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Hell Hath Frozen Over, Trey Has A Girlfriend | Tuesday November 4, 2025 · The Treehouse Show Podcast

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  Speaker 1: Want more Treehouse, check out our YouTube exclusive shows at
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  Speaker 2: It is time to leave your worries outside and laugh
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  Speaker 2: with us inside the Treehouse. I'm Daniel Malley along with
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  Speaker 2: Trey Trenholm and Raj Sharma. Welcome to the Treehouse Show.
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  Speaker 2: A young lady on TikTok just charted the entire male
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  Speaker 2: species according to what she says is there dating app behavior?
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  Speaker 2: Jesse went viral for unveiling her so called men diagram.
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  Speaker 3: To present you all what I like to call a
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  Speaker 3: men diagram.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, In this men diagram, so for those that don't
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  Speaker 2: know what even diagram is, that's the circles that are
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  Speaker 2: drawn have words in them and representing something and then
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  Speaker 2: they overlap and intersect. Right, So in this men diagram,
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  Speaker 2: you've got the three big circles handsome, smart, and nice.
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  Speaker 2: So these are the goals I guess she's got for
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  Speaker 2: finding a man on a dating app. And then inside
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  Speaker 2: that you've got nerd, jerk, and dumb, and then the
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  Speaker 2: smallest point of intersection in the middle of all of it.
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  Speaker 2: Gay All right, okay, do uh I know you've only
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  Speaker 2: seen this diagram briefly but have you figured out the
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  Speaker 2: problem with it?
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  Speaker 4: What do you mean.
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  Speaker 2: That gay is in the middle. So basically, she's saying,
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  Speaker 2: if you're all of these things on the dating apps,
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  Speaker 2: then you are gay.
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  Speaker 1: Oh okay, I mean kind of like the hot crazy matrix,
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  Speaker 1: which involves which involves the which is more of a
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  Speaker 1: yeah line diagram of the you know, hot on one axis,
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  Speaker 1: crazy on the other, and if you yo are tops
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  Speaker 1: in both, you're a dude.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, let's hear more of her in depth beliefs
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  Speaker 2: on dating apps and men, well feast.
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  Speaker 3: Your eyes upon. Okay, Me and my friends refer to
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  Speaker 3: the men diagram often. I often send it to men
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  Speaker 3: that I'm talking to when I used to be on
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  Speaker 3: dating apps, and it's a good time. Now. In the comments,
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  Speaker 3: if the men end up here, I would like you
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  Speaker 3: to comment where you fall on the men diagram. Now, ladies,
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  Speaker 3: I would like you to comment what you think. Almost
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  Speaker 3: every single man I've ever showed this men diagram to
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  Speaker 3: has answered and how it physically could not be their
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  Speaker 3: answer because if I told you why, it would give
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  Speaker 3: away what the answer was.
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  Speaker 2: But I want you you're not giving anything away.
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  Speaker 4: She's so dull, I can't even begin to explain how
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  Speaker 4: bored I am.
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  Speaker 2: Talk.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, I can't even imagine going on a date with
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  Speaker 4: this girl. Like already, I'm like, can you shut up?
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  Speaker 2: Well, just imagine how excited you might be if you
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  Speaker 2: match with her on a dating app and the first
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  Speaker 2: thing she does is sends you this diagram.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So the joke, the joke that all the guys make
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  Speaker 2: on her video and in general, I'm sure in her
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  Speaker 2: responses that she's referring to is that we all respond with.
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  Speaker 2: But I'm not going so she thinks that's a sad
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  Speaker 2: joke to make. It's like, well, that's what the photo is.
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  Speaker 2: You're saying that in order to be in order to
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  Speaker 2: encompass all of these traits, then you could only be gay, gotcha.
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  Speaker 2: I simply say, there could just be another diagram out there.
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  Speaker 2: This one just happens to be the one that leads
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  Speaker 2: down the gay path. There could just be another one
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  Speaker 2: that just makes you a dude unicorn that you possess
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  Speaker 2: all these things, but you happen to not be gay.
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  Speaker 4: After two minutes of listening to her talk, I would
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  Speaker 4: have been like, I'm I hate to tell young gay.
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  Speaker 2: Uh, that's just I'm about the diagram that did it.
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  Speaker 4: It was you, You made me gay after fifty years,
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  Speaker 4: you know what.
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  Speaker 2: It wasn't until I talk to you that I thought.
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  Speaker 2: You know what, today I'd like to try some That's
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  Speaker 2: what i'd like today.
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  Speaker 4: I want to you make me want dudes. God, I
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  Speaker 4: just can't imagine talking to her for longer than this video.
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  Speaker 2: There's look I stopped at early. There's more she's got.
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  Speaker 2: She doesn't say anything, but there's more to the video,
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  Speaker 2: and then she posts a follow up. But the follow
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  Speaker 2: up is as useful as she is in general. But
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  Speaker 2: it's still I mean, this whole thing has gone viral
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  Speaker 2: because of its ridiculous nature. That's how it came across
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  Speaker 2: my eyeballs, and that's why I wanted to present it
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  Speaker 2: to you. Guys. Here is look, dating is hard. Dating
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  Speaker 2: is hard now. Dating was hard twenty years ago. Dating
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  Speaker 2: has always been hard. Okay, that's not fair. There was
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  Speaker 2: the old days, in the caveman days where he just
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  Speaker 2: bomped a woman on the head with the club, dragged
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  Speaker 2: her back to your cave. That's not actually dating. So
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  Speaker 2: I guess I could still say dating is hard.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's much harder now than it was even twenty
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  Speaker 1: years ago, hell, even ten years ago.
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  Speaker 4: But you know, I also I think you could look at.
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  Speaker 1: That diagram and go, uh, you know, how do guys
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  Speaker 1: react to being a boring bitch?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, we're in need of some other. Yeah, it's like
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  Speaker 2: maybe it's you. That's the social media account that I
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  Speaker 2: saw this on. That's the comment I posted from the
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  Speaker 2: Treehouse on Air account, just simply saying, who wants to
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  Speaker 2: tell her the real problem?
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  Speaker 4: Too much pink? What's the common denominator? Yeah, that's what
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  Speaker 4: it's like.
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  Speaker 2: Uh, if we were to do because lots of the
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  Speaker 2: comments in the video also point out it's like I
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  Speaker 2: wonder what the woman's diagram would look like. Uh, it's basically,
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  Speaker 2: you know, a circle with women in accountability, but they
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  Speaker 2: rarely ever cross.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. I mean like I hadn't you know. My ex
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  Speaker 4: was like, you know, women don't don't really get along
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  Speaker 4: with me, Like that's why I don't have a lot
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  Speaker 4: of female friends. And I'm like, it's you. Women want
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  Speaker 4: to get along with other women. Uh they do, but
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  Speaker 4: you're just yeah, And so when I see this lady,
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, ah, same same stuff.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. There's it's interesting because I've i've seen this with
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  Speaker 2: a few women in my life where they have said like, ah,
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  Speaker 2: women don't like me, blah blah blah blah blah. After
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  Speaker 2: being around those examples, being around those females for a while,
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  Speaker 2: I began to realize why it was other women didn't
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  Speaker 2: like them. It was because she would basically their friends.
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  Speaker 3: Yes.
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  Speaker 4: Well, frankly, yeah, I know, I know, I know.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know why women just don't like me. Well,
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  Speaker 2: you've got to stop being their boyfriends. That's a big
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  Speaker 2: part of it.
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  Speaker 4: The problem just might.
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  Speaker 1: Be you women are harder on other women like then,
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  Speaker 1: like guys are not. Guys are not near as hard
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  Speaker 1: on other guys as women are on other women.
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  Speaker 2: We don't have to be because we know how hard
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  Speaker 2: on us women can be. System. That's why bros are bros.
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  Speaker 2: That's why it's bros before hose. It's because, buddy, I
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  Speaker 2: know what you've been through.
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  Speaker 4: It's like that episode of uh Friends where he, you know,
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  Speaker 4: dating the girl Ross's dating the girl Julian and then
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  Speaker 4: ends up kissing Rachel and then they talk about it,
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  Speaker 4: and there's two different shots when the girl's like, you know,
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  Speaker 4: how was it? It's like, you know, slow at first,
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  Speaker 4: and then it was passionate. He grab my hair, and
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  Speaker 4: then it cuts to the guys. It's like, so I
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  Speaker 4: kissed her. It's like tongue yeah, solid, good job, good job, buddy.
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  Speaker 4: That's it.
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  Speaker 2: We're not We're not. We don't care how good your
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  Speaker 2: technique is. You did it good.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. So I can see why this went viral. I
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  Speaker 4: get the the idea behind it, uh, but it's still
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  Speaker 4: that person like I don't I don't know what her
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  Speaker 4: history of dating uh is and how many guys she's
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  Speaker 4: gone out with that she created this then diagram, but
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  Speaker 4: I think it's just it should just be one circle
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  Speaker 4: and say me.
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  Speaker 2: My fault.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I think that's what like like my new girlfriend.
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  Speaker 1: I think one of the things I I think makes us.
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  Speaker 4: Click is.
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  Speaker 1: She doesn't seem to have the excessive need for communication
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  Speaker 1: that a lot of women do.
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  Speaker 2: I would like to point out right here and now
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  Speaker 2: two things. Number one tradeous girlfriend. So it's official, it
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  Speaker 2: is number two. I hear wedding bells. I just want
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  Speaker 2: to go on the record, having called it this early
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  Speaker 2: in the relationship. The date at time of recording November third,
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  Speaker 2: twenty twenty five, twelve forty seven Atlantic Standard time ten
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  Speaker 2: forty seven Central time, just so it's noted well.
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  Speaker 4: And I said that to you know, Amy, my best friend.
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  Speaker 1: You know you've known Amy Newman Mack and I love
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  Speaker 1: her to death. We've been friends for over thirty years.
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  Speaker 1: And I have been asked like, how come y'all never dated?
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  Speaker 1: And I'm like, I don't. We just never, We're never
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  Speaker 1: in that position, Like I've never thought of Amy that way.
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  Speaker 4: What are the reasons?
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  Speaker 3: Is?
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  Speaker 1: And I love her to death, but Amy's need for
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  Speaker 1: communication is epic. Yeah, like and here, so we had
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  Speaker 1: at three coin for some reason, Randy had a pet scorpion.
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  Speaker 4: Don't ask me why, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: And it was in a bowl whatever and uh, you know,
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  Speaker 1: feed at crickets whatever. Well the scorpion died last week.
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  Speaker 1: Oh and for your lost, I was glad to see
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  Speaker 1: it go.
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  Speaker 2: Uh but did you have the service?
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  Speaker 4: Did the guys from the scorpion show up to see?
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  Speaker 1: But this is so I I told Amy, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I asked her about it, and she starts talking, you know,
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  Speaker 1: like why just don't know what happened? I mean, and
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  Speaker 1: like she would have talked for ten minutes about everything. Well,
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  Speaker 1: I gave it crickets and did this and that.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know. It's like sometimes things just die, just
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  Speaker 4: like this conversation. Can we stop about the scorpion? Now?
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  Speaker 4: What do you want to eat?
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  Speaker 2: I'd also like to point out that Trey, you have
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  Speaker 2: a hell of a time picking bosses.
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  Speaker 4: There's some de counseling that could be going on here.
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  Speaker 2: November three, twenty twenty five the date not only that
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  Speaker 2: we recorded this episode, but the date where Trey told
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  Speaker 2: me and Raj that the new he started dating very
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  Speaker 2: recently is now his girlfriend. So first of all, let
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  Speaker 2: me find what I'm looking for, if possible. Congratulations wrong button, yep, congratulations.
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  Speaker 4: Was waiting for the part button.
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  Speaker 2: I don't have those loaded yet, still sound effects loaded
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  Speaker 2: into yet, but I'll get there. A sincere congratulations Trey.
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  Speaker 4: Thank you.
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  Speaker 2: For those that don't know, Trey told us on a
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  Speaker 2: previous episode that I believe was on our Patreon that
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  Speaker 2: he found him a new lady friend the old fashioned
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  Speaker 2: way by scamming a listener. Uh.
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  Speaker 4: She reached out to me, I wouldn't even know.
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  Speaker 2: You're right, I shouldn't have said that you were scamming listener.
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  Speaker 2: But basically, uh, the old fashioned way to find someone
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  Speaker 2: to date when you're in a on a platform like
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  Speaker 2: this is to basically just date the listeners and that's
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  Speaker 2: what tray the position he found himself in. So but
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  Speaker 2: since here, congratulations, very very happy for you. Uh So,
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  Speaker 2: how long ago was your first date?
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  Speaker 4: A month ago?
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  Speaker 2: All right, so one month then and it's now official
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  Speaker 2: exclusive status. How long did it take before you had
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  Speaker 2: that conversation?
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  Speaker 4: I mean it was just last week, so man, basically
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  Speaker 4: a month into it.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, cool. I was just curious, just worried, Just not worry.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just curious of the timeline.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I when I've had that conversation before
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  Speaker 4: in the past. I just we're adults now, right, It's
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  Speaker 4: not like we're kids anymore. So I'm just like, hey,
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  Speaker 4: you want to keep doing this because this is the sounds,
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  Speaker 4: this is great and oh the ex civity. Yeah, I
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  Speaker 4: did it. It was kind of a.
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  Speaker 1: It was a playful way. She h got us massages
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  Speaker 1: and you had to fill out paperwork of like a
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  Speaker 1: person like if it was yeah, like a contact person
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  Speaker 1: and I was like yeah, and.
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  Speaker 4: Relationship and I was like girlfriend and she was like yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I was like, all right, there's so many, so much
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  Speaker 4: wrong that could be happening.
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  Speaker 2: Well it was there. There are There are many points
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  Speaker 2: to be made on your now girlfriend being your emergency
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  Speaker 2: contact at a massage, the first of which is what
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  Speaker 2: if there's a fire and you're both inside.
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  Speaker 4: It wasn't.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think it was emergency contact. It was because
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  Speaker 1: we were doing it together. Like what is the relationship
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  Speaker 1: of that this person to you?
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  Speaker 2: Oh? Okay? Well that that was another question I had,
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  Speaker 2: which is so she she was your emergency contact before
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  Speaker 2: she was your girlfriend?
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  Speaker 1: I asked first, that's what I said. Kind of brought
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  Speaker 1: it up in a playful way. But I like her
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  Speaker 1: a lot, and yeah, that's sweet.
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  Speaker 2: What was her response when you asked her about filling
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  Speaker 2: it out? What you say.
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  Speaker 4: Said, like I love it or whatever? It was cool? Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: Well she doesn't communicate as much, so what you're expecting
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  Speaker 4: her to say?
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  Speaker 2: Dan, Okay, I'm just asking questions. I'm just curious.
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  Speaker 4: No, she I mean, she's still a girl. But everything.
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  Speaker 1: So far, I mean, she's even like she was before
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  Speaker 1: she went into she called shark week.
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  Speaker 4: She warned me.
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  Speaker 1: She was like, Hey, just so you know, I get
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  Speaker 1: a little emotional around this time. You know, I'll always
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  Speaker 1: generally give you a warning, but uh, you know, if
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  Speaker 1: I'm ever like, are you mad at me? Whatever I
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  Speaker 1: do wrong? Here she goes, she goes, just tell me, hey,
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  Speaker 1: you're being overemotional. It's your shark week. And she's like,
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  Speaker 1: I'll snap out of it. I'm like, okay, she's like,
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  Speaker 1: along with your leg No, I mean she was like,
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  Speaker 1: sorry if that was too much information, I'm like, no,
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  Speaker 1: I would much rather have that information on the front end.
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  Speaker 4: That makes my life so much easier.
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  Speaker 2: It really does. Yeah, I also like that she refers
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  Speaker 2: to it as shark week blood in the water.
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  Speaker 4: But yeah, my girlfriend's also a listener. She has has
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  Speaker 4: been for quite some time.
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  Speaker 2: I am so proud of you too. I just hope
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  Speaker 2: that your dating of a listener goes better than my dad.
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  Speaker 4: Uh yeah, so I think, you know, we don't get insurance,
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  Speaker 4: so we might as well get something for being on
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  Speaker 4: the show or not. I might as well get a
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  Speaker 4: girlfriend out of the deal.
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  Speaker 2: That's right. Yeah, And it's automatically a cool girlfriend if
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  Speaker 2: she's a listener.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean the truth of matter is, especially going
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  Speaker 1: back to the radio days, I wouldn't do it just
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  Speaker 1: out of the just fear that if something, you know, somehow,
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  Speaker 1: if Russ would find out and just make your life
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  Speaker 1: absolutely living hell.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and next thing, you know, your life is a
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  Speaker 2: living bit that's being played with, which happened to some anyway.
• 20:44
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: The uh so the other thing? So okay, so you
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: have the new girlfriend you it's official now, very exciting.
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: I like how you mentioned before this is why I
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: picked my curiosity. How she's an open communicator, but she's concise, yes,
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: which is perfect for you. And that's why I said
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: I smell wedding bills, because I've been around a number
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: of your relationships, not all of them, but a number
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: of them. And hearing you refer to this situation in
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: that way, I saw your eyes light up.
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: You're like, oh, it's it's been great so far. I mean,
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: I I and one of the other things that I
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: give her so many bonus points for is and to
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: point out so like she's coming over, you know, comes
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: over to my place. If Daisy starts eating, I have
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: to help her, like I literally I have to about
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: every so often go stir food up because she has
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: no teeth, and so it just gets pressed down and
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: she can't get to it. A lot of if people
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: would get very irritated by the fact that that is
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: grabbing my attention more than other things.
• 22:08
  Speaker 4: She's completely cool with it.
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: She gets it, and so she gets huge bonus points
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: for that.
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: That is that is a massive thing to understand your
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: role in Trey's world, because in Trey's world, it's Daisy
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: number one. God might be even with Daisy, depending on
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: the moment, maybe the hour just kind of depends. Then
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: probably Trey, because you got to put yourself, if not
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: number one, near the top. You got to take care
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: of you, right, that's a good thing nowadays, not bad.
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: And then you have an open slot. You might have
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: three or four open slots before we get to Tray's mom.
• 22:47
  Speaker 4: Oh oh, you've got a lot more than.
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: Three or four.
• 22:56
  Speaker 4: This also lets you know that Tray's mom doesn't listen.
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: I mean, but it's important for her to know that
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: that's sort of the hierarchy in Trey's life. And you're right, Trey,
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: not not everyone in a relationship is going to be
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: as understanding about that.
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: No, some people would be very uh best case scenario, irritated.
• 23:16
  Speaker 4: Some people would be threatened by it.
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: So it's maybe she sees it as the promising indicator
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: that it is, which is, if you treat Trey as
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: well as Daisy has throughout his life, he will spoon
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: feed you to the day you die.
• 23:42
  Speaker 4: I think that's what she I think that's what kind
• 23:44
  Speaker 4: of she sees. She's like, well, one day, what if
• 23:46
  Speaker 4: I have no teeth, who's going to start my food?
• 23:48
  Speaker 4: And there's it's like, I got the spoon baby, let's
• 23:51
  Speaker 4: do it. Well, here is something.
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: Or if I go outside and take a leak in
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: the grass and get bit on the privates by a spider, Trey's.
• 23:59
  Speaker 4: Going to be with the young Uh huh. But you
• 24:04
  Speaker 4: know what here this is.
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: I look back at my last relationship and one of
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: the biggest red flags that I should have looked at
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: and going I get out of this is would you
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: leave if something happened to you? Would you leave your
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: pets to that person that you're dating. My last relationship
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: is an absolute hell No.
• 24:30
  Speaker 4: Yeah, mine mine gotting both my dogs in the divorce.
• 24:33
  Speaker 4: I guess we weren't married, but she got both my
• 24:36
  Speaker 4: dogs and I'm not allowed, Like there's no communication, so
• 24:38
  Speaker 4: I'm not even allowed to see my own dogs.
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I mean that, But I'm just talking about like,
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: if you died, would you trust that person to take
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: care of your animals in a good way?
• 24:48
  Speaker 4: Yeah?
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: And if not, you're right, that absolutely should be a
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: deal breaker type situation.
• 24:53
  Speaker 4: Yeah. My act was very good with the dogs, very
• 24:56
  Speaker 4: very good with the dogs. So yeah, I had no
• 24:58
  Speaker 4: no issue with that. There was a many other red
• 25:01
  Speaker 4: flags besides animal welfare, but she was great. I mean,
• 25:05
  Speaker 4: the dog's lover, so she takes care of them. She
• 25:09
  Speaker 4: feeds them and takes them for walks and all that
• 25:11
  Speaker 4: good stuff. So yeah, I didn't have a problem with that.
• 25:13
  Speaker 4: It's just she didn't have any friends. That was the
• 25:16
  Speaker 4: red flag. I didn't mind the love of my animals.
• 25:21
  Speaker 4: It's like, one, are your friends coming over? Oh don't
• 25:25
  Speaker 4: have any Okay, that's a problem.
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: And yeah, as long as you know, because in that
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: hierarchy of love, you know, my mother would fall somewhere
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: between mosquitoes and Jerry Jones, the GM Jesus Christ.
• 25:41
  Speaker 4: I like how the scorpion just won.
• 25:48
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• 26:39
  Speaker 2: have a massive update on the infected escaped monkey story
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: from last week. Before we get to that, just one
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: more quick question about Trey and his new girlfriend Trey,
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: have you guys made it social media official? Is that
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: still a thing on Facebook where you can say in
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: a relationship with and you tag the person.
• 26:59
  Speaker 4: You can I mean it's it's still I'm sure you can't.
• 27:01
  Speaker 4: We have not discussed that. I don't.
• 27:04
  Speaker 3: Uh.
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: I did that setting update with with my wife who's
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: now my wife, but we I made that that setting
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: adjustment back in like two thousand and nine when Facebook
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: was actually kind of cool. So I don't even know
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: what the current situation is on when you have a
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: new relationship. That's why I was curious.
• 27:22
  Speaker 4: I I hadn't even actually even pondered that, uh, because
• 27:30
  Speaker 4: of the three I probably I don't.
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: Use Facebook near as much as I used to, so
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: and what I do, what it does go there is
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: usually you know, a link from what I post on Instagram,
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: so I don't yeah, uh, but yeah, she listens, So
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: I guess we'll have this discussion.
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: You know, is this really is an excellent way to
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: to you know, broke certain topics in the relationship is
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: talk about him here, So it kind of kind of
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: eases into it for her and then you guys could
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: have the talk if need be about whatever.
• 28:06
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but like I always bring it up. I'm like,
• 28:08
  Speaker 4: you didn't, like I signed up for the like I
• 28:10
  Speaker 4: signed up for this kick right, Like I signed up
• 28:12
  Speaker 4: to do stand up and be in the public space
• 28:15
  Speaker 4: or whatever it is. You did not, So if you
• 28:17
  Speaker 4: don't want to, like even when I got married, I asked,
• 28:20
  Speaker 4: Clario was like, we don't have to post anything about it,
• 28:23
  Speaker 4: like because you didn't sign up for this gig. Yeah,
• 28:27
  Speaker 4: like you didn't sign up to be a part of
• 28:30
  Speaker 4: the you know whatever the space is.
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: So and that's another discussion to have as well, when
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: when it sounds like an ego thing, but it's not.
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: It is our reality. Especially when we were on a
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: top rated radio show in the fifth large market in
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: the country. When you have a personal relationship, that one
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: of the discussions as that relationship progresses is involvement or not.
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: And in discussions on the show or actual participation in
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: shows social media stuff, are you going to make that
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: social media official? Do you want to be somewhat in
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: that light or completely not? So that's that's a whole
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: other discussion that for us in our position that we
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: have to have with people in our lives and not
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: not just romantic This works for family and friends as well.
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: So that's kind of a discussion you have with them
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: if you feel the need.
• 29:28
  Speaker 4: Yeah, my thought I was hiding her. She's like, you
• 29:30
  Speaker 4: don't you want people to know about us? I'm like, okay,
• 29:33
  Speaker 4: I can. And then you'll have all these people that
• 29:36
  Speaker 4: will start following you and start making comments on your
• 29:39
  Speaker 4: page or whatever it is. Do you want that no,
• 29:42
  Speaker 4: that I'm not hiding you. I'm trying to explain to
• 29:45
  Speaker 4: you that that's what's going to happen.
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, there's a difference between hiding and protecting.
• 29:49
  Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah. I mean when I had my fortieth birthday
• 29:53
  Speaker 4: in La it made that Time Out magazine. It was
• 29:59
  Speaker 4: just me and my b Sunkish who was on Castle
• 30:03
  Speaker 4: and Russell Peterson were just hanging out by his car
• 30:05
  Speaker 4: and that I'm like, you don't want to do like,
• 30:07
  Speaker 4: you don't want that? Yeah, Like that's annoying. But she
• 30:11
  Speaker 4: thought I was hiding with this. But my girlfriend now
• 30:13
  Speaker 4: is cool. She's like, yeah, I'm completely cool. So I listened.
• 30:16
  Speaker 4: I listen to you talk about us, but I don't
• 30:18
  Speaker 4: mention her name. I don't wunch what she does and nothing.
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: So and that's why a lot of times in the past,
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: depending on individual cast members relationships and the results of
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: those conversations might be whether or not that person gets
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: talked about it all if they do, or are they
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: given a pseudonym to protect their identity kind of a thing. So,
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: I mean, these are all things that have absolutely happened.
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: So these are things that are now that Raj, You're
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: having the conversation with your lady about and Trey will
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: or has have with his lady. I mean now to
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: mention just in general for social media stuff, forget the show,
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: but just from friends and families to point do you
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: go TikTok official or not well?
• 31:02
  Speaker 4: And and.
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: Like I said, you want to talk about the flip
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: side of it of again, Amy my best friend. She
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: is currently married but getting a divorced from Big Al
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: from the Deocratic Show. And she is consistently and I
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: mean I'll say he wasn't a good husband and uh,
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: but obviously he doesn't say that on the air. He
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: you know, trays himself as the victim. And she's gotten
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: all sorts of awful you know, things sent to her
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: from from listeners of the show who don't have a
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: damn clue and it she is one of the most sensitive,
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: thoughtful people in the world and it's it devastates her
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: mm hm yeah uh And so yeah, there, I mean,
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: there is a there is a downside to being linked
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: to any of this.
• 31:53
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, when when Clarion I split up, I mean
• 31:56
  Speaker 4: people were messaging me like I can't believe you know
• 31:58
  Speaker 4: what a bitch or what I'm like, No, no, we're
• 32:00
  Speaker 4: really good friends. We just didn't marriage wasn't good for us.
• 32:04
  Speaker 4: It just didn't work for us. But people were the
• 32:07
  Speaker 4: same thing, Like people that I'm like, I have seen
• 32:10
  Speaker 4: you perform, I've seen you live. You're super funny, you're
• 32:12
  Speaker 4: very nice, you're very cordial. I can't believe she would.
• 32:15
  Speaker 4: I'm like, we both decided, and so she was getting
• 32:17
  Speaker 4: grief for it. But again, like I said, you know,
• 32:21
  Speaker 4: when are we going to sign up for for this space?
• 32:25
  Speaker 4: You're going to get that grief Like that's going to happen.
• 32:27
  Speaker 4: It's unfortunate, but also joy like when we had good
• 32:31
  Speaker 4: moments like an anniversary, like people would chime in as well.
• 32:33
  Speaker 4: So there's two sides, I mean to a situation.
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: Like that, and there's another positive side to it. Whether
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: it is you dating or married to one of us,
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: or if you were just a hardcore listener, we love you.
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: And because of that, you get to hear about stories
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: like this, m.
• 32:57
  Speaker 4: It scares of me.
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: Last week we told you about a bunch of lab
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: monkeys infected with herpes, hepatitis SEA and COVID that escaped
• 33:05
  Speaker 2: from a truck crash in Mississippi. Well, now we have
• 33:08
  Speaker 2: learned that a Mississippi mom shot the last monkey escapee
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: in order to protect her kids.
• 33:15
  Speaker 4: Yeah said that again, she shot it to protect her kids.
• 33:22
  Speaker 4: Uh huh was the monkey coming after her kids?
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 33:26
  Speaker 4: Wasn't the whole reason for the wreck? Pitch those of
• 33:31
  Speaker 4: my kids too.
• 33:34
  Speaker 2: The Mississippi mom is being hailed by neighbors after she
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: shot a loose Reeseus monkey to protect her kids in
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: the aftermath of that wild truck crash that spilled lab
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: monkeys near Heidelberg. Jessica bon Ferguson says she bolted out
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: of bed when her sixteen year old son spotted one
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: of the animals in their yard early Sunday, with police
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: still on the way in Facebook rumors flying about disease
• 33:54
  Speaker 2: carrying primates on the loose, the mother of five made
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: a snap call. She fired twice, dropping the monkey about
• 34:01
  Speaker 2: sixty feet from her home. She said she did what
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: any mom would do with aggressive animals running around and
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: children playing outside. So I guess some of her kids
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: were playing outside and she decided to take justice into
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: her own hands by putting that diseased monkey down. By
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: the way, it turns out, the monkeys were apparently not
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: as diseased as all the internet rumors what have you believe?
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: Officials later confirmed the primates were not infectious, despite initial
• 34:33
  Speaker 2: fear they could carry the serious diseases. The monkeys were
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: part of a shipment from Two Lanes's National Biomedical Research Center.
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: Twenty one were on board when the truck overturned last week.
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: Thirteen were recovered alive on site, five died during the search,
• 34:45
  Speaker 2: and three kept roaming until Sunday's incident. Wildlife Wildlife officers
• 34:50
  Speaker 2: have since taken control of the animal. Local authority say
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: the monkeys still needed to be neutralized due to aggressive behavior.
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: I wish I don't know if you saw did You'll
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: see the video of there was a Spirit store like
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: outside of Houston that there was a I think it
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: was a capuchin monkey on the loose, climbing in the rafters.
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: That was in Plano.
• 35:13
  Speaker 4: Was it in Plano? I thought it was Houston.
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: Oh, the story I saw had that in Plano. It
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: was paper. It is something One of the animatronics had
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: scared it, so it jumped off its owner and was
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: up in the rafters of the Spirit Halloween Store.
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: There was part of me that was kind of amazed
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: that someone didn't you know start firing at it.
• 35:33
  Speaker 4: I'm with you, I'm absolutely with Plano. They just gave
• 35:37
  Speaker 4: it heroin, so it's uh in this story they called
• 35:41
  Speaker 4: it a cookie.
• 35:52
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