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Live from The Golden Wedding: Trista Sutter, Desiree Siegfried and Molly Mesnick PART 2 · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast
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  Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio.
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  Speaker 2: We're back with another episode with Trista and Molly and
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  Speaker 2: Daz and we're just talking bachelor weddings and the drama
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  Speaker 2: that ensues in them. And I want to know, because
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  Speaker 2: we're all married. From the show, Molly and Trista had
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  Speaker 2: big televised weddings. I wasn't offered a wedding, nor do
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  Speaker 2: I think I would have not after the engagement would
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  Speaker 2: I have taken the wedding because we had a televised
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  Speaker 2: engagement and the whole episode became about like how my
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  Speaker 2: ex was annoyed that, like okay, so I was like, wow, guys,
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  Speaker 2: uh missed the point?
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  Speaker 3: Wow, like really really didn't like that.
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  Speaker 2: Of course, in the day of like when I think
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  Speaker 2: about the day of the engagement, amazing, it was watching
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  Speaker 2: it back and like the episode that goes along with it. Right,
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  Speaker 2: So I don't think I would have ever wanted a wedding,
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  Speaker 2: and I also wanted to have everybody that.
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  Speaker 3: I wanted there.
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  Speaker 2: I wanted to do it my way, blah blah blah.
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  Speaker 2: But does you were back in the day that, like
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  Speaker 2: they were doing the weddings, did you kind of.
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  Speaker 4: I think the last one that was Molly and Jason,
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  Speaker 4: and then we were and Sean Catherine well, well we
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  Speaker 4: were right around Sean and Carian cut off around your time, right.
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  Speaker 4: I don't think they were used to like couples staying together, so.
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  Speaker 3: You know, they didn't.
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  Speaker 4: They probably didn't expect like because then because then after me,
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  Speaker 4: Andy was staying with Josh for that time being when
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  Speaker 4: we were, you know, planning our own wedding, and so,
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  Speaker 4: you know, honestly, I don't know, I can't assume. I mean,
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  Speaker 4: we were talking for quite a while about that possibility
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  Speaker 4: with them, but it just kept dragging on and dragging on,
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  Speaker 4: and so we just chose to do it ourselves.
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  Speaker 3: And you have a beautiful It was amazing.
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  Speaker 4: And it was like you said everything we wanted, you know,
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  Speaker 4: and we got to invite who we wanted and make
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  Speaker 4: it a little more intimate.
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  Speaker 5: Yea, which is great.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, well that's great.
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  Speaker 2: I'm glad we all had the weddings that we wanted to.
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  Speaker 2: Would you too go wait, Tristis quints er eyes, Molly,
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  Speaker 2: and would you want to go back and do it
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  Speaker 2: the way you did it?
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  Speaker 1: Oh?
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  Speaker 3: Well, I mean, like my style is changed.
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  Speaker 6: I'm going to say that I would change my hair,
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  Speaker 6: yeah for sure, and not have Ryan get his haircut
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  Speaker 6: the day of the wedding.
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  Speaker 3: And that's always always had Why did you think that? Actually, no,
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  Speaker 3: the style.
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  Speaker 6: Number one change is obviously we had it outside. With
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  Speaker 6: the helicopter situation was a problem exactly what And the
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  Speaker 6: first row of the wedding was of course his family
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  Speaker 6: and my family right, and all the other rows had
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  Speaker 6: had a speaker so you could hear what was happening
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  Speaker 6: when we were saying our vows. Everyone else in the
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  Speaker 6: front road didn't have a speaker. The people don't matter,
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  Speaker 6: the people that and they couldn't hear anything because of
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  Speaker 6: the stupid helicopters. So like if we could have either
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  Speaker 6: put speakers in that front row or done it inside.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, you know, even though I loved.
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  Speaker 6: The outdoors and Rancho mirage were gorgeous and it was
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  Speaker 6: a perfect night, that's just a little.
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  Speaker 5: So then that I was have the questioned, our helicopter
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  Speaker 5: is going to be here tonight?
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  Speaker 3: M that's question.
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  Speaker 7: That is a good question because it's been leaked. Well,
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  Speaker 7: we were saying, doesn't I went on a walk this morning.
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  Speaker 7: Can you imagine being a Bachelor fan and you just
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  Speaker 7: happened to be on vacation.
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  Speaker 6: Like what a wild time percent I would go like
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  Speaker 6: if that's so fun? If I was if I was here,
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  Speaker 6: I would be those people like walking around and being like,
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  Speaker 6: oh my gosh, there's there, there's so much.
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  Speaker 7: So there's crashers at our wedding totally.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, there were people at the hotel that just I mean,
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  Speaker 3: how would you know? There were so many people? So
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  Speaker 3: they just came right in.
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  Speaker 6: Yes, So I feel like, yes, helicopters very well could
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  Speaker 6: be here because it has been spoiled and people know
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  Speaker 6: about it, but who who knows if they Also, I don't.
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  Speaker 5: Remember helicopters at Sean and Catherine's. I don't think they were.
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  Speaker 3: There were news news not like tablet tablet, tabloid.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so but it's live, so like why even like
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  Speaker 2: everybody can see in the moment that's happening, the first pictures.
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  Speaker 6: Are exactly and stuff that's happening that's not on on camera.
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  Speaker 6: So we actually had people, so we took over Rancho mirage,
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  Speaker 6: like our wedding guests were the there were there was
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  Speaker 6: nobody else allowed to come in and get so.
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  Speaker 2: Huge, huge, but there's never gonna close it for And
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  Speaker 2: they didn't Tanner's wedding, they didn't close.
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  Speaker 6: It either, No, no, no, and and that's fine, that's great.
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  Speaker 6: But they had paparazzi come in and put a little
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  Speaker 6: cameras in bushes and then they went up to people
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  Speaker 6: and they said, this is before we were there. They
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  Speaker 6: were like, we'll pay you five thousand dollars if you
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  Speaker 6: find this particular bush and go in the bush and
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  Speaker 6: get the.
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  Speaker 3: Camera and way.
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  Speaker 4: Like the old days, old right, because we didn't have
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  Speaker 4: ours televised, but there was still photos that got.
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  Speaker 3: Because you still do, you still do.
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  Speaker 4: There was someone working for a certain news station that
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  Speaker 4: was at the wedding and let's just say a little
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  Speaker 4: made it apparent that he was. We were upset because
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  Speaker 4: we knew obviously it was yeah anyway.
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  Speaker 3: But no, there were I guess that wouldn't be invited back.
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  Speaker 4: No, it's fine, but no, but you still have exclusives
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  Speaker 4: like with a magazine or with a news outlet, and
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  Speaker 4: so there was pictures that were leaked and it's just
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  Speaker 4: so annoying because they obviously were like in a tree
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  Speaker 4: or something.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's like and it's like me walking into.
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  Speaker 5: The chapel, like with my dad. It's just like so weird.
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  Speaker 6: What do you do with that? Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: Why can't you?
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  Speaker 4: Then they were actually right when we were walking into
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  Speaker 4: our reception and I that's where I think the wedding planner.
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  Speaker 6: Set it up.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I do a little bit.
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  Speaker 4: Or not the planner, someone who was like from the
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  Speaker 4: hotel or from the location got it.
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  Speaker 2: This is my last question that I want to dive
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  Speaker 2: into with you guys, because of just this franchise, well,
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  Speaker 2: the Golden Bachelor, making it so that like it's giving
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  Speaker 2: a lot of older people hope that like normalizing like
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  Speaker 2: finding love again at a certain age. And I have
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  Speaker 2: talked on multiple podcasts now, but like I don't know,
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  Speaker 2: and I don't know where I'll be mentally and emotionally
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  Speaker 2: at seventy or hopefully I'm not widowed by seventy that
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  Speaker 2: would be awful. But like I don't think I would
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  Speaker 2: have any interests in like pursuing a relationship. If it
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  Speaker 2: fell on my lap, then maybe, but like I don't
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  Speaker 2: think I would seek it out through this show or
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  Speaker 2: any other mechanism.
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  Speaker 5: What about you just have curiosity?
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  Speaker 6: I honestly feel like it's something that you can't talk
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  Speaker 6: to until you're you're in the situation because they both
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  Speaker 6: like Teresa and Gary, and then everyone else has their
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  Speaker 6: story too, from the Golden bachelretats that were on the show,
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  Speaker 6: but they have their own individual stories and they both
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  Speaker 6: lost their spouse, you know, tragically, tragically through you know,
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  Speaker 6: health issues. So I feel like you can't know until
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  Speaker 6: you get there, Like obviously you're in a very happy
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  Speaker 6: relationship and so you can't predict that you would even
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  Speaker 6: want to look for something else. But I feel like
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  Speaker 6: when you've been alone for that long and you do
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  Speaker 6: have you know, the end of your life is closer
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  Speaker 6: than right now it is for you. I feel like
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  Speaker 6: when you get to that point, you probably are like,
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  Speaker 6: you know what, I would love to be able to
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  Speaker 6: share every day with someone, at least that's how I
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  Speaker 6: would be with someone.
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  Speaker 3: I feel I would do to live with my sister.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like we would just be like a comedation,
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  Speaker 2: would basically be Golden Girls probably, And I do think.
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  Speaker 4: It's important to have some sort of companion, so like
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  Speaker 4: if you have your friends or if you have family members,
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  Speaker 4: Like as long as you're in community and you're feeling
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  Speaker 4: loved and loving you know in return. I think that's
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  Speaker 4: what really helps no matter where you're at in your life.
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  Speaker 4: But I don't think, you know, a thirty forty something
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  Speaker 4: single is any different than a seventy year old, like
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  Speaker 4: you still have those same desires of being loved and
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  Speaker 4: the desires of you know, feeling that that feeling of love.
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  Speaker 5: Ye, So yeah, I don't know, Yeah, I just probably
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  Speaker 5: it was probably just like something you can't really speak of.
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  Speaker 6: Right until you get there.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 3: Although I'm not gonna lie.
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  Speaker 5: I am very introverted and I really do love me
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  Speaker 5: alone time I.
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  Speaker 3: Get out, because I could never want to, never want
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  Speaker 3: to date again.
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  Speaker 7: You know, I can't imagine, like I I was so
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  Speaker 7: young when I did the show. I can't even imagine date,
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  Speaker 7: Like there weren't dating apps when I before I went
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  Speaker 7: on the show, Like I wouldn't even know how not date.
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  Speaker 6: I have to go on.
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  Speaker 3: The Golden would be the most like natural strends.
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  Speaker 7: No, But you know, I think about Jason dying all
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  Speaker 7: the time. We talked about this at length last night.
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  Speaker 7: You just can't die. I don't know how to do
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  Speaker 7: like him same. It's so funny We're like we we
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  Speaker 7: wouldn't know, like the pusswords or the.
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  Speaker 1: We can't.
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  Speaker 3: Alright. Well, thank you ladies so much. This is really fun.
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  Speaker 3: Thanks for having us. Thank you all right, See you
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  Speaker 3: next time, guys. Okay bye.
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