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- Lisa Wilson: I went through my whole life thinking that tarot card readings were total scams. I thought it was just something you did at like the state carnival where a lady predicted your future, but she also somehow got your credit card number and your mother's maiden name, right? But listen, I had a tarot card reading and it is seriously. Coming true. Month by month, my friends are sending me text messages asking me what the latest prediction is and if it came true. Like my group chat is on fire over my tarot card readings. But that, you know, makes me ask the question: can someone really predict our future? I don't know, but man, I want to talk about it. Let's get into it. So you have been into psychic readings, tarot readings, Reiki readings Lisa S: Mm-hmm. Lisa Wilson: for a long, long time. Like as long Lisa S: Mm-hmm. Lisa Wilson: as I've known you. What is the most accurate reading you've ever had? And did it just blow your mind? Lisa S: my gosh. Okay, so I've had quite a few that are very, very accurate. That I can say hands down, I almost felt like it wasn't like couldn't be this accurate. Couldn't nobody would have been able to predict what actually was going to unfold. But the one that I think probably comes to mind the most is I mean, this was years ago. Lisa Wilson: So it's a tarot reading. Just okay. Lisa S: A tarot reading, yes. Sorry. So a tarot reading I had with a a new tarot reader. Okay. So I've had many in my life. I mean, I've gone to bookstores and had them done. I've gone to little, you know, tarot shops and had them done. Like all different types of tarot readings. I've had them done over the phone, things like that. But Lisa Wilson: Mm. Lisa S: I was referred to this amazing. Amazing woman. And it was my first reading with her. And she did like a 12-month out tarot reading. So, like month by month, what would happen month by month? And you know, the first like six months, I was like, I could see that happening. I could see that happening. yeah, yeah, yeah. And then, like at the six-month mark, it was like my life was like. Gonna be blown up. And there was all this conspiracy happening in this company that I was working in at the time. And basically I was, people were planning my demise, like planning my exit. Okay. Plotting, yes. Lisa Wilson: Plotting, they were plotting against you. Lisa S: And I was like, there is no way that's gonna happen. Like I was, I was at the top of my game in that moment. I like at least I felt I was. I felt like I had Allah, like I just felt like I was like not gonna be the person that was gonna be on the outside of the conversation or or pretty much yeah, d being dismantled. so I didn't believe it. I didn't believe it at all. And sure enough, I I mean, and I told friends about it. I Lisa Wilson: Yeah. Lisa S: and they were just like, no way, like. She got it wrong. Like she must have been reading somebody else. Like it was totally not accurate. It was so accurate that it was month by month, like at that six-month mark, no joke. Everything that happened was completely just unfolded right in front of my eyes. And I think after the first like two or three like major events that she had. talked about happened, I said, okay, let me look at the rest, right? Like let me ref like refresh myself. And I'm going to tell you that helped me know what was going to unfold, I think. I Lisa Wilson: Mm. Lisa S: mean it as sad as it was at the time, I was like, okay, like this is happening. Like it's Lisa Wilson: You're like Lisa S: it's in motion, right? Like Lisa Wilson: This this too shall pass. Right. Lisa S: Yeah, like and I knew it. And as again, as heartbreaking as it was to see everything like fall, those cards fall. it helped me kind of like go, okay, like this was supposed to happen. Like this was actually predicted a year ago, which is insane. Yeah. Lisa Wilson: It is insane. the thing that I find so funny is that Lisa S: Mm-hmm. Lisa Wilson: my and you're on this group chat, so you know, but like my friends are all like every month someone is like, Okay, what happened la like what was supposed to happen last month? Let's look at it. Lisa S: Yeah. Lisa Wilson: Send me screenshots and I'll put the screenshots up. Like people get there, people our friends are very excited about the tarot readings in general. Lisa S: Mm-hmm. Lisa Wilson: But when I asked them, like, do you want this person's contact? Do you want to have this done? They all, every single one of them said, absolutely not. Lisa S: Why are they are they scared they don't want to know? Or Lisa Wilson: They don't want to know their future. Lisa S: okay, that's totally opposite. I am very opposite. I like to have a guide. I like Lisa Wilson: Yeah. Lisa S: to know, like, hey, your life Lisa Wilson: Yeah. Lisa S: is gonna, you know, be so exciting or whatever. Cause sometimes I think we get like in this rut of is my life ever going to look different, feel different, be different. And I just Lisa Wilson: Yeah. Lisa S: kind of like to have like, I don't know, a snapshot into maybe Lisa Wilson: Yeah. Lisa S: what could come down the pipe. What about Lisa Wilson: Yeah. Lisa S: like how but you are a new tarot. You're Lisa Wilson: Yeah. Lisa S: you're a baby tarot. Lisa Wilson: I'm a baby tarot and I was a big skeptic. Like today's question Lisa S: Mm. Lisa Wilson: is can someone actually predict your future? So let's do our let's do our get to know you. Are you ready? Lisa S: Ooh, okay, yeah. Lisa Wilson: Okay, so let me ask you, if a tarot reader could tell you the exact date you were gonna die, would you wanna know? Lisa S: Yeah, I think so. Yeah. Lisa Wilson: I'm a hard no. I'm a hard no on knowing the day I'm gonna die. Lisa S: Yeah, I think I think I would because I think it would make me live bigger. Lisa Wilson: Yeah. Lisa S: I think. yeah, yeah. Mm-hmm. Lisa Wilson: Yeah, I'm a I'm a no because like I am I am positive that when I die it's gonna start with fuck it. Lisa S: Huh. Lisa Wilson: Like I'm positive. And if I Lisa S: No no. Lisa Wilson: if I know the day that I'm gonna sit like do that big moment where it's the end, Lisa S: Yeah. Lisa Wilson: you know, like it's funny because at work, you know, people like we work with a large aged group and people pass away a lot because we have like, you know, a hundred thousand employees. And it's always like no one ever dies of like a shark attack, right? It's like someone dies at their desk, like Working on last month's report. And I just think Lisa S: Yeah. Lisa Wilson: that's the saddest thing ever. Like, I wanna. You're right. Lisa S: That's why I would want to know because I would want like I truly believe that I it like say it was like a year from now. Lisa Wilson: Yeah. Lisa S: My next year would look very different, I think. If it's 20 years from now, I think I would plan differently as well. So yeah, I if somebody could tell me Lisa Wilson: Think Lisa S: that, I'd be like, heck yeah. Lisa Wilson: I think you're right. I'm gonna I'm gonna switch my vote to yes, maybe. I'm not a hundred percent. I'm a big chicken. Yeah. Yeah. Yep. I know, Lisa S: And we could be like in full glam on that day. We'd be ready, like wearing cute jammies or whatever. Lisa Wilson: like do you die in your it do you is your ghost outfit what you were dyed in? Cause then I'm Lisa S: Yeah, I don't know. See? Lisa Wilson: going tennis shoes, socks and sweatpants. Lisa S: Yeah. I'd be in full glam probably. Lisa Wilson: Nope. Not if I'm traipsing around forever in this shit. No way. when I did my tarot reading, I did I was kind of in a slump, right? So Lisa S: Yeah. Lisa Wilson: I've talked about this for the first six months. So you guys go back and find the episodes if you want to know details. But I had just all the things I had normally done were not working to get me out of this slump, right? I was unemployed. I was Lisa S: Mm-hmm. Yeah. Mm-hmm. Lisa Wilson: un I was not self-confident for the first time in my professional life. Lisa S: Mm-hmm. Lisa Wilson: Like I just I didn't know what to do. And I was getting all these weird signs from the universe. Like Lisa S: Mm-hmm. Lisa Wilson: and I just, you know, I didn't understand what those meant. But I was just completely lost. And I was like, okay, I need to figure something out. And I was talking to you about it because I had exhausted all my like regular stuff. And you Lisa S: Yeah. Lisa Wilson: suggested a tarot. Why would you have suggested tarot over the other things we could have tried? Lisa S: Well, there was a lot of stuff on the table. I think we were talking about like, I was like, you could have like, let's get your chakras aligned, like, let's Lisa Wilson: Yeah. Lisa S: get you in front of a psychic. Let's do this. Let's do that. And then tarot just seemed to me the mo the least amount of super woo that I think you were going to accept. Because Lisa Wilson: Yeah. Lisa S: you definitely are are someone who. Is a skeptic of all things woo, pretty much, or has been. I think you're Lisa Wilson: Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Lisa S: coming around to the other side for sure. Lisa Wilson: It's way more Woo is way more fun than meh what it is what it is. Like there's no Lisa S: It's way more fun. Lisa Wilson: there's no strategy with it is what it is. With woo, you're like anything's possible. Lisa S: Yeah. There you go. So I was like, you know, hey, why don't you just try it? I just thought, hey, what what's it gonna hurt? It Lisa Wilson: Yeah. Lisa S: wasn't like it was going to break your bank to do it either, right? Lisa Wilson: Yeah. Lisa S: And so it was something that was affordable. And at the end Lisa Wilson: Yeah. Lisa S: of the day, if you believe it, believe it. If you don't, you don't. And that's fine. That's fine. Yeah. Lisa Wilson: So I had nothing to lose at that point. Like again, I was unemployed. I had no prospects. So I I went in very skeptical. And I was doing everything I could. I was like, don't give her my last name. I Lisa S: Mm-hmm. Lisa Wilson: I didn't go in person. Because I didn't want to give off any body language or facial. Lisa S: Mm. Lisa Wilson: And Lisa's like, it's fine. It's over the phone. I'm like, well, then how great can it be over the phone? I mean, what what a what a hypocrite, right? But I'm like, okay. So then I I get on the call. Again, you guys, the bar was so low. I was like, all right. And I said, hey, can I record this? Because my I have the memory of a ferret. I forget everything two minutes after and I wanted to be present. You know, I wanted to be in the moment. And she was Lisa S: Yeah, yeah. Lisa Wilson: like, Yeah, yeah, of course, record it. That's fine. And you guys, so throughout the entire reading, Lisa S: Mm-mm. Lisa Wilson: like I there were things that she was saying that it was like, This is not about me. This is about my husband. And this is not Lisa S: Mm-hmm. Lisa Wilson: his reading. So stop talking about him. Like, what about me? What about my reading? This is supposed to be Lisa S: You're like, what about me? I called you for me. Lisa Wilson: about me. so she does this whole 12 months. Lisa S: Hmm. Lisa Wilson: And I'm like, yeah, 90% of that. I'm like, I have no idea what you're talking about, lady. But I'm gonna give you guys like for me, proof. I want proof that this is true. So I'm gonna give you guys a couple of specific examples. And remember, we did not know each other. I had no connection to this person. We were not looking at each other face to face. We were, I was literally writing and recording the call, and she was talking. So the first thing she says, and I did this in April of 26. So I did it April Lisa S: Mm-hmm. Lisa Wilson: of this year. First thing she says for May is that she gives me the Six of Wands card, which again, I don't know any of the cards mean, so I'm not gonna spend a lot of time on that. But what she did say was that you are gonna have so much money coming your way. People are literally just gonna be throwing money at you. And I'm Probably not. Like nobody's called me back like the Lisa S: You're like, I'm kind of an unemployed like Lisa Wilson: The people that normally called me stopped calling me back. Like you guys, it was it was dark. Like I really did Lisa S: It was like a desert. It was like a dry desert in the moment. And so when her when she's saying you're just gonna be like rolling in cash, I can Lisa Wilson: Yeah. Lisa S: see how you were probably like, what? Lisa Wilson: I like, no. But then listen, what happened? I got, I got literally week one of May, Lisa S: Mm. Lisa Wilson: I get a phone call from someone I've never met that was like, hey, your name came to me as someone that is gonna help like help me with my organization. You're gonna help fix my problems. And I was like, well, I mean, yeah, but you know, my rate is non-negotiable. She's like, I don't care, I need your help. Lisa S: Yeah, and isn't it more money than you've made and Yeah. Okay. So so Lisa Wilson: Right? Lisa S: the so the money conversation was true. So month one check. Okay. Okay. Lisa Wilson: Absolutely. Month one check. So then the next one is the the Hierophant card. And if I'm saying that incorrectly, I apologize. the July card basically is you're gonna have an influential person is going to take you under their wing and is going to help you grow like It's gonna help you and develop you and it's gonna grow into something bigger. And I was like, I'm the most influential person I know, but sure. Okay. And I you guys literally Lisa S: influence crap over here. So Lisa Wilson: You influence me all the time. we influence each other. Lisa S: So we were like you were like, and that's not accurate either, right? Lisa Wilson: So it turns out, yes. And so for the podcast, it turns out that we decided we were gonna do the help I needed an adult series, which is gonna require actual adults come and answer questions and help us. so I had to go find people to come and talk to us on our podcast, which at the time had like 25 followers and 25 subscribers on YouTube. I mean Who would want to come and talk to us, right? So let me just tell you, I we Lisa S: But you did you got some great people? Lisa Wilson: got everybody that came on was Lisa S: So great. Yeah. Lisa Wilson: self-established, a leader in their industry, had huge massive followings of their own, and showed up authentically and genuine. And I mean, you guys like I if you would tell me today that that would have happened, I would have called you a liar to your face. Right? Lisa S: Mm-hmm. That was pretty impressive. It was pretty impressive. Lisa Wilson: And like it came out of Take Your Swing Tuesday, which is every Tuesday I email like a celebrity or somebody we wanna talk to. And I'm like, hey, you wanna come on our podcast? And nobody ever responds. Lisa S: We've got twenty five people who watch it every week. Lisa Wilson: Yeah, but in July, they all responded. Lisa S: They did. Yep. Yeah. Lisa Wilson: there's definitely a couple that are personal that I'm not gonna share, but it was like when I tell you guys that like I will share with you the emotional piece was that, you know, August was a tough, tough month. And she had Lisa S: Mm-hmm. Lisa Wilson: predicted it was gonna be a tough, tough month. And I I was just like, You're nuts. Like I have no idea what you're talking like like I thought honestly I thought I was gonna get terminally ill by the way that she was explaining things. Like I was like, I'm not going to the doctor in August. Lisa S: I'm just gonna close my eyes and just like Lisa Wilson: That was that was my solution. I'm just not gonna go to the doctor at all. Lisa S: Yeah. Honestly, when you were telling me about it, I was like, there's no way that that can happen. Like it's she c I guess she could be wrong, but she wasn't wrong. Mm-mm. Yeah, she was. Lisa Wilson: She was not wrong. She was spot fucking on. And I remember like at this peak, the peak stress of the month where it's like everything goes in like a bell, you know? And I was Lisa S: Yeah. Lisa Wilson: at the top of the bell and I just could not see a way out or a way forward. And I I don't like to read ahead because I don't want to ruin it for myself. It's like a little game I play with myself. Like because When she first gave me the whole year, I was Lisa S: Yeah. Lisa Wilson: I have it transcribed and I talk and I I put it in my AI and I was like, hey, what's what what was supposed to happen in July? And then it tells me, right? Like after I Lisa S: Okay, okay. Lisa Wilson: do that in August. And so I was like, okay, I'm gonna break my own rule. Tell me what's happening in September. And like October, you know, and it basically said, like, everything's gonna work itself out. And as somebody who is a I am a type A control person in that one Lisa S: Yeah. Mm-hmm. Lisa Wilson: of my favorite sayings is if you just do everything I tell you to do exactly how I tell you to do it, I'm very flexible. Right? Lisa S: You said that the other day and I just started cracking up laughing because it's so true. If you just do Lisa Wilson: It is true. Lisa S: everything I say, then we're fine. We'll be okay. Yeah. Yeah. Lisa Wilson: You'd avoid a world of pain if you just do what I tell you to do. but for me, it was it's very much like a trauma response, like for me, because so much was out of my control as a kid Lisa S: Yeah. Lisa Wilson: that as an adult, I try really hard to control things so that I'm A, not disappointed, or B put it in jeopardy, or C like you know, high levels of risk. And For the first time ever in my entire life, I was like, cause as an atheist, you can imagine, I was I was like, I don't I'm completely out of control here. Like this Lisa S: Yeah. Lisa Wilson: is this is all predetermined. Lisa S: Yeah. Well, and I think when you when you realize that like it was predicted what that was about what four months prior? Lisa Wilson: Mm, mhm. Lisa S: Like and it was unfolding right in front of your eyes. Lisa Wilson: Yeah. Lisa S: And there was like almost like so it's either like hang tight onto the wheel or just let go. Like you had a choice. Lisa Wilson: Mm-hmm. Yeah. And you guys, I literally like I remember it was like three o'clock in the morning and I was on my phone, like scrolling trying to find like the exact like time where this tides would turn. And the relief that I felt that as bad as this very moment I happened to be in was, and all the toxic sludge I was swimming around in, Lisa S: Yeah. Lisa Wilson: it was going to end and it was gonna be get Lisa S: Yeah. Lisa Wilson: better. Lisa S: Yeah. Lisa Wilson: And that I nothing I did was gonna change this because this was happening without any of it wasn't even about me. It was about family. So like Lisa S: Yeah. Lisa Wilson: I had I had no control over it, had nothing to do with any decision that I personally made. And it was still happening and it was going to end. Like the the predeterminedness of it, like it was destiny, you know, Lisa S: Yeah. Lisa Wilson: like that blew my mind. And I I I remember my shoulders dropped. And I was I I fell asleep 'cause I was like, Lisa S: Mm, mm. Lisa Wilson: this is this is not for me to worry about, you know? Lisa S: Yeah. But but do you feel like it gave you kind of like a guide, like kind of like what I was talking about? Like a guide to say, okay you can choose how you react to it though, right? Like, Lisa Wilson: Yeah. Lisa S: like this is impacting you at s Lisa Wilson: Yeah. Lisa S: some level. It's not about you, but it is impacting you. So like how you react to it is really was where you're you know, where your free agency comes into, right? Like cause you could Lisa Wilson: Yeah. Lisa S: have spiraled, Lisa Wilson: Yeah. Lisa S: you could have done a lot of different things, but how you handled it was so appropriate. Yeah. Mm-hmm. Lisa Wilson: I let go. I let go and I was able, and by letting go of trying to like control everything that I had no control over and just relaxing, I was able to better support my family member that needed me to be there to support Lisa S: Yeah. Lisa Wilson: them. And I made it more about them rather than trying to make it about getting out of the situation we were in. You know, and it Lisa S: Mm, that's a good point. Yeah. Yeah. Lisa Wilson: just 10 out of 10 stars for the tarot reading. Like it was amazing. So I think that's awesome. And then you and I have both I mean, again, we are both big fans of tarot and you know, maybe next I'll go see a psychic. I don't know, we'll figure it out. yeah. Lisa S: You gotta be careful though, because some not all psychics are created equal. Lisa Wilson: I'm not gonna go to a psychic at the mall Lisa S: At the at the at the at the local coffee shop, you're not going you're not no. Lisa Wilson: No, like I'm gonna tell you an honest true Lisa S: Mm. Lisa Wilson: story about a psychic and and me like coming together. So I used to live in a rough neighborhood, like super rough neighborhood. But I was like, it's it's how I grew up. I don't care. But my dad taught me to be very street smart and very street Lisa S: Yeah. Lisa Wilson: savvy. And, you know, was basically like it could come, it could come at you from any moment. You always have to be prepared, right? it's like 5 a.m. and I'm at A 7 Eleven in my neighborhood, getting ready to go to work. And I go in and get my coffee and I come out. This is back when I smoked and I was out of cigarettes. So I went and got my coffee and my cigarettes. Moment of silence. It's 7 11. I loved Lisa S: At the seven eleven. So Lisa Wilson: it. but don't do it, it will kill you. So I get into my car, and as I'm closing the door, someone reaches in to touch my arm, you know, on the door. Lisa S: No! Lisa Wilson: Okay, instinctually. I shove the door open as hard as I can and knock this person over. Lisa S: Whoa. Lisa Wilson: But then I see grandma shoes. You know what I mean by grandma shoes, like orthopedic shoes? And I'm like, uh-uh. So I get out of my car. Lisa S: Lisa, it was not a grandma No Lisa Wilson: There is a grandma lying on the ground that I have knocked over. Lisa S: You can throw your coffee on her. Lisa Wilson: Just knocked her over with my door because I didn't know. And I was like, what are you doing? Like I was mad at her. And I didn't even help her get up. Like I was like, what are you doing? And my my and she was like, I just wanted to tell you your future. And I was like, No. I'm like, so then I I help her up. I'm like, I don't want talk to you. Cause again, everyone is out to get you, is how I was raised. Right. So I close my door and I lock it. Lisa S: You push Granny to the floor. That's so terrible. Lisa Wilson: Shoved Granny to the floor because you know, it could come at you from any direction. You always gotta be ready. But that's been my only experience with a psychic. That is it. Lisa S: Okay, well that really wasn't even like an experience except for you harmed grandma Lisa Wilson: harmed an elderly person. But to be fair, it was like dark outside and I was in a bad neighborhood and someone touched my arm in the dark. Like, nope. Not gonna have it. Lisa S: That's true. That's true. She was yeah, that's true. She probably wasn't like she probably wasn't in her right mind to be doing that in your neighborhood. Lisa Wilson: She no, she probably she's probably a con artist that is used Lisa S: Yeah. Lisa Wilson: to people taking down their guard because she's an elderly old lady. You guys, Lisa S: Mm. Lisa Wilson: I see it all the time. Like we worked in a mall for a long Lisa S: That's why you just Yeah. Lisa Wilson: time and like you could watch it happen, you know? Lisa S: Yes, it's so true. But that's why you have to be really careful. That's why I don't go to any like especially like a psychic that hasn't been referred to me by somebody Lisa Wilson: Yeah. Lisa S: who feels like they are legit. Lisa Wilson: Yeah. Yeah. I I definitely want to like do all those things. But okay, so back to our tarot card reading. So you and I peeked ahead. Neither one of us really likes to do that, but we did it for the sake of you guys who are listening. So we wanted to give Lisa S: Mm. Lisa Wilson: you a little sneak peek and then we'll check out in the future to see if it actually came true. So at the time of our recording, it is not November. So we went and Lisa S: Yeah. Correct. Lisa Wilson: looked at November. So Lisa, what Lisa S: Mm-hmm. Lisa Wilson: is your November reading say or predict that you're willing to share? Lisa S: Okay. So it is about, I can I can read it. Okay. It is about, and again, I'm just gonna preface this. I have no idea how this is fitting into my life. I have no idea how it's gonna happen, because it would mean I'd have to put effort into actually making this happen. And Lisa Wilson: Mm. Lisa S: I don't know how that's gonna work out, especially like how how my life is today. Again, it's not Lisa Wilson: Mm-hmm. Lisa S: November. But apparently Lisa Wilson: Yeah. Lisa S: in November, I'm gonna be getting invitations to things. I'm gonna be the center of someone's attention or center of attention. And I'm gonna be in high demand in November. I'm gonna be looking my best. Whatever that means. yeah. I've I've got the Queen of Wands. Mm-hmm. So Lisa Wilson: Okay. Lisa S: I I'm not exactly sure. It's it's like From what I remember her talking about, it's a month of like glow up, Lisa Wilson: Mm-hmm. Lisa S: a month of mm I don't know, maybe I'm putting I don't I have no idea. I I don't even know what it means, but that would require Lisa Wilson: Okay, well Lisa S: me to like actually leave my house to be Lisa Wilson: Okay. Lisa S: the center of some center of something instead of the center of Lisa Wilson: Or you're gonna have Lisa S: my living room. Lisa Wilson: or you could have a stalker. 'Cause then you're you're definitely the center Lisa S: Ooh no, we don't want no. Lisa Wilson: of someone's attention. Lisa S: Okay, let's not put that out to the universe. Definitely don't want to stalker. But I'd I would love to be center of attention with anything. Could it be Lisa Wilson: Yeah. Lisa S: w could it be I don't I don't know. I don't know. What about you? What is your November that you're willing to share? Lisa Wilson: So mine is so mine doesn't make sense to me either. Page of Lisa S: Yeah, I don't Lisa Wilson: S it's the page of swords. So Lisa S: Okay. Lisa Wilson: getting my mojo back, I didn't know I lost it. Career momentum and professional recognition, making Lisa S: Hey, that's good. Lisa Wilson: making a name for myself, and possible Lisa S: Okay. Lisa Wilson: East Coast travel with Doug. So here's what I'm gonna say is weird, you guys. So Lisa S: Ooh Kim. Lisa Wilson: sometime over the summer, when we had decided that as a family we wanted to go to London. for the holidays because my sister and my brother love Christmas so much and they're s Lisa S: Yeah. Lisa Wilson: half of their family is over there. So Doug and I were like, let's let's do it. Let's organize a trip to London. But it could have been in November, December, January. We just wanted to do holiday stuff. You can still do that into January. Affordability, Lisa S: Yeah. Lisa Wilson: people's schedules, But it was it was like it could have been any time. So literally in September, before I look went back and looked at this, we booked our trip to Charleston in November, which is on the East Coast, and we're going to London in November. Lisa S: yeah, yep. Mm-hmm. Lisa Wilson: So I was like, okay. And again, like I just I Had nothing to do with the reading, but the reading is already spot on for November. Lisa S: Yeah. Yeah. And because I'm a true believer, I don't like to go and look at it ahead or I I like feel like it's I'm gonna jinx it, right? So Lisa Wilson: Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Lisa S: so I will I usually go back like after something happens and be like, yeah, just go back Lisa Wilson: That's what I do. Yeah. Lisa S: instead of like go, what's what is my November gonna look like? You know, that's Lisa Wilson: Yeah. Lisa S: normally how I use the readings, but you can do it however you want. Lisa Wilson: Well, you're gonna be the center of attention and I'm gonna get my mojo back. Lisa S: I don't know how we're doing it, but hey, the beauty of it is is you don't need to know how. Just know Lisa Wilson: Yeah. Lisa S: that it's out there. Put it out Lisa Wilson: Yeah. Lisa S: to the universe. And let's have a good November. Lisa Wilson: with November coming up being such a good month, I think that that is a high five. Lisa S: So I would love to talk about my high five this past Lisa Wilson: Okay. Lisa S: week has been that there's been a construction project going on in my life, okay? And it's wrapping up, coming to a close. I will not be I have had paint in my hair that I cannot Lisa Wilson: Mm. Lisa S: get out for weeks. Okay. When you get white paint on black hair, that is, I mean, I have done everything to try to get it out. So me and my son wrapped up a pretty big project this last weekend. so that is my high five because I walked away. Like he was, he did such an amazing job. Like he's such a hard worker. Lisa Wilson: Mm. Lisa S: And I just I love doing stuff together with him. And he was just a big help. And and this particular project is coming to a close. So Lisa Wilson: So Lisa S: I'm so happy. Lisa Wilson: So high five. Dude, I'm so happy to hear that. Yes. So so my high five this week is also Lisa S: Thanks, thanks. I needed that. Yes, what Lisa Wilson: not related to tarot at all, but it's it's so important, and I've just been like sitting with it in my heart all week. I was having a particularly tough week And I was like, I need a little treat. So I scheduled a blowout at a salon. and I'll give you I want to give the name of the salon because like it was such an amazing experience. Pariz salon. I'll make sure I put the link in the show notes. But I just wanted to randomly try a place, and so I tried that place and Hope did my hair, did my blowout and You know, she made the terrible mistake of asking me why I was getting a blowout. And I was like, Well, Lisa S: Ha ha ha. Lisa Wilson: we're recording our podcast today. And normally that's where they're like, Lisa S: Uh-huh. Lisa Wilson: what's your podcast about? Which is exactly what she did. And I was like, It's about trying to find high fives in a hot mess world. You know, it's like Lisa S: Mm-hmm. Lisa Wilson: things are it's not easy to stay positive right now. some some seasons of our life make it a lot harder. And so Lisa Lisa S: Yeah. Lisa Wilson: and I started this podcast to try to focus on all the positive things that that we come across. And she's like, I think my mom would love that podcast. So I was like, Maybe, like, yeah. Lisa S: Was she like was she like super young or okay. Lisa Wilson: She was like yes, she was young. Not like teenager young, like younger though. Younger than us, that's for sure. And Lisa S: Yeah, okay. Lisa Wilson: she's like, so do you like doing the podcast? Which again, normally they don't go on anymore. They just end the questions. Lisa S: No really they're like, Okay, thanks, like pa like moving on. Lisa Wilson: Yeah, yeah. Bless her heart. She was like, So, do you like doing the podcast? And I was like, Well, I love it. Like, I've learned a lot and I really enjoy it. I said the thing that I'm really struggling with Lisa S: Yeah, yeah. Lisa Wilson: is socials. I'm not a social media person, I'm not an influencer, and it's all organic. we need to get, I want to get to 200 so that we can do trial reels. And I said, We've been sitting so close, like so close for like a week. And it just it's painful. I said that's I'm really struggling with that. And she's like, hold on. So she calls over another girl and she's like, Hey, she's trying to grow her Instagram account. she's like, yeah, I'm the social media manager for the salon. And I was like, you are? And she was like, Yeah. She goes, We've all we've all followed you. So now you've hit your number. Lisa S: how sweet. Lisa Wilson: You hit your number. And you guys when I tell you like I got emotional, I got emotional. I forget every once in a while how powerful women are. Lisa S: Yeah. Lisa Wilson: And when we set our sights on doing things for good, it is amazing Lisa S: Mm. Lisa Wilson: what we can accomplish. And these girls touched my heart so much. And I am so grateful. We are so grateful for them Lisa S: Yes. Lisa Wilson: taking like Giving us any of their light, like really, really made a difference. So and my blowout lasted for like three Lisa S: Yeah, thank you. Lisa Wilson: days. Lisa S: It was a win win. It was a win win all the way around. Thanks to everyone Lisa Wilson: It was a win win. It was a win win. Lisa S: at the salon. and Lisa's hair looked great, by the way. Yeah, yeah. Lisa Wilson: Did. Yeah. Yeah. It was awesome. so Lisa, we are both a hard yes on can someone actually predict the future? Like a thousand, a thousand percent. Lisa S: Yes. I am a hard yes. Mm-hmm. Lisa Wilson: And then something I want you guys to think about is have you ever been so desperate for an answer that you started looking for signs? Like a tarot reading, a horoscope, your mom, the universe. We want to hear about it. Make sure you put it in our chat, put it in our DMs, find us on YouTube wherever you guys listen. because we want to keep the conversation going. We love this stuff, it's so much fun. Lisa S: Yeah. Lisa Wilson: make sure you guys that regardless of what you do, you got to stay hydrated. You gotta roll your shoulders back. You gotta unclench your jaw. Use your powers for good. And go high five somebody. Lisa S: Yes. Yep. And go out and have a great week. Bye. Lisa Wilson: Have a great week. Bye guys. Thank you.