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Celebrity Name Dropping · Let's Ask the Mamas!

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  Speaker 1: We got a question for American mama's. Dear mama's, why
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  Speaker 1: are so many kids of celebrities dropping their dad's last name? Well,
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  Speaker 1: let's ask our American mama's.
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  Speaker 2: Mama, Mama, and joining us now are American mama's Terry.
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  Speaker 1: Nedville and Kimberly Burtherson. So apparently Brad Pitt and Angelina
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  Speaker 1: Jolie's daughter when she turned eighteen recently she got rid
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  Speaker 1: of Brad Pitt's last name. Obviously, that was a divorce
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  Speaker 1: that had a lot of acrimony in it. We don't
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  Speaker 1: know all the details in it, but it did not
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  Speaker 1: end well to begin with. And it kind of seems
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  Speaker 1: like since Joe Lee got the kids, she also got
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  Speaker 1: the narrative.
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  Speaker 2: Is that fair to say?
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  Speaker 3: I saw that Tom Cruise's daughter did the same thing yesterday.
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  Speaker 3: Sorry Cruise, Oh really, yeah, she did the same thing.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like this is that last ditch effort to
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  Speaker 3: stick it to your dad. Yeah, you know, what's the
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  Speaker 3: one thing that could hurt him in that more?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that's what this is.
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  Speaker 4: Well, and I also think that it probably and this
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  Speaker 4: is so terrible. I'm of the mindset love your children
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  Speaker 4: more than you hate your ex. And I feel like
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  Speaker 4: these children who are with their mothers the entire time,
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  Speaker 4: like there's I don't think they get any time with
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  Speaker 4: their fathers. I think that the mothers, I won't say brainwashed,
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  Speaker 4: but they have pushed a narrative about their father and
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  Speaker 4: it's almost like, Okay, we're going to show our allegiance
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  Speaker 4: to our mother by taking her last name, and that way,
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  Speaker 4: not only will it stick it to my dad, but
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  Speaker 4: it will make him look terrible in the eyes of
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  Speaker 4: the public because they have to put it in the paper.
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  Speaker 4: And you change your name, you have to put that
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  Speaker 4: in the paper for some reason, and so everybody. So
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  Speaker 4: now it's being talked about. So from what I understand,
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  Speaker 4: as far as Brad Pitt, apparently this has crushed him.
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  Speaker 4: This you know, ten years ago is I think when
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  Speaker 4: this all happened on the airplane. But he has since
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  Speaker 4: sobered up. He's an AA member and he has gotten
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  Speaker 4: his life on track. He's tried so hard with the kids.
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  Speaker 4: But I don't think Angelina wants that. I think she's
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  Speaker 4: very selfish. Think about her and what she did to
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  Speaker 4: her father and now what she did, you know, after
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  Speaker 4: she broke up a marriage then she ruins. Yet she
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  Speaker 4: ruins this man, and I'm sure that that was terrible
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  Speaker 4: on the plane, but she didn't have to continue to
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  Speaker 4: do what she has done to him all these years.
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  Speaker 4: Very vindictive.
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  Speaker 3: Well she said. She was quoted saying, I just want
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  Speaker 3: everybody to be happy. I just want everybody like Jelena
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  Speaker 3: said that. Yeah, I'm like, yeah, you want everybody to
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  Speaker 3: be happy after you got your way, because this makes
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  Speaker 3: you look like the victor. This makes you look like
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  Speaker 3: you one. You've been chosen. They think you're the goddess
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  Speaker 3: mother and they hate their dad, and you were the
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  Speaker 3: reason for that because you could have nurtured that. You
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  Speaker 3: could have been wise, but you chose not to. We
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  Speaker 3: saw it firsthand with a family member. We saw a
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  Speaker 3: man in our family. The exact same thing happened to
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  Speaker 3: him with his ex wife. She hated him so much
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  Speaker 3: and they have the child, They had the children, So
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  Speaker 3: it's just like beating into them, grooming them basically to
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  Speaker 3: hate what it was.
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  Speaker 1: And that's that's not just a thing amongst celebrities. I
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  Speaker 1: mean that can be a thing that can be very
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  Speaker 1: common in divorce across the spectrum where you know the
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  Speaker 1: parent and again not necessarily just mom's side, but moms
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  Speaker 1: usually get custody and that you know, the bashing continues.
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  Speaker 4: Right, think about this, if you truly love your children,
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  Speaker 4: and it's so important to have the father figure I'm saying,
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  Speaker 4: a healthy father, a healthy father. So when you're married
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  Speaker 4: to somebody, let's say that Kevin and Steel. You know,
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  Speaker 4: when Steal sixteen and maybe went to head to head
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  Speaker 4: or whatever. My job as a loving mother is to
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  Speaker 4: do damage control with that and remind Steal how much
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  Speaker 4: his father loves him and will do for him, and
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  Speaker 4: then talk to Kevin. That's what you do in a
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  Speaker 4: loving because you know that's going to be an important relationship.
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  Speaker 4: So the people who have had parents who are divorced
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  Speaker 4: and they've grown up now they are adults that have
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  Speaker 4: had parents who have had those parents continue to not
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  Speaker 4: say anything negative about the other parents, just love them,
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  Speaker 4: show up at these events, be cordial to each other,
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  Speaker 4: even if secretly they can't stand each other. Those well
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  Speaker 4: rounded adults now say that was the greatest gift they
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  Speaker 4: could have received from their parents is that they wouldn't talk.
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  Speaker 4: That each parent would not talk negatively about the other parents,
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  Speaker 4: and that helped them to be able to grow in
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  Speaker 4: a stable environment and feel good about who they came from.
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  Speaker 1: It's very, very, I think important, and as you point out,
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  Speaker 1: it is really important for kids to have dads in
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  Speaker 1: their lives. Absolutely that kids that don't have dads in
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  Speaker 1: their lives much more likely to commit crimes, most of them,
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  Speaker 1: more likely to get on drugs, much more likely to
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  Speaker 1: be pregnant as teenagers. I mean, just the data that
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  Speaker 1: goes with where kids don't have dads in their lives,
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  Speaker 1: it's tragic.
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  Speaker 4: I think this is going to backfire too, because we
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  Speaker 4: have an aunt who kept her children away from our uncle,
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  Speaker 4: her ex husband. Well, years later they discovered that what
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  Speaker 4: she told them was a lie. So they were kept
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  Speaker 4: away from their dad for like twenty years. So as adults,
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  Speaker 4: one of them, one of the sons, found him and
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  Speaker 4: discovered that that wasn't true, and he was broken hearted
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  Speaker 4: that all of that time had passed without having a
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  Speaker 4: relationship with his own father. And then shortly after that
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  Speaker 4: the father died and.
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  Speaker 3: In his relationship with his mother became yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Because it was like that's it. He was felt so
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  Speaker 4: betrayed by his mother.
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  Speaker 1: If you like to ask, our American mama's a question.
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  Speaker 1: You can use their last name.
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  Speaker 4: It's fine.
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  Speaker 1: Kimberly Brotherson, thank you so much.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you,