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Scary Hour & Micro Weddings · On Air with Ryan Seacrest

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  Speaker 1: From Hollywood. See you, thank you for listening to us.
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  Speaker 1: Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
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  Speaker 2: You're on a kiss Seacrest with you grabbing Emma one
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  Speaker 2: eight five to one two seven, Emma, good morning. So
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  Speaker 2: you had a humiliating moment with your boyfriend's parents and
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  Speaker 2: now yes, and now you want to win them over,
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  Speaker 2: but you're dreading it. What happened.
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  Speaker 3: It happened over Halloween. My boyfriend had a Halloween party
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  Speaker 3: and I was under the impression that it was just
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  Speaker 3: for our friends, but he also invited his family unbeknownst
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  Speaker 3: to me, and I showed up in a very revealing
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  Speaker 3: sexy nurse costume, and I will never forget the look
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  Speaker 3: on his family's faces when.
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  Speaker 4: I walked in the door, and so kind of, well
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  Speaker 4: most kind of.
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  Speaker 3: Since then, I've been avoiding them as much as I can.
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  Speaker 3: I successfully dodged not seeing them over the holidays, and
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  Speaker 3: my boyfriend knows I'm embarrassed. He doesn't know I'm actively
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  Speaker 3: avoiding his family. But it's his birthday at the end
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  Speaker 3: of the month, and we're doing a dinner with his family,
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  Speaker 3: and I just my time has come to face them again,
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  Speaker 3: and I just don't know.
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  Speaker 4: What to do if I mentioned it, I just play cool.
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  Speaker 3: Oh I am just.
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  Speaker 4: So.
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  Speaker 2: First of all, space is good, gap in time is good.
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  Speaker 2: Memories wane, they soften, so that's good news. You can't
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  Speaker 2: kick the can inevitably forever. And here's the thing. You
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  Speaker 2: don't acknowledge it. If it comes up, you own it.
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  Speaker 2: That's simple.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I think that's a good plan.
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  Speaker 3: And I really didn't think of them.
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  Speaker 5: Not something super embarrassing happened to me early on in
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  Speaker 5: the years with Michael and I and his whole family
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  Speaker 5: not sexy nurse outfit. But he sent a picture of
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  Speaker 5: him at the Dodger game and said my view. I
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  Speaker 5: didn't realize it was a group text. This is years
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  Speaker 5: ago before you can see names in group texts. And
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  Speaker 5: so then I took a picture of me in the
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  Speaker 5: bathroom because I'd just gone out of the shower in
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  Speaker 5: my towel selfie and said my view, and I sent
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  Speaker 5: it back to his entire family. And this is like
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  Speaker 5: maybe like four months into us dating and so man,
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  Speaker 5: and then.
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  Speaker 1: That is it.
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  Speaker 5: It just became a joke, and it just became like, oh,
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  Speaker 5: we're gonna get more selfies, so.
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  Speaker 1: Just own it.
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  Speaker 2: So either it doesn't come up, and when it comes up,
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  Speaker 2: you can't be bothered by it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, own it.
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  Speaker 2: That's good advice, Sisney, a great one and it's a
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  Speaker 2: nice breaker.
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  Speaker 1: A good luck with the meeting.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, true, thank you so much.
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  Speaker 2: Take care, bye bye. The feeling of being just mortified
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  Speaker 2: in that first moment of every organ in your body stops, right,
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  Speaker 2: blood stops, it freezes, everything stops.
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  Speaker 1: You suffocate. You're like reverse reverse reverse, can't.
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  Speaker 2: Reverse you do? Oh wow, I'm trying to think of
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  Speaker 2: a story like that.
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  Speaker 1: I have I don't. I'm sorry, all right.
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  Speaker 2: We gotta take a break one or two point seven
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  Speaker 2: kiss FM. If you were in the valley recently and
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  Speaker 2: you were at Sportsman's Lodge, you better watch your back
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  Speaker 2: because Systey's coming after you.
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  Speaker 1: You are a thief. This happens to all of us.
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  Speaker 2: I know you're a thief. Someone blatantly stole your parking space.
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  Speaker 1: What happened?
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  Speaker 2: So this.
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  Speaker 5: If you've been to the shops at Sportsman's Lodge, you
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  Speaker 5: know the parking there is wild, and especially during peak
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  Speaker 5: hours like lunchtime or like when people get off work. Honestly,
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  Speaker 5: anytime of the day, it's crazy. So I was waiting
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  Speaker 5: for a spot. And you know how I like to.
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  Speaker 1: Back my car in, right, I mean you are, yes,
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  Speaker 1: I love that.
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  Speaker 5: When I back it in, then when I'm ready to leave,
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  Speaker 5: I just leave. I don't have to wait and look
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  Speaker 5: for cars. So I went to pull forward. I was
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  Speaker 5: waiting for the spot forever, and then they leave, and
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  Speaker 5: then I will go to pull forward and to reverse
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  Speaker 5: it in, and then someone comes from behind and just
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  Speaker 5: swoops right in.
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  Speaker 1: As if they did not see me, because I did
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  Speaker 1: not pass it. I was going forward to reverse into it.
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  Speaker 6: I think you can't reverse into spots when you're out
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  Speaker 6: in the wild.
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  Speaker 1: Wait out in the wild.
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  Speaker 7: Here we get here so early, there's nobody really around.
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  Speaker 7: You can do your thing. But like when there's other
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  Speaker 7: people around, you can't do it.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I mean, I'm with Tony that you're running
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  Speaker 2: a risk by doing this whole three point turnaround. Keep
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  Speaker 2: backing it in where people are confused with what you're doing.
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  Speaker 2: Like if I were to see you doing the back end,
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  Speaker 2: I would think, oh, she's going the other way. I'm
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  Speaker 2: taking the spot. So when you do this your efficiency
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  Speaker 2: parking model, you saw me aware that you may be
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  Speaker 2: sending the wrong signal.
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  Speaker 1: They definitely saw me, they knew that I was waiting.
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  Speaker 1: They were just a jerk. And so did you see
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  Speaker 1: a lot at your window down? What did you do?
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  Speaker 5: I did not, Huh. I was frustrated, but it was
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  Speaker 5: just one of those things, and I was like, Okay,
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  Speaker 5: I'm not going to let this ruin my day because
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  Speaker 5: otherwise I'm just going to be mean to everybody.
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  Speaker 6: I've been seeing a lot of this lately.
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  Speaker 7: We were pulling out of a spot and there was
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  Speaker 7: a car like with their blinker to take our spot,
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  Speaker 7: and another car came from the other side of the
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  Speaker 7: street and went into it before the other car that
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  Speaker 7: was waiting.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, at least every time I'm there someone's fighting. Like
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  Speaker 5: there's like people honking or yelling at each other. Because
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  Speaker 5: this happens often, especially there.
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  Speaker 2: Don't be one of those people. Less it affect you,
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  Speaker 2: and don't be almost feel that cuts off the park. Also,
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  Speaker 2: stop with the three point turnaround back and that's really hard, honestly.
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  Speaker 2: How don't two point seven Kiss FM appreciate you checking
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  Speaker 2: in with us as your regular routine in the morning.
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  Speaker 1: If you just listen to us for the first time.
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  Speaker 2: Hi, I'm Ryan Sisney, Tanya, Sophia our intern by the way, Sophia,
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  Speaker 2: our intern who lives with other people. We've all done this,
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  Speaker 2: We've all had roommates. I had a plethora roommates back
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  Speaker 2: in the day coming through the system here when I
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  Speaker 2: first moved out to LA. It's just like a write
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  Speaker 2: a passage you got to share when you first get here.
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  Speaker 4: Yep.
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  Speaker 2: And some weird stuff, some strange things happen when you
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  Speaker 2: live with people.
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  Speaker 1: It's amazing. Yeah, people can be unique. Yeah they could
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  Speaker 1: be unique.
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  Speaker 2: Feel what's the latest problem, and your roommate does listen,
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  Speaker 2: so high roommate can go ahead.
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  Speaker 8: So thankfully. I roommates with my two best friends, and
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  Speaker 8: they recently came to me and were like, we want
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  Speaker 8: to buy an espresso machine. And espresso machines are like
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  Speaker 8: three hundred dollars off the bat, and they're like, okay,
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  Speaker 8: we can just buy it and then we'll all just
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  Speaker 8: split the cost and use it and have like a.
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  Speaker 1: Bar in our apartment.
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  Speaker 8: The only issue is is that I don't drink coffee
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  Speaker 8: like that. And even if I was to get into coffee,
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  Speaker 8: I feel like I would start off with maybe like
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  Speaker 8: a cold brew from the grocery store.
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  Speaker 1: So if we were to split the cost.
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  Speaker 8: Like, I don't want to be pitching in that much money,
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  Speaker 8: even though I don't drink the coffee.
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  Speaker 2: Right, and they expect you to pitch in for it
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  Speaker 2: as a non coffee advocate.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, they do.
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  Speaker 8: And I've told them like, hey, I don't really you know,
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  Speaker 8: drink coffee. I'm more of a tea person. And they're like, oh, well,
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  Speaker 8: there's three of us, so we'll I'll just split it equally.
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  Speaker 2: That's all you should never should never to your roommates.
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  Speaker 2: Never live with just a tea person. That's just a bag.
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  Speaker 2: I would warn you about that before you even got
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  Speaker 2: started on this path. I think it's totally fair that
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  Speaker 2: you don't pay for it and you don't use it,
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  Speaker 2: like you just need to make sure you don't borrow
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  Speaker 2: it or use it every once in a while. And
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  Speaker 2: if they want to espresso machine, then they need to go.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, they need to split it, just the two of them.
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  Speaker 8: But then I'm kind of nervous because what if I
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  Speaker 8: want to try the espresso one day?
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, you could probably get some tea pods for it, right,
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  Speaker 7: But I feel like, for me.
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  Speaker 1: You have to pay for it. So you got to
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  Speaker 1: decide what you want to do. I'd rather not pay
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  Speaker 1: for it, not use it. Yeah that's true. I'll just
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  Speaker 1: buy my coffee from the store if I get it,
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  Speaker 1: and then it's going to add up to what the
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  Speaker 1: costs would have been for you to just hapause.
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  Speaker 2: You gotta you gotta understand these things. You bring an
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  Speaker 2: espresso machine into your life, where do you put it?
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  Speaker 2: Counter space? Then when you guys all break up and
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  Speaker 2: split up, who gets it?
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  Speaker 8: Yeah?
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  Speaker 5: Well, having roommates, so they're just never gonna have anything,
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  Speaker 5: they won't have a couch, they won't have a coffee table.
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  Speaker 2: To your remates to be aware, she's only a tea drinker. Really,
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  Speaker 2: here we go kiss FM. So your quote of the
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  Speaker 2: day in just a second. But this is interesting. If
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  Speaker 2: you're not having a great day and you just feel
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  Speaker 2: like you may not get through it already, scientists say
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  Speaker 2: you should do this instantly.
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  Speaker 1: It will improve your mood.
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  Speaker 2: And that is take a photo of ordinary moments like
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  Speaker 2: making your coffee or feeding your pet. Scientists say it's
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  Speaker 2: called mindful photography. It helps you appreciate the moment that
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  Speaker 2: we are in, leading to improve health, happiness, and clarity.
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  Speaker 2: So I guess it's the simple things in life that
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  Speaker 2: bring you pleasure. You need to be reminded of those
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  Speaker 2: with imagery to give you that feeling.
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  Speaker 1: Again, I will tell you it works. It works.
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  Speaker 2: Remember the steak I had Thursday night last week? Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I looked at that photo all weekend.
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  Speaker 1: I did. I looked at all week and it actually
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  Speaker 1: made me feel better. I know what you mean. Though.
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  Speaker 5: Sometimes I take the mixtures of ASA's hair like and
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  Speaker 5: I do like a new hairstyle on her, and then
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  Speaker 5: when I go back to look at it, it makes
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  Speaker 5: me happy.
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  Speaker 1: Here's today's quote.
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  Speaker 2: Even if you don't have all the things you want,
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  Speaker 2: to be grateful for the things you don't have now.
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  Speaker 1: You don't want, oh preach.
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  Speaker 2: You're on Kiss FM one of two point seventy Los
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  Speaker 2: Angeles weddings.
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  Speaker 1: Not at the top of my list. Not at the
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  Speaker 1: top of my list, you do say the top of
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  Speaker 1: a lot of goals lists.
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  Speaker 2: A lot of mileage out of going to a wedding. Recently,
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  Speaker 2: Kanya's Oh.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm coming up on a year on that crazy.
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  Speaker 2: Last wedding I attended. Last wedding I thought about attending.
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  Speaker 2: But now they're saying that the micro wedding is a
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  Speaker 2: popular version of the wedding. What is the micro wedding
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  Speaker 2: and why is it so popular?
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  Speaker 5: So this was a trend that kind of blew up
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  Speaker 5: during the COVID years because people were forced to have
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  Speaker 5: small gatherings for weddings, and so it was very small, intimate,
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  Speaker 5: maybe twenty five to fifty people that would be considered
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  Speaker 5: a micro wedding. And they're saying they're making a comeback
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  Speaker 5: for this year's specif Nickleen twenty twenty six, I feel
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  Speaker 5: like if you did get married, or when you get married, Ryan,
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  Speaker 5: you might go to micro wedding route.
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  Speaker 9: Uh.
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  Speaker 2: Look, I mean you've heard me preach about weddings. I
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  Speaker 2: have nothing against them. They just haven't been at the
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  Speaker 2: top of my priority list recently. But maybe if that
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  Speaker 2: changes with time that goes by.
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  Speaker 1: Right. Yeah, No, But.
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  Speaker 2: If if I were to get into this whole thing
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  Speaker 2: of a wedding, I would definitely do it quietly alone.
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  Speaker 2: I mean maybe with my partner, but no big group
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  Speaker 2: gathering of friends and family and having to deal with
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  Speaker 2: an invitation list. So if you're unmarried, is it at
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  Speaker 2: the top of a list of yours?
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  Speaker 1: Not the top? No, she's so young.
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  Speaker 2: So we'll both youth, both young. Yeah on my list
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  Speaker 2: either what's at the top of your list?
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  Speaker 8: Probably getting through school hopefully, Yeah, your career.
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  Speaker 1: There time to micro wed yourself.
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  Speaker 5: Well, they're saying, these weddings are ye more personal, they're
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  Speaker 5: easy to budget for, and let's face it, I feel
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  Speaker 5: like everyone is broke these days. So it's just comes
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  Speaker 5: down to budgeting for these couples. And so they're like,
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  Speaker 5: are we going to spend hundreds and the thousands of
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  Speaker 5: dollars for a big, giant wedding that ends up becoming
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  Speaker 5: more of like a show or do we have something
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  Speaker 5: more intimate and smaller and you save more.
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  Speaker 4: I don't.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know why I'm so clear on weddings, having
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  Speaker 2: never had one, but I'm very clear on this.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know he was is more less is more?
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  Speaker 1: O two point seven gis FM.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, let's see this is called the scary hour. A
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  Speaker 2: lot of people have been bringing this up lately, the
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  Speaker 2: scary hour. Do you even know what it is? Do
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  Speaker 2: you have one to eat Disney things? We need a
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  Speaker 2: scary hour every day?
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  Speaker 1: What is it?
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  Speaker 5: So it's basically an hour that you set aside for
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  Speaker 5: all the stress and stressful tasks that you have on
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  Speaker 5: your to do list or in your life or whatever
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  Speaker 5: you have to get done, because I know for me,
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  Speaker 5: I kind of just write stuff down on my to
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  Speaker 5: do list, okay, like scheduled donsisappointment, call the insurance and
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  Speaker 5: fix whatever I need to fix with that, and this
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  Speaker 5: for the kids and whatever.
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  Speaker 1: Right, it's endless.
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  Speaker 5: But maybe and I feel like sometimes you get a
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  Speaker 5: few things done, but you don't ever like get through
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  Speaker 5: the list because because it's just it's overwhelming. So what
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  Speaker 5: you should do is set aside an hour, maybe it's
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  Speaker 5: once a week, so you can start small, and you legit
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  Speaker 5: put a timer and you're like, this is the hour
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  Speaker 5: I'm getting everything done. And then you commit to that
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  Speaker 5: one hour, no interruptions. And they say it really is
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  Speaker 5: like a stress reliever and it helps you so much.
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  Speaker 1: It's all over TikTok. It's gone viral. So I'm kind
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  Speaker 1: of into this. So scary are because it's the scary task,
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  Speaker 1: the difficult test, just like that exactly. Yes, I like
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  Speaker 1: it too.
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  Speaker 2: I think that the problem I have this problem, actually,
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  Speaker 2: I have this problem with things that are incoming to me,
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  Speaker 2: like a lot of work, things that are incoming.
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  Speaker 1: On all over the place.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I just want to say, can you just send
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  Speaker 2: them all to me at four? Like everything that needs
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  Speaker 2: to answer, Just send them all at once? Yeah, because
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  Speaker 2: you get scattered in sidetracked and does save more time.
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  Speaker 2: I don't the name of it, but I like the
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  Speaker 2: idea of it.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, the name is misleading, but I get it.
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  Speaker 2: Let's call the productive period. Do you know the production
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  Speaker 2: rate to make it happen?
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  Speaker 1: Get it done? Hour? All right? Ryan Rose is coming out.
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  Speaker 1: It's time.
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  Speaker 2: For Ryan's roses on Kiss FM. Thanks for waiting. If
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  Speaker 2: you just got here, I'm gonna jump into it. Amy says,
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  Speaker 2: my husband's trying to get sober. I'm really proud of him.
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  Speaker 2: As part of the making Amend's process. He confessed to
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  Speaker 2: a drunken one night stand earlier this year. It destroyed
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  Speaker 2: my trust in him, even though I want to be supportive.
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  Speaker 2: Seeing who he sends the roses to would help rebuild
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  Speaker 2: that trust.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, let's get to.
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  Speaker 5: Amy.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, Amy. Thank you for reaching out.
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  Speaker 2: Now we acknowledge the level of complexity here because you've
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  Speaker 2: got your husband doing a great thing while he's getting
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  Speaker 2: sober and going back and as you said, making amends
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  Speaker 2: and being truthful. The problem is the truth that he
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  Speaker 2: had to confess is a big violation in your trust
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  Speaker 2: in your relationship.
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  Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, that's right.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, look, I don't need to know much about
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  Speaker 2: the one night stand. I don't need to know anything
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  Speaker 2: about that. I think My question here is this is
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  Speaker 2: really simple. I don't know why are we calling him?
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  Speaker 2: Because if you already know he had the affair, what
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  Speaker 2: are we asking him about?
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  Speaker 4: Okay, well, okay, so I guess you know. My husband's
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  Speaker 4: been sober for about six months, and a few weeks
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  Speaker 4: ago he set me down confessed to be one night
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  Speaker 4: stand that he had while he was drinking, and it
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  Speaker 4: happened earlier this year, like before he got sober, but
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  Speaker 4: of course, like hearing it now completely shattered me. So
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  Speaker 4: I am trying to support him and I want to
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  Speaker 4: believe this new version of him, But ever since that confession,
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  Speaker 4: my trust has been barely holding together. He swears he
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  Speaker 4: is committed to us and to his sobriety, but I
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  Speaker 4: can't get past this fear that like, there's just more
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  Speaker 4: I don't know. So for me, sending the roses is
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  Speaker 4: less about catching him in something new and more about
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  Speaker 4: just seeing where his heart is right now, if he
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  Speaker 4: is fully present in his marriage and I need to
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  Speaker 4: hear it. I mean I need to hear it, and
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  Speaker 4: I need something to help me believe him again.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, let's just say that, Dan, Let's make the call.
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: Let's get to the bottom of this next for you.
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, thank you, thank you. Hold on one second.
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: It is Ryan's roses. I feel like if this goes well,
• 15:43
  Speaker 2: she makes the choice to forgive him, to move on,
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: and let's go right well, Stein kiss a time for
• 15:48
  Speaker 2: the call on Ryan's roses. If you just arrived, Amy's
• 15:52
  Speaker 2: on the phone. Good news is her husband's getting sober.
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: As part of the process, he's got to go back
• 15:58
  Speaker 2: and confess things. He told her the truth about a
• 16:00
  Speaker 2: one night stand earlier this year. I guess she wants
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: the peace of mind that this is the only thing.
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: This is it that he did confess everything. This call
• 16:11
  Speaker 2: will seal hopefully that peace of mind if it goes well.
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: So Amy, I guess my question is if if you
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: find out that he sends these roses to you, and
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: you have no more real doubt here because he's already
• 16:21
  Speaker 2: confessed that one night stand, have you made the choice.
• 16:24
  Speaker 2: Are you going to make the choice to forgive and
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: move on and be with him?
• 16:29
  Speaker 4: I mean, that's my hope. I think it will help
• 16:35
  Speaker 4: me understand that I can move forward and continue making
• 16:40
  Speaker 4: that choice. Does that make sense?
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 16:43
  Speaker 5: Amy, When you say earlier this year, you mean like
• 16:45
  Speaker 5: last year?
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: Technically, right?
• 16:48
  Speaker 4: Yeah?
• 16:49
  Speaker 5: I was just like it wasn't day, it wasn't days ago,
• 16:51
  Speaker 5: it was like early last year.
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: Got it? Got Yeah. So he's been sitting with us
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: for a while and he finally just told.
• 16:57
  Speaker 10: You that's right.
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: M Well, we're going to dial him now. Be very
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: very quiet, Okay, I want to find out what he says.
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: I need you to say, Ryan, you have my permission
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: to call, and then your husband's name.
• 17:09
  Speaker 4: Go ahead, okay, Ryan, you have my permission to call.
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: All right, what's the name of the person he had
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: the affair with?
• 17:21
  Speaker 4: A uh kylo?
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: Okay, here we go. Be very quiet. Good luck. We
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: wish you well. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Nate please?
• 17:43
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• 17:45
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  Speaker 11: Oh really okay, like but but seriously like because it
• 18:14
  Speaker 11: kind of sounds weird, but like that would actually be
• 18:17
  Speaker 11: kind of perfect amazing.
• 18:20
  Speaker 5: So we can start with the note. And who would
• 18:24
  Speaker 5: you like to send these flowers to?
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: What's your name?
• 18:27
  Speaker 11: I mean, you're like, you're not going to rip me off, right,
• 18:30
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• 18:33
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• 18:39
  Speaker 11: Okay, cool, No, all right, then I'll send them to Amy,
• 18:44
  Speaker 11: my wife.
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: Great, And what would you like to put on the card?
• 18:50
  Speaker 12: Well, jeez, like, I'm I'm not really good at like
• 18:55
  Speaker 12: romantic notes, and what I really can you can you
• 18:57
  Speaker 12: kind of write.
• 18:58
  Speaker 5: Something I can't, But it would be so much better
• 19:01
  Speaker 5: if it's coming from you, Like, what what do you
• 19:04
  Speaker 5: love about her?
• 19:06
  Speaker 4: Well?
• 19:07
  Speaker 11: I mean she's like everything to me.
• 19:09
  Speaker 12: I mean I completely I do not deserve her, honestly,
• 19:14
  Speaker 12: I'm a bit of a mess and I'm working on it,
• 19:17
  Speaker 12: but she's just a complete angel.
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: I've put her.
• 19:20
  Speaker 11: Through a lot and I don't know.
• 19:23
  Speaker 4: I'm not going to do that anymore.
• 19:27
  Speaker 5: What Okay, what if we wrote something like to my angel,
• 19:33
  Speaker 5: I don't deserve you.
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: Love Nate?
• 19:37
  Speaker 4: Yeah?
• 19:38
  Speaker 11: All right, Yeah that's good if that works.
• 19:40
  Speaker 4: Thank you.
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, Nate, your voice is being broadcast on the
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: radio and we've got your wife on the line.
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: Thank you so much for staying on with us.
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: We just wanted to connect you guys because I know
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: that you're working on some personal things here, including your relationship,
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: and I think your wife may have a thought or
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: to our message for you.
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: Amy. Would you like to say anything to Nate?
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: What?
• 20:06
  Speaker 4: Amy? Yeah? Hey, maybe we shouldn't have done this, but
• 20:12
  Speaker 4: I just need to know where your heart was. Like
• 20:15
  Speaker 4: that one night stand story really rocked me.
• 20:21
  Speaker 11: Oh my god.
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: All right, I know, I know.
• 20:25
  Speaker 4: All right, I know you're putting in the work, and
• 20:29
  Speaker 4: I just really want to trust you again, Amy, Amy, Right.
• 20:35
  Speaker 11: I know, I know, and I'll do I'll do whatever
• 20:39
  Speaker 11: it whatever it takes. I love you, you know, I
• 20:43
  Speaker 11: love you so much, and I'm so sorry.
• 20:45
  Speaker 12: I already told you.
• 20:46
  Speaker 4: You know, you have to believe.
• 20:47
  Speaker 11: I'm so sorry.
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: So Amy, we are going to get out of your
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: business here. I think we can go from the one
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: night stand? Was just the one night stand? It sounds
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: that way, And what's your Are you going to take
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: the path of forgiveness?
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 21:11
  Speaker 4: I don't. I don't know, but just did help list Okay, okay, definitely.
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: Help glad to thank you, Luck Journey.
• 21:20
  Speaker 11: I don't even remember it. I'm sorry, I'm really sorry.
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: Good luck, thank you both, and good luck Amy, good luck,
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: Nate appreciate that I didn't that go well? Yes, okay, yes,
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: I think so he's working on it. I was like,
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: she's getting there.
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: Le's kiss Out on air with Ryan Seacrest.
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: Say in the world is small, and here is a
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: case of that on Kiss FM. Have you ever gotten
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: information that you stumbled upon and you feel like you
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: have to share it, but it's going to ruin people's lives.
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: That's the situation right here. Monica and Echo Park Monica,
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: good morning, good morning.
• 22:08
  Speaker 10: It's crazy. I was on a flight recently and I
• 22:12
  Speaker 10: just started, you know, talking to the person next to me,
• 22:15
  Speaker 10: and it turns out it was a super, super small world,
• 22:20
  Speaker 10: that she used to be married to my best friends
• 22:26
  Speaker 10: current fiance.
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: And what did she have to say about this fiance?
• 22:33
  Speaker 10: He did not she had awful things to say about him,
• 22:38
  Speaker 10: but she said he's a total psycho. Oh, and that
• 22:44
  Speaker 10: he's awful, that she's psyched, that she not married.
• 22:48
  Speaker 13: Him anymore, and like, I don't know what to do now, Like,
• 22:54
  Speaker 13: on one hand, his ex wife is going to have
• 22:59
  Speaker 13: bad things to say about him, obviously, Like that's normal, right, sure,
• 23:04
  Speaker 13: And I'm sure he has bad things to say about
• 23:07
  Speaker 13: her too, But.
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: Do you know how well do you know him? Your
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: sister's about to marry him, how well do you know him?
• 23:17
  Speaker 10: I mean, I've met him and he seems great, and
• 23:23
  Speaker 10: she's always said like everybody loves him, And.
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: I don't know, like did she know that married before?
• 23:34
  Speaker 10: Yes, she knew that. She knew he was married before,
• 23:38
  Speaker 10: but like she his ex wife has said horrible things
• 23:42
  Speaker 10: about him, and I just I don't know what to do.
• 23:45
  Speaker 10: Should I tell my friend or not? Because I don't
• 23:48
  Speaker 10: want to. I want to save her if it's going
• 23:51
  Speaker 10: to be a disastrous marriage.
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: Right, you need to tell her what you need to
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: tell her? There's no absolutely can you imagine and if
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: you didn't say these things sort and she found out
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: that you kind of had a warning episode, a warning sign,
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: and you didn't share that with her, and things go
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: bad with this guy. That's gonna be a very big
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: issue with your friendship. So my guidance is, there's a
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: reason you found out this information. There's a reason you
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: sat beside this woman. You've got to share it.
• 24:20
  Speaker 10: Okay, what do I say?
• 24:22
  Speaker 14: Like, how do I?
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: Oh, my god, that's up to you. I can't. We
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: can't tell you what to say, but you got to
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: share it in good luck.
• 24:27
  Speaker 10: I don't know, Okay, all right, all right, thank you.
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: Thanks Monica, you got it. That happened for a reason.
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: The universe put them together. She's got to share the information.
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: You can share it.
• 24:38
  Speaker 6: In a way that's not like I believe this woman.
• 24:40
  Speaker 6: You can share in a way like.
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, correct, But.
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: To not say would be a problem. Yes, well it
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: is one or two point seven kiss FM Ryan seacrets
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: sis any Tanya Jordan has stepped into the main studio
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: from the phone room. Just quick morning the on Jordan
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: moved Burbank Lancaster back to Burbank Burrows High Studied Communications
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: and here she is at Kiss FM. It feels like
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: the right move, right after all that studying feels like
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: the right move. So I don't know what it is
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: that excites ciciney Tani and I so much about you
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: going out to clubs and meeting strangers, but we're into it. Yeah,
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: so you went to No Vacancy. You saw a guy.
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: He was cute in that light, and you walked up
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: and you got his number, and you guys traded whatever,
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: and then you went out.
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: And then I appreciate your honesty.
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: Then you realized that what you saw in the club
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: was not what you saw in the wild in real life.
• 25:41
  Speaker 14: Call thatgle so real, guys, it's not only beer goggles.
• 25:47
  Speaker 14: It's dim lighting club like Casa Vega lighting club lighting.
• 25:53
  Speaker 14: Don't let it fool you, but it did.
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: But what I was impressed with, Jordan was that you noticed,
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: you reacted internally, but you still went out and hung out,
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: and you were a nice, generous person.
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: You didn't just sort of like blow him off.
• 26:09
  Speaker 9: Right, Yeah, he was a nice guy. He was a
• 26:12
  Speaker 9: nice guy, but not so cute, not so cute.
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: So still not so cute. Did you go on the
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: second date, not.
• 26:18
  Speaker 9: The second date, but the first date it was still great. Yeah,
• 26:23
  Speaker 9: there was like a little bit of a twist this
• 26:24
  Speaker 9: past weekend. Uh, just a little bit of a shocker.
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: Now I'm confused.
• 26:30
  Speaker 9: I might need some help figuring out what the next
• 26:32
  Speaker 9: step is if I should.
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: God, I'm here to we are what's the twist? The
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: chakra the curve at your service?
• 26:39
  Speaker 9: Yeah, I well, I went to No Vacancy again with
• 26:41
  Speaker 9: my friend. I don't know what it is about that club,
• 26:43
  Speaker 9: I love it, But yeah, we went out again. My
• 26:47
  Speaker 9: friend and I went our separate ways for a little bit,
• 26:49
  Speaker 9: and then he came back to me and said, oh,
• 26:51
  Speaker 9: I think I saw the guy you went on a
• 26:53
  Speaker 9: date with, But he was with another girl, and we
• 26:57
  Speaker 9: had already gone on our first date. And we've been
• 27:00
  Speaker 9: talking here and there, just checking in on each other.
• 27:04
  Speaker 9: Very nice, very civil.
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: We were.
• 27:06
  Speaker 9: I was gonna prepare to ask him if he wanted
• 27:08
  Speaker 9: to hang out again, because even though he wasn't the
• 27:11
  Speaker 9: cutest guy, I really think he was a gentleman and
• 27:15
  Speaker 9: he treated me right.
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: So I was like, you know, I can.
• 27:18
  Speaker 9: Get past the little the looks and you know, give
• 27:22
  Speaker 9: him another shot. But then I saw that and I
• 27:25
  Speaker 9: wasn't really hurt by it. But I'm just like, I
• 27:29
  Speaker 9: don't know, I don't know what the thoughts are like.
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: Hold on, The thoughts are easy on this.
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: You don't think he's hot or cute, and he's seeing
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: other people and right now, and so I don't think
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: you need to be so kind and generous.
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: Just move on. Such a weird thing.
• 27:46
  Speaker 9: I'm such a nice person and I'm always down to
• 27:48
  Speaker 9: get feels like chances.
• 27:50
  Speaker 5: What was he doing with this girl? Were they like
• 27:52
  Speaker 5: kissing or no? No, I wouldn't answer that. They're really
• 27:56
  Speaker 5: close and they were by the bar.
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: Okay, But I think just to get there, he's a nice,
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: gentleman guy. He should be a wing guy for you,
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: like he doesn't.
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: He's a nice guy. You got to like shift him.
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: In a different category and be a wing guy, yes,
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: because you don't know what you're talking about.
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: What do you want a wing guy?
• 28:15
  Speaker 6: You want a wing woman, not a wing guy.
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: Guy's gonna repel other men?
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: Well she can't. She got to put him into a
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: different category. I think that city. Move on, Yeah, move on.
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: All these signs are not right. You don't think he
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: is that pretty, and you've now found out that he's
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: seeing a bunch of other people, or at least one.
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: This is time to move on. Now, when you go
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: back to no Vacancy, you might see him again and
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: again and again. So how will you handle that?
• 28:43
  Speaker 4: You know?
• 28:43
  Speaker 9: That's when I got to put all my big girl's
• 28:45
  Speaker 9: shoes and kind of just like show him that he
• 28:48
  Speaker 9: missed out.
• 28:49
  Speaker 14: Yeah, oh my gosh, I love it when we unpacked
• 28:55
  Speaker 14: the big girl's shoes.
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: That's that's fun.
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: We haven't put big girls shoes on in a long
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: time on this show. All right, Well, I think I
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: don't feel so bad about all of this, but I
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: do like to me the key takeaway was you took charge,
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: you went up to him, you gave him the number.
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: It's not perfect. Fine, we move on. Next. What night
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: was it a Friday? Saturday? Tuesday? The date was a Saturday?
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: The night out was? What night? Is no vacancy hot?
• 29:22
  Speaker 4: Oh?
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: Fridays for sure?
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: Friday, next Friday. It's a new look. It's big girl's
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: shoes and a whole new vibe.
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: All right, I'm ready.
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: Thank you very much for sharing your personal life with us.
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: Ida is on Kiss FM. I want to talk about
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: uncomfortable conversations in relationships that you should have before you
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: get into relationships. Now, I could actually apply this because
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: I would be at the stage of beginning and would
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: need to cover what they say you should talk about
• 29:52
  Speaker 2: before you get too deep. I assume you may or
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: may not. Assistanty have covered tiny, have covered these things
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: before you got in deep? Oh yeah, what do you
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: find now, cisiny? What do you find out to be
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: the most like uncomfortable conversation that you have to have,
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: Like about real life with Michael uncomfortable.
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: There's nothing uncomfortable. We money, taxes.
• 30:21
  Speaker 5: It's not uncomfortable money and taxes and finances and things
• 30:24
  Speaker 5: like that, because it's just real life. And so I
• 30:27
  Speaker 5: know that that's just things we have to deal with.
• 30:29
  Speaker 5: But the conversations we have like right now are more
• 30:32
  Speaker 5: like our five ten year plans because we have to
• 30:35
  Speaker 5: think that far ahead with like the kids and like
• 30:38
  Speaker 5: school and like and just the house and you know,
• 30:41
  Speaker 5: the improvement improvements that we have to make to the
• 30:44
  Speaker 5: house and like things like that.
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to get to five days, I'm trying to
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: get to February. Yeah, come on, So all right, this
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: is stuff if you're getting into it with somebody. I'm
• 30:55
  Speaker 2: taking notes on this. I'm gonna see if I would
• 30:57
  Speaker 2: do it myself. They do say, talk about money, but
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: it's debt, spending habits. You want to know who you're
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: getting into it. Yeah, before you're surprised by it. Boundaries
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: with friends and family. Will your sister come over anytime
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: and just walk in?
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: That's a problem.
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: You may be used to that, but I don't want
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: her to have a key and roll right in.
• 31:17
  Speaker 5: That's literally my best friend Taja. She just like comes
• 31:20
  Speaker 5: over the house to pee and then leaves.
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: Because she's in the area.
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: I don't give my friends any sort of like access
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: to be able to do that, even if they.
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: Ask open door policy at our house. I don't know
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: the key head code of the garage.
• 31:36
  Speaker 2: And they do say before you get into relationship, you
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: got to talk about and I never do this stuff,
• 31:40
  Speaker 2: Like I'm the worst at this stuff. I never talked
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: about this, like talk about having kids when you're starting
• 31:45
  Speaker 2: to date somebody and how many you would want. I
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: would think that would scare someone off if I did that.
• 31:50
  Speaker 6: Well, not if you're aligned.
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I know.
• 31:53
  Speaker 5: If I'm aligned, you've already said I love you. You
• 31:56
  Speaker 5: know that it's going in that direction, things like.
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: That, how do you bring that? How picture me on
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: a date? Seven? How do I bring that up to somebody?
• 32:05
  Speaker 5: It's not on the date, it's it's when you guys
• 32:07
  Speaker 5: are lying in bed and you're fantasizing about the future.
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: When you have those conversations lying in bed.
• 32:15
  Speaker 7: It's when you're out at a having breakfast together and
• 32:17
  Speaker 7: there's a really cute baby next to you and you're like, oh,
• 32:20
  Speaker 7: I can see us having a couple of those.
• 32:23
  Speaker 3: Cringe.
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: I cringe. That's not a good reaction, Ryan, It's a
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: great reaction because it's honest, true, And that's your answer.
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: I will never have these conversations before I get into deep.
• 32:38
  Speaker 2: I'm just telling you that, whoever it's going to be,
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: we're going to talk about this never. Oh my god
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: one A two point seven Kiss FM tomorrow we shall
• 32:50
  Speaker 2: do it to gain and dare I say it tomorrow?
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