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Friendship Files #1 - Losing your consumer mindset

What if the problem isn’t your friends—but the way you measure friendship? We dive into an honest, practical reset on how to build relationships that actually form us, not just flatter us.

We explore the subtle consumer mindset that creeps into our closest bonds—keeping score, expecting equitableness on our terms, and treating people like faucets for our needs.

Then we turn the lens: friendship as spiritual formation.

That means discomfort isn’t a red flag to quit; it’s the wind that strengthens the tree. From listening to pain without slipping into courtroom roles, to inviting third-party…

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