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ep.23: bring your fiance to pod day feat. tyler · Rainy Day Pod

• 0:03
  SPEAKER_01: Welcome back to Rainy Day Pod.
• 0:07
  SPEAKER_01: I'm Gabby.
• 0:08
  SPEAKER_00: I'm Lit No, I'm not.
• 0:10
  SPEAKER_00: I'm Tyler.
• 0:11
  SPEAKER_00: Oh my god.
• 0:12
  SPEAKER_01: Hi Tyler, I'm Gabby.
• 0:14
  SPEAKER_01: It's nice to meet you.
• 0:15
  unknown: Oh, oh.
• 0:16
  SPEAKER_00: So happy to be here.
• 0:18
  SPEAKER_00: Uh longtime listener, first time caller.
• 0:20
  SPEAKER_01: We have a bro on the pod today.
• 0:22
  SPEAKER_01: AKA, my fiance.
• 0:24
  SPEAKER_00: Bro.
• 0:25
  SPEAKER_00: Bro.
• 0:25
  SPEAKER_00: We have a bro on the pod.
• 0:26
  SPEAKER_00: We could have gone chef.
• 0:27
  SPEAKER_00: We could have gone partner, but bro, I'll take bro.
• 0:29
  SPEAKER_01: Oh my goodness.
• 0:30
  SPEAKER_01: Here he go.
• 0:31
  SPEAKER_01: Here he go.
• 0:31
  SPEAKER_01: Okay, so for those of you who do not know, my fiance, Tyler, he is oh, and also the fire, the not the fire, the tornado sirens were going off.
• 0:40
  SPEAKER_00: But in my family, we call it the beer whistle.
• 0:42
  SPEAKER_00: Because that's the the call to start drinking.
• 0:45
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, when it tornadoes.
• 0:47
  SPEAKER_01: That's so Oklahoma.
• 0:49
  SPEAKER_01: And you're not even from Oklahoma, but that's so Oklahoman of you.
• 0:51
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, but we don't have to get into that now.
• 0:53
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, period.
• 0:55
  SPEAKER_01: Well, obviously the vibe is different today because my fiance is on the pod.
• 0:59
  SPEAKER_01: And as I was saying before you rudely interrupted me, hey, sorry, forgive him.
• 1:04
  SPEAKER_01: He's learning the rules of podcasting.
• 1:06
  SPEAKER_01: So um I for those of that don't know Tyler, he's the funniest person.
• 1:14
  SPEAKER_01: He is very sassy.
• 1:16
  SPEAKER_01: And so I'm sure I have a lot of editing to do because he's gonna be talking his shit.
• 1:20
  SPEAKER_00: I'm sure me being a Gemini will come into play at some point.
• 1:23
  SPEAKER_01: And it's always gonna be that Gemini.
• 1:24
  SPEAKER_01: It's always going to be that Gemini inside of him that comes out and awakens and just does a little much.
• 1:30
  SPEAKER_01: So, but I'm happy you're here.
• 1:31
  SPEAKER_01: Hey, thanks for being here.
• 1:32
  SPEAKER_01: Thank you for thanks for coming down to the studio, aka our back bedroom.
• 1:36
  SPEAKER_01: So thanks for being here, buddy.
• 1:37
  SPEAKER_00: You know, it's really funny you say that because there's one thing in this room that we have never addressed, and I've been wanting to tell this story, and it is this wonderful blue couch that we feature on this podcast.
• 1:47
  SPEAKER_01: It is the blue couch that we sit on every week.
• 1:49
  SPEAKER_01: It came from you.
• 1:51
  SPEAKER_00: I bought this blue couch, it was with uh first stimulus check COVID money.
• 1:56
  SPEAKER_00: And my partner at the time was like, We need to go buy a new couch.
• 2:00
  SPEAKER_00: And I said, Okay, cool, we're gonna go to the Ashley Furniture store, do the whole setup.
• 2:06
  SPEAKER_00: And they really wanted this like brown recliner couch.
• 2:08
  SPEAKER_00: It was kind of giving like stepdad, like drinking on the recliner, watching college football vibes.
• 2:13
  SPEAKER_00: And so I don't really have like a but no shade to her, I'm not shading women.
• 2:17
  SPEAKER_01: I would never shade woman, even at your ex.
• 2:19
  SPEAKER_00: At that point, I didn't really have like a personality, and I was like, I'm gonna go on a stretch, you know.
• 2:22
  SPEAKER_00: I want a blue couch, I want to be that type of guy that has a blue couch.
• 2:26
  SPEAKER_00: So I bought this blue couch with really not asking for permission or you know, getting approval.
• 2:31
  SPEAKER_00: And when it got there, it was like, this is the ugliest couch I've ever seen on planet earth, and this couch will never serve any purpose.
• 2:38
  SPEAKER_00: And so once we decided it was a pretty big point of contention.
• 2:43
  SPEAKER_01: It was like she was mad that you bought it without it.
• 2:45
  SPEAKER_00: This is an ugly blue couch that you bought, and we can't, I was like, no, we can't get rid of it.
• 2:49
  SPEAKER_00: This is this is my blue couch, you know.
• 2:50
  SPEAKER_00: Like I stood you stood on business, on business.
• 2:53
  SPEAKER_00: And once we were going through like potential setups of like how do we want it to look, and the fact that the blue couch came into play just felt like a full, like, full circle moment, you know?
• 3:03
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 3:04
  SPEAKER_00: Like when something actually pays off that you think realistically in your life, you'll never see the benefit, and you're like, oh, it finally found its place.
• 3:10
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, that is so true.
• 3:12
  SPEAKER_01: And I love this blue couch, I love it so much.
• 3:14
  SPEAKER_01: So I'm glad that you bought it without her.
• 3:16
  SPEAKER_00: My first stimulus check.
• 3:17
  SPEAKER_00: Thank you, Joe Biden.
• 3:18
  SPEAKER_00: Thank you.
• 3:19
  SPEAKER_01: Shout out, Joe Biden.
• 3:21
  SPEAKER_01: Question mark.
• 3:22
  SPEAKER_01: What?
• 3:23
  SPEAKER_01: Oh my gosh.
• 3:24
  SPEAKER_01: Well, you uh since you're sitting on Lacey's side of the couch, yes, you are taking on Lacey's responsibilities, aka you are giving us the weather update.
• 3:31
  SPEAKER_00: So let's get into the weather.
• 3:33
  SPEAKER_00: So we've had a very rainy week.
• 3:35
  SPEAKER_00: We are very thankful for the rain that Oklahoma got this.
• 3:37
  SPEAKER_01: Seriously, guys, it's been two days of such gloomy, perfect weather.
• 3:41
  SPEAKER_01: It's literally been the highest 72 today.
• 3:43
  SPEAKER_00: Yes.
• 3:44
  SPEAKER_01: And the high yesterday was 70.
• 3:46
  SPEAKER_01: It is perfect.
• 3:47
  SPEAKER_01: The sun has not come out in like 48 hours.
• 3:50
  SPEAKER_00: And I think I've realized the kind of the cycle of temperature in Oklahoma when it's hot.
• 3:54
  SPEAKER_00: Like it starts out cool and goes from hot to hot so fast.
• 3:57
  SPEAKER_00: We've had steady temperatures, yes, which I feel like is good for certain people because I work in a hot kitchen every day.
• 4:03
  SPEAKER_00: And it feels terrible to feel like you're always sweating, you're always you know, yeah.
• 4:06
  SPEAKER_01: Like you want to be able to like feel a difference between the hot kitchen and outside.
• 4:10
  SPEAKER_01: So when you walk outside, it just feels really nice.
• 4:12
  SPEAKER_01: So I love that.
• 4:13
  SPEAKER_01: And we've been wearing our flannels.
• 4:14
  SPEAKER_01: You've been getting in your flannel bag, like I've been back in my long sleeves, like it's everything.
• 4:20
  SPEAKER_00: Retire the shorts, put them jeans back on, kids.
• 4:23
  SPEAKER_01: Get them jeans out.
• 4:25
  SPEAKER_01: Um, but yes, so you touched on it briefly, but Tyler is a chef, and m one of his favorite things when we first met.
• 4:33
  SPEAKER_01: Hold your microphone like that.
• 4:34
  SPEAKER_01: Sorry, guys.
• 4:35
  SPEAKER_01: Um, when we first met, he would tell me, like, yeah, I'm a chef.
• 4:39
  SPEAKER_01: My favorite food to make is soup.
• 4:41
  SPEAKER_01: And so literally, soup season is his season.
• 4:44
  SPEAKER_01: Like, Tyler can make any soup ever.
• 4:46
  SPEAKER_01: He's genuinely like, uh, what do you what would you call yourself?
• 4:49
  SPEAKER_01: A soup savant?
• 4:50
  SPEAKER_00: I would just say you don't become a master in anything until you've done it for a thousand plus hours.
• 4:55
  SPEAKER_00: And between working at Goro Raman back in the day and all the times that I had to make soup, I've definitely put my time into the soup game.
• 5:02
  SPEAKER_00: So you're especially like noodles.
• 5:03
  SPEAKER_00: I would just say like a noodle head, like not like a soup extra.
• 5:06
  SPEAKER_00: True, true.
• 5:06
  SPEAKER_01: But you make a mean chili, you can make like anything.
• 5:09
  SPEAKER_00: Like I've judged chili contests, I've entered chili contest.
• 5:12
  SPEAKER_00: I think it's just like a truly we don't have like a lot of American staples.
• 5:16
  SPEAKER_00: We steal a lot of our like food culture from other so like we culture vulture a lot, but chili's the ours.
• 5:22
  SPEAKER_00: Chili seems truly like you're in the but let's not claim that.
• 5:25
  SPEAKER_01: We really don't know.
• 5:25
  SPEAKER_01: We really don't know the origins of chili.
• 5:28
  SPEAKER_01: Okay, right.
• 5:29
  SPEAKER_00: It feels very like hearty rustic American.
• 5:31
  SPEAKER_01: One time I had a can you get that?
• 5:33
  SPEAKER_01: Absolutely.
• 5:33
  SPEAKER_01: One time I had a um chili cook-off at work, and of course I had him make it.
• 5:38
  SPEAKER_01: And I was ghostwriting.
• 5:41
  SPEAKER_01: No, he literally ghost cooked my chili, goes uh DoorDash Ghost Kitchen was Tyler making my my chili for my chili cook-off, and I won.
• 5:49
  SPEAKER_01: And then at the end I had to admit to everyone that yeah, my my my boyfriend at the time had made it because we weren't engaged then, but everyone kind of knew because they knew that I was dating a chef.
• 5:59
  SPEAKER_01: Like everyone kind of would always talk about that, and so they were like, Gabby's probably gonna be a good one.
• 6:03
  SPEAKER_00: It was implied, just never fully spoken.
• 6:05
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, yeah, but that was a good chili.
• 6:06
  SPEAKER_01: So shout out you and your your soup skills.
• 6:09
  SPEAKER_01: We're gonna have lots of soup this season to come.
• 6:12
  SPEAKER_01: And I really want to go to Home Goods today and get fall decor, but like we shouldn't.
• 6:17
  SPEAKER_01: We have a wedding to pay for.
• 6:19
  SPEAKER_00: That is the thing right now.
• 6:20
  SPEAKER_00: Everything is you want to be cute, and then it's like, oh well, major expense in your future.
• 6:26
  SPEAKER_01: We have a wedding to pay for, so that ain't gonna happen.
• 6:28
  SPEAKER_00: But before you get off the topic of soup, I think about our origins of dating.
• 6:32
  SPEAKER_00: And when we first started talking, you were like, Yeah, I'm not really feeling that good.
• 6:35
  SPEAKER_00: Like, I feel like I need some soup.
• 6:37
  SPEAKER_00: And I was like, Oh my god, let me let me go in there.
• 6:40
  SPEAKER_00: Like, I want to get you the best soup.
• 6:41
  SPEAKER_00: Well, we haven't met yet.
• 6:42
  SPEAKER_00: You said, Don't worry, my mom's gonna come bring me the best soup ever.
• 6:45
  SPEAKER_00: And little did I find out later, I was like, Allison, really?
• 6:50
  SPEAKER_00: Was she making you soup?
• 6:51
  SPEAKER_00: Was she bringing it to you?
• 6:52
  SPEAKER_00: Like, I don't know if that was entirely true or not.
• 6:54
  SPEAKER_01: It was it was canned soup.
• 6:55
  SPEAKER_01: But I think at that point, like, I well, this is the thing with Tyler and I's story, our love story of how we came to be.
• 7:02
  SPEAKER_01: We met on Hinge.
• 7:03
  SPEAKER_01: It took me a really long time to meet him in person because I had never dated online before, and I was just like, is he the killer or what?
• 7:11
  SPEAKER_01: And then eventually I found out he was a real person.
• 7:13
  SPEAKER_01: I could had confirmed mutual friends, which is my neighbor actually at my last apartment.
• 7:17
  SPEAKER_01: Shout out, Hannah Barberg.
• 7:18
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, shout out.
• 7:19
  SPEAKER_01: Um, so yeah, we at that point we had just been texting, we hadn't met yet.
• 7:24
  SPEAKER_01: So, like the idea of you bringing me something was like scary, and especially when I was in the school and poisoned a soup.
• 7:29
  SPEAKER_01: Well, you never know, in this vulnerable state.
• 7:31
  SPEAKER_01: But also, Lacey just sent me, speaking of chili and soup.
• 7:34
  SPEAKER_01: Sorry guys, this is like soup episode.
• 7:36
  SPEAKER_01: Um, when we had first started dating, we were like new new.
• 7:40
  SPEAKER_01: You had made no no.
• 7:43
  SPEAKER_01: We had been we had been hanging out at your apartment and you were like, I'm gonna make chili tonight.
• 7:48
  SPEAKER_01: Like, do you want to bring some over to your friends?
• 7:50
  SPEAKER_01: Like, because they had been wanting to try your cooking and they hadn't yet.
• 7:54
  SPEAKER_01: And they also lived like six doors down from each other.
• 7:57
  SPEAKER_00: I miss when we all lived in the pasillo.
• 7:58
  SPEAKER_00: That was such a time.
• 7:59
  SPEAKER_01: Such a time, such a fun time.
• 8:02
  SPEAKER_01: But we got the chili, we like he packaged it up super cute, like wrote them a little note and we did a drop off, but then they saw us driving off because for some reason we were driving, even though we were really close by.
• 8:11
  SPEAKER_00: I didn't really meet Lacey or Aubrey, like it took me some time for you to like feel comfortable meeting them, and then we lived so close to them, we would run into them randomly.
• 8:18
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, we would just see them on walks, whatever.
• 8:20
  SPEAKER_01: So, but yeah, like Lacey just brought that up the other day.
• 8:23
  SPEAKER_01: She was like, Oh my gosh, I missed that.
• 8:24
  SPEAKER_01: That was so fun.
• 8:26
  SPEAKER_00: Note to self.
• 8:27
  SPEAKER_00: We'll bring extra soup to Lacey next time we make soap.
• 8:29
  SPEAKER_00: Honestly, I think we're planning on making chili this week, so that works out perfectly.
• 8:31
  SPEAKER_01: Yes, and I told her, and so when she comes back from her trip, hopefully it's still nice and chilly outside.
• 8:36
  SPEAKER_01: Don't worry for chili.
• 8:37
  SPEAKER_00: Come back from California.
• 8:38
  SPEAKER_00: We have chili waiting for you.
• 8:39
  SPEAKER_01: No, literally us trying to lure her back, come back.
• 8:41
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, okay.
• 8:41
  SPEAKER_01: So also we forgot raindrop of the week.
• 8:44
  SPEAKER_01: So yesterday we went to Whole Foods.
• 8:46
  SPEAKER_01: His grandma has COVID, unfortunately.
• 8:48
  SPEAKER_01: She's on the mint.
• 8:49
  SPEAKER_01: Her first time.
• 8:51
  SPEAKER_01: But she's on the mint.
• 8:52
  SPEAKER_01: She did have to go to the hospital, but she's doing better now.
• 8:54
  SPEAKER_01: And um, so we went and took her like a little care package.
• 8:57
  SPEAKER_01: So we went to Whole Foods, got her some soup from the hot bar.
• 9:00
  SPEAKER_00: Tyler like is leading us to this checkout line, and I'm like, We also got her flowers too, because we wanted her to feel better and more.
• 9:08
  SPEAKER_01: Um, and I got Drizzolicious and cereal from Whole Foods.
• 9:12
  SPEAKER_01: I had to get me a little something, a little something, something.
• 9:14
  SPEAKER_01: And so, anyways, yeah, Tyler leads us to a checkout line, and normally we go to self-checkout, so it was like already kind of random that we were in this line.
• 9:21
  SPEAKER_01: And then the sweet, sweet girls in front of us, and I noticed in her cart she has oysters.
• 9:25
  SPEAKER_01: So I'm like mentioning to Tyler, I'm like, oh my gosh, it's one dollar.
• 9:28
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I was like, it's one dollar oyster day here.
• 9:30
  SPEAKER_01: Like, I forget that they do that for like prime members.
• 9:32
  SPEAKER_01: And then the girl turns around and she like is looking at me, and I'm like, Hi, like I don't know what she was about to say, but she was about to say something.
• 9:40
  SPEAKER_01: She goes, I just have to let you know I love the podcast.
• 9:43
  SPEAKER_00: Big fan of the pod.
• 9:44
  SPEAKER_00: So shout out Zoe.
• 9:45
  SPEAKER_01: Shout out Zoe.
• 9:46
  SPEAKER_01: I this is the first time anyone has come up to me who I did not know in public and said, Oh my gosh, I know your podcast.
• 9:53
  SPEAKER_01: So that was like really special and super, super sweet.
• 9:55
  SPEAKER_01: Shout out Zoe, because that literally made my whole entire month.
• 9:59
  SPEAKER_00: Like, I literally was I called Lacey immediately after and was like, You were playing it cool, but we were talking about it like a couple, maybe like a week ago.
• 10:06
  SPEAKER_00: We were like, eventually it's gonna happen.
• 10:08
  SPEAKER_00: Like we're gonna be in the wild and you're gonna run into someone.
• 10:10
  SPEAKER_00: And it was it was finally, it was cool to be.
• 10:12
  SPEAKER_01: It's really cool.
• 10:12
  SPEAKER_01: Tyler's so cute.
• 10:13
  SPEAKER_01: He goes, Do you want me to take a picture?
• 10:16
  SPEAKER_01: Maybe she don't want a picture with me.
• 10:18
  SPEAKER_01: Maybe she don't want a picture with me.
• 10:19
  SPEAKER_01: But I get what you were saying.
• 10:20
  SPEAKER_01: You wanted me to have the picture.
• 10:22
  SPEAKER_01: It wasn't for her, it was for a me.
• 10:24
  SPEAKER_00: I need to be ready to always take pictures for you.
• 10:26
  SPEAKER_00: I know, girl.
• 10:27
  SPEAKER_01: Like you don't girl, you know what?
• 10:28
  SPEAKER_01: For the one time, tap me up for that.
• 10:30
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, because because he's really you are really good at taking pictures, and um, well, you've gotten better.
• 10:34
  SPEAKER_01: Sorry, not really good.
• 10:36
  SPEAKER_00: I got the lighting down.
• 10:37
  SPEAKER_00: I got the lighting.
• 10:37
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, you did.
• 10:38
  SPEAKER_01: Now you know how to adjust the lighting.
• 10:39
  SPEAKER_01: But at first, and like at first, his millennial was very apparent because one, he had an Android, and two, he didn't know how to take a damn photo to save his life.
• 10:49
  SPEAKER_01: And so we've had like we've had our trials and tribulations, but now you're really good at like doing content for me.
• 10:55
  SPEAKER_01: So I appreciate that.
• 10:56
  SPEAKER_00: I think I went to the school of thought where when you're taking pictures of your partner, you want to have like fun, embarrassing ones and kind of like good memories, and with you, it's just like that's just not gonna happen.
• 11:05
  SPEAKER_01: No, I love when you take silly pictures, don't get wrong.
• 11:07
  SPEAKER_01: I hate when you post them because this is the thing.
• 11:10
  SPEAKER_01: Tyler will post the craziest photos of me, and I put them on if you guys are on my close friends, some of you are, I post them on there, and he be you do me dirty a lot of times, but it's it's sweet.
• 11:19
  SPEAKER_01: I just never repost them.
• 11:22
  SPEAKER_01: No shade, no shade.
• 11:24
  SPEAKER_01: I gotta protect my image on the on the ground.
• 11:29
  SPEAKER_01: Oh my goodness.
• 11:30
  SPEAKER_01: Okay, so we thought that it would be fun since you know we're here.
• 11:35
  SPEAKER_00: We have some fun games, my friends.
• 11:36
  SPEAKER_01: It's the fiance episode.
• 11:39
  SPEAKER_01: It's the fiance episode.
• 11:40
  SPEAKER_01: I was like, okay, it brought me back to like 2015-2014 YouTube when people do fiance tag and they would like bring that, like it would be like a beauty guru, and she would like bring her uh fiance or like boyfriend on her YouTube channel and then ask him questions.
• 11:56
  SPEAKER_01: So I'm gonna do that.
• 11:57
  SPEAKER_01: Okay, so let's start with the first question.
• 11:59
  SPEAKER_01: Where and how did we first meet?
• 12:03
  SPEAKER_00: Uh where?
• 12:03
  SPEAKER_00: The internet, obviously.
• 12:05
  SPEAKER_00: Um, it was the third of July, and we met at Rad Bar because one of the few places that were open, and it was a very awkward experience because we went in there, we were pretty much some of the only people in there.
• 12:15
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, we were the only people in there.
• 12:17
  SPEAKER_00: There was this this very interesting character that just grew very attached to Gabby and was just like chouting her ear off while I was attempting to riz.
• 12:24
  SPEAKER_00: And the conversation was just like, how did we even get there?
• 12:27
  SPEAKER_00: And then they left and we were able to talk and we realized how much we had in common.
• 12:32
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 12:32
  SPEAKER_01: And so, yeah, our first and and mind you, we had been talking online for a while before.
• 12:39
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, so um that was our yeah, that was like our vibe check.
• 12:43
  SPEAKER_01: Like I I won't even call that a date because we literally just got a few drinks.
• 12:47
  SPEAKER_00: At that time, on the 3rd of July, mind you, she had told me she had plans to go swimming, and I was like, I respect that, you know, like swimming's fun.
• 12:56
  SPEAKER_01: And because girls, like this is a dating tip, like, and I'm sure a lot of people do this.
• 13:01
  SPEAKER_01: If you're going on like a first meeting or date or whatever you want to call it with someone, you don't want to be trapped in it just in case it's like awkward or like I don't know, just like all the things that can happen.
• 13:14
  SPEAKER_01: So I had a backup plan, like I had a hard out so that I could be like, okay, bye.
• 13:20
  SPEAKER_01: And like even if it was going good, like that's good for for you as like the woman to be like, okay, let me take some time.
• 13:26
  SPEAKER_01: Like, I don't want to be, I don't know.
• 13:28
  SPEAKER_01: I don't know.
• 13:28
  SPEAKER_00: Mind you, I look up in the sky, it's cloudy, it looks like it's about to rain any second.
• 13:33
  SPEAKER_00: And in the back of my mind, I'm just like, yeah, going swimming after this.
• 13:36
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I was like, okay, I'm gonna go swim, and it was like raining, so perfect.
• 13:40
  SPEAKER_01: But then, yeah, so then we ended up having well, I think that's another another question as where was our first day?
• 13:47
  SPEAKER_01: Go on.
• 13:48
  SPEAKER_01: What was your exact first impression of me?
• 13:50
  SPEAKER_01: I love this question.
• 13:51
  SPEAKER_00: So you might not be excited about this answer, but I kind of thought at first you were like, not like low-key, like a mean girl, like judgment.
• 14:00
  SPEAKER_00: What?
• 14:00
  SPEAKER_00: I yeah, low-key, low-key.
• 14:03
  SPEAKER_00: And I very quickly after that, I was like, no, she's just the sweetest, like most genuine.
• 14:08
  SPEAKER_00: But it takes some time to like really get that about someone.
• 14:12
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not sure.
• 14:13
  SPEAKER_01: Wait, you're saying you're saying like online when you first saw me, you thought that I was yes, going into it.
• 14:18
  SPEAKER_01: I was just like, okay, deep breaths, deep breaths, like and then in person, what was your first impression on me?
• 14:24
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, I was I don't think I've ever met a sweeter human being on planet Earth.
• 14:28
  SPEAKER_00: Your energy, I think your smell, like the first time I smelled you, like, give me a hug, I was like, she smells like heaven, like legitimately.
• 14:35
  SPEAKER_00: And a lot of times after that, people have stopped you and be like, oh my god, like you in if you know, you know, obviously.
• 14:41
  SPEAKER_01: What about my physicality?
• 14:42
  SPEAKER_01: Did was I beautiful?
• 14:44
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, of course.
• 14:46
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, what do you always say to me?
• 14:49
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, you don't know how to handle yourself because you never had a baddie before.
• 14:52
  SPEAKER_01: Okay, that that's like an internet joke.
• 14:54
  SPEAKER_01: Like, I'm not really being serious, but true, like that.
• 14:57
  SPEAKER_01: I am his first baddie.
• 14:58
  SPEAKER_01: But no, no, I can't even say that because that's shading your accent.
• 15:00
  SPEAKER_01: Like, I'm not trying to be a good one.
• 15:01
  SPEAKER_01: No, but I mean that's what I'm saying.
• 15:02
  SPEAKER_01: I mean that in a joking way.
• 15:04
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, like you're confident to saying that not that's how you actually feel.
• 15:07
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah.
• 15:08
  SPEAKER_00: I noticed you had a good sense of style.
• 15:09
  SPEAKER_00: I've never really been with someone who was so into like thrifting and like just seeing your vintage stuff really was just you said, holy, I almost choked.
• 15:20
  SPEAKER_00: Please don't.
• 15:21
  SPEAKER_01: Well, we wear the same size and shirts and stuff, so you're probably like, oh, I I'm I found a come up.
• 15:25
  SPEAKER_01: I found a come up, and I ruined a lot of them.
• 15:28
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, he did because he wore them to work, like he would wear my vintage t-shirts to work, and then they'd come back and have like oil stains on them.
• 15:34
  SPEAKER_00: Some of them need to be retired, is all I do.
• 15:37
  SPEAKER_01: They are retired and done for, but um I I will say I'm very proud of like the evolution of your style from when we first met.
• 15:44
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, thank you.
• 15:44
  SPEAKER_00: Is that one of the questions?
• 15:45
  SPEAKER_01: No, I'm just saying that.
• 15:47
  SPEAKER_01: Just trying to be nice.
• 15:49
  SPEAKER_01: Okay, so where did we go on our first official date?
• 15:53
  SPEAKER_00: I think first official date, correct me if I'm wrong, was Sedalia's.
• 15:56
  SPEAKER_01: It was that's correct.
• 15:58
  SPEAKER_01: You took me to Sedalia's, we sat at the chef's table.
• 16:00
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, and sometimes like whenever I went there, I was just really nervous that you know, in chef culture, you see someone on a date, and your first tendency is a chef's be like, hey, like what's up, chef?
• 16:11
  SPEAKER_00: You know, you kind of like talk to them, and they were thankfully so nice and so sweet.
• 16:15
  SPEAKER_00: They gave us space, they kind of did like a well, because you knew everyone in the kitchen, so I get that, like they would be wanting to talk, but yeah, I have seen some chefs definitely ruin first dates of people because they were just like talking about their day.
• 16:26
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, because it it there you want to talk shop when you see another chef, but yeah, but it wasn't like that at all.
• 16:30
  SPEAKER_01: Everyone was super sweet, and of course, shout out Silvana, and that was the first time I met her, and she's such a sweetheart.
• 16:36
  SPEAKER_01: So I was it it was like best date, and first time I had even eaten there, and I was like raving about it.
• 16:41
  SPEAKER_01: Like, you guys can imagine, like actually, I feel like growing up my whole life, I've always like I've loved cooking, I love the food network, I love all that stuff.
• 16:48
  SPEAKER_01: So, like when I met when I met Tyler, I was literally like, oh my god, that is my husband, like for all the reasons why he's so perfect and gorgeous and special, but also because he's literally a chef.
• 16:59
  SPEAKER_01: Like, I I have learned so much in our relationship about cooking, about food, like using right heat temperatures and pans and trying to cook things, and using only like silicone utensils on a nonstick.
• 17:10
  SPEAKER_00: That's the give and take.
• 17:11
  SPEAKER_00: I ruined your vintage shirts, you've killed a couple of my pans before.
• 17:15
  SPEAKER_01: It's true, that's the trade-off.
• 17:16
  SPEAKER_01: That's the trade-off, but um, yeah, so like he had taken me on this beautiful, gorgeous meal, and I'm like obsessed with him.
• 17:22
  SPEAKER_01: I'm just like, are you serious?
• 17:24
  SPEAKER_01: Like it was the best.
• 17:25
  SPEAKER_01: And we like split a bottle of the point I knew I was in over my head.
• 17:27
  SPEAKER_00: I was like, Yeah, we're drinking a bottle of white wine.
• 17:30
  SPEAKER_00: I was like, who is this person?
• 17:31
  SPEAKER_01: And I was really like, dang, like he must be bawling.
• 17:34
  SPEAKER_01: Like, but you were of course, never had a baddie before.
• 17:37
  SPEAKER_01: You were trying to show me a good time, and you did.
• 17:39
  SPEAKER_01: It was literally like a lot of people.
• 17:42
  SPEAKER_00: I remember we came back from my apartment, had a little bit more wine, and it started raining.
• 17:46
  SPEAKER_00: We just like opened up my windows.
• 17:47
  SPEAKER_01: Yes, and we and you had Finn and Theo then.
• 17:50
  SPEAKER_01: He had two black cats.
• 17:51
  SPEAKER_01: He was a b uh he was a cat dad when we first met.
• 17:54
  SPEAKER_01: Obviously, he still is, but like just so many green flags.
• 17:56
  SPEAKER_01: I was like, what is wrong with this guy?
• 17:58
  SPEAKER_00: And my cats were really sweet on you.
• 18:00
  SPEAKER_00: We're very sweet.
• 18:01
  SPEAKER_00: Oh my gosh, those babies.
• 18:03
  SPEAKER_00: I was like, usually they don't really warm up that fast.
• 18:05
  SPEAKER_00: Like Theo obviously will just love on everyone.
• 18:07
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 18:07
  SPEAKER_00: But then when Finn started acting differently, I was like, Oh, Finn was my baby.
• 18:10
  SPEAKER_01: Rest in peace, Finnny.
• 18:12
  SPEAKER_01: What is it?
• 18:13
  SPEAKER_00: He usually would only sleep on my feet on the cat bed.
• 18:15
  SPEAKER_00: And once he started sleeping next to your face, I was like, okay, so yeah, something's different.
• 18:20
  SPEAKER_01: Okay, next question.
• 18:22
  SPEAKER_01: Who said I love you first and where were we?
• 18:24
  SPEAKER_01: I don't remember this.
• 18:25
  SPEAKER_00: Oh gosh.
• 18:26
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, so this was lake trip in.
• 18:29
  SPEAKER_00: Oh my gosh!
• 18:30
  SPEAKER_01: Duh duh duh duh.
• 18:32
  SPEAKER_00: I was it was it grand, it wasn't grand, it was um I don't remember where the first family lake trip was.
• 18:38
  SPEAKER_00: I think Ufala?
• 18:39
  unknown: No.
• 18:40
  SPEAKER_00: May I think it was grand, honestly.
• 18:41
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, I think it was the last time that Deb went to Grand.
• 18:44
  SPEAKER_00: Um, we had just things had started really kind of moving.
• 18:47
  SPEAKER_01: This was my first time like hanging out with his family for a full weekend.
• 18:49
  SPEAKER_01: I had met your family before, but this was like first time.
• 18:51
  SPEAKER_01: It was probably like a month into dating.
• 18:53
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, and I'm trying to say this in the best way possible.
• 18:56
  SPEAKER_00: The house that we stayed in, we got it was so cute.
• 18:59
  SPEAKER_00: It was very cute, but it was made for Keebler Els.
• 19:01
  SPEAKER_01: Well, yeah, he's 6'3, so like ceilings were like literally, I I could touch the ceilings, so he was like hunched over the whole time.
• 19:08
  SPEAKER_01: Anyways, we had gone out on the water, we were on his dad's boat, we were drinking, I had a couple Miller lights, we were sitting on the splash pad.
• 19:14
  SPEAKER_01: I had had a couple high noons.
• 19:15
  SPEAKER_00: Grandma Cindy was being kind of like funny, silly, and dad was going to like re-up uh beers in like the cooler or whatever, and it was just the way the sun was hitting your face.
• 19:24
  SPEAKER_00: I was just like, hey, I have a secret to tell you.
• 19:26
  SPEAKER_00: And you were like, Oh god, and I think you were thinking it was gonna be something about my family because I'm gonna be like, Yeah, I thought you were gonna spill too like this.
• 19:32
  SPEAKER_01: Because you scared me.
• 19:32
  SPEAKER_01: I was like, What?
• 19:33
  SPEAKER_00: She was like, Are you guys gonna kill me?
• 19:35
  SPEAKER_00: Your anxiety was like, Yeah, my his parents hate you or whatever.
• 19:37
  SPEAKER_00: And I just said, I I think I loved you.
• 19:40
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, and you were like, You think?
• 19:42
  SPEAKER_00: And I was like, No, like I love you because I was I was kind of nervous.
• 19:44
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, and we were on the splash pad, and you were just like and we had like that little moment, and then it was back to like laying out, beers, having a good time.
• 19:51
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, there was that.
• 19:52
  SPEAKER_01: But we knew like literally from the first time we met.
• 19:55
  SPEAKER_01: Because I remember there would be so many times.
• 19:57
  SPEAKER_01: Well, I knew, I don't know about you.
• 19:59
  SPEAKER_01: I'm making that face.
• 20:00
  SPEAKER_00: I don't like ruining the question.
• 20:02
  SPEAKER_00: I think there's another question that kind of like has my answer to it.
• 20:04
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, okay.
• 20:05
  SPEAKER_00: Because I don't like to get ahead of myself.
• 20:06
  SPEAKER_01: When did you oh okay, this one?
• 20:08
  SPEAKER_01: When did you first realize you wanted to marry me?
• 20:10
  SPEAKER_00: After Finn died unexpectedly.
• 20:12
  SPEAKER_01: Finn was his cat, his second cat that he had.
• 20:14
  SPEAKER_00: And he was like my he was like a little lover boy.
• 20:17
  SPEAKER_00: He was like would always play video games with me, just kind of like like guard dog, and it was rough.
• 20:23
  SPEAKER_01: And we We lost him really unexpectedly when we took him to the vet one day.
• 20:27
  SPEAKER_01: We literally had to put him down that day.
• 20:29
  SPEAKER_01: It was awesome.
• 20:30
  SPEAKER_00: A UTI?
• 20:31
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, we thought it was a UTI.
• 20:33
  SPEAKER_00: Boy, were we wrong.
• 20:35
  SPEAKER_00: And after that, it just sitting there.
• 20:39
  SPEAKER_00: We took my bed and we put out in the living room, and we just sat there, watched movies, and we we would wake up like crying, but kind of like holding each other.
• 20:48
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, are you gonna cry?
• 20:50
  SPEAKER_00: Tried not to.
• 20:51
  SPEAKER_00: And at that moment, I was like, this is different.
• 20:53
  SPEAKER_00: This is not like anything I've ever done.
• 20:55
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, well, it's it that it really is like I think in relationships it's so easy to be like all the good, all the happiness, all the fun, like all the things, like the levity of it.
• 21:05
  SPEAKER_01: But what I that was our first time going through something really hard together.
• 21:08
  SPEAKER_00: Usually I'm like a runner, like I want to be alone, like don't touch me, whatever.
• 21:11
  SPEAKER_01: And but we were together nonstop after the after Finney Pest because it was like literally so hard.
• 21:16
  SPEAKER_01: Um, but you know, through that, then we ended up kind of you-hauling.
• 21:21
  SPEAKER_01: Moving on, we you hauled, we you hauled.
• 21:23
  SPEAKER_01: Like we really were like, well, then I shortly after that, I found this apartment, and so I had moved in here, and it was bigger, and like it was just like it was baby steps, and then it was very big.
• 21:35
  SPEAKER_00: Well, Theo moved in before you did.
• 21:37
  SPEAKER_00: He was so lonely by himself.
• 21:38
  SPEAKER_01: He was so lonely, and he's such a sweet cat.
• 21:40
  SPEAKER_01: And so we moved Theo in with my at that time.
• 21:43
  SPEAKER_01: We just had Juni and Frankie, and um, so moved him in with the girls, and they I mean, Juni and Theo literally got along like that.
• 21:50
  SPEAKER_01: Frankie's a little bit harder, she's a little bit of a sassy girl towards other cats.
• 21:53
  SPEAKER_00: Frankie's coming around at this point.
• 21:55
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, they were playing hard this morning together, it was really cute.
• 21:58
  SPEAKER_01: But yeah, so Theo moved in first and then.
• 22:00
  SPEAKER_01: And you moved in shortly after.
• 22:02
  SPEAKER_01: So yeah.
• 22:03
  SPEAKER_01: Um and then the last question what is your favorite memory of us from before we got engaged?
• 22:09
  SPEAKER_00: Before we got engaged?
• 22:10
  SPEAKER_00: Ooh.
• 22:12
  SPEAKER_00: I would probably say maybe seeing McGee.
• 22:15
  SPEAKER_00: Concerts are always fun with you.
• 22:17
  SPEAKER_00: We have the best time at concerts.
• 22:18
  SPEAKER_00: We make little concert buddies and like And the 1975.
• 22:22
  SPEAKER_01: We saw the 1975 together.
• 22:23
  SPEAKER_00: It was probably between those two.
• 22:25
  SPEAKER_00: Like us in a concert in Dallas and like being in like a really nice hotel, eating like really crappy food, watching Border Patrol.
• 22:32
  SPEAKER_01: The best recipe is go to Dallas, check in a hotel, get ready for concert, pregame concert, go to concert, go to In N Out, go back, watch Border Patrol on the hotel TV and eat In N Out.
• 22:45
  SPEAKER_01: Period.
• 22:46
  SPEAKER_00: It's a recipe for good things.
• 22:48
  SPEAKER_01: And that was like literally it.
• 22:49
  SPEAKER_01: It's just the best.
• 22:50
  SPEAKER_00: So if you've never tried it, would highly recommend.
• 22:52
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, seriously.
• 22:53
  SPEAKER_01: And Lacey and I get to do that next week after Ryan.
• 22:56
  SPEAKER_00: Happy Ryan Beatty week to everyone who celebrates.
• 22:58
  SPEAKER_01: To everyone who celebrates.
• 23:00
  SPEAKER_01: I have two tickets for sale if anyone wants them in Dallas, by the way.
• 23:02
  SPEAKER_01: Oh really?
• 23:03
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, because I upgraded my tickets.
• 23:05
  SPEAKER_01: And then I still have the other two.
• 23:06
  SPEAKER_00: So me and Taryn should go.
• 23:09
  SPEAKER_01: We'll talk about that later.
• 23:11
  SPEAKER_01: Talk about that freaking later.
• 23:13
  SPEAKER_01: It's on a Thursday, though, so you would have to get off work for two days.
• 23:15
  SPEAKER_00: I could find a way for Ryan Beatty.
• 23:18
  SPEAKER_01: Um, well, I want to open up open it up to you.
• 23:22
  SPEAKER_01: Actually, no.
• 23:23
  SPEAKER_00: Uh-oh.
• 23:23
  SPEAKER_01: I owe you an apology.
• 23:25
  SPEAKER_00: Am I in trouble?
• 23:26
  SPEAKER_00: Am I in trouble?
• 23:26
  SPEAKER_01: No, I owe you an apology.
• 23:28
  SPEAKER_01: So, one thing about Tyler is one of his favorite artists, his favorite music artists, is controversial Zach Bryan.
• 23:36
  SPEAKER_00: Yes.
• 23:37
  SPEAKER_01: And if you don't remember, Zach Bryan, of course, he had a little scandal a few years ago with Brianna Chicken Fry influencer.
• 23:46
  SPEAKER_01: He tried to make her sign an NDA to not talk about their relationship after their breakup.
• 23:50
  SPEAKER_01: He is there's a lot to say about who he is in relationships.
• 23:54
  SPEAKER_01: There's a lot to say about that, but that's not what I'm I'm not gonna hash that up today.
• 23:58
  SPEAKER_00: But what I am going to do is like the craziest one.
• 24:00
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, he left one of his wives while he was on deployment and in military code.
• 24:04
  SPEAKER_01: That's like that's like insane that you're like airing out your favour like that.
• 24:07
  SPEAKER_00: Well, no, like you have to take the good and the bad.
• 24:09
  SPEAKER_00: Like that's true.
• 24:10
  SPEAKER_00: At least you're being open about it.
• 24:12
  SPEAKER_00: He's obviously a better version of himself now because okay, so if you haven't seen last night, he performed with his bands in Boston.
• 24:21
  SPEAKER_00: In Boston, on the train bands and bus.
• 24:23
  SPEAKER_01: You're gonna get a copyright in.
• 24:25
  SPEAKER_01: Um, and they performed last night, and every single one of his bandmates and him were wearing free Palestine shirts.
• 24:32
  SPEAKER_01: They were wearing Palestine jerseys, he wore a free Palestine shirt that said it bold on his chest.
• 24:37
  SPEAKER_00: So what you're saying is in a world of Ed Sharon's, we should be more like Zach Bryan.
• 24:42
  SPEAKER_01: Well, not too much, not too much in a little in a little bit with a grain of salt, maybe.
• 24:47
  SPEAKER_01: Um, but yeah, I apologize for always clowning on him because that was that was hella cool, especially with his audience.
• 24:52
  SPEAKER_01: Like, I just think that's so sick.
• 24:54
  SPEAKER_01: So shout out Zach Bryan.
• 24:55
  SPEAKER_01: Big ups.
• 24:56
  SPEAKER_00: And I think too, we forget like us as Oklahomans always like overly attached to someone from Oklahoma and just kind of hearing his music and how he presents this place in like a better positive manner.
• 25:09
  SPEAKER_00: You're right.
• 25:09
  SPEAKER_00: I think that's like why I like kind of gravitate towards him.
• 25:13
  SPEAKER_00: A lot of his songs are about Tulsa.
• 25:15
  SPEAKER_01: I do like his songwriting, to be fair.
• 25:16
  SPEAKER_01: If I were to read his song, like read a song out on paper, I would uh I would like it, but it's just something about him.
• 25:22
  SPEAKER_00: See, I think this segues into one of my topics.
• 25:25
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, well, go so I think the Zach Bryan effect is my man does love reading a lot of poetry, leads reads a lot of like classic books.
• 25:32
  SPEAKER_00: I know he likes on the road, he's a Jack Kerouack guy.
• 25:35
  SPEAKER_00: But also in this week we found out one Alex Earle does not read books.
• 25:40
  SPEAKER_01: I'm not surprised by that.
• 25:41
  SPEAKER_01: You you seem shocked by it.
• 25:43
  SPEAKER_00: I wasn't surprised either, but I think it brought up like sometimes when people say things in interviews and stuff, it brings up like a question.
• 25:49
  SPEAKER_00: And like, cause like the comments are kind of going back and forth.
• 25:52
  SPEAKER_00: And I think the question it brings up is it okay for someone to not read recreationally and have it be okay?
• 25:59
  SPEAKER_00: Because in some people's eyes, it's like, no, you should always read a book and continue reading.
• 26:04
  SPEAKER_01: Well, that's what I I feel like I have a conflicting opinion on this matter because the question they asked was like, What was your favorite, or like what book have you read?
• 26:13
  SPEAKER_01: And she's like, I haven't read since Dr.
• 26:14
  SPEAKER_01: Seuss.
• 26:15
  SPEAKER_01: Uh that was a stretch.
• 26:16
  SPEAKER_01: I'm sure that's not true.
• 26:17
  SPEAKER_01: Maybe it is.
• 26:18
  SPEAKER_01: I don't know.
• 26:18
  SPEAKER_00: Well, she went to the University of Miami for like and has like a degree, I'm sure there was a lot of people.
• 26:23
  SPEAKER_01: Well, she also gives out a scholarship at the University of Miami, so that is where it's like you couldn't have made it made up an answer, but like for my friends, I have friends that don't read.
• 26:33
  SPEAKER_01: Like, I'm and I don't read to be fair.
• 26:35
  SPEAKER_01: The last time I read was the Nightingale last year.
• 26:38
  SPEAKER_00: I think it's okay.
• 26:38
  SPEAKER_00: I like listen to books, but I think it the better way to say it is I just don't read recreationally, you know, because like we have to read things for our jobs, emails, but I think in this modern era it's it's just okay to some be someone who doesn't recreationally read.
• 26:53
  SPEAKER_01: Right.
• 26:53
  SPEAKER_01: But people were giving her a lot of trash, and I'm like, okay, I get it, I get it.
• 26:57
  SPEAKER_01: But also, like, you're not better than anyone because you do read books.
• 27:00
  SPEAKER_01: I know that it probably gives people a different worldview, and yeah, reading is fun.
• 27:04
  SPEAKER_00: But if you don't enjoy it, you don't have to do it.
• 27:07
  SPEAKER_00: It's just like a muscle.
• 27:08
  SPEAKER_00: If you if you don't like it, you don't have to.
• 27:09
  SPEAKER_01: And to be fair, like, people just find any reason to be mad at her because it's just like even though she's already been through enough.
• 27:16
  SPEAKER_00: So, how many books did you read last year?
• 27:18
  SPEAKER_01: Literally one, and I listened to one, like that's it.
• 27:22
  SPEAKER_01: Um, I did want to talk about the VMAs, though.
• 27:25
  SPEAKER_01: Did you see any clips that stood out to you?
• 27:28
  SPEAKER_00: I guess Madonna's back, or did she never leave?
• 27:31
  SPEAKER_01: Well, okay, this is the thing.
• 27:32
  SPEAKER_01: I think that that was really like her final hurrah.
• 27:35
  SPEAKER_01: Like, I don't think because this is like her last album cycle.
• 27:38
  SPEAKER_01: She put on an out album.
• 27:39
  SPEAKER_01: She's in her 70s.
• 27:41
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, which is really impressive that she's still doing it.
• 27:43
  SPEAKER_00: She's not really up late with Charlie XEX in the hotel room making TikToks.
• 27:46
  SPEAKER_01: I know, right?
• 27:46
  SPEAKER_01: That was really funny.
• 27:48
  SPEAKER_01: But she um, yeah, she performed, and I'm pretty sure that's her last performance.
• 27:52
  SPEAKER_01: Like, I I don't I and I mean to give her her credit, she literally like is the building blocks of pop music.
• 27:59
  SPEAKER_01: Like, she has done so much for pop music, and I love that like Sabrina and Charlie give her her flowers in that way because she really is so legendary.
• 28:06
  SPEAKER_00: But is that what the VMAs has kind of become though?
• 28:08
  SPEAKER_01: Just giving Did she get the Vanguard Award or something?
• 28:11
  SPEAKER_01: Why was she there?
• 28:12
  SPEAKER_00: I think it was like the like a century artist or something.
• 28:16
  SPEAKER_01: Who got the Vanguard Award at the last VMAs?
• 28:24
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, it was Nirvana.
• 28:25
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, it was a lot of nostalgia baiting.
• 28:27
  SPEAKER_01: No, it wasn't Nirvana.
• 28:28
  SPEAKER_01: What?
• 28:29
  SPEAKER_01: Nirvana did Nirvana.
• 28:31
  SPEAKER_00: It was a Navy.
• 28:31
  SPEAKER_01: Oh wow, interesting.
• 28:33
  SPEAKER_01: Interesting.
• 28:33
  SPEAKER_01: Okay, cool.
• 28:34
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, look at the temperature.
• 28:35
  SPEAKER_01: Six seven.
• 28:37
  SPEAKER_01: Um but yeah, I uh what do you think about Charlie XEX reacting in that one video?
• 28:44
  SPEAKER_01: She's like and it was to Taylor.
• 28:47
  SPEAKER_01: What do you think?
• 28:50
  SPEAKER_00: We do need to give Taylor her flowers because now she's the most decorated artist in the VMA's history that has to stand for something in itself.
• 28:58
  SPEAKER_00: Right.
• 28:58
  SPEAKER_00: But I think with that many successes, you can like other people can get fatigue, you know?
• 29:03
  SPEAKER_00: Because like even in sports and anything, if someone's so good and always winning, emotionally you just want that downfall or you want that step back.
• 29:10
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 29:11
  SPEAKER_00: So well, what do you think?
• 29:13
  SPEAKER_01: Do you think that Charlie was being shady by that, or do you just think that was her normal face?
• 29:16
  SPEAKER_01: Because I think it was just her normal face.
• 29:18
  SPEAKER_01: I don't think that they have as much beef as people lead on.
• 29:22
  SPEAKER_01: Charlie and Taylor.
• 29:23
  SPEAKER_00: When I think about it too, though, like she opened for her, you know, like they like they are.
• 29:30
  SPEAKER_00: And are aware of each other.
• 29:31
  SPEAKER_00: They both dated members of the 1975, they went on tour.
• 29:34
  SPEAKER_00: Like, I I don't think there's as much hate as like is televised, and I think it's sucky that we always have to have a camera on Charlie XEX every time we're talking about Taylor Swift to see her reaction.
• 29:44
  SPEAKER_00: Like, I don't think it's that deep.
• 29:46
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I agree.
• 29:47
  SPEAKER_01: But I did love that reaction clip, and she posted it in her um But haven't we talked about in this pod though?
• 29:52
  SPEAKER_00: Like women pitting women against each other, like that's kind of like what it feels like, rather than like genuine, like beef.
• 29:58
  SPEAKER_01: No, I agree.
• 29:59
  SPEAKER_01: I agree, but I do want to talk about Taylor Swift's album because well, it was the extension of her album, I guess.
• 30:06
  SPEAKER_01: It's the album.
• 30:07
  SPEAKER_01: The exclusive.
• 30:08
  SPEAKER_01: What the exclusive?
• 30:09
  SPEAKER_01: What am I trying to do?
• 30:11
  SPEAKER_01: Oh my god, you're a fan.
• 30:14
  SPEAKER_01: Um, what is what was it called?
• 30:16
  SPEAKER_01: The deluxe.
• 30:16
  SPEAKER_01: The deluxe.
• 30:17
  SPEAKER_01: So um I I went ahead and I listened to it.
• 30:21
  SPEAKER_01: I gave it a run through.
• 30:22
  SPEAKER_01: Actually, I didn't listen to it in full.
• 30:23
  SPEAKER_01: I would just listen to it on TikTok.
• 30:25
  SPEAKER_01: Like little clips and stuff.
• 30:27
  SPEAKER_01: I am like really, I'm not trying to be super mean and shady because I ha I do have my own personal feelings about Miss Taylor.
• 30:36
  SPEAKER_01: I cannot believe that this songwriting is, and this is I'm saying the same thing as everyone else has said online.
• 30:43
  SPEAKER_01: Everything I'm gonna say has already been said.
• 30:45
  SPEAKER_01: Um, I can't believe that the person that wrote all those songs when she was literally like 16, 17 years old, even like 14 and 15, is the same artist releasing this today.
• 30:57
  SPEAKER_01: Like it's shocking to me, and especially like the folklore days where she was really in her poet era.
• 31:02
  SPEAKER_01: Like, it is so scary.
• 31:05
  SPEAKER_01: Do you hear the ice cream tread?
• 31:06
  SPEAKER_00: I was gonna say ice cream tread.
• 31:08
  SPEAKER_01: Ice cream tread.
• 31:09
  SPEAKER_00: Um I don't think it's one of her stronger uh it's weird to like the the meme I keep going back to is used to write songs about like Paris and New Like all these New York, and now it's we get songs like Cleveland and Florida.
• 31:23
  SPEAKER_02: Florida?
• 31:24
  SPEAKER_00: When did she say Florida?
• 31:26
  SPEAKER_01: Really?
• 31:27
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, I don't think you've actually listened to the album.
• 31:29
  SPEAKER_01: Did you?
• 31:30
  SPEAKER_01: No.
• 31:31
  SPEAKER_00: I'm like um if a new album comes out on a Friday or whatever, like I'll I'll play a couple songs off of it just for fun.
• 31:36
  SPEAKER_00: Like I like to refresh.
• 31:37
  SPEAKER_01: Um you listen to everything.
• 31:40
  SPEAKER_01: It if it makes my ears happy, I'll I'll Yeah, like you have no genre like bias, like you really just listen to anything.
• 31:47
  SPEAKER_00: I've been like 90s country heavy, like early 2000s recently.
• 31:51
  SPEAKER_01: Um, but I don't know.
• 31:54
  SPEAKER_01: I I just uh I mean she's for sure getting a lot of negative feedback online, and this is kind of a dated topic now.
• 32:02
  SPEAKER_01: I also think that like internet reactions are just like reactions, like people want to get clicks, people want to get likes, people want to be talked about.
• 32:09
  SPEAKER_01: So of course everyone's jumping on the bandwagon, like, oh my god, this sucks.
• 32:12
  SPEAKER_01: Does it suck in my opinion?
• 32:13
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, it sucks.
• 32:14
  SPEAKER_01: Like it's bad, it's bad songwriting, it's bad production, it's all the things.
• 32:17
  SPEAKER_00: But are the same people that were hating on pedal also hating on Taylor's album?
• 32:20
  SPEAKER_00: Because pedal was way better than Oh my god.
• 32:22
  SPEAKER_01: I mean, they're not even in the same category for me, but I'm extra biased on that.
• 32:26
  SPEAKER_00: But in terms of like pop girlies, like genre similarities.
• 32:29
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I I don't know, but I um what was I saying with that though?
• 32:35
  SPEAKER_01: I was saying something about how people were on like, oh yeah, I I think majority of people who were like upset about it just wanted to be a part of the conversation, and now I'm seeing the it's always a pendulum.
• 32:47
  SPEAKER_01: Like when things first come out, everyone hates it, and then it comes around, and the Taylor fans are already, you know, to the come around era.
• 32:54
  SPEAKER_01: They're like, but it's irony.
• 32:55
  SPEAKER_01: I will say though, I just ironic.
• 32:59
  SPEAKER_00: I liked Bait of Ophelia.
• 33:00
  SPEAKER_00: I didn't think Showgirl was as bad as people like thought it was initially.
• 33:04
  SPEAKER_00: Like going back listening to it, I didn't think it was like the start of the downfall that everyone seems to be well.
• 33:10
  SPEAKER_01: Respect then good.
• 33:11
  SPEAKER_01: I'm glad you liked it.
• 33:12
  SPEAKER_01: I didn't, but good for you.
• 33:15
  SPEAKER_01: Good for you.
• 33:16
  SPEAKER_01: Um, but okay, so this is another thing.
• 33:19
  SPEAKER_01: So Tanache released an album the same day as the deluxe that came out, and um pitchfork rated it what 9.8 or 90.
• 33:28
  SPEAKER_01: I think it was like just a solid nine.
• 33:29
  SPEAKER_01: I think it was a solid nine.
• 33:30
  SPEAKER_01: They never give out scores that yeah, they never give out scores.
• 33:34
  SPEAKER_01: And Tanashe's album got that.
• 33:36
  SPEAKER_01: And I was just listening to her podcast with Owen Thiel while while I was setting up back here, and she's never been nominated for a Grammy and she's never been awarded.
• 33:44
  SPEAKER_01: But Tanache is literally She's been putting in the work she for years, and she's so fire.
• 33:49
  SPEAKER_01: Like, and the thing with the Grammys is like they would literally give her like best new artist or something crazy like that.
• 33:55
  SPEAKER_01: Because like it's insane to me that she has not been nominated, but she's so talented, and the album is so great.
• 34:00
  SPEAKER_01: Like, it really is so good.
• 34:02
  SPEAKER_00: A lot of people I feel like now are like, oh well, now she's making better.
• 34:05
  SPEAKER_00: Like the music has always been so it's always been she always gives vocals, she dances, like she does all the things a pop star needs to do.
• 34:12
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, she's literally fab.
• 34:14
  SPEAKER_01: And I love um I love when artists put out albums that get like recognition, even though I don't think that like critics and stuff like that are all that you need to be successful, like obviously, but I do love when they get the recognition because it just makes me feel like okay, good, like we're happy for her, we're happy for her, but like overdue.
• 34:34
  SPEAKER_01: And I also learned that she started out in a girl group or a band or something like that.
• 34:40
  SPEAKER_01: Most of them do, and she um opened for Justin Bieber on the My World Tour.
• 34:45
  SPEAKER_00: Were you not there?
• 34:46
  SPEAKER_01: And I saw I was at the My World Tour, so I saw Tanache perform.
• 34:49
  SPEAKER_00: That's awesome.
• 34:50
  SPEAKER_01: I know, I thought that was cool, but yeah, so she started out in a girl group and then she broke away and then did her own thing.
• 34:56
  SPEAKER_01: And yeah, two on.
• 34:58
  SPEAKER_01: I mean, shout out to one because when I first heard two on, I was like, Who is this?
• 35:04
  SPEAKER_01: And then oh my friends, yes, there Tanache's on like big bangers that like will be in my life.
• 35:12
  SPEAKER_00: Like she also has features too.
• 35:14
  SPEAKER_00: Like we were listening to the nick the the Jonas Brothers one too, the jealous with her on it.
• 35:19
  SPEAKER_00: Like any verse she has on this song makes the song like contributes or makes it better.
• 35:23
  SPEAKER_00: It's not just like she's so fab nonsensical, you know.
• 35:26
  SPEAKER_01: She's so fab.
• 35:26
  SPEAKER_01: Victoria Monet released an album yesterday, too.
• 35:28
  SPEAKER_01: I haven't given it a lesson yet, though.
• 35:30
  SPEAKER_00: That'll be on my list of things to do this week.
• 35:32
  SPEAKER_01: Period.
• 35:33
  SPEAKER_01: Are you having fun?
• 35:35
  SPEAKER_00: I'm having a great time.
• 35:36
  SPEAKER_00: You gave me this look earlier when you were talking about uh girl groups.
• 35:39
  SPEAKER_00: I thought you're gonna air me out for uh Fifth Harmony, and so I got kind of You love Fifth Harmony, talk about it, talk about it, talk about it.
• 35:46
  SPEAKER_01: So Well, you listened to the last episode when I talked about them on the X Factor and then they did the Ellie Golding song.
• 35:51
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, and that was a mess.
• 35:53
  SPEAKER_00: They if given good material, they're really, really good.
• 35:57
  SPEAKER_00: But if if they're giving something they don't think very easy to see, but like work from home like changed the music industry.
• 36:04
  SPEAKER_00: I'm sorry, like 2016.
• 36:05
  SPEAKER_00: That was everywhere.
• 36:08
  SPEAKER_01: I wish everyone knew how funny you are because who says that?
• 36:11
  SPEAKER_01: Who says stuff like that?
• 36:12
  SPEAKER_01: Work from home changed the music industry.
• 36:14
  SPEAKER_00: No, it really did, like it changed the way we like compromise a pop song.
• 36:19
  SPEAKER_00: I feel like, especially giving like trying to get that many voices incorporated with like the idea of this is hyperly sexualized, and this isn't a song that like well should be on the radio, but will somehow fit it in a nice little box and have just enough euphemisms.
• 36:35
  SPEAKER_01: Do you and you love the music video when they're all like just hitting the tires with the hammer doesn't want to cosplay as like a construction person?
• 36:42
  SPEAKER_00: No, for sure.
• 36:42
  SPEAKER_01: Like, and that's so funny, and also like what an interesting take on the work from home.
• 36:46
  SPEAKER_01: Like, they could have done like my favorite Fifth Harmony song is Going Nowhere.
• 36:54
  SPEAKER_00: That's a good one.
• 36:56
  SPEAKER_00: But then, dude, that's not even uh the is work from home your favorite?
• 37:00
  SPEAKER_00: I would I think so.
• 37:01
  SPEAKER_01: Really?
• 37:02
  SPEAKER_00: I could listen to that song like ten times in a row.
• 37:05
  SPEAKER_01: Anytime I work from home, he's always singing that.
• 37:07
  SPEAKER_01: We can work from home.
• 37:09
  SPEAKER_00: Well, and sometimes if I'm off on a Tuesday, I want her to work from home so we can like hang out.
• 37:13
  SPEAKER_00: Like a like a school day off type vibe, you know?
• 37:16
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, yeah.
• 37:17
  SPEAKER_01: Well, that's awesome.
• 37:18
  SPEAKER_01: Who's your favorite Tetha Harmony member?
• 37:20
  SPEAKER_00: Not Camilla Cabello, sorry.
• 37:23
  SPEAKER_00: So who is my I don't know anyone else's name.
• 37:26
  SPEAKER_01: Normani should be your favorite.
• 37:28
  SPEAKER_00: That's the one I was looking for.
• 37:29
  SPEAKER_01: Because she did that one song.
• 37:30
  SPEAKER_01: Um well she has a she has a she has multiple songs, but there's one song that I loved so much.
• 37:37
  SPEAKER_01: Anyways, also it's important to note that Tyler wanted today to be as biblically accurate as possible to a normal rainy day episode.
• 37:46
  SPEAKER_01: So he did go and get us class and coffees this morning as Lacey would.
• 37:49
  SPEAKER_01: He's literally being Lacey today.
• 37:51
  SPEAKER_00: Why why change a good formula?
• 37:52
  SPEAKER_00: You have a good thing going, keep doing it.
• 37:54
  SPEAKER_00: Um, it's all about the process.
• 37:56
  SPEAKER_01: If it works, it works.
• 37:58
  SPEAKER_00: So I wanted to get away.
• 38:00
  SPEAKER_01: I kept the candle on in the living room, but whatever.
• 38:02
  SPEAKER_00: You'd love leaving a candle on.
• 38:04
  SPEAKER_01: Okay, go ahead.
• 38:05
  SPEAKER_00: So who's your favorite cat this week?
• 38:08
  SPEAKER_01: My favorite cat this week.
• 38:10
  SPEAKER_00: Because okay, everyone says you can't have a favorite, but when you have four cats, sometimes one is giving you a little more love.
• 38:17
  SPEAKER_00: Sometimes one's kind of mad at you.
• 38:19
  SPEAKER_01: Yes, yeah.
• 38:20
  SPEAKER_01: I mean, there are a lot of dynamics going on in our household all of the time because we have four cats, like everyone kind of gangs up on each other, like it can be a lot.
• 38:28
  SPEAKER_01: But my favorite cat this week is none other than Mika P.
• 38:32
  SPEAKER_01: She is our youngest girl, and she's so cute.
• 38:36
  SPEAKER_01: I'll put a pig chill for her, she's so cute.
• 38:38
  SPEAKER_00: We just celebrated her like first birthday.
• 38:40
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, she's been home for like a year.
• 38:42
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, and our gotcha day, yeah.
• 38:43
  SPEAKER_01: Yep.
• 38:44
  SPEAKER_01: Um, but she is so cuddly with me.
• 38:48
  SPEAKER_00: Mind you, she's normally an insanely independent, doesn't want you to touch her, doesn't want you to look at her.
• 38:53
  SPEAKER_01: She cuddles with me.
• 38:54
  SPEAKER_01: She lays on me and she sleeps on me.
• 38:56
  SPEAKER_01: And I woke up this morning, she was on me like Mika really likes her mom.
• 39:00
  SPEAKER_00: Well, sorry, she's supposed to be her dad's cat, but apparently she's a mama's girl.
• 39:03
  SPEAKER_01: That's right.
• 39:03
  SPEAKER_01: So Mika P is my fave.
• 39:05
  SPEAKER_01: What about you?
• 39:06
  SPEAKER_00: I think I'm gonna go Frankie.
• 39:07
  SPEAKER_00: I'll go the other calico.
• 39:08
  SPEAKER_00: Oh.
• 39:09
  SPEAKER_00: Or is it Calico, not Calico, it's Tordy.
• 39:11
  SPEAKER_00: Tordy, Tordy.
• 39:13
  SPEAKER_00: So Frankie, I feel like the more you put into her, the more you get out.
• 39:16
  SPEAKER_00: Because like I'll kind of like seek her out and be like, let me love on you.
• 39:19
  SPEAKER_00: I started like finding her to say goodbye, you know.
• 39:22
  SPEAKER_01: Yes, and she appreciates that.
• 39:24
  SPEAKER_01: She loves when people when we say her name.
• 39:26
  SPEAKER_01: Like she feels like oh, I'm included.
• 39:28
  SPEAKER_00: I know how to like kind of like talk to her now to get the like reaction she wants.
• 39:32
  SPEAKER_00: And yeah, she is like our baby cat, even though like Mika's obviously the youngest one.
• 39:38
  SPEAKER_00: She she makes the noises, she wants you to like rub her belly, but then she doesn't, but then she does.
• 39:42
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, and then she does like the if you get her right between her ears, she'll kind of put her ears back like this and give you like the cute little uh cat from Shrek meme, like the Oh yeah, her eyes get all big, so cute, puts in boots.
• 39:56
  SPEAKER_00: And she just has the biggest motor that's just constantly running.
• 39:59
  SPEAKER_00: Like she purrs a lot.
• 40:01
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, she does beat up my cat, Theo, pretty often.
• 40:04
  SPEAKER_01: She does, but you know, she at least she's like this is the thing.
• 40:09
  SPEAKER_01: Like, she beats them up, but it's not all the time, she just gets little little spurts where she gets overstimulated.
• 40:14
  SPEAKER_01: But like they can be in the same room and they're not fighting.
• 40:16
  SPEAKER_00: No, I mean they'd be on the same bed and they're fine.
• 40:18
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, it's just they're they're fine, they're totally fine.
• 40:20
  SPEAKER_00: Sometimes Theo just wants like a sniff or like a little tiny moment, and she just is not backing down.
• 40:25
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, yeah.
• 40:26
  SPEAKER_00: So this probably won't be a reoccurring segment, but if we're both on the pod, I think we should start doing our cats of the week.
• 40:32
  SPEAKER_01: Okay, we can do that.
• 40:33
  SPEAKER_01: Did you have Ted Lasso in your favorites?
• 40:35
  SPEAKER_00: Um, yeah.
• 40:36
  SPEAKER_00: Do you want to go to our favorites?
• 40:37
  SPEAKER_01: No, I want to talk about Ted Lasso and Hope Core before our favorites.
• 40:42
  SPEAKER_01: But if that's your favorite, then I can.
• 40:43
  SPEAKER_00: No, we can we can hope core it up.
• 40:45
  SPEAKER_01: Okay.
• 40:46
  SPEAKER_00: Well, so how did it start really?
• 40:49
  SPEAKER_01: Like us deciding to Well, okay, so I basically I my mom is always telling me, and Lacey's always telling me, like, watch shows on Apple TV, like they always have shows on Apple TV.
• 41:00
  SPEAKER_00: My dad too.
• 41:01
  SPEAKER_00: Brad is always like Apple TV.
• 41:02
  SPEAKER_01: Everyone's always saying Apple TV, Apple TV.
• 41:05
  SPEAKER_01: So we got Apple TV, and we started watching Ted Lasso.
• 41:11
  SPEAKER_01: And let's just say it's literally Hope Core, like to the max.
• 41:16
  SPEAKER_01: Like, I'm sure everyone's watched Ted Lasso.
• 41:18
  SPEAKER_01: It's like decorated in awards.
• 41:20
  SPEAKER_01: But we just started it and we're already behind.
• 41:22
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, we're already done with it pretty much.
• 41:24
  SPEAKER_01: We're almost to season four already, which is the current season, I think.
• 41:27
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, it is.
• 41:27
  SPEAKER_01: It's the most recent, like it's current coming out every week.
• 41:30
  SPEAKER_00: We knew like the memes of like, you know, Jason Sadek is dancing, and kind of I was always worried.
• 41:36
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, I like soccer.
• 41:37
  SPEAKER_00: My dad was a soccer coach in Germany whenever he lived there.
• 41:40
  SPEAKER_00: We've played like random games of soccer with people that we met on the streets of Spain.
• 41:44
  SPEAKER_00: Like, soccer is really kind of important to us.
• 41:46
  SPEAKER_00: We played all the FIFA's together growing up, and I was worried, I was like, the show there's gonna be some like language and like you know, how does soccer really work?
• 41:56
  SPEAKER_00: And you think they're gonna be a part of that.
• 41:58
  SPEAKER_01: You think they nailed it?
• 42:00
  SPEAKER_00: No, I think that their portrayal of it is spot on 100%.
• 42:04
  SPEAKER_00: I was just worried about like your interest knowing that it was centered around like a sports.
• 42:08
  SPEAKER_01: Oh mine, right.
• 42:09
  SPEAKER_01: Like, I I don't know, I didn't even know what it was about starting.
• 42:12
  SPEAKER_01: I didn't even know what sport he was a coach of.
• 42:14
  SPEAKER_01: I didn't know he was a coach.
• 42:15
  SPEAKER_01: I just always everyone always said Ted lasso this, Ted Lasso that, and so I'm like, okay, I'll watch it.
• 42:19
  SPEAKER_01: So I went in blind, and literally, guys, like every 20 minutes we're like crying that is happy tears from it, like every 20 minutes, especially when we first started it that season one, like we were crying every single episode.
• 42:31
  SPEAKER_00: We also do redemption arcs so well and have like isolated episodes about side characters, so it's who's your favorite character on the show?
• 42:38
  SPEAKER_00: I think Coach Beard, honestly.
• 42:39
  SPEAKER_00: Coach Beard is I love like a good uh side character who you don't know that much about, who's always just kind of reading, and there's this lore behind them, and if they come in from like some like alone time, they're dressed in like a weird costume and saying bye to random people.
• 42:53
  SPEAKER_00: I love Roy or Ted, but I mean Don't lie to me right now, not on this podcast, please.
• 42:59
  SPEAKER_00: Obviously, your favorite character is Ted Lasso.
• 43:02
  SPEAKER_01: I mean, okay, guys, so that there's something there's something that's come about in watching Ted Lasso is now I'm obsessed with Jason Sedakus.
• 43:09
  SPEAKER_01: I'm obsessed with Jason Senecas.
• 43:12
  SPEAKER_01: I literally, my whole for you page are edits of Ted Lasso.
• 43:15
  SPEAKER_01: I could open my TikTok right now and it's edits of Ted Lasso.
• 43:18
  SPEAKER_01: Like, I'm so serious.
• 43:19
  SPEAKER_00: You sent me like two, and now my whole feed is just there were like there was one that I accidentally sent to Ali.
• 43:25
  SPEAKER_01: I like because she was on my recent and I sent it to her, and she's probably she watches every week, so she's probably seeing this.
• 43:31
  SPEAKER_01: And it was like one of the crazy ones with this weekend song in the back.
• 43:34
  SPEAKER_01: Okay, like a sexy Ted Lasso had it.
• 43:37
  SPEAKER_01: And it was like so embarrassed that I sent it to her.
• 43:40
  SPEAKER_01: I was like, I unsent it.
• 43:41
  SPEAKER_01: And she goes, What did you unsend?
• 43:42
  SPEAKER_01: Send it again.
• 43:43
  SPEAKER_01: So I did.
• 43:44
  SPEAKER_01: And she was like, I don't judge you at all.
• 43:45
  SPEAKER_01: Like she was, and she does she always does speak to text.
• 43:48
  SPEAKER_01: So the text was so serious.
• 43:49
  SPEAKER_01: She was like, Oh my gosh, I'm laughing so hard.
• 43:52
  SPEAKER_01: Girl, I love you.
• 43:53
  SPEAKER_01: I love you just the way you are.
• 43:54
  SPEAKER_01: Like it was like a reassuring mom who's like, baby, like, don't worry, like, you can be who you are, be free.
• 43:58
  SPEAKER_00: That's a real friend when you Send a meme that you're not you didn't think that they'd get or not.
• 44:02
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 44:05
  SPEAKER_01: It was so funny though.
• 44:06
  SPEAKER_01: I was like, oh my god, I'm embarrassed.
• 44:08
  SPEAKER_01: But can't stop watching Jason Sudeika stuff.
• 44:11
  SPEAKER_01: Like he's literally so fine.
• 44:13
  SPEAKER_01: And yeah.
• 44:14
  SPEAKER_00: You like him as a person though.
• 44:15
  SPEAKER_00: He supports the WNBA.
• 44:17
  SPEAKER_01: He's kind of not problematic, just kind of and I cannot believe Olivia Wilde left him for Harry Styles.
• 44:24
  SPEAKER_00: You can't believe that.
• 44:26
  SPEAKER_01: No, I can't.
• 44:27
  SPEAKER_01: I can't.
• 44:27
  SPEAKER_01: Based off my taste preferences, like Jason Sadeakis is like so fire.
• 44:33
  SPEAKER_01: And like Harry is like I know you're a One Direction fan.
• 44:37
  SPEAKER_01: Of course, of course.
• 44:38
  SPEAKER_01: Harry now versus Harry then, it's just different for me.
• 44:41
  SPEAKER_01: Something changed.
• 44:42
  SPEAKER_01: Something changed for me.
• 44:43
  SPEAKER_01: I like you know I'm not I'm not a Harry Stan anymore.
• 44:46
  SPEAKER_01: And even back in the day, I was a Zane girl.
• 44:48
  SPEAKER_00: You just keep saying Harry, and all I just keep seeing is the must Ted Lasso's mustache like getting bigger in my head.
• 44:53
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know why I just keep saying it's like when he takes a shirt off and he's so hairy.
• 44:59
  SPEAKER_01: Anyways.
• 45:01
  SPEAKER_01: Anyways, if you guys aren't watching Ted Lasso or haven't, like you totally should.
• 45:05
  SPEAKER_00: If you're kind of like tired of like reality TV or like negative stuff, yeah, things that just end with like someone dying unexpectedly.
• 45:13
  SPEAKER_00: Like it's very hopeful.
• 45:14
  SPEAKER_00: You should watch Ted Lasso.
• 45:16
  SPEAKER_00: There's progression of characters, which feels nice.
• 45:18
  SPEAKER_00: Yes.
• 45:19
  SPEAKER_00: Um I mean Mumpern Sons does the music for it.
• 45:23
  SPEAKER_01: Uh I I don't I don't like that too much.
• 45:25
  SPEAKER_01: Okay.
• 45:25
  SPEAKER_01: I don't like the theme song.
• 45:27
  SPEAKER_01: So Pete Davidson did an interview, and in the interview he stood up for Ariana Grande.
• 45:32
  SPEAKER_01: And he's like the only person that's publicly made a comment being like, Ariana Grande is not in the wrong.
• 45:37
  SPEAKER_01: Like, I can't believe she's going through this.
• 45:38
  SPEAKER_01: It's so crappy.
• 45:39
  SPEAKER_01: Like, she's such a strong person.
• 45:39
  SPEAKER_00: She'll be also took shots at influencers too.
• 45:43
  SPEAKER_01: I know when he has a sock brand that is literally, if you go to his sock brand like website, it's all female influencers.
• 45:50
  SPEAKER_01: Like they're they're all of their marketing is done through influencers.
• 45:53
  SPEAKER_00: It just seemed random that those two things like happened right, like, like boom, boom.
• 45:56
  SPEAKER_01: You know, I know he's he's a weirdo.
• 45:58
  SPEAKER_01: I mean, uh he's a deadbeat dad too, supposedly.
• 46:01
  SPEAKER_01: So not too much on P, but I do have to get him give him credit where it's due.
• 46:06
  SPEAKER_01: And like good for him for speaking out about Ariana and being like, and good for a man for like supporting his ex too.
• 46:11
  SPEAKER_00: Because I feel like usually it's like they're crazy.
• 46:13
  SPEAKER_01: Of course I left them.
• 46:14
  SPEAKER_01: Which he's been through that before.
• 46:16
  SPEAKER_01: He he did bad mouth bad mouth her right out of the relationship, like pretty hardcore, like especially after Mac died.
• 46:22
  SPEAKER_01: Like, she he had said something about you know, like he he had just mentioned her in stand-up and stuff like that.
• 46:27
  SPEAKER_00: But um maybe they're far enough removed that he he wants her to succeed.
• 46:32
  SPEAKER_01: And I'm sure him having a kid like has given him perspective.
• 46:35
  SPEAKER_01: I'm all of these things.
• 46:37
  SPEAKER_01: So I don't know.
• 46:38
  SPEAKER_01: I was happy to see that though.
• 46:40
  SPEAKER_01: But people were in the comments being like, Ricky, stay safe, like she's gonna go back to Pete.
• 46:45
  SPEAKER_01: She would never go back to Pete.
• 46:46
  SPEAKER_00: Like, I literally're completely happy with Ricky.
• 46:48
  SPEAKER_01: She is so happy.
• 46:50
  SPEAKER_01: Like, I saw videos of her and Ricky, like at this, I don't know where they were, but they were at a restaurant, like out in public, and they're just so lovey dovey, obsessed with each other, and it's so cute to see.
• 47:00
  SPEAKER_00: And the little photos that he posts in his like photo dumps of hers, like the ones that you like wouldn't normally see in the press, or just like this, like all of them.
• 47:07
  SPEAKER_01: Just cute, cute, Ari being Ari.
• 47:09
  SPEAKER_01: Like, she seems very happy and so sweet and cute.
• 47:13
  SPEAKER_01: Are you so happy that you saw her live?
• 47:15
  SPEAKER_00: I am.
• 47:16
  SPEAKER_00: The more and more I wish we got would have got like different pedal songs at that point.
• 47:21
  SPEAKER_01: I know.
• 47:21
  SPEAKER_01: Well, because it wasn't even out yet, but uh totally.
• 47:24
  SPEAKER_01: Well, we only got hate that I made you love me.
• 47:26
  SPEAKER_00: Oh man, stay.
• 47:27
  SPEAKER_00: I've really been enjoying Stay, like it's been stuck in my head all week.
• 47:30
  SPEAKER_01: Oh well is still my number one.
• 47:31
  SPEAKER_01: Like off first rip, I listened to the whole album, and Ohell was my number one, and it's still my number one, but now it's really pedal weather, like it's so fall and like horror movie weather, yeah.
• 47:41
  SPEAKER_01: Freak is so fall coated.
• 47:42
  SPEAKER_01: Like Lazy and I have talked about this before, but yeah.
• 47:45
  SPEAKER_00: I just wanna stay.
• 47:47
  SPEAKER_01: Okay, let's get into well, you have a segment.
• 47:51
  SPEAKER_00: I would like to bring it up.
• 47:52
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, I think like I know we you guys do our favorites, and I think that's awesome.
• 47:57
  SPEAKER_00: Uh it's one of my favorite segments, but I also just like like what are we thankful for this week?
• 48:01
  SPEAKER_00: Like, what has happened in our lives to make us thankful?
• 48:04
  SPEAKER_00: Just what are we thankful for?
• 48:06
  SPEAKER_00: Even you know, just yeah, the basic stuff.
• 48:08
  SPEAKER_00: So I ask you, what are you thankful for this week?
• 48:11
  SPEAKER_01: Well, you're putting me on the spot.
• 48:12
  SPEAKER_01: I need to think about it.
• 48:13
  SPEAKER_01: I honestly like am very grateful for the basic things this week.
• 48:17
  SPEAKER_01: I think the weather is really bringing that out of me.
• 48:20
  SPEAKER_01: Like something about fall just makes me.
• 48:23
  SPEAKER_01: I'm thankful for my home.
• 48:24
  SPEAKER_01: I'm thankful for the home that we built.
• 48:26
  SPEAKER_01: Like, I'm very thankful for how cozy we keep it here.
• 48:30
  SPEAKER_01: I'm thankful for you for cleaning so well.
• 48:33
  SPEAKER_00: We try to keep it a safe space around here.
• 48:34
  SPEAKER_01: And we it is such a safe space, like, and I love our home.
• 48:38
  SPEAKER_01: I feel so safe here.
• 48:40
  SPEAKER_01: I just I love our house.
• 48:42
  SPEAKER_01: So I'm thankful for our house.
• 48:44
  SPEAKER_00: Well, thank you for you and Allison finding such a wonderful place for us to stay.
• 48:49
  SPEAKER_01: What are you thankful for?
• 48:50
  SPEAKER_00: I am thankful.
• 48:52
  SPEAKER_00: I'm thankful that hockey's back.
• 48:53
  SPEAKER_00: Oh even though the Dallas Stars lost last night, I'm excited that it's hockey season.
• 48:58
  SPEAKER_00: Um love watching the games.
• 49:01
  SPEAKER_00: I like that they start like a little bit later, so it's kind of something you have to do.
• 49:04
  SPEAKER_00: Like they usually start like seven or eight, so you kind of just like stay up late watching hockey.
• 49:09
  SPEAKER_00: So yeah.
• 49:10
  SPEAKER_00: For all my hockey fans out there, we're back.
• 49:13
  SPEAKER_00: Things I'm also thankful for.
• 49:15
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, like going to the movies.
• 49:18
  SPEAKER_01: Like we just oh, I'm going to see a movie tonight.
• 49:21
  SPEAKER_01: I think you know seeing Verity.
• 49:24
  SPEAKER_00: That's awesome.
• 49:24
  SPEAKER_00: We saw that's on it so card.
• 49:26
  SPEAKER_00: That's awesome.
• 49:27
  SPEAKER_00: No, like I'm that's so sarcastic.
• 49:30
  SPEAKER_00: We saw Prime Time recently.
• 49:32
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, we talked about it.
• 49:33
  SPEAKER_00: We saw as medieval.
• 49:34
  SPEAKER_00: Like, I think it's it's cool to go to the movies again.
• 49:37
  SPEAKER_01: Um, what are you loving right now?
• 49:39
  SPEAKER_00: No, no, what I want more thankful.
• 49:41
  SPEAKER_00: I know.
• 49:42
  SPEAKER_01: Oh my gosh.
• 49:44
  SPEAKER_01: Well, I'm thinking.
• 49:45
  SPEAKER_00: Well, can I say I'm thankful for you?
• 49:46
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, I'm thankful for you.
• 49:48
  SPEAKER_00: I know that sounds cheesy, but I was for some reason in my brain, I was like, once we get engaged, like, how is that gonna affect the relationship?
• 49:56
  SPEAKER_00: Like, are we still gonna like you know well, just thinking about like do you become complacent, like like what changes?
• 50:02
  SPEAKER_00: And this whole week it's just been enjoying spending my free time with you.
• 50:06
  SPEAKER_01: Like, I know we may we've been having the best time lately.
• 50:10
  SPEAKER_01: And I don't know if that's because Ted Lasso, but I know, like it's really changing us.
• 50:14
  SPEAKER_01: Like, there's something so positive, we're so hope-coated, but um and trying to see the best in every situation, too.
• 50:21
  SPEAKER_00: Like, even some bad stuff's happened this week, but I'm just like, you know, it isn't this isn't forever, you know.
• 50:26
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 50:27
  SPEAKER_01: Perspective, it's giving us perspective.
• 50:29
  SPEAKER_01: I um lately have been finding myself at work.
• 50:32
  SPEAKER_01: Uh well, this is all the time, but especially this week with how cozy it is.
• 50:35
  SPEAKER_01: Like, I've been like, oh my god, I can't wait to hang out with Tyler tonight.
• 50:38
  SPEAKER_01: That's like so awesome that like we get to hang out all the time.
• 50:41
  SPEAKER_00: It sounds cheesy.
• 50:43
  SPEAKER_00: Well, it is awesome, like we enjoy spending extra time with you during like the fall time.
• 50:48
  SPEAKER_01: Yes, and I can't wait to go to a pumpkin patch with Lacey and Aubrey and Tara.
• 50:52
  SPEAKER_00: Please come back from California so we can go to a pumpkin patch, please.
• 50:55
  SPEAKER_01: When this episode is posted, she will be back.
• 50:57
  SPEAKER_01: And I'm excited for Lacey to listen to this as a listener.
• 51:00
  SPEAKER_01: And guys, I'm sorry if this has been like boring.
• 51:02
  SPEAKER_01: Like, I know the um the average listener knows some of the lore.
• 51:07
  SPEAKER_01: Well, the vibe is thrown off, like for sure.
• 51:09
  SPEAKER_01: It's like always interesting, like having a different voice on a podcast.
• 51:13
  SPEAKER_01: As a listener, I understand that.
• 51:15
  SPEAKER_01: And also, especially when it's a man.
• 51:17
  SPEAKER_01: So hopefully Tyler's holding it down.
• 51:20
  SPEAKER_01: I think you are.
• 51:20
  SPEAKER_01: I mean, you're so you're so like I always tell him he's so girl coded because he could just talk, we could talk shit all day.
• 51:26
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know if it's like girl coded or just like enjoys pop music and pop culture, which like a lot of guys don't, but true.
• 51:32
  SPEAKER_00: You hold growing up with like multiple sisters in the household and never being able to take a full shower, get the ox cord.
• 51:39
  SPEAKER_00: It was always just like Britney Spears, like Paramour, like well, who's the new, you know.
• 51:43
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, you're very in your pop girl vibe all the time.
• 51:47
  SPEAKER_01: Okay, so now can we move on to what are we loving?
• 51:51
  SPEAKER_00: I guess you're not a very thankful person.
• 51:52
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know.
• 51:53
  SPEAKER_01: I I am thankful.
• 51:55
  SPEAKER_01: I'm thankful for um I'm okay.
• 52:01
  SPEAKER_01: I I I'm thankful.
• 52:03
  SPEAKER_01: I'm thankful for the fun.
• 52:08
  SPEAKER_01: The the You can't say me because I already said I know the passion that I've that I have for this is gonna sound stupid now that I've said passion, content creating on TikTok.
• 52:18
  SPEAKER_01: Okay.
• 52:19
  SPEAKER_01: Like I am having so much fun with with my TikTok content and editing and coming up with ideas and working with brands and doing stuff like that.
• 52:27
  SPEAKER_01: Like you like playing dress up anyway, and you're social and yeah, I love like the business side too of you know con and talking with brands and stuff, because I work on their side of marketing most of the time in my day-to-day, but being the the my little hustler over here, she working that full-time job.
• 52:45
  SPEAKER_01: I got a little side hustle, but yeah, and still finds time to hang out with her fiance.
• 52:50
  SPEAKER_00: Wow.
• 52:50
  SPEAKER_01: I mean, yeah.
• 52:51
  SPEAKER_01: Um, but yeah, I'm having fun with that, and I'm thankful for it that I get to do that for fun.
• 52:55
  SPEAKER_01: I love it.
• 52:57
  SPEAKER_01: Now, can we move on?
• 52:58
  SPEAKER_01: Or I have you've had a lot of.
• 53:00
  SPEAKER_01: What are we living this week?
• 53:00
  SPEAKER_00: What are we doing?
• 53:01
  SPEAKER_01: Oh my god, so strict.
• 53:03
  SPEAKER_01: Um, well, what I am loving this week is I have discovered, which I might be late to this discovery, that Bearface from Brockhampton is making solo music.
• 53:14
  SPEAKER_01: He has a solo project.
• 53:16
  SPEAKER_01: His name, his solo name is Kieran.
• 53:18
  SPEAKER_00: What a special time and place in history.
• 53:20
  SPEAKER_01: If we if we can go back to Brockhampton on any level or through there's no, but he just released a new single called Houston.
• 53:28
  SPEAKER_01: And if you were there in 2018, 2019, peak Brockhampton, Ryan Beatty is on sugar, he's on um.
• 53:37
  SPEAKER_00: Everyone's in their feelings.
• 53:38
  SPEAKER_01: Yes, like he's on all these songs, like and Dijon had just come out.
• 53:42
  SPEAKER_01: I don't even know if he had come up with absolutely yet, but if you were listening to Dijon at that time, if you were listening to um choker, if you were listening to any of these like alternative RB artists that were making really like like music I had it.
• 53:56
  SPEAKER_00: It wasn't scissors around that time too.
• 53:57
  SPEAKER_01: Like yeah, but it wasn't, I wouldn't categorize that as the same genre because I'm I'm really thinking like the the the bricks of like my music taste, which is like Brockhampton, Dijon.
• 54:08
  SPEAKER_01: No, no, I I think it's I think it's widely considered alternative R B because it's just like it's I don't know.
• 54:17
  SPEAKER_01: But um so yes, Houston by Kieran.
• 54:21
  SPEAKER_01: The music video is everything, the song is everything.
• 54:24
  SPEAKER_01: It is literally well, actually, okay.
• 54:26
  SPEAKER_01: So back in Brockhampton days, there was this song that would like float around and it was unreleased Brockhampton, and everyone was like, release it, release it, release it, release it.
• 54:34
  SPEAKER_01: One, two, three, release them.
• 54:36
  SPEAKER_01: And um, he did.
• 54:38
  SPEAKER_01: And it's just him singing, which I remember back in the Brockhampton days, I was like, I just need a full album of Bearface singing, and he's doing that with his own solo project.
• 54:48
  SPEAKER_01: So everyone go listen to Houston by Kieran because it's everything so good.
• 54:52
  SPEAKER_01: I'm playing it at our wedding.
• 54:53
  SPEAKER_00: I'm loving Hootie and the Blowfish for the first time.
• 54:56
  SPEAKER_00: As someone who's that okay, as someone who grew up in the like the 90s era of music, I really liked Oasis, I really liked all these different, you know, everyone has their Pearl Jam phase.
• 55:08
  SPEAKER_00: But recently, um, you know, you think of Darius Rucker, you think of like country music, and I was never on Hootie and the Blowfish.
• 55:15
  SPEAKER_00: Like his soul, his soulful voice is so amazing, and I'm thinking particularly like on Letter Cry, like the way that the like the chords kind of progress, and his like big, sorrowful vocals just fits so well with like a fall vibe.
• 55:30
  SPEAKER_00: Cute.
• 55:31
  SPEAKER_00: She's looking at me like I'm crazy right now.
• 55:32
  SPEAKER_01: Well, I just don't know who Hootie is.
• 55:34
  SPEAKER_00: I'm pretty sure if you played the top song, you would.
• 55:37
  SPEAKER_01: I'll listen to it after this.
• 55:38
  SPEAKER_01: Well, cute.
• 55:39
  SPEAKER_00: This isn't things that Tyler's loving that Gabby approves of.
• 55:42
  SPEAKER_00: This is just things that Tyler's loving.
• 55:45
  SPEAKER_00: What are you loving?
• 55:46
  SPEAKER_01: I already said what I'm loving.
• 55:48
  SPEAKER_00: Just you the only thing you're loving right now is that one song.
• 55:50
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 55:51
  SPEAKER_01: We typically do only do one or two things.
• 55:53
  SPEAKER_00: We are also loving Dado's pizza right now.
• 55:56
  SPEAKER_00: We tried it last night for the first time.
• 55:58
  SPEAKER_01: I want to say loving though.
• 56:00
  SPEAKER_01: Like it was good, but like you needed to pop that sucker in the air fryer for like a good seven minutes to get it crisped up to how we like it.
• 56:07
  SPEAKER_01: We like a crispy slice.
• 56:09
  SPEAKER_01: But it was like delivered.
• 56:10
  SPEAKER_01: It was delivered from far away.
• 56:12
  SPEAKER_01: From far away.
• 56:13
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, probably not in a hot box.
• 56:15
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, yeah.
• 56:16
  SPEAKER_01: But it was good.
• 56:17
  SPEAKER_01: It was good.
• 56:18
  SPEAKER_01: Well, I think that's it.
• 56:19
  SPEAKER_01: How are you feeling after your first podcast episode?
• 56:22
  SPEAKER_00: I'm just so thankful that I got this opportunity to come on and try to be lacy.
• 56:27
  SPEAKER_00: Um, yeah.
• 56:29
  SPEAKER_00: So yeah, thank you.
• 56:30
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, thank you.
• 56:31
  SPEAKER_00: This is a long time coming.
• 56:32
  SPEAKER_00: I was very when is it my turn?
• 56:34
  SPEAKER_00: When is it my turn?
• 56:35
  SPEAKER_01: I know he's so demanding.
• 56:36
  SPEAKER_01: He went on this blue couch.
• 56:38
  SPEAKER_01: Well, thank you guys so much for watching another episode of Rainy Day Pod.
• 56:42
  SPEAKER_01: Please be sure to leave us a review if you haven't already.
• 56:45
  SPEAKER_01: It really helps us get our podcast out to audiences like you guys.
• 56:49
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, if you're still listening, I would like you guys to comment your favorite like fall album.
• 56:53
  SPEAKER_00: Like an album you listen to when you think of fall.
• 56:56
  SPEAKER_00: My example is uh Emma Foreverago, Bon Ivor.
• 57:00
  SPEAKER_00: As soon as the temperature drops, you gotta cue that up.
• 57:02
  SPEAKER_00: I love that.
• 57:02
  SPEAKER_01: So should I say mine?
• 57:03
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, what's yours?
• 57:05
  SPEAKER_01: Uh come on.
• 57:08
  SPEAKER_01: Ryan Beatty Calico.
• 57:09
  SPEAKER_00: That's a good one.
• 57:10
  SPEAKER_01: But I listen to that all year round.
• 57:12
  SPEAKER_01: But I know I'm pretending to be Lacey.
• 57:14
  SPEAKER_00: It's almost Claire O weather.
• 57:15
  SPEAKER_01: It's Charm Clairow.
• 57:16
  SPEAKER_00: It's almost charmed.
• 57:17
  SPEAKER_01: Faye Webster.
• 57:18
  SPEAKER_00: Uh 1975.
• 57:19
  SPEAKER_00: I know I'm funny.
• 57:20
  SPEAKER_00: Funny in a foreign language is very fall coded, I feel like.
• 57:23
  SPEAKER_01: True.
• 57:23
  SPEAKER_01: True.
• 57:24
  SPEAKER_01: Well, yeah, comment down below your favorite fall album.
• 57:26
  SPEAKER_01: And thank you so much for watching another episode of Rainy Day Pod.
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  SPEAKER_01: We love you.
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  SPEAKER_01: Bye.