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Give Me 11 Minutes and 2025 Will Be Your Best Year: Powerful Motivation · Motivation Mindset Podcast

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  Speaker 1: You have to build a person that can withstand the
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  Speaker 1: pressures of whatever they're going to be dealing with in life.
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  Speaker 2: Because this world we live in is tough. It's tough.
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  Speaker 2: It will beat you down. The world and the life
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  Speaker 2: that we live in is an ultimate competitor. You have
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  Speaker 2: got to suffer to grow. To grow, you must suffer.
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  Speaker 1: The mind has the tactical advantage over you at all times,
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  Speaker 1: at all times of your life, the mind has a
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  Speaker 1: tactical it vantage over you.
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  Speaker 2: Why is that it knows what you're afraid of.
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  Speaker 1: It knows your insecurities, It knows your deep dark lives,
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  Speaker 1: and it starts to push you away from that shit.
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  Speaker 1: It pushes you in a direction that is comfortable. Your
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  Speaker 1: mind takes control of you. You have to say you.
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  Speaker 2: I run this mother. When now alarm clock goes off
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  Speaker 2: at four or five in the morning, your mind says no,
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  Speaker 2: You say, this is what we do. Is what we
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  Speaker 2: do now?
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  Speaker 1: Because to get to where you want to go, the
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  Speaker 1: amount of pain involved. I'm not saying physical, I'm not
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  Speaker 1: saying you got to break yourself off. The amount of
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  Speaker 1: mental pain of how many times you're going to have
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  Speaker 1: to do something that you don't want to do to
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  Speaker 1: get to where you want to go. There's gon be
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  Speaker 1: more times you do something that you don't want to
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  Speaker 1: do than you are going to want to do it.
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  Speaker 2: That's your new norm. That's your new norm.
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  Speaker 1: And then once you do this over and over and
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  Speaker 1: over again, it becomes like breathing. I don't want to
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  Speaker 1: live this lifestyle, but to get to the other side
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  Speaker 1: of this, I have to. The only way you're ever
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  Speaker 1: going to get to the other side of this journey
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  Speaker 1: is you have got to suffer to grow.
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  Speaker 2: To grow, you must suffer.
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  Speaker 1: We have the ability to go in such a space
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  Speaker 1: if you're willing to suffer, and I mean suffer, your
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  Speaker 1: brain and your body, once connected together, can do anything.
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  Speaker 2: I'm trying to build people up. I'm trying to armor
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  Speaker 2: their mind. I'm trying to get them the belief because
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  Speaker 2: this role we live in is tough. It's tough. It
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  Speaker 2: will be you down.
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  Speaker 1: The world in the life that we're living is an
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  Speaker 1: ultimate competitor. It will try to take you out, It
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  Speaker 1: will find your weakness, and it will dishammer you. So
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  Speaker 1: if I can help you build belief, build confidence to
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  Speaker 1: the point where nothing can hurt you because you know
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  Speaker 1: exactly who you are. You have to build a person
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  Speaker 1: that can withstand the pressures of whatever they're gonna be dealing.
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  Speaker 2: With in life.
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  Speaker 1: You gain knowledge through suffering, and on the other end
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  Speaker 1: of suffering is a world that very few, very few
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  Speaker 1: have ever seen. It's a beautiful world because that's where
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  Speaker 1: you find yourself every day. You have to do this shit,
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  Speaker 1: because why when you stop doing it, you'll just maintain it.
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  Speaker 1: If you stop shooting a gun and not gonna be
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  Speaker 1: a great shop if you pick a gun up a
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  Speaker 1: year from now.
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  Speaker 2: If you want to be great, you want to be
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  Speaker 2: a bad mother.
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  Speaker 1: Ever at which you do, you can be misunderstood by
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  Speaker 1: everybody because you're gonna be so an obsessed and so
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  Speaker 1: driven to get there.
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  Speaker 2: That's what it takes, takes every second of your life.
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  Speaker 1: Anybody says balance, Yeah, balance is important for a lot
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  Speaker 1: of people.
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  Speaker 2: It is. But if you want to go to.
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  Speaker 1: That edge where people do not like you, don't understand
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  Speaker 1: you question everything you do. You've arrived when you are
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  Speaker 1: misunderstood to the point where people think you're psycho and
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  Speaker 1: you're nuts and this and that. Why are you in
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  Speaker 1: gym at one o'clock in the morning. You will never
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  Speaker 1: understand what is wrong with me. And that's why I'm
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  Speaker 1: so glad you don't, because I'm in the right spot.
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  Speaker 2: When people don't understand you anymore.
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  Speaker 1: You're in that spot of obsession and drive where people
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  Speaker 1: at cliptoff is wrong with this guy.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to talk to you, man, because you're
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  Speaker 2: not going to get it. I can't get this paragraph.
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  Speaker 1: I can't remember what the this paragraph to pass this
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  Speaker 1: test to get in the military. Read again, still not
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  Speaker 1: getting it, read again, but not getting it right, it out,
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  Speaker 1: And that's how I started learning. I can't swim. I'm
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  Speaker 1: negative voyan go back again. I can't swim, go back again,
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  Speaker 1: go back again, go back again.
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  Speaker 2: I got it.
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  Speaker 1: Realize if I keep going back and going back and
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  Speaker 1: going back until this shit just becomes your mind will say, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: we're gonna figure it.
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  Speaker 2: Out, because he is not going to stop. It's not
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  Speaker 2: like I'm gonna try one more time, No, I'm gonna It's.
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  Speaker 1: Just like mom clock goes off, boom, We're going back.
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  Speaker 2: I can't read right, We're going back. I gave myself
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  Speaker 2: no way out, and my mind realized that they said, Okay,
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  Speaker 2: we're gonna adapt and overcome.
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  Speaker 1: Now. A lot of us want to find peace first,
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  Speaker 1: So people say, many you always talk about this suffering
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  Speaker 1: and pain and shit, I'm at peace right now because
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  Speaker 1: I went through that. You don't find peace first. If
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  Speaker 1: you do, Merry Christmas, more power to you. I found
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  Speaker 1: peace on the opposite end of finding myself, and no
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  Speaker 1: one really finds himself without going through trials, tribulations, suffering.
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  Speaker 1: Accountability and accountability is suffering, being accountable everything day, for
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  Speaker 1: doing right for yourself the people next to you. It's miserable.
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  Speaker 1: One thing we don't do is we don't have a
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  Speaker 1: new norm. My new norm is you can get every
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  Speaker 1: more than at four o'clock and you suffer. This is
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  Speaker 1: your new norm. That became my new life. Most people
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  Speaker 1: want to get out of it. I said, no, I'm
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  Speaker 1: this is your new life. This is who you are.
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  Speaker 1: Your new norm is you wake up and you suffer.
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  Speaker 1: And I started realizing, if that's my mentality, this should
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  Speaker 1: ain't hard anymore. Not giving civilized is about having a
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  Speaker 1: savage mentality.
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  Speaker 2: It's a comfortable world.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of us say, you know, like, for instance,
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  Speaker 1: I see these athletes right now who retire.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I'm thirty eight. You know, I'm thirty nine.
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  Speaker 1: I did twenty years at the top of my game
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  Speaker 1: and I'm chilling out now.
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  Speaker 2: You see them a year later, and how they look,
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  Speaker 2: What the hell just happened to you? What the hell?
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  Speaker 2: You're one of the greatest athletes of all time. Kids
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  Speaker 2: looked up to.
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  Speaker 1: Your, women, men of all ages looked up to you,
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  Speaker 1: and they hit the pinnacle where it's trying to retire
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  Speaker 1: and their mind says, wow, I'm civil The worst thing
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  Speaker 1: that could ever happen to any human being is they
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  Speaker 1: become civilized. It's that total accountability. Like even when you're retired,
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  Speaker 1: there's a mother looking at me and judging me.
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  Speaker 2: Right now, man, I was the baddest person to ever live.
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  Speaker 2: Doesn't go away. Man, you got to wake up. Even
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  Speaker 2: though you.
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  Speaker 1: Retired, you're never retired. You're setting the example every single
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  Speaker 1: day of your life and being civilized feeling so good.
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  Speaker 2: I'm sorry, man.
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  Speaker 1: Once you get to the top, you may retire, but
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  Speaker 1: you ain't never coming back home. Man, And now you're judged.
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  Speaker 1: People see you falling off. You want to be that
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  Speaker 1: guy who knows I may be retired from the sport
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  Speaker 1: or forever I did, but I'd be damn if you
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  Speaker 1: ever see me looking like shit, feeling like shit, not
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  Speaker 1: arriving people. I've arrived. I've arrived. Mentality, You're always setting
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  Speaker 1: the example. Civilization feels so good. These comfortable feelings are
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  Speaker 1: what people want. They want retirement, they want that, they
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  Speaker 1: need that. They it's a yearning feeling. I want it
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  Speaker 1: to people love putting a label on me about my god.
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  Speaker 2: Man, you're just wired different. I wired different, dude.
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  Speaker 1: I'm thinking right now. After I got past my stuttering thing.
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  Speaker 1: Now I'm on a roll. I'm good now, know I'm
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  Speaker 1: thinking about right now. I gotta wake up tomorrow and
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  Speaker 1: do the same shit again. I gotta leave this interview
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  Speaker 1: and go stretch.
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  Speaker 2: Out for two and a half hours. I hate that shit,
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  Speaker 2: but guess what it does.
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  Speaker 1: Though, I'm constantly callous and over my victim's mentality that
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  Speaker 1: I once had growing up. Every day, you have to
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  Speaker 1: do this shit. The only way to keep from getting
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  Speaker 1: rusty is to constantly owe that mother machine.
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  Speaker 2: The machine is this.
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  Speaker 1: You got to keep challenging it every day.
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  Speaker 2: How do I do it? How am I able to
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  Speaker 2: do what I do on a daily basis?
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  Speaker 1: You know? How do I fight the demons because they
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  Speaker 1: hear me speak and I'm very raw.
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  Speaker 2: I'm real. How do you fight my insecurity? These all
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  Speaker 2: these things and.
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  Speaker 1: There every day, every day, I'm in search for a feeling.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not in search for a trophy. I'm not in
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  Speaker 1: search for love. I'm not in source for more followers
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  Speaker 1: on Instagram or social media. When I started this journey
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  Speaker 1: years ago and I realized that I'm going to be somebody,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm searching for a feeling, a feeling of true
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  Speaker 1: victory for myself and only myself. The second I shut
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  Speaker 1: out the whole world and realize that one thing that
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  Speaker 1: I am in this world alone, I'm fighting in this
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  Speaker 1: race by myself. Yeah, I'm all about people, I'm all
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  Speaker 1: about team, I'm all about that shit.
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  Speaker 2: But I'm really all about.
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  Speaker 1: Right now and in my life, no one knows the
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  Speaker 1: real truth about me, how hard I really go. I
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  Speaker 1: don't care if anybody knows. I want anybody to know.
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  Speaker 1: I'm an introvert. I live an introverted life and I
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  Speaker 1: love that about me. That right there is my fuel
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  Speaker 1: is I know that there's really no one out there
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  Speaker 1: grinding like me, and if they are, so be it.
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  Speaker 2: If I know about you.
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  Speaker 1: I'll make sure that my gang. That's what the mentality
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  Speaker 1: is all about. My whole thing is a mentality thing.
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  Speaker 1: I view myself as the weakest person on the planet Earth.
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  Speaker 1: I was just an insecure, scared kid, and the only
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  Speaker 1: way I could find myself was through putting myself through
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  Speaker 1: the worst thing possible. My goal in life was to,
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  Speaker 1: in my mind believe I'm the hardest man alive. And
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  Speaker 1: that's why the whole thing is can't hurt me, That's
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  Speaker 1: what it's about. It's about whatever you think you are.
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  Speaker 1: You have to make that dream of reality. But that's
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  Speaker 1: where the hard part is is making that dream reality,
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  Speaker 1: and that's where the hard work come is. That's where
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  Speaker 1: people know, how do you keep grinding every day? You
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  Speaker 1: have to make those insecurities, those fears. Like when I
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  Speaker 1: was there as of pounds, I didn't have any dry
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna go be a Navy seal? What kind of
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  Speaker 1: stupid shit is that three hundred pounds? There weren't like
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  Speaker 1: a drive to go be a Navy seal. I was
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  Speaker 1: an insecure, lying kid, afraid. I had to look at
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  Speaker 1: my insecurities and in my fear and find drive in
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  Speaker 1: that we're all looking for passion, passions all around you.
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  Speaker 1: You have a whole sack of it all around you.
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  Speaker 1: Your insecurities, all that shit. You gotta dive deep in
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  Speaker 1: that shit. It's all in there. All the energy and
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  Speaker 1: fuel you need is right in yourself. It's all there.
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  Speaker 1: You got a lot of stuff to do to overcome.
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  Speaker 1: And you know that's where I found it. I found
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  Speaker 1: it right there in my own insecurities. I found drive
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  Speaker 1: in my own insecurities. And that's the most powerful thing
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  Speaker 1: in the world.
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  Speaker 2: When you can
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  Speaker 1: Find drive in your own doubt, fear, insecurities, you become
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  Speaker 1: very unstoppable.