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Who Proposes When You're Gay? · Life Will Be the Death of Me with Chelsea Handler

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  Speaker 1: Oh, good morning, Good morning everyone. Well it's not really morning.
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  Speaker 1: Who knows when people are listening to this, but some
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  Speaker 1: of them are probably listening in the morning, So good
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  Speaker 1: morning to you guys, good afternoons to the people that
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  Speaker 1: listen in the afternoon. And if you're listening to a
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  Speaker 1: podcast at night, well then a good evening, Brandon. There
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  Speaker 1: has been a lot in the news and it's very upsetting.
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  Speaker 1: Chicari Richardson was tested for cannabis at the trials for
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  Speaker 1: the Olympics after she won or before she won, who knows,
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  Speaker 1: And now she is not going to perform her relay
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  Speaker 1: at the Olympics or compete in her relay at the Olympics.
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  Speaker 1: So this is another sports organization that is completely antiquated
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  Speaker 1: and not up to fucking speed and needs an update,
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  Speaker 1: along with the World Tennis Association whatever the Tennis Association
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  Speaker 1: is for Europe, European Tennis, all of it between Naomi Osaka,
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  Speaker 1: between this two different things but actually not. It's all
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  Speaker 1: about helping yourself cope with something. And this woman's mother died.
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  Speaker 1: Chicari Richardson's mother died, and she was using cannabis to
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  Speaker 1: help herself and ameliorate her pain and now is not
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  Speaker 1: going to be able to compete in the Tokyo Olympics
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  Speaker 1: because of that. So you can drink alcohol, but you
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  Speaker 1: can't smoke something that grows out of the ground from
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  Speaker 1: mother Earth because that is punishable by being eliminated from
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  Speaker 1: the Olympics. So sports needs a big update, a real update.
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  Speaker 1: And I don't know if anyone saw me on the
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  Speaker 1: shop on HBO, but I was around a bunch of
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  Speaker 1: sports figures for the first time in my life, and
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  Speaker 1: it was so that was Tom Brady was there and
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  Speaker 1: Draymond Green, who I've loved he and I, Yeah, that's
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  Speaker 1: my kind of guy. And now I feel like I
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  Speaker 1: do know a lot about sports, so I'm gonna start
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  Speaker 1: commenting on it because of that experience. I spent at
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  Speaker 1: least two hours with those guys, and I don't think
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  Speaker 1: there's anything I couldn't answer now about basketball, football. Majong
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  Speaker 1: Also Britney Spears. Britney Spears is father. It's still her
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  Speaker 1: conservator because a judge denied Britney spears request to not
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  Speaker 1: have her father be a conservator. So there's that. How
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  Speaker 1: do you feel about that, Brandon, Well, I think that
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  Speaker 1: that is laired. From my understanding, Laird Hamilton's Laird Hamilton's
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  Speaker 1: he's in control, he's in the new co conservator. The
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  Speaker 1: paperwork that was filed in November was to remove Jamie
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  Speaker 1: as her conservator. Jamie's her dad, right, and so it
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  Speaker 1: was that paperwork that was actually just recently ruled on.
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  Speaker 1: So her attorney has not yet filed to have the
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  Speaker 1: conservatorship completely dismantled, from my understanding, So a lot of this,
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  Speaker 1: like the paperwork gets filed and then it takes X
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  Speaker 1: amount of time for the judge to their approver deny it.
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  Speaker 1: So it was the last admission to have Jamie removed
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  Speaker 1: that was denied. So now they have to refile to
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  Speaker 1: take her out of the conservatorship like an appeal situation.
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  Speaker 1: From my understanding, Well, that's well, that's his judgment was
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  Speaker 1: that she's denied, so she has to appeal that denial.
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  Speaker 1: But that's not very hopeful. I mean, it's the same
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  Speaker 1: judge unless she goes to an above court, all right,
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  Speaker 1: maybe she'll go to a different circuit or whatever it is.
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  Speaker 1: I saw that she was also recently invited by Congress
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  Speaker 1: to give her testimonial and experience with the conservator program
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  Speaker 1: in California. Well that should be something, But doesn't her
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  Speaker 1: father have to fucking let her go to Washington, d C.
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  Speaker 1: To testify in front of Congress And is he going
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  Speaker 1: to allow that? Well, there apparently there are two different
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  Speaker 1: types of conservators over Brittany. There's the conservator over her
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  Speaker 1: person and a conservator over her state. Jamie, her father
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  Speaker 1: is apparently the conservator over her state, so all of
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  Speaker 1: her money matters go through him. Over her as a
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  Speaker 1: person is Jody Montgomery, who is an outside conservator who
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  Speaker 1: is supposed to be in place really as Brittain is advocate.
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  Speaker 1: So the fact that she said in her testimony that
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  Speaker 1: she can't get married or take out her I U D.
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  Speaker 1: Means there's either a disconnecting communication or people aren't being
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  Speaker 1: truthful with the type of control they have over her.
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  Speaker 1: There are a lot of aspects to this, so I
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  Speaker 1: think it's gonna be a few months before we see
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  Speaker 1: how her recent testimony plays out. Two pretty well. Three,
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  Speaker 1: Bill Cosby's out of jail. That's another disgusting development on
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  Speaker 1: a technicality. So while they don't dispute that he's guilty
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  Speaker 1: of what he did, because of a technicality, he was
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  Speaker 1: let out of jail. So that's the state of affairs
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  Speaker 1: in this country, you guys, Well not this country, because
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  Speaker 1: IOC is an international committee. But that's the state of
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  Speaker 1: the world right now. Well, and now this delta strain
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  Speaker 1: and the delta strain, But back to these three stories
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  Speaker 1: are all examples of white men making the rules and
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  Speaker 1: deciding what's best in the interest of women. What are
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  Speaker 1: we talking about today's sweetheart, What are we talking about today?
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  Speaker 1: Let me look, Well, this is an interesting story. I
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  Speaker 1: think we have two lipstick lesbians and they're trying to
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  Speaker 1: figure out who proposes to who is it who or whom?
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  Speaker 1: Who proposes to whom? And I don't I don't know
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  Speaker 1: in that situation. No, nor do I. I always wonder
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  Speaker 1: about that. I guess whoever is the dominant in the
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  Speaker 1: relationship or well, because they're sexually dominant and then there's
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  Speaker 1: emotionally dominant. Right yeah, Okay, what else are we talking about?
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  Speaker 1: We have a exmission that we get from a lot
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  Speaker 1: of people just feeling lost in life. We're gonna find you.
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  Speaker 1: We You're found. Consider forget hashtag problem solved, hashtag You're found,
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  Speaker 1: and tattoo removal. You don't have any tattoos right, not
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  Speaker 1: that I'm aware of, but I do have something sticking
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  Speaker 1: to my butt. I went out with Joe Koy the
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  Speaker 1: other night and we got we got very very silly
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  Speaker 1: and wasted, and he I came home and I had
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  Speaker 1: a big stick or stuck to my ass, And every
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  Speaker 1: time I go in the shower or a a little bit
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  Speaker 1: more comes off. But I don't know where it came from,
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  Speaker 1: who put it there, or how long it's gonna last apparent,
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  Speaker 1: or how long it's going to be there. So I
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  Speaker 1: may have a tattoo. Who knows. Joe Koy is my
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  Speaker 1: friend from Chelsea Lately. He used to be a comedian
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  Speaker 1: that was on the round table all the time for
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  Speaker 1: Chelsea Lately. And I called him and I was like,
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  Speaker 1: you know what, I want to go over to his
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  Speaker 1: house because I wanted to see. He's building his house
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  Speaker 1: and I'm building something. So I thought, oh, let me
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  Speaker 1: see what he's doing. And then I got there. While
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  Speaker 1: I was driving there, I asked him for the address.
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  Speaker 1: He said, please don't come, Please don't come. I don't
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  Speaker 1: want you to see my house like this, and I
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  Speaker 1: was like, shut up. I said, give me the address.
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  Speaker 1: So I got in the car and I started driving
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  Speaker 1: to his house and like, you know, ten twenty minutes in,
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, this is where am I going to the valley?
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  Speaker 1: And then I looked at the address and I was
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  Speaker 1: still seventeen minutes away, and I just couldn't do it.
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  Speaker 1: So I turned around and I texted him and I said,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not coming. It's too far. And then
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  Speaker 1: he came over to me. Then we went to Katsuya
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  Speaker 1: and we had six grapefruit martinis together, so I mean,
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  Speaker 1: that was ridiculous. And then we went to harv Els
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  Speaker 1: where there was a jazz club. Well, there is a
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  Speaker 1: jazz club. It's called her Bells in Santa Monica. For
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  Speaker 1: anybody ever looking for a cool place to go, that's it.
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  Speaker 1: Then he got home and I was like, Joe, I
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  Speaker 1: don't have my purse. I left it at her Bells.
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  Speaker 1: So he goes, get out of the car, you are
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  Speaker 1: such a mess, and set me up to my room
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  Speaker 1: and did you retrieve your purse? No? I never turned out.
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  Speaker 1: I never even brought a purse out that night because
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  Speaker 1: I had forgotten to take a purse. So he went
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  Speaker 1: back to her Bells looking for my purse. I went
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  Speaker 1: inside was fast asleep while he was pounding on my
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  Speaker 1: door for about forty five minutes worried that I didn't
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  Speaker 1: have my purse. So this friendship is very uneven and
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  Speaker 1: I have to start being a little bit more reciprocal
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  Speaker 1: in my He is just too sweet and too nice
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  Speaker 1: and I am a cunt. Well, you can go look
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  Speaker 1: for his purse next time. Yeah, I'm sick. Uh. I
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  Speaker 1: am suffering from a neck injury, sweetheart, because I got yesterday.
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  Speaker 1: I went to that doctor girl, the girl Vanessa. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and she took my blood out and then spun it
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  Speaker 1: and then reinjected it all through my neck with syringes
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  Speaker 1: and this thing called a stamper. I was pretty numb.
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  Speaker 1: I did that to my face once. Yeah, it was
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  Speaker 1: pretty I think it's going to have some good results.
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  Speaker 1: I can't wait to see it. I know it's like
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  Speaker 1: a it's like having a next strength inner. Well, I
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  Speaker 1: can't tell that you had anything done, so yeah, I'm surprised.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not more bruised. I bruised very easily on the face,
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  Speaker 1: so it's very hard. Am No. I just take et
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  Speaker 1: cetera a lot. Speaking of which we're having all of
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  Speaker 1: your levels tested, So thank you. This is a reminder
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  Speaker 1: for everyone listening to also do your annual physical. Yes
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  Speaker 1: for a breast cancer Awareness month? Is a breastcancer awareness month?
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  Speaker 1: Is it? I don't think so. Let me look when
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  Speaker 1: breast cancer Awareness Month is so we're all in the know.
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  Speaker 1: It sounds like a February month to me. That's the
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  Speaker 1: month of my birth. Sholace a bet on it no
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  Speaker 1: breast cancer Awareness month. Don't you like when you google
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  Speaker 1: something and there's a very question that you ask has
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  Speaker 1: no answer. It's like, what the fund did I just google?
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  Speaker 1: I feel like every time I google something, I get
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  Speaker 1: less information. October Okay, I was surprising. I was wrong.
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  Speaker 1: It wasn't February. Okay, Well it's good to know. I mean, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: Breast Cancer Awareness Month is probably a very important month
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  Speaker 1: to know about, so my apologies. Well we'll circle back
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  Speaker 1: on that, especially with my breasts and your mother. I know,
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  Speaker 1: yeah her too, God rest her soul. I would have
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  Speaker 1: loved to meet Rita. My mom was really sweet. She
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  Speaker 1: was so cute, so snuggly. All of your family is
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  Speaker 1: kind of like that, though snuggly. They're all very like
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  Speaker 1: endearing in their own ways they all have a personality,
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  Speaker 1: and with dear childhood, imagine that everyone was kind of
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  Speaker 1: forced to create a personality. I would think so. But
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  Speaker 1: I like when I meet people and their families and
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  Speaker 1: you find out, like all the little dynamics between siblings
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  Speaker 1: and moms and their daughters, because some moms are totally
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  Speaker 1: fucked up, right, you know, and they're weird around their
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  Speaker 1: daughters and like jealous or they want to like live
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  Speaker 1: vicariously through them. Jealous moms and daughters like that is
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  Speaker 1: so it's so fucked up to have to grow up that.
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  Speaker 1: But that's another example of you loving to see the
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  Speaker 1: interpersonal relationships and workings and dynamics. Because I remember when
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  Speaker 1: I had first started, you had said that you were
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  Speaker 1: going with a friend to meet their parents or say,
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  Speaker 1: at their family's house in Oakland, and I was very
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  Speaker 1: surprised by that, thinking, oh, she's going to hate that,
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  Speaker 1: but you came back and you loved it, like, oh no, no,
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  Speaker 1: It's so interesting to see like how these interactions go
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  Speaker 1: between you know, one of your friends and their families
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  Speaker 1: who you've never met, and you've done this now with
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  Speaker 1: some of your local girlfriends and their moms and now
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  Speaker 1: you're close to their moms. You did it when you're
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  Speaker 1: up in Canada, because I don't have one, so obviously
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  Speaker 1: I'm into moms and I have an aunt. It should
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  Speaker 1: be acting like my mother, but she can't because she's
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  Speaker 1: such a bit like whatever I am times a hundred
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  Speaker 1: is what my aunt is. And so she loves me,
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  Speaker 1: but she doesn't like me, your aunt Cabby. She she
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  Speaker 1: lives locally. She's an interesting personality. I wouldn't use the
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  Speaker 1: word bitch, well what would be the word she? If
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  Speaker 1: I say her solitude? If I text her and say
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  Speaker 1: are you home, she will lie because she does not
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  Speaker 1: want me to come over, and she'll say, no, I'm
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  Speaker 1: not I'm sleeping. And that's how I know she'll she's
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  Speaker 1: there and to go anyway. But like she doesn't want
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  Speaker 1: anything to do with me. She I like to spring
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  Speaker 1: my appearance by her, like I just like to show
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  Speaker 1: up unannounced, so she's forced to see that's what the
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  Speaker 1: move is. And yeah, and so she hated COVID because
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  Speaker 1: she didn't get to see all the grandkids in the
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  Speaker 1: regular cycle that she normally does. But she liked it
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  Speaker 1: because she doesn't want to be socializing anyway. And she
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  Speaker 1: wants an excuse to have to stay away from people.
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  Speaker 1: We both have a Gabby and I. We both have
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  Speaker 1: a love of crafting and of baking, and so that's
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  Speaker 1: a commonality that we have. So we'll text about that occasionally,
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  Speaker 1: like this two story Joanne's fabrics at the craft store
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  Speaker 1: if you weren't aware, just opened up and we did
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  Speaker 1: a text exchange about that for a couple of days,
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  Speaker 1: which was so nice. Yeah, she's into crafting. I mean
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  Speaker 1: I don't even yeah, I mean crafting. Actually, when I
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  Speaker 1: went to Thanksgiving this year, I think it was was
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  Speaker 1: a Thanksgiving when I went up to that rate cabin
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  Speaker 1: that that was a couple of years ago, you know,
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  Speaker 1: with Molly and the family, It wasn't a couple of
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  Speaker 1: years ago. Was with my sisters, just like on the
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  Speaker 1: lake that you had to come. You've had two bad
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  Speaker 1: Thanksgiving experiences, right. That's why I don't mingle with that
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  Speaker 1: family over the holidays, because they seemed to like do
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  Speaker 1: it one step under what I'm comfortable with. They want
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  Speaker 1: to do it like the Pilgrims, and they love camping
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  Speaker 1: like they love to camp. And I'm not going to
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  Speaker 1: pretend I want to camp or try to camp. I tried,
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  Speaker 1: it's not a good fit. We're not signing you up
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  Speaker 1: for so there's no reason to make anybody suffer with
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  Speaker 1: me or go camping with people and had them be
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  Speaker 1: exposed to my lack of camping ability. The last time
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  Speaker 1: we went up there, whatever holiday was my sisters and
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  Speaker 1: I went or Simone and Seneca and Jordan's and I
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  Speaker 1: went up and we stayed in that little that cement.
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  Speaker 1: I told you that it was like a little cell block.
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  Speaker 1: And so the first night I was like, Simone is like,
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  Speaker 1: do you think you're going to make it? And I
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  Speaker 1: was like, of course, I can sleep. And you were
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  Speaker 1: supposed to be there for four days. I think like
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  Speaker 1: we had packed you up, You're ready to go, and
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  Speaker 1: you were excited to go to I was excited. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: when Brandon packs me up, especially when I bring the dogs,
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  Speaker 1: it's exciting because then I feel like I'm a parent.
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  Speaker 1: And you love. Something people may not know is you
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  Speaker 1: love to drive, like around town, you'd like to drive yourself,
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  Speaker 1: and you also like to drive on a road trip.
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  Speaker 1: Well that's new. I like to drive on road trips new.
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  Speaker 1: But when I went up to this this event, which
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  Speaker 1: I'm convinced. With Thanksgiving, my sister and I slept in
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  Speaker 1: the same bed, and that's also hard to do because
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  Speaker 1: she stores and she has sleeping issues. But now, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I just have to hit her and she says and
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  Speaker 1: she stops, but you know, why do I want to
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  Speaker 1: even deal with that? So then the second night, I
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  Speaker 1: was like, I don't know if I can make it
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  Speaker 1: the second night. And then I was like, come on,
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  Speaker 1: you can't be like that, Like you've got to be
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  Speaker 1: able to sleep in this for two nights, you know.
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  Speaker 1: And then I made it the second night, but I
• 13:48
  Speaker 1: woke up with like six of the morning packs of
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  Speaker 1: the car and was out like suddenly you're home. I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: what the funk are you doing here? This is not
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  Speaker 1: on the agenda. You're yeah, it was, but they knew.
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  Speaker 1: You know, what's great about family is that they know
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  Speaker 1: who you're dealing with, so you don't ever have to
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  Speaker 1: like pretend like, oh no, I'm I like it here.
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  Speaker 1: I like sleeping block, I love it. I can just
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  Speaker 1: be like, no, Gabby, it's terrible. I don't want to
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  Speaker 1: spend another night here. And they're all happy when I leave.
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  Speaker 1: Anybody probably I know that's kind of the expectation with
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  Speaker 1: my family as they they'll know because I'm so particular
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  Speaker 1: about basically everything, but for them as well, like I
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  Speaker 1: want everything to be set up a certain way for them,
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  Speaker 1: and like how I would conduct myself on their behalf,
• 14:33
  Speaker 1: so that way, when I go to their homes, they're
• 14:36
  Speaker 1: always on high alert, like what what is going to
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  Speaker 1: make him comfortable? What do we need to do? But
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  Speaker 1: I feel like that's a nice way to operate for people,
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  Speaker 1: Like I don't want it to be stressful, but they'll know.
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  Speaker 1: I'll go get a hotel if I'm not going to
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  Speaker 1: be comfortable there. I don't want to pretend right right, right,
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  Speaker 1: right right and be like, oh this is O. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'm fine using a bathroom that doesn't have any toilet paper.
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  Speaker 1: That's something you do in your early twenties. That's like
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  Speaker 1: people a guy specifically where they go on these trips
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  Speaker 1: to Palm Springs and it's you know, a five or
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  Speaker 1: six bedroom house and they will have twenty fucking people
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  Speaker 1: staying there. Because the guys that go to Palm Springs,
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  Speaker 1: nothing is worse to me than Palm Springs, the desert,
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  Speaker 1: Like we need to get hotter than what it already
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  Speaker 1: is here. It's fucking hot already, and it's dry. I
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  Speaker 1: don't understand the appeal of going to don't sign me
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  Speaker 1: up for palm Springs and we're not going to sign
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  Speaker 1: you up for camping. Excuse me, I have to clear
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: my throat because I've I've probably smoked too much pot recently.
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  Speaker 1: You smoked a joint on the way here, as a
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  Speaker 1: matter of fact, Well that's what I'm talking about. And
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  Speaker 1: you're wearing a cream jumpsuit and you asked all over yourself. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it was a hot mess on the way in this morning. Actually.
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  Speaker 1: But it's so fun to be able to go to
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  Speaker 1: work together, sweetheart, because we have just one more activity
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: that we did sometimes after we take this podcast, we
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: go rollerblading. Our schedule, yes, has really fallen into place.
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: So it's like we're a couple that works together, that's
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: home together because you come in the mornings and then
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: goes to work together. It's just like Dr Phil and
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: his wife. So we've been doing the podcast and then
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: going rollerblading, and we're trying to see how far we
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: can go. We're so we're starting in Santa Monica. We
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: want to get down to like Manhattan Beach, so we're
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: pacing ourselves and then we will circle back and we'll
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: go to Blue Plate Taco or Blue Plate Oysterette and
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: have a little lunch and margarita, have a couple of margarita's.
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: It's really the best way to work. I mean it's great.
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: I love a juice boost, you know, like eleven thirty,
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: just a margarita, just to like kick things up a
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: little bit so that you have a little bit more
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: interest in the next three hours. Well, and it also
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: that is when your creative juices get flowing, once you
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: get through your first margarita, because we've also been working,
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: You've been working on your stand up notes. Yeah, I'm
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: doing a lot of stand up dates, so you have
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: to look for those. And that's when you really get going,
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: is after that first margarita sets in, the second one
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: has been delivered, and yeah, I like a to margarita lunch.
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm into, especially when they can make them frozen,
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: the skinny ones frozen. Oh my god. It reminds me
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: of like one of those vacations where there's like just
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: mango margarita is coming towards you on the beach. You know,
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: like Bora bora where they hand you like a passion
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: fruit margarita, frienzen margarita, who I love margarita's. People don't understand,
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: like when I've gone skiing and we do lunch, that
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: I always want a margarita. Don't you want something warm
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: and coffee? People don't know what they're talking about. When
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: it's hot out. Just because it's cold out doesn't means
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: you need something hot to drink, Like people are still
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: drinking are you? Are you three months old? I mean,
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: come on, regulate your body temperature. Margaritas are refreshing because
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: you're exerting energy when you're skiing, and so it's like
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: you're thirsty. I will say, when we're skiing together, we'll
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: get out, we'll stop for coffee or something after I
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: don't know who you're talking. We'll stop and have a
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: drink or get something, and then like we'll do lunch. Well,
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: Sophia will get a hot chocolate and a cookie normally, yeah,
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: but a coffee. No one's getting coffee. Well, we get
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: something in the morning, and then for lunch, it'll be
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: a long lunch and by that time someone will have
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: already passed edibles. Out, So you really have to be
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: on your game after lunch because you're a little runk
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: and you're probably stoned. Well you know, yeah, you don't
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: want to be drunk skiing first of all, that's irresponsible.
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: You want to have a nice buzz. You want to
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: have a buzz so that you're a little braver, not
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: a little bit more reckless. That's when I feel like
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: I can tackle me well, and I have. We've were
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: ended each other in Central Park, not yet, but I
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: think it's on the docket. It will happen at some point. God,
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: that would be so no, No, that would be terrible.
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: That would be a great twist and that would be
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: a deal breaker and relations. That would be something Connie
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: Britton could play on Bravo. Oh god, I saw Connie
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: the other night. I had dinner with the Connie and
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: a couple of other girlfriends. As the woman that that
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: was duped by dear John. I was like, listen, are
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: you over playing her? No, she's underplaying it. And it's fascinating,
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: like there's just social incompetency or a regular incompetency technological well,
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: I have tacked in loud a col incompetence. So that's
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: what you try though, Well, I think that's part of it.
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: So annoying. Technology is so annoying. The fact that I
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: have five remotes in my bedroom is like so annoying.
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: I want to shove all of them up your asp
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: I know you do, and then they all control different things.
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: We have the fireplace, her nightstand, lamps. We have three
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: remotes for the TVs. Right now, I have to the
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: remote for the lights is the lamps is over the
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: top because I would like to keep going to turn
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: it on when I'm reading. So that would be nice
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: if you could rewire that, sweetheart, Well I just did that,
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: so you don't have to get up out of bed
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: to turn them both on or off. I spent a
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: lot of time in bed, you guys readjusting to l
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: A life has taken its toll. It's like she's a narcaptic.
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: I know she will fall asleep. She fell asleep in
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: her eyeshades at three pm this week. I went upstairs.
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: I was literally calling to her as a sweetheart. Sweet
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: her up the stairs and she was passed out, no movement. No,
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: that was it because the TV didn't work. You don't
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: smoke cigarettes, because if you did I sound like I
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: do today there because I can't stop clearing my throat.
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: I want to apologize to a list knows how annoying
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: is that, so I won't smoke a joint again on
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: the way to do a pie. Yes, I am okay,
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: Well I may have forgotten it this morning, but you
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: know check. Also, I am on tour. My tickets are
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: officially on sale. We've added a couple of extra shows,
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: and we are adding a Canadian date that I can't
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: announce yet because we're gonna announce it July thirteen. So
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: for my Canadian brothers and sisters who are reaching out
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: to me just now that I'm headed there, it's just
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: we're gonna be announcing dates as we go. But you
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: can buy tickets a ticket Master for my shows. I'll
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: be playing my next big show. I'm at the Santa
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: Barbara Bowl August one, so you can come see me there.
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: I'm warming up this new act, this new one hour
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: stand up at a bunch of clubs. So there are
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: still tickets at one of the clubs in Appleton, Wisconsin
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: for the ten pm show, which is on September. So
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: if you live in that area, there are about I
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: don't know how many tickets there are left, but there
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: are some. And then I have all the other cities
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: that I have already released, and tickets are available, and
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: I can't fucking wait. It's called vaccinated and a horny,
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: So make sure that you bring your vaccinations and your
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: horny nous and then keep them to yourself, please. And
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: on that note, I am feeling so horny that we
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: need to take a break so I can just climb.
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: I can't even pretend that I would do something like
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: that in a podcast studio. We're going to take a break.
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: Should we take some calls? Okay? Our first submission comes
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: from well, we don't know their name, but they're twenty
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: four and they write, Dear Chelsea, I'm a twenty four
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: year old music student at Juilliard. Should I keep hooking
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: up with my friend who is in an open long
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: distance relationship with a girl who is a sexual. There's
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: a lot to unpack here. Okay, what do you think
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: is he on the phone? No? This this was just
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: a write and I imagine because it's nature. Read that again,
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: Dear Chelsea, I'm a twenty four year old music student
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: at Juilliard. Should I keep hooking up with my friend
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: who is in an open long distance relationship with a
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: girl who is a sexual. I don't see why not.
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: I mean, this seems like a home run opportunity unless
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: you're getting emotionally involved. But other than that, yeah, go
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: for it. Yeah, open relationship, that's the green. What pops
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: up or pops down? Pops off? See what pops off?
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: And thank you for writing in. We don't know your name,
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: so we'll just call you Lucifer. I guess, so you
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: have our seal of approval. Good luck on that. Let
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: us know how it goes. That was mind blowing. I
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: mean anything of a certain age, So like that age,
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: I'm glad I'm not so drunk all the time. Well,
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: can you imagine having to deal with everything that people
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: that age are going through right now, like the political
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: correctness of the genders and everything, Like we're all trying
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: to keep up with it. But the younger generation gender fluid,
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: a sexual, like, who the fun knows what's going on there?
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: I don't know they know because it's that they live it.
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: We're the ones that have to keep up because it's
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: not like what we grew up with. So we're the
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: ones who were like, I have to understand it. They
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: understand it, so it's not you know, I think it's
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: easier for them. You know, this is also probably much
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: more of a norm now for people that age so
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: twenty four, like being in an open relationship and the
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: different types of sexualities. A sexual, I think that means
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: that they're not sexually interested in anyone or anything. So
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: I don't know even know why they're being a relationship
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: with someone who's a sexual because it's like us, it's
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: an emotional attachment. Yeah, well, but would you describe our
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: relationship as a sexual, Well, not with how often I
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: try and see you naked? Well, yeah, you do walk
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: in on me and I get a lot, but that's
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: just because I don't have a door to my bathroom.
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: That's probably what I should be doing since I've been
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: so bored. I should pick up one of those hobbies
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: where I'm like, you know, I'm Pinterest making a little
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: like furnitured boards of what I want my house to
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: look like, something like that when you went up to
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: Canada because you had quarantine for two weeks, and you
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: asked if you should start online shopping, And I don't
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: think i've ever I've ever been more worried about it.
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: What am I gonna do for the quarantine? I mean,
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: I'll read, but there's only so many hours a day
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: you can read a book, you know. I can't read
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: for eight hours. I was like, what should I do?
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: Should I take up online shopping? Do you think I'd
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: like that? That's gonna be a hard No, I know,
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: but I don't want to get involved with anything like that.
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: Lucky for me, you get through one page and forget
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: what you were doing exactly. I would be like, yeah,
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: what am I doing on this side again? Okay? So
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: our next submission comes from Julian from the UK, and
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: Julian writes, Dear Chelsea, I've always loved your honesty, integrity,
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: and how genuine you are. My question, what would your
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: advice be to anyone who's feeling lost in life or
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: unsure about themselves and their direction? This seems to be
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: a common theme. Everyone's going through it. So let's see
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: what's going on, Julian, Julian, are you there? Hi? Yes?
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: How are you? Oh? Hi? Julian, Hi, Julian, Hi, How
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: are you guys? We're good? How are you doing? How's
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: how's how's COVID doing over in London. Oh yeah, it's
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: going really well. Yeah, it's it's okay. I think we're
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: on our way out hopefully sur surviving for sure. Yeah,
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: how about you guys. Yeah, well it's going well in
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: l A right now. But you know, every time you
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: think you're out of the woods, there seems to be
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: another go round of it. So who who knows? Who knows?
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: You're cute? Thank you? Likewise, thank you? Well, what's going on?
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: What is going on? Lots of things? So um, I
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: guess the basis of my question kind of stemmed from
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: my personal experiences and circumstances over the last few years,
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: which were kind of in relation to my career, relationships, friendships,
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: mental health and so on. However, I guess on the
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: flip side of that, I think there's a lot of
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: people who are going through the same thing as me
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: at the moment, So I thought it would be good
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: to get your advice on on the situation and see
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: if you could help me and so many other people
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: to to kind of help get contract after such a
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: difficult year and with everything that's been going on, Right, Brandon,
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: would you like to take the lead on this, Well,
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: I just wonder if there's a specific Like you listed
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: off some categories in life, like is there a specific
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: Is there a specific one that you feel like you're
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: having the most trouble kind of confronting or getting like
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: getting over that hurdle. Well, sadly, for me, it all
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: happened at the same time. But if I was to
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: pick one, I guess mental health is really important to me,
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: and I know something I was struggled with for for
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: a number of years. So in terms of feeling kind
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: of lost and unsure, I guess I deal with depression.
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: So for me, it's quite difficult when there are circumstances
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: going on that you can't really control, you know, how
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: do you kind of get through that? And what would
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: your advice be to to kind of keep going and
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: get yourself back to a good place. I mean, I
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: would focus on what are the good things that are
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: happening in your life, like what's going on with your job,
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: your family? Do you have a boyfriend, girlfriend? Um, not pregnant, no,
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: currently single. Happily, I'm quite blessed. I've got a great
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: family and friends. But my circumstances previously, UM, I lost
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: a lot of people quite close to me. And when
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: I say lost, I mean they're still with us, just
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: not with me thankfully. And my career, you know, I
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: changed my job, I had to really change my whole life,
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: and then COVID happens. So it's just kind of been
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: one thing after another and you feel like you can't
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: catch break. Well. I just think, first of all, it's
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: not like you're loaning this. Obviously, half the world is
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: feeling this way. More than half the world. More than
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: half the world feels like they've lost something right this
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: last year has it's like you're on a constant treasure
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: hunt for like the next glimpse of happiness or the
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: next positive thing to happen, because every time it seems
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: like we're it's on the horizon, like Chelsea said, something happens.
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: But I think that in those moments, it's really important
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: to have something, a hobby and outlet that when you're
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: down or depressed or in that sort of emotional state
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: where it's kind of hard to dig yourself out, you
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: have to have something that you can implement, And also
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: you don't want to be a victim of your circumstances.
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: Then you're like letting the world run you and you're
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: not running anything, so like being even you like you
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: know it's been so hard on you, of course, yeah,
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: but like what are you gonna do with this opportunity now?
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: You know, don't be a victim. We don't none of
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: us want to be that, because that's just like graveling.
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: You know, you have to go. God, Yeah, this was
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: fucking tough. And if I survive this, I can survive
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: so much more and kind of pick yourself up and
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: start with all the good things you have going on
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: in your life. Reminding yourself every morning when you get up,
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: you know how lucky you are to be where you are,
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: regardless of what happened in the past. What's happening right
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: now is you having to be like in your life
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: getting things kick started again, which is the way so
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: many people feel. So you've got to get your juices flowing.
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: And I think that Chelsea is obviously a big believer
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: in meditation. And I try and do it consistently, and
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: you know, I fail. I try, and I do it
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: in the morning. Now. I used to do it midday
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: and I got to meditate this morning actually, and I
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: usually do it first thing when I get up, but
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: lately my meditations have been so lame that I'm just like,
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: but it really does set your day on a better path.
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: So I kind of used it as a coping mechanism
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: where if I was stressed, I would text her and say, hey,
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: I'm taking tendons outside whatever as a coping mechanism for
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: working for me, for associated with it, but trying to
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: start your day off in the way that she mentioned,
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: either kind of giving yourself the affirmations of the positive
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: things or the little goals that you're going to have,
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: Because when you feel those little successes, I think everything
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: else feels a little less detrimental. Yeah, and every day
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: should be like an adventure, you know, when you're getting
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: up in the morning, it's not it's not like you
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: have to write affirmations or yeah, you could write down
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: in a thing like you know, three things you're grateful
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: for that way you're getting out of bed with like
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: some juices going, like some positive vibes. I think that
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: everyone's problem is just to have more positive vibes, right,
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: Like everyone can work harder to take the negative and
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: turn it around and make it positive. Well, it's so
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: much work to be negative all the time, you know,
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: it'sou draining, I know, Julie. I will say the way
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: that you kind of recounted the people not being in
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: your life is a positive thing, Like you obviously have
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: a positive disposition, like your recounting, Well, I haven't. Yeah,
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: that's the word I don't is And I like the
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: way you used it. I was sexually attracted to just
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: then we have that dynamic. So I think just implementing
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: more of that that you you know, the people who
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: were baggage and not contributing anything, they're no longer there,
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: and you know, that's a positive thing. There's always a
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: way to spin the circumstance in a positive direction. And
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: the more you do that, it's going to feel like
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: less work. Yeah, definitely, well said Brandon. Yeah, I would
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: agree with that. You seem really cool, Like, yeah, I
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: think you're gonna be just fine. Thank you. I hope.
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: I wish I could prescribe medication overseas. I would prescribe
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: you something fun, but I can. I only work here
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: in the United States. I'm sure I can find something here. Okay, good? Yeah,
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: do you smoke cod and do you drink? Like? Do
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: you have fun? Well? That's good, I mean you have
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: to at this point. But I know right like, this
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: isn't the time to be sober or even experiment with
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: sobriety exactly. No, I don't have time for that. So
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: the first two weeks of the pandemic, like when we
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: were quarantining for our first two weeks, which we thought
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: would be our only two weeks, I treated it like
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: it was spring break. Like I did mushrooms every day.
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, what drugs do I have today?
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: She was like an amust child on rum spring up.
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: I mean, she was like anything that she could get
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: up to she was. She's like, I only have this
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: two weeks. Yeah, nothing, I can't leave my house. It
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: doesn't matter what happens. Like, I'm just gonna I had
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: like a hundred milligram THHC capsules that I was taking.
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: I tried those out. I was like, let's see what happens.
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: And then when I realized it was going to go
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: on for more than two weeks, I was like, oh,
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: ship like and then zooms became, you know, the like
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: the big thing. I was like, Oh, I'm gonna have
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: to get my ship together. That was the word. I
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: definitely killed off some brain cells during those two weeks.
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: For sure, those two weeks were the best for both
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: of us because no one knew how to work, and
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: I was just dropping off egg mcmuffins McDonald's eg mcmuffins.
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: He put in my freezer and freezer pack them for
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: me because that's my favorite thing to have. I'm like,
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: if the apocalypse is coming and everything shutting down, I
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: need her to go out on a high note, literally
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: high with McMuffin. Yeah. Anyway, stay away from egg mcmuffins because,
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: as you'll know, I'm sure they cause damage and you
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: don't need that in your life right now. No other
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: unsolicited life advice. Take care of Julian. Thank you so much,
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: guys appreciate it. He was one of my favorite callers.
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: He was so likable. It's some of these people that
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: are really likable that just needed to kind of recalibrate
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: their thinking. Yeah. I think a lot of people also
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: don't laugh a lot. I think that's a thing because, like,
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: when I've gone through periods without laughing, I notice it.
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: I'm like, why aren't I laughing? Like when I'm not
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: making you know, I'm like being too serious or I'm like,
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: you know whatever. People in their heads, taking things too seriously,
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: taking things too serious, and nothing's that serious like my
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: And this is actually a piece of advice that I
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: gave you. Way to toot your own horn. Well, one
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: of the first times I ever did it, I remember
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: being so uncomfortable trying to like, you know, open up personally.
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: And you were really upset about something. I can't remember
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: what it was, and basically it probably was. And my
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: aunt always would ask me, is it really worth being
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: mad over? If I called her with an issue or
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: if I was upset about something? And the answer is
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: almost always know, like when you're really face to answer that.
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: And so I did that to you one day. You
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: were upset about something, but you have to put it
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: in perspective is it really worth being mad over? And
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: you totally changed your outlook like, actually, no it's not.
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: So let's just like correct it and move on. Yeah,
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: it's so lame to be in a bad mood. Also,
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: you know, it's like just so not hot. It doesn't
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: do anything for anyone. Well, no, no, it doesn't. It's
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: not like anyone get Yeah, well, let's see how this
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: next color is. Her name is Lacy. She's from California.
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: She is a child sleep therapist, or maybe she can
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: help you. Spee hard and Adula. We need to put
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: two birds with one stone. I can have a baby
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: and sleep through the night. If you could sleep through
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: having the baby. Oh well, I would rather sleep after
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: the baby is born. I would rather sleep through that. Well,
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: my bell will be taking over at that point, so
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: will though I really be taking over at that point.
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: She writes, Dear Chelsea, I would like your advice. My
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: girlfriend and I plan to spend our future together and
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: that means we would like to get married. However, with
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: both of us being lesbians, feminine lesbians, we don't really
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: know how to propose. I personally would like to be
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: proposed to. However, she also wants to be proposed to.
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: How would you suggest we go about this? Any ideas?
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: This is a quick fix. She's on the phone. Okay,
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: let's see what's going on. Hi, Lacy Chelsea. You're a
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: feminine lesbian. I could see thank you? Yes, Okay. How
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: long have you guys been together? We met seven months
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: ago in the height of the pandemic. Well that was good.
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: I'm glad you guys were being safe during the pandemic.
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: Hooking up exactly. And how's it been going. I mean
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: seven months, that's like, okay, so you know you both
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: know and committed. Yes, yes, when you know, you know.
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: But I mean to put it simple, we met at
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: the beach in Santa Monica, and the rest is history.
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: So there's a lot going on with the circumstances of
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: your meeting being at a beach during the pandemic. But
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: I'll support that's good. They were outside, that's safe. That's
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: one thing. We need to take you to the beach
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: to try and find you somebody. Yeah, six ft apart, Yeah,
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: six ft apart. They were just, you know, finger blasting
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: each other six ft apart exactly. Yeah, Chelsea. I think
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: what you guys are like, you know, a modern couple.
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: I think you should just if you want to be
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: proposed to and she wants to be proposed to, I
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: think you should have a conversation and say, listen, I'm
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: going to propose to you, and I want you to
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: propose to me, and let's plan on doing that together.
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: I mean, because otherwise one person is going to do
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: it and then the other person is going to be
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: let down right well correct, But that's the conversation we've
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: already had. Oh yeah it oh it is mean. Yes,
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: So we need a good idea, Chelsea, like an idea
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: for the double proposal. But are you going to be
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: proposing at the same time or rule one of you
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: propose at a certain time and the other person. See,
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: that's what I would do. That's my question, you guys,
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: that's a logistical that's a logistical question. And sweetheart knows that.
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: Sweetheart it does not know anything about logistics. This is
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: also that's your department. This is a calm and problem
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: with gay couples. And this is something you can ask,
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: like who pays for dinner when you're both men? Are
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: both women? And the same thing for proposing? How do
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: you know who proposes to one another? Sometimes there's a
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: more dominant person in the relationship. Are you the more
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: dominant one? Well, that is a good question. I think
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: it's pretty equal. That's why I'm having a hard time
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: with this. So what so what about you just going
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: for it and proposing like on your own and then
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: I could do that and then letting her just figure
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: out her own thing. So I do it first? Yeah,
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: like you want to do it? Like, yeah, that's kind
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: of it's kind of hot to do it first anyway, right, Yeah, yeah,
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: it could be except for the possible repercussions of that
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: of the girlfriend being pissed. So what you don't understand
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: Did you agree? Did you agree with you agree that
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: you won't both wanted to be proposed to, but you
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: didn't agree that it had to happen on this at
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: the same time. Did they okay? Because I'm like, miracle ear,
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: we should do an ad for miracle ear because I
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: was like, did I fucking miss something? Oh yeah, no,
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: I think you should. Then you should just go for it.
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: Just proposed to her and do it and like be
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: like I wanted to do it my way and I
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: want you to do it your way, and that way
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: it gives her the room to, you know, still do
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: it right. It's exciting. Congratulations. I'm so happy that you've
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: found somebody that you love this much like I would
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: love to find somebody that I was that excited about.
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: Maybe you will keep telling you to become a late
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: in life lesbian. Everyone Everyone is becoming lesbians. Everyone something, Well, no,
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: they are because they're sucking over men. They're like, oh
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: this is you. Guys are so disappointing over and over
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: and over again, that we're just gonna start going down
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: on women. That's what a lot of women are doing.
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: And I might you're right, who knows, you know what,
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: I probably will end up being a lesbian Okay, I know.
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: I just I'm like, I like men. I'm attracted to
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: men in a big way. I'm losing my attraction to
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: that slowly over time, but I keep thinking that there's
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: gonna be some guy out there that I'm just going
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: to be really into, possibly or up, and we'll take
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: you to the beach and we'll find you your lesbian lover. Okay.
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: My last piece of advice on this, maybe you set
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: a time line or a time frame that you if
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: you do it first, then she has, you know, three
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: months to plan her thing and do it that way,
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: so that way you don't feel like you both don't
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: know when it's happening. Or maybe you set a certain
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: amount of time that you both agree on of when
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: the first person is allowed to or pull a fucking straw,
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: so you know, like then it's fair who who gets
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: to propose first. But I definitely think I definitely think
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: you each setting up your own proposal so you can
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: do it your way, based on what you know the
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: other person would appreciate is going to be the best
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: experience for you both. So you're saying, whoever does it first.
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: I'm saying that there's I think she should just propose, like,
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: just go for it and fucking do it already. Okay, yeah,
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: be bold. I think that's my advice. Let us know
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: how it turns out. Who who ends up proposing? Yeah, sweetheart, Okay, yeah,
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: I'm going to talk to my sweetheart now because I'm
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: you know, that was a confused We have to work
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: in concert. Well, we have different perspectives on this because
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: as a gay man, this is a struggle that we
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: all face. Okay, you're never going to face that. You
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: don't need to hear this part of the conversation. We're
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: going to say goodbye, Lacey, thank you, have a great day.
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: Bye bye, sweetheart. Stop exposing everybody to our dysfunctional sweetheart.
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: I look like Nick Nalty. I think your face looks great,
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: looks very You look very glowy today, do I? Yeah?
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: Did you use that empathy product? Yeah? Yeah, I use
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: that new hempathy product, and I was testing it out
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: to see if I like it on so far, I do.
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: I hope more people right in with cosmetic related questions
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: because that's my favorite topic. I know you love to
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: do you love to take care of your skin anything,
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: facials and any sort of Yeah, a roma therapy or
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: you into a roma therapy. No, not so much into that,
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: but my candle therapy. Aroma therapy just like smells, but
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: it always smells like ship. My favorite is when you
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: think that I've had botox and I have it. Yeah,
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: your forehead looks like you've had a lot of botox,
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: and now, oh that's weird mobility. So you have a
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: little bit one of those like what are those cavemen
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: from the early times? What are they called? Chocolate? Chocolate chocolate? No,
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: I'm not thinking of that, but yeah, pro magnum chromagnum. Yeah,
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: you look a little bit chro magnum. Then with your
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: it's where like it's a little cave man asked, It's
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: like where there you were, it's very full right here
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: in the brow. Yeah yeah. And then with your middle part,
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: like you look like you could be, you know, half
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: a palf man I'm missing, like you could you could
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: have come from that line of you know, well we
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: all did, so I imagine there's gonna be not very smooth,
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: but well, but anyway, it's good to know that cave men,
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: we're getting botox. Also, it started somewhere this would be
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: a perfect time to insert our botox commercial. We're just
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: dishing out this advice today and I feel like we're
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: getting through them very quickly. I love our callers are
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: so none of them are annoying, you know. I mean,
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: obviously somebody will be, but that's everyone's so cool one
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: for sure. Oh yeah, yeah, I know, for sure. I'm
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: I'm waiting. Well. Our next mission was actually a voice
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: memo submitted by Tina, and so if you would like
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: to send a voicemamil, you can do that as well.
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: You can send it to Dear Chelsea project at gmail
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: dot com if you don't have the time to call
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: in and send us a voice momo. I love a
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: voice mamo. Let's listen to what she has to say.
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: Dear Chelsea, I need your advice and whether to remove
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: my tattoos completely off my body since they suck, or
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: repair the current ones to look cooler instead of the
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: piece of ship I have. Yes, I shouldn't have done
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: it to begin with, but the damage has been done
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: and removing them is very painful, with numerous appointments and money.
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: But I'll do it if you pay and film the
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: horror promise. You're lesbian tattoo friend Tina. Why if I
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: have to pay for her to get her tattoos removed
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: and then film it repaired. I love that you gave
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: me two options, removed or repaired. I personally just I'm
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: not a fan of tattoos. No, I'm a Jew, so
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: it's like, it's not that I follow anything else, like
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: at anything about religion about my own other than trying
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: to be a good person. You can't be buried in
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: a Jewish cemetery if you have tattoos. I am not
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: going to be wanting to be buried anyway. Sweet. Actually,
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: that's that's conversation we need to have. Yeah, I want
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: to be cremated, and you can just throw me in
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: the garbage. I do not want to be cremated on
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: the record. Do not cremate me. You mean for the record,
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: for the record and on the record, Okay, do not
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: under any circumstance. I want to be buried because I
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: want to be brought back. I want there to be
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: some DNA left. You're being ridiculous. I looked up being
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: cry genically frozen. There's a company in Arizona. Okay. So
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: how much does it cost? I don't know, but you
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: have to have somebody handled the account. That's like forty
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: years young. I think it's a hundred and fifty thousand.
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: But there are two different options. You can just have
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: your head crygenically frozen, in which case they would like
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: implant your brain into another body and then come back.
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: Possibly you come back a hundred years later. Yes, I
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: don't know about that. That would be really scary. I
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: got a tattoo while you were way and I posted
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: about it while I was in my tattoo session, and
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: you deemed me immediately about the tattoo. Were you disappointed
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: that I had gotten a time? I just was surprised. Well,
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: this is something else to know. More life advice is
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: sometimes your body refuses the ink, which mine has done. Well,
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: there you go, so it has now faded into Basically,
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: maybe maybe I got had the ink disappear with my
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: power of thought. You probably did out your tattoo. You
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: wanted my body to let go of the ink, letting go,
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: letting go. That's a book everyone should read. You've given
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: it away to multiple people. Oh yeah, that's a great
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: book by David Hawkins. I read it like three times
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: when I was in Whistler. It's really good. So did
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: we she on her own? I mean, what are you thinking? Uh, Tina, Yeah,
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: it's not a decision for us to make. I'm not
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: going to pay for your tattoo removal. I can't start
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: paying for things when people ask and right in because
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: then that's what the show would be and I'd have
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: to do much more than a podcast to sustain it.
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: But it's a decision you're going to need to make, Sister,
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: on your own, without our help. You got yourself into
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: this mess, Now touch yourself out of it. Goodbye, Tina. Okay,
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: it sounds like it's time for a breaky breaky, breaky breaky.
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: We'll be right back. Okay, Well, there was definitely abroad.
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: It seems like we didn't do very much heavy lifting today, sweetheart.
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: Let's be honest. No, but those will come. Do you
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: think if you weren't a comedian that you would want
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: to do something with counseling or like, no, if I
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: weren't a comedian, what I would want to do is
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: get paid to watch television and sit on my maybe psychology,
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: I don't know, and it would have to involve travel
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: and sociology. Maybe sociology, anthropology. It's never too late to
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: become an anthropologist, Brendan, There's always an option. Would you
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: ever go to college? Did you ever actually enroll if
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: we were filming it for like, you know, a documentary
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: series or something. Yeah, we've talked about toing that before.
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: We just haven't gotten around to it. Because but I
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: would Yeah, I'm interested in learning, and I'm also would
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: be interested in getting swept up in the social aspects
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: of college, just because I would just I would totally go, like,
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: you know, join a sorority, become the president and tell
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: all these girls like how to fucking you know, keep
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: everyone in line and like be bosses. I would love
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: So I would love to have that influence over a
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: bunch of eighteen year old girls, Are you kidding me?
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: Like they would be fucking cunts by the time I
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: got done with them, they'd be ready to attack. So yeah,
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: I could see myself doing that. I don't remember what
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: happened with that. We were talking about it, but then
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: we never really got into it, so we'll we'll revisit.
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: Put that on your notes section. I will bring up
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: I will, I will, I will thank you. Yeah, lightload today, lightlift,
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: but we'll see what happens next week. Do you feel
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: like that you have the qualifications to continue advising people
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: at this level? I mean, I don't know that I'm qualified.
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: I'm going to keep doing it right, and that's the
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: important thing. I'm no quitter, right, and quitters never win.
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: Good Night. If you want any assistance with your partner,
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: your best friend, really, anything, you can write into Dear
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: Chelsea Project at gmail dot com. Dear Chelsea Project at
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: gmail dot com.