Latest / INSIGHT FOR LIVING: Biblical Wisdom For Everyday Living / Cords That Hold Pastors and Flocks Together │ Msg 68 - Pastor Chuck Swindoll Insight for Living
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- 0:02Speaker 1: Pastors have been compared to shepherds since the beginning of
- 0:05Speaker 1: the church. The apostle Peter encouraged the church elders to
- 0:09Speaker 1: shepherd the flock of God among you. The word pastor
- 0:14Speaker 1: itself comes from a Latin word that means herdsmen. Just
- 0:19Speaker 1: as shepherds guide and tenderly care for their flocks, so
- 0:23Speaker 1: pastors lead and serve and care for the needs of
- 0:26Speaker 1: their congregation. However, relationships between pastors and flocks are not
- 0:32Speaker 1: always as serene as the pastoral image might imply. Sheep
- 0:38Speaker 1: sometimes stray and sometimes bleat behind the shepherd's back. Pastors
- 0:44Speaker 1: sometimes fight with the sheep, and sometimes flee altogether. Often
- 0:50Speaker 1: fed up with the flock and in search of greener pastors,
- 0:53Speaker 1: pastors vacate pulpits on an average of once every three years.
- 0:58Speaker 1: Think of that one or two sheep with a little
- 1:02Speaker 1: goat in them can butt heads often enough with the
- 1:04Speaker 1: pastor to make his ministry miserable. The lingering, unresolved personality
- 1:12Speaker 1: conflicts can drain both his emotions and his energy. Sometimes too,
- 1:18Speaker 1: the sheep can crowd the shepherd to such an extent
- 1:22Speaker 1: that his personal time for study and growth are eaten away. Gradually,
- 1:29Speaker 1: his life in teaching begin to lose their cutting edge,
- 1:33Speaker 1: growing dull and ultimately ineffective. Also out of either insecurity
- 1:40Speaker 1: or a desire to set a sterling example, some pastors
- 1:44Speaker 1: are reluctant to be real and open and vulnerable. All
- 1:50Speaker 1: pastors have needs. Never forget that underneath the ministerial garb,
- 1:56Speaker 1: they are just sheep like everyone else. They hurt when
- 2:00Speaker 1: they're bitten, they fight or run when they're threatened, and
- 2:05Speaker 1: they shiver in the cold wind when they're shorn back.
- 2:10Speaker 1: In Second Thessalonians, Chapter three, verses one through five, the
- 2:14Speaker 1: apostle Paul reveals a lot about himself as a pastor
- 2:19Speaker 1: shepherd and about his relationship to the flock at Thessalonika.
- 2:25Speaker 1: In doing so, he indirectly instructs us in strengthening the
- 2:30Speaker 1: pastor flock relationship. Let's read this passage together from the
- 2:35Speaker 1: New Testament, the letter named Second Thessalonians. It's in chapter three,
- 2:42Speaker 1: the first five verses. I'll begin with Second Thessalonians three,
- 2:47Speaker 1: verse one. Finally, Brethren, pray for us that the word
- 2:51Speaker 1: of the Lord will spread rapidly and be glorified, just
- 2:56Speaker 1: as it did also with you, and that we will
- 3:00Speaker 1: be rescued from perverse and evil men, for not all
- 3:05Speaker 1: have faith. But the Lord is faithful, and he will
- 3:09Speaker 1: strengthen and protect you from the evil one. We have
- 3:14Speaker 1: confidence in the Lord concerning you that you were doing
- 3:18Speaker 1: and will continue to do what we command. May the
- 3:22Speaker 1: Lord direct your hearts into the love of God and
- 3:25Speaker 1: into the steadfastness of Christ. Ministry is supposed to be
- 3:31Speaker 1: a joyful thing, but often it seems as though it's
- 3:37Speaker 1: more of a marathon of misery. It hadn't ought to be,
- 3:43Speaker 1: but it often seems like it is. In recent days,
- 3:48Speaker 1: I've had the privilege of being with a body of
- 3:52Speaker 1: sixty seventy people in ministry. We were tucked away in
- 3:56Speaker 1: a little conference center not too far away from Fullerton,
- 4:02Speaker 1: and we spent an overnight together, and I had the
- 4:07Speaker 1: joy of us speaking, and really I had a greater
- 4:11Speaker 1: joy in listening. I never learned anything while I'm talking,
- 4:14Speaker 1: but I learned a lot while I'm listening, and I
- 4:16Speaker 1: learned a lot. I had a chance to be with
- 4:19Speaker 1: people who have been in ministry less than a year,
- 4:22Speaker 1: and some who have been in ministry thirty five in
- 4:25Speaker 1: more years. Our ages span from the mid to late
- 4:30Speaker 1: twenties all the way to the mid to late sixties.
- 4:34Speaker 2: It was a great time. Really, it was.
- 4:38Speaker 1: I like it when real people come together and talk
- 4:40Speaker 1: about real things. And you might wonder what pastors talk about. Well,
- 4:46Speaker 1: when pastors aren't around, congregations talk about pastors, and when
- 4:52Speaker 1: congregations aren't around, pastors talk about congregations. So we sort
- 4:56Speaker 1: of did that, Mark Twain said a number of years ago.
- 5:00Speaker 1: War talk by men who have been in a war
- 5:03Speaker 1: is always interesting, whereas moon talk by a poet who
- 5:07Speaker 1: has not been on the moon is likely to be dull. Well,
- 5:11Speaker 1: there wasn't any moon talk, and our time together it
- 5:13Speaker 1: was Yeah, I'm afraid.
- 5:15Speaker 2: A little of it was war talk. And when I drove.
- 5:20Speaker 1: Back from the conference, I, unusual for me, drove slowly
- 5:27Speaker 1: and I just let the cars pass me, and I
- 5:30Speaker 1: took my time. I held it down to fifty five
- 5:33Speaker 1: sixty on the way back, And while I was driving along,
- 5:40Speaker 1: I did a lot of thinking. I did a lot
- 5:43Speaker 1: of thanking. Also, I am I have the privilege of
- 5:49Speaker 1: ministering at one of the great spots, if not the
- 5:52Speaker 1: great one, and in my life most every other place
- 5:57Speaker 1: looks good. In the rearview, mirror because I can't wait
- 6:00Speaker 1: to get back home to be with the people I love.
- 6:06Speaker 1: I got to thinking about my life and the lives
- 6:10Speaker 1: of those men and women I had been with whom
- 6:12Speaker 1: I really do respect. There are folks in the trenches.
- 6:16Speaker 1: There wasn't a theoretical mind among us. There are people
- 6:19Speaker 1: that are down in the grit and grind of everyday life.
- 6:23Speaker 1: Some of them are in tough places. I was thankful
- 6:26Speaker 1: I wasn't in some of those places. Some of them
- 6:30Speaker 1: are in wonderful spots and they're encouraged. And I came
- 6:36Speaker 1: away with several concerns.
- 6:38Speaker 2: I guess I would put it.
- 6:40Speaker 1: I have several pastoral concerns for my colleagues and ministry.
- 6:46Speaker 1: I guess if I were to list them, there would
- 6:48Speaker 1: be three, four, maybe five of them. That kind of
- 6:51Speaker 1: came to the top of the surface in the car
- 6:53Speaker 1: as I was driving home. First, I'm concerned about short
- 6:59Speaker 1: term commitment. Seems as like, seems like men in ministry
- 7:05Speaker 1: more and more are looking for someplace to go to
- 7:08Speaker 1: get away.
- 7:08Speaker 2: From where they are.
- 7:10Speaker 1: That's what I call the green grass syndrome. I had
- 7:14Speaker 1: the opportunity to tell them that the grass was not
- 7:17Speaker 1: greener in most places wasn't even edible. They were probably
- 7:21Speaker 1: where God would have them. Except for a few rare exceptions,
- 7:25Speaker 1: they just needed to gut it out. They'll get through
- 7:28Speaker 1: the hard time and there'll be a good time. Weeping
- 7:31Speaker 1: may endure for the night, but joy comes in the morning.
- 7:36Speaker 1: One person wrote. It is generally known that twenty percent
- 7:38Speaker 1: of the American population moves each year. Traditionally, pastors have
- 7:43Speaker 1: transferred more often than those in other professions. There are
- 7:47Speaker 1: several hundred thousand pastors serving parishes in the United States.
- 7:53Speaker 1: A conservative estimate is that twenty five percent move annually,
- 7:57Speaker 1: or well over one hundred.
- 7:58Speaker 2: Pastors a day.
- 8:01Speaker 1: Some religious leaders believe that one third would be a
- 8:04Speaker 1: more accurate figure, or nearly two hundred pastors moving every
- 8:08Speaker 1: day of every year. Because our church in Fullerton has
- 8:13Speaker 1: had only two pastors and it's thirty one great years
- 8:17Speaker 1: of history, we tend to forget that. But most ministers
- 8:21Speaker 1: will not stay four years in the same place. Most
- 8:26Speaker 1: youth workers won't stay one year. We're a body of
- 8:31Speaker 1: people in ministry on the move, and that concerns me. Now,
- 8:35Speaker 1: some people need to move. In fact, I'm of the
- 8:38Speaker 1: opinion some churches need to simply close their doors and
- 8:41Speaker 1: give up, just let the job be done by others
- 8:45Speaker 1: more effective in the community. That may sound like heresy,
- 8:48Speaker 1: but I really believe that not all of them, and
- 8:51Speaker 1: not most of them, but some need to say we've
- 8:54Speaker 1: had our day, or we're never going to get to
- 8:57Speaker 1: our day, and we need to simply say it's over.
- 9:01Speaker 1: Short term commitment concerns me. Another one, and probably more
- 9:05Speaker 1: than that, is what I would call lingering unresolved conflicts.
- 9:11Speaker 1: I don't know how many fellows I talk with who
- 9:13Speaker 1: have a running concern or battle with one man or
- 9:18Speaker 1: one woman, or a few, a little cluster, a power
- 9:22Speaker 1: block of people in their church, and this lingering unresolved
- 9:27Speaker 1: conflict is just siphoning their energy and stealing their joy,
- 9:33Speaker 1: and I hurt for them. There are always people who
- 9:39Speaker 1: will oppose ministry, and some of them find their way
- 9:43Speaker 1: for some unrevealed reason, into a church, and for a
- 9:46Speaker 1: greater unrevealed reason, they won't leave. They just want to
- 9:50Speaker 1: stay and make problems for the leadership, and not the
- 9:54Speaker 1: kind of constructive criticism that is always needed, not the
- 9:58Speaker 1: kind of objective counsel that.
- 10:01Speaker 2: Says, let's look at the other side of this but
- 10:03Speaker 2: just the kind of person that says no. No.
- 10:07Speaker 1: I've got a friend who has been in a church now,
- 10:09Speaker 1: it's been about forty years, and some of the board
- 10:13Speaker 1: members were there when his predecessor was there, and they're
- 10:16Speaker 1: still on the board. And I was with him a
- 10:20Speaker 1: year or two ago, and he said to me, I
- 10:22Speaker 1: ran into one of those old guys, and he said.
- 10:26Speaker 1: One of those guys said to me, I'm sorry to
- 10:27Speaker 1: miss the board meeting the other evening. Pastor I was
- 10:29Speaker 1: looking forward to voting no, says he always votes no.
- 10:36Speaker 1: Sort of an unresolved lingering conflict. I found that among
- 10:42Speaker 1: some of those guys, third was a lack of sufficient
- 10:47Speaker 1: time spent in the study.
- 10:50Speaker 2: And by that I don't simply mean in.
- 10:52Speaker 1: The Book of God, which of course is part of
- 10:54Speaker 1: that time, but with the person of God. Too little
- 10:59Speaker 1: time just alone with God, and it may be better
- 11:05Speaker 1: spent outside the official study, perhaps in a quiet place,
- 11:10Speaker 1: maybe in the early morning hours at home or any
- 11:14Speaker 1: secluded place where God can break through the den and
- 11:19Speaker 1: speak to the man or woman of God concerning his
- 11:24Speaker 1: will and his word. I found men too busy, and
- 11:29Speaker 1: I challenged them to slow down, making too many meetings
- 11:33Speaker 1: and feeling the necessity of being at every one of
- 11:37Speaker 1: the committee gatherings and doing all the work of the
- 11:41Speaker 1: ministry while the people watched it being done.
- 11:44Speaker 2: It's not right, it's not even biblical.
- 11:48Speaker 1: My heart aches for men who are no longer spending
- 11:51Speaker 1: sufficient time with God. I think one other I would
- 11:56Speaker 1: list would be a reluctance to be real, to show
- 12:01Speaker 1: oneself vulnerable. How easy in ministry to build oneself into
- 12:06Speaker 1: a castle and to surround it by a moat, and
- 12:10Speaker 1: to breed alligators that fill that moat, so people can't
- 12:14Speaker 1: even draw a bridge to get to us. I heard
- 12:18Speaker 1: this week from a man who's taken the place of
- 12:21Speaker 1: another minister who had been in the church for almost
- 12:24Speaker 1: ten years, and he said, you know, in my predecessor's case,
- 12:27Speaker 1: some of the people weren't even sure if he had
- 12:30Speaker 1: three or four children.
- 12:32Speaker 2: That's after he had been there almost ten years. And
- 12:36Speaker 2: it's just being too closed.
- 12:38Speaker 1: People want to know the one who ministers to them,
- 12:42Speaker 1: and they want to know that his world, like their world,
- 12:44Speaker 1: is real and it includes some struggles. It's kind of
- 12:48Speaker 1: comforting to know that he, like they have feet of clay,
- 12:52Speaker 1: and that he has a deep and abiding need for prayer. Well,
- 13:00Speaker 1: now that we're sufficiently depressed, I probably would mention limited
- 13:05Speaker 1: vision and lack of confidence.
- 13:07Speaker 2: Last, some of the men, for some.
- 13:11Speaker 1: Reason just have restricted vision, and they lack confidence, confidence
- 13:17Speaker 1: in God, confidence in God's word. The self image problem
- 13:22Speaker 1: is a major battle of men in ministry in case
- 13:25Speaker 1: you wonder what ministers struggle with. Some of them are
- 13:29Speaker 1: just now finding themselves and they don't like who they're finding,
- 13:34Speaker 1: or they're just discovering the extent of the call to ministry,
- 13:38Speaker 1: and it frightens them. Some men are terribly intimidated by
- 13:42Speaker 1: people who have prestige, or have money, or or speak
- 13:47Speaker 1: with authority for the community, or have been in the
- 13:49Speaker 1: church for years, and so their vision is a cut
- 13:56Speaker 1: in on like you'd cut in on a runner's stride,
- 14:01Speaker 1: and some are just ready to quit. This is a
- 14:09Speaker 1: day of tremendous opportunity. And that's not meant to be
- 14:11Speaker 1: a cheerleading statement. It's true.
- 14:14Speaker 2: This is a day in.
- 14:15Speaker 1: Which there is great spiritual hunger. Amos's words are right.
- 14:19Speaker 1: There is a famine in the land, and it's a famine.
- 14:21Speaker 2: For the word of God. There's a famine for love
- 14:25Speaker 2: and compassion.
- 14:27Speaker 1: Mixed with the teaching of the Word of God, it
- 14:29Speaker 1: seems like it's an either or thing. You either get
- 14:33Speaker 1: good teaching or you get a lot of love. You
- 14:36Speaker 1: either get an overwhelming sense of compassion in this place
- 14:40Speaker 1: while you starve, or you get big doses of food
- 14:44Speaker 1: dropped on you like truckloads.
- 14:46Speaker 2: And you don't feel like anybody cares after the instruction
- 14:49Speaker 2: is over. We need balance.
- 14:55Speaker 1: You know, our Lord promised that the gates of Hell
- 14:57Speaker 1: will not prevail against his church, and that's true. In fact, Paul,
- 15:06Speaker 1: writing to Timothy in the last letter he ever wrote.
- 15:10Speaker 1: Second Timothy said these words in chapter four, words that
- 15:14Speaker 1: have become rather familiar to some of us. Verse two,
- 15:18Speaker 1: preach the word be ready in season and be ready
- 15:22Speaker 1: out of season, reprove, rebuke, and exhort with great patience
- 15:27Speaker 1: and instruction.
- 15:29Speaker 2: It was a strong word. They come with a staccatto
- 15:33Speaker 2: exclamation point. Preach it, be ready, exhort, reprove. Why would
- 15:40Speaker 2: he say it with such passion? Well, because the world's
- 15:42Speaker 2: system is so convincing. Congregations drink in, breathe in, and
- 15:49Speaker 2: breathe out the system of the world all week long,
- 15:53Speaker 2: and we get it from our televisions. We get it
- 15:55Speaker 2: from our news magazines. We get it from our schools.
- 15:57Speaker 2: We get it from our neighborhoods, we get it from
- 15:59Speaker 2: our clubs, we get it from our social contacts. We are.
- 16:05Speaker 1: Breathing in and out all the smog of the world system,
- 16:08Speaker 1: and then an hour or two a week, we're getting
- 16:10Speaker 1: straight scooped from God. And sometimes it takes a strong
- 16:15Speaker 1: exhortation from God's word just to get our attention. And
- 16:20Speaker 1: a man who does that is often viewed as crotchety
- 16:23Speaker 1: or loud or cranky. No, don't misread passion and desire
- 16:31Speaker 1: for holiness for crankiness.
- 16:36Speaker 2: Don't misread that. Why was he exhorted like he was
- 16:41Speaker 2: Verse three?
- 16:41Speaker 1: Because the time will come when they people around the community,
- 16:46Speaker 1: people in the church, the populace, the hoy poloi, when
- 16:51Speaker 1: they will not endure sound doctrine, but wanting to have
- 16:55Speaker 1: their ears tickle, they will accumulate for themselves teachers in
- 17:00Speaker 1: accordance to their own desires, and will turn their ears
- 17:04Speaker 1: away from the truth and will turn.
- 17:06Speaker 2: Aside to myths. We don't live in a vacuum.
- 17:09Speaker 1: When you say no to the truth, you say yes
- 17:12Speaker 1: to myth. When you say no God I don't want
- 17:16Speaker 1: to know what you think about it. Then we say
- 17:18Speaker 1: yes to the world. I want to buy into your lies.
- 17:21Speaker 1: It's just that simple. It's a black and white thing,
- 17:25Speaker 1: very clear. Contrast, Look at verse five. How is Timothy
- 17:33Speaker 1: to respond in a world like this? But you, very strong,
- 17:37Speaker 1: emphatic people will do this. They will want that.
- 17:42Speaker 2: All kinds of teachers with ear tickling tongues will tickle
- 17:46Speaker 2: the ears of listening audiences.
- 17:48Speaker 1: But you, He says it in Chapter three, verse ten.
- 17:52Speaker 1: He says it in Chapter three, verse fourteen. He says
- 17:55Speaker 1: it in Chapter four, verse four, verse five.
- 17:57Speaker 2: But you.
- 17:59Speaker 1: Be sober, and all things endure hardship, do the work
- 18:03Speaker 1: of an evangelist. Fulfill your ministry. A ministry is not
- 18:09Speaker 1: to be endured, it's to be fulfilled. Great word, by
- 18:12Speaker 1: the way, this word means to bring to full measure,
- 18:17Speaker 1: to discharge all the duties connected with it. Fill your
- 18:23Speaker 1: day full of the things that mark your responsibility as
- 18:27Speaker 1: a minister of the Gospel. I love the way John
- 18:31Speaker 1: rw Stott writes on this passage. When men and women
- 18:35Speaker 1: get intoxicated with heady heresies and sparkling novelties, ministers must
- 18:42Speaker 1: keep calm and sane. Even if the people forsake Timothy's
- 18:48Speaker 1: ministry in favor of teachers who tickle their fancy. Timothy
- 18:53Speaker 1: is to fulfill his ministry, he must persevere until his
- 18:58Speaker 1: task is accomplished. Calvin adds these words. The more determined
- 19:03Speaker 1: men become to despise the teaching of Christ, the more
- 19:06Speaker 1: zealous should godly ministers be to assert it.
- 19:12Speaker 2: But being men, we tend to back off.
- 19:15Speaker 1: We tend to fold our arms and sigh at conferences
- 19:18Speaker 1: like I attended all what's the use? Or when our
- 19:22Speaker 1: dreams crash and burn. Our tendency is to become bitter
- 19:27Speaker 1: and think all the world is against the truth, when
- 19:31Speaker 1: in fact that isn't real. Many more in the family
- 19:36Speaker 1: of God believe it than don't. And the hunger level,
- 19:41Speaker 1: if it may not be great where you live, believe me,
- 19:43Speaker 1: it's great around the world.
- 19:45Speaker 2: There's a starvation setting in upon God's people.
- 19:50Speaker 1: Now in light of all of that, and that was
- 19:53Speaker 1: quite a seventy five cent introduction, wasn't it. At this rate,
- 19:56Speaker 1: we'll be here an hour and a half, my goodness.
- 19:58Speaker 1: Go back to second Thessalonian chapter three.
- 20:03Speaker 2: Let's take a look at five.
- 20:05Speaker 1: Verses in second Thessalonians three that point out four responsibilities
- 20:11Speaker 1: of the minister of the gospel, followed by four responses
- 20:15Speaker 1: or responsibilities of congregations who are surrounded by the teaching
- 20:19Speaker 1: of the Gospel. It's a very simple outline. There's some
- 20:23Speaker 1: truth here for the pastor in the first three verses,
- 20:26Speaker 1: and then there's some truth here for the flock, and
- 20:29Speaker 1: about the middle of verse three down through verse five.
- 20:32Speaker 1: Let's take a look at them. First of all, let's
- 20:34Speaker 1: dissect the pastor. That sounds like normal stuff, doesn't it.
- 20:40Speaker 1: Let's do it for a few minutes. Finally, brethren, now understand,
- 20:44Speaker 1: this is a preacher's Finally, it doesn't mean it literally.
- 20:48Speaker 1: It just meant to wake you up so that you'll
- 20:50Speaker 1: listen a little longer. He's got a whole chapter of
- 20:53Speaker 1: things to say, but this is one of those in
- 20:55Speaker 1: between finalies, and he's.
- 20:57Speaker 2: Addressing these words to the Christian.
- 20:59Speaker 1: So do I you're a Christian, and if you're involved
- 21:03Speaker 1: in a congregation, and if your growth in Christ is
- 21:06Speaker 1: important to you, listen to what God says about the
- 21:09Speaker 1: person or the persons who minister to you.
- 21:12Speaker 2: Finally, brethren, pray for us. Pray for us. Let's stop
- 21:20Speaker 2: right there.
- 21:21Speaker 1: The first thing I would list regarding a good minister
- 21:23Speaker 1: is admission of need. He openly says, I need prayer,
- 21:31Speaker 1: pray for us. I found that he asked for prayer
- 21:34Speaker 1: in Romans fifteen thirty. He asked for prayer among the
- 21:38Speaker 1: Ephesian Christians. In Ephesian six nineteen. He asked for prayer
- 21:43Speaker 1: from the Colasian saints in Colisians four, verse three. He
- 21:47Speaker 1: earlier asked the Thessalonians to pray for him. In chapter five,
- 21:51Speaker 1: verse twenty five of the first letter. He even said
- 21:53Speaker 1: in verse twenty two of the letter he wrote to
- 21:55Speaker 1: the slave owner Phileman to pray for him. Paul is
- 22:00Speaker 1: readily admitting his need for prayer. Why because he's merely
- 22:03Speaker 1: a man. He's just a human being, and he could
- 22:08Speaker 1: easily be intimidated. He could easily get off course. He
- 22:13Speaker 1: is no way a self assured guy who pulls his
- 22:19Speaker 1: own strings and opens his own doors. Oh he could,
- 22:21Speaker 1: but he learned in the flesh it doesn't work. So
- 22:23Speaker 1: pray that God would open just the right doors, and
- 22:26Speaker 1: I would march through them unafraid.
- 22:31Speaker 2: I love the way Spurgeon put.
- 22:32Speaker 1: It in one of his fine works out of the
- 22:34Speaker 1: metropolitan tabernacle pulpit. Low, your minister, but a stripling from
- 22:38Speaker 1: the country, all untrained in academic lore, knowing nothing but
- 22:44Speaker 1: just the doctrine of the Cross, came forth before the
- 22:48Speaker 1: multitude to tell out simply the word. How he felt
- 22:54Speaker 1: his nothingness then, and how often he told you. So
- 22:59Speaker 1: you cried to God, and the child the lad was helped.
- 23:05Speaker 1: What mighty deeds were done in the conversion of hundreds.
- 23:10Speaker 2: But now we have a name, and there.
- 23:13Speaker 1: Is a great temptation to rest upon our success and
- 23:17Speaker 1: for men to think there is something in the preacher
- 23:19Speaker 1: that he can gather the crowd and can preach the word,
- 23:23Speaker 1: and it is sure to be blessed when he preaches it. Brethren, again,
- 23:27Speaker 1: I say we are nothing. Never think for a moment
- 23:34Speaker 1: that the one who ministers the word to you can.
- 23:38Speaker 2: Pull it off in the flesh, or has any interest
- 23:42Speaker 2: in doing that.
- 23:44Speaker 1: When under God's control, I happen to be the one
- 23:48Speaker 1: who ministers in the church pulpit, and I readily and
- 23:52Speaker 1: on a regular.
- 23:53Speaker 2: Basis, admit my great needs.
- 23:57Speaker 1: I struggle just as you struggle.
- 24:00Speaker 2: Just as you battle.
- 24:02Speaker 1: I fight within myself just as you fight within yourself.
- 24:06Speaker 1: Given to myself, my garden would become full of weeds,
- 24:10Speaker 1: and I would raise plants that would poison my own life.
- 24:15Speaker 1: But your prayers for me and for our staff will
- 24:19Speaker 1: keep us on target and keep us pure. I readily
- 24:24Speaker 1: admit my wholesale need for prayer, and I do so
- 24:29Speaker 1: without reservation. The minister is to be vulnerable. He is
- 24:34Speaker 1: to call for help. He is to let people see
- 24:36Speaker 1: the cracks and gaps and needs in his life. That's
- 24:40Speaker 1: why Paul asked for prayer. The second thing I would
- 24:42Speaker 1: list is a declaration of the objective that's in the
- 24:46Speaker 1: last part of verse one. Pray for us, and what
- 24:49Speaker 1: am I to pray for? That the word of the
- 24:52Speaker 1: Lord may spread rapidly. The word means to run, That
- 24:56Speaker 1: the word of the Lord may put on sneakers and
- 25:00Speaker 1: run the race, that there would be nothing to hold
- 25:03Speaker 1: it back. Pray that the word of the Lord will
- 25:06Speaker 1: run with speed, and that the word of the Lord
- 25:10Speaker 1: will be glorified, just as it did also with you.
- 25:14Speaker 1: He's got great memories of the Thessalonian flock. He remembers
- 25:17Speaker 1: when he ministered to them. The word of the Lord
- 25:21Speaker 1: struck those people, and they hit the ground running and
- 25:24Speaker 1: they're still running for the cause of Christ. Pray that
- 25:28Speaker 1: what happened in Thessalonika would keep happening wherever I go.
- 25:33Speaker 1: I love the way he puts that, that it would
- 25:35Speaker 1: keep running. Don't don't miss the affirming clothes, just as
- 25:40Speaker 1: it did also with you.
- 25:44Speaker 2: While I was away.
- 25:44Speaker 1: One thing that repeatedly came to my attention as a
- 25:49Speaker 1: reason for discouragement was the lack of enthusiasm among those
- 25:53Speaker 1: pastors congregations. I don't know of anything that just drains
- 25:59Speaker 1: at the heart of them or the gospel, like an
- 26:01Speaker 1: unenthusiastic body of people.
- 26:05Speaker 2: They just sort of sit soaken, sour, just save sanctified
- 26:11Speaker 2: and galvanized. They just kind of get set in a rut.
- 26:15Speaker 2: Just keep the machinery going, pastor. It's a burden for
- 26:19Speaker 2: all of us, but try to stay on top. And
- 26:23Speaker 2: God bless you, God bless you Master.
- 26:30Speaker 1: The declaration of his objective is that the word of
- 26:33Speaker 1: the Lord would hit the road running, and that the
- 26:37Speaker 1: people would be revolutionized within, so that if necessary, they
- 26:42Speaker 1: stand all alone in their company, or all alone on
- 26:45Speaker 1: their ball team, or all alone in the classroom at school,
- 26:49Speaker 1: or all alone in their neighborhood if necessary. When the
- 26:52Speaker 1: word of God takes root, it revolutionizes the person. But
- 26:57Speaker 1: when it is simply an intellectual exercise, all it does
- 27:00Speaker 1: is satisfy idle curiosity and makes you heady and high
- 27:04Speaker 1: minded and stuffy and snobby. He said, I pray, and
- 27:10Speaker 1: I ask for you to pray that the word will
- 27:13Speaker 1: run second or third in the list would be a
- 27:18Speaker 1: recognition of human opposition.
- 27:20Speaker 2: That's in verse two.
- 27:22Speaker 1: And while you're praying, I recognize that there's human opposition.
- 27:27Speaker 1: That we may be delivered from perverse and evil men,
- 27:33Speaker 1: for not all have the faith. Literally, there's a definite
- 27:37Speaker 1: article the faith. Look at the kind of men.
- 27:42Speaker 2: He refers to. Perverse is a word that means capable
- 27:46Speaker 2: of outrageous and harmful acts. Did you hear that? Did
- 27:53Speaker 2: you hear that? Verse two?
- 27:54Speaker 1: That we may be delivered from people who are capable
- 27:57Speaker 1: of outrageous and harmful acts against others, and evil speaks
- 28:03Speaker 1: of those who are thoroughly corrupted themselves and intent on
- 28:07Speaker 1: corrupting others. That's what the minister of the Gospel must
- 28:12Speaker 1: face as he stands for the truth in the face
- 28:17Speaker 1: of people who don't love the truth, or, as he
- 28:20Speaker 1: calls it, people who do.
- 28:22Speaker 2: Not have the faith. I've got to thinking about that,
- 28:28Speaker 2: to thinking.
- 28:29Speaker 1: About Paul's words to these people. And this is among
- 28:32Speaker 1: his earliest letters far as we know. First Thessalonians was
- 28:36Speaker 1: written about fifty fifty one AD, and already he talks
- 28:42Speaker 1: about opposition. So I thought, well, I'm going to go
- 28:45Speaker 1: to the very last letters he wrote. First, Timothy, I
- 28:49Speaker 1: want you to turn there also, that's the very next
- 28:51Speaker 1: book to your right, and I'm going to see if
- 28:52Speaker 1: he had opposition at the end of his ministry. And
- 28:55Speaker 1: I found someone verse eighteen of Chapter Onemothy one eighteen.
- 29:02Speaker 1: This command I entrust to you, Timothy, my son, in
- 29:04Speaker 1: accordance with the prophecies previously made concerning you, that by
- 29:08Speaker 1: them you may fight the good fight, keeping faith and
- 29:12Speaker 1: a good conscience, which some have rejected and suffered shipwreck
- 29:16Speaker 1: in regard to their faith. He even has the guts
- 29:19Speaker 1: to name them. Among these are Hymenaeus and Alexander, whom
- 29:27Speaker 1: I have delivered over to Satan so that they may
- 29:29Speaker 1: be taught not to blaspheme. You think that opposition wasn't strong,
- 29:33Speaker 1: so strong that Paul, rather than fighting those men, said
- 29:37Speaker 1: I deliver them over to Satan. For the destruction of
- 29:41Speaker 1: the flesh.
- 29:43Speaker 2: Well, did that cause them to leave him alone? Nope?
- 29:46Speaker 1: Last letter he wrote two Timothy, chapter four once again,
- 29:53Speaker 1: verse fourteen, same man, intense opposition. Alexander the Coppersmith did
- 30:02Speaker 1: me much harm. The Lord will repay him according.
- 30:06Speaker 2: To his deeds. Can you beat that?
- 30:09Speaker 1: Here is a man thirteen fourteen, fifteen years in ministry.
- 30:13Speaker 1: He's founded churches, he shaped lives, He's forged out a
- 30:16Speaker 1: theology for the New Covenant. He has been God's man
- 30:20Speaker 1: of the hour all the way from Jerusalem to Rome.
- 30:23Speaker 2: And maybe even into Spain. And all along his steps
- 30:26Speaker 2: have been dogged by the same old Alexander, the same
- 30:30Speaker 2: old guy that's determined to make life miserable for him.
- 30:34Speaker 1: Mark it down. Anyone who stands for the truth will
- 30:39Speaker 1: face the opposition of men who are unprincipled, men who
- 30:45Speaker 1: oppose men, and women who oppose the truth. Few people
- 30:51Speaker 1: have said it better than Alexander White.
- 30:54Speaker 2: He writes very well.
- 30:55Speaker 1: Regarding Alexander the Coppersmith, White says there was no man
- 31:00Speaker 1: among Paul's many enemies who so hated Paul and so
- 31:04Speaker 1: hunted him down as this Alexander the Coppersmith Alexander followed
- 31:09Speaker 1: Paul wherever he went, poisoning the minds and the hearts
- 31:13Speaker 1: of all men to whom his tongue or his pen
- 31:17Speaker 1: had access. One of our latest and best authorities thinks
- 31:20Speaker 1: that Alexander even followed Paul to Rome and did his
- 31:25Speaker 1: best to poison Nero and his court still more against Paul.
- 31:30Speaker 1: But whether he made that malicious and superfluous journey or no,
- 31:34Speaker 1: Alexander certainly did Paul, in his good name and his
- 31:37Speaker 1: divine work, all the evil that his gifts of speech
- 31:40Speaker 1: and pen could do. It is no wonder that the
- 31:43Speaker 1: constant presence of Alexander and his implacable and sleepless malice
- 31:49Speaker 1: was about too great a trial for Paul to bear.
- 31:53Speaker 1: Think of that implacable, sleepless malice. There was an any
- 32:00Speaker 1: man who stands for God today who doesn't have enemies
- 32:03Speaker 1: who stand against him. When you pray for your minister,
- 32:07Speaker 1: pray for those who oppose him. And these may not
- 32:14Speaker 1: be great in number, but they may be extremely effective.
- 32:19Speaker 2: Sometimes they're just a little sniping things.
- 32:21Speaker 1: Sometimes they're just they're just kind of nagging cranks and nuts.
- 32:29Speaker 1: You know, I've agreed for years with Ironside where there's light,
- 32:33Speaker 1: there's bugs, and they're just buggy people. They just they
- 32:38Speaker 1: just nip at you and and and bite at.
- 32:41Speaker 2: You and drag you down.
- 32:45Speaker 1: The apostle Paul had such opposition, and I repeat, not
- 32:49Speaker 1: the kind of opposition that simply says, we want to
- 32:52Speaker 1: look at the other side of this, but the kind
- 32:54Speaker 1: that says, no, no, no, I resent it. I don't
- 32:57Speaker 1: like you. I don't like the way you declare God's truth.
- 33:00Speaker 1: In fact, I don't like the truth. Quit talking like that,
- 33:04Speaker 1: and in a number of different ways try to stop it.
- 33:07Speaker 1: Back to second Thessalonians, opposition from the human element.
- 33:13Speaker 2: But I love the balance.
- 33:14Speaker 1: I call it the flip side of that is the
- 33:17Speaker 1: proclamation of God's faithfulness. You with me so far, the
- 33:22Speaker 1: admission of need, the declaration of the objective, the recognition
- 33:27Speaker 1: of human opposition, and now the proclamation of divine faithfulness
- 33:32Speaker 1: verse three.
- 33:33Speaker 2: But the Lord is faithful. Now that's the answer. See.
- 33:39Speaker 1: Rather than turning the pulpit into a hammer to fight.
- 33:42Speaker 2: His battles, the apostle says, simply, the Lord is faithful.
- 33:47Speaker 2: He will take care of the opposition.
- 33:50Speaker 1: I will not lose my target by getting involved in
- 33:54Speaker 1: those side light skirmishes.
- 33:56Speaker 2: The battle is.
- 33:57Speaker 1: Bigger than that person or two or three. One of
- 34:01Speaker 1: my messages to those young and older men in ministry was,
- 34:05Speaker 1: don't get off target because you've got somebody that doesn't
- 34:08Speaker 1: like where you're going.
- 34:12Speaker 2: God is faithful. God will fight for me. He is there.
- 34:17Speaker 1: I can call upon him. He sees me through. He
- 34:19Speaker 1: will never leave me, he will never forsake me. And
- 34:22Speaker 1: even when the other person gets the upper hand, God
- 34:25Speaker 1: is unintimidated. He is the one that everyone else must
- 34:29Speaker 1: ultimately change their course to meet. I thought of that
- 34:34Speaker 1: when a friend of mine mailed me this conversation from
- 34:37Speaker 1: the sea. Listen, the helmsman reported to the officer on
- 34:42Speaker 1: the deck, we are closing on collision course with another ship. Sir,
- 34:48Speaker 1: the senior officer on the bridge, tell him to alter
- 34:51Speaker 1: course fifteen degrees and maintain open contact with my bridge.
- 34:56Speaker 2: Yes, Sir, replied the sailor.
- 34:58Speaker 1: Almost instantly, the radio crackled a voice saying, negative, change
- 35:03Speaker 1: your course fifteen degrees. The officer snapped back, this is
- 35:08Speaker 1: the ship of the United States Navy. Change your course
- 35:12Speaker 1: fifteen degrees. Immediately the voice replied, negative, change your course
- 35:18Speaker 1: fifteen degrees. The undaunted officer becoming agitated now said you
- 35:24Speaker 1: will change your course fifteen degrees. Now, mister, I am
- 35:28Speaker 1: an admiral in the United States Navy. The response still calm, No, sir,
- 35:34Speaker 1: I repeat, change your course fifteen degrees.
- 35:37Speaker 2: I am a lighthouse, all right. Can't you see him
- 35:46Speaker 2: grabbing the wheel? Get this thing in another direction. I'm
- 35:50Speaker 2: a lighthouse. That's God's faithfulness. Go to the lighthouse. Ultimately,
- 35:58Speaker 2: everything will have to change its course.
- 36:01Speaker 1: When it's on a collision course with a lighthouse and
- 36:04Speaker 1: I'm fighting you, they're fighting a lighthouse. He'll defend itself.
- 36:09Speaker 1: Don't lower yourself to their skirmishues. It's not worth a hassle.
- 36:14Speaker 1: Like my dad used to say, don't worry when a
- 36:16Speaker 1: mule kicks you just consider the source.
- 36:21Speaker 2: Just a mule.
- 36:25Speaker 1: Now, so much for the pastoral side of things. Let's
- 36:27Speaker 1: dissect the congregation. I've been looking forward to doing that
- 36:30Speaker 1: for Sue a loan from the flock. The Lord is faithful.
- 36:36Speaker 1: First of all, there is protection from attack. I love
- 36:39Speaker 1: the way verse three concludes protection from attack. The Lord
- 36:43Speaker 1: is faithful. He will strengthen and protect you from the
- 36:47Speaker 1: evil one. Now, the reason I love this is because
- 36:52Speaker 1: all of the responsibility rests with the faithful God. Many
- 36:56Speaker 1: a pastor spend sleepless nights worrying about his anxious over
- 37:02Speaker 1: how they're going to behave.
- 37:03Speaker 2: And what they're going to do in this situation.
- 37:05Speaker 1: And maybe another cult has moved within two or three
- 37:09Speaker 1: blocks of that church building, as is the case with
- 37:11Speaker 1: one man I spoke to, and I.
- 37:14Speaker 2: Says, well, you have the truth. Theirs is founded on error.
- 37:18Speaker 2: You have the living, faithful God to uphold his message.
- 37:22Speaker 1: He will do it. The protection of the flock is
- 37:25Speaker 1: in the hands of the Living God. And by the way,
- 37:29Speaker 1: even when some wander and stray, they become a point
- 37:32Speaker 1: of strength in later years. I thought of that when
- 37:35Speaker 1: I read in Luke twenty two this week, verses thirty
- 37:38Speaker 1: one and thirty two. Jesus said to the apostles, Satan
- 37:41Speaker 1: has desired to have you plural, that he may sift
- 37:44Speaker 1: y'all plural, that he may sift y'all as straight as
- 37:49Speaker 1: he would sift sand. But I have prayed for you
- 37:54Speaker 1: and you singular peter you. When you have turned around,
- 37:59Speaker 1: you will stre than the brothers. Same word is strengthened
- 38:02Speaker 1: here in verse three. He will strengthen you.
- 38:05Speaker 2: What am I saying.
- 38:06Speaker 1: I'm saying sometime it takes the experience of dipping into
- 38:13Speaker 1: a wandering lifestyle to become even stronger in later years.
- 38:19Speaker 1: If your past has been marked by wandering from the
- 38:23Speaker 1: truth and you're now back on course, you're part of
- 38:26Speaker 1: the answer for a stronger congregation. God needs your testimony,
- 38:32Speaker 1: or at least the flock needs your testimony.
- 38:34Speaker 2: Let's put it this way. God can use your testimony
- 38:37Speaker 2: in the flock.
- 38:39Speaker 1: Some of the great messages that I have heard I've
- 38:42Speaker 1: heard from baptismal waters.
- 38:45Speaker 2: I've heard from people who have.
- 38:46Speaker 1: Gone dipping their lives into the lowest dregs of society,
- 38:51Speaker 1: and then they've come back and they've turned completely around,
- 38:55Speaker 1: and they've declared faith in Christ. And now in those
- 38:59Speaker 1: waters they stand and they tell you the difference God
- 39:02Speaker 1: has made now that they're walking with him. What a
- 39:04Speaker 1: strengthening point it is to our faith. The protection from
- 39:09Speaker 1: attack and this is a word for violent attack. He
- 39:12Speaker 1: will strengthen you. The word is steridzo. We get that
- 39:17Speaker 1: word for the drugs from this word strengthen steroids to
- 39:24Speaker 1: make one stronger. This is God's strengthening and God's protection.
- 39:30Speaker 1: You know what I thought about, well, on this point,
- 39:33Speaker 1: I thought of the terrorist activity in our day, and
- 39:36Speaker 1: I thought, how much at the mercy of the terrorists
- 39:38Speaker 1: we really are. When I pack my bags and make
- 39:42Speaker 1: my way to an airline terminal, I am at the
- 39:46Speaker 1: mercy of the moment, and so are you. When I
- 39:49Speaker 1: get on that airplane, or when I take that public
- 39:52Speaker 1: transportation from one spot to another, I am at.
- 39:55Speaker 2: The mercy of the terrorist.
- 39:57Speaker 1: And you know who I have to trust in aside
- 39:59Speaker 1: from my God, God, my government. Those who have the clout,
- 40:04Speaker 1: the authority, those who have the military might, those who
- 40:08Speaker 1: have the intelligence and expertise to spot out the troubled
- 40:12Speaker 1: areas and to protect me as a citizen of this country.
- 40:16Speaker 2: And I trust them. I must, or I would never
- 40:19Speaker 2: travel in the same way. I must trust to my
- 40:23Speaker 2: God the protection of this flock.
- 40:27Speaker 1: It isn't my task to look into keyholes and to
- 40:29Speaker 1: check through a window shades and to pry and peer
- 40:33Speaker 1: into personal lives. It's God's job to protect this assembly.
- 40:41Speaker 1: There will be times when I will be called in
- 40:43Speaker 1: to confront when it becomes obvious to me that the
- 40:45Speaker 1: body is hurting or is being scandalized.
- 40:48Speaker 2: But for the most part. I rest easy.
- 40:51Speaker 1: It's God's job to keep this body pure, and he's
- 40:55Speaker 1: doing it. In fact, the next verse, verse four, talks
- 40:59Speaker 1: about cooper with the leadership. I'd list that also protection
- 41:04Speaker 1: from attack and now cooperation with the leadership. We have
- 41:08Speaker 1: confidence in the Lord concerning you that you are doing
- 41:12Speaker 1: and will continue to do what we command. What a
- 41:17Speaker 1: great congregation those Thessalonians were. I'm impressed with Paul's positive confidence.
- 41:23Speaker 1: He is confident that they are doing exactly what he commanded.
- 41:27Speaker 1: And if you want to trace that command back, he
- 41:29Speaker 1: commanded them in chapter four of First Thessalonians to abstain
- 41:33Speaker 1: from sexual immorality, and he says in Second Corinthians, chapter three,
- 41:38Speaker 1: I'm confident you're doing that.
- 41:43Speaker 2: Let me take off.
- 41:44Speaker 1: My ministerial mantle for a moment and just sit down
- 41:47Speaker 1: by you and tell you something a little bit of
- 41:51Speaker 1: my philosophy of ministry. I don't believe that it is
- 41:54Speaker 1: the shepherd's job to skin the sheep alive. I believe
- 42:00Speaker 1: it is the shepherd's job to exhort and to reprove,
- 42:03Speaker 1: but not to beat the sheep. Beaten sheep may look obedient,
- 42:09Speaker 1: but actually beaten sheep are whipped and defeated.
- 42:15Speaker 2: Every once in a while.
- 42:16Speaker 1: It might be wise for you to say, I thank
- 42:19Speaker 1: my God that when I leave the ministry of this place,
- 42:24Speaker 1: I leave encouraged.
- 42:25Speaker 2: I don't feel whipped and beaten. That's on purpose.
- 42:31Speaker 1: We commit ourselves to building up the saints for the
- 42:34Speaker 1: work of ministry, not beating them into place. There is
- 42:39Speaker 1: a place for discipline, but there is no place for
- 42:42Speaker 1: sheep beating. I've had people come to me and say,
- 42:47Speaker 1: one of the reasons I stick around is because I
- 42:49Speaker 1: don't I for the first time in my life, I
- 42:53Speaker 1: don't leave reminded of every dirty sin in my life.
- 42:58Speaker 1: I know some of them are there, but I'm encouraged
- 43:01Speaker 1: to deal with them.
- 43:03Speaker 2: And you are you see.
- 43:07Speaker 1: I try to take my cues from Paul's style, and
- 43:11Speaker 1: that is to have confidence in the Lord concerning you.
- 43:16Speaker 1: Interesting how he put that he didn't have confidence in them.
- 43:20Speaker 2: In the flesh.
- 43:20Speaker 1: He had confidence in the Lord concerning them. By the way,
- 43:27Speaker 1: you are behaving, aren't you? Yeah, you are behaving. You
- 43:35Speaker 1: are walking with God, aren't you. I believe you are.
- 43:40Speaker 1: I operate from that point of view. I remember coming
- 43:46Speaker 1: in from dates and my dad on occasion would be
- 43:49Speaker 1: waiting up and he would say to me, as I
- 43:51Speaker 1: would stick the keys on the bureau.
- 43:54Speaker 2: You did behave tonight, didn't you. I believe you did.
- 43:59Speaker 2: But what a stirring up it is, even when I
- 44:04Speaker 2: hadn't behaved, But it made me want to come to
- 44:09Speaker 2: my dad if I was in real need.
- 44:14Speaker 1: We believe in your son, That's why we trust you
- 44:16Speaker 1: with the car.
- 44:18Speaker 2: I believe in your flock. That's why I trust you
- 44:21Speaker 2: with the truth. I equip you with the truth, and
- 44:25Speaker 2: I believe you behave.
- 44:28Speaker 1: That's why I suppose I live my life shocked on
- 44:31Speaker 1: occasion at the flock when I hear a scandal that
- 44:35Speaker 1: has occurred.
- 44:37Speaker 2: Because I believe the best in you.
- 44:42Speaker 1: See, I think it works around this third principle, and
- 44:45Speaker 1: that is a cooper That is a cultivation of a
- 44:48Speaker 1: love for God. Don't write that incorrectly. Cultivation of a
- 44:53Speaker 1: love for God. And may the Lord direct your hearts
- 44:58Speaker 1: into the love himself, into the love of God. Let
- 45:04Speaker 1: me explain it.
- 45:05Speaker 2: It's easy to misread it.
- 45:06Speaker 1: It's easy to think he's saying and may you come
- 45:09Speaker 1: to realize how much God loves you.
- 45:11Speaker 2: No, that's true, but that's not his emphasis here.
- 45:16Speaker 1: His emphasis is, may God direct your hearts into the
- 45:20Speaker 1: responsibility of loving him.
- 45:24Speaker 2: It was in seventeen.
- 45:25Speaker 1: Oh seven that Isaac Watts wrote, We're the whole realm
- 45:29Speaker 1: of nature. Mind that were a present far too small.
- 45:33Speaker 1: Love so amazing, so divine demands my.
- 45:37Speaker 2: Soul, my life, my all. What a switch you would think,
- 45:42Speaker 2: he would say, Love's so amazing, so divine makes me
- 45:45Speaker 2: feel warm and cozy, I go blanket around. No. Love
- 45:51Speaker 2: so amazing, and love so divine, demands that I love
- 45:55Speaker 2: him with all my heart and soul and might and
- 45:59Speaker 2: strength and mind. I neighbor as myself. The demands of
- 46:05Speaker 2: the love of God are great. His love drives me
- 46:10Speaker 2: to holiness. His love for me unmasks my pride and.
- 46:18Speaker 1: My arrogance and says to me, you owe me your life,
- 46:24Speaker 1: and you're all the cultivation of one's love for God.
- 46:30Speaker 1: You know that's what caused Chuck Holsen to write his
- 46:33Speaker 1: book Loving God. I smile inside when I hear people
- 46:36Speaker 1: talk about first buying his book thinking it was to
- 46:39Speaker 1: talk about the love of God, and they found this
- 46:42Speaker 1: is a book of exhortation about loving God in return.
- 46:47Speaker 2: There's no question that he loves us.
- 46:50Speaker 1: The question is does my life reveal a love back
- 46:53Speaker 1: to him. It isn't a question that my wife loves me.
- 46:57Speaker 1: The question comes do I love her in such a
- 47:00Speaker 1: marvelous way that there's.
- 47:02Speaker 2: Harmony in the home.
- 47:04Speaker 1: And she knows how significant significant she is to me personally.
- 47:10Speaker 1: Cultivation of a love for God. Now, finally, determination.
- 47:17Speaker 2: To endure for Christ. That's the last one.
- 47:21Speaker 1: May the Lord direct your hearts into the steadfastness of Christ.
- 47:27Speaker 1: This was a hurting flock. Remember, these were people who
- 47:30Speaker 1: were being mistreated by cruel tyrants, and their tendency would
- 47:35Speaker 1: be to slip and slide and to lose their moorings.
- 47:39Speaker 1: And what they needed was that old word I was
- 47:41Speaker 1: raised on. It's an old homespun word called sticktuitiveness.
- 47:46Speaker 2: Were you raised on that word? Son? You gotta have sticktuitiveness?
- 47:55Speaker 2: Stay at it, stay at It's this.
- 48:01Speaker 1: Determination to endure for Christ. One man calls it the
- 48:06Speaker 1: passion of patience. I was encouraged when I found in
- 48:10Speaker 1: Eugene Peterson's book A Long Obedience in the same direction
- 48:15Speaker 1: these words. Stick to itiveness is one of the more
- 48:19Speaker 1: inelegant words in the language.
- 48:22Speaker 2: He writes, But I have a special fondness for it.
- 48:24Speaker 1: Nevertheless, I heard the word a great deal when I
- 48:27Speaker 1: was young, mostly as I recall from my mother.
- 48:32Speaker 2: Now he unveils a little part of his life. This
- 48:34Speaker 2: is great.
- 48:35Speaker 1: I was a creature of sudden but short lived enthusiasms.
- 48:39Speaker 1: I had a passion for building model airplanes, and then
- 48:42Speaker 1: one day, mysteriously, all desire left, and the basement was
- 48:47Speaker 1: littered with half a dozen unfinished models. Then stamp collecting
- 48:53Speaker 1: became an all consuming hobby. I received an immense stamp
- 48:57Speaker 1: album for Christmas and joined a club, been acquired piles
- 49:01Speaker 1: and piles of stamps, and then one day, unaccountably, the
- 49:05Speaker 1: interest left me.
- 49:07Speaker 2: The album gathered dust, and the mounds of stamps were
- 49:10Speaker 2: left unmounted. Next it was horses.
- 49:14Speaker 1: Each Saturday morning, my best friend and I would ride
- 49:16Speaker 1: our bikes to a dude ranch two miles from town,
- 49:19Speaker 1: get horses, and ride up into the Montana Foothills, imagining
- 49:22Speaker 1: we were Meriwether Lewis and William Clark, or less pretentiously,
- 49:27Speaker 1: Gene Autry.
- 49:27Speaker 2: And the Lone Ranger.
- 49:29Speaker 1: And then overnight that entire world vanished, and in its
- 49:33Speaker 1: place girls. It was during these rather frequent transitions from
- 49:40Speaker 1: one enthusiasm to another. I was slapped with the reprimand Eugene,
- 49:44Speaker 1: you have no stick touitiveness. You have stick tuitiveness? Or
- 49:50Speaker 1: are you kind of high and low, up and down?
- 49:56Speaker 2: You don't move through life?
- 49:57Speaker 1: Your ricochet bounce from one fad to another fad, one
- 50:01Speaker 1: fashion to another speaker, one singer to another kind of music,
- 50:05Speaker 1: and you know where in the world you are. You
- 50:07Speaker 1: lack steadfastness in Christ. You last a long obedience in
- 50:13Speaker 1: the same direction, he says later, I found that the
- 50:17Speaker 1: church has a better name for it, perseverance.
- 50:21Speaker 2: Perseverance give me or.
- 50:27Speaker 1: Leave from me most qualities, but don't take away from me.
- 50:30Speaker 2: Perseverance.
- 50:32Speaker 1: That's what gets me beyond my feelings. That's what keeps
- 50:35Speaker 1: me on target. That's what gets a job done. How
- 50:41Speaker 1: do pastors and flocks stay together? What are some of
- 50:44Speaker 1: the secrets of long term ministry so that we don't
- 50:47Speaker 1: change pastorates about every time we change our minds? What
- 50:51Speaker 1: are the secrets of staying together? Well, this is no
- 50:54Speaker 1: inspired list, but I got two or three things in mind.
- 50:58Speaker 1: First would be a personal commitment to pray. A personal
- 51:05Speaker 1: commitment to prayer, Let's put it that way. To prayer
- 51:09Speaker 1: you pray for me, I pray for you. We pray
- 51:11Speaker 1: for each other. We pray in season and out of season.
- 51:15Speaker 1: We pray each other through highs and lows. We pray
- 51:18Speaker 1: ourselves into the will of God. We pray ourselves through opposition.
- 51:22Speaker 1: A personal commitment to prayer. Second would be a mutual
- 51:27Speaker 1: agreement on essentials. We can't get along very long if
- 51:32Speaker 1: we disagree on essentials. Those non essentials are many more
- 51:36Speaker 1: in number. However, so how you part your hair is
- 51:40Speaker 1: up to you. Whether you want to wear a wig
- 51:42Speaker 1: is up to you.
- 51:44Speaker 2: Whether you want to.
- 51:45Speaker 1: Dress in fashion or out of fashion, that's up to you.
- 51:47Speaker 1: Whether you want to take a bath or not, that's
- 51:50Speaker 1: up to you and a few people who sit around you.
- 51:53Speaker 1: A lot of personal things of whatever kind of car
- 51:55Speaker 1: you want to drive, drive that kind of.
- 51:56Speaker 2: Car, it's up to you. Wherever you want to live,
- 51:59Speaker 2: it's up to you.
- 52:01Speaker 1: When it comes to the essentials of the faith, we
- 52:03Speaker 1: got to agree, we can't get along. We got to
- 52:07Speaker 1: have the freedom and we got to have the sticktuitiveness
- 52:10Speaker 1: to agree on essentials. And don't make your list of
- 52:13Speaker 1: essentials too long, or you start getting legal, you start
- 52:16Speaker 1: getting petty. That's the sign of a young pastor. His
- 52:21Speaker 1: list is longer than older pastors. Number Three sacrificial involvement
- 52:28Speaker 1: in ministry. We got to have that, and it can't
- 52:32Speaker 1: be one way. I can't be the only one sacrificing,
- 52:36Speaker 1: and it's not fair for just a few of you.
- 52:38Speaker 2: We got to be in this together. That has to
- 52:42Speaker 2: do with such things.
- 52:42Speaker 1: It's how we spend our time and how involved we
- 52:45Speaker 1: are in the financial support of a ministry. It has
- 52:49Speaker 1: to do with what are we going to do when
- 52:51Speaker 1: it comes to the Lord's Day and how much in
- 52:53Speaker 1: service are we going to find ourselves?
- 52:55Speaker 2: Are we going to be among those that just sit
- 52:57Speaker 2: and soak and sour?
- 52:58Speaker 1: Are we going to get in the action and it's
- 53:00Speaker 1: going to involve sacrifice or we can't get the job done.
- 53:05Speaker 1: I can't preach when I feel like it. I've got
- 53:07Speaker 1: to preach even when I don't feel like it. You
- 53:10Speaker 1: can usually tell when that happens too. Fourth is a
- 53:15Speaker 1: humble acknowledgment of need. A humble acknowledgment of need. We
- 53:20Speaker 1: all have to see ourselves as being in the same boat.
- 53:23Speaker 1: We all have needs, and I acknowledge that and you
- 53:27Speaker 1: must too. Sometime I need a reproof. Sometime I need
- 53:32Speaker 1: to be put back on course.
- 53:33Speaker 2: Sometime you do too. Sometime I need a good shake
- 53:38Speaker 2: from the hand of God, or from a brother who
- 53:40Speaker 2: loves me too much to let me play in the traffic.
- 53:43Speaker 2: And sometime you need that too. There's one thing we
- 53:48Speaker 2: certainly need, and that is to be preoccupied with a
- 53:52Speaker 2: living God. Don't let me get in the way of
- 53:56Speaker 2: that deal the show.
- 54:03Speaker 1: I love the little note that was written to Phillips Brooks.
- 54:06Speaker 1: When he got discouraged, he would return to these little
- 54:09Speaker 1: notes he filed away from people who loved him. One
- 54:14Speaker 1: man wrote, I am a tailor in a little shop
- 54:18Speaker 1: near your church, and whenever I have the opportunity, I
- 54:23Speaker 1: always go to hear you preach.
- 54:26Speaker 2: Each time I seem to forget all about you, for
- 54:32Speaker 2: you make me think of God. Let's bow together.
- 54:44Speaker 1: I want you to be comfortable in the Lord's presence
- 54:46Speaker 1: for just a few moments, please, just a few moments.
- 54:55Speaker 1: How much time have you spent this week thinking about God?
- 55:01Speaker 2: Oh?
- 55:01Speaker 1: I mean even if you weren't working on your Sunday
- 55:03Speaker 1: school lesson, or you weren't preparing your sermon, or you
- 55:07Speaker 1: weren't getting ready to give a talk.
- 55:09Speaker 2: On spiritual things.
- 55:12Speaker 1: I mean, just when you weren't thinking about anything, do
- 55:17Speaker 1: you think about God. Maybe that's the reason your life
- 55:23Speaker 1: has been marked by lack of joy rather than the
- 55:26Speaker 1: presence of joy. Maybe that sticktuitiveness is getting a little
- 55:32Speaker 1: thin because you're thinking only about yourself rather than the
- 55:38Speaker 1: greatness of God. Ever made a trip to the cross,
- 55:47Speaker 1: Ever bent in the shadow of the cross and told
- 55:49Speaker 1: the Lord that you need him and you take him
- 55:54Speaker 1: as your savior. Come on time for that journey. If
- 56:00Speaker 1: you've never made it, And if you're one of these
- 56:05Speaker 1: people still trying to fight your own battles, I'll tell you.
- 56:08Speaker 2: Your opposition is going to win. There's too many of them.
- 56:14Speaker 2: Rest in the Lord. Wait patiently for him. He will
- 56:22Speaker 2: reward you. Let him fight for you, even if you
- 56:28Speaker 2: know you're right, Let him fight for you. And so, Lord,
- 56:35Speaker 2: today we thank you for the Church. This was your
- 56:40Speaker 2: original idea. Your son announced that he will build the church,
- 56:45Speaker 2: and the gates of Hades would never prevail against it.
- 56:49Speaker 2: And we have lived all through these centuries and realized
- 56:52Speaker 2: that that promise is still good and will be forever.
- 56:57Speaker 2: Thank you for the privilege of being able to communicate
- 56:59Speaker 2: these things today, and I pray that this message will
- 57:03Speaker 2: be used as an effective and sharp tool in the
- 57:07Speaker 2: lives of those who lead the church, as well as
- 57:11Speaker 2: those who are a part of your family of the
- 57:16Speaker 2: Body of Christ. I pray that as a result of
- 57:20Speaker 2: digesting these truths, that changes might occur, and good might result,
- 57:26Speaker 2: and ultimately greater glory be brought to your name as
- 57:32Speaker 2: we serve you through the local church. Thank you, our
- 57:37Speaker 2: Father in Jesus' name, for the privilege of being able
- 57:41Speaker 2: to participate in this eternal work together, and for your
- 57:46Speaker 2: blessings and for your favor. We ask as we continue
- 57:50Speaker 2: to serve you in this manner, in the name of
- 57:54Speaker 2: the Lord Jesus, I pray Amen. The preceding message, Chords
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- 58:04Speaker 2: eighty six, nineteen ninety one, two thousand and two, and
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