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Abby changed her mind about a Hinge match after he did THIS! · Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED

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  Speaker 1: Tampa Bay's Best Music is.
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  Speaker 2: Nine and welcome to another episode of Scotti and Abby Unfiltered.
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  Speaker 2: I just realized we talked a couple weeks ago about
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  Speaker 2: the things that were slightly self conscious about, and because
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  Speaker 2: we now have video in the studio and we've been
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  Speaker 2: working out on some things, I realized there's something else
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  Speaker 2: I have to add to that list. I'm curious if
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  Speaker 2: you notice it. When I take right now, I'm good
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  Speaker 2: because I'm already being pretty critical. When I see my
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  Speaker 2: sideways profile because of this camera.
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  Speaker 1: I hate it. I hate my chin. You see this?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, wait, let me relax my face. This is what
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  Speaker 2: I see. I'm gonna relax my face.
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  Speaker 1: And I feel like.
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  Speaker 2: I'm starting to get like a turkey, Like I don't
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  Speaker 2: like my skin under my chin.
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  Speaker 1: It sounds so stupid, you know what.
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  Speaker 3: I do love hearing men talk about things they hate
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  Speaker 3: about themselves, though, because women have been doing this since
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  Speaker 3: we're like three years old. Remember I was selling blasted
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  Speaker 3: Jenna that I was like, when was your first thought
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  Speaker 3: that you hated your body? I was like, I'll go first,
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, oh god, I was like first grade when
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  Speaker 3: you look in the mirror and you're like that that well,
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  Speaker 3: I just realized that's something else that I get to
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  Speaker 3: add to the list.
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  Speaker 2: And I don't think I'm gonna be critical of it,
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  Speaker 2: but I'm gonna have to look at it every day
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  Speaker 2: as I look at this side profile, because we now
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  Speaker 2: have video.
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  Speaker 3: But you don't. The thing is is you're looking at
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  Speaker 3: your computer. So if you just don't turn to the computer,
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  Speaker 3: then you won't I know.
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  Speaker 2: But now it's like, this is what people see if
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  Speaker 2: they look at me, Like if I just relax, I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: I might as well rib it.
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  Speaker 3: That's called skin, Scott.
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  Speaker 1: I want to figure out a way to tighten it up.
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  Speaker 1: I don't like it.
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  Speaker 3: We can get us some MEDSPA endorsement. Oh wait, that
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  Speaker 3: should be our big pitch is get Abby and Scott
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  Speaker 3: a plastic surgeon endorsement. I got things.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know what.
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  Speaker 2: I would really touch up, but maybe the chin now
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  Speaker 2: I want to have. And I think it's because of
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  Speaker 2: the culture on social media where you see the guys
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  Speaker 2: like looks Maxim, Yeah, like Clivicular.
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  Speaker 1: It's it's ridiculous.
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  Speaker 3: Don't turn into Clvicular. He's like twenty years old. His
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  Speaker 3: frontal lobe hasn't developed.
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  Speaker 1: Ye, yeah, doesn't need to do well.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, I know there's one guy that does like drugs
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  Speaker 2: to get a like does like meth to get like
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  Speaker 2: this certain like look, and I'm like, that's too far.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, we could start with math and then work
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  Speaker 3: our way back.
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  Speaker 1: You know.
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  Speaker 2: Honestly, I think I just might want to chart chewing
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  Speaker 2: like some power gum to like tighten on my neck.
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  Speaker 3: That's only gonna make your masters bigger and it's gonna
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  Speaker 3: make your face wider.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, well then never mind.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah that's not gonna work.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe it's under the nights.
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  Speaker 3: Why don't you just go get either a fatty stop
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  Speaker 3: or why don't you just get chin light? But like
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  Speaker 3: the rest of the rest of us.
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  Speaker 2: Because I want to see, like I'm always this way
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  Speaker 2: and I'm with this way with medicine, and I'm with
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  Speaker 2: this way to the doctor's trips, Like I want to
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  Speaker 2: see if I can do it on my own first,
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  Speaker 2: which is not always the best bad.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, the gum thing's not gonna work. I'll give your
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  Speaker 3: heads up right there.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I maybe maybe it's just the whole like fatty gum,
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  Speaker 2: the eating thing, And I'm like, maybe if I just
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  Speaker 2: tighten up, maybe you'll go away. But it's not bad.
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  Speaker 2: It's just like I notice it now that I see
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  Speaker 2: myself sideways.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but I mean, here's the thing. I'm the thinnest
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  Speaker 3: i've been since high school. And even when I was
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  Speaker 3: quote unquote underweight, I always had something under my neck.
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  Speaker 3: Like that's just genetics. Like that's so. I mean, if
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  Speaker 3: you want to get rid of it, you can get
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  Speaker 3: rid of it, but you have to do like a
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  Speaker 3: light bo or a chin implant situation.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I ain't going that far for it.
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  Speaker 2: I think my excuse in my head is I'm like, well,
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  Speaker 2: you have to have skin there because if you look up,
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  Speaker 2: it stretches out. That's the whole reason for it. That's
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  Speaker 2: like having a weness. It's like your elbow skin has
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  Speaker 2: to be pollable, it has to go somewhere so your
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  Speaker 2: arm could bend.
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  Speaker 3: And also, I think, and I'm someone who's incredibly critical
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  Speaker 3: of my face, but have you ever seen someone that
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  Speaker 3: looks too attracted or like too perfect?
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  Speaker 1: Yes?
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  Speaker 3: And it's not that you think that they're unattractive, because
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  Speaker 3: you're like, objectively, they're very attractive, but you're not attracted
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  Speaker 3: to them because there it's just like too perfect.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you said that, like the first week we had
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  Speaker 2: our office here, you and Alexia were talking about that
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  Speaker 2: where it's like you want a guy that is not
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  Speaker 2: he has like something kind of off, like he's kind
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  Speaker 2: of rugged looking.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, he's got perfect look.
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  Speaker 3: I heard Steve Harvey say this when I was a kid,
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  Speaker 3: and I remember thinking is he dumb? But I was thirteen,
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  Speaker 3: And of course when you're thirteen, you love a pretty
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  Speaker 3: boy because you like boys because you're thirteen. But as
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  Speaker 3: you get older, and I think you would probably agree
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  Speaker 3: with this with women, where you don't want someone who
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  Speaker 3: looks like they were made from chatchybt, Like there's something
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  Speaker 3: off putting about someone being too perfect looking. And maybe
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  Speaker 3: it's just because I'm not somebody who looks perfect, and
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  Speaker 3: maybe perfect people are looking for perfect people. But I like
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  Speaker 3: when someone looks human.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, I want the human part of it. I want
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  Speaker 2: the flaws at all. Yeah, that's kind of funny. As
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  Speaker 2: I got on the phone yesterday with my girlfriend and
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  Speaker 2: I had like a face mask on, She's like, what.
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  Speaker 1: Are you doing.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, I want to clear out these pores, you know,
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  Speaker 2: I want to look decent for you, I want to
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  Speaker 2: make sure that my skin's good, but I think it
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  Speaker 2: does feed into that side of like one, there are
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  Speaker 2: going to be flaws with all of us, little tiny things.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe you can make little adjustments whatever makes you feel comfortable.
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  Speaker 1: But the goal is not to be perfect. You know.
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  Speaker 2: It's like I kind of joke about the chin thing,
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  Speaker 2: but the goal is not to look like one of
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  Speaker 2: these chatchy bt chads that get online. And that's the
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  Speaker 2: problem that I have with the looks maxim where I'm like, Bros,
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  Speaker 2: you don't want to be too pretty, like now you
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  Speaker 2: look awful, you look weird, or.
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  Speaker 3: It's not awful, because I don't think they even I
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  Speaker 3: don't even think looks bad. I'm not even saying I
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  Speaker 3: don't think Cloviculer is not attractive. I'm just saying I
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  Speaker 3: think when it's like so, when you're so flawless and
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  Speaker 3: perfect looking, sometimes it is a little bit like it
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  Speaker 3: feels a little alien. And I could list off women
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  Speaker 3: feel that I feel that way about, but I'm not
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  Speaker 3: going to because that's mean.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and it's also I've been in rooms and
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  Speaker 2: I'm sure you felt this way. Like you go into
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  Speaker 2: a certain room and it's like intimidating where everyone is
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  Speaker 2: so good looking that no matter how good you feel
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  Speaker 2: about yourself, you're like, I don't feel like I'm in
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  Speaker 2: the right place.
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  Speaker 3: What rooms are you talking about.
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  Speaker 1: I went to an event the other day.
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  Speaker 2: It was a gala, and as as soon as I
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  Speaker 2: walked in, I kid you, I was like, I am
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  Speaker 2: in the wrong place where everyone was just dressed so pristine,
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  Speaker 2: Their skin was flawless, their hair was gorgeous, and every
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  Speaker 2: little bit of them and they're all normal people. Like
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  Speaker 2: once I get talking to them, I'm like, oh, okay,
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  Speaker 2: you're just But my head goes back to that like
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  Speaker 2: high school thought process where I'm like, oh god, I
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  Speaker 2: don't belong here because there's no part of me that
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  Speaker 2: was that kind of look or it ever has been
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  Speaker 2: when I was either younger or even today. Like I've
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  Speaker 2: always had very visible, easy to go human aesthetics, not
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  Speaker 2: perfect aesthetics, especially not when it comes to skin. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: Like there's always been a little bit of here and
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  Speaker 2: there that I have grown to love because I'm like, wait,
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  Speaker 2: that's what makes us human and we all have it.
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  Speaker 2: I think that's the part that I had to learn
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  Speaker 2: when I walked into these rooms. I'm like, wow, their
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  Speaker 2: skin as fall as makeup goes a long way.
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  Speaker 3: Makeup does go a long way. So do filters.
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  Speaker 1: They do a little bit of touch ups here and there,
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  Speaker 1: they do a lot.
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  Speaker 3: Now, Yeah, I mean, and there's just you're just gonna
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  Speaker 3: be constantly chasing something constantly.
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  Speaker 1: It's exhausting.
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  Speaker 3: How long have you been insecure about your neck? Though?
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  Speaker 2: Since we get this is brand new, Yeah, it's because
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  Speaker 2: of the camera.
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  Speaker 3: And I get it, Like I understand why celebrities are
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  Speaker 3: constantly getting work done.
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  Speaker 2: It.
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  Speaker 3: It's because if you were getting photos of you taking
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  Speaker 3: constantly and you had the money to do something about it,
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  Speaker 3: you would probably do something about it.
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  Speaker 2: That's a very good point. Like sometimes I look at
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  Speaker 2: somebody like Tom Brady and I'm like.
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  Speaker 1: Bro, what are you?
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  Speaker 2: And I'm like, Okay, that's a good point. He's always
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  Speaker 2: in the camera. I think it's always on TV.
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  Speaker 3: Whoever Taylor Swift's plastic surgeon is. I want hers because
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  Speaker 3: I've never looked at her and gone, she's done too much,
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  Speaker 3: even though I know she's done something.
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  Speaker 1: Of course looks like her.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I wish more guys, because women are starting to
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  Speaker 2: become very open about this where they're like I had
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  Speaker 2: this done or this is the kind of I love
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  Speaker 2: that because then you could look at it and say, oh, okay, awesome.
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  Speaker 2: It's not that I'm like this imperfect flaw. No, it's
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  Speaker 2: that they've had a little touch up here and there.
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  Speaker 2: The one I wish guys would talk more about. And
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  Speaker 2: you see so many guys now, like exposing this on
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  Speaker 2: Instagram is like the hair situation. There are guys and
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  Speaker 2: I'll use Tom Brady as an example. I don't know
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  Speaker 2: what he has done. I don't know what his lifestyle
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  Speaker 2: looks like. But if you look at pictures of him
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  Speaker 2: years ago versus now, one, of course his face looks different,
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  Speaker 2: but his hair looks different. Yeah, it looks fuller, it
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  Speaker 2: looks thick, his hairline literally looks perfect.
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  Speaker 1: And of course you could look at that and say, bro,
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  Speaker 1: you did something. But what did you do?
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  Speaker 3: Probably a hair transplant?
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  Speaker 1: But where Because some of them look different, some work,
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  Speaker 1: some don't.
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  Speaker 3: Most people go to Turkey, just like a lot of
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  Speaker 3: girls go to Turkey to get a nose job. Could
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  Speaker 3: not fathom doing that. Happy that they did that. A
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  Speaker 3: lot of people are very happy with that, but wild,
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  Speaker 3: but a lot of people go to Turkey.
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  Speaker 1: It makes me think.
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  Speaker 2: And I was thinking about this as I was looking
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  Speaker 2: at these pictures, that there might be some kind of
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  Speaker 2: like what product or surgeon or whatever happens in those
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  Speaker 2: back rooms, Like why does yours look so good?
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  Speaker 1: Like, that's what I want to know.
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  Speaker 3: So what do you want to get done? Just like
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  Speaker 3: chin liightpo?
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  Speaker 1: No, I'm not going to get any chin LiPo done.
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  Speaker 1: It just made me realize.
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  Speaker 2: As I looked at my computer and I saw the
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  Speaker 2: reflection of myself, I was like, I want to tighten
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  Speaker 2: up my chin. I want to have that crisp jawline.
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  Speaker 2: Now is that going to be the end of the
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  Speaker 2: world for me?
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  Speaker 1: No?
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  Speaker 2: But as I looked at my side, profile was like,
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  Speaker 2: that would be nice thing to work on. But if
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  Speaker 2: that's the only thing that's going to be able to
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  Speaker 2: do it, nah, I'm good. I'll let that be what
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  Speaker 2: it is. Yeah, anyway, how have you been habby?
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  Speaker 1: Great? That's what's happening with me?
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  Speaker 3: What's that? What's what's the thing that that guy said
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  Speaker 3: to us once that I love? I keep wanting to say,
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  Speaker 3: it's living the dream, one nightmare at a time. Scott.
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  Speaker 3: So I have my my list of things that I
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  Speaker 3: because I've had to start making a notesapp list of
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  Speaker 3: things that when I think about them, I know I
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  Speaker 3: want to bring them up because I'm like, oh, I
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  Speaker 3: constantly have stories to tell. But we'll get here and
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  Speaker 3: I go, I don't know what. I don't know what
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  Speaker 3: I want to talk about this week. So literally my
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  Speaker 3: notes app list says Garrett Graham and then insert frat
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  Speaker 3: boy name here. Oh I want we'll give him a
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  Speaker 3: different name. We'll give him a yeah. Oh wait, I
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  Speaker 3: think I've actually talked about this guy from Story Days. Yeah, which,
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  Speaker 3: first of all, I think somebody sent him to the podcast.
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  Speaker 1: So it's all way to Brady, welcome to the podcast.
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  Speaker 3: And I only say that so I'll fill you in
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  Speaker 3: on that story. But have you seen that video of
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  Speaker 3: Belmont Camelli.
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  Speaker 1: No, I don't even know who that is Garrett Graham.
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  Speaker 1: Oh okay, I don't know his name. I just know
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  Speaker 1: Garrett Graham.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, lies. Have you seen that video of
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  Speaker 3: him dancing with the kid Lroy? No, hold it up
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  Speaker 3: on TikTok right now? Oh boy, So there's this big
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  Speaker 3: online debate right now between whether or not this is
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  Speaker 3: it worthy. Some girls have completely lost their crush on
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  Speaker 3: Garrett Graham aka Belmont Camelli because of the video, and
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  Speaker 3: the other girls are doubling down ten toes down because
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  Speaker 3: they think this is hot. And I'm curious, from your
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  Speaker 3: perspective as a guy, what you think about this photo video?
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  Speaker 1: Is this the video?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah? I just watch it, Just watch it, watch it
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  Speaker 3: for like thirty seconds.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so I obviously see them with the whole crowd.
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  Speaker 2: Oh Jesus, Okay, I watched the whole video. Okay, I
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  Speaker 2: don't think there's anything cringy about.
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  Speaker 1: That at all.
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  Speaker 3: I felt the same way.
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  Speaker 2: This makes me so mad because one we used to
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  Speaker 2: complain that guys didn't dance. Guys would just stand in
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  Speaker 2: the corner. There'd be on the side of the room
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  Speaker 2: that would just sit there and watch like creeps. And
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  Speaker 2: now all of a sudden, you got these bros that
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  Speaker 2: are brown out.
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  Speaker 1: And I could.
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  Speaker 2: I guess I have empathy because that's how I dance,
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  Speaker 2: like if you're gonna get me in the club.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, you don't dance like that? Well, what do you mean?
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  Speaker 1: What do I dance like?
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  Speaker 3: Not like that? Okay, Well, it's like a teletubby on drugs.
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  Speaker 3: So they're dancing like they got their arms like the.
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  Speaker 2: Way that I do have that millennial thing where my
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  Speaker 2: hands go up instead of hanging down like a gen zer.
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  Speaker 2: But the kid LaRoy is just bopping his hands up
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  Speaker 2: and down by his chest. He's swaying back and forth,
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  Speaker 2: a little swagger. I probably want to keep it as
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  Speaker 2: serious as that.
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  Speaker 3: But Belmont is the one that people are looking at.
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  Speaker 3: We don't care about the Kilroy.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so.
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  Speaker 3: Are you getting the ick from Belmont Camelli?
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  Speaker 1: Now, not at all, not at all.
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  Speaker 2: I think that's a guy that is comfortable in a
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  Speaker 2: skin that's just swaying with the music.
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  Speaker 3: I thought he I thought he looked so hot. And
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  Speaker 3: then I got kind of mad on behalf of guys
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  Speaker 3: and I'm like, now this is this is white guys
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  Speaker 3: don't want to put themselves out there or do anything
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  Speaker 3: even when they look that good, because women are like, mmm,
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  Speaker 3: that gave me the ick.
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  Speaker 1: That is so annoying. And I just got a comment
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  Speaker 1: like that.
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  Speaker 2: But so somebody on my Instagram said I gave them
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  Speaker 2: the ick because.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know what was the video?
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  Speaker 1: It was so stupid.
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  Speaker 2: It was because I was talking about like I don't know,
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  Speaker 2: maybe I was on the bridge or something.
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  Speaker 1: It was that video when I was running on the.
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  Speaker 3: Bridge when you were running the Howard Franks.
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  Speaker 1: Oh what did it say?
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  Speaker 2: Oh? And I said, I said let's go. And somebody
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  Speaker 2: wrote on my comments are like, ill, that gave me
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  Speaker 2: the ick? When guys say let's go, and I'm.
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  Speaker 3: Like, is everything an If that's the case.
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  Speaker 2: Then just go be alone, because that's annoying. This guy
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  Speaker 2: is not an ick. Garrett Graham is not an ick.
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  Speaker 2: He looks like he has so much swagger.
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  Speaker 3: He has so much swag. He knows who he is.
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  Speaker 3: He's having such a moment. I love this for him,
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  Speaker 3: I love this for his girlfriend. I love this for
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  Speaker 3: me because I love to look at hot men being
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  Speaker 3: true to themselves. But like, I got so angry on
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  Speaker 3: behalf of guys because I'm like, this is an objectively
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  Speaker 3: hot man doing something objectively hot. Okay, let him live.
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  Speaker 2: I think it's just a popular thing now to say, Ill,
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  Speaker 2: that gave me the ick.
• 12:31
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna go against the grain, but.
• 12:32
  Speaker 3: The ick is a real thing. Like I'm very absolutely,
• 12:35
  Speaker 3: I'm very pro ick. There are a lot of things
• 12:37
  Speaker 3: that guys do that do give me the ick. However,
• 12:39
  Speaker 3: Belmont Caamelli dancing with the kid Leroy in an all
• 12:42
  Speaker 3: white Backstreet Boys outfit, showing off his abs, I was.
• 12:45
  Speaker 2: Gonna say, was it the lift of the abs? Like,
• 12:46
  Speaker 2: cause that might be a little icky. I might feel cringe.
• 12:49
  Speaker 3: I think it's a little showy, and I think he
• 12:52
  Speaker 3: just pulls it off, you know what I mean, put
• 12:55
  Speaker 3: like rkle in there, and I'm like, yeah, that's that's
• 12:57
  Speaker 3: a little cringey, a little icky. But this is the
• 13:00
  Speaker 3: hottest guy on the planet right now. I don't know
• 13:02
  Speaker 3: a single girl who doesn't have a crush on this man.
• 13:04
  Speaker 2: The only problem that I do have is the way
• 13:06
  Speaker 2: he sways his arms down by his waist. It looks
• 13:09
  Speaker 2: like he's grabbing himself, bumping and grinding.
• 13:12
  Speaker 1: It looks like he's like, you know, rubbing himself good.
• 13:16
  Speaker 3: He's just acting on episode four.
• 13:18
  Speaker 1: Well, in that case, then get it. Yeah.
• 13:20
  Speaker 2: If you call that a nick, then I think you're
• 13:22
  Speaker 2: just gonna be alone. That okay, But let's take Garret
• 13:24
  Speaker 2: Graham out of the equation. You go out to good
• 13:27
  Speaker 2: Night Jambo and a guy approaches you like that and
• 13:29
  Speaker 2: he's like dancing with you, and that's what he looks like,
• 13:31
  Speaker 2: mm hmm, it's a go hot.
• 13:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, well there you go.
• 13:34
  Speaker 3: Well maybe out in the wild. Like if he approaches me,
• 13:37
  Speaker 3: he's like trying. He's like a mating dance.
• 13:39
  Speaker 1: He's peacocking.
• 13:40
  Speaker 3: If he's peacocking, then I'm like, God, that's weird. But
• 13:42
  Speaker 3: he's performing. He's in a performance environment. But when you
• 13:45
  Speaker 3: take the performance and you put it in a regular environment,
• 13:48
  Speaker 3: then it's an eck. Then I'm like, why are you
• 13:49
  Speaker 3: performing for me? Like that's so weird.
• 13:51
  Speaker 2: This is where it gets so confusing for dudes, because
• 13:53
  Speaker 2: this is where we're like, well, I don't know what
• 13:54
  Speaker 2: to do anymore. And I just saw a video that
• 13:56
  Speaker 2: went viral of AI creating what a guy should dance
• 13:59
  Speaker 2: like and it looks so stupid.
• 14:01
  Speaker 1: Did you see that?
• 14:02
  Speaker 3: I feel like that was just rage bait.
• 14:03
  Speaker 1: Okay, well then it works they got me rage.
• 14:05
  Speaker 3: I saw it and I was like, Nope. First of all,
• 14:07
  Speaker 3: I don't know anybody who dances like that.
• 14:08
  Speaker 2: Literally, it was like the Oracle Dance like that was horrible,
• 14:10
  Speaker 2: or the Carlton I should say, if.
• 14:12
  Speaker 3: You're wondering what the best dance to do with the lady,
• 14:14
  Speaker 3: if you're trying to like get like vibe with her,
• 14:17
  Speaker 3: get her attention. It's just dance with her in a
• 14:19
  Speaker 3: way that matches her energy. I agree they got that's
• 14:22
  Speaker 3: the hottest thing a man can do is just match
• 14:23
  Speaker 3: your energy.
• 14:24
  Speaker 1: You know.
• 14:24
  Speaker 2: What I think is out though for dancing. But I
• 14:26
  Speaker 2: used to like is like the grind. I don't even
• 14:28
  Speaker 2: I don't see anybody grinding anymore.
• 14:30
  Speaker 3: Thank God. I feel like mentally, I've always been a
• 14:34
  Speaker 3: thirty five year old woman. Like I feel like I'm
• 14:35
  Speaker 3: five years, five or six years away from being my
• 14:38
  Speaker 3: true self, like a thirty five year old woman, because
• 14:40
  Speaker 3: I remember in high school watching people grind in front
• 14:42
  Speaker 3: of our math teachers and our chap gerunds and going,
• 14:45
  Speaker 3: why why are you? What do you want to do?
• 14:48
  Speaker 3: What do you want? Like is this voyeurism? Is this
• 14:50
  Speaker 3: like a turn on for you to have? Like it?
• 14:52
  Speaker 3: It's just so weird to me.
• 14:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, back in the school dance days, that was very awkward.
• 14:56
  Speaker 2: But I can't say I didn't do it, like I
• 14:57
  Speaker 2: remember bumping the grind in like back in the going
• 15:00
  Speaker 2: to skate factory days in middle school, we get out
• 15:02
  Speaker 2: on the dance floor and it's like we're teenagers, but
• 15:04
  Speaker 2: that's what we were doing, and it's very awkward to
• 15:07
  Speaker 2: think of now because you're like, I couldn't imagine.
• 15:09
  Speaker 3: They were doing that in middle school too. I'm like,
• 15:10
  Speaker 3: we're babies, we're children.
• 15:12
  Speaker 2: It's awkward, But I don't see that anymore, and I
• 15:15
  Speaker 2: don't honestly want to do that anymore.
• 15:16
  Speaker 1: Like I haven't done that a long time.
• 15:18
  Speaker 3: I think it's evolved. I think it's one thing if
• 15:20
  Speaker 3: you go to a club as an adult. I don't
• 15:22
  Speaker 3: know why, I'm like hung up on the adult thing.
• 15:24
  Speaker 3: I'm like, if you're consenting eighteen year old, Like if
• 15:26
  Speaker 3: you're like dancing behind me and we're just kind of
• 15:28
  Speaker 3: like moving and grooving or swaying or whatever, like, I
• 15:31
  Speaker 3: think that's a little bit different. I think that's the
• 15:33
  Speaker 3: evolved version of the grinding. But I remember so vividly
• 15:36
  Speaker 3: my junior prom. I could tell you exactly this girl's name.
• 15:39
  Speaker 3: I can't remember who she was dancing with, but she
• 15:40
  Speaker 3: was wearing a yellow dress and was literally on all fours. Ooh.
• 15:44
  Speaker 3: Like it was like doggy style grinding. And that's what
• 15:48
  Speaker 3: I mean. So when I think of grinding, I think
• 15:50
  Speaker 3: of that specific moment and I remember meeting next to
• 15:52
  Speaker 3: the mac and Cheese bar and just going damn, like
• 15:54
  Speaker 3: that's too much. Some of us hit puberty twice.
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: I mean, some people are just so shameless, which is good,
• 15:58
  Speaker 2: you know what, Good on you. But you won't catch
• 16:00
  Speaker 2: me on all fours barking like a dog. Absolutely not.
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: And also I wouldn't want you doing that.
• 16:05
  Speaker 3: I was like, why are you, like go home and
• 16:07
  Speaker 3: do this? But when I realized, and I was really
• 16:10
  Speaker 3: naive high school, I didn't reize people were getting super
• 16:12
  Speaker 3: drunk before prom. I was like, now, knowing that they
• 16:15
  Speaker 3: were probably hammered, it makes a lot more sense. That's true,
• 16:17
  Speaker 3: But I'm still like, what a weird environment to I
• 16:20
  Speaker 3: don't know do that?
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: It is awkward.
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: I see it sometimes at concerts or I see it
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: like where nobody else is doing it. But then there's
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: that one couple that's like getting it just all up
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: on the floor, all up on each other.
• 16:30
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: Oh, I mean, look, I'm so happy that you're passionate.
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: I'm a passionate guy myself, but I also know how
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: to read the room. And if you're in a room
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: full of people that aren't doing that and you're the
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: only ones doing that as long as you're okay with
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: everyone's staring.
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: We're all doing it now.
• 16:43
  Speaker 3: If you're listening to this and you're like Abby, I
• 16:45
  Speaker 3: actually disagree with you. I think grinding was super fun
• 16:47
  Speaker 3: in middle school, in elementary school.
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: I mean I say that I was bumping and grind
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: in middle school. If you weird to think of if you.
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: Were watching Love Island. I don't know what season we're on.
• 16:56
  Speaker 3: This season's Love Island and you watched one of the
• 16:59
  Speaker 3: what's the most recent challenge they did? They did like
• 17:01
  Speaker 3: this schoolgirl tutoring challenge. Watching that is how I felt
• 17:06
  Speaker 3: about watching my peers grind in high school.
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: What was that where they dressed up as like the
• 17:10
  Speaker 2: traditional like school outfit.
• 17:12
  Speaker 3: Yes. So essentially, the way Love Island has evolved in
• 17:15
  Speaker 3: the US is that it's become kind of like soft
• 17:17
  Speaker 3: core porn. If I'm being honest with you, and a
• 17:19
  Speaker 3: lot of people are getting the ick from it. For me,
• 17:21
  Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, this is just how Love Island always is.
• 17:23
  Speaker 3: I'm like, you're just bump and grind on your TVs
• 17:25
  Speaker 3: and that's what gets people watching. But they do these
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: challenges which I don't really understand what the challenge is
• 17:30
  Speaker 3: because the challenge is just let's have everyone make out
• 17:32
  Speaker 3: with each other and they wear specific themed outfits. So
• 17:34
  Speaker 3: this was a classroom themed quote unquote challenge, and you
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: had to make out with someone who wasn't your couple,
• 17:40
  Speaker 3: and then you would you went into a room and
• 17:42
  Speaker 3: you had to make out with some rando and then
• 17:43
  Speaker 3: you came back out and then you dry humped with
• 17:45
  Speaker 3: your partner. And so I'm like, I'm like, what are we?
• 17:48
  Speaker 3: How do you win this challenge? You know what I mean? Like,
• 17:51
  Speaker 3: what are we? I appreciate that you're calling it a challenge.
• 17:53
  Speaker 3: This would be a challenge for me personally, challenge my morals, stamina.
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: Three makeouts and like a lat any period of time
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: literally tiring.
• 18:02
  Speaker 3: And there's like slime everywhere, there's paint. It's just so gross.
• 18:06
  Speaker 3: And I'm watching it because it's entertaining, But at the
• 18:09
  Speaker 3: same time, I'm like, i feel like I feel a
• 18:10
  Speaker 3: little uncomfortable. I feel like I'm watching my peers grind
• 18:14
  Speaker 3: at my high school prom m.
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: I feel like for that situation, I mean, I know
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: what they're trying to do for the TV situation, but
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: it just I know they get tested before the idea
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: of going room to room to room and just swap
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: and spit alone.
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: You know, it's so nasty that freaks me out. Yeah,
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: how do you win the game?
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: That's what I mean is I don't know what the
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: game is?
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: How do you win Love Island?
• 18:36
  Speaker 3: You? It's partially voted on by viewers at home, so
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: it's like, whoever, whatever couple they're rooting for the most.
• 18:44
  Speaker 3: So I guess maybe the challenges to show case you
• 18:46
  Speaker 3: have the most chemistry with, so people at home ship you.
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: I don't know that, Okay, I'm glad people are loving it.
• 18:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it really doesn't make sense until like the last
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: week when people kind of pair off and they figure
• 18:58
  Speaker 3: out who they want to be with. But up until that,
• 19:02
  Speaker 3: it's really just a bump and grind show.
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: That's so awkward.
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: But I'm people all over especially I know it's all
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: over the country. What are doing these watch parties and
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: getting together? That's cool. I love a sensational moment. I
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: love that everybody could get behind something. It's interesting that
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: that's the show choice. But you know what if that's
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: what floats your boat?
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: Get it? Was there ever a show? Did you ever
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: apply to be on? A show. Actually two questions.
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: First off, I saw recently on your Instagram you were
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: on a TV show.
• 19:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I was on a game show.
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: That's cool. It was how did that happen? What was
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: the game?
• 19:30
  Speaker 3: So it's so funny that we're bringing this up now
• 19:32
  Speaker 3: because I had a dream last night. I had a
• 19:34
  Speaker 3: very specific dream because the reason I got on that
• 19:36
  Speaker 3: game show was because I applied to be on Farmer
• 19:38
  Speaker 3: Wants a Wife.
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: That's what I wanted to know.
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: Hell, I really wanted to be on Farmer Wants a
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: Wife because I'm like, finally a dating show I think
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: I would actually be good at. But I also had
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: a dream that I got casted for The Bachelor at
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: the same time, and I'd choose, do I want to
• 19:51
  Speaker 3: be on Farmer Wants a Wife? Or do I want
• 19:53
  Speaker 3: to be on a Bachelor?
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: What would you choose?
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: That's tough.
• 19:56
  Speaker 3: I woke up and it was so vivid. I must
• 19:58
  Speaker 3: have been in like deep rem let's see it sleep squad.
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: Actually was. It was so vivid that I woke up
• 20:03
  Speaker 3: and I was like, do I have to email Chris Arrison? Yeah? Probably,
• 20:07
  Speaker 3: but I don't know. I would probably choose the Bachelor
• 20:11
  Speaker 3: because it's more mainstream.
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you'd get a bigger, bigger view.
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I feel like the risk would be more
• 20:17
  Speaker 3: the reward would be more worth the risk, Whereas I
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: haven't heard anything about this season's Farmer Once a Wife.
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: I've never watched a single episode of Farmer Once a Wife.
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: Is it like the same premise just the Farmer.
• 20:25
  Speaker 3: I think it's just because the previous season was really good,
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: Like there was a lot of chemistry between these two
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: people on the show, and they would get in these
• 20:32
  Speaker 3: little fights and that made for really good TV. And
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: I think that was the only good thing about it.
• 20:37
  Speaker 3: Oh and so now obviously like that's yeah, Ola slept
• 20:40
  Speaker 3: seven hours, there you go, And I did get an
• 20:44
  Speaker 3: hour and thirty six minutes of rem.
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: Sleep all that over the Farmer Once a Wife.
• 20:47
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so that's what happens. So anyway, I was trying
• 20:49
  Speaker 3: to get on Farmer Once a Wife. They didn't want
• 20:51
  Speaker 3: me for some reason. And I can't decide whether or
• 20:53
  Speaker 3: not it's a good thing or not, because I'm like, well,
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: it would be perfect because I was unemployed, so I
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: like would have had all the time in the world.
• 20:59
  Speaker 3: And then I kind of like just launched my social
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: media career selling Sheen products, and then but then I'm like,
• 21:04
  Speaker 3: you know, I I was like interviewing and applying to jobs.
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: Maybe it was a good thing. So maybe I don't know,
• 21:09
  Speaker 3: Maybe I'm just go on it next year.
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: I was gonna say, would you apply again? Would you
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: apply for other dating shows?
• 21:14
  Speaker 3: I mean if someone like said, hey, we found your application,
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: we dug it up, and we think you'd be good
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: for this guy, for sure. I don't know that I'm
• 21:19
  Speaker 3: going to apply moving forward. I also think I'm aging out,
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: Like I'm this is probably the last year I can
• 21:24
  Speaker 3: actually apply for a dating show.
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying, Like, put them all out there,
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: because they just did one locally and we had a
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: couple of local people on the show.
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: It was smaller but overboard.
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: I was like the Love Boat unwell, so I wouldn't
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: want to do that. I obviously wouldn't be picked for
• 21:36
  Speaker 3: Love Island. I have too many brain cells and not
• 21:39
  Speaker 3: inn a flip filler. Oh boy, But if the I
• 21:41
  Speaker 3: would consider the batchelor and I would for sure do
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: Farmer one's wife.
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: That'd be cool to throw in the application just again,
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: just to see. Yeah, it's true. It is what's.
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: Weird, and this is going to go to age and
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: I want to hear about the whole Brad situation. But
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: when you realize you're getting to the age that you're
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: like one aging out of these opportunities, but two and
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: I find weird. And this goes for like more of
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: the guy brain. When I'm older than the guys that
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: i'm watching sports for, Oh yeah, Like that freaks me out.
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: When I'm watching football and I'm like, oh man, I'm
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: rooting hard and I'm like that dude's twenty three. I
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: know he's a baby that could be like my cousin.
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: That's how you feel. When I watched teen dramas like this.
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: When the Summer Right Turn Pretty came out, I was like, oh,
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: a lot of these people are younger than me.
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: It makes it awkward. And then I have to put
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: that thought aside and just enjoy it.
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: That's why I liked Off Campus because I'm like, oh,
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: they're on their twenties, thank god. And they're all in
• 22:27
  Speaker 3: their late twenties too.
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it makes it a little better. But right now,
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: it's very weird to see one dating shows like that.
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: You're like, Okay, Wow, I guess I've aged out of
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: that bracket or two watching all these athletes and you're like,
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: oh man, yeah, I remember I had that dream. I
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: guess no more. You go get them, kiddo. So what
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: happened with because yesterday we talked a lot about the
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: stepping back into the dating world.
• 22:47
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm back on the apps. I've been I've been
• 22:50
  Speaker 3: in by apps, I mean just hinge. I have been
• 22:54
  Speaker 3: scrolling them and just seeing if anything pops up, because
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: I do think I just need to go on eight eight. Yeah,
• 23:00
  Speaker 3: I think I just need to go on a date
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: to remind myself why I deleted the apps.
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: Yes, I would. It probably will end up like that,
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: or it will just be fun. Like I think it's
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: fun to just get out there. And well, let me
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: take that back to be completely honest, going out on
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: dates before I started dating my girlfriend that that was exhausting.
• 23:19
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, it's the worst. And it just makes
• 23:20
  Speaker 3: you feel lonelier, Like it does feel a little bit
• 23:23
  Speaker 3: like fast food, Like you go and you just kind
• 23:25
  Speaker 3: of leave feeling grosser. You're like, yeah, yeah, that's on
• 23:28
  Speaker 3: my boyfriend. Mmmm.
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I think that's the biggest thing.
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: And it's like, you know exactly, you know exactly what
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: some people say, and I'm sure this works for plenty
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: of other people. But it's like some people say like, oh,
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: we got to give them a chance. I give them
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: a couple I don't know. It really comes down to
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: a feeling. Because there are people that I was talking
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: I was like, oh, absolutely not, Like you just know
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: right away.
• 23:46
  Speaker 3: You know right away.
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: You could entertain the idea of maybe go out a
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: couple of times, but you know in your gut that's
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: not your person.
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: You know right away. And I will say I do
• 23:53
  Speaker 3: think people can change from date one to date two,
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: So I say two dates max. But after the second date,
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: if you're still like a, it's not worth it, you're
• 24:01
  Speaker 3: just hurting the other person, you're hurting yourself, you're using them,
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: You're you're pushing something that that's not gonna work. And
• 24:07
  Speaker 3: again there's exceptions every rule, blah blah blah blah blah,
• 24:08
  Speaker 3: we're gonna ge DA's being like, wow, actually on the
• 24:10
  Speaker 3: seven date, that's when I finally found that's great for you.
• 24:12
  Speaker 3: I'm glad it worked out for you.
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: But are you seeing any of the big names in Tampa,
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: like on these apps or is it just people you
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: have no idea or is it like people you've maybe
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: seen on Instagram any influencers on there too.
• 24:24
  Speaker 3: No, I've gotten a couple of dms. Well, here's the
• 24:26
  Speaker 3: funny thing is I do have beas on bishor in
• 24:27
  Speaker 3: my bio where I'm like, either ask me out or
• 24:29
  Speaker 3: come on.
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: Bazi bashor like I needed to get a win somewhere.
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, at the very least, I'm just using this for
• 24:33
  Speaker 3: a marketing tool. And now people are just I've gotten
• 24:37
  Speaker 3: a couple of them just being like I'll come on
• 24:38
  Speaker 3: Beas on Bayshore. And so I'm like, oh, so you
• 24:40
  Speaker 3: think I'm ugly. Oh, I'm like taking it as an offense.
• 24:43
  Speaker 3: But no, it's fine. I haven't seen anybody. This guy's
• 24:47
  Speaker 3: not actually not hibeous. What does he do for work?
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: Okay, you want to say what he does for work?
• 24:52
  Speaker 3: I mean he just works in sales.
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: As every other person in Tampa does as well.
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: I don't know. And then he used just two many Oh,
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: this guy's a winner. Hang on, don't want to SHOWO
• 25:00
  Speaker 3: this When I tell you it's dismal, it's so freaking dismal.
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: Do you pay for because guys have to pay for
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: Hinge to see what the hell is that?
• 25:10
  Speaker 3: This guy's a photo with a mascot of King Julian
• 25:13
  Speaker 3: from that Madagascar. I'm gonna lose it. And what is
• 25:18
  Speaker 3: this guy? This guy's profile picture is him with face
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: paint on with this Oh boy, it's so bad.
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: You know, there's gonna be some somebody's perfect match.
• 25:28
  Speaker 3: That's the thing. Is that person's gonna get married before me.
• 25:31
  Speaker 3: Maybe I don't think I'm enough of a freak I
• 25:33
  Speaker 3: think is what it is.
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: Maybe you got to explore your freak side.
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: I told you that's why I started watching what was
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: it fifty Shades of Gray?
• 25:40
  Speaker 3: No, no, no, I don't mean. I don't mean freak in
• 25:42
  Speaker 3: a sexual way. I just mean like furry freak.
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: Oh oh, because that's better.
• 25:46
  Speaker 3: So here's the new thing that that hinge has been
• 25:49
  Speaker 3: doing that was not around back in the day. In
• 25:52
  Speaker 3: February twenty twenty six, is Hinge has been doing this
• 25:56
  Speaker 3: new thing where it'll put a notification that says COLT
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: is showing what does it say, not signs of interest?
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: It says like Colt is showing meaningful signs or something
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: like that. I'm like, what does that even mean if
• 26:10
  Speaker 3: it's if he's into me, why does he just like me?
• 26:13
  Speaker 3: What is that even meaningful signs?
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: Does that mean they're just looking at your profile for
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: a long period of time.
• 26:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but you can't just you either have to say
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: yes or no on Hinge, like you either have to
• 26:21
  Speaker 3: scroll past or not. So what I'm getting is he
• 26:23
  Speaker 3: showed meaningful signs and then said, now.
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: Oh geez.
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: See that's the part when I was on there that
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: always made me feel depressed. I'm like, I know I'm
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: swiping on people, and how many people are just not
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: swiping on me? But for guys, it was different. Guys,
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: you gotta like you honestly, you got to pay to
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: make any matches, Like that's how it is because they
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: know there's so many guys on there.
• 26:41
  Speaker 3: I also just think guys don't know how to put
• 26:44
  Speaker 3: together a good profile that is extremely accurate. So you,
• 26:47
  Speaker 3: while I have empathy for the fact that I'm sure
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: it's very hard not to get matches and hard to
• 26:51
  Speaker 3: find people.
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: Maybe don't put a picture of you and King Julian.
• 26:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe don't put the picture of you at the
• 26:55
  Speaker 3: Madagascar exhibit in Universal, Like, have you thought what woman
• 27:00
  Speaker 3: is looking at it and going, yeah, I want to
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: have sex with that guy, Like we're gonna do like
• 27:05
  Speaker 3: Moreton King Julian role play. Is that what we're gonna do.
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: If that's your cup of tea, then I say get it.
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: I mean, if that's your cup of tea, hell yeah, brother,
• 27:12
  Speaker 3: not mine. I just want a man in a suit
• 27:17
  Speaker 3: at a bar with his friends at a football game.
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: These are the photos I want to see.
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: That's the casual couple friends and said, they just you know.
• 27:23
  Speaker 3: What they do. This guy's the perfect example of this.
• 27:25
  Speaker 3: They get a couple of good photos at a wedding
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: and then they just use those photos for the for
• 27:30
  Speaker 3: the end of time. I'm sure this wedding was in
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: like twenty twenty two. So here's this guy.
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: Oh he looks fantastic.
• 27:35
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah yeah. But then but then, but then there's
• 27:37
  Speaker 3: the same the.
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: Same photo in black and white.
• 27:39
  Speaker 3: But he's like the same photo at the same wedding
• 27:41
  Speaker 3: in black and white. And then wait for it, here's
• 27:43
  Speaker 3: him at the wedding, but on the dance floor. But
• 27:45
  Speaker 3: one guy is putting a finger up the other guy's butt.
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: Oh boy, yeah, no, I don't know why that's gonna
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: be the one that does it.
• 27:52
  Speaker 3: I wonder if he wonder what happened at that wedding.
• 27:54
  Speaker 3: He's like, you know what this is? This is what
• 27:56
  Speaker 3: I want to show up.
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: This is I need you to know this about me.
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: Anytime I go on the dance, someone's putting a finger
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: or it shouldn't shine.
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: So who did you run into on him?
• 28:04
  Speaker 3: Oh? So anyway, so literally, like last week, I think
• 28:07
  Speaker 3: I told the story about this guy that I made
• 28:09
  Speaker 3: out with in college. I think I said what his
• 28:11
  Speaker 3: name was. Yeah, okay, uh, I probably shouldn't have done that.
• 28:14
  Speaker 3: I didn't realize this was probably going to get back
• 28:15
  Speaker 3: to him. But anyway, if you remember, let me find
• 28:18
  Speaker 3: the episode name so that you can go back and
• 28:21
  Speaker 3: listen to it. Although I will say I was looking
• 28:22
  Speaker 3: at our data yesterday. A lot of you guys are
• 28:24
  Speaker 3: very loyal, consistent listeners, So thank you, thank you for listening.
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: I do like that you just threw him on blasts
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: and I said he's down here though, well I.
• 28:31
  Speaker 3: Found that out. So I can't remember what when did
• 28:35
  Speaker 3: we talk about my sorority life. I think it was
• 28:37
  Speaker 3: last week.
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: I think it was last week too.
• 28:39
  Speaker 3: I think it was last week. Gosh, I don't remember
• 28:41
  Speaker 3: which episode it was. I'll find it. Maybe I'll put
• 28:43
  Speaker 3: it in the episode description. That's what I'll do. I
• 28:45
  Speaker 3: will link it in the episode description. Maybe, who knows.
• 28:48
  Speaker 3: But if you remember this story, I was talking about
• 28:51
  Speaker 3: my sorority days where I made out with this guy
• 28:53
  Speaker 3: who I thought was hot for literally just no reason
• 28:56
  Speaker 3: of the fact that he was tall in the fraternity
• 28:57
  Speaker 3: that I hung out with in Brunette.
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: I mean a lot of hot qualities right there.
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: I mean, at nineteen, that's all I cared about. I mean,
• 29:03
  Speaker 3: and I was. I actually saw this on TikTok where
• 29:05
  Speaker 3: it's like every girl has to have like a canon
• 29:08
  Speaker 3: event happened to her at nineteen and twenty three, and
• 29:10
  Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god, like nineteen and twenty three, yes,
• 29:13
  Speaker 3: like you always have some kind of weird romantic situation
• 29:15
  Speaker 3: at nineteen and twenty three. And for me, this was
• 29:17
  Speaker 3: my nineteen year old like, oh my god, I have
• 29:19
  Speaker 3: such a crush on this fraternity boy situation. And then
• 29:21
  Speaker 3: he applied to be a bus boy and then backed out,
• 29:23
  Speaker 3: and it was a whole thing. So anyway, nineteen year
• 29:26
  Speaker 3: old and me was obsessed with him for no reason.
• 29:28
  Speaker 3: Other than the fact that I thought he was hot,
• 29:31
  Speaker 3: I am the hotter one. Now.
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: Oh that's kind of satisfying.
• 29:34
  Speaker 3: I can say that because he I feel like I've
• 29:36
  Speaker 3: given this man plenty of praise in college, stupid hot
• 29:39
  Speaker 3: I was obsessed them. I was not the cuter one.
• 29:42
  Speaker 3: Back then he was doing charity work with me. And
• 29:44
  Speaker 3: now and now I am the hotter one.
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: Okay, explain how did you why?
• 29:49
  Speaker 3: So I'm on Hinge swiping through and I go, literally,
• 29:52
  Speaker 3: it's so funny. I didn't even recognize him. I saw
• 29:54
  Speaker 3: him on Hinge and I was like, cause he's still
• 29:57
  Speaker 3: you know. It was Brunette and it said like six
• 29:59
  Speaker 3: six or somebody on. I was like, okay, let me
• 30:00
  Speaker 3: see what this sick. I was like, let me see
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: what this guy's all about.
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: That's a big man.
• 30:04
  Speaker 3: And so I'm scrolling through and I'm like, wait a second.
• 30:06
  Speaker 3: I remember he told me he majored in that in college,
• 30:09
  Speaker 3: and wait he went to University of Florida. Wait a second.
• 30:11
  Speaker 3: And then I looked at his name and I was like,
• 30:12
  Speaker 3: oh my god.
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, so he's back. Okay, so okay, wait, wait, wait,
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: so you knew him in college? You had no contact
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: with him after that.
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: Zero contact with him. I mean literally, I think he
• 30:23
  Speaker 3: sent me a text, and I think the text was
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: actually very nice. I'm I'm being so mean to this
• 30:27
  Speaker 3: man for no reason I say.
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: Anything bad about him. He just said that you've had
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: a glow up.
• 30:31
  Speaker 3: I yes, I had a major glow up, and I
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: have surpassed him in attractiveness in my opinion.
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: If he hears it, hey take that as a challenge.
• 30:38
  Speaker 3: In my opinion. Yeah, I mean, I'm not saying he's
• 30:40
  Speaker 3: not attractive now, I'm just saying I think I have
• 30:42
  Speaker 3: put in the work. And I was like, you know what,
• 30:44
  Speaker 3: I actually think if we were out at a bar,
• 30:47
  Speaker 3: I don't. I wouldn't have gone nineteen year old crazy
• 30:50
  Speaker 3: on him. Would have been like, oh yeah, that's like
• 30:51
  Speaker 3: a guy across the bar.
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah, just said okay, got it. Before it was like
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: an obsession where it's like, oh my god, not an obsession.
• 30:56
  Speaker 3: Okay, maybe obsession it's like the wrong word. But I
• 30:57
  Speaker 3: was like, oh my god, he's so cute and he's
• 30:59
  Speaker 3: talking to me, Whereas I didn't really get any romantic attention.
• 31:02
  Speaker 3: So when like he was talking to me, I was like,
• 31:03
  Speaker 3: oh my God, this guy's talking to me. He must
• 31:05
  Speaker 3: be obsessing me too. He wasn't and now you saw
• 31:08
  Speaker 3: him yesterday, but I saw him on hinge. I was like, hey,
• 31:10
  Speaker 3: didn't know he lived here. B Oh my god, I'm
• 31:13
  Speaker 3: so much cuter now, and I feel like this is
• 31:15
  Speaker 3: really healing my nineteen year old self.
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: Oh that's nice because it wasn't like a did you
• 31:20
  Speaker 2: fully go for him at nineteen or was it just
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: like a.
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: Oh, I like threw myself at him.
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and it just didn't work out.
• 31:27
  Speaker 3: He was a nineteen year old boy who didn't who
• 31:30
  Speaker 3: was like, Okay, i'll make out with you, but like
• 31:31
  Speaker 3: that that's all I care about. Yeah, I mean like, yeah,
• 31:34
  Speaker 3: he's like okay. He was not into me, but I
• 31:35
  Speaker 3: was into him, so I think he was like.
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: Whatever, And now you get to say look at me now.
• 31:39
  Speaker 3: And now I'm like, look at me now. He probably
• 31:40
  Speaker 3: listens pulling up on my hinge. I think if you
• 31:42
  Speaker 3: liked to me on hinge, i'd probably go.
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: No, oh sorry, I was gonna say his name, but
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: it doesn't matter.
• 31:47
  Speaker 3: So I feel like I need to bleep out his
• 31:49
  Speaker 3: name now, and I feel bad.
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: It's fine.
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: Well, I mean didn't say anything bad about him, He
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: just said again you had to blow up. Do you
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: get this the like, do women get this swipe right
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: on guys? Or like, how does that work?
• 31:57
  Speaker 3: Unhinge? What I like about the algorithm is like it's
• 32:00
  Speaker 3: a mutual thing, so you can like people, they can
• 32:03
  Speaker 3: like you, and you have to like mutually like each
• 32:05
  Speaker 3: other to end up with each other. Whereas bumble, you
• 32:08
  Speaker 3: just I feel like it's easier to just make a
• 32:09
  Speaker 3: random like, oh that guy's kind of cute, because you
• 32:11
  Speaker 3: just go swipe bright doesn't really mean much. Whereas this
• 32:14
  Speaker 3: you kind of have to go out of your way
• 32:15
  Speaker 3: and go I like you, I will like you, and
• 32:17
  Speaker 3: I will put you in my inbox.
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: Okay, so they do they see that you put them there?
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: Or do they have to match with you?
• 32:23
  Speaker 3: They get it goes into a likes folder and then
• 32:25
  Speaker 3: you see all the likes and then you can choose
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: to match with them or not.
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, how many have actually like matched up with
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: you that you've actually said, oh, I like you?
• 32:35
  Speaker 3: I mean over the years, I mean hundreds. But then
• 32:37
  Speaker 3: like sometimes you match with someone and you go, M
• 32:40
  Speaker 3: I think I was just kind of like curious and
• 32:42
  Speaker 3: now I'm like, not really that interested in Oh, this
• 32:44
  Speaker 3: guy might be kind of cute. See, but see you
• 32:47
  Speaker 3: do you do this, and you go maybe, and then
• 32:49
  Speaker 3: you look at them a little bit longer and you
• 32:50
  Speaker 3: go nah.
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: Well that's why I know a lot of people just
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: move super quick where it's like I see you in
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: the folder message, let's go on a date like tomorrow.
• 32:59
  Speaker 3: Yeah, And then you think about it more and you're like,
• 33:01
  Speaker 3: I'm not really sure. Like, for example, this guy, I
• 33:03
  Speaker 3: will say, let me get props. This guy we'll to
• 33:04
  Speaker 3: call him Jay. That's not his name, but his first
• 33:06
  Speaker 3: name starts with a jay. He liked me, and I
• 33:09
  Speaker 3: was like, oh, this guy's like attractive, but there's something
• 33:11
  Speaker 3: sinister about his profile. And I'm gonna I'm gonna show
• 33:14
  Speaker 3: you him. So he's attractive and he has a great job,
• 33:18
  Speaker 3: and he's my age and he says he's looking for
• 33:21
  Speaker 3: a long term relationship. I find him attractive. I'm gonna
• 33:23
  Speaker 3: put that out there. Yeah, but I'm gonna show you
• 33:25
  Speaker 3: his profile and then I'm gonna tell you what's wrong
• 33:27
  Speaker 3: with it.
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: Okay, that's okay, Then that would help.
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: Me, Okay, I want to make sure it don't holy Jesus.
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: All right, so he's a Greek god. That's awesome. Okay,
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: that's really nice. Oh that's a great suit photo. He's
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: got great taste in clothing. Looks like he has a
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: nice watch on. Let's see.
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: Okay. Oh all right, there's his Greek bot again. Good
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: for him. Oh he's a yapper. That's fantastic. Another suit.
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: Oh okay, do you see what? Do you see?
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: What I'm saying, well, I mean, truthfully, if I was
• 34:02
  Speaker 2: to look at that profile, I'd be like, sir, this
• 34:04
  Speaker 2: kind of feels fake.
• 34:05
  Speaker 3: That's okay. So it's not that it feels fake, But
• 34:08
  Speaker 3: all the photos look like he specifically.
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: Did like a photo shoot, yes, for dating apps.
• 34:13
  Speaker 3: For dating apps, because none of these are his real life.
• 34:17
  Speaker 3: It looks like he went to his apartment complex and
• 34:18
  Speaker 3: took some photos in the pool with like his one friend.
• 34:20
  Speaker 3: Looks like he put on a suit, went outside and
• 34:22
  Speaker 3: started taking photos. Like. None of these feel like this
• 34:25
  Speaker 3: is a real person.
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: You're not getting any personality from it.
• 34:28
  Speaker 3: He looks good.
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: He does look real good.
• 34:30
  Speaker 3: If I saw him at a bar, he'd be like,
• 34:31
  Speaker 3: that's a hot guy. But I'm like, who are you?
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, what is your actual personality instead of just
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: good looks. You have to be more than just a look. Yeah,
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: that's the person that you want to settle down with.
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: You want to be somebody that's actually like there in
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: the head, not just a good face to look at it.
• 34:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Like it's important to not just have photos of
• 34:48
  Speaker 3: you on your profile. Like for me, we already went
• 34:50
  Speaker 3: through my profile. But it's like me with my cousin,
• 34:53
  Speaker 3: and then me at a baseball game, me with my
• 34:54
  Speaker 3: friend on a rooftop, me at a bridle shower, me
• 34:57
  Speaker 3: traveling in St. Andrew's, and then me on a boat. Oh,
• 35:00
  Speaker 3: like it's you're seeing different sides of you. Yeah, I'm like,
• 35:02
  Speaker 3: this is I do things I don't. I'm not just
• 35:05
  Speaker 3: like an AI robot being like please date me. I
• 35:07
  Speaker 3: would like to date you, do you know?
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: No, that's what I got from those profiles, Like, oh,
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: these great photos, but like, give me a little bit more.
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: I know you look good. We already got that discovered
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: in the first picture.
• 35:16
  Speaker 3: But to be fair, I mean he did everything other
• 35:19
  Speaker 3: than the photos and the weird feeling I'm getting from it,
• 35:22
  Speaker 3: I mean he did everything right. He liked me. I
• 35:26
  Speaker 3: started the chat and then he immediately said, what's your
• 35:28
  Speaker 3: schedule looked like for drinks this week?
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: Oh?
• 35:30
  Speaker 3: And I'm like I hate small talk. Okay, cool, So
• 35:33
  Speaker 3: I'm like do I I'm like, maybe he's just the
• 35:35
  Speaker 3: one guy to go out with. Yeah, because I'm not
• 35:37
  Speaker 3: repulsed by him. Yes, no or uggos.
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: I think, well, we've talked about this before.
• 35:42
  Speaker 2: I think that if I were to talk to this
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: man and be like, you got to show you have friends,
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: because that shows like you're not gonna kill me.
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: Like that part it's a little weird where I'm.
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: Like, just tell me you have a group of friends,
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: so I know you're like a legit good human.
• 35:55
  Speaker 3: Because these photos don't look fake, Like he doesn't look
• 35:57
  Speaker 3: like he's AI, but it looks like he's what AI
• 36:01
  Speaker 3: think real people look like. Mmm.
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: Does he have an Instagram attached?
• 36:06
  Speaker 3: And he's not smiling at any of these photos too,
• 36:08
  Speaker 3: Like there's I'm like, are your teeth? Okay? Are you
• 36:10
  Speaker 3: a happy person? Only one of us can be depressed
• 36:13
  Speaker 3: in this relationship. I'm already taking up that slot. Okay.
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: I wonder what his profile looks like off of hinge,
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: like if you go to Instagram, Like if he's on
• 36:22
  Speaker 2: is he out.
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: In the community. I just need to know. Now you
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: got me thinking that he's a made.
• 36:26
  Speaker 3: Up profile, I know, so we're like, listen if you
• 36:28
  Speaker 3: share with me your Instagram. So then I amatched with
• 36:30
  Speaker 3: this other guy who looks cute, but his chat started
• 36:33
  Speaker 3: to piss me off. He goes, hey, how's it going?
• 36:37
  Speaker 3: And I said, hey, I'm good, what about you? And
• 36:39
  Speaker 3: then he responded blessed and ly favored, Oh okay, which
• 36:43
  Speaker 3: I'm like, is that are you being If you're being sarcastic,
• 36:46
  Speaker 3: that's funny. If you're saying that with your full chest,
• 36:48
  Speaker 3: that's so cringe.
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: And then he asked me, like that's something I would say.
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: I'd like, yes, I'm blessed, feeling great kind of you know.
• 36:54
  Speaker 3: See. I like, just first of all, I hate small
• 36:57
  Speaker 3: chalk in general. Like if you're saying, hey, how's it going,
• 36:58
  Speaker 3: I'm like, it's fine, Jared, I'm at work. What are
• 37:03
  Speaker 3: you doing at twelve pm on a Wednesday? Do you
• 37:04
  Speaker 3: know what I mean?
• 37:05
  Speaker 2: And it would be better if they actually pick something
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: from your profile to kind of talk about.
• 37:08
  Speaker 3: Right start the conversation, just be like, oh my god,
• 37:11
  Speaker 3: I'm a huge Rais fan. Well, then I say that,
• 37:13
  Speaker 3: but then this other guy. I think this guy might say, AI,
• 37:16
  Speaker 3: so but tell me, tell me, I'm because this is
• 37:19
  Speaker 3: what I get really bothered by. My mom or other
• 37:21
  Speaker 3: people in my life will be like, I think you're
• 37:22
  Speaker 3: just picking at a part too much. I'm like, no,
• 37:24
  Speaker 3: I'm just very discerning and I can tell when I've
• 37:27
  Speaker 3: been on enough dates with dating at people, when I
• 37:29
  Speaker 3: know when somebody's a little off. And Okay, So this
• 37:33
  Speaker 3: person liked that photo of me at the Raise game,
• 37:36
  Speaker 3: the one that everyone keeps liking, the one.
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: With the it's a good photo.
• 37:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, which, by the way, I didn't describe what
• 37:41
  Speaker 3: photo that was, so I'm sure if you're listening, you're like,
• 37:43
  Speaker 3: what photo is that? If you go to my Rais
• 37:45
  Speaker 3: picture on my Instagram, it's the photo of me holding
• 37:48
  Speaker 3: the purple.
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: Can anyway field in the background. Very nice.
• 37:51
  Speaker 3: So this person liked my photo of that and they said,
• 37:54
  Speaker 3: aren't they building a new stadium? I was like, I
• 37:57
  Speaker 3: don't know, Kyle, I'm not Google, and so I like
• 38:01
  Speaker 3: really had to push against my instinct, which was to
• 38:04
  Speaker 3: be like, fucking loser.
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: I don't know what. Am I the builder? No, I'm
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: not the Raise game.
• 38:10
  Speaker 3: You want me to give you the stats on like
• 38:11
  Speaker 3: when it's opening. And so I said, so this is
• 38:13
  Speaker 3: what I said. I said, that's what the internet says.
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: Oh, that's a very abby answer.
• 38:16
  Speaker 3: And so then he said, I think they are putting
• 38:18
  Speaker 3: it near Raymond James. I wish it was going to ebor.
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: Oh boy, do be what I'm trying to say. I do.
• 38:26
  Speaker 2: It's just like awkward, Like just be a normal human,
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: ask me how the game was, and then let's set
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: up something where we should actually go and see watch
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: a game or grab a beer.
• 38:35
  Speaker 3: Say something about my profile. Let's go back and forth
• 38:37
  Speaker 3: for four seconds, and then let's end.
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: Let's lock it up.
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: But that's what makes it, I think so hard, because
• 38:42
  Speaker 2: it's like the cliche of like, if you're bad at texting,
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: you're probably good in person.
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: I don't believe that. By the way, I'm a great
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: text and a great in person.
• 38:47
  Speaker 3: I think bad at texting isn't awkward at texting, though,
• 38:50
  Speaker 3: bad at texting I think is just you're disinterested in texting,
• 38:53
  Speaker 3: like I'm disinterested in texting. I don't want to gab
• 38:56
  Speaker 3: with you. I don't want to be a pinpal. I
• 38:58
  Speaker 3: want to meet you in person, and then if I
• 39:00
  Speaker 3: like you in person, then I'll be comfortable texting you
• 39:03
  Speaker 3: because then if you say something like blessed and highly favored,
• 39:05
  Speaker 3: I know to read it in your voice and I go, oh,
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: he's been sarcastic. That's funny. But if you say blessed
• 39:09
  Speaker 3: and highly favor I'm like, this guy's a douche because he.
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: Might be like one of those dudes that they kind
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: of sometimes could be like.
• 39:14
  Speaker 3: Me, less than any favor, less than favorite, flavored, too,
• 39:18
  Speaker 3: blessed and highly flavored, that's what I would say. That's
• 39:21
  Speaker 3: actually something exactly something I would say, blessed and highly flavored.
• 39:24
  Speaker 3: That sounds welcome to flavored town. Bacha's okay. So I
• 39:27
  Speaker 3: want to see the update on this. You know, whenever
• 39:29
  Speaker 3: you set up a date with one of these guys,
• 39:31
  Speaker 3: if you were gonna set me up with any of these,
• 39:33
  Speaker 3: which one sounds the least egregious.
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: I let me see the photos of them though that
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: sounds should you J I saw Jay Jay look great again.
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: The problem Jay is he looks like he could potentially
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: be an AI bot.
• 39:45
  Speaker 3: I don't think it's Ai. I have a pretty good
• 39:47
  Speaker 3: I for Ai, and so are they actual AI folk, like, see,
• 39:50
  Speaker 3: I've seen them far before.
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so annoying.
• 39:53
  Speaker 3: So this is b B is the one that said
• 39:55
  Speaker 3: blessed and highly favored. Which if that's sarcasm, I think
• 39:58
  Speaker 3: that's very funny. But if you're being I'm like.
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: Okay, shut up, I doubt that would be sarcastic. Oh wait, well,
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: oh that's a good looking dude. Oh there you go.
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: He's got some friends. Who's that that is?
• 40:12
  Speaker 3: I don't know, elly sisters.
• 40:14
  Speaker 2: Okay, that's I was going to say, oh, there you go,
• 40:16
  Speaker 2: and that looks like a good Okay.
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: He goes to.
• 40:18
  Speaker 2: Sporting events here in Tampa Bay.
• 40:21
  Speaker 3: I like this photo. This is I think, why do
• 40:22
  Speaker 3: guys always put their best photo last? I'm like, this
• 40:24
  Speaker 3: is the most normal looking photo of you. He's just there. Hey,
• 40:28
  Speaker 3: I like cars. Okay, there he goes a photo of
• 40:30
  Speaker 3: me in a car.
• 40:31
  Speaker 2: That's kind of cool. I would say, ah, that's so tough.
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: He's the one that said blessed and highly favored.
• 40:37
  Speaker 3: He goes, hey, how's it going? And I said, hey,
• 40:39
  Speaker 3: I'm good. What about you? He said blessed and highly favored,
• 40:41
  Speaker 3: and then he asked where in Jack's are you from?
• 40:43
  Speaker 3: And I said, I went to blah blah blah, heah
• 40:44
  Speaker 3: schoolahlah blah blah, and he goes, oh, I lived up there,
• 40:46
  Speaker 3: So his response to that was normal, I lived up
• 40:48
  Speaker 3: there by the beach. Haven't gone back in a while.
• 40:50
  Speaker 2: I say, give that guy a chance. Okay, yep, Oh God,
• 40:53
  Speaker 2: this is horrible because this is going to come back
• 40:54
  Speaker 2: and bite me.
• 40:55
  Speaker 3: You set me up with a t no, because I
• 40:57
  Speaker 3: think he's he looks very cute, normal. I like this
• 40:59
  Speaker 3: photo of him. You this one's a good photo.
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah, which one is he on the left or right?
• 41:03
  Speaker 3: Oh? Sorry, he's the one in red.
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: Oh there, we got great looking.
• 41:06
  Speaker 3: God, I have to edit this so much. I'm flashing
• 41:08
  Speaker 3: his photo like a thousand times. But then the other thing.
• 41:12
  Speaker 3: Girls hate it when guys say this because you'll always go,
• 41:14
  Speaker 3: what's your love language? And before you can even get
• 41:17
  Speaker 3: the word language out, guys go fisical touch. Oh really, yes,
• 41:20
  Speaker 3: that is always what guys says their love language, And
• 41:22
  Speaker 3: we're like, we get it. You like to bang?
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: We get it. See that's not mine, mine's quality time.
• 41:27
  Speaker 3: Okay. See that's like a normal I feel like physical
• 41:29
  Speaker 3: touch shouldn't even be in in the realm. Of like,
• 41:33
  Speaker 3: what your love language is? Everybody unless your hey sexual
• 41:35
  Speaker 3: blah blah blah blah blah. Yes, cat, everyone likes physical touch,
• 41:40
  Speaker 3: you know what I mean?
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like go deeper than Yeah?
• 41:43
  Speaker 3: How can I communicate love to you that's not banging?
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, me rubbing my hands all over your exactly? Yeah? Okay,
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: that is that. One of the questions that has it
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: on the on the.
• 41:52
  Speaker 3: Profile said, my love language is physical touch. And then
• 41:55
  Speaker 3: what do you say? I'll pick the topic if you
• 41:57
  Speaker 3: start the conversation. He says, everyone who says they're love Wait,
• 42:02
  Speaker 3: that's so funny. Wait, maybe I do like this guy.
• 42:05
  Speaker 3: Oh I didn't even read the prompts, so you know
• 42:08
  Speaker 3: how he literally just said that to you.
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: Uh huh.
• 42:10
  Speaker 3: So that was his last prompt. He said, I'll pick
• 42:12
  Speaker 3: the topic if you start the conversation. This is what
• 42:14
  Speaker 3: he said. Okay, I'm going out with this guy. He said,
• 42:16
  Speaker 3: everyone who says their love language is physical touch is
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: just chronically horny. And I'm like, that's literally what I
• 42:21
  Speaker 3: just said. That's how every girl feels. It's like, we
• 42:23
  Speaker 3: get it. You like to fuck and then his physical touch.
• 42:29
  Speaker 3: That's funny. Actually, Okay, I'm so going out with him.
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: Oh that's funny.
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: Okay, did he already set up like a Did he
• 42:35
  Speaker 2: ask you for your availability? No?
• 42:36
  Speaker 3: But if I mean, unless he drags it off, what
• 42:39
  Speaker 3: should I say? He said, I lived up there for
• 42:40
  Speaker 3: a year by the beach, haven't gone back in a while.
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: That's how he left it off. Yeah.
• 42:45
  Speaker 3: I haven't responded yet. Okay, I mean I need to
• 42:48
  Speaker 3: add so much of this video.
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah, however you want to just casually respond, But I
• 42:52
  Speaker 2: would hope the next message is let's go ahead and
• 42:54
  Speaker 2: get drinks, let's go ahead and.
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: Grab a bite.
• 42:56
  Speaker 3: No, he needs to ask me out.
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: I know, that's what I'm saying, not you. Oh.
• 42:59
  Speaker 3: He also as the sign that says signals, which is
• 43:02
  Speaker 3: what Hinge has. When I guess they'll looking at your
• 43:04
  Speaker 3: profile showing signals of interest.
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: Well there you go, come on, be I wish you
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: would have ended that with a question or pushed the
• 43:10
  Speaker 2: conversation further.
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: That's what like that whatever he just wrote to you.
• 43:13
  Speaker 3: Last Well, I haven't responded yet, I know, but what
• 43:16
  Speaker 3: he he said. I don't mind the no question thing
• 43:18
  Speaker 3: because it's my job to BOLLI it back. I lived
• 43:20
  Speaker 3: up there for a year off Atlantic by the beach,
• 43:23
  Speaker 3: haven't gone back in a while, Which should I say?
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: What should? Oh my gosh, I can.
• 43:28
  Speaker 3: Give me four seconds to respond and then I'll tell
• 43:30
  Speaker 3: you what I responded. Go ahead, keep the people busy.
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: Okay, I hope this actually works out.
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: This is way better than a chat gypt man, who
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: I'm sure is great. And I would still say, if
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: you're wanted to go out with two, go out with both.
• 43:41
  Speaker 2: Got a free drink out of both of them.
• 43:44
  Speaker 3: And just maybe I'll do like a back to back date.
• 43:46
  Speaker 3: What's not actually my favorite thing to do.
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: Go from one to the nets and the same day.
• 43:50
  Speaker 3: Yeah. I love that actually, because then if it doesn't
• 43:52
  Speaker 3: work out with one guy, then it's like, oh hey,
• 43:54
  Speaker 3: well I have a backup. Oh then you're like.
• 43:56
  Speaker 2: Okay, well, what if it goes really well with the
• 43:58
  Speaker 2: first one, do you cancel on the second one or
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: mid date? No?
• 44:01
  Speaker 3: Actually, this is why I like it. It forces you
• 44:03
  Speaker 3: to end the date with someone you really like.
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: Because I know that's normal, and I know it's normal.
• 44:08
  Speaker 2: I would be so like, I don't know, I'd be
• 44:11
  Speaker 2: so I guess, ego, ego, E upset if I found
• 44:16
  Speaker 2: out like you went on a date, right, after me.
• 44:19
  Speaker 3: I'm just listen.
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: You should again, there's nothing wrong with its date.
• 44:23
  Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't know. I don't know you, you don't
• 44:24
  Speaker 3: know me. I don't want you that invested in me.
• 44:27
  Speaker 3: You don't want me overly invested in you.
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: That's why helped you.
• 44:29
  Speaker 3: You know me, Like, do you want me to sit
• 44:30
  Speaker 3: on Facebook be like, oh my god, I love his parents.
• 44:32
  Speaker 3: Parents look so nice.
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: I can't wait to visit y Yeah.
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: No, Okay, then that case, I guess, and you don't
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: miss Like, if both are bad, you don't ruin two days?
• 44:40
  Speaker 3: Yeah, because I think the after ending a date that's
• 44:43
  Speaker 3: bad and you go home and you just feel really lonely.
• 44:45
  Speaker 3: I think if the first date goes bad, then it's like, Okay,
• 44:47
  Speaker 3: well I'm just going on to go see blah blah
• 44:48
  Speaker 3: blah XT And then if that one goes bad, then
• 44:50
  Speaker 3: you're like, you're so exhausted by the end event that
• 44:52
  Speaker 3: you're like, I'm just thrilled to be home.
• 44:54
  Speaker 2: What if you go on the second date, though, and
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: you call them by the first person's name, You're not.
• 44:58
  Speaker 3: Going to though good? Okay, I'm saying same here, Haha.
• 45:02
  Speaker 3: I'm overdue for a visit. I definitely should do a
• 45:09
  Speaker 3: question this time around. I would say I've decided that
• 45:11
  Speaker 3: I'm interested. He said he's from there.
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: Oh that's fun.
• 45:14
  Speaker 3: No, No, I lived up there for a year off
• 45:17
  Speaker 3: Atlantic by the Beach. Haven't gone back in a while.
• 45:19
  Speaker 3: Same here, Haha, I'm overdue for a visit. Maybe I'll
• 45:21
  Speaker 3: just say something like, to be honest, the only thing
• 45:26
  Speaker 3: I miss is Petez. Pizza is like the one cool
• 45:30
  Speaker 3: bar there. To be honest, he miss Petez Oh piezz
• 45:34
  Speaker 3: Pee like st Pete's, Oh cute. To be honest, the
• 45:37
  Speaker 3: only thing I miss is Pete's.
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: That's fun.
• 45:41
  Speaker 2: Okay, Well, I guess how many messages would you get
• 45:45
  Speaker 2: of it before he has to ask you out?
• 45:46
  Speaker 3: Like, if he doesn't asked me out today, then I'm
• 45:48
  Speaker 3: moving on. And then let me respond to robot boy.
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: Robot boy, so when did you decide to take all
• 45:54
  Speaker 2: these photos? When did you decide to become a model?
• 45:57
  Speaker 3: You know, I'm free this week, Jay, But tell me
• 45:59
  Speaker 3: who was taking all these photos of you at your
• 46:01
  Speaker 3: apartment pool complex.
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: Give me some kind of sign that you have friends
• 46:05
  Speaker 2: and people that don't think you're a serial killer.
• 46:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know that I'm gonna like this guy.
• 46:08
  Speaker 3: So his prompt said, I'm looking for someone to lock
• 46:11
  Speaker 3: this down, oh boy, and then together we could travel.
• 46:15
  Speaker 3: I have unlimited PTO. I like to trap, he said,
• 46:18
  Speaker 3: green flags. I look for yapper. I'm like, well, I'm
• 46:20
  Speaker 3: a professional apper, so let's get into it.
• 46:22
  Speaker 2: I would just be interested to see the kind of
• 46:25
  Speaker 2: personality on that guy, because it sounds like he's like
• 46:27
  Speaker 2: very and this is maybe too judging, but he sounds
• 46:30
  Speaker 2: like very flashy of so Tampa. Yeah, well I guess
• 46:33
  Speaker 2: that's the case. Yeah, look at me in my nice suit.
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: I got a lot of money and I can make
• 46:36
  Speaker 2: you travel. Yeah, give me some more of that though,
• 46:39
  Speaker 2: Like traveling's fun. But like we're gonna be on the
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: plane together. Yeah, well we're gonna talk.
• 46:42
  Speaker 3: About it's kind of like, yeah, it's like having fame,
• 46:48
  Speaker 3: you know what I mean, Like fame is only fun
• 46:49
  Speaker 3: if you like your job, Whereas if you hate your
• 46:50
  Speaker 3: job and you you're not like interested in what you're doing,
• 46:54
  Speaker 3: then it feels like fame is a prison.
• 46:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah, then you just have nobody that you could actually
• 46:57
  Speaker 2: truly go to. I hope he has something more, but
• 47:00
  Speaker 2: that's what I would want to see like, maybe he's
• 47:02
  Speaker 2: just great in person, but he just doesn't know how
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: to do a profile. I'm trying to decide to where
• 47:05
  Speaker 2: I thinks he knows how women would like to see
• 47:07
  Speaker 2: his profile.
• 47:08
  Speaker 3: I don't know if I want to go out tomorrow.
• 47:10
  Speaker 3: I'd rather just do something on the weekend. I'm trying
• 47:12
  Speaker 3: to get through this week without drinking. But we have
• 47:15
  Speaker 3: our FIFA thing on Friday at eight. I wouldn't mind
• 47:19
  Speaker 3: having above before that.
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: That'd be cool. Go to Fergs for the pitch A friend.
• 47:23
  Speaker 3: I think this guy lives in Tampa though, Yeah, this
• 47:25
  Speaker 3: guy lives in Tampa, but he lives near He lives
• 47:28
  Speaker 3: by the bridge in Tampa.
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: Over by the Gandy Bridge.
• 47:31
  Speaker 3: He lives by the airport.
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: Oh okay, did very curious?
• 47:35
  Speaker 3: Did he say that, No, it's you have to put
• 47:37
  Speaker 3: your location?
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: Oh gotcha?
• 47:38
  Speaker 3: And flashing this man, I need to add it this
• 47:40
  Speaker 3: so much. It says like it's I looked it up already.
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 47:43
  Speaker 3: So I was like, oh, do I think I can
• 47:45
  Speaker 3: meet him before? What if I say I could, do
• 47:48
  Speaker 3: I have an event Friday at eight, Do you would
• 47:50
  Speaker 3: you mind meeting me before then?
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 47:52
  Speaker 2: Do like a drink at six like, if he lives
• 47:55
  Speaker 2: by the bridge, you could do like an international mall
• 47:57
  Speaker 2: kind of deal. I got a couple of nice little
• 47:58
  Speaker 2: restaurants right there, and it's also really public. I'm sure
• 48:02
  Speaker 2: that has to go through your head though, when you're
• 48:03
  Speaker 2: setting up these dates, like where do go because uh, I.
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: Don't know who the hell you are?
• 48:09
  Speaker 2: Don't take me or reduct me, like I want to
• 48:11
  Speaker 2: be as public as possible.
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and then get out relatively an hour.
• 48:15
  Speaker 3: Yeah, get in, get out. So I said I have
• 48:18
  Speaker 3: an event Friday at eight? Could we do something before then?
• 48:21
  Speaker 3: Is that like a normal thing that people say absolutely? Okay?
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, So he should be smart and say six.
• 48:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I might unmatch with the other weirdos
• 48:31
  Speaker 3: in my in my matches.
• 48:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, let's as the one guy said, let's lock it down.
• 48:35
  Speaker 2: Let's lock it down on who's the actual potential here. Well,
• 48:39
  Speaker 2: there you go. I hope it actually works out. I'm
• 48:41
  Speaker 2: very excited that the least something's will get you a
• 48:45
  Speaker 2: free drink.
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: I'm not putting on my eggs in the back.
• 48:48
  Speaker 3: I just need to go out with someone to remind
• 48:49
  Speaker 3: myself that I'm not that Yeah, I just need to
• 48:53
  Speaker 3: go on one date I think be sounds pretty cool.
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: We'll see get along with that guy.
• 48:58
  Speaker 3: Well, see, I'm going to ask him about blessed high
• 49:00
  Speaker 3: because that's something you say, because otherwise he.
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: Could be like one of those like inspirational dudes.
• 49:04
  Speaker 2: He's driven, he's making money, successful, and yeah he's blessed
• 49:08
  Speaker 2: than highly flavored.
• 49:09
  Speaker 3: All those guys are poor. Okay.
• 49:10
  Speaker 2: Anyway, all right, last call before your I saw you
• 49:13
  Speaker 2: put up another post for the girls get awa.
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: I'm sure there's only a few spots left.
• 49:16
  Speaker 3: Trampa Bay Getaway. Come hang out with us. And then
• 49:18
  Speaker 3: the cool thing about that I haven't really described is
• 49:20
  Speaker 3: that Alexia is also bringing out her Saint Pete Gow's group,
• 49:24
  Speaker 3: So it's gonna be a lot of like Tampa influencers
• 49:26
  Speaker 3: and Saint Pete influencers hanging out with us too. So
• 49:29
  Speaker 3: uh yeah, come come vibe with the girlies. It won't
• 49:32
  Speaker 3: just be people that listen to the Bird Show, It'll
• 49:34
  Speaker 3: be locals in Tampa and Saint Pete as well.
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  Speaker 1: Fun way to connect to Abby with your social media.
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  Speaker 3: The linka's in the episode description and my Instagram is
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  Speaker 3: at the Abby.
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  Speaker 2: Murphy mine is at Scott Tavlin and all the station
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  Speaker 2: stuff at Magic ninety four nine. Seriously, because, like Abby said,
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  Speaker 2: when you're so consistent and able to watch these episodes
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  Speaker 2: of Rank and Review, those are things that we're able
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  Speaker 2: to go and take back. And so thank you for
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  Speaker 2: being a part of this podcast, and we'll have more
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  Speaker 2: coming soon