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Break Free From Negative Thinking: Wake Up Positive & Powerful · Motivation Mindset Podcast

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  Speaker 1: I truly believe that thoughts are the greatest vehicle to
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  Speaker 1: change power and success in the world.
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  Speaker 2: Everything begins with thoughts.
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  Speaker 3: Your words become your reality. You are where you are
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  Speaker 3: today in part because of what you've been saying about yourself.
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  Speaker 4: Words are like seeds.
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  Speaker 3: When you speak something out, you give life to what
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  Speaker 3: you're saying. If you continue to say it, eventually that
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  Speaker 3: can become a reality, whether you realize it or not.
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  Speaker 3: You are prophesying your future. And this is great. When
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  Speaker 3: we're saying things like I'm blessed, I'm strong, i will
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  Speaker 3: accomplish my dreams, I'm coming out of debt. That's not
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  Speaker 3: just being positive. You are prophesying victory, prophesying success, prophesying
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  Speaker 3: new levels. Your life will move in the direction of
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  Speaker 3: your words. But too many people go around prophesying just
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  Speaker 3: the opposite. I never get any good breaks, I'll never
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  Speaker 3: get back in shape, business is.
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  Speaker 4: Slow, I'll probably get laid off. Flu season is here.
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  Speaker 4: I always get it.
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  Speaker 3: They don't realize they're prophesying defeat. It's just like they're
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  Speaker 3: calling in bad breaks, mediocrity, lack. You can't talk defeat
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  Speaker 3: and expect to have victory. You can't talk lack not enough,
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  Speaker 3: can't afford it, never get ahead and expect to have abundance.
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  Speaker 3: If you have a poor mouth, you're going to have
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  Speaker 3: a poor life. If you don't like what you're seeing,
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  Speaker 3: start sowing some different seeds.
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  Speaker 2: So the first thing you have to do is you
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  Speaker 2: have to become conscious of your unconscious thoughts. You got
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  Speaker 2: to notice your automatic habits and behaviors, and you have
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  Speaker 2: to become aware of your emotions that keep you anchored
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  Speaker 2: to the past. And if you can become so conscious
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  Speaker 2: of the unconscious states of mind and body that they
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  Speaker 2: would never slip by your conscious awareness again, you're becoming
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  Speaker 2: familiar with the old self, so you don't return. Then,
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  Speaker 2: if you begin to think about new ways of being
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  Speaker 2: being defined by a vision plan your behaviors, review them
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  Speaker 2: in your mind. Now, if you keep doing that over
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  Speaker 2: and over again, you begin to become familiar with a
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  Speaker 2: new state of mind. At the same time, if you
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  Speaker 2: can emotionally cultivate your inspiration, your joy, your enthusiasm ahead
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  Speaker 2: of the experience, by repeating that over and over again,
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  Speaker 2: cultivating that state, it's going to begin to become familiar
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  Speaker 2: to you. So then the process of change then requires
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  Speaker 2: unlearning and relearning, breaking the habit of the old self,
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  Speaker 2: reinventing your new self, unmemorizing emotions that are stored in
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  Speaker 2: the body. Then here's the key, reconditioning the body to
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  Speaker 2: a new mind and to a new emotion. It's literally
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  Speaker 2: moving from your past your future. It's losing your mind
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  Speaker 2: and creating a new one. And so then when you
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  Speaker 2: begin to understand that in that process, it's going to
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  Speaker 2: feel a little bit unfamiliar, uncomfortable. And if you can
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  Speaker 2: relax into that instead of going back to the past,
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  Speaker 2: continuously invest in your future, sooner or later, it'll begin
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  Speaker 2: to become easier and easier and easier. And all of
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  Speaker 2: a sudden, when you least expected, something amazing is going
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  Speaker 2: to happen in your life. And when that event begins
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  Speaker 2: to occur, you're going to pay attention to what you
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  Speaker 2: did inside of you now to produce the effect outside
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  Speaker 2: of you. And that's called human empowerment. And there isn't
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  Speaker 2: a person in the world that's excluded from this equation.
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  Speaker 5: Someone's watching this, they have a thing that's something they
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  Speaker 5: want to change, and it's not sticking. Then maybe it's
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  Speaker 5: not in the environment. Maybe you could check about your habits.
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  Speaker 5: But maybe it's your beliefs and your values. Some people
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  Speaker 5: will not get themselves to read every day because they
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  Speaker 5: don't value reading every single day. Right, Some people won't work.
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  Speaker 5: Let's say the behavior they want to change is, you know,
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  Speaker 5: we did a podcast and how to remember names. I
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  Speaker 5: could teach them step by step on how to remember
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  Speaker 5: the name of most people that they meet. Yet they
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  Speaker 5: won't do it because they don't value it, or because
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  Speaker 5: that's not important to them, or they don't believe that
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  Speaker 5: they can.
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  Speaker 3: Right.
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  Speaker 5: Just like we talked about earlier saying your brain is
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  Speaker 5: like a supercomputer, and you know your self talk is
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  Speaker 5: a programer runs if you tell yourself not go to
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  Speaker 5: remembory names, you want to remember the name the next
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  Speaker 5: person you meet, because your program are supercomputeror not to
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  Speaker 5: they don't have a belief that enables that. It's when
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  Speaker 5: I say all behaviors belief driven. If you want to
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  Speaker 5: do this behavior, whatever it is, journal, whatever it is,
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  Speaker 5: then you need a belief that allows that to happen,
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  Speaker 5: because that's the program that allows us.
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  Speaker 6: So how do you get that belief because you're going
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  Speaker 6: to feel like you're faking it? Right, that's where most
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  Speaker 6: people stop right, they think, Okay, I get it. I
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  Speaker 6: hear what you're miss saying that if I am able
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  Speaker 6: to shift my belief, then I can get a different behavior.
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  Speaker 6: But I don't believe it, so now I'm just sort
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  Speaker 6: of faking it. How do you help people overcome that?
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  Speaker 4: Right?
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  Speaker 5: And so you I mean, so some people approach it
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  Speaker 5: by they do this quote where they fake it till
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  Speaker 5: they make it right. So my thing with belief is
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  Speaker 5: like when I do trainings in groups or are online,
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  Speaker 5: my favorite way of changing a belief is getting them
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  Speaker 5: to do something they never thought they could do because
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  Speaker 5: it opens up another possibility. So, for example, in nineteen
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  Speaker 5: fifty four, Roger Bannister he broke the four minut a mile,
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  Speaker 5: right and so, which is amazing. Right throughout human history,
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  Speaker 5: nobody could run a mile unless than four minutes. If
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  Speaker 5: you look into it, how he was able to do
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  Speaker 5: it is he would visualize himself crossing the finish line
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  Speaker 5: looking at the clock and it says three fifty nine.
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  Speaker 4: Because he knew.
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  Speaker 5: That success is an inside out process, that first it
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  Speaker 5: had to happen in here, in order, prept and out there.
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  Speaker 5: Doctor Wayne Dyer has a famous phrase where it's not oh,
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  Speaker 5: I'll believe it when I see it.
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  Speaker 4: It's like I'll see it when I believe it, because it's.
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  Speaker 5: The opposite, right, And so I always like modeling the
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  Speaker 5: outliers where most people kind of just like kind of
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  Speaker 5: dismiss them. I was like, well, what's going on there
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  Speaker 5: that allows this person to get this kind of result?
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  Speaker 5: Right with Roger Banister, he saw it in here, be
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  Speaker 5: able to produce it outside, just like any innovator or
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  Speaker 5: inventor writer, any creator.
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 5: But what was interesting is after that would happen. Nobody
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  Speaker 5: could do it. From the beginning of humanity, all of
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  Speaker 5: a sudden, one person does it. What happens after that?
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  Speaker 7: Everybody?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, everyone starts doing it. And so that's the thing. Now,
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  Speaker 4: what happened.
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  Speaker 5: Was there a big change that year and you know
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  Speaker 5: training methodology and nutrition or No, it was a change
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  Speaker 5: of belief, right, because the belief back then was if
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  Speaker 5: you ran a mile less than four minutes, not only
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  Speaker 5: would you die, it was your heart would explode in
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  Speaker 5: your chest.
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  Speaker 4: And like think about like that would and I'm a runner, right.
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  Speaker 5: That would keep me not just running that one keep
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  Speaker 5: me from running format, that would cap me from running period, right,
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  Speaker 5: And so my thing is like that was a change
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  Speaker 5: of a reference that was shook up a belief. So
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  Speaker 5: my goal with people and when it comes to learning,
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  Speaker 5: is get themselves to do something they never thought they
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  Speaker 5: could do, and then it opens up another possibility. It
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  Speaker 5: literally opens up their nervous system for something.
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  Speaker 4: What else could be possible?
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  Speaker 5: When I grew up, you know, we didn't have any
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  Speaker 5: We had no money, right, I had no education because
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  Speaker 5: I was a very learning challenge.
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  Speaker 4: I didn't know any anybody, right.
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  Speaker 5: So I feel like it's not when people that's where
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  Speaker 5: they'll go though, when they when they whenre's a gap,
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  Speaker 5: stop gap between where they are and where they want
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  Speaker 5: to be, they'll say, oh, I don't have the money
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  Speaker 5: or on the education, or on the intelligence out of
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  Speaker 5: the network or anything else like that. And you know,
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  Speaker 5: what you know, as for all incredible success you've had
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  Speaker 5: and the value you created for the world, is that
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  Speaker 5: it's not about resources, right, because we know a lot
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  Speaker 5: of people who who didn't have any resources that we
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  Speaker 5: were able to impact the world.
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  Speaker 4: It's about our internal resources.
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  Speaker 5: And what I'm saying is optimizing our environment, optimizing our behaviors,
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  Speaker 5: our capabilities, our beliefs and our values and our identity
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  Speaker 5: right at the highest level, our identity, because you can't
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  Speaker 5: just change your belief or your values or your behavior
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  Speaker 5: even if you don't believe you're that kind of person.
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  Speaker 4: You know.
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  Speaker 5: That's why I kind of always go to the superhero
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  Speaker 5: mythos because I want people that get to claim that identity.
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  Speaker 5: I call it the superhero you that version of ourselves
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  Speaker 5: that we're not when for Superman or Batman or wonder Woman,
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  Speaker 5: it's like you are a wonder Woman, you are a Batman,
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  Speaker 5: you are a Superman.
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  Speaker 4: It's just we have to commit ourselves to be able
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  Speaker 4: to leashing.
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  Speaker 8: Just starting there and being able to reflect and observe
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  Speaker 8: the different voices inside of us is a great place
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  Speaker 8: to start your self awareness because the biggest challenge is
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  Speaker 8: that most of us don't know what we're listening to,
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  Speaker 8: and we don't most of us don't even know that
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  Speaker 8: there are more than one voice inside of us. Just
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  Speaker 8: getting over that line is a huge win because now
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  Speaker 8: at least you're trying to differentiate in what you're hearing,
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  Speaker 8: and that's going to help you make better decisions in
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  Speaker 8: the future.
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  Speaker 1: There are many ways to get the things that we
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  Speaker 1: want for ourselves in our lives. But basically it all
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  Speaker 1: begins with how we choose to think as you think?
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  Speaker 1: So shall you be words that I think are perhaps
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  Speaker 1: the most important things that we can learn and master
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  Speaker 1: in our lives. This old proverb notion that I become
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  Speaker 1: what I think about all day long. And once you
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  Speaker 1: know that what you think about is what expands, you
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  Speaker 1: start getting real.
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  Speaker 7: Careful about what you think about.
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  Speaker 1: You don't allow your thoughts to be on anything that
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  Speaker 1: you don't want or that you wouldn't want to have
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  Speaker 1: manifest or show up for you in your life.
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  Speaker 7: Well, let me tell you something. How many of you
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  Speaker 7: have things when you want to go achieve them and
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  Speaker 7: this part of your voice goes, oh, it's not going
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  Speaker 7: to happen, or forget it. How many got a voice?
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  Speaker 7: It sometimes interrupts that good pattern? Say aye, And what
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  Speaker 7: you want to do is train a new one. So,
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  Speaker 7: starting when I was seventeen, I started doing incantations, not affirmations.
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  Speaker 7: Affirmation You go, I'm happy, I'm happy, I'm happy. I'm happy,
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  Speaker 7: I'm happy. What's the problem. You haven't changed your what?
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  Speaker 7: Your whatlogy? If you don't change a physiology, you won't
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  Speaker 7: get anything, so in incantatious. Now only you speak it,
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  Speaker 7: but you embody what you're saying with all the intensity
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  Speaker 7: you can, and you do it with enough repetitions that
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  Speaker 7: it sticks in your head. Like it's a small world. Now,
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  Speaker 7: the conversation in your head is always the same and
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  Speaker 7: it gives you what you want. So use your body
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  Speaker 7: and your voice. So seventeen years ago I started doing things.
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  Speaker 7: I was working for Jim Rome, this speaker when I
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  Speaker 7: was seventeen years old. I had long hair, ministrante soup
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  Speaker 7: act me on my face, and I was trying to
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  Speaker 7: call on bear Sterns type of people and convince them
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  Speaker 7: why they should go to this man's seminar and be
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  Speaker 7: more successful. I was driving nineteen sixty eight Volkswagon that
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  Speaker 7: I had earned it forty dollars a week as a janitar.
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  Speaker 7: The only way I did it was park far from
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  Speaker 7: the building and then go in. And I love people
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  Speaker 7: and I believe, but I put myself in state and
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  Speaker 7: I was able to influence people that were far more
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  Speaker 7: successful I was at the time. I would do something
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  Speaker 7: that I still do backstage and have done for twenty
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  Speaker 7: three years because I don't hope I'm going to be
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  Speaker 7: in a good state. I demand it, So I do
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  Speaker 7: an incantation using my body. I'd say, I now command
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  Speaker 7: my subconscious mind to direct me in helping as many
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  Speaker 7: people's possible life today to better the lives by giving
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  Speaker 7: me the strength, the emotion, the persuasion, the humor, the brevity,
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  Speaker 7: whatever it takes to show these people and get these
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  Speaker 7: people to change their lives now. And I would do
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  Speaker 7: that literally driving in my Volkswagon to a meeting in
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  Speaker 7: LA on the freeway for forty minutes. People are looking.
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  Speaker 7: I'm screaming the top of my lungs. They're going, I
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  Speaker 7: know he's a serial killer.
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  Speaker 1: I know he is.
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  Speaker 7: But by the time I entered that room, when two
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  Speaker 7: people meet, if there's rapport, the person who's most certain
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  Speaker 7: will always influence the other person. And I was totally certain,
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  Speaker 7: and they were trying to get revved up to certainty.
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  Speaker 7: Do you agree with this? Yes or no? I'd do
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  Speaker 7: another one. Because I was poor. I changed my mindset.
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  Speaker 7: I kept doing things, but I never got beyond it.
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  Speaker 7: I'd say God's wealth is circulating in my life. As
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  Speaker 7: wealth flows to me in avalanches of abundance, all my
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  Speaker 7: needs desires and goals are met instantaneously by infinite intelligence.
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  Speaker 7: For I'm one with God. God is everything, and I
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  Speaker 7: would imagine the abundance of my life, and I would
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  Speaker 7: feel so grateful. And a year learner. I went from
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  Speaker 7: making thirty eight thousand dollars year to make a million
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  Speaker 7: dollars year and one year