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85: Q&A - Reverse Rachel Dolezal · Wine & Audacity

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  Speaker 1: M hm.
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  Speaker 2: My mind goes and I'm gonna go with it and
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  Speaker 2: it's like, hey, hey, that mine mm hm.
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  Speaker 3: They don't need Baltimore County at my dog. I didn't
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  Speaker 3: hear that, right, I didn't hear you. You had to
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  Speaker 3: outlook your iPhone for me to answer that.
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  Speaker 1: That man.
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  Speaker 4: Our last episode, Siri came on at the end and
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  Speaker 4: was like, it's as bitches and we were like, wait,
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  Speaker 4: what who said?
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  Speaker 3: Siri?
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  Speaker 5: Did remember sing?
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  Speaker 6: Mm hmm.
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  Speaker 7: But you know, don't you put that on my face?
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  Speaker 6: Don't you? Don't you?
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  Speaker 5: Hold on, hold on, hold on?
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  Speaker 3: But before I do, hold that happen whole medical record
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  Speaker 3: and have recently what are you saying? Hold on? What happened?
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  Speaker 4: Welcome to this week's episode of Wind the Podcast. I'm
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  Speaker 4: your host, Brain, It's a car and I'm joined by
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  Speaker 4: one my favorite people in the world.
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  Speaker 5: How are feeling? Speech on?
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  Speaker 4: So, y'all have them listening to us talk ship for
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  Speaker 4: a little minute now. Aaron and Keita are celebrating their
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  Speaker 4: wedding anniversary. Happy anniversary, y'all, We love you.
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  Speaker 8: Know what.
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  Speaker 3: Anniversary? Anniversary?
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  Speaker 9: Oh?
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  Speaker 5: Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on,
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  Speaker 5: hold on, hold hold on a second.
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  Speaker 10: Got you.
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  Speaker 4: They don't know that, but anyway, So, yeah, Aaron is
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  Speaker 4: out today because it's him and Keida's wedding anniversary. So
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  Speaker 4: we love y'all. Happy anniversary. In the meantime, we have
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  Speaker 4: two special guests, including our guests, our favorite guest co
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  Speaker 4: hosts who ain't been here since last.
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  Speaker 3: Season, The Shade and the palm Tree that you just
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  Speaker 3: threw this way.
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  Speaker 5: Hey, run, how you doing?
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  Speaker 7: Fuck you my nigga?
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  Speaker 6: Okay, you go out do me.
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  Speaker 7: I ain't got enough moistur raisation in my.
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  Speaker 9: Throat to go.
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  Speaker 6: Bitch, you got a whole nigger.
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  Speaker 9: In my throat?
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  Speaker 5: How you doing? Welcome back Ron, first time of season two.
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  Speaker 5: How you're feeling.
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  Speaker 6: I'm amazing happy to be back.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, feel good.
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  Speaker 9: I ain't drinking though, so it's gonna be interesting.
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  Speaker 5: Ginger ginger beer is close enough.
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  Speaker 7: Well, I got a little, a little smirt off.
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  Speaker 9: That's probably gonna do something because I ain't have a
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  Speaker 9: drink in about two weeks.
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  Speaker 6: Weeks.
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  Speaker 5: You got yourself off, you know, wean off a little bit.
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  Speaker 7: Waning off a little bit.
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  Speaker 3: That's that's coming the movie.
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  Speaker 4: For our other Yes, my niece Ebo is back. What's up?
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  Speaker 5: That's a name. That's a stage name.
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  Speaker 9: Ebonics is your stage name like the people but not.
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  Speaker 5: And I see S's and I asked.
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  Speaker 9: But yeah, you sound like them people kids name. They
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  Speaker 9: make it in a listen and like how you pronounced this?
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  Speaker 11: It is they like, except like, no, it's ebonics. Like
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  Speaker 11: the word, oh call American vernacular nigga allis.
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  Speaker 5: Have for ebony. I call her ebo. So that's what
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  Speaker 5: you feelings. I'm good, welcome.
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  Speaker 3: Back, Thank you for having me.
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  Speaker 11: You're gonna stop telling me that I'm not one of
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  Speaker 11: your favorite people. I feel like a damn and great
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  Speaker 11: first hold.
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  Speaker 4: On, hold, hold on on, no, no, no, no, hold.
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  Speaker 9: Want me to come back and throw shade.
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  Speaker 5: But here's the thing.
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  Speaker 4: You're making it about you, and it's not about you.
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  Speaker 4: It's not shade because, according to this show we've been
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  Speaker 4: knowing from their eighty plus episodes, my three favorite people
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  Speaker 4: in the world are Shawna, Aaron and Keana.
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  Speaker 3: Absolutely, because we are the whole show.
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  Speaker 7: Show you the way and it's fine.
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  Speaker 5: I can meet your ass like this.
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  Speaker 4: It's like I was saying, yes, I was so rude
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  Speaker 4: what they say barely so, because that's the intro of
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  Speaker 4: the show and we started my favorite people in the world.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but I can't. I became like the adopted one.
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  Speaker 5: That was like, we have no use that you were born.
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  Speaker 3: So yeah, we don't used to take bass together.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah we did, but we were anyway black people.
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  Speaker 9: Yes, so do y'all believe the bathing and all these
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  Speaker 9: things are the cultural thing with us.
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  Speaker 5: That we are. Yes, you've been seeing all the discourse.
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  Speaker 3: For social about.
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  Speaker 5: White people not using wash sauce or not beaving.
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  Speaker 9: Guy said they didn't want their new baby for the first.
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  Speaker 3: We was just walking around.
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  Speaker 6: What they're saying, the kids in the pool earlier, they
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  Speaker 6: clean the chlorina.
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  Speaker 3: It's not like it did to see. That's why that's
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  Speaker 3: that age. Walk around like wet penny. They said, they
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  Speaker 3: soak the rest of the melon and out in the beach.
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  Speaker 5: It's a cultural thing, like I believe it or not.
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  Speaker 4: It's bathing is a cultural thing for us, our ancestors,
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  Speaker 4: and we talked about today.
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  Speaker 3: It makes me feel like that we did a bad
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  Speaker 3: job because where in the lesson did it say, don't
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  Speaker 3: wash your legs, your feet.
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  Speaker 5: I would like to know friends with soap, friends down.
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  Speaker 11: Into new water, and the whole pleasure of other things
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  Speaker 11: make you clean.
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  Speaker 9: I seen one of the girls says, it's supposed to
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  Speaker 9: scrub my body with a wash.
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  Speaker 6: Bitch, She said, why about I that.
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  Speaker 3: You think you supposed to get the dirt off. You
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  Speaker 3: ain't doing nothing barrinated in your skin. You gotta get
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  Speaker 3: off the death themselves a sweat.
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  Speaker 11: You ain't if you're using your hands to go like
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  Speaker 11: this on your bears.
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  Speaker 5: Like they said they used. They used the bar of soap.
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  Speaker 6: Because whos supposed to be?
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  Speaker 3: He said, And that's why.
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  Speaker 7: You ass he said, with the boss soap.
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  Speaker 9: He said that you left in the bathroom for other
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  Speaker 9: people for years.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, so you washed people.
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  Speaker 4: You're doing it not because baby, I don't know about you,
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  Speaker 4: but I know about you, at least in this extent.
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  Speaker 4: I like to smell good, like the dove.
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  Speaker 6: Be hitting mys be hitting afterday my shade.
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  Speaker 7: Butter on that and got out the shower.
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  Speaker 11: And now I'm a little different. But I don't use
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  Speaker 11: wash cloths my private area. I use my hands on
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  Speaker 11: the outside get a better clean. But you can. But
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  Speaker 11: my body.
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  Speaker 4: That's that's different between men and women. Because I could
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  Speaker 4: take a loof of get that like up on the
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  Speaker 4: side of Yeah, I have.
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  Speaker 11: Wash cloth would kind of put too much soap. And
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  Speaker 11: I've caught a lot of from just the close across
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  Speaker 11: the floor, like she got her first country.
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  Speaker 3: Uh deal, congratulations, I've heard it. I've witnessed it first hand,
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  Speaker 3: but it was still one of them you get so.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, bathing is a cultural thing, but I witnessed.
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  Speaker 9: The firsthand because my daughters, she has friends who are Caucasian.
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  Speaker 7: Descent, not of Caucasian.
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  Speaker 9: One of her friends came over and stayed the night
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  Speaker 9: at our house. The next morning, I got up, I
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  Speaker 9: handed her handed my daughter, he can't go hands to her,
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  Speaker 9: so she can get ready for the morning.
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  Speaker 6: She said, what's this? What A'm supposed to.
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  Speaker 9: Do with this?
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  Speaker 6: H and my kid?
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  Speaker 7: My kid said, what you.
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  Speaker 6: Mean appropriate questions?
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  Speaker 7: He used to wash up? Yeah, But what I'm supposed
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  Speaker 7: to do with it?
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  Speaker 9: I said, medicine Madison, Madison is coming, get here, come
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  Speaker 9: explain to her. The processes is something that she probably
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  Speaker 9: doesn't do. She was like, how, we'll talk.
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  Speaker 7: About it later, Just go explain how to do it
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  Speaker 7: later on.
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  Speaker 9: But my how, she ain't know what a wesh cloth was, Like,
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  Speaker 9: they don't, they don't know.
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  Speaker 3: I was watching an episode of the neighborhood and uh
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  Speaker 3: to she and a no character and the white neighbor
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  Speaker 3: had that same conversation and she's like, what's this for?
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  Speaker 3: She was like to take a shower. She was like, oh,
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  Speaker 3: not just she used to borrow souls in the hones
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  Speaker 3: that you do want, not here, you won't not my god,
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  Speaker 3: damn house, no no bam mm hmmm mm hmm.
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  Speaker 11: You know it's bad when the generations it continues to
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  Speaker 11: speckle through. They were like, so, I don't know saying
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  Speaker 11: what it is with white people that don't you washcloths,
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  Speaker 11: but what seen one white girl one that got on
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  Speaker 11: social media and went off about them not using washcloths.
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  Speaker 11: And she's the first that I know that used one.
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  Speaker 11: And I have a few mixed family.
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  Speaker 4: But I also will say that those of those folks
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  Speaker 4: that had our great grandmothers and grandmothers watching them as
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  Speaker 4: as nannies, they was washed every day, every day, every.
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  Speaker 9: Day, and you went outside, you.
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  Speaker 6: Take one again.
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  Speaker 5: It was a joke.
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  Speaker 4: It was a comedian. I saw on chocolate Sundays out
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  Speaker 4: in l A. I forget, I forget the place, but
• 9:42
  Speaker 4: it's it's called chocolate Sundays. They count on TikTok that
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  Speaker 4: I follow and they do comedians on the stand up
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  Speaker 4: and the one guy, he was a white guy. He said, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: I think it might be the last factory in l A.
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  Speaker 4: But he was like, yeah, you know, I grew up
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  Speaker 4: in the black neighborhood. I was the only white guy
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  Speaker 4: in the neighborhood. But I grew up around you know,
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  Speaker 4: I played football with guys in my neighborhood. I went
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  Speaker 4: to so I grew up in a black neighborhood. I'm
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  Speaker 4: used to being around black people, and going to college
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  Speaker 4: was the first time I was around like majority white people.
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  Speaker 5: So we were in the middle of playing Madden.
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  Speaker 4: I pulled out the cocoa butter because I was a
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  Speaker 4: little ashy, and they stopped, said you doing it though
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  Speaker 4: he's about to jack off.
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  Speaker 5: He was like, I'm ashy. So the white guys like
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  Speaker 5: my skin.
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  Speaker 4: Fellow, he pulled out the lotion while they were playing
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  Speaker 4: the game, and everybody stopped like, like, my nigga, right now,
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  Speaker 4: we're in the middle.
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  Speaker 5: Of a game.
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  Speaker 9: My skin felt a little dry.
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  Speaker 4: No, I need I need some of the vesting cocoa butter.
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  Speaker 4: Get my elbows and elbows together.
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  Speaker 9: Listen, have you heard the one about the Europeans day
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  Speaker 9: day so so so I.
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  Speaker 4: Lived in Europe for a summer college that deodorant isn't
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  Speaker 4: a thing in Europe.
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  Speaker 6: It does not not.
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  Speaker 4: Deodorant does not exist in Europe.
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  Speaker 6: No, they don't take anything.
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  Speaker 4: They also just walk around. They also don't they also listen.
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  Speaker 4: They also don't have air conditioning. Oh, condition is not
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  Speaker 4: a thing in Europe. Westerner, it's not so imagine getting
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  Speaker 4: on the bus in Germany, you're going to work first thing.
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  Speaker 5: In the morning.
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  Speaker 4: But that's also how they could tell us a part
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  Speaker 4: as Americans because we wear deodorant. Theodorant I've shopped in
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  Speaker 4: German grocery stores. They don't have deodorant in grocery.
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  Speaker 5: Stores over there.
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  Speaker 4: So you get on the bus at eight o'clock in
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  Speaker 4: the morning, going to work using my pits, and it's
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  Speaker 4: like and I remember the first.
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  Speaker 11: At eight o'clock in the morning that made you first
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  Speaker 11: like the whole Philly cheese steak that early in the morning.
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  Speaker 6: I remember them days around them.
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  Speaker 5: Was here telling one of my remember telling.
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  Speaker 6: She was they don't.
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  Speaker 4: Have and we shot went to grocery. We went to
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  Speaker 4: a grocery store. I was like whi'sdom. They had shampoo,
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  Speaker 4: they had conditioner, they had you know, body watched.
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  Speaker 5: They don't baking.
• 12:03
  Speaker 3: What is that? What's this stuff called the arrow powder?
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  Speaker 3: You can use?
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  Speaker 5: This was over fifteen years ago, so of course that
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  Speaker 5: didn't exist back then.
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  Speaker 3: Arrow powder is old school. That's that.
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  Speaker 6: That's one of the bases that goes in the old
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  Speaker 6: rig but it doesn't exist in Europe.
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  Speaker 7: Stuff to go, the cream stuff that was back.
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  Speaker 3: That's no tossing.
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  Speaker 8: Whatever.
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  Speaker 6: The robotting.
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  Speaker 5: Go to sleep, but like girls.
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  Speaker 1: To do that.
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  Speaker 9: It's just like the math, you know, okay, it's morning,
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  Speaker 9: like this.
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  Speaker 4: Foreign concept if you live in a house with no
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  Speaker 4: air conditioning's and I think the justification for them was
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  Speaker 4: over here at the time.
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  Speaker 5: It doesn't get hot like that during the summer. It
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  Speaker 5: does get hot.
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  Speaker 4: It's hot for like a week and then it's back
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  Speaker 4: to being sixty degrees low seventies for the rest of
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  Speaker 4: the summer.
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  Speaker 9: Eighty of us in this buses how as fuck now it.
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  Speaker 11: Is so y'all know to put Minton no let us
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  Speaker 11: stuff in your food, but don't know that if you
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  Speaker 11: chew it up.
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  Speaker 3: It freshens your body. I'm pretty sure it's.
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  Speaker 4: Not a thing if you look at I follow some
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  Speaker 4: people who live in the UK, especially black folks, and
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  Speaker 4: they say, well, yeah, like it's not a deodorant.
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  Speaker 5: Isn't the thing now now?
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  Speaker 4: Of course, but you have people, especially like in London
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  Speaker 4: and like the UK where you have a lot of immigrants,
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  Speaker 4: they bring over their own cleaning methods so they can
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  Speaker 4: stay fresh. And I think to some extent nowadays, in
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  Speaker 4: certain maybe British grocery stores, they have deodorant or some
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  Speaker 4: sort of like you can buy.
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 4: But in Germany again this I lived at fifteen years ago.
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  Speaker 4: It did not exist.
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  Speaker 5: That's a thing.
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  Speaker 4: So you have no you sitting in an office building
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  Speaker 4: in the middle afternoon, it's eighty five degrees, you got
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  Speaker 4: box fans blow and all over you.
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  Speaker 3: No, yeah, I would cry, I would.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, it wasn't bad because again it was it
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  Speaker 4: was that hot composed compared to now, it wasn't that hot.
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  Speaker 5: We also showered every day.
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  Speaker 9: Listen, I would be on my nose every day I leave.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I hate to say it. After a while
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  Speaker 4: you kind of get you to the phone problem. Because
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  Speaker 4: I remember when I landed back at JFK New York,
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  Speaker 4: I was like.
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  Speaker 6: Snow piss.
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  Speaker 4: People talking to English say fuck you.
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  Speaker 5: Was in New York.
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  Speaker 9: You never realized how much you love where you live
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  Speaker 9: until you go somewhere and it's a take it away
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  Speaker 9: from you, like the entire fudge is going.
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  Speaker 4: It was living in Germany. Everything is in German.
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  Speaker 5: Nothing.
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  Speaker 4: They have like signs in the airport because they have
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  Speaker 4: a guess where I lived.
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  Speaker 5: In Frankfurt.
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  Speaker 4: It's a huge group of because it's like the banking
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  Speaker 4: capital of Western Europe. You have a lot of like
• 14:59
  Speaker 4: British banks, French banks, so they have a lot of
• 15:01
  Speaker 4: things subtitled in English because they get a lot of
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  Speaker 4: British people who moved there for banking and stuff. But
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  Speaker 4: once you go to a lot of these smaller towns,
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  Speaker 4: menus are on everything. Because you're in Germany. Everything was
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  Speaker 4: in German. So if you didn't speak the language.
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  Speaker 3: But wait about them.
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  Speaker 5: What's up?
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  Speaker 11: So the road, the city of the town, the country
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  Speaker 11: is clean, but it's stink.
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  Speaker 3: Because of b Oh.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, it was like being being on a commercial depth
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  Speaker 4: you you left the airport on.
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  Speaker 5: The train, I said, oh this is clean.
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  Speaker 4: The sky was and the mountains was green and everything.
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  Speaker 4: Thank you so much because I'm sweating my ass.
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  Speaker 9: Off, damn whatever that woof strink she made.
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  Speaker 6: They are about trash.
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  Speaker 4: Streets were clean. You have to you when you go
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  Speaker 4: outside to take your trash out. They have literally seven
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  Speaker 4: or eight different trash cans. You have to separate your
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  Speaker 4: food ways from you're from your recyclables from your glass
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  Speaker 4: spouse and your plastics, separate everything. Streets are always leaning
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  Speaker 4: the public.
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  Speaker 9: You wash the dam streets, but don't wash your buses.
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  Speaker 4: Trash trucks are all Bay by Mercedes Benz because it's
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  Speaker 4: a domestic brand. Over Yeah, but do you get on
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  Speaker 4: the bus at seven o'clocks like phone, because that's just
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  Speaker 4: what it was.
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  Speaker 7: Because you gotta look like you clean.
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  Speaker 4: I mean again, deoderant wasn't the thing there and now
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  Speaker 4: I guess now because thankfully with German Amazon now German.
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  Speaker 4: But Amazon is a multinational company. You could buy a
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  Speaker 4: native and buy all these for them because it's it's
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  Speaker 4: not a thing.
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  Speaker 3: It's foreign to them. But still back to the beginning,
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  Speaker 3: not washing your ass. It's gased.
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  Speaker 7: It's does not wash like okay, bet you don't put
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  Speaker 7: on deoder on.
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  Speaker 3: However, if you wash your ass every day consistently, consistently.
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  Speaker 4: Point where now, if I could shower the night the
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  Speaker 4: bed and like I say, if I'm working from home,
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  Speaker 4: I ain't gonna lie. If I'm working for home, the
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  Speaker 4: next day, I may not put on the O because
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  Speaker 4: again last night, I also don't smell. But there's been
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  Speaker 4: a couple of times where I got up and was
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  Speaker 4: in the house telework and was like, God.
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  Speaker 6: Damn, that's me.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but you see how you said take me.
• 17:21
  Speaker 4: Yeah, especially the house. But but the thing with me
• 17:25
  Speaker 4: is I always shower before I go to bed. I
• 17:27
  Speaker 4: don't get in the bid without taking a showers. I
• 17:28
  Speaker 4: like to clean, clean dirt off, cool my body down
• 17:31
  Speaker 4: because it helps you sleep.
• 17:33
  Speaker 11: So for those of you that are here on this
• 17:35
  Speaker 11: side that don't like to wear the odorant.
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: If you do not like to wear the odorant but
• 17:39
  Speaker 3: you don't want to think, you can get cor Field
• 17:45
  Speaker 3: that's what I want to use. If you don't like
• 17:48
  Speaker 3: that stuff under there. Yeah, Native is awesome, it's amazing.
• 17:50
  Speaker 3: But if you don't.
• 17:52
  Speaker 4: Want to do that, you could take get their full
• 17:55
  Speaker 4: body the sprays and stuff.
• 17:56
  Speaker 11: Chlor Field pills cleans out of the body enough where
• 17:59
  Speaker 11: it kills body odor.
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: Which is technically back that makes you stink. So for
• 18:05
  Speaker 3: you guys over there in the Great Seas, if this
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: reaches you, colorphill is your best friend.
• 18:09
  Speaker 7: That's my native works as native is a It gets
• 18:12
  Speaker 7: rid of them.
• 18:13
  Speaker 4: Us crystals and like lemon.
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: Oh Erica badudees famous for that. She'll tell you quick,
• 18:19
  Speaker 3: She'll take a piece of clear courts and go and it. Honestly,
• 18:23
  Speaker 3: it works.
• 18:24
  Speaker 11: It takes a minute because your body has to detox
• 18:26
  Speaker 11: the fact that you've been using deodorant, but it works.
• 18:29
  Speaker 5: I did.
• 18:29
  Speaker 11: I went to the whole holistic way just to see
• 18:31
  Speaker 11: what happens. Honestly that we going from.
• 18:34
  Speaker 6: Going with them. I was like, it was like.
• 18:40
  Speaker 11: The Panorama when I went around nobody so I could
• 18:42
  Speaker 11: do it. But once you get past that first week, man,
• 18:46
  Speaker 11: listen you. I made the mistake of going back to
• 18:51
  Speaker 11: using regular deodorant because of Panorama.
• 18:53
  Speaker 3: I like her word for it.
• 18:55
  Speaker 11: Because of that, man, I can smell the difference of
• 19:00
  Speaker 11: how it holds. I don't stink, but it's just I
• 19:04
  Speaker 11: know it's like I don't.
• 19:05
  Speaker 3: I don't. I don't like it. I don't like regular
• 19:07
  Speaker 3: deodorant anymore like that, I.
• 19:08
  Speaker 9: Hate it if I go back, like when it had
• 19:12
  Speaker 9: I didn't have. My daughter had like she used secret
• 19:14
  Speaker 9: and I used it, and I.
• 19:15
  Speaker 11: Was like, this sweat is just I can say.
• 19:20
  Speaker 4: So I've used degree since I was a teenager when
• 19:23
  Speaker 4: I first started wearing, and I think I switched to
• 19:25
  Speaker 4: like maybe mintion.
• 19:26
  Speaker 5: With some speed stick or something.
• 19:29
  Speaker 4: But the way my underone broke out in a rash
• 19:31
  Speaker 4: because my body, I guess it's so used to just
• 19:33
  Speaker 4: degree and only have a degree.
• 19:35
  Speaker 5: When I tried to switch it. It was the point one
• 19:37
  Speaker 5: time where.
• 19:38
  Speaker 4: I actually had like a bad rash and I couldn't
• 19:40
  Speaker 4: put my because the rash was so bad.
• 19:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I did mention the jail one. I cannot use that.
• 19:46
  Speaker 11: Any lant I can't get.
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: And then like when Trey first got away and I
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: tried to buy him the unsented arm and hammer m
• 19:58
  Speaker 3: niggas like a chicken cheese steak. Ever, by the time
• 20:03
  Speaker 3: he came home, I said, you have gym today? He said, no,
• 20:05
  Speaker 3: they get the shadower.
• 20:07
  Speaker 7: You stink.
• 20:07
  Speaker 3: You can't use that no more. Mama, hold on, come on,
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: why are you harassing.
• 20:15
  Speaker 9: Her over there? Sounded like a yes, she ain't gotta
• 20:21
  Speaker 9: talk to you.
• 20:23
  Speaker 7: Yeah, but I want to play when I.
• 20:26
  Speaker 9: See these clips.
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: I was like, people really do not wash their ass
• 20:32
  Speaker 3: like it's.
• 20:32
  Speaker 9: A real thing. Then the guy was talking about how
• 20:34
  Speaker 9: he was in the gym for football and how he
• 20:37
  Speaker 9: would see all the black people at the practice they
• 20:39
  Speaker 9: would go shower and all his his white friends hanging
• 20:43
  Speaker 9: around playing. Now, nigg we're gonna wash your ass. We've
• 20:45
  Speaker 9: just been out here in this grass slipping. We're gonna
• 20:49
  Speaker 9: go get cleaned up.
• 20:50
  Speaker 3: Tackles. Some of y'all might have just a little bit
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: like come on, man, come on.
• 20:53
  Speaker 4: Probably anyway, enough enough pre conversation that we didn't got
• 20:58
  Speaker 4: into before we getting up.
• 20:59
  Speaker 5: We'll bet on the sweech on no questions.
• 21:02
  Speaker 4: We know something else we are doing since we got
• 21:06
  Speaker 4: these two niggas here, before we get into the bonus
• 21:10
  Speaker 4: Q and E. But before we get into the Q
• 21:12
  Speaker 4: and A, let's take a commercial break and we will
• 21:13
  Speaker 4: be right back. He'll be back. Brons drinking ginger beer. Yeah,
• 21:20
  Speaker 4: I love beers. Just I like, what's the bran I was.
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: In Jamaica and didn't drink no damn ginger beer. Ain't funny.
• 21:30
  Speaker 3: A red strip. You know what's funny? They had some
• 21:33
  Speaker 3: in our damn refrigerator in our room. I never drank one.
• 21:37
  Speaker 3: I never drink I don't like beer, but I'll sip,
• 21:40
  Speaker 3: literally take a taste of a came with big reds
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: ripe and some other kind of beer.
• 21:47
  Speaker 7: Yeah, why.
• 21:50
  Speaker 3: The water and the sodas that was in there, and
• 21:52
  Speaker 3: then you know, and out of the country they have
• 21:54
  Speaker 3: sprites and their pepsis and stuff taste the same.
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: Yea.
• 21:57
  Speaker 6: Now they don't have the to it like that's.
• 22:00
  Speaker 3: Because that's probably what they spruce it up for. A
• 22:05
  Speaker 3: ship got that extra take the tastes like battery.
• 22:09
  Speaker 5: We felt.
• 22:10
  Speaker 3: The only time we got one that was close to
• 22:12
  Speaker 3: American pepsi when we went and on our excursion, So
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: we got a bottle pepsi and that was the closest
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: we got to American pepsi. But yeah, our room came
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: with all of that, and it came with a liquid liquid,
• 22:23
  Speaker 3: a little liquor dispenser in it. So it had rum
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: and you because I don't drink them brands. That ship
• 22:31
  Speaker 3: it had some Johnny Walker some and I don't know
• 22:34
  Speaker 3: what was black its nobly probably it was something like that,
• 22:40
  Speaker 3: and it had some kind of rome, and I tried.
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: I didn't drink the rum in the room, but we
• 22:44
  Speaker 3: had it when we was on the party boat. That
• 22:46
  Speaker 3: rum hit different than Jamaica to that ship.
• 22:49
  Speaker 4: Ship that wasn't it.
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: May have been I don't know, best friend but burned
• 22:54
  Speaker 3: my vocal cords out. I don't know, because he was
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: he was pouring it in our damn mouth while so
• 23:00
  Speaker 3: they was making us drinks on the party boat. So
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: I'm sitting there, I said, oh this okay, this is wrong,
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: little good. That's how they got me in the water
• 23:05
  Speaker 3: to snorkel.
• 23:06
  Speaker 5: Now.
• 23:06
  Speaker 4: I was in there for about five minutes. It was like, oh,
• 23:08
  Speaker 4: this is pretty all right. Take me back, please to
• 23:09
  Speaker 4: the boat.
• 23:10
  Speaker 3: Thank you, Right, you go snorkeling drunk. They he was
• 23:14
  Speaker 3: giving us drinks on the God, I wasn't drunk yet,
• 23:16
  Speaker 3: but I was feeling it. And you know that. I
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: got down there and I was like, I ain't. I
• 23:20
  Speaker 3: can't go there. I'm gonna drive all we have. I
• 23:25
  Speaker 3: wasn't get in there with slim bitch. I can't swim.
• 23:27
  Speaker 5: I'll say one word, sharks, all right.
• 23:31
  Speaker 3: Nice sharks shy. Since uh, since out Forever co host
• 23:35
  Speaker 3: and and our was here, we decided that we were
• 23:39
  Speaker 3: going to do a bonus q A. You know, we
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: normally do the Q and A, but the second week,
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: the mom we're gonna do a bonus one because here ship,
• 23:51
  Speaker 3: I got some ship, Like why are you sitting at
• 23:53
  Speaker 3: me like that? Miss man change now over there with
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: her boyfriend. Our fifth co host, Chase, because she just
• 24:01
  Speaker 3: thinks she's supposed to be an damn microphone. Don't don't
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: sign on me, bitch, Chase tooking the ring like, oh,
• 24:07
  Speaker 3: I don't feed her because I don't wench.
• 24:12
  Speaker 9: Anyway, you need a headcut, all.
• 24:14
  Speaker 3: Right before we get started, y'all if you have any questions,
• 24:18
  Speaker 3: any topic ideas, any RNTs, any uh commentarial feed back. Yeah,
• 24:23
  Speaker 3: rants' is Aaron thing. Aaron loves Brant.
• 24:26
  Speaker 4: I'll be able to cut him up. But last last
• 24:28
  Speaker 4: week he was We did his birthday question last week
• 24:31
  Speaker 4: for his.
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: For his birthday clearly, and I he where the hell
• 24:37
  Speaker 3: is the cat hm on her phone?
• 24:41
  Speaker 6: We both.
• 24:44
  Speaker 3: I ain't got one of them, don't mean not kind saying.
• 24:55
  Speaker 4: Last last week we had sat gree We don't have
• 24:57
  Speaker 4: saying Greecia this week. But last H asked Aaron my
• 25:00
  Speaker 4: question and he was talking I love He tended to
• 25:03
  Speaker 4: go on a little bit and I was like, after.
• 25:05
  Speaker 5: A while, I was like.
• 25:07
  Speaker 9: To get back to Aaron and them, wait, okay, so
• 25:09
  Speaker 9: let's go back to your Aran story.
• 25:11
  Speaker 7: You can cut all the other stuff out.
• 25:12
  Speaker 4: And so yeah, so the story about Aaron was I
• 25:15
  Speaker 4: love my brother, but sometimes he just rambles and he
• 25:18
  Speaker 4: he takes a very s c T word A circuitists
• 25:22
  Speaker 4: are right.
• 25:25
  Speaker 9: That's the what's the animal? Animal?
• 25:27
  Speaker 7: What he takes an excrement?
• 25:30
  Speaker 9: Well about telling you stuff.
• 25:31
  Speaker 4: Not extrement that don't make sense. He takes a securitist.
• 25:34
  Speaker 4: I mean, he goes around the point.
• 25:37
  Speaker 3: He takes a shitty way.
• 25:50
  Speaker 9: I love it.
• 25:52
  Speaker 4: I love my brother, but he takes he takes a
• 25:55
  Speaker 4: very long he takes. He goes around the Moubray bush
• 25:57
  Speaker 4: when he gets before making a point and come back again,
• 25:59
  Speaker 4: and he'll circle back a couple more times and then
• 26:01
  Speaker 4: he makes us point. He drops in and I was drinking,
• 26:04
  Speaker 4: and I, like Seanna said, I zoned out for about
• 26:07
  Speaker 4: three four minutes. He was just talking and then I
• 26:09
  Speaker 4: came back to him, was like, nigga, what the fuck are.
• 26:11
  Speaker 6: You talking about?
• 26:18
  Speaker 9: Did he had the answer that because you know, I'm.
• 26:20
  Speaker 4: Answering your question and you know, like thinking and thing,
• 26:21
  Speaker 4: but you know what I'm saying, like because sometimes like
• 26:24
  Speaker 4: with me and you, to get.
• 26:24
  Speaker 6: Together, else.
• 26:33
  Speaker 9: I appreciate it too much of my stuff.
• 26:36
  Speaker 5: Well, you haven't been here for me to have to
• 26:38
  Speaker 5: cut out of something.
• 26:39
  Speaker 6: Palm Tree.
• 26:40
  Speaker 5: That definitely was love him, love me, love him, love
• 26:43
  Speaker 5: him down. But I'll be like, damn, so yeah, he.
• 26:53
  Speaker 7: Was almost done.
• 26:57
  Speaker 3: Mama shown Jesus and keep it, keep it saved.
• 27:06
  Speaker 4: I do too, but it's it's less frequently when a
• 27:09
  Speaker 4: lot of these stories talked when we did the episode
• 27:11
  Speaker 4: were her mother. That was like almost two and a
• 27:13
  Speaker 4: half hour recording that I bumped down all right.
• 27:16
  Speaker 3: Since we got not one but two guests co hosts
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: this week and we didn't have a topic plan, we
• 27:23
  Speaker 3: decided to bus Q and A. If you hadn't been
• 27:25
  Speaker 3: listening for the last eighty something episodes, you know that
• 27:28
  Speaker 3: the second week of the month is usually when we
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: do currentname butevery now, and then we thrown extra one
• 27:31
  Speaker 3: in there because you know, we fine on a daily
• 27:36
  Speaker 3: So before we get started, if you would like to
• 27:39
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• 27:42
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• 27:45
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• 28:26
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• 28:28
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  Speaker 3: don't care because, in the words of Charie Whitfield with
• 28:38
  Speaker 3: her original nose, lips, hair color, skin.
• 28:42
  Speaker 6: Color, uh and all that, I was stopping.
• 28:46
  Speaker 3: Who gonna check you booth?
• 28:59
  Speaker 6: Hi ain't drunk?
• 29:00
  Speaker 7: Like this is hilarious?
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: Yes, so dupe? All right, So I will ease you
• 29:03
  Speaker 3: into this thing, and I'm gonna start with something simple.
• 29:06
  Speaker 3: This comes from the am I the Asshole thread on
• 29:08
  Speaker 3: Reddit and the title of this is am I the
• 29:12
  Speaker 3: Asshole for punching my girlfriend after she hit me with
• 29:14
  Speaker 3: a baseball bat. A minute, What am I the asshole
• 29:23
  Speaker 3: for punching my girlfriend after she hit me with a baseball.
• 29:29
  Speaker 9: Right?
• 29:30
  Speaker 6: Was it like a real baseball bat?
• 29:31
  Speaker 3: Or hell? Was it? I twenty three male and in
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: a tough spot and needs some outside opinions. My girlfriend,
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: twenty two female, and I had a heated argument the
• 29:43
  Speaker 3: other night. To escalate it quickly. It started over something small,
• 29:46
  Speaker 3: but turned into a big fight. In the middle of it,
• 29:49
  Speaker 3: she went to the garage, grabbed a baseball bat and
• 29:52
  Speaker 3: swung it at me.
• 29:53
  Speaker 6: She hit me in the ribs with four forces, which
• 29:55
  Speaker 6: broke a rib and really hurt.
• 29:57
  Speaker 3: Oh no, no, I don't think that. I was and
• 29:59
  Speaker 3: shy in pain, and in the heat of the moment,
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: I punched her in the face. I now realized that
• 30:05
  Speaker 3: hitting her back was a huge mistake, but it happened
• 30:07
  Speaker 3: so fast and I was overwhelmed by the pain. The
• 30:10
  Speaker 3: punch broke her nose and I regret it deeply. After
• 30:14
  Speaker 3: the innocent After the incident, sorry, y'all, I'm little tipsy.
• 30:19
  Speaker 3: After the incident, we both took some time to cool
• 30:23
  Speaker 3: down and talk things through. She apologized for the bat
• 30:25
  Speaker 3: and I apologize for hitting her. Since then, some friends
• 30:29
  Speaker 3: and family have cut me off entirely, while others are
• 30:31
  Speaker 3: divided on whether I'm the asshole. Some people say I
• 30:34
  Speaker 3: had no right to hit her back, while others believe
• 30:36
  Speaker 3: she crossed a major line with the bat. We're both
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: trying to work on our issues and improve our communications
• 30:42
  Speaker 3: with counseling. So am I the asshole for punching my
• 30:46
  Speaker 3: girlfriend after she hit me with the baseball bag? Okay,
• 30:49
  Speaker 3: before y'all answer, we're gonna do just a decency and
• 30:51
  Speaker 3: order ebo. You the youngest, you go first.
• 30:56
  Speaker 11: No, absolutely not, and I'm not again. I'm not for
• 31:02
  Speaker 11: that whole domestic violence, this, that, and the third thing.
• 31:07
  Speaker 11: But at the end of the day, a natural reaction
• 31:08
  Speaker 11: is a natural reaction, and in any altercation, it's fight
• 31:14
  Speaker 11: or flight, especially at a younger age when you're not
• 31:17
  Speaker 11: fully aware of your emotions dealing with in those innerspaces,
• 31:21
  Speaker 11: especially if that's not your normal.
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: He didn't say this is something that we do often.
• 31:25
  Speaker 9: This is not.
• 31:26
  Speaker 3: It got heated.
• 31:26
  Speaker 11: It got rough, sweetheart, that was premeditated. You left the argument,
• 31:30
  Speaker 11: went into the garage, grabbed a bet, and you swung
• 31:34
  Speaker 11: at him for a force. You broke his rib and
• 31:37
  Speaker 11: you expected not to get popped.
• 31:39
  Speaker 5: We didn't know if that was.
• 31:42
  Speaker 3: It broke his rib.
• 31:44
  Speaker 11: Anybody you swung that, anybody, regardless whether it be male, female, child, anything,
• 31:52
  Speaker 11: if you hit someone hard enough that their natural first
• 31:56
  Speaker 11: you broke something and that their natural reaction is to
• 31:59
  Speaker 11: swing back. Trust me, baby, it's not the fact that
• 32:01
  Speaker 11: I don't know as you that pain triggered.
• 32:06
  Speaker 3: I'm not gonna remember.
• 32:07
  Speaker 11: In what space that I am unless it is my child.
• 32:15
  Speaker 11: I feel like that that particular scenario, you got what
• 32:20
  Speaker 11: you called for. If you did not want to be
• 32:24
  Speaker 11: popped or your nose to be broken, why would you
• 32:28
  Speaker 11: go And you left somewhere and grabbed a weapon to
• 32:34
  Speaker 11: a man during an argument.
• 32:36
  Speaker 3: He was not threatening to put his hands on you.
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: Purr what that said?
• 32:40
  Speaker 6: He said they got a little heated.
• 32:42
  Speaker 3: He never said I grabbed her first.
• 32:44
  Speaker 6: I choked the up.
• 32:45
  Speaker 3: You left.
• 32:45
  Speaker 11: You had the opportunity to leave an argument, meaning you
• 32:49
  Speaker 11: had time to walk away and go de escalator. No,
• 32:51
  Speaker 11: you walked away and went and got a weapon and
• 32:53
  Speaker 11: came back and struck someone with deadly force because it
• 32:56
  Speaker 11: had to put upon where you hit him, kill him
• 32:59
  Speaker 11: you could killed him. So if you got banged and
• 33:01
  Speaker 11: your nose broke, baby, y'all even agreed. Now as far
• 33:05
  Speaker 11: as the family, if you're condoning that bullshit from her side,
• 33:10
  Speaker 11: that's some bullshit because had it been to you, your
• 33:14
  Speaker 11: natural reaction.
• 33:16
  Speaker 3: Would be to fucking swing if you do not bull So, No,
• 33:21
  Speaker 3: I don't think personally.
• 33:23
  Speaker 11: I again, I don't condone domestic violence, but I do
• 33:26
  Speaker 11: not think he was an asshole for that. I don't
• 33:28
  Speaker 11: think he was wrong because anybody's natural reaction that's put
• 33:31
  Speaker 11: in danger, especially that type of pain, is either fight
• 33:34
  Speaker 11: or flight.
• 33:34
  Speaker 5: Are we going by birth? Were going by guest co hosts.
• 33:37
  Speaker 3: Because we're going by guest co hosts?
• 33:40
  Speaker 5: Okay, will you next round?
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: No?
• 33:43
  Speaker 9: And I ain't eve gonna repeat everything she just said.
• 33:45
  Speaker 9: But if you, if you're her family and you're supporting that,
• 33:49
  Speaker 9: if he would have hit her, would you have supported him.
• 33:52
  Speaker 3: And first if he hit the first?
• 33:54
  Speaker 7: If he hit her first, he.
• 33:55
  Speaker 9: Did the same thing, he left the argument, went and
• 33:57
  Speaker 9: got a bat, hit her with a bet, broken ribs.
• 33:59
  Speaker 3: They still would have been on horse.
• 34:00
  Speaker 9: It would have been oh my gosh, why did you
• 34:02
  Speaker 9: hit her? Same thing? She went left, She left the
• 34:05
  Speaker 9: fact that you left the situation means you have no
• 34:08
  Speaker 9: control over your own personal emotionals, emotions and emotionals emotions.
• 34:14
  Speaker 9: His reaction to punch you in your that you you
• 34:16
  Speaker 9: are glad that's all you got the pain of breaking
• 34:20
  Speaker 9: a rib.
• 34:21
  Speaker 7: I had never had one.
• 34:22
  Speaker 9: Broken, However, I've heard it hurts and the inhale, exhale,
• 34:28
  Speaker 9: it's painful.
• 34:29
  Speaker 3: She could have punctured his sucking, lung, anything anything.
• 34:33
  Speaker 7: I guess what you all you got was a punch
• 34:35
  Speaker 7: of your face, that broken nose. Oh yeah, but you lucky.
• 34:38
  Speaker 7: So the right the right person on the wrong day.
• 34:44
  Speaker 4: You gotta took that back from you and beat shell.
• 34:48
  Speaker 4: My response, A wise woman once told me, do no harm,
• 34:53
  Speaker 4: take no ship. I don't believe in domestic violence. I
• 34:57
  Speaker 4: don't believe my hands and nobody a bitch. You bring
• 35:01
  Speaker 4: it back to my to me. We getting into an
• 35:03
  Speaker 4: argument and you bring it back to me like you
• 35:06
  Speaker 4: joke lub bitch. I'm gonna stomp you like grapes.
• 35:10
  Speaker 6: Wine for days, like you can't make.
• 35:14
  Speaker 5: This make I have listen. I don't start. I don't
• 35:19
  Speaker 5: like like Ebony saying.
• 35:23
  Speaker 9: I can see that he hit swung on her, her first,
• 35:27
  Speaker 9: But if we're.
• 35:27
  Speaker 4: Having a simple if we having a simple disagreement, couples fight,
• 35:30
  Speaker 4: couples have arguments, But if you leave to get a weapon,
• 35:34
  Speaker 4: I have every right to defend myself right and we
• 35:39
  Speaker 4: talked about this on the previous episode. But if the
• 35:41
  Speaker 4: police get called, it's your word against mine. But I
• 35:44
  Speaker 4: pray this guy set up a camera or they had
• 35:46
  Speaker 4: cameras in the house, because you can literally say we
• 35:49
  Speaker 4: were in the middle of an argument. She left her
• 35:51
  Speaker 4: and got a back started swinging on me. At that point,
• 35:53
  Speaker 4: I have the right to defend myself and whatever means
• 35:57
  Speaker 4: I need to do to subdue you, as to kill,
• 36:00
  Speaker 4: to keep this MP, to keep you from harming me
• 36:03
  Speaker 4: because you don't have emotional regulation, have to stop and
• 36:05
  Speaker 4: walk away, or to be walk away, I mean walk
• 36:09
  Speaker 4: away without getting a weapon, walk away.
• 36:11
  Speaker 5: To de escalate.
• 36:12
  Speaker 6: You could have gotten your car.
• 36:13
  Speaker 9: You could have went and got the back and bust
• 36:15
  Speaker 9: the windows out and to the tables, did something. But
• 36:18
  Speaker 9: you hit him with his baby bitch.
• 36:20
  Speaker 4: Look crazy people, Look I'll say this, do no harm,
• 36:27
  Speaker 4: taking no ship. Sound you hit me first, bitch, I'm
• 36:31
  Speaker 4: hitting you back with everything I.
• 36:33
  Speaker 3: Got, Everything I got.
• 36:35
  Speaker 6: You cannot be dancing at the consequences of your actions.
• 36:38
  Speaker 9: It's one thing, and she would have like swung on
• 36:40
  Speaker 9: them and like smacked them, slap like okay.
• 36:43
  Speaker 3: Okay, now yeah he banging back, sir, your asshole.
• 36:45
  Speaker 4: But but even in that instance, I know me, I
• 36:47
  Speaker 4: would have caught that, pushed your ass down and then
• 36:50
  Speaker 4: tried to leave.
• 36:52
  Speaker 9: But you bring a weapon to me, sorry, the room
• 36:58
  Speaker 9: out the window that that gentleman rule goes out the
• 37:01
  Speaker 9: window when.
• 37:02
  Speaker 6: You involved.
• 37:06
  Speaker 4: Natural progression conversation. I hate to take it here, but
• 37:09
  Speaker 4: bringing this this goes to a larger conversation about domestic
• 37:12
  Speaker 4: violent domestic abuse and this whole rule of men should
• 37:16
  Speaker 4: never hit women or partner should never hit their partners.
• 37:20
  Speaker 4: Do you think and you've answered this kind of you've
• 37:22
  Speaker 4: answered it earlier, But do those rules go out the
• 37:25
  Speaker 4: window if a person of the opposit genal your partner
• 37:29
  Speaker 4: hits you, first thing and take it escalate persons slipping on.
• 37:33
  Speaker 11: You to have a weapon, trying to say I was
• 37:36
  Speaker 11: taught that a person can say whatever they want. You
• 37:38
  Speaker 11: cannot control anyone's mouth. You also can't control with nobody.
• 37:42
  Speaker 11: You can only control yourself. However, if we're having a
• 37:45
  Speaker 11: heated argument, and all you did was talk to me.
• 37:47
  Speaker 11: You can say what you want, don't put your hands
• 37:51
  Speaker 11: on me. You can call me a name, you can
• 37:53
  Speaker 11: call you fat, dirty, black bitch, whatever, that's fine.
• 38:01
  Speaker 6: You can say whatever you want.
• 38:03
  Speaker 3: I don't gotta respond to that.
• 38:04
  Speaker 11: Okay, I don't feel like that. Keep your hands to yourself.
• 38:09
  Speaker 11: We was taught you can say what you gotta say.
• 38:13
  Speaker 11: Don't put your hands on nobody. You can communicate if
• 38:16
  Speaker 11: I don't like something that you Okay, we canna have
• 38:18
  Speaker 11: this conversation. But how you gonna put your hands on me?
• 38:21
  Speaker 11: Because I say differently about what you're feeling. We're having
• 38:26
  Speaker 11: an argument or debate, or even if it got escalated,
• 38:29
  Speaker 11: it's a shouting match. I don't got to put my
• 38:31
  Speaker 11: hands on you to get by point across. Even if
• 38:33
  Speaker 11: we are screaming at each other, I'm gonna walk away.
• 38:36
  Speaker 11: Don't touch me though we're good.
• 38:38
  Speaker 3: Don't put your hands on me. I don't give none nose.
• 38:40
  Speaker 3: Just don't touch because my.
• 38:41
  Speaker 9: Reaction might not be what you think is gonna be.
• 38:43
  Speaker 3: I don't get upon some.
• 38:48
  Speaker 4: People, some people or some women. And I've seen this
• 38:51
  Speaker 4: on TV shows and discourse online where regardless of what
• 38:55
  Speaker 4: the woman does.
• 38:55
  Speaker 5: A man is never supposed to put their.
• 38:57
  Speaker 9: Hands on like okay, so like so like I said,
• 38:59
  Speaker 9: it's he would have smacked them and then he hauled off.
• 39:03
  Speaker 6: And he's right.
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: But that was that was a lot of force.
• 39:09
  Speaker 6: That was a lot of force.
• 39:09
  Speaker 9: And the reason I said I thought of force because
• 39:12
  Speaker 9: tell him I tumbling myself when I got locked up.
• 39:13
  Speaker 9: Because they hit me with an open fit, open hand
• 39:16
  Speaker 9: and I punched them in my face. That was assault.
• 39:19
  Speaker 9: I didn't meet the same force that they met me with. However,
• 39:21
  Speaker 9: I was in fight a flight. You smacked me, so
• 39:23
  Speaker 9: I said, fuck it, I'm apparently it wasn't the same force.
• 39:30
  Speaker 9: It's two different forces.
• 39:35
  Speaker 5: You've been quiet, So what are your thoughts on this?
• 39:38
  Speaker 3: Let me say that I was. But do not put
• 39:43
  Speaker 3: your hands on somebody if you do not want them
• 39:45
  Speaker 3: to put their hands on you. That's how I was
• 39:48
  Speaker 3: brought out. That's how a lot of us elder millennials
• 39:51
  Speaker 3: as they call us, worry. My mama didn't play that ship.
• 39:55
  Speaker 3: You ain't gonna let nobody put their hands on you.
• 39:58
  Speaker 3: You defend your south, all right, y'all. If y'all go
• 40:00
  Speaker 3: back and list to the episode, my mama was on
• 40:02
  Speaker 3: t told on herself for a little bit. My mom
• 40:04
  Speaker 3: ain't play that shit. Okay. You cannot tell somebody how
• 40:09
  Speaker 3: to react to the actions that you had against them,
• 40:16
  Speaker 3: So you're not gonna say, oh, I know I smelled
• 40:18
  Speaker 3: the ship out you, but you ain't hand right there
• 40:20
  Speaker 3: to retaliate.
• 40:21
  Speaker 9: Yes, that boyd had did nothing because I did.
• 40:26
  Speaker 3: I smecked the dog ship out there, dude, and I
• 40:28
  Speaker 3: shouldn't have. I shouldn't put my hands on the chair.
• 40:30
  Speaker 6: This is a long time ago, A long time ago.
• 40:34
  Speaker 3: We ain't seen that nigga since I was dead for
• 40:37
  Speaker 3: a little while. He was gonna come back in there
• 40:38
  Speaker 3: and fuck me up, but I did. I was mad
• 40:41
  Speaker 3: as ship. And I had told him her hand somebody
• 40:44
  Speaker 3: run you to talk to and I told him her hand.
• 40:45
  Speaker 3: Don't play with my cousin, Yo. If you ain't gonna
• 40:47
  Speaker 3: be serious with her, don't play Worr. I'm gonna smack
• 40:49
  Speaker 3: shit out you. At the moment, I was joking, but
• 40:52
  Speaker 3: he ended up doing it anyway, and I said, next
• 40:54
  Speaker 3: time I see him, i'mna smack shit out of him.
• 40:57
  Speaker 3: Thank you, thought I was joking. I walked in and
• 40:59
  Speaker 3: he was at the ball off, I spoke to my
• 41:01
  Speaker 3: mam and spoke to my cousin. I didn't hit him
• 41:03
  Speaker 3: in his face and noning he had a ball he had.
• 41:04
  Speaker 3: I smacked him in the back of his head like
• 41:06
  Speaker 3: but I.
• 41:07
  Speaker 6: Echoed through the bar.
• 41:08
  Speaker 3: I didn't mean to hit him a hard. I swear
• 41:09
  Speaker 3: I didn't. I didn't mean to hit him that.
• 41:11
  Speaker 5: Hall, but I saw you hitting people first.
• 41:12
  Speaker 6: I did hit him first.
• 41:14
  Speaker 3: And if he would have turned around and swung with me,
• 41:15
  Speaker 3: I couldn't did ship because I did hit him firnst,
• 41:18
  Speaker 3: even though at the moment I wasn't serious I hit
• 41:24
  Speaker 3: him first. Off, that man would have turned around and
• 41:26
  Speaker 3: reaction in back. What could I have done? I mean, granted,
• 41:34
  Speaker 3: so every action has a reaction. He was and I said,
• 41:41
  Speaker 3: I told you I was gonna smack him next time
• 41:43
  Speaker 3: I saw you, and that nigga got up and he
• 41:45
  Speaker 3: went to the bathroom and I was like this, come
• 41:46
  Speaker 3: up the bathroom and bank the ship out with me.
• 41:48
  Speaker 6: Watch get his life together.
• 41:52
  Speaker 3: He came out.
• 41:53
  Speaker 6: He was like, man, I see y'all lady.
• 41:54
  Speaker 8: He left.
• 41:55
  Speaker 7: We ain't seen him since when I got there.
• 41:57
  Speaker 3: He was at me like and to this day, if
• 42:01
  Speaker 3: I see him, I would apologize. I would because I ain't.
• 42:04
  Speaker 3: I ain't had a right to put my.
• 42:05
  Speaker 5: Hands on the d I didn't you committing assault.
• 42:08
  Speaker 3: He was a clown, but I ain't have a right
• 42:10
  Speaker 3: to put my hands on him, even if it was
• 42:12
  Speaker 3: in a joking man or playing man or whatever I did.
• 42:14
  Speaker 8: I was not.
• 42:16
  Speaker 3: But sometimes I don't know my own strength. I ain't
• 42:18
  Speaker 3: business didn't.
• 42:20
  Speaker 5: I didn't, I was.
• 42:24
  Speaker 6: I was wrong.
• 42:25
  Speaker 3: So that's why I say that, to say, you cannot.
• 42:28
  Speaker 3: You cannot tell somebody how to react to your actions,
• 42:31
  Speaker 3: so you can't right with you In this case, this
• 42:33
  Speaker 3: bitch picked a weapon up.
• 42:34
  Speaker 6: You left the room.
• 42:35
  Speaker 3: You had time to think, You had time to let
• 42:38
  Speaker 3: me take my hands outside, and and and and think
• 42:41
  Speaker 3: about this ship. But you got a weapon, came back, bitch,
• 42:46
  Speaker 3: cat back like you was in the full game in
• 42:50
  Speaker 3: his ribs, and his reaction was to punch your you're
• 42:55
  Speaker 3: lucky on me, hit you once, mister sir, No, you
• 42:59
  Speaker 3: are not that Its whole you were not. You was
• 43:01
  Speaker 3: defending yourself and anybody that's taking her side leaving where
• 43:04
  Speaker 3: they are.
• 43:04
  Speaker 11: Ye, honestly, I commend you for having her train to
• 43:07
  Speaker 11: only swing off of reaction and not to continue.
• 43:10
  Speaker 3: Because you that could have went a whole life from
• 43:13
  Speaker 3: a broken nose, could have been the least to her
• 43:14
  Speaker 3: mother fucking words.
• 43:15
  Speaker 5: Bitch.
• 43:16
  Speaker 3: Now you got a free nose job, bitch, go get
• 43:18
  Speaker 3: it fixed. Going a bunch of bits. Okay, So you're
• 43:20
  Speaker 3: gonna walk around with two black eyes for a couple
• 43:21
  Speaker 3: of days, but you will be all right, y'all. Bet
• 43:23
  Speaker 3: you you're gonna look in the mill or bitch.
• 43:26
  Speaker 11: This motherfucker can't believe neither can you. I feel like
• 43:28
  Speaker 11: y'all even right, I can't.
• 43:31
  Speaker 3: Breathe, and even can you, bitch, So you're gonna look
• 43:33
  Speaker 3: in the mi right, that's for me and her mind.
• 43:34
  Speaker 3: You have to put your hands on nobody no more so,
• 43:36
  Speaker 3: no start, you are not there. It's okay, all right,
• 43:39
  Speaker 3: that is true. And mister started, I make in the
• 43:41
  Speaker 3: back of the head. If you can hear this, I apologize.
• 43:42
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry you ain't heard for him since No, we
• 43:46
  Speaker 3: ain't seen what I'm saying from since not yeah ship
• 43:53
  Speaker 3: that's before the pandemic's been my good.
• 43:55
  Speaker 9: We ain't seen it back there.
• 43:57
  Speaker 7: Sentence ain't sense, But I that ship still is funny
• 44:01
  Speaker 7: to me.
• 44:01
  Speaker 3: Maybe I gotta do it right.
• 44:04
  Speaker 6: I'm sorry, I'm so hurry.
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: I'm so.
• 44:12
  Speaker 6: I ain't gonna do it no more.
• 44:15
  Speaker 3: I hear a parlor gie, my bads are I won't
• 44:21
  Speaker 3: put my hands on nobody else unless I'm defending myself.
• 44:25
  Speaker 9: Yeah, I have learned several have learned restraint very well.
• 44:28
  Speaker 9: My thing now is just look at you like a
• 44:30
  Speaker 9: stupid She laugh at me because I'm very When people
• 44:34
  Speaker 9: may be mad, I am very calm, and I think
• 44:35
  Speaker 9: it's a problem though.
• 44:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah, the comings people are the ones you gotta watch
• 44:38
  Speaker 3: out for. I do, especially the ones that don't. Is
• 44:41
  Speaker 3: she mad as we can't tell? Are you mad? Bitch? No,
• 44:48
  Speaker 3: I'm saying I be real quick like no, no, why
• 44:51
  Speaker 3: are you quite?
• 44:52
  Speaker 9: I'm listening what they're saying.
• 44:54
  Speaker 7: I'm trying to process it ain't.
• 44:55
  Speaker 3: I ain't listening to ship. I'm rationalizing in my mind
• 44:59
  Speaker 3: if I.
• 44:59
  Speaker 9: Hit you you here, am I gonna get in?
• 45:02
  Speaker 6: I apologized.
• 45:02
  Speaker 3: I need to.
• 45:03
  Speaker 5: That's the song, Okay, if we can find it, we
• 45:05
  Speaker 5: can find it.
• 45:05
  Speaker 6: It's going to tell.
• 45:11
  Speaker 3: Disappeared since she canceled that show fifteen minutes before it started.
• 45:15
  Speaker 5: She she went back underground the ones.
• 45:19
  Speaker 3: That's the thing baby that lady called her all kinds
• 45:22
  Speaker 3: of ball heead bitches, I justpended too ship She.
• 45:26
  Speaker 5: Okay, and she didn't come down when to come down
• 45:28
  Speaker 5: sick or something.
• 45:30
  Speaker 9: But then you're gonna tell me you're gonna cancel.
• 45:32
  Speaker 3: Act she was he's usher canceled the morning?
• 45:35
  Speaker 4: Uh, I mean and also sis, this was like her
• 45:39
  Speaker 4: but the seventh fifth year of her farewell tour, Yeah.
• 45:42
  Speaker 7: She saied well seven twenty times she's.
• 45:45
  Speaker 5: Been on the tours is twenty sixteen.
• 45:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah, oh she.
• 45:47
  Speaker 9: Fayed well in each city. Ohr got she's been saying.
• 45:51
  Speaker 4: In the world and she she's been at least three
• 45:53
  Speaker 4: four times on the same tour. Yeah, I need a
• 45:56
  Speaker 4: bike a fair tour.
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: You know what.
• 46:00
  Speaker 6: If they ain't quote a check take reader.
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: Fromble I know, didn't dreaming.
• 46:24
  Speaker 6: Ho Jo, believe me ide your powder jack rosting.
• 46:33
  Speaker 5: Because I know.
• 46:36
  Speaker 6: What saying this I got again through wamute. Don't worry
• 46:55
  Speaker 6: right now, wrong.
• 47:01
  Speaker 5: Single So even listen.
• 47:04
  Speaker 3: To me right now farewell to what's she fan well
• 47:15
  Speaker 3: in too? I mean she's suffering from ovarian cancer.
• 47:18
  Speaker 5: Are you serious?
• 47:19
  Speaker 3: What you need a breaking and that's been since twenty sixteen.
• 47:24
  Speaker 9: Oh well that ain't a fan well, no, moment you
• 47:26
  Speaker 9: are blessing Holly favored.
• 47:27
  Speaker 6: That's the change names.
• 47:29
  Speaker 3: Where do you see that? But that might be what
• 47:31
  Speaker 3: I'm on her Wikipedia, I don't care.
• 47:33
  Speaker 5: We need but they may have a link link she
• 47:36
  Speaker 5: has ovarian cancer. We need it's Brian, We need.
• 47:42
  Speaker 9: A real sight. We can't use the Wikipedia because everybody
• 47:45
  Speaker 9: could put stuffy.
• 47:45
  Speaker 5: I don't know she had she had ovarian cancer.
• 47:48
  Speaker 3: See you trying to stop? That's what I'm saying. That's
• 47:54
  Speaker 3: some time according to this she's suffering from cancer.
• 48:00
  Speaker 5: I'm having on mine.
• 48:00
  Speaker 7: Don't listen to me.
• 48:03
  Speaker 9: They told me I'm confined to the cheer. I can't
• 48:05
  Speaker 9: go nowhere.
• 48:05
  Speaker 5: I ain't go nowhere. Goddam?
• 48:06
  Speaker 9: What's our last question?
• 48:07
  Speaker 6: Host?
• 48:08
  Speaker 5: Yes, we got a lot of don't don't rush me, bitch,
• 48:11
  Speaker 5: A lot of dead noise take out this episode.
• 48:14
  Speaker 6: Trying to rush me?
• 48:15
  Speaker 8: All right?
• 48:15
  Speaker 6: Sung songs.
• 48:16
  Speaker 3: Next question, We're going to Brandon's favorite thread, the girls.
• 48:21
  Speaker 3: He hates his six Brown Chicks aka brown capes.
• 48:26
  Speaker 5: A K you see.
• 48:30
  Speaker 6: A k A what the fuck is this?
• 48:32
  Speaker 7: They be having good stuff though, ak A bitch?
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: What?
• 48:35
  Speaker 3: All right?
• 48:36
  Speaker 5: Go ahead? The question.
• 48:38
  Speaker 3: I'm a member of a historic black sorority. I'm always
• 48:42
  Speaker 3: in the street supporting local black owned businesses, events and causes.
• 48:47
  Speaker 3: I met David at a black book festival. Shoulder lyft locks, brown.
• 48:51
  Speaker 7: Skin, rising and queen.
• 48:55
  Speaker 3: Our teacher by day and a spoken word all this
• 48:58
  Speaker 3: by night predicted he's my spirit animal night.
• 49:09
  Speaker 5: Last night, my sorrow was.
• 49:13
  Speaker 3: My sorrow was all over him, offering him homemade peach
• 49:16
  Speaker 3: cobbler back at her place. So I interrupted them and
• 49:19
  Speaker 3: invited David on a cruise with me. I paid for everything.
• 49:23
  Speaker 6: I was looking forward to.
• 49:24
  Speaker 3: Getting to know him better and finally getting some cruise.
• 49:28
  Speaker 3: Convo was amazing. He interpreted the works of Nikki Giovanni
• 49:32
  Speaker 3: and I soaked, and it soaked my panty cake. Look
• 49:38
  Speaker 3: anywhere you'll think it's going. Hold on.
• 49:40
  Speaker 6: We danced, drink, ate and drink and some more.
• 49:45
  Speaker 3: We were that sexy cruise couple and all eyes were
• 49:48
  Speaker 3: on us, but no sex on the first night.
• 49:50
  Speaker 5: Okay, breakfast time.
• 49:53
  Speaker 9: I woke up.
• 49:53
  Speaker 3: First and David's lock wig slipp it was stop it
• 50:02
  Speaker 3: was and was stuck to the pillow. Yes, he's completely
• 50:10
  Speaker 3: bold and according to his tan lines, David is really
• 50:13
  Speaker 3: a white guy.
• 50:15
  Speaker 6: He was embarrassed.
• 50:16
  Speaker 3: I flewed his wig back with eyelash glue, and I
• 50:21
  Speaker 3: dumped him. I didn't appreciate him cosse playing as a
• 50:24
  Speaker 3: black spoken word artist.
• 50:26
  Speaker 6: He accused me, see, I thought.
• 50:30
  Speaker 3: She was white. I thought she was white.
• 50:32
  Speaker 9: I thought she was white.
• 50:33
  Speaker 6: I thought she was white.
• 50:34
  Speaker 9: I did I thought she was white.
• 50:37
  Speaker 6: Not complaint.
• 50:49
  Speaker 3: He accused me of feeling guilty after swirling, and.
• 50:56
  Speaker 6: I got so many questions.
• 51:00
  Speaker 3: Go ahead, he excuse me for feeling guilty after swirling.
• 51:04
  Speaker 3: It showed me a very old pick when he had
• 51:06
  Speaker 3: natural locks.
• 51:08
  Speaker 6: I lost my hair.
• 51:09
  Speaker 3: I wear a man unit to feel young again.
• 51:11
  Speaker 6: I wasn't cost playing. I wasn't cosse playing.
• 51:15
  Speaker 3: After this convo, David and I continue to enjoying ourselves
• 51:18
  Speaker 3: on the crese, and we both hooked up with other people. Truthfully,
• 51:21
  Speaker 3: I was jealous when David hooked up with another woman
• 51:24
  Speaker 3: I like, But I can't bring a bald white guy
• 51:27
  Speaker 3: into my inner circle.
• 51:29
  Speaker 6: I would be outcast.
• 51:31
  Speaker 3: But he's still my spirit animal and I miss him.
• 51:35
  Speaker 5: Reverse. That's the episode.
• 51:53
  Speaker 9: Questions.
• 51:54
  Speaker 6: You didn't know you was fucking on John b was
• 51:59
  Speaker 6: fucking on Monkey Mark in the fucking bunch, Bitch.
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: You didn't know this.
• 52:06
  Speaker 6: You did not know justice was in your bed I
• 52:08
  Speaker 6: had so many.
• 52:12
  Speaker 4: I know it was fucking on Jerry o' Bobby mcfairn
• 52:17
  Speaker 4: is black. Don't like how flax was in your bed?
• 52:24
  Speaker 4: Remember Danny trading places? We had on the fucking wig
• 52:28
  Speaker 4: playing at Jamaica. How how you didn't know?
• 52:31
  Speaker 3: You had know she had wounding downy Junr from Toxic.
• 52:40
  Speaker 6: Black Man playing the way I got her part? Her
• 52:44
  Speaker 6: friend was all so he I want to see what
• 52:48
  Speaker 6: he looked like. He had got the both of you.
• 52:51
  Speaker 4: He looked like white man. You didn't realize that something
• 52:56
  Speaker 4: was off when he had on. He was walking around
• 53:01
  Speaker 4: with the premium face.
• 53:03
  Speaker 6: That must have been a brother whit how you oh,
• 53:07
  Speaker 6: that's right there?
• 53:07
  Speaker 3: He had sex first night?
• 53:08
  Speaker 5: I forgot because it was pink. That's why.
• 53:10
  Speaker 3: No, they never had sex.
• 53:12
  Speaker 6: This maybe she had a brown dick, Chris, I'm sorry,
• 53:24
  Speaker 6: hold on, hold, hold on hold.
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: Now, maybe he's one.
• 53:31
  Speaker 5: Of those white people that could pass is like a
• 53:33
  Speaker 5: creole or.
• 53:34
  Speaker 3: Like right or something.
• 53:35
  Speaker 5: So he's like a real light black person.
• 53:38
  Speaker 3: Like girl, she's mixed.
• 53:40
  Speaker 11: She looked white skinned, but I could tell she's part
• 53:42
  Speaker 11: white her skin, but she looks black.
• 53:46
  Speaker 6: Okay, so how much?
• 53:48
  Speaker 3: But how much son was he getting to appear. But okay,
• 53:50
  Speaker 3: we're gonna skip past this part. And he was a
• 53:52
  Speaker 3: white man. Were gonna get past that party. My question
• 53:54
  Speaker 3: is how you fall all in depth with this person.
• 53:58
  Speaker 3: You are in love and all these infectuations and you
• 54:01
  Speaker 3: don't know his background.
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: You don't know his.
• 54:05
  Speaker 9: Background, so now they're trying to get on the picture
• 54:08
  Speaker 9: for exactly so you didn't buy him with a cruise
• 54:14
  Speaker 9: because your homegirl was on so you was trying to
• 54:16
  Speaker 9: block your hunger.
• 54:17
  Speaker 6: That's what you get one of your friend.
• 54:21
  Speaker 5: I'm sorry, So do y'all see why I hate these bitches?
• 54:24
  Speaker 6: Som yes?
• 54:25
  Speaker 5: Do you?
• 54:27
  Speaker 4: I had to meet all three microphones that wasn't me.
• 54:30
  Speaker 4: Do you see why I hate these hairs for so much?
• 54:35
  Speaker 4: A whole white man bitch, A whole fucking white man bitch.
• 54:38
  Speaker 9: But it got as.
• 54:42
  Speaker 6: To try to back door your friend.
• 54:44
  Speaker 7: Yep, that's what secures got insecured again.
• 54:49
  Speaker 5: She got back by Dick Clark.
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: Had a little bit.
• 55:03
  Speaker 6: That week.
• 55:04
  Speaker 7: Doesn't look better than one to walk a den. You
• 55:06
  Speaker 7: know how they got no dra like wigs want to
• 55:07
  Speaker 7: walking dead and they are bad.
• 55:11
  Speaker 6: Ad mercy.
• 55:13
  Speaker 9: Oh maybe maybe I'll be doing too much, but I'll
• 55:16
  Speaker 9: be all let me see the pictures. Now what you
• 55:19
  Speaker 9: look like?
• 55:19
  Speaker 11: That first of all looks like, Okay, you found out
• 55:23
  Speaker 11: this motherfucker's truth and you're pretty much shamed her for it,
• 55:28
  Speaker 11: and now you mad because he was hooking at whatever. Motherfuckers,
• 55:30
  Speaker 11: but you're getting permissioned to do it.
• 55:32
  Speaker 9: Well, she didn't pay for him to go in the crew,
• 55:34
  Speaker 9: her dumb ass call.
• 55:34
  Speaker 3: He was like, she did that in spite of her
• 55:38
  Speaker 3: friend friend. Get her sore row sister, you don't pose
• 55:41
  Speaker 3: across them. She got what she deserves and she did.
• 55:43
  Speaker 3: She boated sisterhood and she did you pay Oh around
• 55:51
  Speaker 3: his heart, don't to be not you know what, nigga
• 55:56
  Speaker 3: you sir? You said. You know I'm happy for you, sir.
• 55:59
  Speaker 3: You know I'm afraid of something because you finally a
• 56:03
  Speaker 3: tall damn. I was about to say, I couldn't get enough.
• 56:06
  Speaker 6: You got us back, go back, jack black.
• 56:10
  Speaker 3: Man, a white woman.
• 56:12
  Speaker 4: You know I'm afraid of something. I'm afraid of something, fear.
• 56:19
  Speaker 4: You know, yes, you know I think I'm scared to
• 56:21
  Speaker 4: see a pink penis maasically thinking wrong me.
• 56:23
  Speaker 3: I was getting ready to say it looks like.
• 56:26
  Speaker 5: You see you don't see that means that from.
• 56:30
  Speaker 6: I could, I could do what.
• 56:36
  Speaker 3: I could do. White.
• 56:36
  Speaker 11: Just give me a brown tip, not a pink win.
• 56:38
  Speaker 11: If it's pink, it's gonna look like pink blanket the
• 56:40
  Speaker 11: hood getting.
• 56:40
  Speaker 3: I don't want.
• 56:42
  Speaker 9: The visual.
• 56:43
  Speaker 6: I don't I don't want.
• 56:44
  Speaker 5: Let's let's let's move past this.
• 56:46
  Speaker 3: Wait a minute and does what she gets? Though that's
• 56:50
  Speaker 3: what the get.
• 56:51
  Speaker 6: She was jealous. God said, Hi, you.
• 56:57
  Speaker 3: Keep it. But since y'all like this one, I got, No,
• 57:06
  Speaker 3: we're gonna stay.
• 57:08
  Speaker 5: And you wonder why I frown every time?
• 57:10
  Speaker 3: She We're gonna stay on this thread, y'all, we're gonna
• 57:14
  Speaker 3: stay on sex.
• 57:18
  Speaker 6: Questions.
• 57:18
  Speaker 3: No ship dang like us this week? Ready? No, God
• 57:26
  Speaker 3: damn it? Getting ready? Then?
• 57:27
  Speaker 5: All right?
• 57:28
  Speaker 3: Married eleven years with two kids. Wife wants to spice
• 57:31
  Speaker 3: up the marriage and ordered sex toys for us. Okay,
• 57:35
  Speaker 3: like that one was a strap on? I demanded, what
• 57:40
  Speaker 3: is that? What is fo?
• 57:44
  Speaker 6: She wants me to play receiver? I was stereo.
• 57:47
  Speaker 5: Okay, Peggy Bundy, she wants She.
• 57:53
  Speaker 3: Recited some thought piece about how men secure and their
• 57:56
  Speaker 3: sexuality would be open to new experiences, and I turned
• 57:59
  Speaker 3: her out.
• 58:00
  Speaker 6: I tuned her out.
• 58:01
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I straight ignored her for a few days
• 58:04
  Speaker 3: until she apologized. I feel some kind of hatred towards
• 58:07
  Speaker 3: her because she should have known better than the attempt
• 58:10
  Speaker 3: to bend me over. I don't want to throw eleven
• 58:13
  Speaker 3: years away, but every time I think of this, I
• 58:15
  Speaker 3: hate her.
• 58:16
  Speaker 6: All over again.
• 58:17
  Speaker 5: Advice.
• 58:19
  Speaker 3: Wait, we're gonna do this different. As the resident homo
• 58:23
  Speaker 3: of the podcast, Brandon, you get first DIBs on the answer.
• 58:28
  Speaker 5: Well, I ain't never been paid by one before.
• 58:30
  Speaker 6: So why would I have first did?
• 58:33
  Speaker 3: Let's let's talk.
• 58:34
  Speaker 5: What was the question? Anybody is he?
• 58:39
  Speaker 3: Is he wrong for being mad that she she she
• 58:41
  Speaker 3: won't been demoted?
• 58:41
  Speaker 4: No, because they should have had a conversation about what
• 58:44
  Speaker 4: he was wasn't comfortable with before she got toys. Some
• 58:50
  Speaker 4: ship you just can't spring on people.
• 58:52
  Speaker 6: It is now.
• 58:54
  Speaker 5: I didn't seen and been part of some freak ship
• 58:56
  Speaker 5: in my dad.
• 58:58
  Speaker 7: You can't tell if you want to do it on
• 58:59
  Speaker 7: my asshole.
• 59:05
  Speaker 5: You know worked my.
• 59:07
  Speaker 4: Nerves, but you know it's good. So the chicken you
• 59:09
  Speaker 4: made for general was excellent. You know, I appreciate you.
• 59:12
  Speaker 4: The kids then ate they chilling, you know, But but
• 59:19
  Speaker 4: you want to you want to stick some of my ass?
• 59:21
  Speaker 5: What how do you get from.
• 59:25
  Speaker 6: No way in hell.
• 59:28
  Speaker 3: Ain't no way in hell.
• 59:29
  Speaker 6: I ain't never been.
• 59:30
  Speaker 5: Paid by no woman.
• 59:33
  Speaker 3: I don't know if you know. Let's go ebo as
• 59:37
  Speaker 3: a woman. Right, I'm sorry she called that straight man asked, hey,
• 59:42
  Speaker 3: can you peg me?
• 59:45
  Speaker 6: Baby?
• 59:45
  Speaker 9: I don't give a damn who's behind the din?
• 59:48
  Speaker 3: Right?
• 59:48
  Speaker 6: Okay?
• 59:49
  Speaker 9: Right?
• 59:49
  Speaker 3: That that's the first.
• 59:53
  Speaker 6: What the dig is attached to.
• 59:55
  Speaker 11: As a man, I should not be playing in your bootyho,
• 59:59
  Speaker 11: I shouldn't. Okay, before we before, before we before we
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 11: let Ron answer this. I'm gonna reread the question because
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 11: my brother Brian, if y'all might remember Brian from a
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 11: few episodes ago. Uh, just walked in the room, and
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 11: as a straight man, I want I want to get
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 11: his perspective on this.
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 6: Since Aaron is not here.
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 3: Married for eleven years with two kids, my wife wants
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 3: to spice up the marriage and ordered sex toys for us.
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 3: One was a strap on. I demanded, what is that?
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 3: And who is fu?
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 6: She wants me to play receiver? I was furious.
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 3: She ever cited some thought piece about how men secure
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 3: and their sexuality would be open to new experiences, and
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 3: I tuned her out. I straight ignored her for a
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 3: few days until she apologized. I feel some kind of
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 3: hatred towards her because she should have known better than
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 3: to attempt to bend me over. I don't want to
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 3: throw eleven years away. But every time I think of this,
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 3: I hate her all over again.
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 5: She was trying to do the bending. Get the microphone advice.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 5: He's asking us for advice.
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 10: Yeah, I would say, just keep it moving, bro, There's
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 10: plenty more efficient tocye. And that's just one that you're
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 10: gonna have to throw back in the water because that's her.
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 5: That's nasty. That's that's it's nasty.
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 10: I'm sorry you feel me to each his own, Yeah,
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 10: but as a straight man, that's nasty. I don't I
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 10: don't get and I and I'm comfortable with my sexuality,
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 10: and it's still nasty. So that I don't know why
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 10: she tried to blame you on that. Yeah, that's you
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 10: gotta you got you gotta talk about that. But after
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 10: eleven years of marriage, you would have thought that she
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 10: would like try to talk to you man. Yeah, she
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 10: would know that's not okay. I don't know how that's going.
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 10: Spicy it up. That's just gonna, that's gonna because that
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 10: ain't spicing.
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 4: You ain't talking about this, and you ain't had no
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 4: conversation talk about some I thought I was getting some
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 4: cheeks you want my.
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 9: Hold on.
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 7: So she thought this was a good idea to buy
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 7: this for her man to him about it.
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 5: Why some women like stuff like that, questions that he answers.
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: His his thing.
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 5: You have to be You have to know your part
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 5: eleven years.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 4: You need to know your partner's freak level to know
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 4: what they are or aren't comfortable with. Agree there are
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 4: there are there, There are some contingent. There are some
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 4: groups of men who are comfortable with their women.
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 9: Pay damn ship that he wasn't gonna be with this.
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 4: There are some women that are okay with with with
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 4: pegging their men, or she might not have known because
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 4: you need those are one of the things you need
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 4: to have conversations about beforehand, beforehand, before you go out
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 4: and invest in sex toys that do that.
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 3: But we're going break, We're going back to six brown checks.
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 3: Y'all shit, Get away from there. We don't like it there, Yes,
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 3: y'all do it brings y'all joy. I'm at a great
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 3: older man and we're getting married in December. We attended
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 3: my cousin's destination wedding in Jamaica, and I used this
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 3: opportunity to have one last fling before I got married.
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 3: After my fiance fell asleep, I left the room and
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 3: hooked up with the groom's men in two locals just
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 3: for fun.
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 9: Whoa mm hmm, she got pregnant.
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 3: I had the best sex. I wanted to use protection,
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 3: but this time my hookups were different. We bonded on
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 3: the emotional spiritual level and used to use a condo
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 3: with any of them. I contracted super gone arihea and
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 3: it's basically untreatable. My fiance won sex, but I'm unavailable
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 3: until I get this cleared up. It's been two months.
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 3: If I tell him what's going on, he'll know I've
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 3: been unfaithful. Not necessarily. Before y'all answer, I'm gonna tell
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 3: y'all what super guneria is.
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 6: This is the definitions.
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 3: The extensively drug resistant gun aria with high levels of
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 3: resistance to the current recommended treatment for gunirihea, but also
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 3: includes resistance to penicillin and other drugs are called gneria,
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 3: superbugs or super GONEREEA answers, let's go, I ain't got.
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 6: Nothing for you. Dumb ass.
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 11: That's why they said you shouldn't follow behind Rick James
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 11: and be a super freak.
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 9: That nasty like you really you you're about to get
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 9: married and decide to go Okay, you want to go
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 9: funk off? Okay before you get married. Cool, No, do
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 9: what you're gonna do, but.
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 6: At least yours protection. Dumb.
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 3: It's been in the pregnant Now what it's the fact
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 3: that she tried to use emotional and spirituality to come up.
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 6: The fact that she's a.
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 3: She's she's a whore.
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 5: I don't feel connected to you right now, so we
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 5: can't have sex.
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 3: We can't have sex without a condom.
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 7: She's so stupid, like that's this dumb.
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 3: The fact that you know you're going to another question,
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 3: get the fun off their damn like, just get the money.
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 3: So why would you risk anything you have fun?
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 5: I guess, But the ancient answer is.
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 4: You get you can be the wholesome true for ans
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 4: to tell him, of course, be honest with people. The
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 4: ancient answer is tell this man, I gonna.
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 7: Say that will be my first Get the funk out
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 7: of here.
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 9: You're not.
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 6: You're not class just started hurting shared with the class that.
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 3: Big he said, write that.
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 5: I mean, I have to make it. It's already big.
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 3: So you know him.
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 7: Don't say nothing that you do.
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 5: I don't know that is she did.
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 6: I know him because he's friends with a family member
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 6: of another friend.
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 3: I'll tell you later.
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 5: Okay, he gets around. I mean, I love I love
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 5: being on the podcast women.
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 3: How yeh know how I have said the same thing
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 3: that you said.
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 4: Answer is you can tell your ex that you contracted
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 4: a rash being on vacation. Maybe something in the water
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 4: didn't maybe ask you your your.
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: Telling this.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 4: So you noticed that you were in Jamaica and you
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 4: bathed and maybe the water gave Then I said, that
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 4: was the ancient answer.
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 6: Oh I'm still lying, right, I gave a truth.
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 5: Said that, you know, obeyed with the local waters.
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 4: In lake Lake Jamaica, Lake Minniton like minute Jamaica and
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 4: Makoochie ain't agreeing with you right now. It's the doctor
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 4: of my pH is off is growing growing icicles, and
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 4: the doctor said three months to get it to come
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 4: back to regular you know, and then you can do.
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 3: Don't that's the answer that you usually sound dumb as
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 3: fun tell the.
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 4: Niggas you he sucked up your pH niggas, do you
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 4: switch switch cologne or switch using it?
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 6: Iverage springs.
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 5: You fucked up my pH bitch. Now we can't fun
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 5: because you fucked up my pH people.
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 3: No, she can't use that live about the PA.
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 6: You can see a p H.
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 3: Don't make it hurt the p.
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 5: Wow have a vagina. So I wouldn't know clearly with
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 5: the water the water thing that that.
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 6: Might have worked.
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 3: That, yeah, because that's very much to the little little
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 3: private pool, that private lake. I don't know what it did,
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 3: but it did something to my vagina.
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 6: And now it's offer.
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 3: It got bodies on bodies. I'll be trying to cure.
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: You.
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 11: I'm not you went into I mean, listen, now, she
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 11: got what she deserved. However, that's not just one person.
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 6: She hooked up with three.
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 11: So that means you got it. Oh, that means she
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 11: got a different version of it from everybody. You don't
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 11: know what you got it from. O who she passed
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 11: it to?
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 9: To? So many things, so many things, so many things.
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 9: That's wrong with this situation.
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 3: Now the Gordons man is standing at the damn thing.
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 3: It wasn't him and he wasn't the first one.
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 6: She slept with that night and two strangers. It's definitely.
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 3: And Dexter and and sevest. Okay, that's what she did.
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 3: That's what she did, so she don't know who the
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 3: hell she got it from. And then that man that
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 3: was on social media. I got three s t d's.
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 3: I don't care.
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 6: I'm still trying to tonight.
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 3: Yes, somebody from some one of them country as Midwest places.
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 9: Get these stupid ladies.
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 3: No, I got one more stupid. I don't want to.
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 3: I don't want nothing else from them.
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 6: I don't want.
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: One more.
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 3: That's the last one on the episode George. Last one
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 3: on the episode story Time. Eight months ago. I had
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 3: a fight with my girlfriend, so I went to a
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 3: strip club. I met a goddess. She's a good girl
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 3: in a tough situation. Were going to date after her ship.
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 3: She's dancing to pay for college. Oh, come on, diamond.
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 3: She wants me to take her out of the club life.
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 3: She's studying culinary arts. She wants to be the female
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 3: Gordon Ramsay. She wants to get married and cook and
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  Speaker 3: clean for me and wear aprons with nothing knowing behind
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  Speaker 3: heels for me.
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  Speaker 6: I say cool, to be honest.
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  Speaker 3: It was the most beautiful shit I've ever heard. I
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  Speaker 3: dumped my girlfriend via text. Oh my god, I want
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  Speaker 3: to see my guardess again.
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  Speaker 6: Next date.
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  Speaker 3: I pull up and she comes out her extended stay
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  Speaker 3: hotel with the suitcase and a puppy. Okay, I thought
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  Speaker 3: we were going for tacoles. She says, fuck tacoles. Let's
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  Speaker 3: go to your place and start our family. I'm like, okay,
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  Speaker 3: I got her pregnant that night. I'm sure of it. Well,
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  Speaker 3: she's a future faker. She ain't in school, she don't
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  Speaker 3: want to cook and marry me. She's big and pregnant
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  Speaker 3: and throws things at me all the time. We're living
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  Speaker 3: in my mom's basement and my mom won't put this
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  Speaker 3: woman out because she's pregnant, and my mom likes the dog.
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  Speaker 3: I'm stuck, you stupid you ain't stuck, you stupid you,
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  Speaker 3: you you the you, the one with a song.
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  Speaker 8: Put your hand in the head, that been your wristling
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  Speaker 8: across your head, y'all got so the pipe being from
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  Speaker 8: the strip club.
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  Speaker 6: I'm at at her hustle, you stupid, you amazing. I
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  Speaker 6: love it everything. I love it for her.
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  Speaker 7: I love it for you, stink.
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  Speaker 9: I ain't got that.
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  Speaker 6: Said like this, this ship, this ship.
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  Speaker 7: You your girlfriend before you found.
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  Speaker 3: How you go how you meet this lady in the
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 3: way you talk about this woman and how you up
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  Speaker 3: here and talk You took her to your mama basement.
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  Speaker 3: The damn dumb, I'm about to go the letter slide
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  Speaker 3: past stupid.
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  Speaker 7: They're about to raise a kid.
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  Speaker 3: Ships in the mama basement and Mama likes a little bit.
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  Speaker 6: Talk about a fifty.
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  Speaker 3: That's up, MoMA, don't give a ship. I'm just letting you,
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  Speaker 3: mister sad send you call this. You gonna deal with it.
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  Speaker 9: That's what she.
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  Speaker 5: Ain't the word.
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  Speaker 9: Sweet?
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  Speaker 6: What's your name? I need some lessons? Listen, baby, you
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  Speaker 6: got the book, the game. The game. Now the bregn
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 6: depart that's on you. But the game that you got
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  Speaker 6: put it in the book I needed.
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  Speaker 3: You picked her up from there to get back.
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  Speaker 9: When she sent you the address, you didn't think anything
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  Speaker 9: was up because she was stayed in a fu hotel.
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  Speaker 6: But she a strepp us.
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  Speaker 7: What kind of money she making and she can't afford.
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  Speaker 3: Because if you put it in the goods is Defin's
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  Speaker 3: gonna tell you?
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  Speaker 11: Oh this, It don't sound like your girlfriend was dating
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  Speaker 11: a smart guy.
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  Speaker 3: You did her a favor.
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 7: How did you not you did her a favor?
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 3: And now you around sweetheart that out.
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  Speaker 9: I'm rooting for your.
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 6: Shore, the one that got away.
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 3: Don't even feel no type of way about him dumping you.
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 3: He's a did you a favor?
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 9: Had a baby dummy.
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 6: He had a baby, but he had a baby pimp.
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 3: Because she alreadyknew her her lifestyle was to that. That
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 3: was her goal.
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 9: He took out the club that was what her life.
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 3: Just so her life goals. She actually made a team.
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 3: She's smart. Now you gotta deal with your baby.
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 11: Mama that be shaking that as she was shaking because
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 11: she gonna go back once she dropped that baby, because
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 11: you ain't got no money.
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 7: Damn, I'm over, get off these stupid things.
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 9: I'm done.
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 3: I'm the last one show that was the last one.
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 3: You know, to you, to you six whatever ladies that
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  Speaker 3: you is, shut it down, shut it please down.
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  Speaker 9: Are they at least give these people good advice back.
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 3: So they don't actually give them. They posted else.
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  Speaker 9: So nobody helping these people out.
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 3: These people would like me to read something, please don't
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  Speaker 3: that's it.
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  Speaker 6: Shut her, But he shut that down like no, don't
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  Speaker 6: do it.
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  Speaker 3: You know what, I apologize because I never understood why
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 3: the hell you hated them so bad?
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  Speaker 11: Because at first when I was coming to the questions,
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 11: wasn't that bad? But now that I've been coming consistently
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 11: and she keep going gets.
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 7: Ill always get one question. So I'm like, okay, this
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 7: one question.
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 6: But these.
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 9: These people we work with every day and we got
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 9: to live in the life.
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 7: Yes, yes, this comment, these are the people we live in.
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  Speaker 3: The world with every days.
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  Speaker 9: The best one to for it and made the logical
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 9: sent was the man who pushed the girl in the face, and.
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 3: That was from Reddick.
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  Speaker 4: Say so, with that being said, I'm gonna I'm gonna
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  Speaker 4: move past all that ship and say wrong. Thank Ebo,
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  Speaker 4: thank you for coming on this episode and play for
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  Speaker 4: the AA room. I appreciate both of y'all.
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  Speaker 3: No problem, thank you, Thank you for inviting am I
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  Speaker 3: come back again.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, we'll see what happens next week if this nigga
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  Speaker 4: decided he want to come back off of his honeymoon trip.
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 9: Oh so you only called me in because this niggain't here.
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  Speaker 9: I can't just come I was I was on here
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  Speaker 9: when he.
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  Speaker 3: Was on here.
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  Speaker 7: But okay, no problem.
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  Speaker 3: Listen, don't feel bad.
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  Speaker 9: I got.
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  Speaker 5: Problem because you've been invited all year and they show
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  Speaker 5: up to September and I.
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  Speaker 9: First of all, I had to buy a house. I
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 9: had a car, I got a new car, I got
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 9: a new jail. The kid went to high school.
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  Speaker 5: I had what is you saying?
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  Speaker 9: I got my feet to you? But like ship going on?
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  Speaker 7: Okay, so do I anyway, you can't get your worries
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  Speaker 7: out now.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry, y'all. I gave branded tequila and then my
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 3: mad I like, I like this.
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  Speaker 5: I don't.
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  Speaker 6: He doesn't know you wan tequila.
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 5: You like me on tequila?
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  Speaker 3: You want hinge? No, it's not but him on tequila.
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  Speaker 5: That's he.
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  Speaker 3: It's very thick.
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  Speaker 9: I love everything about it.
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  Speaker 7: It's very fun.
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  Speaker 5: I thought branding on gym with something.
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  Speaker 7: A little different, tequila and the mixed together.
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  Speaker 6: That's what it is.
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  Speaker 5: Well okay, well I'm still.
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  Speaker 9: Laughing at you put the damn cork on top of
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 9: the bottle. Like the court was going to do something.
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  Speaker 5: It is just still sitting there.
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  Speaker 9: It ain't fly off yet, but it's wall.
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  Speaker 6: It doesn't fit.
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  Speaker 3: It's too short, it's too much. He talked like that,
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  Speaker 3: and he couldn't back it. Up such a little ego,
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 3: and he love his little ego. It's too much.
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