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- 0:00Music.
- 0:40Okay, y'all, we're all so busy, and I know it can feel impossible to do all
- 0:45the things for weight loss, plus everything else you have to cram into a day, right?
- 0:50So today, I'm going to share my single biggest tip for how to manage your weight
- 0:55loss, even in the crazy of your days.
- 0:57And it takes no more than a minute. So let's get into it.
- 1:02Okay, y'all, when I was reflecting back on, you know, I will plan out my content
- 1:09topics ahead of time for the podcast.
- 1:10And so when I was looking ahead for this episode, I was like,
- 1:15oh my gosh, I cannot believe I have not talked about this.
- 1:18I mean, I know there's probably been whispers of it, not whispers,
- 1:22but like, you know, inklings of it in some of the episodes, but this topic deserves an entire episode.
- 1:29Okay. And so let me just start with, I know that everybody is so busy.
- 1:35Lord have mercy, do I know it. Okay, me too. Same sis, right?
- 1:38And so it kind of stinks though, because if you sign up for a weight loss program,
- 1:43or you just commit to trying, you know, to do X, Y, and Z to lose weight,
- 1:49you mentally commit to doing things that are typically associated with weight loss, right?
- 1:56Like tracking your calories and your macros, moving your body more,
- 1:59drinking your water, getting more protein, the things we're always talking about
- 2:03here, right? You mentally commit to those.
- 2:05Okay. But the problem is, especially if you're not used to doing any of these
- 2:09things, the problem is, is that the minute your life gets a little more overwhelming,
- 2:14okay, or the minute your stress level gets too high.
- 2:19You let go of things, which I'm always saying here, right?
- 2:23It's like, if you're overwhelmed, if you're stressed out, what can you let go
- 2:26of? What can you say no to, okay?
- 2:28But what stinks is we often let go of the things that feel most unnatural to
- 2:34us or feel most burdensome to us.
- 2:38And if we haven't gotten into a good weight loss rhythm yet,
- 2:42if we haven't gotten comfortable with the tracking or the exercise or the water
- 2:46drinking, those are the things that go first, right?
- 2:49Because they're the easiest to drop and they're the easiest to blame, right?
- 2:53Because they're the most recent ones that we've picked up that may have led
- 2:56us to feel that overwhelmed, okay?
- 2:59And so I really hate that. And that's not really for this episode today.
- 3:05But what is, is I want to talk about something else that you can do, okay?
- 3:11Even when those things do feel overwhelming. They shouldn't,
- 3:16you know, if they're done correctly.
- 3:18But even when those things feel overwhelming, when you just feel like,
- 3:21oh, my gosh, I cannot fit another thing, like between, you know,
- 3:25getting everybody out of the door in the mornings, work stress.
- 3:29I know a lot of my ladies go through seasons where work stress is higher than others.
- 3:33And then, you know, kids stress if you've got ball, if you've got dance,
- 3:37if you've got all the things in the evening, plus just getting home and actually
- 3:40trying to spend some quality time with your people, right?
- 3:42Like, because that should be priority whenever we do find a window of time.
- 3:47I know all of those things already feel like not burdensome because you don't
- 3:53want to say, you know, spending time with your people is burdensome,
- 3:55but they take your time, okay? We only have so much time in a day and they take your time, okay?
- 4:00And so I want you to know that your weight loss is not completely,
- 4:04you know, not going to happen if you can't put all those other things into practice.
- 4:10We're going to talk about the one-minute habit. if you could just get into this
- 4:14one minute habit, it would change your life and it would change your weight loss.
- 4:20Okay. And so that is to take a beat.
- 4:23Okay. And I'm going to talk about this. That's what this whole episode is going
- 4:26to be about, how to take a beat. Okay.
- 4:30So thinking about it in the, in the context of just like we're advised to do
- 4:34before we make any decisions, right?
- 4:37Like if your boss came in your office and started yelling at you and was just
- 4:42telling you all this crazy stuff,
- 4:44you know, your initial impulse reaction might be to say like, I quit.
- 4:48But we have been trained, right? We know better.
- 4:52And so now we would take a beat before we just hollered that at our boss,
- 4:56right? Like we would walk off. We would take a breath.
- 4:58We would, you know, give ourselves time to cool down, okay?
- 5:02Same in a fight with your husband, right? What do all the therapists say, y'all?
- 5:06Walk away and cool off for a minute and then come back to it,
- 5:10right? When there's a big decision at hand, like when you have a life-changing
- 5:15decision at hand, do you make it in five seconds?
- 5:19I mean, sometimes we're forced to, but most of the time, no ma'am,
- 5:21we pray on it. We dwell on it.
- 5:23We really want to make sure that that decision is the correct decision, right?
- 5:27So you are taking a beat there, right? We do it with our kids.
- 5:33You know, we encourage them to take a minute, okay? Slow down and take a minute.
- 5:37Finish your coloring project and try to stay in the lines.
- 5:40Like don't hurry through your homework, right? Like all the things take a minute,
- 5:44okay? And so I use this term a lot in weight loss, taking a beat,
- 5:50which is basically giving yourself time to think through.
- 5:54Okay. And it, y'all, it should not, me saying that should not feel like burdensome or heavy.
- 6:00Okay. No one is asking you to shame yourself when you take a beat.
- 6:04No one is asking you to come up with some 20 step recipe when you take a beat.
- 6:08Okay. And so I'm going to give you some examples of what this can look like
- 6:12for just, okay, When you are in the midst, specifically, it's when you are facing
- 6:17food in general, across the board, when you are facing food, take a beat.
- 6:23Okay, so I'm just going to start throwing out some examples here because I think
- 6:26these are really relevant for a lot of you and can be really helpful.
- 6:30And then by the end of this episode, you will fully understand what I mean by
- 6:35taking a beat when you come in contact with a food situation.
- 6:41Okay, so the first one is, and my clients know all about this,
- 6:44we have a whole tip sheet on this, okay?
- 6:47And it is, like, say you're at a buffet, or this is specifically something we
- 6:53use heavily during the holidays.
- 6:55You're at a buffet, or you're at, like, you know, Thanksgiving,
- 6:58where everybody brought a dish, and the whole counter is filled up with dishes,
- 7:03right, of creamy homemade goodness, right?
- 7:07So we say, take a beat and walk a lap around the entire table, okay?
- 7:13Take a beat if you're at the buffet and walk. I mean, people have gotten annoyed
- 7:18with me for doing this before, but ask me how much I care.
- 7:20You take a beat and you walk up and down the buffet line to see what all is
- 7:24offered before you grab your plate to fix it, okay?
- 7:28So what this does in this example is it gives you a minute to survey,
- 7:33okay? You're saying, oh, they've got the mac and cheese out today.
- 7:37Oh, they've also got, you know, butter beans. They've also got the fried chicken.
- 7:41They've all, you know, you see the things that they've got available.
- 7:44And then you can mentally make note of which things you want to splurge on.
- 7:51Okay, because around here, we are not never saying 100% no to the splurge foods, right?
- 7:56But we are making sure that the things we choose are actually worth it.
- 8:01And so oftentimes at a buffet or especially at Thanksgiving,
- 8:03if we're at the beginning of the line, we see something that's like starchy
- 8:08and cheesy or whatever. And we're like, okay, that looks good. Let me grab it.
- 8:11But then we get further down the line and we're like, oh crap,
- 8:14I got the macaroni salad. I didn't realize they had the macaroni and cheese too, right?
- 8:21And so then what do you do? You put the macaroni and cheese on your plate too. Right?
- 8:24Right? Whereas if you had known that macaroni and cheese was at the end of the
- 8:28line, maybe you would have skipped over the macaroni salad. You feel me?
- 8:31And so of course, once we've filled the plate, y'all, when we sit down,
- 8:36we all become members of that clean plate club.
- 8:38So it's really important to kind of protect the plate, for lack of a better
- 8:43word, before you fill it up.
- 8:46Okay. And so by taking a beat, you are taking that minute to kind of look and
- 8:51say, okay, these are the things I'm going to fill, you know,
- 8:54make sure I put on my plate because they look the best to me.
- 8:56Visual matters too, right? Like if you tell me that there's macaroni and cheese
- 9:01on the line, okay, that don't mean nothing to me until I see,
- 9:05is that macaroni and cheese made with elbow noodles or is it them Kraft macaroni noodles?
- 9:10Because, you know, it's a different, like I don't want the box macaroni and cheese.
- 9:13I'll save my calories for something else, right? But if it's some homemade macaroni
- 9:17and cheese, I'm choosing it. You know what I'm saying?
- 9:20And so it gives you that visual image of kind of seeing what looks good.
- 9:25And then you feel more confident in fixing your plate with the things that you
- 9:30know are worth it in your mind that day.
- 9:33Okay, so that's one example of just taking a beat instead of picking up the
- 9:37plate and walking down the line kind of blind to what's coming next.
- 9:41Another example of taking a beat is before you make your plate at dinner.
- 9:45So you have been busy, you got home from work, hurry, hurry,
- 9:49hurry and getting that dinner on the table.
- 9:50Before you fix your plate, take one breath, mama.
- 9:54Okay, take one breath and remember your intentions.
- 9:57Okay, remember what you set out to do when you woke up this morning when it
- 10:01came to your weight loss.
- 10:02Okay, most of us blow it in the evenings. I mean, it just is what it is.
- 10:06We kind of do our best throughout the day and we stay busy with work,
- 10:09but it's like once we hit that door, we want snacks, we want dinner,
- 10:13we want desserts, we want all the things, right?
- 10:15And so before you make your plate at dinner or, you know, wherever,
- 10:18any meal, honestly, but specifically your problem meals, okay?
- 10:23Remember your intentions. Just say, okay, I set out to try to stay within my
- 10:28weight loss calories today.
- 10:30I am going to make my plate with decent sized portions.
- 10:34If I decide I'm hungry again, or if I'm still hungry, I'll come back for more, right?
- 10:40But start before you make the plate, again, once it gets on the plate.
- 10:45I mean, I don't know many people that's just going to leave it there.
- 10:48Okay, not myself included.
- 10:50So once it gets on the plate, it's kind of like game over, right?
- 10:53So before you make your plate, take that beat and remember your intentions.
- 10:56And it's the same in the evenings. Like if you're one that has a habit of going
- 11:01back for dessert, specifically, I have a lot of mamas that,
- 11:05After they get their kids in bed, they like, they want something.
- 11:08It's like, they feel like, okay, I have survived the day, right?
- 11:12And so I need a release, right? Which is not, that is not, there's nothing wrong with that.
- 11:17But do you need the ice cream? Take that beat and say like, am I really hungry?
- 11:22Are my taste buds even just dying for this ice cream right now?
- 11:26Or is this a habit that I have formed out of needing to just take some quiet
- 11:32time for myself, you know, and to say, great job, mom, you know,
- 11:36you did something awesome.
- 11:38And so then what else could that look like if it's not the ice cream?
- 11:41Could it look like, you know, turning on your favorite show,
- 11:44reading a book, taking a hot bath without your phone nearby? Hello. Okay.
- 11:49Taking a beat a different way after you put those kids for bed.
- 11:52Okay. Is the same as making your plate, you know, at dinnertime.
- 11:57And then another example of taking a beat is to just simply ask yourself,
- 12:01are you hungry before eating it?
- 12:02Okay, this is huge in my break room. People, my people who always have stuff
- 12:06up in their break room, Lord, I'd be praying for y'all every day.
- 12:08Okay, because I know it's so hard.
- 12:11But like, are you really hungry?
- 12:14Do you like, are you really hungry for the three hour old kind of getting crusty donut?
- 12:19You know, are you hungry for like
- 12:21the sus, you know, casserole that's been sitting there for a hot minute?
- 12:25Like, are you even really hungry? Or are you just like walking by and it's just
- 12:30your typical routine to grab something out of that break room or to grab something
- 12:36out of the pantry when you're at home, you know?
- 12:39So asking yourself, take a minute before and just say, am I hungry?
- 12:44Okay, and you know what? The answer, like, it doesn't even matter what the answer
- 12:47is, right? Because some of us will be like, I'm going to say no,
- 12:50and I'm still going to grab it, right?
- 12:52Right? I mean, and so it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter.
- 12:55Because the most important part is that you are becoming aware of yourself and
- 13:02of food before you consume it, okay? And that is the ultimate goal.
- 13:07And then eventually, after that awareness is so strong and it is so there,
- 13:13you will eventually be able to settle into saying, you know what?
- 13:16No, I'm not hungry right now and I'm not going to have this,
- 13:19you know, like, but that comes, that comes, but the awareness is the first step
- 13:23in this process of just mindful eating across the board and feeling like you
- 13:27have more control over overeating.
- 13:29And so just asking yourself, am I hungry?
- 13:33Before I eat it, the answer could be yes, the answer could be no,
- 13:35you could eat it, you could not eat it, whatever, up to you,
- 13:37but just asking yourself the question. Okay.
- 13:40Also sipping your water for a minute before heading to the food, right?
- 13:44That could be a really way, a really good way to take a beat, right?
- 13:48So you could kind of make a habit out of before I put anything food wise in
- 13:53this mouth, I'm going to drink my water for a minute.
- 13:57Okay. That could just be a really good practice for you because what are you
- 14:00doing when you're drinking your water?
- 14:01You're thinking about, okay, my next step after this was going to be to go grab
- 14:06that cupcake that was, you know, left over from the birthday party,
- 14:09but do I, am I really hungry?
- 14:11You know, do I really want to eat it right now? That kind of thing. Could I cut it in half?
- 14:15All, you know, all the things that are just forcing you to think ahead about
- 14:19the action before it takes place, okay?
- 14:23Another example of how to take a beat is when you get to that drive-thru window, y'all.
- 14:30Tell the drive-thru lady you need one minute.
- 14:34Okay, like if we are creatures of habit at our typical drive-thru places,
- 14:41our typical restaurants, you know, all the things, if we are creatures of habit there,
- 14:46you're going to panic at the drive-thru window and just say,
- 14:49okay, can I get the number two or whatever it is, right?
- 14:53And so empower yourself here seriously and just say like,
- 14:57can I get one minute and spend some time I'm scanning that menu for something
- 15:03that you feel comfortable with for, of course, what your taste buds want,
- 15:07but also for your weight loss intentions, okay?
- 15:11That is the, like, there is not much that stinks more than kind of setting out
- 15:17to do good in a day and then out of panic, sheer panic, not even like cravings, right?
- 15:24But out of sheer panic, when you had to order out or whatever,
- 15:27you just made an impulse decision that turned out to take you way over for the day.
- 15:32Okay, so tell the drive-thru lady you need a minute. Scan the menu ahead of
- 15:37time if that's possible.
- 15:40Y'all, I am known for telling my kids, we are pulling through this drive-thru. I need you to be quiet.
- 15:45Okay, and you know, that's common. That's common, Kirsten. We need to teach our kids that anyway.
- 15:51Our kids don't need to be hollering in the backseat while we're ordering anything anyway.
- 15:54But mainly it's for me, right so that I can focus on the menu and figure out
- 15:59exactly what I need and then exactly how to order for the rest of the family
- 16:03okay so asking that the drive-thru lady for one minute.
- 16:06So you can confidently make a decision on that drive-thru menu so that then
- 16:11you don't get to use that as an excuse for why you didn't, you know,
- 16:17meet your weight loss goals today. Okay.
- 16:19Another way to take a minute is to just slow down between bites.
- 16:24Okay. Put your fork down. And I'm talking to myself, y'all.
- 16:27I've been having some, like I had some, a gastritis flare. I had to take off this medicine.
- 16:32And anyway, I got an upper GI and I have a hiatal hernia, apparently.
- 16:36And so the nurse in my post-op or whatever, is that what you call it when it
- 16:43was just like a little procedure?
- 16:44But anyway, he, yeah, I guess it's post-op.
- 16:47He said to me, I said, I said, what do I do with the hyaluronid?
- 16:51Like, how do I best manage it? And he said, slow down when you eat.
- 16:56And I literally started laughing hysterically because that is the hardest thing for me to do, y'all.
- 17:01I hunch over that plate of food and I scarf it down. OK, so I just think it's
- 17:07so funny that like that was my my number one, you know, charge.
- 17:12There were a few other things he told me to do, too. But and then here I am telling you about it.
- 17:16But it is it is very hard to do, especially when we have been go,
- 17:20go, go, go, go all day long. Right.
- 17:22But try your best to slow down. OK, put your fork down.
- 17:26OK, take a sip of water between bites.
- 17:29Talk to your people. OK, it's so funny, my kids.
- 17:32You know this has been going on for a little over a
- 17:35month now and so my kids and obviously Jess are
- 17:38really aware of me trying to eat slower and
- 17:42they're also aware of how hard it is okay for me to do and so during during
- 17:47dinner now we play Halo Buffalo every night at dinner and usually one of the
- 17:53kids go first and so it has been hilarious Sarah Mason will say mom I'm
- 17:59I think you need, I think it needs to be your turn for high-low buffalo.
- 18:02Like she'll pay attention to how I've been eating nonstop and not checking up.
- 18:07And she decides when it's time for me to do my high-low buffalo because they're
- 18:13trying to, you know, force me to stop eating for a minute, right? And to slow down. Okay.
- 18:19And so they're trying to take care of mama's poor little hiatal hernia.
- 18:24But so yeah, just that, right, can help obviously our digestion and help us
- 18:28feel the fullness triggers sooner, right?
- 18:32But it also just keeps us in check, mentally in check with, hey, we're eating, okay?
- 18:37And this food tastes good. And I'm happy to be here. I've got my two feet on
- 18:42the floor. I am present, right?
- 18:44And all that matters in your weight loss. If we are speeding through life in
- 18:49every blink of life, it is so hard to be present. And it's also so hard to reach goals.
- 18:55We think the faster we go, the closer we're going to get to our goals.
- 18:58Maybe that is the farthest from the truth.
- 19:01Okay, so slowing down between your bites can really just keep you more present,
- 19:05keep you more grounded, and prevent overeating later on in the meal.
- 19:11Another way to just take a beat
- 19:13is to sit back and take several breaths before going back for seconds.
- 19:19Okay, so just, okay, your plate is full, and you did the whole thing.
- 19:24You said, And, you know, I'm making small portions because I remembered my intentions.
- 19:28That's what you said when you were making your plate, right?
- 19:31And so you have now finished that plate of small portions and you're like,
- 19:35well, I need to go back for seconds. That's kind of like your initial reaction, right?
- 19:38Because still want to eat some more food.
- 19:41Just sit back, sit back, spend a couple minutes of just breathing,
- 19:46listen to everybody, you know, taking part in the conversation,
- 19:49whatever, to allow yourself to really see if you actually are full and you just
- 19:54haven't given yourself time to notice it yet. Okay, that one can be huge.
- 19:59Another way to take a beat is before you head to food out of emotion or stress.
- 20:09Y'all, this is such a big one.
- 20:11When we are overwhelmed, when we have had a chaotic day, a stressful day,
- 20:15it is so natural for all of us to head to food to solve it, okay?
- 20:22And that will always be the natural reaction until you change it.
- 20:29If we have been doing something for 20, 30, 40 years as a natural response to
- 20:38stress or overwhelm or emotions, that is not going to stop happening.
- 20:44And you are not going to stop being disappointed in yourself until you put in
- 20:49an action step. You put in like a filter to stop it. Okay.
- 20:57And so when you can be mid, I mean, you can take it all the way to mid eating,
- 21:03right? All the way up till that point.
- 21:05But if you could just drop the cookie, okay? And think, okay, I need to take a beat.
- 21:12This cookie is not what I want, right? If you were on the way to the pantry,
- 21:16if you were on the way through the drive-thru, baby, get out the line, okay?
- 21:20And tell yourself, this food is not what I need to solve this problem, okay? I need prayer.
- 21:28I need some big, deep breaths. I need some calm, okay? But I don't need food
- 21:35because it's not going to help you.
- 21:37It's not going to help you solve the problem or the emotion, right?
- 21:40So just taking that beat before you go into that natural reflex habit of yours
- 21:48can really be very, my goodness,
- 21:52for my ladies who feel the emotional eating to their depths, right?
- 21:55That can be very impactful for your weight loss, right?
- 21:59Because what happens is obviously you didn't binge because, okay, you had the emotion.
- 22:05You took a beat. You said, no, no, no. Maybe I'll just like literally walk to
- 22:08the mailbox and back, take a deep breath, call my mom, like whatever you need
- 22:13to do, like you rerouted that response, right?
- 22:17So sure, you saved yourself probably a ton of calories because you didn't go
- 22:21eat all your feelings, right?
- 22:23But then also, you're going to find some pride in that later on.
- 22:27And with the pride comes the confidence.
- 22:30Okay. And so then, oh my gosh, it happens again next week.
- 22:34You had another stressful day, something your boss said or something,
- 22:37you know, your husband did or whatever, and you do it again instead of going
- 22:41to, you know, get the pantry.
- 22:42Oh, you were almost there this time, but you didn't do it.
- 22:45You called your mom. You went on a walk. You took a bath. You read a book,
- 22:48like whatever it is, and you didn't do it again.
- 22:52And so now, oh, you're even a little more confident, right? Like you're flexing that muscle.
- 22:57And so not only is it helping you, obviously, with your weight loss goals because
- 23:02you're not consuming all that extra food,
- 23:04but it's helping you with your mental strength and your emotional strength around
- 23:11food and your confidence in facing it, right?
- 23:15So just taking that beat can be life-changing in this area.
- 23:20Also, taking a beat to just pray for strength, guidance, you know,
- 23:26feeling full, whatever you want to pray for before meals or before the day.
- 23:30Literally, just taking a beat, okay, before you go to a luncheon with girlfriends,
- 23:37okay, or with work, and you've been worried about it because you don't want
- 23:42to overeat, you've been doing so good all week, whatever,
- 23:46Laura, please be with me during this luncheon, and let me focus more on the
- 23:49company and less on the food.
- 23:52You know, let me have the strength to push away the foods that I don't really
- 23:56like anyway, that didn't really taste as good to me, but also let me have...
- 24:01Like the acceptance of the foods that did and let me do that without shame.
- 24:06Let me have those without judgment of myself, okay, so that I can fully enjoy this experience.
- 24:12Whatever it is, right, a quick prayer before any encounter with food,
- 24:17but especially the ones that kind of feel overwhelming to you, right?
- 24:20In the mornings, Lord, I have been trying for five days in a row now to hit,
- 24:26you know, my weight loss calories and every day I go over, please be with me today.
- 24:31And help show me what I need to eat and what I don't need to eat and keep me
- 24:35strong in that so that I can end this day proud of myself, okay?
- 24:40Whatever it needs to be, take a beat and pray about it. It's never too small, never too small.
- 24:47So I think all of these, right, the theme with them is really to just think
- 24:55about the decision before it's made, right?
- 25:00So often we make a decision and then we regret it afterwards.
- 25:04And so this is just flipping the script on that. We're thinking about the decision before it's made.
- 25:10And like I mentioned in so many of these examples, like you may fully think
- 25:15about the decision, right?
- 25:16And decide, nope, I am going to get that macaroni salad and that macaroni and cheese, right?
- 25:23Nope, I am going to eat this three hour old crusty donut, like whatever.
- 25:27You may end up following through with the actual eating of the thing, right?
- 25:32But again, you are flexing that muscle of,
- 25:37learning how to discern and learning how to navigate food so that it stops feeling
- 25:44like such pressure. Like it's really hard to explain.
- 25:47But after doing this for so often, you just start to assume the control of food
- 25:52instead of feeling like food has control over you.
- 25:55So many times you'll see our ladies talking about, I had, you know,
- 26:00cake and ice cream, you know, at my baby's birthday party and I went back for
- 26:04a second slice of cake and it was worth it.
- 26:07I have, you know, they'll say things like, I am not worrying about it a bit, right?
- 26:11And so what they're meaning is, yeah, it probably took them over on their calories that day, right?
- 26:15Two slices of cake and ice cream plus party food probably took them over on
- 26:19their calories that day, right?
- 26:20So they're not saying, you know, I'm going to still, you know,
- 26:24lose the same amount of weight this week. That's not what they're saying.
- 26:26But they're saying, I have the mental strength. I have the confidence that I
- 26:32made that choice knowing what the outcome might be.
- 26:36And I still made it anyway. So that then on the back end, I'm not feeling regret
- 26:41and shame about it because I was confident on the front end in the choice that I made. Okay.
- 26:47And so that's what this is training you to do. It's to think about those decisions
- 26:51ahead of time and on them, therefore removing you as the victim to food and
- 26:59instead putting you in charge of the food, right?
- 27:02And that is so powerful for a life, like a healthy living lifestyle in general
- 27:08and a life of healthy weight loss.
- 27:12So I will say for me, I mentioned it a couple of times, but like breathing really makes a difference.
- 27:19Y'all I'm, I'm learning in my personal life and really, really doing a lot of
- 27:23work in this area actually, but we are not breathing very often.
- 27:27Like it's usually shallow breathing.
- 27:30Like shallow, nonproductive breaths. And so just by like taking a few deep breaths
- 27:36into your belly, okay, or a box breath, right, can really help you to just come back to your body.
- 27:45Okay, a lot of time we're just kind of floating around with too many thoughts
- 27:47going on in our head. And so we're not fully present in our body.
- 27:50And so just by taking a few breaths in this time that you're taking the beat
- 27:55can really help you say, oh, yes, okay, I'm going to really try to, you know,
- 28:01fix smaller portions, or I'm really going to try to slow down between my eating
- 28:05or whatever it is that you might be, you know, facing in that specific eating moment.
- 28:10So never, do not doubt the power of a couple of deep breaths, y'all.
- 28:14They can be so powerful in all decisions in life, honestly, and managing your
- 28:21emotions through those decisions.
- 28:23Okay, but so I hope this was helpful. I just, y'all, this, again,
- 28:27try it. Just try it, okay?
- 28:28If there is nothing else you can do right now on your weight loss for the next
- 28:32week, say, I'm gonna take a beat.
- 28:34When I come in contact with food, I'm gonna take a beat.
- 28:38Okay, and it may take you a minute, right? To be like, hey, what's the beat
- 28:42supposed to look like here right now with this lunch that they catered in from
- 28:45McAllister's or whatever it is.
- 28:46You know, like it's gonna take you a minute to kind of navigate how it should
- 28:51go and how it should feel for you specifically and what things you might want to focus on.
- 28:56But I hope those examples that I gave you today were very helpful.
- 28:59So in this, and as always, y'all remember to say grace.
- 29:03Thank you for listening to today's episode of Say Grace Podcast.
- 29:08Music.