Latest / The Junto Podcast / E17: Navigating Judgments: Personal vs. Righteous
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- 0:00Music.
- 0:10Hello, America. Welcome to the Junto Podcast, where we promote the practical
- 0:15applications of critical thinking and bold creativity.
- 0:18I am your host, Edgar Mills. Thanks for joining us.
- 0:22Music.
- 0:28Hello, America. Welcome to episode 17, entitled, Navigating Personal and Righteous
- 0:35Judgment. Yep, that does that seem ambiguous?
- 0:38I'm not sure a couple of things prompted this episode And and we'll get into
- 0:43those things, but i'm just gonna just jump right in.
- 0:46I got pages and pages of notes here So so navigating personal judgment versus
- 0:52righteous judgment We We live in a world of endless opinions.
- 0:59I have plenty of them everyone out there has opinions on things,
- 1:04and the things that How do we discern among those things what we are mostly
- 1:12applying our biases to versus some kind of standard that we form an opinion
- 1:18against or philosophy or faith or whatever?
- 1:22How do we come to our opinions, for one?
- 1:26And then, in what fashion are we not imposing, but sharing those opinions?
- 1:35And based on those opinions, are we being judgmental?
- 1:39I don't know. We'll see. We're going to kind of juxtapose.
- 1:45Now, when I say Christianity and Christian faith, understand that I'm speaking as an individual.
- 1:51I am not a biblical scholar. I'm not even that smart on the Bible.
- 1:55I can do some research here and there.
- 1:58Yeah, so understand that Edgar Mills does not speak for Christians when I'm
- 2:03speaking from a Christian perspective.
- 2:05That's just my own Christianity speaking, right?
- 2:10And then we're going to juxtapose the Christian sort of perspective versus the
- 2:15secular sort of perspective based on, you know, ancient philosophies or...
- 2:21Academia and things like that. And we're going to see, we'll see how it goes.
- 2:27So let's clarify, right?
- 2:30Personal judgment comes across most of the time as hypocritical.
- 2:37And kind of self-serving. There are people out there who just love to criticize
- 2:42other people or love to put other people down.
- 2:45And those people, yes, often are hypocrites.
- 2:49So that's kind of straight off the bat.
- 2:52When I say personal judgment, that's immediately, it kind of goes negative straight away.
- 2:57We're all very quick to point fingers without checking ourselves,
- 3:01you know? So, and then on the flip side of that is the righteous judgment.
- 3:07That's about legitimate discerning right from wrong based on,
- 3:12well, biblical principles or just philosophical principles that are from a place of humility, right?
- 3:21And fairness and things like that. So the righteous judgment is usually more positive, I would say,
- 3:29in the sense that it's meant to help, to help either change a way of thinking
- 3:35or to help you get out of a hole,
- 3:38to help in general, right, in a positive sense, versus the personal judgment
- 3:43where it's meant to just critique and bring you down.
- 3:48And sort of from a Christian lens, personal judgment, well, everybody,
- 3:54even non-Christians, right?
- 3:57People who have never gone to church have heard somebody say,
- 4:00you should remove the plank from your own eye before you pick the speck out of someone else's eye.
- 4:05Well, that's from the Bible, obviously, right?
- 4:10And yes, that's true. but that
- 4:13being said we we don't we all
- 4:15got specks and planks in our eyes if we even though we're not perfect if we
- 4:21see one of our friends and homies and loved ones going in a bad way we can help
- 4:26them but it's about avoiding the hypocrisy folks it's not about whether or not
- 4:30you're pointing out something that's potentially harmful it's about point.
- 4:37Because you should point out things that are potentially harmful.
- 4:39But it's about avoiding the hypocrisy. And nothing burns me up more than hypocrisy.
- 4:45Because none of us, folks, not one on this planet of earth is without sin from
- 4:51a biblical perspective.
- 4:53Now, if you're a secular, if you're a hedonist and whatever,
- 4:57and you don't recognize sin as sin, that's fine too.
- 5:01But there are things that are bad. and you have to derive your sense of right
- 5:07and wrong from somewhere.
- 5:09And usually those are found in biblical truths, whether you strayed away from it or not.
- 5:16That's usually the foundation of most of our value systems here in America.
- 5:21From a secular perspective, though, it's kind of more about a moral philosophy
- 5:27where if you pass personal judgment on somebody,
- 5:31It's usually some kind of prejudice or bias that you're passing off.
- 5:36And it's usually, like most things, rooted in some kind of emotional reaction
- 5:41rather than sort of a well-thought-out, logical, reasoned, ethics-based observation.
- 5:51And if you're thinking in a utilitarian sort of
- 5:54way where judgment judgments are kind of
- 5:57weighed on the outcome on the
- 5:59outcomes of of a thing right well was me boozing and drinking and driving home
- 6:05bad well i made it home okay and nobody was hurt so it was okay but self-interest
- 6:10creeps in because we do know that's bad but then we're saying bye but everybody
- 6:14was okay it's it's kind of flawed Decision making,
- 6:19When you When you look at it From that perspective And I.
- 6:23Again, the moral decision-making process that does have a foundation somewhere else.
- 6:31Well, we don't want to ignore sort of an overall equality or fairness when it
- 6:37comes to passing judgment on people from a secular perspective.
- 6:40Back to righteous judgment.
- 6:42The Bible tells us not to judge by appearances, but with righteous judgment, right?
- 6:49And what that focuses on is truth to help to restore somebody to their faith
- 6:59or to protect somebody from going further astray.
- 7:01And whereas in secular sort of thought process or ethics, righteous judgment
- 7:09is kind of likened to principled moral discernment when it comes in philosophy, right?
- 7:16Where judgments are kind of duty, like it's our duty to judge based on justice
- 7:26and fairness without any personal vendettas, right?
- 7:30Taking our own personal vendettas, our own personal biases out of it.
- 7:36So, though it be biblical or secular, there's still sort of very similar lines
- 7:44of thinking when it comes to righteous judgment and when it comes to personal judgment.
- 7:50So, there's a lot of Muldoons out there who are very judgmental.
- 7:55And I say this a lot, you know, in the special operations community when I was
- 7:59in the military, there's a lot of judgmental dudes.
- 8:02You know what I mean? These super fit dudes that do all these things,
- 8:07and they're super fit, and they're good looking, and they got the awesome eating
- 8:11program, and they did whatever, man. Superheroes.
- 8:18Some of them like to be judgmental. A lot of them like to be judgmental.
- 8:22And then, you know what? Never mind that.
- 8:25Religiously, man, some of those folks are very judgmental, and it ain't righteous.
- 8:33It ain't righteous it's very much a i'm better than you sort of mentality and
- 8:38and that's no good either folks that's no good either the i'm better than you
- 8:42thing that's something to,
- 8:45that's not something to flaunt or to flex on other people that's something to
- 8:52be held if you genuinely believe you're better than somebody on the on the foundation
- 8:58of fitness and lethality and intelligence, you know, that's great.
- 9:03But what should your, not judgment, you shouldn't be passing judgment.
- 9:08If you're that great and you're that awesome, it's kind of your duty to help
- 9:13people get to where you're at.
- 9:17Anyway, we're not necessarily talking about individuals here.
- 9:21We're going to talk about some movements a little bit, some of these activists
- 9:26and kind of leftist organizations.
- 9:31For those of you who don't know, and I say this on nearly every episode,
- 9:36I'm a libertarian by politics.
- 9:38I have equally strong critique of both sides of the red and blue,
- 9:44but I do have a particular disdain for Marxism and the communist ideologies,
- 9:52and those usually fall on the left side of that aisle.
- 9:57But again i also hate the hypocrisy and we see that well we see that on both
- 10:02sides of the aisle but it's very it's very magnified on the red side of the aisle.
- 10:10So now we're going to look at and we're going to juxtapose tolerance versus
- 10:15acceptance versus support and and kind of bat these off of christian and secular
- 10:22perspectives and these words get thrown around a lot, tolerance and acceptance.
- 10:28And support is kind of cut and dry, right? But tolerance versus acceptance.
- 10:32They get thrown around a lot, but those words are not interchangeable,
- 10:37good people. Those words are not interchangeable.
- 10:40There's a difference, and there's a significant difference.
- 10:44And here's how I'll explain them while trying to blend faith-based kind of insights
- 10:52and with academic philosophies.
- 10:56Just in general, the definition of tolerance is basically it's putting up with
- 11:00something that you disagree with without interfering while still being engaged, right?
- 11:06It's not necessarily about not taking a stand or being wishy-washy or being lukewarm on a thing.
- 11:11It's respecting the differences that
- 11:15you have with someone else and without you
- 11:17endorsing those differences you don't have to necessarily like
- 11:21a thing that someone does but you tolerate things that in your mind and you
- 11:27should tolerate things and and the metric on when you stop tolerating those
- 11:33things is does that thing is
- 11:37that strong enough to compel me to part ways with this other human being.
- 11:41Now that's, that's a pretty heavy metric, right? But especially family members,
- 11:46especially family members, if they do a thing that you don't like,
- 11:50and it kind of conflicts with your faith or it conflicts with your moral fiber
- 11:56and you think it's wrong, but this person you've known and loved your whole life,
- 12:01is it strong enough for you to cut ties with those, that person.
- 12:05And if it's not, then guess what? You should tolerate what that person's doing.
- 12:11And we'll get to it here in a second. I know some of you are asking already,
- 12:15well, why don't we help change these people?
- 12:19We tolerate a lot of stuff in our life already as it is, right?
- 12:23And there are things worth taking a stand on. There are many things worth taking
- 12:28a stand on, in my opinion.
- 12:30But I'm kind of talking about personal relationships right now.
- 12:34Friendships relationship you know
- 12:37family relationships especially is the thing that this person does intolerable
- 12:44is it a thing that you you would rather part ways with this person and cut ties
- 12:49rather than tolerate their behavior or their whatever whatever idiosyncrasy it is.
- 12:57Think about that. Now, you know what? I didn't plan to put this in there,
- 13:02but I'm going to put it in there.
- 13:03When I was young, I'm not going to say how young, and I'm not going to go into
- 13:08great detail in this relationship.
- 13:09But when I was young, I had a relationship with a black girl.
- 13:14And also when I was young, my dad, God rest his soul, my dad was a bit of a racist character.
- 13:22And you can now i i happen
- 13:26to know that my dad was not truly
- 13:29racist in his heart but yeah i kind of came up there was racism right my dad
- 13:38came you know i was back and forth with my mom and dad throughout my youth they
- 13:42did they divorced when i was young but my dad came over one day,
- 13:47unannounced when I had my black girlfriend at, at the apartment.
- 13:52And I got news for you folks. We were, we were doing what young people do.
- 13:58And my dad was, he was, he was trying to peek at it.
- 14:04Cause I just cracked the door. Hey dad, what's up, man? What are you, what are you doing?
- 14:08Yeah. It was an awkward moment, but guess what? My dad loved me, right?
- 14:12He tolerated what he saw as wrong.
- 14:17And now that was wrong on multiple levels, but it wasn't because she was black
- 14:20for sure. It was because we were young and unsupervised.
- 14:24But in my dad's mind, he was disappointed that I was with a black girl, which is ironic.
- 14:33And I'll get to that story on another podcast. Okay. So at any rate,
- 14:37that was just a little personal anecdote there. I'm sorry. Let me pick up where I'm at.
- 14:42Is what the person is doing enough for you to break contact with them and that
- 14:49you can no longer tolerate it?
- 14:50There has to be a high standard for that, especially with family members.
- 14:54That's my opinion on that.
- 14:57That's my opinion. So putting up with something that you disagree with without
- 15:03interfering while still being engaged. Right.
- 15:06So from a Christian perspective, the term comes to mind and you you've all heard
- 15:10it before. Love the sinner and hate the sin.
- 15:14I mean, that that to me is correct. And what's one of the biblical sort of examples
- 15:21there is Jesus. Because he was hanging out with tax collectors,
- 15:25but all the time telling them they needed to repent, correct?
- 15:29So you can do a thing at some point from a Christian perspective.
- 15:34I mean, you have to repent.
- 15:36I mean, you have to have a realization that the thing you're doing is bad and understand why.
- 15:43And make a solid choice not to do the bad thing anymore.
- 15:48And as a christian as you are sort of
- 15:51sort of loving the
- 15:54sinner and hating the sin you have to mind yourself
- 15:57because the way you react to things has a big impact on on how that's going
- 16:02to play out as the christian all right as the as the the calm cool and collected
- 16:09one you need to be humble and you need to be patient and you need to bear with
- 16:14especially your family members.
- 16:17Out of love is what the Bible calls for. That's it, out of love.
- 16:22And I'm not going to mention the word grace again throughout this,
- 16:25but there's kind of a thing within the church and the Christian community and all.
- 16:32There's churches that want to show grace to everyone, which is fine,
- 16:35but some of them cross the line into acceptance of not the individual,
- 16:42but the behavior, right? And the Episcopal has come to mind on that.
- 16:47But I don't know enough about that to carry on. So I'm going to stick on my script here.
- 16:52At some point, you got to draw the line though, right? At some point,
- 16:56grace becomes like an endorsement.
- 16:59And you can't do that as the church. You can't do that.
- 17:05From a secular perspective, philosophy kind of defines tolerance as conditional acceptance.
- 17:11You're you're bearing with something with different
- 17:15beliefs emphasizing sort of neutrality
- 17:19like not taking a stand on the thing in
- 17:22the name of peace you know what i mean social peace or peace amongst yourselves
- 17:27depending on who it is the stanford encyclopedia frames it as putting up with
- 17:33practices without interference to foster cooperation despite disagreements so it's the same.
- 17:40That's what tolerance is. You don't care for the practice that you're going
- 17:45to put up with it to maintain the peace.
- 17:50To maintain some cooperation or some other mutual benefit.
- 17:55In family, for sure, you need to be tolerant. But also often in business,
- 18:01right, you'll tolerate someone or at work.
- 18:03You'll tolerate a policy or a person or a certain behavior just to keep the
- 18:10peace or for mutual financial gain or simply not to get fired because you may be the minority on that.
- 18:20You know, academics, the philosophy and ethics, secular ethics,
- 18:26sort of see it as a sort of a virtue to be tolerant and to for the peaceful coexistence.
- 18:33Now, again, tolerance doesn't mean indifference, folks. You don't you can have
- 18:38an opinion about a thing and make but you can still make the deliberate choice
- 18:43to to put up with that thing just to maintain harmony. Right.
- 18:48Again, you can have the opinion. and the idea about a thing.
- 18:52And at some point, for some people, there's a breaking point.
- 18:55And when they break, they've made that decision that this is no longer tolerable.
- 19:00And then they cut away and that's your black sheep uncle or aunt that you haven't
- 19:05seen for decades because your mom and your uncle got in a fight or whatever.
- 19:12Or you just break with a business. my mom once quit a job.
- 19:15I'll tell you now, my mom was a lesbian. She came out when I was about 17, I think.
- 19:23And my mom, for those of you who know me and who knew young me,
- 19:27younger me, I'm a very aggressive, very confrontational person.
- 19:32Well, I get all of that exactly from my mother.
- 19:36And, and she, and she was the champ.
- 19:41She was a hard woman and she was a champ and she would, she was ready to fight,
- 19:47you know, pretty quick on things.
- 19:49And anyway, my mother who, she worked at a prominent auto auction and she was
- 19:59like the man standing next to the man.
- 20:02She was like number two for that auto auction.
- 20:05And it was a pretty, I mean, it was a, it was a good job. She made a lot of money.
- 20:10And she enjoyed doing it, and she did it well.
- 20:14The boss, she was the man next to the man.
- 20:17Well, the man made an off-color lesbian joke in my mom's presence one day,
- 20:24and that ended that relationship.
- 20:26That ended that job because she MF'd him up and down, cursed him out every which
- 20:33way but loose, and packed her stuff and beat feet.
- 20:38And that that was that was my mom that's how she did business she
- 20:42didn't tolerate a bunch of bullshit
- 20:45she didn't tolerate it yeah she
- 20:48didn't tolerate it at all and they tolerated her everybody knew she was gay
- 20:52the boss knew she was gay he thought he was being funny i'm sure he thought
- 20:57he was being clever and cute yeah she didn't she wasn't having it so we tolerate
- 21:03things to to keep the peace.
- 21:05We tolerate things to maintain relationships, sometimes just for mutual gain.
- 21:11And there's nothing wrong with it. It's okay to be tolerant. You should be tolerant.
- 21:15And you should have a pretty, you know, wide, wide berth there.
- 21:20Now we're going to go into acceptance. Now this steps it up a notch,
- 21:23right? Accepting a thing.
- 21:25You're no longer just, just tolerating
- 21:29it and and not interfering right you're now affirming a thing or normalizing
- 21:34this thing and that's a that's a slippery slope from the christian perspective
- 21:40because now you're at risk of kind of kind of approving and and endorsing sin
- 21:45if you accept something right.
- 21:49And this is where we get crazy with the church and the gay community.
- 21:55Because the church, biblically, yes, homosexuality is a sin.
- 21:59The church says that marriage is between a man and a woman.
- 22:03Now, I'll refer you back several episodes to my opinion.
- 22:09Well, I don't care that a man marries a man or a woman marries a woman.
- 22:13If it's according to whatever religious beliefs you have. I believe that marriage
- 22:18is a religious institution, not a state institution.
- 22:25So if you go to some bizarro church, if you go to a Wiccan church,
- 22:30now, look, yes, do I think that's your sin and all that? Yeah, sure.
- 22:34But look, who am I to judge? That's what we're here about right now.
- 22:37But to me, marriage is between whatever spiritual or religious or whatever.
- 22:45I don't care if you go to a shaman out in the middle of the woods somewhere,
- 22:51if that shaman, you know, if you guys smoke the peace pipe and get naked and
- 22:56do whatever, and he says you're married, you're married.
- 23:00If you believe you're married, as far as your faith goes, whatever that faith
- 23:04is in, to me, you're married.
- 23:08It's semantics, in my opinion. And the Christian faith, which I'm a part of,
- 23:13yeah, your marriage is ordained by God.
- 23:17Unfortunately, still, I had to go to Georgia to get a marriage license for some
- 23:20reason. Unknown to me still.
- 23:23Now, if you're a statist or if you work for the state, please reach out.
- 23:27Tell me the reason why Georgia needs to issue me a marriage certificate before I can get married.
- 23:35Yep. Where am I? I lost my place, man. I go off on, on the state sticking its
- 23:41face in where it doesn't belong.
- 23:43Okay. As a Christian. Okay. Yeah, here we go. This is where the,
- 23:46the gay community and the Christian community bump heads is,
- 23:49is to, to accept for Christians to accept.
- 23:54Now it's, it's almost like you're, uh, you're turning a blind eye to what you
- 24:00know to be blatant wrongdoing and, uh,
- 24:05Here's the trick, though. Now, again, folks, I'm not a Christian. I'm not a theologian.
- 24:12All right. And I strongly lean on the New Testament and I strongly lean on specifically
- 24:17the words written in red.
- 24:20Jesus accepts people where they're at and then he guides them,
- 24:25pushes them even for transformation.
- 24:29He loves them and sticks with them, and they may or may not come out of their
- 24:37sin. In most cases in the Bible, yes, they did.
- 24:39If you want to be a real Christian, right, if you want to be a real solid,
- 24:42rock-solid Christian, you can accept people where they're at without belittling,
- 24:48without blatant, biased judgment, and simply, and the way I think to do it,
- 24:56now this is just Edgar talking, is you live your example.
- 25:01You simply live your life, and it's okay to occasionally say,
- 25:07hey, look, yeah, Christ loves you.
- 25:10You should consider and then move on.
- 25:14You don't need to chastise. You don't need to finger point. You don't need all
- 25:17that stuff. You don't need to do that.
- 25:20We all know God works in mysterious ways. We all know that.
- 25:25You be the example. Don't be the judge, jury, and the prosecutor.
- 25:31There's only one, ultimately, who's going to do that, right?
- 25:36From secular ethics, views acceptance as a full-on endorsement.
- 25:43Full-on integration approval of the differences that and this plays out you know politics a lot.
- 25:52Uh yeah it plays out in politics a lot but what it does though is when you when
- 25:58you go into full-on acceptance of a thing that you disagree with or secretly
- 26:03inwardly know to be wrong damn excuse me.
- 26:07Something you inwardly know to be wrong.
- 26:10Now you're blurring moral lines, right?
- 26:13If you're now accepting a thing surface level and allowing these things to carry
- 26:21on that you know to be wrong because those things,
- 26:25as they gain steam, whatever thing you think is wrong, and let's use the example of the LGB community,
- 26:35in the 80s and 90s, well, let's say 80s,
- 26:39and back then when there were very vocal Christians saying that,
- 26:44oh, if you let this slide and if this becomes normal, pedophilia is next.
- 26:52Well, guess what, folks? You can like it or lump it, and I'm not pointing fingers at anyone.
- 26:59I'm telling you right now, pedophilia has become prominent or more visible anyway.
- 27:06And not only has it become more visible because of the internet and things like
- 27:12that, there are people out there, and I wish I could remember this lady's name,
- 27:18who now wants to classify pedophilia as a sexuality and not blatantly wrong
- 27:26and harmful to children.
- 27:30Now now we could do a whole nother podcast on
- 27:34you know maturity level
- 27:37and physical readiness for for sex and things like that but yeah there are people
- 27:43out there calling for the normalization the acceptance of pedophilia using the
- 27:50lgb community as the stepping stone or the civil rights as a stepping stone.
- 27:56Now, I think most of us will agree that pedophilia is flat out wrong.
- 28:02And no matter if you're the, whatever bizarro religious rituals from whatever bizarro religion,
- 28:13if there's kids involved, they're doing it wrong.
- 28:18I'll tell you that right now. And if that's got to do with some bizarre stuff
- 28:23like removing foreskin and consuming it or whatever bizarre crap that is, that's wrong.
- 28:33You got to stop it. You can't do it.
- 28:37And I'm usually like live and let live. I don't even want to get into the circumcision thing.
- 28:42Because if you say it's okay for a parent to make a decision to transition a
- 28:50child under the age of majority, but especially an adolescent.
- 28:55Or if you say that's not okay, then you got to wonder why is circumcision okay?
- 29:01I mean, they're not removing the genitals, but they're certainly doing a thing that the kid don't like.
- 29:08And I don't know, you know, there's studies talking about the trauma that goes
- 29:12along with that, that's deeply embedded in the brain.
- 29:17Because, yeah, obviously as an infant, you don't remember that stuff. But do you, though?
- 29:22Did it leave some kind of deep trauma? was there some kind of literal chemical
- 29:27reaction in your brain from the amount of pain from some dude cutting off your
- 29:33foreskin and shortchanging you you know what i'm saying i got shortchanged,
- 29:38all right man damn i got i got off on a rant kids pedophilia bizarre religious ritual,
- 29:47involving children no none of it's okay and if and if you think it is please
- 29:53by all means If you have some kind of what you think is a legitimate academic
- 29:57argument of why it should be okay for adults to have sex with children,
- 30:03by all means, hit me up.
- 30:06Edgar Mills at OspreyShootingSolutions.com.
- 30:09And I will try my best with an open mind to hear what you have to say.
- 30:13Chances are you're probably just mentally ill.
- 30:19And already I'm condemning you, right? That's already turning you off.
- 30:22Look, if there's someone out there listening to this who thinks that I'm going
- 30:26to listen to what you have to say, I will listen to what you have to say. All right.
- 30:31Blurred moral lines, acceptance, right? Acceptance.
- 30:35Do we have to accept a thing we don't like to maintain harmony? No, we don't.
- 30:41It's usually in our best interest to tolerate things because we're a free country
- 30:47and people should be allowed to do the things that they want to do as long as
- 30:50they don't infringe upon other people, right?
- 30:53As long as they don't hurt other people and take their stuff,
- 30:55as long as there's no coercion involved in some bullshit cult to where you mentally
- 31:03manipulate people or drug people or whatever to get them to follow your path.
- 31:09As long as there's no coercion, yeah, we're a free country. We should be able to do anything we want.
- 31:14If you want to go worship the trees, go worship the trees. I happen to worship God.
- 31:19You may worship, I don't know, what's some of these other ones?
- 31:22Buddha, you may be a Buddhist or some of these other ancient sort of, or Hindu or whatever.
- 31:30And i think still i and my i'm in
- 31:33my mind you're wrong but that's okay we're free
- 31:36to do that as long as you're not harming other people now we
- 31:40went from acceptance and we're going to slide into support folks support now
- 31:45this this this is outright promoting and enabling a thing whatever that is facilitating
- 31:51it and helping it to thrive and survive and i and i mentioned episcopals earlier.
- 31:57I want to say, I mean, they claim to be Christians, I think.
- 32:02I'm not too up on this, and I don't want to drag people through the dirt,
- 32:06but I think they performed gay marriages in the church.
- 32:11And the one I'm thinking about specifically, well, there's two that I'm thinking about specifically.
- 32:16One is in like Virginia Highlands, I think, and then one is up near Morningside
- 32:22Drive, I think, or Cheshire Bridge, up Piedmont, somewhere up there, there's a church.
- 32:27Pretty close to Fat Matt's Rib Shat. That's what I'm thinking about.
- 32:31And I think, you know, they do, they do like gay marriages and stuff like that.
- 32:35Now, Atlanta has a huge gay population for sure.
- 32:39But is that in line with biblical truth? Is that in line with biblical truth?
- 32:44And I don't think it is. Well, I know it's not.
- 32:48Let's see. Christians are called back to truth, yes. So when it comes to support,
- 32:53like at some point, yes, Christians do have to stand firm.
- 32:58And when we don't see this, by the way, this happens in foreign countries.
- 33:02I want to say in Syria right now, good people, Christians are being murdered
- 33:07systematically in Syria.
- 33:10In Africa, in let's say, let's see, Congo, Central Africa for sure,
- 33:16up in that region anyway Cameroon maybe yeah.
- 33:21Christians get murdered all the time and nobody bats an eye.
- 33:26Nobody seems to give a crap.
- 33:27And this ain't like, and look, folks, you're like, well, you shouldn't be over there anyway.
- 33:31This ain't white missionary Christians, white bread, Nebraska Christians going
- 33:37over to spread the gospel.
- 33:39This is Africans who have been Christianized, you know, freaking decades ago.
- 33:47And they're getting murdered systematically.
- 33:49And nobody cares. So Christians are called to back the truth and back the word of God.
- 33:58And I know there's interpretations of the word of God, but generally speaking,
- 34:03there's a, there's sort of an overall sort of consensus.
- 34:07You got to, and for Christians, it's all about acknowledging and standing on
- 34:13God's design versus your truth.
- 34:16And I'm doing your truth in quotation marks.
- 34:19There is no your truth folks. And I know that's a young generational thing.
- 34:24I don't know about millennials, but the Generation Z folks, I know there's a your truth out there.
- 34:31There is no your truth. There's your circumstance.
- 34:35But just because it's happened to you, don't make it the truth.
- 34:39Trust me on that. There's your circumstance. From a secular angle on that,
- 34:44philosophy sees support as an ethical sort of advocacy, right? Right.
- 34:50You're you're you're acknowledging that, yes, this is right and OK,
- 34:55but only if it's still, you know, kind of aligned with like they still there.
- 35:00There still should be from a secular angle, you're still looking for things like justice. Right.
- 35:06Any blind support of anything is is bad.
- 35:09Any bad, any any anything that you don't know all about it.
- 35:15If you support a thing you don't know all about, and then those little fine prints get in there,
- 35:22those little secret dark spaces start opening up a little bit,
- 35:25and you realize you've aligned yourself with a thing that is horrible,
- 35:30and you've enabled some very wrong and very bad outcomes,
- 35:34then that's going to erode the societal or the greater good,
- 35:38which from a secular view, that's what, and especially from kind of a leftist
- 35:42view, it's all about the greater good, right?
- 35:45The greater good, the ends justify the means. The, what is it?
- 35:50Contract, social contract.
- 35:53So if you just outright, from a secular perspective, if you just blindly support
- 35:59a thing without knowing about that thing in great detail,
- 36:03whether it's a lifestyle or a philosophy or an activist group or whatever,
- 36:10a political group, when bad things start happening, You're...
- 36:16That is not for the greater good that starts to
- 36:18erode the greater good you're you're
- 36:22complicit man so you need to you need
- 36:24to know about these things not from a christian's perspective but like what
- 36:29is the end what is the mean end goal here what how do they achieve what they
- 36:35what they claim to to want and a lot of these political activist groups that
- 36:40popped up during the during the spring, what was the Arab spring?
- 36:44Remember that in 2014 or so?
- 36:48And then we have a, and then that began the sort of, it's okay to riot decade.
- 36:56It's been, it's okay to riot and destroy things.
- 36:59When you align yourself with groups like that, who are maybe started out as
- 37:03grassroots, but then just got taken over by, by big money interests and you're
- 37:08out looting and destroying property.
- 37:12And you can't even say why. I mean, you're not a thinker at that point.
- 37:17So there is a responsibility, folks. Even from a secular angle,
- 37:22you do have responsibility to know what you're supporting and to ensure that
- 37:30that support is, in fact,
- 37:33for the good of our society.
- 37:36All right. Man, that was a lot of stuff there.
- 37:40So how do these things play out in real life and i've alluded to all these things,
- 37:46friendships or family how do these play out have you been in a situation where
- 37:51you you're at odds with somebody and you tolerate them do you have a friend
- 37:56do you have a close friend,
- 37:57who's like an alcoholic or a heavy drug user and they're all they're off the
- 38:02chain but you're you love them so you don't want you don't want to participate
- 38:06with that but you don't want to let them hurt themselves either?
- 38:11I mean, think about that. Does that exist in your life?
- 38:16Things play out in friendships or public policy or business.
- 38:20One thing that comes to mind, you guys remember, I don't know,
- 38:23man, it kind of comes in and out, it's off and on, but back several years ago,
- 38:28Chick-fil-A made some public statement about traditional marriage or something like that.
- 38:33And then the LGB community lost
- 38:37it and they, oh, we're going to boycott Chick-fil-A and all those things.
- 38:43Yeah. I mean, sure. People say, vote with your dollars, vote with your feet, you know?
- 38:49And if you don't want to support a place that, that you don't,
- 38:52that is not all in for you, that does not fully support your whatever.
- 38:58Yeah. That's, that's your right to do it.
- 39:01Is it correct for you to try to burn them down? And I don't mean physically burn.
- 39:05I mean like to try to ruin their business. Is that correct?
- 39:10Is that a correct response for them just saying, I believe in traditional marriage? Maybe not.
- 39:15Or retail stores, and this was similar timeframes, maybe a little later,
- 39:20with, I think, I want to say it was Target or somebody who was doing all this
- 39:23transgender youth stuff.
- 39:27And that was, you know, there's half the population that was aggrieved by that. and the same holds true.
- 39:36Do we need to burn Target down? Do we need to destroy Target?
- 39:39No, you vote with your feet. You vote with your dollars and see how it plays
- 39:44out. I don't need to slander Target.
- 39:48If Fox 5 Atlanta, hey, can you say your name? Hey, yeah, I'm Edgar.
- 39:54So what do you think about Target? I don't shop at Target.
- 39:58Yeah, it wouldn't be a very good news interview, would it yeah i don't shop
- 40:02at target that's it or i do shark or whatever now throw a twist in there what
- 40:08if they approached you and you're a gay man you go hey what do you think about
- 40:10chick-fil-a and you go i love chick-fil-a it's awesome.
- 40:14Then you'd piss off half of your community or more.
- 40:18That's why we got to stop putting ourselves in these big teams and these big
- 40:22tribes and start kind of getting back to the individual, you know,
- 40:26working on our individual merits.
- 40:28Am I a good person? Am I gay?
- 40:31Maybe. But am I a good person? Am I polite?
- 40:34Do I interact with people? Do I behave like a civilized human being?
- 40:37Am I productive at work or school or in my art?
- 40:42Do I create great things? do I build great houses you know get we need to get
- 40:48back and I'm going to get to that in a minute all right I'm going to get that
- 40:50in a minute what else what else what else what else the.
- 40:56When you're on these tribes and you have to believe the party line or you have to toe the line
- 41:01or be excommunicated from your tribe and and
- 41:05you have that it's all or nothing sort of
- 41:08mentality you're either an ally or
- 41:11an enemy man that's just such a
- 41:14negative bad way to
- 41:17to do business to be because you're
- 41:20cutting off literally half of the population that could potentially well could
- 41:26potentially be an ally if not for your cause for you as an individual right
- 41:32i have I have a few clients that are transgender and they're genuinely good human beings.
- 41:39And I don't necessarily support, I don't support a lot of things,
- 41:46but I don't necessarily, I tolerate and even accept them for sure.
- 41:53And to the point that I care about their wellbeing.
- 41:56I care about their wellbeing. I mean, physical well-being, mental well-being,
- 42:02their emotional well-being, their financial, all these things.
- 42:08I genuinely care about them. And I disagree with kind of the sort of the lifestyle
- 42:14in their mind that they are what they are.
- 42:18And probably in their mind, they're living their truth. I consider it to be
- 42:22their circumstance. However, I hope I don't lose friends over this, but that's the way it is.
- 42:28People who I've become friends with, regardless of whatever their tribe is or
- 42:34regardless of whatever their, you know, bizarro activism thing may be,
- 42:40you know, I genuinely care about these people.
- 42:44So in friendships, you tolerate differences. You accept people for who they
- 42:49are, but then you only actively support what you see to be right.
- 42:55But what you see to be right for your friend, as well as biblically,
- 42:59as well as, you know, you could try to guide them to Jesus.
- 43:05You know, if they refuse, then so be it. It may happen one day. No, it may not.
- 43:14And that's from a sort of biblical perspective, as a sort of non-biblical,
- 43:19sort of secular perspective, is that you need to balance your relationship with,
- 43:24you know, kind of mutual growth.
- 43:25You want to see your friends improve in whatever aspects of their life.
- 43:31My best friend, Timmy, I want to see him be successful at everything he does.
- 43:35I want, you know what I'm saying? I want his family to thrive.
- 43:40I want his work to thrive. I want him to be healthy.
- 43:43And I want that for people, everybody that I know. I don't wish bad things on any of my friends.
- 43:52And as far as public policy goes, we talked about Chick-fil-A and Target a little
- 43:57bit. But you've got to balance people's rights.
- 44:03And as a person who's trying to exert your uniqueness on people,
- 44:09right, don't go around demanding acceptance and support.
- 44:14That's how you get cut off. And some people just out of principle,
- 44:19in America, right, we are rugged individualists to a very large degree still.
- 44:27Even though I'm talking about pioneer days, if somebody demanded a thing of
- 44:32you just out of blanket frigging principle, F you, right?
- 44:37And I'm almost that way now.
- 44:40But as a secular philosophy and when it comes to philosophy,
- 44:45when it comes to business, when it comes to things, it lines very much up with
- 44:50the libertarian sort of perspectives on non-coercion, right? Non-aggression.
- 44:54Sort of neutral laws. Don't hurt people. Don't take their stuff.
- 44:58Don't coerce. Right? That's it.
- 45:03Promote tolerance, no matter what team you're on, you should be promoting tolerance.
- 45:07And I hate to keep going back to the left. The left is not very tolerant of
- 45:12the Christian community or whatever.
- 45:15And they like to say, and they like to exaggerate, and they take the worst examples.
- 45:21And look, the right does this too. They'll pick the worst examples to highlight as a norm.
- 45:29And that's kind of disingenuous, folks, to pick the worst possible examples to call the norm.
- 45:36And the example I'm going to bring up is, what's the name of that damn church?
- 45:41It was in Arkansas or somewhere, and they were in the news a lot.
- 45:50Not Fultondale? No, that can't be right. That sounds like my buddy's church. That's not correct.
- 45:55There's a church, and I can't remember the name of it right now.
- 45:57And they would hold signs up that says, God hates fags.
- 46:03And I think one time when soldiers were coming back, they were something about
- 46:08how soldiers were murderers or something like that.
- 46:13Probably under the Barack Obama presidency. Yeah, they were very vocal,
- 46:18but they were very hateful.
- 46:19That is not in line with Christianity, folks.
- 46:22That's just not in line with true Christianity. And then Christians take the
- 46:27worst of the worst scenarios, like pride parades in San Francisco, for instance.
- 46:36People are out openly having anal sex and urinating on one another in the public.
- 46:43And there's kids walking around.
- 46:46And it's egregious from a Christian perspective. It's egregious.
- 46:51And these poor kids. And yeah, I agree that the kids shouldn't be exposed to
- 46:55that, but also these parents are allowing their children, these parents are
- 47:00exposing these kids to that consciously.
- 47:04So they're not raising their children as Christians for sure.
- 47:08And if they are allegedly raising their kids as Christians, and then they're
- 47:14seeing grown men urinate on one another and they're saying, oh,
- 47:20see, we have to accept them as they are. We love them because we're Christians.
- 47:24That is absolutely wrong.
- 47:27But that is one of the most, one of the worst examples that I can think of that
- 47:33the Christian folks kind of, well, that's normal homosexuality.
- 47:39I don't think that's correct. I don't think that's correct.
- 47:46So we're moving on here. We're moving on. What about, what duty,
- 47:53is there a duty for Christians sort of publicly addressing sin?
- 48:01Now, and I'm not talking about the guy standing out on the street corner with
- 48:04a sign that says, repent.
- 48:06That's a public display. He's a Christian and he's simply standing there letting
- 48:11the Lord work through him, right? There's nothing wrong with that at all.
- 48:16What about ones who are aggressive?
- 48:20Are they like the one I described earlier? I wish I could remember the name
- 48:25of that frigging church.
- 48:27If you got somebody shaking their finger in your face, telling you that you're
- 48:31going to hell because you're a piece of crap, because you X,
- 48:35Y, Z, that's not in line with the Christian principles, folks.
- 48:40And I don't think Jesus, even though, Now, look, Jesus went hard on some Pharisees,
- 48:45you know what I'm saying?
- 48:47And the money changers and whatnot in the temple, he went hard. Yeah, he went hard.
- 48:54But ain't nobody out there on the streets these days, Jesus.
- 49:00You ain't Jesus, all right? I ain't Jesus. We can try to be Christ-like,
- 49:05but try to be Christ-like without the biases that you throw into it.
- 49:10You know what I mean? And boy, this is getting crazy.
- 49:13I might get some hate from a bunch of people on this. I don't know.
- 49:18Christians, in my opinion, me as a Christian, I believe it's important that
- 49:23you do have to balance love and truth while remembering that nobody's perfect to include yourself.
- 49:33You have to remember that nobody's perfect to include yourself.
- 49:36In my opinion, there's nothing worse than a hypocrite. you have to remember
- 49:40there's no one is perfect to include yourself.
- 49:45I don't think you have a Christian duty to go out and condemn the sinners, whoever they are.
- 49:53I don't think you're wrong for doing it as long as you're doing it out of humility
- 49:57and love and just telling God's truth.
- 50:01I think there's nothing wrong with that.
- 50:05And likewise, there's nothing wrong with being an LGBT, whatever,
- 50:10and if somebody asks, you know,
- 50:13do you have to wear, is there a mandate for LGB community to self-righteously
- 50:20proclaim their sexuality out in public loudly and proudly?
- 50:27Is there a mandate for that? Or do you do it just out of spite?
- 50:34I think the Christians, as well as the gays, as well as everyone else.
- 50:39Somewhere, I want to say in Seattle, there is a statue on some state property
- 50:43of like Moloch, or one of the things that the Satan worshiper,
- 50:49the Church of Satanism or whatever it's called.
- 50:53They have a statue dedicated to this beast, this Satan worshiping sort of thing.
- 51:01Completely, folks, completely out of spite. We all know that this country was
- 51:05not built on satanic ritual.
- 51:08It was, generally speaking, built on Christianity.
- 51:13But out of spite, with loopholes and various rules and this and that and the
- 51:18other, there's a statue.
- 51:20But what these people and what all these various groups don't,
- 51:25they're leaving out the balance.
- 51:27They're leaving out the subtleties and the nuance. and it's all just big,
- 51:33ugly, brute force things.
- 51:36And most of it, the big, ugly, brute force things that you see out there in
- 51:41the wild is usually very self-righteous.
- 51:44From whichever side you're coming from, it's usually pretty self-righteous.
- 51:48And that's bad. That's no good. That's no good. What is a biblical mandate?
- 51:56What is the biblical mandate? I don't know.
- 51:59Warn lovingly. I think somewhere in the book of Ezekiel it says that. Restore gently.
- 52:05Let the Holy Spirit convict. Not you. Let the Holy Spirit convict.
- 52:13And then the last thing, I'm going to read this piece. This is not the last thing.
- 52:19Warn of consequences, but God alone condemns.
- 52:25Gentle warning, right? You can be the gentle warning, but God alone.
- 52:31And I'll say this about what I think my Christianity is, and I'll just leave it at that.
- 52:39Publicly, yeah, you can speak truth to glorify God and protect others,
- 52:45but do it with love publicly.
- 52:49Privately, speak truth to glorify
- 52:52God and protect others, but do it with love. You see what I did there?
- 52:58Do the same thing in private that you do in public and vice versa. Consistency matters.
- 53:05Consistency matters, good people.
- 53:07All right, what are some of the counterpoints to what I've talked about is if
- 53:11you stay silent on a thing, that might imply that you approve of said thing.
- 53:16Now, you may be just biding your time to speak up or looking for the right window of opportunity.
- 53:21But sometimes people take silence as compliance.
- 53:25But what if you're always, always, always out there spouting off outrage nonstop?
- 53:35You're always spouting outrage and victimhood and prejudice and bias and bigotry
- 53:44non-stop that just hardens people up that just that just what's the word i'm looking for.
- 53:53Acclimates them to where it's it lacks
- 53:56any impact it creates fatigue and ultimately
- 53:59it kind of creates the boy who cried wolf effect to where
- 54:02nobody's listening to you anymore if every time any little thing goes not your
- 54:09way and you yelling homophobia and racism and bigotry and Christian oppression and whatever,
- 54:20eventually nobody's listening to you.
- 54:23So in reflection of everything I just talked about thus far,
- 54:26there's a thing to remember, a couple of things to remember.
- 54:30None of us are without sin. None of us are without sin.
- 54:36Do in public what you do in private and vice versa.
- 54:41Be consistent about the way you spread your beliefs.
- 54:48Yeah, treat people with some good manners. All right.
- 54:52Now, I know this is going a little long, but there's three things,
- 54:55there's three examples of real world stuff that I want to sort of examine a little bit.
- 55:01And what we're going to do is break these down into personal judgment analysis
- 55:06from Christian secular sort of perspective.
- 55:09And then we're going to do the righteous judgment analysis with a Christian
- 55:13and secular perspective.
- 55:15And first, we're going to start with, you all remember the case,
- 55:19and I bring it up now, of the baker in Colorado,
- 55:24Jack Phillips, who back in, I can't remember, 2015 or 16 or something,
- 55:31refused to make custom cakes for a same-sex wedding based on his religion.
- 55:37And then not long after that, out of spite, I believe, someone who was transitioning
- 55:45questioning wanted him to make a custom cake for their transition sort of celebration.
- 55:52And he refused. And this guy literally has been in court for 10 years.
- 55:58Sorry for that. This guy has been in court for 10 years defending himself.
- 56:03And but one of the things is, is that he's been.
- 56:08Well, his defense is based in his faith, right? Right.
- 56:12So the kind of personal judgment analysis on that from the Christian perspective
- 56:16is that if you're not a Christian, you could be looking at him as being a bias or whatever.
- 56:24But he was not hypocritical about what he did.
- 56:28And I don't think it was applicable that he ignored his own sins while condemning.
- 56:33He didn't condemn anyone.
- 56:36But the critics looked at him as sort of being divisive and having no grace.
- 56:40And the Christians that did drag him, he has no grace.
- 56:46But there was no clear evidence of that, and he did what he believed he should.
- 56:53The secular sort of side of that is if you show any prejudice,
- 56:58especially if it's arbitrary,
- 57:00it kind of clashes with the anti-discrimination sort of norms that,
- 57:05especially in Colorado, exist.
- 57:09And, you know, refusals to serve certain people. Now, we've all seen the signs
- 57:13in all sorts of restaurants and businesses that says, we reserve the right to
- 57:18refuse anybody business for any reason.
- 57:21And as a business owner, I think you should be able to do that.
- 57:26Stated reason is on your color or sexual preference, that's one thing.
- 57:30But if that stated reason is because it violates my religious views,
- 57:34well, then now we got a different story going on.
- 57:37So these weren't just his willy-nilly personal views. He didn't just not like lesbians, right?
- 57:44He was standing on his faith.
- 57:47The righteous judgment from that is that from a Christian angle,
- 57:53he upheld what he believed to be God's design.
- 57:56He was not going to celebrate or help to celebrate or support and enable same-sex wedding.
- 58:04That's what he knew not to be biblical truth. Now,
- 58:08one of the things that shows that this guy did act with some grace is that he
- 58:14did offer services to them, but he wasn't going to make a special cake for them.
- 58:20He had cakes and stuff like that already made that they were welcome to buy
- 58:23anyone's welcome to go in there and buy a cake,
- 58:26but he he had to stand on not celebrating
- 58:31the purpose of that cake so you
- 58:35know and that and that cost him for a while and people wanted to uh now that
- 58:40being said half the population started going there a lot and then the other
- 58:44half boycotted and the reason i bring this one up is that all the charges finally
- 58:51got dismissed from this guy.
- 58:53So he was found to be correct and right in his actions.
- 58:57Secular view on the righteous judgment there is that as an individual,
- 59:02and he was an individual business owner, you are free to exercise your beliefs
- 59:07however you choose while not infringing on someone else.
- 59:12Balancing his religious liberty against equality.
- 59:17The academic studies see it as ethical stewardship, right? Ethical stewardship.
- 59:22Hey, I'm not going to allow you to violate my beliefs.
- 59:26I'll meet you halfway, and they didn't want to meet halfway.
- 59:29So what he was doing did not cause a broader harm to other people,
- 59:33and ultimately he kind of acted in a neutral way.
- 59:38Now, from a libertarian's perspective on that, and no matter what service,
- 59:42for whatever reason, you can't be compelled or forced to give your labor to another person.
- 59:51You can't be compelled to give your labor to another. They call that slavery, folks.
- 59:56If I'm forced to do a thing for someone else outside the norms of doing business,
- 1:00:04that's indentured servitude.
- 1:00:06And you can't compel somebody to do that. And so that was an interesting one
- 1:00:11because it lasted for so long.
- 1:00:14And obviously Christians jumped right on board and obviously the gay community
- 1:00:17jumped right on board with condemning this guy.
- 1:00:21But one of the things I think that worked in his favor, quite honestly,
- 1:00:25is once this lesbian couple sued this guy and then they tried to pile on.
- 1:00:33Right. Like, oh, we're going to destroy him legally.
- 1:00:36That was not in good faith. They didn't go in that store wanting a transition
- 1:00:41celebration cake in good faith because they already knew what the answer was.
- 1:00:48So to me, that killed their credibility on that.
- 1:00:53About that. I believe the judgment was correct.
- 1:00:56I believe that this guy should not be compelled to do a thing that he didn't,
- 1:01:01that didn't align up with his moral religious beliefs.
- 1:01:05That's what I believe. All right. The next thing I want to talk to,
- 1:01:09the next subject I want to talk to was not, it was not an incident.
- 1:01:13In fact, it's a guy that his name is Maj Touré,
- 1:01:16and he is the owner and
- 1:01:19founder of black guns matter and
- 1:01:23the solutionaries and his his whole thing is he pushes minority gun ownership
- 1:01:30and training and he promotes empowerment through firearms education and other
- 1:01:36basic skills education in the urban communities via black guns matter and solutionaries.
- 1:01:44Why should there be any judgment here? What is the rub?
- 1:01:49Why do I think that there is some kind of judgment that exists?
- 1:01:54Well, I've listened to plenty of his interviews and stuff like that,
- 1:01:58and I see it kind of in the South.
- 1:02:02Now, it's subtle sometimes, and sometimes it's a little less subtle, but I see it in the South,
- 1:02:08is the thought, generally speaking, of a 20-something-year-old black male with
- 1:02:15a firearm scares the living shit out of people.
- 1:02:20Because people, a lot of people, not all, you know,
- 1:02:25kind of lack the critical thinking to not either blanket judge or blanket assume
- 1:02:33that this guy's going to commit crime or do whatever.
- 1:02:38And the hood gets overlooked on a lot of things when it comes to,
- 1:02:42especially firearms, self-defense training. Yeah. Yeah.
- 1:02:49Why would there be any judgment? No, essentially racism. It does still exist folks.
- 1:02:53And just because it's, it shows up more subtly sometimes it still exists.
- 1:02:59And because I've seen it with the way I've seen it with the way black clients
- 1:03:03have approached me very sort of not trepidatious, but softly like, Hey,
- 1:03:11can I come out and train? What do you do?
- 1:03:14And this and that thinking I'm going to somehow shut them down.
- 1:03:18And then I've seen it kind of firsthand at some gun stores, not around here,
- 1:03:22just some gun stores where, you know, some,
- 1:03:26excuse me, black guys will go in looking at guns and everybody gets all nervous
- 1:03:31and starts focusing on and things like that.
- 1:03:35Now, in contrast, I'm going to say a thing, you can call it racist if you want.
- 1:03:41I was at a gun show in Marietta. And when I say add a gun show,
- 1:03:45I had a, I had a table set up sort of promoting my business.
- 1:03:48And next to me was a table of, you know, dudes that had a bunch of guns and
- 1:03:54they had all their guns out on the table, but they had like a huge setup.
- 1:03:58Right. And there was only two of those guys and like four young black guys came
- 1:04:03in kind of in a group and they all kind of went over here and they were looking
- 1:04:08at different guns and then they kind of spread out and they got
- 1:04:12They got their attention, and one of the dudes grabbed up a gun,
- 1:04:18hauled ass toward the door, and then the other dudes ran out.
- 1:04:22They got caught in the parking lot, but my point is this. That kind of shit
- 1:04:26right there kind of exacerbates,
- 1:04:29and it's what I said earlier about Christians and the gays, how they will choose
- 1:04:33the most extreme example and use that as sort of a blanket judgment. it. Well.
- 1:04:43Example. And these dudes, I mean, that was a big ball move because they were
- 1:04:49on the second floor of the thing.
- 1:04:52And there were cops at all the entrances of the damn place.
- 1:04:58So they got rolled up in the parking lot. Pretty funny.
- 1:05:01Anyway, my point is this, not every black guy that comes in the shop is trying to steal your gun.
- 1:05:09So how do we look at that from the Christian perspective? If Maj Touré is acting
- 1:05:15in a selfish way, and he's ignoring the cycles of violence in the hood,
- 1:05:22and he's not calling for accountability,
- 1:05:24then he's kind of being a hypocrite.
- 1:05:26That's a personal judgment sort of way to look at that, even as a Christian.
- 1:05:32If he's ignoring sort of blatant truths, then he's being a hypocrite.
- 1:05:39But if his focus is on education and individual autonomy and individual agency,
- 1:05:47then that's not the case, is it?
- 1:05:49And I think that's what he's doing. And then the secular sort of personal judgment
- 1:05:53on that is, again, sort of similar if he's overlooking systemic issues and ethical
- 1:06:00critiques of kind of gun advocacy.
- 1:06:02See, he's not just going up in the hood and throwing out free firearms and then
- 1:06:08taking off. You know what I mean?
- 1:06:10But he's not, there's no personal bias there. There's personal buy-in.
- 1:06:15He cares about what he's doing for sure.
- 1:06:17So I think in the sort of the personal judgment, yeah, I don't think he is being selfish in this way.
- 1:06:25Now, from the righteous judgment, from the Christian perspective,
- 1:06:30what he's doing fits well in with sort of justice and self-defense,
- 1:06:36restoring communities, right?
- 1:06:38That's what he's trying to do by using education and grace because his classes are free.
- 1:06:49Takes four and two basically oppressed people or underrepresented people in the gun community.
- 1:06:57And he teaches them, and he's teaching responsibility.
- 1:07:01That's what every gun instructor should be teaching is accountability and responsibility.
- 1:07:06Never mind like levels of proficiency, right?
- 1:07:10We're talking about the responsibility of owning a firearm and carrying one around on a daily basis.
- 1:07:16And from a righteous sort of secular angle, it's, it's, he's advocating for equity, right?
- 1:07:24Among the inner city population, now mostly black, but he, he doesn't differentiate.
- 1:07:30It's not only for black people, right? He's countering racist sort of gun control
- 1:07:35history, because if anybody knows sort of the history of gun control.
- 1:07:39It was, in fact, rooted with some heavy racism. They did not want freed slaves
- 1:07:46owning guns. That was it.
- 1:07:48And on up into the civil rights movement, you know, they didn't want blacks owning guns.
- 1:07:54And he brings a lot of academic perspective on minority rights,
- 1:07:58and he frames it in, you know,
- 1:08:01responsible empowerment and promoting social justice through through education.
- 1:08:10So that may or may not have been a bad example. I wanted to say that though,
- 1:08:15because one, I want to promote what he's doing at Black Guns Matter.
- 1:08:19And I want to, I just want to acknowledge, yes, there's some racism out there.
- 1:08:25People, people look at black guys with guns differently than they look at white
- 1:08:29guys with guns in some places. That's all there is to it.
- 1:08:32And is it right, wrong, or otherwise? Well, if it's based in bias,
- 1:08:38then it's probably wrong.
- 1:08:39All right. And then the thing that got my attention also recently was.
- 1:08:46Situation. The reason that popped up is because that case was just dismissed.
- 1:08:51And Maj Touré, well, I follow him, so I'm kind of always tracking what his stuff is.
- 1:08:58And then the next thing that has just popped up on sort of mainstream news is
- 1:09:03this Chip and Joanna Gaines situation.
- 1:09:06And if you don't know Chip and Joanna Gaines, they do like the TV house building stuff.
- 1:09:12I can't remember the name of their show. they got a couple different shows now
- 1:09:16and so the controversy is that one of the shows they got now like their newest
- 1:09:22show it features three couples i think not off-grid living but something like that,
- 1:09:30and one of the couples is a gay male couple yeah and now chip and joanne are famously christian,
- 1:09:38Yeah, they both went to, I want to say they both went to like Baylor in Texas,
- 1:09:42which I think is a Christian school, right?
- 1:09:45And then they promote Christianity and they talk about it on their shows and stuff.
- 1:09:51Well, I want to say Franklin Graham of the Samaritan's Purse and Billy Graham's
- 1:09:57son, he made a statement.
- 1:10:00And that statement was something, I don't think it was that controversial and
- 1:10:04I don't think it was that tough.
- 1:10:08And, and I don't think Chip Gaines responded to that, but then all the comments
- 1:10:15and then all the fans and everybody starts piping up. Right.
- 1:10:19And he started getting ripped for, for promoting homosexuality and stuff like that.
- 1:10:25And then Chip kind of comes back with a sort of heavy critique of, I don't know,
- 1:10:34Christians, really modern Christians, because he kind of, you know, kind of hypocritical.
- 1:10:41And when a gay person or non-believer, for the first time, they come into contact
- 1:10:48with somebody, a Christian, and then all this hate, right? Right.
- 1:10:54So his harsh critique could kind of be seen as kind of ironically hypocritical, right?
- 1:10:59Because he got critiqued harshly and then he turned around and started critiquing harshly.
- 1:11:06Now, I don't think there's a single problem. First of all, they're in the TV
- 1:11:10business and there are certain realities to life. If you're in the TV business,
- 1:11:15there's going to be gay people.
- 1:11:18That's the reality of life. If you do business in the city of Atlanta,
- 1:11:22you're going to serve gay people. That's it.
- 1:11:29Atlanta. I'm in Rome, Georgia. I'm about a solid hour northwest of Atlanta.
- 1:11:36And they may not like that I mentioned their name, but Atlanta Peak Pistols
- 1:11:40has been out here a few times to train firearms.
- 1:11:45It's just, that's the way it is. And for him to come back and harshly,
- 1:11:51that asked up some of the christians from a
- 1:11:54secular perspective it's he kind
- 1:11:59of biased discourse if he's elevating his personal
- 1:12:02beliefs over sort of inclusive dialogue that's that's a way to look at that
- 1:12:07personal judgment wise so he on his statement i think is what is what we're
- 1:12:13really talking about is he was kind of elevating his personal beliefs and excuse
- 1:12:17me kind of slamming other christians.
- 1:12:20But in the modern world what what he's done in
- 1:12:24in the secular world what he's done is is nothing i
- 1:12:27mean it doesn't even warrant a response but they also emphasized biblical truth
- 1:12:36on that i i think they at some point whether it was on the show or in the in
- 1:12:43the the twitter or the tweet or the frigging X or whatever it was,
- 1:12:47they kind of emphasized love and dialogue and restoring through grace and avoiding
- 1:12:54hypocrisy by encouraging humility.
- 1:12:56They did that, I think.
- 1:12:59And then a secular view of that is that it's a principled expression in public discourse.
- 1:13:06So those two men who are married, they have rights too.
- 1:13:11They don't necessarily have a right to be on a TV show, but they applied.
- 1:13:16They did all the things that they had to do to get on that TV show.
- 1:13:21And, you know, I haven't seen the show ever.
- 1:13:25They're all leathered up and doing stereotypical things, or if it's just two
- 1:13:32regular guys, you know, trying to live their life.
- 1:13:35So, you know, depicting faith on modern media is a whole nother thing,
- 1:13:41man. Like that's a whole nother thing.
- 1:13:44And sort of navigating the ethics of that while still having entertaining television.
- 1:13:50Yeah. I don't know, man. It started a conversation though. I can tell you that.
- 1:13:55So those are the things I wanted to kind of go over and give you some examples
- 1:13:59and let you mull those over.
- 1:14:02Yeah, we shouldn't be very judgmental, but we are.
- 1:14:06And if we are judgmental, I think we need to be, when I say critical with it,
- 1:14:12I don't mean in the negative way.
- 1:14:14I think we need to critically think and to critically examine why we believe what we belief.
- 1:14:21And then once we're happy with that, then we need to critically examine how
- 1:14:26our opinion matters to whoever it is we're judging, right?
- 1:14:30Because if you're just judging just to feel superior, stop what you're doing.
- 1:14:34You know what I'm saying?
- 1:14:35If you're just judging to feel superior, stop what you're doing.
- 1:14:39If you have a genuine desire to.
- 1:14:44Somebody to Jesus, in my personal opinion, Edgar Mill's personal opinion,
- 1:14:50the best way to do that is be an example of what good looks like.
- 1:14:57And if you care that much, right, if you care that much, then you will hold
- 1:15:04yourself accountable and you will be mindful of the things you do under watchful eyes.
- 1:15:09But like I said in the episode, what you do in the public, you should also do
- 1:15:16in the private and vice versa.
- 1:15:19So if you're mindful of how you appear,
- 1:15:23and if you're mindful of not being a hypocrite, right, being consistent,
- 1:15:29then what you do in private and what you do in the public eye should match up.
- 1:15:35And if you really do genuinely care about leading people to Christ,
- 1:15:40then be Christ-like. Be kind.
- 1:15:43You don't got to go around kissing everybody's ass, but be kind to people.
- 1:15:47Be genuinely kind in a sense that if you see somebody needs help,
- 1:15:52help them. Hold the door open for people.
- 1:15:54You know, pick up trash as you see it when you're walking into Publix.
- 1:15:58I mean, just any little thing. I don't even want to, there's about 8 million
- 1:16:03things you could do in the public eye that would, you know, cause somebody to
- 1:16:09look and go, oh, wow, that was nice.
- 1:16:12There you go, man. Set the example. And in military parlance, lead by example.
- 1:16:20Yeah, do what you want your subordinates to do.
- 1:16:26Be who you want your friends to be.
- 1:16:30Yeah, there it is. Now, let me go ahead and do a disclosure and a caveat.
- 1:16:37I am in no way qualified to talk about...
- 1:16:41To talk about Christianity and quote, now I had a lot of biblical verses on
- 1:16:46here that I didn't read out.
- 1:16:48I don't want the general public to think that I'm spitting off some references
- 1:16:53that I don't, yeah, they're written down on a piece of paper.
- 1:16:56I got like five pages of notes here.
- 1:16:59You know, maybe it would have had more impact had I read the biblical,
- 1:17:02the verse and the book and verse and all chapter and verse, but,
- 1:17:06uh, I'm in no way a theologian.
- 1:17:09I'm in no way trying to lead you.
- 1:17:12Well, yeah, I do. I want everybody to, to, to meet Jesus. I mean, yeah, for sure. Why not?
- 1:17:19I want everybody to be saved. I want everybody to go to heaven.
- 1:17:23And you can think that's a simplistic thing if you're a atheist or agnostic
- 1:17:28type, but it's not, it's not.
- 1:17:31There's plenty of not even the Bible, right?
- 1:17:36But there's probably a scientific evidence, at least for the existence of Jesus Christ.
- 1:17:43And I happen to believe he is the son of God. So that's a pretty big deal.
- 1:17:48It's been around for a while.
- 1:17:50If that's your metric for religion, how long it's been around,
- 1:17:52then there's other religions that probably predated it or at least some cultish things.
- 1:17:58That's not the metric at all.
- 1:18:01At any rate, Do what you know is to be right.
- 1:18:04Now, if you're an atheist or agnostic and you have very definite beliefs about
- 1:18:10what is right and what is wrong, ask yourself, where do you derive those beliefs from?
- 1:18:17Was it just some, you know, was it comic books? Did you read Marvel comics and
- 1:18:22that's where you got right from wrong?
- 1:18:23Did you watch Andy Griffith on TV as a youth and that's where you set your values from?
- 1:18:29Shit, it's possible, you know, it's possible. Andy Griffith was a good one If
- 1:18:33you If you If you want to look at Wholesome That was pretty wholesome Wow.
- 1:18:40Where do they come from? What values do you hold and where do they come from?
- 1:18:46Now, I say this all the time, too. If you lack empathy and you don't care about
- 1:18:49humans and you just see somebody dead as not, then you are possibly a psychopath
- 1:18:55and should seek out some counseling.
- 1:18:59But generally speaking, if it bothers you to see someone get hurt, if death matters to you,
- 1:19:07if somebody dies and you feel a genuine sort of pain or emptiness,
- 1:19:12but you're not following Jesus,
- 1:19:14then ask yourself, where do I get my values from? Where do they come from?
- 1:19:19Now, the big answer is probably going to be, oh, they're Judeo-Christian values.
- 1:19:25Well, yes, Judeo-Christian values, I guess that's a big blanket term.
- 1:19:31But it's worth looking into, folks. It's worth looking into.
- 1:19:35Do you have integrity? And if so, why?
- 1:19:40You see what I'm saying? Start asking yourself some deeper questions.
- 1:19:44Do you have integrity? And if so, why? And how does that look on a daily basis? Yeah.
- 1:19:53Yep. All right, folks, that's been my podcast on judgment and tolerance and
- 1:20:03acceptance and all those things.
- 1:20:05Was it weighing on me? No. But this is one of those topics that you could sit
- 1:20:09at a pub and discuss for hours and hours and hours.
- 1:20:14There's so many different directions you go to when you start talking about
- 1:20:18your value system and the things that you tolerate and accept and support when
- 1:20:26it comes to bigger philosophies or when it comes to behavior.
- 1:20:30So I think these are things worth thinking about, folks.
- 1:20:34Think about what your opinion on the Chip and Joanne saga is.
- 1:20:40Are they promoting homosexual marriage because they had two gay men on their show?
- 1:20:47Was the baker in Colorado a bigot?
- 1:20:51Or is he allowed to stand on his beliefs? Are you allowed to have your belief
- 1:20:55system, but he not allowed to have his?
- 1:20:57And then the question is well if his system
- 1:21:01doesn't bake me a cake then his system is wrong well that's not for you to say
- 1:21:05at all was he wrong if if you're in a gay community was he wrong tell me that
- 1:21:12hit me up edgar mills at ospreyshooting solutions.com or you can do it from
- 1:21:18the website at thejuntopodcast.com.
- 1:21:20If you don't know about Maj Touré, M-A-J-T-O-U-R-E, and that's Black Guns Matter,
- 1:21:29or The Solutionaries, both of those.
- 1:21:32If you live in the inner city, the ghetto specifically,
- 1:21:37and you care about your community, yourself, your longevity,
- 1:21:44your self-defense, experience or learning skills, and not just shooting, folks, life skills.
- 1:21:53He teaches life skills, how to lift yourself up, right?
- 1:21:59That's what he's there to do, is to help you learn how to lift yourself up.
- 1:22:04And if you got money and you believe in that sort of thing, then donate to the
- 1:22:08guy because all his classes are done for free. It's a nonprofit.
- 1:22:11And when he raises enough money, He'll go do a, do a big class and not just,
- 1:22:16you know, shooting, but stop the bleed and things like that, among other things.
- 1:22:22Your opinion on, on all these things I presented. All right.
- 1:22:25I do want your feedback folks. Okay.
- 1:22:28So there's that. That's the end. Now what's coming up next on Saturday,
- 1:22:34this coming Saturday, what do I have?
- 1:22:37We have a wildcard day. Yep.
- 1:22:40Yep. Yep. Let me fix my calendar here.
- 1:22:45Wildcard day. And that's a good one. That's like 75 bucks.
- 1:22:48And it's a, it's about a four hour day. It could go longer depending on how
- 1:22:51many folks come out, but bring your rifle and your pistol because you never
- 1:22:55know what's going to come out of the deck.
- 1:22:57And then the, then we run the blackjack 33 challenge, which is a two gun challenge,
- 1:23:02which is your opportunity to win the coin, a blackjack 33 club coin.
- 1:23:08And the catchphrase on that is performance is the price of entry.
- 1:23:13Yeah. And that's a good one. And go check out the backstory on that on my website,
- 1:23:18OspreyShootingSolutions.com.
- 1:23:20And then it's just a bunch of private sessions now
- 1:23:24next week there you know there's availability folks for next
- 1:23:27next week the last week of july there's plenty
- 1:23:30of availability for the first or the first week of august there's a rifle workshop
- 1:23:36coming up august 9th and that is strictly rifle and that's that's going to be
- 1:23:41where we just hone down on a couple of fundamentals and do a lot of repetitions
- 1:23:46supporting those fundamentals.
- 1:23:49I've got a private consultant. And then on 23rd of August, we will have another pistol workshop.
- 1:23:56Unlike the last workshop where we worked at distance, we worked all the way
- 1:24:01out to, I think, 55 yards with pistol.
- 1:24:04It was eye-opening and it was awesome, but it sucked hard.
- 1:24:10A heartbreaker it was. On the 23rd of August, we have a pistol workshop and
- 1:24:14that's going to be mostly movement oriented,
- 1:24:18you know, front, rear, lateral kind of explosive movement, moving in and out
- 1:24:22of positions, in and out of shooting boxes and that kind of thing.
- 1:24:26And then at the end of August, on August 30th, there is another wildcard day.
- 1:24:32Now look, folks, you may notice that I don't have a lot of big courses lined up.
- 1:24:39If you are, if you have a group of four or more people that want to do a private
- 1:24:46course together, like the, you know, dynamic pistol or dynamic two gun or whatever. And.
- 1:24:54Ask me about that, we can set it up and we can set that up.
- 1:24:58And in the middle of the summertime, you know, it's brutal. And an eight or
- 1:25:0310 hour day out on the range is pretty brutal.
- 1:25:05So if you want to do a private thing, we'll do it. Otherwise the workshops and
- 1:25:09the wild cards are what's on deck for the foreseeable future.
- 1:25:14And once again, in September, I'm
- 1:25:17looking to set up a land nav course
- 1:25:20and I'm waiting on I'm waiting on the
- 1:25:23original crew who set that up to hit
- 1:25:26me with some solid dates but once I get those
- 1:25:29solid dates we are then going to open
- 1:25:32it up and I want to say we're going to have four slots open
- 1:25:35for that land navigation and that's going to be a three day
- 1:25:38that's one day in the classroom one full day
- 1:25:41and then we'll and we'll do a terrain walk and all that stuff
- 1:25:44out here and then we will spend two days
- 1:25:47in the talladega national forest so that's
- 1:25:50an overnighter it's brutal it's going
- 1:25:52to be a team event which means it's going to be two-man teams is what that's
- 1:25:57going to be i provide all the gear folks all compasses protractors paste beads
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