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Full Episode-Feb 17,2026: Is There Such A Thing As A Bad Texter Or Do You Not Communicate Well? · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: DW It's time to welcome Welcome Bill Bill There.
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  Speaker 2: The Kid, the Kill, Billy.
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  Speaker 3: The Kid in the Morning, starring the one and only
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  Speaker 3: Candice Lopez and producer Poo.
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  Speaker 2: Billy the Kid in.
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  Speaker 4: The Morning, the Incredible live and.
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  Speaker 1: Logo Billy's a Kid in the Morning.
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  Speaker 4: Good morning. It is Mix one O two point nine.
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  Speaker 1: If Billy the Kid, Candice Lopez is here, Producer Poo
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  Speaker 1: is here.
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  Speaker 4: It's Fat Tuesday.
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  Speaker 1: It is, which I almost forgot about until I just
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  Speaker 1: realized I saw something online. I was like, oh, it's okay,
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  Speaker 1: I forgot today's Fat Tuesday.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know what that means.
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  Speaker 2: Things going on today?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, we celebrating. Are we doing something more?
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  Speaker 2: We ken? If you want? Is there a King cake
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  Speaker 2: around here? It's going to show up at some point.
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  Speaker 2: We already missed that.
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  Speaker 4: So no, we didn't get a king cake. We just
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  Speaker 4: have cake.
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  Speaker 2: That's fine.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, that is fine. So happy Fat Tuesday. Can
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  Speaker 1: slow Paz whatever you are.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just gonna tell you, guys. Sending an email to
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  Speaker 2: someone I hadn't talked to in a long time this morning,
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  Speaker 2: someone that works here, one of our bosses. It's out
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  Speaker 2: of town, and I just couldn't get myself to write
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  Speaker 2: hope all is well. Do you guys just hear people
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  Speaker 2: say hope all is well in your emails all the time. Well,
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  Speaker 2: I thought, let me switch it up today, and so
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  Speaker 2: I wrote, I hope everything is great with you? And
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  Speaker 2: I was like, is that okay?
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  Speaker 4: That was very long?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I hope everything is great with you.
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  Speaker 1: I hope everything is going mediocre with you. Well, hope
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  Speaker 1: all as well. I mean, sometimes I'll just write an
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  Speaker 1: email and I'll say best, Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Well I've signed my emails with that best, the.
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  Speaker 4: Best or whatever. Yeah, I hope you're doing good.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: That's really people that I don't talk to really ever,
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  Speaker 2: you know what I mean. I feel like that's more
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  Speaker 2: for like people that are just you know, emailing me
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  Speaker 2: once or twice and then we're done. But like, this
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  Speaker 2: is a person I email with, you know regularly, that
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  Speaker 2: one of our bosses.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah really Yeah, I didn't know that, you little suck up.
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  Speaker 2: Well, no, he had emailed me about something first, you know,
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  Speaker 2: we first.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, Okay, I just couldn't.
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  Speaker 2: I can't do hope all as well.
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  Speaker 1: Or sometimes what I'll do is I'll just say I
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  Speaker 1: hope your day doesn't sucky. That's like my way I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I hope your day isn't that bad. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I hope you have the day you deserve.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, that sounds bad. I know I tried that.
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  Speaker 4: Well, that's okay. We're good over that. At least you're
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  Speaker 4: playing ice for the boss.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure, but in.
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  Speaker 1: A good word for me because I don't talk to him.
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  Speaker 1: All right, Producer poo is here, what's up, poop?
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  Speaker 4: Yesterday I had the craziest thing happened to me.
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  Speaker 3: I was getting gassed downtown Wylie at the Balero, right,
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  Speaker 3: and this little white girl.
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  Speaker 4: There's a downtown Wiley. Yeah, there's downtown Yeah, it's called
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  Speaker 4: Ballard Street.
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  Speaker 3: Anyway, I was there and the little white girl comes
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  Speaker 3: up to She says, hey, mister, do.
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  Speaker 4: You like cookies? And I was like, I'm looking around.
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, where your mama at? You know what's going on?
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  Speaker 3: She was a girl scout, but she didn't have like
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  Speaker 3: a little sash across the can that and they were
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  Speaker 3: posted up. Why is that crazy? Because I'm like, where's
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  Speaker 3: the stand at or you know whatever.
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  Speaker 2: He's a hustler.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, well the stand was on the side of
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  Speaker 3: there's a Mexican restaurant down town. They had a stand
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  Speaker 3: on the side of the restaurant and that's where all
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  Speaker 3: the little girl so.
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  Speaker 4: They were going up to people in cars. Where's I
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  Speaker 4: didn't get in? You told her no? How do you
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  Speaker 4: tell a girl scout no?
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  Speaker 2: It's so hard.
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  Speaker 4: It is so hard.
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  Speaker 1: I bought so many cookings because I just don't want
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  Speaker 1: to say no.
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  Speaker 4: I know, yeah, I had to tell her. I was like,
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  Speaker 4: I'll catch you tomorrow. She's like, okay, I'll be here.
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  Speaker 4: So she came up to you while you're pumping gas.
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  Speaker 4: I like that hustle.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, that's like that would freak me out too, though
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  Speaker 2: it does not even a little girl, anybody who's talking
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  Speaker 2: to me while I'm pumping gas.
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  Speaker 3: It's just not something that like most people that pump
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  Speaker 3: gas and they come up to you while you're pumping gases,
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  Speaker 3: like somebody, Hey, you missed it? Can I get you know?
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  Speaker 3: Five hours in My family just drove in from Wake.
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  Speaker 1: We went.
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  Speaker 4: You know, they give you that. She's obviously not doing that.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. But it's just like, I have no
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  Speaker 1: problem talking to people when I'm out, which is funny because.
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  Speaker 4: That is funny somebody up to.
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  Speaker 2: Someone on the elevator here.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: True.
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  Speaker 1: If somebody comes up and talks to me and there,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I'll ask some questions, like if they're trying
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  Speaker 1: to scam me for money, being like I just ran
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  Speaker 1: out of gas, I'll cool, you want to buy some gas? Oh, well,
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  Speaker 1: the can's over there. We'll go get the can out.
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  Speaker 4: Wait.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Somebody told Billy one time.
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  Speaker 3: He was like, hey, man, I just need some money
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  Speaker 3: for some food. Billy was like, oh, we'll buy some food.
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  Speaker 3: Let's go buy some let's go.
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  Speaker 4: Let's go.
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  Speaker 1: And he's like, oh, well I want to eat from
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  Speaker 1: over there. Well, they're waiting for me over there, and
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  Speaker 1: I was like, well, bring him over here. We can
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  Speaker 1: only eat. Because if I'm so down to help somebody,
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  Speaker 1: as long as I know you're really getting help that
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  Speaker 1: you need. Yeah, if you just want five bucks, tell
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  Speaker 1: me you just want five bucks. Hey, I'm trying to
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  Speaker 1: buy beer. Yeah I want five bucks, and be like
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  Speaker 1: I'll buy you a beer.
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  Speaker 6: Right.
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  Speaker 1: But if you're like, oh, I just ran out of
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  Speaker 1: gas and you're making up this elaborate story, don't do that.
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  Speaker 1: Just be honest with me, Billy. I'm trying to buy
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  Speaker 1: some girl scout cookies over here from this girl. I'll
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  Speaker 1: be like, well, let's get you something mint, my guy.
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  Speaker 5: Six.
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  Speaker 4: This is tough stories on the Tents with Billy's the
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  Speaker 4: Kid in the.
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  Speaker 3: Morning only on the new Mixed one O two point.
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  Speaker 1: Nine each that Tuesday, we are throwing out beads, Canna
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  Speaker 1: slow pads.
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  Speaker 4: What is going on?
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  Speaker 2: Well, part of the George Bush Turnpike is closed this
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  Speaker 2: morning in Carrollton because of a police chase. So the
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  Speaker 2: chase ended with a crash just before three point thirty am.
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  Speaker 2: I know what I heard about this in Carleton. I
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  Speaker 2: was like, ooh, yeah, was billion this?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah? I think I was.
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  Speaker 2: Was he chasing someone or being chased?
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  Speaker 5: Oh.
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  Speaker 1: They called me and they said we might need you
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  Speaker 1: oh Becca, yeah. And I was like okay, well let
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  Speaker 1: me know. And I was putting my pants on. It
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  Speaker 1: was about one in the morning.
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  Speaker 2: Okay wow.
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  Speaker 4: And then they called me back. We got never mind. Oh,
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  Speaker 4: And I was like okay. They were like, you can
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  Speaker 4: go ahead and go to work. We got you. They
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  Speaker 4: were just go back to bed.
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  Speaker 2: This was in the eastbound lanes near Old Denton Road,
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  Speaker 2: so that section between Old Denton Road and Josie, that's
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  Speaker 2: the section that's closed. The eastbound service road is also
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  Speaker 2: shut down. But I just saw a picture of the
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  Speaker 2: car on its roof, like over the wall. So it'll
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  Speaker 2: be a while before they get this cleared up, but
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  Speaker 2: I'll keep you posted for shore.
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  Speaker 1: I was listened. I sleep with a scanner on. Oh really,
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  Speaker 1: just in case you know there's a crime. I mean
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  Speaker 1: that's right, mind me.
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  Speaker 4: So I will.
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  Speaker 1: And it's just it's habit, Okay, really, it's just habit,
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  Speaker 1: you know, just being a crime fighter, right.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Bill in action.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, don't wear Kate, Well, actually I do when I sleep,
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  Speaker 1: I wear That's all I wear.
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  Speaker 4: Anyway, canus what's going on?
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  Speaker 2: Anyways? Yes, you just mentioned busy week. The calendar is
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  Speaker 2: wild this week guys. Lunar New Year and Fat Tuesday
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  Speaker 2: both today. Ramadan starts this evening and then Lent starts tomorrow.
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  Speaker 2: So yeah, we have this whole combo of feasting, fasting,
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  Speaker 2: fresh starting.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. What am I supposed to do? I know it's
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  Speaker 4: a lot something or am I eating more?
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  Speaker 2: I mean that's up to you. Really, just a heads up.
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  Speaker 2: I'm Canaslopez. Those are your Texas top stories?
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  Speaker 1: Real or fake news? I'm gonna give you three headlines.
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  Speaker 1: You gonna tell me which one is the fake story?
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  Speaker 1: Who won yesterday?
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  Speaker 4: Canis? Or she won?
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  Speaker 2: I can't remember? Actually did I win?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah?
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  Speaker 5: You won? Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: I know it all runs together sometimes.
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  Speaker 4: Did I win again?
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god, I did did really well last week?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: I know, he did really well? Won like once? All right?
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  Speaker 1: First first headline woman in India fakes turning into a
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  Speaker 1: snake to avoid arranged marriage. Woman in India fakes turning
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  Speaker 1: into a snake to avoid arranged marriage. Headline every one,
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  Speaker 1: headline Erver two. Courthouse wedding doesn't work out, so couple
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  Speaker 1: gets married in funeral home instead. Oh my gosh, courthouse
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  Speaker 1: wedding doesn't work out, so couple gets married in a
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  Speaker 1: funeral home instead. That is headlinerer for two and Headlinerver three.
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  Speaker 1: Couple who meets on a dating app robs is seven
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  Speaker 1: eleven on their first date. Couple who meets on a
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  Speaker 1: dating app robs is seven to eleven on their first date.
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  Speaker 1: We have three headlines. You gotta tell me which one
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  Speaker 1: do you think is the fake story? Candice, you could
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  Speaker 1: go first, or you have a pass it to pooh
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  Speaker 1: token Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Today, Yeah, let's give him a chance today to go first.
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  Speaker 1: I love that you're like, this is the only way
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  Speaker 1: he wins if you let him go first. Okay, which
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  Speaker 1: one is the fake story? I'm gonna go with that
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  Speaker 1: last story? A couple meeting on a dating app robin. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's not something you'd be into maybe back in the
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  Speaker 1: day day, but no, Okay, lock me in for that one,
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  Speaker 1: are you sure?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: It's locked in, Candice slow Pez. Yeah, you hear these stories.
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  Speaker 1: You're like, which one raises some red flags?
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  Speaker 2: I mean all of them do, but lock me in
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  Speaker 2: for that first story.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, women in India fakes turn into a snake.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah all right, how does that work?
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  Speaker 4: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: All right, let's lock it in. There you go, And
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  Speaker 1: the winner today is did you just turn it?
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  Speaker 2: Was trying to see if it's believable?
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  Speaker 1: I thought a snake was in here. Okay, here we go.
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  Speaker 1: Today's winner is producer Pooh.
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  Speaker 4: Good one.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, congratulations Poo. That is the fake story. Couple didn't
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  Speaker 1: meet on a first date and rob a seven to eleven. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's a fake one. We did have a story about
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  Speaker 1: that not too long Agohere they robbed something though I
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  Speaker 1: can't remember I thought it was like not a first date.
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  Speaker 4: But there was a couple on a day who robbed.
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  Speaker 2: I think they just went through the drive through right
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  Speaker 2: and took the food and didn't pay, or something they robbed.
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  Speaker 4: A bank or something was Either way, it was true romance.
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  Speaker 1: That's true love if you can get on the same
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  Speaker 1: page that early in the relationship. If she says I'll
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  Speaker 1: rob a bank with you, like she's a keeper. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: all right, I can't wait to hear this story.
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  Speaker 4: Though.
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  Speaker 1: Woman fakes turning into a snake to avoid an arranged marriage.
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  Speaker 1: So a young woman in India came up with a
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  Speaker 1: wild plan to get out of an arranged marriage. Rina
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  Speaker 1: from I don't know, I can't pronounce that either way.
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  Speaker 1: She disappeared from her home, leaving behind her clothes, jewelry,
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  Speaker 1: and a five foot long snake skin arranged on her bed.
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  Speaker 1: Neighbors quickly believed that she had turned into a mythical
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  Speaker 1: snake woman.
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  Speaker 4: From local folklore.
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  Speaker 1: Folklore police looked into it and figured out it was
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  Speaker 1: all staged. Oh wow, what how what genius cops are day?
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  Speaker 4: I think this is fake.
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  Speaker 1: Rina had been secretly talking to a man who she
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  Speaker 1: loved in her village, and she used the snake skin
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  Speaker 1: trick to slither away and elope with him instead of
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  Speaker 1: the arranged marriage who she later popped up in a
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  Speaker 1: video with her new husband, saying she was happy and
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  Speaker 1: she just wanted to be left in peace.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, god you think.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, the old snake skin trick. See he got me.
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  Speaker 1: How bad are you imagine if you were like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you wouldn't believe it. But I was engaged to be married,
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  Speaker 1: but she turned into a snake and slithered away on me.
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  Speaker 1: Now she's snake woman. Oh man, Okay, what about this one?
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  Speaker 1: A courthouse wedding didn't work out, so the couple got
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  Speaker 1: married in a funeral home instead.
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  Speaker 4: Oh why, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: So let's see a couple and I when named Alexis
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  Speaker 1: and Ryan, planning to get married maried at a courthouse
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  Speaker 1: just two days before Valentine's Day. It was supposed to
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  Speaker 1: be an intimate thing with a few loved ones. They
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  Speaker 1: were all waiting at the courthouse when they found out
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  Speaker 1: that the judge they had an appointment with wasn't going
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  Speaker 1: to show up and there wasn't another judge available to
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  Speaker 1: marry them. They were disappointed, but Alexis's father stood up
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  Speaker 1: and said he had a friend, Jody, who was ordained.
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  Speaker 1: Jody and his wife owned a local funeral home, and
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  Speaker 1: he agreed to marry the couple that day at the
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  Speaker 1: funeral homes chapel. Oh boy, everyone got in their car
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  Speaker 1: and drove over from the courthouse to the funeral home.
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  Speaker 1: Jody spent some time talking it over with you know,
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  Speaker 1: the couple or whatever, and then he said, all right,
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  Speaker 1: let's get married. Alexis said, it was even better than
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  Speaker 1: we expected because we did get a real wedding in
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  Speaker 1: a sense. We weren't a chapel. I got to walk
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  Speaker 1: down the aisle with my dad. The girls got to
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  Speaker 1: be flower girls, my son got to be a ring bear,
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  Speaker 1: and Ryan's son got to be his best man. What
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  Speaker 1: more could we ask for? I mean, look, that's incredible. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: we only had to step over three dead bodies to
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  Speaker 1: get to the chapel.
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  Speaker 4: She didn't say that, but I mean, okay, wow, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I mean back in the day, though, they used to
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  Speaker 1: have funerals and weddings at your house, they used to
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  Speaker 1: have it in your home that you lived it. Can
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  Speaker 1: you imagine that, Yeah, like, imagine having your funeral and
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  Speaker 1: I mean they're pretty much the same thing. Anyway, what no,
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  Speaker 1: get it off.
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  Speaker 2: Your chest to promise you'll feel better.
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  Speaker 4: Welcome to the Dirty Little Secret.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yes, I mixed one or two point nine. Good morning,
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  Speaker 1: it's Bailly the Kid. Candice Lopez is here, Producer Pooh
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  Speaker 1: is here. And what's your dirty little secret? You tell
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  Speaker 1: us anytime you want, Okay, just call even if we're
• 12:39
  Speaker 1: not doing Dirty Little Secret. Just eight three three seven
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  Speaker 1: eight seven one two nine, or sometimes you want to
• 12:44
  Speaker 1: set it up via DMS on Instagram at Billy on
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  Speaker 1: the Radio, you can do it there at Billy on
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  Speaker 1: the Radio. Maybe your secret is something silly, Maybe it's
• 12:51
  Speaker 1: a Poohs secret. He just told us off the air
• 12:52
  Speaker 1: that he went to New Orleans one time for Fat
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  Speaker 1: Tuesday and Marty Grass Yeah, and got a lot of
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  Speaker 1: beads and you know how.
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  Speaker 4: Wow, I just told them for y'all. I didn't want everybody.
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  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, he'll go off.
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  Speaker 1: He goes up there and he just like wow, he
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  Speaker 1: showed a lot of stuff to get beats.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, you Pooh do you poo do you?
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  Speaker 1: Whatever your secret is, you just let us know and
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  Speaker 1: you got one. So what's going on?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm calling because I feel guilty about something that
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  Speaker 6: should feel like a win. I've been dating my boyfriend
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  Speaker 6: for a couple of years now, and I just got
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  Speaker 6: a promotion and raised like a big one.
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  Speaker 4: Oh nice, congratulations, thank you.
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  Speaker 6: I know, I'm I'm super excited. I'll be making significantly
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  Speaker 6: more money than I was before, and definitely more than
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  Speaker 6: my boyfriend. And he has no idea.
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  Speaker 4: All right, why does he know?
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  Speaker 6: Really well, because I hate that I'm hiding it. I
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  Speaker 6: want to be excited, I do. I want to celebrate.
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  Speaker 6: But like every time I've been open about my success
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  Speaker 6: in the past, like he gets oh okay, not mad
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  Speaker 6: or anything, just really quiet, distant, almost like you know,
• 14:06
  Speaker 6: he's competing with me instead of cheering for me. And
• 14:10
  Speaker 6: so he's very old school provider mindset. And I already
• 14:14
  Speaker 6: feel like how this will land, like how it would
• 14:17
  Speaker 6: hidden you go, right, Like he's going to feel emasculated
• 14:20
  Speaker 6: knowing that I make more than he does. So instead
• 14:23
  Speaker 6: of telling him, I downplay everything, I change the subject.
• 14:26
  Speaker 2: No.
• 14:27
  Speaker 1: See that's no, I hate this for you because that's
• 14:30
  Speaker 1: not fair. No, you should celebrate stuff like this is
• 14:33
  Speaker 1: a big deal. He should want to celebrate with you.
• 14:36
  Speaker 2: He should be proud you're with him.
• 14:38
  Speaker 6: Yeah, I completely agree with that. Like, I hate that.
• 14:42
  Speaker 6: I feel like I have to carry this one alone,
• 14:44
  Speaker 6: you know.
• 14:45
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 14:46
  Speaker 6: And now I'm stuck asking myself like, am I being
• 14:48
  Speaker 6: too sensitive? Or am I ignoring a massive red flag
• 14:51
  Speaker 6: a couple of years into this relationship because.
• 14:54
  Speaker 1: You're not being too sensitive me. No, you're not. I
• 14:57
  Speaker 1: don't think you're being too sensitive at all. If anything,
• 14:59
  Speaker 1: you're being well, I mean you're being sensitive to his needs,
• 15:02
  Speaker 1: but you're ignoring yours, right, so, which is not healthy?
• 15:06
  Speaker 4: Yeah?
• 15:06
  Speaker 2: I mean I'm your light. Isn't that what they say?
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: Yep?
• 15:08
  Speaker 4: Right, he's got to get over it, right.
• 15:11
  Speaker 2: If his ego is too fragile to celebrate you, that's
• 15:14
  Speaker 2: a red flag to me.
• 15:15
  Speaker 4: First of all, it's twenty twenty six, right.
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: If there's a man out there that doesn't feel comfortable
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: that his wife or his girlfriend in this case makes
• 15:23
  Speaker 1: more than him, you got to ask yourself why why
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: is that the case for you? Because it's nothing to
• 15:28
  Speaker 1: do with you. It's all inside of him. And I
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: get there's a masculine aspect to it.
• 15:33
  Speaker 2: I get that too.
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: You could still providing for a woman is much more
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: than just financial. Financial has something to do with it,
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: but it's much more than just that.
• 15:41
  Speaker 3: Well, if he won't accept it, I know somebody who will. Yeah,
• 15:44
  Speaker 3: right here, say that right now. Yeah, come on down, sugar.
• 15:49
  Speaker 2: Mama loves a good bread winner.
• 15:52
  Speaker 4: But seriously, though, it's just not fair to you.
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: I mean he should now in fairness to him though,
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: if you haven't told him, then he.
• 15:59
  Speaker 2: Had Yeah, he hasn't had a chance to react.
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: But you also are trusting your instincts and you know
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: how it's felt before, so I trust you on that too.
• 16:07
  Speaker 4: So man, that's sucks.
• 16:11
  Speaker 6: You know, that's obviously this is not coming.
• 16:14
  Speaker 4: Do we lose you? Oh no, hopefully not. Hello breadwinner,
• 16:18
  Speaker 4: Hello sugar mama.
• 16:20
  Speaker 3: Oh no, The first thing you need to do with
• 16:22
  Speaker 3: that raise is buy a new phone.
• 16:26
  Speaker 4: Can you hear me now?
• 16:28
  Speaker 6: Yet in the same.
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: Spot, I know it's not your fault. It's okay now
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: your fault at all. But so what do you think
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: you're going to do? I mean, do you think you're
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: going to tell him eventually? Do you think you're gonna
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: have to come out and say it?
• 16:44
  Speaker 6: I mean, okay, part of me thinks like you're right,
• 16:47
  Speaker 6: Like if I need to tell him because you know,
• 16:50
  Speaker 6: you can't. You can't have a relationship on keeping secrets
• 16:53
  Speaker 6: and lives and whatever. So like, and and you're right,
• 16:56
  Speaker 6: he needs to figure out his own stuff around this,
• 16:59
  Speaker 6: and I deal with it. Then then it isn't gonna work.
• 17:03
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and too.
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: I mean, if you guys are serious and you go
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: down that path together where you're gonna be a forever couple,
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: then you're gonna talk about finances, You're gonna talk about budgeting.
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: It's gonna come out anyway. Let us know what happens though,
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: But don't forget about yourself.
• 17:16
  Speaker 6: And you know, yeah, congrats, congrats, Yeah, thank you, thank you,
• 17:20
  Speaker 6: You're welcome.
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: Hold on sucking.
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: You can't sell it. You just get a promotion. The
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: first person you should be excited to tell is your partner. Yeah,
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: I just got a partner. I just got a promotion
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: and a raise. I'm making this amount of money. And
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: if he gets weird about it, that's on him, and
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: that's an issue.
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, for.
• 17:36
  Speaker 4: Sure, I think so tough stories on the tents with
• 17:39
  Speaker 4: billion a Kid in the.
• 17:40
  Speaker 3: Morning only on the New Mixed one or two.
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: Point that, by the way, we got Lady God got
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: tickets will do that at eight forty eight forty this
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: morning and then on the ride home zan five forty,
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: So a couple of times to win today.
• 17:51
  Speaker 4: Make sure you listen, Cannice Lopez. What is going on?
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: Well, the owner of a warehouse in Hutchins says it
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: will not sell or lease the building to the Department
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: of Homeland Security. This has been a hot topic for
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: the community since last month after The Washington Post reported
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: these potential plans, saying that facility could hold up to
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: ninety five hundred people. The mayor, other city leaders and
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: numerous residents showed up there last night to protest. But
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: this really turned into a victory celebration for that community.
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: But they do say they're still on alert, paying attention
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: in the event of any future plans. And according to
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: new research from Urban Sitter, the national average for babysitting
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: is now twenty six dollars and twenty four cents an hour.
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: And that's just for one child.
• 18:36
  Speaker 4: Okay, so if it's more than one, what do you
• 18:38
  Speaker 4: get ten bucks every child?
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: Well, I think there's a range for two kids that's
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: actually just under thirty dollars an hour. But they've been
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: tracking childcare treads and babysitting rates for the last fifteen
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: years to come up with this. So in general, if
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: you're thinking about what to pay a sitter across the country,
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: the hourly rate ranges anywhere from nineteen to twenty nine dollars,
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: and they factor in age, experience, location, and responsibilities plus
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: the number of kids you have. But interesting, DFW was
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: actually the second most affordable city on the list at
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: nineteen dollars and twenty five cents an hour for babysitters.
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: Well, you just don't hire a man babysitter. According to
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: some people, that was a hot take.
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah it was.
• 19:20
  Speaker 4: I don't know why, but yeah, I mean that's good.
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: We always pay the people that we, you know, should
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: be paying more and less.
• 19:27
  Speaker 4: For example, like teachers. I mean, is there a more
• 19:29
  Speaker 4: important job than a teacher? Right, Like that is such
• 19:31
  Speaker 4: an important job. They don't get paid enough.
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: When babysitters, they're taking care of our child. They're basically
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: control of their life. Oh yeah, and we're worried about
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: what we're gonna.
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: Pay and be giving them everything. The sho probably get
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: paid very well, yeah, one hundred percent. It's interesting too,
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: because those are the people that truly truly love their
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: job typically and just we'll do it, you know, baby,
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: they enjoy it.
• 19:51
  Speaker 4: Not when I was a kid, Oh she sucked? No,
• 19:54
  Speaker 4: why she hit me? Oh oh yeah with a wooden spoon?
• 19:58
  Speaker 4: No is she do?
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 20:01
  Speaker 4: Mad, Yes, that's the point, Candice. Of course that was
• 20:06
  Speaker 4: being bad.
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: That's curious.
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but she was like I felt like she was
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: close to my age. She wasn't even that much older.
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, just like a neighborhood kid.
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 20:14
  Speaker 4: Like she was like I don't know, maybe sixteen or whatever.
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: But I always see this in the mommy groups on Facebook,
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: like how much would I pay the sitter? Blah blah blah.
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: So there you go.
• 20:22
  Speaker 4: That's good question. Is a babysitter allowed to spank your kid?
• 20:25
  Speaker 3: When I was growing up, I got hit by everybody
• 20:31
  Speaker 3: the closest thing to him, and I got hit with
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: it extension the hold hanger.
• 20:36
  Speaker 4: No chocolate, yeah, chocolate matter.
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: It is like if you were acting up you didn't
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: even know the person, they'd hit you and then tell
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: your parents you were three miles away from home, get
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: hit by a stranger and they'd be like, hey, sorry,
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: I had to whoop your kid.
• 20:50
  Speaker 3: It doesn't look crazy about my little white friends would
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: be like, man, your mom she's tripping, dude, this is
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: your space.
• 20:55
  Speaker 4: She can't be coming in your room. Like I was like, yeah,
• 20:58
  Speaker 4: you tell my mom that you get who.
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: No, I'm not paid for this house.
• 21:04
  Speaker 4: Yeah exactly.
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: Oh man, guys, Taylor Swift just won a legal battle
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: over with a betting company over trademark. So so this
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: logo they were trying to trademark was called Swift Home.
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: While taylor S team said the cursive lettering in Swift
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: closely resembled her trademarked signature and could mislead people into
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: thinking she endorsed the products.
• 21:27
  Speaker 5: Uh.
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: The company says after evaluating circumstances, they've elected not to
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: pursue registering that trademark since it didn't consider this essential
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: to their business. But it looked just like her her autograph.
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: You know, It's like she has a certain way that
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: she signs her name Swift. It's been on her album covers.
• 21:44
  Speaker 5: You know.
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: It looks just like what she does on her albums,
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: the way that the font that she uses and the
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: swirly s.
• 21:51
  Speaker 4: I mean, how do you trademark that people have been
• 21:53
  Speaker 4: doing swirly s this forever?
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: I guess, but there's just a signature like look that
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: her name has, and this is basically what they try
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: to do Swift Home. But it's like decorative pillows, mattresses,
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: sheets and comforters was basically what this brand was selling Nords,
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: Drum and places like bed Bath and Beyond back in
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: the day. Yeah, so they pretty much just said, nevermind, Okay,
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: go ahead, Taylor.
• 22:14
  Speaker 4: We don't want to get into me. We don't want
• 22:16
  Speaker 4: to fight with you.
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: We don't have the money, we don't have the deep
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: pockets to fight with Taylor Swift right exactly.
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: I'm Kanna Slopez. Those are your Texas top stories.
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: Just got new sheets too, speaking at home, No, not
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: Swift Home. I don't know what they were, but there
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you. Is there a better feeling, ever than
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: having clean sheets on your bed?
• 22:33
  Speaker 4: Get into your bed? Oh yeah, yeah, I love that. Okay,
• 22:36
  Speaker 4: you're getting a little too into it. Yeah, don't look at.
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: Me like that, deep voice.
• 22:41
  Speaker 4: Satin sheets you like suttin?
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: Interesting?
• 22:45
  Speaker 4: In The Winner, I do up put on the set?
• 22:47
  Speaker 4: Why in The Winner is the Winner you're supposed to
• 22:49
  Speaker 4: put on flannel? No?
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: Not me?
• 22:52
  Speaker 4: That house cold and not just glide right.
• 22:54
  Speaker 5: On my.
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: Okay, sorry I brought this up and it makes one
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: two point nine bill at a kid Canda Slowpez producer poo,
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: and is it.
• 23:03
  Speaker 4: About to get messy over here? I think it is.
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: So I mean to fill you and give you a
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: little recap because we've been talking about this. This has
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: turned into a whole thing, and there's some new developments too,
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: where this guy broke up with his girlfriend to get
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: back with his X. Had no idea though that he
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: was going to break up with his girlfriend and proposed
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: to his ex in the same week. No, yeah, nobody
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: does that, but he did. He did it on the
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: show and proposed. I wasn't about to say no, no,
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: you want to do it on the show. Of course,
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: I want you to do another show. So yeah, he
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: did it. I wanted to make sure, but it was
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: his idea, wasn't our idea. We did it, and then
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: I didn't even realize that that Friday when he proposed.
• 23:41
  Speaker 4: That. Well, I did realize it, but I didn't say
• 23:43
  Speaker 4: anything that.
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: I got a text a DM from his girlfriend that
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: he had just dumped like a couple of days prior,
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: and basically said, this is hysterical. She said, this is insane.
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: I really would like to tell you my side of
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: the story. Lol. And I thought to myself, I'm not
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: gonna mention it today because he just just proposed to
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: this girl. I don't want to ruin the moment because
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: she said yes and it was so sweet, And I said,
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: you know what, I'm gonna let the fourth member of
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: the show, which is you listening, you can vote on
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: whether it should happen or not. That was the most
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: ridiculous poll ever because the poll results her in and
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: Candice I put up there should I put her on
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: the air and let her tell her side of the
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: story basically?
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: And the results are six percent yes, six percent.
• 24:34
  Speaker 4: Ninety six percent. Yeah.
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: So when I saw that, I said, okay, well, let
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: me text her and ask her when she can all right.
• 24:41
  Speaker 4: To be transparent.
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: The guy's already texting me saying, are you really going
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: to put her on the air?
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: Oh he knows yes, Oh.
• 24:50
  Speaker 4: Because he listens. Yeah.
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: Well, I just thought maybe he'd be in his honeymoon phase.
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: Maybe you got married. What do I know?
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: You didn't say and he didn't say a word bad
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: about her? Now one word he said bad about her?
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: He said, no, he said, I just I just am
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: conflicted and she's just not the one.
• 25:06
  Speaker 4: She's a great girl.
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: That was it, but he wanted to break it off
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: because he didn't feel right meeting up with his X.
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: And I said, yeah, I think I'm gonna put her
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: on the air. He's like, there is is there any
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: way I can go on with her?
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: Oh?
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: And I said, listen, let me see what she's comfortable with.
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: Because I really had you tell your side of the
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: story and what happened. I really think it's fair if
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: I let her go on. So now the results are in.
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: I just DMed her and I said, when.
• 25:32
  Speaker 4: Can you go on?
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: Like today?
• 25:35
  Speaker 5: Well?
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: Can she call today?
• 25:36
  Speaker 4: I don't know. I'm waiting to hear back.
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: I know that she said she does work mornings, so
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: I don't want to say what she does, but she
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: does something that a profession that I love that I
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: happened to love. Okay, oh, yes, don't say it out loud,
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: but she wears scrubs for a living.
• 25:55
  Speaker 4: That's all'm gonna say. Anyway, So I.
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: Know she works a certain time where things busy, So
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: I told her just say when you can reach out,
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: we'll figure this out.
• 26:04
  Speaker 4: But we're gonna put her on the air. But I
• 26:05
  Speaker 4: don't think I should put him on with her.
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: No, I mean she should have her say. I mean,
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: I don't know what she's gonna say, but I don't
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: know either. But it sounds like he knows it's not
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: going to be what we what he wants to hear.
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: I mean, you know what I mean if he wants
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: to be on the phone with her.
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: Which he has no reason to be weird, because I mean,
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: she didn't sound mad when she DM me. She just
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: sounded like, this is hysterical. I want to I mean, really,
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: that's what it was.
• 26:29
  Speaker 4: It was. This is let me read you the DM again.
• 26:30
  Speaker 4: Matter of fact.
• 26:31
  Speaker 2: Is now I'm thinking about it, I'm like, because I
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: can't remember what he said, Yeah.
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: I want to dissect a little bit more. She said, Okay,
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: this is insane. The guy who was proposing to Kristen
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: is my ex. I'm the one he quote unquote dumped
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: a few days ago. I wasn't going to get myself involved,
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: but this is hysterical. I called him and told uh,
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: the guy who answered I was who I was, but
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: I don't think.
• 26:53
  Speaker 4: He believed me.
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: So she called in talked to PU, and PU didn't
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: believe her, and I'm so irritated with Pool.
• 27:04
  Speaker 3: I mean, in my events, a whole bunch of people
• 27:06
  Speaker 3: was calling. I'm not saying they were her, I know,
• 27:09
  Speaker 3: but I was. He put her on hold, and just
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: like she She's like, I don't think you believe me.
• 27:13
  Speaker 4: She's like, I would have dropped. Let me tell you something.
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: I would have dropped everything I was doing and absolutely
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: put her on the air for sure. Either way, she says,
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: here's my number. I'd love to give you my two cents,
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: considering he wants to tell the world our business.
• 27:26
  Speaker 4: Lo o L.
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: I do work mornings, but can try and make it work.
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: Please let me know, smiley face. So she seems cool,
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: so we'll find out. I just dm'd her and maybe
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: I should text her. I got her number. Oh yeah,
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: who will send her a text? Or maybe just call her?
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: That's fine, and then see what she wants to do.
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: If she wants to come on today tomorrow. I don't
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: know what's best because I know she works.
• 27:47
  Speaker 4: But oh, I'm excited. I'm so ready for Candice Court.
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: It gets settled here with Billy the Kid in the morning,
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: all right, for the Honorable Judge Candislopez On a fat Tuesday,
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: where this court is so on him. She's thrown out
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: beads from the bench. She don't care. I woo and
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: I have her shirts off.
• 28:06
  Speaker 4: It's crazy over here.
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, it mix one O two point nine
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: Billy the Kid bailif pooh, Candis, are you ready?
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: I'm ready?
• 28:13
  Speaker 4: And if you got an issue, listen, Candis will help you.
• 28:15
  Speaker 4: I'm just kidding.
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: She's the only one that's saying in this entire building. Actually,
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: so yeah. At Candas on air, yeah you are. It's
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: rough for me at Candis on Air. Yeah, I know
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: you're surrounded by the lunatics like us. At Candas on air,
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: if you got an issue? And uh yeah, well this
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: girl has one. So this was my first Valentine's Day
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: with my boyfriend and I was totally blindsided by something.
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: He took me out. I had a fantastic night. He
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: spoils me, don't get me wrong. But what I didn't
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: know is that he still sends his ex wife flowers
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: on Valentines every year. Oh oh god, Why in the world,
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: Why in the world He casually mentioned it to me.
• 29:00
  Speaker 4: He mentioned it.
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: He casually mentioned it to me the next day, and
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: I was like, wait what So he wasn't trying to
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: hide it, but I was like, you send your ex flowers?
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: Question Mark why? I obviously sounded annoyed, and he said,
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: what do you mean why. She's the mother of my children,
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: so I'll probably send her Valentine's Day flowers forever. Oh,
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: I can't lie. I was so annoyed and we haven't
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: really talked since then. I'm sorry, but you can respect
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: the mother of your children, but sending her flowers every
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: year to me is crossing a line that I don't
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: know if I want to deal with. He says it's
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: not because he's still in love with her, obviously, but
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: that it's a matter of respect for the mother of
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: his kids, that she has shown love on a day
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: that's about love. Am I crazy? Or is this insane?
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: This is a really good one because I get it.
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: I get that you want to show the mother of
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: your children love. Mm I also get how you would
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: be absolutely one thousand percent annoyed by this if you're
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: the new girl.
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: One thousand per se. Yeah, that's really honorable of you
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: to do. And maybe the first year without you in
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: the house or whatever the situation is, maybe I could
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: see that.
• 30:19
  Speaker 4: But forever why just the first year?
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: Just mean because if it's fresh or like you know,
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: I don't know, but until she's in her new relationship
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: or the kids are old enough, Like I mean, that's
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: not your responsibility anymore, is it.
• 30:32
  Speaker 4: And well, I mean I've never done it, I'll be honest.
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: Now I've done stuff where I'm like, I'll get something
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: that's from my son, right right, So if these were
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: from the kids, I think that's a little bit different.
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: But it doesn't sound like it's positioned.
• 30:46
  Speaker 4: Right from the kid.
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: It's not clear if.
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: You're getting flowers and you're giving them man like, hey, kids,
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: give this to your mom. It's Valentine's Day, show him love. Yeah, cool, great, Okay,
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: maybe that's okay if you're buying these flowers because you know,
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: you want to make sure that you're showing her love.
• 31:04
  Speaker 4: Question mark question mark, question.
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: Mark huge question mark. Can't we just have the kids
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: make cards or crafts and then they take them over
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: to her.
• 31:10
  Speaker 4: I think y'all reading into it. Well, yeah, that's what
• 31:14
  Speaker 4: we're doing. That's what we do in court. We read
• 31:15
  Speaker 4: into Listen.
• 31:17
  Speaker 3: If it ain't roses, if it's just a summer bouquet.
• 31:20
  Speaker 3: You could buy any kind of floral arrangement to show love.
• 31:24
  Speaker 3: I mean, you know what, I can understand if it
• 31:26
  Speaker 3: was now, if it's roses, no, but if it's just
• 31:29
  Speaker 3: some flowers and I'm just happy. But V day, I'm
• 31:32
  Speaker 3: just showing love. I don't see nothing wrong with it.
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: This is hysterical that goes into right.
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: This is coming from the cheapest guy on the show. Yeah,
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: you are not buying. So let me ask you if
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: this is such a good idea. Have you ever done
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: it with the mother of your children?
• 31:45
  Speaker 4: Have I sent the flowers? Yes?
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: I have.
• 31:46
  Speaker 4: I do I do?
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: You?
• 31:50
  Speaker 4: Obviously? Do I send a flower?
• 31:52
  Speaker 3: I even uh, you know, do something around Mother's Day?
• 31:57
  Speaker 3: You know, but that's Mother's Day. Yeah, that's Mother's Day.
• 32:01
  Speaker 3: Not anymore. I'm celebrating her being a mother. Why why
• 32:05
  Speaker 3: not do it forever like this guy?
• 32:06
  Speaker 4: Well, first of all, she got a guy. It's not
• 32:08
  Speaker 4: about But then then you're saying it's about love. No,
• 32:10
  Speaker 4: it's not.
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: It's about you too. It's not about you too. Listen,
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: the guy doesn't change the dynamics. I did it while back.
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: I don't do it anymore. But I'm just saying the
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: flowers are too expensive?
• 32:20
  Speaker 4: Now, what is it?
• 32:22
  Speaker 2: But the kids are also old enough. They're not old
• 32:24
  Speaker 2: enough they shop and have their own daddy.
• 32:27
  Speaker 4: My kids are old enough now.
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: The kids are so thoughtful, Yeah they are.
• 32:31
  Speaker 4: My kids are fourteen and thirteen.
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: Fourteen and thirteen, they're not buying their own gifts. They
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: still going to be reminded and they're your kids.
• 32:37
  Speaker 4: Trust me.
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: My son's the same way. He's not going to go
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: out of his way to doff a. I was really
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: proud of my son. He did a very good job
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: his little girlfriend and his He did very good for
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: Valentine's Day.
• 32:49
  Speaker 4: But I tell you why. I get why.
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: You want to show and you want to make sure
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: you show somebody love and that you know, oh dad,
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: make sure that he shows mom love.
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: But Valentine's Day, though, I don't think.
• 33:02
  Speaker 4: That's the place to do it. That's just my opinion.
• 33:05
  Speaker 2: I don't think that's I think that would ruin my
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: Valentine's Day every year if I knew that you were
• 33:09
  Speaker 2: still sitting your ex roses.
• 33:14
  Speaker 4: Just a simple giest that mothers don't want to get back.
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: Mother's Day's Mother's Day, you're celebrating her being the mother
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: of your children.
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: She's the only one that can ever be the mother
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: of your children.
• 33:25
  Speaker 4: Right, well, no, there's he might have more, we don't know.
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: But the point is, but like Valentine's Day is so different,
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: it's different, thank you, not Mother's Day. Right, It's typically
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: about romantic love, unless it's like a mother child thing,
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: then it's like, that's the motherly love, you know, show
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: women love in general.
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: It's not my court, but I'm signing with her. I
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: think he's doing a little too much. He's being weirdo
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: about it. Yeah. I mean, if you're in a relationship
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: where she's okay with that, then cool.
• 33:55
  Speaker 4: But if she's not, then I would cater to the
• 33:57
  Speaker 4: person i'm with.
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: Right, it would take a very speciacific situation for this
• 34:01
  Speaker 2: to work for everybody.
• 34:02
  Speaker 4: I would agree with you, Cannis. That's why great minds
• 34:05
  Speaker 4: think alike. Here we go. I think I know where
• 34:07
  Speaker 4: this verdict is going. Come on, judge, cut me some slack.
• 34:12
  Speaker 4: You're not even on trial.
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: You're not, you're not. But in this case, look, dude,
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: you are guilty of being a gardening gabe. You better
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: just play in the garden. If you sent plan to
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: send flowers to your extra How many flowers are you sending?
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, flowers on flowers on flowers every holiday. No, the
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: Sweetest Day? Do we celebrate that too? We don't know
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: Valentine's Day, Mother's Day?
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: You got Fat Tuesday.
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: I just want to show her that I love her
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: on Fat Tuesday and that I respect her because she's
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: the mother of my kids.
• 34:49
  Speaker 4: Dude, stop right, stop, that's my opinion.
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: He is guilty of being a gardening gamee.
• 34:56
  Speaker 4: Let us know what you think.
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: Here's today's hot take.
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: I'm so excited to talk about this because I'm passionate
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: about it. By the way, Lady God got tickets coming
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: up at eight forty if you want, Lady God Got
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: tickets eight forty. We'll do it again at five forty
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: on the ride Homazan. It's mixed one or two point
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: nine Billy the Kid, Candice Lopez, producer who is here.
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: And I'm gonna go ahead and on record. I'm gonna
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: say this because I agree with this influencer who went
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: off about it her hot take. There are no such
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: thing as bad textures, Okay, And I say that because
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: I'm the best texture in this room.
• 35:27
  Speaker 4: Obsolutely, I'm the best texture in this room. But listen
• 35:30
  Speaker 4: to what she says.
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: Listen to what she says, because I agree with her
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: one hundred percent. So if you're dating some guy you're like,
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: oh no, he's just a bad text, He's just a
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: bad texture.
• 35:39
  Speaker 5: No, listen, there is no such thing as a bad texture.
• 35:42
  Speaker 5: That would be very inaccurate. There is such thing as
• 35:45
  Speaker 5: a person that's not interested.
• 35:46
  Speaker 4: Bingo, yeah right there.
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: Okay, in a relationship, Arinda, is that what we're talking about.
• 35:51
  Speaker 4: I think it's people.
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: Well, yes, relationship, sure, but I also think with friends,
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: if people just any generic relationship doesn't matter.
• 35:57
  Speaker 4: If you're a bad texture, you just don't care about me.
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: Wow, okay, hot tay.
• 36:02
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 36:02
  Speaker 2: There's also such thing as a busy mom.
• 36:04
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, but you can still text.
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah we can.
• 36:07
  Speaker 4: We're all busy.
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: We are all busy.
• 36:10
  Speaker 4: We're very busy. Everyone in twenty twenty six is pretty busy.
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but at the end of the day, we have
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: to give people grace, like we weren't meant to have
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: people have access to us twenty four to seven.
• 36:19
  Speaker 4: Well, no, but I'm not talking about that.
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: But I mean, I think I think she does have
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: a point though, because I mean, if you don't. There's
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: no such thing as a bad textor there's people who
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: don't care.
• 36:28
  Speaker 5: Listen, there is such thing as a person who texts
• 36:31
  Speaker 5: you when it's convenient for them.
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: Yep.
• 36:33
  Speaker 5: But a bad texture. No, everybody's a bad texture when
• 36:36
  Speaker 5: they're not interested. Okay, bad textures are also awful communicators.
• 36:41
  Speaker 5: If someone is like, if you're gonna die on the
• 36:43
  Speaker 5: hill that bad textures exist, you're just an awful communicator.
• 36:48
  Speaker 4: I agree with this.
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: Okay, you can judge so much by the way someone texts.
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, you can, like, look at you can.
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna pull up the last thing we text. I
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: would say, the best person in this room as far
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: as texting is me.
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: And then honestly I think it's me.
• 37:04
  Speaker 3: Yeah, No, Candas does yeah, And then that's.
• 37:09
  Speaker 4: Funny because you were going to be next poop, but
• 37:11
  Speaker 4: now you're last.
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: It was going to be you and then Cannas, but
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: now I'm putting Candas above you Canas was actually going
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: to be last as far as good texters in this room.
• 37:19
  Speaker 2: Wow. Really?
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Because I pulled up the last text we had
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: and you want to read it, I'm gonna read it
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: to you because.
• 37:23
  Speaker 2: Here, go for it.
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: It made me angry because I was trying to be
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: very nice and it was very detailed, and I said, hey,
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: just prepare yourself below zero temperatures in the studio today.
• 37:32
  Speaker 4: If you have your winter jacket, bring it.
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: And you wrote back omgo said no, not en upset. Hey,
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: thanks for the heads up. Appreciate you. No see not interested.
• 37:45
  Speaker 5: But because no, there is no such thing as a
• 37:48
  Speaker 5: bad texture.
• 37:48
  Speaker 4: Thank you.
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah. But because I was in the parking garage when
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: you text me that, or like looping into the building
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: a I was driving, gave you an OMG, which is
• 37:56
  Speaker 2: very clear, very clear communication on my concise. What makes excise.
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: I don't want to take too much of your time
• 38:02
  Speaker 2: to let you know that I got the message and
• 38:05
  Speaker 2: I was going to tell you when I came in
• 38:07
  Speaker 2: like I did in person. Thanks for the heads up.
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: You didn't though, Yeah I did. Fine, Cannis, you've moved
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: up one spot. Pooh, you're back in last place. Who's
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: the worst? Because you know what this is the number
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: one pet peeve I have here we go. If somebody,
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: if I text you a question, text me back.
• 38:23
  Speaker 4: Yeah, right, don't call me. I don't want to talk
• 38:27
  Speaker 4: right Well, he'll he'll call you. Oh you just text me? Yeah,
• 38:31
  Speaker 4: I didn't.
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: I'd love a text back, right, But instead I'm on
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: speakerphone while he's somewhere randomly and I'm talking to fifteen
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: people are probably listening in the background because he just
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: loves being on speaker phone.
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: What is the proper etiquette though, because yeah, I like
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: to keep things where they are. If we're talking on text,
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: we're talking on text, we're talking on DM, we're talking
• 38:49
  Speaker 2: on DM. We're having two different conversations on text and DM.
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: There's I don't go over to the phone unless we've
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: decided we're going to talk about it.
• 38:57
  Speaker 4: There's only one way to communicate. That's via text or DM.
• 39:00
  Speaker 4: Never call me.
• 39:01
  Speaker 3: No, No, If it's super important, I call you. If
• 39:04
  Speaker 3: it's not, I'll text.
• 39:06
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 39:06
  Speaker 2: That's why I freak out when someone calls me.
• 39:08
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 39:09
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 39:09
  Speaker 3: When I know I'm getting a call from Billy, I'm
• 39:11
  Speaker 3: like you, I know you don't.
• 39:14
  Speaker 4: He never called unless you're my son or my mom.
• 39:16
  Speaker 4: Don't call me.
• 39:19
  Speaker 3: But I call you because sometimes stop you can't understand
• 39:22
  Speaker 3: my text, And then I'm like, okay, you're a bad
• 39:25
  Speaker 3: textor you can't understand my my verbice, So I just call.
• 39:29
  Speaker 4: You and explain it real quick. Sorry, don't speak emojis.
• 39:32
  Speaker 2: But what makes it bad the words that you're using
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: or the time it takes you to respond.
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: And that's a good question, because there is what makes
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: a bad texter. Yes, no one's that busy where it
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: takes them hours to respond, especially if you're dating someone.
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: If you're dating someone and it takes you them more
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: than an hour to respond, they're not interested and you
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: should never text them again.
• 39:51
  Speaker 2: It's possible. It's possible they were busy, they were in
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: a movie. They left their phone died.
• 39:58
  Speaker 4: I mean, you know, phone died.
• 39:59
  Speaker 3: Sometime I'll text Billy and I'll see the dots, the
• 40:02
  Speaker 3: dods of death and then don't get nothing because I realized.
• 40:05
  Speaker 3: Then finally it'll be okay, cool, No, prove it, screenshot
• 40:10
  Speaker 3: it didn't happen.
• 40:11
  Speaker 4: I'm a good texter. No I am.
• 40:13
  Speaker 2: Now you could see the bubbles when you're on a
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: group text. Did you know that?
• 40:16
  Speaker 5: No?
• 40:17
  Speaker 4: Because I don't. I hate group text so well.
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: You if you're texting someone, if you're going back and
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: forth in the dating world, and somebody doesn't text you
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: back for an hour, they better be a soldier oft
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: in war, they better do something because if they don't
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: text you back within an hour or two hours.
• 40:34
  Speaker 4: That's ridiculous. We're all busy.
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: If you really want to text somebody back, you will
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: if you want it till you would, right.
• 40:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but that goes both ways.
• 40:44
  Speaker 4: So I text people back. Yeah, Do I text you
• 40:48
  Speaker 4: back if you text me?
• 40:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Usually do. Sometimes it takes a while.
• 40:51
  Speaker 4: But no it doesn't. Yeah, no it doesn't. He probably
• 40:54
  Speaker 4: texts you quicker, but me, Yeah, it takes a minute. Sometimes.
• 40:57
  Speaker 4: Really be like, I'll get to it. I text you back. Yeah,
• 41:03
  Speaker 4: you text me back, okay. You know.
• 41:04
  Speaker 3: Sometimes I'll be like, hey, just the heads up, I'm
• 41:06
  Speaker 3: on the way over, and then it'll be like i'll
• 41:09
  Speaker 3: see the dot.
• 41:09
  Speaker 4: See that's a stupid text.
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: And then if we already said you're coming over at
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: one o'clock, why are you texting me to say you're
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: gonna be here at one o'clock? Because I know unnecessary
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: communication that we don't need.
• 41:19
  Speaker 4: We're all busy in the billy world.
• 41:21
  Speaker 3: Stuff comes up, So I just want to reiterate that
• 41:24
  Speaker 3: I'm coming over just a case, because something might come up,
• 41:27
  Speaker 3: like that being trigger went kyote hunting or you know,
• 41:31
  Speaker 3: something I don't know, or you're fighting some geese somewhere
• 41:34
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 41:34
  Speaker 4: I just want to make sure.
• 41:36
  Speaker 2: People are so flaky these days.
• 41:39
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I said I'm gonna be somewhere. I'm gonna be somewhere.
• 41:41
  Speaker 4: I hate that.
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: I hate we have no responsibility anymore. In today's world.
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: People can't just keep their word. You got to check
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: up on me eighteen times.
• 41:48
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna be there.
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: If I say I'll be there Wednesday at eleven o'clock,
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be there.
• 41:52
  Speaker 4: I'm not gonna forget. Are we still on for Wednesday?
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: Yes? What happened back in the day when you when
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: you used to people used to eight if you were
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: going to pick them up at seven o'clock, there was
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: like no cell phones and you had to be there
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: at seven o'clock and pick them up. And now in
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: today's world, it's like, oh, well I didn't hear from you,
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: so I didn't know if we were gonna hang out.
• 42:11
  Speaker 4: Well did we say we're gonna hang out?
• 42:12
  Speaker 5: Right?
• 42:13
  Speaker 4: Well?
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but you never really text me back fifteen times
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: to confirm because that's not what you do, right.
• 42:17
  Speaker 2: But now we have the option too, so we do
• 42:20
  Speaker 2: you know what I mean, like, what did we do
• 42:22
  Speaker 2: before we had to remind ourselves to tell people something like,
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: you know, someone text me something about like the eggs
• 42:28
  Speaker 2: that were for sale in their neighborhood or last night
• 42:30
  Speaker 2: when I was asleep, and it.
• 42:31
  Speaker 4: Was like, what did we do before someone didn't really
• 42:33
  Speaker 4: text you that.
• 42:34
  Speaker 2: My friend Emily, Yeah, look, she texts you what Yeah,
• 42:38
  Speaker 2: her neighbor because she used to sell me her eggs
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: and she text me her neighbor has eggs now because
• 42:44
  Speaker 2: she doesn't anyways, But I just thought, Wow, what did
• 42:48
  Speaker 2: we do before we could just immediately tell someone what
• 42:51
  Speaker 2: we thought? Like, let me remind what happened to our lives,
• 42:54
  Speaker 2: Let me remind Billy to bring his coat?
• 42:55
  Speaker 4: What happened to our lives? We used to party all night.
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: You're getting text by there's eggs on seld down the street.
• 43:02
  Speaker 2: Job, get off to comments. You'll feel better. Welcome to
• 43:07
  Speaker 2: the Dirty Little Secret Mix.
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: One on two point nine. I'm bibing a kid. Candelow
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: pasts producer Poo. We did have some crazy, dirty little
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: secrets last week that ended up in a proposal. And
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: if you miss that, well we got news because the
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: guy who proposed to his ex girlfriend dumped a girl
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: two days before that. She's coming on Thursday, Sweet Thursday,
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: it's seven thirty. I wanted her to come on tomorrow
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: so bad, but you can't. She's got to work and
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: it's just a job. You can't just be like, I'll
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: be back in an hour, right, So Thursday, seven thirty,
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: we will talk to the ex. If you have a secret,
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: you let us know. Eight three three seven eight seven
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: one o two nine and you have one.
• 43:43
  Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm calling because I feel guilty about something that
• 43:47
  Speaker 6: should feel like a win. I've been dating my boyfriend
• 43:51
  Speaker 6: for a couple of years now, and I just got
• 43:53
  Speaker 6: a promotion and raised like a big one nice congratulations,
• 43:58
  Speaker 6: thank you.
• 43:59
  Speaker 4: I know.
• 44:00
  Speaker 6: I'm super excited. I'll be making significantly more money than
• 44:03
  Speaker 6: I was before, and definitely more than my boyfriend. And
• 44:08
  Speaker 6: he has no idea.
• 44:09
  Speaker 4: All right, why does he know?
• 44:12
  Speaker 6: Really well, because I hate that I'm hiding it. I
• 44:16
  Speaker 6: want to be excited, I do. I want to celebrate,
• 44:18
  Speaker 6: but like every time I've been open about my success
• 44:21
  Speaker 6: in the past, like he gets weird, ah okay, not
• 44:25
  Speaker 6: mad or anything, just really quiet, distant, almost like you know,
• 44:29
  Speaker 6: he's competing with me instead of cheering for me, and
• 44:33
  Speaker 6: so he's very old school provider mindset, and I already
• 44:37
  Speaker 6: feel like how this will land, like how it would
• 44:39
  Speaker 6: hitten you go, right, Like he's going to feel emasculated
• 44:43
  Speaker 6: knowing that I make more than he does. So instead
• 44:46
  Speaker 6: of telling him, I downplay everything and change the subject.
• 44:49
  Speaker 2: No.
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: See that's no. I hate this for you because that's
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: not fair. No, you should celebrate stuff like this is
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: a big deal. He should want to celebrate with you.
• 44:59
  Speaker 2: He should be proud you're with him.
• 45:01
  Speaker 6: Yeah, I completely agree with that. Like I hate that
• 45:05
  Speaker 6: I feel like I have to carry this win alone.
• 45:07
  Speaker 5: You know.
• 45:08
  Speaker 6: Yeah, And now I'm stuck asking myself like am I
• 45:10
  Speaker 6: being too sensitive? Or am I ignoring a massive red
• 45:14
  Speaker 6: flag a couple of years into this relationship because.
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: You're not being too sensitive me, No, you're not. I
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: don't think you're being too sensitive at all. If anything,
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: you're being well, I mean you're being sensitive to his needs,
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: but you're ignoring yours, right, so, which is not healthy?
• 45:29
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean on your light?
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: Isn't that what they say?
• 45:31
  Speaker 4: Yep? Right, he's got to get over it, right, if.
• 45:34
  Speaker 2: His ego is too fragile to celebrate you that's a
• 45:37
  Speaker 2: red flag to me.
• 45:38
  Speaker 4: First of all, it's twenty twenty six, right.
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: If there's a man out there that doesn't feel comfortable
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: that his wife or his girlfriend in this case makes
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: more than him, you got to ask yourself why why
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: is that the case for you? Because it's nothing to
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: do with you. It's all inside of him. And I
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: get there's a masculine aspect to it.
• 45:56
  Speaker 2: I get that too.
• 45:57
  Speaker 4: You could still.
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: Providing for a woman is much more than just financial.
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: Financial has something to do with it, but it's much
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: more than just that.
• 46:04
  Speaker 4: Well, if he won't accept it, I know somebody who will.
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, right here, right now, Yeah, come on down, Sugar
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: Mama loves a winner.
• 46:15
  Speaker 4: But seriously, though, that's it's just not fair to you.
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: I mean he should now in fairness to him though,
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: if you haven't told him.
• 46:22
  Speaker 4: Then he has.
• 46:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he hasn't had a chance to react.
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: But you also are trust in your instincts and you
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: know how it's felt before, so I trust you on
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: that too.
• 46:29
  Speaker 4: So man, that sucks.
• 46:34
  Speaker 6: You know that's obviously this is not coming.
• 46:37
  Speaker 4: Do we lose you? Oh no, hopefully not. Hello Breadwinner,
• 46:41
  Speaker 4: Hello sugar Mama. Oh no. The first thing you need
• 46:45
  Speaker 4: to do with that raise is buy a new phone.
• 46:48
  Speaker 4: Can you hear me?
• 46:49
  Speaker 3: Now? The spot?
• 46:55
  Speaker 4: I know it's not your fault.
• 46:57
  Speaker 2: It's okay, now your.
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: Fault at all. But so what do you think you're
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: gonna do? I mean, do you think you're gonna tell
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: him eventually? Do you think you're gonna have to come
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: out and say it?
• 47:07
  Speaker 6: I mean, okay, part of me thinks like, you're right,
• 47:09
  Speaker 6: like if I need to tell him because you know
• 47:12
  Speaker 6: you can't you can't have a relationship on keeping secrets
• 47:16
  Speaker 6: and lies and whatever. So like, and and you're right,
• 47:19
  Speaker 6: he needs to figure out his own stuff around this,
• 47:21
  Speaker 6: and if he can't deal with it, then then it
• 47:24
  Speaker 6: isn't gonna work.
• 47:26
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and too.
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: I mean, if you guys are serious and you go
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: down that path together where you're gonna be a forever couple,
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: then you're gonna talk about finances, You're gonna talk about budgeting.
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: It's going to come out anyway. Let us know what
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: happens though, But don't forget about yourself.
• 47:38
  Speaker 6: And you know, yeah, congrats, congrats, Yeah, thank you, thank you,