• 27:33
  Speaker 4: He is forty three?
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: Is forty seven? That's the point for Tommy.
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: Wow.
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: I was gonna say forty seven, wow, and then I
• 27:41
  Speaker 3: thought she's a little older.
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: How about Janelle Parish? Remember Janelle Parish? Pretty little liar's
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: got to seek great God to keep bat.
• 27:49
  Speaker 5: How old is she? Thirty?
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: Guy?
• 27:52
  Speaker 5: Becca?
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: Thirty eight, thirty eight?
• 27:57
  Speaker 4: Easton thirty seven.
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: Years thirty seven?
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: Very nice.
• 28:04
  Speaker 3: I would have said thirty nine. Anyway, No, we heard.
• 28:08
  Speaker 5: Easton?
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: How old? It's Henry Winkler today. He was the Fox,
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: he was in Barry, he was in lots of fun stuff.
• 28:16
  Speaker 4: Henry Winkler is.
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: Seventy five, Okay, Tanya seventy nine, Becca.
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: Eighty one.
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: He is eighty today. I have to give it to
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: Tanya because she went.
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: Over who was losing? Oh oh, I see, I'll.
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: Only enforced the going over prices right role in the
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: case of a time. Gavin Rossdale from Bush. This is yours,
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: Tanya Gavin Rossdale formally married to Gwen Stefani. How old
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: is he today?
• 28:52
  Speaker 3: Fifty four?
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: Becca fifty six? Easton fifty five sixty that's a that's
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: the point right there.
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, although I don't like him.
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, nanny issues there. Birthday final one from today and
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: then we move on to tomorrow. Model Ashley Graham. Ashley
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: Graham's been on our show. I do believe, yes, not
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: me this Easton? No, this is yeah, this is Becca Yeah,
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: Ashley Graham.
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: Yep, Ashley Graham is she's probably yeah, she's I'm gonna
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: go forty one.
• 29:25
  Speaker 5: Forty one Easton.
• 29:27
  Speaker 4: Uh, I think she's younger than me. Oh so that
• 29:32
  Speaker 4: makes her thirty four Tanya.
• 29:35
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna guess thirty five.
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: She is thirty eight today. Oh my god, what did
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: you say? Forty forty one and Houston thirty five. So
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: with the tie and Tanya went under Oh wow, Tanya
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: three Becca one Easton one, as we go to tomorrow's birthday.
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: Tomorrow is Willow Smith's birthday?
• 29:53
  Speaker 5: Easton?
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: How old is Willow Smith?
• 29:55
  Speaker 5: Tomorrow?
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: Will Smith is twenty two? Okay, Tanya, this is tough.
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: Twenty four Becca twenty.
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: Three, twenty five is running away with this one. Yeah,
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: it's not over yet. Do I have a lot of
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: four to one to one tough to be? Well, we'll
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: see Becca vanilla Ice has a birthday tomorrow.
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: He sure does.
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: Rolling It is five point zero with the top wreck
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: top down so his hair can blow.
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I was thinking about. I'm gonna say
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: fifty six.
• 30:39
  Speaker 5: He's not fifty six Easton.
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: Uh, he is fifty one, okay, Tanya, noa, that's the one.
• 30:48
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna say forty nine.
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: He's fifty eight point with Becca, and I feel like
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: a comeback is starting. Wow Easton too one two three
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: one two three, Uh, this is Becca's I just went
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: you did Easton Dermott mulroney.
• 31:02
  Speaker 4: Who's that remember of Hunting Wives?
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: Hunting Wives my best friend's wedding?
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Dermott.
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: He was in Must Love Dogs. Yeah, you know him.
• 31:12
  Speaker 3: From the main guy from my best friend's wedding.
• 31:14
  Speaker 5: He's the guy. Yeah, the other one, the.
• 31:17
  Speaker 3: One who's getting married, the one who's best friend. He's
• 31:19
  Speaker 3: Julie Roberts's best friend. Yes, okay, got it.
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: How old is he?
• 31:22
  Speaker 5: Easton?
• 31:23
  Speaker 4: Let's see, and if you're my mom, he is not
• 31:25
  Speaker 4: Benjamin Bratt. We are getting to a lot of our
• 31:29
  Speaker 4: Dermott mulroney is sixty four.
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: Sixty four, Tanya sixty one, Becca fifty nine, sixty two. Tanya, yay,
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: that maybe the dagger, but we'll keep going. Tanya, Penn badgely.
• 31:47
  Speaker 5: Star of you.
• 31:49
  Speaker 3: He's thirty eight.
• 31:49
  Speaker 5: He's thirty eight.
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: Becca thirty nine.
• 31:56
  Speaker 5: He is thirty nine.
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: Very nice.
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: Easton, No wait, I'm all confected. Who Becky Jenny McCarthy
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: on Saturday has a birthday?
• 32:06
  Speaker 5: How old is she turning?
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: Jenny McCarthy, she's.
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: Forty eight, forty eight. Easton, she's fifty two, all right, Tanya,
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: fifty fifty three.
• 32:22
  Speaker 5: That's the point for Easton, Thank god. Easton.
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: How about Tim Cook, the CEO of Apple Apple CEO,
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: Tim Cook.
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: We have any visuals he's about to step down. Give
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: me a friend.
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: He's a major deal in this world. Yes, alright, I'm
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: giving you a photo of Tim Cook.
• 32:43
  Speaker 5: All right, there he is, that's Tim Cook right there?
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, all right?
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: How old is Tim Cook?
• 32:49
  Speaker 4: Tim Cook? Tim Cook is? He is a sixty eight?
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: Okay, Tanya seventy five, Becca sixty five.
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: He's sixty five.
• 33:04
  Speaker 5: Now and we have a game.
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: Kanya has five, Becca has four, Easton has twos.
• 33:11
  Speaker 5: I'm telling you it's gonna be closed. Now.
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: We go to I don't know who do we go
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: doing this?
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: One? Know me?
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: Tanya on Sunday? It is David Schwimmer's birthday. How old
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: is David Schwimmer?
• 33:25
  Speaker 3: Fifty four?
• 33:26
  Speaker 5: She says, fifty four. We go to Becca fifty two,
• 33:32
  Speaker 5: fifty two and Easton fifty six.
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: He's fifty nine. That's the point for Easton. Rebecca is
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: still in this. I may need more names now, let's
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: just end it now. I think I'm going to have
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: one more here, and then I have to find another
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: one because then we're, you know, we have the three
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: with the rounds.
• 33:52
  Speaker 3: I think everybody say, I ay.
• 33:57
  Speaker 5: I mus stop the count all right?
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: Beca Yeah, Nelly has a birthday of this weekend?
• 34:03
  Speaker 5: Howel is Nelly?
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  Speaker 2: WHOA Nelly is fifty one.
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: She's saying Nelly is fifty one and he is fifty one.
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: And it is now tied at five apiece, and I
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: have one more name for you, and this will be
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: the tiebreaker. I do a little obscure on this, but
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: I think this person might have been on our show.
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: So obscure Easton, you'll start on this one, okay, Paramo Brown,
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: Karama Brown, he has wey yep uh Karamo.
• 34:38
  Speaker 4: Is he was just on? Are you Charlotte?
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: Another will determine it right here, unless eastern winds, then
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: I might have to find another name.
• 34:44
  Speaker 4: Karamo is uh Karama's forty.
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: Nine, forty nine, all right, Tanya forty three, forty three,
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: Becca forty five.
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  Speaker 5: We have a winner.
• 34:58
  Speaker 3: Who is it?
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: Karama Brown on Sunday is turning forty four? Tie goes
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: to Tanya underneath and Kanya okay, Nail, that.
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: Really was It was exciting.
• 35:19
  Speaker 3: I'd like to thank my brain for being so honest
• 35:25
  Speaker 3: today and my guessing and my gut ability to go under,
• 35:29
  Speaker 3: to always go under.
• 35:30
  Speaker 2: Yes, it's a good lesson in life. Always go under.
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: Okay, stop, we have to stop. I made a mistake.
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: But what how old is he?
• 35:42
  Speaker 5: I'm sorry, forty five.
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: Yes, he's thirty forty five.
• 35:46
  Speaker 5: Becca is actually the winner. I'm sorry. I'll explain.
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: On this website it says their current age, so it
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: lift says Karamo Brown forty four.
• 35:55
  Speaker 5: I forgot to add the woman. He's turning forty.
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: Five on Sunday. So Becca got it exactly. You're right,
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: and she on her birthday has won the celebrity birthday
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: and that comeback of the year.
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: I would like to think Mark stupid.
• 36:13
  Speaker 5: La Land of the birthday game.
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: That was the best gift to add.
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: Shoot, dang, I apologize. It was an honest mistake. I
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: do that a lot. I just gotta add one, so
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: it's one.
• 36:30
  Speaker 2: More the chances. Thank you everyone.
• 36:37
  Speaker 4: I never forget this moment.
• 36:39
  Speaker 3: I was writing such a high I'm gonna to make
• 36:42
  Speaker 3: so many decisions today. My gut is good, like but.
• 36:45
  Speaker 5: It's be his birthday.
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: You gotta be happy for her.
• 36:50
  Speaker 3: Not okay, I gotta go.
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: She's mad. Her life. Advice is still always going on.
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: Always go under, but you might lose if you do that.
• 37:02
  Speaker 3: Sometimes you gotta go over.
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, everybody, Well, thank you for the birthday celebration.
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: Thank you for the victory. Thanks for the weird questionnaire
• 37:13
  Speaker 2: that I have in the past. That was good and
• 37:17
  Speaker 2: I love you all.
• 37:18
  Speaker 3: Happy, happy birthday, Happy