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Are Narcissists DEMONS In Disguise? · The Mental Healness Podcast

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  What is going on, beautiful people?
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  Today we're going to be answering the age-old question.
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  Is narcissism demonic? Is narcissism a demon or is it
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  from the devil? If you're new here, my name is
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  Lee Hammock. I'm a diagnosed narcissist, not
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  the devil. And welcome to another episode
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  of the Narcissist Code. So boom, welcome back, folks.
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  Welcome back. Welcome back.
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  Yes, yes, yes. The age-old question, right?
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  What kind of bear is best? That's a ridiculous question.
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  False black bear. Oh, Jim and Dwight.
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  I missed the Office, but yes, y'all.
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  Is narcissism a demonic entity? Is it?
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  Is it demonic force and whatnot? I y'all again, y'all, I'm not a
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  super religious person and I know, I know some people when I
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  say that they feel like that's that automatically disqualifies
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  me from speaking on this. But I speak, I've read the
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  entire Bible from beginning to end.
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  I've read the entire, I've read the entire entire Quran.
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  So I understand why people think that narcissism is a demonic
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  force. That's why people think
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  narcissism is a demon or it comes from the devil.
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  I yeah, I truly, truly get that. But the reason I don't think
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  it's a demonic force is because like when you say narcissism is
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  a demon, right? It's like you're you're you're
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  absolving the actual human being of accountability because you,
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  you're blaming it on the devil. When you say God can heal all,
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  it is like you're putting it on God to heal a person who's not
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  putting the work in Y'all as y'all, as y'all know, y'all
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  believers, non believers, faith without works is absolutely
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  dead. DOA is dead on arrival.
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  Now you can pray all you want to, but if you don't, if you if
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  you have the ability to get up, get up off that couch and put
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  some work in or do some stuff like that, then in this space
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  right here in this space right here.
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  It's just so many things going on right here.
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  Y'all just like in this space, you have to be able to put the
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  work in you if you able to get up off the couch and work and
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  just put in grind. This is what you need to do.
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  You mean this is what this is the type of stuff you need to be
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  able to do in the heel and the pop up from and to just grow
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  from You know it's baby steps in the right direction.
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  There are absolutely baby steps to get to where you want to go
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  to, but you have to put the work in.
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  Like, so I don't think, like I said, saying it's a demon or
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  it's a demonic entity. It's a, you got to, you got to
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  have an exorcism. Like I took my, I took my
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  narcissistic ex to church. And you know, this is, this is
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  what I imagine that some people think when you say narcissism is
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  a demon, right? This is what I imagine some
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  people think like you took, you plan on taking your narcissistic
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  ex to church and you got like a bottle of holy water in your
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  pocket. You don't let the you don't let
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  the pastor know that you're on the way.
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  Like y'all got walkie-talkie. He's talking like Pastor Frank.
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  Pastor Frank we walking in. Be careful.
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  His head might start smoking like you're expecting your
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  partner's head to set on fire or start smoking like vampire in
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  Brooklyn. You know what I mean?
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  It's just like you take them in there like you, you throw some
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  holy water on them. You do you do some you do the
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  write a passage, you some some rosemary's and you think a demon
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  is going to hop out your partner and the the line cheating demon
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  is going to hop out your partner and run out the church, Like
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  your partner is going to wake up and she's like what what
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  happened? I'm not, I don't feel the need
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  to cheat anymore. I'm healed.
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  You know, that's not going to happen, y'all?
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  This is what I imagine what people tell me.
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  They say narcissist, but they that's what that's really what I
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  imagine people saying. Imagine what's what's going to
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  happen. I know that's not going to
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  happen, y'all. And I know I'll just make jokes.
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  It's it's jokes. I'll make jokes.
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  Yeah. I have to bring humor and levity
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  to the situation. I absolutely have to.
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  Or just like people cry through it, but I just don't think it's
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  a demon because you when you say it's a demon, it just takes the
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  pressure off the person, you mean, But instead, instead of
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  actually going to do some mental health work, the person would
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  just go to church. You know, I'm not saying church
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  is not I'm not saying church can't help, you know, I mean,
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  because absolutely the reading the Bible, getting closer to God
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  has absolutely helped me. Reading the whole Quran has
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  absolutely helped me. But also I've been in therapy
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  for seven years. So I feel like that's in tandem.
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  I feel like I had the faith and I put in the work.
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  You see what I'm saying? I've been in seven years, the
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  third, but I read the whole Bible, I read the whole Quran.
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  I have the fact I try to pray every single night.
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  I thank God for trying to thank God for every single thing I
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  have even some of the even through the struggles.
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  But the faith, it's the faith part.
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  Put it and give giving it to God.
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  But you know, like I'm still got to put the work in, right?
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  I still have to work behind it. I still have to work with it and
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  I still have to put I still have to grind and do what I need to
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  do in those circumstances, in those situations.
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  I have to be able to do that. Y'all, this is what I have to go
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  on this, you know, see, this is what's going on in my mind.
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  So faith without works is dead. Like you can't pray the
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  narcissism out of your party. You can't pray for them to stop
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  cheating on you. You can't pray for them to see
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  your worth. You know what I mean?
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  You can't pray for them to stop being abusive and putting their
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  hands on. You can't pray for them to stop
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  just lying and manipulating and stealing.
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  You can't pray for them to just get up off, get up, you know, to
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  go find a job or work or whatever.
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  If they're not doing it, they have to want, you can pray for
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  them, y'all, but they have to put the work in, right?
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  They absolutely have to. They have to want to work.
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  They have to just be, you know, I'm not.
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  Yeah. I'm not thrilled to go to
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  therapy, you know, just truth be told.
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  I used to take shots before I walked into the therapist.
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  I used to be so nervous to talk to the therapist.
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  I used to take shots of alcohol before I walked into the
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  therapist's office. Ain't that crazy?
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  That's how nervous I was. That's how much shame I had
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  building up in me outside the therapist office that I felt
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  like I would have to take shots of liquor before I walked into
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  the therapist office. I wasn't drunk, but I was just
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  like, tipsy. It helped me be more open.
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  You know what I mean? You know, it helped me be more
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  open in order to fight the shame and whatnot.
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  That's what I've had to battle through.
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  It's really what I had to battle through.
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  It's really what I've had to do over such an.
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  It's such a long process, right? So I'm just telling you right
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  now, they're like, don't just put it all on a demonic force.
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  Don't just all put it all on, on demons and whatnot and just try
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  to pray it away. They still have to put the work
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  in because, yeah, being realistic.
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  And this is not me being realistic and this is not me
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  just trying to, you know, pickle anybody.
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  But a lot of times, religious people can be the easiest to
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  manipulate because you don't have to see things to believe in
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  it, right? You have faith, which is faith
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  is beautiful, but you don't have to have that physical evidence.
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  So they can just tell you have their faith.
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  I prayed, God, talk to me. They can lie to you.
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  They can. You don't think a narcissist
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  would lie to you and tell you that God spoke to them?
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  Hell yeah, God ain't talking. They would just tell you
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  straight up. God, send them a text message.
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  God, no, God, me and God, we go back and forth on WhatsApp, huh?
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  You know God send me a Snapchat. No, they you don't think they
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  would. You don't think that they would
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  use God to try to manipulate you.
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  They absolutely will. They absolutely will.
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  They will make you a target because of your belief.
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  Sometimes they sometimes they target you because of your
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  faith, because of your belief. Sometimes that's what they do
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  because you have this power within you, because you have
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  this strength within you, they will absolutely target the hell
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  out of you because you have the faith, because you have the
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  belief system. You know what I mean?
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  They don't let your you. Don't let your religious belief
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  be your downfall to an abuser. Don't let it be.
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  Don't let it hold you to an abuser.
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  Don't let it just, you know, don't let it attack you to this
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  abusive narcissistic person for longer than you need to be
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  attached to them. You know, Don't let it get to
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  the point where you can't set yourself free because you keep
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  thinking that God's going to change this person.
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  They have to want to change. You mean you go read the Bible.
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  God was hardened in hearts. You see what I'm saying?
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  God was in in the Bible, hardened in hearts.
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  Like if God sits in with Moses, what was it Moses and say Moses
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  and his brother Aaron to go talk to the Pharaoh and God heart in
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  his heart. God's like, no, don't let him
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  go. Pharaoh, Pharaoh like hell no,
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  you ain't. You ain't taking him with you
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  then come to plagues then you know isn't there.
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  You come to plagues going through Egypt and whatnot.
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  There was some hardened hearts in the Bible.
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  You know, maybe your partner has a heart and heart and they have
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  to work through something. They haven't been living in
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  faith. They can't be living in faith
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  and cheating, y'all. They can't be living in faith
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  and putting their hands in it. Can't be living in faith and
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  stealing from you and lying to you and manipulating you and
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  gaslighting you. How you living in faith and
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  doing the devil's work? How you doing that?
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  Wait, tell people straight up just, you know, I love my
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  religious folks, but it gets to that space where you don't want
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  religion to be your downfall. I'm not telling you that.
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  I'm not telling you to give up your religion.
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  This is not absolutely, this is absolutely not what I'm telling
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  you to do. Don't try.
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  You don't get it twisted. Don't get it confused.
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  I am not telling you to give up your religious belief.
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  I am absolutely not saying that. I'm just saying don't let people
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  take advantage of your religion, your religion.
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  Don't let people use it. Don't let people just try to
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  stake a claim in it when they're clearly not religious.
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  They're not living in faith. There's a lot of people out here
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  masking being a religious when they're actually some of the
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  most evil, heartless wrenches wrenches in the in the world.
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  So don't let, don't let, don't be too steeped in your faith
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  that you let an abusive manipulator, toxic,
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  narcissistic, lying bastard into your life.
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  You know what I'm saying? They might be the devil.
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  You might need to pull that water out of it.
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  Hit him with it. You mean this way this, this be
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  on on a first date. That's what you do on the first
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  date from now, if you got if you got a date right, if you got, if
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  you got a date with somebody from the somebody from outside
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  of the church, somebody, somebody from inside the church
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  get you some holy water dip. Look, dip your little bottle in
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  the holy water. They just like, hey, can I can
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  I, can I anoint you? Now this is the first date.
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  Let me anoint you real quick. If you put that holy water on
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  their head and it starts sizzling and popping, get up and
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  leave. I'm, I'm gonna go to the
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  bathroom real quick. You might have to excuse
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  yourself to the bathroom and dine and dash dine and you got
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  to dine and dash on the devil. But anyways, y'all, I love
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  y'all. I want the best for you.
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  I really, really do. I'm so grateful for every single
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  one of you. I'm so grateful for my journey.
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  I'm so grateful for the role of God has played in my journey.
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  My faith has played in my journey.
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  I just hate seeing people get manipulated because you are
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  steeped in faith and they are not.
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  You mean so don't just put it on the demon or the devil whatever
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  because it just takes the responsibility of the person to
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  change people just think oh God I can pray it away.
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