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Feminist Movie Friday: What's Cooking? · Stuff Mom Never Told You

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  Speaker 1: Hey, this is Anny and Samantha and welcome to Stephane.
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  Speaker 1: Never told your prediction of I heart radio.
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  Speaker 2: And you know what, I feel like, this is starting
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  Speaker 2: to be a tradition around the holidays. I think where
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  Speaker 2: I need to do a throwback and this one went
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  Speaker 2: to the two thousands. The odts literally zero zero looking
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  Speaker 2: at the old days, and I guess what we used
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  Speaker 2: to think about the holidays or this movie specifically, maybe
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  Speaker 2: what the person from the UK you may think of
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  Speaker 2: as a US Thanksgiving. I'm gonna put a big question
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  Speaker 2: to Mark there, which is funny because I have a
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  Speaker 2: good friend who moved from Georgia to the UK and
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  Speaker 2: she hosts a Thanksgiving there every year and the people
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  Speaker 2: they love it, Her friends UK friends love it and
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  Speaker 2: look forward to it every year, even though that's not
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  Speaker 2: a thing that they do, which I thought was quite funny.
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  Speaker 2: But yeah, so we're talking about the movie What's Cooking,
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  Speaker 2: which doesn't have a great rating. Annie. I noticed that
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  Speaker 2: when I was like, oh, yeah, it has like fifty
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  Speaker 2: eight percent rotten tomatoes. Maybe it's because it's so old
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  Speaker 2: and ron tomatoes wasn't around at that point. Right now,
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  Speaker 2: I actually don't know. I thought it was a newer thing.
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  Speaker 2: Newer I say that loosely.
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  Speaker 3: I will say that.
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  Speaker 1: You suggested four movies, right, because we were looking for
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  Speaker 1: like Thanksgiving movies, and I watched the trailer for all
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  Speaker 1: of them, and all of them I was actually like,
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  Speaker 1: I kind of do want to watch this? And I
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  Speaker 1: looked up all of their their percentages, and all of
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  Speaker 1: them were pretty good. But I didn't look at Rotten Tomatoes,
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  Speaker 1: so I don't know, but all of them were pretty good.
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  Speaker 2: I like the question mark pretty good ish and yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So this movie that I gave you a long lest
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  Speaker 2: that I was like, this looks pretty, you know, on
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  Speaker 2: point with what we would would look at in time
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  Speaker 2: was directed by Grinder Chada, who also wrote and directed
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  Speaker 2: of Course my all time one of my all time favorites,
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  Speaker 2: which we've talked about before, which we featured bend It
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  Speaker 2: like Beckham, as well as a bigger throwback for me,
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  Speaker 2: Bride and Prejudice, which came I think after this one though,
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  Speaker 2: because I didn't watch it until I was in college.
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  Speaker 2: I was really into Bollywood for a while and brid
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  Speaker 2: and Prejudice it hit. There's so many lines I can't
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  Speaker 2: remember it like, I loved it. But Chata has helped
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  Speaker 2: also helped to write this along with Paul Mayatta Burgess.
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  Speaker 2: Sorry if I said that wrong. Who is the husband?
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  Speaker 2: I didn't realize they were married. It also co wrote
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  Speaker 2: bend It like Beckham, so he is American, so maybe
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  Speaker 2: his perspective also helped. But I found that interesting that
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  Speaker 2: this is who did this. The movie revolves around four
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  Speaker 2: diverse as it has written in many reviews, diverse family
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  Speaker 2: all coming to celebrate Thanksgiving and the many family interactions
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  Speaker 2: that that involves. We have Joan Chin as the matriarch
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  Speaker 2: of the Nunn family, who uh trin is her name
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  Speaker 2: is a Vitnamese family who lives with her husband Douck,
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  Speaker 2: grandma and grandpa, and children Jimmy who's the oldest, Jenny, Gary,
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  Speaker 2: and Joey, which I think maybe most of them are
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  Speaker 2: not Vietnamese. They range like Joan Chin is Chinese. Apparently, Jimmy,
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  Speaker 2: who is played I forgot who played by is Korean.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, huh, they couldn't find Okay, it's okay,
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  Speaker 2: it's okay, it's okay. Moving on. And then we have
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  Speaker 2: the Selig family, a Jewish family with Ruth played by
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  Speaker 2: Laine Kazan who you may know her from My Fat,
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  Speaker 2: My big Fat Greek Wedding. Which have we done that one?
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  Speaker 3: We have seen that movie.
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  Speaker 2: We're coming back to that. We haven't done this. Oh okay,
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  Speaker 2: everybody put that in your calendar because it is coming
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  Speaker 2: with her husband, herbie daughter Rachel played by Kia Sedgwick,
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  Speaker 2: her girlfriend Carla played by Juliana Markaalisee, and her two
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  Speaker 2: sons with the and uncle joining the dinner and as
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  Speaker 2: per Momos things, Yeah, it's played by Sis Heterinordi of people.
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  Speaker 2: And I don't know is Kia Sedgwick. It doesn't matter,
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  Speaker 2: But I don't think they're like when we talk about
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  Speaker 2: the layers of who plays what, you're like, they really
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  Speaker 2: didn't care about accuracy in the sure. I don't think
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  Speaker 2: I say this, but you know.
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  Speaker 1: Then we have the a via the family Latino family
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  Speaker 1: led by the mother Elizabeth played bar Mercedes role with
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  Speaker 1: her children Tony and Gina and her mother and siblings
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  Speaker 1: all added in the mix and then also added to
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  Speaker 1: the chaos as the ex husband Javier and the new
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  Speaker 1: boyfriend Daniel. And then we have the Williams family headed
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  Speaker 1: by Alfred Widard who plays Audrey with her husband, Ronald
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  Speaker 1: and her son Michael, with the mother in law, Grace
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  Speaker 1: and her youngest child, and joining them is a white
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  Speaker 1: couple who works with Ronald at the Governor's office.
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  Speaker 2: Right, Okay, now that we somewhat introduce the families, let's
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  Speaker 2: talk about the plot. So, as we said, the movie
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  Speaker 2: follows four families who are coming together to eat and
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  Speaker 2: continue with their holiday traditions. We get to see the
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  Speaker 2: lives that are somewhat intertwined as they all live in
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  Speaker 2: la and are all neighbors, which I didn't figure out
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  Speaker 2: till much later. I was like, oh, what I had
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  Speaker 2: that moment. They are all bustling about making them their
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  Speaker 2: way through grocery stores, phone calls, and traveling to get
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  Speaker 2: to the actual festivities. We're going to start with the
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  Speaker 2: different families and what they're doing. So the Nwinn family,
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  Speaker 2: who own a local video rental store. What a throwback, right,
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  Speaker 2: all vhs and the clear plastic holders all remember those?
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  Speaker 2: Okay that was the four Blockbuster covered them all up
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  Speaker 2: or had the black black cases because sometimes you're like,
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  Speaker 2: is it the actual movie? Anyway, They're coming together to
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  Speaker 2: make their meal, a mix of Vietnamese cuisine with American cuisine,
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  Speaker 2: a turkey with all the good Asian spices, basil roles
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  Speaker 2: which looked really good by the way spring rolls, and
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  Speaker 2: so much more on the table. Unfortunately, they find out
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  Speaker 2: that the oldest Jimmy can't come due to school, but
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  Speaker 2: it turns out it's a lie, as he wants to
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  Speaker 2: go with his new girlfriend to her family celebration. More
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  Speaker 2: on that in a minute. He is a stable part
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  Speaker 2: of their family, someone they rely on not only as
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  Speaker 2: the college student, but as the oldest brother. The parents
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  Speaker 2: ask him to help and to talk with the younger
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  Speaker 2: siblings as well. And by the way, the other son
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  Speaker 2: has recently gotten into trouble at school and has been suspended.
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  Speaker 2: All the while, the young daughter has been distracted by
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  Speaker 2: boys and makeup. They accuse her for being trampy, I
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  Speaker 2: guess is the best word, because they call her different
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  Speaker 2: things throughout. Soon we have a big twist and find
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  Speaker 2: out that the Sun has a gun under his bed,
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  Speaker 2: which his sister finds and immediately panics, taking it with
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  Speaker 2: her to the video store. After a whole mess where
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  Speaker 2: the parents discovered that Jenny has a white boyfriend and
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  Speaker 2: maybe having sex. Insert earlier discovery of condoms in her pockets.
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  Speaker 2: She confronts the brother Gary, who says he's only holding
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  Speaker 2: it for a friend who was recently jumped. And y'all,
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  Speaker 2: the acting in this part was something.
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  Speaker 3: It was and I have a funny story about it later.
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  Speaker 1: So moving on to the Avilla family, A part of
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  Speaker 1: the connectedness of the plot is Gina, daughter to Elizabeth,
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  Speaker 1: is dating Jimmy, the oldest of the wind family, and
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  Speaker 1: is bringing him home for dinner. Before the dinner, however,
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  Speaker 1: we discover that she's got a new boyfriend.
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  Speaker 2: Mom's got a new boyfriend.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, the mom has a new boyfriend.
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  Speaker 1: Tony and his wife run into his father at the
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  Speaker 1: grocery store, where he awkwardly invites him to dinner. The
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  Speaker 1: dad is like, well, I have nowhere to go, and
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  Speaker 1: Tony's like, all right, come on. After talking with his mother,
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  Speaker 1: he tries to uninvite him. He says he left a
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  Speaker 1: message because the dad had had Javier had had an
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  Speaker 1: affair with the mom the matrix cousin and left them,
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  Speaker 1: but you know whatever, and Jimmy arrive and everyone seems
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  Speaker 1: to warm up to Jimmy after some awkward racist moments
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  Speaker 1: of talking about Bruce, Lee and Jackie chan. Elizabeth lets
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  Speaker 1: Gina know that the new boyfriend, Daniel would be stopping
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  Speaker 1: by Ford Dessert, which Gina has mixed feelings about. As
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  Speaker 1: they all sit together, Javier the father shows up with
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  Speaker 1: very little remorse and tries to win back Elizabeth. Then
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  Speaker 1: Daniel shows up and the whole thing is even more awkward.
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  Speaker 1: They said it opposite, isn't stable. After a bit of
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  Speaker 1: back and forth, Javier leaves after Elizabeth lets him know
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  Speaker 1: she doesn't want to take him back and also, yes,
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  Speaker 1: the grandmother was amazing.
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  Speaker 3: She was very like, why are you here? To get
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  Speaker 3: out of here?
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  Speaker 2: She? I loved her defending the whole. It was definitely
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  Speaker 2: a whole women versus men. In this scene where the
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  Speaker 2: women were taking up for her, the mother be like hey,
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  Speaker 2: while the men were like but but but yes.
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  Speaker 1: That's when I because I texted you and I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I feel like all these holiday movies are telling me
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  Speaker 1: men are terrible.
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  Speaker 3: It was that scene where I was like, this is.
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  Speaker 2: There's several there's several things. Scenes were like, yeah, men
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  Speaker 2: are the worst, so let's just put that out there.
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  Speaker 2: Then we had the Williams family. Dear Audrey is scrambling
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  Speaker 2: trying to make the perfect Thanksgiving Day dinner. Her husband
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  Speaker 2: is currently at work where he works for the Governor
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  Speaker 2: of California. Previously, we see the governor at an event
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  Speaker 2: where he is questioned about his policies concerning the quote underprivileged.
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  Speaker 2: As he's ab to leave, he is splashed with white paint,
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  Speaker 2: with one of one of the attackers being Ronald and
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  Speaker 2: Audrey's son Michael, and as Audrey is preparing dinner, she
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  Speaker 2: is watched and quote assistance upon that end quotes by
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  Speaker 2: her mother in law, who is portrayed as the typical
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  Speaker 2: mother in law in this the nagging woman, which you
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  Speaker 2: know you gotta have one, I guess. The work couple,
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  Speaker 2: who are friends, arrives with their daughter's slash stepdaughter, who
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  Speaker 2: has a lot of attitude and is similarly dressed to
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  Speaker 2: the craft cast. I appreciated that that may amo dark
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  Speaker 2: and during their dinner, the turkey ends up falling through
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  Speaker 2: the table, causing Audrey quite a bit of stress, but
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  Speaker 2: we have them rallying together to fix it and it
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  Speaker 2: still looks quite delicious. They're eating green beans off the floor,
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  Speaker 2: so there's him.
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  Speaker 3: Fine.
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  Speaker 2: The son, Michael shows up to all of their surprise
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  Speaker 2: and it turns out the relationship between the father and
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  Speaker 2: son is strained, which has caused a lot of problems
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  Speaker 2: for the entire family. He debates about school and politics
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  Speaker 2: arise with an explosive remark from the son about the
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  Speaker 2: father's affair with a woman in the office. Audrey runs
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  Speaker 2: into the kitchen to eat dessert as Michael tries to apologize.
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  Speaker 2: The mother in law chastises Ronald but insists they need
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  Speaker 2: to stay together and fix it.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I've seen this also, I really appreciated her aggressive
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  Speaker 1: eating of the pie.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, she was so upset that all she was like,
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  Speaker 2: just couldn't do it. I got a dessert. I understand
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  Speaker 2: that feelings. I do too.
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  Speaker 1: So then we move on to the Selog family. Rachel
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  Speaker 1: arrives with her girlfriend Carla, and already they are being
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  Speaker 1: mistaken us sisters. So they enter the house together in
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  Speaker 1: battle mode like they've clearly kind of knew this was
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  Speaker 1: probably gonna happen. The parents accept their relationship, they still
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  Speaker 1: have a hard time with it. In a conversation between
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  Speaker 1: the parents, we see the mother crime because she thinks
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  Speaker 1: her daughter won't be able to have a happy family. Meanwhile,
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  Speaker 1: we see Rachel and Carla in their twin beds that
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  Speaker 1: they have pushed together, talking about the family and how
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  Speaker 1: to deal with everything. The following day, as they help
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  Speaker 1: the mother put together the dinner, Carla tries her best
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  Speaker 1: to get to know them and even endures a whole
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  Speaker 1: speech about the jacuzzi from Rachel's father about how much
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  Speaker 1: he loves it and the temperature and very minor temperature differences.
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  Speaker 1: Carla and her mother have a good relationship from what
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  Speaker 1: we witness, and Rachel seems to like her a lot
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  Speaker 1: as well, which seems to bring some feelings out in
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  Speaker 1: her mom. Later we find out that the aunt and
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  Speaker 1: uncle are joining and the parents have requested that Rachel
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  Speaker 1: and Carla not mention that they are in a relationship together.
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  Speaker 1: As a family gathers, talks of politics and how Elia
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  Speaker 1: has changed come up, and it gets really tense as
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  Speaker 1: the conversation gets more heated. But at the height of
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  Speaker 1: the conversation, Rachel makes an announcement that she is pregnant,
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  Speaker 1: and confusion and shock ensues, the mother and father trying
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  Speaker 1: to figure out how this happened and advertedly outing them,
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  Speaker 1: which soon leads to the outing of her brother, who
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  Speaker 1: was the sperm donor right.
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  Speaker 2: I did appreciate the other brother who his women and
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  Speaker 2: his wife and the kids come. I did appreciate that
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  Speaker 2: they're very supportive, but also the fact that they also
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  Speaker 2: were getting some shit as the uncle were like, when's
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  Speaker 2: the third baby coming? God, it was quite nice. I
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  Speaker 2: was like, Oh, everybody gets it. Everybody gets it. As
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  Speaker 2: all the dinners are coming to an end, we go
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  Speaker 2: back to see the Wynn family, whose turkey was burned
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  Speaker 2: so they had to order KFC, which I thought was delightful,
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  Speaker 2: and apparently the youngest did too. It was very excited
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  Speaker 2: about this chicken. During the mill, Gary's friends show up,
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  Speaker 2: which worries Ginny, who announces that Gary was hiding a
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  Speaker 2: gun and just lays it on the table because why not.
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  Speaker 2: After a lot of arguing, the youngest and they leave
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  Speaker 2: the table, the youngest comes out, who was very excited
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  Speaker 2: about the chicken, sees the gun, rabs it and plays
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  Speaker 2: with it and it goes off. After a very intense
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  Speaker 2: moment of like this is a PG thirteen movie, kill
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  Speaker 2: the youngest child off. I had that debate back and
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  Speaker 2: forth of the like what the hell and realizing this
• 14:12
  Speaker 2: is quickly turning into an after school special that I've
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  Speaker 2: seen before. I feel like. We soon find out that
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  Speaker 2: the families all live caddy corner to each other. Literally,
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  Speaker 2: each one of it lives on a corner that faces
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  Speaker 2: one another, which is hilarious, being like, how would they
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  Speaker 2: not known each other? How how would they There's so
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  Speaker 2: many questions I had, but I just looked it. But
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  Speaker 2: that the gun had gone off and everybody heard it. Jimmy,
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  Speaker 2: realizing that it came from his house, runs to the
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  Speaker 2: home again he had lied that he's not coming home.
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  Speaker 2: A lot more confusion. We find out that everyone is
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  Speaker 2: safe and the gun has shot out the window. At
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  Speaker 2: this point, Jimmy introduces everyone to his his family, to
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  Speaker 2: his girlfriend Gina, who again lives across the way, who
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  Speaker 2: was accepted into the family. They're like, oh, she looks Vietnamese.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to the family. Uh. And then we have Ronald
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  Speaker 2: who talks to Michael about the future and his own
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  Speaker 2: experiences about how it's hard not having an education and
• 15:08
  Speaker 2: being a black person in the community and what that
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  Speaker 2: looks like blah blah blah. And then we have the
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  Speaker 2: Sea leagues, who are all a bit confused, but more
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  Speaker 2: distracted by the recent gunshot and then the avelis continue
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  Speaker 2: on with their dessert like it's just yay in the
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  Speaker 2: story Happy Holiday.
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  Speaker 3: So can I tell you?
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  Speaker 1: I watched this last night and I had to watch
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  Speaker 1: it with ads, so it was taking longer than I thought.
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  Speaker 1: And one of my good friends came over for like
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  Speaker 1: the final i'd say ten minutes because we were going
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  Speaker 1: to go see the new Thanksgiving movie, which I did
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  Speaker 1: see night, and I didn't know this gun thing was
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  Speaker 1: gonna happen. And my poor friend shows up for the
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  Speaker 1: last ten minutes of this movie and it was like, what.
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  Speaker 3: Are you watching? Like I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: Understand, but it was so funny because I couldn't have anticipated.
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  Speaker 3: This, and that's the only part she saw. Then we
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  Speaker 3: went to go see this other movie in.
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  Speaker 2: The Lads of Chakra.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sure it was quite a day. That's funny.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, the entire setup was odd. It is an hour
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  Speaker 2: and forty five fifty minutes long. I think it is
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  Speaker 2: your tip. It is on not not a sponsor Amazon
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  Speaker 2: Prime with ads. I also, I've never seen this movie either.
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  Speaker 2: I just picked. We were like we need to do
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  Speaker 2: a Thanksgiving Day movie. Let's be silly watch this and
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  Speaker 2: this has four matriarchs. I honestly thought they all came together.
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  Speaker 2: That's what I had envisioned, and then it turned out
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  Speaker 2: none of that was happening. Was like, okay, okay. I
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  Speaker 2: feel like the most diverse of the two would have
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: been the Avila's and the Winds doing their things. So like,
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  Speaker 2: oh at Lisa's cold. Okay, okay, cool, cool to have
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  Speaker 2: an Asian family as part of the star as. In fact,
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  Speaker 2: Joan Chen was kind of uh named as if she
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  Speaker 2: was the star of the show, which is not true
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  Speaker 2: because she's she's barely in it compared to the rest
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  Speaker 2: of them. But I digress. So there's a lot again.
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  Speaker 2: Finding out that it was bended, like Beckham creators really
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  Speaker 2: threw me off because like they really wanted to tell
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  Speaker 2: an American story that's interesting about Thanksgiving, that's interesting, And
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  Speaker 2: of course we did have a couple of conversations about
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  Speaker 2: like you know, the goth girl talking about how you know,
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  Speaker 2: millions of Native Americans, first indigenous people were murdered and
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: killed my disease. I was like, okay, hey, lids say,
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  Speaker 2: I guess they added that in there. UH did love
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: the fact that she during their like we're playing house.
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: She's like, I'm going to be the alcoholics that mother
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  Speaker 2: cult worship based that mother and because we're like, uh
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  Speaker 2: okay cool, and the grandma was too. So there's a
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  Speaker 2: lot to that in that level. But but yeah, there
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  Speaker 2: were several themes, and I think there was more like,
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  Speaker 2: oh yeah, I get this, so obviously the very top
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  Speaker 2: is the holidays and families togetherness and Jimmy lying about
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  Speaker 2: going home and why he couldn't come home. I may
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  Speaker 2: have done that like as of like three years ago,
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  Speaker 2: to be honest, not for a mate, but like just because.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I mean they definitely.
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  Speaker 1: It was kind of shocking how accurately I felt they
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  Speaker 1: captured the vibe of the drama of families during this time,
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: of like the politics of it, of the like ugh,
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: I don't want to deal with this person, of the
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: asking you like if you're single when you're gonna have kids,
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: like all of those.
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: Like things we dread and may lie about to get.
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: Out of and feel guilty about lying about to get
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: out of, and then like visiting another partner's family and yes,
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: be on.
• 19:01
  Speaker 3: The outliers there, right.
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: I loved of course, like at least they had LGBTQ representation,
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: and it was sweet, very nice kind of representation where
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: they're supportive and not trying to be over the top.
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: Of course, the partner is the one that's like, don't
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: say anything, don't argue with your dad about the politics,
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: thing about the immigrations and all the all the things,
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: which I was like, oh, there comes, of course inevitably,
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: that's the conversation. You know. I've talked about the fact
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: that I get scared of going because that's gonna come up,
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: and typically it gets worse. It hasn't been as bad
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: when it's been at its worst, like the Trump administration.
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: My brother did the only thing, which was like, I'm
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: going to buy you a Maga hat, and I kind
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: of just stared at him. I was like, I don't care.
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: And we didn't say anything else. Of course, like we
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: said like, I've already had my arguments with my mom
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: and it was so bad that my mom was I
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: think like begged everyone not to say anything. But apparently
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: political conversations happened when I'm not around. Yeah, because my
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: niece have had to had to deal with that, I'm like, oh,
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: bless her heart, but yeah, that's one of the big
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: I hate. I hate it so much. I will say,
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: as much as like I love, I'd rather go to
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: my partner's family m any day all day because we're
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: all very similar. The father does play news constantly to
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: the fiend, and I'm like, I'm gonna lose it. I'm
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: gonna lose it. Yeah, I'm gonna lose it. But it's
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: not because necessarily that he's arguing with anybody, because everybody
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: pretty much agrees right on all the stances there. But
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: it's just like I still don't want to hear it.
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: Even if it is things that I more agree with,
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: I don't want to hear it.
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's kind of me with my older brother,
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: because my brothers are both very very like all day
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: listening to the stuff like that, and I do agree
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: with most of it. I don't agree with some of it,
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: but but it it is like I will literally go
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: home because they're both like night owls. He'll be four
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: am and I'm just listening to something about Donald Trump,
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, I just want to sleep, Please please
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: off because I can now and now my heart is
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: beating really fast.
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: Oh no, yeah, politics bad, hearing news even worse. Right,
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: I think that's the one thing that they were missing.
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: They need to add that. Now, if they did a
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: remake of this, they add that the one uncle that
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: sleeps in the couch that he listens to the news time.
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: Another theme which we've talked about as a full episode,
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: women preparing the dinner. It was only the women the
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: entire time. Jimmy, Dear Jimmy, and I think this is
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: being the oldest child comes in to play, came in
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: and helped, and I was like, that's super cute like that,
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: and they were all like bragging about how he's so
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: great and doing this. But then like the brother Tony
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: was like, can you give me a beer hunt to
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: the wife, And I'm like, I'll punch you in the throat.
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: But we know that's the thing.
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel subsition that that stuck out to me
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: was like, as someone who does do this, it's so
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: frustrating sometimes it's just like.
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: A lot of work.
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: I don't think, because I did love that they showed
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: the making of the like tamal Is and the making
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: of the spring rolls and like kind of it was
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: more communal than I'm used to, and so I don't
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: think there's necessarily anything wrong with that, because I do
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: think there is something like a sort of bonding that
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: happens over that.
• 22:31
  Speaker 3: But I don't.
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: I hate the like assumption you'll do it, and the
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: like not caring, like not being at least somewhat like
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: this took a lot of work.
• 22:41
  Speaker 3: I had to plan all of this. I had to
• 22:43
  Speaker 3: do all of this right now.
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: The turkeys on the floor like yeah.
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: And the person during that William's dinner was the friend
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: the white woman being the one that was like, this
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: is so looks amazing, you did so amazing. She was
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: the only one really complimenting the entire thing to the
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: level it should be complimented. But it does remind me
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: like my own home. We do come together because most
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: of the children are grown, uh, and they help with
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: the food.
• 23:09
  Speaker 4: I do not.
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: I'm the one who brings, like the rolls and the
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: dessert and the the cokes and the drinks. Rather yes,
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: I'm very sullent the cookes. But recently my partner has
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: proved himself as a cook, so it has now become
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: a part of that too. And the last time we went,
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: he went and helped in the kitchen and whatever I
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: was helping too, like we were both in there, but
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: they were just like kind of like Jimmy, They're like, whoa, yeah,
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: what are you doing in here? Are you you want
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: to help? Like to that level, and all was like, yeah, yeah,
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: I guess I got a good and then moving on
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: the matriarchy obviously the overlaying the plot of the entire thing,
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: whether they're steering the conversation, they're steering the mood, they're
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: steering the dinner, and or disappointment, however you want to
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: look at it. They were the main focus of the
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: entire thing. We had men coming in trying to be men,
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: but the women pretty much, whether it was the grandma too,
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: so the wind family, it was the grandma, Like the
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: grandpa was sitting there watching Pamela in Orson, which I
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: didn't appreciate it. Yeah, yes, as a whole throwback, but
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: like you know, the grandma wasn't there comforting the kids,
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: helping with the dinner, making sure everybody was okay, Like
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: she was a big part of that too.
• 24:22
  Speaker 3: Mm hmm.
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it definitely was kind of you had the
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: woman leading the family on this day and trying to
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: bring the family together. It was interesting to me because
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: I feel like my family dynamics are very different. Like
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: maybe actually, maybe it's just me. I can't imagine telling my.
• 24:44
  Speaker 3: Mom I wasn't coming home for the holidays. I did
• 24:48
  Speaker 3: it once. I did it once, and I made like
• 24:53
  Speaker 3: a meal for her to tell her.
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: That I wasn't coming, like a fancy meal.
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I have a different dynamic because you are a
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: smaller family. Yeah, so then that makes a little bit
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: of a difference. But yeah, that's still like a different
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: part for you too. Yeah, I was thinking too. With
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: like the Villa family, she makes everything. She might not
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: be the loud one that takes over the conversation, but
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: she quietly maintains. So she's still welcoming to Hobbyer even
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: though she was like, I don't want him here, right,
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: She didn't ask for permission for Daniel to be there,
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: but Daniel showed up and she made she be like
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: you're ready, like doing all those things. She was ridiculously
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: reserved for that situation.
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: To me, Oh, I was outraged. I was outraged on
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: her behalf. I was like, these dudes suck in your life?
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: Are these men? Why? For the williams Audrey was completely
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: by herself, with the in law hosting the in law
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: as well, which has been a big conversation. There was
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: a reason video and TikTok where a dude was like,
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: I'm bringing to my mom. She's like, no, you're not
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: her grandma. He's like, no, you're not unless you're willing
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: to take care of her because if not, I'm going
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: to be the taking care of her. On top of
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: so we are not agreed, like there are so many
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: he's like, I'm men at this house. He's like, no,
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: I'm taking care of this house. So but this level
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: like who's taking care of whom and who responsibility and
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: who it always falls on no matter what. Maybe the
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: conversation not that like it's a taxing thing to have
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: to double women. And then if you are like opposition
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: and it feels like you're competing with each other, which
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: is that's what this felt like, it could become the problem, which,
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: of course.
• 26:25
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I've said this before.
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: In my family and I feel like a lot of families.
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: My mom would cook the whole thing and then a man,
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: not always my dad, a man would come in and
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: he would cut the turkey, and it would be like,
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: look at what he's done. And one year, literally that
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: man cut his hand and bled all in the turkey.
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: So now does it? She does it fine, Like it's
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: just annoying. Like I'm not saying she should have to
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: do it, but I hate that, Like I shall come
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: in after you've cooked all this thing and I will present.
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: Them, right, I will to what I provided.
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: Yes, she's just capable of doing it without bleeding.
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: That's funny, I'll say. I don't think we've ever had that.
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: It's always been slice ready to go, Like that's never
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: been a ceremony, like if the ceremonies us coming around,
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: which the whole prayer sequence was quite funny too, yes, yeah,
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: but like the having the whole prayer around the table,
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: like that's what happened, but everything's ready to go, like
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: there's no ceremony to cutting turkey. So I found that.
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: I also thought that was just a movie thing and
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: last people actually did that.
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: No, in a different podcast, but it dates back to
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: like the eighteen hundreds and man being like, look, I
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: can provide for my family.
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: I got things, which speaking of Yeah, part of the
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: theme again is men suck, especially barely during the holidays.
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: And I say this was again as my partner, he
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: is great, like he as in fact, I'm like, yeah,
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: my parents never expected me. My mother never expected me
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: to cook. She just expected me to ring like additional
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: things and help. Like now that like he's on board,
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: She's like, okay, yeah he can bring this food. I
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: was like, wait what you never asked me? What is this?
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: I mean, in the end, it's fine. I'm a little
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: low key offended, but not over the top offended, but like, yeah,
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: that men suck in general. The cheating that was just
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: thrown out there like it was just no big deal,
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: Like what the hell?
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like several instances now we're not talking about wood,
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: we're talking about molds.
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: A couple a couple of instances, yes, but yes we
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: have that. And then we have Javier who thinks he
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: could just come back in. He's like, I made a mistake.
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: It was just a flip. It was not a big deal.
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and then like him getting mad, and then the
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: son Tony getting mad, which like he's a kid, I
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: will give him a little leeway. I'm sure it wasn't easy,
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: but also like he was trying to guilt his mom,
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: like we're ruining this holiday.
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: I mean, you just come back to apologize, And I
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: wonder if they just didn't understand the theme of it,
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: and so it came in the end like is it
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: supposed to be? Like this is this how you're supposed
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: to act? Because like the men went after Hobby, I
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: had to bring him back. All the women were like nah.
• 29:16
  Speaker 3: Bye, all the women.
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: They literally have a scene where all the women are
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: on one side and.
• 29:21
  Speaker 2: Then but yeah, like it literally was that to the
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: point that even Tony, who we talk about, the kid
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: who invited the dad, uh was like getting from his
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: wife because his wife was mad at him for doing
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: all that. She's like, hmmm, do you do it?
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: No, You're not even gonna ask her or tell her
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: he's coming.
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: Like the entire time, I was like, well, you know what.
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: I like that they banded together for the mother, because yeah,
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: the ladies they got it again.
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: If they had ended up together, I was gonna be
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: so And there was a moment where You're like, oh wait,
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: oh no, but.
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: She's so passive like that Jimmy seemingly even though she's not.
• 30:06
  Speaker 2: It was all but I think it was just also
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: that that sound like strength, the quiet strength that just
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: like hmm, I'm not even gonna play into this to
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: be dramatic about it. Let's just move on, like this
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: is how little it's may to me, and then we
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: have I guess the LGBTQ. I don't know if like
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: it was a sidemark or supposed to be diversity.
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: It was interesting because it's weird when you watch something
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: from like the two thousands and you feel that we've
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: come so far since, and we have, but it's also
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: strange that I'm like, this could very well easily still happen.
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: It was like a very strange thing where I felt
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: like they were trying to be It's like they tried
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: they did a search on all of the problems you
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: could have at Thanksgiving and they were like, Okay, one
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: is this queer aspect, so let's put that in there,
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: which is true.
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: Uh.
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: It just felt very It felt very dated and also relevant,
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: if that makes.
• 31:20
  Speaker 2: Sense, right right? Yeah, I mean it absolutely did. Between
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: like the having the child and then being like that's okay,
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: people do that nowadays, mom. Like that that being said,
• 31:31
  Speaker 2: that was hilarious to me to the discovery that it
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: was the brother who did them, the brother cousin. I
• 31:37
  Speaker 2: don't know what he was. I thought it was the brother,
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: but then maybe I mixed that one up. I was
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: a donor and then he was gay, like they him
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: as well. It was like, well, damn yeah.
• 31:46
  Speaker 3: They definitely outed them very.
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: Quickly, like the everyone's on the edge about whether or not.
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: And then the fact that she's having a maybe instead
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: of being happy, just being confused. I was like, that's okay,
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: but okay, the.
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: Baby was a surprise. I was not expecting the baby
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: to come up.
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: The gunpit was a surprise. It was quite a bit
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: of surprises. I have to wonder because it's not way
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: off again though it still does I'm like, yeah, she's
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: a UK based person doing this movie. I wonder, like
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: what I really want to sit down with it be
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: like why why Thanksgiving? Why for families? Why these things
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: in LA? Specifically? Like can we because it's like she's
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: not completely She's not wrong as in fact, I know
• 32:38
  Speaker 2: a lot of Asian games were pretty are pretty rampant
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: and were pretty ramp in LA. A lot of things
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: were happening, so it wasn't way off. And then as
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: well as the fact like they are culturally appropriating a
• 32:53
  Speaker 2: lot of things as well. I was like, okay, at
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: the beginning, saying with a kid having the conversation in
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: the mirror, trying to be quote unquote tough saying I'm
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: putting quote my own was around it, but like it
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: had memorials like so, I can't tell if this is
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: inflated in the ideas of what she thinks of la
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: or if it's too on points. But there's also two
• 33:17
  Speaker 2: thousands and I was like graduating high school, going to college,
• 33:21
  Speaker 2: so I had a completely different world in Georgia.
• 33:24
  Speaker 3: The butterfly pins, Oh my gosh, there were butterfly clips
• 33:27
  Speaker 3: in this movie.
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: I also say, like it was interesting to see the
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: with the son Michael and his dad Ronald, when Michael
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: outs his dad for cheating. Yeah, I think, like, I
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: think that's an interesting thing that happens a lot in
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: these family gatherings too, where you're trying to as a
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: family hold it together and maybe keep these things secret,
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: and then they come out, and like who decides when
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: it comes out? And then when the mother in law
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: was like, oh, you have to stay together like those
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: I have seen all of this. I have seen all
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: of this, and it's just interesting. I feel like a
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: lot of times we all have those, you know. I
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: think I read a joke about this the other day,
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: like it's not Thanksgiving unless one person refuses to come,
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: Like we have these right, these dramas in our family,
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: and these just just unresolved, unresolved things. And then you
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: come together for a holiday and you're trying to make
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: it look like you're a good family, good family, a
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: perfect family, like nothing is wrong, but something is clearly wrong, right,
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: Like you're not talking about you're not being honest with
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: each other, right.
• 34:45
  Speaker 2: And then there was just a whole bit with that
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: Li Williams family. I was like, why is that white
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: dude butting in about his son? He needs to shut up,
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: Like I was getting annoyed with that. You want to
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: pick a fight at someone else's house. That was like,
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: even if he was wrong, had been like, excuse me,
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: this is not this is family business. You need a shed, right,
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: I could think that's not a lie. Yeah, so there
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: you go. What a roller coaster A very succinct but
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: very displaced, Like both of those things happened these movies.
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: Yes, in this movie Weather, it was not what I
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: was expecting. And hats off to my friend who's the
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: last ten minutes?
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: Are they okay?
• 35:33
  Speaker 3: Yes?
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: I did get a text for her this morning. That
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: was like, I had very weird dreams and I blame you,
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: and I was like, between the two things, will take that.
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: I think that's fair. I don't think I'm gonna watch
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: some of those others you suggested.
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: I'm curious. I don't have watched any of them. I
• 35:51
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