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Happy Hour #68: Dear SMNTY · Stuff Mom Never Told You

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  Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha, and welcome to stuff
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  Speaker 1: I never told you a production of I Heart Radio.
• 0:18
  Speaker 1: And welcome to another happy hour. Um. As always, if
• 0:23
  Speaker 1: you choose to drink, please do so responsibly. Uh, and
• 0:26
  Speaker 1: you know we've been talking a lot. There's a lot
• 0:29
  Speaker 1: of heavy stuff going on lately in the United States,
• 0:34
  Speaker 1: in the world, and look at some potential vacation and
• 0:39
  Speaker 1: moving happening. Berries. Moving is so stressful, so we thought
• 0:49
  Speaker 1: we would do a lighter one today. That's sort of
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  Speaker 1: a companion piece to our Turning Red episode. But what
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  Speaker 1: are you slipping on, Samantha? I think I had this
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  Speaker 1: last time, but it's see bells over on. I got
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  Speaker 1: the can addition because typically they come in glass bottles.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm just chaking up beer. It's a very
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  Speaker 1: summary beer, probably one of my face not quite a
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  Speaker 1: wheat beer, but almost a wheat beer, so it makes
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  Speaker 1: me happy, but still very beer eat. Yes, and by
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  Speaker 1: the way, we're not sponsored. Hey, but someone melts you
• 1:19
  Speaker 1: want to sponsor me? I love reach out. I'm drinking
• 1:26
  Speaker 1: essentially a margarita, but I used my special color changing stuff,
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  Speaker 1: so it's purple, purplely blue. Because today is Revenge of
• 1:35
  Speaker 1: the Fifth as we record this, and I'm drinking out
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  Speaker 1: of my Vader glass excited. That's exciting. She's so decked
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  Speaker 1: out in Star Wars No Surprise. Yeah. Yeah. My friend
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  Speaker 1: texted me because we're supposed to go see a New
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  Speaker 1: Hope theaters and she's like, are you dressing up? And
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  Speaker 1: I said, I'll probably wear some light costuming and she
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  Speaker 1: was like, I met like a dress and I was like,
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  Speaker 1: who do you think you're talking to? Come out of
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  Speaker 1: the same thing. You guys are going to a very
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  Speaker 1: themed thing at a theater that is no for people
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  Speaker 1: dressing up, So he has in costuming, so that made
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  Speaker 1: perfect is to me. It was very very funny because
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  Speaker 1: I could tell she was confused. But that's actually a
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  Speaker 1: good uh segue into the conversation I want to have,
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  Speaker 1: which is just kind of a light heart to talk
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  Speaker 1: about some crushes we had, some fan stuff we might
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  Speaker 1: have done that now feels very embarrassing because after Turning
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  Speaker 1: Red came out, I did have all of these memories
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  Speaker 1: come back to me. I am clearly someone who does
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  Speaker 1: fan a lot, like I get really into something which
• 2:41
  Speaker 1: I have been changed for in the past. But we're
• 2:43
  Speaker 1: not really going to talk about that today. I I
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  Speaker 1: didn't mention in that episode, which if you haven't listened
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  Speaker 1: to it, go check it out. Then. I have written
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  Speaker 1: several fan letters in my day, and all of them
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  Speaker 1: I I don't know if regrets the right word, but
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  Speaker 1: I hope they're destroyed. I hope they don't exist anywhere.
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  Speaker 1: So one of them I wrote when I was nine
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  Speaker 1: years old. I had a huge crush on Ryan Gosling,
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  Speaker 1: who was in the show called Young Hercules that I
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  Speaker 1: still own. I recorded them on VHS every day after school,
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  Speaker 1: and so I'm like, I bet I could convert the
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  Speaker 1: use and maybe make some money or either I'd get sued,
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  Speaker 1: probably that one. But I had a huge crush on him,
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  Speaker 1: like embarrassingly huge. I had a little Reese's lunchbox that
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  Speaker 1: had pictures that I would cut out from paper like
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  Speaker 1: magazines and stuff. I had a little like talkback thing
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  Speaker 1: from a time in the show where he said I
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  Speaker 1: love you, and I would just play it. Yeah, it's bad,
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  Speaker 1: it's embarrassing. And I wrote him a letter and I
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  Speaker 1: dotted all the eyes with hearts. That's amazing. Even better,
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  Speaker 1: I feel like that's just iconic, an iconic move. Oh.
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  Speaker 1: I dotted all the eyes with hearts. It was a
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  Speaker 1: two page letter. I really don't remember anything it said
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  Speaker 1: except at the end I said, p S. Will you
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  Speaker 1: be my Valentine? Oh? I hope it's been destroyed. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know why I feel like I hope it exists.
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  Speaker 1: I don't remember doing fan letters, um, to be fair like,
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  Speaker 1: I think that's a lot of that was a blur
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  Speaker 1: for me. I may have because my brother did. And
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  Speaker 1: one of the fan letters was for Tiffany, an eighties musician,
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  Speaker 1: and he actually received something back, uh, and I was like, oh, interesting.
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  Speaker 1: But I did have the New Kids in the Block lunchbox.
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  Speaker 1: I definitely had that and carried that around once to
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  Speaker 1: say it was Joey that I loved. I can't remember
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  Speaker 1: it was Joey or Jordan's. I think it was Joey
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  Speaker 1: because I knew he was closer to my age at
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  Speaker 1: that point in time. But yeah, I definitely was say
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  Speaker 1: beyond that, I don't think so. Of course, I still
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  Speaker 1: had the fantasies as a teenager. That yes, one of
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  Speaker 1: the instinct boys again, Lance Mass, which is so many levels.
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  Speaker 1: Obviously that Lance Bass was definitely going to find me
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  Speaker 1: meet me, and we were going to have that moment
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  Speaker 1: such as Turning Red where he realizes I'm not I'm
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  Speaker 1: not like the other girls. Yes, again, this is a
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  Speaker 1: really badganistic tropes in my head and therefore more special
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  Speaker 1: for him to choose, which again, he could care less
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  Speaker 1: if I'm not like other girls because he doesn't care
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  Speaker 1: about girls. Right, like that, like that, right, And that
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  Speaker 1: is one point I wanted to make an the Turning
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  Speaker 1: Red one, and we didn't. I do believe like that
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  Speaker 1: kind of fan girling and falling, feeling like you're in
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  Speaker 1: love with somebody. I actually cried the day I realized
• 5:47
  Speaker 1: Ryan Goslick and I were never gonna get married. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it is a safe space to explore sexuality generally, but
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  Speaker 1: as we talked about in the Emo pop one, not
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  Speaker 1: always right. That is a good note. Okay, So I
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  Speaker 1: got older. My next big crush was Daniel Radcliffe. I
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  Speaker 1: had it. It was bad, very huge crush on him.
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  Speaker 1: It was It was like started because, as I said,
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  Speaker 1: I generally go for fictional characters, so it started as
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  Speaker 1: Harry Potter, but then because he was Harry Potter's age,
• 6:17
  Speaker 1: it kind of became like very intertwined for me, I
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  Speaker 1: wrote him a fan letter. This one I find even
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  Speaker 1: more embarrassing because at least with the Ryan Gossling one,
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  Speaker 1: I was nine. This when I was fourteen, and I
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  Speaker 1: wrote a letter in which I tried to break down.
• 6:35
  Speaker 1: I think I was trying to seem deep, but I
• 6:38
  Speaker 1: was talking about the meaning of life and like for
• 6:43
  Speaker 1: like at the end, this seems to be a theme
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  Speaker 1: with me. I put some note of like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: in America there's this thing called prom. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: if you've never wanted to go, but like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I'd be available. That's so amazing. But you know what,
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  Speaker 1: kids are not doing that today? And they did typically
• 7:01
  Speaker 1: put it on social media and sometimes it works. Is
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  Speaker 1: it sexual? No? Is it all about oh this is
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  Speaker 1: fun or publicity or whatever a kind hearted gesture? Yes,
• 7:11
  Speaker 1: but hey you're shot and I missed, which is again
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  Speaker 1: for the best. I think I never read it. Who
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  Speaker 1: is Daniel Radcliffe with now? Like she's not a big celebrity, right,
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  Speaker 1: she's someone educational. I feel like it's uh, I have
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  Speaker 1: to go back and look. But it's not like your
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  Speaker 1: typical young stars, Like he was never rented to that,
• 7:37
  Speaker 1: so who knows? Maybe had he just read it instead
• 7:41
  Speaker 1: of bypassing it like probably his publicity is probably his
• 7:46
  Speaker 1: publicist was just like, we're gonna just stamp these, you know,
• 7:50
  Speaker 1: had he maybe read yours, it could have been a
• 7:53
  Speaker 1: different story, some like Branching Universe, where I actually did
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  Speaker 1: maybe with Daniel Radcliffe. Oh my gosh. Again, I can't
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  Speaker 1: remember the contents of the letter other than the general
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  Speaker 1: vibe was very like, oh so emo oh, And I
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  Speaker 1: think at the time, I'm embarrassed to admit this, but
• 8:15
  Speaker 1: I'll admit it. I did watch like interviews with him,
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  Speaker 1: so I was trying to be like he said something
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  Speaker 1: like he liked emo girls, so I was like, ah,
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  Speaker 1: it's a perfect match. I mean, that was the idea
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  Speaker 1: behind publicist in there, like to get to the point
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  Speaker 1: that it feels like they are talking to you individually
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  Speaker 1: and pointing you out, and those connections can only be
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  Speaker 1: felt by you. It's a genius marketing rap, like it's
• 8:49
  Speaker 1: the kind of that whole thing of like, for the
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  Speaker 1: longest time, the celebrities could not show that they were
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  Speaker 1: in relationships, especially if you're a teenage heartthrob type of conversation,
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  Speaker 1: and yes, heartthrob, I am all don't start with me.
• 9:01
  Speaker 1: But they they had to be present single because they
• 9:05
  Speaker 1: need to be ever available to the fans. Um And
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  Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, it's definitely a conversation. And again not
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  Speaker 1: that Lance Bass would have come out anytime earlier, but
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  Speaker 1: one of the things about being a boy band was, no,
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  Speaker 1: you can't be gay, you have to be straight. These
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  Speaker 1: girls I have to believe they have a chance with you,
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  Speaker 1: like in that level and that conversation and like what
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  Speaker 1: that looks like and how that goes and this again,
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  Speaker 1: for those you have to also have this like level
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  Speaker 1: of purity as well, which is that whole different trope
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  Speaker 1: in itself. But yeah, because they were smart, they played
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  Speaker 1: at the game. They made sure that they felt this
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  Speaker 1: energy and connection and be real and you know, we
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  Speaker 1: have to have this conversation, not necessarily because people are
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  Speaker 1: crushing on us in general, but the fact that we
• 9:53
  Speaker 1: are very honest and try to we understand people can
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  Speaker 1: pick up on fake pretty quickly. Yeah. Yeah, and I'd
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  Speaker 1: forgotten about that whole conversation. I'm glad you brought that up,
• 10:05
  Speaker 1: because that was the conversation with Taylor Swift even for
• 10:08
  Speaker 1: a while where they were like she's hiding she's dating
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  Speaker 1: someone because she needs to be single. A lot of
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  Speaker 1: boy bands do you have that. I don't like to
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  Speaker 1: see the fandom where you turn on the love the
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  Speaker 1: person who is with whoever you're crushing on because you're
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  Speaker 1: then you're mad because you can't be with them at
• 10:39
  Speaker 1: least for no legitimate reason. That, and that's especially in
• 10:44
  Speaker 1: the age of social media, is why they attack people's partners.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not a fan of Justin Bieber, but when he
• 10:52
  Speaker 1: got together with his new now wife, it was a
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  Speaker 1: whole dramatic things. She was getting harassed, it was over
• 11:01
  Speaker 1: the top, and without even knowing who she was. Like,
• 11:04
  Speaker 1: of course, there might be other reasons not to like her.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know anything about her other
• 11:08
  Speaker 1: than she's a beautiful woman who came into her own
• 11:12
  Speaker 1: got together with Justin Bieber. Now like finally got to
• 11:15
  Speaker 1: the point of just like them being a couple and
• 11:18
  Speaker 1: being fine, But like, she still gets messages about how
• 11:21
  Speaker 1: they hate her. In comparison to Selena Gomez. Yeah, that
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  Speaker 1: whole celebrity dating scene with fans just sounds like a nightmare.
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  Speaker 1: It's so weird. Things like this whole ownership of a
• 11:34
  Speaker 1: couple of them on top of the individual too. It's
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  Speaker 1: such an odd level of loving someone or really feeling
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  Speaker 1: like they're in tune with someone. And to a certain extent, sure,
• 11:47
  Speaker 1: you do you as long as you're not harming anybody.
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  Speaker 1: But if you're throwing out threats and calling people names
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  Speaker 1: because you're mad, it's like, oh, you might want to
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  Speaker 1: take that back. Yeah, And I thought about this a
• 12:01
  Speaker 1: lot because of fan fiction. But as I said, when
• 12:05
  Speaker 1: I first started reading fan fiction, everyone hated pretty much.
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  Speaker 1: Everyone hated all the women are girls. They hated them
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  Speaker 1: because essentially it was oh, Jenny Weasley, who is a
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  Speaker 1: very popular one that everyone hated. She stepped in and
• 12:21
  Speaker 1: like ruined this formula. She's not good enough or whatever.
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  Speaker 1: But it was hate. Like you can criticize the character,
• 12:26
  Speaker 1: but there's a difference between that and just like outright
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  Speaker 1: hating them because you think they've gotten a way of
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  Speaker 1: your relationship. And luckily I've seen that again, I'm in
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  Speaker 1: a specific corner of fan fiction, so I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: but in my experience has changed and now people are
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  Speaker 1: really embracing um these characters, which I'm very very happy
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  Speaker 1: to see. But ultimately, like when you're seeing it play
• 12:49
  Speaker 1: out with these real life celebrities. Um, these are real
• 12:54
  Speaker 1: people and you're attacking them. You don't know them. And
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  Speaker 1: also it's still it kind of comes down to like
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  Speaker 1: pitting women against women, right, And it's really concerning when
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  Speaker 1: they start blowing the lines from the actor or the
• 13:10
  Speaker 1: person who's portraying a character to the character in the
• 13:12
  Speaker 1: level which kudos to them, they're an amazing actor if
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  Speaker 1: they can really fool you into thinking that's the that's
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  Speaker 1: their persona also really bad at the same time, Like,
• 13:22
  Speaker 1: I still feel bad for the dude who played Geoffrey
• 13:25
  Speaker 1: and Game with Throws and he's pretty much since it
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  Speaker 1: was like I quit, I don't think I can do
• 13:28
  Speaker 1: anything because he played the worst character so well, Like
• 13:33
  Speaker 1: he did so well in that character, and it turns
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  Speaker 1: out from what I've heard, of course I don't know him,
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  Speaker 1: just that he's just a genuinely good kid and good
• 13:41
  Speaker 1: guy and people who knew and loved him, but this
• 13:44
  Speaker 1: character is so horrendous that he's like, no one's gonna
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  Speaker 1: like I'm tired of acting. I don't know this. This
• 13:49
  Speaker 1: acting process was you know, painful, whatever, and it's not
• 13:53
  Speaker 1: for me whatever whatnot. But like also probably knowing that
• 13:57
  Speaker 1: this is going to be the typecast and he may
• 13:58
  Speaker 1: forever be the villain. Some people are like, okay with
• 14:01
  Speaker 1: Gary Oldman, one of the classic bad guys, I'm like
• 14:05
  Speaker 1: every time I see and I'm like, you're the worst
• 14:07
  Speaker 1: person ever Sands, you know, Harry Potter, but you know,
• 14:12
  Speaker 1: he really does play that character so well and he
• 14:15
  Speaker 1: loved and he loves that character for the longest time
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  Speaker 1: that it is kind of like who it's really hard
• 14:20
  Speaker 1: to differentiate you because you're so good at it. But
• 14:23
  Speaker 1: realizing like we can't abuse people it's because we don't
• 14:27
  Speaker 1: like the character they played, or like genuinely begin to
• 14:31
  Speaker 1: hate it, not the character, but hated the character in itself,
• 14:34
  Speaker 1: or because there was someone and it's not you, right right.
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: I mean, that's a whole conversation about that's so much
• 14:42
  Speaker 1: like fan entitled ement, fan entitlement and ownership. That is
• 14:46
  Speaker 1: really really problematic. I will say, in my case, Danny
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: Racliffe did SNAr response. It was obviously not him, but
• 14:55
  Speaker 1: you know I did get yeah, I did get respect
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  Speaker 1: an autograph picture and I later I saw him at
• 15:04
  Speaker 1: a place in New York and I got his autograph
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  Speaker 1: in person and I froze, Like you want to say,
• 15:11
  Speaker 1: did you ask him on a date? It's like I
• 15:13
  Speaker 1: turned into a mannequin and I was just holding it
• 15:16
  Speaker 1: and he walked by and signed it and that was
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: the end of the air. I love that moment. That
• 15:23
  Speaker 1: would be moments like that. I'm like, I don't I
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: don't know what to do. I was like, this is
• 15:28
  Speaker 1: the world. Why did I try this? This is terrible?
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: Get out, get out, get out. I do that with
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: people that other people don't know. But I have admired
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: from afar that I'm like, and they genuinely don't typically
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: get that reaction, but because I know of them, are like,
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: I can't talk to him. It's just it's just but heard.
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  Speaker 1: That was part Cannon. I remember. I was so flustered.
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  Speaker 1: It was so bad. I still loved her and she
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: called me soon after. I called me friend. I was like, oh,
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: likely you might have a daught forever. Mean that one time.
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: But yeah, people who I admire and do amazing things,
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  Speaker 1: I freeze and I just babble. Is hard for it's
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: hardcore for me. Me Yeah, me too, me too. I
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  Speaker 1: don't think I've ever I actually don't super as much
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: as it doesn't sound like it right now. I don't
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  Speaker 1: super get into celebrity culture often. That's why when I
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: do get into it, I get into it. Why I
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: think the person I would be most nervous about, because
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: we've talked about old a couple of people I would
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: be most nervous about, because I think we had a
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: dream list. Eves when she was producer back with was like,
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: send me a dreamless of people, and I was like,
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: those would be the people I would like, just buckle under.
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: I think Michelle Obama was like the big one. I
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: was like, I would die, I would die, um, and
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: then below that would pat the locks for me and
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: other please for a lot of Jesus, let me meet her. Hey,
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: there's still time. There's still time. But yeah, I was
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: just thinking about this. I because ever since we did
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: that Turning Red one and then my friends and I
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: because I've been very open about writing fan letters and
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: kind of the embarrassing while looking back now feels embarrassing
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: to me fans stuff that I've done. But I've had
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: some friends come out of the woodwork and I really
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: enjoyed the conversation and hearing like, oh, you wrote a
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: letter to that person. I did not ever write a
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: letter to Billy Joe Armstrong our Green Day that was
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: my big band. I did join their fan club. I
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: paid money to join their fan club, but I never
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: had enough the money to do that. But yeah, I
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: thought about it. Yeah it was nice. I mean they
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: put up like clips and new songs and stuff. I
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: think it's twenty bucks. But I definitely went to So.
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: They have a tradition at their concerts where when they
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: play long View I think it's the name of the song.
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: Oh gosh, if I got it wrong, I'm terrible fan.
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: They bring on person from the audience to play with him,
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: and then the person gets to keep the guitar. And
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: I tried. I went to like five concerts trying to
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: get up. There be the one. I learned to play
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: guitar because of that. Yeah, yeah, so that's some serious
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: fan activity. You would have been Would you have been
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: one of those girls who just sits and cries or
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: passed out. I don't think I would have cried. I
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: think I would have been shaking so badly, which I
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: actually so happened to somebody who got pulled up on stage.
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: It was a young kid, actually he was shaking so
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: badly couldn't play, and they were very kind with him.
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: They started playing for to cover up what he was doing.
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: I don't think I would have passed out, but there
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: have been something like I think from the back row,
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: from the nose bleeds you could have seen me shaking. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: that It sounds like fun, and then you would think
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: about the real like implications of it, and they're like, no,
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: I don't, I don't want that. I don't, I don't
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