Latest / Stuff Mom Never Told You / Happy Hour #91: Negroni Sbagliato
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- 0:05Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and welcome to step
- 0:07Speaker 1: I'd never told your production to I Heart Radio, and
- 0:19Speaker 1: welcome to another edition of Happy Hour. Before we start,
- 0:22Speaker 1: just a reminder, we are seeking one of you to
- 0:26Speaker 1: come sit with us virtually, that is, to watch an
- 0:30Speaker 1: episode of Sex in the City. As you know, we've
- 0:32Speaker 1: been doing a whole watch party. We've been doing a
- 0:34Speaker 1: whole viewing and getting all of the reactions from Annie,
- 0:38Speaker 1: which our delight um, and we would love to have
- 0:41Speaker 1: you on to do a reaction with us as well.
- 0:44Speaker 1: If you're interested, all you have to do is contact
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- 0:51Speaker 1: I'm willing to come on. So yeah, put your name in,
- 0:54Speaker 1: we'll do a little drawing and we'll let you know.
- 0:56Speaker 1: As always, if you're drinking, be responsible, do what you
- 1:00Speaker 1: need to, but be an adult about it. I guess
- 1:02Speaker 1: I know adulting sucks, but making sure you stay well
- 1:05Speaker 1: in your limits, whether it's too much caffeine, too much
- 1:07Speaker 1: of anything, you know, just be aware, do you, but
- 1:11Speaker 1: cautiously care with care. How about you? I love that?
- 1:17Speaker 1: Well that's for me. Honestly, I was like, way, they
- 1:19Speaker 1: need to pull it back. It's just just a little bit,
- 1:21Speaker 1: as you know. So that's kind of my theme, I think.
- 1:24Speaker 1: And of course we are not sponsored by what we
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- 1:29Speaker 1: things will change because we do, uh get some of
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- 1:58Speaker 1: not talking about this because of us sponsorship. But if
- 2:01Speaker 1: you listening in the future and if you are one
- 2:04Speaker 1: of those people who rests these things, and it will
- 2:06Speaker 1: be like, hey, this is like my connection call us.
- 2:08Speaker 1: Hey I love I know I am that old. This
- 2:12Speaker 1: is okay, let me do me. But you know what,
- 2:17Speaker 1: before we start, I need to ask you if you
- 2:21Speaker 1: were to go viral, what do you think you would
- 2:24Speaker 1: go viral for? Or have you? I don't think I
- 2:27Speaker 1: knew this if you did, Oh, I've never gone viral.
- 2:31Speaker 1: I think for me, the closest thing I've gotten is
- 2:34Speaker 1: like one time I got a hundred likes on a
- 2:35Speaker 1: tweet and I was like, oh wow, that's amazing because
- 2:38Speaker 1: when I get tin I was like, yes, I win,
- 2:40Speaker 1: Yes exactly. I think we're about in the same boat
- 2:44Speaker 1: in that manner. I think I possibly could go viral
- 2:49Speaker 1: for some cause play hilarity. Um, I think that. I
- 2:56Speaker 1: mean this is a different episode, but one time our boss,
- 2:59Speaker 1: at one of our previous bosses, because we've been bought
- 3:01Speaker 1: out by several different companies, he sat us down and
- 3:03Speaker 1: showed us that what does the Fox Say video? He
- 3:07Speaker 1: made us watch it, and then at the Andy said,
- 3:09Speaker 1: why can't we go viral like this? You can't anticipate
- 3:12Speaker 1: what goes viral? Right, Um? So I think it would
- 3:14Speaker 1: be a random cause play like Phenomena where I was
- 3:20Speaker 1: dressed as disco Luke and somebody was dressed as disco
- 3:22Speaker 1: greaterer and somehow it just took off. Something like that.
- 3:26Speaker 1: We need just to happen. Can we make this happen?
- 3:28Speaker 1: I guess we need to TikTok for that, but we
- 3:30Speaker 1: haven't gone that far in our in our brand. Uh. Yes,
- 3:34Speaker 1: that that takes a lot of time commitment, and I'm
- 3:38Speaker 1: not sure. On top of doing the actual content that
- 3:41Speaker 1: we do. As you know if you follow our social media,
- 3:44Speaker 1: we don't do a lot of content anymore, mainly because
- 3:47Speaker 1: we got really caught up in doing all the actual
- 3:49Speaker 1: podcasting content, as well as the fact we are petrified
- 3:53Speaker 1: that we're going to do something wrong, as we've talked
- 3:55Speaker 1: about before, or being embarrassed, which is kind of what
- 3:58Speaker 1: we're going to talk about today, not necessarily being embarrassed,
- 4:00Speaker 1: but talking about viral memes or videos and why it
- 4:06Speaker 1: can influence so many things. And yeah, we're talking about
- 4:11Speaker 1: a drink uh that has swept the internet today October
- 4:15Speaker 1: twenty two. So for those maybe listening in being like
- 4:20Speaker 1: what believe me it was big okay um and talking
- 4:25Speaker 1: about the people of the House of the Dragon from
- 4:28Speaker 1: HBO Max. So, yes, there is some spoilers ahead. We're
- 4:32Speaker 1: not gonna go too deep. We're just gonna kind of
- 4:33Speaker 1: talk around it, but there may be things they're like,
- 4:35Speaker 1: why did you say that? So if you've not caught
- 4:38Speaker 1: up the finales this weekend, I'm sure this maybe dated
- 4:41Speaker 1: by this point, but yeah, so things are happening and
- 4:46Speaker 1: I don't know if it's getting this big buzz, but
- 4:48Speaker 1: you know whatever, I still like it. But before we start,
- 4:52Speaker 1: we do want to talk about this video that became
- 4:55Speaker 1: a meme, which is from the clip HBO Max where
- 4:59Speaker 1: the actress Olivia Cook interviewed Emma Darcy and was like, hey,
- 5:06Speaker 1: what's your drink of choice? And I know if you know,
- 5:08Speaker 1: you know, in which they respond with a new groni
- 5:13Speaker 1: spargliato with prosecco. And I know I did not do
- 5:17Speaker 1: that well, So don't just don't con don't it because
- 5:19Speaker 1: essentially the way they said it was people were talking
- 5:24Speaker 1: about how that changed their sexuality or that was their
- 5:26Speaker 1: defining sexuality. The way they said it, the way they
- 5:29Speaker 1: presented it, everything and the interaction between the two of them,
- 5:32Speaker 1: which was a delight to see. And because of this,
- 5:35Speaker 1: I was like, Annie, guess what we're gonna do. We're
- 5:38Speaker 1: making negroni spargliato with prosecco, which is how it's made
- 5:44Speaker 1: for this happy hour. Aren't you so excited? I am excited.
- 5:49Speaker 1: I had. I'm not plugged in to the scene. I
- 5:53Speaker 1: hadn't heard about this, but I recently did a very
- 5:56Speaker 1: quick family trip. Uh and id I mentioned it? No
- 6:00Speaker 1: one in my family watches The House of the Dragon,
- 6:02Speaker 1: our game of rooms and they all knew what I
- 6:05Speaker 1: was talking about. Is that my mom? But I was like, wow,
- 6:09Speaker 1: it must be really big thing, right And of course,
- 6:14Speaker 1: so because we love a good meme or we love
- 6:16Speaker 1: a good drink, we had to jump on to this.
- 6:20Speaker 1: And if you want to know what it is is uh,
- 6:22Speaker 1: one and a half ounces of sweep remooth, one and
- 6:25Speaker 1: a half ounces of compari, one and a half ounces
- 6:28Speaker 1: of prosecco or any other sparkling wine, and bogliato. Apparently
- 6:33Speaker 1: in Italians translated to being a mistake or bungling, So
- 6:37Speaker 1: this was made out of a mistake because the negronis
- 6:39Speaker 1: typically with gin with a twist of orange. Uh. And
- 6:44Speaker 1: I was like, how we're doing this? And I made
- 6:46Speaker 1: mine and we had to drop off ingredients to dear
- 6:48Speaker 1: Annie because of course she does not keep this stocked,
- 6:51Speaker 1: including the orange. Did you use the orange? I did
- 6:54Speaker 1: use the orange. Proud of you? What do you think
- 6:59Speaker 1: I could? I like it? At first? I my first
- 7:02Speaker 1: tip was too strong, and I think that the flavors
- 7:05Speaker 1: needed to melt a bit more. Um. And I was
- 7:08Speaker 1: telling Samantha, I just got two vaccines. Some my arms
- 7:11Speaker 1: were very sore and I had a struggled opening to prosecco. UM,
- 7:15Speaker 1: So I think I was in a rush and I
- 7:17Speaker 1: just kind of like haphazardly stirred and came in here.
- 7:20Speaker 1: But yeah, now that it's kind of the flavors had mashed,
- 7:24Speaker 1: I really like it. Um it's quite strong. It is,
- 7:30Speaker 1: which isn't bad. But it's just because we're recording this
- 7:32Speaker 1: early in a work day. It just happened to me
- 7:38Speaker 1: that way. We're not doing this on purpose. So pro
- 7:56Speaker 1: tip from my partner who is he likes doing the mixology,
- 8:03Speaker 1: putting the champagne or the prosecco in first and then
- 8:07Speaker 1: doing the mixture, because in this it says ad promotes
- 8:09Speaker 1: Cabari to a mixed class build. I started to combine
- 8:13Speaker 1: and chill straight into champagne flute top with prosecco and
- 8:16Speaker 1: start again. Of course you could just stir, but he
- 8:19Speaker 1: did at the opposite and it kind of melted a
- 8:21Speaker 1: little better. I think serve on rocks, I did not
- 8:25Speaker 1: mind that the champagne flute. How do you serve that
- 8:27Speaker 1: on ice? I did not So. I looked at a
- 8:32Speaker 1: few recipes before this, and they're all generally the same
- 8:35Speaker 1: except for this mixing part. Yeah, mine said to put
- 8:39Speaker 1: it to use ice. Put ice in first, the one
- 8:42Speaker 1: that I ended up going with, So okay, I put
- 8:45Speaker 1: it in a big ice cube because I'm a fancy adult.
- 8:48Speaker 1: Yeah you are, so how did you do it? I
- 8:51Speaker 1: put in my big square ice cube, and then I
- 8:54Speaker 1: mixed in the campari and the vermuse, and then I
- 8:59Speaker 1: topped with prosecco, which I didn't measure. I just topped
- 9:02Speaker 1: it um and then with a wedge of orange that
- 9:05Speaker 1: kind of twisted, and then put inside nice. So yeah,
- 9:09Speaker 1: so I am not a super Negroni fan. I do
- 9:12Speaker 1: not love kompari. It tastes like cough medicine to me. Sorry,
- 9:15Speaker 1: I'm not cool like that. We added a squeeze of
- 9:18Speaker 1: the orange into the shaker with the two comparing vermouth,
- 9:21Speaker 1: and then a large twist of orange bield and shook it.
- 9:25Speaker 1: I was gonna make an inappropriate chuck, I'm not going to,
- 9:27Speaker 1: but it shook the hell out of it, essentially, like
- 9:29Speaker 1: it was constantly to the point that we had to
- 9:31Speaker 1: switch off and he had to shake it, and then
- 9:34Speaker 1: like it got really cold because we didn't shaker. It
- 9:36Speaker 1: was the whole thing so beat like it just like
- 9:40Speaker 1: it is definitely shaking, not stirred for me. And so
- 9:45Speaker 1: we added all that and I'm tasting it in a
- 9:47Speaker 1: Champain fluid. I guess I'm missing the ice. I don't
- 9:49Speaker 1: love ice anyway. I think that downs. I don't have
- 9:51Speaker 1: a large ice cube. I'm not special apparently. I know
- 9:55Speaker 1: we'll fix us soon, but yeah, this is the drink.
- 9:57Speaker 1: And also what's so funny is when that meme came out,
- 10:00Speaker 1: I'm planning to do, as you know, a little viewing
- 10:02Speaker 1: party with some of the I Heart fam to come
- 10:04Speaker 1: over because I love seeing our friends from the from
- 10:08Speaker 1: our work. We are actually friends. Um and one of
- 10:11Speaker 1: our friends, Lyle, who we've talked about before, send me
- 10:13Speaker 1: a text after I told you what we're gonna do,
- 10:15Speaker 1: that just literally had a link to the Growning Spogliato
- 10:20Speaker 1: and that's all he said. I was like, oh, yeah,
- 10:22Speaker 1: that will be featured, and he was like yes. So
- 10:26Speaker 1: we had a whole thing and I'm like, this is
- 10:28Speaker 1: a huge thing and that's kind of the big deals,
- 10:30Speaker 1: like the amount of pressure. So uh. The actor Emma Darcy,
- 10:35Speaker 1: who is non binary, when they asked them how did
- 10:40Speaker 1: you feel about this? They said they were really embarrassed.
- 10:43Speaker 1: They were like, we were just trying to make Olivia
- 10:45Speaker 1: Cook laugh because they've been at it all day. They've
- 10:48Speaker 1: been doing this promotional thing all day and the intention
- 10:52Speaker 1: was making each other laugh moving on. Did not think
- 10:55Speaker 1: it was a big deal, did not think it was
- 10:56Speaker 1: going to be literally a queer icon moment, and so
- 11:01Speaker 1: having a moment to reflect on that, and they even
- 11:03Speaker 1: talked about how they wanted to send that their mother,
- 11:05Speaker 1: Like they're like, oh, we have to tell them, but
- 11:07Speaker 1: they're like, they don't understand memes and that's a whole
- 11:09Speaker 1: different thing. And that's like, I understand that. I understand that.
- 11:12Speaker 1: And then let me think about all of the things.
- 11:14Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, God, what would you want to
- 11:16Speaker 1: go viral for? And I'm like, I think what I
- 11:18Speaker 1: would go viral for is me either ranting or doing
- 11:22Speaker 1: something where I fall in our palmsy like those are
- 11:25Speaker 1: the two, or or peaches my dog, So one of
- 11:30Speaker 1: those three things. But then I actually think we're gonna
- 11:32Speaker 1: go viral. I hope it's not because of me ranting,
- 11:35Speaker 1: because there's no telling as that would be good or bad. Yeah,
- 11:38Speaker 1: I mean, after I said what I said, I do
- 11:41Speaker 1: think a lot of the things that go viral are,
- 11:43Speaker 1: you know, like somehow your pants fall down and you
- 11:45Speaker 1: get hit by a truck and then right, oh my god,
- 11:48Speaker 1: that's a whole different conversation. Just watched the horror movie
- 11:51Speaker 1: about about this very thing. Oddly, pants still down? Yes, really, okay,
- 11:57Speaker 1: you'll you'll have to ask me about it later, asked later,
- 12:01Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean, you really can't tell what's going
- 12:05Speaker 1: to take off. And it is something that I totally get,
- 12:09Speaker 1: you know, if you're embarrassed by, even if it's something
- 12:12Speaker 1: that's not embarrassing necessarily, but it's like what you become
- 12:15Speaker 1: known for. Right, that is a lot of pressure to
- 12:17Speaker 1: be like, oh, here's this queer eicon moment, which it's
- 12:21Speaker 1: not bad at all, but it was like, oh right,
- 12:24Speaker 1: that's a lot to live to. So they are a
- 12:26Speaker 1: non binary actor. That was not really a big deal,
- 12:30Speaker 1: which I love. I love to see that. It just was.
- 12:33Speaker 1: Of course they are portraying the adult version, so they
- 12:36Speaker 1: are tying portraying the adult princess or near a Targerion
- 12:40Speaker 1: and the adult queen Allison high Tower who Olivia Cook
- 12:44Speaker 1: is um which they only come in like an episode
- 12:47Speaker 1: four or five. I think I can't quite remember, and
- 12:50Speaker 1: they've done a great job. But yeah, so it's really
- 12:53Speaker 1: interesting to see these two as the lead of this
- 12:57Speaker 1: show because Game of Thrones have never been mind has
- 13:00Speaker 1: never been kind to women as in fact, if I
- 13:04Speaker 1: remember correctly, and I have not read these books, so
- 13:06Speaker 1: please let me know if I'm wrong, it gets even
- 13:09Speaker 1: more graphic in the books and what is actually shown
- 13:13Speaker 1: in some of the shows, I believe. So yeah, yeah,
- 13:18Speaker 1: and I uh, I was thinking about this last night.
- 13:21Speaker 1: The amount of episodes we do, we kind of get
- 13:25Speaker 1: back up sometimes of certain things. And I've been meaning
- 13:28Speaker 1: to do am fictional women on a character from the
- 13:35Speaker 1: Game of Thrones. But it is one of those things
- 13:38Speaker 1: where watching House of the Dragon, I there are certain
- 13:42Speaker 1: lines that they have in there that feel kind of
- 13:44Speaker 1: like out of place, where they're like, we're trying to
- 13:47Speaker 1: do better to women, see and they I mean, it
- 13:50Speaker 1: is an improvement, but it's it's sort of jarring, right
- 13:54Speaker 1: when they sort of have these almost direct statements, right, Okay, Well,
- 14:00Speaker 1: that's the thing is like we also know when it
- 14:02Speaker 1: comes to fantasy that's placed in timelines that are not
- 14:08Speaker 1: kind of women in general. That's a whole different conversation
- 14:13Speaker 1: that we should have anyway, because how do you how
- 14:15Speaker 1: do you rectify loving fantasy, but when it is so
- 14:18Speaker 1: unkind people of color, especially like when I'm talking about it,
- 14:21Speaker 1: I love seeing the representation. And we've talked about it before,
- 14:24Speaker 1: how people were upset that there wore black elves or
- 14:29Speaker 1: black noblemen when during the time they were being oppressed,
- 14:33Speaker 1: and we get it because there's this level of like
- 14:35Speaker 1: it needs to be pure, like elves don't exist, or
- 14:38Speaker 1: now that does any of the characters game with thrones
- 14:40Speaker 1: or dragons, So calm down. But there's this whole level
- 14:44Speaker 1: of trying to be a part of it, be represented,
- 14:46Speaker 1: but it wasn't kind. So they're holding a steadfast to
- 14:49Speaker 1: the fact that women are not welcomed as leaders, you know,
- 14:52Speaker 1: to that um, to that genre, to what it would
- 14:56Speaker 1: it look like if they did. So it's just it
- 14:59Speaker 1: is it's a whole their complication. But I will say
- 15:01Speaker 1: the House of the Dragon. Again, we're only in season one,
- 15:04Speaker 1: so this could change drastically if it continues. Uh, but
- 15:09Speaker 1: the first season was pretty grotesque of Game of Throne,
- 15:12Speaker 1: like I do like, but like you immediately jump into
- 15:15Speaker 1: a sixteen seventeen year old being raped uh and given
- 15:18Speaker 1: away to marriage like it's and it's portrayed for no
- 15:21Speaker 1: damn reason, for no reason. There's no reason for that
- 15:24Speaker 1: scene in which uh Danny gets raped by her husband
- 15:29Speaker 1: other than it just as I ten second clip of
- 15:33Speaker 1: her being raped while she's looking at her eggs like
- 15:35Speaker 1: it's just kind of one of those things of like
- 15:37Speaker 1: why was this necessary? Again, there's no real point to it,
- 15:41Speaker 1: which the House of the Dragon has mentioned rape without
- 15:45Speaker 1: showing it, so I'm like that works. That worked to me.
- 15:48Speaker 1: In which against spoiler, one of the High Tower kids
- 15:52Speaker 1: uh slash obviously they are Targarian because she's married to
- 15:56Speaker 1: the king, but one of her kids, Alison's kids, who's
- 15:59Speaker 1: supposed to be Keen, apparently rapes a servant. And this
- 16:04Speaker 1: conversation is really gross. But at the same time they
- 16:06Speaker 1: don't show it, which thank you, let's we don't have to.
- 16:11Speaker 1: It doesn't it's there, The conversation is there. He's an
- 16:14Speaker 1: awful dude. You see it right there without having to
- 16:17Speaker 1: see it. M M. So it's kind of a conversation
- 16:21Speaker 1: and I'm like, Okay, I don't know what they're doing
- 16:23Speaker 1: this on purpose or if they're building up and we're
- 16:25Speaker 1: gonna get slapped in the face. I mean, there's so
- 16:28Speaker 1: many things we could talk about, and you and I
- 16:30Speaker 1: have had conversations. I've been torn, I've been stressed. This
- 16:36Speaker 1: is all different. I know you're going to do an episode.
- 16:37Speaker 1: This is a whole different You've been stressed about. It
- 16:41Speaker 1: is I but I remember forever ago when we did
- 16:46Speaker 1: we did our episode on what I call like what
- 16:48Speaker 1: is and what should be? And that was sort of
- 16:50Speaker 1: what Game of Phones is a very good example of
- 16:53Speaker 1: what I was trying to articulate, which is like, yeah,
- 16:56Speaker 1: it wasn't great to women, but it seems like a
- 17:01Speaker 1: lot of very often male creators are putting in these
- 17:05Speaker 1: scenes where we're witnessing this horrible thing happened to a
- 17:09Speaker 1: woman that we don't need to And a lot of
- 17:11Speaker 1: times I feel like with Game of Thrones, it was
- 17:13Speaker 1: so about the shock factor. It was so about like,
- 17:16Speaker 1: look how horrible everybody is. And I'm like, I get
- 17:19Speaker 1: it right, they're bad, right, I think what they're changing
- 17:37Speaker 1: and this is all new creators and we know that
- 17:40Speaker 1: George rr. Martin Is actually has a hand in this.
- 17:43Speaker 1: He is a part of the producing he has a
- 17:45Speaker 1: part of the writing, so we see a little more
- 17:48Speaker 1: and and this is based on the book and that
- 17:49Speaker 1: he's already published, and obviously it's a little different. And
- 17:53Speaker 1: to the point that I recently heard that he apparently
- 17:56Speaker 1: was like he loves this rendition so much that he
- 17:58Speaker 1: wants to rewrite that book, which I'm sure many of
- 18:01Speaker 1: the fans are like, please stop. That just finished the
- 18:03Speaker 1: damn book, which is what I heard repeatedly by many
- 18:07Speaker 1: of the fans. And that's the thing. It's like, Okay, okay, okay,
- 18:10Speaker 1: I love fact, I love fantasy. I don't necessarily do
- 18:14Speaker 1: sci fi or uh, any of that. But when it
- 18:17Speaker 1: comes to fantasy like Game of Thrones, uh, Lord of
- 18:21Speaker 1: the Rings, I'm there, Harry Potter, give me that. And
- 18:24Speaker 1: then we're not going to talk about that in itself.
- 18:26Speaker 1: But I love that fantasy level. It continues to be
- 18:29Speaker 1: something that I will watch. But all of these things
- 18:31Speaker 1: are concerning, like is it watchable? Do we have to
- 18:34Speaker 1: see these horrid things? Isn't necessary to any of the
- 18:39Speaker 1: actual plotline? Um, And I think about this and like
- 18:43Speaker 1: Sansa her wedding Night, that was unnecessary, that wasn't written,
- 18:47Speaker 1: that did not have to be. There's so many things
- 18:50Speaker 1: to this that you're like, Okay, let's hope for the best.
- 18:53Speaker 1: And what I'm seeing in the House of the Dragon,
- 18:56Speaker 1: it seems to respect that a little more. And I
- 18:59Speaker 1: say this with something across was still the tension of
- 19:02Speaker 1: canned women rule. Will a society let women rule in
- 19:07Speaker 1: this time and age? And I will say there's been
- 19:09Speaker 1: several directors that I've actually shocked me and I've been
- 19:12Speaker 1: very pleasantly surprised. One of the episodes had I believe
- 19:16Speaker 1: um an Indian creator who an Indian director who came
- 19:21Speaker 1: in and did these amazing things um within the plot line,
- 19:25Speaker 1: within the direction, and I loved what she did, and
- 19:27Speaker 1: I was like, this is awesome. I'm so excited to
- 19:29Speaker 1: see the diversity in this conversation instead of the same
- 19:33Speaker 1: white men which most of the Game of Thrones directing,
- 19:37Speaker 1: if I remember correctly, Yeah, and I think that that's
- 19:42Speaker 1: so important. When we were talking about that, and like
- 19:45Speaker 1: Prevenge movies is like who is doing it and not
- 19:48Speaker 1: that this is necessarily the exact same thing, but you
- 19:51Speaker 1: know who who's behind, who was choosing the angles and
- 19:54Speaker 1: what's included and why I do think there is a
- 19:58Speaker 1: larger conversation that I'm sure we'll of one day about
- 20:01Speaker 1: like willful fan the way fandom interacts with things can
- 20:09Speaker 1: make it a story that wasn't meant to be read
- 20:11Speaker 1: that way, read in a certain way, um, which is
- 20:17Speaker 1: can be good or bad. There there pluses and minuses
- 20:19Speaker 1: to that, but um. And also I will also say
- 20:23Speaker 1: the caveat of it is hard to watch this for
- 20:26Speaker 1: me knowing how Game of Thrones didn't. And that's not
- 20:30Speaker 1: the only one. Everyone has been so critical and unwilling
- 20:36Speaker 1: to watch this. And actually that viral video of the
- 20:39Speaker 1: Negroni conversation brought in viewers. They were so interested in
- 20:44Speaker 1: their in Darcy's character. They were excited. So though this
- 20:48Speaker 1: is what viral videos can give you essentially, But I
- 20:52Speaker 1: really think it's interesting. Oh and BT dubs, because we've
- 20:54Speaker 1: talked about intimacy coordinator before, they actually had them on
- 20:58Speaker 1: step for this show. I don't they had it originally,
- 21:00Speaker 1: if I remember correctly, with Amelia talking about her scene
- 21:06Speaker 1: with Jason Momoa, there was no coordinator and it was
- 21:09Speaker 1: thank God, caring for her. But in this actual show
- 21:14Speaker 1: they had them, and they kind of dated them. The woman,
- 21:17Speaker 1: the young girl who played uh Ellison how Tower in
- 21:21Speaker 1: the earlier series would had just had just turned eighteen
- 21:25Speaker 1: for one of the critical scenes, so which only happened once,
- 21:29Speaker 1: it was still disturbing. I was very disturbed. Um. And
- 21:32Speaker 1: I immediately looked up police tell me they had coordinators
- 21:35Speaker 1: and they did. Um. And it is it to me
- 21:38Speaker 1: as a viewer, maybe to me as a social worker,
- 21:41Speaker 1: I don't know. I needed to know she was taken
- 21:43Speaker 1: care of or that scene was going to disturb me
- 21:45Speaker 1: in such a way. Which again the same scene what
- 21:49Speaker 1: I was talking about in Game of Thrones, uh, with
- 21:52Speaker 1: Emelia and Jason Momoa's rapefusly that disturbed me to know
- 21:56Speaker 1: my there was no one there come on. Yeah, and
- 22:00Speaker 1: we talked about that in the Intimacy Coordinator episode that
- 22:03Speaker 1: just as a viewer, it adds value because you're you
- 22:07Speaker 1: feel better watching it knowing that somebody was there to
- 22:11Speaker 1: make sure everything was okay, everybody was getting what they
- 22:15Speaker 1: needed right, um, And kudos to that. Again, there's so
- 22:20Speaker 1: much The finale is coming, so I'm sure we'll do
- 22:22Speaker 1: a quick review and seeing how they hang, you know,
- 22:25Speaker 1: the how it ends, because I do love seeing two
- 22:29Speaker 1: women three women, honestly, Um, because there's another princess who
- 22:34Speaker 1: was kind of if you saw the last episode, you
- 22:36Speaker 1: know she made a powerhouse move which was confusing to
- 22:40Speaker 1: mania people, but like having that as actual for character,
- 22:45Speaker 1: like Forefront characters, and they're neither good nor evil, that
- 22:49Speaker 1: they are all three in the middle, like you don't
- 22:52Speaker 1: know where they're wavering mm hmm, and you don't know
- 22:55Speaker 1: the intentions. It's it's really interesting. Yeah, yeah, I and
- 23:00Speaker 1: I find it fascinating. I don't know. I'm so confused.
- 23:03Speaker 1: It makes me happy, but I'm like, well, how did
- 23:04Speaker 1: this take off? I feel like most people I know
- 23:07Speaker 1: aren't into fantasy, but here we are. We love drama.
- 23:11Speaker 1: I'm sure we will return and talk about it. Samantha
- 23:15Speaker 1: and I will be watching it together. I'm nervous. I'm nervous,
- 23:18Speaker 1: to be honest, But it'll be fine, aren't we all? Yes?
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