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Empathy and Leadership: Lessons from the Table with Mona Bavar · Unstoppable Success Podcast

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  SPEAKER_02: Welcome to the Unstoppable Leaderships of Life, influential leaders and their game-changing insights.
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  SPEAKER_02: I'm Jacques and Founder, CEO and Founder of Leap Tier Success.
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  SPEAKER_02: Well, hello, everybody, and welcome to another episode of the Unstoppable Leadership Spotlight podcast.
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  SPEAKER_02: I'm Jacqueline Stuminger, your host.
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  SPEAKER_02: And on this podcast, we hear from amazing leaders, professionals about their game-changing experiences and insights on leadership.
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  SPEAKER_02: We are all about helping you grow and be unstoppable in your leadership.
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  SPEAKER_02: And today I have an amazing guest.
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  SPEAKER_02: It is Mona Bavar.
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  SPEAKER_02: She is a multi-passionate entrepreneur, a thought leader who seamlessly blends creativity, connection, and innovation across her ventures.
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  SPEAKER_02: She is the founder of D-Lish.
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  SPEAKER_02: Do I have that right?
• 1:39
  SPEAKER_02: Yes.
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  SPEAKER_02: And she curates exceptional gift-giving experiences that celebrate meaningful stories and fosters connections, turning ordinary moments into lasting memories.
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  SPEAKER_02: I absolutely love that.
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  SPEAKER_02: And she also has Blue Apple's AI, her AI consultancy, where she empowers entrepreneurs and small businesses to harness AI in a way that is authentic, efficient, and deeply human, which is really awesome.
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  SPEAKER_02: So welcome to the podcast.
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  SPEAKER_02: And I'm I've got to ask you also about the AI.
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  SPEAKER_00: First of all, thank you, Jaclyn, for having me on.
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  SPEAKER_00: I love, I love, love the way you introduce me.
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  SPEAKER_00: If only we could all see ourselves the way other people see us.
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  SPEAKER_00: So uh yes, I founded Delish, which is a gifting company around food, art, and design.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's Delish curated in Milan, which is uh Milan, Italy, because I I've been living between the States and uh Italy for some time now, almost 20 years.
• 3:03
  SPEAKER_00: And I've always been in the food and design industries.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so Delish was born out of this uh storytelling that happens around the table.
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  SPEAKER_00: So as a child growing up, as immigrants, our safe haven and what kept us grounded and rooted to our origin was always the table through the food and through the stories that our parents would share.
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  SPEAKER_00: So somehow, subconsciously, I brought that over into my business without even knowing.
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  SPEAKER_00: I always loved food, and I still love food, and it is the perfect place for that.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I always found that I connected with people in these intimate settings, and intimate doesn't necessarily mean one-to-one.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's more around this table setting where you're eating and you're drinking and you're sharing stories, and it's not about your religion or your background or the color of your skin.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's about the food and your culture that you communicate through the food.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you say, Oh my gosh, you have pasta sauce that is made with tomato sauce and uh, well, with tomatoes and ground beef, and we add a sp this spice to it, and we say, Oh, you know what?
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  SPEAKER_00: In in Iran, where I'm originally from, we have this rice dish that has ground beef with pasta sauce, and you add tomatoes and potatoes to it.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so you understand that there's so much commonality.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so what I wanted to do was take this, and there's so many artisans and producers that are produ uh that are making products, whether it's food products or design objects, that enhance the tasting experience, because whether we like it or whether we know it or not, the table, when we sit at the table, it's a multi-sensory experience.
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  SPEAKER_00: Even if you're sitting down for a simple dinner with the few people in your family, or by yourself, even, you're tasting, you're seeing visually, you're hearing the sound of you chewing or voices or music or whatever you have in the world.
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  SPEAKER_00: Well, when they're chewing with their mouth closed.
• 5:09
  SPEAKER_00: Exactly.
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  SPEAKER_00: No, that's not that.
• 5:14
  SPEAKER_00: No, no, no.
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  SPEAKER_00: I totally agree.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you're experiencing that.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so I wanted to put that in a gift box and share it with people.
• 5:21
  SPEAKER_00: And I think there are so many uh tastes that we haven't been exposed to that I myself discover with over the thousands of producers that there are in Italy, I'm always discovering someone new that has created something, whether it's a marmalade or it's a uh a salty dish or whatever it may be, and we couple it together to give this story in a box, is what I like to call it.
• 5:45
  SPEAKER_00: And you share that with yourself or with whoever you love.
• 5:49
  SPEAKER_02: You know, I love that the story in the box.
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  SPEAKER_02: And there's a couple of things that just came to my mind as as you were as you're describing this, and you're talking about being grounded in what food does.
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  SPEAKER_02: And I'm curious, like, how would you take that experience and put it towards leadership?
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  SPEAKER_00: Uh the beautiful question because whether we know it or not, when we host someone, or when we share uh what we love, whether that's food, whether that's an art piece, whatever it may be, we are leading.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because what is leadership anyway?
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  SPEAKER_00: Leadership is guiding someone in a direction that inspires them, that helps them become a better version of themselves, or helps them tap into the archetypes that maybe we're not aware of.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you can do our mothers have done it through the through the meals that they've served us.
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  SPEAKER_00: Uh, when we go to restaurants, we experience it on the food aspect, when we go to an exhibition.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm looking at the beautiful art piece behind you, and you said my daughter did it for me because I was inspired by something that we saw together.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you led her in this direction for her to um announce that archetype, that creative archetype or that visionary archetype that's within her.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I think as leaders, no matter what our medium is, or whatever it is we're sharing with someone, somehow we are leading them.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's so true.
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  SPEAKER_02: And it's and I and I think about, you know, it if we as a leader can also help people like bring out the different creativity.
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  SPEAKER_02: And creativity does not necessarily mean doing artwork, it's you know, creative thinking and the thought process.
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  SPEAKER_02: It's amazing what we can come out with, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Absolutely, absolutely.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I totally agree with that.
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  SPEAKER_00: You know, you would be surprised.
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  SPEAKER_00: I would say an accountant that sits behind a computer and is constantly working with numbers is also creating something, right?
• 7:52
  SPEAKER_00: So we are all creators.
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  SPEAKER_00: Creation, like you said, does not necessarily mean an artwork or a poem that you've written or a sculpture that you've put together, you've sculpted.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's so much more.
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  SPEAKER_00: Every moment we're creating something, and creation stems from inspiration.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I think it's uh, and we just choose a way to to communicate that.
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  SPEAKER_02: And what you just said, I think is really powerful creation and inspiration.
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  SPEAKER_02: It's I think as leaders, you know, that is something that we can do as you know in a leadership role.
• 8:27
  SPEAKER_02: The more you can help inspire somebody to be able to bring out that creativity is actually what obviously I think what a great leader can do.
• 8:37
  SPEAKER_02: Absolutely.
• 8:38
  SPEAKER_02: Absolutely.
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  SPEAKER_02: So so tell me, I mean, so I I love this, like this, you know, like to me, getting a a box with like great stuff in it is really fun.
• 8:54
  SPEAKER_00: Absolutely, yes, yes.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's the that whole as a child, you couldn't wait to open that box.
• 8:59
  SPEAKER_00: And even today, I mean, we get an Amazon box with that little swoosh, smiley swoosh in it, and we know that all inside we've ordered our vitamins, but we're still excited to open this box and say, Oh, look at it, my vitamins have arrived.
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  SPEAKER_00: So it's that that anticipation of being pleasantly surprised.
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  SPEAKER_01: Right.
• 9:19
  SPEAKER_01: Okay, I just have to interrupt you because I have to tell you this is what came to my head on that one.
• 9:23
  SPEAKER_01: For me, the Amazon box comes, I'm like, oh, what did we spend?
• 9:31
  SPEAKER_01: Your box, I need that box, right?
• 9:33
  SPEAKER_01: Because I want the good stuff in it.
• 9:35
  SPEAKER_01: I want the good stuff.
• 9:37
  SPEAKER_01: That would make me happy.
• 9:38
  SPEAKER_01: I see that smile.
• 9:39
  SPEAKER_01: I'm like, shoot.
• 9:40
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, so your smosh is kind of upside down.
• 9:42
  SPEAKER_00: I get it.
• 9:43
  SPEAKER_00: I get it.
• 9:46
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it is.
• 9:48
  SPEAKER_02: But it is true, like, you know, getting that in the box.
• 9:50
  SPEAKER_02: And I and and I think it's another thing too, which I think which is very interesting, what what you're doing is you're bringing out, you know, you're combining cultures and food and bringing people together.
• 9:59
  SPEAKER_02: And that's another thing about leadership and the way that people can do that together to bring different personalities.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yes, yes.
• 10:10
  SPEAKER_00: And it's about the bridging of cultures.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like I said, when we first came to the United States, it was 1979.
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  SPEAKER_00: And unfortunately for Iranians, it was a difficult time because of what was happening in the political system.
• 10:23
  SPEAKER_00: Right.
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  SPEAKER_00: So a lot, and I invite everybody to go and understand the history because then you will understand the people much better.
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  SPEAKER_00: And what kept us uh, let's say, safe was knowing when we came home that there was this table that my mother had prepared, the smells that were familiar from from Iran, and the stories that our father or mother would share.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so, as siblings, we learned that the table was a place to communicate.
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  SPEAKER_00: It was a place to be completely free to express your emotions, to understand.
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  SPEAKER_00: So if we went outside and someone called us names because we were from Iran, it wasn't that it was out of malice necessarily because we were children, it was out of um ignorance, let's say, that you didn't know the culture, you didn't know the history, the traditions, the smells, the tastes.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, this when I went away to university, I went to Milan, Italy, and I remember it was an international program to do my MBA.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I would always invite people to my home and I would cook Persian food and I would serve Persian food, and I was always so excited, and everyone started to bring something.
• 11:35
  SPEAKER_00: So my Serbian friend would bring something, the Greeks would bring something, the Chinese.
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  SPEAKER_00: So then we started to this table grew and grew and grew, and we all started to share our dishes, then our stories, then our where we come from.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so all of a sudden, there was no difference.
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  SPEAKER_00: It was just these cultures that were all coming together, and we realized how similar we all are.
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  SPEAKER_00: That when you remove all those, all what the outside world, the propaganda feeds us, what's happening today in our world in the United States, you realize that we're all the same essentially.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's all that has been generations and generations that have handed down, whether it's the tomato that's been handed down and used in a different way, or whether it's eating with a knife and a fork that's been served in different ways, you know, so it's so much similarities that we now should shift and start looking at the similarities rather than the differences.
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  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I love that.
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  SPEAKER_02: So just bringing it back to, you know, from the leadership perspective, how do you think that would relate to the boardroom or to a company?
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  SPEAKER_00: The first and foremost important thing I think that leaders need to do is know themselves.
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  SPEAKER_00: So whether you're a CEO, you're an entrepreneur, you're a thought leader, whatever you are, and we all are so many different archetypes, we have to start by knowing who we are.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that starts with um going deep.
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  SPEAKER_00: And you and I are sitting here in front of each other.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm a 53-year-old woman.
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  SPEAKER_00: I have spent the majority of my life trying to understand who I am.
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  SPEAKER_00: And by that I don't mean I've done, I don't want to get woo-woo and talk about spirituality and all that stuff.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's about saying, you know what?
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  SPEAKER_00: What I was taught as a child or how I was nurtured, that archetype of a caretaker no longer resonates with me.
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  SPEAKER_00: I have it, but I want to now tap into the archetype of the creator or the archetype of the visionary.
• 13:43
  SPEAKER_00: So when you're in the boardroom and you are in a position of power, you have to know that you are what power means and who you are.
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  SPEAKER_00: So it's not about necessarily saying, listen, I delivered these numbers.
• 13:56
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, that's wonderful that you delivered the numbers.
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  SPEAKER_00: You exceeded what the forecasts were.
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  SPEAKER_00: But how do how are you?
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  SPEAKER_00: Are you able to say, you know what, me, Mona Bavar, as the driven entrepreneur, I succeeded and I sold a company and I started a new one and I did all that.
• 14:14
  SPEAKER_00: But you know what?
• 14:15
  SPEAKER_00: I did it with empathy because I think that's the most important thing.
• 14:19
  SPEAKER_00: I did it with uh inner confidence, and that inner confidence means security in who you are, in how you communicate your story.
• 14:28
  SPEAKER_00: For so long, Jaclyn, I was ashamed of my heritage.
• 14:33
  SPEAKER_00: I was uh I avoided talking about it.
• 14:36
  SPEAKER_00: Today I'm sitting here with you and your thousands or millions or however number of listeners you have, and I'm saying, you know what, I'm an Iranian woman and I'm proud of it.
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  SPEAKER_00: But it took me years to get to this position because I, why?
• 14:50
  SPEAKER_00: When I was a child, I was ridiculed for it, I was made fun of for it, or I was bullied for it.
• 14:56
  SPEAKER_00: So when I step into that boardroom per se, I have to say, you know what, let me be empathetic to the people that I'm sharing with.
• 15:04
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, I'm sharing numbers, I'm sharing results, but you know, there is a human side to it.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's that human side that inspires, that then says, you know what, next year let's do double the numbers, but not out of force and out of the fact that we have to because we have to be better and meet the shareholder demands and so on and so forth, but because we are passionate, and I that use that word with a lot of hesitation because I think it's misused a lot, but we're doing it out of heart.
• 15:35
  SPEAKER_00: We're doing it out of something that we believe in.
• 15:37
  SPEAKER_00: And I know that if you're like a Coca-Cola and you say, you know what, we got shareholders, we got all these numbers that we need to meet, put aside that.
• 15:47
  SPEAKER_00: Then tell me why are so many companies choosing to invest in retreats, in team building, in wellness, in mental health, because you understand that it's necessary.
• 15:59
  SPEAKER_00: It's necessary to bring that human aspect to a successful leadership role.
• 16:05
  SPEAKER_00: And however that may show up for any of us.
• 16:09
  SPEAKER_02: You know, I love what you just said, and I think it's so important.
• 16:12
  SPEAKER_02: I think that having the human side, you know, the human side, it's the it's the that side inspires us, and we need to know the stories, and we need to be connected with the people that are in our fold.
• 16:27
  SPEAKER_02: You know, as a leader, whether if you're Coca-Cola or you are the small mom and pop store, the solo, you know, only one store, you need to know the people that are working with you.
• 16:40
  SPEAKER_02: And I say not for, like I I use that to think it's with with you, not for you, because the for part makes it where you're up here, but they need to be part of it.
• 16:50
  SPEAKER_02: And so you have to think of everything, I always think of everything as a team.
• 16:54
  SPEAKER_02: So if you know the people that are working with you and you know a bit about their stories, and you have and you bring the human side into the companies, and you bring the human side even into the outside of the product, it's going to make a deeper connection, and people are gonna want that product.
• 17:13
  SPEAKER_02: And I'm just gonna think about Coca-Cola when you think about the heartfelt um, you know, at at the holiday times.
• 17:20
  SPEAKER_02: It's like, you know, there are certain, you know, um Coca-Cola commercials that you can think of that make you think of like you know, that warm and fuzzies inside.
• 17:30
  SPEAKER_02: It's not about the Coke, really.
• 17:32
  SPEAKER_02: It's like, yeah, the Coke is there, but it's about that warm and fuzzy feeling that you're getting and then you associate it with that.
• 17:38
  SPEAKER_02: But you're he you're getting people's stories, so it makes it human.
• 17:42
  SPEAKER_00: Exactly.
• 17:43
  SPEAKER_00: Exactly.
• 17:44
  SPEAKER_00: Absolutely.
• 17:44
  SPEAKER_00: That's that's you you what did they say?
• 17:47
  SPEAKER_00: You nibbed it in the bud.
• 17:48
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 17:50
  SPEAKER_02: So yeah, so I I I want to just bring this into your agency because you've got this this great, you know, box, right?
• 18:00
  SPEAKER_02: So talk about the agency in AI because I I'm you know, we as we were sharing beforehand, AI can, you know, graphically or you know, with images, um, it doesn't understand hands at all.
• 18:10
  SPEAKER_02: And we've got some weird, we've all seen those weird pictures of hands doing some weird things.
• 18:15
  SPEAKER_02: Um so so tell me a little bit about the agency and and how how does that also bring into you know those meaningful stories?
• 18:26
  SPEAKER_00: Um, thanks for asking that because it's very special to me.
• 18:29
  SPEAKER_00: So I never was a techie, never, ever.
• 18:33
  SPEAKER_00: Um, but somehow AI for me seemed like first it started as a necessity because of Delish, the gifting company.
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  SPEAKER_00: I uh our resources were low.
• 18:44
  SPEAKER_00: So we were bootstrapping as much as we could, and I couldn't afford it anymore.
• 18:48
  SPEAKER_00: So I said, you know what, let me start to create my own content.
• 18:50
  SPEAKER_00: And as an e-commerce, it's king, right?
• 18:54
  SPEAKER_00: You have to rank in order for you to be organically searchable and all that stuff.
• 18:59
  SPEAKER_00: And so I started to create blogs.
• 19:02
  SPEAKER_00: I started, I always loved to write, but I knew noticed that it helped me at least get the outline or at least do the research for the keywords for SEO optimization.
• 19:13
  SPEAKER_00: So I started to do a lot of this work on my own, and I realized that there is a way for especially solopreneurs or small businesses, small to mid-sized businesses, to successfully implement AI.
• 19:25
  SPEAKER_00: And what do I mean by that?
• 19:27
  SPEAKER_00: It's that human touch.
• 19:29
  SPEAKER_00: So uh blue apples.ai is about the human touch with the AI innovation.
• 19:36
  SPEAKER_00: So you have to know what your brand story is.
• 19:41
  SPEAKER_00: You have to know your brand tone, you have to know the style in order for you to not sound generic.
• 19:47
  SPEAKER_00: So that's where here you have to do the work.
• 19:50
  SPEAKER_00: Again, we go back to as a leader, as a as whoever you are, an entrepreneur or CEO, you have to know what your brand is all about.
• 19:59
  SPEAKER_00: Who is the target audience?
• 20:01
  SPEAKER_00: This is work that you have to do on your own in order, and you hire agencies for that.
• 20:05
  SPEAKER_00: And that's why we said, okay, we have that competitive advantage.
• 20:09
  SPEAKER_00: We know how to work with AI and we know how to maintain the human voice.
• 20:15
  SPEAKER_00: Because I know when I'm writing my own content, I know what I'm looking for.
• 20:21
  SPEAKER_00: So when I started to train someone to do this work for me, I said, listen, this is how it has to sound because I already had done the work before AI.
• 20:30
  SPEAKER_00: So if you don't know it, you're gonna sound like everybody else, and you're gonna get lost in this, I mean, infinite pool of content that's being created right now.
• 20:39
  SPEAKER_00: And it's just going to keep growing because everyone's like, okay, I'll just sit in front of Chat GBT and I'll put in this magical prompt, which doesn't exist by the way, because you have to think about prompt engineering as a recipe for bakery, not even for food, because it's a science.
• 20:55
  SPEAKER_00: There's a reason they put engineer after it.
• 20:57
  SPEAKER_00: So if you don't know exactly how to play with this, you're gonna sound like everyone else.
• 21:03
  SPEAKER_00: You're gonna do the keyword research that's going to be all the keywords that every your competitors are looking for.
• 21:08
  SPEAKER_00: So forget about ever ranking.
• 21:11
  SPEAKER_00: And as a matter of fact, when I first started to do this, I realized that we were going down.
• 21:15
  SPEAKER_00: On the contrary.
• 21:17
  SPEAKER_00: So I realized listen, you still have to have some of it that's organic.
• 21:22
  SPEAKER_00: You have to make sure your research is SEO-based.
• 21:26
  SPEAKER_00: So you have to have some kind of knowledge of SEO.
• 21:29
  SPEAKER_00: Your writing, you have to know how to write, you have to know your brown voice for the audience to connect.
• 21:34
  SPEAKER_00: Otherwise, when you go in and you read those AI words like the the I delved into it, and I'm thrilled to announce that you sound like everybody else.
• 21:44
  SPEAKER_00: So why do I need to do that?
• 21:46
  SPEAKER_00: Right.
• 21:47
  SPEAKER_00: And that's where the human aspect is so important.
• 21:51
  SPEAKER_00: And I we sit down with clients and we talk to them.
• 21:54
  SPEAKER_00: We understand what their brown brand voice is, we understand their why in order for tell us.
• 22:00
  SPEAKER_00: To be able to tell their story, the only thing that AI does is help us expedite a process that before would have taken a little bit longer, or to give us the outline so then we can go on and write it.
• 22:13
  SPEAKER_00: So here, AI is still not there, unfortunately.
• 22:17
  SPEAKER_00: And you can watch Instagram and everyone's like, you know what, let me help you write with this magical prompt, and you all you have to do is do, and no, it's not.
• 22:25
  SPEAKER_02: It's you know, it's so funny because I because I because I love AI, like I love using it because I will like I it's how I write my blog or thing my LinkedIn newsletter.
• 22:39
  SPEAKER_02: But what I what I love to do is as you're just talking about, it's like I write this whole massive paragraph, like all the stuff that's in my brain that like is my voice and how and then I just ask him, like, I'm I'm always like, okay, now I just need to like do a little expanding and clean it up a little bit, but keep my voice like all and it's amazing what comes out because it's like it gives me things that it's exactly what I wanted to say, but it it's but it's taking all that human stuff that I put in and all the emotion that I put into it and it spits it out.
• 23:11
  SPEAKER_02: But it's not it's not gen, it doesn't become generic because I you you see people doing that, and it's so it's I'm so glad that you talked about bringing out the human element into it because so many people do just like give me a creative story on exactly and it doesn't work, and we think we oh, here we go.
• 23:29
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, and most people don't even read it, I have to tell you.
• 23:32
  SPEAKER_00: They just copy and paste it into their blog, and they think that like I we had a client that she chose not to work with us when we were proposing for her for her e-commerce product descriptions.
• 23:44
  SPEAKER_00: And I remember we gave her a quote and she said, This is too expensive, you're using AI anyway.
• 23:49
  SPEAKER_00: And I had to explain, listen, don't think that just using AI, you're gonna be able to do it.
• 23:54
  SPEAKER_00: If you don't know what you have to, how to write a product description for it to convert, for you to use the right keywords for all the benefit, everything that you need for a product description, you're not going to sell.
• 24:09
  SPEAKER_00: And as a matter of fact, she then went ahead and did you could see that either she's hired someone else or she's doing it on her own.
• 24:15
  SPEAKER_00: Because when I went on her website uh for her beauty products, I was like, listen, I'm so sorry for you that you chose to go this route.
• 24:23
  SPEAKER_00: And I respect it, you do you.
• 24:26
  SPEAKER_00: But you have to know that there AI doesn't mean everything is clean because now today everybody's an entrepreneur and they think it's so easy.
• 24:33
  SPEAKER_00: It's not.
• 24:34
  SPEAKER_00: You still have to do the work because the journey of an entrepreneur is also a journey of self-discovery, right?
• 24:42
  SPEAKER_00: And that's where leadership comes in.
• 24:44
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, you go through this process of who am I?
• 24:48
  SPEAKER_00: What am I doing?
• 24:49
  SPEAKER_00: What is my why?
• 24:50
  SPEAKER_00: And all of us, if we really, really, and that's what I think one of our competitive, me personally, advantages that why there's always a reason that happened years ago in our lives, like me at the table and how it became a safe haven, and I brought that into my life, which funny enough, also my siblings, they're both entrepreneurs, and they also it's about creating this community around the setting, whatever that setting may be.
• 25:19
  SPEAKER_00: So if we really go deep, and that's the brand stories that people want to read.
• 25:24
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, that's the brand stories that if you go on a podcast, you want people to share because it inspires.
• 25:30
  SPEAKER_00: And so you're leading someone into this world of where they then will take the the torch and lead someone else.
• 25:42
  SPEAKER_02: But you know, what you're sharing is I I I love it.
• 25:45
  SPEAKER_02: And what what I think is really important, and and listeners, as you're hearing this, I I want to just share an insight really that's I think is incredibly it's it's a huge it's a game changer, and if you're not doing it, you need to take the time right now like to stop and do this.
• 26:00
  SPEAKER_02: And that is, you know, what Mona just said is taking the stories and the things that are and the values and and the that made us who we are.
• 26:10
  SPEAKER_02: So as a leader, what has made you you?
• 26:13
  SPEAKER_02: You know, for you, it's like that setting around the table, the stories and bringing people together and bringing that to fruition.
• 26:19
  SPEAKER_02: That's part of your why.
• 26:21
  SPEAKER_02: Like it's it's deep rooted in you.
• 26:23
  SPEAKER_02: If you haven't spent the time to figure out what that is, take the time right now to figure out what is that why?
• 26:30
  SPEAKER_02: What are those things that you want to bring in either into your business and into the people that are that are in your fold, because that's what's going to make the difference in your company, because you're gonna be deeper connected and the people it's gonna create a deeper connection.
• 26:47
  SPEAKER_02: And when you know that why and you create that community and that right setting, people are gonna want to be in your fold, they're gonna want to join your company, but you gotta get the right people.
• 26:58
  SPEAKER_02: And knowing the right people is based on where you came from and what comes to your heart.
• 27:05
  SPEAKER_00: That's beautiful.
• 27:06
  SPEAKER_00: I love, love the way you put that.
• 27:08
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, exactly that's the the step that then becomes full circle.
• 27:13
  SPEAKER_00: The circles behind you, right?
• 27:15
  SPEAKER_02: Right, that's right.
• 27:16
  SPEAKER_02: It's it's you know, and I think that's um, you know, when I talk to a lot of people, and and that's why I I I really love what you're doing, even with you with both of your companies, because like I'm thinking about the delish is like, oh, what a great corporate gift giving box, right?
• 27:33
  SPEAKER_02: Like how you're like bringing that out, like, ooh, we gotta look at that.
• 27:36
  SPEAKER_02: That's gonna be really great.
• 27:38
  SPEAKER_02: But also, you know, with your agency and bringing in that human connection into AI, because sometimes we all don't we know, you know, so many of us, or so many people, and so many, as you shared, so many entrepreneurs think they think they can do it.
• 27:57
  SPEAKER_02: Yes, we can, but so many times we need to have somebody else bring our voice and bring what we want into it because then we can step away from it because we're not so close to it.
• 28:08
  SPEAKER_02: And we can actually then we can we can't sometimes see what we need to see because we're too close.
• 28:13
  SPEAKER_00: Exactly, exactly.
• 28:16
  SPEAKER_00: And that's why a lot of people, entrepreneurs, will have mentors or business coaches because you have to see the full picture.
• 28:23
  SPEAKER_00: And so I think that's uh and with Blue Apples, uh we created these guides, and one of the guides that I'm so proud of because as a as growing up, I always loved psychology and I always love the this this this uh esoteric world of going deep and understanding yourself and the different aspects of yourself.
• 28:44
  SPEAKER_00: So uh when I was exposed to psychology, the the Jungian um archetypes really played a huge role in me understanding first myself and then help people under helping people understand themselves, especially as entrepreneurs.
• 29:00
  SPEAKER_00: So then uh last year I did this beta on myself with AI.
• 29:04
  SPEAKER_00: I uh tried to tap into all the different archetypes using the tarot deck, but the tarot, because Carl Jung used the tarot, um, the major archonuts to understand the different archetypes that we have within us and which one is the true archetype.
• 29:22
  SPEAKER_00: And so I did this with myself and uh prompt engineering.
• 29:27
  SPEAKER_00: And it was so successful.
• 29:29
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, I can't even explain to you, Jacqueline, how beautiful that journey was for me from January to December of 2024, every month, taking this moment to play with AI, understand how to prompt it in order to understand better myself and the archetype of the month.
• 29:48
  SPEAKER_00: And so this for 2025, I uh put together this guide around entrepreneurs and the archetypes, doing the exact same thing with uh questions both with AI and without AI, where you are able to tap into these and see, you know what?
• 30:07
  SPEAKER_00: January, for example, was the visionary.
• 30:09
  SPEAKER_00: So what does that visionary mean?
• 30:11
  SPEAKER_00: How do I show up as a visionary?
• 30:13
  SPEAKER_00: And how do I want it to show up?
• 30:16
  SPEAKER_00: Am I really the visionary?
• 30:17
  SPEAKER_00: And so these different aspects, like this month, February, is the high priestess, which is intuition, so the intuitive leader.
• 30:26
  SPEAKER_00: So we you go through these exercises with prompts and uh and you see just how beautifully the pieces come together.
• 30:34
  SPEAKER_00: And these are the parts of AI that when people say AI for good, we can actually use it in ways that enhance us as human beings, that help us explore aspects of ourselves that then make us really, really um effective and inspiring leaders.
• 30:55
  SPEAKER_00: That whether it's in the boardroom or in a home, that we are we are the caretaker archetype, we are showing up as fully ourselves and aware of each one of them because a lot of times we shy away from many archetypes that we possess.
• 31:12
  SPEAKER_00: And so, um, so I invite people to check out that guide.
• 31:17
  SPEAKER_00: Is it is it free available, or is it it's online and there's just I mean, I personally don't think it's expensive, and purposely we've done that so that people can, I think it's like$87, but it's 12 months, it's a hundred and some pages every month you go through this process.
• 31:35
  SPEAKER_00: So I invite people to download it, use it, and see just how how amazing it is.
• 31:42
  SPEAKER_00: Wow, that's fantastic.
• 31:43
  SPEAKER_02: All right, well, Mona, I could talk to you all day.
• 31:47
  SPEAKER_00: Me too, Jacqueline.
• 31:48
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, so we already decided we're gonna exchange information.
• 31:52
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, we're gonna exchange information.
• 31:53
  SPEAKER_02: So tell me, tell everybody how they can get in get connected with you.
• 31:56
  SPEAKER_02: Where is the best way to find you and get all your great information and even and to get this great guide?
• 32:03
  SPEAKER_00: Uh if you're interested in gifting, the gifting side, or just checking out Delish, it's D-L-I-S-H dot US.
• 32:12
  SPEAKER_00: And there you can reach out to us via via email or send us on the contact page.
• 32:18
  SPEAKER_00: Uh, we're always there to respond, and you can check out our gift boxes.
• 32:22
  SPEAKER_00: And we also do corporate gifting, so bespoke gifting, whether it's weddings or corporate.
• 32:28
  SPEAKER_00: And then for the AI side, uh, I invite you guys to visit blue apples with an s dotai and set up a call.
• 32:37
  SPEAKER_00: We have these uh discovery calls that you can understand if it works for you, if AI is for you.
• 32:43
  SPEAKER_00: And we have on our resources page different guides that uh you're more than welcome to purchase and use.
• 32:51
  SPEAKER_02: Perfect.
• 32:52
  SPEAKER_02: Well, that is absolutely fantastic.
• 32:54
  SPEAKER_02: So I so appreciate you being a guest.
• 32:56
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• 32:59
  SPEAKER_02: I'm your host, Jaclyn Strauminger.
• 33:01
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• 33:16
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• 33:18
  SPEAKER_02: Again, thank you, Mona, for being a guest.
• 33:19
  SPEAKER_00: Thank you for having me, Jaclyn.
• 33:20
  SPEAKER_00: It was wonderful.
• 33:21
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