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HOW THE AMERICAN GOVERNMENT HAS DESTROYED BLACK FAMILIES OVER YEARS · BLACK HOT FIRE NETWORK SHOW'S

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  Speaker 2: My name is Jobie.
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  Speaker 1: Today we shall be talking about something not political. I
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  Speaker 1: wanted to start the week with a little bit of easiness.
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  Speaker 1: We keep on talking about a lot of negativities when
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  Speaker 1: it comes to our continent, our people. I'm not saying
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  Speaker 1: like I really have not a negative involved kind that topic.
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  Speaker 1: It's an educative topic. And of course this is regarding
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  Speaker 1: regarding our own community, the black community, something I think
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  Speaker 1: we keep on talking about, but honor shallow not and
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  Speaker 1: today I want us to get deeper into it. I
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  Speaker 1: if we also heard someone like him. Would poor his
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  Speaker 1: thoughts right here. But yes, we shall be talking about
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  Speaker 1: how the American government has been able to destroy the
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  Speaker 1: black families. And this is of the years, and I'm
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  Speaker 1: talking about divorce literally as a major conversation. Divorce has
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  Speaker 1: been a very big or a major agenda that has
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  Speaker 1: been actually used on the black communities or the black families,
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  Speaker 1: and right now it's working. I'd say, there's a weapon
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  Speaker 1: that right now has been formed against the black communities and.
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  Speaker 2: It is working.
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  Speaker 1: But what are the effects of actually the divorce within
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  Speaker 1: the black community because we keep on talking about unity.
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  Speaker 1: Right here on blackout Fire Network, we have preachers of unity.
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  Speaker 1: These were actually blackout Fire Network is there this way?
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  Speaker 1: Blackout Fire Network exists because they push about literally nothing
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  Speaker 1: but unity, not just within the families, but within the
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  Speaker 1: whole continent globally no matter where we are. But if
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  Speaker 1: you try to look at our communities, we're divided in
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  Speaker 1: so so many ways. Live alone tribolism, which you can say,
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  Speaker 1: of course the biggest impact and effect of it when
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  Speaker 1: you talk about politically and also other social lives. Literally
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  Speaker 1: in Africa to be specific, there has been a problem.
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  Speaker 1: Tribolism has been a very big, very big, very big
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  Speaker 1: problem and it comes to us actually been unable to unite.
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  Speaker 1: But divorce is something or a topic that is also
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  Speaker 1: left out and only talking about this art which rate
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  Speaker 1: or how the percentage of divorce is actually growing because
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  Speaker 1: it's getting bigger and.
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  Speaker 2: Bigger every day.
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  Speaker 1: But there is a big effect and it's a big
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  Speaker 1: problem on this, I'd say the US government, And there
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  Speaker 1: is all I'm saying. The American government has been able
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  Speaker 1: to make this agenda successful because you can say some
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  Speaker 1: of the things that been able to push, like feminist movements,
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  Speaker 1: we have now the four Bay movement, and so many
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  Speaker 1: movements actually that have been pushed. We have the elder BTQ,
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  Speaker 1: a gender that of course is discouraging that creation of families.
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  Speaker 1: You can't be having a man and a man calling
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  Speaker 1: each other couples. And then there's a kid there.
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  Speaker 2: Like where did the cred come from?
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  Speaker 1: Unless they're adapted, but still they came from someone. It
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  Speaker 1: had they had to be a reproduction type of you know,
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  Speaker 1: mathematics that had to happen for this kid to actually.
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  Speaker 2: Come into being.
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  Speaker 1: So the elder bit kid is also one of the
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  Speaker 1: movement that has been pushed or he's been pushed to
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  Speaker 1: discourage actually families or having actually families and all that
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  Speaker 1: and so many other movements. You can actually label them
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  Speaker 1: on TikTok as well, let me know what are your
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  Speaker 1: thoughts regarding divorced personally. Of course I am i'd say
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  Speaker 1: I'm a victim or I don't a victim, but I'm
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  Speaker 1: a factor. I do not call myself, but I came.
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  Speaker 1: I'm a product. Literally, I'm a product of divorce. Literally
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  Speaker 1: I come from a divorce family or divorced couples. But
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  Speaker 1: I'll be coming back, of course explaining my own literally
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  Speaker 1: experience of having these parents. What are some of the
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  Speaker 1: effects actually went you know through, or some of the
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  Speaker 1: things I feel like, you know, most of the children
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  Speaker 1: who are products of divorce, what they go through, and
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  Speaker 1: they're barely discussed.
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  Speaker 2: But as we look on to that.
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  Speaker 1: After coming back, of course, I'll be also sharing other
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  Speaker 1: videos actually explaining number one, our America has been able
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  Speaker 1: to destroy the black families, and then looking at actually
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  Speaker 1: the factors that lead to divorce because the lack of communication,
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  Speaker 1: these finances being involved.
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  Speaker 2: About my voice, my voice is really really bad.
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  Speaker 1: It does not really come back to normal yet I'm
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  Speaker 1: still coughing like crazy. But yes, we have divorced. We
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  Speaker 1: have lack of communication in marriage. We has been the
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  Speaker 1: major factor that has led to divorce. We have the finances.
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  Speaker 1: Of course, if you look at the America or the
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  Speaker 1: Black American community, or in America, the law is you're
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  Speaker 1: supposed to be paying child support, and among ut or
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  Speaker 1: within the black community, we know the majority of the
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  Speaker 1: people cannot even be able to pay child support because
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  Speaker 1: even they don't even have jobs. Let's start from there,
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  Speaker 1: into the conversation of the day, like I said, we
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  Speaker 1: shall be talking about divorce. Just like tribolism it has
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  Speaker 1: been able to or our tribolism has actually affected us, especially.
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  Speaker 2: The continent, the African continent.
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  Speaker 1: You can see one of the biggest reasons that we
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  Speaker 1: fail to unite is because of tribolism. And we know
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  Speaker 1: that actually, of course, this is one of the white
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  Speaker 1: supremacist or white supremacy our genders that is actually working
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  Speaker 1: very well so that they can be able to benefit
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  Speaker 1: because our unity actually for unite. They know it overpowers them.
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  Speaker 1: But it's so sad to say that, because when you
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  Speaker 1: talk about divorce, which is our main conversation for today,
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  Speaker 1: how America has been able to destroy the Black families,
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  Speaker 1: divorce is one of the biggest actually a genders that
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  Speaker 1: has been news to actually destabilize the Black community. Before
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  Speaker 1: evened it gets to the tribalism because, like I said, personally,
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  Speaker 1: I'm a product of course of divorce and honor. Start
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  Speaker 1: with me.
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  Speaker 2: My parents divorced when I was two years.
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  Speaker 1: And of course I was young, but I remember some
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  Speaker 1: of the things that actually were happening during their divorce.
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  Speaker 1: I remember they went to the chief and that's where
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  Speaker 1: they were able to settle their case. Literally, my mom
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  Speaker 1: had no job. My dad, of course was stable, and
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  Speaker 1: I think by that time rules or law applied to
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  Speaker 1: according to the person who has a job or the
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  Speaker 1: financial income to be able to take care of the child.
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  Speaker 1: So of course my dad won the case, but he
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  Speaker 1: didn't end up taking care of me at my Auntie's place,
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  Speaker 1: that is his sister. So my mom had been given
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  Speaker 1: permission to come visit me every weekend, like literally come
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  Speaker 1: take me out, or maybe we spend time together during
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  Speaker 1: the weekend. Then by Sunday evening because of school, I
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  Speaker 1: have to be returned back at home. But one day
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  Speaker 1: my mom, of course, she was not comfortable with me
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  Speaker 1: staying with my dad's sister. She literally came and told
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  Speaker 1: me ran away with me. And that's why I ended
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  Speaker 1: up literally leaving now or ended up literally being in
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  Speaker 1: the village with my other extended family. And if you
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  Speaker 1: try to look at again families today, in today's generation,
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  Speaker 1: I don't think people even talk about extended families anymore
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  Speaker 1: because there's lack of that bond even within the extended families.
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  Speaker 2: But I'd say because of the.
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  Speaker 1: Clans, the culture, the traditions that still that were back
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  Speaker 1: were there. Back then, it was easy if if something happened,
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  Speaker 1: you'd go to extended family and get help. But today
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  Speaker 1: it's kind of very very hard. Long story short, of course,
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  Speaker 1: for me, I was really really affected because of our
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  Speaker 1: living with other people. My mom had to take me
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  Speaker 1: to her cousin, her cousin, who of course I called
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  Speaker 1: the lady or the uncle. It was my uncle actually
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  Speaker 1: was the cousin to my mom.
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  Speaker 2: But the wife who he.
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  Speaker 1: Had married was really really cruel, and I think I've
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  Speaker 1: given the stories a real couple of times. She was
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  Speaker 1: such a she was such a such a such a bully.
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  Speaker 1: I'll just say that she was such a bully. She
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  Speaker 1: used to beat me up a lot because of not
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  Speaker 1: being able to do the house chorws and understanding I'm
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  Speaker 1: just a kid. Looking at some of the things, I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: you should have treated me better. You know, you'd have
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  Speaker 1: been more linent with me, Understanding I'm a child and
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  Speaker 1: just like any other child, I'll play, I'll forget things,
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  Speaker 1: and you should be you should be okay with that
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  Speaker 1: and teach me in a polite way. So one of
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  Speaker 1: the biggest effects of divorce number and of course is
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna be taken to people who as a child,
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna be taken to places or people are not
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  Speaker 1: gonna take care.
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  Speaker 2: Of you the same way as your parents would.
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  Speaker 1: Secondly, at the same school, also that was a big
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  Speaker 1: effect for me because shift now moving from Nairobi going
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  Speaker 1: to the village. I said, I even had to repeat
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  Speaker 1: class one for me because in the village the exams
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  Speaker 1: were all in Camber language. And coming from Nairobi, I
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  Speaker 1: just know swahially, I don't know Kamber. So I failed
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  Speaker 1: terribly and I became umber number last because I remember
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  Speaker 1: we actually I'd never forget. We were thirty five students
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  Speaker 1: in a class, so I was.
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  Speaker 2: I was there.
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  Speaker 1: I was the last to a literally number thirty five
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  Speaker 1: and my schools were really really low, so I had
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  Speaker 1: to repeat again and from there I was forced now
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  Speaker 1: to learn Kamber language of course, understand what it means
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  Speaker 1: so in case of exams, I won't fail. So school
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  Speaker 1: also was a big effect for me because of being changed.
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  Speaker 1: He are going to different places and all that. Mentally,
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  Speaker 1: I don't say mentally at that time, I was. I
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  Speaker 1: think I was really affected to mentally because of course
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  Speaker 1: I'm not at peace. I'm in an environment where I'm
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  Speaker 1: not okay all the time. All the time, I'm intent
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  Speaker 1: thinking about the seasons when my mom can come so
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  Speaker 1: I can be at least a little bit comfortable and
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  Speaker 1: all that. So I'd say in general, divorce actually, as
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  Speaker 1: much as it affects the couples, it affects the children
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  Speaker 1: a lot. It affects the children a lot, especially if
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  Speaker 1: the corporanting is not working because I feel, I like
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  Speaker 1: after that, despite me having the memory of the divorce,
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  Speaker 1: I never because I never had the further picture or
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  Speaker 1: the father figure in my presence. I grew up not
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  Speaker 1: knowing I have a father till the age of twelve.
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  Speaker 1: Till the age of twelve is when I'm introduced to
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  Speaker 1: my dad and I'm like, oh, okay, I have a father,
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  Speaker 1: all right, so I'm introduced to him. Of course, I've
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  Speaker 1: grown up with that someone who has a different personality,
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  Speaker 1: someone who's very understanding.
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  Speaker 2: Now to come into someone who's.
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  Speaker 1: Meeting me as an adult in my Pubert team right now,
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  Speaker 1: I know the difference between right and wrong, and that's
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  Speaker 1: piecing them off, you know, because that's one of the
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  Speaker 1: things that actually I believe that piece my dad of
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  Speaker 1: like I came number one as a grown up, I had,
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  Speaker 1: I knew the difference between right and wrong. You're not
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  Speaker 1: gonna just, you know, tell me to do stuff. I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna question you because my mom had kept me in
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  Speaker 1: that ability of questioning things and understanding things. So of course,
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  Speaker 1: now with the core parenting as a teenager, seeing them
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  Speaker 1: now corparent, it was also very hard for me because
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  Speaker 1: now I'm moving from the parent I'm so used to
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  Speaker 1: someone I'm not really used to, and I have to
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  Speaker 1: adapt to their behaviors and they have to adapt to mine,
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  Speaker 1: and of which they never adapted to mine.
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  Speaker 2: But I had to adapt to their behaviors.
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  Speaker 1: But of course, as we get deeper, I honor start
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  Speaker 1: with the video of which is explaining because this my
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  Speaker 1: research is actually based on the Black American communities. I
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  Speaker 1: want to come to Africa because in Africa, like I said,
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  Speaker 1: these are global agenda, and I believe the fact is
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  Speaker 1: started in America. It's coming all the way down. Some
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  Speaker 1: of the things I think we spoke about them last week.
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  Speaker 1: We can see the feminist movement actually applying. We can
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  Speaker 1: see this I'm independent, don't need a man type of
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  Speaker 1: thing applying right now in Africa. Getting married, getting divorced
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  Speaker 1: and just moving on because you have money that's okay
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  Speaker 1: and being normalized and it shouldn't. We need to understand
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  Speaker 1: where we've been weakened, because we've been weakened as a community.
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  Speaker 1: This is why it is so hard for us to
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  Speaker 1: fight most of the things, because we've been weakened through
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  Speaker 1: so many things.
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  Speaker 2: So let me start with this video right here, which
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  Speaker 2: is explaining.
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  Speaker 1: About America destroying the black families as we continue, let
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: me share this other end, right, others have left home in.
• 24:10
  Speaker 7: Order for their children to get made and break.
• 24:12
  Speaker 8: There are so many dehumanizing elements and the weld class
• 24:16
  Speaker 8: system that we are concerned about removing, and we are
• 24:20
  Speaker 8: concerned about a guarantee and sane and the other thing
• 24:25
  Speaker 8: I think it is very that's sad to say, is
• 24:27
  Speaker 8: that everybody's on welfare in this country. And when it
• 24:30
  Speaker 8: comes to Black people and prove people, we just call
• 24:33
  Speaker 8: it our mouth and for white people in which we
• 24:36
  Speaker 8: call it subsidence.
• 24:40
  Speaker 9: It's no secret motherless households are more common in the
• 24:43
  Speaker 9: black community.
• 24:44
  Speaker 7: A survey from.
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: Demien fatherless household. I love to start by that before
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: even get to continue. I mean, this is becoming anom,
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: like I said, and this is the biggest effect of
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: even now you know, like this is so deep and
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: I love the fact. I mean it's comes to our history,
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: our topics. It goes deeper than even we expect. Sometimes,
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: like the topic I did last week about pregnancy, I
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: didn't know how depity is until literally going deep into it. Now,
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: looking at this, we start by saying fatherless households are
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: becoming a norm within the Black community.
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: And this is true. And the fact that we don't understand.
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: These an agenda to weaken us, we are promoting it,
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: accepting it.
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: Elevating it in different ways.
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: I say to the point where now this is where
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: I can see the black community is not even able
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: to I mean, we have of course, those with the
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: right sense are fighting against these agendas. The elder BTQ
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: right now is settling okay in black women's household where
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: they're okay seeing their sons wearing males wigs, you know,
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: doing makeup and all that it's not bad being a
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: makeup art is by it's bad you embracing trying to
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: become a woman. I don't believe it's actually bad having
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: a man who has the talent of doing makeup, because Yo,
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: somebody gonna pay rent, somebody gotta you got. You need
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: to use your talent to literally make income. And if
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: you discover you have it, fine, use it, just don't
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: misuse it. But you find today because of having fatherless
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: households from explaining it, well, we have mothers who are
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: now raising weak men because there is no further figure.
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: And the fact you think this is okay, not introducing
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: your son to their father.
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: You know, you putting those harsh.
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: Child support demands, and you know very well this man
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: has no job, denies this child, of course, the opportunity
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: of even seeing their father. Because I've saying this, I've
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: been very very observant even in so many, so many
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: things just because of man cannot be able to meet
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: certain financial needs needed by a baby mama. Now the
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: father is not gonna be given the right to see
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: the child because you didn't meet some certain needs that
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: actually even do not belong to the child. Most of
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: these women, to be specific, to be honest, literally they're
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: using men, They're using their children child support as a
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: means of doing their bullshit. Let me just say that,
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: doing their bullshit. Because if you're not putting up any job,
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: if you're not making trying to make a double income
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: from you know, multiply this, make it make an income,
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: then where's there all the money going?
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: Let's continue.
• 27:49
  Speaker 9: Consensus Institution revealed that sixty seven percent of black children
• 27:53
  Speaker 9: under eighteen in the US live in homes without fathers.
• 27:56
  Speaker 9: This is a start contrast to white children, as only
• 27:59
  Speaker 9: twenty four percent of them live in fatherless homes. But
• 28:01
  Speaker 9: it wasn't always like that. The black families survived generations
• 28:04
  Speaker 9: of open racism, widespread poverty, and slavery.
• 28:07
  Speaker 7: They lived through segregation and.
• 28:09
  Speaker 9: Violence, and strong family bonds used to be the norm.
• 28:13
  Speaker 10: As of nineteen sixty, two, thirds of all Black American
• 28:16
  Speaker 10: children were living with both parents. That declined over the
• 28:18
  Speaker 10: years until only one third we're living with both parents
• 28:21
  Speaker 10: in nineteen ninety five. So it's not the legacy of
• 28:24
  Speaker 10: slavery that destroys the African Americans the welfare.
• 28:30
  Speaker 9: Between eighteen ninety and nineteen fifty, the marriage rate was
• 28:33
  Speaker 9: much higher among Black women than white women. A fraction
• 28:36
  Speaker 9: of black children lived in homes without their fathers. But
• 28:39
  Speaker 9: everything changed with the expansion of the welfare state. It
• 28:42
  Speaker 9: divided the household and created the dependency on welfare. This
• 28:45
  Speaker 9: kind of reminds me of what President Reagan.
• 28:47
  Speaker 11: Said, I've always felt the nine most terrifying words in
• 28:51
  Speaker 11: the English language are I'm from the government and I'm
• 28:54
  Speaker 11: here to help.
• 28:56
  Speaker 7: So what happened?
• 28:57
  Speaker 9: What's the mechanism? Here is a detailed look at how
• 29:00
  Speaker 9: the welfare state played a role in the dissolving of
• 29:02
  Speaker 9: the family structure over the years. People say that the
• 29:05
  Speaker 9: breakdown of traditional family units family structures is a byproduct
• 29:09
  Speaker 9: of black poverty, not just because there is no man
• 29:12
  Speaker 9: to support the family financially, but also because women tend
• 29:15
  Speaker 9: to earn less than men on average. Of course, the
• 29:17
  Speaker 9: connection between the two is there, but it goes deeper
• 29:20
  Speaker 9: than that. Welfare was a mean little business. It was
• 29:22
  Speaker 9: designed to get people buy in a pinch. Public assistance
• 29:25
  Speaker 9: programs like welfare entitlements have been a part of American
• 29:29
  Speaker 9: culture since the nineteen forties. Unfortunately, like in many other
• 29:33
  Speaker 9: aspects of government institutions, black Americans were left out. In time,
• 29:37
  Speaker 9: Black people could also get financial support, but it wasn't easy.
• 29:40
  Speaker 7: Mothers who applied.
• 29:41
  Speaker 9: For checks had to let social workers inspect their homes
• 29:44
  Speaker 9: to see if their conditions were suitable for welfare. These
• 29:47
  Speaker 9: workers also had to make sure no man was living
• 29:49
  Speaker 9: in the house.
• 29:50
  Speaker 7: But even if they.
• 29:51
  Speaker 9: Qualified for support, the amount they received was meager and
• 29:55
  Speaker 9: not enough to build a stable life. In the early
• 29:57
  Speaker 9: nineteen sixties, welfare was not yet common, even in the
• 30:00
  Speaker 9: most impoverished black communities. In the decade that followed, the
• 30:03
  Speaker 9: number of black people on welfare went up by one
• 30:06
  Speaker 9: hundred and sixty nine percent. They further increased by thirty
• 30:09
  Speaker 9: percent from nineteen seventy to nineteen seventy five.
• 30:12
  Speaker 7: In nineteen seventy two.
• 30:13
  Speaker 9: New York City, almost one out of every six residents
• 30:16
  Speaker 9: was on welfare.
• 30:17
  Speaker 7: A major portion of these.
• 30:18
  Speaker 9: Households were black. Although black people were only around a
• 30:21
  Speaker 9: tenth of all Americans, they made of almost fifty percent
• 30:24
  Speaker 9: of all welfare recipients by the late seventies. A recent
• 30:27
  Speaker 9: Unison report showed that many children under eighteen in America
• 30:31
  Speaker 9: struggle financially, and the African American children are nearly four
• 30:35
  Speaker 9: times more likely to be in poverty than white children.
• 30:38
  Speaker 9: Though the number of families receiving cash assistance has decreased
• 30:42
  Speaker 9: since nineteen ninety six, child poverty rates for black children
• 30:45
  Speaker 9: in the US remain high. This outcome is not by accident.
• 30:49
  Speaker 9: I studied the evolution of social welfare policies in the
• 30:52
  Speaker 9: US from the New Deal to the nineteen ninety six
• 30:55
  Speaker 9: reforms and found that these policies have been discriminatory from
• 30:58
  Speaker 9: the start, and a lot of people can confess to
• 31:00
  Speaker 9: that this led many black families to fall into cultural
• 31:03
  Speaker 9: and economic ruin in a short period. Healthy black people
• 31:06
  Speaker 9: started relying on government assistance to achieve some level of normalcy,
• 31:10
  Speaker 9: but within the city slums that normalcy was impossible. Again,
• 31:14
  Speaker 9: black children barely knew their fathers and most were raised
• 31:17
  Speaker 9: by unemployed and unmarried mothers.
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: And okay, unmarried something Keith, I think, Keith, feel free
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: to join on rumble.
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: Maybe you can at some points on this topic.
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: That is something also we mentioned or Kith mentioned I
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: think last week.
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: It is crazy.
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: Number one, most of the children do not even know
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: their fathers, which is a big red flag. Then secondly,
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: most of these women who have these children are unmarried.
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: So there's a discussion you are having last week looking
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: at the percentage of actually the fatherless men in America,
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: and we saw the percentage is actually big. So where
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: are these women getting pregnant from the.
• 32:09
  Speaker 12: Same move Negroes they always got pregnant from.
• 32:21
  Speaker 11: Anyway, what this thing is telling you is not entirely true. Okay,
• 32:27
  Speaker 11: they devise. Uh, the black people we can have we
• 32:30
  Speaker 11: can never get welfare. This this for white people. The
• 32:33
  Speaker 11: government helped white poor people. See, the government never helped
• 32:36
  Speaker 11: black people because we were called because remember we were
• 32:38
  Speaker 11: always set up for destruction here because after slavery is
• 32:44
  Speaker 11: always a question what to do with these niggas.
• 32:48
  Speaker 7: Don't want them here. We brought them here from Africa.
• 32:50
  Speaker 11: We don't want these motherfuckers here now that we can't
• 32:52
  Speaker 11: get free labor from them.
• 32:54
  Speaker 7: But they were upset.
• 32:56
  Speaker 11: Like Joey did a couple of weeks ago, show you
• 32:58
  Speaker 11: the dollar how to lipped in the black community. Uh,
• 33:02
  Speaker 11: I think it was a forty one hundred days jokes.
• 33:05
  Speaker 11: So we were creating wealth in our own community. That
• 33:07
  Speaker 11: was a danger to white power. That becomes the danger.
• 33:11
  Speaker 7: So so guys.
• 33:15
  Speaker 13: Uh miss.
• 33:20
  Speaker 11: In the sixties, it's always the same usual sub sin.
• 33:24
  Speaker 11: It's always the same usual suspects. He's got damn families. Again,
• 33:29
  Speaker 11: I'm not gonna say their name, but let's say the
• 33:31
  Speaker 11: Rocketbellas are there, Okay, the eugenics bast hey you know YouTube,
• 33:36
  Speaker 11: you said we're.
• 33:39
  Speaker 7: Goddamn eugenics movement. He's no good old.
• 33:42
  Speaker 11: Ass or racist ass Jewish crackers who always want to
• 33:48
  Speaker 11: destroy black people. They're the ones who create our images
• 33:51
  Speaker 11: in Hollywood. Hespeake Jews. He's asconized ema who're not even Jews,
• 33:56
  Speaker 11: and got you know that's in your Bible, those who
• 33:58
  Speaker 11: say the Jews are not synagogue of Satan.
• 34:01
  Speaker 7: That's them.
• 34:02
  Speaker 11: So they decided, Hollywood, the beginning was started by them.
• 34:09
  Speaker 11: So every image of somebody black was was was negative,
• 34:12
  Speaker 11: was was destructive, have whole whole world looking at black people,
• 34:18
  Speaker 11: fucked up mind control.
• 34:21
  Speaker 7: So they say, you know what without a fact.
• 34:24
  Speaker 11: This time Black Americans understood because because they don't work
• 34:27
  Speaker 11: on the black women, the black women is the weakest,
• 34:29
  Speaker 11: weaker of the of the two six. He said, Yeah,
• 34:33
  Speaker 11: these niggas are always together, they're no matter what kind
• 34:36
  Speaker 11: of poverty they're in, and different the rapid discrimination. They
• 34:42
  Speaker 11: could understand how that we always thrive, How these niggas
• 34:45
  Speaker 11: don't ever just die, How these niggas always thrive. How
• 34:49
  Speaker 11: they create everything, all the music, and remember doing all this,
• 34:53
  Speaker 11: do all this.
• 34:53
  Speaker 7: Separation, do all this poverty.
• 34:56
  Speaker 11: African Americans create every genre that this country known for
• 35:00
  Speaker 11: white people.
• 35:01
  Speaker 7: They create none of it.
• 35:02
  Speaker 11: Country music, black people, jazz, black people, R and B,
• 35:06
  Speaker 11: black people, soul music, black people are rock and roll,
• 35:12
  Speaker 11: black people lead on the rap before they took it
• 35:15
  Speaker 11: over black people. So and all the inventions that black
• 35:19
  Speaker 11: people were creating under this oppression.
• 35:21
  Speaker 7: Because let me tell you some black.
• 35:23
  Speaker 11: Something very special about you you're actually the gods on
• 35:26
  Speaker 11: the planet. So that's why you're able to survive because
• 35:31
  Speaker 11: genetically everybody has sixteen their code and you have nine.
• 35:38
  Speaker 11: They are studying you, but they don't want to They're
• 35:40
  Speaker 11: not gonna teach you how this. So you're able to
• 35:42
  Speaker 11: survive and all this hatred and the stained because you know,
• 35:49
  Speaker 11: they got the new thing that you oh you know,
• 35:51
  Speaker 11: you know, you know you're the children of God.
• 35:53
  Speaker 7: No, you're not the children though God, you are God.
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: So just just to pause you understanding just every point
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: you are breaking him down.
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: Number one.
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: Of course they looked at him like you said, what
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: can we do with these negroes? And they saw our
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: population was growing NonStop. Well, of course looking at the
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: black woman, how fatile she is and the number of
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: children she can give back to without having the bad control.
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: So they invented or we are the white woman can't
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: remember her name who came up, of course, with the
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: family planning.
• 36:23
  Speaker 7: Which Margaret Margaret Sanger, that would do that.
• 36:28
  Speaker 11: She was she was sponsored by what those folks again
• 36:31
  Speaker 11: those the money came the jew So Margaret Sanger said,
• 36:35
  Speaker 11: the best way to kill a nigga is to kill
• 36:38
  Speaker 11: him in the womb. That's probably only when you got
• 36:40
  Speaker 11: the same Democrats day screaming that the Margaret Sangers of
• 36:44
  Speaker 11: these booknates haggers and hey niggles, hey, you gotta have
• 36:47
  Speaker 11: boys on the man, kill your baby, kill your baby.
• 36:50
  Speaker 11: We just say you that that having a borches wrong.
• 36:53
  Speaker 11: We said, only in the.
• 36:54
  Speaker 7: Case of.
• 36:56
  Speaker 11: Uh incest rape you and you avorced as birth control.
• 37:02
  Speaker 7: You keep having fun killing killing babies. That's not normal.
• 37:07
  Speaker 11: They so they want to arrange the internal politics of
• 37:10
  Speaker 11: black women.
• 37:11
  Speaker 7: So they went after the black woman. He said, that's there.
• 37:14
  Speaker 7: See that's how you know this is.
• 37:15
  Speaker 11: A plan, because we're gonna give you welfare, but you
• 37:19
  Speaker 11: can't have a man in the house.
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 37:22
  Speaker 7: If I'm trying to help.
• 37:23
  Speaker 11: You, why would I get with a father because I
• 37:26
  Speaker 11: know the father's biggure. So is gonna be the disciplined.
• 37:29
  Speaker 11: If you don't have that, you're gonna raise beag ass men.
• 37:33
  Speaker 7: You know that.
• 37:34
  Speaker 11: So the only race of people that were told they
• 37:37
  Speaker 11: can't have a man's house for black people.
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, this is why you look at the percentage, just
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: to sorry to distruct you. We have the African Americans
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: that is within I think the women the sing that's
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: three percent of the African American women are the highest
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: in divorce. Then we have the Hispanic which is twenty
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: two percent, then the white treat men nineteen percent, and
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: the even so the African American woman is the highest.
• 38:05
  Speaker 11: She's the highest because she's because she's the one that's
• 38:08
  Speaker 11: been focused on joking, She's the one that all these
• 38:11
  Speaker 11: schemes have been pushed on because they wanted wanted to
• 38:14
  Speaker 11: destroy the black family.
• 38:15
  Speaker 7: These are just fact.
• 38:16
  Speaker 11: Not only did they did that, remember also the experiment
• 38:19
  Speaker 11: on ass with their wicked ass vaccines. So they also
• 38:23
  Speaker 11: had the Eugenie where they were trying to kill us
• 38:25
  Speaker 11: with their fucking vaccines. And when they did that, they
• 38:27
  Speaker 11: took it to Africa. That's where Africa got all these
• 38:30
  Speaker 11: damn diseases. Now, Ads and Bowler that she was creating
• 38:33
  Speaker 11: a lab to wipe us out.
• 38:37
  Speaker 7: No one's supposed to be talking that on YouTube.
• 38:39
  Speaker 11: With these are facts, you'll get medical misinformation and under
• 38:43
  Speaker 11: some other nonsense. Because we know these are facts that
• 38:47
  Speaker 11: these things were creating the lab through their eugenics program
• 38:49
  Speaker 11: to wipe black people out.
• 38:53
  Speaker 7: They were able there to help anybody. So you got
• 38:56
  Speaker 7: people in.
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: That understanding everything and looking at all the agendas, I
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: see the black woman as being i'd say, the the
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: yes man or the yes woman to everything, while she
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: could have actually said no. And I love saying she
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: could have actually said no, because at this point I'm
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: trying to understand where was the black man, whereas where's
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: the man? Beamed literally because I believe the men and
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: trying to look at this video I'm about to share here,
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: there's something this guy said. In a white supremacy country,
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: a white supremacist country, or in a in a country
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: where of course black people are the most watched, especially
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: when it comes to the man, he is not allowed
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: to have a say. So the only time a man
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: feels he have a say is in his house, but
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: when it goes to his house, and this lack of communication,
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: this is the majority of the things that have led
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: to divorced, which is very, very true.
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: And then he talks about respect.
• 40:00
  Speaker 11: They're not just that, they're like, they've now, uh propagandized
• 40:04
  Speaker 11: the black women over the black man. So if you're
• 40:06
  Speaker 11: gonna need black men in America, it's a make sure
• 40:09
  Speaker 11: the black women are controlled. So the white man put
• 40:12
  Speaker 11: the black woman over control of the black man to
• 40:16
  Speaker 11: his policing and through everything else, because it's to destroy
• 40:20
  Speaker 11: because if you don't have a strong man in it,
• 40:22
  Speaker 11: you destroy your whole community. You're you're destroyed. So uh,
• 40:27
  Speaker 11: they create the fake feminist movement. And then to do
• 40:30
  Speaker 11: with creating women in the adds of the big ship
• 40:33
  Speaker 11: they give it was to destroy us. So they now say, okay,
• 40:40
  Speaker 11: now what we're gonna do some I'm gonna be a weapon,
• 40:42
  Speaker 11: But that's gonna that's not gonna be enough to have
• 40:45
  Speaker 11: this woman disrespect her man because she's still gonna look
• 40:47
  Speaker 11: to him.
• 40:48
  Speaker 7: Remember even in slavery, that's what it's about.
• 40:50
  Speaker 11: You take the main take you take the woman in slavery.
• 40:55
  Speaker 11: You get the strongest man, you rip his ass apart
• 40:58
  Speaker 11: in front of her.
• 40:59
  Speaker 7: Now she she's she's taught the state of trauma.
• 41:02
  Speaker 11: Jovie, that trauma goes to generation because now it's your
• 41:05
  Speaker 11: teacher son to be weak, so nobody will kill his ass.
• 41:08
  Speaker 7: She'll take the strongest man, You'll rip his ass.
• 41:10
  Speaker 11: Apart in front of him, in front of her, And
• 41:13
  Speaker 11: so her mind is caught in trauma. Now when she
• 41:16
  Speaker 11: has a job, she scared the death of Hey, it's
• 41:18
  Speaker 11: your enemy, you fight them.
• 41:19
  Speaker 7: She scared the day. No, you do anything massive tell
• 41:22
  Speaker 7: you to do.
• 41:22
  Speaker 11: Now you make sure you do anything that white man
• 41:25
  Speaker 11: tell you to do, because her mind is taught now trauma.
• 41:30
  Speaker 11: So it's another traumaization of the woman's mind. So now
• 41:34
  Speaker 11: we're gonna socially engineer her to get jobs. So we're
• 41:38
  Speaker 11: gonna make college easier for her because now we're trying
• 41:42
  Speaker 11: to stabilize the blacks men anymore by putting her over
• 41:45
  Speaker 11: top of him, saying, because once you understand their their
• 41:47
  Speaker 11: their they're big money trick.
• 41:50
  Speaker 7: I'm making more money than you. I don't need you, nigga.
• 41:52
  Speaker 7: I'm making more money than you. I'm making that.
• 41:54
  Speaker 11: So they were not getting like jobs in private industry.
• 41:58
  Speaker 11: They were giving government job because it was a plan
• 42:01
  Speaker 11: by the government. So black women go get these education
• 42:03
  Speaker 11: get government jobs that the black man couldn't get and
• 42:07
  Speaker 11: that the black man couldn't make as much money as her.
• 42:09
  Speaker 7: So now but she lives in respect for him. I
• 42:12
  Speaker 7: don't need his ass. I'll make it. I don't need
• 42:14
  Speaker 7: his ass. He don't make as much. I'm not gonna
• 42:17
  Speaker 7: let his ass be telling.
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: Me what they do.
• 42:20
  Speaker 13: I don't know.
• 42:20
  Speaker 7: I don't really, I don't even need his ass. I
• 42:23
  Speaker 7: don't need no man.
• 42:25
  Speaker 11: So the only woman, as you hear that ship from
• 42:28
  Speaker 11: a black woman's out, uh bab divide like he said,
• 42:32
  Speaker 11: we were giving a bill of goods. You know, the
• 42:33
  Speaker 11: only women say I don't need no man. You're and
• 42:36
  Speaker 11: no white woman say that ship. You know, Asian women
• 42:38
  Speaker 11: say that ship, No Indian woman say.
• 42:43
  Speaker 7: No damn.
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: Does become the Africans, not just actually the African American
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: woman alone, because like I said, understanding the agenda and
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: its tarts, it's coming all the way to Africa because
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: the feminism, like I said, uh that time. We can
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: see now even celebrities out right now you know they're
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: embracing this. Having a baby then dumper man and move
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: on because I have money and there's nothing you can
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: tell me.
• 43:10
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, why is the respect?
• 43:12
  Speaker 11: You know, remember the badges of the society that they're
• 43:17
  Speaker 11: put there, spake. Celebrities are bound, they're put this depending
• 43:22
  Speaker 11: on white man. So their behavior is incentivized to do
• 43:27
  Speaker 11: this to that's called social engineering.
• 43:30
  Speaker 7: They're there to do all this ship. You're like, oh,
• 43:32
  Speaker 7: look at them.
• 43:33
  Speaker 11: Do oh it's called so if you're not smart enough,
• 43:35
  Speaker 11: the note they're being controlled and they control to do that.
• 43:39
  Speaker 7: You're all that inflowance we know.
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: But what I'm trying to say this is it's a
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: big problem with the industry now because, like you said,
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: if you don't understand how why they're put there and
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: why they promote this and this, you're gonna end up
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: following their you know, the same track, you know, grow
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: up with the same mentality and say and that is
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: why this industry actually has to be checked or we
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: have you because I believe when you look at entertainment,
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: something with disgusting a couple of times entertainment or an influencer,
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: someone who has influenced to a million people, you should
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: be a good example.
• 44:11
  Speaker 2: But the examples we.
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: Have right now is totally different, totally focusing on agenda
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: because it's rich.
• 44:20
  Speaker 11: So they control the social media they push out and
• 44:22
  Speaker 11: who they're gonna make a start. You think if they're
• 44:24
  Speaker 11: gonna give you influence, you're gonna gonna be natural. No,
• 44:28
  Speaker 11: all influence controlled by them. So when they see the
• 44:31
  Speaker 11: butcher's bad, so they're gonna push your numbers. Have you
• 44:33
  Speaker 11: had to ask the influence It's not gonna be natural
• 44:36
  Speaker 11: because they control it all. It's not gonna be if
• 44:39
  Speaker 11: you're talking are righteous and good? Uh, benefits being benefitual
• 44:46
  Speaker 11: to you, to your people, They're gonna keep your numbers down.
• 44:49
  Speaker 7: They're gonna shadow band. This is what it's all about.
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: So let me shot this video here of these sites,
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: like an interview type of thing going on between were
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: I have a pasta also yeah, but I don't want
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: you to pay much attention to the pasta bey.
• 45:11
  Speaker 14: Hello everyone, I'm Sonia Massingale. Welcome to another edition of Folks.
• 45:16
  Speaker 14: The divorce rate for Americans has increased at an alarming rate.
• 45:19
  Speaker 14: By the decade of the sixties, the overall divorce rate
• 45:22
  Speaker 14: was one in three and growing. By nineteen seventy nine,
• 45:25
  Speaker 14: the divorce rate approached forty percent. Statistics indicate that black
• 45:30
  Speaker 14: couples are almost twice as likely to divorce as white couples.
• 45:33
  Speaker 14: In nineteen sixty, about seventy four percent of all black
• 45:36
  Speaker 14: families were maintained by married couples, as compared to almost
• 45:40
  Speaker 14: ninety percent of white couples. By nineteen seventy eight, less
• 45:43
  Speaker 14: than sixty percent of all black families were headed by
• 45:46
  Speaker 14: married couples, compared to almost eighty percent of white family.
• 45:53
  Speaker 11: Low budget graphics GV SHO, gotta be like in the
• 45:57
  Speaker 11: nineteen eighties.
• 45:58
  Speaker 7: This she is Louisian LPB.
• 46:02
  Speaker 11: That's Louisiana Public Broadcasting, So it must be so she's
• 46:06
  Speaker 11: probably in the eighties. Go ahead, Joe's so thanks.
• 46:12
  Speaker 14: So much of this change can be attributed to separation
• 46:15
  Speaker 14: and divorce. Now, in nineteen eighty one, the divorce rate
• 46:17
  Speaker 14: of blacks rose around four hundred percent from nineteen sixty,
• 46:21
  Speaker 14: compared to a three hundred percent rise.
• 46:23
  Speaker 2: In divorce for whites.
• 46:25
  Speaker 14: Joining me in the studio today to discuss the issue
• 46:27
  Speaker 14: of divorce and the black family is Robin Nesbit, an attorney.
• 46:31
  Speaker 14: Belbia Jackson, a social worker and father Jeromadu, pastor at
• 46:35
  Speaker 14: Saint Paul the Apostle Catholic Church. Welcome to folks than you.
• 46:40
  Speaker 14: The obvious first question, and the one that I'm sure
• 46:42
  Speaker 14: everyone is asking right now, is, Okay, why why is
• 46:46
  Speaker 14: the divorce rate so much higher for blacks than it
• 46:49
  Speaker 14: is for white Belvia, let's start with some of the
• 46:52
  Speaker 14: sociological reasons.
• 46:54
  Speaker 15: Okay, The divorce rate for blacks can be a trip
• 47:00
  Speaker 15: to a number of factors. First of all, I would
• 47:03
  Speaker 15: like to start by saying, today divorce is much more
• 47:06
  Speaker 15: accessible and acceptable than it was, say some years ago. Okay,
• 47:11
  Speaker 15: there are number of factors such.
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: As accessible and acceptable and which we if I try
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: to look at our great great great grandparents, like they
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: fought for relationships, they fought for marriage, like divorce was
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: something that actually was not supposed to be. You know,
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: It's like, am I really gonna lose this? You told
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: me I'm about to My family is about to be
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: torn apart, Like it was a big deal for you
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: actually being divorced and a big problem. So you had
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: to fight every way to keep this family together.
• 47:44
  Speaker 15: Unemployment that contribute to the divorce RADMO Blacks, financial instability.
• 47:52
  Speaker 15: Any number factors can be mentioned. These two that I've
• 47:56
  Speaker 15: just mentioned are only one or two of them. Another
• 47:58
  Speaker 15: such factor could the the UH breaking away from the
• 48:03
  Speaker 15: extended family, which was very strong for the Black families,
• 48:07
  Speaker 15: right and also moving away from our religious values that
• 48:11
  Speaker 15: played a significant role in the UH make up of
• 48:14
  Speaker 15: the Black family and the stability that was within the
• 48:17
  Speaker 15: Black family.
• 48:18
  Speaker 7: I see.
• 48:18
  Speaker 14: So, what are the long term implications of the rising
• 48:22
  Speaker 14: rate of of divorce? I mean, what is it gonna
• 48:24
  Speaker 14: mean to us ultimately as a people?
• 48:28
  Speaker 15: I see a decline in the s the strength and
• 48:31
  Speaker 15: stability of us as a race. Yeah, if there's a continued, continued.
• 48:37
  Speaker 7: Increase in the number of divorce race.
• 48:39
  Speaker 15: The UH percentage of families intact will decrease. True, and
• 48:44
  Speaker 15: our survival as a race is it is threatened by
• 48:48
  Speaker 15: the decline in UH the number of marriages that are
• 48:52
  Speaker 15: st you know, staying together with blacks.
• 48:55
  Speaker 7: Okay, Robin.
• 48:56
  Speaker 14: From a legal point of view, would you agree that
• 48:58
  Speaker 14: that that's the case.
• 49:00
  Speaker 16: Yes, for the most part, I would agree. Taking it
• 49:03
  Speaker 16: a step further, it goes to the community. When you
• 49:07
  Speaker 16: have a strong family background or a strong family unit,
• 49:11
  Speaker 16: then that means that you have a strong community. But
• 49:14
  Speaker 16: as we tend to find where there are single parent
• 49:17
  Speaker 16: families who have to work to support the family and
• 49:20
  Speaker 16: no one's home to watch the children, or like a
• 49:28
  Speaker 16: scene out of Mad Max, just ramifications that it's it's
• 49:34
  Speaker 16: more acceptable kind of family.
• 49:36
  Speaker 2: Goddamn, that's.
• 49:39
  Speaker 16: Now, then it tends to break up the community, whereas
• 49:42
  Speaker 16: it us that's.
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: A messed up community about that. But I don't need that,
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: Me and myself.
• 49:57
  Speaker 16: Something where the Black community raised are chill ldren together. Now,
• 50:01
  Speaker 16: it's it tends to be individualized and we tend not
• 50:05
  Speaker 16: to be as concerned. So from the viewpoint that she
• 50:07
  Speaker 16: brought out, yes, I do agree with her, and I
• 50:10
  Speaker 16: think it has a long range and long term effect
• 50:13
  Speaker 16: on the Black community.
• 50:14
  Speaker 14: Okay, well, I'm hearing a lot about this. It's it's
• 50:18
  Speaker 14: not just a black problem. The American family is changing.
• 50:22
  Speaker 14: Most Americans are paying for childcare.
• 50:25
  Speaker 7: Target like black people.
• 50:28
  Speaker 11: Now the target now a little bit white because these
• 50:31
  Speaker 11: psychopaths will destroy all bamage on the planet now. But
• 50:35
  Speaker 11: black people was willing to pay target globally.
• 50:38
  Speaker 14: Local because the one paycheck family is no longer a
• 50:43
  Speaker 14: viable reality.
• 50:44
  Speaker 7: And uh, isn't.
• 50:46
  Speaker 14: It true that a single parent unit could be just
• 50:48
  Speaker 14: as stable.
• 50:50
  Speaker 16: That is correct, that it can be just a stable
• 50:53
  Speaker 16: But in the black community, we have an acute problem.
• 50:57
  Speaker 16: The major problem is that the majority of black and
• 50:59
  Speaker 16: the vial jewels are in the low income brackets, so
• 51:03
  Speaker 16: for them to have to raise the family.
• 51:06
  Speaker 11: We've report these are those black jobs Trump was talking with,
• 51:10
  Speaker 11: a no income racket.
• 51:12
  Speaker 7: Those are called the black jobs.
• 51:14
  Speaker 16: The poverty as well as pay for child support in
• 51:19
  Speaker 16: addition to other expenses that they meet being a single parent.
• 51:22
  Speaker 16: It magnifies the problem because we are not generating as
• 51:27
  Speaker 16: large an income.
• 51:28
  Speaker 7: Revenue as well to destroy the family.
• 51:31
  Speaker 11: And then if you're not talking on your young dumb
• 51:34
  Speaker 11: ass black boy groom, Now you guys understand the black men,
• 51:37
  Speaker 11: your boys an understand that the three generations because you're
• 51:39
  Speaker 11: not having them a baby with these broths, because they'll
• 51:42
  Speaker 11: lock your ass up the slave labor.
• 51:44
  Speaker 7: That's another scam they used because they didn't know that.
• 51:47
  Speaker 11: Next day they reprignize even your even you get a
• 51:51
  Speaker 11: woman pregnant and destroyed it because now you get a pregnant,
• 51:55
  Speaker 11: you're gonna got any job.
• 52:00
  Speaker 2: No matter what state you're in.
• 52:02
  Speaker 11: Californi, your Florida, that state determines the price of your
• 52:06
  Speaker 11: child support.
• 52:07
  Speaker 7: You're not getting out of that.
• 52:09
  Speaker 13: You're not paying it.
• 52:10
  Speaker 7: You're barely making a living. You're not at your ass.
• 52:14
  Speaker 2: And that's what I'm saying.
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: And it becomes like you said, looks like you're being
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: in slaved by you by your own people say so,
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: like by your own woman, because your woman exactly.
• 52:25
  Speaker 11: No other other woman puts their man on child support
• 52:28
  Speaker 11: like the black woman that she's already because she's now
• 52:30
  Speaker 11: socialized to be your enemy. Socialized issue, socializ no man,
• 52:36
  Speaker 11: and blah blah blah.
• 52:37
  Speaker 7: The disrespect. It's palpable.
• 52:39
  Speaker 11: The line of dispect that black women in America for
• 52:42
  Speaker 11: black men jokes, it's astronomical, it's crazy. That's why you
• 52:46
  Speaker 11: got that. That's why you got something called the passport.
• 52:49
  Speaker 14: Bro.
• 52:49
  Speaker 11: You know, I'm telling if you're gonna be a pastor
• 52:51
  Speaker 11: and gonna get other African women because they haven't been
• 52:53
  Speaker 11: completely destroyed by the evil empire.
• 52:56
  Speaker 7: Here, they's still they're still act African.
• 53:00
  Speaker 11: Okay, don't don't give African women because the African American
• 53:04
  Speaker 11: woman are destroyed.
• 53:06
  Speaker 7: They haven't got these other women yet.
• 53:07
  Speaker 11: They're trying, Like Joey said, they getting average like room
• 53:10
  Speaker 11: Besid took you for your keep. This here his hands
• 53:13
  Speaker 11: in bobed with white people pushing it and we don't
• 53:15
  Speaker 11: need no man and blah blah.
• 53:17
  Speaker 7: It's here. I said. Oh, so.
• 53:22
  Speaker 11: You know the black women globally, they have the majority globally,
• 53:26
  Speaker 11: so you can always find so a black woman has not.
• 53:28
  Speaker 7: Been destroyed completely.
• 53:30
  Speaker 11: Brazil, Columbia, Venezuela, uh, South Africa, Uh Kenya God, and
• 53:37
  Speaker 11: like it's the all parts of its in bob with whatever.
• 53:40
  Speaker 7: So you know, but understand it's coming. It's coming that
• 53:44
  Speaker 7: of acting that's so.
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: And just to talk on what she's saying, like I
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: was saying, area, it's it's even bad the fact that
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: now you you've been put on a slavery mode by
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: your own woman and she's gonna she's not even gonna
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: take this money for child support. Because I've been seeing
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: I'm very I've been just looking at a whole lot
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: of things in America, especially within the Black women to
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: be specific, and yes, they're really really fucked up.
• 54:07
  Speaker 2: The attitude is just on another level, on another level like.
• 54:12
  Speaker 11: The fuck up socialized they and then and most things
• 54:18
  Speaker 11: about women women and the nature of a woman's not
• 54:20
  Speaker 11: to take accountability now they're fucked up.
• 54:23
  Speaker 7: They don't want to take no account of building for
• 54:25
  Speaker 7: being fucked up.
• 54:26
  Speaker 11: They don't want to be told that they're fucked up
• 54:28
  Speaker 11: now and you can clearly see, hey, you're fucked up,
• 54:31
  Speaker 11: but they don't want to be told that because that's
• 54:33
  Speaker 11: not a woman's nature.
• 54:34
  Speaker 7: Because women don't want to take account of building but anything.
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: So I've noticed most of the black black men are
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: like getting divorced and they've been married to like let's
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: say a black women. They have children like these these
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: amazing couples. I don't know if you know Tana Taylor
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: and their husband and these people are just doing amazing,
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: but immediately they got divorced. It's like, hey, oil and water,
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: you know it's not meeting like we know we can
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: we can tell about conversation, and yet both of you
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: are supposed to call parents.
• 55:06
  Speaker 7: You know. Yeah, because they've been socially engineering. They see
• 55:10
  Speaker 7: you're good with excess. Most people are not.
• 55:13
  Speaker 2: So what I've seen.
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: What I've seen is like the black man would complain
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: after being divorced, how the woman is making more money
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: than him. Uh, and what the lady is still instead
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: of actually demanding the actual money of the child, supports
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: and get the needs of the child that is supposed
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: to be done, they're actually getting money for their own bullshit.
• 55:33
  Speaker 2: That is the term actually used Magri.
• 55:37
  Speaker 11: The woman does job that is told her child, but
• 55:40
  Speaker 11: she ain't gotta pay, she ain't gotta spend it on
• 55:42
  Speaker 11: the child that goes to her. She can be a
• 55:44
  Speaker 11: bad because songs that because remember she's not getting the
• 55:48
  Speaker 11: moment because the state never states you and is getting
• 55:51
  Speaker 11: a percentage of that money. So it's not just all
• 55:54
  Speaker 11: the money going to her. The money is also going
• 55:56
  Speaker 11: to the state. So that money, whatever state you live
• 55:59
  Speaker 11: in and that monthy is going to fund judges, fund roads,
• 56:04
  Speaker 11: fun all the people in positive retirement. How where that
• 56:08
  Speaker 11: money goes get all the money doesn't go to the woman.
• 56:11
  Speaker 11: That's why it's a scam. Most of it does. But
• 56:14
  Speaker 11: but but still there's still a piece of it that
• 56:16
  Speaker 11: goes to support the goddamn administration of the state that
• 56:20
  Speaker 11: you're in.
• 56:21
  Speaker 7: What never state never states your thing is found exactly.
• 56:24
  Speaker 7: That's why. That's why if you and why you're.
• 56:27
  Speaker 11: Gonna be on it by every state pushing child support
• 56:29
  Speaker 11: and they'll lock your ass up because they're getting money
• 56:32
  Speaker 11: from it as well. So it's an evil system. Every
• 56:35
  Speaker 11: time everything the white man does, it's psychopathic every tide.
• 56:39
  Speaker 11: It's never to help anybody. It's always to make sure
• 56:41
  Speaker 11: they steal someone. It's always parasitical, always some parasitical ship
• 56:46
  Speaker 11: going on every time.
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: So that's what that white guy said, they should be
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: very careful. And he had the words being said, I
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: am the government and I'm here had to help, no help.
• 56:57
  Speaker 11: Yeah that was president, Yeah, that was the president of
• 56:59
  Speaker 11: the eighties that time. That was President Reagan. His racist ass.
• 57:02
  Speaker 11: He's about the black Africa are so stupid they don't
• 57:05
  Speaker 11: ever wear shoes. That's that racist basket. Yeah, that's Reagan.
• 57:08
  Speaker 11: That's President Reagan back and they said these niggas said, well,
• 57:11
  Speaker 11: he said, they see these niggas, these niggas are so
• 57:13
  Speaker 11: backward in Africa until they still don't understand and put
• 57:15
  Speaker 11: those shoes.
• 57:16
  Speaker 7: That's him. That's Reagan. So yeah, that's that's his racist ass.
• 57:20
  Speaker 11: So anyway, uh it was a starch racist so stars
• 57:27
  Speaker 11: because he he did was before he became.
• 57:30
  Speaker 7: President of America.
• 57:30
  Speaker 11: He was the governor of California and was a when
• 57:34
  Speaker 11: was a former movie actor.
• 57:36
  Speaker 7: He's a movie actor, a fell movie actors.
• 57:38
  Speaker 11: Movie sucked, so he went to politics because he couldn't
• 57:41
  Speaker 11: make it in Hollywood.
• 57:42
  Speaker 7: He's stunk up. So he became the governor of California.
• 57:46
  Speaker 11: Then from the governor, he became the President of the
• 57:48
  Speaker 11: United States.
• 57:49
  Speaker 7: You know, no one ever thought he could win, but
• 57:50
  Speaker 7: he did win.
• 57:51
  Speaker 4: So uh uh.
• 57:54
  Speaker 11: And they tried to kill his ass too. He tried
• 57:57
  Speaker 11: to take him out too. They tried to kill his dad.
• 57:59
  Speaker 11: The folk, them folks tried to but he didn't do
• 58:01
  Speaker 11: something the folks told him how to do. They tried
• 58:04
  Speaker 11: to kill his ass as only.
• 58:07
  Speaker 2: But let me wrap it up with this video. Just
• 58:08
  Speaker 2: play a little bit so then we can't get to
• 58:11
  Speaker 2: those who are.
• 58:12
  Speaker 7: Not in the low income bracket.
• 58:14
  Speaker 16: So just to re emphasize your point, Yes, it is a.
• 58:22
  Speaker 7: Understand that Joe.
• 58:23
  Speaker 11: See the poblic is now remember with the Martin Luther
• 58:26
  Speaker 11: King bullshit that side, we were pushed into their economy again,
• 58:30
  Speaker 11: We're pushed into their bullshit again, their economy. See if
• 58:34
  Speaker 11: we were left alone, when Joby showed you we were
• 58:37
  Speaker 11: better off being segregated from these people.
• 58:40
  Speaker 7: Folk with the South alf of South Africa loved Michael.
• 58:42
  Speaker 7: We didn't. We knew we came from slavery.
• 58:44
  Speaker 11: There wasn't no love for they ass because they always
• 58:47
  Speaker 11: been wicked and evil towards black So we weren't trying
• 58:50
  Speaker 11: to die. We were given a sigh out with that
• 58:52
  Speaker 11: Markin Luther King bullshit. Hey, that's all integrate. Joby showed
• 58:57
  Speaker 11: you when we were separated, we were wealthy, but because
• 59:00
  Speaker 11: we had our black community and that money stayed within
• 59:03
  Speaker 11: the black community, the money stayed there.
• 59:06
  Speaker 7: It flipped, It flipped, uh sixty to one. Hundred days.
• 59:12
  Speaker 7: Now you'll be showing that the money the Black community.
• 59:15
  Speaker 11: Last ninety seconds and you don't got no wealth, you
• 59:16
  Speaker 11: got no community. That's why I think it looks like
• 59:19
  Speaker 11: mad Max da am I in a movie. You go
• 59:22
  Speaker 11: on to the Black community, and now am I in Thundergone
• 59:26
  Speaker 11: like Mad Max.
• 59:27
  Speaker 7: Out here unity.
• 59:30
  Speaker 16: Yes, there are some families that can generate the income.
• 59:33
  Speaker 7: As well as pay the child support. But for us,
• 59:36
  Speaker 7: being that.
• 59:36
  Speaker 16: We're on the low end of the income scale than
• 59:39
  Speaker 16: it is a greater problem for us financially.
• 59:44
  Speaker 7: I mean, what's the cost of a divorce these days?
• 59:46
  Speaker 7: Say your average to.
• 59:48
  Speaker 14: Child couple divorces your wealth with property to divide.
• 59:52
  Speaker 16: Well, basically you have two types of divorces. You have
• 59:55
  Speaker 16: the contested and the uncontested. The uncontested is the lead
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 16: expensive where both parties are green that we want a
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 16: divorce and it won't be a long drawn out situation, which.
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 11: Women said, Black women, you can look, black women choose
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 11: a divorce at the black men. Black women because they've
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 11: been in powered. You powered woman that much. The black
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 11: men would tend to stay because they went that family
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 11: unit for their children. That's why I stayed. This crazy
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 11: motherfucker raised by babies. Maybe are you crazy? No way,
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 11: black women initiate the divorce at the black.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 16: Man, go ahead, you anywhere from two hundred dollars on up.
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 7: And this is just an average.
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 16: And for the contested divorce, which means that there is
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 16: a rivalry there there is some bitterness between the two,
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 16: then it should be anywhere from five hundred dollars on up.
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 16: But when I say on up, it can increase greatly.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 16: But that is the minimum, depending upon the degree of
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 16: time that needs to be.
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 7: Spent with the matter.
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  Speaker 14: Father, do what is this casting as spiritually? In terms of.
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so I don'tt to listen to I don't play
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 1: like the pastor what he had to say because for him,
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: start looking at it from a biblical view. But let
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: me add something what this guy said about the respect
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: and in a respect in your own house you.
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 15: See in most relationships and having counsel couples experiencing mental
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 15: problems and also counseling couples you know were family discord.
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: Well, personally, I'm not an advocate of actually involving a
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: third party, like you know, having a pastor, and that's
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: the reason why they have him in this conversation because
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: in most of the marriages, you you'd see even in
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: today's generation, you find some parents or partners when they
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: have a problem, they're gonna go to the pastor to
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: seek help.
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, Brather, you can just sit down and.
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 7: Because you're the mist did that deal?
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 11: They just get because he's some because he's some Bible nut,
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 11: because it's some Bible not that making him qualified for
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 11: relationship counseling, just.
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 7: Some Bible nuts. That that's that's a false. They're exactly so.
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 11: Because because when me and my wife are going through
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 11: troublem taking to her past, I'm not part of her church.
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 11: And when I and when I was there I listened
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 11: to I said, this motherfucker is an absolute moron. I'm
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 11: gonna ask somebody dumber than me telling me how to
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 11: be a husband. Hey, there's nothing. So you know, my
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 11: wife was still coughing that religion. I knew that the
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 11: motherfucker I'm listening to as an idiot. I said, I'm
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 11: sitting listening to this idiot. I'm like, the dude is under educated.
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 11: He doesn't even especially you know people in Black America
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 11: that the language is so bad they can't even get
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 11: the worst. He's telling words, he's mispronouncing. I'm wrong talking
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 11: nigga babble. I'm like what it's going on? A matter
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 11: A bad movie.
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 14: Left.
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 11: So when we let us, hey, don't have to bring
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 11: me back to your dumb ass preaching.
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 7: He's a moron.
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 11: Understand that, Keith, because you're better educated. Yeah, I'm better
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 11: educated than him. Yes, I am so not gonna listen
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 11: to an idiot tell me how to do something. And
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 11: he put a sentence together he's talking about in chapter
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 11: John three twenty five, Jesus said, I don't.
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 7: Give a fuck with Jesus saying this dude's an idiot.
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 11: So I will we go to a professional person who
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 11: has a degree in psychology and family.
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 7: Reconcile the family.
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 11: Don't send me to these goopie black preachers, these morons.
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 7: The car man is hell call.
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's actually a game the women in majority
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: of the cases, cause again it's gonna be very well
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: explained by this guy. He says he'll never find a
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: man going to seek a third party to come settle.
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: Uh that I told them it's always the woman and then.
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 2: It's only the woman.
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 7: One of the.
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 15: First things that I recognized was the communication.
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 11: Okay, you know, you know you're not coming to church
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 11: and Jesus and maybe you're not strong in the eight.
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 11: Maybe that's what's happening with your wife. And I said,
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 11: I'm thinking, I'm looking at my money, I'm looking at
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 11: I'm already mad, I'm looking at her.
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 7: I'm looking at this dude, I'm looking at my mind.
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 15: The form of communication, present but open and honest communication,
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 15: showing respect for the other person, you know, developing a
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 15: sense of trust.
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 2: These are things that.
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 15: Make up the stable relationship, stable marriage. A sense of
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 15: commitment as well as a sense of responsibility. This commitment
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 15: not only to the two people that make up the couple,
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 15: but sense of commitment to people in general.
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 11: You know, I got the job family, and the disrespect
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 11: was palpable.
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 7: I didn't. People always said that was I never experienced
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 7: it to happen to me, and.
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 11: I just knew me said, nah, my wife would never
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 11: do that, and I've always taken care of her, lived nice,
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 11: she lived comfortable as cars and nice homes.
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 7: Nah, she would never do that, motherfucker. Let me tell you,
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 7: Let me tell you, let me tell you.
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 11: I was blind unsided. That kind of people tell me
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 11: the story. See, man, you lose your job, the woman's
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 11: don't lose respect for his indd when you lose the income,
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 11: not this job.
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 7: You don't have a job. That women's gonna lose this.
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 7: I said, nah, my wife.
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 11: But my wife was always you know, she's always supported
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 11: me and been supported by my side. I've never had
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 11: that kind of Now that's that's your wife, that's not
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 11: my Black women. Now understanding how black women were socialized,
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 11: I didn't standing, Yes, you're young, So what had happened
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 11: to me? So I lost the job, not of my
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 11: own problem. That the business went out of business. They
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 11: went out of they lost you know, the income, they
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 11: they folded, it went out of business. Of course I
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 11: was letting go because there was no business. And I
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 11: came home and it wasn't it. It's almost immediately it
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 11: was like he was like some some money ship. I
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 11: should be right, You're like going some some money ship.
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 7: So Sidney said, you know, at the time, she was
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 7: still working as nunt.
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 11: So she said, man, the bills are coming up. You know,
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 11: we're gonna pay these bills. I said, what you mean,
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 11: we're gonna have to pay them? You gonna work and
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 11: you're going to pay these motherfucking bills you're talking about,
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 11: you're talking about you've been what I've been paying the bills.
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 11: Now I'm not able to pay them. You're gonna have
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 11: to pay them and studs. I told her she's gonna
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 11: be responsible for these bills. The ship got absolutely the
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 11: disrespect was cow. It's like some magic sitting on the couch,
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 11: somebody touching in the bach. Hey, You're like, hey, hold
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 11: on it. He's got punching me in my damn face.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 11: That's how so the disrespect for you know, the slide comments,
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 11: this an angle lite, this this hurt me to the
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 11: course that what all this time I betake care of
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 11: this woman and it hasn't been a mutual thing of respect,
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 11: a lifestyle and her happening. Now, help pay the bills.
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 11: And now I'm now now I'm supposedly sorry and fucked
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 11: up because now we got to lean on her ass,
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 11: which a mirror is supposed to be.
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 7: Guys supposed to be give and take life. Things are
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 7: gonna happen in life.
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 11: You know, I didn't know begetting the month that was
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 11: gonna got a big I'm gonna lose this job. But
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 11: of course I'm gonna get another one. But you showed
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 11: me between the time I lost that job until a time.
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 11: Think it took me a month because it was also
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 11: it was two thousand and eight, guys, financial crisis in America,
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 11: that collapse of the economy got I think at that
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 11: the last the economy was collapsing. So people just jobs
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 11: were just imploded because these bankers had stolen all the money.
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 7: And this this when Obama comes in and it makes
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 7: them hold.
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 11: Everybody in America starts losing all their jobs because the
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 11: bankers that stole all the money after damn.
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 7: So anyway, it took me like like a month because
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 7: it was no jobs defined.
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 11: I was like wow, I had never been in this
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 11: position out of job, Like wow, this is crazy. So
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 11: we still had savings. I always believe in putting money
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 11: inside of the case.
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 7: Some shit happened.
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 11: We were burning through that because the family is still
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 11: so big and house frights. Say, man, we burned through
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 11: our savings. You're gonna have to start shipping.
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 7: In around here. What what you you?
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 11: You god dammit you you're going to start paying some
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 11: bills around your ass?
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 7: To me, what tell you mean? You what you I said?
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 11: I'm so angry because it's still in me that a disrespect,
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 11: the craziness, because this is to God, God, this minister,
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 11: this is so ooh we this is so because this
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 11: was her parents. This is the year her parents have
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 11: been married for forty years. So also their parents forty
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 11: year anniversary.
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 7: So they were doing a special gathering, the whole party boar.
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 7: And so.
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 11: We came up here from Tampa. At that time, it
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 11: wasn't and so I don't know these damn people. So
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 11: this motherfucker left me in this. So my son was
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 11: still young, Sean was Sha was like five. Then it
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 11: takes to day it's five years old. So all other
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 11: kids are almost them the grown the time. So uh,
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 11: we have this big gathering. Now, imagine your wife don't
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 11: come around you at all, whole night, hold night. She
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 11: dancing with everybody else, party with everybody else, men and women,
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 11: but you're left alone in the corner. She don't acknowledge
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 11: that he's her parents. She's not even acknowledging you there.
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 11: She spends no time with you at all. So I'm
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 11: sitting there and it ain't like I'm all fucked up.
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 11: I'm like, look at this ship, this mother fuck, ain't
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 11: even nothing to get to the party, you know, get
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 11: to the party. Damn, what had that picture in this day?
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 11: I was sure that picture we had and I got
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 11: I got that picture that night.
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 7: I took a picture.
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 11: Anyway, I'm sitting there, I said this, this motherfucker ain't
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 11: king to even sitting there. Member, because member, it's a
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 11: it's a it's a celebration of her parents being married
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 11: for forty years at the time, which is dad twenty
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 11: years ago down. So if you Reyner almost fifty years now,
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 11: so there's a celebration that because it was food and
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 11: then it's a party. So you know, then fatherbucker ain't
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 11: come back and even eat with me.
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 7: I wouldn't.
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 11: I'm if not like I was a left exactly, like
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 11: I was a leper, Like I was some kind of leper. Right,
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 11: my youngest son, because I understand my kids are older, teenager,
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 11: they ain't gonna come back and hang with me. Daughters
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 11: there having good So this my oldest son came back
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 11: and said, wow, Daddy, it's nobody with you. This is
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 11: messed up.
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 7: This is my son. He's five years old. And that
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 7: made me, really, that was blue.
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 11: That made me be fucked up because if a five
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 11: year old can see it, I'm five you he don't
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 11: know that really the ramifications, but he knows damn that.
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 11: Ain't nobody spend no time with you at all? Right, right,
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 11: Remember I'm still jobless. I'm I'm jobless on so I'm
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 11: so I'm no good I'm godless still right. So so
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 11: I'm sitting there not eating, and I'm eating my foot.
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 7: I'm like nothing, don't mind. Said, Wow, this motherfuck.
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 11: Ain't gonna come back and sit with me at all.
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 7: I've been laughing. It's party with everybody else.
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 11: Yeah, I'm not evening acknowledged I even exists. Right, So
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 11: at the end of the night, I was bored and
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 11: I was boiling. I knew this, get rid of this
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 11: mother fucker. I'm getting rid of this bride. So I said,
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 11: this is the most this, I mean, the whole night.
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 7: Now, So we get in the car. I don't want
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 7: to argue for my older children. I don't want to.
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 11: So we're getting the truck and uh, we go back
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 11: to this hotel, got the kids out.
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 7: Of the room. We got an own room, so I
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 7: can go back to the hotel. And I'm seedy, I
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 7: mean I'm so ain't gonna know what to do.
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 11: I'm seeding angry as hell of the lack of the
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 11: disrespect I got. I mean like I mean, I mean,
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 11: you did acknowledge I was even there. No nothing, nothing,
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 11: So I got there.
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 7: So we get in a hotel.
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 11: I said, I said, you know, you just set me
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 11: down in the corner and didn't even acknowledge I was
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 11: even there. You didn't come and eat with me. You
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 11: didn't got but the dance, and I'm eating, uh nothing,
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 11: Just come back up a conversation with.
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 7: Peter.
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 13: I was busy.
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 7: It's my family.
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 11: My parents pointed anniversary, and I was busy with all
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 11: the guests. I said, but you got time to eat
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 11: with them, laugh with them. Once you're married to me,
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 11: you had time to dance with them or whatever. I'm
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 11: dancing with Sean.
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 7: You you had time for that, right, I said. Listen.
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 11: Then I said, I don't think we're gonna make it.
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 11: I don't think we're gonna make it. I think I
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 11: don't think we're gonna make it. So let's put some
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 11: fear in the ass. Because the lifestyle was about to
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 11: get sucked up. It wasn't a respect for me. Was
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 11: no respect for me. I said, I don't think we're
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 11: gonna make it. This to remember, it's like, yes that
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 11: you're bringing two thousand and eight. I remember the year,
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 11: damn them man's parents birthday, so that would be in
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 11: I mean wedding Anniber so that would be in.
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 7: This month, in November. God damn so.
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 11: Well, I said, I don't think we're gonna make it.
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 11: I don't think we're gonna I don't. Your level of
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 11: disrespect is pappal my time. But at that time, I
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 11: do my mother down the floor. So I'm went to
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 11: my mama said out there with divorce this bitch. I said,
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 11: just like that, I'm I talk. I think I'm a
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 11: divorced this bitch. My mom may never liked anyway.
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: Your grandma's already dead, right, because I remember your grandma
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 1: would have.
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 11: Say, I'm still living. Long one, she was still living,
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 11: but we haven't talked because of Jesus. She will boy,
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 11: she wear I tell her boys, she already just o't.
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 7: I ain't thought thirty years and I ain't way on
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 7: the other side of the count. I'm in the yep.
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 7: But that's why about my mom down because she's retired.
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 7: I told her.
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 11: I'm with that's a mom damn, divorce this motherfucker. But
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 11: they are most of your kids are grown us. Yeah,
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 11: they're gonna get rid of this motherfucker. Disrespect is I
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 11: didn't know that, I said. I said, there's a hatred
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 11: for him. It is not just disrespect. This bitch hates me.
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 11: There's a hatred for me. She only reveals herself because
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 11: I can't pay her bill. I can't pay the bills.
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 11: But that's you know, love has to do with the bill.
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 11: There's a hatred this bitch ass for It's a hatred
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 11: she hates me. Oh you think Look, I said, yeah, yeah,
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 11: there is a hatred this bitch hate and apparent hate me.
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 7: So I'm sure they were talking about, you know, apparent hate.
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: Me too, because I think I think the disrespect actually
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: grows to hate.
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 2: That is true, Like that is true exactly.
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: So I'm gonna the disrespect becomes now hate. If I
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 1: I don't want to see you, I can do anything
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 1: I want without exactly my damn what you feel, how
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 1: you exactly?
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 7: That's how it was. It was.
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 11: It was it was in my face jump. I was like, wow.
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 2: To my feelings, like the disrespect.
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 7: Wow, this is crazy.
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 11: I mean, it's like, you're right, Joe, because it was
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 11: it was like sometimes you know it'll be you know, measured,
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 11: but this time it was not measured. It was like,
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 11: you know, in my face, it wasn't no way to
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 11: deny it. It's like that hate and that respect. So
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 11: so of course, of course I got it. Of course
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 11: I got another job. But it was never the same anymore.
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 11: I said, man, it's just so. Then that's when Joe said,
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 11: keep like that's when I started sleeping out, sleeping on
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 11: the couch. That all that you coming to day and
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 11: I coming to bed. You go to bed. I'm coming
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 11: up step raying this capital. So that's where it got great.
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 11: But anyway, like I said, guys, disrespect that she had
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 11: a right. So eventually that tour part. My mother died
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 11: two years later, I unexpected as a heart attack because
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 11: at that time too, so twenty ten, I was wrestling.
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 11: I didn't leave until twenty thirteen, fourteen, you know, fourteen,
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 11: ten years ago, so I was I was separating that
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 11: at the time mutual, So twenty ten I wanted out.
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 7: So this two years after, it never got better. I said.
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 11: Before my mother passed, I was like if we didn't
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 11: know my mother was gonna pass away. She had a
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 11: sudden heart attack and died in the yard. So we
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 11: didn't know. She wasn't sick, but we told her she
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 11: had to stop smoking. She wouldn't do it. So she
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 11: had a massive heart attack and died as she was
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 11: doing her garden. She had a garden out. She died
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 11: in the garden. So told her two months before that,
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 11: I went out of this marriage. Maybe shait that two
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 11: years I said, I can't take I can't stand here.
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 7: Ass.
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 11: You know, there's no nothing there. No kids are almost grown,
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 11: well where they are grown? Shit just Seane. Sean's seven
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 11: and eight. Now the kids have grown. I'm ready, you
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 11: know I want. I went out of this ship and
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 11: he's said, well, baby, yeah, just be careful, make sure
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 11: you got you make sure you got everything in your name.
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 7: This bitch you my mom called the bitch said this
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 7: bitch is this bitch is bendicted.
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 11: I said, yeah, so let me slowly take her name
• 1:18:34
  Speaker 11: off ship. They shot all the houses in my name,
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 11: I said, I said, you know, I.
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 7: Told my myself my dogs a bullet.
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 11: Remember she wanted to go to California, California, she took
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 11: half my ship.
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 7: And Florida is a different cut. Florida doesn't have that.
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 11: Florida don't have alimony, just as child support in California,
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 11: you gotta pay child sport and alimony. I mean, you
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 11: gotta pay that woman just for marrying you and for
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 11: how long, for the rest of your life.
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 7: Florida don't got that.
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 11: Mama dies the bullet and god they married this mother
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 11: fucking California.
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 7: I'll be fucked them in the head right. I said, remember,
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 7: let's get my shirt.
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 11: I said, remember, John, you had that job in California,
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 11: and something told me.
• 1:19:18
  Speaker 7: Hell no, hell no, I died that bullet. She was
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 7: she just food the California. I want to throw it.
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 7: I've never been. Yeah, we can visit, but we ain't
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 7: moving that father anyway.
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 1: But I see you on ramble. Keith is on beach
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 1: shirt is not on the page of Rumble. I'll figure
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 1: out how to actually combine the three pages. I think
• 1:19:44
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be it on Twitter. Instead, up may
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 1: be on the side of its own, and then.
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 7: You can put three three each Oveler.
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 2: Beach shoot and then network, oh you.
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 11: Got the network would have Okay, it's the network, and
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 11: then yes three at the time.
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so.
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 7: Yeah, so you can't hear me, Jim and jail, that's right.
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 11: Yeah, it's gonna be sides on the rumble side now,
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 11: so we'd have to pay some more money, get five
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 11: or six.
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 7: I ain't doing that, ship.
• 1:20:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, says I think he came on the network. He says,
• 1:20:22
  Speaker 1: did the children pick sides?
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 11: Yeah, well, well, my daughter's because my wife got real disrespect.
• 1:20:31
  Speaker 11: My wife is a beautiful woman, gorgeous, gorgeous state, gorge
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 11: gott I gotta give a credit. The truth is the truth.
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 11: I'm gonna be honest with the person. Stay gorgeous, right, gorgeous.
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 11: Motherfucker's fine.
• 1:20:43
  Speaker 7: No ship.
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 11: And when you know a woman like a joke, they
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 11: know they fired, right, but mama knows they fired. You know,
• 1:20:49
  Speaker 11: men are gonna be after. So men, of course they
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 11: are constantly after and up in her face. But you,
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 11: as a woman, if you're married, you're supposed to be like, hey,
• 1:20:56
  Speaker 11: I'm married, you know, be be respect So the ship
• 1:20:59
  Speaker 11: got even more disrespectful. But all these men showing up now,
• 1:21:03
  Speaker 11: there's a whole bunch of men popping up all the time.
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 11: Now this and so my daughters are telling them, my
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 11: wife you wrong.
• 1:21:10
  Speaker 7: What are you doing? Mom?
• 1:21:11
  Speaker 11: What are you doing? You think Dad's don't keep allowing
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 11: this shit? You're not even violent, but you're gonna end
• 1:21:16
  Speaker 11: up getting hurt or something. He said, what you doing?
• 1:21:18
  Speaker 11: These are my daughters cause they're like that. That's him
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 11: like eighteen nights and the eight when they're like seventeen eighty.
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 11: So then my daughters are telling my wife, you know
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 11: you fucked up. You over the line, you being disrespectful.
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 11: You got men showing up at at our house. They
• 1:21:32
  Speaker 11: think Dad's gonna take this shit? Have a men's showing
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 11: so so so well, I can have you know, just
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 11: the woman shit. I can have friends, so you know,
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 11: dann where men are trying to be your friend. Thea
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 11: trying a bucket. So so let's stop playing. Let's stop
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 11: being stupid. That's not being that stopped you not a
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 11: child no more. We got grown ass kids almost you're
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 11: talking about. I can have friends shit, right, So don't
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 11: play me for a fucking bibble head. If they got
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 11: some kind of fucking I'm showing up and all this said,
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 11: what the fuck? So then it didn't. It's gonna be honest,
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 11: almost an altercation. So since be talking about we're gonna talk,
• 1:22:08
  Speaker 11: we're gonna be honest. So they didn't know because the
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 11: other do. I'm usually gone during the week, and so
• 1:22:15
  Speaker 11: she's always slipped. So she's had people in my house,
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 11: and my son would tell me some and Daddy the
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 11: stranger came in. My daughters then wouldn't do it. They
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 11: would take it side. One day I came home, she
• 1:22:27
  Speaker 11: knows who came home doing the week weekday, not the weekend.
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 11: Upfrod came home.
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 7: And so.
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 11: Of course we live with the white I always try
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 11: to be you know, be careful. These white neighborhood. These
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 11: thinkings are going crazy. So so any thinks are gonna
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 11: create the neighborhood they drama. Can they go back to
• 1:22:45
  Speaker 11: the projects and come back to the ghetto with that ship? Anyway,
• 1:22:49
  Speaker 11: I get home and she comes home a bides with
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 11: a like all surprise of her. Yeah bitch, I'm here, Yeah, yeah, bitch,
• 1:22:59
  Speaker 11: I'm here.
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 7: So she had time or two.
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 11: Ever coming to visit her as in time of the
• 1:23:05
  Speaker 11: cock and I seen her get her celph on try
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 11: to call, but the tings already on his plate. So
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 11: he came knocking my door. I said, you guys know
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 11: I carry weapons. Okay, you know, I got thankful of weapons,
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 11: but I'm b we have a military tram, not emotional
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 11: with it. So I go back in the back and said,
• 1:23:22
  Speaker 11: fuck is this cat? I said, Oh you got well
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 11: your boyfriend showing up at my house? Huh, I said,
• 1:23:28
  Speaker 11: I said, let me go outside and uh sit this
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 11: nigga straight, you know.
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 7: So I came.
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 11: You know, I grabbed my glock cocked when I was say, hey, man,
• 1:23:37
  Speaker 11: what are you doing here? Well, you know, you know,
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 11: Cynthia asked me to come over and just hang out.
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 7: So Cynthia asked you to come on my house to
• 1:23:44
  Speaker 7: hang out.
• 1:23:46
  Speaker 17: That what she asked you to do. And so she
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 17: and the back door car can't up. I said, you know,
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 17: shut the fuck up. Shut your goddamn mouth. You better
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 17: shut it now. You said, what, God damn what. I'm
• 1:23:58
  Speaker 17: gonna kill this nigga out here. Okay, I'm gonna kill
• 1:24:01
  Speaker 17: his hands.
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 11: He won't nigga back to this motherfucking car, I said,
• 1:24:06
  Speaker 11: this nigga parking have a catch, you old mouse with
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 11: my children. I'm gonna put a bullet in your motherfucking head.
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 11: I said, just to say that I'm gonna call the police.
• 1:24:16
  Speaker 11: So no damn understanding, because I got a gun permit
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 11: and white people come out of their house, Well, what's
• 1:24:22
  Speaker 11: white keep always wanna be nosed? Come out of their house? Keith,
• 1:24:25
  Speaker 11: what's happening? Said, I'm about to kill me a nigga.
• 1:24:28
  Speaker 11: That's what's happening. So police show up, Lee show up.
• 1:24:33
  Speaker 11: And the first time I said, this bitch is because
• 1:24:36
  Speaker 11: this commotion. The bitch, it's going that. And after time,
• 1:24:38
  Speaker 11: this after my mother passed away. So I was already
• 1:24:41
  Speaker 11: angry and feeling a certain type type of way. So
• 1:24:45
  Speaker 11: they said, what's going on? Missus news I said, I said,
• 1:24:50
  Speaker 11: of course in America, said the woman, she got all
• 1:24:52
  Speaker 11: the rights. I said, she's got this man coming around
• 1:24:56
  Speaker 11: my children having a lot. Said for she your wife,
• 1:25:00
  Speaker 11: she can't have anybody she want in the home.
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 7: I said, yeah, I know.
• 1:25:07
  Speaker 11: And I'm letting you know in front of him, for
• 1:25:10
  Speaker 11: you guys, if he comes back here and if she
• 1:25:13
  Speaker 11: think he said right, I'm gonna kill his ass. Okay,
• 1:25:16
  Speaker 11: I'm letting you know. Now the where's your wife? I said,
• 1:25:21
  Speaker 11: this bitches in the house hollering and screaming. He's screaming
• 1:25:25
  Speaker 11: up in the he's in the best. She's in the house, screaming,
• 1:25:30
  Speaker 11: console her stupid as Hey you can.
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 7: Console her, dumb ass, and the screaming and ship. That's right.
• 1:25:41
  Speaker 7: So of my kids and my daughters are still getting.
• 1:25:44
  Speaker 11: My kids still good because I was always ain't know,
• 1:25:46
  Speaker 11: I never cheated on their mother. And mother starts stepping
• 1:25:49
  Speaker 11: over the line, stepping over her boundaries. So by time
• 1:25:52
  Speaker 11: it was up, I said, I gotta get out of
• 1:25:54
  Speaker 11: this ship. But she came to me finally.
• 1:25:56
  Speaker 7: I was wanting I was. I wanted to said, you know,
• 1:25:59
  Speaker 7: I'm doing all this stuff.
• 1:26:00
  Speaker 11: I didn't got married young, and I just told you,
• 1:26:03
  Speaker 11: I said, bitch, I didn't even want to marry your mother.
• 1:26:05
  Speaker 7: Fucking ass I.
• 1:26:07
  Speaker 11: Got you trapped me. I didn't want to marry your
• 1:26:09
  Speaker 11: motherfucking asss you trapped me. See well whatever, I just
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 11: want to be free. I want to go experience things.
• 1:26:18
  Speaker 7: I want to.
• 1:26:18
  Speaker 11: Experience other men. I was like, cool, hey, cool, I
• 1:26:23
  Speaker 11: went it. Kids had grown up. When we got a shop,
• 1:26:26
  Speaker 11: I said, gonna be a problem seeing my Joey says
• 1:26:28
  Speaker 11: to me, A problem seeing my youngest son with this mother,
• 1:26:31
  Speaker 11: because he was like he was like, uh what Shan
• 1:26:35
  Speaker 11: he'd be like, uh, eleven, we broke eleven, twelve and
• 1:26:39
  Speaker 11: broke up, he said. And it was a problem seeing
• 1:26:42
  Speaker 11: because even though I was cool with it, she wanted it.
• 1:26:45
  Speaker 7: I said, okay, cool.
• 1:26:46
  Speaker 11: Of course I was depressed because there was a whole change,
• 1:26:50
  Speaker 11: but she was gonna came back to me. And three
• 1:26:53
  Speaker 11: years later, can we get back to get us? Oh no, bitch,
• 1:26:56
  Speaker 11: no no no no no no no, no getting back together.
• 1:27:00
  Speaker 7: The days.
• 1:27:03
  Speaker 1: As you wind up what I'd say with that, because
• 1:27:05
  Speaker 1: I was to wind up with that final whatever she said,
• 1:27:08
  Speaker 1: She wants to go back and have fun marriage all
• 1:27:12
  Speaker 1: a fants like in so many friendships. In friendship looking
• 1:27:17
  Speaker 1: at also maybe my parents are looking at literally the
• 1:27:23
  Speaker 1: marriage is also around and learning from many things. And
• 1:27:27
  Speaker 1: even the video of sharing it spoke the same marriage.
• 1:27:30
  Speaker 1: She's not getting to marriage and you're not mature mentally.
• 1:27:34
  Speaker 2: Number one.
• 1:27:34
  Speaker 1: You have to be mature mentally, because the pastor was
• 1:27:39
  Speaker 1: saying how most of the people get into the marriage
• 1:27:41
  Speaker 1: at a very young age because you feel like you
• 1:27:44
  Speaker 1: found the one and now you feel like you're ready.
• 1:27:47
  Speaker 2: By you take time.
• 1:27:49
  Speaker 1: You're knowing each other, getting on each other noise and
• 1:27:51
  Speaker 1: like on each other's face like, you have to tolerate
• 1:27:54
  Speaker 1: each other's everything. Slowly, you're gonna either become not gonna mature.
• 1:28:01
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna become worse and gonna go back to your freedom.
• 1:28:04
  Speaker 7: You become worse, you're gonna be You're gonna become hatred.
• 1:28:06
  Speaker 7: And I said, there, so I knew that exactly, Joe,
• 1:28:09
  Speaker 7: he said, it's true.
• 1:28:09
  Speaker 11: I know that my fuck hated me, hated me, not
• 1:28:12
  Speaker 11: just the disrespect of was the hate, and so, like
• 1:28:14
  Speaker 11: I said, it got so powerful of all kind of
• 1:28:16
  Speaker 11: white men short, it's ben sure what.
• 1:28:18
  Speaker 7: The fuck is going off?
• 1:28:20
  Speaker 11: Mitch you mitcha you play me to the left. You
• 1:28:23
  Speaker 11: got me fucked up up in here. You got me
• 1:28:26
  Speaker 11: fucked up. Now you're gonna get somebody killed up up
• 1:28:29
  Speaker 11: in here. I'm a mom, I'm not gonna tolerate no
• 1:28:32
  Speaker 11: disrespect like this.
• 1:28:33
  Speaker 7: You got me all the way fucked up.
• 1:28:35
  Speaker 11: You you know you play me to the left up
• 1:28:38
  Speaker 11: and here you're gonna get somebody killed. And you got
• 1:28:42
  Speaker 11: my children that play these fucking silly as game. And
• 1:28:44
  Speaker 11: my daughter said, mam, what are you doing? What are
• 1:28:47
  Speaker 11: you doing? Are you crazy? What do you what are
• 1:28:51
  Speaker 11: you doing? But baby, I had no I had no youth.
• 1:28:54
  Speaker 11: Me and your dad Mary young and blah blah blah said,
• 1:28:57
  Speaker 11: then you need to divorce some mom.
• 1:29:00
  Speaker 7: You don't do this. It's my daughter telling the stupid
• 1:29:02
  Speaker 7: ass that you don't you to cross the line. What
• 1:29:05
  Speaker 7: are you doing?
• 1:29:07
  Speaker 11: And the dad's only gonna accept so much. I said, yeah,
• 1:29:13
  Speaker 11: cause you know I'm not gonna get the arm on
• 1:29:14
  Speaker 11: her because he's the mother of my children. But you know,
• 1:29:17
  Speaker 11: and I don't believe it hurt no women. But I
• 1:29:20
  Speaker 11: came close. I can't, I ain't go. I came very close.
• 1:29:24
  Speaker 11: I never beat my children, never put a hand on her.
• 1:29:27
  Speaker 11: But god damn, I came fucking close. I said, you're
• 1:29:31
  Speaker 11: fucking around with but dynamite up in here. You got
• 1:29:34
  Speaker 11: these men showing them at my motherfucking house. You got
• 1:29:37
  Speaker 11: your fucking mind talking about it. Just my friends, my bitch,
• 1:29:43
  Speaker 11: You ain't no child, They ain't your friends. They want
• 1:29:45
  Speaker 11: to fuck you more so, so let's start playing. Let's
• 1:29:48
  Speaker 11: the fact this is fucking stupid. You ain't twenty years old,
• 1:29:51
  Speaker 11: you ain't twenty one. They might friends at friendship. I'm
• 1:29:56
  Speaker 11: gonna be a friend. I'm gonna put a bullet in
• 1:29:57
  Speaker 11: their head.
• 1:29:58
  Speaker 1: Get las continue that much of the conversation another day,
• 1:30:03
  Speaker 1: but it's been an amazing one again to the young
• 1:30:06
  Speaker 1: people who are not yet married, because I even saw this.
• 1:30:09
  Speaker 2: I think yesterday in the morning.
• 1:30:10
  Speaker 1: That was Eminem saying he wished he could advise her daughter,
• 1:30:15
  Speaker 1: his daughter to not get married because the daughter toally
• 1:30:18
  Speaker 1: right now, she's pregnant and she just recently came to
• 1:30:22
  Speaker 1: introduce her husband to be and maybe daddy to be.
• 1:30:26
  Speaker 1: And he was like, I wish I could have advised
• 1:30:29
  Speaker 1: my daughter, but she didn't want to listen.
• 1:30:33
  Speaker 7: Your parents.
• 1:30:34
  Speaker 11: You're not gonna listen to your parents. But my goddaugh,
• 1:30:36
  Speaker 11: because you want to do your JOBY said.
• 1:30:38
  Speaker 7: You're grown.
• 1:30:39
  Speaker 11: You're gonna be grown, so you're gonna do what you
• 1:30:41
  Speaker 11: want to do. It twenty is a your job, is it?
• 1:30:44
  Speaker 7: Sure? That's that's all that is.
• 1:30:47
  Speaker 11: But you know, you when you get caught up, you're young,
• 1:30:51
  Speaker 11: you're twenty twenty one, You get story as you like
• 1:30:54
  Speaker 11: you are in love you but you're to understand this.
• 1:30:59
  Speaker 11: This love is gone, ads in real life is gonna
• 1:31:02
  Speaker 11: happen and you'll be stuck with this mother. But you
• 1:31:04
  Speaker 11: don't even really like to understand love is pleading get
• 1:31:08
  Speaker 11: to know a person exactly, your hormones are shooting.
• 1:31:13
  Speaker 1: I was also saying, well, I and also the same
• 1:31:15
  Speaker 1: discussion with that some friends and they're saying, most of
• 1:31:18
  Speaker 1: the marriagers. The reason why divorces is that a high
• 1:31:21
  Speaker 1: rate is because once love gets in, respect walks out
• 1:31:25
  Speaker 1: and the moment you've lost the respect, that's it. Like
• 1:31:27
  Speaker 1: you guys can stay in the same house where you're
• 1:31:30
  Speaker 1: not showing respect to each other.
• 1:31:32
  Speaker 18: Like, wow, Joey's right when I was, but a woman
• 1:31:36
  Speaker 18: disrespects you and I never knew she never disrespect me,
• 1:31:41
  Speaker 18: but she disrespects me, like it's in.
• 1:31:44
  Speaker 11: My face that got crashed like so, like Joey, shit,
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  Speaker 11: if it came and it was more than this despect,
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  Speaker 11: this was like.
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  Speaker 7: Hey, like whoa Like I'm sitting there, whoa making a slide?
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  Speaker 7: Somebody gonna eat all this ice cream?
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  Speaker 9: And what.
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  Speaker 7: About let theself go? There's all.
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  Speaker 11: But it was like, you know, you would say that
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  Speaker 11: in bart of you love somebody, you say that work
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  Speaker 11: it was it was said like it was it was
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  Speaker 11: said like, uh, to put a dig at me, you know,
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  Speaker 11: you call me get lazy beast off the slant.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, she'll get married and you're ready.
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  Speaker 1: And then also like, the biggest fact I say is
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  Speaker 1: not even love. The biggest factor is always money. So
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  Speaker 1: looking at most of the relationships and discussion we're having
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  Speaker 1: the last week, are people in relationship because we really
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  Speaker 1: like that person for who they are, you're ready for
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  Speaker 1: the ups and downs, or you like them because of
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  Speaker 1: what they can provide, and that includes money, because if
• 1:32:43
  Speaker 1: it's what they provide, it's monetary value that you're actually seeking.
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  Speaker 1: So the moment the values are not gonna be there,
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  Speaker 1: are you gonna stick or are you gonna walk out?
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  Speaker 1: Because that's basically what marriage is all about. Like you said,
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  Speaker 1: it's not about love.
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  Speaker 2: Love. Sometimes it's gonna get to a point you're gonna
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  Speaker 2: get used to each other. A guy.
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  Speaker 11: Being so young to know that twenty five because it
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  Speaker 11: shook me to my core. I says, our relationship about
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  Speaker 11: money and the things that I'm able to avoid.
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  Speaker 19: You a lifestyle, So it never was it was never
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  Speaker 19: nothing real. So that shook me to my core. I
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  Speaker 19: was fucked up. I was like, wow, it's not funny.
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  Speaker 19: Even ever really loved me. It wasn't just hurt trying.
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  Speaker 11: Yeah, I wasn't just trying to Stabis said, lifestyle for
• 1:33:33
  Speaker 11: exactly even love, it was like.
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  Speaker 7: You know, I marry him because he's stable. I can
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  Speaker 7: live a good life, So you know, it's.
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  Speaker 1: Never no money is a big factor. Money is a
• 1:33:47
  Speaker 1: really big factor. And if no one can stay with
• 1:33:50
  Speaker 1: you when you're actually watch them, you gotta let them go.
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  Speaker 1: Like literally, you gotta let even friends like cut them out.
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  Speaker 1: If someone is always gonna show up when you're celebrating,
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  Speaker 1: when you're crying the and pop out, then you're in
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  Speaker 1: the wrong. You're with the wrong type of people. You're
• 1:34:04
  Speaker 1: the wrong friends.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, the wrong. I didn't know. I didn't know that
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  Speaker 7: to lead on too. Like love, I had never been
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  Speaker 7: out of work and lost the job.
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  Speaker 13: You know this happened.
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  Speaker 7: I never lost a job, and I never knew that.
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  Speaker 13: I never.
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  Speaker 11: I an't like that because people used to talk about
• 1:34:20
  Speaker 11: they said, man, never lose your job with black women.
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  Speaker 7: Man, the disrespects don't come in. I just say, nah, man,
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  Speaker 7: that's your bucked up marriage, that's your relationship.
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  Speaker 11: Mine is good like mine is good. It ain't gonna
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  Speaker 11: happen to me. So I've never seen that. That that's you.
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  Speaker 11: I can't see anyone when.
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  Speaker 7: It happened to me. Oh my god.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, it's crazy, but a job.
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  Speaker 1: But job I also says that is beyond disrespectful. You
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  Speaker 1: also as don't let.
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  Speaker 2: The door knob. The don't knob hits you when you.
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  Speaker 11: But don't let that's all black stays are married. Don't
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  Speaker 11: let the door know hit you with a good lord
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  Speaker 11: splitchen slamming door behind you.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you also says your laugh when I say put
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  Speaker 2: Goddamn, I mean try to keep.
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  Speaker 11: I feel pressure jib. But yeah, when I got married,
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  Speaker 11: you can't come up. We're gonna get married. You promise
• 1:36:42
  Speaker 11: we're gonna get married. I said, what what are you
• 1:36:44
  Speaker 11: talking about? We're gonna get married. You're gonna marry me, right,
• 1:36:47
  Speaker 11: I said yeah, And I said yeah, I'm don't marry.
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  Speaker 7: I didn't know, don't marry? So as I said, this
• 1:36:53
  Speaker 7: went back into all parents, all people and ship. So yeah,
• 1:36:58
  Speaker 7: and then a mama, you're gonna say the day where's
• 1:37:01
  Speaker 7: the ring? You're gonna say that?
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  Speaker 11: I said, yeah, damn said so I said it a year,
• 1:37:05
  Speaker 11: I said, a year I get out of I'll cheat
• 1:37:08
  Speaker 11: on her and she'll drop me.
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  Speaker 7: I do some way to sabotize this ship. So I'm
• 1:37:14
  Speaker 7: gonna sabotage this ship. So a year.
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  Speaker 11: I didn't even cheat on him. When when we were
• 1:37:21
  Speaker 11: when we were engaged at that time, my younger brother
• 1:37:24
  Speaker 11: was living on the floor at the time, he was
• 1:37:26
  Speaker 11: still in the army, and so he had these chicks
• 1:37:29
  Speaker 11: come by and her aunts knew. I said, this might
• 1:37:32
  Speaker 11: be my time to get out this ship. But if
• 1:37:35
  Speaker 11: I so my brother had this apartment and these girls
• 1:37:38
  Speaker 11: I wanted to hang out, I said, cool, if I
• 1:37:42
  Speaker 11: fuck around on her with these girls, I'm free.
• 1:37:46
  Speaker 7: The engagement is over.
• 1:37:48
  Speaker 11: I'm free. Hell, yes, you wanna get married now? Because
• 1:37:51
  Speaker 11: I didn't cheat it cool till my brother said up,
• 1:37:54
  Speaker 11: So I get over there. This's my fucking fathers me
• 1:37:57
  Speaker 11: over there.
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  Speaker 7: I got to your bother.
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  Speaker 2: You followed me.
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  Speaker 11: Over there, so i'm my brother's house. These girls in
• 1:38:05
  Speaker 11: the day, they they twins. I said, hell yet, so
• 1:38:10
  Speaker 11: she's not gonna know.
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  Speaker 13: I was like, what, mama comes in.
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  Speaker 7: Here, shake it around. Thank your black boy doing the
• 1:38:19
  Speaker 7: same thing. What have the job?
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  Speaker 11: So she was doing the same thing. The bitches ain't
• 1:38:23
  Speaker 11: got nothing on me. My brother, This crazy bitch may
• 1:38:28
  Speaker 11: get ass eat.
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  Speaker 7: It's crazy. She pressed around because she is attractive.
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  Speaker 1: Pressed around like you know, in your next job, in
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