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Dirty Little Secret:I'm Married & Secretly Paying For My Ex! · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: It's dirty little secret with billy the kid in the
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  Speaker 1: morning on mix 102.9 brought.
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  Speaker 2: To you by mint dentistry if you have a secret
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  Speaker 2: confess 833-787-1029 you have a secret i.
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  Speaker 3: Do have a secret i have a secret about my
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  Speaker 3: ex-wife that that absolutely no one and nobody in my
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  Speaker 3: life knows about especially my current wife oh um okay.
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  Speaker 4: So you're remarried And you got a secret about your ex-wife.
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  Speaker 4: Bring it on. What's going on?
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  Speaker 1: Yes, sir.
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  Speaker 3: I don't want to say exactly what I do, but
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  Speaker 3: I'm an entrepreneur, and I'm involved with several different companies.
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  Speaker 3: I've been very fortunate in my current recent life. and
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  Speaker 3: I've done really well for myself over the years. Oh, good.
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  Speaker 3: But my life wasn't always like this. So my ex-wife
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  Speaker 3: and I were married for more than 10 years, and
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  Speaker 3: she was with me during probably the lowest and darkest
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  Speaker 3: period of my life. And honestly, she deserves way better
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  Speaker 3: than me.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. So you turned your life around, but what was
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  Speaker 2: going on back then?
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  Speaker 3: Well, honestly, I cheated on.
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  Speaker 4: Her a bunch.
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  Speaker 3: I partied constantly. I lived this stupid lifestyle where I
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  Speaker 3: thought I was invincible. And I put that poor woman
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  Speaker 3: through so much hell, absolute hell. And since then, I
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  Speaker 3: had a health scare. I got myself together. I got better.
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  Speaker 3: And I stopped drinking and all that good stuff. Eventually,
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  Speaker 3: she divorced me. you know, when I was a mess
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  Speaker 3: and I don't blame her for it. So, so we're not,
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  Speaker 3: we were obviously not together anymore. I have a new wife. Ironically, uh,
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  Speaker 3: like losing her was probably like what finally woke me up.
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  Speaker 3: I went to rehab. I got sober. Like I said,
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  Speaker 3: it got my life together and eventually became like really successful. Finally. Um,
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  Speaker 3: you know, yeah, I tried for a couple of years
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  Speaker 3: to like get her back and win her back, but
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  Speaker 3: like just way too much history and damage, uh, that
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  Speaker 3: I did, so it didn't happen.
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  Speaker 2: Well, first of all, congrats on getting your life together
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  Speaker 2: and sober, because that should be celebrated.
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  Speaker 4: That's tough.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not saying you were the best person back in
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  Speaker 2: the day, but that's a That's a big deal.
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  Speaker 4: So you move on.
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  Speaker 3: Anyway, I moved on. I remarried now and I love
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  Speaker 3: my wife dearly. Um, I don't know how to explain
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  Speaker 3: this without sounding shady though. There's something just different about
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  Speaker 3: the first true love that you have. You know what
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  Speaker 3: I mean? Um, my, my ex will always be special
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  Speaker 3: to me and near and dear to my heart because
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  Speaker 3: you know, she loved me when I was probably at
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  Speaker 3: the most lowest point and kind of unlovable. So, um,
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  Speaker 3: Here's my secret, though. A couple of years ago, through
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  Speaker 3: mutual friends, I found out she had started a small
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  Speaker 3: business and she wasn't doing well. It was actually struggling,
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  Speaker 3: her business. But I realized several companies that I'm involved with,
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  Speaker 3: that I work with now, could actually use what she
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  Speaker 3: provides in her business.
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  Speaker 4: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: So I quietly, yeah, I quietly started directing all my
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  Speaker 3: business her way. And she has no idea it's me. Oh, wow.
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  Speaker 4: You find out what she does. You find out what
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  Speaker 4: she does.
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  Speaker 2: You know, you could use. So you tell all the
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  Speaker 2: companies you're involved with hate. use her for whatever she does.
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  Speaker 1: So everybody wins.
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  Speaker 2: So everybody wins, but she doesn't know that she doesn't
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  Speaker 2: know that this is happening.
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  Speaker 3: She has no ideas for me and she has no idea.
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  Speaker 3: And without sounding arrogant, I know the numbers. I know
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  Speaker 3: kind of like what, how much I'm making her. If
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  Speaker 3: my companies weren't using her business, there's almost no chance
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  Speaker 3: in hell that she would still be open today. And
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  Speaker 3: I'm not, I'm not saying this for a pat on
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  Speaker 3: the back. I'm basically secretly keeping my ex-wife's company alive
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  Speaker 3: because But I don't look at it like I'm some
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  Speaker 3: sort of superhero. Honestly, I look at it as this
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  Speaker 3: is the least I could do for all the hell
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  Speaker 3: that I put her through.
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  Speaker 4: Wow. Now, let me ask you this. I think it's
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  Speaker 4: really cool that you're doing that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: You're like a little silent angel.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: You say nobody knows this. Does your current wife know this?
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  Speaker 3: My current wife does not know anything about this. And
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  Speaker 3: there's definitely no way that I could tell my current wife.
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  Speaker 3: There's nothing romantic about it. Nothing happening like that. I
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  Speaker 3: don't talk to my ex. Okay. I'm not trying to
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  Speaker 3: get back with her. I don't even want anything from her.
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  Speaker 3: I just feel like maybe this is my way of finally,
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  Speaker 3: finally paying back a debt that I've carried around for many,
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  Speaker 3: many years now.
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  Speaker 4: I think it's very noble of you to do.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it is.
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  Speaker 4: I don't think it's anything shady. I mean, will it
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  Speaker 4: look like that if your current wife finds out? Oh, yeah.
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  Speaker 4: It should be mad.
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  Speaker 3: It could.
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  Speaker 2: Like, how would you feel, Candice, if you found out that,
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  Speaker 2: you know, like your husband is supporting an ex-wife's business?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it'd be interesting, especially because he doesn't have contact
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  Speaker 1: with her. She has no idea. So that tells me
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  Speaker 1: it really is coming from a good place.
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  Speaker 2: And I think, honestly, you could probably tell your wife
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  Speaker 2: this and explain the situation. And I think she would understand.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I wouldn't, but no, I'm just kidding. I'm
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  Speaker 4: not going to tell her.
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  Speaker 1: You're not communicating with her. The business dealings aren't coming
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  Speaker 1: from you to her directly.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Good for you. I think you're selling a nice guy.
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  Speaker 3: Well, thank you. I hope I just, I strive to be,
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I wasn't always, so, you know, this is,
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  Speaker 3: this is a good way of getting, of getting it back,
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  Speaker 3: you know?
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  Speaker 4: Well, good for you.
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  Speaker 2: And, and congrats more importantly on your, on being sober.
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  Speaker 2: And I hope that you continue that lifestyle and, At
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  Speaker 2: least you have a conscience that you understand you did
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  Speaker 2: somebody wrong and you'd like to repay that debt.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel terrible. And I'm never going back to
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  Speaker 3: that lifestyle.
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  Speaker 2: No way.
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  Speaker 3: Well, good.
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  Speaker 4: Dirty little secret. There you go.