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Dr. Cheyenne Goes Off On Ne-Yo, Gervonta Tank Davis Announces He'll Be Retiring From Boxing + More · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: So I know.
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  Speaker 2: And yesterday's Jess with the Mess, we talked about Tank
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  Speaker 2: saying that he wants to retire.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, take the boxing Tank.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Fante Davis.
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  Speaker 2: For all of us that are close to Baltimore, Delaware, Philly,
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  Speaker 2: Jersey area, some of us call them Tank my bad y'all.
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  Speaker 1: Gervonte Davis.
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  Speaker 2: Now, a lot of people were like, you know what,
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  Speaker 2: that's cap He is not retiring, It's not happening.
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  Speaker 1: But he talked a bit more about why.
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  Speaker 2: He is making the decision after a few fights to
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  Speaker 2: step away from boxing.
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  Speaker 1: Let's take a listen.
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  Speaker 4: That's why I don't want box no more. I want
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  Speaker 4: to do therapy right but I feelished though if I
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  Speaker 4: do therapy, it would lose the fire that I have
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  Speaker 4: and shaw me. I want everything out of me west
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  Speaker 4: though I don't never think about fighting again. I don't
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  Speaker 4: think about even a getting angry, you know what I mean,
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  Speaker 4: because I have two girls, two daughters. I'm wanting to
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  Speaker 4: be much soft for you know what I mean, be
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  Speaker 4: more humble and things like that.
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  Speaker 2: I've always actually thought about that just in general, like
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  Speaker 2: like when you go to therapy. I feel like when
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  Speaker 2: people go to therapy and it's successful. You see the
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  Speaker 2: difference in them just by their demeanor, their toned or paid.
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  Speaker 2: And I always thought like when you do things like
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  Speaker 2: where you have to be like sharp and kind of
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  Speaker 2: like aggressive.
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  Speaker 1: A bit, do you do people avoid therapy because of that?
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  Speaker 2: Boxers' broadcasters like, yeah.
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  Speaker 3: That's some people, because you know a lot of people
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  Speaker 3: just feel like boxes are very very aggressive. But if
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  Speaker 3: you ever talk to Mike Tyson or you talk to
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  Speaker 3: Floyd Mayweb and you see them with their kids, they're
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  Speaker 3: very calm, very sensitive, very mild manner when it comes
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  Speaker 3: to their families, Well maybe it might be different.
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  Speaker 5: No, I think. I think even with Mike Tyson, Like
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  Speaker 5: you know, Mike Tyson has done a lot of work
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  Speaker 5: on himself, so you're getting a different version of Mike Tyson.
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  Speaker 5: But you know what people probably don't understand sometimes when
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  Speaker 5: it comes to you know, those sports, especially like boxing,
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  Speaker 5: a lot of that times when you got that pain
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  Speaker 5: in you or that hurt, you haven't dealt with that trauma,
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  Speaker 5: that's what that's why you're able to go in there
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  Speaker 5: and project yeah you know what I mean, You're able
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  Speaker 5: to go in there and project that on other people.
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  Speaker 5: So yeah, if you do go to therapy and start
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  Speaker 5: smoothing off them rough edges. I can see where you
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  Speaker 5: I see what I can see what tankers talk about
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  Speaker 5: when you could lose that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I even thought about that, like for like actors
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  Speaker 2: and music artists and stuff like that too, like people
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  Speaker 2: that get in the creative space because of their trauma.
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  Speaker 2: I always sing about that as well. Now I do know, yes,
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  Speaker 2: so yesterday that what you guys were talking about was
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  Speaker 2: the pressor he did with Roach Junior. But he has
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  Speaker 2: talked about wanting to possibly get back in the ring,
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  Speaker 2: or just the option of whether he will. Jordan not
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  Speaker 2: with lection cor. She doesn't want to do your cor right,
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  Speaker 2: he says, it's no point to it to.
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  Speaker 5: Your femal Lopez Loma Chenko, Devin Hainey, schakor those are
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  Speaker 5: all great fights for tank Well.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know how many of them he will well
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  Speaker 2: will not take. But I just I mean, I think
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  Speaker 2: it's a great thing he wants to do therapy, But
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  Speaker 2: I just a'm thinking about like life after boxing for
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  Speaker 2: him if he does, if it does make the change
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  Speaker 2: that he thinks is going to happen, but I think
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  Speaker 2: it'll be good for his family and his kids. So
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  Speaker 2: now moving on speaking to therapy doctor Cheyenne Bryant. You
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  Speaker 2: know she's been up here. She's a friend to the room.
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  Speaker 2: She sat down with her show that she has on
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  Speaker 2: Fox Soul and it's called Truth Truth Talks on Fox Soul.
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  Speaker 2: She's a part of that cast and on that show
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  Speaker 2: she's a life expert. So they talk about different people's
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  Speaker 2: lives and different things that are going on, and they
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  Speaker 2: got into the kind conversation of Neo and you know,
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  Speaker 2: Neo now lives the relationship where he's able to be
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  Speaker 2: with multiple women at one time. They started discussing that.
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  Speaker 2: Let's take a listen.
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  Speaker 6: What is Neil to you, doctor b He's a womanizer.
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  Speaker 6: He cheated on his wife and that's why she left him.
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  Speaker 6: He didn't cheat once, he cheated over and over again.
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  Speaker 6: He's a womanizer. He's gaslighting himself and that wife to
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  Speaker 6: make it seem like he wants polyamorous, when you never
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  Speaker 6: wanted polyamoris from the beginning. You wanted to be married
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  Speaker 6: but didn't have the discipline to do it, and your
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  Speaker 6: wife left you because she didn't tolerate that, and so
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  Speaker 6: she pivoted from you. And now you're going and he's
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  Speaker 6: making these other women pay for the heartbreak that he
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  Speaker 6: calls to himself by saying, I want to be polyamorous.
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  Speaker 6: That's bs you want to be married. You don't have
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  Speaker 6: the discipline, you don't have the tools to do it.
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  Speaker 6: So now you want to make sure you put out
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  Speaker 6: into the world.
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  Speaker 1: Look at me.
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  Speaker 6: I want to be polarmis because I cheated. Know, you
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  Speaker 6: failed in your marriage. You're asked up and that's the problem.
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  Speaker 6: Now you need to heal from that. And I have
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  Speaker 6: these self project your pain onto these women about your
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  Speaker 6: messed up decision making period.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I couldn't even say the word because I would
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  Speaker 1: never be in that type of relationship.
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  Speaker 2: But I wonder if it was polynesia, polyN or poly whatever.
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  Speaker 2: Nothing about me, probably nothing.
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  Speaker 3: But I wonder if it's the opposite if he thought
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  Speaker 3: he wanted to be married but he's actually happy or
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  Speaker 3: not married, you know. I wonder if he thought that
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  Speaker 3: he could could be married and he wanted to be
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  Speaker 3: married it didn't like it. I wonder if it was
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  Speaker 3: the opposite type of thing, because everybody's relationship is different,
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  Speaker 3: you know.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, And I would like to offer a third opinion.
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  Speaker 5: Neil got how many wives.
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  Speaker 2: Now then they're his girlfriend's girlfriends or girlfriends's two I
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  Speaker 2: think three, two or three?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, two or.
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  Speaker 1: Three, So it's his wife and two girlfriends.
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  Speaker 2: The wife left him because he got Yeah he was cheating,
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  Speaker 2: and oh okay, so.
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  Speaker 5: All right, I understand that when you was with your wife,
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  Speaker 5: your wife wasn't on what type of time you on.
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  Speaker 5: So y'all ended up getting a divorce. And now you
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  Speaker 5: doing what it is you want to be doing.
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  Speaker 1: Correct, If it's working for him, I don't see the issue.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it could be, like I said, it could be
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  Speaker 3: the opposite of what she said. It could be he
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  Speaker 3: tried marriage, she didn't like it, it wasn't for him,
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  Speaker 3: and this is where he's happy.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't.
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  Speaker 2: So I hear what you guys are saying, and I
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  Speaker 2: think that that could be true. It also could just
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  Speaker 2: be god mass because as a woman, I think on
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  Speaker 2: one end, it's like, if that is for him and
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  Speaker 2: that's what he wants to do, great, go do that
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  Speaker 2: and be honest about it. But on the other end,
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  Speaker 2: I have encounter and I think that there are other
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  Speaker 2: women that can speak to this too. Men who cop
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  Speaker 2: out of full commitment by saying things like I don't
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  Speaker 2: believe in monogamy. No, you're just afraid to fully commit
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  Speaker 2: and be vulnerable because that takes a lot of work.
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  Speaker 5: That's sound like, that's sound like you're trying to tell
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  Speaker 5: that man what it is that he should feel.
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  Speaker 1: But that's his reality.
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  Speaker 5: If his reality is, hey, he don't believe in monogamous,
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  Speaker 5: better for me.
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  Speaker 1: These were the same men.
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  Speaker 2: That's why I said be honest, because the men I'm
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  Speaker 2: talking about will be the same man that is trying
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  Speaker 2: to be monogamous with you.
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  Speaker 1: But then when they mess up, it's.
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  Speaker 2: Like, oh, I don't think I really believe in monogamy,
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  Speaker 2: but they they're trying to be monogamous with you.
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  Speaker 1: It doesn't make any sense.
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  Speaker 5: Well, he was trying, that's the whole point of trying.
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  Speaker 5: And then you realize that I can't do this, go
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  Speaker 5: b like it happens.
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  Speaker 2: Once you realize it, then you should go live that
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  Speaker 2: lifestyle and stop trying because it is.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 2: It's good for him that he realized that he was
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  Speaker 2: being honest and he moved forward because a lot of
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  Speaker 2: men don't.
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  Speaker 5: A lot of men like in Sorry, but you did
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  Speaker 5: just triggered Lauren you know it triggered Lauren.
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  Speaker 1: Sorry, I'm sorry. I did not trigger me. Yes it did.
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  Speaker 5: You started talking to whoever that guy was that didna
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  Speaker 5: I am so sorry.
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  Speaker 3: That what his name is? He from Delaware.
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  Speaker 1: I don't date First of all, I don't date people
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  Speaker 1: in Delaware.
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  Speaker 3: You know when people start gett nervous, you start grabbing
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  Speaker 3: my cups up, my cup start cleaning.
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  Speaker 1: Up and she and she be telling live that can
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  Speaker 1: easily be disproven. Oh, you don't date men in Delaware.
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  Speaker 5: Now, every man in Delaware looking like in life when
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  Speaker 5: they were standing in the line.
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  Speaker 1: I'm the papa. I dated Lauren la Rosa. I dated
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  Speaker 1: Lauren Delaware for the majority of my life. So yes,
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  Speaker 1: I've dated man in Delaware. But why would you?
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  Speaker 5: You don't date men in Delaware? You see right now, right.
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  Speaker 2: Now, I'm not dating anybody in Delaware right now. And
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  Speaker 2: be you done with that cup?
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  Speaker 3: I'm done with that clean up around Charlae Mane.
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  Speaker 1: You need something cleaned over there. You got to get
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  Speaker 1: out of here. That's just let him live his life,
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  Speaker 1: I think.
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  Speaker 5: But Neo did exactly what it is you say you
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  Speaker 5: want guys to do it to be honest, be honest,
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  Speaker 5: that's it. That's right, dang, that took the whole time.
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  Speaker 3: Well, that is just with the mess with Lola Rosa.
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  Speaker 1: Wake that ass up Earth in the morning. The Breakfast
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