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Cari Connects - Jan 15th · Spunky Spirit with Cari Mugz

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  Hello, and welcome to this week's Carry Cannecks. I'm Psychomedia and Carry Mugs
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  and each week I pull a card from a deck to let you know what's
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  coming up for the week and the signs of the simms to watch. For
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  this week, we're using a brand new deck that we've never used before,
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  called a Princess of Light Oracle. It's a really beautiful deck if y It's
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  by Sandra Ann Taylor and Kimberly Weber. So if you're listening to this on
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  my podcast, you can go and see what the deck looks like on Instagram,
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  YouTube, or my Facebook page. So Instagram is Carrie Mugs, facebook
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  page is Spanky Spirit, and YouTube is just Carry Mugs. So now on
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  the back of each card is a beautiful moon through the woods, a full
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  moon through the trees, and that's really beautiful. And each card is a
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  princess or a Priestess of Light of some sort and very very very beautifully illustrated.
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  So we're gonna go ahead and pull the card, and then afterwards I
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  have a huge announcement to make that I'm really excited about. So here we
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  go. Okay ooh, this one's a good one. Setting boundaries. This
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  is a way good one. I love this one. Setting boundaries threshold,
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  protection and honor. So sometimes we think boundaries are that they might hurt people.
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  If you're a people pleaser, then this is I had a hard time
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  setting boundaries because I thought that if I set boundaries out to hurt people's feelings.
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  Boundaries are there to protect you. And for some reason, this week,
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  you're gonna need to set some boundaries. So I don't know if it's
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  because it's a new year near you or if it's the same you and you're
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  having issues with boundaries, but this week you're going to need to set some
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  boundaries. And this could be in your career, this could be in family,
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  this could be in relationships. But here's the thing. Boundaries are there
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  to protect you. It's not to keep people away from you. It's to
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  protect your peace. It's protect your spiritual growth. It's to protect the things
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  that you've built. It's to protect you and it's to help you grow.
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  It's not to it's to protect yourself. Like it's not to like hurt people's
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  feelings. Because I know when I protected when I had to create boundaries,
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  I was still afraid that I was gonna hurt people's feelings because I'm such a
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  people pleaser, and so I'd be like, well, I have to get
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  people in because I'm going to hurt their feelings if i don't, or I
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  have to do this because I'm gonna hurt their feelings if I don't. And
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  through counseling and spiritual growth, I've learned that those boundaries protect me because if
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  I do those things and I don't protect myself, I end up getting sick,
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  overwhelmed, and overburdened, and then I can't help anybody. So you
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  need to create boundaries. And I know people get scared of boundaries, and
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  I know that people get nervous to create boundaries, but honestly, the only
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  people that aren't gonna like your boundaries are the people that use you, the
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  people that create that treat you like a walking mat. The people that aren't
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  gonna like your boundaries are the people that are be uncomfortable with your boundaries are
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  the people that need the boundaries the most. So if you create boundaries,
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  and you create boundaries for yourself and some people don't like it, that's their
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  problem, that's their deal, because you need to protect you, and that's
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  what this is all about, threshold of protection, imaginary imaginary fence around you,
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  that it's not keeping people away from you, it's just protecting you and
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  your health and your peace and your spirituality. Because if you allow people to
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  treat you bad or to and you know I would say yes to them,
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  So it was my fault, it wasn't theirs. But then I realized that
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  I had to take care of me because and it's not selfish. We think
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  that creating boundaries is sometimes selfish, and it's not. So when you protect
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  you need to create boundaries for your spiritual growth, not just your emotional health
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  and your mental health, but for your spiritual growth because you need that energy
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  for you to grow. And it's not selfish, it's not And I get
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  it. If you're a mom of little kids, you can only create so
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  many boundaries, right, But if you don't have little kids, you have
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  adult kids, or you have family members that you need to create boundaries for
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  them, do it and don't feel bad about it, because you know what
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  you come first. You need to take care of you so you can take
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  care of everybody else, and so you can be authentic and honestly, don't
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  say yes to things, or do things or let things go because you think
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  you're gonna be the bigger person or want to be the bigger person, a
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  bigger person. You're doing it. Every time you do that, it's a
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  trauma. Well now we're getting into like mental health stuff, but it's a
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  trauma. It's a trauma reaction. So you need to really sit down this
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  week because somebody's going to push your buttons or something's gonna happen, or you
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  have already been pushed, and you need to create some boundaries to protect you.
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  Okay, so you just kind of decide what those boundaries are, what
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  your spiritual boundaries are, what your mental boundaries are, what your physical boundaries
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  are. You need to create that, and you need to not you need
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  to do what you want, not do what other people want you to do.
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  So setting boundaries and which is really awesome. So the numbers are three
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  three, three, which are your ancestors and your guides are watching over you.
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  They're going to help you do this. And just so you know,
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  build you can build boundaries for spirits. I when I didn't know how to
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  like do my gift and spirits were coming in all the time, and I
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  was like this is crazy. I finally had to be like, no,
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  I have certain hours that you can come through and bug me. This is
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  but what I was doing readings out of my house. They were like all
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  over in all over my house, and I finally had to be like A
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  had to set some boundaries and say you can only visit this room at this
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  time. And so they had to accept those boundaries. And if spirits have
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  to follow those boundaries, then people should follow those boundaries, because, like
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  I said, spirits are just like people. There's good and there's bad,
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  there's aggressive, there's they're just they're people. They just don't have a people
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  form. So if you have to build boundaries for spirits too, do it.
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  They buy universal law, they have to abide by them. Now.
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  Do I get some aggressive spirits that come through sometimes yes, but I always
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  am like, this is not the time, and usually they're pretty all the
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  time. They're pretty good about it. So build boundaries if you need to
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  spiritually so and I even had even have some clients that are like that.
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  They have to build boundaries. Even with some of the spirits that come through,
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  they're like, okay, I need a break right now, and that's
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  okay. That's so okay. You need to do you, okay, and
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  you can only do you so much. You need to save that energy too
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  to take care of you. So three three three, which is your ancestors
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  and your guides. And also zero zero zero, which is you know,
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  the universal, it's the divine, it's God, it's God's watching you and
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  with you. And so this is going to be an important one. This
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  is important because the best way that you can connect to God, and the
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  best way you can connect to spirit is to be you, to be authentically
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  you, to live in the moment, and to be you. And so
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  if you're putting on this facade, then you're not only fooling yourself, fulling
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  others, but you're fulling yourself. So three and zero the signs and the
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  symbols are going to be This is kind of a harder card. But anything
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  with like hands. So she's holding her hands up and it's got like a
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  like an energy in there. So any type of like energy, like if
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  you see a hand that has like energy or kind of hands like that,
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  I guess that would count as a but as a sign or a symbol.
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  But let's not forget the tiger. Look at that tiger behind her, That
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  tiger is protecting her, that tiger is watching over her. That tiger is
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  her fence, That tiger is her boundary. So if you see any tigers
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  this week, that's a sign, okay. And then any kind of like
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  Egyptian jewelry. See how she has that Egyptian headdress on and that Egyptian type
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  bracelets and necklace, so jewelry, tiger hand power, those are all going
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  to be setting boundaries. And I'm actually going to include a fence for this
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  week too. This week's gonna be so I'll put that. If you need
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  to look at that card to watch the signs, to see the signs and
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  symbols, you can go to my instagram, my YouTube, or my instagram.
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  On my Facebook has a picture of the card, so you can go
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  there. Now, good luck with your boundaries this week. You guys.
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  I'm proud of you, and you can do it. You can do it.
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  If I can do it, you can do it. I had to
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  go to counseling to create these boundaries for lots of times. My counselor is
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  probably watching this, going, yes you did, so here you go.
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  The big thing is Spunky Spirit is getting bigger, spunky spirit. I'm so
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  blessed and I'm so honored, and it's just growing and it's growing bigger.
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  And this year I want bigger things. I want to do events. I
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  want to do group readings. I want to do classes, more in person
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  classes, not just online. I want to do more spirit circles. So
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  I'm moving my off. This is moving still in Idle Falls, but to
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  a bigger facility. It's going to be on Broadway now. If you have
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  readings this week, do not worry. If you have readings next week,
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  you will get emails for the new address, So don't worry if you have
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  reading scheduled. I will be reminding everybody of the new address for months to
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  come because it's a big deal. But there's gonna be awesome things coming.
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  There's gonna be events coming, there's gonna be community things coming, and this
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  space is perfect for that. So I will reveal next week where it's at.
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  But for right now, if you have any future readings, do not
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  worry. You will know where the new place is if you need to.
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  This week, I'm still going to be here, in this beautiful place that
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  I will miss so much. But big things are coming. You, guys,
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  and I love you so much and I can't wait to share them with
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  you because I owe it to you. So I'll see you guys next week.