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2nd DATE UPDATE: Alana & Brandon · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: The next segment we're going to do is called second
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  Speaker 1: Date Update because that's what we're going to try and
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  Speaker 1: get and that's what the bit is called Second Dight
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  Speaker 1: Update starts right now on John Jay and Rich one
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  Speaker 1: a four.
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  Speaker 2: To seven Kiss FM. John Jay Rich let's not have for
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  Speaker 2: a second aight update. You meet somebody, gone a date
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  Speaker 2: to have a great time, we expect there to be.
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  Speaker 3: A second date. It doesn't happen.
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  Speaker 2: We're gonna say hi to Halana because she wants to
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  Speaker 2: know why somebody's not calling her back? Am I right, Alta, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: well welcome, what's your story?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, so I'm calling because I'm just genuinely confused and
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  Speaker 4: I'm feeling a little embarrassed. So I met this guy
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  Speaker 4: a few months ago and we didn't even live in
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  Speaker 4: the same state, but we talked like all the time,
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  Speaker 4: texting all day, facetiming at night, like we were like
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  Speaker 4: falling asleep on FaceTime type of thing. Yeah, like it
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  Speaker 4: felt really real. So then my friend invited me to
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  Speaker 4: her wedding and he literally flies in to Phoenix to
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  Speaker 4: be my date. Like, we got an airbnb for the weekend.
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  Speaker 4: We were doing coffee runs, wedding events, late night talks,
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  Speaker 4: like it just honestly felt like we were playing house
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  Speaker 4: for a few days and it was really real and
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  Speaker 4: we hooked up and everything, but like it wasn't just that,
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  Speaker 4: it was just really fun and comfortable and natural, like
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  Speaker 4: we were already kind of a couple and had known
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  Speaker 4: each other for a really long time. And so he
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  Speaker 4: leaves and then everything seems normal, and then suddenly the
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  Speaker 4: text stop like radio silence. I don't know. I just
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  Speaker 4: don't get how you go from flying across the country
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  Speaker 4: and spending a whole weekend together to just like nothing.
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  Speaker 4: So I'm just confused, and I want to know what happened.
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  Speaker 3: That's pretty hardcore.
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  Speaker 5: Wow, Yeah, it's like something definitely happened.
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  Speaker 3: He's your visiting.
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  Speaker 5: He noticed something, or you introduced him to someone, or
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  Speaker 5: you had a weird habit that was an ick for
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  Speaker 5: him or something.
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  Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, Yeah, I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know.
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  Speaker 6: I immediately went to like the wedding, Like somebody at
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  Speaker 6: the wedding, at your friend's wedding, maybe they were like
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  Speaker 6: drunk and like spilled some beans about you that maybe
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  Speaker 6: like turned him off a little bit.
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  Speaker 3: That happened the JFK K J yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So he was playing football and somebody put an envelope
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  Speaker 2: in his workout bag, and the envelope was trashing his girlfriend,
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  Speaker 2: all the stuff about her.
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  Speaker 3: It was terrible.
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  Speaker 2: And in reality they broke up for a year and
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  Speaker 2: a half, but in the show they split for about
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  Speaker 2: a week or two, because you know, for time they.
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  Speaker 3: Came, it was a year and a half the past.
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  Speaker 3: In real life it was a year and a half
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  Speaker 3: and they broke up.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and then she was like, you read all these
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  Speaker 2: things about me, she was, but you don't talk to
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  Speaker 2: me about it. None of these things are true. And
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  Speaker 2: so he felt bad because people always wrote about him.
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  Speaker 2: And then they got back together, they got married, and
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  Speaker 2: they died tragically, even playing crash.
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  Speaker 5: So are you saying that Alana could be having a
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  Speaker 5: break right now and then eventually they'll get married.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe I was going off what you were saying about.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe somebody said something to her, someone says something to
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  Speaker 2: him about her, Yeah, and which is not right. You
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  Speaker 2: can't believe what people tell you. But at any rate,
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  Speaker 2: Alana him coming in and staying in AIRBB with you,
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  Speaker 2: that means that you guys were probably doing a lot
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  Speaker 2: of naked things together, right.
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  Speaker 4: It's doing a lot of what naked things. I mean, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: you could say.
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  Speaker 3: That, all right.
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  Speaker 2: I mean maybe because I think maybe when you first
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  Speaker 2: meet somebody and you tear something up with you tear
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  Speaker 2: them up, maybe you kind of like get sick of
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  Speaker 2: them pretty quick.
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  Speaker 3: So maybe there's that how to build the tension.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, I don't I mean.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know. I felt like we really hit it off.
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  Speaker 4: We had a lot of fun together. I just don't
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  Speaker 4: something missing, And I'm.
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  Speaker 8: Just it is got to feel like the carpet got
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  Speaker 8: yanked from right underneath the emotion.
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  Speaker 3: Right, you were all in?
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  Speaker 4: I mean yeah, I was. I mean I guess so, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: I really liked him.
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  Speaker 3: What's his name, Brandon?
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  Speaker 2: All Right, So we will call Brandon and we're gonna
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  Speaker 2: find out why he's blowing you off, because now what
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  Speaker 2: is it you're texting him, FaceTime him, he's not picking up,
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  Speaker 2: he's not responding.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, just kind of yeah, like classic ghost story.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean after a whole weekend together, that's pretty wild. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: we'll track him down, we'll ge him on the phone.
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  Speaker 9: Hang title, Okay, thank you, all right, Second date.
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  Speaker 2: You got Alana on the line, who's getting blown off
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  Speaker 2: by this guy Brandon.
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  Speaker 3: They had like a three day date.
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  Speaker 8: Yes, this cross country FaceTime love affair that extended into
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  Speaker 8: him traveling to Phoenix for a wedding, a wedding where
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  Speaker 8: Alana had an airbnb and they played house. And we're
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  Speaker 8: talking about playing house all the way. You know what
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  Speaker 8: I'm saying. You know what I'm saying. You guys know
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  Speaker 8: what I'm saying. Well, now he's playing breakup because he
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  Speaker 8: has gone and she he has no idea what happened,
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  Speaker 8: as the romantic carpet has been swept from under her feet.
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  Speaker 2: So they spend the whole weekend together, They go to
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  Speaker 2: a wedding together, he flies across the country to be
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  Speaker 2: with her, and now he's blown her off.
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  Speaker 3: What happened?
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  Speaker 2: I think Kyle nailed it with a little bit of
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  Speaker 2: maybe he experienced an ick from her right or some
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  Speaker 2: gossip about her at the wedding. I think it's one
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  Speaker 2: of those two things. I think you're onto something, Kyle. Unfun,
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  Speaker 2: but We're gonna call him right now. Alana, are you
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  Speaker 2: ready what I.
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  Speaker 3: Was like at Peyton's theory? Okay? I don't mean to
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  Speaker 3: lean all on you. Both of you let me. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: you know you're doing good.
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  Speaker 9: Sorry, Peyton, so sorry.
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  Speaker 6: Hello, Hey is Brandon there?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 7: This is Brandon.
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  Speaker 9: Hey.
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  Speaker 6: My name's Staytan. I'm with John Jane Rich. We just
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  Speaker 6: wanted to talk to on the radio really quickly if
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  Speaker 6: you have time this morning.
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  Speaker 7: Okay, sure, I guess.
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  Speaker 8: So.
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  Speaker 2: We do a radio show, syndicated radio show based out
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  Speaker 2: of Phoenix, Okay, And we got a phone call from
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  Speaker 2: a girl telling us a story about you and how
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  Speaker 2: you spent the weekend with her to go to this
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  Speaker 2: wedding and an airbnb. Now she says you're blowing her off,
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  Speaker 2: and so we're kind of going around the room trying
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  Speaker 2: to figure it out of why you would blow her off.
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  Speaker 2: We have a couple of good ideas, but as we're
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  Speaker 2: a brainstorm, we thought maybe we could just call him
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  Speaker 2: and hear from him why he's blown her off. So
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  Speaker 2: I'm sure I don't have to tell you who it is.
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  Speaker 2: You must know exactly who you flew in for her.
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  Speaker 7: Right Yeah, yeah, of course.
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  Speaker 3: I know, okay, talking about so what's the story?
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  Speaker 7: All right, so we're talking about Alana, right, yes, yeah,
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  Speaker 7: so she was I mean she was great at first,
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  Speaker 7: Like I mean she was like genuinely fun and cool,
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  Speaker 7: but stay together for the full weekend changed.
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  Speaker 3: Like everything in what way?
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  Speaker 6: Like was it like did she give.
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  Speaker 9: You an eck?
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  Speaker 3: Kind of?
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  Speaker 7: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: Like it was.
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  Speaker 7: It was a bunch of stuff. Like, first of all,
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  Speaker 7: every time we hooked up, she would fart like loud, stinky,
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  Speaker 7: laugh at off type stuff, and that like killed the vibe,
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  Speaker 7: you know, Like and then I realized she's kind of
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  Speaker 7: a slob in general, like she was like leaving dirty
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  Speaker 7: dishes in the sink without rinsing them, and I just
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  Speaker 7: I started to feel like it was less like it
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  Speaker 7: wasn't cute. It was just kind of like almost like
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  Speaker 7: I was babysitting, you know, like the whole weekend. And
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  Speaker 7: then on top of that, she got really drunk at
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  Speaker 7: the wedding and was just telling random people that I
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  Speaker 7: was is the love of her life. And meanwhile, like
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  Speaker 7: I'm in the corner like trying to move my flight
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  Speaker 7: up to leave.
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  Speaker 1: It.
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  Speaker 3: She didn't do anything like bad, bad.
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  Speaker 7: But it was just like you know that weekend just
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  Speaker 7: kind of it showed me too much and it was
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  Speaker 7: not what I was ready for.
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  Speaker 4: I guess you know, are you kidding me right now?
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  Speaker 7: Like no, I'm really gonna.
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  Speaker 4: Talk to you, like are you gonna talk who? It's Alana?
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  Speaker 4: And I'm just like so upset right now because I
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  Speaker 4: literally opened up my life to you. You're gonna talk
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  Speaker 4: about me like this and I like on the radio
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  Speaker 4: and like talk to you like I paid for your flight,
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  Speaker 4: I paid for your Airbnb. I brought you to my
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  Speaker 4: friend's wedding and you're acting like I'm some horror story.
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  Speaker 7: What wait, hold on a second, what's going on here?
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  Speaker 3: Is Alana?
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  Speaker 7: You're on the phone right now?
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  Speaker 3: Are you?
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  Speaker 7: Uh?
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  Speaker 3: Just figure out?
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  Speaker 4: Get what my voice sounded like? Because it's been so
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  Speaker 4: long you've I've heard from you.
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  Speaker 7: No, I just didn't know you're on the phone.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, well I am.
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  Speaker 3: So you paid for him, you flew him, you paid
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  Speaker 3: to fly him out to the wedding.
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  Speaker 7: Yes, but hold on a second, let me just be clear.
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  Speaker 7: Like she offered, you offered to pay like you, I mean, honestly,
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  Speaker 7: like you kind of begged me to come to this
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  Speaker 7: wedding with you like I didn't force my way into this.
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  Speaker 7: It's not like this was some like vacation she paid for.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, Well, I don't like we were on the same
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  Speaker 4: Well you seemed down like I'm happy to pay for
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  Speaker 4: you because I want to see you, and you seemed
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  Speaker 4: excited and down like I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, wait, so let let me help, let me help
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  Speaker 2: guide this. So it's not about that. So how do
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  Speaker 2: you address about the gas? The gas during intimacy? Like
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  Speaker 2: were you laughing or is that embarres? And I guess
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  Speaker 2: one time you'd be like oops, But if you're doing
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  Speaker 2: it all the time, how do you do that?
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  Speaker 3: By the way, no, A lot of that's so embarrassing?
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  Speaker 3: What so is that something that happened a lot?
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  Speaker 4: Like I don't I felt comfortable with him, like I
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  Speaker 4: don't know, it just happened, okay.
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  Speaker 3: And what about the party?
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  Speaker 2: So he said you were like a mess, uh, like
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  Speaker 2: with the.
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  Speaker 3: Dishes and everything like that. So how does that make
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  Speaker 3: you feel?
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  Speaker 2: So you're if you want to know why he's blowing
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  Speaker 2: you off, these are the reasons he's blowing you off.
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  Speaker 3: You break when you break when when you get intimate, and.
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  Speaker 4: Then you what okay, we're on vacation. Like, I'm sorry,
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  Speaker 4: I don't need to, like I'm not in my regular routine.
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  Speaker 4: It's not like I'm like that at my home. We're
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  Speaker 4: just like I don't.
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  Speaker 3: Know, like I'm but you're not.
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  Speaker 4: Kind of got lots of words right now, Like I
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  Speaker 4: feel attacked because I thought we were on the same page.
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  Speaker 4: I liked you. I'm sorry that I'm comfortable and like
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  Speaker 4: release gaff like everyone does that, and you laughed and
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  Speaker 4: you laughed and we were like having fun and like.
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  Speaker 7: Look I like you too, okay, and first like you're
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  Speaker 7: you're gorgeous, You're fun, but like it doesn't outweigh disgusting
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  Speaker 7: behavior when we're basically living together for three days.
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  Speaker 4: You know, it's not disgusting behavior. I think that's a
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  Speaker 4: crazy thing to say. And also like, can you talk
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  Speaker 4: to me about this before ghosting me? And like let
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  Speaker 4: me know that these were yellow flags before you just
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  Speaker 4: brown flag.
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  Speaker 3: They're brown flags.
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  Speaker 2: But how's you supposed talk to it? Hey, I got
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  Speaker 2: to tell you something. We spent a couple days together.
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  Speaker 2: It was awesome. But you keep farting when we're doing it.
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  Speaker 3: I can't see that.
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  Speaker 2: I can I can see keeping that quiet and not
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  Speaker 2: calling back. I can't see having that conversation. I can see.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not I am not mad.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, at the very least what he could have
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  Speaker 5: done and said, Hey, I felt like things moved a
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  Speaker 5: little too quickly, like things got I mean, especially with
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  Speaker 5: the fact of what you were saying to the people
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  Speaker 5: at the wedding that was too much for Oh.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I forgot about that. Yeah, that's a good one
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  Speaker 3: right there. It was a lot telling people that he's
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  Speaker 3: your life.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah. I didn't know how to bring stuff up without
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  Speaker 7: sounding like I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think he sounds like in my opinion, I
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  Speaker 2: just think he's just sounds like a guy that's like,
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  Speaker 2: I can't do this.
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  Speaker 3: This is a gross I'd rather just not call back
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  Speaker 3: at any right. Do you guys want to see each
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  Speaker 3: other again or no? Brandon, No, I can't know.
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  Speaker 7: I mean, it's just, you know, things move too fast,
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  Speaker 7: Like I just I can't. I'm over it now.
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  Speaker 2: You live in different towns, so that's an interesting like
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  Speaker 2: dilemma to put yourself in just hypothetically, like you gorgeous
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  Speaker 2: if the's gorgeous, gorgeos whoever, whatever your type is in
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  Speaker 2: your but then they have this problem where they just
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  Speaker 2: break wind all the time and they don't try to
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  Speaker 2: hide you from you.
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  Speaker 5: Wouldn't you think like at one point you would just
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  Speaker 5: like it would just become.
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  Speaker 3: White noise, like you.
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  Speaker 5: Know it smells, yeah, like, but it would just be
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  Speaker 5: like that's just what she does.
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  Speaker 2: That's why you put yourself in that situation. Plus you've
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  Speaker 2: only known this person, seen this person three days in
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  Speaker 2: a row. Like they're not even trying.
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  Speaker 3: It just got too comfortable too quick.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, So they don't want to see each other. Allow,
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  Speaker 2: there's your there's your story. He doesn't want to see
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  Speaker 2: it because of that. That's why I said the thing
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  Speaker 2: about you want to know why he's blowing you off.
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  Speaker 2: That's why he's blowing you off.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, this is super productive and fun. Thank you so much.
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  Speaker 3: You're welcome, of course, anytime we can help. It's a bummer,
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  Speaker 3: it does.
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  Speaker 5: I mean you didn't want to know?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, good luck with your life, Brandon.
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  Speaker 3: All right, all right, you guys, thanks for going on
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  Speaker 3: there with us. That's second second Hit update with John
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  Speaker 3: Jay Rich