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- 0:13Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, welcome to Pink Shade. It is TLC Tuesday.
- 0:18Speaker 1: I'm here with Kimberly. We're going to talk about ninety
- 0:21Speaker 1: day Fiance the o G. We're on season twelve of
- 0:24Speaker 1: The o G ninety Day Fiance. Now, my prediction is
- 0:31Speaker 1: one more full episode, three part reunion.
- 0:35Speaker 2: That sounds about right. Yeah, it was last season three parts.
- 0:43Speaker 1: They usually with these two hour shows, they give us
- 0:44Speaker 1: a three part reunion, except.
- 0:47Speaker 2: That one season that was five and that.
- 0:49Speaker 1: Was so excessive, so stupid.
- 0:52Speaker 2: Why did they do that to us?
- 0:55Speaker 1: Yeah, because they put us in the reunion house or whatever. Yeah,
- 1:00Speaker 1: and we get use more of that and less of
- 1:02Speaker 1: on the stage. You know. That was kind of fun. Yeah,
- 1:07Speaker 1: or we have two more episodes and two reunions unclear.
- 1:10Speaker 1: I have asked the question and perhaps the answer will
- 1:12Speaker 1: come in while we're recording, but I have not received
- 1:15Speaker 1: an answer as of yet. So let me just tell
- 1:20Speaker 1: you guys, what's going on on the podcast. Just for
- 1:23Speaker 1: so much programming information. Monday's Keisha and I are covering
- 1:28Speaker 1: Agent Appropriate and Mondays on the paid feed. You're getting
- 1:32Speaker 1: Kimberly and I talking double lives of suburban wives. Try
- 1:36Speaker 1: to remember the title, It's hard. It's hard, so Mondays
- 1:40Speaker 1: are agent appropriate and double lives of suburban wives. Of course, Tuesday,
- 1:45Speaker 1: we've got this fantastic show on the free feed. Wednesday's
- 1:48Speaker 1: on the paid feed, we have our Welcome to Platform rewatch.
- 1:51Speaker 1: We're finishing up season four where Olivia finally says what
- 1:56Speaker 1: the reason is that she and him first split ways?
- 2:01Speaker 1: And of course it's about Kim being an MLM, you know,
- 2:05Speaker 1: and taking Ethan's credit card and all that. So she
- 2:08Speaker 1: didn't know. She did not know until she watched the episode.
- 2:11Speaker 2: Oh, I'm so exciting.
- 2:12Speaker 1: I know. So I was able to find some of
- 2:13Speaker 1: Olivia's tiktoks that really dig into that whole situation and
- 2:17Speaker 1: send them to Keisha so she'll be updated. Yes, that's exciting.
- 2:22Speaker 1: And then of course Love is Blind UK is over
- 2:24Speaker 1: there also. I'm putting out Love is Blind UK episode
- 2:27Speaker 1: nine on the free feed. Nine and ten will be
- 2:29Speaker 1: on the pay feed. Nine and ten, you guys come
- 2:31Speaker 1: out on Wednesday, and they are the weddings. It's just
- 2:34Speaker 1: like boom boom. We've cut out so much time on
- 2:36Speaker 1: this season. They have made it so lean and mean.
- 2:39Speaker 1: Nine and ten we got the try on the dresses.
- 2:42Speaker 1: The stag do the hen do the weddings boom, season's over.
- 2:46Speaker 2: They dress like a spice girl for their stag dues.
- 2:50Speaker 1: Every time we've seen the stag DU's on ninety Day UK,
- 2:54Speaker 1: they've never had the guy dress up or do anything weird.
- 2:58Speaker 2: Interesting, So maybe Jash friends are bunking.
- 3:01Speaker 1: It could be, It could be. So that is also
- 3:04Speaker 1: on Wednesday, thursday'll I believe it'll be episode nine. I'll
- 3:08Speaker 1: be on the free feed, and then of course Kimberly
- 3:10Speaker 1: and I are also discussing ninety Day the Last Resort
- 3:14Speaker 1: that those episodes come out on Friday on the five
- 3:17Speaker 1: dollar feed, So that's what's happening. It's a lot.
- 3:20Speaker 2: Yes.
- 3:21Speaker 1: Next week Kimberly and I are going to be covering
- 3:23Speaker 1: a Netflix documentary, which is unusual for us, but I
- 3:27Speaker 1: really wanted to cover it with you because you have
- 3:30Speaker 1: such disdain for fake pastors uh huh, and this was
- 3:34Speaker 1: a murderer, so it's right up your alley.
- 3:38Speaker 2: I love a man of God who falls from grace.
- 3:42Speaker 2: I love a religious man full of hypocrisy. And if
- 3:48Speaker 2: you think I would love a rabbi falling from grace
- 3:52Speaker 2: as well, I would it just doesn't usually happen.
- 3:55Speaker 1: So yeah, I will tell you that one of the
- 3:57Speaker 1: first ever predators on to catch a predator, Chris Hansen,
- 4:01Speaker 1: was a rabbi.
- 4:03Speaker 2: Oh my god, I need to see that.
- 4:05Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just telling you. When I interviewed Chris Hansen.
- 4:08Speaker 2: He told me that, so, oh god.
- 4:11Speaker 1: Yeah, that was a long time ago. I interviewed him,
- 4:13Speaker 1: but he was like, yeah, one of the first guys
- 4:15Speaker 1: we ever did that. When we did the stinks, one
- 4:17Speaker 1: of the first guys ever was a rabbi.
- 4:20Speaker 2: Well, there you go, there you go.
- 4:21Speaker 1: So it does happen. Does happen? It does happen. It's
- 4:25Speaker 1: not good. So we're not here to talk about that.
- 4:28Speaker 1: But that's also going to be coming out. It'll be
- 4:34Speaker 1: on the paid feed, I believe on the twenty sixth
- 4:37Speaker 1: or twenty seventh, and it'll be on the free feed
- 4:39Speaker 1: the next week. So if you miss it on the payfeed,
- 4:42Speaker 1: you will get it here on the free feed two
- 4:44Speaker 1: thursdays from now. That's what's going on. I'm just I
- 4:48Speaker 1: just blurted it all out, so it's all out into
- 4:51Speaker 1: the world. And if you want to know all this stuff,
- 4:53Speaker 1: subscribe to our newsletter link blow follow the Instagram. It's
- 4:57Speaker 1: all there. That's what's going on. That's what's going on. Well,
- 5:02Speaker 1: I'm also trying very hard to follow the kefd trial
- 5:06Speaker 1: as well as the Lindsay Clancy trial. And that's hard.
- 5:09Speaker 1: It's hard for me to be in trial with two
- 5:11Speaker 1: trials and do all this work.
- 5:13Speaker 2: I don't even know the first thing that you said.
- 5:16Speaker 1: Keify d he's involved in the Tupac murder.
- 5:19Speaker 2: Oh okay, yes, yes, I keep being out of the
- 5:23Speaker 2: loop on that.
- 5:25Speaker 1: I will say it's interesting on that case, and I
- 5:27Speaker 1: follow a lot of it, just with Emily de Baker.
- 5:29Speaker 1: I listened to like her shorts because I haven't been
- 5:31Speaker 1: able to just be in court like I like to be.
- 5:33Speaker 1: And what was interesting was they had the guy on
- 5:36Speaker 1: the stand this week. There's a very famous picture of
- 5:39Speaker 1: Tupac from that night where somebody took it from another
- 5:42Speaker 1: car and he's leaning out of the car. It's a
- 5:45Speaker 1: very famous picture and because it was the last picture
- 5:48Speaker 1: of him, because literally he was shot and killed maybe
- 5:51Speaker 1: within three minutes of that.
- 5:53Speaker 2: Wow.
- 5:53Speaker 1: And the guy had the guy on the stand that
- 5:56Speaker 1: took the picture. He was a guy that was just
- 5:58Speaker 1: like had left the casino going to California Pizza Kitchen
- 6:01Speaker 1: to pick up his pizza.
- 6:03Speaker 2: Yeah as you do.
- 6:04Speaker 1: Yeah, and looked over at the car next to him
- 6:07Speaker 1: and it was Tupac and shook night and the window
- 6:09Speaker 1: was down, and he said, hey, Tupac, Hey Pac, Hey sugar,
- 6:13Speaker 1: and they said, we're going to this club. Come with us,
- 6:15Speaker 1: and he said, he said, can I take your picture?
- 6:17Speaker 1: And he said yes, and he said he pulled out
- 6:19Speaker 1: like a camera and took Tupac's picture and that's the
- 6:23Speaker 1: last picture of him ever.
- 6:26Speaker 2: I'll come to the club if I can bring my
- 6:28Speaker 2: pizza with me, right, So.
- 6:31Speaker 1: Then he gets on the phone to cancel his California
- 6:34Speaker 1: Pizza Kitchen pizza And here's the shots.
- 6:37Speaker 2: Oh my god.
- 6:38Speaker 1: I know. It's been very interesting because they've got some
- 6:41Speaker 1: people in the stand that are like, have you know
- 6:44Speaker 1: their love after lock Up Style? They have reformed their
- 6:46Speaker 1: lives and they're no longer with the South Side crypts
- 6:48Speaker 1: or whatever, and they're like, yeah, They're like, I don't
- 6:51Speaker 1: want my kids to do it, you know, I don't
- 6:52Speaker 1: want my I've told the grand kids don't be like
- 6:55Speaker 1: Pops was, you know, And I don't have to answer
- 6:57Speaker 1: these questions. I mean, yeah, you got a lot of
- 6:59Speaker 1: guys on the stand. They're like, Nope, that's a stupid question.
- 7:02Speaker 1: I'm not answered it.
- 7:03Speaker 2: I don't want to see that.
- 7:04Speaker 1: He's like, I still have the loyalty. I'm not sending
- 7:07Speaker 1: that guy to jail, So I'm not answering the question.
- 7:09Speaker 1: It's been really fascinating.
- 7:10Speaker 2: Yeah, they're pulling to Lucille Bluth. I don't understand the question,
- 7:14Speaker 2: and I won't respond to it.
- 7:16Speaker 1: Except for it's more like I don't want to get
- 7:19Speaker 1: popped when I walk out of this place by a
- 7:22Speaker 1: gang banger. So yeah, that's what's going on with me.
- 7:28Speaker 1: We discussed, I believe on our episode this past weekend
- 7:32Speaker 1: when we cover the Last Resort about the musical that
- 7:35Speaker 1: you're involved in, and I would I would like all
- 7:39Speaker 1: the people to know about it, free feed, paid feed
- 7:41Speaker 1: all the people. It's called Snipped the musical.
- 7:45Speaker 2: It is, it's called Snipped exclamation Point the musical, and
- 7:49Speaker 2: if you want to help, it's about circumcision and perspustion
- 7:53Speaker 2: and wacky Jewish families and it's very funny. Well I
- 7:58Speaker 2: think so, but I wrote it a little biased. And
- 8:01Speaker 2: we've working out for like seven years or something. Snow
- 8:04Speaker 2: even longer than that nine years. And so if you
- 8:08Speaker 2: want to, we're doing a reading in New York the
- 8:10Speaker 2: same time as the Pink Shade meet up. And if
- 8:13Speaker 2: you want to help us out, you can go to
- 8:15Speaker 2: Snip the Musical and sign up for the email list
- 8:19Speaker 2: that helps us out, just the search engine boosting our
- 8:22Speaker 2: page to the top and following us on Instagram Snip
- 8:25Speaker 2: the Musical, And if you want to send me money,
- 8:29Speaker 2: we don't have a fundraiser.
- 8:30Speaker 1: But but it's cool.
- 8:33Speaker 2: Dateline does have a PayPal page. That's all I'm saying.
- 8:37Speaker 1: Okay, And should they make a note for Snipped.
- 8:41Speaker 2: No, I'll just take I'm just gonna take any funds regardless, Okay, Kay.
- 8:45Speaker 2: Don't need to know about it?
- 8:46Speaker 1: Yeah, Katie doesn't. That's what she gets for not being
- 8:48Speaker 1: involved exactly.
- 8:50Speaker 2: And that's what she gets for not listening to Pink Shade.
- 8:52Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not true. She's not stealing Katie's money. Nobody
- 8:56Speaker 1: start squealing. Nobody starts squealing it.
- 8:58Speaker 2: Okay, absolutely not.
- 9:01Speaker 1: Anyway, I just want everybody to be aware of it.
- 9:03Speaker 1: Snip the Musical. You go, you sign up for the
- 9:05Speaker 1: email and if you're typing it in your Google it's
- 9:08Speaker 1: making it go to the top, and he has an
- 9:10Speaker 1: exclamation point in it, so don't use if there's another one.
- 9:14Speaker 2: Right, and follow us on Instagram too.
- 9:16Speaker 1: Yeah, I need to make sure both my accounts are
- 9:18Speaker 1: following you on Instagram.
- 9:20Speaker 2: Thank you. And my dad was so excited because you
- 9:23Speaker 2: chatted with him on his Kimberly's Dad bob one Instagram account.
- 9:28Speaker 1: I never know if that's actually you or your dad,
- 9:30Speaker 1: but I did have to call.
- 9:31Speaker 2: It was him and he goes. I talked to Mary Payne.
- 9:34Speaker 2: We had a whole conversation. He said, well, I.
- 9:38Speaker 1: Wrote and said this lammy murder would not be okay
- 9:41Speaker 1: in my house because Ginger's obsessed with her lamies and
- 9:44Speaker 1: carries them around and cries about them and like licks
- 9:47Speaker 1: them and holds them. She's never murdered one.
- 9:50Speaker 2: And yeah, like Ralthie's on multiple Yeah, it's the one
- 9:55Speaker 2: thing he murders.
- 9:56Speaker 1: Yeah, it's interesting because most dogs really love and protect
- 9:59Speaker 1: their lamb.
- 10:00Speaker 2: He does, like, no, he cuddles with it, but then
- 10:03Speaker 2: he loves it too much. He's like a gentle giant.
- 10:07Speaker 2: He's like the the guy from Ferdinanda Bull.
- 10:12Speaker 1: No, the.
- 10:16Speaker 2: Guy who hugs the bunnies too tight.
- 10:19Speaker 1: Yes, Lenny, Yes, yeah, he's.
- 10:23Speaker 2: He's like that. He's just a gentle giant. But his
- 10:26Speaker 2: love sometimes comes with teeth because he just gets so
- 10:30Speaker 2: over excited. So when he I go walk, when I
- 10:33Speaker 2: go over there, he puts my whole forearm in his
- 10:35Speaker 2: mouth in a like a gentle way because he's so
- 10:39Speaker 2: overstimulated and excited that he's like love bites. But there's
- 10:45Speaker 2: no pressure there. It's just he needs to grab onto you.
- 10:48Speaker 2: And I think he just does that so much to
- 10:51Speaker 2: the lammy.
- 10:52Speaker 1: Yeah, but then he gets over excited and does take
- 10:54Speaker 1: a chump right. Yeah, Viola does that too. She wants
- 10:58Speaker 1: she wants to have your hand like in her mouth
- 11:01Speaker 1: as if she's biting you, but like, have you rubber
- 11:03Speaker 1: belly at the same time, Yes, but she wants to
- 11:05Speaker 1: be kind of biting you just a little yes, And
- 11:07Speaker 1: I'm like, is this a we should ask Doctra Tara
- 11:10Speaker 1: on last resort? Is this?
- 11:12Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 11:15Speaker 1: Why did the dog want to bite you? And also
- 11:17Speaker 1: have you rubbed them at the same time? Does anyone
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- 13:42Speaker 1: Ninety Day Fiance, Season twelve, episode sixteen, Last Fleeing Before
- 13:48Speaker 1: the Ring.
- 13:49Speaker 2: Okay, that's a fun Finally a title that makes sense.
- 13:53Speaker 1: Cute, cute, I'll take it. Let's let's do it. We're
- 13:57Speaker 1: gonna start with how the show ended, which is Tom
- 14:00Speaker 1: and Paula now social media. She's posting a lot of
- 14:04Speaker 1: stuff leading us to believe that they are not together.
- 14:07Speaker 1: She's in Brazil, she hates him. I don't know, she
- 14:09Speaker 1: has a lot of AI. I don't know what she's doing.
- 14:13Speaker 1: I don't know what she's doing.
- 14:14Speaker 2: She's definitely playing around for engagement. She's maybe going the
- 14:20Speaker 2: Basmin route, which is you just post a lot of
- 14:23Speaker 2: outlandish things and just because if it creates confusion, she's
- 14:29Speaker 2: a chass makers.
- 14:31Speaker 1: That's it, right.
- 14:32Speaker 2: I think she's an agent of chaos. And so she
- 14:35Speaker 2: most recently has been playing around with people thinking that
- 14:39Speaker 2: she is trans a trans woman, and it is just
- 14:43Speaker 2: I think, to create engagement. And I say, fine, go
- 14:47Speaker 2: for it.
- 14:48Speaker 1: Because other people like Starcasm or ninety Day Updates or
- 14:52Speaker 1: will post Paula said she's transitioning, or Paula said she
- 14:57Speaker 1: transitioned eleven years ago, but then if you read what
- 15:00Speaker 1: Allah has written, it's like, right, I'm transformative, I'm TRANSI
- 15:04Speaker 1: you know all this, uh huh. And I think eleven
- 15:07Speaker 1: years ago is when she started her business. So I
- 15:09Speaker 1: think it's a lot of that.
- 15:12Speaker 2: And I think she's like, I don't it doesn't matter.
- 15:15Speaker 2: Also like sure, I'll say yes, whatever, it doesn't matter,
- 15:19Speaker 2: like who cares? Yeah, who cares? So I'm fine with it. Yeah.
- 15:24Speaker 2: She also is playing around with Thomas though, because I
- 15:26Speaker 2: saw one post somebody said, do you think he's on
- 15:29Speaker 2: the spectrum? And she was laughing, and so I was like, hmmm,
- 15:34Speaker 2: because I there, it's quite possible. Yeah. But so I
- 15:41Speaker 2: really would like you to get her back on the
- 15:42Speaker 2: show and get some straight answers out of her.
- 15:45Speaker 1: You know, I think I'm gonna wape till the reunion
- 15:47Speaker 1: to see what happens because I thought that I'm not
- 15:50Speaker 1: the person for that job.
- 15:52Speaker 2: She definitely is back in Brazil, though he keeps showing
- 15:55Speaker 2: how she's back in Brazil. Oh and I don't think
- 15:58Speaker 2: you've noticed it all. Yeah, but I have a god,
- 16:02Speaker 2: my arm looks so giant when I do that. Let's
- 16:04Speaker 2: not do that, CAIMP. Really it looks like Giant Forum. This, yes,
- 16:10Speaker 2: is a camper van model that I got. It's a
- 16:15Speaker 2: miniature and it is for manifestation.
- 16:19Speaker 1: I love it. I did see that, and I can't
- 16:21Speaker 1: tell if it's like the front part of a cruise ship.
- 16:24Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean? I couldn't tell what
- 16:25Speaker 1: it was. Okay, that looks like a kidnapper murder van.
- 16:29Speaker 1: I'm sorry it does.
- 16:31Speaker 2: But I'll maybe put some things in it, like a
- 16:35Speaker 2: bed and a showerage, yeah, a little toilet, and it's
- 16:42Speaker 2: it's it's cute. It's these windows. Maybe if I blackened
- 16:47Speaker 2: those so it looks like it has windows, so you
- 16:49Speaker 2: wouldn't think someone is in there screaming and begging for
- 16:52Speaker 2: their life.
- 16:53Speaker 1: Yeah, it gives a little of silence of the lambs,
- 16:57Speaker 1: like it put solution on its skin. I think, can
- 17:00Speaker 1: you draw windows on there with the little curtains and
- 17:02Speaker 1: then yes, maybe painted pink, I don't know, not paint
- 17:05Speaker 1: yet something. Yeah, yeah, okay, okay, thank you. All right.
- 17:12Speaker 2: Let's say Paula as hiring me to try manifestation.
- 17:17Speaker 1: Now.
- 17:17Speaker 2: I don't know what I have to do if I
- 17:18Speaker 2: have to like talk to the van every day or
- 17:21Speaker 2: the universe and she just says.
- 17:24Speaker 1: She just said, you look at it, just like she
- 17:26Speaker 1: bought tiny little miniature perfumes and things and put it
- 17:29Speaker 1: in their bathroom, just miniatures for him to look at
- 17:33Speaker 1: to get used to the idea of seeing the perfume
- 17:37Speaker 1: and manifesting that his nose would be okay with it.
- 17:40Speaker 2: Yeah, that's more like exposure therapy.
- 17:42Speaker 1: I feel like, yeah, I mean she's got she's got
- 17:46Speaker 1: to listen. It worked for her. She's got a very
- 17:47Speaker 1: successful piercing business. So yeah, what does she set around
- 17:51Speaker 1: her apartment? Ears unclear. I don't know what did she do?
- 17:55Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 17:58Speaker 2: They are bike riding, and rather he is driving the bike.
- 18:03Speaker 2: She is behind him, and she is in the back,
- 18:06Speaker 2: and she's trying to use her phone and complaining that
- 18:08Speaker 2: she can't hang on, and he says, you're not being safe.
- 18:11Speaker 2: We are biking on the road. Put your phone down
- 18:14Speaker 2: if you can't hold on safely, and she says, I
- 18:17Speaker 2: don't like your attitude.
- 18:19Speaker 1: And I was like, a two person bike. I didn't understand.
- 18:23Speaker 2: No, it was definitely I think a one person bike.
- 18:25Speaker 1: Okay, that's not safe to start. No.
- 18:28Speaker 2: Yeah, So they're going to dinner, a romantic dinner one
- 18:33Speaker 2: day before the wedding. The wedding is tomorrow, and they
- 18:35Speaker 2: already hate each other, and she says this should be
- 18:38Speaker 2: magical books, because we're spending the rest of our lives together.
- 18:41Speaker 2: But I'm having second thoughts. And he's trying to start
- 18:44Speaker 2: the dinner by being nice, like, you look very beautiful
- 18:47Speaker 2: right now, and she says, sometimes I don't think you're
- 18:49Speaker 2: mature enough. I told you we were going to a
- 18:53Speaker 2: nice dinner. Let's drive, and you said no, let's take
- 18:57Speaker 2: a bike. And it's always your will win. And he says, well,
- 19:03Speaker 2: you didn't have fun riding the bike. Oh, are you serious?
- 19:09Speaker 2: And she says, I did my hair and my makeup,
- 19:11Speaker 2: and I'm wearing a white dress that is not appropriate
- 19:15Speaker 2: for a bike ride. I had the wind in my face.
- 19:18Speaker 2: And I like adventure, but there's a time for everything.
- 19:21Speaker 2: Sometimes I want to be an adult and I want
- 19:25Speaker 2: to take the car. Is that asking too much? And
- 19:29Speaker 2: he says, well, I thought it was a good idea
- 19:31Speaker 2: to take the bike, and he says, I know it's
- 19:34Speaker 2: not very elegant, but we saved a lot of money. Oh,
- 19:38Speaker 2: And she says, is it too expensive to pay twelve
- 19:41Speaker 2: dollars for parking. Sometimes it's peanuts, and he says it's
- 19:47Speaker 2: actually twenty books.
- 19:49Speaker 1: But the night before your wedding, you're all dressed up,
- 19:51Speaker 1: and Chris, my question is are they leaving the dinner
- 19:54Speaker 1: and then going to some sort of like pre party
- 19:56Speaker 1: for the wedding because her whole family is our whole.
- 19:58Speaker 2: Family is there, we're ditching the Yeah. Also, I get
- 20:03Speaker 2: that dinner was seemed like a nice place it is,
- 20:05Speaker 2: so why did they have to ride a bike? Yeah?
- 20:10Speaker 2: So maybe he's like, I want to spend the money
- 20:12Speaker 2: on the food and not.
- 20:13Speaker 1: The No excuse for that, Camerally, don't try to.
- 20:16Speaker 2: No, there is no excuse me. So she says three
- 20:20Speaker 2: months is just not enough time to decide on a
- 20:22Speaker 2: new life and a new country. And I'm sick of
- 20:24Speaker 2: him always trying to force his lifestyle on me, which
- 20:27Speaker 2: I think is the core of it. It's this like
- 20:29Speaker 2: condescension he does because he thinks his lifestyle is better
- 20:32Speaker 2: than hers, and so he's always trying to get her
- 20:36Speaker 2: to do it. So she says, you saw how unhappy
- 20:40Speaker 2: I was and on the bike ride, and I feel
- 20:43Speaker 2: like I don't want to fight all the time, but
- 20:45Speaker 2: I feel like I'm losing myself in these little things,
- 20:48Speaker 2: and little by little these things become a monster. And
- 20:52Speaker 2: he says, yeah, I'm concerned because we've had very few compromises.
- 20:57Speaker 2: I don't give in any compromises, had very few compromises.
- 21:02Speaker 2: She's had a lot of compromises. And I'm not happy
- 21:05Speaker 2: with some of the requests you're making.
- 21:08Speaker 1: I would like a dresser, and I would like to
- 21:10Speaker 1: have a couch able to eat on. Yeah.
- 21:15Speaker 2: Also, he sounds like a manager at like a workplace.
- 21:17Speaker 2: I'm not happy with the our request that you put in.
- 21:21Speaker 2: It's not going to work on the schedule.
- 21:22Speaker 1: You can't have off labor day, weekend, Thomas. Not everybody
- 21:25Speaker 1: can take off.
- 21:26Speaker 2: Yeah. And then he says, you're very compulsive and you're
- 21:30Speaker 2: focused on consumerism. Oh god, the judgment. And I don't
- 21:36Speaker 2: feel like you're invested in the future of our family.
- 21:39Speaker 2: I think he's saying you're spending too much money and
- 21:41Speaker 2: that money should go towards our kids that we don't have, right,
- 21:45Speaker 2: we probably should not have.
- 21:47Speaker 1: No, she's only one, he's thirty one. They've got a
- 21:49Speaker 1: lot to work it through before they can have kids.
- 21:51Speaker 1: And you know not to not to put it out
- 21:54Speaker 1: there but her clock is ticking.
- 21:55Speaker 2: Just like sticking. So she says, I don't want to
- 21:58Speaker 2: get married if you're always in closing your lifestyle and
- 22:01Speaker 2: you're always doing a fois gras of your lifestyle and
- 22:07Speaker 2: shoving it down my throat.
- 22:09Speaker 1: I didn't understand that. I was trying to understand. Fogras
- 22:13Speaker 1: is like mushed up duck liver.
- 22:16Speaker 2: Right, yeah, all, yeah, yes, I think that's right. I
- 22:21Speaker 2: knew it was meat something, but I think you're right.
- 22:23Speaker 2: I think it's duck liver.
- 22:24Speaker 1: And so where is that, pat, Let's see, we're gonna
- 22:28Speaker 1: look it up for gras. What is it?
- 22:33Speaker 2: And do they shove something down the throat of the duck.
- 22:36Speaker 1: It's a delicacy in French cuisine. It's flat okay, all right,
- 22:41Speaker 1: it is okay. Food product made of the liver of
- 22:49Speaker 1: duck or goose is the liver of the duck. Okay,
- 22:52Speaker 1: So I was fine and it is okay. According to
- 22:56Speaker 1: French law, full gras is defined as the liver of
- 23:00Speaker 1: a duck or a goose fattened by force feeding. Ooh, disgusted,
- 23:07Speaker 1: and sometimes it sold hole or prepared as a moose
- 23:10Speaker 1: parfe or pete.
- 23:14Speaker 2: I am so vomitable. I'm just sick now.
- 23:17Speaker 1: I am so grossed out. Okay, so she was making
- 23:19Speaker 1: the connect Oh my god, correct analogy. She was making
- 23:24Speaker 1: the correct analogy. We just didn't. Yeah.
- 23:26Speaker 2: Yeah, So she's like, oh God, let's move on. I'm
- 23:30Speaker 2: gonna throw up. So like, you're always forcing this down
- 23:35Speaker 2: my throat, do this, ride a bike. I wish she
- 23:40Speaker 2: kept going, don't smell bad, sit on the floor when
- 23:44Speaker 2: you eat.
- 23:45Speaker 1: Yeah, she could have got a holeless.
- 23:47Speaker 2: Yeah, sit on a bed instead of a couch. So
- 23:50Speaker 2: she says, my family is here, and I just feel
- 23:53Speaker 2: like I really want to go back to Brazil with
- 23:55Speaker 2: them because it's so easy there, and I don't want
- 23:58Speaker 2: to say goodbye to my family and this level of
- 24:00Speaker 2: life that I have right now. I don't need this.
- 24:03Speaker 2: I have a choice, like, yeah, I had a good
- 24:06Speaker 2: life in Brazil. I don't. So she's crying and she says,
- 24:10Speaker 2: my family is leaving, and I don't know if I
- 24:12Speaker 2: can be here long term. I want to move back
- 24:15Speaker 2: to Brazil. And he says, you're making these wild claims
- 24:18Speaker 2: that you're ready to leave. Imagine if I said something
- 24:21Speaker 2: like that. And she says, He says to us, I
- 24:26Speaker 2: was hoping she'd tell me I'm the light of her
- 24:28Speaker 2: life and she can't wait to marry me, And instead
- 24:31Speaker 2: she's saying, I could leave you at any moment. So
- 24:35Speaker 2: this dinner is not what I'm expecting. That's how out
- 24:40Speaker 2: of touch he is that that's what he thought she
- 24:43Speaker 2: was going to say.
- 24:44Speaker 1: I hate you, I hate this country. It's not worth
- 24:48Speaker 1: it to try to start a piercing business here.
- 24:50Speaker 2: Exactly.
- 24:51Speaker 1: My family is here. I'm just going to get in
- 24:53Speaker 1: one of their suitcases.
- 24:54Speaker 2: Yeah. So, she says, you're not ready for change, and
- 24:59Speaker 2: he says, I've only had a few weeks to change. Okay,
- 25:03Speaker 2: you've had twelve plus all over the time that you
- 25:06Speaker 2: have been with this woman.
- 25:07Speaker 1: Yeah, three months. Yeah.
- 25:10Speaker 2: So, and then he tells her open up, and she says,
- 25:13Speaker 2: I'm open. I changed my whole country. I moved here.
- 25:17Speaker 2: I left my business with eighteen people working for me.
- 25:20Speaker 2: I'm here, And he says, I know you're in a
- 25:22Speaker 2: new country, but I want to challenge you to try
- 25:26Speaker 2: something new in your life, because my way of life
- 25:29Speaker 2: is better than yours.
- 25:31Speaker 1: Right. Ride a bike in a white dress, come.
- 25:34Speaker 2: On, come on. Yeah, you're so close minded.
- 25:37Speaker 1: Yeah, it was a short dress. Too.
- 25:40Speaker 2: I know no woman wants to do that. So she says,
- 25:43Speaker 2: you're pushing me too far, You're pushing me to Brazil,
- 25:46Speaker 2: and he says, your natural instincts are always do to
- 25:49Speaker 2: the knee jerk reaction to do the easiest thing. And
- 25:53Speaker 2: she says, I'm about to leave right now. I can't
- 25:55Speaker 2: like you're not making this better at all. Now you're
- 25:58Speaker 2: telling me I'm lazy, and yeah, I want to try,
- 26:01Speaker 2: yeah yeah, And then in Portuguese, she says, you are
- 26:05Speaker 2: so annoying. You're a son of a bitch. You are
- 26:08Speaker 2: so fucking annoying. And he says, when you're married, you're
- 26:15Speaker 2: a team. And she's not saying like I'm going to
- 26:19Speaker 2: go back to Brazil and you're gonna come with me
- 26:21Speaker 2: because we're married. She just says she wants to go
- 26:23Speaker 2: to Brazil because there is no reason.
- 26:28Speaker 1: Her whole family and her business is there, and she
- 26:30Speaker 1: has the love of her life is not at this dinner.
- 26:33Speaker 2: Table exactly, and you've made her miserable and you made
- 26:36Speaker 2: her sit on the floor to eat. There's so many reasons.
- 26:41Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, he's just so he's unbending.
- 26:44Speaker 2: I yeah, yeah, mm hmm. So he says, I don't
- 26:47Speaker 2: know why you're being so hostile, and she says, you're
- 26:50Speaker 2: not listening. And I'm struggling. Sometimes I just want to disappear.
- 26:54Speaker 2: I just want to tell you to go fuck yourself
- 26:56Speaker 2: and walk away. And she kept like gesturing towards the
- 26:59Speaker 2: water because sitting on the water, and I thought she
- 27:01Speaker 2: was going to say, I sometimes want you to walk
- 27:03Speaker 2: the plank. I sometimes want to drown you. I sometimes
- 27:06Speaker 2: want to tie cement blocks to your feet and push
- 27:09Speaker 2: you into the water.
- 27:09Speaker 1: Take a long walk off, short pier, short pier.
- 27:12Speaker 2: Yeah. And he says, my life three months ago was very,
- 27:17Speaker 2: very easy, and she's like, what is the so is mine?
- 27:21Speaker 2: What is the purpose of this? Why are we at
- 27:23Speaker 2: this dinner? Is this dinner a breakup? And he says,
- 27:26Speaker 2: I don't know. Are we still doing this? And she
- 27:27Speaker 2: says I don't know.
- 27:29Speaker 1: Well, obviously they are, because we see next week that
- 27:32Speaker 1: they are.
- 27:33Speaker 2: So, even though she's crying and miserable to hold.
- 27:36Speaker 1: And literally like, fuck off, your son of a bitch,
- 27:38Speaker 1: can't wait to marry you tomorrow. I mean what, I
- 27:41Speaker 1: don't get it. I don't understand their love.
- 27:44Speaker 2: I really don't.
- 27:45Speaker 1: I really don't. Okay, let's move on to Asha and Maxwell.
- 27:51Speaker 1: So we haven't seen them for a couple of weeks,
- 27:54Speaker 1: but where we left them was Rod had slammed his
- 27:57Speaker 1: fist on the table to say like you shouldn't marry him,
- 28:00Speaker 1: or you don't know this guy, or whatever he was
- 28:01Speaker 1: mad about. So Rod and Kathy aunt Kathy are talking
- 28:06Speaker 1: to the table and he says, I'm I'm sorry I
- 28:09Speaker 1: slammed on the table, but I really am trying to
- 28:13Speaker 1: figure out a way to stop her from getting married.
- 28:16Speaker 1: I shouldn't have done that, but I am very worried.
- 28:19Speaker 2: I don't feel like it was a slam like hit
- 28:22Speaker 2: Kaina and Tayis.
- 28:24Speaker 1: It wasn't like a Teresa Judas. No, it was just
- 28:26Speaker 1: like you're not listening to me, like a.
- 28:29Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, and your hand hit the table like maybe
- 28:31Speaker 2: by accident.
- 28:32Speaker 1: I Meanwhile, she's autside, No, no, baby, we do not
- 28:35Speaker 1: do that jet you and violin no violence, baby. So
- 28:40Speaker 1: Kathy says, you know it's her decision. I don't have
- 28:43Speaker 1: to sleep with this man. I don't have to deal
- 28:45Speaker 1: with his attitude, and it will be a whole different
- 28:48Speaker 1: ballgame when you get him home. It is different when
- 28:50Speaker 1: you live somebody, when it's not pillow talk. It's basically
- 28:53Speaker 1: what she says, right, Okay.
- 28:56Speaker 2: So ah, that's with anything, that's with a guy in
- 28:58Speaker 2: the United States, that's with anybody.
- 29:01Speaker 1: So Asia tells us that Asha knows what's best for Asia,
- 29:04Speaker 1: especially since Asia listens to God and God talks to Asia.
- 29:07Speaker 1: And she says, I think Rod is a little bitter,
- 29:12Speaker 1: and uh, he should open up his little mind and
- 29:15Speaker 1: get out of his own way.
- 29:17Speaker 2: So we want to bitterness.
- 29:19Speaker 1: He has bitterness like the plator. But Kathy walks up
- 29:23Speaker 1: behind her and the production is filming, and I was like,
- 29:26Speaker 1: she's right behind you. Kathy walks up behind her and says, Asia,
- 29:31Speaker 1: my concern is that you need to think about what
- 29:35Speaker 1: you're doing. I am just voicing my opinion. I've never
- 29:39Speaker 1: seen you jump like this, and I didn't know I
- 29:42Speaker 1: was coming to a wedding, to which Asia says. Asia says, surprise, surprise,
- 29:53Speaker 1: And Kathy says, we support you. I support you, but
- 30:00Speaker 1: you can't control how I feel and how Rod feels.
- 30:03Speaker 1: And she says, we have withstood the test of time,
- 30:07Speaker 1: and we have withstood a denial, and Kathy goes, but
- 30:12Speaker 1: was that denial a sign or a test or a
- 30:17Speaker 1: sign from God, and she says, no, ma'am, it was
- 30:20Speaker 1: a test, and baby, we have passed it. We have
- 30:23Speaker 1: passed that test.
- 30:24Speaker 2: And how does she know. She's she's talking to God.
- 30:28Speaker 2: And he says, what I thought was maybe a sign
- 30:31Speaker 2: was actually a test.
- 30:33Speaker 1: But Kathy doesn't talk to God, so she doesn't have
- 30:36Speaker 1: any likes to neither. Noah, no, so a she says,
- 30:41Speaker 1: if Maxwell says no, it is a note. If Asia
- 30:44Speaker 1: says no, it is a note, but there are no
- 30:47Speaker 1: other options here. The wedding is taking place. And Kathy says,
- 30:52Speaker 1: I'm just concerned you're making a mistake, and a shea says,
- 30:55Speaker 1: I appreciate your concerns, and you could take your concerns elsewhere.
- 30:58Speaker 1: Go worry about something else.
- 31:01Speaker 2: Okay, this woman flew for like twenty six hours to
- 31:06Speaker 2: be there.
- 31:07Speaker 1: Yeah, and if they did not tell them it was
- 31:09Speaker 1: a wedding, like they just said, hey, we're going to
- 31:11Speaker 1: go film this show over here. Yeah, because we know
- 31:14Speaker 1: they had to be vaccinated ten days before they flew.
- 31:20Speaker 1: Maybe they really were like, it's going to be so fun.
- 31:22Speaker 1: You were going to film for the show, but we're
- 31:24Speaker 1: going to do it in Nigeria. So Cathy says no, No,
- 31:30Speaker 1: Asia says. Asia says, I'm gonna let Rod breathe and
- 31:34Speaker 1: let's just meet up tomorrow. When I walk down the
- 31:36Speaker 1: aisle in the talking head, Asia says, no demon is
- 31:42Speaker 1: going to prevent her from getting married.
- 31:45Speaker 2: This is your god brother, who you said was one
- 31:48Speaker 2: of the most important people in your life. Yeah, he's
- 31:51Speaker 2: now a demon, a demon because he opposes this relationship.
- 31:57Speaker 1: Now, when she says demon, the first thing I think
- 31:59Speaker 1: of is Lori Davell. Yeah, because she thought all her
- 32:02Speaker 1: children had turned into demons.
- 32:04Speaker 2: Yeah, and zombies and zombies.
- 32:07Speaker 1: But once you turned into a demon, it's all over
- 32:09Speaker 1: for you.
- 32:11Speaker 2: And everyone is on a scale from like zero to
- 32:15Speaker 2: one hundred or something. And Oprah was the darkest demon
- 32:18Speaker 2: of all, which felt like racism. So Rod has to
- 32:23Speaker 2: be like a negative fifteen or something.
- 32:26Speaker 1: I forgot about Oprah being on the day Bell's list
- 32:29Speaker 1: as a demon. I wonder why.
- 32:33Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, what did she ever do to them?
- 32:35Speaker 1: I don't know. She seems like such a bright light
- 32:37Speaker 1: in the world. Okay, let's move on to Katie and
- 32:43Speaker 1: Josh and Oh so I watched the whole show and
- 32:47Speaker 1: then I was watching today to take my notes and
- 32:49Speaker 1: I somehow did not watch this whole scene kind of
- 32:53Speaker 1: at the end, like I must have just gone out
- 32:55Speaker 1: of the room or something. This Katie and Josh conversation
- 32:57Speaker 1: at the end the night before their wedding. This girl,
- 33:02Speaker 1: I know, God bless.
- 33:04Speaker 2: I would say this actually was one of their best
- 33:06Speaker 2: episodes though, because there were so little Katie, like, yeah,
- 33:10Speaker 2: it had mostly Josh and so it was better. So
- 33:15Speaker 2: Josh is said his stag do with sadly just two
- 33:18Speaker 2: girlfriends from the UK. He had no guys join him.
- 33:22Speaker 1: They have addle of the day, middle of the day.
- 33:24Speaker 2: Middle of it is they are in a bar and
- 33:26Speaker 2: it is full daylight out and there are two other
- 33:29Speaker 2: people in the bar. So yeah, Kate and Katie was
- 33:32Speaker 2: worried he was going to stay at all night. I
- 33:33Speaker 2: don't think that's I don't think he's making it past dinner.
- 33:36Speaker 2: So they I'm not past happy hour even, Yeah, right.
- 33:42Speaker 2: So they have a present for him and he goes
- 33:44Speaker 2: to the bathroom to put it on and he says, oh, present,
- 33:47Speaker 2: that will make me feel really good about myself and
- 33:50Speaker 2: they say yeah, sure, And so he comes out dressed
- 33:54Speaker 2: like ginger spice and in like a cheap plastic wig,
- 33:58Speaker 2: and he says a bachelor party, a bachelor party in
- 34:02Speaker 2: the States is very different from a stag do in
- 34:05Speaker 2: the US in the UK, which is more like making
- 34:08Speaker 2: the groom question his choice of friends. And as he
- 34:14Speaker 2: comes out, everyone in the bar, the two other people
- 34:17Speaker 2: are like whistling at him and laughing and saying you
- 34:20Speaker 2: go girl, And I think one of them tried to
- 34:22Speaker 2: buy him a Cosmopolitan. And he says, let's see how
- 34:25Speaker 2: the night goes, and.
- 34:29Speaker 1: It's it's it's silly.
- 34:32Speaker 2: Yeah, So he says, maybe this is training for married
- 34:36Speaker 2: life where I don't have opinion or autonomy, And I
- 34:40Speaker 2: was like with Katie, yes, this is totally.
- 34:45Speaker 1: Do men in the UK dress up for their stag do,
- 34:48Speaker 1: because again we've seen it. Love is blind UK, We've
- 34:51Speaker 1: never seen it. Yes, the men in the UK often
- 34:55Speaker 1: dress up, but full group costumes are becoming less common.
- 34:59Speaker 1: It is very common for the groom to wear an
- 35:01Speaker 1: embarrassing or funny costume while the rest of the group
- 35:05Speaker 1: wears their normal clothes, so coordinated outfits like golf gear
- 35:11Speaker 1: or retro track suits are still popular for daytime activities.
- 35:16Speaker 1: So yeah, that's okay, that's interesting. I just track suits
- 35:22Speaker 1: matching tracksuits. Why not?
- 35:24Speaker 2: This seems like Jersey shore y.
- 35:26Speaker 1: You're comfy.
- 35:28Speaker 2: So he the bartender's like, what's this all about? And
- 35:31Speaker 2: he says, I'm getting married tomorrow and I thought I
- 35:35Speaker 2: had friends. So he says, and apparently this is a
- 35:41Speaker 2: spice girl. I don't know which spice girl it is, Like,
- 35:45Speaker 2: how do he's yeah, he's not that young. He should know.
- 35:48Speaker 2: This is shocking shirt.
- 35:49Speaker 1: He's surety, Yeah.
- 35:51Speaker 2: Yeah, he should know.
- 35:52Speaker 1: So he looks fifty but he's thirty.
- 35:54Speaker 2: Yeah, he's aged. Katie is to mentor the life out
- 35:58Speaker 2: of him, so he he tells us his friends. He
- 36:02Speaker 2: tells his friends, the breeze is quite nice. I'm actually
- 36:05Speaker 2: enjoying this, and they say, well, girls aren't usually invited
- 36:09Speaker 2: to stag dus, but his guy friends couldn't come. So
- 36:11Speaker 2: we felt like we had the responsibility to do this,
- 36:14Speaker 2: and we don't want him to forget his British roots.
- 36:16Speaker 1: So no guy friends could come, not one, not one guy.
- 36:21Speaker 2: They've all have STDs of the mouth from Katie and
- 36:24Speaker 2: they're staying home for safety.
- 36:26Speaker 1: They're all like, we feel uncomfortable because your fiance tried
- 36:29Speaker 1: to kiss us. M hm, So yeah, I mean.
- 36:32Speaker 2: That's what they put in the yes I'm coming, no
- 36:36Speaker 2: I'm not attending reason they put like Katie tried to
- 36:40Speaker 2: tongue kiss me against my will.
- 36:42Speaker 1: But I think that was also a checkbox. Yes I'm coming,
- 36:46Speaker 1: No I'm not coming. No I'm not coming because Katie's
- 36:48Speaker 1: tried to kiss me. Yes, that's the three choices. Yes. Hm.
- 36:52Speaker 2: So he and his friends then try to have a
- 36:54Speaker 2: very serious conversation about his upcoming marriage while he is
- 36:58Speaker 2: wearing this plastic that they have tied into a top pony,
- 37:03Speaker 2: and he says, I am worried that she struggles not
- 37:07Speaker 2: to make out with people, which one of his friends
- 37:10Speaker 2: clearly did not know about, because she is making this
- 37:13Speaker 2: face like why did you invite me to this wedding
- 37:18Speaker 2: if this is what's happening, And he says, oh, and
- 37:21Speaker 2: your face is indicating this is bothersome to you, and
- 37:26Speaker 2: she's like, yeah, that's not great if your relationship is
- 37:29Speaker 2: supposed to be monogamous, and he's like, yeah, we've talked
- 37:33Speaker 2: about it, and she I feel like we're on the
- 37:35Speaker 2: same page, but then she'll go back to open relationships,
- 37:39Speaker 2: so then I'm not sure. And I was like, you're
- 37:41Speaker 2: not on the same page. Oh, how do you think
- 37:44Speaker 2: that you're on.
- 37:44Speaker 1: The same page, not in the same book.
- 37:46Speaker 2: No, no, So the friends say you need to be
- 37:49Speaker 2: more clear about your thoughts and in asking for a
- 37:52Speaker 2: monogamous relationship is not too much, and there is a
- 37:56Speaker 2: line that he needs to draw, and he agrees that
- 37:59Speaker 2: he hasn't clear enough and he needs to be like
- 38:02Speaker 2: very crystal clear with Katie. Also, Katie is the type
- 38:05Speaker 2: of person that if you give her an inch, she'll
- 38:07Speaker 2: take a mile, or if you give her a centimeter,
- 38:10Speaker 2: she'll take a kilometer in British, but it's she will fudget.
- 38:18Speaker 2: So if he's like, yeah, well I don't know about
- 38:21Speaker 2: the future, she'll be like, well you said you didn't
- 38:22Speaker 2: know about the future. So I totally banged Ryan. Is
- 38:25Speaker 2: that okay?
- 38:27Speaker 1: And he says it later he says, I don't want
- 38:29Speaker 1: there to be any opening there. Yeah, did you think
- 38:33Speaker 1: this is what I mean? Yeah?
- 38:35Speaker 2: Exactly. So he walks back to the wedding venue in
- 38:38Speaker 2: his dress and it is still full daylight out and
- 38:43Speaker 2: she is still there with her parents setting up for
- 38:45Speaker 2: the wedding, and she looks at him and she says why,
- 38:49Speaker 2: and he says, I've been dressed up by my friends,
- 38:52Speaker 2: and she says, are they still your friends? And he's like,
- 38:55Speaker 2: good question. So that night she is asking how the
- 39:00Speaker 2: night was, and he says, I need some counseling before
- 39:02Speaker 2: I talk about it. Even though it was like a
- 39:04Speaker 2: drink at a bar with it was daytime, a daytime
- 39:08Speaker 2: drink at a bar, So he asked her, is there anything.
- 39:12Speaker 1: Wait, Gamberly right here. When she goes, tell me about it,
- 39:15Speaker 1: he goes, I'll tell you. I don't care. I need counseling,
- 39:17Speaker 1: and he kind of jokes. She goes, it's fine. She goes,
- 39:20Speaker 1: I'll ask Megan. I mean I don't really care. Yeah,
- 39:22Speaker 1: she does, I don't really care.
- 39:25Speaker 2: I thought you guys were fine, Like it's why do
- 39:27Speaker 2: you why are you like that cage?
- 39:29Speaker 1: She just she was like, I don't actually care.
- 39:31Speaker 2: She's like, send send me a picture. And he's like no,
- 39:35Speaker 2: and she's like, I'll ask Megan. I don't even really care.
- 39:38Speaker 1: She doesn't really care. She just knew that she be
- 39:41Speaker 1: she's supposed to ask. She's supposed to ask how he
- 39:44Speaker 1: day was. She's like, I actually don't care, So yeah,
- 39:48Speaker 1: we'll never discuss it again. Don't send me a picture,
- 39:50Speaker 1: and when I see Megan tomorrow, I want to ask
- 39:52Speaker 1: her either because I don't care about her.
- 39:53Speaker 2: Either exactly exactly. She's really trying to deprogram herself from
- 39:59Speaker 2: being perpetually selfish, but she can't do it.
- 40:03Speaker 1: Yeah, so that was good that she tried for two seconds.
- 40:06Speaker 1: That was good. Yeah. Yeah.
- 40:08Speaker 2: So he says, you know, tomorrow we're getting married. Is
- 40:12Speaker 2: there anything we need to talk about? And she's like, no,
- 40:15Speaker 2: I'm excited. I hope everything goes well. Is there something
- 40:19Speaker 2: you think we need to talk about. He's like, yes,
- 40:22Speaker 2: I was talking with my friends and it reaffirmed how
- 40:25Speaker 2: I felt about monogamy and that I am looking to
- 40:28Speaker 2: get married for monogamy. And she is smiling awkwardly, which
- 40:32Speaker 2: she always does that mouth twitch and like inappropriate smiling,
- 40:38Speaker 2: and she's like, can we never make out with anyone
- 40:43Speaker 2: in the future?
- 40:45Speaker 1: Nope?
- 40:46Speaker 2: No, that is no. And then he's like uh, and
- 40:51Speaker 2: she goes, what if in the future we want a
- 40:54Speaker 2: three way? Does that fit into monogamy?
- 40:59Speaker 1: You can't for an inch, You can't give her an inch.
- 41:01Speaker 2: You can't. And she says, if we both wanted that,
- 41:05Speaker 2: but I don't know if that's what I want, and
- 41:07Speaker 2: I don't know what the future holds, but I just
- 41:10Speaker 2: want to be crystal clear that I want to make
- 41:12Speaker 2: a commitment to you and you only. And she tells
- 41:17Speaker 2: us I don't have any doubts about him, but I
- 41:19Speaker 2: have doubts about how I will act in that situation
- 41:22Speaker 2: because I love flirting. I've just always loved flirting, and
- 41:26Speaker 2: I'm so good at it. When I shoved my tongue
- 41:30Speaker 2: inside an unsuspecting stranger's mouth that they say, Wow, that
- 41:34Speaker 2: girl is so good at flirting, and then they call
- 41:37Speaker 2: the police to have me arrested for being so good
- 41:41Speaker 2: at flirting. It says sexual assault on the report, but
- 41:45Speaker 2: that's not what it is. I'm so good at flirting.
- 41:49Speaker 1: When she says I really like flirting, she's got that
- 41:52Speaker 1: giant smile, I really like flirting, and then she goes,
- 41:56Speaker 1: I'm really good at it, and then her whole face drops, like.
- 42:02Speaker 2: She does a lot of that. The face is constantly changing,
- 42:05Speaker 2: I do think, because again, there's something undiagnosed here totally,
- 42:11Speaker 2: and it's never matches what she's saying. The expression on
- 42:16Speaker 2: her face it like takes a while to catch up
- 42:19Speaker 2: to what she had just said, kind of or it's
- 42:22Speaker 2: very strange.
- 42:23Speaker 1: And then next week. Next week, she all of a
- 42:26Speaker 1: sudden now has antourette. She starts blurting out penis.
- 42:30Speaker 2: She can't stop.
- 42:31Speaker 1: She's interest of all, it's penis, Like, oh my god.
- 42:36Speaker 2: Yeah, I think she has some comorbidities happening.
- 42:39Speaker 1: So she.
- 42:43Speaker 2: He tells her, I don't want to give you false
- 42:45Speaker 2: hope that I might say yes to something in the
- 42:48Speaker 2: future that I'm never gonna say yes to. So what
- 42:52Speaker 2: I'm looking for is a commitment with one person, and
- 42:55Speaker 2: I'm putting faith in the fact that we're both signed
- 42:57Speaker 2: up for that. And she goes, I'm signed up for
- 43:02Speaker 2: that too.
- 43:07Speaker 1: Can't wait to marry you.
- 43:09Speaker 2: I think we're on the same page.
- 43:11Speaker 1: Happiest day of my life.
- 43:15Speaker 2: Yeah, and then she says, I just yeah, I just
- 43:20Speaker 2: have an open mind as a person's, but I'm happy
- 43:24Speaker 2: to marry you. Yeah. He just doesn't have an open mind,
- 43:28Speaker 2: That's what it is.
- 43:28Speaker 1: That was she tried to shame him and to be like,
- 43:31Speaker 1: why are you so close minded? You know?
- 43:35Speaker 2: Yeah, So he tells us, I hope this isn't one
- 43:39Speaker 2: of those situations where she says she's good with monogamy,
- 43:42Speaker 2: but it's just because she feels trapped. Yeah, and I
- 43:47Speaker 2: hope it's the truth. And she says to him, I think,
- 43:50Speaker 2: I I think I want, I mean, I know I
- 43:54Speaker 2: want to commit to you. She literally says, I think
- 43:57Speaker 2: I want. I know, I know I want to commit
- 44:00Speaker 2: to you and only you, and I want us to
- 44:03Speaker 2: be a team forever, which is love is blind, right, Yeah,
- 44:07Speaker 2: be a team TEAMMATEA And she tells us there's definitely
- 44:12Speaker 2: a part of me that says yes to forever monogamy
- 44:15Speaker 2: because I don't want to freak Josh out, and I
- 44:18Speaker 2: do still want to spend the rest of my life
- 44:20Speaker 2: with him, even though I'm a bit disappointed that door
- 44:23Speaker 2: is closing. But what I'm going to do is just
- 44:26Speaker 2: stick my foot out as the door is closing so
- 44:30Speaker 2: that it doesn't close all the way and he'll never know.
- 44:34Speaker 2: And she tells him when I want to, when I
- 44:38Speaker 2: commit to something, I do it. So I just grit
- 44:42Speaker 2: my teeth and Barrett, because I've made a commitment to you,
- 44:45Speaker 2: that's exactly what you want to hear before the wedding.
- 44:48Speaker 2: I've committed to this, so I'm going through with it
- 44:51Speaker 2: because that's just what I do. And I think it
- 44:55Speaker 2: won't be an issue. Okay, it's totally going to be an.
- 44:59Speaker 1: Issue, I think. And then she's gonna go Remember when
- 45:01Speaker 1: I said I think it was I didn't know for sure.
- 45:03Speaker 2: I didn't know. I don't know what the future holds.
- 45:05Speaker 1: Remember, Yeah, oh my god, Well Mallory and rush Sheet.
- 45:12Speaker 1: Now lots of people are concerned about his what he
- 45:18Speaker 1: does on TikTok and I don't care. But he goes
- 45:23Speaker 1: on TikTok and he makes like crazy sounds on the
- 45:26Speaker 1: microphone and like, oh yeah it does, and people are like,
- 45:29Speaker 1: are you seeing this? It's so crazy. Maybe I just
- 45:32Speaker 1: haven't seen what people are seeing. That's so that's probably
- 45:36Speaker 1: ninety nine percent tury that I haven't seen what other
- 45:38Speaker 1: people have seen because I've just seen clips and stuff.
- 45:40Speaker 1: But I'm like, just let him make money on TikTok.
- 45:43Speaker 1: Who cares?
- 45:44Speaker 2: Does he make money from it? Yeah?
- 45:46Speaker 1: Because you know what people?
- 45:47Speaker 2: This isn't it like ASMR?
- 45:49Speaker 1: Yeah? I think it's like ASMR. But he's going live
- 45:52Speaker 1: and he's being like really creepy and people are like, oh,
- 45:55Speaker 1: he's creepy, he's gross, And I'm like, all right, okay,
- 46:00Speaker 1: he's weird on TikTok Okay, okay, he's like super sexual.
- 46:04Speaker 2: And he's saying Hitler was on the right page. So
- 46:09Speaker 2: the bar is very low for these people.
- 46:12Speaker 1: That's true. And other people like he's like dming with
- 46:16Speaker 1: women and they're screenshotting it.
- 46:18Speaker 2: And oh yeah, I don't like that.
- 46:21Speaker 1: I don't like that if that's true. Again, we know
- 46:26Speaker 1: he's in the States. I mean, people are like, where
- 46:28Speaker 1: he's sitting is like where Mallory sits in all her
- 46:30Speaker 1: interviews and stuff, so you can see that he's.
- 46:32Speaker 2: Here and she won't put up with that. Mallory won't
- 46:36Speaker 2: put up with that.
- 46:36Speaker 1: Not online cheating, no, no, So we'll see, we'll see
- 46:41Speaker 1: what happens. Maybe he just needs to put down the
- 46:44Speaker 1: phone for a bit.
- 46:47Speaker 2: Two days to take away his screen time.
- 46:50Speaker 1: Other people said that there was a picture posted him
- 46:53Speaker 1: and his brothers and they were making some sort of
- 46:55Speaker 1: hand signal that means some sort of nationalist group that's
- 46:59Speaker 1: in Turkey. That's like super fall left or right unclear.
- 47:07Speaker 1: I don't know anything about international politics to know, but
- 47:10Speaker 1: that also didn't seem to be good. Again, I don't know.
- 47:14Speaker 1: So it's gonna get so many dms about this. Okay,
- 47:17Speaker 1: so two days to wed Today is the Bachelor and
- 47:21Speaker 1: the bachelorette party, the stag Do and the Hindu as
- 47:24Speaker 1: it as it were. He's excited because he's gonna get
- 47:27Speaker 1: to go to a strip club and she and he goes,
- 47:29Speaker 1: it's so fun, and he goes, I can't wait. And
- 47:32Speaker 1: she goes, he's gonna be like big asses, little asses,
- 47:35Speaker 1: and she's like big little and she goes, yeah, it
- 47:39Speaker 1: could be big, could be little, could be.
- 47:41Speaker 2: No, a variety of asses.
- 47:44Speaker 1: He's like, oh my goodness. She goes, you never know
- 47:47Speaker 1: in Alabama. So he comes and sits with her on
- 47:50Speaker 1: the couch and she's having a drink. She's putting her
- 47:52Speaker 1: makeup on. He goes, why are you doing this now
- 47:55Speaker 1: it She goes, it's called pregame. You pregame before you
- 47:58Speaker 1: go out, so you don't have to buy me drinks
- 48:00Speaker 1: at the bar. He's like, oh okay. In the talking head,
- 48:04Speaker 1: she goes, everything is fine. I'm really glad we came
- 48:07Speaker 1: to this agreement about the prenup and the kid issue.
- 48:10Speaker 1: You know, we're reminded of that. So his friend arrives.
- 48:13Speaker 1: His friend's name is Chiat c h i h at,
- 48:18Speaker 1: but pronounced chi Yacht, wrote it down phonetically. He's from
- 48:22Speaker 1: New Jersey, He's from is Temple, and Chiat says, last
- 48:26Speaker 1: time I saw Rash was in Athens, Greece, but now
- 48:30Speaker 1: I'm in Athens, Alabama. And Mallory's like, so similar, right,
- 48:36Speaker 1: so similar. He tellst he's so happy to see him.
- 48:39Speaker 1: He's been lonely. He's happy to be around somebody else
- 48:42Speaker 1: and who's his culture. He can speak his language. And
- 48:44Speaker 1: she doesn't seem to be like, what are you talking about?
- 48:46Speaker 1: You know, she just seems to be rolling with it.
- 48:50Speaker 1: So then they're in a talking head together and she's like,
- 48:53Speaker 1: I'm so happy to go to the strip club where
- 48:55Speaker 1: you sit and you watch the ladies dancing, and she goes,
- 48:58Speaker 1: you're gonna be doing more than one. He goes, what
- 49:00Speaker 1: do you mean? And she goes, you don't just watch.
- 49:04Speaker 1: Sometimes they come and dance right on you, like with
- 49:06Speaker 1: their bosoms in your face. He goes, whoa boo in
- 49:09Speaker 1: my face? She's like, yeah, another woman's boobs right in
- 49:13Speaker 1: your face. He's like, oh, they kept zooming in on him.
- 49:16Speaker 1: He's like, oh, my god.
- 49:17Speaker 2: Looks like a two like a three year old. You're
- 49:20Speaker 2: telling about Disneyland for the first time, he's what.
- 49:25Speaker 1: So the party brus arrives. They all have like the
- 49:28Speaker 1: stupid shit right, they gotta wear the sash, they gotta
- 49:31Speaker 1: have the shot cups around the neck, you know. So
- 49:35Speaker 1: basically they all get in the party van, they head out.
- 49:38Speaker 1: They do like shots while they're inside, and it's so funny,
- 49:41Speaker 1: like when the girls get out and they're gonna take
- 49:43Speaker 1: the boys to the strip club. The friend who they
- 49:47Speaker 1: already forgot, she says, no rules for rush, no rules
- 49:51Speaker 1: for rush, and Alorie's like, bah, I mean she does
- 49:54Speaker 1: not and she does not care. Her friend was basically
- 49:57Speaker 1: sticking her cooter in their face, like working with her
- 50:01Speaker 1: her vagina in the air, and they were like, yeah,
- 50:04Speaker 1: no girl, she doesn't care.
- 50:06Speaker 2: She's not jealous.
- 50:07Speaker 1: Yeah, she does not care. So they go to the
- 50:09Speaker 1: strip club and rajas like this is shock like porno,
- 50:14Speaker 1: like like for real, and Brandon, of course is there.
- 50:18Speaker 1: He's buying him a lap dance and he says, Brandon,
- 50:21Speaker 1: he's so bad, bad bad, And Brandon walks up and
- 50:27Speaker 1: it's like, I've got a lap dance for you, and
- 50:28Speaker 1: she's like, oh my, what you do? Oh my god,
- 50:31Speaker 1: oh my god. But he is having the best time,
- 50:33Speaker 1: Best time. He is swinging on a pole, he is
- 50:37Speaker 1: doing the worm, he is doing backflips and then going.
- 50:40Speaker 2: He goes yeah, and people are cheering for him.
- 50:44Speaker 1: He's got He's got a girl to two team in him,
- 50:46Speaker 1: one in the front, one of the back.
- 50:48Speaker 2: Crazy and he he keep he keeps saying things like
- 50:51Speaker 2: cat kitty.
- 50:53Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. So the one girl, he said, I like
- 50:57Speaker 1: your tattoo and she says it says pay me yeah.
- 51:02Speaker 1: And then because that girl had a lot of makeup
- 51:05Speaker 1: on her face, did you see it was like face
- 51:08Speaker 1: paint And that's the girl he said, you look like
- 51:11Speaker 1: a kiddie cat. And he's going yeah, yeah, So maybe
- 51:16Speaker 1: this is what he does over there on TikTok that
- 51:17Speaker 1: people are so upset about it. It is strange. So then
- 51:22Speaker 1: Mallory goes with some friends and they're looking at some
- 51:25Speaker 1: Harley's and she's, I guess this is like her idea
- 51:27Speaker 1: of fun. I don't know, And the friends are asking
- 51:30Speaker 1: about the prenup thing, and she's explaining, like I said,
- 51:33Speaker 1: get off my back about the kids for two three years?
- 51:35Speaker 1: You said two I noticed that, And if he leave
- 51:42Speaker 1: me alone, then I would drop the prenup thing. And
- 51:45Speaker 1: they're like, are you sure this is the right thing,
- 51:46Speaker 1: and she goes, I'm just gonna have to trust him.
- 51:48Speaker 1: When she goes, I don't know, I just have to
- 51:50Speaker 1: trust him. They go to a clip of him swinging
- 51:52Speaker 1: on a pole and like doing a backflip into a
- 51:55Speaker 1: lady's lap. Yeah, nobody has spent a better time with
- 51:59Speaker 1: the Trip Club than him. Nobody. No, it's joyful, It
- 52:03Speaker 1: is so so much fun. Yes, yeah, he loved it.
- 52:07Speaker 1: So then Mallory's talking to her friends said, they said,
- 52:10Speaker 1: who's coming from your side? She goes, well, my sister
- 52:12Speaker 1: Paige and my mom are coming, and they go, what
- 52:15Speaker 1: about your dad and he says no. She says, no,
- 52:19Speaker 1: not my dad. She says he called me yesterday and
- 52:23Speaker 1: says he didn't think he could come to the wedding
- 52:25Speaker 1: because I'm Christian and Rash is Muslim. And they're like,
- 52:29Speaker 1: what are you kiddy? That is so ridiculous.
- 52:32Speaker 2: Shows a dad footage of Rush at the strip club
- 52:35Speaker 2: and you'll see how Muslim he is.
- 52:37Speaker 1: See how American he is? Right, yeah, h And she goes,
- 52:41Speaker 1: it's not surprising and it's kind of embarrassing that he's
- 52:45Speaker 1: doing this, but it's the last job with my dad.
- 52:48Speaker 1: He hasn't been there for me for the last ten years,
- 52:50Speaker 1: so I'm not surprised he's not going to be here
- 52:52Speaker 1: for this. And she kind of cries a little bit
- 52:55Speaker 1: and says, I really wish I could get rash the
- 52:58Speaker 1: good family dynamic like the one he left, but I
- 53:01Speaker 1: just don't have that with my family. And Mikayla says, like,
- 53:04Speaker 1: it's not the same, but you know you have us,
- 53:05Speaker 1: We're your chosen family. Naturally sweet And when I talked
- 53:09Speaker 1: to her, I think I DM's with her. She said,
- 53:12Speaker 1: coming up, it's going to be a lot of mess
- 53:14Speaker 1: with her dad, and that she fights on the tell
- 53:17Speaker 1: All with two different men and one of them is
- 53:19Speaker 1: her dad, so her dad obviously also oh yeah, not great,
- 53:26Speaker 1: no great, Okay, let's move on to Marissa and Edward, who.
- 53:32Speaker 1: Now I don't know who this woman is on our
- 53:34Speaker 1: screen Marissa, but she's a brand new person episode sixteen.
- 53:37Speaker 2: Yeah, she softened her hair even, she's.
- 53:40Speaker 1: A completely different person.
- 53:42Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, being nice. So he's cooking in the kitchen
- 53:47Speaker 2: and he rinses off the pan before it's cooled down,
- 53:50Speaker 2: so it smokes, and I was instantly terrified for her.
- 53:55Speaker 1: Him.
- 53:55Speaker 2: I was like, she's not gonna like that. Boss lady
- 53:58Speaker 2: is not going to like that. Oh my god, Edward,
- 54:00Speaker 2: hide hide, I'll hide you in my attic. Come over.
- 54:03Speaker 2: You just ruined that pan.
- 54:05Speaker 1: When I saw him put it under it and all
- 54:07Speaker 1: the smoke went up, I'm like, Oh, she's gonna be
- 54:08Speaker 1: so pissed.
- 54:09Speaker 2: She's gonna hate that.
- 54:10Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 54:12Speaker 2: So she comes in and she's like, Hi, how are
- 54:15Speaker 2: you all innocent? Like she does after a fight and
- 54:19Speaker 2: last night was fun? And he says no, and he says,
- 54:24Speaker 2: you know, the bullshit you gave me it was unnecessary,
- 54:28Speaker 2: and she I was like, yes, good for him standing
- 54:33Speaker 2: up for himself. And she says, you need to read
- 54:36Speaker 2: my emotion better, Like if I'm in the mood for
- 54:39Speaker 2: a serious conversation like I am right now, then you'll
- 54:42Speaker 2: know it. And if I'm just wanting to have fun,
- 54:45Speaker 2: then don't try to get in these deep conversations with me.
- 54:48Speaker 2: But again, why does she get to dictate the mood
- 54:51Speaker 2: of each conversation.
- 54:53Speaker 1: They were at dinner? Why does she get to dictate like, Oh,
- 54:56Speaker 1: I'm not in a good mood now, so change the
- 54:58Speaker 1: subject exactly.
- 55:00Speaker 2: So he says, I was just trying to finish the
- 55:05Speaker 2: talk about all that we've been through and then move on,
- 55:08Speaker 2: and she says, I do have to take some accountability
- 55:12Speaker 2: because I know you don't like being walked out on,
- 55:16Speaker 2: but I did that because I felt like it was
- 55:18Speaker 2: a better option to go and regroup than to sit
- 55:22Speaker 2: at the table and be aggravated by you and your
- 55:25Speaker 2: horrible behavior at dinner. So she still kind of finds
- 55:29Speaker 2: a way to blame it on him. She's that, yeah,
- 55:33Speaker 2: and then she goes, you know, I was hung I
- 55:35Speaker 2: was angry. She says that to us, and she says
- 55:39Speaker 2: to us, she's taking a lot more accountability. She says,
- 55:42Speaker 2: I have been trying to soften how I speak to
- 55:45Speaker 2: Edward and I shouldn't have responded that way, and it's
- 55:48Speaker 2: not fair to him when he was just trying to
- 55:50Speaker 2: express his emotions and I should have given him the
- 55:53Speaker 2: space to speak freely. She doesn't say any of that
- 55:57Speaker 2: to him though. To him, she's just says I was
- 56:01Speaker 2: super hungry because I haven't had anything to eat all day,
- 56:04Speaker 2: and I was like, that must be her problem every day.
- 56:10Speaker 2: I think we've solved it. We've solved by Marissa is
- 56:14Speaker 2: such a bitch.
- 56:15Speaker 1: She's hungry.
- 56:15Speaker 2: She's always in a state of hungary. So and then
- 56:19Speaker 2: she has to teach him what hangary means because he
- 56:21Speaker 2: doesn't know, and he says, in Spanish, this needs to
- 56:25Speaker 2: go on the appendix to Sarpu's calendar.
- 56:29Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 56:29Speaker 2: Yeah. In Spanish, we say we swim just to die
- 56:34Speaker 2: by the shore, and it means people swim a lot
- 56:37Speaker 2: and basically die when they're supposed to go outside the water.
- 56:41Speaker 1: No, that's not that.
- 56:44Speaker 2: No, I don't think that's what that means.
- 56:46Speaker 1: That doesn't make any sense. It's I think the shore.
- 56:50Speaker 1: It's like you do all this work and just to
- 56:52Speaker 1: not make it, is what it sounds like to me.
- 56:55Speaker 2: I think it's like, you know, like if they find
- 57:00Speaker 2: a hiker that has died in the desert, but it
- 57:03Speaker 2: turned out they were like one hill away from a resort. Yeah,
- 57:07Speaker 2: but they just didn't so they're right there, but they
- 57:10Speaker 2: didn't know how close they were.
- 57:12Speaker 1: Right. How is that the same as hangry?
- 57:14Speaker 2: No, it's not at all. And he says, I don't
- 57:19Speaker 2: want this to be the end. This is the beginning
- 57:22Speaker 2: of our beautiful life together, and she says, well, I
- 57:25Speaker 2: did want to tell you last night that even with
- 57:27Speaker 2: all the doubts I've had, the effort that we've made lately.
- 57:32Speaker 2: Every time I have these doubts, you do something great
- 57:35Speaker 2: that brings me back to why we fell in love
- 57:37Speaker 2: in the first place, which was nice. And I do
- 57:41Speaker 2: still want to marry you because it's all my decision.
- 57:44Speaker 2: And I've learned in Spanish that you're half an orange
- 57:48Speaker 2: to me, which is an expression I guess and means like,
- 57:53Speaker 2: you're my half of your half of my orange my
- 57:56Speaker 2: other half like yeah, but doesn't.
- 57:59Speaker 1: Know orange go into quarters whatever, it doesn't.
- 58:01Speaker 2: Matter, and Okay, so she tells us for some reason,
- 58:06Speaker 2: she says, all for some reason, all the conflicts that
- 58:10Speaker 2: we have, I'm still drawn back to him for some reason,
- 58:15Speaker 2: and I said, it reminds it rhymes with smenas because
- 58:20Speaker 2: and then he says, let's go solve our problems in
- 58:24Speaker 2: the bed. And then she's like, yeah, you can give
- 58:26Speaker 2: me a massage, and he's like, I didn't mean a massage.
- 58:28Speaker 1: I meant he literally does like the pumping.
- 58:33Speaker 2: Yeah he does, so uh. Then they're going out and
- 58:37Speaker 2: he in the scene that I thought was going to
- 58:41Speaker 2: be a much bigger deal and a five episode arc
- 58:44Speaker 2: turned out to be five seconds, he gives her the
- 58:46Speaker 2: prenup that he has signed with no issues. You didn't care,
- 58:50Speaker 2: He didn't care, and nothing burger and he says, I
- 58:54Speaker 2: did see on there that you have a lot, and
- 58:58Speaker 2: she goes, yeah, I was hoping to not put the
- 59:01Speaker 2: assets on there so because I didn't want you to know,
- 59:03Speaker 2: but you have to, like she wanted to hide how
- 59:06Speaker 2: much she has and and he says, and mine is
- 59:10Speaker 2: zero dollars and she says, yeah, you have nothing, but
- 59:13Speaker 2: I love you, babe.
- 59:15Speaker 1: And crazy that he says, zero dollars.
- 59:18Speaker 2: It's just nothing. He has nothing, okay, And she says,
- 59:23Speaker 2: we've talked about this prenep since the beginning, so I
- 59:27Speaker 2: wasn't that worried that he wouldn't sign it. And it's
- 59:30Speaker 2: and she tells him, it's not because I think you're
- 59:33Speaker 2: using me for my money. You know that it's just
- 59:35Speaker 2: for my children. And he says, in my defense, I
- 59:38Speaker 2: didn't even know you had money when I fell in
- 59:40Speaker 2: love with you. And she says, when was that And
- 59:43Speaker 2: the first time you saw me and he's like, yeah, okay, sure,
- 59:46Speaker 2: let's go with that. The first time you were at
- 59:48Speaker 2: a luxury resort with a bunch of white rich ladies.
- 59:52Speaker 2: I probably figured you had money. Let's right, right. So
- 59:57Speaker 2: she says they're going to look at the venue and
- 1:00:00Speaker 2: he says, weddings are mostly for the woman's so I
- 1:00:04Speaker 2: don't really have any requests or opinions. It's whatever she wants.
- 1:00:08Speaker 2: And she's like, and for the rest of our lives also,
- 1:00:11Speaker 2: And it looks very cool. It's like an inside room,
- 1:00:15Speaker 2: but they have it draped on the ceiling like it's
- 1:00:18Speaker 2: a tent with lights. So I thought it was pretty.
- 1:00:21Speaker 2: And he says, this is the fanciest wedding I've ever
- 1:00:24Speaker 2: been to, and and she goes, you are there fancy
- 1:00:30Speaker 2: weddings in the dr She was like.
- 1:00:33Speaker 1: I would imagine, so, yeah, are you what?
- 1:00:37Speaker 2: She just thinks she's better than him, and he says yes,
- 1:00:40Speaker 2: and she says, have you ever been to one? And
- 1:00:42Speaker 2: he says no. So then they're at the venue and
- 1:00:46Speaker 2: he's like, oh my god, this is wow, this is
- 1:00:48Speaker 2: this is a wedding. This is my first wedding. And
- 1:00:51Speaker 2: she's like, yeah, this is your first wedding, and they
- 1:00:53Speaker 2: all clap for him. Most of them are on there
- 1:00:57Speaker 2: like their third wedding by now, and so they they
- 1:01:01Speaker 2: practice how they'll dance, and she's so excited now and
- 1:01:04Speaker 2: she feels at peace, and she says, it's mostly because
- 1:01:07Speaker 2: of you. You have had to make so many adjustments
- 1:01:10Speaker 2: to the way you naturally are.
- 1:01:15Speaker 1: But she's away, but she's being nice to him.
- 1:01:18Speaker 2: You are as a person, has had to change a.
- 1:01:21Speaker 1: Lot because it wasn't good enough.
- 1:01:23Speaker 2: But it was never good enough, and so I had
- 1:01:26Speaker 2: I'm glad I whipped you into shape and got you
- 1:01:28Speaker 2: to change your whole personality. And he says, it's a
- 1:01:32Speaker 2: team effort. You know, you've done some things too, not
- 1:01:35Speaker 2: as much as me, but a little. She's like, yeah,
- 1:01:39Speaker 2: I've done a little. I've tried to make some adjustments.
- 1:01:43Speaker 2: And he says, I gotta be honest with you, which
- 1:01:45Speaker 2: is his favorite phrase. I've never been this nervous. And
- 1:01:48Speaker 2: she says, well, let's practice walking down the aisle and
- 1:01:51Speaker 2: he says, yeah, because I shouldn't walk like this, and
- 1:01:53Speaker 2: then she's like, you usually walk like this, and then
- 1:01:55Speaker 2: she makes him look like lurch or like a mummy
- 1:01:58Speaker 2: or something with his head like a side, like a
- 1:02:02Speaker 2: thriller thriller video. It was very strange, and she's making
- 1:02:07Speaker 2: fun of him, and and then he walks normally and
- 1:02:10Speaker 2: she says, head hi, shoulders back, straighten up. You know,
- 1:02:14Speaker 2: we'll work on it later tonight. And I was like,
- 1:02:16Speaker 2: she is going to criticize every single thing at the wedding.
- 1:02:20Speaker 2: She's going to be saying, stop chewing with your mouth open,
- 1:02:23Speaker 2: you have to make a speech now, and then like
- 1:02:25Speaker 2: elbowing him when he says something wrong.
- 1:02:27Speaker 1: It's gonna be like, don't you talk.
- 1:02:30Speaker 2: Of course, she's going to course correct the whole wedding,
- 1:02:35Speaker 2: So at thea on the altar, it's going to be
- 1:02:38Speaker 2: like correcting his vows. Yeah, a smile, smiles, and he
- 1:02:44Speaker 2: tells us that he's one hundred percent sure, but she
- 1:02:47Speaker 2: he's still worried that she's going to change her mind
- 1:02:49Speaker 2: because they've had so many backs and forths. Why are
- 1:02:51Speaker 2: you one hundred percent? Edward?
- 1:02:54Speaker 1: I will say. Another thing I just saw him do
- 1:02:56Speaker 1: was an ad for like a local med spa that
- 1:03:00Speaker 1: was helping him with his actiscars. Really it was like,
- 1:03:03Speaker 1: look at him get into the influencer game.
- 1:03:05Speaker 2: I love it. He and a show would be a
- 1:03:08Speaker 2: fun pair. Yeah, it's a lot of the same. It's
- 1:03:13Speaker 2: the one the lady trying to fix everything about the man.
- 1:03:17Speaker 1: Oh yeah, mm hmm.
- 1:03:21Speaker 2: But something. But Edward is really attracted to her because
- 1:03:24Speaker 2: remember he got that boner on the street when they
- 1:03:26Speaker 2: were hugging.
- 1:03:27Speaker 1: Yes, yes he is. He's got that new new penis pus.
- 1:03:32Speaker 2: Uh huh. So she goes to taste some wines for
- 1:03:36Speaker 2: the wedding, which I was like, are you driving? Is
- 1:03:38Speaker 2: that normal?
- 1:03:41Speaker 1: She did have fours?
- 1:03:44Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, they had little snacks. Of course, she does
- 1:03:49Speaker 2: not eat any of them that she She goes to
- 1:03:54Speaker 2: meet with her mom, who is either Joanne or Joan
- 1:03:56Speaker 2: with two ends. Uh, but no E at the end.
- 1:04:01Speaker 1: So it's definitely jo Anne.
- 1:04:04Speaker 2: God but no E. It's like Joan with an extra n.
- 1:04:10Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's Joanne. Just okay, But I got
- 1:04:13Speaker 1: to tell you something. This was hard to watch this scene. Yeah,
- 1:04:18Speaker 1: this woman is really terrible.
- 1:04:21Speaker 2: She's really she really is. It's where Marissa gets it from. Yes,
- 1:04:25Speaker 2: too bad she didn't get some of the other facial
- 1:04:27Speaker 2: structures from her mom.
- 1:04:29Speaker 1: Well, she could pay for that.
- 1:04:31Speaker 2: So she tells her mom about how everything's going great,
- 1:04:35Speaker 2: and they made these lists of the things they want
- 1:04:37Speaker 2: to fix about each other, and they're really working on
- 1:04:39Speaker 2: their lists and it's been so good. These past few days, weeks, whatever,
- 1:04:45Speaker 2: and her mom is like gritting her teeth and like
- 1:04:47Speaker 2: gnawing on her jaw, this tension, and Marissa just stops
- 1:04:52Speaker 2: in the middle of a sentence and says, you look annoyed. Yes,
- 1:04:55Speaker 2: And the mom says, I'm concerned. I've told you how
- 1:05:00Speaker 2: feel and there are so many uh oh.
- 1:05:05Speaker 1: Red flags battle of the red flags going on.
- 1:05:15Speaker 2: Are you one hundred percent sure or are there still doubts?
- 1:05:20Speaker 2: And Marissa says, I wouldn't say doubts, but there is
- 1:05:23Speaker 2: some fear. But if you were to ask me of
- 1:05:26Speaker 2: my one hundred percent sure, yes, I do want to
- 1:05:28Speaker 2: marry him. And the mom says, look, Marissa, I have
- 1:05:33Speaker 2: the utmost respect for you, and you're a strong woman
- 1:05:36Speaker 2: in a business.
- 1:05:36Speaker 1: The mother British's British.
- 1:05:38Speaker 2: She's very formal, okay, and she says, I'm you're a
- 1:05:43Speaker 2: strong businesswoman and I respect you a lot, so please
- 1:05:47Speaker 2: don't be cross with me. But I did call our
- 1:05:52Speaker 2: lawyer and ask how about finances? And there are some
- 1:05:57Speaker 2: things that we think you, we think you should know,
- 1:06:00Speaker 2: And would you be all right if I called the
- 1:06:02Speaker 2: lawyer and you talk to her? And Marisa says, well, yeah.
- 1:06:07Speaker 2: I reached out to a lawyer too, and he signed
- 1:06:09Speaker 2: a prenup. No problem. And the mom says, indulge me.
- 1:06:14Speaker 1: And she's noting that nice. She's being very mean.
- 1:06:18Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, and so the mom says. The mom says
- 1:06:23Speaker 2: to us, I've had some conversations with Edward and they
- 1:06:26Speaker 2: were good. I didn't expect them to be good, but
- 1:06:30Speaker 2: they were good. But I've worked very hard in my
- 1:06:34Speaker 2: life and I want to make sure everything we have
- 1:06:37Speaker 2: goes to my grandchildren and my children, and if if
- 1:06:42Speaker 2: they get divorced, I don't need it going to somebody
- 1:06:45Speaker 2: who has no rights to it, Okay.
- 1:06:50Speaker 1: And she said, I've had conversations with him and they
- 1:06:52Speaker 1: were good, and I didn't expect them to be good.
- 1:06:56Speaker 2: I didn't expect that he even spoke English or could
- 1:06:58Speaker 2: hold a decent conver station.
- 1:07:00Speaker 1: She's really bad.
- 1:07:03Speaker 2: So also, if she's so concerned about the grandchildren, leave
- 1:07:08Speaker 2: them money in your will, yeah, and leave it to
- 1:07:12Speaker 2: his daughter. Yeah. Set up a trust for them or something,
- 1:07:16Speaker 2: and then he won't be able to touch it. So
- 1:07:19Speaker 2: she calls the lawyer, puts her on speakerphone, and the
- 1:07:22Speaker 2: lawyer says, you're signing an affidavit of support correct, And
- 1:07:26Speaker 2: Marits is like, I don't I guess I don't know,
- 1:07:29Speaker 2: and she should really know that. And the lawyer says,
- 1:07:33Speaker 2: so you're gonna have to sign an affidavit of support
- 1:07:37Speaker 2: and that means that you're telling the government I will
- 1:07:41Speaker 2: support him. And I was like ten years, ten years.
- 1:07:44Speaker 2: Watch the show since the beginning ten years, yep, and
- 1:07:48Speaker 2: anyone who's watched the show would know that it was
- 1:07:50Speaker 2: ten years. And she says, you'll be supporting him for
- 1:07:54Speaker 2: forty quarters, which is ten years, and or unless he
- 1:07:59Speaker 2: becomes a usin, which is not just like having the visa.
- 1:08:03Speaker 2: It's like that's years and years and years, and so
- 1:08:08Speaker 2: even if you get divorced in a year, you'll still
- 1:08:10Speaker 2: have to support him, even with the prenup. And Marissa says, okay,
- 1:08:16Speaker 2: like how much support will I have to give him?
- 1:08:19Speaker 2: And she says it depends on how much he has
- 1:08:21Speaker 2: and if he has an income or not. And I
- 1:08:25Speaker 2: feel like the mom is muttering under her breath. He
- 1:08:27Speaker 2: won't have an income and he wants to like build
- 1:08:30Speaker 2: a sports stadium or something if no one knows, and
- 1:08:35Speaker 2: so if he doesn't have an income, you're paying him
- 1:08:39Speaker 2: basically forty percent of your salary and they both just
- 1:08:47Speaker 2: even though the mom totally knew this, and she's like,
- 1:08:49Speaker 2: uh huh, I told you.
- 1:08:51Speaker 1: And forty percent of a million is four hundred thousand dollars.
- 1:08:57Speaker 2: So Marissa, they hang up with the lawyer and then
- 1:08:59Speaker 2: the Marissa his mom says, she tells us. Marissa keeps
- 1:09:04Speaker 2: saying she loves him and I love him, and oh
- 1:09:07Speaker 2: love is love and love is great, and you need
- 1:09:09Speaker 2: to have love. But I don't want my grandsons to
- 1:09:13Speaker 2: be lacking for anything. Forty percent of her income for
- 1:09:16Speaker 2: ten years is a huge chunk of what's going to
- 1:09:19Speaker 2: my grandchildren, and I am concerned about that. Again, you
- 1:09:23Speaker 2: could just set them up if you're that rich. And
- 1:09:26Speaker 2: your husband is the CEO of David's bridal, so.
- 1:09:32Speaker 1: Yes he is, He's not, Yes he is.
- 1:09:36Speaker 2: Wait, Marissa's dad, stepdad is the Marissa's stepdad is the
- 1:09:43Speaker 2: CEO of David's bridle, and I believe he hooked her
- 1:09:48Speaker 2: up in the bridle industry.
- 1:09:49Speaker 1: I'd be say, the low budge competitors a client film exactly. Yeah,
- 1:09:54Speaker 1: how did you know that? How did you just not
- 1:09:55Speaker 1: tell me this? Just now?
- 1:09:57Speaker 2: I thought you knew it? Was it's all over reddit.
- 1:10:00Speaker 1: You know, I never get a chance to look at Reddit.
- 1:10:01Speaker 1: I'm too busy. But love is blind.
- 1:10:03Speaker 2: Oh I thought I had mentioned it before.
- 1:10:05Speaker 1: No, I don't know. That is his name, David.
- 1:10:08Speaker 2: No, he's not the creator. I think he's just like
- 1:10:11Speaker 2: a high ranking person.
- 1:10:12Speaker 1: Wow.
- 1:10:13Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, So the mom acts like she's worked very hard,
- 1:10:20Speaker 2: and maybe just finding rich husbands is her hard work. Yes,
- 1:10:26Speaker 2: she's had to. As someone I read it said she's
- 1:10:28Speaker 2: had to see a lot of old man balls to
- 1:10:30Speaker 2: get to this point. That's right, But we don't maybe
- 1:10:33Speaker 2: she also works. I don't know. I don't. I don't
- 1:10:35Speaker 2: get that sense. But she could also have worked a lot.
- 1:10:41Speaker 1: I know. If Marissa has siblings, I don't know. And
- 1:10:46Speaker 1: the mom said, you know, I've been divorced. I know
- 1:10:48Speaker 1: how bad it is. So we don't know his mom
- 1:10:50Speaker 1: on wedding number three, we don't know. Yeah, mom's got
- 1:10:53Speaker 1: a bitterness towards marriage because she herself has been don't
- 1:10:57Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 1:10:58Speaker 2: Yeah, So Marissa tells her mom, Edward has never expected
- 1:11:04Speaker 2: me to support him, and the mom says, everyone says that,
- 1:11:08Speaker 2: and Marisa says, okay, I get that. Everyone says that,
- 1:11:11Speaker 2: but I believe him. And the mom's like, well, good
- 1:11:14Speaker 2: for you, and marisus says, okay, well, you don't have
- 1:11:17Speaker 2: to believe him. He's gonna be my husband, not yours.
- 1:11:21Speaker 2: And the mom says, I've been divorced, and so I know.
- 1:11:25Speaker 2: And Marisa says, I've been divorced too, And the mom
- 1:11:30Speaker 2: doesn't say, to her credit, and you married one poor
- 1:11:34Speaker 2: and now you're about to marry another poor learn from
- 1:11:37Speaker 2: your mistakes, darling. She doesn't say that, And the mom says, okay,
- 1:11:43Speaker 2: it's your life. Fine, I'm just raising the red flag
- 1:11:49Speaker 2: because I'm the mother and that's what mothers do. They worry.
- 1:11:53Speaker 2: And Marisa's like, okay, but she's all pissed now. Yeah,
- 1:11:58Speaker 2: And Marissa's tells us, with all the ups and downs
- 1:12:02Speaker 2: that they've had in their relationship, she needs to think
- 1:12:06Speaker 2: about this. I mean, you have to hope for the best,
- 1:12:08Speaker 2: but you need to plan for the worst. And you
- 1:12:11Speaker 2: can't just say, well, I don't think he would do
- 1:12:14Speaker 2: that to me, Yes he would.
- 1:12:17Speaker 1: Sorry, but jeez, this woman is a nightmare. I know.
- 1:12:22Speaker 2: She's worse than she even appeared. And she appeared pretty
- 1:12:26Speaker 2: bad at the beginning.
- 1:12:27Speaker 1: Yeah, at the beginning, and then we were like, Okay,
- 1:12:29Speaker 1: she's all right, yeah now, but noo, she's she still
- 1:12:34Speaker 1: looks good, she still looks incredible. We'll give it to her,
- 1:12:37Speaker 1: give it to her surgeon.
- 1:12:38Speaker 2: She is eighty, believe that, and normally hate ages you,
- 1:12:46Speaker 2: but not hers.
- 1:12:47Speaker 1: Not her. And when they walked into that wine place,
- 1:12:51Speaker 1: which was very sort of rustic, you know, she goes,
- 1:12:55Speaker 1: this is interesting.
- 1:12:56Speaker 2: I mean, I okay, I swear because the lady who
- 1:13:01Speaker 2: serves them the wine is wearing like a T shirt
- 1:13:03Speaker 2: with the branded thing, and I felt like, Marisa's mom's
- 1:13:06Speaker 2: not gonna like that T shirt. No, she's gonna be like,
- 1:13:09Speaker 2: I'm being served by someone in a T shirt and
- 1:13:11Speaker 2: not a blouse.
- 1:13:12Speaker 1: Where is this at the moment?
- 1:13:15Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
- 1:13:17Speaker 1: Okay, let's finish it up with old Shaye and Annabel. Oh,
- 1:13:23Speaker 1: so the daughters Alison and somebody and Madison Madison. Madison
- 1:13:31Speaker 1: is the little one. Alice has got another sister, is
- 1:13:34Speaker 1: it abby? Ashley starts with the a, I'm sure I'm Claire. Anyway,
- 1:13:40Speaker 1: they're helping her, mostly Alison, with her hair and makeup,
- 1:13:43Speaker 1: and she is saying it's so important for her to
- 1:13:45Speaker 1: have a good relationship with the daughters. We see Shay
- 1:13:48Speaker 1: steaming his shirt. Who knew he knew how to do?
- 1:13:53Speaker 1: Annabel pack that steamer? Yeah, for sure, he taught him
- 1:13:56Speaker 1: how to use it. She was like, one day, please
- 1:14:00Speaker 1: don't make me work. So he says he's never met
- 1:14:03Speaker 1: anyone like Annabelle. He goes, I mean, she's the kind
- 1:14:06Speaker 1: of gal. She won't even let me put my own
- 1:14:07Speaker 1: underwear on, So I don't think she's trying to take
- 1:14:10Speaker 1: my money. She won't even let me wear my own underwear.
- 1:14:13Speaker 1: I was like, she helps you put on your underwear, sir,
- 1:14:16Speaker 1: what's happening?
- 1:14:18Speaker 2: You mean things I did not need to know for
- 1:14:22Speaker 2: five hundred.
- 1:14:23Speaker 1: What does that even mean? She won't let me put
- 1:14:25Speaker 1: my own underwear on, let me dress you.
- 1:14:29Speaker 2: I'm gonna think, because my brain needs to think this,
- 1:14:33Speaker 2: that she just maybe lays out fresh underwear for him, Okay,
- 1:14:38Speaker 2: and it's.
- 1:14:38Speaker 1: Not a.
- 1:14:40Speaker 2: Squeezing him in to underwear situation, lifting and folding things.
- 1:14:47Speaker 1: Yeah, like lift up your bomb, I'm slidding them on. Yeah,
- 1:14:51Speaker 1: like you would with like a baby, you're putting pants on,
- 1:14:53Speaker 1: you know.
- 1:14:54Speaker 2: But again to the daughters, I say, give Annabelle all
- 1:14:58Speaker 2: the money. Uh, huh, she deserves it.
- 1:15:01Speaker 1: She's not laying out the underwear.
- 1:15:03Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 1:15:03Speaker 1: No, So talking to Hettie says, I reassured Annabelle that
- 1:15:07Speaker 1: I would never leave her out in the cold with
- 1:15:10Speaker 1: the will. I mean, she gave up her whole life
- 1:15:11Speaker 1: to be here. So I did reassure her when we
- 1:15:14Speaker 1: got home. And I know there's going to be a
- 1:15:16Speaker 1: balancing act with her and my daughter's but it's not
- 1:15:19Speaker 1: a conversation for today. Today we're getting married.
- 1:15:22Speaker 2: Sir, have you looked at yourself in the mirror? You
- 1:15:24Speaker 2: could die at any moment.
- 1:15:26Speaker 1: We're very concerned.
- 1:15:28Speaker 2: So he looks great online, though he's lost a lot
- 1:15:32Speaker 2: of weight. His teeth are still the same.
- 1:15:34Speaker 1: Though, well, yeah, that's going to take some more work. Yeah.
- 1:15:37Speaker 2: His coloring its yeah.
- 1:15:39Speaker 1: So she's getting ready and he comes in, which I'm like,
- 1:15:43Speaker 1: are you not supposed to see whatever if they're not
- 1:15:45Speaker 1: doing it traditionally.
- 1:15:46Speaker 2: Yeah, he comes in.
- 1:15:47Speaker 1: She gets up from getting her hair and makeup done
- 1:15:49Speaker 1: to check his nails for dirt, and he goes, I
- 1:15:53Speaker 1: clipp him right for acaine like that. I think they're
- 1:15:55Speaker 1: all right, vibe and she goes, let me see, let
- 1:15:57Speaker 1: me see, Ellison says, it's so great. You guys are
- 1:16:02Speaker 1: finally here. And they say it's been five years, and
- 1:16:05Speaker 1: Alison goes, I'm so glad y'all are getting married. I
- 1:16:08Speaker 1: apologize for being a brat, which I was like, okay,
- 1:16:13Speaker 1: good good.
- 1:16:14Speaker 2: Who knew this season's redemption arc would be Alison?
- 1:16:18Speaker 1: I know, and I'm talking to he. Allison says, we
- 1:16:20Speaker 1: did have problems at first, but I really like her
- 1:16:23Speaker 1: and she's really great with my kids. I'm glad my
- 1:16:26Speaker 1: dad didn't actually send her back I like he was
- 1:16:29Speaker 1: going to.
- 1:16:30Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, yeah, send her back like she's a package.
- 1:16:33Speaker 1: Yes, send her back.
- 1:16:35Speaker 2: I order from TIMU and I have to return this. Also.
- 1:16:38Speaker 2: I love that one of her requirements is she's a
- 1:16:40Speaker 2: good babysitter for my children.
- 1:16:42Speaker 1: Absolutely my hate.
- 1:16:44Speaker 2: Yeah, so I cannot wait to get rid of all
- 1:16:48Speaker 2: the time.
- 1:16:49Speaker 1: Talking to Annabelle says, I'm really glad everything worked out,
- 1:16:52Speaker 1: especially with Alison. I'm glad we're in a good place.
- 1:16:55Speaker 1: And then we se Annabelle come out in her dress
- 1:16:57Speaker 1: and she says she's excited. I didn't still from the
- 1:17:00Speaker 1: preview to now, don't understand why they did that giant
- 1:17:04Speaker 1: faucet thing on the top of her head. But I
- 1:17:06Speaker 1: guess maybe she wanted to like put her veil in that.
- 1:17:10Speaker 1: But whatever, she looks great, and I can't believe she's
- 1:17:13Speaker 1: like she bought that dress online? Would she say, for
- 1:17:15Speaker 1: like two hundred dollars or something?
- 1:17:16Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it looks good.
- 1:17:19Speaker 1: So she's excited. They all hug her. They say she
- 1:17:22Speaker 1: looks beautiful. And in the car it's Alison and Lindsay
- 1:17:26Speaker 1: of Jeff and lindsay their only friends. And one of
- 1:17:29Speaker 1: them goes, why do you check his nails? And she goes, oh,
- 1:17:33Speaker 1: it's so gross. He has dirt. And they're like, he's
- 1:17:35Speaker 1: a realtor, Like he shouldn't have dirt under his nails.
- 1:17:39Speaker 1: What's he doing?
- 1:17:41Speaker 2: And Annabelle should have said, and you should see his
- 1:17:44Speaker 2: butt crack. It's atrocious.
- 1:17:46Speaker 1: You don't even know what I gotta do to get
- 1:17:48Speaker 1: that thing clean. So Allison's nicely asking her about her family,
- 1:17:54Speaker 1: and she says, no, they're not gonna watch. It's three
- 1:17:57Speaker 1: am there, it's my special day and they're not with me,
- 1:18:01Speaker 1: and so she says she's very emotional talking to She
- 1:18:04Speaker 1: says she misses her mom, her sister, her brother, and
- 1:18:09Speaker 1: her daughter been wondering the whole time.
- 1:18:13Speaker 2: If she has kids the whole freaking time. I turned
- 1:18:18Speaker 2: to my dad, did she say daughter?
- 1:18:20Speaker 1: Daughter?
- 1:18:20Speaker 2: He thought she might have kids, literally asked, like they
- 1:18:24Speaker 2: never existed. She that daughter never mentioned.
- 1:18:28Speaker 1: Once, mom's sister, brother and daughter. Fuck that dad. She's like,
- 1:18:32Speaker 1: I don't know that man. Get out of here. So
- 1:18:35Speaker 1: she says, I know Shay loves me so much, and
- 1:18:38Speaker 1: we've been trying to get me to America for all
- 1:18:41Speaker 1: this time, so I'm so glad to be here, but
- 1:18:43Speaker 1: I can't stop crying. It's our wedding day. And she's
- 1:18:45Speaker 1: like really emotional. You know.
- 1:18:48Speaker 2: I just a couple of things. I would get up
- 1:18:50Speaker 2: at three am. Obvious it's for a wedding. Couldn't they
- 1:18:56Speaker 2: have it at another time? Like, I know they're probably
- 1:18:59Speaker 2: doing it round sunset, but it seems like it could
- 1:19:02Speaker 2: have it a few hours earlier or later to make
- 1:19:06Speaker 2: it a better time, I agree.
- 1:19:08Speaker 1: Or just get up at three I don't know, It's
- 1:19:10Speaker 1: only for like an hour, you know.
- 1:19:11Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 1:19:13Speaker 1: So she says she feels happy, she feels beautiful, and
- 1:19:16Speaker 1: she looks great, and it is a gorgeous day and
- 1:19:18Speaker 1: it seems like a really nice setting for the wedding, right.
- 1:19:22Speaker 2: Yeah, she says he's never felt if it was winter,
- 1:19:26Speaker 2: like if it was a little less brown, low green.
- 1:19:29Speaker 1: It's definitely fall, definitely.
- 1:19:31Speaker 2: But they're they're at a on a time crunch here.
- 1:19:33Speaker 1: Yeah, so they're on a time crunch. And also probably
- 1:19:35Speaker 1: it's like a Wednesday afternoon because it was cheapest. Yeah,
- 1:19:40Speaker 1: he says. Shay said, I never felt so many emotions.
- 1:19:42Speaker 1: You know, Annabel is so different than anyone else I've
- 1:19:45Speaker 1: ever met, and she makes me want to be a
- 1:19:48Speaker 1: better person. She's completely changed my life and my perspective
- 1:19:52Speaker 1: on life.
- 1:19:54Speaker 2: I look how clean my fingernails are the time.
- 1:19:57Speaker 1: Now my buttthole. So I'm sorry. I shouldn't have said that.
- 1:20:02Speaker 2: That's gross.
- 1:20:02Speaker 1: So the officiants, the officiant says, okay, we've gathered your
- 1:20:07Speaker 1: changed you. Yeah. Yeah, the officiant says, you can say
- 1:20:13Speaker 1: your vowels. Why does Jeff say Shay's valves for him?
- 1:20:17Speaker 1: It is not explained. It is not explained, He says,
- 1:20:21Speaker 1: Jeff has my vowels, and Jeff reads them.
- 1:20:25Speaker 2: Why does Shane not know how to read? Or does
- 1:20:30Speaker 2: Shaye think he'd be too emotional? So he wanted I've
- 1:20:34Speaker 2: heard of them handing them to like the officiant to read.
- 1:20:39Speaker 1: Yes, that would make sense.
- 1:20:42Speaker 2: But and then she doesn't say any vows or have
- 1:20:45Speaker 2: someone else read vows for.
- 1:20:47Speaker 1: Her, so it just they did. They cut them out
- 1:20:50Speaker 1: like one sided.
- 1:20:51Speaker 2: I was quite strange. They were beautiful though, very sweet.
- 1:20:55Speaker 1: Because in that morning he had said to her, you
- 1:20:57Speaker 1: gotta work on writing your vowels, and she goes, okay,
- 1:21:00Speaker 1: she goes, you got to let somebody read them too,
- 1:21:02Speaker 1: because you know, sometimes you say like she when you mean.
- 1:21:05Speaker 2: He oh right, yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 1:21:07Speaker 1: They were joking about that, so obviously she wrote something,
- 1:21:11Speaker 1: so they just cut that out. They cut that out,
- 1:21:13Speaker 1: and did she say it or did Lindsay say it?
- 1:21:16Speaker 2: Right? I? And then it is that Lindsay's the friend, yeah, Jeff?
- 1:21:23Speaker 2: Why yeah? Because you wouldn't have wanted Allison, who was
- 1:21:26Speaker 2: also standing up there, to be saying it, because then
- 1:21:29Speaker 2: she's sang the vows to her dad.
- 1:21:31Speaker 1: It was so strange. I wish they just would have said,
- 1:21:34Speaker 1: Shay has asked his best man to read his vowels
- 1:21:38Speaker 1: so that they could come out as he means them,
- 1:21:40Speaker 1: so he won't be too emotional. I whish they just
- 1:21:41Speaker 1: would have blamed it. Yeah, very weird so they do
- 1:21:46Speaker 1: the rings, they get married. Woo, she's emotional. It's cute.
- 1:21:49Speaker 2: I'm sorry, but can you just say like one of
- 1:21:52Speaker 2: his vowels was like, as we get older and our
- 1:21:54Speaker 2: hands start to shake, I'll hold years even tighter or
- 1:21:56Speaker 2: something like that. It was and that was so sweet.
- 1:22:00Speaker 1: But you know, I'm so used to love his blind
- 1:22:01Speaker 1: where we don't say the vowels we just said. They
- 1:22:03Speaker 1: say some nice words and then they get married, which.
- 1:22:05Speaker 2: I know, I usually I wouldn't care, but name like
- 1:22:08Speaker 2: blah blah blah, but this actually touched me because it
- 1:22:11Speaker 2: was very specific.
- 1:22:13Speaker 1: It was specific and it was cute. Yeah, so he said,
- 1:22:17Speaker 1: and it won't be me shaking because I hadn't had
- 1:22:19Speaker 1: a beer today and I got the dtds. So she's emotional.
- 1:22:25Speaker 1: It's cute. And then they joke around. He goes, well,
- 1:22:27Speaker 1: like beside the States by third times the charm, and
- 1:22:30Speaker 1: she goes, okay, what and he goes third time marriage,
- 1:22:34Speaker 1: third times the charm, besides the States bye, and she's
- 1:22:37Speaker 1: like third time a charm Like She's like, huh oh idea.
- 1:22:42Speaker 1: They have the reception, They kind of do the cake shove,
- 1:22:47Speaker 1: but really more her than him. They just do the beating,
- 1:22:50Speaker 1: but not quite the cakes.
- 1:22:51Speaker 2: She didn't like that it was with your hands, your fingers.
- 1:22:54Speaker 2: It didn't have to be.
- 1:22:55Speaker 1: I don't know why he said that you could use forks.
- 1:22:57Speaker 1: I know, yeah, at our wedding we use fororks. Yeah yeah.
- 1:23:02Speaker 1: And then they're like, let's go party in the cab
- 1:23:04Speaker 1: and lake party? What what? No like? And she goes,
- 1:23:09Speaker 1: I know, I said, no party, but it is our wedding.
- 1:23:11Speaker 1: So we see her like dancing on the coffee table
- 1:23:14Speaker 1: and stuff. She had a great time. Who are these
- 1:23:17Speaker 1: two short Indian men that were there? Did you see
- 1:23:20Speaker 1: these two short Indian men not with didn't see any
- 1:23:24Speaker 1: women with them walking around? Who are these guys? Who
- 1:23:28Speaker 1: are they? Who are these friends or do they know?
- 1:23:32Speaker 1: Not explained.
- 1:23:34Speaker 2: I was sized struck by Annabelle having like getting little tipsy.
- 1:23:39Speaker 2: Why couldn't she have had that energy at the lake party?
- 1:23:42Speaker 2: She was grinding up on Allison. They were having a blast.
- 1:23:46Speaker 2: She was on a table.
- 1:23:47Speaker 1: Okay, good for her, but she doesn't need to do
- 1:23:50Speaker 1: that in front of those lake people. I agree, yeah.
- 1:23:55Speaker 1: And then the talking head they said they love each
- 1:23:56Speaker 1: other and then he pulls off his sock and goes,
- 1:23:59Speaker 1: you go to these toenails, babe, forever, and she goes,
- 1:24:02Speaker 1: I will clip your toenails, only yours for life. So
- 1:24:08Speaker 1: that should have been in the valels, I clip your toenails.
- 1:24:10Speaker 2: For life, and everyone just vomits and in a vomit
- 1:24:14Speaker 2: bucket next to each chair.
- 1:24:16Speaker 1: Alison was vomiting about her own dad's figurenails. She's like,
- 1:24:19Speaker 1: that's girls with the man literally nails.
- 1:24:23Speaker 2: Wait until she sees the scene of him in the
- 1:24:25Speaker 2: tub with Animel scrubbing his ass.
- 1:24:27Speaker 1: And the shower. She just gets in it, like gets
- 1:24:29Speaker 1: down there. Okay. So next time on we see Katie
- 1:24:34Speaker 1: getting ready for her wedding day and goes, my brain
- 1:24:37Speaker 1: is like cracks crazy penis inters with as. Her friends
- 1:24:42Speaker 1: are like, that's all fine. If it wasn't your wedding day,
- 1:24:45Speaker 1: you got to stop. Stop that stop.
- 1:24:48Speaker 2: But that's all she's gonna think about now, Like what
- 1:24:50Speaker 2: if when I'm up there, I tell Peas myself from
- 1:24:53Speaker 2: saying penis.
- 1:24:54Speaker 1: Yeah, Josh tells his friend he's unsure about the wedding.
- 1:24:59Speaker 1: Great Debbie with her children are standing in the park
- 1:25:04Speaker 1: and the officiant says, where is Mito and she goes,
- 1:25:08Speaker 1: I don't know. He must be coming. And then she
- 1:25:11Speaker 1: looks and goes, oh my god, are you kidding me?
- 1:25:13Speaker 1: I guarantee you he rides up on a horse or something.
- 1:25:16Speaker 2: I said the same thing. I said. He's either wearing
- 1:25:18Speaker 2: a costume or he's not a horse.
- 1:25:20Speaker 1: Doing something to get all the attention to him. Asha
- 1:25:25Speaker 1: tells Maxwell Rod has acted a fool and he is
- 1:25:29Speaker 1: a volatile and demon demon, and Maxwell says, I'm sick
- 1:25:34Speaker 1: of Rod, and if anyone disrupts anything at the wedding,
- 1:25:38Speaker 1: I will get that person arrested.
- 1:25:40Speaker 2: Wow, okay, that's okay.
- 1:25:42Speaker 1: I don't know you can get arrested for not acting
- 1:25:44Speaker 1: right at a wedding, but okay.
- 1:25:47Speaker 2: If you could. Charlie would have been arrested a long
- 1:25:49Speaker 2: time ago from Elizabeth.
- 1:25:51Speaker 1: And was like, who's Charlie. Yes, oh god, yes, totally
- 1:25:54Speaker 1: arrested Modolva and arrested. It's Thomas and Paula's wedding day.
- 1:26:00Speaker 1: And she's like, I am shaking, I cannot fill my legs.
- 1:26:04Speaker 1: I feel something very scary is waiting for me.
- 1:26:08Speaker 2: Oh my god, it is. And his name is Thomas,
- 1:26:11Speaker 2: and his eyes are too close together, and he is
- 1:26:13Speaker 2: like Gino without a hat and as people are saying,
- 1:26:17Speaker 2: I read it. It's Gino without a hat. Gino is
- 1:26:21Speaker 2: him with hair.
- 1:26:24Speaker 1: He's cute, they look, he's cute of the Gina for sure.
- 1:26:27Speaker 2: Well he's younger, true, yeah, he's just as cheap.
- 1:26:32Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. We see poor rosh Is crying at the
- 1:26:36Speaker 1: rehearsal dinner. They've got them all, poor thing. They're always
- 1:26:39Speaker 1: putting this man in a costume. He's gone a tiny
- 1:26:41Speaker 1: cowboy hat and is some sort of hoedown for the
- 1:26:45Speaker 1: rehearsal dinner. And she's in like a regular cowboy hat
- 1:26:47Speaker 1: that looks cute, and he's in like a stupid one
- 1:26:49Speaker 1: that would be for like a little boy, like what
- 1:26:51Speaker 1: Forrest was wearing in the Philippines. And he is bawling
- 1:26:56Speaker 1: crying and like yes, and her mom is sister are there,
- 1:27:01Speaker 1: and his buddy Chai eat. I already messed it up.
- 1:27:06Speaker 1: Sheat walks off with him, but he's bawling crying, like
- 1:27:10Speaker 1: what happened?
- 1:27:12Speaker 2: I have no idea? And the mom is there, is
- 1:27:14Speaker 2: it say something because the dad or does he just
- 1:27:18Speaker 2: miss his family?
- 1:27:19Speaker 1: Maybe he just misses his family. What does he give
- 1:27:21Speaker 1: a shit about the racist dad? You know? We see
- 1:27:25Speaker 1: Marissa talking to her mom and she goes, oh my god, Mom,
- 1:27:28Speaker 1: all of a sudden, I'm just literally shaking and I
- 1:27:30Speaker 1: can't stop. And it's not because I haven't eaten in
- 1:27:32Speaker 1: four days. It's because I had too much coffee and
- 1:27:34Speaker 1: I don't need eating. And Mom says it's okay to
- 1:27:38Speaker 1: be nurious and sits her down, and she goes, it's
- 1:27:41Speaker 1: a huge risk. I'm terrified in making the wrong decision.
- 1:27:45Speaker 1: You hear her mom going, don't do it.
- 1:27:49Speaker 2: Like, we can go to Mexico, we can leave you
- 1:27:52Speaker 2: drive all night.
- 1:27:53Speaker 1: We'll tell people we're twins. Everybody else.
- 1:27:55Speaker 2: I know people that can put him in a trunk
- 1:27:57Speaker 2: and send him back to where he came from.
- 1:28:00Speaker 1: People who could make your face look just like my face.
- 1:28:02Speaker 1: Let's go, let's go. Uh yeah, and that's it. We
- 1:28:06Speaker 1: don't get Debbie and Medo this week, Thank the Lord.
- 1:28:08Speaker 1: But yeah, I do.
- 1:28:09Speaker 2: I think so nicely feels so good to not have him.
- 1:28:13Speaker 1: I think we're right. I think that next week he's
- 1:28:15Speaker 1: going to ride in on some sort of like.
- 1:28:17Speaker 2: Yeah, like a bike.
- 1:28:18Speaker 1: Hello, it's meadow, and he's going to ride off. Somebody
- 1:28:22Speaker 1: wrote me. A listener wrote me and said that he
- 1:28:24Speaker 1: is trying so hard to be like balky on perfect strangers.
- 1:28:29Speaker 2: Yes, I can see that. Yes, yeah, I'll have to.
- 1:28:32Speaker 1: Tell you something. I think my Kind patches, that my
- 1:28:34Speaker 1: NAD plus kind patches are really working because I'm remembering
- 1:28:37Speaker 1: a lot of things that normally would take me a
- 1:28:39Speaker 1: long time to pull up.
- 1:28:40Speaker 2: Well, tell me the brand, because I bought some cheap
- 1:28:43Speaker 2: o ones and I don't know if they're doing anything,
- 1:28:45Speaker 2: so kind that kind brand is the brand.
- 1:28:49Speaker 1: Yeah, Kind patches, and so I've been really doing very
- 1:28:53Speaker 1: good with putting one every day. The nad ones you're
- 1:28:55Speaker 1: just doing for eight hours. But if I shower just anywhere,
- 1:29:00Speaker 1: it's like a hairless flat part of your body's like
- 1:29:02Speaker 1: stomach is where I do them, and my.
- 1:29:04Speaker 2: Stomach is not flat.
- 1:29:06Speaker 1: But do you know what I mean? Thank you for
- 1:29:07Speaker 1: assuming it's not Harry. Maybe your stomach is Harry. That's
- 1:29:11Speaker 1: between you and the Lord. But that's where I put them.
- 1:29:14Speaker 1: And then they sent me as like a freebie one
- 1:29:17Speaker 1: that for like sleeping. I slapped that bitch on last
- 1:29:21Speaker 1: night so fast. I was like, maybe this will help
- 1:29:24Speaker 1: me sleep, and I'm going to order some because I'm
- 1:29:26Speaker 1: like I kind of either that. I was so freaking tired. Yeah,
- 1:29:29Speaker 1: one of the two. Anyway, I'm going to try this
- 1:29:31Speaker 1: for a month just to see if they give me
- 1:29:32Speaker 1: a little I'm gonna make Day put the kind patches
- 1:29:35Speaker 1: on for his brain because he can't remember anything. He's
- 1:29:37Speaker 1: worse than me, and we're just not old enough to
- 1:29:40Speaker 1: just not remember anything. No, I mean he is, but
- 1:29:44Speaker 1: not me.
- 1:29:45Speaker 2: Yeah, oh, you're a baby. So also, I heard you
- 1:29:49Speaker 2: and Keisha trying to guess my age.
- 1:29:52Speaker 1: I think you guys are both born in nineteen seventy nine.
- 1:29:58Speaker 2: Yes, okay, see you were like seventy five seventy six.
- 1:30:04Speaker 1: I was like seventy six. I was like, maybe inger
- 1:30:06Speaker 1: to seventy six because she just turned fifty. So that
- 1:30:10Speaker 1: makes it is you know, I can't do yes, yes, yeah,
- 1:30:14Speaker 1: so she's seventy six. You guys are younger than she is.
- 1:30:19Speaker 2: Yeah, And I never thought she looks great.
- 1:30:22Speaker 1: I never thought i'd know anybody younger than Ingred. Honestly,
- 1:30:25Speaker 1: I never could imagine I could have a friend any
- 1:30:27Speaker 1: younger than that. She's so young. She and Kisha are
- 1:30:31Speaker 1: killing it. I've been pulling up funny things that come
- 1:30:34Speaker 1: up on reels or tiktoks that are like people doing
- 1:30:37Speaker 1: things together, like mouthing over things, you know, and been
- 1:30:42Speaker 1: saving them to a folder and that says funny things
- 1:30:44Speaker 1: for lie professed. Oh okay, I'm gonna make you and
- 1:30:48Speaker 1: Kisha do with me.
- 1:30:49Speaker 2: Oh okay, I've never done those things. I've never been
- 1:30:52Speaker 2: one of those young people who do things like TikTok trends.
- 1:30:55Speaker 2: But I'm maybe.
- 1:30:56Speaker 1: Oh these these are definitely trends that are like from
- 1:30:58Speaker 1: four years ago.
- 1:30:59Speaker 2: They're gonna be from four exactly.
- 1:31:01Speaker 1: But I've been saving them in a little folder so
- 1:31:03Speaker 1: when we get there, we can do some content together.
- 1:31:06Speaker 2: Oh that's so exciting.
- 1:31:08Speaker 1: I know, it's so excited. Sorry, guys, tickets are sold
- 1:31:11Speaker 1: out for Librafest.
- 1:31:13Speaker 2: Sorry to anyway, but they're doing our content while you're
- 1:31:16Speaker 2: sitting at home.
- 1:31:17Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:31:18Speaker 2: Uh.
- 1:31:18Speaker 1: There is a Facebook group on my Pink Shade Facebook,
- 1:31:21Speaker 1: as well as Amy Archers, which is Little a Little
- 1:31:24Speaker 1: Miss Recaps backdoor Friends. Both of those have penned at
- 1:31:28Speaker 1: the top a Facebook group. If you have a ticket
- 1:31:31Speaker 1: for Librafest and you can't use it, if you want
- 1:31:33Speaker 1: to pass it along to a bunkie or a backdoor friend,
- 1:31:37Speaker 1: we would appreciate it. They would appreciate it. And that's
- 1:31:41Speaker 1: all for this week. Today is Tuesday, so tomorrow you're
- 1:31:44Speaker 1: going to have your Welcome to Plastle. Rewatch Out and
- 1:31:46Speaker 1: Love Is Find Episodes nine and ten. It's really good.
- 1:31:50Speaker 2: It's just really really okay, so
- 1:31:52Speaker 1: Good, Okay, thanks guys, Bye bye,