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- 0:00Kia: Hey, it's Kia here. We've discussed how to keep your
- 0:03Kia: credit healthy on the podcast, but today let's dive a
- 0:06Kia: little bit deeper on debt. I want to find out
- 0:09Kia: what you can do to manage it, strategies to reduce
- 0:12Kia: debt, and how we can lessen the shame around it.
- 0:14Kia: Welcome to another episode of A Little Bit Richer, brought
- 0:17Kia: to you by my friends at Legal & General. Here to
- 0:20Kia: help us tread the water is a friend of the
- 0:22Kia: show, Andy Webb, the man behind the award- winning Be
- 0:26Kia: Clever With Your Cash blog and host of the Cash
- 0:28Kia: Chats podcast. Welcome back.
- 0:30Andy Webb: Hey Kia.
- 0:31Kia: So Andy, most of us have some debt and this
- 0:35Kia: could take a number of forms. It could be credit
- 0:37Kia: cards, personal car loans, overdrafts, mortgages, owing friends and family
- 0:42Kia: members. I could go on forever. So let's start with
- 0:44Kia: a common one. It's very easy to rack up debts
- 0:47Kia: on credit cards. So can you give us some tips
- 0:50Kia: to help?
- 0:51Andy Webb: Yeah, I think with credit cards it's easy to assume
- 0:53Andy Webb: that people know how they work, right? But when you
- 0:55Andy Webb: are young, you're getting a credit card for the first
- 0:57Andy Webb: time, you've just got this ability to spend money. So that's
- 1:01Andy Webb: often where a lot of this kind of problems start. And
- 1:03Andy Webb: it's only when you really fully understand it, you go, " Oh
- 1:05Andy Webb: great. Actually I wish I hadn't done that when I
- 1:07Andy Webb: was younger. I hadn't spent so much money." So the
- 1:09Andy Webb: important things to remember here are do try and only
- 1:12Andy Webb: use that credit card for your everyday spending, the things
- 1:14Andy Webb: you can spend money on anyway. Don't get tempted to
- 1:16Andy Webb: buy that extra thing. " Oh, I'll deal with it later
- 1:18Andy Webb: on. I sort it out later," because if you don't
- 1:20Andy Webb: sort it out when that statement comes through, then you're going
- 1:24Andy Webb: to get charged interest and there might be fees as
- 1:26Andy Webb: well if you miss payments, and that's where those debts
- 1:28Andy Webb: start to rack up because not only are you getting
- 1:30Andy Webb: charged interest on your purchase, then the next month if
- 1:33Andy Webb: you don't clear it again, you'll get interest on that
- 1:35Andy Webb: purchase, any new spending and interest on the interest. So
- 1:38Andy Webb: it all really, really can add up. So try to
- 1:40Andy Webb: avoid doing that. There is a simple thing you can
- 1:43Andy Webb: do to make sure you don't forget to spend it
- 1:45Andy Webb: and you do clear that full amount, and that's just setting
- 1:47Andy Webb: up a direct debit from your current account to the
- 1:50Andy Webb: credit card company, ideally for that full amount, and that
- 1:52Andy Webb: means that it'll be cleared. But there is also a risk
- 1:56Andy Webb: that comes with this a little bit and it's double
- 1:57Andy Webb: spending. I don't know if you've had this before where
- 2:00Andy Webb: so you've got something on a credit card, you know
- 2:01Andy Webb: it's on there, but when you look at your current
- 2:03Andy Webb: account balance, you see there's all this cash there and
- 2:06Andy Webb: you don't really account for the fact that it has already been
- 2:08Andy Webb: spent. So you spend it on other stuff and then the
- 2:10Andy Webb: bill comes through, money's not there.
- 2:12Kia: Yes, absolutely.
- 2:14Andy Webb: So that's often where the problems start. So a little
- 2:16Andy Webb: hack that I like to suggest to people is every
- 2:18Andy Webb: time you spend on the credit card, or as soon
- 2:21Andy Webb: as, maybe you might want to do it every week or
- 2:22Andy Webb: something, but you transfer the money out of that current
- 2:25Andy Webb: account into if you've got an account from Starling or
- 2:28Andy Webb: Monzo, they have these pots and spaces, or maybe it
- 2:30Andy Webb: can be a completely separate current account. You transfer the
- 2:33Andy Webb: money over there so it's ring- fenced. You know when
- 2:36Andy Webb: that bill comes through, you absolutely can afford it. And
- 2:39Andy Webb: then you really understand actually what the balance on your
- 2:41Andy Webb: current account is, that is actually what you've got. So those
- 2:43Andy Webb: kind of things can help you stop it getting unmanageable
- 2:46Andy Webb: and keeping on top of it.
- 2:47Kia: I like the fact that you said just use it for everyday
- 2:50Kia: spending because it reminds me of when I got my
- 2:51Kia: first ever credit card at 20. Arguably I knew better,
- 2:55Kia: didn't do better, and I applied for two credit cards,
- 2:58Kia: Andy, £ 1, 000 limit each. Can you imagine that? And
- 3:00Kia: even though I knew don't go crazy, it's not your
- 3:02Kia: money, you can guess what I did. I went, I racked
- 3:05Kia: up that money and I spent the whole 2000 on ... I
- 3:08Kia: couldn't even tell you what I spent it on. I don't have proof of
- 3:10Kia: what I spent it on. I don't have anything to
- 3:11Kia: show for it. But that was a very expensive lesson
- 3:15Kia: on how to actually use credit cards properly. So it's
- 3:18Kia: having a plan for paying it back. It is understanding
- 3:21Kia: the compounding of interest that can happen so you end
- 3:24Kia: up paying more than what you initially borrowed. So I'm
- 3:26Kia: glad that you covered that. But I also want to touch
- 3:28Kia: on another line of credit that is getting very popular
- 3:31Kia: now and that's Buy Now, Pay Later. I think that
- 3:33Kia: is something that's boomed in the last couple of years
- 3:37Kia: and is very much so accessible, and I see a
- 3:38Kia: lot of young people especially leaning into that. So can
- 3:41Kia: you give us a bit more insight into Buy Now,
- 3:43Kia: Pay Later as well?
- 3:43Andy Webb: Yeah, I mean it's huge, isn't it? And every time
- 3:45Andy Webb: you go to a checkout it's there and sometimes they
- 3:47Andy Webb: push you towards it a little bit, use this one over
- 3:49Andy Webb: some of the other options. And a lot of the big
- 3:51Andy Webb: companies now, there's cards. So you can Buy Now, Pay
- 3:54Andy Webb: Later everything. It doesn't just have to be online. And
- 3:57Andy Webb: for those, I mean everyone knows this, but this is
- 3:58Andy Webb: where you split your payment into. It varies by provider
- 4:02Andy Webb: and a lot of the time the shorter ones are interest
- 4:05Andy Webb: free, which is no bad thing if you need to
- 4:07Andy Webb: spread the cost of something out of a short space
- 4:09Andy Webb: of time, because it helps you with those bigger expenses.
- 4:12Andy Webb: But a lot of the time when they're longer than say
- 4:14Andy Webb: three months, then interest gets charged on that. Not everyone's
- 4:17Andy Webb: always aware of that. But I think the big danger
- 4:19Andy Webb: with Buy Now, Pay Later is getting carried away, a
- 4:21Andy Webb: bit like you talked about just now with those credit
- 4:23Andy Webb: cards, originally you're spending here, you're spending there. One thing
- 4:26Andy Webb: on Buy Now, Pay Later, it doesn't matter because I get paid in
- 4:29Andy Webb: two weeks time and then I have enough to cover it. But
- 4:31Andy Webb: then you put something else on Buy Now, Pay Later
- 4:33Andy Webb: and something else on Buy Now, Pay Later. And you
- 4:35Andy Webb: end up with this cycle of stuff that next time
- 4:37Andy Webb: you want to buy something, you don't have the money
- 4:39Andy Webb: to pay for it because you're still paying off the
- 4:41Andy Webb: stuff on Buy Now, Pay Later from the previous month
- 4:43Andy Webb: and you get caught in this kind of circle. And
- 4:46Andy Webb: if your situation changes, you lose your job maybe potentially
- 4:50Andy Webb: something like that or a big emergency kind of cost comes
- 4:52Andy Webb: along so you don't have the cash even to cover
- 4:54Andy Webb: the ones you thought you could cover, well you're committed
- 4:57Andy Webb: to it and you're committed to 10, 20 of these. That's
- 4:59Andy Webb: how prevalent they are, and you can get on anything.
- 5:02Andy Webb: So again, it's coming back to what we said on
- 5:04Andy Webb: credit cards, and this is true really for any kind
- 5:06Andy Webb: of credit, it's only using it for stuff that you
- 5:08Andy Webb: know if you can't afford it right now, you know
- 5:11Andy Webb: that when you get paid next that you will have
- 5:13Andy Webb: the money to cover that and it is for stuff
- 5:15Andy Webb: that you need. It's not just luxuries and stuff. If
- 5:18Andy Webb: you want a luxury, save up for it is the
- 5:21Andy Webb: best way of doing it. I know in practice that
- 5:22Andy Webb: doesn't always work but it's something to try and aim
- 5:24Andy Webb: for at least.
- 5:24Kia: Absolutely. And I want to touch on something you just mentioned
- 5:27Kia: there, and it's talking about uncontrollable debt or out of
- 5:31Kia: control debt. So how would you define a debt that
- 5:34Kia: is unmanageable or out of control?
- 5:36Andy Webb: Yeah. I think there are a few kind of warning
- 5:38Andy Webb: signs out there that people should be keeping an eye
- 5:40Andy Webb: for. And this is if you are regularly late with
- 5:44Andy Webb: your bills, not because of mismanagement and forgetting to do
- 5:47Andy Webb: it. It's because you don't have the money coming through
- 5:49Andy Webb: until. I need to waiting up a couple of weeks,
- 5:51Andy Webb: then I can pay it. Or the next stage of
- 5:53Andy Webb: that is you're having to borrow money to cover other
- 5:56Andy Webb: already borrowed money, so you get new debt to cover
- 5:58Andy Webb: debt. Again, they're all kind of sign of things that,
- 6:00Andy Webb: yes, you might be able to fix it just by
- 6:03Andy Webb: changing how you budget, but it might be a sign
- 6:05Andy Webb: of like these are going to get out of control. So
- 6:08Andy Webb: they're kind of important things to look for there. Also
- 6:10Andy Webb: things like paying for essentials with any kind of borrowing.
- 6:13Andy Webb: So whether that is your supermarket shopping on a credit
- 6:16Andy Webb: card or even Buy Now, Pay Later, you can get
- 6:18Andy Webb: your groceries on Buy Now, Pay Later if that is
- 6:20Andy Webb: something which is a regular occurrence. And the reason for
- 6:24Andy Webb: that is because your other debts are eating up all
- 6:26Andy Webb: your money. Again, that's a sign, look, you need to
- 6:28Andy Webb: do something about those other debts if you aren't already.
- 6:31Andy Webb: And there's also not just money aspects you need to
- 6:34Andy Webb: be aware of that debts could be a problem. There's a psychological aspect
- 6:37Andy Webb: as well. If you are losing sleep because you're worried
- 6:40Andy Webb: about the debts, if you are avoiding opening up the
- 6:43Andy Webb: post or the email or whatever it might be, because
- 6:45Andy Webb: you know what's in there isn't good, then again that's
- 6:49Andy Webb: a sign that you need to do something because that's
- 6:51Andy Webb: going to have an impact on your mental health.
- 6:53Kia: Absolutely. For anyone who has debt and they feel like
- 6:58Kia: it's starting to become a problem, where should they start?
- 7:02Kia: Because I know some people might have, I might have
- 7:04Kia: two credit cards, I might have an overdraft, I might have
- 7:06Kia: a loan. And it just feels like they are almost
- 7:09Kia: drowning in their debts. So where should they start and is there
- 7:13Kia: a way of prioritizing debts? Is there one that they should
- 7:15Kia: be focusing over another? What does that look like?
- 7:17Andy Webb: Yeah, absolutely. I mean there's a few things here. So
- 7:18Andy Webb: first of all there's the difference between good debt and
- 7:21Andy Webb: bad debt. And it sounds weird to say there's good
- 7:23Andy Webb: debt, right? But without credit, without borrowing, then who's going
- 7:28Andy Webb: to buy a house?
- 7:29Kia: It's true.
- 7:29Andy Webb: Right? Some people, there could be some people out there,
- 7:31Andy Webb: but most of us, if we want a house, we
- 7:33Andy Webb: need a mortgage which is debt, but that's good debt.
- 7:36Andy Webb: But you could say the same about if you need a
- 7:37Andy Webb: car to get to work and you need to have
- 7:40Andy Webb: a car on finance, then again that can be seen
- 7:42Andy Webb: as a good debt in that sense because by having
- 7:44Andy Webb: that debt you are able to earn money.
- 7:47Kia: Exactly.
- 7:47Andy Webb: Careful not to get upsold.
- 7:48Kia: Yes.
- 7:49Andy Webb: And add the alloys and all the extra bits like that, but again that
- 7:52Andy Webb: kind of thing can be a good debt. And then
- 7:54Andy Webb: within the rest of the debts as well you're looking
- 7:55Andy Webb: at, they're not all equal. You might find some are scarier.
- 7:59Andy Webb: You might get some scarier letters from the people saying
- 8:02Andy Webb: you owe us this amount of money and things, but
- 8:04Andy Webb: ultimately there are some which if you don't act on
- 8:06Andy Webb: them, their consequences could be pretty dramatic. And these are
- 8:10Andy Webb: known as priority debts. There are a few of them,
- 8:14Andy Webb: but the key ones here are your mortgage or your
- 8:16Andy Webb: rent. So if you don't pay your mortgage, you don't
- 8:19Andy Webb: pay your rent, ultimately you could lose your home, you could
- 8:21Andy Webb: be out in the streets. So you have to make
- 8:22Andy Webb: sure that is covered before a credit card, before a
- 8:25Andy Webb: loan, anything like that. Your gas and electricity, you could
- 8:28Andy Webb: be cut off if you don't pay that. So again,
- 8:30Andy Webb: you need to make sure, even if it's not making
- 8:32Andy Webb: their payment every single month, it's at least having a
- 8:33Andy Webb: conversation with them because they might be able to help
- 8:35Andy Webb: you with other repayments, but again, you can't just ignore
- 8:37Andy Webb: that because the consequences, you could absolutely argue now that
- 8:41Andy Webb: mobile and broadband are a priority debts because how many
- 8:43Andy Webb: of us are working at home, right?
- 8:45Kia: Exactly.
- 8:45Andy Webb: You lose your internet, you can't work. Again, you can lose
- 8:47Andy Webb: your job if you can't do that. So again, you
- 8:49Andy Webb: want to make sure that these things are covered. And
- 8:52Andy Webb: there are others, but a couple of important ones to
- 8:54Andy Webb: mention here are council tax and TV license. These ones
- 8:57Andy Webb: might not feel so important, but if you don't pay
- 9:00Andy Webb: them and you haven't spoken to the council about the
- 9:03Andy Webb: situation, then you could be taken to court. And then
- 9:07Andy Webb: you get a fine. Now if you can't pay your
- 9:08Andy Webb: council tax bill because you haven't got any money, how are
- 9:11Andy Webb: you going to pay the fine?
- 9:12Kia: Exactly.
- 9:12Andy Webb: And ultimately the consequence down the line is you could
- 9:15Andy Webb: go to jail for that. So obviously that's a priority
- 9:18Andy Webb: again with the others. So they're the ones to really
- 9:20Andy Webb: focus on first of all before the other debts. And
- 9:23Andy Webb: the other ones, you can have conversations with those creditors,
- 9:27Andy Webb: creditors basically with people that you owe money to, and they might
- 9:31Andy Webb: come up with a plan or some kind of way
- 9:32Andy Webb: of you kind of like, " Okay, look, we'll give you
- 9:34Andy Webb: a breathing space maybe," which is where you have a
- 9:36Andy Webb: space of time where no interest is added on, or
- 9:39Andy Webb: you might be able to just pay the minimum on them. I guess
- 9:41Andy Webb: it can be quite expensive and that can be quite scary
- 9:43Andy Webb: because it's getting more and more expensive. They're the ones with a high
- 9:46Andy Webb: interest. But that's the worst that's going to happen. Right?
- 9:48Andy Webb: At least you'll still have a warm home if you
- 9:52Andy Webb: focus on the others.
- 9:53Kia: Yes. I think the thing I love most about what you've said there
- 9:56Kia: is just having that conversation. I think it can get
- 10:00Kia: very overwhelming very quickly if you have a lot of
- 10:02Kia: debts. And like you said, those letters when they come through
- 10:04Kia: the door, it can feel like, " Oh my gosh, everything's
- 10:07Kia: falling on top of me." But if you are struggling
- 10:10Kia: and you haven't told your creditors, they're not going to
- 10:12Kia: know, they're not mind readers. They can't just say, " Oh
- 10:14Kia: this person's struggling, I'm going to put them on payment
- 10:15Kia: plan," if you haven't asked for that. So it is making
- 10:18Kia: that priority, which I really love that you touched on.
- 10:20Kia: When debt becomes unmanageable, what are some strategies that you'd
- 10:24Kia: recommend to clear debt?
- 10:26Andy Webb: First of all, have you got any savings? Because this
- 10:29Andy Webb: is the kind of thing, a weird thing. If I've got debt, why
- 10:31Andy Webb: would I have savings? But it's actually quite common that
- 10:32Andy Webb: people build up an emergency fund because they feel comfortable
- 10:36Andy Webb: having that pot of cash there if an emergency happens.
- 10:38Andy Webb: But the problem is, if you're getting any interest on
- 10:41Andy Webb: that savings account, the rate is going to be way,
- 10:43Andy Webb: way, way lower than what you be paying on those
- 10:46Andy Webb: debts. So you're much better off using those savings to
- 10:50Andy Webb: wipe out as much of those debts as you possibly can.
- 10:52Andy Webb: If an emergency comes along later on and that's a
- 10:54Andy Webb: big if, but if it does, you might have to
- 10:57Andy Webb: borrow it for that. But we can deal with that later
- 10:59Andy Webb: on, and it's not going to be any more expensive
- 11:01Andy Webb: of what you're paying right now. So that's the first
- 11:02Andy Webb: thing to do. I mean obvious things about if you
- 11:05Andy Webb: haven't already, just trying to find that budgeting, that extra
- 11:08Andy Webb: bit of money that you've got anywhere that can go
- 11:10Andy Webb: towards those debts rather than other things or potentially trying
- 11:12Andy Webb: to make a bit more cash. It's extra shifts, second
- 11:15Andy Webb: job, selling things, anything to get some more money in
- 11:19Andy Webb: that you can do. I mean that's all quite obvious
- 11:20Andy Webb: stuff but it's worth just mentioning it again. You can
- 11:23Andy Webb: also try getting as much of those debts to 0% as
- 11:26Andy Webb: you can. Credit cards are the big one here, 0% finance,
- 11:29Andy Webb: but there are also 0% overdrafts. That just means that you aren't
- 11:32Andy Webb: getting charged any interest on that debt or at least some of
- 11:34Andy Webb: that debt, which means you can put more money into
- 11:36Andy Webb: clearing down faster. Even looking at getting a lower APR,
- 11:40Andy Webb: which is like the interest rates potentially a better way of
- 11:43Andy Webb: reducing the rates not to zero, but at least it's
- 11:45Andy Webb: going to be lower cost. But do look into that, particularly with things
- 11:47Andy Webb: like consolidation loans, they're not always great. So just research
- 11:50Andy Webb: those a little bit. Let's assume you've done all of
- 11:52Andy Webb: that but you've still got some debts left over, multiple
- 11:55Andy Webb: debts. There are a couple of strategies that are pretty
- 11:57Andy Webb: popular that are worth thinking about and they've got weird
- 12:00Andy Webb: names. So there's avalanche and there's snowballing. So avalanching is technically,
- 12:06Andy Webb: mathematically is the best approach to go for because it
- 12:09Andy Webb: means ultimately you are going to pay less interest, it's
- 12:11Andy Webb: going to cost you less money. And this is where
- 12:14Andy Webb: you target as much of your money as you possibly
- 12:16Andy Webb: can on the most expensive debt, the one that has
- 12:18Andy Webb: the highest rate of interest and all the others, you
- 12:21Andy Webb: just go down to the minimum. And the idea is
- 12:23Andy Webb: you clear that one as fast as you can and then move
- 12:25Andy Webb: to the next one with the next highest rate of
- 12:27Andy Webb: interest. Okay, so mathematically you do that, you'll be charged
- 12:29Andy Webb: as interest. But what a lot of people find more
- 12:33Andy Webb: motivating is snowballing, and this is where you focus on
- 12:37Andy Webb: the smallest debt first of all because that's more achievable, right?
- 12:42Kia: Mm- hmm.
- 12:42Andy Webb: So you've got six debts say. You get rid of
- 12:44Andy Webb: one, then you've only got five. And that's for a lot
- 12:47Andy Webb: of people that makes them think, " Right-
- 12:48Kia: Keeps you motivation to keep going.
- 12:49Andy Webb: Yeah. And it's called snowballing because basically you've got rid
- 12:51Andy Webb: of one and the next time you move on, the next
- 12:53Andy Webb: one's big one, and end up with just basically one
- 12:55Andy Webb: debt at the end and hopefully you get rid of
- 12:58Andy Webb: that and then you're debt free. So they're both two
- 12:59Andy Webb: things to consider if you're doing this yourself.
- 13:02Kia: So if someone is struggling, where can they go and
- 13:06Kia: what can they do?
- 13:07Andy Webb: Okay. So if you are struggling and you don't think
- 13:10Andy Webb: you can do this on your own, because a lot
- 13:12Andy Webb: of this stuff might come down to some intense budgeting.
- 13:14Andy Webb: We're just looking about where your money could be better
- 13:17Andy Webb: spent. I'm sure a lot of people in this situation, they've
- 13:19Andy Webb: already done that, but it's worth having a look again.
- 13:21Andy Webb: Then there are some places you can go to who
- 13:24Andy Webb: will either guide you through that or take you through
- 13:27Andy Webb: some of the next steps. And we won't go into detail
- 13:29Andy Webb: on the next steps here because there's too much to
- 13:31Andy Webb: talk about, but there's things like debt relief orders, potentially
- 13:34Andy Webb: bankruptcy, IVOs, which is individual voluntary agreement, these kind of
- 13:39Andy Webb: things. They can take you through them and help you
- 13:41Andy Webb: know what's going to be the best for you. Now it's
- 13:44Andy Webb: very easy to think, " I'll just go on google," right?
- 13:45Kia: Mm- hmm.
- 13:46Andy Webb: " I'll type in debt support or debt help." And
- 13:49Andy Webb: that is one of the worst things you can do
- 13:51Andy Webb: because the people right at the top, they've paid for
- 13:54Andy Webb: their result to be the top of the results, and
- 13:57Andy Webb: often they're really cheeky and they'll have their names really
- 13:59Andy Webb: similar to some of the good guys, which we'll come
- 14:01Andy Webb: to in a minute. But what they're going to do,
- 14:03Andy Webb: these companies, is they are doing this for profit. And
- 14:06Andy Webb: I'm sure not all of them, but a lot of
- 14:07Andy Webb: them will steer you towards a solution which makes them
- 14:11Andy Webb: money, not necessarily what's best for you. So don't do
- 14:14Andy Webb: that. Instead, I would go to Money Helper, which is
- 14:18Andy Webb: the government's kind of finance website. And they've got a
- 14:20Andy Webb: debt location tool they call it, right? Snappily title, but
- 14:23Andy Webb: anyway, that's what it's called. And you put your postcode
- 14:25Andy Webb: in and they will come up with a list of
- 14:28Andy Webb: either face- to- face place if you want to go
- 14:30Andy Webb: and chat to someone face- to- face or if you
- 14:31Andy Webb: want to get on the phone or do a web chat,
- 14:33Andy Webb: a list of people you can talk to where it's
- 14:35Andy Webb: free, independent and impartial advice. So they won't judge you,
- 14:40Andy Webb: they'll just take you through the steps. Some of the
- 14:42Andy Webb: big names there, Citizens Advice, National Debt Line, Step Change,
- 14:46Andy Webb: Christians Against Poverty, there are a number out there who
- 14:49Andy Webb: will help you, but I would go to that Money Helper website
- 14:51Andy Webb: first of all, and they will direct you into the
- 14:53Andy Webb: places for more advanced help if you feel you need it.
- 14:56Kia: Absolutely, and I'm glad you said that because I've seen, especially
- 14:59Kia: on social media, I've seen a lot of ads where they say, " Come
- 15:01Kia: and we can help you resolve all your debts." So it
- 15:04Kia: is having your wits about you and make sure you
- 15:06Kia: go into the right places. But you've shared where people
- 15:09Kia: can go. However, we know, you and I know, we
- 15:11Kia: do this as our jobs, that money is a taboo
- 15:14Kia: and debt even more so, is something that people really
- 15:16Kia: do feel ashamed about. So what can people do? Do you
- 15:21Kia: have some suggestions to make it easier for yourself or
- 15:24Kia: someone who has a friend or family member who is
- 15:26Kia: struggling to open that communication around debt?
- 15:29Andy Webb: Yeah, it's really hard, isn't it? Like you said, money
- 15:31Andy Webb: is taboo and often people won't talk about any of
- 15:34Andy Webb: it, but particularly when it comes to debt, that kind
- 15:36Andy Webb: of element of shame can come into play. I think
- 15:41Andy Webb: just sitting there on your own suffering in silence is
- 15:44Andy Webb: not going to help you. So really if you can,
- 15:47Andy Webb: finding that trusted friend or family member who you feel
- 15:51Andy Webb: will let you talk about it. I'm like this often.
- 15:54Andy Webb: Someone comes to me a problem, I'll try and help
- 15:56Andy Webb: them and things like that. If that doesn't work for
- 15:58Andy Webb: you, then they just need to talk about it. Because sometimes this
- 16:00Andy Webb: is about just talking about it, getting it out in
- 16:01Andy Webb: the open. Or maybe you have got that person who
- 16:04Andy Webb: you know is pretty good on these things and they
- 16:06Andy Webb: can give you the more practical tips as well, but
- 16:08Andy Webb: find the person that works for you just so it's
- 16:11Andy Webb: out there and you start to talk about it. And
- 16:13Andy Webb: I guess I wouldn't say owning it isn't quite right,
- 16:15Andy Webb: but it just stops becoming this thing you're trying to
- 16:19Andy Webb: get rid of and hide away you from. It's something
- 16:21Andy Webb: that you can actually, right, " I need to do something
- 16:24Andy Webb: about this, I need to take some action."
- 16:26Kia: I agree with that, finding someone. And sometimes not everyone
- 16:28Kia: wants solutions. So many people just want to talk and that's absolutely fine. So
- 16:32Kia: Andy, before we wrap up here, what are your top
- 16:34Kia: three tips help our listeners manage their debts?
- 16:37Andy Webb: First of all, if you have got a number of
- 16:38Andy Webb: debts, it's about prioritizing them. Find out which ones you
- 16:41Andy Webb: really need to focus on without forgetting the others, but
- 16:45Andy Webb: just making sure that you've got the solutions in place
- 16:47Andy Webb: that those big ones don't get forgotten. Then I would
- 16:49Andy Webb: look about motivation. What is the one that's going to
- 16:52Andy Webb: kind of, the way that's going to really make sure
- 16:55Andy Webb: you can take action on this. Because there are different
- 16:57Andy Webb: approaches and everyone's going to work a little bit differently.
- 16:59Andy Webb: It's not going to be easy, but you want to
- 17:01Andy Webb: find the ways that you can see success, you can
- 17:03Andy Webb: see you're getting through it. But ultimately if this isn't
- 17:06Andy Webb: helping and you don't feel you can do this on
- 17:08Andy Webb: your own, it's getting help. Talk to that friend, that
- 17:11Andy Webb: family member, talk to those free, independent and impartial debt
- 17:15Andy Webb: advice charities and they're the ones who kind of all
- 17:18Andy Webb: together that hopefully sees you through all this. And then
- 17:20Andy Webb: we're talking about building wealth once you've got rid of the debts.
- 17:23Kia: Amazing. Thank you so much, Andy. This has been a
- 17:26Kia: really good episode. And hopefully our listeners, if they are
- 17:28Kia: struggling, this is step one and day one for them
- 17:31Kia: to make that change and tackle their debt. So thank
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