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SICK OF BEING SINGLE - THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO LOVE · Black Girls Are Easy Podcast

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  Speaker 1: G. L.
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  Speaker 2: Lambert, come out, grab your phone right now, Go one
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  Speaker 2: by one through every man in your contacts in place
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  Speaker 2: a check next to those who you know for a
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  Speaker 2: fact will do the following things. Pick you up and
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  Speaker 2: take you out to any restaurant you want. Pay at
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  Speaker 2: least half your rent. If you were in dire need,
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  Speaker 2: give you, not loan you more than two hundred dollars
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  Speaker 2: with no questions asked. If you made it to the
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  Speaker 2: t's and the only guy you can put a check
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  Speaker 2: next to is daddy or granddad, then you're not a
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  Speaker 2: man's idea of the one. You can buy your own
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  Speaker 2: flowers and pay your own bills, but you shouldn't have
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  Speaker 2: to do that. One hundred percent of the time. Being
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  Speaker 2: treated isn't about needing a man. It's about getting back
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  Speaker 2: the respect that's been lost over the years. Every woman,
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  Speaker 2: no matter how high she climbs in life, should be
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  Speaker 2: able to experience what it's like to be taken care
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  Speaker 2: of without the pressure to pay a man back. There
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  Speaker 2: are women that get all kinds of gifts, trips, tuition paid,
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  Speaker 2: Amazon wish lists, bought out without even having sex with
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  Speaker 2: these guys because they know how to seduce and destroy.
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  Speaker 2: What do I mean by seduce? It isn't about flirting,
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  Speaker 2: sending nudes and calling him babe. What do I mean
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  Speaker 2: by destroy? It isn't about scamming money, breaking hearts, or
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  Speaker 2: being negative. The power that women have over men is
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  Speaker 2: that you can tap into our lust, lower our guards,
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  Speaker 2: and bond with us in a very short time. Once
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  Speaker 2: that bond is formed, that man will be obsessed with
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  Speaker 2: you to the point where he sees you as irreplaceable.
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  Speaker 2: Seduce and destroy equals using your feminine wiles to form
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  Speaker 2: a connection where this man won't say no to anything.
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  Speaker 2: How do you connect with the man on this level?
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  Speaker 2: Understand these things one. When a man says he's not
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  Speaker 2: looking for anything serious, he's leaving off the words with you.
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  Speaker 2: When a guy tells you that he really likes you
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  Speaker 2: and he's trying to build and see where it goes,
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  Speaker 2: he already knows that you're a placeholder. If you want
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  Speaker 2: to level up, then now is the time to rewire
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  Speaker 2: your brain from masculine to feminine.
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  Speaker 1: That's right, ladies, gl is back with a new book,
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  Speaker 1: Solving Single ten year anniversary edition filled with a bunch
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  Speaker 1: of new chapters. Today, we're going to give you a
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  Speaker 1: special preview. If you want to read the full book,
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  Speaker 1: go to Audible iTunes Orsolving single dot.
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  Speaker 2: Com Chapter twelve. Using dating apps and social media to
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  Speaker 2: find love. You never go out, you live in a
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  Speaker 2: small town, you work crazy hours, you have children, blah
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  Speaker 2: blah blah. I get it. You don't want to approach
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  Speaker 2: or be approached. You want to open up your phone
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  Speaker 2: and find love as easily as you find on makeup brushes.
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  Speaker 2: But where do you start? It doesn't matter which app
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  Speaker 2: you use, as nothing is fuckboy proof. I've known women
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  Speaker 2: who have paid hundreds of dollars to be on exclusive
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  Speaker 2: networking sites and still got played, just like the women
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  Speaker 2: on Tender. There are dishonest men, married men, and pussy
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  Speaker 2: hunters on every dating app because a large portion of
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  Speaker 2: males just want sex. Don't fool yourself by thinking that
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  Speaker 2: one is the best app where men want serious relationships.
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  Speaker 2: None of them are. The right app is the one
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  Speaker 2: that feels good when you're using it? Is it easy
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  Speaker 2: to use the messaging system clean and when you first
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  Speaker 2: log in? Are there enough options for you to use daily?
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  Speaker 2: Like a gym routine, the best exercise is the one
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  Speaker 2: you enjoy and won't give up on. The best dating
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  Speaker 2: app is the one you will not quit on the
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  Speaker 2: moment you get a bad match. Trust me, you will
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  Speaker 2: get bad matches in the form of guys who never
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  Speaker 2: call after getting your number, who stop responding after you
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  Speaker 2: thought you had a connection, and men who end up
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  Speaker 2: looking nothing like their pictures. Be prepared for the worst.
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  Speaker 2: That way, you don't crumble the moment something doesn't work
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  Speaker 2: out the way you want it. Raise your hand. If
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  Speaker 2: you have deleted a dating app or know someone who
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  Speaker 2: has without giving it a real chance. It happens all
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  Speaker 2: the time because not matching with the guys you want hurts.
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  Speaker 2: Liking someone who doesn't respond back hurts. As a woman,
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  Speaker 2: you aren't used to rejection, so the knee jerk reaction
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  Speaker 2: is to give up so you won't keep taking els.
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  Speaker 2: Fuck that. Everything in life makes you harder, smarter, and
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  Speaker 2: better than you were the day before. Use the apps
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  Speaker 2: as a supplement. Think of them as a meal replacement shake,
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  Speaker 2: not an actual steak dinner. You should still go out
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  Speaker 2: and try to meet men in real life. The apps
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  Speaker 2: are what you use on your lunch break or when
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  Speaker 2: you're on the toilet ten or twenty minutes a day
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  Speaker 2: to see what's out there doesn't hurt. Never put your
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  Speaker 2: feelings into these apps or take them personally. Again, you're
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  Speaker 2: beyond the stage of being a sensitive ass basica who
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  Speaker 2: needs male validation. You're a spartan. These apps are target practice,
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  Speaker 2: not the end all dating profile. Tips Tip one, be fuckable.
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  Speaker 1: Hell, let's stop the book right there. If you want more,
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  Speaker 1: and I know you want more, go download the entire
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  Speaker 1: book on audible. Thanks for listening.