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FULL SHOW: "Are We Live?! W/ Ray J", Khadeen & Devale Ellis Speak On Putting Work Into The Marriage, What’s The Blueprint To Being Married? And More! · The Breakfast Club

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Speaker 1: Good morning in the usc yo yo yo yo yo
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Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
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Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
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Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo. Sean
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Speaker 1: Lemagne the guy he stood the plane in this Tuesday,
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Speaker 1: and we got our guest hosts in the building who
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Speaker 1: was here before me again this morning, and he came
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Speaker 1: the right way this morning, ladies and gentlemen, Ray J
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Speaker 1: is here. Dropped a bomb for Ray J. BIGI is here.
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Speaker 1: I'm happy day too, No nonsense, Ray to day. I'm
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Speaker 1: here to handle business and give my and give my
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Speaker 1: give my opinions on things. Ray is a big mogul man.
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you why it is hilarious to you. Right,
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Speaker 1: Ray did the show yesterday. You know race had people
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Speaker 1: been hitting them up, crazy Racey. Even walking down the street,
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Speaker 1: people like, oh I heard you on broklast club today, yadoya.
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Speaker 1: So Ray came in here today with all his products.
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Speaker 1: Yes he did. Yes, he didn't leave nothing nothing. I
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Speaker 1: see one of these blood bags. No, that's that's a
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Speaker 1: merry bag. That's not it's a mirry the company and
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Speaker 1: marry the gene company. I asked my wage, he said,
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Speaker 1: what are they? Blood? Black? Quite blood? I know That's
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Speaker 1: why I like it. But they got them. They got
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Speaker 1: blue ones and I think other colors too. You got
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Speaker 1: all his raycom products, Herbert rawling here, crystals, gonna be
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Speaker 1: here doing breakfast this morning, yea. And then also I
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Speaker 1: was hot yesterday, so I got the Raytronics fan cool
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Speaker 1: me down. Now, I ain't doing that no more, no,
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Speaker 1: because my my, my breast was out yesterday and it
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Speaker 1: was you know, my breath. You knew, you knew you
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Speaker 1: had those breaths before you took You didn't know now
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Speaker 1: when I was looking in the mirror fam earlier that day,
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Speaker 1: because maybe I was tired, but I thought I thought
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Speaker 1: that I was, I improved, so I thought they were
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Speaker 1: a little perky, just so I was hid and kind
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Speaker 1: of here from the whole thing. But then y'all caught
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Speaker 1: me here cut you on the side. Yeah, I saw
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Speaker 1: the drop. I'm like, they called me. And then it
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Speaker 1: was like mean. It was very meanful, Yanul, so good
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Speaker 1: about it though. I don't mind being meanful. But today
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Speaker 1: I want to showcase a different side, to show the balance.
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Speaker 1: And then Crystal Friday is when I go back to
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Speaker 1: lit right, Okay, Okay, okay, what I'm saying Crystal Friday,
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Speaker 1: Crystal Coming Friday, Crystal Coming Friday. Crystal here right now,
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Speaker 1: Crystal squad here right now. Shout out to Jacu JC Yes.
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Speaker 1: Um but yeah no, we were here and um and
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Speaker 1: we actually setting up a Crystal campaign downstairs, a commercial
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Speaker 1: and stuff too. So if I got my air piece
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Speaker 1: in and I'm talking, I'm talking to some of the
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Speaker 1: people downstairs. Ray J emotion boy, Crystals, My wife and
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Speaker 1: I in business with Crystals. Crystals coming to our home
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Speaker 1: state of South Carolina. That's what it did. Ye yes, yeah, yeah,
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Speaker 1: yeah yeah. So shout out to Crystal one more time.
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Speaker 1: They've been doing some real cool stuff with ray J.
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Speaker 1: As far as our commercial, you gotta drop on the
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Speaker 1: box for two Chains too. You know he used to
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Speaker 1: create a walking into directly to Crystals. Got Dope to
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Speaker 1: change man, Two Chains super fly too. Come on, we
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Speaker 1: had on that the brunch. Come on, man. Now, For
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Speaker 1: people that don't know you got blood Crystals is what
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Speaker 1: is what is Crystal? Because you know it's not being
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Speaker 1: heavy on the East Coast. It's a restaurant that's else Sliders,
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Speaker 1: So you know the slider Burgers slide of chicken sandwiches.
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Speaker 1: They got slid they got breakfast everything. Okay, yeah, all right,
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Speaker 1: let's got the new breakfast too. They got the new
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Speaker 1: breakfast from six to eleven. They got the side chicks
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Speaker 1: all night, twenty four hours. And you know, they got
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Speaker 1: the they got the pimento cheese, they got the barbecue,
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Speaker 1: they got the plane. But the side chicks been killing them.
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Speaker 1: Like you ever wanted a side chick? Yes, um, but
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Speaker 1: we're talking about them, were talking about sliders, talking about you. No,
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Speaker 1: not like that. But this is your But here's what's crazy.
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Speaker 1: This is your opportunity to experience a side chick the
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Speaker 1: right way, like how you did that? Right? But ray
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Speaker 1: J's getting in Mooshity got the mascarat out and uh
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Speaker 1: Codeine and de vale Atlas will be joining us this morning.
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Speaker 1: They got a book we over me. We're gonna be
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Speaker 1: kicking it with them in a little bit. Also, we
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Speaker 1: got guests and ask them questions and stuff. No, no,
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Speaker 1: well you we left. He left yesterday. You got to
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Speaker 1: stop doing the mask garat on camera. You're giving away
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Speaker 1: secrets that a lot of a lot of minut hit
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Speaker 1: me yesterday. Were mad about that. Why because people be
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Speaker 1: trying to act like they don't have grades like envy.
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Speaker 1: So they do that type of stuff. And I don't
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Speaker 1: know what this man, you know hate like I let
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Speaker 1: my grade flourish. What are you talking about? You see
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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Envy, They you know, graves be jumping out.
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Speaker 1: Oh they don't play play you get rid of win
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Speaker 1: of them too. Five coming back picking one to having
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Speaker 1: a whole family. That's what I'm saying. You get rid
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Speaker 1: of one five grades coming back to jump on your ass.
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Speaker 1: So now I just wanted to show everybody that you know,
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Speaker 1: you know, grooming yourself is not bad. I mean, if
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Speaker 1: you want to go dark, then go dark. You know
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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. If you want to go gray, die
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Speaker 1: your whole here gray there you go, you know, and
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Speaker 1: get it and look and just get it over, Get
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Speaker 1: it over, Just get it over all right, front page, dudes.
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Speaker 1: Next will tell you the youngest person I think to
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Speaker 1: win uh a lot of Just imagine being eighteen and
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Speaker 1: winning forty eight million dollars. We'll talk about the Next
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Speaker 1: is the breakfast Club Morning Only. Everybody is DJ Envy
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Speaker 1: Scholamine the guy. We are the breakfast Club. We got
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Speaker 1: our guest hosts Ray J in the building. Yes, indeed
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Speaker 1: for show man, I feel at home today, Man, you
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Speaker 1: are home. No nonsense rad to day though. All right,
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Speaker 1: well let's get let's get in some front page news. Now.
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Speaker 1: There was an earthquake yes today that killed so far
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Speaker 1: over four thousand people tonight, the most powerful earthquakes that
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Speaker 1: hit Turkey in one hundred years, striking in the middle
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Speaker 1: of the night as millions were sleeping, the danger persisting
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Speaker 1: through the day, clouds of debris billowing into the street.
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Speaker 1: The region rocked by at least seventy five after shots
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Speaker 1: across the quake zone, the death toll rising steadily throughout
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Speaker 1: the day. We now know more than thirty seven hundred
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Speaker 1: people were killed. And at this overwhelmed hospital, a doctor
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Speaker 1: making this plea. We have informations hundreds of patients are
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Speaker 1: sitting under the debris. The situation is too broad, Renion,
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Speaker 1: Argent and Hild. At least forty five countries pledging support,
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Speaker 1: including the United States President Biden speaking with Turkeys President
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Speaker 1: Erdwan late today saying US search and rescue teams are
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Speaker 1: quote deployed quickly to the region. Act happen Monday morning.
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Speaker 1: Why was that earthquake, so deadly man, Lord ha Mercy
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Speaker 1: after shot man. They said fifty six hundred buildings were destroyed.
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Speaker 1: But if you think about it, if those are buildings
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Speaker 1: where people actually live, and those buildings are destroyed, fall down,
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Speaker 1: you play with mother nature if you want to. You
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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. You play with God if you
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Speaker 1: if you want to, when when when? When? When? When
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Speaker 1: God is ready to shut things down and things get
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Speaker 1: shut down? Yeah, and it's not even there's nothing you
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Speaker 1: can do about it. Don't matter what your financial status is,
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Speaker 1: don't matter what your race is, your sexuality, what you
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Speaker 1: identify as. When it's when it's over, it's over. Yeah. Now,
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Speaker 1: in some good news in Canada, an eighteen year old
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Speaker 1: one forty eight million dollars. Now, this was the first
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Speaker 1: time she ever played the lotto because she just turned eighteen,
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Speaker 1: and in Canada you have to be eighteen to play
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Speaker 1: the lotto. So she just won forty eight million dollars.
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Speaker 1: How she put up, didn't say, I don't even know
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Speaker 1: if she's single or what. But she got forty million dollars.
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Speaker 1: You said, you don't know if she's single. That's what happens.
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Speaker 1: I don't know people gonna be hollering her, like Craze,
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Speaker 1: what did you talk right after you? How much she
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Speaker 1: paid the tickets? And you talk about a single or
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Speaker 1: what I gonna put Logan on? It got crazy? Scott
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Speaker 1: gonna fly Logan to Canada? Why not? Man? I wonder how?
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Speaker 1: I wonder how Canada's tax is at eight. I know
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Speaker 1: it's different from here. I know that having that money
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Speaker 1: that young could be really dangerous with no financial literacy, though,
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Speaker 1: so I prayed that, Yeah, I pray that young lady
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Speaker 1: taps with some really great people and learn what to
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Speaker 1: do with that money. Gonna reach out now a single
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Speaker 1: ticket and he said, you gotta go reach out for
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Speaker 1: financial you know, okay, you know consult all right? Now?
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Speaker 1: A single ticket in Washington yesterday matched all winning numbers
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Speaker 1: of the power Ball. So if he had the number
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Speaker 1: five eleven, twenty two, twenty three, sixty nine and power
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Speaker 1: ball seven, you won seven hundred and fifty four millions,
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Speaker 1: five eleven. Did you buy your ticket in Washington and
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Speaker 1: it's not you, then it's not you. Then I didn't
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Speaker 1: even know Powerball is on Monday. I thought power Ball was.
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Speaker 1: Look at that one is probably might have wanted something. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: you could have won something. That's time I played with Saturday.
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Speaker 1: When when did you feel like they change these things,
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Speaker 1: the bigger, these jack pots getting I don't remember Powerball
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Speaker 1: being on on Monday, brower, Monday and Wednesdays and Saturdays Oneday,
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Speaker 1: Wednesdays and Saturdays. I did not know that. Ye, well
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Speaker 1: on that one. I never knew Powerball was on Monday.
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Speaker 1: My lat person got a lump some of four hundred
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Speaker 1: and seven million dollars. Oh they took the tax run. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: they took it. They didn't want to pay no monthly
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Speaker 1: when they claimed it already. They just want yesterday. No, no,
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Speaker 1: that's what they would win when they pick it up,
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Speaker 1: because you know you have a cash value or yeah,
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Speaker 1: they already know they won. No, they're just waking up
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Speaker 1: to that news. Probably when I woke up this morning
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Speaker 1: and you know you can you know it'll say seven
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Speaker 1: hundred whatever million in this morning and said twenties, so
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Speaker 1: you know somebody won. They just woke up to that
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Speaker 1: up this morning, unless they stayed up last night to see.
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Speaker 1: I doubt that because I don't think you think you're
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Speaker 1: gonna at all, because I ticket and kept pushing the
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Speaker 1: didn't even look back. Congratulations to that. It depends, but yeah, congratulations.
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Speaker 1: And lastly, AMC Movie Theater. I think this is pretty small.
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Speaker 1: They should have did this a long time ago. They're
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Speaker 1: charging more for good seats in movie theater. So you
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Speaker 1: know how you have the middle roll and it's closer,
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Speaker 1: they're charging for that now. Now you know, before you
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Speaker 1: would get to the movie theater early so you could
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Speaker 1: get the good seats. Now they're actually charging for good seats.
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Speaker 1: So it's the same thing if you're on a plane
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Speaker 1: you want to fly first class or Delta comfort or
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Speaker 1: the same thing. You want to go to the game.
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Speaker 1: If you closer, it's gonna cause you more money. So
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Speaker 1: now movie theaters are starting to do that as well.
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Speaker 1: I don't like that. I like that, I like that.
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Speaker 1: The reason I really don't like that for movie theaters
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Speaker 1: is because you're just getting people to come back to
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Speaker 1: movie theaters because really the best feat to watch a
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Speaker 1: movie is in your house, right, you know what I mean?
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Speaker 1: So to charge people more money for a better seat,
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Speaker 1: they shouldn't do that, And they probably got to do
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Speaker 1: that or closed the movie. They're probably aren't making no money,
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Speaker 1: so they got to do that to pop possibly make
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Speaker 1: some more money. That ain't gonna make me go to
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Speaker 1: the movie theater having to pay more money for a
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Speaker 1: better seat. Sit your ass in the back. No, I'm
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Speaker 1: sitting my ass at home. The top seats is cool, too,
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Speaker 1: top seats are good. Too close is never good. You
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Speaker 1: like to go to the one with the seats, with
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Speaker 1: the food. They bring you out with the dreams. And
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Speaker 1: it's not too many movies you want to see in
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Speaker 1: theaters nowadays, Like you really just want to see the big,
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Speaker 1: big blockbusters in theaters. Everything else you could watch the house. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: I want to watch everything at the house. All right,
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Speaker 1: Well Ladd's front page news. Get it on if your
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Speaker 1: chests eight hundred five eight five one oh five one.
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Speaker 1: If you need to vent, you want to holler at
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Speaker 1: ray J. He's here again. Eight hundred five eight five
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Speaker 1: one o five one. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning,
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Speaker 1: Wake that ass up nine about to go crazy, but
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Speaker 1: this Ray J and I've officially joined the breakfast Club,
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Speaker 1: The Breakfast Club, Ray Ray Ray, Yo, Charlotte man, Daffy,
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Speaker 1: what up are we lying? This is your time to
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Speaker 1: get it off your chest? I got indoor pool, indoor pool.
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Speaker 1: We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club.
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Speaker 1: Get on the phone right now. We're here to tell
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Speaker 1: you what it is. Hello, who's this yo? What's going on?
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Speaker 1: Dn't go, dan't go? What up? Man? Five? What's up? Brow?
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Speaker 1: Y'all feeling? I'm good? Brother? What's going on? Get it
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Speaker 1: off your chest? Hey, I'm getting off my chest? Ray
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Speaker 1: j good brother? How you doing my How are you doing?
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Speaker 1: My brother? Man? Everything is good. I'm strong today, beautiful.
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Speaker 1: I'm glad to hear it. Man, I'm very glad to
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Speaker 1: have you as a host. Man. I'm a long time smith,
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Speaker 1: a long time caller as well. Wanted to pick your
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Speaker 1: brain if I could, man, please, wanted to get some
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Speaker 1: advice on you know, your brand and how you made
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Speaker 1: it a global success. I'm also a brand owner posing
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Speaker 1: brand didn't go Jerol nine two five streetwear, and I
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Speaker 1: want to be on the level of success like you, brother,
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Speaker 1: So I just wanted to, you know, pick your brain.
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Speaker 1: If you can give you some advice, come on big,
11:22
Speaker 1: appreciate that. I think I think the main thing is
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Speaker 1: that if you if you're running a business and you're
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Speaker 1: doing it with the team, um and you're and it's
11:31
Speaker 1: it's starting to be successful. I think the main thing
11:34
Speaker 1: to do is to make sure you hire right. You
11:36
Speaker 1: hire the right CFO, you hire the right CEO, COO,
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Speaker 1: And I think building that kind of team will give
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Speaker 1: you a lot of leverage, and I think it'll help you, know,
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Speaker 1: actually build the empire because a lot of times when
11:49
Speaker 1: you got the business, you could be the founder. But
11:51
Speaker 1: a lot of times people play CEO and CFO and
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Speaker 1: every other position, and I think that's when it when
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Speaker 1: when it gets loose. But I think to have a
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Speaker 1: team that you that's smart in every area. Um, and
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Speaker 1: you play founder or you play CSOL or at CMO
12:04
Speaker 1: or whatever you're good at. I think having that starting five,
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Speaker 1: it's gonna get you where you gotta go. Great advice,
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Speaker 1: great advice, have a strong team around you. Hello, who's this? Hell? Hey,
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Speaker 1: what's your name? Mama? Savanna? Hey Savannah? Get it off
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Speaker 1: your chest? I am actually calling to shoot my shot
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Speaker 1: at RAYD but not like that. Okay, all right, shoot
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Speaker 1: your shot, mama. Um. I actually applied to a job
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Speaker 1: at raycon a few times and the jobs keeps getting reposted,
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Speaker 1: but it's for the CRM manager position. Five years of
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Speaker 1: email marketing. Shoot my shot no, listen, Um, put tell
12:43
Speaker 1: I got one of my Raycon partners with me right now.
12:46
Speaker 1: Tell us your email right now, and we'll email you
12:48
Speaker 1: and then we'll follow up right now with you. You
12:50
Speaker 1: know what, We're gonna put you on hold because when
12:52
Speaker 1: you put that email out there, everybody'll be emailing you.
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Speaker 1: All right, yeah, we live, we live on Okay, Hello,
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Speaker 1: who's this? You're what? I mean? What's up? Trav Charalomagne
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Speaker 1: right ba ba ba ba ba ba. Ray. I'm trying
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Speaker 1: to get in contact with you for a minute. Ray,
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Speaker 1: I gotta ask you a question, Ry, Okay, I mean
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Speaker 1: I'm here. Listen. A few years ago, you said you
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Speaker 1: knew some bootygoom and I need to see and you
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Speaker 1: still know them because I need you to put me
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Speaker 1: on to one of them. I love your bootygoom. So
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Speaker 1: Travis out you know, you know the brothers that life
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Speaker 1: brothers to Travis is out gay listening. He calls all
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Speaker 1: the time. He's a friend to the room. I think
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Speaker 1: I think ray J can understand that he's gay. Okay,
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Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't think you had that. Oh yeah,
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Speaker 1: that that at this moment. But um not. First off,
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Speaker 1: Angela ye made that word up, like I've never ever
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Speaker 1: used that word. Bootygones. You said, you said, you know
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Speaker 1: brother that life not now, I said, I said a
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Speaker 1: little more voger, Yes, but I do have I do
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Speaker 1: have a new network. I'm working with car the dodsh network,
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Speaker 1: and it's it's loaded with love over there. So my
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Speaker 1: love he means bootygons everything, because bootygons to me waters
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Speaker 1: down the stronger, like the strength of the person. So
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Speaker 1: I feel like Angela like watered it down and made
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Speaker 1: it corny when what I said was more outline than
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Speaker 1: um me, he I don't know if I can actually
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Speaker 1: some money you missed, might be listening some money here.
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Speaker 1: This could be like a new love connection site like
14:34
Speaker 1: you could be you know, connecting brothers like Tram with
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Speaker 1: the thug the gay thugs that they're looking for. Because
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Speaker 1: I mean, and what's crazy, what's crazy is with the
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Speaker 1: new network, the lgbt Q is strong, and I've been
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Speaker 1: educated on a lot of things like who's t not
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Speaker 1: clock yet? You want to be with somebody who t
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Speaker 1: not clock yet? Right? What that mean? That mean? That
14:55
Speaker 1: mean my Instagram is a k A and the score
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Speaker 1: twin telling us to me a vanishing, Okay, vanishing. I
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Speaker 1: think they'll be I think they'll be street, but we
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Speaker 1: gotta we gotta eliminate the terminology of it because it's
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Speaker 1: gotta be gotta be flier. Booty goons is just it's
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Speaker 1: a it's a very water down like thug like you.
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Speaker 1: I don't care what you're talking about, knocked down clock. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: so I gotta show with Manngina, um who loves man Gina,
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Speaker 1: and she kind of breaks down a lot of the
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Speaker 1: different terminology Manngina, Yeah, man Jina shout out to man
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Speaker 1: China my kind of conversations, right, yeah, No, it's deep,
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Speaker 1: like I got I'll show you some of the scenes.
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Speaker 1: It's really like they take me into a very very um,
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Speaker 1: a very personal world and I get educated on it,
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Speaker 1: and when I come out of the world, I'm like, Okay,
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Speaker 1: that's what's up. I mean, Wow, don't refer to any
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Speaker 1: conversations with man Gina is deep, sir. Yeah, it's hard.
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Speaker 1: It's hard because trying to be hands on, but I
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Speaker 1: do like the topic you'll probably touch on, you know
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Speaker 1: what I mean if you don't touch on for people
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Speaker 1: like you know, in my world, and then people in
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Speaker 1: like the Q world or the lg go you know,
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Speaker 1: to have those conversations and understand each other. It's something new,
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Speaker 1: and I think we were breaking the ice with that
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Speaker 1: and breaking down barrier. You could be doing for the
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Speaker 1: love of booty. I don't for the love of a booty. Yes,
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Speaker 1: get it your chest eight hundred five five one five one,
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Speaker 1: ray J. You know what I don't You know what,
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Speaker 1: Charlotte Mane, if you helped me produce that, I don't
16:33
Speaker 1: think I think you need to together. I think you
16:39
Speaker 1: see what I could do. But if you help me,
16:41
Speaker 1: if you with me, it's a hit. We gotta get
16:42
Speaker 1: somebody from the LGBTQ community to ep as well. Run
16:45
Speaker 1: on off courts. It's the breakfast coming, Come on in,
16:51
Speaker 1: wake that ass up nine about to go crazy. But
16:54
Speaker 1: this ray J and I've officially joined the breakfast Club.
16:58
Speaker 1: The breakfast club, uh Casita in there. He was a
17:08
Speaker 1: young black guy. I was a young teen and he
17:11
Speaker 1: was like, only my mama does see me, DICKT and
17:14
Speaker 1: my wife doesn't because she can't do this to me.
17:17
Speaker 1: So I don't know. He was up sick and he
17:21
Speaker 1: wouldn't let me prep him. Jesus Christ, I wouldn't let
17:24
Speaker 1: you prep me either, like that's Casi. I stopped listening
17:28
Speaker 1: because I heard about them, Cassida the Cathias. Ain't no
17:31
Speaker 1: joke that would cry. Well, Hey, can I set out
17:35
Speaker 1: my new Instagram after a LA? Sure ahead? Yeah? Them
17:39
Speaker 1: and my only driving faster out that's your Instagram. Yep,
17:43
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Pull my bunny eyes down
17:45
Speaker 1: with the with the with the with the front hole.
17:50
Speaker 1: I have a good one, Mama, get it off your
17:52
Speaker 1: chest eight hundred five. If you need to vent, you
17:56
Speaker 1: can highlight at us. Now when we come back, we
17:59
Speaker 1: got to talk about car Cardy b was being a
18:02
Speaker 1: wife as she should have been and trying to squat
18:04
Speaker 1: some people get into it. NeXT's to Breakfast Club comerning
18:06
Speaker 1: the Breakfast club dude that was capped any reason unknew
18:11
Speaker 1: that was capped because backstage at the Grammys and there's
18:14
Speaker 1: not no video. Come on, man, We've all been alive
18:18
Speaker 1: long enough to know when when the story is fake.
18:20
Speaker 1: Now an argument I'm making believe that I can believe
18:23
Speaker 1: that possibly, But how do we even know Cardy was
18:25
Speaker 1: talking to those two just now now? Because people tell
18:27
Speaker 1: me it was that's what it was. Who told you that?
18:29
Speaker 1: People backstage. Oh, so your your report is from Endy No.
18:32
Speaker 1: I heard. I heard that yesterday, but I didn't want
18:34
Speaker 1: to say anything because I wanted to confirm it from me.
18:37
Speaker 1: I don't care because you know you hear that. It's
18:41
Speaker 1: like Cardi's yelling at offending quick. Well, how do we know?
18:44
Speaker 1: Because she said she she yelled at somebody and then
18:46
Speaker 1: she said, both of y'all call somebody to b word.
18:49
Speaker 1: She said she'd been talking. That makes me things. She
18:52
Speaker 1: talking to a woman, and she said, both of y'all
18:54
Speaker 1: are wrong. But you know that's what she's supposed to do.
18:57
Speaker 1: I mean, in my opinion, that's you know, off sech
19:00
Speaker 1: wife and their beef in him and she that's what
19:03
Speaker 1: man saying that he got. He need more facts. We
19:06
Speaker 1: know what we live in. Man often quibble. Got into
19:08
Speaker 1: a fight backstage in the Grammys. They did say physical altercation.
19:11
Speaker 1: They said argument. No, yesterday they said a fight. He
19:13
Speaker 1: said a physical fight. Physical physical. I mean, I just heard,
19:17
Speaker 1: but we all heard a lot of stuff. We was
19:19
Speaker 1: out here and working right TMZ said physical fight. Shout
19:23
Speaker 1: out Harvey. I was like, there's no way that's happening
19:25
Speaker 1: with that video. I heard an argument Now also, people
19:28
Speaker 1: were asking why Will Smith wasn't part of the fiftieth
19:31
Speaker 1: Anniversary tribute, the hip Hop Tribute at the Grammys. Now
19:34
Speaker 1: you know, Will Smith was the first rapper to get
19:37
Speaker 1: a Grammy, so people just assumed he would be there.
19:39
Speaker 1: Should have been there too, stoop should have been in stooard,
19:42
Speaker 1: he knows not study nomination never. But they said Will
19:47
Speaker 1: Smith was actually supposed to be there but couldn't be
19:49
Speaker 1: there because he's shooting bad boys for so that was
19:51
Speaker 1: the reason why he wasn't there. But he was scheduled
19:53
Speaker 1: to be there, but of course when shooting happens, he
19:56
Speaker 1: couldn't make it. They need to get my cousin Snoop
19:58
Speaker 1: a Grammy. You Snoop really related, right because from Mississippi? Right? Work?
20:03
Speaker 1: What kind of cousins? First? Second? Third? Nah? We like
20:06
Speaker 1: for okay okay? And lastly, I guess brilliant idiots, which
20:12
Speaker 1: is Andrew Shelton, charlemagn y'all were talking about you people
20:15
Speaker 1: and something I didn't know. I didn't know. Lauren London
20:18
Speaker 1: and Jonah Hill actually didn't kiss. I don't know if
20:21
Speaker 1: you know if I should share, but the final scene
20:25
Speaker 1: they don't even kiss. It's Cgi swear, holy Cgi. I'm there.
20:30
Speaker 1: I'm watching the wedding and I see them going for
20:32
Speaker 1: the kiss and their faces stopped like this far, and
20:35
Speaker 1: I'm like, I wonder how they're gonna play that in
20:36
Speaker 1: the movie of they're probably just gonna cut right there.
20:39
Speaker 1: But the movie you can see their faces come close
20:42
Speaker 1: and then you can see their faces move for a
20:44
Speaker 1: little bit into a fake kiss. Luked Lauren London, making
20:47
Speaker 1: doctor Umar proud and really mighty got picked up in
20:54
Speaker 1: the movie. But the life was me and Andrew thinking
20:58
Speaker 1: about launching the podcast. Man, that's what we're thinking about.
21:01
Speaker 1: I thought Rayel about to get up it kiss me.
21:03
Speaker 1: Man got him in the middle of the brain got
21:05
Speaker 1: up and he was like, wait a minute, are you
21:06
Speaker 1: telling me that you can kiss and not kiss? Start
21:08
Speaker 1: walking towards that about it's real early right now. But
21:12
Speaker 1: that I wonder why. I guess she just didn't feel
21:14
Speaker 1: comfortable kissing anybody. Drop on a clothes bomb because she
21:17
Speaker 1: lives in the doctor rum. That's why. Because doctor what
21:20
Speaker 1: what Doctor Umar we're talking about? You don't believe in that.
21:23
Speaker 1: You don't believe in black on white relationships, you don't
21:26
Speaker 1: believe black on white people should be together. Black and
21:29
Speaker 1: white people should be married dating any of that yet,
21:32
Speaker 1: and if he feels like, if you do it, you
21:34
Speaker 1: might be entitled to some slashes lashes some way like
21:39
Speaker 1: like lashes like for your eyes, not eyelashes like back
21:42
Speaker 1: in the day's slave lashes. Lord, have mercy. I don't
21:44
Speaker 1: even know. I really don't know if Lauren and Jonah kissed.
21:47
Speaker 1: I saw it. I can't tell. I guess it now
21:49
Speaker 1: when Andrew know that, and when Andrew puts it in
21:52
Speaker 1: my head and I look, I'm like, damn it, do
21:53
Speaker 1: look fake? He just didn't get somebody with the same hair, dude,
21:58
Speaker 1: and then just do it like that and just be
22:00
Speaker 1: a real humans? Only, can you can clear this up?
22:03
Speaker 1: Can you? Can? You? You You gotta can? Only can you
22:05
Speaker 1: can confirm this? Man? Can you barrass? All right? Well
22:08
Speaker 1: that is your rumor report. Now when we come back,
22:11
Speaker 1: your president's gonna address the nation. We'll tell you what
22:13
Speaker 1: he'll be discussing tonight. So don't move. We'll get into
22:15
Speaker 1: it next. It's the breakfast Club, the morning, the breakfast Club.
22:19
Speaker 1: Your mornings will never be the same. Thank you for synthesizers,
22:23
Speaker 1: instant replay. Peanut butter and standard time. Are these just
22:26
Speaker 1: words strugging together or is it just some connection between them.
22:30
Speaker 1: I don't have the answer, but Crown Royal does. Curious.
22:33
Speaker 1: Well that's an itch. You can scratch this Super Bowl Sunday.
22:36
Speaker 1: Please drink responsible morning. Everybody is dj n V Charlemagne
22:41
Speaker 1: the guy. We are the breakfast club. We got our
22:42
Speaker 1: guest host, ray J. Hill. I thought I thought I
22:45
Speaker 1: was just the host though, Like we we talked and
22:47
Speaker 1: I said, you know, I like it. I like the seat,
22:50
Speaker 1: and you know, I feel I feel at home. I
22:53
Speaker 1: keep saying I'm at home, meaning like like I'm at home.
22:56
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You got that heavy ass,
22:59
Speaker 1: mon Claron, It's fly though, that's why you're still We
23:03
Speaker 1: still got the trench. It was it. It was the outfit.
23:06
Speaker 1: But I get comfortable. Okay, all right, but let's get
23:08
Speaker 1: into front page news. Now, your president, ray J. President
23:12
Speaker 1: Biting is going to be delivering the State of the
23:14
Speaker 1: Union tonight. At you listen, y J. That sounded good,
23:18
Speaker 1: but I know now you're president ray Jah for a minute,
23:24
Speaker 1: right listen, I'm I'm I'm for the people, what people
23:31
Speaker 1: for the people. But he is gonna be talking about
23:34
Speaker 1: a bunch of different issues China, climate control, gun violence, imbrigation, UH, opioids, Ukraine,
23:41
Speaker 1: and he's gonna be talking about taxing UH people that
23:45
Speaker 1: make over two hundred and fifty thousand dollars more. That's
23:48
Speaker 1: called taxing the rich. He's gonna be talking about taxing
23:50
Speaker 1: them more. They're not taxing the rich. They all say
23:54
Speaker 1: that in this cap they're not taxing the rich because
23:56
Speaker 1: the rich is what keeps them in power. So he's
23:59
Speaker 1: gonna be talking about that, COVID nineteen and health, education
24:02
Speaker 1: and the economy. He's going to be addressing all this
24:04
Speaker 1: tonight again at nine pm Eastern time. If you want
24:07
Speaker 1: to check that out, Yes, China is on that list. Now,
24:12
Speaker 1: why I think a lot of people might not be
24:13
Speaker 1: checking out the president is because Lebron he might be
24:16
Speaker 1: breaking the record tonight, which is the problem with our country.
24:19
Speaker 1: By the way, what you just said is what's wrong
24:21
Speaker 1: with our country. In the nutshell that he might be
24:23
Speaker 1: breaking the record tonight. He needs thirty six points. Now,
24:26
Speaker 1: Kareem abdul Jabal, who is the current league leader, he
24:30
Speaker 1: will be in attendance. So if Lebron scored thirty six
24:32
Speaker 1: points or more, he will be the new leader. Now
24:35
Speaker 1: they're saying tickets are going for like sixty nine thousand dollars,
24:40
Speaker 1: nine thousand dollars for wear to see Lebron play tonight. Yeah,
24:45
Speaker 1: that's no no no, yes, no, no, no, no, that
24:49
Speaker 1: is courtside. And then they're saying nine rows back, forty
24:53
Speaker 1: two thousand dollars, forty two thousand. I only pay like
24:56
Speaker 1: forty five hundred for my courtside tickets. It's a big
24:59
Speaker 1: night Lebron. Kareem. What do you think he would have
25:04
Speaker 1: came to the game tonight if he wouldn't be possibly
25:07
Speaker 1: be record now, he would just at Yeah, yes, I
25:10
Speaker 1: think he's at the game because Lebron is possibly gonna
25:13
Speaker 1: break the record. No, that's that's what I'm saying. I'm curious,
25:15
Speaker 1: Like I'm I'm over here, I want to I'm doing
25:17
Speaker 1: my job asking like how what I thought? Yeah, yeah, yeah,
25:21
Speaker 1: I'm gonna watch it on television, And by the way,
25:24
Speaker 1: watch the State of the Union in the night watching that. Yes,
25:28
Speaker 1: I like I like stuff like that. You think it's
25:30
Speaker 1: a coincidence that they put Lebron on the same time
25:32
Speaker 1: the State of the Union. They want to distract you
25:34
Speaker 1: from what's really important out here in this country. So
25:37
Speaker 1: they want you to watch Lebron or they want you
25:39
Speaker 1: to watch the State of the Union. Which one are
25:41
Speaker 1: you watching. I'm not really a basketball watcher. Man, Like,
25:45
Speaker 1: if I go to the game, either I'm betting on
25:47
Speaker 1: it or I'm like just I need something to do,
25:48
Speaker 1: some raycon drives or something I like being on you
25:52
Speaker 1: when you're watching them. I'm gonna watch the State of
25:53
Speaker 1: the Union and shout out to LA. I love y'all,
25:55
Speaker 1: but hey, man, I gotta do. I kind of want
25:57
Speaker 1: to watch Lebron. They're gonna get me a good update
25:59
Speaker 1: to me the Union. Now, y'all should have saw that
26:01
Speaker 1: me and they did when Lebron was like mad about
26:03
Speaker 1: the foul. Then they playing one wish and it looked
26:06
Speaker 1: just like the move I was doing. He was like
26:09
Speaker 1: he was like mad about all right, well, lax your
26:13
Speaker 1: front page news. Now when we come back, we got
26:16
Speaker 1: some special guests joining us. We have the Elisis. They
26:19
Speaker 1: have a new book out, Kadeen and Devout Elis. We
26:21
Speaker 1: over me and we're gonna talk to them next. So
26:23
Speaker 1: don't move. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. Waked that
26:28
Speaker 1: ass up? Nine about to go crazy. But this ray
26:32
Speaker 1: J and I've officially joined the Breakfast Club. The Breakfast Club.
26:39
Speaker 1: It was first date, but you know, you're learning the
26:41
Speaker 1: book that we have a very rich history. He and
26:43
Speaker 1: I actually went to elementary school together, so it was
26:45
Speaker 1: the thing where our pass kept crossing over the years.
26:47
Speaker 1: And finally that first date was after meeting him at
26:50
Speaker 1: a banquet. We have to sit and chat and it
26:52
Speaker 1: was just something about his charisma and his energy. He
26:54
Speaker 1: like whatever he said he wanted to do in his life,
26:56
Speaker 1: thus far, he had gotten it. So I was like, oh,
26:58
Speaker 1: this this could be something. Did you know she was
27:00
Speaker 1: the one he was the first time I got Nah?
27:02
Speaker 1: Actually it was man, that's gonna hit me with the
27:12
Speaker 1: Kevin Harten. I didn't say no like that, like damn,
27:16
Speaker 1: we're talking our podcast and we said in the book
27:18
Speaker 1: like she told me she loved me after two weeks
27:20
Speaker 1: and I was like, thanks. I didn't know it could
27:26
Speaker 1: have been was so you didn't say it back? Nah?
27:29
Speaker 1: I said thanks? And the reason why I said thanks
27:33
Speaker 1: and I still came back for more after the thanks? Right,
27:35
Speaker 1: So who was the crazy one? But here's the thing though,
27:37
Speaker 1: I said thanks because I was like I don't want
27:39
Speaker 1: to lead her on. Am I going to be a
27:41
Speaker 1: liar and be like I love you and then not
27:43
Speaker 1: know if we're gonna be together? So I was like,
27:45
Speaker 1: I didn't know what to say, so I said thanks.
27:47
Speaker 1: It makes me think, like, can you have a future
27:49
Speaker 1: someone if you can't see a future with someone like
27:51
Speaker 1: you saw the future with him? Yeah, I did, And
27:54
Speaker 1: it's funny. It's just the vibe I think that we
27:56
Speaker 1: had from early. It was just talking about hopes and dreams,
27:58
Speaker 1: and he always like a guy that was just far
28:01
Speaker 1: beyond his years, like even with plans for what he
28:04
Speaker 1: wanted to do financially with his life and his future.
28:06
Speaker 1: And he knew that he didn't want to play football
28:08
Speaker 1: a long term. He wanted to eventually be an actor.
28:10
Speaker 1: So I'm like, well, how are you gonna do that?
28:11
Speaker 1: He's like, I'm gonna ride out on the scholarship. I'm
28:13
Speaker 1: gonna see if I could make the NFL. If I'm
28:15
Speaker 1: at least on the practice squad, I can make a
28:17
Speaker 1: little money to build a little nest egg, move back
28:19
Speaker 1: to Brooklyn and get a round stone renovated. We live
28:21
Speaker 1: on the bottom floor, like we had a whole thing
28:23
Speaker 1: planned that was the first date. We talked about the
28:25
Speaker 1: first day, first day. Eighteen year old kids don't speak
28:29
Speaker 1: about building their life like that. But when I remember,
28:32
Speaker 1: if they think I was thinking like that at eighteen,
28:34
Speaker 1: So did you ever think because he played football, he
28:37
Speaker 1: was an athlete, like, oh, he's gonna be one of
28:38
Speaker 1: those Oh absolutely absolutely. People warned me too. They were like, oh, like,
28:42
Speaker 1: don't even get to involved. Especially once time came for
28:45
Speaker 1: the NFL and he was a prospect. They were like,
28:48
Speaker 1: this is the part where you guys go your separate ways.
28:51
Speaker 1: Let him so, as Willows, you focus on what you
28:53
Speaker 1: gotta focus on, and if you make it out on
28:56
Speaker 1: top after he's out there with these NFL groupies, then
28:59
Speaker 1: maybe things will work out. And then went both ways.
29:01
Speaker 1: They told me when I went to go play football,
29:03
Speaker 1: she wasn't gonna wait for me. She was still in
29:05
Speaker 1: schools to get her master's degree. Everybody's like, you think,
29:07
Speaker 1: while you playing ball, she's gonna be sitting back at
29:09
Speaker 1: how she just waiting for you to come back. And
29:11
Speaker 1: it was part to me. I was like, dang, that's
29:12
Speaker 1: a tall tax. And it made me insecure. Like there's
29:15
Speaker 1: a story we talk about in the book when we
29:17
Speaker 1: couldn't find her for a day. She was coming back
29:20
Speaker 1: from Tracks in Brooklyn. Yeah, it was like a little
29:22
Speaker 1: lounge I used to go to every Thursday with my
29:24
Speaker 1: home girls. And she ran into her uncle on the
29:26
Speaker 1: way back, and he was like, you're not driving back
29:28
Speaker 1: to Long Island. You're gonna come stay when you know
29:29
Speaker 1: you're drinking or whatever, and he was She's like, I
29:31
Speaker 1: wasn't drinking, I'm gonna meal. So he went to stay.
29:33
Speaker 1: She stayed, uncle fell asleep, left her car, her phone
29:36
Speaker 1: in the car. She always calls me when she gets back.
29:38
Speaker 1: So now I'm in the locker room, I'm getting ready
29:40
Speaker 1: for team meetings, and I don't get no phone call.
29:42
Speaker 1: I get no phone call at all. I wish woman
29:46
Speaker 1: understood that, but I really do understand how that makes
29:49
Speaker 1: us feel when you'll talk about it, because I used
29:51
Speaker 1: to tell her all the time, like, how do you
29:53
Speaker 1: not call me when you get places to this day?
29:55
Speaker 1: So now I'm in the locker room, NFL rookie. I
29:57
Speaker 1: didn't even get to practice. I didn't get to practice
29:59
Speaker 1: because after that, her mom called me, so, hey, we
30:02
Speaker 1: haven't heard from now you cry? You cry? What? No
30:09
Speaker 1: nasty snot somebody got my good man. Like I'm crying, bawling.
30:15
Speaker 1: Then my mom calls me, Um, I think you should
30:19
Speaker 1: come home. They found her, and they don't want to
30:24
Speaker 1: tell me because I'm buying myself in Detroit. So I
30:27
Speaker 1: go to the security office Detroit, Detroit. I go to
30:31
Speaker 1: my end of the NFL security's office. I'm like, yo, um,
30:33
Speaker 1: they can't find my girlfriend. And they've been having issues
30:35
Speaker 1: with people breaking in people's house, taking people's family members.
30:38
Speaker 1: This happens in the league a lot. So they're like,
30:42
Speaker 1: all right, you know, we're gonna get our people involved.
30:44
Speaker 1: They called FBI, they broke into her phone, they called
30:47
Speaker 1: campus security, broke into everything, like text measures everything right,
30:51
Speaker 1: They're like, we have nothing. We found nothing, like we
30:52
Speaker 1: don't know where she is. Give me a times man,
30:54
Speaker 1: how long? What's that matter of dropped her? My friend?
30:58
Speaker 1: Another thing that you support into me? And this guy
31:01
Speaker 1: parked me into my parking spot and wouldn't let me
31:04
Speaker 1: out the spot unless I gave him my number. That's
31:07
Speaker 1: the last conversation she had had one just like it
31:10
Speaker 1: was like, no, I need your number, and I'm like,
31:11
Speaker 1: I'm really trying to get this parking spot. So he
31:12
Speaker 1: was trying to bullieve me to get my number, and
31:14
Speaker 1: I told him what was happening, so he thought, for sure, homeboy,
31:17
Speaker 1: follow me. Yeah, And I wasn't even thinking to put
31:20
Speaker 1: two and two together, so it was if I maybe
31:21
Speaker 1: two am, but yeah. And literally as I turned the block,
31:25
Speaker 1: I pull up and my uncle looks and he's like hey,
31:27
Speaker 1: and I was like yeah, Uncle Emil big time, protected
31:30
Speaker 1: like you're not driving. He was like, you're about to
31:31
Speaker 1: drive to Long Island and yeah. I was missing for
31:37
Speaker 1: about two am to ten am, and then she got
31:43
Speaker 1: to her phone. It was just like, yo, what's going on. Yeah.
31:45
Speaker 1: I woke up. I'm like, oh my god, where's my phone.
31:47
Speaker 1: I get to the car and I was like, oh,
31:48
Speaker 1: it's dead. The minute I turned the phone on, it's
31:50
Speaker 1: like forty eight text messages, thirty something voicemails. My mom
31:54
Speaker 1: is in tears. She was like, don't you ever do
31:56
Speaker 1: that again? Develos on his way home. I'm like what
31:59
Speaker 1: that part? And I was like, why don't get make
32:02
Speaker 1: it to practice? Lines got me to flight. Oh my god,
32:04
Speaker 1: I'm in. I'm on my way to the airport. My
32:06
Speaker 1: phone rings at first when I was calling her, it
32:08
Speaker 1: went dead. Now, I'm like, they got her phone, they
32:10
Speaker 1: turned it off. They sending me the voicemail. Then I
32:12
Speaker 1: see a phone call from the boss. I got and
32:14
Speaker 1: there's the boss and I'm like, not about to ask
32:16
Speaker 1: you for some money. Whoever, this is about to ask
32:18
Speaker 1: some money. So I pick up the phone. Yeah, I'm like,
32:20
Speaker 1: I'm like, who this. She's like, hey, babe, I tell
32:25
Speaker 1: you everything I went through. Right, you would think my
32:26
Speaker 1: wife learned right again? What happened this past weekend? Again?
32:33
Speaker 1: She went to get a massage, right, and she texted me, Hey, babe,
32:36
Speaker 1: I'm here. I'll be on my way home. I'll be
32:38
Speaker 1: home at six. Right, it's five forty five. I'm thinking
32:42
Speaker 1: she gotta be on her way home. I'm calling like
32:44
Speaker 1: ten minutes straight. Now I'm in a call. I'm about
32:46
Speaker 1: to pull out. I get a phone call. Hey babe.
32:49
Speaker 1: I'm like, bro, I'm gonna get all my kids phone.
32:57
Speaker 1: I got through sixty sixty. You know whatzy, But what
33:00
Speaker 1: pisses you off the mostes how nonchalant they act like
33:02
Speaker 1: it's nothing but learn I was just on the massage table. Man.
33:11
Speaker 1: I don't know why our minds worked like that, but
33:13
Speaker 1: we think the worst worst an argument like after that,
33:16
Speaker 1: because now you just can't let her lift. But it's
33:18
Speaker 1: the second time you gotta give a grace. You talk
33:19
Speaker 1: about it in the new book. You have to give
33:21
Speaker 1: you your partner grace. Yes. Yes, So that's the biggest
33:25
Speaker 1: thing for us is learning how to communicate. You know,
33:26
Speaker 1: we came from different communication style. Yeah, I grew up opposite.
33:30
Speaker 1: I grew up at an athlete. Nothing was ever good
33:33
Speaker 1: enough for my parents, right, They were always being on
33:35
Speaker 1: hard on me like that. Then my football coaches extremely
33:37
Speaker 1: hard on me, but that made me successful. So I
33:40
Speaker 1: felt like, if you love someone and you want them
33:43
Speaker 1: to be successful, you should be hard on them. So
33:45
Speaker 1: I used to be hard on my girlfriend if I
33:47
Speaker 1: saw that she wanted to do something to say, which
33:49
Speaker 1: she was like, how are we gonna do that? She
33:50
Speaker 1: says she wanted to do TV. How are we gonna
33:52
Speaker 1: do it? I'm on her, Oh, TV, they weigh one
33:55
Speaker 1: hundred and twenty pounds. You need to be in the gym.
33:57
Speaker 1: What are your grades? Like, you said, you want to
33:58
Speaker 1: do this, you need to recoll more content And she'd
34:00
Speaker 1: be like, bro, I thought I was doing the right thing.
34:03
Speaker 1: And after five years of marriage, That's when I kind
34:06
Speaker 1: of realized he was taking the football approach. He was like,
34:08
Speaker 1: I'm a teammate, yes, but I'm not like a teammate
34:11
Speaker 1: on the football field. So coming from a background where
34:13
Speaker 1: my family rarely like had extensive conversations about anything, it
34:17
Speaker 1: was more so if something happened, you didn't feel so
34:19
Speaker 1: good about it, you feel a way it'll blow over,
34:21
Speaker 1: let's just sweep it under the rug. So attacking things
34:24
Speaker 1: head on, communicating about problems, talking about how you felt
34:27
Speaker 1: like there was a huge learning curve for me. We're
34:29
Speaker 1: just figuring out how to just eloquently even expressed or
34:33
Speaker 1: formulate in my mind, how to tell him how I
34:35
Speaker 1: felt about it. So people see us now and they're like, man,
34:38
Speaker 1: I want to find me a devoal I want to
34:40
Speaker 1: find me a codeine. So we're like, well, devalikade you
34:42
Speaker 1: see today is not the Devalikadeen that first met each other.
34:46
Speaker 1: This is twenty years in the making. We have more
34:48
Speaker 1: with Cadeen and de val Atlas. When we come back.
34:51
Speaker 1: The book will with me. It's out today. It's the
34:53
Speaker 1: breakfast club of the morning. Everybody is DJ Vne the
34:57
Speaker 1: god Ray j Our co host we're still kicking it
34:59
Speaker 1: with Dean and de vow ellis Charlemagne. You know. In
35:02
Speaker 1: the book, y'all talk about a friendship and how friendship
35:05
Speaker 1: is the core of the relationship, which I agree with too,
35:07
Speaker 1: But some people would say a love should be the
35:10
Speaker 1: core of a relationship over friendship. What would y'all say that.
35:14
Speaker 1: I would say this, more friendships last than intimate partners.
35:18
Speaker 1: People have boyfriends and girlfriends in and out of their
35:20
Speaker 1: entire life, but some people have friends their whole life,
35:22
Speaker 1: and those friends are allowed grace. Right. You have friends
35:25
Speaker 1: that may do something to you like that's my homeboy,
35:27
Speaker 1: We'll figure it out. But a lot of times when
35:29
Speaker 1: it's love, it's like you hurt me, And when you
35:32
Speaker 1: hurt me, I can't take I can't you know, rekindle
35:35
Speaker 1: that hurt. This is what we've learned over the past
35:37
Speaker 1: couple of years. I no longer try to validate my
35:41
Speaker 1: actions by dismissing the way she feels about it, you know,
35:44
Speaker 1: And I think a lot of times in intimate relationships,
35:48
Speaker 1: not in friendships, people do that. If your friend is
35:50
Speaker 1: hurt by something, a lot of times, as your friend,
35:52
Speaker 1: you'd be like, oh my bad, I didn't mean to
35:53
Speaker 1: hurt your feelings. But then when your girl does something
35:56
Speaker 1: or your girl's feelings are hurt, it's like, well, I
35:58
Speaker 1: didn't mean to hurt you. I did it like this,
36:00
Speaker 1: you shouldn't be hurt. You can't tell people not to
36:03
Speaker 1: be hurt by something you did. They didn't ask to
36:05
Speaker 1: be hurt. They hurt. So what we've learned how to
36:08
Speaker 1: do was just accept the other's feelings. You feel that way,
36:11
Speaker 1: I'm gonna explain to you why I did it. I
36:13
Speaker 1: didn't mean to hurt you, but I accept the fact
36:14
Speaker 1: that you feel that way. And it's not just a
36:17
Speaker 1: for a man to do to a woman. I'd be
36:19
Speaker 1: wanting my feelings to be validated to you. Know what
36:21
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, that's and that's the manliest thing I
36:23
Speaker 1: can say about it. When my wife started to validate
36:26
Speaker 1: my feelings and say she understands how I feel, she
36:28
Speaker 1: didn't always agree, but she understood, I said, at least
36:31
Speaker 1: if you can understand, we can move forward. And that's
36:33
Speaker 1: that's why I feel like friendship to me is the foundation,
36:36
Speaker 1: because you have funds for life. Now, let me ask you, know,
36:39
Speaker 1: what do you think about that? No, I think He's
36:41
Speaker 1: spot on with that, and it's funny. For a while
36:42
Speaker 1: with Devout, I would encourage him to speak his mind
36:46
Speaker 1: and say how he felt, and then at the same
36:47
Speaker 1: time be like, man, you're bitching and moaning every day
36:50
Speaker 1: about something like literally, I was like, since when did
36:55
Speaker 1: the feelings become what you said? We were having a discussion, right,
36:59
Speaker 1: and this is what a first time in my life.
37:01
Speaker 1: I was just like, well, I'm gonna be honest, this
37:02
Speaker 1: is how I felt to hurt my feelings and I'm
37:05
Speaker 1: going through what I hurt my feelings. She goes, sound
37:07
Speaker 1: like a man, how do you respond? So me being
37:12
Speaker 1: a very immature person, and I am I said, I
37:15
Speaker 1: don't got to sound like a I canna get me
37:17
Speaker 1: another because now I'm trying to hurt her like we
37:24
Speaker 1: were like twenty six seven immature. And we tell these
37:29
Speaker 1: stories in the book because we like to tell people
37:31
Speaker 1: the stories too through the trauma. I'm not gonna make
37:34
Speaker 1: it seem like everything was picture perfect, because when people
37:37
Speaker 1: fall into a situation in a relationship where they hurting
37:39
Speaker 1: each other, they feel like I'm the only relationship going
37:42
Speaker 1: through this. And since I'm the only relationship going through this,
37:45
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get out of here. But nah, were just like, listen,
37:49
Speaker 1: that hurt my feelings. That hurt my feelings. I don't
37:50
Speaker 1: mean to do that. I didn't mean to say that.
37:52
Speaker 1: How can we get back to what we want to do?
37:54
Speaker 1: And we try to I try to encourage it now too,
37:56
Speaker 1: because I mean so often women are trying to pull
37:58
Speaker 1: at their men to tell them, how do you feel?
38:01
Speaker 1: What do you need? What do you want? And the
38:02
Speaker 1: fact that I have a husband who I think is
38:04
Speaker 1: sometimes even an oversharer, like sometimes we just talk. Like
38:06
Speaker 1: for us, marriage seems to be one continued long conversation,
38:10
Speaker 1: like it just never ends, like we're always talking about something.
38:13
Speaker 1: So that's the thing that's been our saving race for us.
38:15
Speaker 1: It's like just being upfront about how we feel off
38:17
Speaker 1: the bat, so there's no guessing involved. Now he's acting now,
38:21
Speaker 1: well he's been acting for a long time now, So
38:23
Speaker 1: did you ever have a problem with him lip blocking
38:25
Speaker 1: with other I looky like this really let me now
38:36
Speaker 1: we're extending my poorn vocabulary. But anyway, no, I actually
38:40
Speaker 1: I think because I understand the industry, and then I realize,
38:42
Speaker 1: like these sex scenes ain't really nothing super sexy about it.
38:45
Speaker 1: I think about the environment that he's in when they're
38:47
Speaker 1: actually filming that. Um. But a funny story. Two years ago,
38:51
Speaker 1: actually almost two years he was filming an episode of
38:55
Speaker 1: Sisters or a season of Sisters. So I'm simultaneously watching
38:59
Speaker 1: the episodes that are on air and he warns me
39:02
Speaker 1: that he has this shower scene coming up with his
39:04
Speaker 1: coast or Crystal. So I was like, okay, all right,
39:07
Speaker 1: and he was just like just so you know, like
39:09
Speaker 1: it it's gonna be a little intense. And I'm like,
39:12
Speaker 1: I went tense is going to be for DT, Like
39:13
Speaker 1: that's BT. So the episode comes on and I see
39:16
Speaker 1: the valve got Crystal like legs over his shoulder. She's
39:20
Speaker 1: up against the shower wall. It's a blue light and
39:22
Speaker 1: I'm then it's just going and it's going, and I'm like, oh,
39:25
Speaker 1: that's what we're doing, right. So I'm like, okay, cool.
39:32
Speaker 1: So what I did? I go on Amazon. I was
39:34
Speaker 1: like blue light bulb. So I ordered me a blue
39:38
Speaker 1: light bulb, a blue light bulb, and the lamp came
39:41
Speaker 1: to the door. I screwed that joint in. He came
39:44
Speaker 1: home one day before Valentine's Day and I was like
39:47
Speaker 1: oh you here, I went, put that thing together, put
39:51
Speaker 1: the blue light on. We only had the air mattress
39:52
Speaker 1: in the bedroom at this point. And let me tell you,
39:54
Speaker 1: got to work in our son, Dakota. It's the product
40:01
Speaker 1: of the blue which is kind of weird because it
40:05
Speaker 1: was inspired from a scene between him and Crystals his godmother.
40:08
Speaker 1: Actually yeah, and he's you know, born months later, so
40:11
Speaker 1: I can't tell him that story. I don't think I'll
40:13
Speaker 1: save the I can't tell him like, oh you were.
40:20
Speaker 1: But I will say this though, I'm very deliberate. I'm
40:23
Speaker 1: making sure that she is in contact with the women
40:26
Speaker 1: that I have these scenes with. So, for example, when
40:28
Speaker 1: we did our chemistry, read me and Crystal, Crystal face
40:31
Speaker 1: timed her. I let her know beforehand, like, you know,
40:33
Speaker 1: we have some sex scenes. To me, I don't want
40:36
Speaker 1: it to ever be a thing where she feels uncomfortable.
40:38
Speaker 1: You go to a red carpet or you go to
40:39
Speaker 1: an event, and that's the woman that I had a
40:41
Speaker 1: sex scene with, and it's the first time you have
40:42
Speaker 1: a meter. It's like, nah, y'all have this conversation beforehand.
40:45
Speaker 1: I'm always respectful, especially to my costars, like I'm never
40:48
Speaker 1: going to cross that line because after the whole Me
40:50
Speaker 1: Too movement, you realize how easy it is for someone
40:53
Speaker 1: to feel uncomfortable in your presence. Have you ever felt
40:56
Speaker 1: uncomfortable in the workplace. I've never felt uncomfortable, to be honest,
40:59
Speaker 1: and I'm not going to out anybody, but women are
41:02
Speaker 1: very sexual to in the workplace. You know, they say
41:04
Speaker 1: stuff they you know, a woman mate, smack you on
41:07
Speaker 1: the butt if you know what I'm saying. If they think,
41:09
Speaker 1: it's just that type of environment, and you may feel
41:11
Speaker 1: comfortable as a man saying oh, if that's what we're doing,
41:14
Speaker 1: that's what we're doing. But what I equated to, which
41:17
Speaker 1: may not be right, is kind of like I could
41:19
Speaker 1: make a joke on a white boy. If you make
41:21
Speaker 1: a joke on me about my blackness, I'm gonna be pissed. Right,
41:23
Speaker 1: if a woman says something to me about my physique,
41:26
Speaker 1: I'm gonna eat that. I'm not gonna now just comment
41:28
Speaker 1: about her body every time I see her. You know
41:30
Speaker 1: what sounds crazy? Let me have your question, right. So
41:38
Speaker 1: people got on me about a couple of weeks ago
41:40
Speaker 1: because my wife went on a twenty day trip. Yeah,
41:43
Speaker 1: and they were like, how dare you how you let
41:45
Speaker 1: her go on the scene? Would you let your wife
41:47
Speaker 1: go to twenty day trip? So here's here's my thing.
41:50
Speaker 1: I don't know how she would survive without me and
41:53
Speaker 1: the kids for twenty days. And she would spend the
41:56
Speaker 1: whole time calling me to fast time the kids and
41:58
Speaker 1: it wouldn't out me. Yeah, me, I don't know how
42:01
Speaker 1: I would survived without my wife for twenty days. If
42:05
Speaker 1: Kay tells me she wants to do something, I'm gonna
42:07
Speaker 1: be a one hundred percent behind it. But it's also
42:09
Speaker 1: a challenge to me six kids, no wife, I mean
42:13
Speaker 1: and mean you could do that? Bro, I'm just six?
42:15
Speaker 1: Did you could do that? The math w work was hard.
42:17
Speaker 1: I ain't even gonna third grade third grade because that's
42:23
Speaker 1: what the common mas started regroup in the common chord, bro, Bro,
42:28
Speaker 1: me you on everything. Me and Jackson almost came to
42:31
Speaker 1: blows because I was trying to tell him old school
42:33
Speaker 1: carry the one and He's like, no, you gotta make
42:35
Speaker 1: it go to ten. And I'm like, I've been I've
42:39
Speaker 1: been doing math my whole life. You put put the
42:41
Speaker 1: one on top of that cross the eight hundred, and
42:43
Speaker 1: he was just like, no, said you're gonna tell me no,
42:45
Speaker 1: I'm your father. I don't care what your teach to say. Right,
42:48
Speaker 1: he was right to make all of the equations go
42:53
Speaker 1: to ten for some reason. Yes, And then it comes
42:56
Speaker 1: back around about answer when you could have easily did
42:59
Speaker 1: it in three seconds. I said, I am not having
43:01
Speaker 1: a stroke trying to figure this out with my eight
43:03
Speaker 1: year old. Yeah, I've been getting that assignment to my
43:04
Speaker 1: wife raised and they come home is bad. So we
43:12
Speaker 1: had a lot of up here guest host and I
43:14
Speaker 1: see she came to mind it because I heard her
43:18
Speaker 1: her clip on people not wanting to be married now
43:21
Speaker 1: are aspiring to me different. I mean, I guess it's
43:25
Speaker 1: a case by case basis, but it doesn't. It's not
43:27
Speaker 1: something that's highlighted is the best thing all the time. Right.
43:29
Speaker 1: So I think the Vale and I, much like many
43:31
Speaker 1: other couples, because quiet as this kept, we're not an anomaly,
43:34
Speaker 1: like there are a lot of like you're a happily
43:35
Speaker 1: married man, happily marriment. There are a lot of happily
43:37
Speaker 1: married people running around. So I just feel like by
43:39
Speaker 1: us sharing more of those stories, it's a way to
43:42
Speaker 1: kind of help the narrative around marriage. But also too,
43:45
Speaker 1: like I said earlier, making sure people know like do
43:47
Speaker 1: I aspire to marriage? Right? You can't find somebody and
43:51
Speaker 1: be like, oh, well, this person makes me want to
43:53
Speaker 1: be married, because what happens that puts the onus on
43:56
Speaker 1: that person to always be this perfect image of what
43:58
Speaker 1: you were, what they were when they that you were,
44:00
Speaker 1: you know, and that put that's so much pressure on
44:02
Speaker 1: one person. So what if they falter, what if they change,
44:04
Speaker 1: what if they outgrow something? Then are you still a
44:07
Speaker 1: marriage person or not? You know? So I think you
44:09
Speaker 1: really need to decide like is that something you aspire
44:12
Speaker 1: to first and then go from there. We have more
44:15
Speaker 1: with Codein and de vou Ellis when we come back
44:17
Speaker 1: that book we over me. It's out today. It's the
44:19
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Good morning everybody. Ray j Our co host.
44:25
Speaker 1: We're still kicking it with Codein and de vou Ellis, Charlemagne.
44:28
Speaker 1: I have a chapter called There's a Marriage After This
44:31
Speaker 1: Wedding break that there So while we were writing the book,
44:34
Speaker 1: we had discussed what I thought process was about getting
44:37
Speaker 1: engaged in being married, and Codein had admitted that she
44:40
Speaker 1: had never really thought about the marriage. Nope, anytime, yeah,
44:44
Speaker 1: anytime I had conversations with anyone regarding marriage or the wedding.
44:47
Speaker 1: It was the wedding. It was you know, what dress
44:50
Speaker 1: are you gonna get? And who's the floor ist? And
44:52
Speaker 1: it was the planning of the day. At no point
44:54
Speaker 1: in time did anyone pull me aside and say, kadein, like,
44:57
Speaker 1: once you get married, here are some things to expect. Right.
45:00
Speaker 1: You watched these Disney movies and it says happily ever
45:03
Speaker 1: after no one sees what happens, they ride off into
45:05
Speaker 1: the sunset. So I felt like I was left in
45:07
Speaker 1: the dark. I feel like it was a setup. I
45:09
Speaker 1: felt like nobody prepped me on anything. And then I
45:12
Speaker 1: think there was also a beauty in that though, because
45:13
Speaker 1: I felt like if I were to get advice from
45:16
Speaker 1: aunt's uncles or grandmothers, it might have also been their
45:19
Speaker 1: jaded perspective of what their marriage was like. And I'm
45:22
Speaker 1: like that could have been a turnoff too. But it
45:24
Speaker 1: was particularly difficult because I just did not think about
45:27
Speaker 1: or plan for what life was going to look like
45:29
Speaker 1: after the wedding. So the pressure comment had triggered a
45:32
Speaker 1: lot of women because they felt like, oh, so she
45:34
Speaker 1: pressured you to get married, And I was like, It
45:36
Speaker 1: wasn't the pressure to get married. It was the pressure
45:39
Speaker 1: to take care of all of the responsibilities once you
45:42
Speaker 1: decide you're going to marry a woman. For example, I
45:44
Speaker 1: have to save the money to get you a ring.
45:46
Speaker 1: I have to decide how we're going to propose. I
45:48
Speaker 1: have to decide after we get married, what else our
45:51
Speaker 1: life going to look like if we have financial issues.
45:53
Speaker 1: No one ever says, what's your wife doing. They always
45:55
Speaker 1: look at me as a husband and be like So
45:57
Speaker 1: there was a lot of pressure on me to make
45:59
Speaker 1: sure or that I'm doing everything that I can to
46:02
Speaker 1: be the husband and I want to be on top
46:04
Speaker 1: of that. Once I proposed, I had got cut six
46:08
Speaker 1: weeks after by the NFL, so I didn't have a job.
46:10
Speaker 1: So there was a lot of pressure on me because
46:11
Speaker 1: I'm like, here I was. I was in the NFL
46:14
Speaker 1: when I proposed, and now we're planning a wedding and
46:16
Speaker 1: I'm no longer in the NFL. How do I sustain
46:19
Speaker 1: the lifestyle of someone who was making a half a
46:21
Speaker 1: million dollars a year when I make no money. So yeah,
46:24
Speaker 1: there was a lot of pressure on me. But I
46:25
Speaker 1: understand how a lot of women could have taken that
46:27
Speaker 1: word pressure and felt triggered by it. But to me,
46:30
Speaker 1: I'm like, as the man, I didn't care about the
46:32
Speaker 1: wedding at all. I didn't. I was focused on the marriage.
46:35
Speaker 1: I said, Okay, after we get married, where we're gonna live.
46:38
Speaker 1: What are you gonna do for work? What am I
46:39
Speaker 1: gonna do for work? All we're gonna have children? How
46:41
Speaker 1: most men feel, because I look at it the same way,
46:43
Speaker 1: like we spend all this money for this, yeah, right that.
46:47
Speaker 1: Let's do the future. Let's do the house, Let's do
46:49
Speaker 1: the savings, let's do the investments, Let's do this because
46:51
Speaker 1: that's just for the show. Broad it's my guys. Get
46:56
Speaker 1: he said. Me and my wife got it together together
47:00
Speaker 1: on that come up. You know what I'm saying, Like
47:01
Speaker 1: we worry about things that it's what you got a
47:03
Speaker 1: partner for. She gonna be with you. If that's the fact,
47:06
Speaker 1: I mean, think about it. After the whole wedding situation
47:09
Speaker 1: happened and then we went back, you know, the wedding
47:11
Speaker 1: was over. You know, it's spend for yourself. At this point,
47:14
Speaker 1: ye Diva looked at me. He said, you know, I
47:16
Speaker 1: don't want to go to Canada because he had an
47:17
Speaker 1: opportunity to play ball in Canada. He said, y'all want
47:20
Speaker 1: to start a business and maybe work towards this acting career.
47:22
Speaker 1: And I was like, all right, well, what we gotta
47:25
Speaker 1: do on everything? We had a house in Michigan. It
47:28
Speaker 1: was on an acre. Who's on an acre? Four bedrooms,
47:31
Speaker 1: five bathrooms, living room, diningroom, everything. Now we're back in
47:34
Speaker 1: an apartment in Crown Heights and she's on the bus.
47:37
Speaker 1: When I tell you my ego was freaking crushed, I'm like,
47:39
Speaker 1: I should sit in the bathroom. Sometimes I go in
47:41
Speaker 1: the bathroom, going in the bathroom. Babe, I'd be on
47:43
Speaker 1: the toilet, just sitting there, just like how did I
47:45
Speaker 1: end up back here? And I got this woman that
47:48
Speaker 1: I asked to be my wife, and now she got
47:50
Speaker 1: to go to the mall and work. Like imagine you
47:52
Speaker 1: tell a woman, yeah, I'm gonna be an actor. I
47:55
Speaker 1: don't want to play football no more. I don't know
47:56
Speaker 1: how I'm gonna be an actor, but I'm gonna be acting.
47:58
Speaker 1: A matter of fact, I'm open a gym. I don't
48:00
Speaker 1: have no experience in kinesiology. But you tell your woman
48:03
Speaker 1: is and she goes, Okay, how are we gonna do that.
48:05
Speaker 1: You don't got to tell me that. Imagine, we've been
48:11
Speaker 1: through I know y'all both been through it. So when
48:13
Speaker 1: you when you hear like when people say, you know
48:15
Speaker 1: why you love marriage so much, that's why I got
48:18
Speaker 1: a partner when when it was the worst or the worst,
48:21
Speaker 1: I could likely right here, how many days did we
48:26
Speaker 1: eat grits? Yo? This is after the NFL grits grit today.
48:31
Speaker 1: That might be why. That's Jackson, our oldest son loves
48:33
Speaker 1: gritz and eggs like that's this thing. And it might
48:35
Speaker 1: be because three times a day I was not trying
48:39
Speaker 1: to go buy those steaks. Hungry buddy. When you want breakfast,
48:41
Speaker 1: you want breakfast, dinner right breast, breakfast, grits and eggs
48:46
Speaker 1: every day. Can we give some of these books away?
48:48
Speaker 1: We got to a pair give over We over Me man,
48:53
Speaker 1: that's right, eight hundred and five eight five, one oh five,
48:55
Speaker 1: and we got two books to give away. We keep
48:57
Speaker 1: it off four books you brought up so we can
48:58
Speaker 1: give it away. We gonna give two books away today.
49:01
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49:03
Speaker 1: We Over Me, And we appreciate you for joining us. Guys,
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Speaker 1: in Detroit. Everywhere else has sold out, LA sold out,
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49:34
Speaker 1: I love Sisters, man, but see I watched Sisters from
49:37
Speaker 1: the perspective of a comedy. Oh for sure, you have
49:40
Speaker 1: to comed He's not the one way to do hit
49:44
Speaker 1: the dudey and he's spun around my property ticket. Let
49:49
Speaker 1: me tell you, let me tell you the truth about Sisters.
49:50
Speaker 1: And when people don't understand, y'all watch Telling Novellas. No,
49:53
Speaker 1: I mean, I know, I know they are so Telling
49:55
Speaker 1: Novellas is a soap opera comedy in the soap opera
49:59
Speaker 1: so one. But for Sore Sisters, they were just like,
50:01
Speaker 1: why is this on prime time? Tyler put a soap
50:05
Speaker 1: opera on prime time and added comedy to it. So
50:07
Speaker 1: it's like a tele novilla. That's why the numbers are
50:09
Speaker 1: so crazy. But people who watch it don't understand. They're like,
50:12
Speaker 1: this is funny, but it's not supposed to be funny.
50:14
Speaker 1: It's supposed to be a drama. Why don't they want
50:16
Speaker 1: you to hate so much? I don't know. And it'd
50:18
Speaker 1: be I don't understand. It'd be black women be wanting
50:20
Speaker 1: me to hate Karen so much, and I'm like, yo,
50:22
Speaker 1: Karen might be carrying my baby. We had a three
50:25
Speaker 1: year relationship. I would never hate that woman. They're like, nah,
50:28
Speaker 1: she mad disrespectful to Fatima. A lot of it is
50:31
Speaker 1: the fact that people love Fatima so much and she's
50:34
Speaker 1: the antithesis of what I need in a woman. So
50:37
Speaker 1: they're like, you gotta hate her in order to love her,
50:38
Speaker 1: and I'm like, no, it's a divine dichotomy. I can
50:41
Speaker 1: love both of them at the same time. Yeah, but no.
50:46
Speaker 1: Divine economy is the fact that two things that the
50:48
Speaker 1: opposite can exist at the same exact time, and people
50:50
Speaker 1: often think that they can't. Right. So it's like my
50:53
Speaker 1: ex and my current girl, I have to hate her
50:56
Speaker 1: in order to love my girl properly. No, I don't.
50:59
Speaker 1: I can still have love for her. It just didn't
51:00
Speaker 1: work out for us because she wasn't my one. This
51:03
Speaker 1: one is my one. I have loved for her, but
51:05
Speaker 1: I am in love with Fatima. And that's a great
51:08
Speaker 1: question because on Twitter that's what I'm always arguing with people.
51:11
Speaker 1: Why you still talk to Karen? Why would I not?
51:14
Speaker 1: Every woman deserves respect, especially if she might be carrying
51:16
Speaker 1: my child, right because exactly that was a debt. This
51:23
Speaker 1: is why Charlemagne got the good job. Always what they
51:28
Speaker 1: asked me, why do you still talk to Karen? We
51:30
Speaker 1: have a travel show coming out with the Boys. It's
51:35
Speaker 1: coming out actually this Friday, February tenth, so make sure
51:38
Speaker 1: that's a good time. Oh I do have one more question.
51:42
Speaker 1: How do you feel about putting your family out there
51:44
Speaker 1: so much? So as the kids get older, I'm not
51:47
Speaker 1: sure how much more they're going to be right out there.
51:50
Speaker 1: I'm just being out. It got to a point where
51:52
Speaker 1: we're asking Jackson like, hey, do you want to be
51:54
Speaker 1: on camera? And Jackson say no, answers no always yeah.
51:58
Speaker 1: Cass has always been no real loves the camera. At first,
52:01
Speaker 1: this was a way for me to share my life,
52:03
Speaker 1: like I'm an artist. If I was a rapper, i'd
52:05
Speaker 1: be rapping about my family, you know. But I'm starting
52:07
Speaker 1: to realize, like my kids need to have say in
52:10
Speaker 1: what their likeness is and just for safety proposely too.
52:12
Speaker 1: Yeah that's me. I'm mama beer mode. So I have
52:14
Speaker 1: the time like, nope, leave them out. No, even if
52:16
Speaker 1: people see it's in public. For the most part, people
52:18
Speaker 1: are very respectful. They'll come up and say from a distance,
52:20
Speaker 1: but they see it's with the kids that kind of noted, like,
52:23
Speaker 1: you know, stay back and stuff. So we have a
52:25
Speaker 1: good strong, I hate saying fan base, but supportive. But
52:29
Speaker 1: the kids, as they get old, especially going to traveling
52:31
Speaker 1: on the I'm probably gonna phase them back. I don't
52:33
Speaker 1: want them to have to walk around with security because
52:35
Speaker 1: their parents, you know. I just don't want them to
52:37
Speaker 1: have to. I want them to live some days. I
52:38
Speaker 1: want to phase it all the way off for social
52:40
Speaker 1: media and just shut the whole, the whole joint down. Well,
52:42
Speaker 1: she never wanted to do social media. This is what
52:44
Speaker 1: crazy moments where I like go back and forth about
52:47
Speaker 1: it just because again, safety protective, mama bear all that.
52:49
Speaker 1: So we just try to take the measures necessary. What
52:52
Speaker 1: we do involve them. But the Traveling Show was fun
52:54
Speaker 1: because it was something that we got to do, travel
52:55
Speaker 1: to the US a little bit with the guys, and
52:57
Speaker 1: we executive produce a lot of content. I'm I'm not
53:00
Speaker 1: about letting anybody else have autonomy over my children's likeness
53:04
Speaker 1: or my family's like we did. We turned out a
53:07
Speaker 1: whole lot of stuff, like our manage over it is
53:10
Speaker 1: in the corner to be looking at us sometimes like really,
53:12
Speaker 1: y'all really don't want to do that, And I'm like,
53:14
Speaker 1: I don't want to do it if we can't control it.
53:16
Speaker 1: So um, we're just trying to own this as best
53:18
Speaker 1: as we can and just you know, be we over
53:20
Speaker 1: me till we die. Here we go over the books
53:23
Speaker 1: out right now right, it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning.
53:26
Speaker 1: Everybody is dj n V, Charlemagne the guy. We are
53:29
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club, our guest hosts. I don't think he left,
53:33
Speaker 1: he's not him. I don't know where j went his
53:38
Speaker 1: old crew. Everybody left a product his products here. The
53:42
Speaker 1: change is here. Zapples uses his bags in here. I
53:45
Speaker 1: wonder what's in that back? What you think is in
53:47
Speaker 1: those bags? I don't want you ain't I ain't got
53:49
Speaker 1: nothing to do with that. All right. Well that's one
53:50
Speaker 1: thing I don't do it and go to other people's stuff.
53:52
Speaker 1: All right, Well, let's get to the room as let's
53:54
Speaker 1: talk Chris Brown or you gossip and when you chatty report?
54:02
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess were on the Breakfast Club? This
54:03
Speaker 1: weere the t spells right right on the Breakfast Club?
54:06
Speaker 1: Now you know. Grammy night, Chris Brown posted a bunch
54:10
Speaker 1: of Instagram posts. One was who the f is Robert
54:13
Speaker 1: Glasper after Robert Glasper one Best R and B Album
54:16
Speaker 1: for Black Radio three. Then Chris Brown posted, I gotta
54:20
Speaker 1: get my skills up. I gotta start playing the harmonica.
54:22
Speaker 1: Then he posted a picture of himself playing the actual harmonica. Well,
54:27
Speaker 1: I guess Chris thought about it and said, you know what,
54:29
Speaker 1: let me hit Robert on DM and said, you know, look,
54:33
Speaker 1: congratulations my brother. I would like to apologize if you
54:36
Speaker 1: took offense to my reaction at the Grammys. You were
54:39
Speaker 1: not the intended target. And I know I came off
54:41
Speaker 1: really rude and mean. After doing my research, I actually
54:44
Speaker 1: think you're amazing. The organization isn't doing us blacks our
54:48
Speaker 1: due diligence. You and I should never be in the
54:51
Speaker 1: same category. Two different vibes and genres. So from one
54:55
Speaker 1: black man to another, congratulations, hope you are able to
54:57
Speaker 1: feed your family for life. God bless my g. How
55:00
Speaker 1: are the two different vibes the genres though, R and
55:01
Speaker 1: bas R and B like like, like, what's what's the difference?
55:06
Speaker 1: I don't know because I've never really listened to Robber
55:08
Speaker 1: Glass was, so I couldn't tell you. But I guess
55:10
Speaker 1: maybe he's I don't know. I think the problem a
55:13
Speaker 1: lot of times is people think just because they haven't
55:16
Speaker 1: heard something or because they don't know about something, they
55:19
Speaker 1: don't think that that's something is big, you know what
55:21
Speaker 1: I mean. So you don't realize how many people are
55:24
Speaker 1: into a Robert glassber simply because you're not tuned into
55:27
Speaker 1: Robert Glassbow. But I never heard Have you ever heard
55:30
Speaker 1: a Robber Glass for song? I personally haven't, But I
55:32
Speaker 1: don't know what it is somebody has. But you know,
55:34
Speaker 1: maybe he has a point, Like I think that's what
55:36
Speaker 1: Nicki Minaj was trying to say before when they were
55:38
Speaker 1: talking about rap and pop and how they put some
55:40
Speaker 1: records in the pop category, wouldn't put her records in
55:42
Speaker 1: the rap category, and she was just saying it has
55:44
Speaker 1: to be equal across the boards. I just never heard
55:46
Speaker 1: the brothers you know heard this music too. To think
55:49
Speaker 1: with Nicky, she was a victim of her her own success,
55:51
Speaker 1: because sadly, whenever artists get as big as somebody like
55:55
Speaker 1: a Nicki Minaj just gotten, they start labeling them pop chus,
55:59
Speaker 1: whack margery. Reality is popular just short for popular. Correctly,
56:02
Speaker 1: If that's the case, hip hop has been pop music
56:04
Speaker 1: for the past twenty five thirty years because you're the
56:07
Speaker 1: most popular. John Now also during first take, I don't
56:11
Speaker 1: know if you've seen that. Stephen A. Smith and Jay
56:13
Speaker 1: Williams got into a nasty disagreement and argument talking about
56:17
Speaker 1: Kyrie Irvin yesterday. I'm just saying how it's interesting to me.
56:21
Speaker 1: It just carries such a bigger momentum in particular with
56:25
Speaker 1: you anything anybody, you know what, Stop telling us what
56:29
Speaker 1: you find interesting to just tell us what you feel.
56:31
Speaker 1: No my job. You say you say I find it interesting.
56:34
Speaker 1: You always say that. Say what you're saying. He thinks
56:37
Speaker 1: you're too preoccupied with Kyrie, too hard on Kyrie. How
56:40
Speaker 1: many times have I mentioned Kyrie Irving over the last
56:42
Speaker 1: time I don't seem to go. I don't seem to
56:43
Speaker 1: me to want being triggered. Right now, I'm always triggered.
56:46
Speaker 1: No you're not. Oh, yes I am. No you're not. Yes,
56:49
Speaker 1: i am no, you are not. Okay, I've seen you.
56:51
Speaker 1: I watched your so ever, So what I'm watching Kyrie?
56:54
Speaker 1: Or is this person? I don't want it to be
56:57
Speaker 1: person for me with Kyrie? Yes, you want in person.
57:00
Speaker 1: You of all people, with all the interests, you have
57:02
Speaker 1: got the nerve to sit there in national television. Tell
57:04
Speaker 1: me I'm getting personal with a player. That's why we
57:06
Speaker 1: love first take for that exactly, Reas, because they do
57:08
Speaker 1: get personal debate, Yes, Attenion, Yes, and yes, everybody's personal.
57:12
Speaker 1: There's not a person that you know, steps in front
57:15
Speaker 1: of a microphone, you know who doesn't take certain things
57:18
Speaker 1: personal for whatever. Absolutely, you know, it just depends what
57:21
Speaker 1: the situation is and and all you might have a
57:23
Speaker 1: relationship with the person all you might really see where
57:25
Speaker 1: the person is coming from. Like everybody approaches this with
57:28
Speaker 1: a certain level of you know, taking it personal. Absolutely.
57:32
Speaker 1: Ray Jay's back, Yep, I'm back. I'm happy to be here.
57:35
Speaker 1: Spokes Nah, I want to, but I left it in
57:38
Speaker 1: upstairs you know it's legal in New York. You know that. Yeah,
57:41
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. I left it upstairs, but then
57:43
Speaker 1: I feel like I wanted to come back and here
57:45
Speaker 1: with a with a clear line and a pure heart.
57:48
Speaker 1: Why you got your shades on and your hoodie up
57:50
Speaker 1: so crazy? I'm looking suspicious Now now you look less suspicious.
57:57
Speaker 1: Suspicious but not. Lastly, Shannon Sharp were talking about John
58:02
Speaker 1: John Moran and his crew over the laser incident. If
58:04
Speaker 1: you don't know the laser incident. Allegedly John Morand's crew
58:08
Speaker 1: seeing the rafts and shine the laser on them, and
58:11
Speaker 1: it was this big thing, and Shannon Sharp talks about it.
58:13
Speaker 1: Jar's a really good basketball player. John did everything he
58:16
Speaker 1: could lift himself and his family out of this type
58:19
Speaker 1: of environment and to get away from this. And for
58:21
Speaker 1: some reason he wants to surround himself with these type
58:23
Speaker 1: of people. Why they are you not hard? That's not
58:27
Speaker 1: your life. People that in that life would give anything
58:30
Speaker 1: to be in your life. For some reason, you work thirty,
58:34
Speaker 1: you work out, you got all two hundred million dollars contract,
58:36
Speaker 1: and you want people in the NBA to thank you,
58:39
Speaker 1: hood to thank you gangster because you wrote with these
58:42
Speaker 1: type of people. But you're putting yourself in Harve's way
58:45
Speaker 1: when you don't after all you're doing. Yeah, but to
58:47
Speaker 1: my own I'm gonna let him middlefield another day. I'm
58:49
Speaker 1: gonna do this. You're not gonna do nothing what you're
58:51
Speaker 1: gonna do and get yourself in trouble, put yourself in
58:54
Speaker 1: your family in the harvesway when you don't have to
59:00
Speaker 1: show what it was as a laser like this one. Probably, No,
59:05
Speaker 1: I was upstairs. What do you mean it's up at
59:08
Speaker 1: J Cole where I want the point at J Cole. No, No,
59:11
Speaker 1: you're gonna ruin your whole life, Ray j ceo, ray
59:14
Speaker 1: Con it's one hundred million dollar company. You're gonna ruin
59:16
Speaker 1: your whole life pretending to be a thug. Well, I
59:19
Speaker 1: I'm a founder, but shout out to Rayle, he the CEO.
59:22
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I want to I'm gonna
59:24
Speaker 1: cso because I'm good at strategy. Okay, but I will
59:27
Speaker 1: say that that is that is John Morn's best friend, right,
59:29
Speaker 1: so they grew up with each other. But as his
59:31
Speaker 1: best friend, knowing what John Moran has his steak, he
59:34
Speaker 1: should fall back a little bit. But he shouldn't put
59:36
Speaker 1: his friends, you know, life in jeopardy and friend's career
59:39
Speaker 1: in jeopardy. He did a gun No, we don't know.
59:41
Speaker 1: I see that. The problem, I don't know what it is.
59:43
Speaker 1: You always only tell one side of the story. I'm
59:45
Speaker 1: the job Moran. It's been proven that the NBA could
59:48
Speaker 1: not corroborate the claim that John moranch entourage pointed gun
59:51
Speaker 1: laser at the end of Lads a lesson laser, right
59:55
Speaker 1: or whatever, it could be a lesson gun lazer in
59:58
Speaker 1: the headline, and they said an investigation was conducted following
1:00:01
Speaker 1: the reports and the NBA could not corroborate correct So
1:00:03
Speaker 1: why people running with that story? Then they're not you
1:00:06
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, These stories is getting out. I
1:00:08
Speaker 1: love like they're going to like for me, it feels
1:00:10
Speaker 1: like it's a lot of smoking mirrors. But the reason
1:00:13
Speaker 1: I said that is his best friend did run on
1:00:15
Speaker 1: the court and start arguing with players. Oh that's different. Well,
1:00:20
Speaker 1: the game happen. The players wasn't gonna jump him. Now
1:00:25
Speaker 1: if somebody came out of the stand, I get it.
1:00:29
Speaker 1: I like his GNA. You know, it's just the reflex
1:00:31
Speaker 1: we see. You know what I mean, we saw who
1:00:33
Speaker 1: was about to scrap and Nipsey stood up God bless
1:00:35
Speaker 1: the dead and about to pull his pants up and
1:00:37
Speaker 1: run on the court and looked like he was about
1:00:38
Speaker 1: to Squadron was about to get into it was. Don't
1:00:42
Speaker 1: remember what it was. I'm just saying, that's just the reflex.
1:00:44
Speaker 1: You see one of your peoples on the court, you
1:00:46
Speaker 1: might be like, oh, you know what I mean. Yeah,
1:00:48
Speaker 1: I like John and I like Shannon Sharp Shannon Sharpers.
1:00:50
Speaker 1: He'd be keeping in one hunting having the cold outfits too.
1:00:54
Speaker 1: He just started getting the cold office. Now. Yeah, he
1:00:57
Speaker 1: had the card and get carneg the car card again.
1:00:59
Speaker 1: How he said, Cardigan, Cardigan, Cardigan. That's what that chain
1:01:02
Speaker 1: almost looked say. It looked like it's say until I
1:01:04
Speaker 1: put my glasses on my goodness as I say, solo, man,
1:01:08
Speaker 1: give me a donkey to man. Four after the hour, Man,
1:01:10
Speaker 1: we're gonna have a conversation about why it is necessary
1:01:14
Speaker 1: that we all pay attention to Proverbs thirteen twenty four. Okay,
1:01:19
Speaker 1: you know that proverb about sparing the rod, spoiling the child,
1:01:23
Speaker 1: or something like that. We'll talk about it. Four after
1:01:24
Speaker 1: that hour, talking fishing rod. Are we talking talking to
1:01:28
Speaker 1: Rod you pulled out on don't do it, don't do
1:01:31
Speaker 1: It's a married man over, It's a breakfast club. Good morning,
1:01:34
Speaker 1: the breakfast club. Your morning's will never be the same.
1:01:38
Speaker 1: Thank you for synthesizers, instant replay, peanut butter and standard time.
1:01:42
Speaker 1: Are these just words struggling together or is it just
1:01:45
Speaker 1: some connection between them? I don't have the answer, but
1:01:48
Speaker 1: Crown Royal does. Curious. Well, that's an itch. You can
1:01:50
Speaker 1: scratch this Super Bowl Sunday. Please drink responsible, you get drunk,
1:02:01
Speaker 1: you are I'm gonna fatten all that around your man,
1:02:10
Speaker 1: Totton Blowers. Many waited for Charlemagne to make a judgment
1:02:15
Speaker 1: who was gonna be on the donkey of the day.
1:02:17
Speaker 1: They chose you at pitching. Who's donkey of the day
1:02:21
Speaker 1: to day? Well, donkey today for Tuesday, February seventh is
1:02:25
Speaker 1: one of the most heart woman donkeys I've heard in
1:02:26
Speaker 1: a long time. Okay, Now, today's donkey is only thirteen
1:02:29
Speaker 1: years old. To he's a juvenile and his name hasn't
1:02:32
Speaker 1: been released. Okay, I don't have a problem with that,
1:02:34
Speaker 1: because public shame and ridicule isn't what this boy needs
1:02:37
Speaker 1: at thirteen. He needs discipline, love and based off the
1:02:40
Speaker 1: crime he committed. Probably some psychotherapy, No, not probably, This
1:02:44
Speaker 1: young man needs a psychotherapy. Trust me. If I had
1:02:46
Speaker 1: gotten psychotherapy at thirteen, I wouldn't have made a lot
1:02:48
Speaker 1: of the mistakes I made. Okay, Young brothers, just be
1:02:50
Speaker 1: needing attention and guidance, Okay, in an outlet to express
1:02:54
Speaker 1: off frustrations, because when we don't get that attention and guidance,
1:02:57
Speaker 1: we contend to make poor decisions. And that's what happened
1:02:59
Speaker 1: to this thirteen year old young Nancy. He decided to
1:03:03
Speaker 1: put the pistol to the pastor. That's right, Lord, day
1:03:06
Speaker 1: down here, robin reference. Let's go to KMLVCVS poll for
1:03:09
Speaker 1: the report. Police the carjackings and stolen cars in St.
1:03:13
Speaker 1: Louis is not slowing down. The latest victims a church
1:03:16
Speaker 1: pastor and a local children's charity. The pastor tells News
1:03:19
Speaker 1: four he's thankful to be alive after two boys appeared
1:03:22
Speaker 1: to be in middle school put a gun to his
1:03:25
Speaker 1: face and took his van. This is surveillance video of
1:03:28
Speaker 1: the incident last night and the parking lot of Chronult
1:03:31
Speaker 1: Baptist Church in South Saint Louis. Please say the two
1:03:34
Speaker 1: boys did not get far. They hit other cars as
1:03:37
Speaker 1: they drove away and abandoned the van they stole just
1:03:40
Speaker 1: a few blocks from the church. Pastor says he had
1:03:43
Speaker 1: to explain to the teens how to start the vehicle
1:03:46
Speaker 1: because they seemed to be inexperienced thirteen and because of
1:03:50
Speaker 1: their inexperience. Because of that, I didn't want them to say, Hey,
1:03:54
Speaker 1: this isn't working out. Shoot the guy in goal. I mean, seriously,
1:03:58
Speaker 1: I was trying to think a step ahead of them.
1:04:00
Speaker 1: The teens ran from the scene. The pastor says he
1:04:02
Speaker 1: pressed charges because he wants to hold them accountable and
1:04:06
Speaker 1: he wants to prevent this from happening to anyone else.
1:04:10
Speaker 1: I agree with him. Okay. When I was young, my
1:04:11
Speaker 1: daddy salute the Cowboy and Kifield South Carolina dropping a
1:04:14
Speaker 1: clue bump from my pops man. My daddy used to say,
1:04:17
Speaker 1: boy them and words so crazy they were shooting church. Okay.
1:04:20
Speaker 1: The meaning behind that in some places used to be
1:04:22
Speaker 1: considered sacred some people, you know, some people used to
1:04:25
Speaker 1: be considered sacred. I mean, the toughest gangsters wouldn't dare
1:04:27
Speaker 1: robber pastor. Okay, robbing a reverend is like robbing God
1:04:31
Speaker 1: to a certain extent. And now we know why Jesus
1:04:34
Speaker 1: has not fulfilled his promise to you Christians of coming back.
1:04:38
Speaker 1: Why would he all right, think about that for a second.
1:04:40
Speaker 1: Y'all been killing God's messengers, Jesus being one of them
1:04:43
Speaker 1: for the longest. Now y'all jacking them? How are you
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Speaker 1: sticking up the scripture? Spit up? Okay? Now I know
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Speaker 1: y'all heard me say, this is one of the most
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Speaker 1: hot woman donkeys I've heard, Okay, in a long time.
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Speaker 1: I probably shouldn't have let with that because y'all probably
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Speaker 1: wondering what was so a hot woman about the pastor
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Speaker 1: getting robbed dance? There's nothing, okay, but everything that happened
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Speaker 1: after that. See, that little boy got caught, okay, and
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Speaker 1: he's currently childed with for us degree robbery. You know
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Speaker 1: how he got caught, not just because they erect the cause.
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Speaker 1: It's because someone identified that little boy and turned him in,
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Speaker 1: not just to someone someone who knows him very well.
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Speaker 1: In fact, the person knows that little boy better than
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Speaker 1: he knows himself. Let's go to NBC five for the report.
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Speaker 1: Please new details tonight about a thirteen year old accused
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Speaker 1: of pointing a gun at a pastor's face and then
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Speaker 1: stealing his card. Today we learned the teenager's mom is
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Speaker 1: the one who turned him in. Today, that teenager faced
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Speaker 1: a family court judge and five un years sides. Justina
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Speaker 1: Cornell's in studio right now to explain what's next. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: make an ann. So the thirteen year old boy, his family,
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Speaker 1: and the victim of the crime, we're all in court. Today.
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Speaker 1: A pastor, Mike Coleman with the corondal Let Baptist Church
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Speaker 1: learned that the thirteen year old boy will stand custody
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Speaker 1: for the time being. Wednesday morning, one of the teams
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Speaker 1: arrested a thirteen year old was in court. Police say
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Speaker 1: his mom turned him in over the weekend, his mother
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Speaker 1: becoming aware of the event in questioning her son, earning
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Speaker 1: him over to this juvenile court for prosecution, and investigators
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Speaker 1: are still working to locate the second suspect. God, God
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Speaker 1: bless that mom. Round of applause to that mom. Man,
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Speaker 1: salute to that mom. I don't know how old that
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Speaker 1: mom is, but that mom clearly is works too hard
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Speaker 1: on her camel. She has clearly cleaned up her sins,
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Speaker 1: been baptized, give her ties and offering. She clearly has
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Speaker 1: done everything she needed to do to get into heaven,
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Speaker 1: and she is not about to lose her blessings fooling
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Speaker 1: with this little human who came out her vagina. Okay,
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Speaker 1: she is not about to be a necessary to his
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Speaker 1: holy heist. Now is this an example of gentle parenting
1:06:35
Speaker 1: or conscious parenting? Because gentle parenting is the parenting style
1:06:37
Speaker 1: as composed of empathy, respect, understanding, and boundaries. Conscious parenting
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Speaker 1: is about letting go of you know, parents, ego, desires,
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Speaker 1: and attachment. So which one is it conscious parenting gentle parenting?
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Speaker 1: Or is this simply find somebody else to do it parenting? Okay?
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Speaker 1: And when I say find someone else to do it,
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Speaker 1: this means that as a mom, she probably has done
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Speaker 1: so much to keep him out this position, but that
1:06:58
Speaker 1: little hard headed boy won't listen. Okay. She'd probably been
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Speaker 1: telling them, you're gonna end up in jail a day
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Speaker 1: if you keep going down the path you're going down.
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Speaker 1: And now look jail at thirteen because you out here
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Speaker 1: thieving for offerings. Okay, So now I didn't do all
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Speaker 1: that I can do. Now I'm letting the system put
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Speaker 1: some fear in you Okay. If one does not discipline
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Speaker 1: a child, he or she will never learn obedience and
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Speaker 1: good manners. In this case, if Mama don't turn this
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Speaker 1: thirteen year old boy in, he's gonna end up dead,
1:07:23
Speaker 1: are in prison forever, because if you're already robbing passes
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Speaker 1: that thirteen, my god, and I'm not mad at his
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Speaker 1: mother at all. If you think your mother is a
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Speaker 1: snitch and opt, then set you're asking that juvenile detention
1:07:34
Speaker 1: center until you get some sense about you, because you
1:07:37
Speaker 1: got life all the way effed up. Now, let me
1:07:39
Speaker 1: ask two fathers in the room. You got envying Ray J. Hill.
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Speaker 1: Thirteen year old child robs the pass that gunpoint your child,
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Speaker 1: you're turning them into police. Thirteen year old, it's your child,
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Speaker 1: and he oh, I'll turn my own child in. Would
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Speaker 1: you did he take all the the collection to like
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Speaker 1: all of the like any from the dat man he
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Speaker 1: robbed the path to pathtor was sitting in his car. Man, Oh,
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Speaker 1: but he didn't take to collect like the church money
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Speaker 1: that they gave because it matter. He tried to rob
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Speaker 1: the bath gun taking my cunt my son home. And
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Speaker 1: then I'm talking to him, Okay, I gonna report him
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Speaker 1: to the police. It's my son thirteen years old. He
1:08:16
Speaker 1: already putting pistols to pastors. But that's like, if you
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Speaker 1: like these, if there's a bunch of people tripping on
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Speaker 1: people snitching like and they just friends like it, my
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Speaker 1: son Bridge, I don't want to be a snitch. I'm
1:08:27
Speaker 1: just saying there's a difference between snitching and then turning
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Speaker 1: your your son. Like that's over. I'm not turning my son.
1:08:34
Speaker 1: That's like, that's a different words. He didn't kill nobody.
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Speaker 1: He robbed him. I'm gonna beat his ass and robbing
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Speaker 1: him with a pistol now, I'm gonna make him bring
1:08:42
Speaker 1: that gun and wasn't loaded. I'm gonna maker bring the
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Speaker 1: stuff back. You know, we're gonna believe, we're gonna leave
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Speaker 1: it at the pastor's door. And then he beat his ass.
1:08:51
Speaker 1: But I'm not taking what did he take from it?
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Speaker 1: I guess you know, if they don't learn the consequences
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Speaker 1: of their actions, right, you know, it's only gonna escalated.
1:08:59
Speaker 1: They already putting the pistol to the path at thirteen
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Speaker 1: turn my son and my master have that made him
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Speaker 1: rob him? What did he take from that chair? Narrative?
1:09:12
Speaker 1: It's not all the way there. He was just saying,
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Speaker 1: like he robbed the pastor for what Jesus, what did
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Speaker 1: he get from the pastor? In his pocket? Like, what
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Speaker 1: did he get from him? Did he take his wallet?
1:09:22
Speaker 1: Did he take maybe took his wallet, maybe took some money,
1:09:24
Speaker 1: maybe took his jewelry. Watch always always remember proverb of
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Speaker 1: thirteen twenty four. Whoever spares the rod hates their children.
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Speaker 1: But the one who loves their children is careful to
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Speaker 1: turn they after the police when they out here committing
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Speaker 1: crimes against clergyman, Please let remy ma give this little
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Speaker 1: thirteen year old juvenile who robbed the reverend the biggest
1:09:42
Speaker 1: he huh, he shout out to remy man. I want
1:09:44
Speaker 1: to do this show with you, Remy, and we gotta
1:09:47
Speaker 1: get on the phone. Would you turn in your child?
1:09:50
Speaker 1: I don't know. So you just gave us that, give
1:09:54
Speaker 1: that hosh do this. Oh he brought the pastor and
1:09:57
Speaker 1: when he goes to come from and then just gonna
1:10:00
Speaker 1: happened to this. I applaud this momb for doing it,
1:10:04
Speaker 1: but I don't know what I would do. I wouldn't
1:10:06
Speaker 1: I like how you guys go give that go back
1:10:09
Speaker 1: and forth and stuff I guess dope, and I don't
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Speaker 1: have a fun So four daughters, I don't know. I
1:10:13
Speaker 1: really don't know. You ran up in the hammer. And
1:10:17
Speaker 1: when I think I don't know, I'd be thinking, Dan,
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Speaker 1: what did I do wrong that she would have to
1:10:21
Speaker 1: do that? I'm not you know what I mean? I'm not.
1:10:24
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take a herberall. What herberall? It's a natural, addie,
1:10:32
Speaker 1: all right, what are we doing next? We had uh, ellis,
1:10:36
Speaker 1: ellis is here last last hour? That's right to have
1:10:38
Speaker 1: a book out right now? Okay, yes, but they said
1:10:42
Speaker 1: this was interesting. Listen, get a chapter called there's a
1:10:45
Speaker 1: marriage after this wedding? Break that down. So while we
1:10:48
Speaker 1: were writing the book, we had discussed what I thought
1:10:50
Speaker 1: process was about getting engaged in being married, and Kadan
1:10:54
Speaker 1: had admitted that she had never really thought about the marriage. No, anytime,
1:10:59
Speaker 1: any time I had conversations with anyone regarding marriage or
1:11:02
Speaker 1: the wedding, it was the wedding. It was you know
1:11:04
Speaker 1: what dress are you gonna get? And who's the florist,
1:11:06
Speaker 1: and it was the planning of the day. At no
1:11:09
Speaker 1: point in time did anyone pull me aside and say,
1:11:11
Speaker 1: kadein like once you get married. Here are some things
1:11:14
Speaker 1: to expect, right. You watch these Disney movies and it
1:11:17
Speaker 1: says happily ever after, no one sees what happens after
1:11:19
Speaker 1: they lied off into the sunset. Correct. But it was
1:11:22
Speaker 1: particularly difficult because I just did not think about or
1:11:24
Speaker 1: plan for what life was going to look like after
1:11:26
Speaker 1: the wedding. M Is that something that we do? What
1:11:29
Speaker 1: you mean, work on the marriage? Yet? Do we plan
1:11:32
Speaker 1: for life after the wedding? Or is there even a plan?
1:11:35
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? There is there a blueprint
1:11:37
Speaker 1: to being married. Let's talk about it when we come back.
1:11:39
Speaker 1: Eight hundred five eight five one on five one. We
1:11:42
Speaker 1: all married brothers a pair. We'll discuss when we come back.
1:11:44
Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, yep, yep. It is
1:11:48
Speaker 1: waked that ass up nine about to go crazy. But
1:11:51
Speaker 1: this ray J and I've officially joined the Breakfast Club.
1:11:56
Speaker 1: The Breakfast Club adj Envy Charlemagne the guy. We are
1:12:02
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Our guest host, ray J is here.
1:12:05
Speaker 1: I know no nonsense, Ray to Day, that's right now.
1:12:09
Speaker 1: We were talking about the Elliss who joined us earlier,
1:12:11
Speaker 1: Codein and the vow, and we were talking about their
1:12:13
Speaker 1: relationship and talking about marriage after wedding, and this is
1:12:17
Speaker 1: what they said. You have a chapter called there's a
1:12:19
Speaker 1: marriage after this wedding break there there. So while we
1:12:22
Speaker 1: were writing the book, we had discussed what I thought
1:12:25
Speaker 1: process was about getting engaged in being married, and Kadein
1:12:29
Speaker 1: had admitted that she had never really thought about the marriage. Nope, anytime,
1:12:33
Speaker 1: anytime I had conversations with anyone regarding marriage or the wedding,
1:12:37
Speaker 1: it was the wedding. It was you know, what dress
1:12:39
Speaker 1: are you gonna get? And who's the florist? And it
1:12:42
Speaker 1: was the planning of the day. At no point in
1:12:44
Speaker 1: time did anyone pull me aside and say, Kadein, like,
1:12:46
Speaker 1: once you get married, here are some things to expect. Right.
1:12:50
Speaker 1: You watch these Disney movies and it says happily ever
1:12:52
Speaker 1: after no one sees what happens after they ride off
1:12:55
Speaker 1: into the sunset. Correct. But it was particularly difficult because
1:12:58
Speaker 1: I just did not think about or plan for life
1:13:00
Speaker 1: was gonna look like after the wedding. Yeah, they have
1:13:02
Speaker 1: a great chapter in the book called you know, the
1:13:04
Speaker 1: marriage after the wedding, And basically, you know, it's the
1:13:07
Speaker 1: work that has to be done after you say I do,
1:13:10
Speaker 1: and I don't know if there is a blueprint to
1:13:13
Speaker 1: being married, Like what is the work that needs to
1:13:14
Speaker 1: be done after one is married. I don't know if
1:13:17
Speaker 1: marriage is something you can gain plan for. I think
1:13:19
Speaker 1: you know, with marriage, we got to remember the fourth agreement,
1:13:21
Speaker 1: which is always do your best. Because I don't believe
1:13:23
Speaker 1: you could prepare for everything that marriage with go at you. No,
1:13:25
Speaker 1: you definitely can't prepare. And like you said, marriage is
1:13:28
Speaker 1: something that you consistently work on. I mean, it's so
1:13:30
Speaker 1: many different people. People are growing, people are involved. You
1:13:33
Speaker 1: have to understand people's feelings that it's not just because
1:13:35
Speaker 1: y'all have been dating, but now you have to understand
1:13:37
Speaker 1: somebody when you go to work and you and you
1:13:39
Speaker 1: come home and you had a bad day, you take
1:13:41
Speaker 1: that energy out on your partner, how to deal with it,
1:13:43
Speaker 1: how to deal with everything in a relationship. So let's
1:13:45
Speaker 1: go to you, right, we've been married for six years.
1:13:50
Speaker 1: Six years. Congratulations. You had a lot of ups and downs.
1:13:53
Speaker 1: Public somethings have been public. Y'all call for divorce sometimes
1:13:57
Speaker 1: and got back together. Y'all back together now? Yeah, I
1:13:59
Speaker 1: love friends us man, and I think that a lot
1:14:02
Speaker 1: of times. I mean, because I can only listen to
1:14:04
Speaker 1: people who's been married for twenty years or fifteen, and
1:14:07
Speaker 1: they they kind of gave us like the timing of
1:14:09
Speaker 1: when it gets rough and then you get over this
1:14:11
Speaker 1: year hump and then it kind of smooths out. How
1:14:13
Speaker 1: long you've been married twenty two I've been married twenty fourteen.
1:14:17
Speaker 1: I'm not good at man, I got it. But I've
1:14:20
Speaker 1: been with my wife between five years. I've been eight years,
1:14:23
Speaker 1: nine years. I'm doing my wife for twenty five years.
1:14:26
Speaker 1: I've been so around the like sixth seventh year, was
1:14:30
Speaker 1: it rough or a fifth fourth to fifth? Um? I
1:14:32
Speaker 1: mean you guys have been married for so long and no, no, no, yes,
1:14:36
Speaker 1: with marriage, yes, because when I got married, I hadn't
1:14:39
Speaker 1: let go of a lot of my childish ways. So
1:14:41
Speaker 1: I was still out here in these streets, you know
1:14:43
Speaker 1: what I mean, doing things I ain't had no business doing.
1:14:45
Speaker 1: You know what I mean, infidelity and all of that.
1:14:47
Speaker 1: So yes, yes, so yeah, so around this time, like
1:14:50
Speaker 1: I just felt like it, you know that I really
1:14:53
Speaker 1: wanted to, um, just be a good husband, but then
1:14:56
Speaker 1: I'm only got be a good father and the time
1:14:58
Speaker 1: and away from them then kids and not being there
1:15:02
Speaker 1: every single day every hour, you know, did you have
1:15:06
Speaker 1: a lot of insecurities? For myself, I had a lot
1:15:07
Speaker 1: of insecurities, and being married it kind of exposed that,
1:15:12
Speaker 1: Like what what do you mean, Um, my wife is beautiful,
1:15:15
Speaker 1: she's smart, she's intelligent, and I had a book come out,
1:15:18
Speaker 1: So yeah, we had a book came out, so real life,
1:15:19
Speaker 1: real love. We talk about that, and at first I
1:15:22
Speaker 1: was scared that if she left, she might see somebody
1:15:24
Speaker 1: that's smarter than me, that looks better than me. That
1:15:27
Speaker 1: it's not hard, though, it's very hard. It's very difficult,
1:15:29
Speaker 1: actually low, very hard, very difficult. It's actually very difficult
1:15:37
Speaker 1: trying to be serious fund serious. I'm saying, y'all making
1:15:46
Speaker 1: me lit because y'all like I want to get litter
1:15:49
Speaker 1: because y'all making me laugh. I'm trying. Let's being serious,
1:15:54
Speaker 1: you want to joke. So what's the work that y'all
1:15:56
Speaker 1: had to do in our marriages? Compromise community, compromise, communication
1:16:02
Speaker 1: and also yeah, communication And really it's like if you
1:16:05
Speaker 1: feel a certain way, express yourself about it absolutely, if
1:16:07
Speaker 1: you let it linger, and then nobody knows, and then
1:16:09
Speaker 1: it's just the attitude that's in the air and you
1:16:12
Speaker 1: just what's wrong? Were you scared to express yourself? Were
1:16:14
Speaker 1: you scared to ask questions? At times? Yeah, it depends
1:16:17
Speaker 1: on the question, because there's questions you want to ask it,
1:16:20
Speaker 1: but can you handle the answer. What do you have
1:16:22
Speaker 1: to compromise a lot of things? Just making sure that
1:16:26
Speaker 1: I that I stay in communication all the time, UM,
1:16:29
Speaker 1: listening more, UM, going out more, and spending time outside
1:16:34
Speaker 1: and inside and really just kind of like making my
1:16:39
Speaker 1: wife my close friend absolute and roll and we roll
1:16:44
Speaker 1: together and we do everything like as far as fun
1:16:47
Speaker 1: together because a lot of times dudes want to go
1:16:50
Speaker 1: hang out with their friends and have the fun and
1:16:52
Speaker 1: then come back and you got to think your girl
1:16:55
Speaker 1: or to do being in the house for days and
1:16:58
Speaker 1: you just want to come back and lay up because
1:16:59
Speaker 1: you then we all got it. You had a long week, right,
1:17:02
Speaker 1: We've been scared of scraping a lot of different ways.
1:17:04
Speaker 1: You know rated you know they you actually got in
1:17:07
Speaker 1: divorce papers, right, Well yeah, well actually we both fouled.
1:17:12
Speaker 1: Well I fouled, she fouled. They really want that though,
1:17:15
Speaker 1: I think deep down we didn't. You know what I'm saying,
1:17:17
Speaker 1: But a lot of times people are stubborn, stubborn and
1:17:21
Speaker 1: and and I think it hurts to think that a
1:17:23
Speaker 1: lot of times. If your ego got in the way
1:17:25
Speaker 1: and you actually got divorced and you didn't want to,
1:17:27
Speaker 1: but you're how I got that's scary. What did your
1:17:30
Speaker 1: friends and you know you're very close to your mom,
1:17:32
Speaker 1: of course, what did your family and say during that time?
1:17:36
Speaker 1: I really don't go to them for that for relationship advice,
1:17:40
Speaker 1: but because yeah, I think that's that's dangerous, right. I
1:17:43
Speaker 1: love princess, she loves me. Can't nobody tell me how
1:17:47
Speaker 1: to feel or what to do. They can only guide
1:17:49
Speaker 1: you and help you. But when they're done telling you
1:17:51
Speaker 1: what you what you either want to or not, you
1:17:53
Speaker 1: still got to go back home, right and you still
1:17:55
Speaker 1: got to deal with it from a man's perspective or
1:17:57
Speaker 1: a woman's perspective. So I just think just that one
1:18:00
Speaker 1: on one, tight knit nobody can come in between these walls.
1:18:04
Speaker 1: And if we got issues's deal with them. If we don't,
1:18:07
Speaker 1: then let's enjoy ourselves together and like, what do you
1:18:10
Speaker 1: think about what we did? That's when they get beside
1:18:13
Speaker 1: the TV show. Was there? Did y'all go see therapy
1:18:17
Speaker 1: or a therapist or was it you know, pastor preacher
1:18:20
Speaker 1: or somebody to be the middle person in between y'all
1:18:23
Speaker 1: or y'all just worked it out yourselves. We just worked
1:18:25
Speaker 1: it out, and I know we went. We had a therapist.
1:18:28
Speaker 1: Like a lot of stuff we do on the show,
1:18:31
Speaker 1: it's still needed. Do you get what I'm saying in
1:18:34
Speaker 1: the show? For me? When I watched each season, I'm
1:18:36
Speaker 1: like every like the first few seasons, I love hip.
1:18:38
Speaker 1: I was terrible. I was embarrassed to be who I am.
1:18:42
Speaker 1: You were right, and I looked at myself. Nobody needed
1:18:45
Speaker 1: to tell me what I did. I could see it right,
1:18:48
Speaker 1: and so I used the show every year to either
1:18:50
Speaker 1: watch myself do bad or see myself enhance and upgrade.
1:18:55
Speaker 1: And so that's why I appreciate loving him, which is
1:18:57
Speaker 1: crazy because a lot of people would never saying, but
1:19:01
Speaker 1: I just do because I was able to. I was
1:19:03
Speaker 1: able to watch my plays and then make my changes
1:19:06
Speaker 1: from watching myself. I'm glad y'all beat that courage man,
1:19:08
Speaker 1: because reality TV breaking couples apart. I'm glad I'm the
1:19:12
Speaker 1: only one. I'm the only one getting Can we have it?
1:19:16
Speaker 1: Can we have a bomb to drop a ball? Which
1:19:20
Speaker 1: his bomb on clu so clue has his own bomb here. Yeah,
1:19:24
Speaker 1: I know he always been dropping bombs. But yeah, so
1:19:27
Speaker 1: you got you guys don't have one? Now were clues?
1:19:30
Speaker 1: What do you have that sound effect? I don't know.
1:19:33
Speaker 1: You don't have enough guys. You gotta get who does
1:19:37
Speaker 1: the who he hot? Who does that? Donkey? Oh? Real one? Really?
1:19:41
Speaker 1: I got a real one. I bought a real one
1:19:42
Speaker 1: in here. We recorded it live. It was crazy, not
1:19:46
Speaker 1: yet old. So how did you make the donkey do it?
1:19:48
Speaker 1: Did you hit him like he had he go? Here?
1:19:51
Speaker 1: You know what I did? Really? I played one wish
1:19:52
Speaker 1: and then you put a little pinky in it. And
1:19:54
Speaker 1: I'm just about to say you was doing too much
1:19:57
Speaker 1: like that. I don't trying to wear out. They go.
1:20:00
Speaker 1: I would have gonna say something, but then you actually
1:20:02
Speaker 1: was going there, So I'm like, damn, okay, what happens?
1:20:05
Speaker 1: Has add this weekend? Like we just go all over
1:20:07
Speaker 1: the places? The question is eight hundred and five A
1:20:10
Speaker 1: five after the wedding, the marriage, that's when the marriage
1:20:13
Speaker 1: starts for being married? What does the work that wins
1:20:16
Speaker 1: to be done? All right, let's talk about it when
1:20:18
Speaker 1: we come back. It's the breakfast club God morning after
1:20:20
Speaker 1: the wedding, you go have a good time well after
1:20:23
Speaker 1: you know what. It's the Breakfast Club and one I'm
1:20:25
Speaker 1: saying it's time to get it popping legally call Merefast Club.
1:20:37
Speaker 1: Topic Morning everybody, DJ and V Charlomagne the guy. We
1:20:45
Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club. Our guest host Ray J is
1:20:48
Speaker 1: still here, no nonsense, Ray to day, raycon Global period
1:20:51
Speaker 1: and if you just joined us, we were talking about
1:20:54
Speaker 1: the Elisis Cadine and de Val. That book We Over
1:20:56
Speaker 1: Me is out right now we over we over me
1:21:01
Speaker 1: like we together over me by myself that we over me?
1:21:06
Speaker 1: What about he and she or they d I just
1:21:12
Speaker 1: asked a lot of questions. That's it's cool. I'm curious.
1:21:14
Speaker 1: So we're asking about the blueprint for marriage, right, and
1:21:17
Speaker 1: we got to think he talked to us. So I
1:21:19
Speaker 1: think that if you get premarital counseling, prenoto counseling will
1:21:23
Speaker 1: give you a foundation to actually build off of a
1:21:26
Speaker 1: lot of people don't want to subscribe to it, but
1:21:28
Speaker 1: it gets your mind off of the wedding and it
1:21:30
Speaker 1: allows you to build with one another. And our premarrital
1:21:35
Speaker 1: counseling included what didn't we see growing up? What are
1:21:39
Speaker 1: things that we would like to carry over. What are things?
1:21:42
Speaker 1: And that allowed us to say, Okay, unconsciously, we may
1:21:46
Speaker 1: do things that we start growing up. So if I
1:21:49
Speaker 1: start to act out a certain way, my husband would
1:21:51
Speaker 1: be prepared mentally to say, Okay, that may not be
1:21:54
Speaker 1: her consciously doing that. That may be an unconscious thing
1:21:57
Speaker 1: that she's repeating from what she started growing up. I like,
1:22:00
Speaker 1: didn't now have a conversation with one another, so he
1:22:04
Speaker 1: can point it out to me and said, hey, remember
1:22:06
Speaker 1: we talked about this. You know this is you're starting
1:22:09
Speaker 1: to do X, Y and Z, which to prepare me
1:22:12
Speaker 1: not to take it personally. So I think there's pre
1:22:16
Speaker 1: marital counseling, and then that a lot allows you to
1:22:19
Speaker 1: have a person that you can now go to two
1:22:22
Speaker 1: or three months later when things start to appear and
1:22:24
Speaker 1: creep up, and I think this should be I think
1:22:27
Speaker 1: there should be somebody before you get married to talk
1:22:29
Speaker 1: to that break things down. Don't don't mind Charlomagne and Ray.
1:22:33
Speaker 1: They're not laughing at you clothing. But I read with
1:22:37
Speaker 1: you and I agree with you. Vicky's right, But Ray
1:22:41
Speaker 1: looking at me like I visited of Vicky and I'm
1:22:44
Speaker 1: and I'm into it and I'm focused in the look
1:22:46
Speaker 1: at me and see me focused and start laughing, and
1:22:48
Speaker 1: I was like, dang, I was so focus. And then
1:22:51
Speaker 1: both of y'all go to the principal's office. Both principal's
1:22:54
Speaker 1: office right now, Vickie, not wrong. Though y'all would teaches nightmares.
1:22:56
Speaker 1: I could tell like both of y'all would teaches nightmare
1:23:00
Speaker 1: was No, it wasn't. I wasn't laughing. It got funny,
1:23:04
Speaker 1: it got funnier. Vicky, You're right, that should be pre
1:23:06
Speaker 1: marriage counseling, that that help couples and break things down.
1:23:09
Speaker 1: That that, especially Newly, was just don't know because there's
1:23:11
Speaker 1: so many things that I didn't know about him. Sure,
1:23:13
Speaker 1: charlotmade and definitely no, no, Vicky for real, No, you right,
1:23:17
Speaker 1: Vicky hung up. But you know, think about premun think
1:23:19
Speaker 1: about premrido counseling. Even though I do agree with Vicky,
1:23:22
Speaker 1: you don't know what you're talking to the premarital counselor
1:23:25
Speaker 1: about because you haven't even encountered another of the issues
1:23:28
Speaker 1: that you're having your marriage, right, but the premountain marital
1:23:30
Speaker 1: counsel's life, how was her relationship? You get what I'm
1:23:33
Speaker 1: saying right counsel but then like you're talking about a
1:23:37
Speaker 1: counselor without the facts of science, right Like, it's a
1:23:40
Speaker 1: I don't know how their relationship is. You don't know
1:23:42
Speaker 1: how the doctors doctor. If he's a hard doctor, he's
1:23:44
Speaker 1: gonna make sure your heart works. And a marriage counselor
1:23:48
Speaker 1: is like, I can't and shout out to all the
1:23:50
Speaker 1: marriage counsel I don't want to mess up nobody's business.
1:23:52
Speaker 1: But there's no scientific fact that's true, saying is right
1:23:55
Speaker 1: right relationship, a marriage counselor, every everybody else, everybody else
1:23:59
Speaker 1: saying it's all opinionated. It's like saying I hate this song,
1:24:02
Speaker 1: but then it turns into being a here. Sometimes the
1:24:04
Speaker 1: marriage counselor is just dare to be a conducted though
1:24:06
Speaker 1: right like, because you're already having a problem. Communicate referee
1:24:09
Speaker 1: exactly if the marriage counselors on the guy side, the
1:24:12
Speaker 1: girl gonna trip on the marriage counselor, but the marriage
1:24:14
Speaker 1: counselor should be a referee in the middle. That's letting
1:24:16
Speaker 1: both sides speak and both sides thoughts be hurt. But
1:24:18
Speaker 1: if one side and the marriage counselor knows that one
1:24:20
Speaker 1: side is right, and the other one needs to work
1:24:22
Speaker 1: more on the right side because then the wrong side
1:24:25
Speaker 1: gonna trip and say, let's get a new one that's
1:24:26
Speaker 1: on my side. I'm with you. If I had one wish, yeah,
1:24:29
Speaker 1: no doubt. I would you do one wish, take another call.
1:24:33
Speaker 1: But we can't. Oh we need to drop this up.
1:24:35
Speaker 1: And and it's not raining today, so let's one wish
1:24:38
Speaker 1: is not gonna not pop off that real ring a
1:24:42
Speaker 1: little X at the fake rain. But I still gave
1:24:45
Speaker 1: a little edge like two fifty to do the video work.
1:24:47
Speaker 1: Let's work it and you made it all back that
1:24:49
Speaker 1: the big we're working gold Yeah, yeah, no doubt. I
1:24:52
Speaker 1: mean the whole album Win Gold Ray is still spending
1:24:54
Speaker 1: one which money you don't get it twisted, the whole
1:24:56
Speaker 1: album win Gold. I'm at you know twe ninety nine.
1:24:59
Speaker 1: Oh man, Well, what's gonna let that story? After ask
1:25:02
Speaker 1: the mother of the story is like, you know, the independent, No,
1:25:05
Speaker 1: it's not to be independent when you're on the record,
1:25:08
Speaker 1: you can't be independent. Get in trouble, right the trouble.
1:25:12
Speaker 1: You asked me what did the record do? I said that,
1:25:14
Speaker 1: I said, what's the moral of the story? Are they
1:25:18
Speaker 1: going to go be independent that I took overall this
1:25:22
Speaker 1: work in y'all talk about marriage on the radio, and
1:25:24
Speaker 1: you said the moral of the stories to be independent, No,
1:25:26
Speaker 1: be independent for the music because we was like we're
1:25:28
Speaker 1: all over the place where like the topics, it's got
1:25:30
Speaker 1: going into in and out of stuff, and you know
1:25:32
Speaker 1: I got ray d D. The moral of the story
1:25:36
Speaker 1: is that you know there is work to be done
1:25:38
Speaker 1: after somebody is married, and don't be afraid to do
1:25:40
Speaker 1: that work. That's that goes without saying like we gotta
1:25:42
Speaker 1: go to like your kid gotta go to school, we
1:25:44
Speaker 1: gotta go to work. Of course, it's work to be
1:25:46
Speaker 1: done after the marriage. The worst one yall the couple.
1:25:48
Speaker 1: But first off, the work gotta be done after the man.
1:25:50
Speaker 1: I gotta get it in for a little while. We married,
1:25:54
Speaker 1: all right, when we come back, we got your room,
1:25:56
Speaker 1: put it in. We just got married, so legally now
1:25:58
Speaker 1: we can have a good time. So let's spiritually get
1:26:00
Speaker 1: that in for a little while. And then if it's
1:26:02
Speaker 1: problems that pull up, would deal with them. But right now,
1:26:04
Speaker 1: life is good. Let's live, Let's enjoy the wedding. After
1:26:07
Speaker 1: the wedding, let me let me be in it. And
1:26:08
Speaker 1: marinate in it for at least a couple of weeks. Okay,
1:26:13
Speaker 1: at least when we come back and got rumors were talking.
1:26:18
Speaker 1: Wendy Williams, I don't move. It's the breakfast Cloak Morning,
1:26:20
Speaker 1: said Wendy Williams, coming in here. No, no, it's the
1:26:27
Speaker 1: Breakfast Morning, the breakfast Club power one oh five one,
1:26:38
Speaker 1: The breakfast Club Morning will never be the I'm telling
1:26:43
Speaker 1: Ray here reading books about cheating morning. Everybody. We are
1:26:46
Speaker 1: the breakfast Club. Ray j our co host is here.
1:26:48
Speaker 1: Let's get to the rumors to talk. Wendy Williams, the
1:26:53
Speaker 1: name or you've gossip and when you chatting is the
1:26:57
Speaker 1: rub report? I mean, I guess we're on the breakfast Club.
1:26:59
Speaker 1: This is where the tea spells the breakfast Club. Now
1:27:03
Speaker 1: we're looking for it's like a ghost beaten up rage.
1:27:06
Speaker 1: Don't try to deflect from that book. You really new here.
1:27:09
Speaker 1: We're looking for his wire right, why you wi No? No,
1:27:13
Speaker 1: the why to plugging is now, Wendy Williams. Uh, it
1:27:19
Speaker 1: seems like a judge claimed. A judge said that they
1:27:22
Speaker 1: will not have to resume cutting alimony checks to Kevin
1:27:25
Speaker 1: Hunter her ex anymore. Now, Kevin Hunter said, my car
1:27:29
Speaker 1: insurance hasn't been paid as a result of not receiving
1:27:32
Speaker 1: monthly severance payments. He said, I'm behind on my credit
1:27:35
Speaker 1: card payments because I have no money since these payments
1:27:37
Speaker 1: were suspended. He says, my life has been greatly affected
1:27:41
Speaker 1: since the plane off stopped making payments under our settlement agreement.
1:27:45
Speaker 1: Now we all know Wendy was making at one time
1:27:47
Speaker 1: ten million a year fifty five thousand. An episode on
1:27:50
Speaker 1: the way on the Wendy Williams showing, now he said
1:27:52
Speaker 1: he's behind on his bills because of that. Get it together.
1:27:58
Speaker 1: I'm back now and some Ray j News. Now ready,
1:28:02
Speaker 1: you want to tell the people what what you were
1:28:03
Speaker 1: doing yesterday. I wonder why you're reading that book. Oh
1:28:06
Speaker 1: there's two about the book. Shot shout out to Mama.
1:28:10
Speaker 1: I didn't know because I hate being in the news.
1:28:14
Speaker 1: This book is called Why Men Plus Women? She shout
1:28:16
Speaker 1: out to Mama Jones. Shout out to Jim Jones, Shout
1:28:19
Speaker 1: out to the whole family. I went over there. I
1:28:21
Speaker 1: had some chicken and some yams and some greens, and
1:28:24
Speaker 1: it was really good. And I told Mama Jones please
1:28:26
Speaker 1: burn my chicken because I don't like my chicken, medium
1:28:29
Speaker 1: will Why are you reading that book? Though she gave
1:28:31
Speaker 1: it to She said she got a book coming out,
1:28:33
Speaker 1: and I said, well, can I have it? And can
1:28:34
Speaker 1: you please sign up for me? Because I like that
1:28:36
Speaker 1: when people write books, I like to put them up
1:28:38
Speaker 1: and then like have them. What they say, you have
1:28:39
Speaker 1: no reason to read that book as a married man, no,
1:28:43
Speaker 1: like she the name of the book is Why Women
1:28:45
Speaker 1: and Why Men. That's the first song, why why No no, no,
1:28:51
Speaker 1: no no no. On the back it does say there's
1:28:53
Speaker 1: a two there's two sides, so this side. She said,
1:28:56
Speaker 1: you got to read it from the back. You don't
1:29:00
Speaker 1: need to know how. But she got ready, you know,
1:29:04
Speaker 1: so you got the front and then you got the
1:29:05
Speaker 1: back and the back was hidden from the back or something.
1:29:09
Speaker 1: She used the term not for me. I'm just saying
1:29:11
Speaker 1: because she family. Now I look at her like like
1:29:13
Speaker 1: my auntie, right, Mama Jones, Mama Jones, and mama her book. Yeah,
1:29:18
Speaker 1: Mama Jones. Book. That chicken was good last night because
1:29:21
Speaker 1: a lot of people are afraid to burn the chicken
1:29:23
Speaker 1: like I needed to. I need you to burn the
1:29:24
Speaker 1: chicken because I like it. Well, huh, because I don't
1:29:28
Speaker 1: like chicken. I don't like my chicken medium well through
1:29:36
Speaker 1: juicy chicken. Now, Also, you were talking about something that
1:29:38
Speaker 1: you got going on Friday. You got a video. Oh yeah,
1:29:40
Speaker 1: so shout out to my group. It's the first time
1:29:42
Speaker 1: we're ever putting out a music video. Rs VP, Ray J, Sammy,
1:29:46
Speaker 1: Bobby V and Pleasure P. We were. We launched the
1:29:50
Speaker 1: first video Friday. I want to do it here first. Okay,
1:29:52
Speaker 1: I want to do it here at the breakfast club first?
1:29:55
Speaker 1: What do you mean to do it here? I don't
1:29:56
Speaker 1: want to drop the video. Oh y'all, don't do this radio.
1:30:00
Speaker 1: They can't see it. He could. Oh yeah, I want
1:30:04
Speaker 1: to play a thing yeah yeah, well I want to
1:30:06
Speaker 1: play yeah. Well, because it's the Southern song called I Like.
1:30:10
Speaker 1: That's the real single for radio money everywhere. It's like
1:30:14
Speaker 1: our biography because it's like a seven minute song, six
1:30:16
Speaker 1: minute record. Oh, we're not doing it. No, That's why
1:30:18
Speaker 1: I wanted to talk to you guys about that now. Yeah,
1:30:20
Speaker 1: we're not doing it. No, no, no, no, no no.
1:30:22
Speaker 1: The last thing I got it, the last thing I
1:30:24
Speaker 1: want to talk about. I don't even know if you
1:30:25
Speaker 1: want to talk about it. But something interesting you said.
1:30:27
Speaker 1: I was saying, behind the scenes, ray J goes left
1:30:30
Speaker 1: and right when he has conversations. If everybody out there listening,
1:30:32
Speaker 1: I was, yeah, ray d D. I was selling ray
1:30:35
Speaker 1: d h D. And I was telling them that, you know,
1:30:37
Speaker 1: I would love to see a conversation between him and
1:30:39
Speaker 1: fifty because fifty is the same way. They just talk
1:30:42
Speaker 1: on purpose. He talk about everything. And he said that
1:30:44
Speaker 1: he actually had a conversation with fifty. I had multiple
1:30:46
Speaker 1: conversations with fifty five minutes. No, yeah, one one conversation
1:30:50
Speaker 1: me and Jackie had with fifty. U. Fifty was moving around.
1:30:54
Speaker 1: I don't know if he didn't like our idea or
1:30:57
Speaker 1: or he liked it, and he was just like let
1:30:59
Speaker 1: me just like, I gotta get it in before I
1:31:01
Speaker 1: get on the plane. But so you got to say
1:31:03
Speaker 1: another word. I say that again. Y'all were having a
1:31:07
Speaker 1: conversation on FaceTime and where were you on FaceTime? Jackie
1:31:10
Speaker 1: Long set it up and Fifty took a dump conversation
1:31:14
Speaker 1: in the meeting that I had when I was in
1:31:16
Speaker 1: a pitch, so he was pitching something to him. Yeah,
1:31:18
Speaker 1: and he was in the middle taking the pool. No,
1:31:21
Speaker 1: he went in and just comfortable enough. He felt comfortable
1:31:24
Speaker 1: enough to where he felt like, you know, That's what
1:31:27
Speaker 1: I'm saying. It could have been like we we found
1:31:29
Speaker 1: that these my boys, let me go get let me
1:31:31
Speaker 1: go take a dump real quick, and then let me
1:31:33
Speaker 1: let me listen to the meeting. Maybe it was just
1:31:35
Speaker 1: like just like I'm gonna just dump. Did he call you?
1:31:40
Speaker 1: I don't think Curtis is gonna like this, No, gonna
1:31:44
Speaker 1: like you putting this kind of information just it was.
1:31:47
Speaker 1: It was to me, I felt it was some gangs.
1:31:49
Speaker 1: It was gangster. It was like we got you know
1:31:51
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, We got a little bit, No we
1:31:54
Speaker 1: got It felt like we got a little homeid in
1:31:56
Speaker 1: the meeting because maybe the idea wasn't good. Maybe he
1:31:58
Speaker 1: just had to do dude, Maybe who had just that semple?
1:32:07
Speaker 1: Remember Fifth, I told you that that you did that
1:32:09
Speaker 1: when we was talking. You think he didn't know he moved?
1:32:13
Speaker 1: Fifth is busy doing a lot of stuff. So you
1:32:15
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. If I don't believe man, you
1:32:18
Speaker 1: didn't believe me about the Eddie League. At the end
1:32:22
Speaker 1: of the week, I'm putting the compilation together of all
1:32:24
Speaker 1: Ray Jay's unbelievable stories. I might even have somebody animate
1:32:28
Speaker 1: him that Eddie Murphy went when you say you picked
1:32:30
Speaker 1: him up in the g wagon that nobody in the
1:32:31
Speaker 1: America had fifty Yeah, but now fifty dump in front
1:32:35
Speaker 1: of you while you and Jackie Eddie Murphy. Eddie Murphy
1:32:40
Speaker 1: had the g wagon but the two door that was
1:32:43
Speaker 1: not in, and so he saw I had the four door. Brandy,
1:32:45
Speaker 1: it was Brandy of driving brand a man. Ya don't believe.
1:32:49
Speaker 1: Shout out to Shout out to Crystal. We got the
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1:33:30
Speaker 1: to my dude, B dot Man. You know, every day
1:33:32
Speaker 1: during Black History Month, the Black Effect iHeartRadio podcast Network
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1:33:37
Speaker 1: didn't neither? Okay, and I got something today that maybe
1:33:40
Speaker 1: you didn't know? Did you know black people save PEPSI? Huh?
1:33:43
Speaker 1: Did you? My man? Beat that's gonna break it down
1:33:46
Speaker 1: for you. I didn't know, didn't didn't. I didn't know.
1:33:50
Speaker 1: I didn't. John Pemberton a pharmacist in Atlanta. He invented coke,
1:33:56
Speaker 1: but that was actually his second drink. His first mention
1:34:00
Speaker 1: was in eighteen eighty four called French wine coca. It
1:34:04
Speaker 1: was really just a copycat of a French wine that
1:34:06
Speaker 1: had cocaine in it. In eighteen eighty five, right when
1:34:09
Speaker 1: the product was about to start poppington, Atlanta outlawed alcohol sales.
1:34:13
Speaker 1: So that's when Pemberton went to work on a different
1:34:16
Speaker 1: ring that had the same medicinal effects, introducing coca cola.
1:34:22
Speaker 1: In eighteen eighty six. They started calling coca cola the
1:34:25
Speaker 1: intellectual beverage among well off whites. In eighteen ninety one,
1:34:30
Speaker 1: it was revealed that cocaine was in coca cola, so
1:34:32
Speaker 1: that's when the drinks start getting marketed as refreshing versus medicinal.
1:34:37
Speaker 1: Then they started the glass bottles in eighteen ninety nine,
1:34:40
Speaker 1: and that changed the game because now anybody can get
1:34:43
Speaker 1: Coca Cola if you got a nickel, black or white.
1:34:46
Speaker 1: And then white folk did not want black folk drinking
1:34:48
Speaker 1: that good Coca Cola. That was the intellectual beverage. So
1:34:51
Speaker 1: because Coca Cola had cocaine in it, white newspaper started
1:34:55
Speaker 1: reporting Negro cocaine fiends were raping white women and the
1:35:00
Speaker 1: police were powerless to stop him. By nineteen o three,
1:35:03
Speaker 1: they took the cocaine out and added more sugar and caffeine.
1:35:06
Speaker 1: I didn't know none of this. I also didn't realize
1:35:09
Speaker 1: that Pepsi in nineteen forty was in the dirt trying
1:35:11
Speaker 1: to keep up with Coca Cola. Se Coca Cola had
1:35:14
Speaker 1: the six ounds bottles for a nickel. Pepsi went to
1:35:16
Speaker 1: the twelve ounce bottles for the nickel, but that didn't
1:35:19
Speaker 1: help him. Jeff made the drink look cheap, but Dan
1:35:22
Speaker 1: Pepsi got smart. Pepsy said, you know what, Cocacola, don't
1:35:25
Speaker 1: go over there to the hood. We should Pepsi put
1:35:28
Speaker 1: together a Negro markets department, y'all in the nineteen forties
1:35:32
Speaker 1: and fifties to increase sales to blacks, and it worked
1:35:36
Speaker 1: like hell. The president of Pepsi at the time was
1:35:39
Speaker 1: Walter mac He put together a team of black marketers
1:35:42
Speaker 1: to promote sales in black communities. Only, instead of making
1:35:45
Speaker 1: black folks look goofy in the butter jokes, Pepsi promoted
1:35:49
Speaker 1: a different image of black folk in his advertising. Had
1:35:51
Speaker 1: Duke Ellington on that joint. By the time the fifties
1:35:54
Speaker 1: was over, Pepsi sales increased dramatically. They was out selling
1:35:57
Speaker 1: coke in the black community by a marginal three to one,
1:36:01
Speaker 1: and the drink not the narcotic, because they were probably
1:36:05
Speaker 1: moving that narcotic. The technique of selling to jezz black
1:36:08
Speaker 1: folk was so successful that it would come to be
1:36:11
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Speaker 1: DJ Envy Charlemagne, the guy Rayja invented the word cap.
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Speaker 1: dump in front of him and Jackie Longo. He took
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Speaker 1: a dump in the meeting out in front of us,
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Speaker 1: like I couldn't see him actually dumping because he was dumping.
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Speaker 1: Now he's telling us he don't want to be on
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Speaker 1: I said, I didn't want to be on Power because
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Speaker 1: I auditioned and I didn't get this. I don't want
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Speaker 1: to try no more. Where West Team come into place
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Speaker 1: because West Dem is my brother. He the first person
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Speaker 1: I ever let me drive a billy when I didn't
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Speaker 1: have and I have a billy. That's what made me
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Speaker 1: want to have a belly. That is a lie. West
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Speaker 1: was when when they was in the streets, that was
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Speaker 1: yo here yo t T. I didn't even have a license.
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Speaker 1: Ye Yo, t please respond to the Breakfast Club and
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Speaker 1: let them know you was the first person to let
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Speaker 1: me drive a billy. You let me hold it for
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Speaker 1: three days. Bet you gotta stop this man. You gotta
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Speaker 1: at the end of the week, I don't want to
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Speaker 1: and somebody gonna animate it for me. I don't know
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Speaker 1: where to go because I'm mad, because I'm right here,
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Speaker 1: I'm telling you really like this ain't right. Ta. Can't
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Speaker 1: you please respond in the Breakfast Club and say, Yo, Ray,
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Speaker 1: rain capping, rain capping on nothing. I wear a cap
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Speaker 1: and still don't cap, can you? It's on a positive
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Speaker 1: little ray. It's time to get a pa So shout
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Speaker 1: out to Crystal Um, yep, and I got a big
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Speaker 1: ott platform coming. I want to I want to do
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Speaker 1: some shows with y'all too. Um. I'm going through some
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Speaker 1: stuff right now. It's getting a little bit like it's
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Speaker 1: getting a little bit of ratchet, and then the shows
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Speaker 1: is getting a little bit intense. Shout out to the
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Speaker 1: Dosh network. Um, I want to have a few more
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Speaker 1: meetings this week to understand the subject matter, because I
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Speaker 1: want to make sure it's not too out of control.
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Speaker 1: The numbers are gonna go crazy on dosh because the
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Speaker 1: content is so loud. Okay, where do I fit in
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Speaker 1: and hear? Morally? Dosh? Where am I with this more integrity?
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Speaker 1: With my integrity? All right, that's it, That's what I
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Speaker 1: wanted to say. I'm okay. We had to shout out
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Speaker 1: to Crystal. They got the pimento cheese that I like, Crystal.
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Speaker 1: I think what Ray is trying to say is if
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