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159. 13 Lessons Going on 30... Hot Girls Don't Age, They UPGRADE !!! · Hot Girl Energy Podcast

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Speaker 1: Hello you guys, Welcome back to another episode of the
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Speaker 1: Hawtrel Energy Podcast. I'm your host, Kaylee, and this is
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Speaker 1: your weekly reminder that it's a new day, a new week,
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Speaker 1: a new mindset, and another day for you to become
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Speaker 1: the Howtral energy you want to attract. Hello you guys,
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Speaker 1: Welcome back to another episode. Life has been very busy.
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Speaker 2: Like so so busy.
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Speaker 1: I cannot believe how much has happened these past two weeks.
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Speaker 2: Just from not even recording an episode, I.
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Speaker 1: Feel like I'm feeling a little burnt out, not gonna lie,
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Speaker 1: but obviously I'm just like trying to take one step
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Speaker 1: at a time and like obviously realize how grateful I
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Speaker 1: am for everything that has happened these past two weeks,
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Speaker 1: but also just like kind of take a step back
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Speaker 1: and like, yeah, just like make other things kind of
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Speaker 1: a priority. But I am back this week. I'm so
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Speaker 1: sorry that I did not record an episode last week.
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Speaker 1: If you listened to the episode before this, then you
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Speaker 1: will know that I took last week off because it
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Speaker 1: was my husband's thirtieth birthday and I decided to spend
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Speaker 1: the week just kind of like prepping things for our
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Speaker 1: trip this weekend. We were in Toronto this past weekend,
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Speaker 1: and I surprised him with a trip to Toronto with
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Speaker 1: Jay's tickets for the home opener and just honestly like
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Speaker 1: a little weekend trip him and I.
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Speaker 2: And he was so surprised.
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Speaker 1: He was so grateful, and he just really really appreciated
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Speaker 1: the nice gesture that I did for his thirtieth I
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Speaker 1: of course wanted to go full out, just because obviously
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Speaker 1: turning thirty is such a big deal. And my husband's
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Speaker 1: that kind of person where he never wants the attention
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Speaker 1: to be around him, Like he's always like, no, I
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Speaker 1: don't want anything, or I don't want to party.
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Speaker 2: I don't you know.
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Speaker 1: He's like kind of also got a little bit of
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Speaker 1: social anxiety, which is so fine, and he's like, you know,
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Speaker 1: I just don't really want a big party, Like I
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Speaker 1: just kind of want something, you know, that's more his vibe.
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Speaker 1: Like he said, I just want something that I love
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Speaker 1: and that will make me happy.
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Speaker 2: And I'm like, okay.
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Speaker 1: This is where I did my deep digging and research
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Speaker 1: and found out that the Blue Jays had their home
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Speaker 1: opener the.
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Speaker 2: Weekend of his birthday, which is so wild.
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Speaker 1: So I immediately bought home opener tickets and he was
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Speaker 1: so happy when we were there, like he's like, this
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Speaker 1: is such a dream. And obviously the Jays did so
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Speaker 1: well last year making it to the World Series, and yeah,
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Speaker 1: he just like has such a.
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Speaker 2: Huge love for the sport.
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Speaker 1: He's been a Jays fan for years, Like this is
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Speaker 1: not something he just jumped on last year. Like he's
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Speaker 1: been loving the Jays since he was like a teenager.
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Speaker 1: I think another thing that just kind of plays a
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Speaker 1: huge factor into that is that Zach had a very
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Speaker 1: close relationship with his grandma, who recently actually passed away
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Speaker 1: this pass ball and his grandma and him would watch
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Speaker 1: the Blue Jays games together. Sometimes he would go over,
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Speaker 1: you know, she would cook us dinner and they would
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Speaker 1: watch the Jay's game together.
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Speaker 2: So it's just kind of like a special bond. When
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Speaker 2: he was sixteen and his.
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Speaker 1: Grandma took him and his brother to see his first
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Speaker 1: Jays game in person. So he just has a very
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Speaker 1: close bond to like the Jays. And since his grandma's passing,
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Speaker 1: I feel like he's made it a bigger priority to
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Speaker 1: at ten more games and watch every single game because
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Speaker 1: like that's something that he had with his.
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Speaker 2: Grandma, like a little relationship that they had with that.
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Speaker 1: So I think this game was just like really special
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Speaker 1: in that sense as well, not even just about like
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Speaker 1: his birthday, but like you know, just being at the
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Speaker 1: home opener and like having that opportunity, I think just
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Speaker 1: meant so much to him, and I'm so grateful that
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Speaker 1: I was able to do that with him. I think
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Speaker 1: that was just such a fun weekend, and I love
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Speaker 1: the Jays. I think it's such a fun activity to do.
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Speaker 1: If you live in Toronto, or even if you live
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Speaker 1: in a city that has MLB games, I highly recommend
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Speaker 1: going to a baseball game. They're so entertaining and I
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Speaker 1: don't know, I have really grown to love the sport.
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Speaker 2: I think in the beginning, when I.
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Speaker 1: First started dating my husband, I thought it was boring
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Speaker 1: and I had no interest in really watching theme. But
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Speaker 1: now I actually really enjoy it and I understand it.
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Speaker 1: And I've played with Zach, you know, baseball throughout the
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Speaker 1: years because he's grown up to play the sport and he.
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Speaker 2: Just really loves the sport.
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Speaker 1: So I just am grateful that I was able to
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Speaker 1: do that with him for his thirtieth birthday. So that's
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Speaker 1: what kind of happened this past weekend. Being in Toronto
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Speaker 1: was so fun. I always love seeing the Toronto girls.
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Speaker 1: I met so many of you guys on the street,
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Speaker 1: in shops at the hotel, Like, it was so fun
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Speaker 1: just to meet so many of you, and you guys
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Speaker 1: come up to me and say hi. So I always
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Speaker 1: appreciate when you guys say something to me. It means
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Speaker 1: the world to me. So not only did we have
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Speaker 1: Toronto this weekend for Zach's birthday, but I also had
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Speaker 1: a house appointment that we got to go through and
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Speaker 1: walk through our entire house for the very first time,
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Speaker 1: which was such a surreal feeling seeing things come to life.
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Speaker 2: You know, there's been so many design updates.
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Speaker 1: With like the archways and the electrical and the plumbing
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Speaker 1: and just kind of seeing the house fully framed and anyways.
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Speaker 1: It was just like such an excited walk through. And
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Speaker 1: we actually have our house set up to be drywalled
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Speaker 1: in like a week or two, which is wild that
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Speaker 1: they're already getting to that point.
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Speaker 2: So things are moving fast.
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Speaker 1: And we technically move into our new place in like
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Speaker 1: four months, which is so wild. So we're very excited
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Speaker 1: to yeah be in that new place and I feel
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Speaker 1: like my mind has definitely been really focusing on house stuff,
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Speaker 1: but also birthday party stuff, because if you guys know
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Speaker 1: my birthdays this weekend, i am turning thirty. Zach and
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Speaker 1: I are eleven days apart, we're both aries, and I'm
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Speaker 1: having a big thirtieth birthday party this weekend, and I'm
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Speaker 1: so freaking excited about it, And so I really wanted
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Speaker 1: to make this episode about me, kind of chatting about
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Speaker 1: things that I've learned throughout my twenties. It hasn't really
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Speaker 1: soaked in yet that I'm turning thirty in like four days,
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Speaker 1: and I'm very excited to turn thirty.
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Speaker 2: Like, I am very, very excited, but.
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Speaker 1: I also feel like there's a part of me where
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Speaker 1: it's kind of sad and scary to like know that
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Speaker 1: I'm leaving my twenties, because, you know, even though your
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Speaker 1: twenties are such a interesting time in your life, like,
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Speaker 1: I feel like my twenties was really a rollercoaster of
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Speaker 1: everything in terms of like figuring out my career, figuring
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Speaker 1: out my shit, you know, just like different things that
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Speaker 1: happened for so many different reasons, and I'm you know,
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Speaker 1: very grateful for the things that did happen in my life.
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Speaker 1: And I got married in my twenties, I got engaged,
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Speaker 1: I got a dog, I got a house, I bought
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Speaker 1: my first house. Like so much excitement and like beginnings
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Speaker 1: happened in my twenties, and I think, you know, I
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Speaker 1: feel like it was such a special time in my life,
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Speaker 1: and I feel so grateful for the opportunities that I had.
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Speaker 2: But I know there's going to be.
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Speaker 1: Even more opportunities and more excitement and new beginnings in
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Speaker 1: my thirties as well. So I think it's just a
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Speaker 1: bittersweet feeling. And I just like still can't believe that
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Speaker 1: I'm entering this decade, Like where has the time gone.
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Speaker 1: So I'm really excited to celebrate my birthday this weekend.
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Speaker 1: My birthdays on the fourth, which is actually on the Saturday,
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Speaker 1: so I'm having the party the Saturday night. It's also
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Speaker 1: Easter weekend, which it just so happened that my birthday
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Speaker 1: fell on Easter this year, but that's okay. So I'm
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Speaker 1: really excited for you guys to see the photos and
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Speaker 1: the videos.
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Speaker 2: I did a whole theme.
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Speaker 1: I went full out with decorations, and we hired a
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Speaker 1: live band, and anyway, it's going to be so fun,
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Speaker 1: So make sure to follow me on Instagram and TikTok
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Speaker 1: if you want to see the party come to life.
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Speaker 1: So I wrote out a few lessons that I personally
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Speaker 1: feel like it really hit me in my twenties and
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Speaker 1: things that I've learned throughout the way, and I just
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Speaker 1: kind of wanted to share some like real life experiences
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Speaker 1: that happened in my twenties that I learned from or
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Speaker 1: things that just kind of like opened my eyes about
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Speaker 1: certain situations and knowing that that's okay that those things happened.
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Speaker 1: And I feel like throughout these past ten years in
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Speaker 1: the beginning, there's obviously like a different journey in my
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Speaker 1: early twenties versus my late twenties. And I feel like
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Speaker 1: probably these last four years, like from twenty six to
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Speaker 1: twenty nine, I would say I've learned a lot more.
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Speaker 2: Than I did in the beginning of my twenties.
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Speaker 1: And I feel like in the beginning of my twenties,
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Speaker 1: I was really trying to figure out my life. And
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Speaker 1: I think that's very normal, and some people figure out
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Speaker 1: their life in their later twenties. It really just depends
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Speaker 1: on the person. But kind of just wanted to share
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Speaker 1: my story and the lessons that I've learned throughout these
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Speaker 1: past ten years. In my early twenties, I was in college.
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Speaker 1: I got my marketing degree and was really focused on business,
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Speaker 1: and I at that point had no idea what I
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Speaker 1: was going to do with my life. Like I know
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Speaker 1: for a fact, I had no idea what my job
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Speaker 1: was going to be. I had no idea what my
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Speaker 1: career path was going to be. All I knew is
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Speaker 1: that I loved marketing and I loved being in the
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Speaker 1: business side of things, but I didn't know.
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Speaker 2: Like what kind of business side. Right.
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Speaker 1: Of course, there's like so many job positions that you
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Speaker 1: can get in the business field, obviously specifically in the
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Speaker 1: marketing as well. There's like different positions in the marketing
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Speaker 1: field that you could do. So I felt like after
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Speaker 1: college I was very lost in the sense where I didn't.
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Speaker 2: Really know what I wanted to do with my life.
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Speaker 1: And I remember the first job that I ever got
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Speaker 1: was a serving job back in the day, and this
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Speaker 1: was like before college, and then I worked at Michael
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Speaker 1: Corer's during my college days.
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Speaker 2: They were very big then.
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Speaker 1: So for me, like that job was so cool, Like
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Speaker 1: I was so happy I had that job, but I
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Speaker 1: knew it wasn't my forever job, Like I knew that
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Speaker 1: wasn't like my future plans.
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Speaker 2: And then once I.
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Speaker 1: Was done college, I ended up working for my dad's
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Speaker 1: company because again I didn't really know what I wanted
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Speaker 1: to do with my life, so I thought that was
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Speaker 1: the best place to start, and my dad was giving
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Speaker 1: me the opportunity of trying out different positions. So at
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Speaker 1: one point I was a buyer, so I was helping
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Speaker 1: purchase things for the store, and then I I decided
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Speaker 1: to go down the marketing side and help the marketing
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Speaker 1: team where I was helping with visuals and social media posts.
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Speaker 2: And all that.
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Speaker 1: And then after that I went down the project management
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Speaker 1: route where I was essentially managing projects of them building
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Speaker 1: stores across Canada. So I really kind of jumped around,
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Speaker 1: not really knowing what I was going to do. I
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Speaker 1: remember in this point in my life, I was very
10:21
Speaker 1: lost in the sense where I felt like I didn't
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Speaker 1: like anything, Like I really did not love any position
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Speaker 1: that I did. I felt like an office job just
10:29
Speaker 1: wasn't for me. I felt like it wasn't something that
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Speaker 1: I was really passionate about. It wasn't something that you know,
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Speaker 1: made me feel good showing up to.
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Speaker 2: Work every single day. And I feel like when you
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Speaker 2: love your job.
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Speaker 1: You're very motivated, You're very driven, and like you want
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Speaker 1: to do better at it because you love it so much.
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Speaker 1: And I just felt like every position that I did
10:48
Speaker 1: with that company, nothing was serving me.
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Speaker 2: Like I could just tell that my body was not
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Speaker 2: wanting this, you know what I mean.
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Speaker 1: It was almost like trying to push it away, where
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Speaker 1: it's like this isn't for you, Like you need to
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Speaker 1: figure out something else. Like felt like there was just
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Speaker 1: like signs that things weren't working out for me in
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Speaker 1: that type of position. So I felt like I had
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Speaker 1: to do something different and that I had to make
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Speaker 1: a change. And this is where my social media and
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Speaker 1: influencer journey kind of started. When you know, my job
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Speaker 1: kind of took a step back with COVID and I
11:18
Speaker 1: couldn't really do much, which I think, honestly was like
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Speaker 1: a sign in a sense where it's like I couldn't
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Speaker 1: do the job that was happening, so I had to
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Speaker 1: do something else and take action. And I felt like
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Speaker 1: influencing was my calling, Like I felt like that was something.
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Speaker 2: That I loved so so much.
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Speaker 1: And I've always been into following YouTubers and instagrammers, and
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Speaker 1: I just never thought it would be something for me.
11:41
Speaker 1: But at that time, that's when they released reels and
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Speaker 1: TikTok videos, and then.
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Speaker 2: That's when I started to start sharing my life.
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Speaker 1: And I don't know, this confidence kind of just like
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Speaker 1: came out of nowhere too, because I look back at
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Speaker 1: like my early twenties. I tried to film a YouTube
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Speaker 1: video when I was twenty one, okay, yeah crazy.
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Speaker 2: Zach and I were in Paris.
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Speaker 1: I tried to film a YouTube blog and I remember
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Speaker 1: filming one video and I watched the video back and
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Speaker 1: I literally deleted it and I said to Zach, I
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Speaker 1: will never be doing that again. Like I was so embarrassed.
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Speaker 1: I had no confidence in myself. I was like critiquing
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Speaker 1: everything on my face. I thought I looked ugly, Like
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Speaker 1: I was just like so beyond hard on myself. And
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Speaker 1: when I was twenty five, I don't know what happened.
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Speaker 1: I feel like my confidence just completely shifted. I almost
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Speaker 1: like had the mindset of where I didn't really care
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Speaker 1: what people thought of me. I think I just like
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Speaker 1: really wanted to be an influencer. That nothing mattered to me.
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Speaker 1: I didn't care what people said about me online. I
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Speaker 1: really just like went straight into it and was like,
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Speaker 1: I'm just going to do this for myself.
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Speaker 2: If things work out, great, if things don't, then it
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Speaker 2: is what it is.
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Speaker 1: And so obviously things ended up working out, and that's
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Speaker 1: when I started to feel like, oh, this is for me,
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Speaker 1: Like this is my passion.
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Speaker 2: I love it. I'm driven, I'm.
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Speaker 1: Motivated, I'm consistent, like I constantly want to show up,
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Speaker 1: I constantly want to be online. I feel comfortable with
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Speaker 1: sharing my life and it's just something that I always
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Speaker 1: have enjoyed.
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Speaker 2: And so that's kind of how I.
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Speaker 1: Figure out like what I wanted to do was really
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Speaker 1: going through the journey of trying different things, and then
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Speaker 1: once I found my passion, that's when things started to
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Speaker 1: become successful and things started to work out, and that's
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Speaker 1: when I'm like, Okay, this is my calling. Like I
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Speaker 1: am driven, I am motivated. I want this so badly
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Speaker 1: that I want to make this my full time thing.
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Speaker 1: And so that kind of goes with the first lesson,
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Speaker 1: which is your first job is not your forever path.
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Speaker 1: So if you're in your early twenties, if you're just
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Speaker 1: getting out of college, and you think, oh, I need
13:25
Speaker 1: to figure out my career path as soon as I'm
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Speaker 1: out of school.
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Speaker 2: That is not the case whatsoever.
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Speaker 1: It took me five to six years to figure out
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Speaker 1: what I wanted to do with my life and what
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Speaker 1: my career path was, and that it's important to know
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Speaker 1: that everybody's.
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Speaker 2: Journey is different.
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Speaker 1: You might be in your late twenties and still not
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Speaker 1: knowing what you wanted to do, but I think they'll
13:44
Speaker 1: be signs and there'll be reasons for you to understand
13:47
Speaker 1: what is worth putting your energy towards and what is
13:51
Speaker 1: your calling. And so that's kind of like something that
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Speaker 1: I've learned that, you know, what I thought was going
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Speaker 1: to be my favorite thing wasn't. And I'm happy that
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Speaker 1: I trusted my own guys and went through with something
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Speaker 1: completely different and becoming my own boss and doing my
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Speaker 1: own thing and leaving my dad's company and doing something
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Speaker 1: that I was extremely passionate about that I thought would
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Speaker 1: be the best thing for myself and my husband and
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Speaker 1: I and anyways, it's just like something that I think
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Speaker 1: everyone should really trust their own gut. And that's another
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Speaker 1: lesson that I've learned is really trusting myself and no
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Speaker 1: one else. My parents weren't really supportive at the time.
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Speaker 1: I think they didn't really understand it, which is so fair.
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Speaker 1: But I felt like I could take this into my
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Speaker 1: own hands and like really figure out a career for
14:37
Speaker 1: myself by doing this, and so I.
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Speaker 2: Trusted my own gut.
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Speaker 1: I trusted everything in my power to take this responsibility on.
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Speaker 1: And here we are now doing it full time for
14:48
Speaker 1: four or five years now, and I'm feeling so incredibly.
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Speaker 2: Grateful to take that risk and follow my own gut.
14:54
Speaker 1: Another thing I've learned through my twenties is that not
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Speaker 1: all friendships are mental ass forever.
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Speaker 2: You will outgrow people and they will outgrow you.
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Speaker 1: I have had some friends who have stayed by my
15:05
Speaker 1: side since day one. I have like my go to
15:08
Speaker 1: girls that I played sports with, that I grew up with,
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Speaker 1: and you know, we've been friends since then and we
15:13
Speaker 1: still have a really good friendship now.
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Speaker 2: But I've also had friends.
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Speaker 1: Where they were like my ride or dies, like I
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Speaker 1: was seeing them almost every single night, we were doing
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Speaker 1: things together, like my girls, right, and now we don't
15:25
Speaker 1: even talk, we don't even you know, have the same passions,
15:29
Speaker 1: you know, very different people like just different likes, different interests,
15:33
Speaker 1: like just a lot of differences. And I feel like
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Speaker 1: that's okay to understand that you're going to outgrow people
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Speaker 1: and that it's okay to let that go, even though
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Speaker 1: it is hard. I've definitely had a few friendships where
15:46
Speaker 1: the breakup was hard. I think, you know, it's never
15:49
Speaker 1: easy letting that friendship go, especially when it is someone
15:53
Speaker 1: that you are so close to. But I think you
15:56
Speaker 1: have to realize that it's worth being with people who
16:01
Speaker 1: support you and who want to see you and who
16:04
Speaker 1: want to show up.
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Speaker 2: And who have the same interest with you.
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Speaker 1: Like I remember I was trying to force a friendship
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Speaker 1: when I did have like a friendship breakup at the time,
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Speaker 1: I was almost trying to like force us to continue
16:15
Speaker 1: being friends. And I remember when we were forcing like
16:18
Speaker 1: hangouts and like doing things, I was not enjoying the
16:21
Speaker 1: time that we were doing because like we just were
16:23
Speaker 1: so different, Like we had such different passions, such different
16:27
Speaker 1: almost like different beliefs in a sense, Like I just
16:29
Speaker 1: felt like we were not aligning on anything. And that's
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Speaker 1: when I kind of realized that I'm like, why am
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Speaker 1: I forcing something that shouldn't be forced, Like when you're
16:37
Speaker 1: in a friendship, it should be natural.
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Speaker 2: You should be having.
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Speaker 1: Fun, you should be enjoying spending time with them. Like,
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Speaker 1: if you're not enjoying spending time with that one person,
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Speaker 1: you almost have to like mentally realize that that friendship
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Speaker 1: is no longer serving you and.
16:50
Speaker 2: That it's not meant to continue.
16:52
Speaker 1: And I know that's like hard to grasp and hard
16:54
Speaker 1: to understand, but I do think there is a reason
16:57
Speaker 1: for that, and that the right people will show up
17:01
Speaker 1: and the right people will be by your side, and
17:04
Speaker 1: you'll realize that, oh, I'm meant to be with this person,
17:07
Speaker 1: like I'm meant to have a friendship with this person,
17:09
Speaker 1: Like it feels good, it feels entertaining, Like you want
17:11
Speaker 1: to surround yourself with people that actually bring out the
17:13
Speaker 1: best side of you. Right, So I think that's definitely
17:16
Speaker 1: something that's difficult in your twenties, is the friendship breakups
17:20
Speaker 1: and just like not really understanding why you're outgrowing these
17:23
Speaker 1: certain people.
17:24
Speaker 2: But we're all human, we all grow up.
17:27
Speaker 1: To be a specific person and sometimes it's different, and
17:31
Speaker 1: that's okay. Like know that there is going to be
17:34
Speaker 1: the right people by your side and that it will
17:36
Speaker 1: feel so natural, and it will feel so good and
17:38
Speaker 1: you'll enjoy the company. And I think also when you
17:42
Speaker 1: get into your later twenties, you actually realize that your
17:44
Speaker 1: smaller group of friends is better than a big group
17:48
Speaker 1: of friends, Like you want to keep you know, the
17:50
Speaker 1: close ones to you and understand that it's okay to
17:53
Speaker 1: have a small group of friends and not need like
17:55
Speaker 1: twenty five girlfriends.
17:56
Speaker 2: I do have a.
17:57
Speaker 1: Big group of girls, but I would say that I
18:00
Speaker 1: am closer to like a specific four to five girls
18:03
Speaker 1: that I consider my best best friends. As you get older,
18:06
Speaker 1: you realize how busy life is, and you know, I
18:10
Speaker 1: don't have kids yet, but I know as soon as
18:12
Speaker 1: I have kids, it's going to be even harder to
18:13
Speaker 1: like make those efforts of seeing your friends and showing
18:16
Speaker 1: up and also realizing that there's going to be friends
18:19
Speaker 1: for different reasons. Like I feel like in my early twenties,
18:21
Speaker 1: I felt like had my go to girls and that
18:23
Speaker 1: was it, whereas like now I feel like I have
18:25
Speaker 1: so many friends for so many different reasons. I have
18:27
Speaker 1: friends from my sports, I have friends from you know,
18:30
Speaker 1: my pilates classes. I have my friends from my childhood,
18:34
Speaker 1: Like there's so many different reasons for different friendships and
18:37
Speaker 1: that's okay, and that's so normal, and I think that's
18:39
Speaker 1: so great to have friends for different reasons. And I hope,
18:42
Speaker 1: you know, when I'm a new mom, maybe you'll have
18:45
Speaker 1: new mom friends and I'll meet them through you know,
18:47
Speaker 1: some tip of music class or swim lessons or whatever.
18:50
Speaker 2: Right, so you'll have friends in different groups.
18:52
Speaker 1: And I think that's super healthy, and I think that's
18:55
Speaker 1: so great to have different types of friendships.
18:58
Speaker 2: But yeah, that's kind of like.
18:59
Speaker 1: What I've learned about friendships throughout my twenties is just
19:02
Speaker 1: knowing that people will outgrow you, and that not everything
19:05
Speaker 1: is meant to last forever, and that you will be
19:08
Speaker 1: with the right people and you'll realize who the right
19:10
Speaker 1: people are as you get older. Another lesson I've learned
19:13
Speaker 1: is the right people will make life easier, not harder.
19:17
Speaker 2: This is so freaking true. I felt like my.
19:20
Speaker 1: Life got better when the toxic friendships kind of got
19:23
Speaker 1: out of my life. I started to create kind of
19:24
Speaker 1: like a smaller circle for myself. I felt like, I,
19:28
Speaker 1: I don't know, just like saw life in a different
19:30
Speaker 1: way when I started to put myself first and surrounding
19:34
Speaker 1: myself with people who I actually enjoy spending time with.
19:37
Speaker 1: It's just like really important to like cut out the
19:39
Speaker 1: toxic people and not feel like you need to continuously
19:42
Speaker 1: have them in your life and know that the good
19:46
Speaker 1: energy and the good people in your life are.
19:48
Speaker 2: Going to give you that good energy that you want.
19:50
Speaker 1: Right, So I think it's important too, really just like
19:53
Speaker 1: cut ends with people who don't bring that positive aspect
19:57
Speaker 1: that you want in your life, and that your life
19:59
Speaker 1: will get better when you are with the right people
20:02
Speaker 1: and it will get easier to You could also think
20:04
Speaker 1: of like a toxic boyfriend, Like if you feel like
20:07
Speaker 1: you're not like seeing that future or you're not seeing
20:10
Speaker 1: you know, that progress that you wanted in your life,
20:13
Speaker 1: and maybe there's something that's holding you back, and that
20:15
Speaker 1: could be because you might be with someone that might
20:18
Speaker 1: not be the right fit for you. And so I
20:20
Speaker 1: feel like when you find your person, everything just feels
20:22
Speaker 1: right and the path feels right, the growth feels right,
20:26
Speaker 1: and you're all in alignment with your future goals. And
20:30
Speaker 1: I think it's such an important factor of like, when
20:33
Speaker 1: you are looking for your person and your boyfriend or
20:36
Speaker 1: your partner, it's important to have someone that is growing
20:39
Speaker 1: with you and making life easier as well.
20:43
Speaker 2: So yeah, I just thought I.
20:45
Speaker 1: Would throw that in there as well, because it's not
20:47
Speaker 1: just about like the people you surround yourself with when
20:49
Speaker 1: it comes to friends, but it's also like the spouse
20:52
Speaker 1: that you decide to choose and marry, and that partner
20:54
Speaker 1: that you want to be with is definitely going to
20:56
Speaker 1: help you in your life as well and.
20:58
Speaker 2: Just make everything so much esier.
21:00
Speaker 1: Another lesson I've learned is that you don't need to
21:02
Speaker 1: have your life all figured out in your twenties.
21:04
Speaker 2: Most people are figuring it out as they go.
21:07
Speaker 1: This is kind of similar to the whole job thing,
21:10
Speaker 1: like know that your job will come and you will
21:14
Speaker 1: know when it does come to you at.
21:16
Speaker 2: The right time.
21:16
Speaker 1: And another thing that's kind of made me realize, where,
21:19
Speaker 1: you know, I'm trying to figure life out still and
21:21
Speaker 1: figure out like where it's going to go.
21:23
Speaker 2: Is my whole like prepping for pregnancy.
21:25
Speaker 1: I've always had this massive fear of getting pregnant, and
21:30
Speaker 1: I kind of came to the realization that I just
21:31
Speaker 1: need to do it in my own timeline and not
21:33
Speaker 1: force anything because I feel like some people just jump
21:37
Speaker 1: right into it, which is so fine if you feel
21:38
Speaker 1: ready to do. So that's great, but I have never
21:42
Speaker 1: felt ready until now, Like I have not had that
21:45
Speaker 1: feeling where I'm like, oh, like I want to have
21:48
Speaker 1: a baby so badly. Like I feel like I know
21:49
Speaker 1: some girlfriends of mine personally who are like born to
21:52
Speaker 1: be a mother, Like they just like they felt the
21:54
Speaker 1: drive to have a kid immediately, which is so amazing
21:58
Speaker 1: and so cool. And sometimes I'm like, I wish I
22:01
Speaker 1: had that drive of like wanting to become a mom
22:03
Speaker 1: or have that instant feeling of knowing when that was
22:05
Speaker 1: going to be. And I'd realized that, like everyone's timeline
22:09
Speaker 1: is different and that, you know, my feeling of like
22:13
Speaker 1: wanting that just is taking longer, and my feeling of
22:16
Speaker 1: like wanting motherhood and like wanting to become pregnant is
22:19
Speaker 1: just coming at a later time for me. And that's okay,
22:23
Speaker 1: And yeah, I've just kind of accepted that, and I'm
22:25
Speaker 1: just trying to also find ways, like how can I
22:29
Speaker 1: grow myself in a way where I feel mentally ready
22:32
Speaker 1: to take on this part of my life.
22:34
Speaker 2: So it's okay to not have it figured it out.
22:37
Speaker 1: I still don't have it figured out, and I'm still
22:38
Speaker 1: trying to figure it out, but you know, life will
22:42
Speaker 1: go on and you will learn and you will figure
22:44
Speaker 1: out that you will eventually like feel this urge of
22:48
Speaker 1: like knowing when you're ready to take on a newly
22:51
Speaker 1: of faith or a new journey.
22:53
Speaker 2: And I just really.
22:54
Speaker 1: Always believe in signs and just kind of like always
22:58
Speaker 1: again going back to trusting your guy of knowing when
23:00
Speaker 1: things feel right. So I'm a firm believer in that.
23:03
Speaker 1: And for me, that's like how I feel like I
23:05
Speaker 1: really try and navigate my life and my goals in life,
23:11
Speaker 1: and it's just something that I've always kind of done
23:13
Speaker 1: for myself.
23:14
Speaker 2: This lesson is probably the first lesson that.
23:16
Speaker 1: I've learned, honestly this specific year of being twenty nine,
23:20
Speaker 1: and that is rest is also something that we consider productive.
23:25
Speaker 1: And I think rest is something that I've made a
23:28
Speaker 1: huge commitment for myself this year because I've always been
23:33
Speaker 1: that kind of person that loves to be go, go go.
23:35
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm always like on the go, wanting
23:36
Speaker 1: to do things like keeping myself busy, and as soon
23:40
Speaker 1: as I got my back injury and as soon as
23:42
Speaker 1: I felt like I put too much on my plate
23:44
Speaker 1: when it came to like work, buying a house, you know,
23:48
Speaker 1: getting married, Like so many things happened in such a
23:50
Speaker 1: short period of time that I felt like my body
23:55
Speaker 1: was telling me, you need to take a step back
23:57
Speaker 1: and you need to rest. Like the fact you're injuring yourself,
24:00
Speaker 1: the fact you're not listening to your body. You need
24:02
Speaker 1: to find ways to relax, and you need to understand
24:04
Speaker 1: that it's important to rest and it's important to take
24:07
Speaker 1: breaks because if you don't take those breaks, then.
24:11
Speaker 2: Like bad things are going to happen.
24:12
Speaker 1: Right, And so, going back to the back injury, I
24:15
Speaker 1: overdid it and I'm learning now that I shouldn't have
24:18
Speaker 1: done that, And so I have taken almost two to
24:22
Speaker 1: three months off working out completely, and that was really
24:27
Speaker 1: really tough on me mentally. Eventually I found some type
24:30
Speaker 1: of routine for myself that worked, and I'm still trying
24:33
Speaker 1: to figure out a routine for myself. Like I've gone
24:35
Speaker 1: from working out five to six times a week to
24:37
Speaker 1: like three times a week if I'm lucky, and I've
24:40
Speaker 1: realized that that's okay, and that slowing down has actually
24:44
Speaker 1: benefited me so much.
24:45
Speaker 2: I am feeling so good from.
24:47
Speaker 1: Taking the break and understanding what my body actually needs
24:51
Speaker 1: some people, you know, need the five times a week
24:53
Speaker 1: and others don't write and never say never. I don't
24:56
Speaker 1: know a five years from now I'll be able to
24:58
Speaker 1: do four to five times a week.
24:59
Speaker 2: Again, I have no way.
25:00
Speaker 1: But right now my calling is to slow down and
25:03
Speaker 1: to work out a little bit less and that's okay.
25:06
Speaker 1: And I'm realizing that my body just needs the rest
25:08
Speaker 1: right now, and I'm enjoying that, and I'm understanding that
25:12
Speaker 1: it's so so important to just like really rest and
25:17
Speaker 1: like realize how important it is for yourself to just
25:20
Speaker 1: like relax, chill and not stress. I've also tried to
25:23
Speaker 1: really take on meditation, I've really been trying to get
25:27
Speaker 1: into yoga, just trying to find ways to relax my body,
25:32
Speaker 1: going to the spaw War, booking massages like once again,
25:35
Speaker 1: just really trying to make rest a priority and really
25:39
Speaker 1: just slowing down my life, which I think is so
25:42
Speaker 1: so important. Eventually, I'll realize that I feel like in
25:44
Speaker 1: your late twenties that it's important for life to slow
25:47
Speaker 1: down a bit, and yeah, just something that I've learned
25:51
Speaker 1: now and not something that I learned in my early twenties.
25:54
Speaker 1: Another lesson is you can start over. Multiple times, and
25:58
Speaker 1: you can do everything right and still you'll not get
26:00
Speaker 1: the outcome that you wanted.
26:02
Speaker 2: I've had so.
26:02
Speaker 1: Many moments in my life where you know, some things
26:05
Speaker 1: have failed, or there's been things where I, you know,
26:09
Speaker 1: want to try again or do something different and they
26:12
Speaker 1: just don't work out. I feel like failure is a
26:16
Speaker 1: source of motivation for myself. I see failure as Okay,
26:19
Speaker 1: what can I do better? How can I improve? What
26:22
Speaker 1: can I do different? And I always look back at
26:25
Speaker 1: those moments in my life where I, did, you know,
26:27
Speaker 1: try so hard for something and I didn't succeed, But
26:30
Speaker 1: I never stopped, like, I never stopped believing in myself.
26:34
Speaker 1: I always used things that I've failed in my life
26:38
Speaker 1: as a source of motivation.
26:40
Speaker 2: So I always think there's something that can be improved on.
26:43
Speaker 1: I always think there's something that we can, you know,
26:46
Speaker 1: push ourselves to do better at. And sometimes it's okay
26:50
Speaker 1: to do something multiple times in order to get things right.
26:54
Speaker 1: So that's definitely something that I've learned and something that
26:57
Speaker 1: I feel like has been throughout my entire twenties. Is
27:00
Speaker 1: just kind of going through this rollercoaster of like seeing
27:03
Speaker 1: failure but using it as my source of motivation to
27:05
Speaker 1: like get myself back up and seeing the success that
27:08
Speaker 1: it turns.
27:09
Speaker 2: Out to be eventually.
27:10
Speaker 1: Right, So just know that it's okay to go on
27:14
Speaker 1: your own timeline and that you can do it again
27:17
Speaker 1: if you failed, and that there's no one stopping you
27:20
Speaker 1: right like you do what you think is best for yourself.
27:24
Speaker 1: And yeah, that's just something that I wanted to chat about.
27:28
Speaker 1: Another lesson is no one is thinking about you as
27:31
Speaker 1: much as you think. This is such an important lesson
27:36
Speaker 1: to learn because I have been a chronic overthinker for
27:40
Speaker 1: my entire life. Essentially, like I feel like something goes
27:43
Speaker 1: wrong in a conversation that I've had with someone and
27:45
Speaker 1: I start overthinking.
27:46
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god, I shouldn't have said that.
27:48
Speaker 1: Like I'm thinking so much into this one conversation that
27:51
Speaker 1: I had with a friend when I'm telling you right
27:53
Speaker 1: now that one person probably isn't thinking about that conversation.
27:56
Speaker 1: They probably literally didn't even think twice of it. And
27:59
Speaker 1: so so this is something that I feel like I'm
28:01
Speaker 1: still working on. I think that's something that a lot
28:03
Speaker 1: of people can work on. Is just like not overthinking
28:06
Speaker 1: and thinking too much of it, but you are really
28:09
Speaker 1: the only person that cares so much, Like everybody cares
28:13
Speaker 1: about themselves, right like, not everyone's going to over care
28:16
Speaker 1: about something that you said to them or something that
28:19
Speaker 1: you thought may have impacted the relationship or whatever.
28:22
Speaker 2: Right like, you are thinking about it so much.
28:24
Speaker 1: More than that person is, and yeah, just don't overthink,
28:29
Speaker 1: don't overstress. I'm still working on it, and I'm not
28:31
Speaker 1: going to say I'm perfect at it right now, but
28:34
Speaker 1: definitely something that I am. I'm definitely an overthinker and
28:38
Speaker 1: I'm just constantly trying to improve that for myself, and
28:41
Speaker 1: that is something that I'm still working on and that's okay.
28:44
Speaker 1: Another one is being uncomfortable usually means you're growing, and
28:47
Speaker 1: that is something that I'm definitely going through right now.
28:51
Speaker 1: I have been very uncomfortable these past few months going
28:55
Speaker 1: into this year because I feel like there's been a
28:58
Speaker 1: lot of change.
28:59
Speaker 2: Obviously, the thought of moving has definitely hit me.
29:03
Speaker 1: You know, moving into a new house I'm really really
29:05
Speaker 1: excited for, but I also know that it's leaving something
29:08
Speaker 1: behind and this house here, we've built so many amazing
29:12
Speaker 1: memories with you know, be engaged, getting Freddie, being married.
29:17
Speaker 1: You know, I don't know there's just like so many
29:19
Speaker 1: amazing things about this house that I'm very like emotional
29:24
Speaker 1: about thinking about it because it just means so much
29:28
Speaker 1: to us. It's our first house that we ever bought,
29:30
Speaker 1: and I know it's going to be really really hard
29:31
Speaker 1: to leave, but I know that it's important to move
29:36
Speaker 1: on to the next. Another one has been obviously, like
29:38
Speaker 1: understanding that I'm turning thirty and that I'm leaving my
29:42
Speaker 1: twenties kind of something that's.
29:44
Speaker 2: Been hard to understand and grasp.
29:47
Speaker 1: But I know thirties are going to be the best
29:50
Speaker 1: years yet and something that I'm trying to really look
29:55
Speaker 1: forward to and see that excitement. And then also just
30:00
Speaker 1: like the uncomfortable thought of like again starting a family
30:03
Speaker 1: and all that, Like I'm scared because I know my
30:06
Speaker 1: life is going to change a lot. I am a
30:08
Speaker 1: very work driven individual that really does love my job,
30:12
Speaker 1: but you know, taking home responsibility obviously of like raising
30:16
Speaker 1: a child is definitely scary, but also something that I've
30:19
Speaker 1: always wanted. I've always wanted to be a mom, I've
30:21
Speaker 1: always wanted to have a family with Zach, and so
30:25
Speaker 1: I know this is my calling and something that I
30:28
Speaker 1: just need to build the courage of doing even though
30:31
Speaker 1: I am terrified, I am excited. So something that I've
30:35
Speaker 1: definitely like, you know, have grown a lot in honestly,
30:38
Speaker 1: within this past year, this has been like something that
30:40
Speaker 1: I've been really working towards and I finally feel you know,
30:44
Speaker 1: ready and excited and anyway, it's just something that I
30:46
Speaker 1: kind of wanted to open up about because I feel like, yeah,
30:49
Speaker 1: it's something that's always really hard when you're like uncomfortable
30:54
Speaker 1: with change and you're uncomfortable with things that are new,
30:57
Speaker 1: and that just means that you are growing. And that's
31:00
Speaker 1: something that I've really learned these past few years, and
31:03
Speaker 1: I'm trying to see growth as an exciting thing as well,
31:07
Speaker 1: not something to be scared of, but excitement and you know, again,
31:12
Speaker 1: better things just come as.
31:14
Speaker 2: You continue to make changes.
31:16
Speaker 1: Another one is the way you talk to yourself actually matters.
31:20
Speaker 1: And you guys know that I have pushed positive self
31:23
Speaker 1: talk so much and that when you bring negative energy
31:27
Speaker 1: to yourself, it's going to create negative vibes in general.
31:29
Speaker 2: Like it's just the reality.
31:31
Speaker 1: So it's so important to not be so hard on
31:34
Speaker 1: yourself and realize that the way you talk to yourself
31:38
Speaker 1: really does make a huge impact in yourself and your
31:40
Speaker 1: mental health, and why it's so important to just speak
31:44
Speaker 1: so highly about yourself. And that kind of goes into
31:46
Speaker 1: the next lesson, which is ignoring your mental health doesn't
31:50
Speaker 1: make it go away. Mental health is so crucial. If
31:55
Speaker 1: I think about me in my early twenties, I know
31:57
Speaker 1: for a fact I did not give two shits about
32:00
Speaker 1: my mental health. Now it's something that I literally make
32:03
Speaker 1: the biggest priority ever. If I'm feeling anxious and I'm
32:05
Speaker 1: feeling like I'm overstressed or I need to take a
32:08
Speaker 1: step back, like I fully will put work to the
32:11
Speaker 1: side and focus on my mental health over anything else.
32:14
Speaker 1: Like that, to me is the biggest priority. And so
32:17
Speaker 1: you realize that as you get older. But your mental
32:20
Speaker 1: health is so crucial and it plays such a huge
32:23
Speaker 1: impact in your life, in your career, in anything really,
32:28
Speaker 1: So definitely like making your mental health a huge priority
32:31
Speaker 1: is something that I will always always stress about and
32:35
Speaker 1: will always tell you that you always need to make
32:38
Speaker 1: that first over.
32:39
Speaker 2: Anything else in life.
32:41
Speaker 1: And then the last lesson that I've learned is you
32:44
Speaker 1: don't get your early twenties back, so stop waiting to live.
32:47
Speaker 1: I personally tried to make my entire twenties, the years
32:51
Speaker 1: of travel. I knew that traveling was such an important
32:54
Speaker 1: thing in my life, and I have been to so
32:57
Speaker 1: many incredible places and I don't regret any of it.
33:00
Speaker 1: Spending my money on travel is truly the best thing ever.
33:04
Speaker 2: I feel like social media has definitely painted the.
33:07
Speaker 1: Picture of like everybody needs a burke in, everybody needs
33:10
Speaker 1: a YSL handbag, everybody needs you know, designer handbag, blah
33:13
Speaker 1: bah blah. Like if I could tell you to spend
33:15
Speaker 1: your money on one thing, it would not be that,
33:17
Speaker 1: it would be travel as much as you can. That
33:22
Speaker 1: is what I think is worth every single penny. I
33:26
Speaker 1: can hope. I hope my thirties are just as much
33:30
Speaker 1: of a travel year for me. I hope I can
33:33
Speaker 1: bring my kids to places and continue to do those
33:36
Speaker 1: amazing things as a family. Like I don't ever want
33:39
Speaker 1: to stop traveling, but I just want to say that,
33:41
Speaker 1: like travel now as much as you can, because it
33:44
Speaker 1: really is the best when it's in your twenties. I
33:47
Speaker 1: can think of so many amazing memories of just like
33:51
Speaker 1: traveling all of Europe with my husband, and like doing
33:53
Speaker 1: so many fun things together, traveling with my sister, like,
33:57
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't regret any of it, and
33:59
Speaker 1: I think it's so important and so crucial to just
34:02
Speaker 1: do that and really make that a huge priority. So
34:06
Speaker 1: I always think about, oh, what was my favorite memory of,
34:10
Speaker 1: you know, when I was twenty six, or when I
34:12
Speaker 1: always say a trip, like I always think of a
34:14
Speaker 1: trip that brings back so many fun memories, and I
34:17
Speaker 1: truly think that's, like, yeah, one of my favorite parts
34:20
Speaker 1: of just like what I did in my twenties. So
34:22
Speaker 1: those are all the lessons I feel like I've learned
34:24
Speaker 1: throughout these past ten years of my twenties. But now
34:28
Speaker 1: I want to talk about things that I'm taking into
34:30
Speaker 1: my thirties, and there's still kind of lessons I guess
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Speaker 1: in a way, but one of them being I stopped
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Speaker 1: saying yes to things that I didn't.
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Speaker 2: Want to go to. So if the girls are going
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Speaker 2: out to a bar, I don't want to go to
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Speaker 2: a bar. So if I don't want to go to
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Speaker 2: a bar, why am I saying yes?
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Speaker 1: I say no to things that I don't want to do,
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Speaker 1: and I feel okay with saying no to those things.
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Speaker 1: I used to feel so forced to say yes to
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Speaker 1: do things because I'm like, oh, I'm gonna have fomo,
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna miss out whatever. Well, if I would rather
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Speaker 1: be in my bed, or if I you'd rather just
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Speaker 1: chill at my house, why am I forcing myself to
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Speaker 1: go out? So just really always tell yourself like, is
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Speaker 1: this worth going to? Is this something I actually want
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Speaker 1: to do? Is there any benefit out of doing this? No,
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Speaker 1: So don't force something that you don't want to do.
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Speaker 1: Realize that it's okay to protect your piece. It's okay
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Speaker 1: to stay home and not force yourself to do something
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Speaker 1: that you don't want to do.
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Speaker 2: If you don't want to.
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Speaker 1: Travel with someone, or you don't want to spend your
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Speaker 1: money on something. Again, it's okay to say no and
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Speaker 1: not do it. You have to do what you think
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Speaker 1: is best for yourself. The simple things in life are
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Speaker 1: truly just the best. And I think you also just
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Speaker 1: realize how important those simple things that you do on
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Speaker 1: a day to day basis. Another one is I stop
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Speaker 1: chasing people who aren't choosing me. Again, going back to friendships,
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Speaker 1: be with the people that you actually want to surround
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Speaker 1: yourself with. Let's not continue to be with someone that's
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Speaker 1: bringing toxic energy into our life. Another one is trusting
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Speaker 1: your own gut. That is probably the biggest thing that
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Speaker 1: I could take away from this is always trusting yourself
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Speaker 1: and no one else. And then the last one is
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Speaker 1: focusing more on the present instead of constantly.
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Speaker 2: Chasing the next thing.
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Speaker 1: It's so important to just really focus on the goals
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Speaker 1: that you want to achieve for yourself in this present
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Speaker 1: time first overthinking about those big goals that you want
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Speaker 1: in life and like years from now. It's important just
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Speaker 1: to take one step at a time because eventually you'll
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Speaker 1: get to that big goal that you want years to come,
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Speaker 1: but let's just focus on the present and focus on
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Speaker 1: things that we can currently do in our life.
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Speaker 2: So that's kind of all.
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Speaker 1: The things I really wanted to talk about in my
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Speaker 1: twenties and going into my thirties. I feel like my
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Speaker 1: twenties was definitely a rollercoaster. It was definitely years that
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Speaker 1: I was just trying to figure out my life. Obviously,
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Speaker 1: like I started off with not knowing what I was
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Speaker 1: going to do, and I'm ending off my twenties with
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Speaker 1: figuring my shit out and you know, being married and
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Speaker 1: seeing the success that has.
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Speaker 2: Happened with my career.
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Speaker 1: It truly has been such credible ten years, and I'm
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Speaker 1: so beyond grateful for all the opportunities and amazing memories
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Speaker 1: that I've created in my twenties. And I know my
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Speaker 1: thirties are going to be about choosing what actually matters.
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Speaker 1: Thirties are going to be the year that I just
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Speaker 1: you know, might still be figuring some stuff out.
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Speaker 2: I hope it's just a year that I.
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Speaker 1: Focus on the little things, the simple things, the things
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Speaker 1: that bring me so much joy. And yeah, i just
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Speaker 1: think my thirties are really going to be the year
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Speaker 1: that I love the most, to be honest, and I'm
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Speaker 1: so excited for the new chapters, the new opportunities, and
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Speaker 1: the new excitement that will be brought into my life.
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Speaker 2: So that is today's episode. I hope you guys enjoyed it.
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Speaker 1: I really wanted to just chat with you guys about
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Speaker 1: my journey, and for anyone that's currently in their twenties
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Speaker 1: or in their thirties, like comment down below something that
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Speaker 1: you may have learned throughout your life and it might
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Speaker 1: just create some inspiration for all of us.
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Speaker 2: But I'm so grateful for.
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Speaker 1: This community, and I'm so grateful for you guys being here,
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Speaker 2: With you guys. So love you guys all so much.
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