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HOW DID YOU KNOW YOU WERE BETTER OFF ALONE? · Relatables

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  Speaker 1: Coming up on relatables. What's something you never thought could
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  Speaker 1: be embarrassing until you saw a man do it? Sending nudes?
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  Speaker 2: That is so fair?
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  Speaker 1: What thinking about a man like taking his clothes off,
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  Speaker 1: like getting set up in a mirror mine.
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  Speaker 2: Thinking I'm looking good? Relatable? The Relatables podcast is has
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  Speaker 2: to Buy Myself. Jake Craig aka Daddy and my I
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  Speaker 2: want to say, how do I say this? Travel buddy?
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  Speaker 1: Travel buddy?
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  Speaker 2: What is it? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, tourists, tourists.
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  Speaker 2: We are tourists, tourists in crime Audi a k A.
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  Speaker 2: Mummy and what his mummy? Because he's the when you
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  Speaker 2: go to when you're feeling homesick.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and Jake is Daddy because he's the one who
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  Speaker 1: pays for the holidays. Let's go and you guys listening
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  Speaker 1: are the baddies. And this podcast is hopefully for you
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  Speaker 1: guys who find a sense of belonging.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: But guys, let's address the elephant in the room. New studio,
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  Speaker 1: the room being the elephant. We've got a brand new
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  Speaker 1: studio now. We are currently resigned out of Bali Changu, Indonesia.
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  Speaker 2: The elephant in the room is these fucking monster cords
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  Speaker 2: on the cords are out.
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  Speaker 1: It's a dangerous game, mate, it's just too hot for gen.
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  Speaker 1: Oh guys, I've said before too, should we do an
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  Speaker 1: episode in like Muscle Teas And Jake's like.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no no.
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  Speaker 1: I actually have a bone to pick of you to start. Actually,
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  Speaker 1: so on the podcast, I said, can we wear muscle Teas?
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  Speaker 3: No?
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  Speaker 1: No, no, it's cringel. You go to an event for
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  Speaker 1: a brand without me wearing. Don't say without you as
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  Speaker 1: if you could have gone. I was here in Balley exactly,
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  Speaker 1: so I went for us. I'll give you props that
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  Speaker 1: you went without me on your own. No, Beth came
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  Speaker 1: to steak you couldn't have Yeah, you couldn't have gone
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  Speaker 1: by yourself. But I see the photos posted. Guns are out.
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  Speaker 1: I've been wanting this for years and you've been saying no, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: no no where.
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  Speaker 2: Wear a muscle tea all you want. I don't care.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just not wearing one.
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  Speaker 1: On the podcast, two questions, did you come straight from
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  Speaker 1: the gym? Or did you pick that outfit? You have?
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  Speaker 2: You picked it? How dare you that morning I cut
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  Speaker 2: the sleeves off that ship? Did you.
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  Speaker 1: Can't rip them right now?
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  Speaker 2: No? Not this one. Actually, they don't even have sleeves. Really,
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  Speaker 2: they don't have sleeves. No, it's kind of the sleeves
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  Speaker 2: and this half funky.
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  Speaker 1: Relatables merch guys. You can't buy it at the moment
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  Speaker 1: because we can't ship it.
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  Speaker 2: No. I look, you can wear a muscle tea on
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  Speaker 2: the episode. Yeah, I just can't bring myself to do
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  Speaker 2: it because I don't know what it is. Yay, this
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  Speaker 2: is crazy to say, but because we do work out,
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  Speaker 2: we actually this is we actually do have some muscle, right,
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  Speaker 2: and so if we wear muscle tees, I feel like
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  Speaker 2: we're purposely showing it off, as if like we think
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  Speaker 2: that's gonna get views.
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  Speaker 1: You're gonna win too good.
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  Speaker 4: No, no, no, it's going to be like I feel. I
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  Speaker 4: feel as though because if I see someone wearing like
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  Speaker 4: a tight tank or or a wife beat or whatever
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  Speaker 4: on on a podcast, Cliff, I think, all right, buddy.
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  Speaker 2: We get it. You're huge, and I'm just like, I'm
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  Speaker 2: not for Beth.
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  Speaker 1: So either we're going to be true, but so either
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  Speaker 1: we're going to be full of ourselves or we'd have
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  Speaker 1: to be skinny little dweebs to wear them. I feel like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I honestly think so I reckon you could wear one man, right, Okay, two.
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  Speaker 2: Bones or just one? Think I only said one. Anything
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  Speaker 2: else that you've been doing studio. So yeah, we're in
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  Speaker 2: We're in Indo.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, we are in Indo, which is really makes me
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  Speaker 1: feel something reminiscing because when we started the podcast, we
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  Speaker 1: hadn't quit our full time jobs. When we came to
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  Speaker 1: Bali and we did a six weeks on tour Indonesia
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  Speaker 1: style episodes and when we came back, we decided not
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  Speaker 1: to go to work. So Indonesia has a special special.
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  Speaker 2: Place in my heart. I may it was fun. It
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  Speaker 2: was so much fun.
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  Speaker 1: And last time we brought like our microphones, all the wiring,
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  Speaker 1: our audio processing equipment, all the boring stuff and did
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  Speaker 1: it all ourselves.
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  Speaker 2: Well, we planned and we planned to record the podcast
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  Speaker 2: in the villas we were staying, yeah, and then we
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  Speaker 2: just looked up Lighthouse where we are right now, and
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  Speaker 2: we were like that looks actually really good and also
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  Speaker 2: props to Lighthouse. It's been two years and we've recorded
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  Speaker 2: it plenty of studios. We recorded in studios in Sydney.
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  Speaker 2: We recorded it Spotify's La headquarters, best studio they have
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  Speaker 2: their lighthouse is better. I don't know what they've done.
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  Speaker 5: I know it honestly is better quality of and we
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  Speaker 5: go off the quality of the cameras.
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  Speaker 2: For some reason, that's what we go off.
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  Speaker 1: Also, we're not getting paid to say this. No, this
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  Speaker 1: is just like our personal experience.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, boring, but who cares. We're just talking about ourselves. Guys,
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  Speaker 2: we want to go straight into it. Yeah, let's not
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  Speaker 2: mess around. I g question of the Week this week, Oddie,
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  Speaker 2: what's something you never thought could be embarrassing until you
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  Speaker 2: saw a man do it? And Jake? When I was
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  Speaker 2: picking my answers, I.
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  Speaker 1: Was scrolling seeing things, I pretty much saw every single
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  Speaker 1: thing any person could ever do.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. I kind of was thinking like, okay, so us
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  Speaker 2: existing in this world is just in fact, but honestly fair. Hey,
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  Speaker 2: I gotta say, I feel like some stuff might get
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  Speaker 2: pointed out straight away. Men can't win, and I'm happy
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  Speaker 2: about it. Yeah, I can't argue with that. But yeah,
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  Speaker 2: some of these are funny, too, very funny. And also
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  Speaker 2: some of them I was thinking, like, yeah, to be
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  Speaker 2: honest with you, I didn't think that could be embarrassing,
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  Speaker 2: but picturing myself do it, I would want to wither
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  Speaker 2: up and die. I'm gonna be going around life second
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  Speaker 2: guessing my decisions. Now. Yeah, I rode here with a
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  Speaker 2: backpack on my back.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, I'm glad you were behind me. There were so
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  Speaker 1: many I didn't pick any, but there was so many
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  Speaker 1: liked dudes running with backpacks, wearing backpacks, running to the
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  Speaker 1: bus too, with a backpack on bus in general.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, getting the bus, running the public transport.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sorry if you don't being from I guess you
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  Speaker 1: could consider where we're from. We're from a small coastal town.
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  Speaker 1: But public transport isn't really a thing like it is,
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  Speaker 1: but no one uses I couldn't think. I know a
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  Speaker 1: lot of people in the city. It's very normal. But
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  Speaker 1: the bus or public transport is the biggest.
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  Speaker 2: Egg for me. I've told you about how so, Beth. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: the public transport is city. I live in Sydney. Now
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  Speaker 2: everyone knows is It's like amazing still And I was
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  Speaker 2: I was going to catch the bus one time to
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  Speaker 2: the and I fully got ready to go, and instead
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  Speaker 2: of turning left to the bus, I turned right to my.
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  Speaker 1: Car but to go first.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, please do right. Things you never thought could be
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  Speaker 2: embarrassing until you saw a man do it wearing invisible socks? Ah,
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  Speaker 2: what are they called sockets?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, wearing sockets they are embarrassing. But also do girls
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  Speaker 1: know when you're wearing them when they can't see your
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  Speaker 1: socks or do they think you're like raw dogging it?
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  Speaker 1: Are you row dog here right now?
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  Speaker 2: You know I have socks on, but they're just there.
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  Speaker 1: It is embarrassing. I think it's also I think it's
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  Speaker 1: embarrassing when so right now, say you were wearing sockets,
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  Speaker 1: not embarrassing, but you go home with a girl, take
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  Speaker 1: your shoes off and you've got sockets on, that's embarrassing.
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  Speaker 2: My question is if you were to go home with
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  Speaker 2: a dude who's got he's wearing shoes right and you
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  Speaker 2: can't see the socks. If you go home with him,
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  Speaker 2: would you prefer to see no socks at all and
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  Speaker 2: he's raw dog to the shoes or at least some sockets.
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  Speaker 1: I reckon raw dog e.
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  Speaker 2: Really, there's no way you can roar.
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  Speaker 1: Do sneakers shows he's a man, But no, it doesn't
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  Speaker 1: shows he wants athletes' foot He's got rough insane.
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  Speaker 2: There's a with socks, he says a.
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  Speaker 1: Barrier I feel like no socks is either like he's
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  Speaker 1: a man he's rough, or sockets means he's soft.
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  Speaker 2: I disagree. I think you need to see something I need,
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  Speaker 2: I need answer to this question.
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  Speaker 1: But I feel like opposite end of the spectrum is
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  Speaker 1: just like it's kind of cute.
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  Speaker 2: What sockets? Yeah, he's the thing ATID. I think it's
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  Speaker 2: okay to wear sockets if as soon as he takes
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  Speaker 2: his shoes off, he takes the sockets off as well.
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  Speaker 2: If he's walking around the house with sockets on. I
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  Speaker 2: also reckon, like, how big are your feet? Ten? Eleven?
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  Speaker 2: Like ten and a half?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'm ten. I feel like we can get
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  Speaker 1: away with it. Not and a half ten, I'm ten
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  Speaker 1: In some brands there still still still this goes off
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  Speaker 1: my point. We have small feet, so I feel like
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  Speaker 1: we could get away with it. Yeah, you're what one
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  Speaker 1: size beg you are? You said ten and a half
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  Speaker 1: of them. I am nine and a half ten.
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  Speaker 2: You are not nine and a half ten, You are
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  Speaker 2: eight and a half nine. This right here, right here now,
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  Speaker 2: UK nine and a half. Yeah, I go off the US.
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  Speaker 2: They don't know yours in the UK.
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  Speaker 1: Nine and half is actually a UK ten and a
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  Speaker 1: half men is actually ten.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, fuck you, I just see that your feet areways more.
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  Speaker 2: How is it? How are you fitting into them? Because
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  Speaker 2: I was sliding around in them in.
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  Speaker 1: Space because the size went to my willie. But what
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  Speaker 1: I was saying, what I was saying ahead, you've I
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  Speaker 1: actually have a tiny age. What I was saying, I
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  Speaker 1: feel like we could get away over it because we
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  Speaker 1: have small feet. If like, some dudes got like a
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  Speaker 1: size thirteen foot and he's got sockets on.
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  Speaker 2: Like that's just bad. Oh God, if someone has a
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  Speaker 2: size thirteen foot, he should be a swimmer.
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  Speaker 3: Bro.
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  Speaker 1: That guy's it's funny, how Yeah, I know it's funny.
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  Speaker 1: How but hurt men get with their shoe size. We
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  Speaker 1: had a friend once who won't name names, but they
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  Speaker 1: were at like a work Christmas party and he gave
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  Speaker 1: his boss ship for having small feet, and his boss
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  Speaker 1: like took it to heart and tried to fight him.
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  Speaker 1: His boss like pinned him up.
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  Speaker 2: Against the wall. Yeah, all for saying that.
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  Speaker 1: It was just like a joking. He like, we just
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  Speaker 1: did heart, Like, you've got.
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  Speaker 2: A small feet.
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  Speaker 1: I should come over there, and yeah, dudes do get insecure.
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  Speaker 2: We just spoke about sockets, trying to justify them for
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  Speaker 2: about five.
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  Speaker 1: All right, what's something you never thought could be embarrassing
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  Speaker 1: until you saw a man do it? Sending nudes?
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  Speaker 2: That is so fair?
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  Speaker 1: What thinking about a man like taking his clothes off,
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  Speaker 1: like getting set up in a mirror. Yeah, think I'm
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  Speaker 1: looking good?
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  Speaker 2: That is fu Yes, that's so true. Getting ready to
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  Speaker 2: take the photo too. Also, so he's my if I,
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  Speaker 2: if I, if I was to send one, I would
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  Speaker 2: send one like this right, just like really, I would
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  Speaker 2: do mirror. I would never have or not POV. I
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  Speaker 2: would never POV and I have my face in.
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  Speaker 1: The no, no, no, I was, I would do mirror selfie. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I feel like I run on. Yeah I look a
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  Speaker 1: bit bigger for the mirror mirror selfie. I feel like
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  Speaker 1: a bit derogatory. But the funniest thing is so when
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  Speaker 1: girls take nudes obviously just quick.
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  Speaker 2: Picky, whereas dudes have to have about thirty seconds woman up.
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  Speaker 1: And then and then one photo doesn't look good? Kick off?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so wiky do you do you when you send
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  Speaker 2: the nude? Do you? We haven't sent any news guys,
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  Speaker 2: you know, do you send like because if you're in
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  Speaker 2: a mirror, like you're sending the underside? Yeah, do they
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  Speaker 2: want to see the underside? Do they want to see
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  Speaker 2: it at all?
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  Speaker 1: I've sent like to my girlfriend now, like not sexy
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  Speaker 1: nude pics, like just in the mirror, like taking a
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  Speaker 1: picture of me being naked, Like yeah, but like I'm
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  Speaker 1: not in like the context of like I'm talking to
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  Speaker 1: someone I want to get turned on?
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  Speaker 2: Do you not? I suppose you live a best Oh yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I mean yeah, I.
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  Speaker 6: Always feel like it's fine, like you're just in the mirror,
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  Speaker 6: like dude, I mean, hey, fair, all right, what's something
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  Speaker 6: you never thought could be embarrassing until you saw a
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  Speaker 6: man do it?
• 12:13
  Speaker 2: Trying to open a locked door? Oh and I've been
• 12:18
  Speaker 2: having troubles in Bali man, really just because they've got
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  Speaker 2: that double lock thing. Oh my god, double locked. So
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  Speaker 2: I think I've unlocked it, and then I go to
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  Speaker 2: walk through it still locked. That is so you've actually
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  Speaker 2: you've heard a click, yeah, and you walk in and
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  Speaker 2: the door is making fun of you. That is so embarrassing.
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  Speaker 2: I wonder Cassie sleeping in that second.
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  Speaker 1: Room vallad too. And the worst thing is like I've
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  Speaker 1: got like two keys because we have two different doors
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  Speaker 1: and She's like, what are you doing? I'm like trying
• 12:45
  Speaker 1: to figure out which key fits which hole, and she
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  Speaker 1: doesn't show any sort of empathy.
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  Speaker 2: Well, this is a new place. I'm doing it. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: you do it. Oh that's hilarious.
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  Speaker 1: What's something you never thought could be embarrassing until you
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  Speaker 1: saw a man do it?
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  Speaker 2: Hand on a hip? Oh no, I always do that.
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  Speaker 2: I always. That's comfortable, like standing and you have most
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  Speaker 2: of your weight on one one knee bent in hand
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  Speaker 2: on him. Damn it. I do that all the time.
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  Speaker 1: It is comfortable.
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  Speaker 2: It's so comfortable. I feel like it's a very Dad stance. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I feel like classic Dad stands another one, hands behind back,
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  Speaker 2: going for a stroll. Yeah, just like I see you
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  Speaker 2: doing that looking around all right. What's something you never
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  Speaker 2: thought could be embarrassing until you saw a man do it?
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  Speaker 2: Jumping into jeans? Did just do that? When I saw this,
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  Speaker 2: I was thinking, like, if he's got to jump into
• 13:41
  Speaker 2: his jeans, you should count your lucky stars because he's
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  Speaker 2: got ass. Bro, you don't have to jump into jeans
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  Speaker 2: at all. They fucking I got all back back here.
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  Speaker 2: They just slip on a belt, barely works.
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  Speaker 1: I need a belt exactly. Otherwise my jeans fall off.
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  Speaker 2: If you're a man's jumping into jeans, it's not embarrassing
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  Speaker 2: at all.
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  Speaker 1: Talking about insecurities before. I don't care about my feet,
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  Speaker 1: but my bum give me some cake. I don't have anything.
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  Speaker 1: I don't you at least go to shape. No, no, no, no.
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  Speaker 2: I don't have anything.
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  Speaker 1: That's why I like, I never want to see my
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  Speaker 1: bum like doing anything.
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  Speaker 2: That's yeah, that's why. That's one reason why I don't
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  Speaker 2: know how men can set up a camera for like
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  Speaker 2: a third person viewer.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I couldn't see myself going.
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  Speaker 2: To town pr Yeah, and because like it's just an.
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  Speaker 1: Inverted Yeah, it's got to be either POV or her
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  Speaker 1: on top. Yeah, what's something another thought could be embarrassing
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  Speaker 1: until you saw a man doing it. Drinking through a straw.
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  Speaker 2: I think that is so true. I love it though,
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  Speaker 2: experience wise, experience I do like it. I'm not gonna lie,
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  Speaker 2: but sometimes I opt for no straw to look manly. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: If I'm just with Beth straw, yeah straw, yeah, but
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  Speaker 2: I have a mouth for dinner with her parents, no
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  Speaker 2: man yeah, yeah yeah, no straw, one piece of ice
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  Speaker 2: make it look like alcohol something on the rocks, and
• 15:12
  Speaker 2: that's hilarious.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, fuck, that is so I'm thinking about all the
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: times I used straws when.
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  Speaker 2: In a soft drink or any drink really, when the
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  Speaker 2: straw floats up and for some reason, sometimes if it's
• 15:27
  Speaker 2: a plastic straw, god forbid, we don't really have them anymore.
• 15:30
  Speaker 2: Static electricity. You go on it and and it like
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  Speaker 2: opposite magnets away from you. Static electricity, that's what I think,
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  Speaker 2: that's what's from that? What's not? I know what I'm
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  Speaker 2: talking about.
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  Speaker 1: Straw and you just can't get in your mouth and
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: it's like moving around like, well, that's stat electricity.
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: I really disagree. What do you think it is? Wind?
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  Speaker 1: No, just like water, like the water consistently.
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  Speaker 5: But how come whenever you, wherever you, where's the electric
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  Speaker 5: goes opposite?
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  Speaker 1: Where's the static electricity coming.
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  Speaker 2: From in the air? I feel like, have you ever
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  Speaker 2: not like done something and then touch something.
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  Speaker 1: And I feel like it's just floating in the water,
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  Speaker 1: and then you like go and float somewhere else.
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  Speaker 2: It wasn't moving before. I reckon the water doesn't have
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  Speaker 2: current in a cup.
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  Speaker 1: It also doesn't have electricity.
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  Speaker 2: Static electricity is a thing. Yeah, I disagree. What about
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  Speaker 2: its ground?
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  Speaker 1: Is the it's glass a conductor or.
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  Speaker 2: No, glass wouldn't conduct electricity?
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  Speaker 1: Then no, it's not static. I feel like it's floating.
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  Speaker 2: Bullshit. Okay, you what's something you never thought could be
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  Speaker 2: embarrassing until you saw a man do it? Walking up
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  Speaker 2: to take your turn in bowling? Oh?
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: Bowling?
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: You know how? I feel like bowling is a very
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: acceptable first date. I like bowling because like, you can talk. Yeah,
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: you can choose to impress or you can choose to
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: let win. And every time you go up to bowl
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: you have a little break. Do you think about a conversation.
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: You just had, Oh I've never thought of it like that,
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: or a new conversation starter. I like it too, because
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: before I met Cassie, I went on a double date.
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: My only have a double date bowling? Fucking serious? What
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: did you dake girls for Cassie?
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's crazy. I didn't like it, but but I
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: did it for my friend. I actually did, and he
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: got lucky.
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: Good friend.
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: He owes me one.
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: We owed me one. But anyway, we went bowling.
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: So two girls, two guys, we all played individual. Yeah,
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: and I quite like bowling because not being facetious, but I'm.
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: Actually quite good at it. What does facetious mean? Like
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: overly confident? Really? Yeah? Cock realeah, facetious. Oh I didn't
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: know that. Full yourself fair Okay.
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: I'm basically an urban dictionary sorry, yeah, urban dictionary, but
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: bowling vite. Yeah, I'm decent at it. And I can't
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: remember what a good score is. I got like one
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: fifty or something. Is that good?
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: I feel like it is. I don't know. I feel
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: like three hundred's good.
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: Maybe were playing a different game, but anyway, I won
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: by like forty points. Then it went the two girls,
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: and then our friend got like eighty yeah, and it
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: was the biggest thing.
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: That's how did you get lucky?
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: And he was trying to be like after it, like
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: he hah, making jokes and shit. I was like, and
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: I'm not the quiet one was good at bowling. I
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: feel like that's winning me stuck in my male ways.
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, Okay, I.
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: Want you to do this right, say okay, okay, just
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: it's one word. What's something you never thought could be
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: embarrassing until you saw a man do it? Screaming yepee
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: when we finally did the deed, yep.
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: Yes, damn. Wait, she's had experience with someone saying yepee
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: when they finally did the deed yippe insane.
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: Probably his first time. Dude, you know how exciting that is.
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: Have you ever been so overwhelmed with excitement that you
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: said yepe?
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: Though, I've been so overwhelmed with excitement, Yeah, not to
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: say yepe.
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: What happens to me when I'm overwhelmed with excitement is
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: thirty seconds of pleasure. Then I guess minutes of sorrow.
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: So what do I do? I think I just.
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: Get rock okay in terms of like non horniness, if
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: you whenever, you know, let's say like we've had some
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: pretty sick news happened before. Okay, Like we get like
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: a big sponsorship, it's like a lot of money. Yeah,
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: when that gets solidified or whatever approved and they say, yeah,
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: let's go through with it, I find that I'm just
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: kind of take a breath type. Oh, that's like appreciate
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: the moment type. I don't get kind of like, yes,
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: I can't remember.
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: I think we talked about it on Patreon plug ext
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: episode every week over there, but we.
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: Talked about it on Patreon. I struggle to feel the
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: emotions of day to day life, that's right.
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and when good stuff does happen to us,
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: I definitely I'm like, wow, it's so secret.
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't really know how to feel. Yeah,
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: it's hard.
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: And then your brain, my brain consciously goes onto the
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: next thing. Yeah, I'm already thinking about all right.
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: How do I nail this? Yeah that's about thirty seconds day. Yeah.
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: The gratitude doesn't last very long. Yeah, it's crazy, like
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: you should be grateful for time.
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: Give me a couple of days, that's what I want. Yeah,
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: my brains are fucking yeah. All right, this is unfortunate
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: for you. Oh my lie, what's something that you never
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: thought could be embarrassing until you saw a man do it?
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: Using the reverse camera in a car? I have to
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: now see that's I've got a canopy.
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, ship, I'll tell you what's tell you what
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: I feel like.
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: No, this isn't icky. Has Beth been doing this yet?
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: So we've been riding bikes in Bali and backseat driving
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: in a Car's annoying, right, But sometimes Cassie will be like,
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: don't do this.
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: No will So Beth hasn't. She's only driven her bike
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: maybe three times. Yeah, and so on the back of mine,
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: she she has no opinion, yeah, because she's like, I
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: literally don't yeah, I don't know. She just goes, oh,
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: that was scary, yay, and she and then when we
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: got home last night, she was like halfway through right
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: home last night, she goes like, I don't know. She
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: was like, I have a mission for you, get me
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: home safe. That's your mission. And then we were like
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: making it a game, and so she was just cheering
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: the whole time. Yeah.
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: The thing about Bali though, is like I don't want
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: to say we're bad drivers, but it's split second decisions
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: with other people coming. And then she'll be like like,
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: I had like ao point two of a second to
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: think about this, and I made that decision.
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: She also drives her bike, though, so like she has
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: in her head what she would do in a situation
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: exactly exactly. Off, get a go jack.
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: What's something you never thought could be embarrassing until you
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: saw a man doing it?
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: Pucking a line bike? Oh my god, that is actually
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: so true, very true, taking the helmet off and everything.
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: If you wear the helmet on the line bike, I'm
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: sorry other helmets still want the line bikes yeah, we
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: see helmets. Just it's like a law around the city
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: in Sydney. Yeah, they just people just chucked out.
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: Apparently, it's like really hard to get him in Melbourn
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: because everyone uses them to like right to work and shit,
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: and they're like harderman shit.
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: Really Yeah, we've ridden the scooters. What about scooters? Parking
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: a scooter is a yeah, okay, that's sick. Bro. At
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: least we went.
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: How are we meant to get anywhere public transport?
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we're not allowed to walk because I'm pretty sure
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: I saw one that said if you stop and tie
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: your shoe embarrassing that.
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: Is tied up at home in closed doors? All right,
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: I don't even have stew laces. What's something you never
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: thought could be embarrassing until you saw a man do it?
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: Running into the ocean. Ah, but it's so fun freeing
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: in and it slows you down, you can't keep going.
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: You feel like you're on Baywatch, and then realistically you're
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: like the white Hawk run in there.
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: The white Hawk's cool, bro, he is cool, but he's
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: very white and pale and watched out.
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: What's something you never thought could be embarrassing until you
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: saw a man doing it? Taking off a bra.
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: What I mean if he if he's wearing it, yeah,
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: but if he can take a bra off you if
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: he's good with.
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: The one finger clipped thing. I don't think he's doing that.
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: I think he's like gone back and going and then
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: it comes off like five minutes later, embarrassing.
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: I remember, for some reason a big worry in my
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: early or like mid teens before I oh, yeah, I
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: was scared. Yeah, A big worry of mine was like
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: what if I can't take off the bra? What if
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: I cannot do it?
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: It's funny how we don't have the social skills to
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: like back then, I was stressing too, like what if
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: I can't do it?
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: I couldn't just say to it, could you please take
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: it off? I tell you I didn't have the where
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: I haven't been able to do it, and they just
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: go and they just do it.
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: The trick there is like it's kind of you know
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: how in the bedroom completely consensual, like they like when
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: you take an should even give directions, take your top off,
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: and then realistically.
• 24:05
  Speaker 5: When you take that brath, my god, realistically in your
• 24:11
  Speaker 5: head's like yes it's off.
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: I don't even being with BET's good. I don't even
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: remember the last time she doesn't wear ra Yeah, amazing.
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: Or it's like a what do they call bralette?
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: Or what's the thing that it doesn't even have a
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: clip at the back. Yeah, she has to take it.
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: Oh my god. All right, what's something that you never
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: talk of be embarrassing until you saw a man do
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: it running across hot sand? What do we meant to do?
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: And then she added ad libs and he's going it
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: helps with the pain or tactic for hot sand. Anyone
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: that's going to go to Australia or anywhere hot, don't
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: walk on top of the first of all, we'll just
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: wear shoes, like wear slides or something. But if that
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: doesn't if you don't have that option, kind of slide
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: your feet through maybe like that deep it's a lot
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: cooler and about that low even more embarrassing, actually true,
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: doing like a forward move walker to be fair, if
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: it's that painful, like I've walked on sand where I'm
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: thinking I'm gonna get thirty three bonds I have. It's
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: crazy thirty five degree day, God beating down on that
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: fucking sand, and I don't care how embarrassing I look.
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: I need to get to the water, run into the ocean.
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: Exactly, all right, My last one very valid. What's something
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: you never thought could be embarrassing until you saw a
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: man doing it?
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: Assisted? Pull up machine?
• 25:34
  Speaker 3: Oh?
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: So what all men should be able to do? Pull ups? Now?
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: Come on, honestly, fair once again, start at home, honestly,
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: that's hey, look if that's how they feel, all right.
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: What's something you never thought could be embarrassing until a man,
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: until you saw a man do it? Sitting on the
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: floor with his legs crossed. Hey, I can't cross my legs. Yeah,
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: you're lucky. I'm winning. I'm winning. There. It's my last one.
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: Jogging back inside somewhere because they forgot something.
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: Hey, I'm thinking about.
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: Like your time, and I don't want to waste it.
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: She's an emphasis on the jog too, So you're allowed
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: to forget something, but just walk back to be nonchalant,
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: all right, badi is. The next segment is Field versus Field,
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: and for week two, we're doing first date planning on
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: regular apps. It's drinks. It's always just drinks, yelling over
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: bad music, huh, thrilling on field acts, throwing dressed as
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: sea creatures, suddenly sushi sounds basic, way more memorable. Fields
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: for people that want their first date to be an experience.
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: You can change on field. Who you were yesterday may
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: not be who you are today. Sixty two percent of
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: Field users evolve their sexuality, interest, and their desires within
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: the first year of being on the field. App in
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: a place where there's no pressure to be anything. Who
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: will you be? Download Field an upgrade from meh to
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: remember when we threw axes? Yeah? That is so good.
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: And guys, the link is in the description to download Field. Wo. So,
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: as we said before, we are in Bali having a
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: grand old time, having a holiday, a little working holiday.
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: We are we are I say now, I wanted to
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: start this with a bit of a story you already know,
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: but as I start telling it, I just want to
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: tell about it. So last time we came to Bali
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: together was two years ago and we were here for
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: about five to six weeks. As soon as I got home, Okay,
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: on my leg, I got this like ingrown hair pimple
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: thing on my thigh. I left thigh and I go
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: to town on it trying to pop it. Nothing comes out,
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: it goes all red. Okay, next day I have a
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: date my first date with Beth. Put a band aid
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: on it. I come back from first date, take the
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: band aid off. I have a fucking hole in my leg,
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: all right, and I could attest to the whole rotten flesh.
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: I have a photo. I just don't know if we
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: should put it on the screen. I actually, I actually
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: don't think we should. If anyone like really really wants it,
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: maybe I'll put it on patren I don't know. But
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: so I had to get like antibiotics. I'd just like
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: I had like a called a carbuncle. It's the craziest
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: wordever from the ocean. And so had their antibotics. Get
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: rid of this skin infection. And then about a week
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: later another one popped up. I'm looking at him now
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: have two scars. Another one popped up about thirty centimeters
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: lower right. Got rid of that. Ever since then I had,
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: I had more rounds of antibiotics, but all gone right.
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: And so then fast forward two years. Obviously I was
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: assuming that those skin infections were something from Balley. Yeah,
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: fast forward two years, and I'm back in the mood
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: to be in BALI I've missed it, like I needed
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: the two years. I'm not gonna lie like I needed it.
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: Happy to be here for six weeks, it's lightly too long.
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: I needed the too. The heat gets here, the condition
• 29:21
  Speaker 2: yeah yeah, just the food like you just you're not
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: eating grape. Yeah. So after the two years, I'm finally
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: I'm ready to come back. I'm keen coming with Beth.
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: We were on the flight feeling good like I should,
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: feeling blessed, never stressed, and we get here. Everything goes
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: super smoothly, and then we wake up first morning and
• 29:43
  Speaker 2: Beth comes out of the bathroom. She goes, what's on
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: your ankle, dude, Another pussy like ingrown hair type thing
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: has showed up on my ankle. Better today another car
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: the car buncle. So I think it's just.
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: A pimple, dude.
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: So I'm stressing because it looks exactly like what I
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: had before. Okay, now it's down on my ankle.
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: So what I've done is a lazy You only lose
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: a foot this time, not the whole age.
• 30:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a good point. You know what they want.
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: So yesterday I went on chatchaby Tea and I didn't
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: know what antibiotics I got last time, and so when
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: on chatchabut it gave it all my symptoms, and it
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: told me to go get some anibiotics. And so I
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: went to the chemistry and you don't need prescriptions. Let's
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: give you what you want. And so I got the anbiotics.
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: But they also said try this cream, and so I
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: went back and I said, okay. And I was thinking,
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: I'll try the cream first and if that works, I
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: won't take the antibiotics. It is what it is. But
• 30:32
  Speaker 2: I tried one day the cream redness is stop spreading,
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: I gotta say. But a little one has popped up
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: over here. Oh my god, too, why is this? I'm
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: allergic to the air in bar.
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: That's actually crazy. You've got too.
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: It looks like a pinple on a leg. Though. You know,
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: I agree, one hundred percent agree with you, but I'm
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: not popping it because last much I had to pop
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: this thing. Yeah, well, you don't manage to pop pimples. Yeah,
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: I nearly died. And if it does pop, like, make
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: sure you keep it clean. Yeah, that is so I've been.
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: I've got anesthetic wipes that I've just been twice a day.
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: I rub. So we should start calling you carbuncle boy,
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: car bunkie. What's the Yeah, we could call me.
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: Like Uncle Daddy aka carb uncle boy.
• 31:11
  Speaker 2: You could call me that. I do say whatever you.
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: Want, like the SpongeBob character.
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: But I'm terrified that it's going to turn to something more.
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: But I'm just going to stay on top of it.
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: At least, you've only got three weeks and no matter what,
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: like when you get back, you'll be able to deal
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: with exactly.
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: And I've got any box. I still have the oral
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: antibiotics that I could take. So it's that doesn't look
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: like at the moment like to be worried. Looking better
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: than yesterday. Yeah, So I mean, I'm I'm as long
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: as it's not getting bigger. But I couldn't fucking believe it.
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: Beth goes, there's no way word a day and then
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: you have another one. Yeah, tell you what. That's kind
• 31:36
  Speaker 2: of embarrassing. It actually is. It actually is embarrassing because
• 31:39
  Speaker 2: when I got this one on my leg a year ago,
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: so that's when I started talking to Beth, and so
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: I would go to her house and this took ages
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: to heal. I would go to her house and I'd
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: have these big ass band aids, right, and they had
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: the fabric to cover the wound, but the blood would
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: seep through and like pass and it was the grossest
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: thing ever, And so I didn't want to have her
• 32:01
  Speaker 2: see that. So I would color in the band aid
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: with a sharpie, and then I got us. I stained
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: her bed.
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: Sheets and one with black.
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: One time she woke up with a black a stain
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: on her leg. And it also hurts so bad. This
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: fucking thing was so bad.
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: Guys, Oh my god, think about a carbuncle. Yeah, thinking
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: about her mindset too, Like obviously she started having sex
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: and she's like kissing you.
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: She's like, what's wrong with this dude? Yeah, she was
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: worried that she was going to like get it. You
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: know what else is super embarrassing. I also got like
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: a couple of mouth ulcers when I got home from
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: Bali last time. I just was I think I was
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: just we were run out.
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: The bad thing about our trip last time, although we
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: had a great time, was we kept moving and we
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: had all our big bags, were different villas. We didn't
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: know the villas were good or not. We'd get there,
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: some of them would be bad, and then like you
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: just have like three or four days with a terrible experience,
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: and you'd go somewhere else and it'd be good. Whereas
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: now we have like a home base and you can
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: relax and that's your safe.
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: That would be our advice if you're ever going to
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: go or at least we can give you advice for
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: Bali at least, and that's just for however long you
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: want to go. If it's a decent amount of time,
• 33:08
  Speaker 2: get a villa in one spot for that amount of time.
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: If you want to do a weekend trip, just take
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: a little backpack, leave everything else. That your best advice ever.
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: But talking about Bali, I came three days earlier than Jake.
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: Had a bit of an ordeal at the airport with
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: Cassie's visa, but it was a right in the end.
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: But I have a little bit of a story too,
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: And I think, honestly, this is the only time I've
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: ever been star struck.
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: Damn. And this is gonna mean quite a lot to
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: a lot of people.
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: And also because it's the bad is almost nothing to
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: some other people, and you, I think will appreciate it. Okay, okay,
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: and you do know who it is, sort of okay?
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: What So signed up to a new gym. It's called
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: Omni in Parana Nan and hectic facilities like ice BA,
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: Saunas Room, Jim Cardio therapy.
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you can do it. You can get your blood
• 34:04
  Speaker 2: test that I want to do it.
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a digital nomad like co working space there, sick.
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: I think it was Sunday and got a good session.
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: Thought I would ice bath after as you do, just
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: my weapon. Yeah, I'm in the ice bath and there's
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: three dudes in front of me and two of them
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: have no idea who they are, and then another one.
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I know this guy and he was an
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: English guy and I'm like, he's like.
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: Full tattered head to toe, Like I know this guy's face.
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: And if anybody knows anything about me, I used to
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: love soccer and it was my whole life until I
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: was like twenty, played it, played fever, did everything, loved
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: the English Premier League. Anyway, in this ice bath and
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: I'm in there for like I saw like five minutes
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: contemplating if I asked this dude if it's who I
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: think it is, and I'm like, I've got to know,
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: but also if I'm wrong, like it's embarrassing. It's very embarrassing.
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: If I go, hey are you so and so and
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: he goes nah, but it's a compliment. To be fair,
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: it is a compliment. I was thinking, like, is this
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: just an an English sloke? And I'm thinking, this is
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: who it is.
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: I'm in Trigu. I don't know who this is.
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: And then I'm just like, let's just do it.
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: I'm in Bali.
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: So I went up to him and I said, excuse me.
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: I was like, any chance you're Deli Ali?
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: Se who that is? I know the name Ali played for.
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: I think he just got released but played for Tottenham
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: in the Premier League, like starting plays for the English
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: national team.
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: I think he's at the back end of his career.
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: But huge footballer, most famous football I've ever met. He's
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: got like eight mil on Insta And any chance you're
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: a Dali Ali?
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: And he's like, yeah, I am.
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: I almost like I was like, I was like yeah.
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: I was like that's pretty sick. And I was like, oh,
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: how long are you been bowing for? And he's just like, oh,
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: two weeks. He's like, where you're from, Sydney, Australia. And
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: then I went to not comparing saying we're equals at all.
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: When people come up to us sometimes really awkward.
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: But I was the awkward one.
• 35:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so it is awkward.
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I was the awkward one. But then it clicked
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: and I paused for I was actually star struck because
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: I didn't know where the conversation should have went, and
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: I'm just like, oh, anyways, I just wanted to introduce myself.
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: Have a good day. So yeah, that's perfect.
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: But the pause of way too long. Yeah, but then
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: I was like walking away, I was like, I was
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: fucking dally ally was was he nice? Yeah?
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: He's nice, really genuine dude. He would get approach.
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: All the time there yea yeah, yeah, but I think
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: maybe not that much in Bali. But I was like,
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: I was like, that is huge.
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: That's crazy to get to meet someone at that It
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: was just his famous famous Yeah, that was just in
• 36:21
  Speaker 2: the ice bath. And he's rich, dude, probably the most
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: rich person I've ever met. He probably is the richest
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: person you have ever met. Yeah, let's be completely real.
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: I looked up how much last year because it's all
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: public knowledge. Guess how much Umm, so he would have
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: been contracted. It all makes so much money. Yeah, bro,
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: like pounds euros euros eighteen million. Now it's less. It
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: was six to eight million.
• 36:48
  Speaker 5: I think still still and I was like, fuck, that
• 36:51
  Speaker 5: is crazy back end of his career.
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I was walking away happier. I was like, oh,
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: and I'm proud of myself because I'm not usually the
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: person to put myself out there and talk to anyway.
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: I never would go anywhere. Yeah, neither. There's not many
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: people that I think I would go up to the
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: fact that he was a soccer player and I used
• 37:05
  Speaker 2: to look up to him when I was a kid.
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: He's a little bit older than me. Yeah, I used
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: to always know him and playing with him on FIFA.
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: I was like, this is like he is on FIFA.
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he's like he was like eighty six rated, so
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: he was like a good he's a great player.
• 37:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he was a great player. Still is she's a
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: little bit older now, that's insane. Yeah, and he's just
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: like bro because you even know who he just met though.
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: But I actually was thinking, have you ever seen the
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: guy on TikTok who like goes up to like a
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: guy and a girl walking and goes apro thanks for
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: like donating like two thousand dollars to that charity the
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: other day, or like thanks for saving my puppy When
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: he was drowning. Yeah, there was a girl talking to
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: him and that went through my head like I think
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: she knew who he was and like was like maybe
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: trying to give him. I don't know, it was like
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: trying to put in a good word. And when I
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: went up to him and said, like she was just
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: sitting there with the two mates talking and I was like,
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: oh you dell Yelly, she was like, oh that's cool.
• 37:56
  Speaker 2: You helped him out. He think that, he said, hopefully
• 37:59
  Speaker 2: he sees you on teaching. Goes Why do I know
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: that face? That face?
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: But yeah, first time I've ever been starstruck.
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: That is so funny. I want to the I want
• 38:08
  Speaker 2: actually talking about this is like off topic. This is
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: about the event that I went to without you, where
• 38:13
  Speaker 2: I wore my muscle tea the other day. It was
• 38:16
  Speaker 2: a it was a skincare event and I was I
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: was one of like five men. And I want to
• 38:25
  Speaker 2: give a shout out two Gabby. She's an influencer. I
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: believe she's from Melbourne. But she came up and she
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: said hi, and she was said she was like a
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: big fan. She said she was super nervous. But and
• 38:37
  Speaker 2: then Beth and I went and I didn't best knew
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: who she was. I didn't know who she was, but
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: then I went and looked her up and she's fucking
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: hilarious and she has a podcast. But and so be
• 38:49
  Speaker 2: so Beth that she has a podcast called oh my God,
• 38:52
  Speaker 2: I'm so upset if I don't remember this. I've looked
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: it up.
• 38:54
  Speaker 4: I have.
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: I want to give her a shout out so bad.
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: But the reason I want to give her, no, I
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: don't think you will. The reason I want to give
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: her a shout out is because I want her to
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: start posting her podcast again. It seems it seems like
• 39:06
  Speaker 2: she stopped. We could say the same thing about your passenger,
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: princess exactly. No, you'r a hundred percent correct. That's what
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: people probably want because it was fucking good. Sorry, guys,
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: I can't remember the name of a podcast, but her
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: name's Gabby, and I'm gonna remind it.
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: Was almost a really good gesture from me.
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: It was almost super good. Yeah, maybe like the goom
• 39:25
  Speaker 2: podcast podcast, but we started listening to one. It was
• 39:31
  Speaker 2: hilarious and I was just stick with her, Gabby. I
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: wanted to give herby start posting again.
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: Baddie Baddie is before we get into your guys dilemmas,
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: we have a plug. The biggest plug of them all
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: is our Patreon. What do they get, Jake, the biggest
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: plug of them all b U T T but plug.
• 40:01
  Speaker 2: Patreon. What you're going to Patreon is you get book
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: Club on Monday, five days early, earlier than everyone else.
• 40:07
  Speaker 2: And then you also get an next episode on Thursdays,
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: just like this one. And then also whatever show we're
• 40:11
  Speaker 2: watching at the time, we'll watch the finale of that
• 40:14
  Speaker 2: season on Patreons. You can watch it with us.
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And the Summer Light Turn Pretty season three episode
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: What's It twelve? The season finale of the Summer Return
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: Pretty is going to be out.
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: Very very soon. If not, it might already be out
• 40:27
  Speaker 2: when you listen to this. Yes, but dilemmas guys.
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: If you want to submit a dilemma, it is pinned
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: in the description or link in bio on Instagram.
• 40:33
  Speaker 2: Scroll to the bottom.
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: I've got two. If we've got time, we'll see how
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: we're going. One's a quick one. Yeah, male listener here,
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: This is a question more for Addie, but I'm happy
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: to hear both of you. Yeah right, yeah, I know,
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: ODDI struggled with being quite lanky and tall and skinny backhanded.
• 40:53
  Speaker 2: This is why he wanted you to be quiet, mate,
• 40:56
  Speaker 2: laughing at him, I'm laughing at.
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: You no, because yeah, no one cares about your opinion.
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: That's why I struggle in the same way your dog. Sorry,
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: No matter how many carbs, I cannot seem to gain weight.
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: I love the gym, but I just can't see just
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: I love the gym, but I just can't seem to
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: see the difference. Any help would be amazing. I love
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: to hear what you did and how you bulked out compliment.
• 41:19
  Speaker 2: Ha ha, you got your got there in the end,
• 41:22
  Speaker 2: which I thought.
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: Although we have a very miniscure amount of male listeners,
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: very very very relatable.
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: It's really it is like it's a thing that's relatable
• 41:32
  Speaker 2: for quite a few men. Yeah, and what I I
• 41:38
  Speaker 2: guess you're already doing it, but I guess you need
• 41:43
  Speaker 2: confirmation that you're doing the right thing.
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: I was extreme. I'm like six', three AND i reckon
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: WHEN i started working, OUT i would have been, like,
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: oh sixty five kilos right on the, screen AND i
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: was skinny like Slender man. Vibes but WHAT i would
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: do is buy a bulking way protein which is like
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: seven to eight hundred, calories and you can always eat
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: more food than you. Think so a lot of people
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: when they say they're struggling to put on, weight don't
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: eat enough. Food you need to be in the calorie
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: surplus of a lot to get through that initial phase of.
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: Growing but also, genetically if you're LIKE i assume you're
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: seventeen eighteen, nineteen it will come with. Maturity you do
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: just start to fill. Out but the more food you
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: can eat the. BETTER i don't say this is in
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: a healthy, manner BUT i used to eat to almost threw,
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: up AND i threw up a couple.
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: Times. HEY i mean, also like if you're early, twenties
• 42:44
  Speaker 2: like late, teens you're still you kind of pick. Testosterone
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: you're still back end of like you, know, puberty old
• 42:52
  Speaker 2: assume see right, Now, yeah it's like the hardest time
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: if you're someone that struggles to gain. Weight BUT i
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: think the best bit of advice is like super black and, white,
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: simple and it's like you just aren't eating. Enough, yeah oh,
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: yeah it is just eat and if you think you've eaten,
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: enough eat. More it's not.
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: Fun, no like people think you, eat and then when you're,
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: full you, stop and that's eating enough you need to,
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: eat and when you full keep. Eating and then when
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: you feel like you don't you shouldn't be eating, anymore
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: you keep.
• 43:17
  Speaker 2: Eating it's.
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: Unfortunate that's how you gain weight from being completely skinny to.
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: That and, definitely if you have the, money go talk
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: to someone who has an actual nutrition.
• 43:26
  Speaker 2: Degree, yeah but also good ways to do.
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: It in, hindsight my piece of advice would BE i
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: was also extremely, insecure and looking back on, it confidence
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: it's very surface, level didn't come from my gaining, Muscle,
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: no it came from figuring out WHO i.
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: Was SO i also would, SAY i guess the gym
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: helped figure who you.
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: Are, yes, exactly SO i think it works hand in.
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: Hand but also your mindset could be let's gain, muscle
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: but let's also find confidence within myself of WHO i
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: am because.
• 43:57
  Speaker 2: My body doesn't define. Me. Yeah, YEAH i think that's
• 43:59
  Speaker 2: my pace of it. Us that's. Good, yeah, yeah take
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: it and run with. It, yeah exactly. Right my dilemma
• 44:04
  Speaker 2: is a short, one and it's a question so short and.
• 44:08
  Speaker 2: Sweet how we like? It they said in a, relationship
• 44:12
  Speaker 2: having to crush every now and then harmlessly human or
• 44:15
  Speaker 2: seriously fucked? Up what would your description of a crush?
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: BE a crush to me is? Feelings, oh feelings like
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: having a crush on someone is LIKE i like this?
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: Person, Okay, OKAY i think that's would she say harmless
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: or so she.
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: Says is it harmlessly human or seriously fucked? UP i
• 44:39
  Speaker 2: don't think it's seriously fucked, up but it is. WRONG
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: i think it's fucked. Up, no because you can't help
• 44:46
  Speaker 2: how you.
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: FEEL i think it's fucked up if you don't, make,
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: oh actually take an action on what you're.
• 44:53
  Speaker 2: Feeling that's a good. Point maybe it is harmlessly, human
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: but you also need to think to, Yourself, oh, so
• 44:58
  Speaker 2: LIKE i have feelings for someone. Else, yeah and it's
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: not fair to have these feelings and still be with
• 45:04
  Speaker 2: this other. Person, yeah so it is harmlessly. Human it
• 45:07
  Speaker 2: is harmlessly, Human but it's seriously fucked up if you
• 45:11
  Speaker 2: just try and shove it, down, yes and then don't
• 45:15
  Speaker 2: talk about, it and don't you know you Can't, obviously
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: you don't want to go up to your boyfriend and
• 45:19
  Speaker 2: SAY i have a crush on you, know COWORKER. X
• 45:24
  Speaker 2: you don't want to say, that but like you need
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: to figure, it you need to figure it. Out, yeah
• 45:27
  Speaker 2: you need to figure it. Out and, well what is considered?
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: Fine SO i think finding other people, attractive well that's a,
• 45:34
  Speaker 2: given it's. Fine is there any other line that's? Fine, well,
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: yeah you're allowed to find other people.
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: ATTRACTIVE i think as soon as feelings are involved is
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: when it gets.
• 45:46
  Speaker 2: True BECAUSE i just think that crush means, feelings like
• 45:48
  Speaker 2: it means like because when you're a, kid you have
• 45:49
  Speaker 2: a crush on someone OR i like this.
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: Person, YEAH i think if you're consistently thinking about the same, person,
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: yeah that's when it's. Wrong whereas if you see someone
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: LIKE i don't know at the, gym you're, like oh
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: he's hot or she get on with my, day don't
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: think about it.
• 46:01
  Speaker 2: Again you can, say LIKE i think sometimes crush maybe
• 46:06
  Speaker 2: get has different meanings meanings because If beth was, like you,
• 46:11
  Speaker 2: know or that's my gym, crush that obviously she just
• 46:16
  Speaker 2: finds that dude, Attractive like she doesn't have feelings for
• 46:19
  Speaker 2: him because she doesn't know. Him but if you know
• 46:21
  Speaker 2: someone and you are friends with, them but then you
• 46:25
  Speaker 2: develop a, crush that's feelings, Agreed, yeah that's more. Emotional
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: that's kind of LIKE i don't want to, say it's
• 46:32
  Speaker 2: not emotional. Cheating, no it's not emotional. Cheating mean what
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: level you have to get you for it to be
• 46:37
  Speaker 2: classified as emotional?
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: Cheating, though if you're engaging in the conversation consciously knowing
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: that you have feelings for this person.
• 46:44
  Speaker 2: In a way where it's like you have, intentions maybe.
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: If you're letting it go on for the possibility that
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: it might, happen you're not making an action to cut this,
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: off cut it up where it.
• 46:54
  Speaker 2: Lies SO i think harmlessly, Human but you need to
• 46:57
  Speaker 2: do something about, it, Agreed, YEAH i. Agreed you have
• 47:00
  Speaker 2: to either talk about it with your boyfriend or break
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: up with. Them. Yeah, fuck which is fair and valid
• 47:07
  Speaker 2: and you're allowed to act on these. Things. Yeah but
• 47:09
  Speaker 2: if but whoever said the, Stint if you're saying that
• 47:11
  Speaker 2: you just like have a crush on someone because you
• 47:14
  Speaker 2: just find them attractive from, afar, Fine so YEAH i
• 47:17
  Speaker 2: think that's So, yeah that's so.
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: Normal Al, right bad it you get in three dilemmas,
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: today good bang for your?
• 47:23
  Speaker 2: Buck, literally, yeah of course.
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: FREE i need a male's opinion after five years of
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: being with my. Partner we both went through tough times
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: in our personal lives and. Work this made us both
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: burn out and not have the capacity to support each.
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: Other in the, END i moved. Out we are having
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: space to figure out if we want to work things
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: out or break. Up i've cleared my head and, no
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: he's the love of my. LIFE i want to start
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: slowly dating each other, again but live apart for a
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: little period of time and grow as individuals now That
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: i've had some. Space but he says he loves me
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  Speaker 1: and he thinks he wants, it but he just doesn't.
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  Speaker 1: Know he said he still has a hard time processing
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  Speaker 1: things and gets conflicting. EMOTIONS i asked if he wanted
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: to go to, therapy but he said he wasn't. Ready
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: i'm not really sure what to. DO i know he
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: loves me AND i can see it in his body,
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: language and WHEN i see, him we end up happy and,
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: laughing but then he gets overwhelmed by his. Emotions as,
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: males when you say you love a girl you and
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: you think you want, it what are things that stop
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: you from taking the risk or.
• 48:28
  Speaker 2: To fight for the. Relationship from the information THAT i just,
• 48:35
  Speaker 2: HEARD i think he's taking the piss the, piss, yeah elaborate, like,
• 48:42
  Speaker 2: okay they. Did they did WHAT i MEAN i assume
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  Speaker 2: is healthy and or in my, opinion seems. Healthy and
• 48:50
  Speaker 2: they were, like, okay we've both been through some. Shit,
• 48:53
  Speaker 2: yeah you. Know let's they she moved, out they've lived,
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  Speaker 2: apart they've thought about. It what she wants, Right and he's,
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  Speaker 2: Like he's, LIKE i love you AND i want, this
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  Speaker 2: BUT i just don't know, which first of all is not.
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  Speaker 2: Fair second of. All she's, like, okay Well i'm more than.
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  Speaker 2: Open i'm open to go to like, therapy couples, therapy
• 49:14
  Speaker 2: or do you want to go to? Therapy and he's, like,
• 49:16
  Speaker 2: Oh i'm just not. Ready and it's, like, okay but
• 49:18
  Speaker 2: if you gave enough of a, shit you would try
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  Speaker 2: and do things to get yourself. Ready, Agreed, like so to,
• 49:24
  Speaker 2: me he's kind of taking a. PISS i, like how
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  Speaker 2: you broke it.
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  Speaker 1: Down, yeah he's like telling you enough to keep you,
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: there to keep you, there but he's not willing to
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: work on himself at all or work on the. Relationship,
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: yeah and he's kind of just like hopefully hoping time will.
• 49:39
  Speaker 2: Heal and then he's like and again LIKE i don't
• 49:41
  Speaker 2: know what he's been. Through but at the same, time it's,
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  Speaker 2: like if he isn't ready to do stuff to fix the,
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: relationship and if he's not ready to make a decision
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  Speaker 2: and give you a definite yes or a definite, no
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  Speaker 2: that means that he should give you a definite no
• 49:55
  Speaker 2: and then he should go work on. Himself and if
• 49:57
  Speaker 2: you guys are meant to, be it'll happen later, on
• 49:59
  Speaker 2: but you need to close that. Door that's my opinion at.
• 50:01
  Speaker 2: Least it is also questions fair on. HER i feel
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  Speaker 2: Like i'm just ripping into. Him what was that? Question
• 50:06
  Speaker 2: she asked at the.
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  Speaker 1: End as, males when you say you love a girl
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  Speaker 1: and you think you want, it what are things that
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: stop you talking or taking the risk to fight for the?
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  Speaker 2: Relationship?
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  Speaker 1: SELFISHNESS i think it's. Doubt, YEAH i say. SELFISHNESS i
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: think he's got doubt in his. Head and if it's
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: the hard thing about this one is it's been five.
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: Years but if you knew that he was having doubts
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: about the, relationship.
• 50:30
  Speaker 2: Was to be, fair they both. Were it's a good.
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  Speaker 2: Point so they're in the same.
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: BOATS i know we don't like giving an ultimative, ultimatum, ultimatum.
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  Speaker 1: Ultimatum NOW i feel LIKE i.
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  Speaker 2: WOULDN'T i don't feel LIKE i would want to ever
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  Speaker 2: give one.
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  Speaker 1: EITHER i don't like, It BUT i think he should
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: have kind of like to make it fair on her time,
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  Speaker 1: restraints be, like, here you've got a month to figure it.
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  Speaker 1: Out i'm happy to wait around for, that but after,
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: that that's my. Line then the doors, Closing, well.
• 50:59
  Speaker 2: She should have given that to, him or she. Can
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  Speaker 2: that's what she should.
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: Because if he's not willing to work on, himself be, like,
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  Speaker 1: well if you're relying on time to heal and figure this,
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: Out i'm giving you a month of my life and then. Shit,
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: yeah and if, Not i'm moving on because that's what
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: is fair for.
• 51:13
  Speaker 2: Me, yeah my. LIFE i need to move my life.
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  Speaker 2: ON i can't be stuck. Here.
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah and if you're not, willing because if he was
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: willing to take some action and figure it, out you'd
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: be willing to give more. Time, Yeah but if it's
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: just relying on, Time i'd be, like, well, fuck.
• 51:23
  Speaker 2: DUDE i got to, say my black and white answer
• 51:26
  Speaker 2: to your question is. Selfishness, selfishness AND i think doubt's
• 51:29
  Speaker 2: a good. Word BUT i think when you let the. Doubt, so,
• 51:32
  Speaker 2: like you're allowed to have, doubts but, again, like if
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: you're a mature, PERSON i understand it's hard when feelings are,
• 51:39
  Speaker 2: Involved but if you have, doubts you need to speak the,
• 51:43
  Speaker 2: doubts and then you need to make the decision of,
• 51:45
  Speaker 2: like okay for your, sake Because i'm having doubts like you,
• 51:50
  Speaker 2: said AND i don't want to work on, them then
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  Speaker 2: that means, like, OH I i, know, yeah but, agree
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  Speaker 2: SO i, YEAH i think it turns into a selfish
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  Speaker 2: thing to let the doubts take over and keep shringing you.
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  Speaker 1: All, yeah and it's hard to accept all, this especially
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  Speaker 1: yeah that's what makes it a lot. Harder, yeah so
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  Speaker 1: take the information as we. Will BUT i think you
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