Latest / The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast / The Most Dramatic Girl's Trip in 'Bachelor' History with Mercedes Northup
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- 0:00Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast
- 0:03Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio.
- 0:06Speaker 2: It's almost Famas podcast. Today we have one of my
- 0:08Speaker 2: favorites that have ever been on the Beach. I was
- 0:11Speaker 2: a big fan, and I was a big fan of
- 0:14Speaker 2: the storyline because it got a little messy a little bit,
- 0:18Speaker 2: which was fun. Mercedes, Welcome to the show.
- 0:22Speaker 3: Hi, thank you for having me.
- 0:24Speaker 4: Thank you for being here. Mercedes Northrope. You guys know
- 0:28Speaker 4: her from Zach's season and two seasons ago A Bachelor
- 0:32Speaker 4: in Paradise. Well, I guess there wasn't a season last year,
- 0:34Speaker 4: so it was the last season about well, Mercedes, we
- 0:40Speaker 4: know that there is some sort of casting going on
- 0:43Speaker 4: for Bachelor and Paradise. Have they called you?
- 0:47Speaker 3: No, they haven't.
- 0:48Speaker 5: I talked to someone a while ago, but there hasn't
- 0:52Speaker 5: been anything else. But I know that there's like so
- 0:55Speaker 5: many girls, but because there's two seasons because they didn't
- 0:58Speaker 5: do last season, yeah, so there's a lot of girls
- 1:00Speaker 5: that they have to choose from, and.
- 1:02Speaker 3: So not having done the call, but I was kind
- 1:04Speaker 3: of bummed.
- 1:05Speaker 5: So I was kind of excited to like maybe do
- 1:06Speaker 5: it again, but who knows, there's still time.
- 1:09Speaker 3: You never know, So.
- 1:10Speaker 2: You'd say yes. If they called you tomorrow and said, hey,
- 1:13Speaker 2: we want you to come back, you would say yes.
- 1:17Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 1:17Speaker 5: I would definitely be open for it because I'm like,
- 1:20Speaker 5: I'm twenty seven, I'm ready to like find someone, and
- 1:23Speaker 5: the dating scene in Nashville is not it, So I
- 1:25Speaker 5: would give the beach another try for sure.
- 1:27Speaker 4: How long have you been in Nashville for.
- 1:29Speaker 3: Almost six years? Which is crazy?
- 1:32Speaker 4: So I heard somebody say recently, like is it really
- 1:35Speaker 4: the city or is it just dating in general? What
- 1:39Speaker 4: do you what's your take?
- 1:40Speaker 5: I honestly think it's dating in general. I feel like
- 1:43Speaker 5: it's so hard, especially like at my age and this, Like,
- 1:47Speaker 5: I don't know, I feel like it's definitely just dating
- 1:49Speaker 5: in general because every person I have friends in like
- 1:52Speaker 5: so many cities and everyone says the same thing. They're like,
- 1:54Speaker 5: dating here is so awful because I'm like, should I move?
- 1:56Speaker 5: Like my husband's literally not here, should I move?
- 1:58Speaker 3: And They're like, no, it's awful here too. So I
- 2:01Speaker 3: don't know. I guess we're all screwed if we don't
- 2:03Speaker 3: have someone.
- 2:04Speaker 4: The Bats are honestly makes dating easy.
- 2:06Speaker 3: Literally, I know it really does.
- 2:09Speaker 2: They used to call Denver Menver now here. It's hard
- 2:12Speaker 2: to date in Denver, so it might be everywhere. It's
- 2:15Speaker 2: just a hard time to date, Mercedes, which brings us
- 2:18Speaker 2: to the next question, which might be a little obvious
- 2:20Speaker 2: based on our conversation so far. But you said you'd
- 2:23Speaker 2: be interested in Paradise because you want to settle down.
- 2:25Speaker 2: You're ready, You're in national ding's not going well, so
- 2:29Speaker 2: you're single. I mean you've been single. Have you like
- 2:33Speaker 2: dated at all? Kind of give us an update on
- 2:35Speaker 2: your romantic relationships.
- 2:37Speaker 5: I've actually been so single since The Bachelor, Like I
- 2:40Speaker 5: have well in Paradise.
- 2:42Speaker 3: Like I mean, I like talk to people here and there.
- 2:44Speaker 5: But I'm very much, like I said, I'm ready to
- 2:46Speaker 5: settle down, so like one red flag and I'm like, yeah, no,
- 2:49Speaker 5: like you're not, you know, I'm saying, like I'm not
- 2:51Speaker 5: just like dating today, like I'm actually looking for someone.
- 2:54Speaker 5: So I feel like that definitely makes it harder to
- 2:57Speaker 5: But yeah, very much single, very much single.
- 3:01Speaker 4: What was your last great date?
- 3:04Speaker 3: My last great date.
- 3:07Speaker 2: The beaches of Paradise.
- 3:08Speaker 3: I know that might have been the last one. I
- 3:11Speaker 3: mean I feel like, I don't know. It's hard because
- 3:15Speaker 3: I feel like the dates that I've.
- 3:16Speaker 5: Gone on is just like dinner and like drinks, which
- 3:19Speaker 5: is like no one does anything cool anymore or that
- 3:23Speaker 5: I'm talking to anyways, Like no romantic gestures or anything.
- 3:27Speaker 5: It's always just dinner and drinks.
- 3:28Speaker 4: Even in Nashville when there's so much live music.
- 3:31Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 3:32Speaker 5: Literally, that's like another thing about Nashville too, is it's
- 3:34Speaker 5: so like party scene, so like you'll go to dinner
- 3:38Speaker 5: and then you'll just go get drinks and it's like
- 3:40Speaker 5: you just you know, party and drink, which is fun.
- 3:44Speaker 5: But I also like want a man that's like, hey,
- 3:47Speaker 5: I'm a husband. A husband's material like let's go do
- 3:49Speaker 5: something different, but all.
- 3:51Speaker 2: Right, we're gonna take a second here with you. Then okay,
- 3:54Speaker 2: and there might this might not go anywhere, but it
- 3:56Speaker 2: could be the best thing to ever happened to you.
- 3:58Speaker 2: Are you ready?
- 3:59Speaker 3: I'm ready?
- 4:01Speaker 2: So you said, like one red flag, you're out. You
- 4:04Speaker 2: said dating's hard. Obviously paradise inn't work.
- 4:08Speaker 3: Yep.
- 4:09Speaker 2: Now, granted, so many people from this franchise especially kind
- 4:13Speaker 2: of go through that same list. What is it, Mercedes,
- 4:18Speaker 2: if you had to look introspectively into yourself that you're
- 4:21Speaker 2: looking for, that you're not finding, or that you are
- 4:27Speaker 2: desiring that maybe you just aren't seeing that's right in
- 4:29Speaker 2: front of you, Like where and dating? Are you falling short?
- 4:32Speaker 2: I guess is the best way to ask that question.
- 4:35Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like I don't know.
- 4:38Speaker 5: I definitely have really high expectations.
- 4:42Speaker 3: But I think that's.
- 4:43Speaker 5: It's like a good thing and a bad thing because
- 4:46Speaker 5: I don't give, Like I said, like one red flag
- 4:48Speaker 5: and you're done. Like, I feel like everyone deserves second
- 4:50Speaker 5: chances and stuff. But I feel like I hold people
- 4:53Speaker 5: that I love to a very high standard, or someone
- 4:56Speaker 5: that I potentially see myself loving to a very high standard.
- 4:59Speaker 5: So I feel like I can I definitely like ease
- 5:00Speaker 5: up on that. I feel like that's something that I
- 5:03Speaker 5: could work on.
- 5:04Speaker 3: But yeah, I don't know.
- 5:06Speaker 2: Let's go back then to some of the dates that
- 5:08Speaker 2: you've been on since the show. What are some examples
- 5:11Speaker 2: of things that stand out to you that have really
- 5:15Speaker 2: like given you was Ashley would say the ick. I
- 5:18Speaker 2: don't even know if that's still a thing.
- 5:19Speaker 5: I don't know.
- 5:19Speaker 4: I was thinking about ick too. I like to always
- 5:22Speaker 4: say he grossed me out. I said that before the
- 5:25Speaker 4: ick was even a thing. Yes, sometimes you don't really
- 5:28Speaker 4: know what those things are until you're experiencing them in
- 5:30Speaker 4: person so real.
- 5:32Speaker 5: Yeah, And it's also like it's so crazy because it'll
- 5:35Speaker 5: just be like in a split second, like it'll be
- 5:37Speaker 5: out of nowhere and I'll be like, oh yeah, I
- 5:39Speaker 5: don't like that.
- 5:40Speaker 3: I'm not interested anymore. It's kind of crazy. I Like
- 5:43Speaker 3: my mom was.
- 5:43Speaker 5: Like, maybe, like you shouldn't be so you know, picky,
- 5:46Speaker 5: and I'm like, no, but be Picky's good.
- 5:49Speaker 3: They just have to be like you know whatever, I'll
- 5:51Speaker 3: tell you this.
- 5:52Speaker 4: So with Jared or I always said before meeting Jared,
- 5:55Speaker 4: I was like, I know I'll find my person when
- 5:59Speaker 4: like he doesn't gross me out, like no matter how
- 6:02Speaker 4: deep we get into it, like he won't gross me out.
- 6:04Speaker 4: And yeah, yeah, I've really never been picked out by Jared.
- 6:07Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 6:08Speaker 5: Well I also feel like, yeah, once you find someone
- 6:10Speaker 5: that you like, actually love, like you're not like things
- 6:13Speaker 5: don't matter right, like you just sacrifice.
- 6:15Speaker 3: Yeah, like you like you don't even notice it because
- 6:18Speaker 3: you love him so.
- 6:19Speaker 4: Much, Like I do notice him chewing like cereal and stuff,
- 6:23Speaker 4: but like it's all good.
- 6:26Speaker 5: Yeah, no, literally, because I remember with my ex. I
- 6:29Speaker 5: dated my ex for like two years before the show,
- 6:31Speaker 5: and at the time I didn't realize. But then like
- 6:35Speaker 5: once we broke up, I'm like, actually, yeah, I didn't
- 6:37Speaker 5: like that. But you're so like when I was dating him,
- 6:40Speaker 5: I was so in love where I'm like, no, I
- 6:41Speaker 5: love you, like everything about he's perfect that I look
- 6:43Speaker 5: back and I'm like, I don't know.
- 6:56Speaker 2: We've had a group of contestants come through. Obviously you
- 7:00Speaker 2: were on the last season of Bachelor in Paradise, which
- 7:03Speaker 2: I'm assuming for you feels like forever ago, forever.
- 7:05Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 7:07Speaker 2: If they were to call you and producers from the
- 7:10Speaker 2: show listen to this, they do. I know it because
- 7:13Speaker 2: sometimes I get in trouble, so I know they listen
- 7:16Speaker 2: and they call you and they say, we want you
- 7:17Speaker 2: on the beach because you sound like somebody ready for love.
- 7:20Speaker 2: Who and you can't dodge this question. It's it's unfortunate,
- 7:24Speaker 2: but we are a show about content, and this is
- 7:27Speaker 2: a moment of content. Give us, like, if you can
- 7:31Speaker 2: give us five, great, if you give us three awesome,
- 7:33Speaker 2: if you give us two still good people that you
- 7:36Speaker 2: would love to see there, Okay, I.
- 7:40Speaker 3: Feel like me and Andrew Spencer would like vibe really well.
- 7:44Speaker 2: I see it, I see it.
- 7:45Speaker 3: Yeah, I love him?
- 7:47Speaker 2: You ever met.
- 7:48Speaker 5: No, we haven't met, but like we like follow each
- 7:50Speaker 5: other and like we've like facetimed a couple of times
- 7:53Speaker 5: and we just like he's so funny and I feel
- 7:55Speaker 5: but I've never met him in person, and I'm like,
- 7:57Speaker 5: I want to meet him in person just to like
- 7:59Speaker 5: see what is like. So I definitely like wanna see him.
- 8:04Speaker 5: And who else I'm trying to think of, like the
- 8:09Speaker 5: guys on Gen season.
- 8:10Speaker 3: That are newer.
- 8:11Speaker 2: Yeah, you're gonna go You're gonna just like twist your
- 8:14Speaker 2: brain and be like, yeah, there wasn't one of them.
- 8:19Speaker 2: What about like a justin Glade? Is he single? I
- 8:22Speaker 2: guess I should ask.
- 8:23Speaker 4: We don't know.
- 8:24Speaker 2: We don't know what's.
- 8:24Speaker 4: Going on with him and Susie.
- 8:26Speaker 2: He's a nice guy. I like him. I like Andrew
- 8:29Speaker 2: a lot. Gregg's great, like that group that was.
- 8:31Speaker 4: A good Katie season.
- 8:32Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a good Katie season. So and that
- 8:35Speaker 2: wasn't that long ago Charity season had who like what
- 8:38Speaker 2: guys are coming off of that?
- 8:40Speaker 3: Like John?
- 8:41Speaker 5: So I was with a lot of guys on from
- 8:43Speaker 5: Charity season on my so like John, Henry Sean a
- 8:49Speaker 5: bunch of a bunch of them.
- 8:51Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, because that's uh, that's Joey was the bachelor
- 8:54Speaker 2: following that, So those are the guy Sean, So we
- 8:57Speaker 2: can't really look into that, we'd have to pull back
- 8:59Speaker 2: from the past. I see an Andrew Spencer relationship popping.
- 9:03Speaker 4: It's cute. So we really don't have to cross this
- 9:07Speaker 4: off the list. This is a real potential moment.
- 9:09Speaker 2: Throw it out there now, good.
- 9:18Speaker 4: Yeah, let's bringt katies guys for this season of Paradise. Okay,
- 9:23Speaker 4: you have so many girlfriends from the show that you
- 9:25Speaker 4: travel with often. You have these big girl get togethers.
- 9:30Speaker 4: We heard that Latilla was the odd one out or
- 9:34Speaker 4: maybe the new member of the crew at your most
- 9:38Speaker 4: recent trip. How we we kind of know how she
- 9:43Speaker 4: got there. She's friends with somebody, one of your one
- 9:47Speaker 4: of your girls. How did she melt in with the crew?
- 9:52Speaker 5: She honestly was like it was like she's been like
- 9:57Speaker 5: she was on our season. Like we like literally all
- 9:59Speaker 5: got so cold on that trip when we were in Montana.
- 10:01Speaker 3: It was cold. It was so freaking cold. We literally
- 10:04Speaker 3: just sat in the house the whole time. Basically we
- 10:06Speaker 3: went on.
- 10:07Speaker 4: Lobby said it made you guys bitchy to each other?
- 10:10Speaker 3: No, it actually did. We literally I think.
- 10:12Speaker 5: Jess was like, yeah, I think we need to stick
- 10:14Speaker 5: with like warmer climates, like this is not for us.
- 10:18Speaker 5: And I'm like that's so true because we were just
- 10:20Speaker 5: like on edge. But no, she literally is amazing.
- 10:24Speaker 3: I love her. I haven't really been.
- 10:26Speaker 5: Watching her season, but just meeting her, like she's absolutely Like,
- 10:31Speaker 5: first off, she's stunning, Like she's the most beautiful person
- 10:34Speaker 5: I've ever seen, and she's just so sweet and kind
- 10:37Speaker 5: and she yeah, she got along really well with her group.
- 10:41Speaker 2: It just shows though am I wrong in saying this? Mercedes? Okay,
- 10:44Speaker 2: So we just talked to Gabby. I watched the Girl's
- 10:48Speaker 2: trip from social media and I was like, that looks
- 10:49Speaker 2: like the best trip of all time, Like that that
- 10:53Speaker 2: looks like it's nothing but highlights. Everybody is just soaking
- 10:56Speaker 2: in the beauty in the mountains. And then we talked
- 10:59Speaker 2: to me, She's like, it was good. It was great.
- 11:01Speaker 2: We had a blast together. We love each other. But
- 11:04Speaker 2: it was like definitely more like contentious than other trips,
- 11:07Speaker 2: and like we got stuck in the snow a little
- 11:08Speaker 2: bit and people were freezing. I was like, it really
- 11:11Speaker 2: is what it sounds like to me is you had
- 11:12Speaker 2: moments of beauty surrounded by moments of this isn't the
- 11:18Speaker 2: best trip we've ever taken together. So social media really
- 11:22Speaker 2: like lifted this thing up right, like we were watching
- 11:25Speaker 2: the highlights of yeah and not the whole thing. Yeah.
- 11:28Speaker 5: I definitely think like there was times where we like
- 11:31Speaker 5: but I also like I was telling them this, I
- 11:34Speaker 5: was like, we've been friends for like three years now,
- 11:36Speaker 5: and you guys can probably attest to this like when
- 11:38Speaker 5: you're on the show, Like the friends you meet on
- 11:40Speaker 5: the show, it's a different kind of relationship because you grow,
- 11:42Speaker 5: like you get so class so close so fast because
- 11:47Speaker 5: of just the environment. And I was like, we've been
- 11:49Speaker 5: friends for three years, like this is like normal to happen,
- 11:51Speaker 5: Like it's not you know what I'm saying. So there
- 11:53Speaker 5: was definitely some TIFFs, but it was all love and
- 11:57Speaker 5: we're we were good. But yeah, you definitely saw the
- 11:59Speaker 5: highlights on it and it was still a fun trip.
- 12:01Speaker 5: It wasn't bad because of it, but definitely some tists.
- 12:04Speaker 4: Who do you want from that group to be with
- 12:06Speaker 4: you in Paradise?
- 12:08Speaker 3: Oh honestly, Jess.
- 12:11Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like all the guys want dress too.
- 12:14Speaker 5: They love Jess. Literally, Jess is like a magnet, like
- 12:17Speaker 5: men just love her. But it's because she's like she's
- 12:20Speaker 5: so nice and so kind and so beautiful. Like I
- 12:22Speaker 5: get it. But I'm like, yeah, you need to come.
- 12:24Speaker 5: You'll be my wingwoman on Paradise.
- 12:26Speaker 4: Mercedes, I feel like you and I are the same.
- 12:28Speaker 4: Like Jess is like the girl that just every guy
- 12:31Speaker 4: around us wants to be with, because like she's just
- 12:33Speaker 4: like self spoken and like so sweet. And then you
- 12:35Speaker 4: and I are just like what you are that big personality.
- 12:39Speaker 3: Yes no, literally me and just leaping each other out.
- 12:43Speaker 5: But honestly, I will say Jess is like feisty, like
- 12:47Speaker 5: I call her my little chihuah wah. She's like a
- 12:49Speaker 5: little feisty chiua wah, Like she is so sweet that
- 12:52Speaker 5: she gets so feisty too.
- 12:53Speaker 3: I love it.
- 12:54Speaker 2: Is she Puerto Rican? Yes, yea that like, yeah, it
- 12:59Speaker 2: makes sense. Yes, it's in there. Yeah, obviously you're like
- 13:05Speaker 2: super I mean just kind of how with how the
- 13:08Speaker 2: show's gone, Like your time the show, as we mentioned,
- 13:10Speaker 2: wasn't that long ago, and we sit in this really
- 13:13Speaker 2: weird place. You were on Paradise when the show was
- 13:16Speaker 2: popping off. Really, I mean, you know you're coming into
- 13:18Speaker 2: the like the Golden like era, and then you know,
- 13:22Speaker 2: we have Joey's season, We have all these like really
- 13:24Speaker 2: exciting things and and we've been through this many times before,
- 13:27Speaker 2: but it feels like we're in a lull right now
- 13:29Speaker 2: when it comes to the franchise. So my first question
- 13:31Speaker 2: two parter to you is are you watching, like watching
- 13:34Speaker 2: Grant season.
- 13:36Speaker 5: I watched the first episode and then I you were just.
- 13:39Speaker 4: Like it didn't get you right because I was like,
- 13:41Speaker 4: this first episode is a drug and.
- 13:44Speaker 2: We wanted to come back here Mercedes. And so my
- 13:47Speaker 2: second part of this is like, what does the show
- 13:48Speaker 2: need to do in your opinion to really like spark
- 13:51Speaker 2: things up again?
- 13:53Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like.
- 13:56Speaker 5: For Paradise there because have you guys, you guys want
- 13:58Speaker 5: on Paradise c Toy did you guys go?
- 14:01Speaker 4: Was?
- 14:02Speaker 3: Yes?
- 14:02Speaker 5: Okay, I feel like it was just very like you
- 14:05Speaker 5: kind of lay around and like don't do much, you.
- 14:08Speaker 3: Know what I'm saying. Like I feel like if there
- 14:09Speaker 3: was like games or kind of like love islandy not like.
- 14:15Speaker 5: Obviously it's like on ABC, so it's gonna be family friendly,
- 14:18Speaker 5: but like I feel like just like games or doing
- 14:21Speaker 5: something other than just like laying around and just.
- 14:24Speaker 4: Talking all the time every day is a little bit monotonous.
- 14:27Speaker 4: I do understand there's a lot of time for talking,
- 14:31Speaker 4: So if you are hitting it up with somebody, it
- 14:34Speaker 4: could be great, but it's also like a little worri zone.
- 14:36Speaker 4: You're like, what are you gonna do together than just
- 14:38Speaker 4: talk all day? That's why everybody gets so excited for
- 14:41Speaker 4: dates in Paris. Yes, but yeah, you're right, if we
- 14:44Speaker 4: had like some more group activities that, yeah, that'd be good. Yeah,
- 14:47Speaker 4: that'd be good TV too.
- 14:49Speaker 3: When I was there, we played what did we play?
- 14:51Speaker 3: Truth or Dare?
- 14:52Speaker 5: One night we were just bored and we were like,
- 14:54Speaker 5: we're playing Truth or Dare? And we did it and
- 14:56Speaker 5: it was so much fun. I don't even think it aired,
- 14:58Speaker 5: to be honest, I don't think it did. But it
- 15:00Speaker 5: was so fun and it like made everyone. It just
- 15:03Speaker 5: like lifted the move, you know what I'm saying. And
- 15:06Speaker 5: so I feel like them doing that would like really one,
- 15:09Speaker 5: it would stir the pot, two, which is good for
- 15:13Speaker 5: viewers if they're like trying to get more viewers, and
- 15:15Speaker 5: then two like it's just I don't know, I just
- 15:17Speaker 5: think it's more fun.
- 15:18Speaker 4: But what about the main show?
- 15:20Speaker 3: Oh, for a Bachelor A Bachelorette.
- 15:25Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean I feel like, I don't know. I
- 15:28Speaker 5: honestly am so bad. I mean I watched Joey season
- 15:31Speaker 5: a little bit, but I mean Joe's season did so
- 15:34Speaker 5: good though, Like, I don't know, I feel like his
- 15:36Speaker 5: season was really good.
- 15:48Speaker 2: It's kind of a mix between casting. I mean, I
- 15:52Speaker 2: think the lead and how popular the lead is coming
- 15:55Speaker 2: off of the previous season I think is a huge
- 15:57Speaker 2: factor for sure. And I do think the format gets,
- 16:02Speaker 2: you know, monotonous when we have all these other shows
- 16:05Speaker 2: competing with it now, and instead of watching The Batcher,
- 16:07Speaker 2: you could watch you know, Love is Blind and see
- 16:10Speaker 2: them try to make life together and figure out what
- 16:13Speaker 2: it looks like in the end. I get it. Yeah,
- 16:15Speaker 2: but you're really talking about paradise. And I do think
- 16:19Speaker 2: it was the right move. I was supportive of this move.
- 16:21Speaker 2: I think it was done at a time that it
- 16:24Speaker 2: was needed to. However, I do think the lack of
- 16:28Speaker 2: drinking has also taken away from the activities of the day.
- 16:33Speaker 2: I think that for the show filled so much space,
- 16:36Speaker 2: it brought so much drama that now that it doesn't exist,
- 16:40Speaker 2: they have to find a way to keep everybody engaged.
- 16:43Speaker 2: And interested when there is that drink limit.
- 16:46Speaker 5: Yes, no, I agree. I will say though on Paradise,
- 16:50Speaker 5: I was like I had a good buzz most of
- 16:53Speaker 5: the time, especially at night, and I was like we'd
- 16:56Speaker 5: be and Kylie and Jess.
- 16:57Speaker 3: We would drink white wine because you can have like
- 16:59Speaker 3: two or whatever, so.
- 17:00Speaker 5: You would drink white wine and then like on the hour,
- 17:03Speaker 5: we would take a shot at tequila and then drink
- 17:06Speaker 5: and then we had we had like a system going,
- 17:09Speaker 5: and so like, I definitely had some nights of Paris.
- 17:11Speaker 5: There was a night where I literally kissed well I think,
- 17:13Speaker 5: uh it was like a I think it was a cockroach.
- 17:16Speaker 3: Honestly, it was like I literally was holding it.
- 17:20Speaker 5: I was literally not actually didn't actually kiss it, but
- 17:22Speaker 5: I was like I had it like right here, and
- 17:23Speaker 5: I was like law and I'm like I watched that
- 17:26Speaker 5: it was on a blooper and Wells, like I think
- 17:28Speaker 5: Wells was talking about it somewhere and I'm like, oh
- 17:30Speaker 5: my gosh, like I literally.
- 17:32Speaker 2: Did that, Mercedes. This would be my first dating tip
- 17:35Speaker 2: to you. Don't do this in front of the boys.
- 17:37Speaker 2: That's like number one. If you take nothing away from this,
- 17:41Speaker 2: don't kiss cockroaches in front of the boys.
- 17:46Speaker 5: Oh, I literally because Rachel was holding it. Rachel was
- 17:49Speaker 5: like letting it crawl all over and we were just
- 17:51Speaker 5: like honestly drinking and we were just messing around and
- 17:54Speaker 5: I don't even think there was guys around, so but
- 17:56Speaker 5: it definitely aired so.
- 17:57Speaker 4: They so I feel like I couldn't never get a
- 18:00Speaker 4: buzz in Paradise because I was sweating the alcohol out
- 18:03Speaker 4: this second it would like go into my system.
- 18:05Speaker 5: Yes. No, honestly though, like it was not that hot
- 18:09Speaker 5: for us in Paradise, like it was hot, Like there
- 18:12Speaker 5: was like probably three times where I was like, holy shit,
- 18:14Speaker 5: like I need to get in ac But other than that,
- 18:18Speaker 5: like it really it wasn't that bad.
- 18:19Speaker 3: But it was I don't know, it was just a time.
- 18:22Speaker 4: I don't know that was that was a unique summer. Then.
- 18:25Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, Mercedes that the listeners out there obviously
- 18:29Speaker 2: saw you on Paradise go through. If I remember right,
- 18:32Speaker 2: and tell me if I'm wrong, it was like will
- 18:35Speaker 2: falling in love with you, right, yeah, and then you
- 18:40Speaker 2: weren't feeling it and you went to Tyler and then
- 18:45Speaker 2: somehow in there there was somebody else that I don't remember, Jordan.
- 18:49Speaker 3: Maybe Jordan yeah, he was at the end.
- 18:52Speaker 2: YEP, so you you kind of had this like love
- 18:55Speaker 2: triangle that it wasn't a triangle because they just kind
- 18:57Speaker 2: of came and went. Can you walk us back through?
- 19:00Speaker 2: Now as you think about it, did you do anything
- 19:02Speaker 2: you wish you could take back during that season where
- 19:06Speaker 2: you're like, I wish I would have stayed with this person,
- 19:08Speaker 2: or I wish I would have never entered into it.
- 19:11Speaker 5: Yeah, I yeah, I wish I would not have like
- 19:15Speaker 5: been with Tyler that long, to be honest, like me
- 19:18Speaker 5: and him, like he's cool, Like.
- 19:20Speaker 4: He seemed checked out from the very beginning to be
- 19:22Speaker 4: very much so.
- 19:23Speaker 5: And I feel like I was like, so, you know,
- 19:26Speaker 5: like before Paradise, like you get so hyped up and
- 19:28Speaker 5: like Kylie was with Avon and me and Kylie are
- 19:31Speaker 5: best friends, and even and Tyler are best friend. So
- 19:33Speaker 5: I'm like, oh my gosh, this is perfect. So I
- 19:35Speaker 5: had like this like all in my head, and I
- 19:37Speaker 5: feel like I stayed with him because it was like
- 19:40Speaker 5: easy and we were just like you know, coasting. I
- 19:44Speaker 5: wish I would have not done that, and like actually
- 19:47Speaker 5: like dated around and like trying to get other connections
- 19:50Speaker 5: because I do think that like there could have been
- 19:53Speaker 5: something somewhere else.
- 19:54Speaker 3: I don't know with who, but like I don't know.
- 19:56Speaker 5: That's like my biggest regret honestly that I wish I
- 19:59Speaker 5: could like redo, it's just not being with Tyler so long.
- 20:03Speaker 2: Yeah, a final question for you. We just went through
- 20:08Speaker 2: the paradise scenario. We talked about you not dating. What
- 20:12Speaker 2: is life like for you now, Like, what does it
- 20:15Speaker 2: look like day to day? I also think this could
- 20:19Speaker 2: be for the producers who are listening to say, you
- 20:22Speaker 2: either have no time on your hands or you have
- 20:23Speaker 2: a little time on your hands.
- 20:26Speaker 5: Honestly, I like so I'm modeled during the week and
- 20:30Speaker 5: then I actually work at Barstool on the weekends, which
- 20:32Speaker 5: is a bar in Nashville. And then I do like
- 20:35Speaker 5: a lot of volunteering, so and I travel a lot.
- 20:38Speaker 5: I'm really kind of all over the place. But I
- 20:42Speaker 5: love my life right now. Honestly, it's like so easy.
- 20:44Speaker 5: I'm just go with the flow. But yeah, basically just
- 20:48Speaker 5: chilling honestly.
- 20:50Speaker 2: Well, it's out in the world now, Mercedes, thanks for
- 20:53Speaker 2: jumping on. Of course, we appreciate it. We're gonna watch
- 20:57Speaker 2: you closely to see if Paradise gets announced. We're gonna
- 20:59Speaker 2: put short hard. We want you on that beach. We
- 21:02Speaker 2: want to watch you again again. I wasn't lying when
- 21:04Speaker 2: I said that. Just your energy and the excitement you
- 21:09Speaker 2: brought to the last season A Paradise was something that
- 21:11Speaker 2: I enjoyed here because we talked about it a lot,
- 21:13Speaker 2: and so we want to see you back. We want
- 21:15Speaker 2: to see you there on the beach. Wherever in the
- 21:17Speaker 2: world they're going to be filming, rumors.
- 21:19Speaker 3: Swirling, hopefully, fingers crossed, We'll see.
- 21:22Speaker 4: Yeh right, hopefully.
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