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- 0:02Drinking Drinking. Welcome back to Drinking with Dog. It is Tuesday, the
- 0:17twenty fifth of April. A little getting a little nicer out there, but
- 0:21I think we're getting some rain tonight too. Uh. Just got a guest
- 0:25in tonight. We are gonna have some fun talking about pickle ball. Uh
- 0:29he is Chris right. First of all, welcome to the show, Chris.
- 0:32Thank you very much, no problem. Just pulled out like a little
- 0:35bit closer to you, so hear you a little better. Perfect. Uh,
- 0:39so you reached out to me or through a mutual friend, bridget and
- 0:43uh, pickle ball is kind of, I don't know, swept the nation
- 0:47if you will, in the last five years. Maybe, yeah, yeah,
- 0:52I mean it was something I played as an elective at Daniel Hannon High
- 0:56School in like nineteen ninety two. I can't believe that. Yeah. Yeah,
- 0:59it's like honestly, this one lady like on this big house and she
- 1:03had three or four I guess four pickle ball courts in her backyard and we
- 1:07went there every Tuesday at like five o'clock after school and played. I thought
- 1:11it was really fun. So pickle ball is like a cross I guess between
- 1:15tennis, ping, pong and badminton is kind of the what I read online
- 1:19anyway. Yeah, you could throw a pool into it because it's angles.
- 1:25And what's nice about pick a ball, especially when you're getting older like me,
- 1:30but a lot of younger people are digging it now, is that it's
- 1:36a half the size of a tennis court, so you're really only fifteen feet
- 1:42away from the people that you're playing against, right, so there's a lot
- 1:46of talking back and forth. They're having fun, and you only have you
- 1:51only get one serve. So I'm like tennis, if you're not good at
- 1:53serving, you know, you get two chances and you got to go find
- 1:57the ball. All that pickaball, all you miss it, come back right
- 2:00there. Yeah, it's the racquetball's right there. Yeah, And the games
- 2:05are quick, they're like fifteen or twenty minutes unless you get into a real
- 2:07competitive game. And what happened with me is because of COVID, I stopped
- 2:15going to my offices, which I've always either been in New York or southern
- 2:19Connecticut, and I lived always up here either in Stratford Woodbridge for a long
- 2:24time and then I just moved here six years ago. Driving south is not
- 2:30a great thing, or driving north at a certain time is not a great
- 2:32thing in Connecticut, right, So I had a lot of time. So
- 2:36last July I moved. Last January I moved my offices to my home.
- 2:42So by July I was looking for things to do. I've got a great
- 2:45lawn now, I mean I go out and pick weeds. So mean things
- 2:47for me to do because I have five hours even though I worked the same
- 2:51amount, I've got five hours that I wasn't in the car. Right,
- 2:54So somebody told me about going down the wreck and paying twenty five bucks and
- 2:59up at Eisenhower that joined the Milford Pickleball Association. And you go up to
- 3:05Eisenhower Mondays, Wednesdays, Fridays or Saturdays from eight to twelve and they have
- 3:12a big white board that they have boxes in and you put your name in
- 3:16and the next thing, you know, even though I didn't really know how
- 3:19to play at all, right, you get to play with people and you
- 3:22know it's it's a fun time and you can you know, it gets really
- 3:27competitive if you want it to be, or people just go up there and
- 3:31have fun and talk. So it's a good thing. So I did my
- 3:35research on it and the history behind it, and it was invented in nineteen
- 3:38sixty five by basically three fathers. If you care, it's Joel Pritchard,
- 3:46Bill Bella, Barney McCallum, and up and outside of Seattle, Washington.
- 3:51It's where it was invented, and it was just kind of three guys goofing
- 3:54around whatever. The word pickleball has really nothing to do with the sport.
- 4:00There's a couple of theories. One is the dog's name was Pickles or the
- 4:02other one was something about the wife. That's something about both had a voting
- 4:06term or something. I don't know. But now the capital pickleball capital of
- 4:13the world is in Naples, Florida, which makes a lot of sense.
- 4:16Not that you need money to play pickleball, but there's a lot of money
- 4:19there, a lot of older people. And but one thing that's cool about
- 4:25the sport is it's almost fifty fifty men to women. Yes even feel slightly
- 4:30over for women, yes, yeah. And what I was reading is a
- 4:33lot of it is the reason why the older people like to play. It
- 4:38is like kind of like piggybacking on what you said. It's the smaller court.
- 4:42They get their exercise and there's you know, not everyone garattery and not
- 4:48everyone always you know, it's competitive to like, I think feeling having that
- 4:53competitive spirit, no matter how what age you are really helps you mentally,
- 4:59I think, just through the aging process. And we were talking when I
- 5:02first called, talked on the phone. You know, we'll get to the
- 5:08tournament itself in a second, but you were talking about forty five and older,
- 5:11and you were like, you know, I don't want these twenty five
- 5:13year olds coming in and just smashing the ball around. And I get that,
- 5:17but like, I think that's, like you said, the younger people
- 5:21are starting to pick up this game. It is. I'll tell you a
- 5:25story. I mean, I had a buddy of mine that I started in
- 5:29my business with back in the early nineties and he's no longer doing and he
- 5:33moved years ago down the del Rey Beach, and he had two older children,
- 5:39and for some reason, he had two younger kids, like twelve fourteen
- 5:43years apart. So his eldest son was an a standing tennis player, and
- 5:49he went to Vanderbilt, and then he left Vanderbilt and he needed something to
- 5:55do besides go to school, so he picked up a pickle ball racket and
- 6:00started playing. That was November December of two twenty one, and last year
- 6:11he signed a pro pickaball contract, got a three hundred thousand dollars a year
- 6:16marketing contract with Selkirk which makes the paddles and stuff. And he's like the
- 6:24second or third best player in the country. I mean, live a life,
- 6:29and I mean, so who would have thought so? His name is
- 6:31James Ignatowich and his father is too. But the thing is is that who
- 6:38would have thought, right? I mean, he was a really good tennis
- 6:42player, didn't work out, he started picking up and the next thing you
- 6:45know, he's traveling all over the place and he's going to make a lot
- 6:48of money this year. So that him being in it and his father talking
- 6:53to me about it and then be starting to play, I really fell in
- 6:56love with the whole thing. And when I needed something to keep me busy,
- 7:03you know, because I'm a need to be busy kind of guy,
- 7:06not to get in trouble um the people off in Eisenhower because I didn't know
- 7:11anything and we're really nice, and that's why, you know, going into
- 7:15the tournament, why I wanted to do that. Yeah, you know,
- 7:17but I think some of the pickle ball. Thing was the creation of it
- 7:21was to keep their kids. They all used to go on vacation together and
- 7:25they wanted to keep their kids where they could see them. Yea and enjoyable.
- 7:30So I mean it's kind of like when we were kids. You know,
- 7:32you would play. My parents didn't want to know where the funk.
- 7:35I was different now now they got tracker. Yeah, maybe I'd be gone
- 7:40for two for dinner that was there. Yeah, but you would play all
- 7:45different again. Yeah. Yeah, It's not like I'm saying you get a
- 7:46stick in a wheel and go down the road, right, you know,
- 7:48you'd always have a glove or ice hockey stick or basketball pickups pickups. No
- 7:54longer there's no pickups anything that's organized anything. Everything's organized. So what was
- 7:59great about going up to Eisenhower is I knew nobody went up with a paddle,
- 8:07didn't even have balls, And I was like a right, and then
- 8:11it's fun to do. Yeah. I I haven't played since high school.
- 8:15Uh. A lot of my friends play. They love it. Um.
- 8:18One of my best friend's mother reserves like three hours, like two days a
- 8:22week and it's just you know, eight ten people just playing, you know,
- 8:26back and forth and uh, and they get very competitive. Oh,
- 8:30they're like super competitive. Yeah, yeah, they work on it. They
- 8:33buy all different kinds of paddles. They're probably yeah, right, I gotta
- 8:39have the right ball to play. You can't, so you know, I
- 8:41haven't played in thirty plus years, dating myself a little bit. But you
- 8:46know, it's it's kind of more like tennis, but like it. But
- 8:48it's is it is it always two on two? No, you can like
- 8:54when my kids come off, I mean, they want to play singles with
- 8:58me because I'm all right, But you know, but doubles is much easier
- 9:03because you can still run around a lot. But like I play once in
- 9:07a while with a gentleman who's like eighty three. He'll just say to me,
- 9:11like the first time I played him, and he goes, Chris,
- 9:13right here, this foot and a half around me is mine. You get
- 9:18everything on right. But he loves playing, and it's keeps his mind and
- 9:24he's got a community. That's what's a great thing about it. Yeah,
- 9:28and the rules are pretty similar to tennis, except for you know, you've
- 9:31got the pickle line. So the court is smaller, right, but it's
- 9:35set up just like a tennis court, but then seven feet from the net
- 9:39on both sides is what they have called a pickle line or a kitchen line.
- 9:43I'm sorry, kitchen kitchen the kitchen. And when I first played with
- 9:50my three sons were all up and we had gotten a kit and went down
- 9:54to they just put the courts into a point. So we were just hitting
- 9:58each other. You know, it's hard as we could. Didn't know the
- 10:01rules. So the rule basically is if the ball bounces inside the kitchen,
- 10:05you can go in to get it. But if it doesn't bounce into it
- 10:11and you hit the ball over the net or and you take a step into
- 10:15the kitchen, you lose the point. So there is you know, a
- 10:18little skill on knowing where it is. And everybody's got the dream that they're
- 10:20going to go around the pole. They call it atp yea where you don't
- 10:26have to go over the net right and you just right like pang. Yeah,
- 10:31same thing. So there's it's a combination of a lot of different things.
- 10:35So uh, and it's a quick game too. Is there a lot
- 10:39of trash talk? Is there a lot of like is there a lot of
- 10:43people calling fouls on the other person? And then like the other person's like,
- 10:46no, I wasn't in the kitchen. Kind of kind of shit,
- 10:48you know, like they call fouls on a basketball court in a pickup game
- 10:54there, the kitchen only gets when the other team might be losing and they'll
- 11:01catch you. But the kitchen's really not it. It's more of the out
- 11:05of bounds lines. Yeah. I haven't seen very many balls that hit a
- 11:11line that were called in yea that were called in there. There are a
- 11:15lot of out calls, but that's part of all there. No, man,
- 11:18that was great to watch it right. A couple of weeks ago,
- 11:22Oh he did that Johnny mack and I used to love him have his outburst.
- 11:26There he is playing agazy and Roddick and Chang was playing with Macaro.
- 11:33Looked like he did when he was playing uh center court at the US Open
- 11:39or Paris Open, yelling and screaming, getting up, getting up, getting
- 11:43in, uh, getting and on that. The kid James Ignaiowich that plays
- 11:48right, bro. He has gotten so much better. He's going up the
- 11:52ranks. And a couple of months ago, his father um texting me,
- 11:56because you got to check this out. So what he did was he came
- 12:01up to the pickle, I mean the kitchen line and stomped his feet,
- 12:05and they called the penalty. On the rest called the penalty because they said
- 12:09it was a distraction. I'm like, how getting up to the I mean,
- 12:13come on, really know it's because he was being aggressive, more aggressive
- 12:16than they want. So there's all different kinds of rules. I'm still trying
- 12:20to figure out the rules. One thing that's difficult is the score because it
- 12:26starts at zero zero start or zero zero two. That means I'm serving on
- 12:31my far right and if I don't get it in, it automatically goes to
- 12:35the other side. But one thing I've learned playing with people is that you
- 12:41have to tell the score every time or people get up set. Yeah yeah,
- 12:45And a lot of confusion comes with the score two. I mean,
- 12:50I'm astonished that a lot of people know where they started and Okay, so
- 12:56it's got to be an even number because I started over here, so it's
- 13:00not five five, it's got to be five six, right, And I'm
- 13:03like, how do you know that? Well, just where you started,
- 13:05And I'm like, too too many numbers for me. Yeah. Yeah.
- 13:09Well, it's like, I mean, tennis is a little easier because you
- 13:11know, you're in a game, you know, so you're only getting to
- 13:15forty love and then it's over. So that's pretty Ping pong is like you
- 13:20kind of serve five times and you switch off. So like if you're scoring
- 13:24by the numbers, like you kind of I'll wait a second. If it's
- 13:26you know, twenty to five, it's now it's my tournament, right if
- 13:30you know shit like that, Like yeah, but but again you're right.
- 13:33Numbers. People forget you don't say the score every time, and then you
- 13:35got to go back in your head and replay the play and blah blah blah,
- 13:39and they'll be and they'll bring people up that want to try to get
- 13:43in your head that I'll say, okay, what's the score now, and
- 13:45they'll say, oh no, I can't be that. And then a minute
- 13:46or two goes by and then you file you hit the ball into the net
- 13:50on your next serve because you're paying too much attention to the score. Now,
- 13:54your buddy that you know is third in the nation somewhere when he plays
- 13:58in the tournaments is like a ball boys judges. I mean, he plays
- 14:05in the league, the Major League pickleball league that you know Lebron and Um
- 14:11and Brady have teams. So but what's really funny? I'm sorry, I
- 14:16don't mean interrupt, but you're really not allowed to say Lebron on this show.
- 14:18Oh okay, Well that's okay, Tom Brady all day long, day
- 14:24long. But um, going there is that Um when you look at it,
- 14:31it's really like it's exactly like ping pong, except you're actually playing on
- 14:41your feet, you know what I mean, and you're moving and it's just
- 14:46fun. I mean, that's why when it's really helped me stay sane,
- 14:52because I've always worked with people. Yeah, and now that I moved my
- 14:56offices to my house, my right hand person lives in Indiana. Now,
- 15:03I mean with video and all that, there was no reason why I had
- 15:07to be there anymore. Right, So, you know you kind of you
- 15:11know, I have a beautiful office I built. I mean, it's great,
- 15:16and I love it because it's only twelve steps now, not two and
- 15:18a half hours to get to Stanford or two and a half hours to get
- 15:20to New York City. So but there's days where I'm like, you know,
- 15:24before July, it was like, all right, it's two o'clock,
- 15:30what do I do now, I mean, you know what I mean.
- 15:31So to be able to I still get up early in the morning and work.
- 15:35So I'll go up to Eisenhower or Fowler now and you know, play
- 15:41for an hour and a half, two hours, and then I go home
- 15:43and I'm still doing my job, right, right, that's great? Yeah,
- 15:48all right, Well let's get to the big tournament. The reason why
- 15:50you're here. Yeah, so you were doing well, I'll let you speak
- 15:54on it. So you're doing a pickleball tournament, right, I mean,
- 15:58I do a cherry event every year. Well, COVID kind of screwed that
- 16:03stuff ours, but and it's always been southern or in the city or wherever
- 16:07because that's where I work. So I decided when I found pickleball, I
- 16:12said, wow, this would be a fun thing to do. And so
- 16:18I got it approved. What got it disapproved by rec first, and then
- 16:23I went to the mayor And it was funny because I gave him my marketing
- 16:26department's grade. I gave him a slick on why it would be a good
- 16:30thing for Milford. And it was February first, because it was my wife's
- 16:34second knee surgery and I was bringing her home at my assistant sent it to
- 16:38him at like at eight o'clock. He called me at twelve o'clock. He
- 16:41goes, Hi, Chris, this is Ben Blake. I go the mayor.
- 16:45So he liked it. And then I talked to Billy Garfield again and
- 16:48he liked it. And it's Milford Rex Pickleball tournament and I'm supporting it,
- 16:55and it's more of COVID's gone. People can be together now. It really
- 17:02helps me. So I wanted to give back. So it's not a tournament
- 17:07like New Haven just had a tournament that had five hundred and forty two players
- 17:11from sixteen states and it was real competitive or as competitive as you want mine.
- 17:18There's always winners and losers in the world. But I want people to
- 17:22come up enjoy themselves. That's where the cocktail party is so they can talk
- 17:26between themselves, maybe neat meet some new people. I mean Ryan at the
- 17:30plate where where I'm having it. I wanted somewhere in Milford and he's closed
- 17:37it two o'clock, so to have something there in the evening is easy.
- 17:41And then the food truck then next day and then it's double elimination. We
- 17:45got a nice swag, so it's gonna be a good fun time, and
- 17:49I thought it would be harder me organizing this and getting it approved by the
- 17:53city than actually getting people to play. So that's why I'm on the show.
- 18:00Yeah, I mean, you know it's from I already. I'm pretty
- 18:03sure I got you at least ten commitments because that was just from talking about
- 18:07it over the weekend. Thank you. You know, you might have to
- 18:11make some exceptions on age, and I don't have a problem with that.
- 18:14The reason why I did forty five and older and nest doubles was I only
- 18:18have the courts for a day, right, and I was going to do
- 18:22you know, single men's singles. You know I've got all Yeah, I
- 18:26started thinking about it. I thought I was going to run you know,
- 18:29the US Open, and I came down to, okay, well, I
- 18:32only have so much time. How long does the game start, and where's
- 18:34this and how much of a problem getting from place to play? So I
- 18:37went with forty five and above because the average medium age in Milford's forty four.
- 18:42Yeah, So I thought, okay, and I'm getting some response from
- 18:47younger people, and I'm like, I didn't want to have two twenty two
- 18:51year olds that can hit the ball really hard, play against seven sixty five
- 18:55seventy year olds, right, So some people have called I'm you know,
- 18:59I just that. Look the program says forty five, So just put your
- 19:03put your age limited at forty five. Ye idea. No, there's no,
- 19:07there's no, there's no. There's not five policemen outside like at stone
- 19:11Bridge on a Friday, you know. And it's really just for fun.
- 19:18I mean there'll be there's real nice metals there. You get, you know,
- 19:22to sign up for fifty bucks each or one hundred dollars a team.
- 19:26You get the mixer at the play. The next day you get on all
- 19:29you can eat plate food chalk, which is good. Yeah, I wanted
- 19:33to do everything. Milford. You get a shirt that then Tucket Embroider is
- 19:37going and they're doing coozies with a water bottle too for me. And then
- 19:41um, he does all my stuff. He does. Really, I mean
- 19:44I knew him when they were called the Seymour Brothers. Brothers. Yeah,
- 19:47I mean when I walked in when somebody told me you were over there,
- 19:49I didn't have any idea what it was. Um, so yeah, it's
- 19:55that kind of a thing. And and and at the end of the day,
- 19:57what's the money going to. It's going back to the Pickup All Association
- 20:00to help um refinish the courts because and all of that, which is great.
- 20:06And then maybe next year because I really want to do this as an
- 20:10annual thing. I mean, maybe we do. Uh. Someone told me
- 20:15about Camp Happiness that's having some problems because a certain benefactor is no longer around
- 20:22doing it, or maybe it goes to something else in Milford. But I
- 20:26want to keep the money in Milford. So that's that's awesome. So it's
- 20:30June second. June second is the play. Une June third is eight am.
- 20:36It starts that registration game start at nine kind of thing. Uh.
- 20:40And and do you have your is it just you kind of like setting up
- 20:45all the matches or you got a little crew with you that are gonna kind
- 20:48of organize my kids? My kids are coming all back. I mean,
- 20:52Chris is back. How you will be back? Okay? And that saves
- 20:56me. This whole thing is great because all my life, since my kids
- 21:00were little, I've always done a Christmas card, a family Christmas card.
- 21:03Ye, so last year was the first time because one's up in New Hampshire
- 21:08going to school. Two of them are in Tampa, ones in Larchmont,
- 21:11and to try to get kids under thirty all at my house at the same
- 21:15time is almost impossible. Yeah. Yeah, So we had to do our
- 21:18first Christmas card from Christmas in different states. So this year I went right
- 21:23when I after I decided I was going to do this, I'm like,
- 21:26all right, all of you guys are coming up. I need your help.
- 21:29But then we can get our Christmas picture too, so that'll be a
- 21:32good thing. Yeah. I have enough volunteers and and all that. So
- 21:36I mean it sounds like, honestly a bargain. I mean, fifty bucks
- 21:41the money. Most of the money's going back to resurface the courts you get
- 21:45or whatever wreck one, whatever would they want to do with the money,
- 21:48right, it's going to the wreck though. Yes, you know, you
- 21:49get a cocktail hour or more more yep, the night before, get you
- 21:56a nice think. It'll be like stone Bridge, where you know, it
- 21:59all depends on how many farers you can just zombies walking in at eight am.
- 22:03Is there a rain date? Yeah, the next time next sary okay,
- 22:07so perfect, So you have the second or the third or the tenth.
- 22:10Yeah, yeah, Uh so, this is what I will do on
- 22:14my Facebook page when we post the picture in the comments section, I will
- 22:19post the QR code. Thank you. So people right from their phones to
- 22:22their computer or whatnot can access that QR code. You guys can sign up
- 22:27right there if you believe. Probably takes payment right through it, right right
- 22:30through everything. Actually, my marketing department, my back office is in an
- 22:34Oregon. Yeah, you used to call it Oregon, but no, that's
- 22:38it's Oregon. Yeah. Um, and so all the money goes through them,
- 22:42and then we'll go right right to the vendors and the Milford rags right
- 22:48right. You obviously gotta pay the vendors. Uh So, I mean sounds
- 22:52like a great, great day to be honest with you, like, and
- 22:55I know, I know there's a lot of Milford people that play it.
- 22:59Uh those courts are packed NonStop, NonStop, NonStop. You can't I mean
- 23:03really, you got to call ahead and reserve it, and or you're not
- 23:06getting out there, right. And that's what's nice about that Milford Pickaball Association
- 23:08for the twenty five dollars and I guess it's one hundred and fifty now for
- 23:12outside Milford residents. They uped it this year. But the first day I
- 23:18went there, like on a Friday, at nine o'clock, there was like
- 23:22seventy people there. I couldn't believe. I mean, honestly, I thought
- 23:26they were giving things away free. Yeah. Yeah, and but very nice
- 23:30people. I mean, for the most part, very nice people. Yeah.
- 23:33That play. Yeah, and you can get heated sometimes, yes,
- 23:37and that's and I like that anyway. I'm as good as anybody, you
- 23:41know having fun. Yeah, and you know, and I'm a loud,
- 23:45boisterous person anyway. So I was a little bit of a new avenue there
- 23:52because I was talking. I talked throughout the game, right, make jokes,
- 23:55all that kind of stuff. So so it's fun, yeah, and
- 24:00this will be great. And again there will be very good players there playing.
- 24:04But you know, the woman might be really good in the husband's not.
- 24:10The husband might be good. Both of them might be really good.
- 24:12I mean, same sex marriages are okay to me too. You know,
- 24:17it's in today's world, it's too hard to I'd rather go with mixed than
- 24:23people ask me, can I do this that? Yeah? Everybody's you know,
- 24:27do they allow alcohol there? No, I did not sign up for
- 24:30that. Permit, I probably would not have gotten it, right, not
- 24:33just curious, you know, I know how a lot of these guys,
- 24:36you know, they pack a cooler and they go, oh no, nobody
- 24:37know these people, I mean water, energy bars, gloves that goes.
- 24:45No, they' gonna whatever they do on the lower field. I don't care,
- 24:52no, no, no, just I just just get all the other
- 24:55beach. I would think that if you're if you over the point beach,
- 24:56you want to crack a yeah party, yeah yeah, yeah no. I'm
- 25:00just saying, like, are they allowed to bring their own not booze,
- 25:03but they can bring a cooler? They can bring well, the food is
- 25:07gonna defeat right there. Right, but if you know, I mean again,
- 25:11I am not the police, so hey, I'm just there to make
- 25:15sure people are so fun, that's it. I can get to the right
- 25:18courts. Yeah. And what's cool about it is I'm named because if it
- 25:19is Milford and we're a coastal town, each one of the courts will be
- 25:25named different beach at Milford. So people who understand when I say, okay,
- 25:30mid uh, you know silver Sands two and three are playing so oh
- 25:34cool. Yeah, It's all really about when does registration close. I need
- 25:40three weeks according to the Seymours to get the shirts, so May fifth or
- 25:44so. But I need more people, so anything we can do that would
- 25:48be great, right or next week? Yep? All right, perfect,
- 25:51So limited spots everyone, Like I said, you can go right to the
- 25:53QR code will be posted on my Facebook page and I just click on it
- 25:57and it's gonna be a fun time time. I probably won't be attending due
- 26:02to the fact that one I have to work at night. I was,
- 26:04and I worked till three in the morning on Friday, So eight o'clock is
- 26:07my Z time, Like this my rem sleep time, right, But I
- 26:14will swing by though, like later. Yeah, yeah, I'll definitely swing
- 26:15by later before I go to work. Check it out, take some pictures
- 26:18and stuff like that. Um so awesome. So it is June third,
- 26:25register online. What is the website If they don't click on my QR code,
- 26:30it is https. What's the main thing? Oh, they can go
- 26:40right on to Milford Reck Okay Pickleball Association. Yeah, it's all here and
- 26:45you'll see the tournament there and alright, perfect on the on the flyer,
- 26:49yep, that's what I'm gonna poste and the flyers up on the Milford recks
- 26:53um because it is their tournament. Okay, got you all right? Perfect?
- 26:57All right, Well now that we got that and out of the way.
- 27:00Yeah, yeah, no, you're welcome, man, Good luck with
- 27:03it. It'll be fun. I know, I know a lot of people
- 27:07that'll be we are talking about going you know, the talk talk is a
- 27:10lot. I thought it would be hard, like I said, I thought
- 27:12it would go like that, and then you know, yeah, it's not
- 27:15as quick as I thought. Yeah, people are like, well, you
- 27:19know, I mean, I can't find somebody. Can you find me a
- 27:22guy? Chris and I I don't know that many people. I'm like where
- 27:29there's like six guys right there? Then go out that. Yeah, I
- 27:32don't want to be like that. Can you go do it? It's not
- 27:33a pimp. Well it's your tournament though. You know you're a salesman by
- 27:40nature, right, yes, uh speaking of salesman. Before you got here,
- 27:45I was watching Biden announce his twenty twenty four re election run. There's
- 27:52a lot of mumble jumble stuff. Didn't really understand what he was saying,
- 27:56but it got me to thinking about what he did the other day and he
- 28:02basically signed an executive order that, in Layman's terms, if you have let's
- 28:10say a credit score of seven to fifty and go to get a mortgage,
- 28:15let's say a four hundred thousand dollars home, you're going to pay on average
- 28:18sixty more dollars a month to fund the people that don't have good credit so
- 28:26they don't have to pay the fees. Yeah, I got that mostly right.
- 28:30No, you did. And it's again we in America, we keep
- 28:37rehashing ideas that did not work. Right. I'm in wealth management. I've
- 28:41been in wealth management since nineteen ninety and you know, everybody worries about the
- 28:48stock market. But if you look at the tip of your finger where your
- 28:52nail is, that's the stock market. But if you look at the bond
- 28:56market, the credit market, I mean that's all of an etiquette. Really,
- 29:00I mean the worst. We can't live without credit, I mean it's
- 29:04impossible. So we've tried. The wealthiest of wealthy use credit. Yeah,
- 29:10they don't pay cash for nothing. The reason why in two thousand and eight
- 29:15that we almost went to Barter Flintstone money, I mean Barter. It was
- 29:19that close. I mean, I mean very very close. To not having
- 29:25any money is because I wouldn't lend you a dollar for a day because you
- 29:27didn't think i'd pay you back, right, And it was all everybody's got
- 29:32to own a home. And I don't want to discriminate. I don't believe
- 29:36discrimination is good. But there's a reason why everybody doesn't own a home.
- 29:41They might not have enough money, they might not they may spend too much
- 29:45money. There's reasons, what different reasons why people don't have a good credit
- 29:48score. It's not always that someone's impoverished. It's not they just don't pay
- 29:53their bills on time, or they just forget, or they just realize they
- 29:56don't have to, or they over extend. So when everybody needed to own
- 30:03a house in the early two thousands, two thousand and eight happen, I
- 30:07mean it was a bubble, it was, and it wasn't because houses were
- 30:11too expensive. It was that there was nothing in the mortgages anymore. We
- 30:17were selling things that didn't exist, so Wall Street could make money. And
- 30:21I've got no problem with people making money, but this new one is just
- 30:26seems to me like a rehash. And I don't believe everybody needs a trophy
- 30:32in America, you have to earn a trophy. And if you're going to
- 30:38have commercials, because that's what I envision now, credit agency saying, let
- 30:42me show you how to miss a credit bill and so your credit score goes
- 30:48down a little bit so you can get you don't have to pay as much
- 30:51in closing costs. That just doesn't make any sense to me, right,
- 30:56and that's going to be the new trick, Right, that's going to be
- 31:00a new trick. No, I can tell you there are firms out there
- 31:03right now that are trying to figure out how to put a lipstick on that
- 31:07pay right, to make it attracted to people, to miss about, you
- 31:11know, to miss a credit to go down, not to put as much
- 31:15money in. But I think if you don't have enough money to if you
- 31:21if you only have exactly the amount of money or ten cents more to buy
- 31:26a house, You're probably not going to succeed in the long run anyway,
- 31:33because shit just happens, right the furnace blows up though water pipe. I
- 31:38mean, well, I always look at myself when I make a big purchase.
- 31:44I have like I have anxiety by nature, but I'm always like,
- 31:48you know, if I break my leg or break my arm, or God
- 31:52forbid, something takes me out of work for the summer. How the fuck
- 31:56am I gonna pay? I mean, in my profession, right, I
- 32:00can get this right, right, And but I worry about it. You
- 32:06know, I was like two thousand and seven, I I filed for bankruptcy.
- 32:10You have no problem admitting that. And it was probably one of the
- 32:14best things I ever did. I learned a lesson and my deck got wiped
- 32:17clean. And but I didn't make a joke of it. I like,
- 32:21really like on my own, like all right, this is how I got
- 32:24to do it. Now my credit is around eight ten and after which is
- 32:30amazing, just after years, that's amazing. Congratulation, thank you. And
- 32:37I look something like this, and I'm like, are you fucking kidding me?
- 32:40Like teaching teaching people how to I guess budget right, budget their money
- 32:52and not over extend. And you know, I'm still guilty of it.
- 32:55You know, we all I buy dumb shut shit. I shouldn't be buying,
- 33:00but you know, we're human and we have wants and needs, and
- 33:04you know it is what it is. But to me on the outside of
- 33:08this, I look in it and I think Okay, so fuck the sixty
- 33:14dollars a month, right, right, right? Whatever is this plan actually
- 33:19gonna work? Let's I would be more than willing to pay that extra amount
- 33:22if this plan would work, but I am ninety nine point nine percent sure
- 33:27it won't. And the reason is is because these people that have bad credit
- 33:31have bad credit for a reason, just like I did fifteen years ago.
- 33:36However, I had means to get out of it financially, not not just
- 33:39because of bankruptcy, but because of the job I had. And I don't
- 33:43feel like you're right, I don't feel the lower income you know people and
- 33:49you know, let's call them minorities, people in the inner city one,
- 33:52Where are they going to buy housing? Where are the houses right for them
- 33:55to buy? Because they don't? Because what's it's the major problem with our
- 34:00housing market for new homebuyers. My daughter and her husband are looking to buy.
- 34:07And you know when I first bought with my wife, I mean I
- 34:12bought in Stratford. I paid, you know, it was late late nineties,
- 34:16maybe one hundred and sixty five thousand dollars for a two bedroom, one
- 34:21and a half bath that I added on a little bit too, and made
- 34:22a killing. I mean, I really did. I mean when I sold
- 34:27it in two thousand and six, because it was right right right at the
- 34:30market. Right. But now where do you find a home that you can
- 34:36afford that's not a big mansion. And you've got venture capitalist and you've got
- 34:43people on Wall Street that any time a house like that comes up, they're
- 34:46buying it because then they're gutting it and renting it out, and rent pisces
- 34:53are going up. So really, what this executive order, which I'm not
- 34:58a big believer, and is that you know, we didn't elect the king,
- 35:00I mean, right, Congress, right, but and I'm just not
- 35:05saying Biden and then right, and Congress allows him to when people wonder,
- 35:12why, right, get out set of balls, right, get back your
- 35:15power? Right right? You know? Um, but you don't have the
- 35:21houses. So rent is more than a mortgage, right, So the administration
- 35:29must be thinking, well, if rent is more expensive than the house mortgage,
- 35:34well let's make it easier for them. They get a mortgage. But
- 35:37the problem with a mortgage is you gotta pay it, right, you can't,
- 35:44you can't miss it, right, So it was eight months. They
- 35:46can't they can't get the addictions done. But you know I mean, and
- 35:52what you're going to see because I worked for a major financial institution for twenty
- 35:58five years and they get some bad days, right, I mean, is
- 36:04that they're just going to do the mortgage and sell it to somebody. They're
- 36:09not going to hold it. That's what happened in the early twos right,
- 36:13they were just doing it, getting their money and then selling it off,
- 36:16and then Wall Street started packaging them. And that's how we're in the whole
- 36:20two thousand and eight. So who is this a win win for? I
- 36:22don't understand it. There's not enough houses to be bought anyway we're in.
- 36:29They're not going to be able to buy the homes they live in, right,
- 36:31That's not going to happen because those are cash cows for the guys that
- 36:35own them. Yes, so let's say they do find a house and it
- 36:38is in the suburbs. Great, awesome, they got out of where they
- 36:42did, where they didn't want to be. Now they own American dream,
- 36:45the American dream. Now they're there. Now, let's say they were able
- 36:50to pay for a year, but each month they pay is depleting their savings,
- 36:57depleting their overall monthly income. More fights in the household. Right now,
- 37:01you get like you said, that mortgage gets sold back to Fannie or
- 37:06Freddie. They bought it from Webster Bank or Milford Bank or somebody local total
- 37:10Mortgage, whoever, and they're they're not dumb. They they'll they'll make the
- 37:15quick buck and sell it. Now you have the problem where Okay, now
- 37:21they're at three months default, they're going to be basically foreclosed on. And
- 37:27then they got to move back to where they were most likely right, and
- 37:31they got to uproot their whole family again. And then who's going to swipe
- 37:35in? Some dude with money is gonna come in and take it over,
- 37:37right, and then what's he gonna do. He's gonna rent it right?
- 37:42That that than that because the bank doesn't want to own right the property the
- 37:49property right. So what you look at is you just look at what we
- 37:53consistently try to do wrong. Our school systems do not teach financial literacy at
- 38:07all. I cannot agree with you. More like I spent twelve years in
- 38:12high school or twelve years in grade school, four years in college, four
- 38:15and a half. Maybe my economics course in college kind of like taught me
- 38:22how to balance a checkbook. That was about it. And that was like
- 38:25back before, you know, way before the credit card or the debit card
- 38:30were delivered or that money just moved. They were still swiping my card like
- 38:34at the gas station with the fucking and then people were jumping in the jumping
- 38:40into the into the trash ban. Yeah, just get number. Yeah yeah.
- 38:47But where we are is we're in a society where everything has to be
- 38:52instantaneous, right right right. More and more people can't buy because we've priced
- 39:02them out of the marketplace and they don't know how to get better credit scores.
- 39:09But if you watch TV now, if you get an experience app,
- 39:15I've never done it. I have one, right, you get if you
- 39:20do certain things, you gotta get notified when my credit goes up. Your
- 39:23credit I mean, Wells Fargo and other banks now have a credit card that
- 39:29you can use to pay your rent. Right, that's a good thing,
- 39:34is it? Well, no, it's you know it's yes, because you're
- 39:37getting you're using that a credit card or a debit card. A credit card,
- 39:42a debit card, credit card both, you know what I mean.
- 39:45But so if I rents a thousand dollars, I throw it on my credit
- 39:46card. They're going to charge met No, well, if if I don't
- 39:52pay it, yeah, if you don't pay it. But if I do
- 39:54pay it, you your yours or whatever your credit card not so much rewards,
- 39:59but you're you're improving your credit, right, because what we're doing here.
- 40:05But then but then you get people like, see, this is this
- 40:07is the problem I feel. Then you get people like, all right,
- 40:08well, let's say I have a ten thousand dollar credit limit. Well,
- 40:12you know, I'm just gonna throw it on this month. I don't really
- 40:15have the money to pay, or I want to buy something. I want
- 40:16to buy a car. They let that month slide, they pay the interest
- 40:21on it, and then they do it again ten months later around Christmas time
- 40:23because they want to buy some Christmas gifts. Now they're two grand in debt
- 40:28on prior rent. Just how many people actually know if you don't pay off
- 40:34a credit card that you get hit with loan worse than loan shark y.
- 40:39Yeah, I mean, and that a lot of people don't know that.
- 40:44I mean, they don't teach, they don't teach how money's doubled in school.
- 40:49Einstein did Eagles MC squared, Yeah, but he also did, and
- 40:52there's a tripling. But if you an easy way to know how if you're
- 40:57paying interest on something, or if you're return earning money in the market or
- 41:00in a CD or whatever, is if you divide that number into seventy two,
- 41:06that's how long it'll take your money to double. So if you're getting
- 41:08one percent of your money, it's gonna take seventy two years to double.
- 41:13If you're getting eight percent on your money, your money's doubling every nine years.
- 41:19So when kids get out of school and they go into their four oh
- 41:22one case, all they care about is, well, I'm gonna put three
- 41:24percent down because that's what they match. I'm like, yeah, but that's
- 41:30not what you want to do, right. That stuff's for long terms.
- 41:34So this mortgage thing that we're talking about, I hope it works, but
- 41:39I'm not history is going to repeat again. It's not gonna work because people
- 41:45that don't pay their bills and don't have good credit. Because they get a
- 41:52house doesn't mean that they're going to start doing it. And I'm not trying
- 41:57to discriminate because there's all different kinds of people, but if they're doing it
- 42:02for the Latino and Black community, right, and poorer whites, I mean
- 42:10there's poor, I mean not there go race or anything. But then you're
- 42:15hurting people in that same race, right that have done the right thing.
- 42:19Right, So how are you How is it right to hurt someone that's been
- 42:23doing the right thing? But why why are we robbing Peter to payball?
- 42:27Right? Like? Government just don't fucking charging fees? Why are you taking
- 42:31it from us? Well, because the banks don't make money if they don't
- 42:35churn. No, the government, I mean fucking government cover that shit.
- 42:38What's sixty dollars that's about that's about forty four cents each of me and you,
- 42:44Right, yeah, but I'm just saying out of our taxes. Right,
- 42:46But it's like, I don't know. It just frustrates the fuck out
- 42:51of me because here I you know, I fucked up when I was young.
- 42:54I figured it out on my own, I did my own research,
- 42:58I paid for it. I got to where I am now. I still
- 43:00have debt, but I've also learned that it's good to have debt. It
- 43:05is. And your credit score is really fucking wacky on how they the algorithms
- 43:09go about how they determine your score. And I've learned to, you know,
- 43:15always keep some kind of debt on your credit cards. Like you can
- 43:20have a couple paid off. But I have four credit cards. They all
- 43:23have about a thousand dollars debt on them. Uh, summertime, I try
- 43:28to pay them all off, leave one with a little, right, and
- 43:30but I'll see my credit card, my credit score go down because I have
- 43:32if I'm carrying zero, They're just like, oh, he's not a spender.
- 43:36Like, I don't know how it all really works well basically with a
- 43:38credit card or anything like that, if you and most people do it.
- 43:44Did you were telling me when we're talking offline, was that most it used
- 43:47to be all cash right at a restaurant, Yeah, basically just a little
- 43:52bit of card when they were going yeah, right now, it's exactly absolute.
- 43:57It's like two percent you're gonna get in cash. You know, I'm
- 44:00in. And so what you have is if you pay off your credit card
- 44:06every month, that does work to your advantage, but it doesn't work to
- 44:10your advantage if you have two or three credit cards, right, because every
- 44:15time you open up a credit a credit account, right, you're gonna drop
- 44:20a little bit on your credit card. When they even open up your file,
- 44:22you drop right right. That's stupid, stupidest thing in the world.
- 44:27Right, too many people are looking at my credit card, right, so
- 44:30you must be a bad risk, I mean, really truly. Well,
- 44:32I've taken out this is a little not personal information, but I have taken
- 44:37out. It's Goldman Sachs Marcus By Goldman Sacks. I've done two personal loans
- 44:44with them. This is crazy. I don't know if I'm an anomaly or
- 44:46not one. They don't check your credit. Well, they check your credit,
- 44:51but there's a way to check it without it going to the bureau or
- 44:53something like that. Okay, so they do a non vire credit check.
- 44:58And this doesn't make any sense, right, And but this is Goldman Sachs.
- 45:01Sure, and don't forget Goldman Zacks got us into the two thousand right
- 45:06right right right? Uh. And if you guys are looking for a loan,
- 45:10I highly recommend this one. I took ten thousand dollars out like five
- 45:15years ago, and I paid off some debt and I was doing a trip
- 45:22that doesn't get for some reason, that doesn't even get reported to my to
- 45:25my FICO scores. That loan, that loan is not there they don't even
- 45:30know about it. Now I pay off my loans quicker than it's due,
- 45:34you know. But I'm like I learned my lesson, like when I have
- 45:37extra cash, start paying off that shit because the extra cash wall I was
- 45:42coming around. It seems to for me anyway. And uh and but they
- 45:46have great payment plans, great rates six point nine, five point nine.
- 45:52I think I got in the second line having to go and get it into
- 45:53calling it right right, you know. So it was approved my needs on
- 46:00my account in twenty four hours in my bank. Like I just wasn't like
- 46:05it. You know. When I opened a bar in twenty fourteen, no
- 46:10longer own it. Uh. I had to take out a couple of personal
- 46:15loans for like eight grand each, you know, just to get some money.
- 46:19It was like you said it was a colonoscopy. It was fucking I
- 46:22mean, it was like it was like going through a mortgage. You know,
- 46:25they needed everything and then they needed it twice, you know, and
- 46:29I'm just like just for eight grand, Like but well, but that's the
- 46:32funny thing. Like I was around when mortgages in the early twos you didn't
- 46:38you didn't even have to say how much money you were making right, no
- 46:44income verification? Yeah, does that? I mean didn't couldn't somebody think that's
- 46:49a pretty stupid idea, idea, But there was a need for it,
- 46:55this that we're talking about about, right, what is the need If we're
- 47:01going to allow houses to come up for sale and hedge funds and Wall Street
- 47:07to buy them to jack up prices, why don't we fix that? Right?
- 47:15You know what I mean? I mean do we not? Whether it's
- 47:17Republican regime or Democrat regime, we don't have these economists that like people that
- 47:23are way smarter than you or me, like kind of be like, not
- 47:28a good idea. Look what happened in O eight, you know, not
- 47:30a good idea. Right, it's not that long ago. Oh my god,
- 47:35I've lived through it, right. I lived through eighty four when I
- 47:37thought it would be the worst bond market ever. Then in ninety eight,
- 47:42Venezuela and Russia defaulted and the long term cap went out. This isn't the
- 47:45first time we bailed somebody out. This is just another way of politically saying
- 47:53I got your back. But they're putting a monkey on those people's backs because
- 48:00that's what them do all the time Republicans doing, sure they do, but
- 48:06the dams are famous for it. Handouts. They love giving them. They
- 48:09want the low income people to suck the teat of the government always. That's
- 48:15why all the major cities are always the deciding factors, and when Democrats win
- 48:22is what I feel. I mean, look at New York City. I
- 48:23mean I've been going to the city since I was a little kid, right,
- 48:25I mean I can remember, you know when you know, I'm gonna
- 48:29be sixty this year. But I think like for my seventh grade, eighth
- 48:31grade class trip, we went in to see a Broadway play, you know
- 48:36what I mean. And at that point, I was in eighth grade or
- 48:37ninth grader. We wanted to go to Time Square and watch the strip club
- 48:44not the strip clubs, but the little thing. It was terrible. Then
- 48:49we fix it, right, Grand Central almost fell down, Then we fix
- 48:52that. Now we're back to who wants to go to New York City?
- 48:57Yeah, I mean I liked it when it was clean. I liked it
- 49:01when you didn't have to step over someone. I liked it when it was
- 49:05safe. Now, if somebody asked me to go into New York City,
- 49:08I'm like, well, we're right. I don't think I would do it.
- 49:13I haven't gone since COVID. I don't think. I don't think I've
- 49:15been down there since then. No, I don't think I have. I
- 49:19mean to go ahead, you know, And I was before, right before
- 49:22COVID. We went down to uh funk, what's that bar down in the
- 49:28Wall Street area Financial district? Or No, no, no, it's it's
- 49:35all the way down we ubered. Uh, that's a fun place. Mixed
- 49:38or vicoriles is good. That's the two beers, right, that's the black
- 49:44and dark, the warm beer. Yeah, they got chicken lit, they
- 49:45got chicken that then. Yeah, I went there once and I ordered a
- 49:49gin and tonic and almost got thrown out. Yeah. Anyway, we went
- 49:52to this bar down and Financial District, the Dead Rabbit. Oh yeah,
- 49:57the Dead Rabbit, great fucking bar. Have you ever down on that area?
- 50:00And we stayed over that night. We were down in that area.
- 50:05We are now walking back up towards Grand Central to take the train back home.
- 50:09And yeah, you know, a nice area. Every it's great.
- 50:14COVID hits Uh they're now allowed to reopen, so it's you know, summer
- 50:20of twenty twenty and I had a friend that had his wife owned a bar
- 50:24down in the area. We were just at and like, they came in
- 50:29for dinner one night and she was like crying. She's like, they fucking
- 50:31smashed my windows out. They fucking you know, did all this crazy shit.
- 50:35She doesn't know in the bar anymore. She's she's got out of it.
- 50:38I've never understand why do people want to destroyed property where they live.
- 50:45Right, we go to award to destroy property eat right, right, don't
- 50:50do that, right? I mean, and then they and the people that
- 50:53live in the communities they don't want that, but they don't have It's you're
- 51:01bringing what you're bringing property value down. You know, the crime rate goes
- 51:07up. No one wants to go there anymore. So the so the restaurants,
- 51:09the businesses suffer. Like look at what it was it Portland, Oregon
- 51:14to close all the all the walmarts or whatever they're doing in San Francisco to
- 51:19them, Well, I mean people, look, I mean Chicago, Chicago,
- 51:22they're closing they're closing stores. In Chicago. Two teenagers still a car
- 51:28with a six month old in it. The six month died. Kids got
- 51:30out on a misdemeanor what the problem that we have. I've had four children,
- 51:38right, and I still go to this and it's a talk that I
- 51:44can have them today when they're twenty nine, twenty six or twenty seven,
- 51:49twenty three and twenty one, or when they were young. It's drugs,
- 51:52sex, whatever. Every every decision you make, Jeremy, you have a
- 51:58consequence. Ye better be able to live with that consequence. But you commit
- 52:02a felony and you're out right, how about that good for society? Does
- 52:09it send what message? And now it's wrong that you're in Rikers for two
- 52:15years because you can't get bail. Okay, but let's try to fix it
- 52:19differently than just a revolving you know, crook place to come in and come
- 52:23out of. We overthink things. I mean, I'm not a politician.
- 52:30I mean I manage people's money. I mean I hopefully I do that real
- 52:36well because I care about it. I just don't if the market goes down,
- 52:38it affects me. I'm really I'm really helping people with what they want
- 52:44to do with generations, with their lives. But you you do what those
- 52:52kids did and they get right out with nothing, I mean not even community
- 52:57service or that you have to go and paint those people's homes some something something
- 53:02Is that okay now, right? I mean apparently it's it all started.
- 53:07I swear it all started when that first mom or dad went up to the
- 53:14coach and said, why didn't my kid get a trophy? Yeah, well
- 53:16he wasn't. He wasn't the worst kid on the team that got better,
- 53:21right, and he wasn't the best kid his fatherless homes. Oh, you
- 53:25know, it's it's that's something that we have to do, but we just
- 53:30put that underneath the carpet. Let's give them. And I'm not saying them
- 53:36because I don't want to use the word them. It's because there's people with
- 53:39bad credits, all different kinds of demographics. But I thought in America,
- 53:46if you did the right thing, you worked hard, and you didn't commit
- 53:52felonies, you can have a pretty good line. Now, maybe that's not
- 53:59the best way about going around doing it. I don't know what. I
- 54:02don't know how that goes, right. It's a polarizing world we live in.
- 54:07I mean, they're just I don't want to step into a city like
- 54:12I go to Boston a lot. I was just there a couple of times.
- 54:14WI Great City. I mean where that whole thing happened in Chicago.
- 54:21That was on like Madison half right, that was like where you and I
- 54:23would be if we went to go see a Blackhawks game. You know,
- 54:28we would have stayed down that area and we would have witnessed all that.
- 54:31We don't want the mothers, right, I mean, and you know I've
- 54:34been to Baltimore. I've been to Baltimore at at Orioles game Red Sox,
- 54:38and I turned a guy to the two guys behind me and I said,
- 54:43you know, where should I go after the game? Stayed a couple of
- 54:45nights. He said, when you walk out of the stadium, just don't
- 54:49go left, just go right. And I'm like, well, why he
- 54:53goes If you go left, two things are gonna happen. You're gonna get
- 54:57killed, or you're gonna get pulled over by a cop and he's gonna ask
- 55:00you what are you doing in this neighborhood? You know? And That's how
- 55:05I've always grown up in life, like just stay away from that neighborhood.
- 55:09But but that's me living in my own little bubble. And I think now
- 55:15that bubble, that bubble, that racial bubble, or that whatever demographic bubble
- 55:20is kind of bursting right now. And if I lived in the ghetto quotes,
- 55:25I'd want to get out. And I think right now, with what's
- 55:30going on in the world, is they want to get out. Like,
- 55:31I don't fucking blame him. I'm not saying looting is the right fucking thing
- 55:36way about it. There is other avenues to take, but they're probably just
- 55:39so fucking fed up with whatever they the only one. Like I can't relate,
- 55:45no, we you know not, I cannot relate. Like my best
- 55:49friend is black. He's been my best friend since I was in sixth grade.
- 55:53Yeah, I mean, he is my brother, right, but I
- 55:57can't relate to him, right because he'll tell me christ you're not black,
- 56:05right, you know what I mean you need to be reminded of that.
- 56:08Well, No, but because I mean, like, you know, he's
- 56:12lived in nice places and when he moved to where I used to live in
- 56:16Woodbridge, he pulled over. He got pulled over three times in a month,
- 56:21yea for not doing anything wrong right while driving, black while driving.
- 56:25And I don't understand that. I don't, but I do understand that he's
- 56:31worked his entire life to make a better life for his kids, to get
- 56:36where he is and to get where he where he is, and there's been
- 56:38difficulties with that more than I've had. But how now are we saying do
- 56:45everything right and get penalized right? Right? Doesn't make sense to me on
- 56:51that. It doesn't. This is I'd love to have you on again and
- 56:54just talk about some of this stuff. We got to talk about the Jets
- 56:58though. The Jets, Okay, real quickly, it's got to be real
- 57:00quick because my battery is really low. We're going to Super Bowl, We're
- 57:04going to Rodgers to the Jets. The I didn't look at it yet,
- 57:07but I think Vegas is probably around eleven and a half wins. What do
- 57:10you think? Oh god, man, I mean last year I was excited
- 57:15that I got to watch the game all the way into the fourth quarter for
- 57:17most games before they lost. Yeah, so eleven wins would be like,
- 57:22I mean, that's that's like true fantasy. I'm not Patriot fans, no,
- 57:24I know, I don't. I mean, but eleven wins for me
- 57:28as a Jet fan, that's huge. I mean, my youngest son is
- 57:31talking about the Super Bowl. I remember when you had a ship Joe Walton
- 57:37was your coach. Yes, you guys were ten and one, right,
- 57:38and you finished ten and six and missed the playoffs. Yeah, I mean
- 57:43I'm old enough that you know I remember watching them win the Super Bowl.
- 57:47Yeah, I mean, I mean that's a long time ago. Yeah,
- 57:51and there's been great teams and great players. But hopefully this time, you
- 57:54know, I like the coach, so hopefully he's a defensive guy, so
- 57:59hopefully they well they got will they get in for offensive coordinator the same guy
- 58:02that was a lot bay That's how they got right. Yeah, yeah,
- 58:07yeah, that's great. But again, as long as I'm able, this
- 58:10is how bad it is being a Jet fan. If I can watch more
- 58:14than two quarters and they're still in the game, it's exciting because it's been
- 58:20so bad for so long. I said up my show yesterday, I'm excited,
- 58:22Like I want to see that Jets be an actual rival, like like
- 58:27right, like we beat you twice last year and you probably should have won
- 58:30both games. We take a guy, I mean we lost in the second
- 58:34that each each of the second game was the return, right, the first
- 58:37game was then interception, Yeah, and then each at Yeah. Just awful.
- 58:43But no, this has been really fun. And hopefully the net Games
- 58:45tournament gets some traction. Yeah, that would be great. Will I've been
- 58:49promoting it at work because I know I know a lot of people to play,
- 58:52so we'll get it nice and filled up for you. Um, thanks
- 58:54so much for coming on and enjoy your cookies with Yeah, Kathy's cookie you
- 59:00know what, you know what you know. I'm really happy that you brought
- 59:04those because I like gifts, you know, and uh, I have a
- 59:07lot of people that bring stuff to the show, but uh, you know,
- 59:10I want to be a regular thing now. Like you see a lot
- 59:13of stuff around me. It's not that people that brought you know. I
- 59:15love that. I really appreciate it. And Kathy's cookies are a good g
- 59:19Yeah. Absolutely can't go wrong with those. You got enough to bring home
- 59:22to your children. I might just keep them here. No, no,
- 59:24no, no, Chris, thanks so much, pal. Awesome, awesome
- 59:30talking to you. Well, hang out for a second after the show,
- 59:31and uh we'll take some pictures and we'll get you out of you all right,
- 59:35buddy, thank you. Tomorrow I'll be uh live at um Nautilus Restaurant
- 59:39for a little quick quick promo. They're doing their official UM grand opening with
- 59:45the ribbon cutting and all that. So I'm gonna be down there talking to
- 59:47some the owners, uh Nick and Crystal and some other people that I guess
- 59:52the pizza Gavones. They have like the pizza site rating site, kind of
- 59:58like a de Portnoy thing. They're gonna be down They're trying the pizza out,
- 1:00:00and so I'll try to get those guys on the show as well.
- 1:00:02Everyone have a great week and I'll talk to you soon.