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- 0:00Philip Pape: Is procrastination holding you back from achieving everything that you want?
- 0:04Philip Pape: If it is, it's probably due to one of four unmet needs.
- 0:07Philip Pape: We're going to break those down on today's quick wits and how you can overcome them.
- 0:11Philip Pape: Welcome to the Wits and Weights podcast.
- 0:16Philip Pape: I'm your host, philip Pape, and this twice a week podcast is dedicated to helping you achieve physical self mastery by getting stronger, optimizing your nutrition and upgrading your body composition.
- 0:27Philip Pape: People uncover science backed strategies for movement, metabolism, muscle and mindset with a skeptical eye on the fitness industry, so you can look and feel your absolute best.
- 0:38Philip Pape: Let's dive right in.
- 0:42Philip Pape: Today we're diving into the psychology of procrastination.
- 0:46Philip Pape: You know what I'm talking about.
- 0:48Philip Pape: You have these tasks sitting there waiting to get done and you just delay.
- 0:52Philip Pape: You delay, delay even the important ones.
- 0:54Philip Pape: And you're not alone.
- 0:55Philip Pape: We all do it, I do it.
- 0:56Philip Pape: It's just a time management issue, though it's an emotional one, and I want to conquer this together with you today over the next few minutes.
- 1:05Philip Pape: The first one is the big, complex task.
- 1:08Philip Pape: It's just so massive that you feel overwhelmed.
- 1:11Philip Pape: The trick here is to break it down, set a timer for 30 minutes or even just five minutes, and start with one small piece, because oftentimes with procrastination.
- 1:21Philip Pape: The hardest part is just starting.
- 1:23Philip Pape: You know how, when you start on that task, all of a sudden the stress just drops, even though you've only gotten a few minutes of it done.
- 1:30Philip Pape: That's what I'm talking about.
- 1:31Philip Pape: The second one is fear of not being good enough to do the task.
- 1:37Philip Pape: This is where you're worried that your work is not going to measure up, and I suggest talking to someone you trust.
- 1:44Philip Pape: This is where a mentor, a friend, a brother, a sister, a confidant can provide the encouragement and perspective that you need to kickstart your motivation.
- 1:53Philip Pape: The third is paralysis by analysis.
- 1:57Philip Pape: There's so many choices, too many options, that it just paralyzes you.
- 2:01Philip Pape: Here, the goal is to narrow down your focus, narrow it down to three interesting starting points and then just pick one.
- 2:10Philip Pape: You can use a mind map to clarify your focus and see your goal more clearly, but really it's just to narrow your focus down to a smaller set of choices and then pick one.
- 2:21Philip Pape: The fourth unmet need is the need for perfection.
- 2:24Philip Pape: Those of us who are the perfectionists out there, the obsessive types, and you're just looking for that perfect starting point.
- 2:30Philip Pape: Everything has to be just right before you get it done, before you even start.
- 2:34Philip Pape: What you can do here is just take time and list what needs to be done, put it into a logical order and then get started.
- 2:42Philip Pape: It actually is as simple as that, because you're paralyzing yourself with the need for perfection and all you need is a starting point.
- 2:50Philip Pape: All right, procrastination might seem complex.
- 2:52Philip Pape: It has to do with all these unmet needs related to taking action perfection, paralysis by analysis, relationships, whatever.
- 2:58Philip Pape: If you can identify which of these is holding you back, you can tailor your approach, overcome procrastination and shift into overdrive.
- 3:06Philip Pape: Thank you for tuning in to another episode of Wits and Weights.
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- 3:26Philip Pape: Until then, stay strong.